Feminist Newsletter - Glen Ridge Public Schools
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Feminist Newsletter - Glen Ridge Public Schools
Feminist Newsletter GR Serve Day - May 28, 2015 GR Feminist Club: Women in Nerd Culture By Maddy Broderick and Clara Levy As future Feminist Club presidents, this club has meant a lot to us over the past 3 years. Feminist Club is dedicated not only to the discussion and education of Feminist ideas, intersectionality, and sexism around the world, but has also become a safe space for anyone to come and express themselves and their ideas, regardless of gender identity or sexuality. We do important work. Feminist Club works hard to reach out to all students in the school, because Feminism is for everyone. The door is open every Thursday beginning at 3 in Room 225, and all students are welcome to come and talk with us. We share movie clips, poems, songs, and pictures of Joe Biden on occasion. We talk about not only sexism, but its intersections with race, class, sexuality, gender identity, and how it affects us and the world we live in. Outside of discussions, we also work to help women affected by sexism By Maddy Broderick ¨Nerd Culture” has never been more mainstream than today. When comic books, video games, and movies with ¨nerdy” themes first came out, they never had the reach that they do now. Between ComicCons in San Diego, New York, and Toronto, Star Trek conventions, and the rise in popularity of cosplay, nerd culture has never been less, well, nerdy. The stigma around nerd culture has almost entirely alleviated. Nerd culture and pop culture have become virtually intertwined. This has lead to more people becoming interested in this culture. However, it has also lead to the shutting out of a group of people: women. Women are constantly questioned when it comes to their love of all things nerdy, they accused of being ¨fake geek girls¨ who are just into nerd culture for the attention. Girls in comic book stores are constantly questioned, asking if they just came for their boyfriend, brother, or other male figure, and constantly being quizzed on their knowledge. How many times have you heard someone ask a girl ¨You like this thing? Ok, name all these facts about this thing” t o prove that they are ¨real fans¨. Why do we as society insist on girls proving themselves constantly and have to turn to men for validation to say ¨Ok, you can be part of this¨. Girls and women should not have to be subjected to constant judgement and testing when they walk into a store or a convention. With the popularization of cosplay (that is, dressing up like a character from a movie/book/comic/ Who We Are & What We Do around the world. This past year, we raised money for several organization, one being the Survivors of Acid Trust International, which raises money for women who are victims of acid attacks. We also had a toiletries drive to benefit the Safe House Shelter in Bloomfield for victims of domestic abuse, and last year we ran a clothing drive for Oasis Women’s Shelter in Paterson. We hope to extend our outreach over the next few years, finding more charities and causes, and hopefully getting more students involved. Feminist club is all about creation, education, and change. We create projects (and sometimes crafts!), we educate others and ourselves on issues going on in the world, and we try to make change happen in and out of our community. I strongly encourage anyone interested to stop in on a meeting next year and see what it’s all about, because Feminism really is for everyone. “I need Feminism because I want to live in a world where “like a girl” is a compliment” Photo by Olivia Broderick (Continued on Page 3) Feminism and Music By Julia Sterling Many people think that feminism is a niche culture, but this is untrue. Many famous people, including many musicians, have declared themselves as feminists, including Taylor Swift, Wanda Sykes, Laverne Cox, Tina Fey, Nicki Minaj, Amy Poehler, Kurt Cobain, Emma Watson, Beyonce, Joan Jett, and Courtney Love. Now, here’s some music to help you with your moral law. One example of a mainstream feminist song is one called “None of Your Business” by the rap duo SaltN-Pepa. “None of Your Business” discusses double-standards, shaming women for their sexuality, and judging people. Salt-N-Pepa ask, “Who are you to judge?” and say, “If I wanna take a guy home with me tonight/it’s none of your business.” (AZ Lyrics). Women are constantly shamed for being comfortable with their sexuality, but Salt-N-Pepa say that a woman’s sexuality is her own business and no one else’s, which is absolutely a feminist attitude. In more recent years, Beyonce has become a poster child for popular feminist music. In her song “Flawless” (featuring Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie), she defines a feminist as “the person who believes in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes”, which is undoubtedly a feminist attitude (AZ Lyrics). Her song “Run the World (Girls)” is a femaleempowering anthem which “goes out to all the women getting it in”, and is a steadfast example of feminist music. Hole is an alternative rock band from the ‘90s that explicitly talked about feminist ideas and issues like body image and sexual exploitation, and is often considered as part of the Riot Grrrl movement (MTV.com). The Riot Grrrl movement is a feminist movement that emerged from the American alternative and punk music scenes in the ‘90s and the third-wave feminist movement. It started with the formation of female-fronted punk rock bands such as Bikini Kill, Heavens to Betsy, L7, Babes in Toyland, and Bratmobile. These bands confronted sexism head-on and addressed other issues such as sexuality, racism, and patriarchy (British Library). Though it was mostly an underground movement, Riot Grrrl is widespread, with branches of Riot Grrrls still in existence all over the world. The Riot Grrrl movement claim Joan Jett as an inspiration. Joan Jett, a rock star, is a female pioneer in the male-dominated world of rock music, and was the first female artist to own and control a record company. In the 1970s, Joan Jett was playing guitar in an all-female band called the Runaways. The Runaways were ahead of their time, but unfortunately were dismissed by audiences because of their youth and because of their gender. The Runaways sang about rebelling, sex, and partying (Biography.com), which was completely unheard of at the time for girls, and was unfortunately considered too unsettling by many Americans. Though the Runaways “I need Feminism because all women are cool” Photo By Maddy Broderick dissolved later on, they paved the way for women in rock (Allmusic.com). Joan Jett, who became a solo artist after the breakup of the Runaways, is a self-declared feminist. She has discussed the lack of women in rock and bias against women in the rock world, and in her Rock and Roll Hall of Fame acceptance speech stated that “[rock and roll] is a meaningful way to express dissent, upset the status quo, stir up revolution, and fight for human rights”. Jett’s music throughout her career has contained feminist themes in the lyrics. Music, especially rock, continues to play a role in the feminist movement. Feminist music encourages good attitudes towards women, and is very important to the movement. Our Feminist Club Playlist By Julia Sterling and Nina Singer • Run the World (Girls) - Beyonce • Bad Reputation - Joan Jett • None of Your Business - Salt N Pepa • Run Fast - The Julie Ruin • You Don’t Own Me - Lesley Gore • Secrets - Mary Lambert • Celebrity Skin- Hole • Cherry Bomb - the Runaways • Handsome and Gretel - Babes in Toyland • Freak Like Me- Halestorm • Keep Your Head Up - Tupac • Husbands - Savages • Modern Girl - Sleater-Kinney • 9 to 5 - Dolly Parton • Asking for It – Hole • Bo$$- Fifth Harmony • Gloria - Patti Smith • Glory - John Legend • Shake It Off - Taylor Swift • Flawless - Beyonce • Criminal - Fiona Apple • Ain’t Gonna Let Nobody Turn Me Around - Joan Baez • Unpretty - TLC • U.N.I.T.Y - Queen Latifah Feminism in the Classroom By Ms. Balaschak Classrooms are an important part of a democratic society, one that fosters empowerment of a diverse set of voices and ideas. The classroom should be a place that provides a safe place to honor those ideas. Feminists have long looked at education as a means of preparing all students to participate equally in society. Feminists look at several factors to ensure that all genders are supported and encouraged in a classroom environment. Teachers need to make sure all students’ voices are honored, and that any behavior that works to exclude an equal exchange of participation of ideas is addressed by the teacher. More and more women have begun to participate in traditionally male professions, like science and engineering. However, research shows that, even though girls have come a long way, the are still not as active in class discussion as their male counterparts. The article “Gender Gaps in Achievement and Participation in Multiple Introductory Biology Classrooms” published in the Fall 2014 edition of Life Sciences Education states that, “...although females on average represent 60% of the students in these courses, their voices make up less than 40% of those heard responding to instructor-posed questions to the class, one of the most common ways of engaging students in large lectures” (Eddy). This research highlights the need for instructors to encourage everyone to speak up in a classroom setting. Teachers can also empower students by including a variety of experiences in the content they teach. When discussing literature, for example, English teachers can not only choose to include content by writers from diverse backgrounds, but they can also address the perspective of traditionally marginalized characters in stories. Though the English curriculum is comprised of mostly male authors, English teachers can still choose to honor the perspectives of female characters like Viola in Twelfth Night, Curley’s Wife in Of Mice and Men, and Elizabeth Proctor in The Crucible. For educators and students, feminism is not a thing of the past, and it’s not just about the needs of women. The goal of feminism in education is to eliminate bias in the classroom and foster greater democracy and equality for all. Women in Nerd Culture (Continued from p. 1) TV show, usually for a convention), a specific breed of person, known as ¨cosplay creep¨ have crawled into the mainstream. These ¨cosplay creeps¨ are known to go up to women at conventions who are in costume,touch them, ask them sexual questions, and take pictures of them (and usually post them on the internet for the purpose of commenting on their looks) without the women’s consent. Some of these people have youtube channels, where they post videos featuring them touching the women and commenting on their bodies. These videos are met with some criticism, but if you read the comments section, most people talk about how funny these guys are and how girls wearing more revealing costumes deserve any unsolicited attention that they get. 45% of video game players identify as women, so why is it that there are more non-human protagonists “I need Feminism because I have a daughter and a son!” Photo By Maddy Broderick in video games than women? A lot of video games also have misogynistic undertones, where raping, beating, and killing women is part of the ¨fun¨. Women’s portrayal in video games is generally degrading, and the problem is, when women (like Anita Sarkeesian) speak out against this, they are met with violent threats and constant harassment. Nerd culture has been a safe space and was invented for the people who didn’t fit in anywhere else, so why are we shutting out half the population? Nerd culture is a valuable part of pop culture, and instead of trying to keep it an exclusive boys club, we should be extending a welcoming hand, because, nerd culture (and Feminism!) is for everyone. Feminist Games: Dragonage Beyond Good and Evil Gone Home Metroid Left Behind Portal Transitor The Funnies Collected by Wynne Zalewski and Maddy Broderick What do you call a Blonde who flies a plane? A pilot Three women walk into a bar and say “Hooray, we’ve colonized a male dominated joke format!” A feminist woman walks into a bar...only to realize that it’s been set arbitrarily high. “I need Feminism because women are strong!” Photo by Olivia Broderick Women in Film By Clara Levy Seeing the outrageous amount of coverage female film stars get from the press, you could assume that women are high up in the ranks of the film industry. This, however, isn’t the case. Out of the hundreds of Academy Award director nominations that have been given out during the past 87 years, only four women have ever been chosen. And of those, only Kathryn Bigelow actually took home an Oscar, which was for her 2008 film The Hurt Locker. This is not because men happen to always make better movies than women, but because by default female directors are overlooked by their peers in the film industry. While women have had great success acting in movies, and have done incredible work in areas like set design, editing, and cinematography—none of which are easy tasks—only a number of them have been able to obtain leadership roles as directors, and of those only one was rewarded with the industry’s top prize. Even the fictional female characters on screen are marginalized by this industry. From 2007 to 2012, only 30.8% of speaking characters in the top 500 films were women. At the same time, 26.2% of the women were partially naked, as opposed to the 9.4% of the men. More often than not, female characters are shown as two-dimensional stereotypes—they’re shown as ditzy, damsels in distress, manic pixie dream girls*, or overly promiscuous. Even when they do take on the tough, typically male roles, they do so in skimpy, sexualized outfits. This inequality even exists in children’s films. Film studies show that from 1990 to 2005, fewer than 28% of speaking roles in G-rated films (both live-action and animated) were held by women. None of this is because women aren’t interested enough in movies to speak out about this. Half of the movie tickets sold each year in the US are sold to women. Even so, their opinions and voices are still not heard. The Bechdel Test* 1. Are there at least two women? 2. Do they talk to eachother? 3. About something other than a man? *Not every movie needs to pass the Bechdel test! However, especially in childrens’ media, representation is important. Yo Mama is so poor, she makes only 78% of what a man makes! What do you call people who make “women in the kitchen” jokes? Single Notable Women in the Film Industry: Female Directors to Watch: -Ava Duvernay (Selma) -Sofia Coppola(Lost in Translation) -Angelina Jolie (Unbroken) -Jodi Foster (House of Cards, Orange is the New Black) Female Film Editors: -Thelma Schoonmaker- editor for Martin Scorsese (Goodfellas, The Departed) -Sally Menke-editor for Quentin Tarantino (Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs) Female Cinematographers: -Ellen Kuras (Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind*) *A female character whose only role is to “save” the wayward male protagonist LGBTQA+ Alphabet Soup By Nina Singer As feminists, it’s important to understand people’s gender identities and sexual/romantic orientations because in order to support people for who they are, we need to understand them. Here are just some of the gender identities and sexual/romantic orientations that exist. It may be hard to understand some of these terms at first, so if you have any questions, do some online research or kindly ask someone in LGBTQA+ community or GSA to explain. Gender identities To understand gender, it is important to understand that gender is a spectrum, NOT a binary. There are an infinite number of genders, including boy, girl, and everything outside or in-between. Agender: Someone who identifies as genderless Bigender: Someone who identifies as two genders Cisgender: Someone who identifies as the gender they were assigned at birth. Demigender: Someone who identifies mostly as a certain gender, but not entirely (Demi-boy/Demi-girl) Genderfluid: Someone whose identity changes, or is fluid Genderqueer: An umbrella term for people who identify as something other than male or female Transgender: Someone who identifies as a different gender than the one the were assigned at birth. Sexual/Romantic Orientations Every person has a sexual and romantic orientation, and they do NOT have to match. A sexual orientation describes who a person is sexually attracted to, a romantic orientation describes who a person is romantically attracted to-Asexual/Aromantic: Someone who is not sexually/ romantically attracted to anyone Bisexual/Biromantic: Someone sexually/romantically attracted to two genders Demisexual/Demiromantic: Someone who does not experience sexual/romantic attraction unless they have a strong emotional connection (Anyone of any sexual/ romantic orientations can also identify as this) Heterosexual/heteroromantic: Someone sexually/ romantically attracted to the opposite gender Homosexual/homoromantic: Someone sexually/ romantically attracted to the same gender Pansexual/Panromantic: Someone sexually/romantically attracted to people without gender being a limiting factor. Questioning: Someone who is unsure of their sexual/ romantic orientation Ask Me About My Pronouns the idea that gender is determined by physical appearance. By Mia Holtz As more people are becoming educated about Making your own pronouns clear helps create a positive and genders outside of the binary, it is important to recognize safe environment, and gives less assertive people a chance to that some people may want to be referred to with pronouns speak up too. other than “she/her” and “he/him”. Asking someone which pronouns they prefer is very important because not only does it show respect for their identity, but misgendering someone can induce dysphoria or discomfort. If you aren’t sure of someone’s pronouns, you can always use the gender neutral term, “they/them”. (Don’t worry, it is grammatically correct to use this to refer to one person). Besides gender specific pronouns that are normally assigned to males and females, there are also alternative pronouns that are more ambiguous to gender, such as “ze” and “xe”. Cisgender people who appear traditionally masculine or feminine should also makmale a point of letting people know what their pronouns are, even if they assume that people already know their gender. Although this assumption isn’t made with harmful intent, assuming that your gender is “ I need Feminism because the gender binary needs to be destroyed! Photo By Maddy obvious is harmful because it supports Broderick HERstory of Feminism By Maddy Broderick Considering that GRHS requires all of its students to take 2 years of United States history, a lot of us know little bits and snippets of the history of the Feminist movement, but after the final exam, sometimes we forget the rich, wonderful history that leads us to modern feminism. Conflicts between genders have existed since we have, and date back to the 1700s. One of the earliest examples of American feminism was when Abigail Adams (wife of John Adams) wrote letters advocating for the equality of women, because back then, women could not even own property. The Feminist movement really took off in 1848, when the first feminist convention took place in Seneca Falls, New York. The women that had gathered there wrote the ¨Declaration of Sentiments¨, advocating for equal rights for women. Leaders such as Alice Paul, Susan B Anthony, and Elizabeth Cady Stanton emerged from this convention, and began actively fighting for women’s equality. Alice Paul (one of the more radical of the feminist leaders, well at least for the 19th century), advocated for an Equal Rights Amendment to be added to the Constitution. It would read ¨congress can pass no law that discriminates based on one gender¨, just like we have one that says ¨congress can pass no law that discriminates based on race¨. (The ERA has never been passed, however, it was shot down in Congress in the 1980’s, and it has not been proposed since.) Feminism was not very popular in this era among non-Feminists. People feared that women voting would lead to widespread chaos and a generation of wayward youth with no mothers to lead the poor children. With the passage of the 19th amendment in 1919, (white) women then had the right to vote, (Black women and other Women of color were barred from voting by de facto segregation until the Voting Rights Act of 1965) but the struggle for equality was far from over. The depression was a low point for the Feminist movement, considering that equal rights took a backseat to fixing the massive economic problems that infected the country. During WWII, the Feminist movement made a sort-of comeback, as women began taking the jobs of the men who had left to go fight in the war, but this was temporary, and as the 50’s approached and the men returned, women went back to the home. This lead to a generation of women who felt discontented with their lives in the home, and after working and being independent, knew there was more to life than being dependent on their husbands. This belief is reflected in Betty Friedan’s book ¨The Feminine Mystique¨, and this 2nd wave Feminism (lead by Gloria Steinem) kicked off the sexual revolution of the 1960’s and 70’s, beginning with the invention of the birth control pill in 1960 and encouraged women to become independent, and to have their own finances and job outside the home. Feminism was not very popular in this era, either. These women were called whiny and needy by those who opposed them, and they were discouraged from fighting for their rights, and instead told to get back into their roles in the home. Nevertheless, this Second Wave Feminism made a lot of really important strides. So where does that leave us? Well, some say that we are in the ¨Gender Revolution¨ and the 3rd wave of Feminism, and I agree. Feminism has taken on a new form, taking the focus off fighting unfair legislation, and focusing on changing the culture that sets unrealistic expectations for gender and keeps women down. Among some, this brand of Feminism is just a bunch a “man haters,” but hey, it looks like change isn’t always popular. The fight for equal rights has to continue. More than half of Yemeni girls will become child brides (Human Rights Watch), and women in Saudi Arabia are not allowed to drive or to vote; 1 in 6 women will be raped or sexually assaulted in their lifetime (RAINN), 85% of human trafficking victims are women (Polaris Project), women (on average) make about $.23 less than men (Institution of Women’s Policy Research), and girls around the world are subject to the brutal practice of Female Genital Mutilation. Feminism has a long, storied past, and a bright future, because although we have come so far, we have so far left to go. “I need Feminism because too many awesome women in history didn’t have their stories told!” Photo By Clara Levy How To Get Involved: Ideas & Resources By Olivia Broderick Feminism is more than a discussion or a list of terms; it’s a commitment to helping women and girls worldwide achieve equality. For those who are interested and wish to help with the cause, there is no shortage of ways to get involved. 1. Join a club or organization at your school. Many schools will have some sort of organization dedicated to helping women or marginalized groups, whether it’s a feminist club, a chapter of GLI, or a GSA. These clubs can be a great way to not only discuss feminist issues and broaden your perspective, but can also provide the opportunity to fundraise for various organizations or causes. If nothing like this exists at your school or in your neighborhood, start one! 2. Volunteer at a women’s shelter. There are lots of shelters that cater specifically to women, LGBTQ+ youth, or victims of domestic violence. Oftentimes these shelters will have programs for high school students to work as volunteers. If there is no way for you to volunteer, then most shelters will have a wishlist of most-needed items that can be donated. 3. Educate your friends. With all this newfound knowledge, it can be easy to forget that not everyone knows as much about feminism as you do. Sometimes people may need help understanding a certain concept, so don’t be shy about explaining things to them. Along the same vein, don’t be afraid to call out your friends if they say something problematic. You don’t have to preach to them or get angry, but gently (or humorously) remind them that what they’re saying isn’t cool. 4. Fundraise for a cause. There are tons of organizations dedicated to helping women: The Malala Foundation, SATI, He For She, etc. Organize a fundraiser to provide these causes with much-needed money. 5. Work to empower girls (and boys!) in your area. Teach young girls to love and value themselves, and that they can do anything that boys can do. Why Celebrities are Afraid to Publically Identify as Feminists By Jess DeCelie Many young, impressionable fans of celebs see what their idol says about feminism and see that as the correct view, but celebrities are often whisked into stardom at an age where they have not had the chance to realize their views or form an opinion. While there is still a widespread misunderstanding of what Feminism means, which is quickly gaining traction among mainstream artists. There are still women saying, “I’m not a Feminist because I love men, and I think the idea of ‘raise women to power, take the men away from the power’ is never going to work out because you need balance.” The current feminist movement has worked hard to make the movement more approachable, because in previous generations people have seen the movement as alienating. And while we have been rebranding the word to become the overarching term for social, political and economic equality of the sexe, there are still people who think that the word is meant to attack men or housewifes. On the contrary, feminism is for everyone. Many celebrities are still afraid that they will offend men or people who continue to believe that feminism is a strong or bad word. They see it as a group of angry, complaining women blaming men for the world’s problems. We need celebrities to step up and learn about what they believe in, and to remove the stigma around the word “feminism” and the fight for equality. In the same way, teach boys that they don’t have to be violent and aggressive to be real men. There’s a ton of feminist media out there for children, from television shows with strong female protagonists to books. It’s just a matter of exposing kids to these values from a young age. Get Involved SafeHouse Shelter (Bloomfield): (973) 337-8742 Oasis Shelter (Paterson): (973) 881-8307 Feminist Majority Foundation: Feminist.org Unleashed! (New York City): unleashed.org New York Asian Women’s Center: nyawc.org Sadaqa House (East Orange): 973 280 9109 http://womeninblack.org/ http://www.codepink.org/ “I need Feminism because violence against women is all too real” Photo By Maddy Broderick The Dress Code: A Feminist Stance By Makiya Murphy By definition, what is dress code? Dress code is a set of rules that specify the required manner of dress at school, work, resturants, etc. But lately, the limits to where something is considered “not allowed” or “inappropriate”, especially in regard to the female population, has become hazy and in some cases, crossing the line. Dress code is a detrimental factor to the progression in the female community. Today in many schools, the dress code had been tightened and strictly enforced, but these clothing bans seem to specifically target women. 13-yearold Sophie Hasty makes the sophisticated argument that, “not being able to wear leggings because it’s ‘too distracting for boys’ is giving us the impression we should be guilty for what guys do.” Yoga pants and leggings are banned because they distract their male peers from concentrating on learning, which sparked the movement #iammorethanadistraction, arguing that women are more than just a distraction within the school environment. Another huge con that dress codes brings is the constant bringing down of people for having a body. Dress codes have been known to punish girls for wearing tank tops or “suggestive” clothing. Dress codes around the country also ban female students from wearing tuxes or suits to formal events like prom. The Dress Code is a restriction, but it is more than that. The Dress Code teaches body shame and body policing, and teaches girls that their bodies are not just theirs, they are a distraction. The Dress Code also restricts people’s expression by not allowing them to wear clothes not made for “their gender”, because clothing doesn’t have a gender--it’s just clothes! Overall, it is understandable why we need dress codes, but the way that society has been enforcing and putting them in place is just unacceptable. The Staff: Celia Buckley Maddy Broderick Olivia Broderick Clara Levy Nina Singer Julia Sterling Mia Holtz Ms. Balaschak Makiya Murphy Wynne Zalewski Jess DeCelie Special Thanks to: Maddy Granovetter Ms. Pollak Ms. Caulfield Ms. Gist Ms. Balaschak Ms. Zalewski Ms. Gallo And our presidents Kathryn Prouse and Olivia Broderick Art by Celia Buckley Wondering what these photos are? “I need Feminism because the body is not an apology” Photo by Olivia Broderick These photos are part of the #WhoNeedsFeminism campaign, showing people all over the world telling why they need Feminism. Tweet us your pictures telling us why you need Feminism! @GRFeministClub Feminism: Not Just For Women By Maddy Broderick When we say ¨Feminism is for everybody¨, we’re not kidding! Feminism is dedicated to achieving equality of the genders, and the way that we can do that is by dismantling the harmful societal structures and expectations that make gender equality impossible, namely, the Patriarchy, which sets gendered expectations that oppress women, and standards that people must comply to, or risk being disrespected. The social construct that dictates what a certain gender should be are called gender roles, and they hurt both men and women. Women are expected to be small, soft-spoken, pretty, and submissive, while men are expected to be tough, aggressive, and athletic. Because of this, women are pushed into being subservient and men are pushed into being aggressive and ¨macho¨ in order to prove how masculine they are, when really, ¨being a man¨ is being who you want to be. Men are told not to cry or express their feelings because it’s not ¨manly¨ to be vulnerable, because we see being weak as being feminine and ¨like a woman¨, which men (according to society) cannot be. We attach so much shame to things deemed “feminine,” that when a man acts in a way that we see as feminine, we don’t see him as a man, we see him as weak, as cowardly, as a ¨wuss¨. Because of this backlash against the feminine, our culture is one of ¨toxic masculinity¨, where men feel like they need to be hyper-aggressive, violent, and out of touch with their emotions in order to be thought of as ¨a real man¨. As a culture, we need to recognize that being ¨a real man¨, is just being who you want to be, being a whole person, and being who you are. There is no shame in crying or having feelings, there is no shame in wearing what you want (yes, boys can wear dresses, why not? Dresses and awesome and comfortable), there is no shame in the ¨feminine.¨ These societal structures that we have put in place hurt both men and women. Feminism’s mission to dismantle the patriarchy in order to help women worldwide would also have benefits for men and people of all genders! These rigid structures that dictate gender roles are harmful, and in order to abolish them, we have to team up and work together to make a society where everyone is equal. “I need Feminism because if I don’t hear and listen to all voices, I am deaf.” Photo by Olivia Broderick Art by Nina Singer Works Cited http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4152209/. https://feministbodies.wordpress. com/2015/03/16/rebranding-feminismcelebrities-coming-out-as-feminists-andwhy-its-important/ http://jezebel.com/the-many-misguidedreasons-famous-ladies-say-im-nota-1456405014 Dockterman, Eliana. “When Enforcing School Dress Codes Turns Into Slut Shaming.” Time. Time, 25 Mar. 2014. 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Web. 28 May 2015. http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2015/04/06/ lesbian-student-banned-from-wearingtuxedo-to-prom/ https://www.nyfa.edu/film-school-blog/ gender-inequality-in-film/ http://psychcentral.com/news/2010/04/22/ female-stereotypes-persist-in-americanfilms/13047.html http://seejane.org/wp-content/uploads/ GDIGM_Gender_Stereotypes.pdf https://www.hrw.org/news/2011/12/08/ yemen-child-marriage-spurs-abuse-girlsand-women https://www.rainn.org/get-information/ statistics/sexual-assault-victims https://www.polarisproject.org/ media-center/news-and-press/pressreleases/915-report-spotlights-humantrafficking-trends-in-the-us http://www.iwpr.org/initiatives/payequity-and-discrimination Feminist Glossary: Understanding the Conversation By Olivia Broderick Body Shaming - The act of making someone feel ashamed for their body. This can include shaming someone for their body’s size, shape, or features. Cisgender - A term for someone who identifies as the gender they were assigned at birth Consent - The verbal and nonverbal agreement to engage in a sexual act. Erasure - The erasing of someone’s identity. This may be experienced by a person of color who is told that they are “basically white,” a bisexual person who is in a relationship with someone of the same gender being called a lesbian, or a woman being told it’s “almost not like she’s a girl” Feminism - The belief in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes Gender Dysphoria - A feeling of discomfort experienced when one feels that their body does not match their gender Gender Identity - The gender that someone identifies as Gender Roles - The tasks, mentalities and identities that someone of a certain gender is expected to conform to. For example, men are often expected to be the provider for a family while women are expected to be the nurturer. Infantilization - To treat someone as much younger than they are. In many circles, grown men will be referred to as “men” but women will be called “girls.” This is not only a disrespectful action but can also lead to the sexualization of young girls, which is completely inappropriate. LGBTQ+ - An acronym that stands for “Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Questioning/ Queer” and is used as an umbrella term for people who do not identify as heterosexual/cisgender. Sometimes may be written as “LGBTQIA” which stands for “Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Questioning/Queer, Intersex, Asexual.” **NOTE: The word “queer” is sometimes used as a slur and though it may be used by people within the LGBTQ+ community to describe themselves, it is not an appropriate term to use to describe other people without their consent. Non-binary - A term for someone whose gender identity does not fit into boy/girl Objectification - To view a person as a sexual object, without any agency of their own. This makes it much easier to condone sexual violence against the person. Patriarchy - A social system in which men are given the most power- they may run the household, hold the majority of government positions, and dominate the entertainment industry. Privilege As defined by everydayfeminism.com, privilege is “a set of unearned benefits given to people who fit into a specific social group.” For example, men are often considered attractive or successful regardless of whether they fit conventional beauty standards, whereas women are forced to conform to a very rigid standard of beauty. Men are also more likely to be hired in higher-level positions than women. These examples of privilege are often unnoticeable to most people, as they are so ingrained in our society as “the norm.” Rape Culture - A culture in which sexual assault is normalized or condoned. This is perpetuated through things such as telling rape jokes (which trivialize the struggles of rape victims and desensitize people to the topic), the romanticization of non-consensual sexual contact in media, teaching men that their sexual urges are uncontrollable and therefore must be acted upon, and blaming victims for the actions of their attackers. This is a very dangerous mentality and is unfortunately very pervasive throughout many countries and cultures. Romantic Orientation - Defines who a person is romantically attracted to Sexual Assault - A sexual act which one party has not consented to Sexualization - To make or view something as sexual when it is not inherently so. For example, breasts are organs intended to feed babies, but they have been sexualized to the point where it is considered inappropriate for a mother to breastfeed in public. Sexual Orientation - Defines who a person is sexually attracted to Toxic Masculinity - A set of expectations for the “ideal man” that the patriarchy expects men to comply with. For example, men are socialized to be tough and aggressive, to believe that showing any sort of emotion is weakness, and that any sign of femininity makes them “less of a man.” This mentality holds realworld consequences, such as devaluing male rape victims and degrading single fathers or men who are more nurturing. Transgender - A term for someone who does not identify as the gender they were assigned at birth Victim Blaming - The act of blaming a victim for their own sexual assault. Often times when a victim comes forward, they will be blamed for “tempting” their assailant with revealing or inappropriate clothing, or told they should have been more responsible than to get drunk. This contributes to a rape culture by averting blame from the rapist and silencing the victim. “I need Feminism because the United States still doesn’t have an Equal Rights Ammendment” Photo By Maddy Broderick