Wayside - Our Lady of the Wayside Church

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Wayside - Our Lady of the Wayside Church
December 8, 2015 - November 20, 2016
Our Lady of the
Wayside
434 W. Park Street
Arlington Heights, IL 60005
Phone: 847-253-5353
Web Site: www.olwparish.org
Pastoral Staff
Deacon Thomas Corcoran
& Irene Corcoran
Ms. Mandy Dillon
Pastoral Associate
Rev. Edward R. Fialkowski
Pastor
Deacon Brendan Foley
Ms. Kathleen Freiburger
Director of Office Services
Rev. Louis R. Golamari
Associate Pastor
Deacon Dr. Donald
Grossnickle
Mr. Jim Liput
Parish Business Manager
Deacon Michael Madison &
Mary Catherine McBride
Mr. Dan McMahon
Director of Music
Mr. Kevin O’Connell
Youth Director
Mrs. Kathy O’Neill
Parish Nurse
December 20, 2015
Fourth Sunday of Advent
4th Sunday of Advent
And the angel said to her in reply, “The Holy Spirit will come
upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you.
Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God.”
Sunday in Ordinary Time
-Lk. 1:35
Date
Sister Joan Shields
Sister Adrienne Weseman
Directors of Religious
Education
Mr. David Wood
School Principal
Rev. Daniel J. Brady
Retired Priest & Resident
Fourth Sunday of Advent
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CHRISTMAS ANGELS NEEDED!
OUR STEWARDSHIP OF TREASURE
For December 13, 2015
This Year
Budget
Better/
(Worse)
$32,228
$34,358
($2,130)
Sunday
Children’s
$146
Christmas
$2,031
Retirement
Fund For
Religious
$9,831
Thanksgiving
$570
Year-to-Date
Weekly &
Holyday
Collections
$693,663
($130,929)
Electronic Giving which is included in the above Totals:
Weekly E
Giving
$10,507
YTD E Giving
$187,460
% of YTD E
Giving/YTD
Weekly
Collections
“When you hold a lunch or dinner, do not invite your
friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy
neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have
repayment. Rather, when you hold a banquet invite the
poor, the cripple, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will
you be because of their inability to repay you. For you
will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
Luke 14:12-14
As many of you know, for the last thirteen years the generous
families and friends of Our Lady of the Wayside Parish have been
supporting a wonderful cause. We have been helping St. Benedict's parish in Chicago feed 350 - 400 homeless and lonely folks
on Christmas day. Again, this year your help is needed with coordinating this effort.
$185,000
$824,592
December 20, 2015
27.0%
www.givecentral.org
We have 224 parishioners in the program.
Why not sign up today.
Thank You for your generosity.
PARISH OFFICE HOLIDAY HOURS
The Parish Office will be open from 9:00 a.m.
2:00 p.m. on Christmas Eve and closed on Christmas
Day.
On New Year’s Eve the office will be open from 9:00
a.m. - 4:00 p.m. and closed on New Year’s Day.
Last year, the OLW community provided over two dozen freshly
cooked and carved turkeys and enough monetary donations for
us to purchase: 100 lbs. of ham and enough dinner rolls, butter,
half & half, coffee, pumpkin pie, sugar, corn, green beans, cranberries, mashed potatoes, stuffing, paper goods, soda, milk, etc. to
feed over 375 people! Our cars were loaded Christmas morning
and a group of Waysider's drove down to St. Benedict's to deliver
the food, help prepare the parish hall, visit with some very lonely
people, and help spread the joy of Christmas! We pray that you
are able to support this wonderful cause again this year!
You can help by offering to cook a nice big juicy turkey, cook a
ham or three, make mashed potatoes or stuffing for 50 (hams,
potatoes and stuffing provided) or make a monetary donation. The
turkeys can be dropped off at Pete and Jan LeTourneau's house on
Christmas Eve or between 8:00 and 8:30 Christmas morning. The
"shopping team" will use the donations to buy all of the other
items. We will go shopping Wednesday, December 23, so we
would appreciate donations be made by Tuesday, December 22.
Donations can be dropped off at the LeTourneau's house, checks
can be made payable to then OLW/St. Vincent DePaul Society
for tax purposes. Another way you can help is by providing hat,
scarf and glove sets for the homeless, you can wrap these if you
like or just drop them off. These are handed out after dinner and
often times it will be the only gift many people will receive for
the year. If you are not in a position to help this year, please remember the folks at St. Benedict in your prayers.
As mentioned earlier, there are some families who caravan down
to St. Benedict's on Christmas morning. Some folks just take the
trip to help deliver the food and head back home. Others like to
stay awhile to help prepare the hall and food or just visit with
some of the guests. The caravan leaves the LeTourneau house
between 8:00 - 8:15 a.m. Christmas Day. The guests are served
from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. They are usually looking for servers,
so if you would like to serve the meal; plan to arrive around 10:30
to receive your table assignment. In addition, they can always use
help with clean-up, this usually begins around 1:30.
Please visit SignUpGenius http://www.signupgenius.com/
go/10c0f45afa82aa7ff2-stbenedict to donate/prepare food or
help out on Christmas morning. If you would like to make a
monetary donation or provide gifts, please contact us drectly.
Christmas Blessings to all,
Pete and Jan LeTourneau -
Our Lady of the Wayside
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Arlington Heights, Illinois
CHRISTMAS REFLECTION
…Father Ed Fialkowski, Pastor of Our Lady of the Wayside
Dear Parishioners of Our Lady of the Wayside:
Generally when people tell and retell their favorite stories, we often find that every time we tell them, there are a few
details that we can’t leave out of the story. My mother was one who loved details in stories. Many times when she told
a story or heard one, she would focus on the details. To her the details were more important than the point of the story.
Whether it’s the name of the hotel where you stayed on a honeymoon or the hospital where your children were born, or
what the course looked like on the day you got that hole in one. There is some detail or details about every important
story of your life that may seem insignificant, but you simply can’t leave them out. The story of the nativity, the birth
of Christ, is no different. A word of caution here is for all of us to recognize when our listening audience finishes our
stories for us or fills in the details that we have omitted. Just maybe they have heard your story before! Probably many,
many times! Be aware of this.
We know the Nativity Story: Mary, nine months pregnant with Joseph her husband, traveling to Bethlehem because of
the mandatory census. We know that when they arrived, there was no room for them in the inn. The innkeeper offers
them a manger as alternative accommodations.
This is an important story even without any of those details, because the heart of the story is: “God loved us so much
that God became one of us, so that we all might love God and one another.”
But that’s not the way the Gospel tells it. The Gospel tells us about a baby, to be born to a couple, who found themselves under extraordinary circumstances. The Gospel account tells us where the child was born. It wasn’t enough for
the Gospels to just say “he was born” or even “he was born in Bethlehem.” The detailed Gospel story tells us that “he
was born in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.”
A manger isn’t much. Some Nativity Stories tell us it was a stable or maybe for our purposes a barn where farm animals were housed and fed. The crib was not a bed. It was probably a feeding troth for the barn animals. The troth was
filled with hay as a mattress for the child. It was perhaps the most unexpected resting place for a newly born Messiah.
For God’s first night as one of us.
But as much as we remember the manger, we also remember why Jesus was born there. We remember that when Mary
and Joseph got to the inn, they were told there was no room for them.
We have to wonder why there was no room in the inn. Joseph and Mary were Jewish and they would only stay at an
establishment owned by Jewish people. The inn keeper had to know that they were travelling to fulfill the requirements
of the census of that time. Joseph and Mary were greatly inconvenienced by this journey especially with a baby due
any day. Didn’t the innkeeper, someone who was probably Jewish himself, understand their plight, their circumstances? Did you ever wonder if maybe there was room at the inn and that the innkeeper had a couple of rooms left but
he decided he didn’t want to rent them a room? Mary was obviously pregnant and he did not want to be bothered with
assisting with the birth of the baby and whatever inconveniences might follow by letting them stay at the inn. OK let’s
give the innkeeper the benefit of the doubt and say that there really weren’t any rooms left. He was being honest and
upfront with them.
Couldn't he and his wife and maybe his family find some place for a woman who was nine months pregnant and about
to give birth, some place a little more comfortable than a manger or a stable or a barn? Even something temporary?
Well we know that they could not or would not find alternative housing so Jesus wasn’t born in the inn but in a manager among farm animals and humble surroundings. We don’t know the name of the innkeeper nor the name of the inn
or better said the manger Jesus was born in. The innkeeper, the inn and the manger are not named. Did you ever wonder if the innkeeper ever realized who they turned away? He probably did not.
Now, if this was just a story about an innkeeper who missed a change to open the doors to Christ over 2,000 years ago,
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(Christmas Reflection - Father Ed continued)
it wouldn’t be memorable. The Nativity Story isn’t about what an unnamed innkeeper at an unnamed inn did 2,000
years ago. Its about what God did, and what God still does. And it’s about what we do next. Christ still comes into this
world. Christmas still happens. It didn’t just happen once, it happens all the time.
So often in the Gospels a person or place is left without a name. We are to provide the name. Maybe it is us! Sometimes God knocks at our doors, and we are asked if there is room in the inn. And sometimes we look out, and we don’t
really like what we see, or we don’t like what it would mean to let Christ in, and we close the door and say: “There’s
no place for you here”.
But sometimes, even when we don’t really want to, even when we’re not sure we want to open that door up, we do
anyway. And that matters. Because Christmas may be about the story that we read. It may be about Mary and Joseph
and the baby and the manger, and no room in the inn. But that story teaches us about more than just an event that happened centuries ago. It teaches us about opening ourselves up to what God is trying to accomplish in us in this world.
It’s about telling God that, even if we don’t know what it means yet, there is room for God in our lives, and we want to
be part of what God is doing.
There’s a good chance that if you are reading this article that some part of you wants to be part of that Nativity Story.
Some part of you wants to be a part of love made real, of God being active in our world, of a world that can change.
Some part of you wants to be a part of the Christmas story. Maybe not the one that’s written in the book with the shepherds and the manger and the wise men, but a part of the Christmas story, nonetheless.
I believe that God is not only still active in this world, and God is still writing the Christmas story. God is still writing
the story of what happened when Christ came into this world as the Prince of Peace, and what happened next. And you
can be part of that story.
The question is do you want to be the innkeeper who could not find room for Jesus or do you want to open your heart
wide?
“Make My Life a Bethlehem” (Courtney)
Make my life a Bethlehem, a manger of my heart,
Let me hear the angels sing and let the music start.
May I fall in simple faith and wonder to my knees,
In the manger of my heart let Christ be born in me.
In my life there is a place that’s scattered with the straw
of every disappointment, each regret and every flaw.
In this dark and dismal place my beasts of burden lie
weary from the heavy load they long to lay aside.
Make my life a Bethlehem…
Come and sweep this stable clean and swaddle it with light,
And let the Child be born in me upon a starlit night.
For though He’s born a thousand times in far off Bethlehem,
until the Savior’s born in me I cannot worship Him.
Make my life a Bethlehem…
May I fall… “The Family Tree” (Matthew 1:1-17)
Merry Christmas to all and have a blessed Christmas.
Father Ed
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ARCHDIOCESE OF CHICAGO
Archbishop Quigley Center
835 North Rush Street * Chicago, IL 60611-2030
Phone: 312-534-8230 * Fax: 312-534-6379
Christmas 2015
Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,
A Blessed Christmas to you all.
My greeting comes at a time marked by sad and troubling news for our city, our nation and our world.
The joyful news of Christmas competes in these days
with stories of street violence in our city, of wars,
conflicts and acts of terriorism throughout the world
including in our own nation.
As people of faith, we must read these “signs of the
times.” As we do, so Christimas gives us a proper
perspective: the sadness of violence and war does not
have the last word. God has come to save us, for we
cannot save ourselves. The savior born to us raises us
up from darkness and brings us into his own wonderful light.
One of the Christmas readings taken from
Paul’s letter to Titus says this:
When the kindness and generous love
of God our savior appeared,
not because of any righteous deeds we had done
but because of his mercy,
he saved us…Titus 3:4-5
We hear those words “because of his mercy,” especially as we celebrate the Jubilee of Mercy this year.
The challenge for us is not just to believe that God is
merciful, but also to believe that God is merciful to
us and that God is blessing us with his mercy precisely at this very moment, and in the limited circumstances of our lives and relationships. When we
accept that mercy, we will be transformed and become the merciful light of God in a dark and cold
world. Then, our own works of mercy will, in turn,
bring hope, healing, and renewal, just as God’s
mercy has done for us.
LITURGIES OF CHRISTMAS 2015
CHRISTMAS EVE
Thursday, December 24th, 2015
Vigil of Christmas
2:00 p.m. Mass with children’s participation
Presider: Father Ed Fialkowski
4:00 p.m.
Teen Ministered Mass
Presider: Father Louis Golamari
6:00 p.m.
Vigil Mass
Father Ed Fialkowski
9:30 p.m. Musical Prelude of Carols
10:00 p.m. Midnight Mass
Presider: Father Dan Brady
CHRISTMAS DAY, FRIDAY, DECEMBER 25, 2015
The Nativity of the Lord
7:30 a.m.
Father Dan Brady
9:30 a.m.
Father Ed Fialkowski
11:30 a..m. Father Louis Golamari
THE HOLY FAMILY OF JESUS, MARY, AND JOSEPH
Saturday, December 26, 2015
5:00 p.m.
7:00 a.m.
Sunday, December 27, 2015
8:15 a.m.
9:45 a.m.
11:30 a.m.
SOLEMNITY OF MARY MOTHER OF GOD
Holy Day of Obligation
Thursday, December 31, 2015
5:00 p.m.
Friday, January 1, 2016
8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m.
May God bless you and your families with his mercy
and enable you to be the hands of his mercy in our
world.
THE EPIPHANY OF THE LORD
Regular Mass Schedule
Sincerely yours in Christ,
Saturday, January 2, 2016
5:00 p.m.
Most Reverend Blase J. Cupich
Archbishop of Chicago
7:00 a.m.
Sunday, January 3, 2016
8:15 a.m.
9:45 a.m.
11:30 a.m.
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Please come join us to celebrate the
OUR LADY OF THE WAYSIDE
RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
15TH YEAR OF
SIMBANG GABI
at
Our Lady of the Wayside
Sunday, December 20, 2015
5:00 p.m.
Celebrant
Most Rev. George J. Rassas
Concelebrants
Father Ed Fialkowski
Father Louis Golamari
Father Dan Brady
Father Vince Costello
Reception to follow
at
The Father Mackin Center
MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS
The Christmas Eve Mass times will remain the same 2:00 p.m., 4:00 p.m., 6:00 p.m., and 10:00 p.m. This year
the Christmas Day Masses will be at 7:30 a.m., 9:30 a.m.,
and 11:30 a.m. This will ease the traffic flow between
Masses on this high traffic day. Since Christmas is on a
Friday and followed by a weekend, we will have 4 days
of Masses in a row. Even when this is not case, it is often
difficult to find enough Eucharistic Ministers, Lectors,
Altar Servers, and Ushers, to staff 8 Masses over the
course of Christmas Eve and Christmas, and we are hoping that this schedule for Christmas Day will help with all
of those things.
FEAST OF THE HOLY FAMILY
Join us at Mass the weekend of December 26th and 27th the Feast of the Holy Family - for a special blessing of all
families.
RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS
Tuesday, December 22
There are no R.E.P. classes during Christmas vacation.
CHRISTMAS EVE MASS 2:00 P.M.
Christmas Eve Mass at 2:00 p.m. has the children participating in it. All children who have a part in the Mass are
asked to be in their assigned seats no later than 1:30.
Benches in Church will be saved for families who have a
child participating in the Mass. Only a certain number of
benches can be saved which may not accommodate all
families.
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You can reach Kevin at Youth Ministry at 847
847--253
253--5353 xt. 241
or email him at [email protected].
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KATHY O’NEILL, R.N.
OUR LADY OF THE WAYSIDE
GRIEF AND THE HOLIDAYS
If you have recently lost a loved one, the holidays
may be very painful for you. Here are some
guidelines about dealing with your grief during a
time when so many are joyful:
Expect some pain. Don’t be afraid to cry.
Worrying about crying is an extra emotional
burden. Let your feelings flow.
Think about your holiday traditions and routines.
You might keep your favorites but begin new
ones:
Have your holiday dinner at a different time,
place or serving style (i.e., buffet instead of sit
down dinner).
Worship at a different service.
Buy gifts on-line or from catalogs. Ask a friend to
do your shopping. Or skip gift-giving for his year.
It’s all okay.
Eliminate baking cookies, sending cards or
decorating if it seems more than you can handle
right now.
Focus on winter activities rather than holidays.
HOW TO HELP A GRIEVING FRIEND
Many newly bereaved say the holidays from
Thanksgiving through New Year’s Day are the
hardest for them. That is when the void caused by
loss of the loved one is most acutely felt.
If you are a friend to someone who is grieving
during the holidays, you can help in small but
meaningful ways:
Be there. Your loving presence means more than
you can imagine. You need do nothing special.
Listen. Let your friend set the pace and direction
of your conversation. Avoid offering advice.
Avoid platitudes. Simply listen. Be comfortable
with the silences.
Encourage your friend to express his feelings sorrow, anger, disbelief, whatever needs airing.
Respect those feelings, and don’t try to talk him
out of them or ask him not to cry.
Offer your help with the extra work the holidays
bring - shopping, baking, wrapping gifts. Do this
work together if possible. Small blocks of time
often work best.
Honor your friend’s loved one by speaking her
name. Share rich memories of her. Perhaps you
will want to express your own sorrow at her
absence and your wish that she were with you
both during these holidays.
Accept invitations to spend time with people you
enjoy, and prepare them for the possibility of
your leaving early. Decline invitations that will
make you feel sadder.
Be patient with your friend. Grief is a journey that is
different for everyone - and it knows no timetable.
Don’t act as if the deceased never lived. Talk
about your loved one. Encourage others to share
stories that will enhance your memories.
Recommended books and websites:
• Don’t Take My Grief Away From Me
by Doug Manning
Do something for others. Donate your time,
talents or resources for someone in need.
• A Grief Observed
by C.S. Lewis and Madeleine L’Engle
Get enough rest. Grief is exhausting. Rest heals.
• A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss While
Others Are Celebrating
By Harold Ivan Smith
Remember that next year you can change your
mind about this year’s choices.
Prayer: Dear God, there are many who are missing
from my holiday gatherings. Even as I grieve their
absence, help me take comfort in my memories of
them. Amen.
• Good Grief by Granger Westberg
• Advocatehealthcare.com
• griefnet.org
• grief-recovery.com
• griefshare.org/holidays
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MINISTERS OF THE LITURGY
5:00 pm Saturday, December 26, 2015
Presider:
Father Dan Brady
Lector:
Peter LeTourneau, Jan LeTourneau
Euch. Min.:
Bob Guretz, Coord., Robert Crabbe, Rosalie Crabbe,
Letitia Gunn, Mike Hollis, Jeanne Kabler, John
Kabler, Pete LeTourneau, Kathy Maday, Joe
Panarale, Colleen Wozniak
Altar Serv.:
Andrew Bremner, Elizabeth Czulno, Alex Konopka,
Mary Naughton
Music Min.:
Choir/Instrumentalist
7:00 am Sunday, December 27, 2015
Presider:
Father John Bosco Ssekkomo
Deacon Michael Madison - Preaching
Lector:
Dave Heiss, Arnie Lemke
Euch. Min.:
Owen West, Coord., Marlene Bowen, Julie Cleary,
Teresita Epino, Jane Holland, Mary Jo Lee, Terry
Smith
Altar Serv.:
Jordan Colgan, Jack Lynch, Owen Mongoven,
Marisa Pacocha
Music Min.:
Cantor
8:15 am Sunday, December 27, 2015
Presider:
Father Ed Fialkowski
Deacon Michael Madison - Preaching
Lector:
Joyce Voss, Louise Dickey
Euch. Min.:
Tom Mezza, Coord., Marie Guska, Don Hansen,
Nancy Odon, Pete Odon, Edith Pena, Genny Powers,
Marcella Stein, Ron Stein
Altar Serv.:
Sarah Conneely, Jacob Gustafson, Hanna Haber,
Moira Newell
Music Min.:
Cantor
9:45 am Sunday, December 27, 2015
Presider:
Father Dan Brady
Deacon Thomas Corcoran - Preaching
Lector:
Dave Woods, Jim Stapleton
Euch. Min.:
Sally Shewmon, Coord., Irene Corcoran, Chris
Esposito, Linda Kesteloot, Ted Kesteloot, Darla
Krzeczowski, Mary McBride, Rich Pfisterer, Annette
Quick, Tony Russo, Krys Tischer
Altar Serv.:
Nicholas Galvan, Jack Lewis, Mia Parise, Matt Quick
Music Min.:
Ensemble/Instrumentalists
11:30 am Sunday, December 27, 2015
Presider:
Father Ed Fialkowski
Deacon Thomas Corcoran - Preaching
Lector:
Martha Cavers, Jeff Scardami
Euch. Min.:
Miriam Pecora, Coord., Gene Beiswenger, Winnie
Bowles, Krystyna Chadzichristos, Mary Dubiel,
Kathy Freiburger, Pat Keating, Rita Kokotis, Frank
Maniscalco, Vivian Maniscalco, Mary Jane Niman
Altar Serv.:
Abigail Longstreet, Zeph Mussman, Dave Orecchio,
Matthew Ritterbusch
Music Min.:
Cantor/Instrumentalist
PRAY FOR THE DECEASED
For the Deceased Members
of Our Lady of the Wayside
Our Lady of the Wayside
Upcoming Events
Monday, December 21, 2015 - Sunday, December 27, 2015
Monday, December 21, 2015
7:00-7:45 p.m. Monday Night Prayer Group in
PC201 Seton Room
Tuesday, December 22, 2015
10:00 a.m.Girl Scouts in Rectory Meeting
12:00 p.m.
Room
7:30-9:00 p.m. Choir Regular Rehearsal in
Rectory Meeting Room
7:30-9:00 p.m. R.C.I.A. in Gathering Place
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
7:00 p.m.PADS in Rectory Rooms
12:00 a.m.
Basement
Thursday, December 24, 2015
12:01-7:00 a.m. PADS in Rectory Rooms
Basement
Friday, December 25, 2015
8:30-10:00 p.m. AA Regular Meeting in Rectory
Meeting Rooms (basement)
Saturday, December 26, 2015
No Events or Meetings
Sunday, December 27, 2015
8:00-11:30 a.m. Sunday Coffee in Gathering Place
(after the 7:00, 8:15 & 9:45 a.m.
Masses)
During the
9:45 Mass
Children’s Liturgy of the Word in
Rectory Rooms (basement)
6:00-7:30 p.m. Boy Scout Troop 161 in Rectory
Rooms Basement
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CYCLES OF FAITH
December 25, 2015
Nativity of the Lord"
And we saw his glory." Never before or since, in the
entire course of human history, have men and
women been able to gaze upon the face of God. But
for a brief moment in time, God "became flesh and
made his dwelling among us." This is the remarkable event we celebrate on Christmas.
At that first Christmas some two thousand years ago,
the glory of God was revealed through the face of a
child. As a tiny, helpless creature, completely dependent upon his mother to sustain him, this humble
little baby came into the world. Yet this infant was
"the only Son, God, who is at the Father's side."
Why is it that the eternal majesty of the triune God
should choose to appear in such a simple way? How
does this humility reveal what St. Paul calls today,
"the refulgence of [God's] glory, the very imprint of
his being on Christmas"?
Today we celebrate a holy day that is unlike any
other. Indeed we celebrate a BELIEF that is unlike
any other when we proclaim, as Christians, that God
became man and walked in our midst. No other major world religion makes such an astonishing claim.
And with this comes our unique understanding of
the humble nature of God. We believe in a God
whose glory is not the glory of the world. His majesty is not like that of earthly kings and rulers.
Rather, we believe in a Heavenly Father who loves
his little children enough to live among them. This
Father takes joy in the joy of his children. Jesus once
remarked that just as we desire to give good gifts to
our children, "how much more will your heavenly
Father give good things to those who ask him" (Mt
7:11).
This Christmas, may we remember that the greatest
gift is Christ himself.
SACRED LITURGY
Monday, December 21, 2015
7:00 am
Communion Service
8:30 am
Michael Morrissey
Tuesday, December 22, 2015
7:00 am
Communion Service
8:30 am
For the Deceased Members of OLW
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
7:00 am
Communion Service
8:30 am
Joseph Grabowski
Thursday, December 24, 2015 - Christmas Eve
2:00 p.m. Mass with children’s participation
4:00 p.m. Teen Ministered Mass
6:00 p.m. Vigil Mass
10:00 p.m. Midnight Mass
Friday, December 25, 2015 - Christmas Day
7:30 a.m. Deceased Members of OLW
9:30 a.m. Deceased Members of OLW
11:30 a.m. Deceased Members of OLW
Saturday, December 26, 2015
8:30 am
Communion Service
5:00 pm
Mary Jane Nickol, Eugene Duffy, Tom Dooley
Sunday, December 27, 2015
7:00 am
Bob Taraba, Norma Kaminski, Debra Hoey and
For the People of OLW
8:15 am
Edwin Ozimek, Brendan Kennedy,
Berenice Guarisio, Orlando Mastrangeli,
John Stubing, Barbara Horrigan
9:45 am
Josephine Stubing, Linda Poutot,
Bob & Barbara Walters, Joseph Grabowski
11:30 am Dr. Fernando Caburnay, Jim Doherty,
Edmund Klimek, Richard Estaver, Gordon Saas,
Nick Pecora
Readings for the Week of December 20, 2015
Sunday:
Mi 5:1-4a/Ps 80:2-3, 15-16, 18-19/Heb 10:5-10/
Lk 1:39-45
Monday:
Sg 2:8-14 or Zep 3:14-18a/Ps 33:2-3, 11-12, 20
-21/Lk 1:39-45
Tuesday:
1 Sm 1:24-28/1 Sm 2:1, 4-8/Lk 1:46-56
Wednesday: Mal 3:1-4, 23-24/Ps 25:4-5, 8-10, 14/Lk 1:5766
Thursday:
Morning: 2 Sm 7:1-5, 8b-12, 14a, 16/Ps 89:25,
27, 29/Lk 1:67-79
Friday:
Vigil: Is 62:1-5/Ps 89:4-5, 16-17, 27, 29/Acts
13:16-17, 22-25/Mt 1:1-25 or 1:18-25
Night: Is 9:1-6/Ps 96:1-3, 11-13/Ti 2:11-14/Lk
2:1-14
Dawn: Is 62:11-12/Ps 97:1, 6, 11-12/Ti 3:4-7/
Lk 2:15-20
Day: Is 52:7-10/Ps 98:1-6/Heb 1:1-6/Jn 1:1-18
or 1:1-5, 9-14
Saturday:
Acts 6:8-10; 7:54-59/Ps 31:3-4, 6, 8, 16-17/Mt
10:17-22
Next Sunday: 1 Sm 1:20-22, 24-28 or Sir 3:2-6, 12-14/Ps 84:2
-3, 5-6, 9-10/1 Jn 3:1-2, 21-24 or Col 3:12-21 or
3:12-17/Lk 2:41-52
PRAY FOR THE SICK
Michael Harth, Joe Walker, Sr., Bev Folkedahl, Kristina Fitzgerald,
John O’Neill, Maureen Sexson, Pam Barton, Joshua Leese,
Chad Demas, Catherine Hansen, Marie Caranci, Geraldine
Shufeldt, Peter Phillips, Jean Ferrero, Debbie (Flack) Fry, Carol
Herman, Ann Kelley, Lynn Steele, Margaret Soboleski, Marie
DeSanto, Steve Demas, Chuck Petrovski, Judy Madda
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S.H.A.R.E. JOB & NETWORKING MINISTRY
S.H.A.R.E. offers job support services and is the result of the combined efforts of Our Lady of the Wayside, St. James, and St. Edna
Parishes in Arlington Heights, and St. Raymond Parish in Mt. Prospect. Meetings are held at St. Edna on the First and Third Wednesdays of each month at 2525 N. Arlington Heights Road, Arlington Heights, IL 60004. Speakers cover a topic for 1 hour and the remaining time is devoted to networking. For questions contact Tom Mannard at [email protected].
PARISH LIFE COMMISSION
PARTICIPATE IN OUR ONGOING EVENTS
Enjoy the parish community by meeting other parishioners at events such as Women’s Golf, Men’s Golf, Women’s Bowling, Men’s
Basketball, Women’s Bridge, Widows of Wayside (W.O.W.), and Christian Family Movement (CFM), the Senior Group and FilAmerican Group. Contact [email protected] with questions.
WORSHIP AND SPIRITUAL LIFE
CHILDREN’S LITURGY OF THE WORD
Sunday Readings and Homily adapted for ages 3 to 10 on most Sundays at the 9:45 Mass before the Liturgy of the Word. The children are invited to participate. The children will return for the remainder of the Mass. No registration is required!
BIBLE STUDY
Focus on the readings for the coming Sunday and their context in scripture. No registration or fee. Come when your schedule permits. Friday mornings in the Gathering Place 9:30 - 11:15 a.m.
ROSARY PRAYER GROUP
Meets in the Seton room (#201) every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Contact - Chris
CARE AND OUTREACH
Violence is never justified; you are are not alone.
Illinois Domestic Violence 24-Hour Hotline - 877-863-6338
SHAWL MINISTRY
This prayerful ministry offers knitted or crocheted shawls to those who are in need of comfort physically, emotionally and spiritually. We
meet every Thursday at 1:00 p.m. in the Parish Center - Cabrini Room. Questions contact Kit, Winnie, Patsy.
ST. MARK’S - NON PERISHABLE FOOD DRIVE EVERY SUNDAY
Drop off bin located in Gathering Place hallway across from the drinking fountains (8-12 every Sunday) in addition to the Garage
drop off (2nd Sunday of each month). To Volunteer - The Toomeys--collecting-The Clearys--delivery.
THE ELIZABETH MINISTRY
The Elizabeth Ministry offers families prayer and support during the joys, challenges and sorrows of the childbearing years. To contact a minister, please complete a card from the banner in the back of the church, or call the parish office or e-mail [email protected]. or [email protected]
RESPECT LIFE
The Respect Life Ministry works to make life issues visible and viable at the parish level. To get more involved in Respect Life at
OLW, please email [email protected].
FUNERAL LUNCHEON MINISTRY
This Ministry offers families in their time of sorrow a continental breakfast in the Gathering Place or sit down luncheon in the Rectory Meeting Room. For further information contact the parish office.
SPECIAL NEEDS MINISTRY
Special Needs Ministry was established to identify and meet the needs of our pacrishioners with special needs. Contact the parish
office or email - [email protected] or [email protected].
ST. VINCENT DEPAUL SOCIETY
An emergency source for short term financial help. For information or assistance, contact the DePaul voice mailbox at the parish 847-2535353 x398.
MINISTRY OF CARE
OLW has trained Ministers of Care who are available to visit and bring communion to those parishioners who are homebound. If you
are interested in receiving communion or being part of this ministry contact Kathy O’Neill, 847-253-5353, ext. 238.
LITTLE SAINTS PRAY & PLAY
Little Saints Pray & Play for children and their caregivers, meets twice monthly. Email [email protected] for more
information.
OUR LADY of the WAYSIDE
434 WEST PARK STREET • ARLINGTON HEIGHTS, ILLINOIS 60005
RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults)
There is a process available for those adults interested
in learning more about the Catholic faith in order to receive
the Sacraments of Baptism, Eucharist and/or Confirmation.
Call the Parish Office at 253-5353.
Check out OLW Website
www.olwparish.org
Parish Information
Parish Office and Rectory
(847) 253-5353
Parish FAX: (847) 253-7175
School FAX: (847) 253-0543
Parish School Office
(847) 255-0050
Parish Religious Education Office
(847) 398-5011
Web Site: www.olwparish.org
Sacrament of Reconciliation
Saturday 11:00 am to 12 Noon or request another
time by contacting one of the priests.
Sacrament of Marriage
Contact the parish office at least six months ahead
of a preferred date for necessary preparation.
Sacrament of Baptism
Celebrated on the First and Third Sunday of each month
at 1:00 pm in the Church. A Baptismal preparation session
is necessary before Baptism. Contact the Parish Office as
soon as possible for details.
Sacrament of Anointing the Sick
Homebound or ill who wish to receive this Sacrament
and the Eucharist, please contact the Parish Office.
Weekend Eucharistic Liturgies
Saturday: 5:00 pm
Sunday: 7:00, 8:15, 9:45 and 11:30 am
Weekday Eucharistic Liturgies
8:30 am Monday through Friday
Weekday Communion Services
7:00 am Monday through Friday
8:30 am Saturday
Mr. Larry Lawrence
Chairperson Parish Pastoral Council
Mr. Tom Aichele
Chairperson Parish Management Council
Judith Amberg
Worship & Spiritual Life
When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the infant leaped in her womb,
and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice and
said, "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your
womb." - Lk 1:41-42
Excerpts from the Lectionary for Mass ©2001, 1998, 1970 CCD.
Our Lady of the Wayside
In Honor Of…
Christmas 2015
His Eminence Blase J. Cupich
Archbishop of Chicago
Remember
In Beauty
Your
Loved
Ones
Francis Cardinal George
Archbishop Emeritus
Rev. Edward R. Fialkowski
Pastor
Rev. Louis R. Golamari
Associate Pastor
Rev. Daniel J. Brady
Retired Priest & Resident
Diana Gust
By Mary Lou & Bob Alfini
The Holy Trinity
Anonymous
Brian Patrick Nozicka
Anonymous
Angelina Belmonte
Sister Adrienne Weseman
Sister Joan Shields
By Thomas & Louise Dickey
Genevieve Izycki
By Ala & Don Kendal
Lynn
By George A. Miller
Roberta O’Neill
Robert O’Keefe
Johnny Reisel
By The O’Neill Family
Leona Skulavik
By Frank & Betty Wren
1
In
Memory
of
In
Memory
of
Bill Banach
William & Lillian Banach
Joseph & Helen Ziebka
Ann Hollowed
Germaine Zaker
By Muriel Banach
Rev. Harold T. O’ Hara
Founder of Our Lady of the Wayside
Rev. John J. Mackin
Pastor Emeritus
Rev. Richard J. Ehrens
Pastor Emeritus
Dan Barney
By Maureen Kennedy Barney
Robert & Mildred Fialkowski
By Rev. Edward Fialkowski
Robert Bauer
Robert Raymer
By Dorothy Bauer
Jack Vainisi
Josephine Vainisi
Salvatore Vainisi
Lucille Alfini
Anthony Alfini
By Mary Lou & Bob Alfini
Albert & Juliet Habib
James C. Bennett, Sr.
Cameron Fritz
By The Bennett Family
Tom Amberg
By Judith Amberg
Charles & Katherine Cantal
Mary Bertolini
By Jerry & Frances Bertolini & Family
Larry Ames
By Kathy Ames & Mike Ames
The Deceased Members of the
Bottalla & Ryan Families
By Joseph & Helene Bottalla
George L. Anderson
Kathryn Tracy
Laura Duffy
By Pat Anderson
Robert, Tim & Patrick Botterman
Jim Colloton
By Marian Botterman
Louis & Lee White
Jack & Margaret Bonomo
Anonymous
James and Helen Bourke
Lawrence Vonckx
By June Bourke
Rudy J. Ban
By Irene Ban
Larry Cahill
The Deceased Members of the
Murphy & Cahill Families
By Maureen Cahill
2
In
Memory
of
In
Memory
of
Hermogenes R. Diego
Azucena A. Oida
By Sonia Diego
Roland Caranci
By Marie Caranci
Bill Graf
Bill Crosson
The Deceased Members of the
Arends Family
Gregg Swiderski
By Betty Crosson
Sam DiGioia
By Rosa DiGioia
Perpetuo, Francisca, Apolonio,
Mercedes, Pedro & Nilda Dilay
Gonzalo Hernandez
Ligaya Alday
By Art & Nattie Dilay
Arthur J. O’Grady
Bert Daday
Jon Koller
Grace Oliver Daday
By The Daday Family
The Deceased Members of the
Dixon & Watt Families
The Deceased Members of the
Guk & Krzywy Families
By Art & Jackie Dixon
Bob Deitelhoff
Brad Stehley
By The Deitelhoff Family
Ray North
Mary Ann Paliliunas
By The Demeter Family
Thomas Dooley
The Deceased Members of the
Rehkamp & Dooley Families
By Loraine Dooley
Barbara DeZellar
Barbara Kerwin
John T. Kerwin
By Jim & Karen DeZellar
Eleanor & Edward Dubiel
Roman Bojan
Erwin Eckert
By Edward & Mary Dubiel
Ed & Mary Dianovsky
Ted & Adeline Ptasek
By Narcissa & Ron Dianovsky
Neal Farrell
Joe Farrell
By Susan Farrell
Anna & Orlando Mastrangeli
Theresa Belmonte
Sr. Eugene Belmonte
Enos Dickey
Dave Giammarusco
By Thomas & Louise Dickey
The Deceased Members of the
Ferraro Family
By Robert Ferraro
Dennis A. Gabel
By The Fino Family
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In
Memory
of
In
Memory
of
Tom & Mary Henegan
Jo Ryan
Michael Ryan
By The Henegan Family
Anthony & Mary Wiszowaty
Casey & Helen Florczak
Rev. Leonard Korosacki
By The Florczak Family
The Deceased Members of the
Stark Family
Roy & Mary Lou DeJohn
By Kathy Freiburger
Lawrence P. Johnson
By Barbara A. Johnson
Norma Kaminski
By Joseph Kaminski
Stella Furmanek
Joseph Furmanek, Sr.
Walter Furmanek
Louise Luebke
George Luebke
By The Furmanek Family
Stefan Izycki
Sophie Blankenship
Loren Blankenship
By Ala & Don Kendal
Nick Montesano
Alice Kennedy
Brendan Kennedy
By Kathy & Pat Kennedy
The Deceased Members of the
Maloney & McCauley Families
The Deceased Members of the
Gordon Family
By Frank & Kathy Gordon
William & Mable Leonard
Francis & Elizabeth Klein
By Mark J. Klein
The Deceased Members of the
McGrath & Grabarski Families
By Patricia Grabarski
Joseph Kopec
Henry Stawasz
John & Mary Cieslicki
Dan & Jean Czubernat
John & Stephanie Bakinowski
By Lottie Kopec
Edward G. Guska
Linda Marie Guska
By Marie L. Guska
Joseph & Margaret Halka
Helen Halka
Patricia Kasovic
Frederick Gorman
Bruce & Marian Dent
Bruce F. Dent
By Joseph Halka & Lorraine Gorman
Stanley Kopielski
John & Martha Filar
Julius & Elizabeth Kopielski
By Camille Kopielski
Richard Kowalski
By Genny Kowalski
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In
Memory
of
In
Memory
of
Mary Jane Nickol
By The Lundgren Family
John & Ilda Marini
Edward & Harriet Krupnik
John Marini
Dennise Grant
By Ed & Mary Anne Krupnik
Patrick Snyder
Ann Snyder
By Kathleen Mangiamele
John & Victoria Kus
Mary F. Chmielowski
By Mr. & Mrs. John Kus & Family
Penny Martini
Peter Wenzel
Patricia Wenzel
Michael Wenzel
By Carol Martini
Anna Fijolek Kusek
Rozalia Witek Kuta
By Celeste Kuta
The Deceased Members of the
Lamich & Wiltgen Families
By Ginny Lamich
Jim & Mary K. McCabe
The Deceased Members of the Roy McCabe
and Gene Sullivan Families
By The McCabe Family
The Deceased Members of the
Buccieri & Lawrence Families
By Larry & Beth Lawrence
Dr. John & Dorothy McMahon
By Dan McMahon
Bruce & Katy Graham
Thomas & Marjorie Mezza
By Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Mezza
Tricia Leane
Helen & William Fitzgerald
By Joseph & Mary Leane
The Deceased Members of the
Miller & Hermsen Families
Carolyn Fodrea
By George A. Miller
Leo & Adeline Lipinski
By Nancy Lipinski
The Deceased Members of the
Liput & Jamieson Families
By Jim & Pat Liput
Jerrold Molepske
By Rita Molepske & Family
Ann A. Losos
By Edward J. Losos Jr.
Tom Burns
John Morley
Dr. Pat Skarda
By Tom & Janette Morley
Jeanette Kubiak
LaVerne Maday
The Deceased Members of the
Kubiak & Maday Families
By Kathy Maday & Frank Kubiak
Pauline & William Moyer
By Michael Moyer
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In
Memory
of
In
Memory
of
Frank Fehring
By Anne Fehring Peterson
Dave & Marie O’Connell
Bernard & Charlotte Murray
By Jim & Pat Murray
Leonard & Joan Piotrowski
Walter & Bernice Borek
Sister Sandra Sosnowski
By Bill & Connie Piotrowski & Family
William Donato
Brenda Donato
Grace Hoffman
Dorothy Myers
By The Myers Family
John & Frances Jason
Robert Jason
Donald & Patricia Jason
Sigmund & Stephene Ptaszek
Ronald Kalish
By Mr.& Mrs. Robert Ptaszek
Eric Collins
By Tom & Meghan Newell
Mr. & Mrs. Arthur Ludwig
Mr. & Mrs. Walter Newquist
Joyce A. Schoenrade
By Daniel & Carol Newquist
Keenan Parents
Puetz Parents
By Russell Puetz
Barb & Jim Niesman
By Steve & Karen Niesman
Eugene Edward Ryan
By Monique Ryan
The Deceased Members of the
Bodor & Olivo Families
By Kay & Gene Olivo
Gordon Saas
By Marianne Saas
Cathy Sadowski Hynes
Ken Sadowski
By Maureen Sadowski
Nicholas Palmer
By Joan Palmer
Kathleen Pawula
By John Pawula
Jim Fiessinger
George & Mary Fiessinger
Emil & Gay Saelens
Janice Saelens
By Mike & Greta Saelens
Nicholas A. Pecora Sr.
By Miriam Pecora
The Deceased Members of the
Odrunia, Pena & Ugalino Families
Maria Bernardita Torres
Dr. Herbert Medina
By Edith Pena
Stan & Marge Tomasiewicz
Mr. & Mrs. Chester Saternus
By Christopher & Ann Marie Saternus
6
In
Memory
of
In
Memory
of
Bob Taraba
Danny, Amanda, Jessica
& Michael Taraba
By Joan Taraba
Joe & Anne Skiba
By Al & Barb Schladt
Art Anderson
By Dan, Kim, Emily & Charlie Schmidt
Donald Petterson
William Dawkins
John & Victoria Tarzon
By John & Ann Marie Tarczon
Paul & Elizabeth Sansone
Rudy & Irene Seifert
By The Seifert Family
Angeline DelGiudice
By Irene Serpico
Kelly Trecka
Maureen Lavin
By John & Kathleen Trecka
Robert Sidor
Tom Sidor
By Dolores Sidor
Kenneth Vaughan
By Gregory & Madeline Vaughan
John Joseph Milligan
Robert Glenn Simpson
By Pete & Jean Simpson
Peter & Dorothy Marti
By Sandra Westergaard
John B. Winters
By Marlene Winters
The Deceased Members of the
Barry, Mullen & Sloan Families
By Catherine Sloan
Bill & Bertha Martinkus
Mary Ellen Martinkus
Marisa Talbert
Louis Skulavik
Donald & Pauline Wren
By Frank & Betty Wren
William & Irene Wicher
By The Smith Family
Joe & Loretta Gaffey
Michael & Agnes O’Meara
Mick Gaffey
Christy Gaffey
Paul Masterson
Michael Smyth
By The Michael Smyth Family
James Stearns
The Deceased Members of the
Stearns & Fiedler Families
By Grace Stearns
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