Wayside - Our Lady of the Wayside Church
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Wayside - Our Lady of the Wayside Church
December 8, 2015 - November 20, 2016 Our Lady of the Wayside 434 W. Park Street Arlington Heights, IL 60005 Phone: 847-253-5353 Web Site: www.olwparish.org Pastoral Staff Deacon Thomas Corcoran & Irene Corcoran Ms. Mandy Dillon Pastoral Associate Rev. Edward R. Fialkowski Pastor Deacon Brendan Foley Ms. Kathleen Freiburger Director of Office Services Rev. Louis R. Golamari Associate Pastor Deacon Dr. Donald Grossnickle Mr. Jim Liput Parish Business Manager Deacon Michael Madison & Mary Catherine McBride Mr. Dan McMahon Director of Music Mr. Kevin O’Connell Youth Director Mrs. Kathy O’Neill Parish Nurse December 20, 2015 Fourth Sunday of Advent 4th Sunday of Advent And the angel said to her in reply, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God.” Sunday in Ordinary Time -Lk. 1:35 Date Sister Joan Shields Sister Adrienne Weseman Directors of Religious Education Mr. David Wood School Principal Rev. Daniel J. Brady Retired Priest & Resident Fourth Sunday of Advent 2 CHRISTMAS ANGELS NEEDED! OUR STEWARDSHIP OF TREASURE For December 13, 2015 This Year Budget Better/ (Worse) $32,228 $34,358 ($2,130) Sunday Children’s $146 Christmas $2,031 Retirement Fund For Religious $9,831 Thanksgiving $570 Year-to-Date Weekly & Holyday Collections $693,663 ($130,929) Electronic Giving which is included in the above Totals: Weekly E Giving $10,507 YTD E Giving $187,460 % of YTD E Giving/YTD Weekly Collections “When you hold a lunch or dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have repayment. Rather, when you hold a banquet invite the poor, the cripple, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.” Luke 14:12-14 As many of you know, for the last thirteen years the generous families and friends of Our Lady of the Wayside Parish have been supporting a wonderful cause. We have been helping St. Benedict's parish in Chicago feed 350 - 400 homeless and lonely folks on Christmas day. Again, this year your help is needed with coordinating this effort. $185,000 $824,592 December 20, 2015 27.0% www.givecentral.org We have 224 parishioners in the program. Why not sign up today. Thank You for your generosity. PARISH OFFICE HOLIDAY HOURS The Parish Office will be open from 9:00 a.m. 2:00 p.m. on Christmas Eve and closed on Christmas Day. On New Year’s Eve the office will be open from 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. and closed on New Year’s Day. Last year, the OLW community provided over two dozen freshly cooked and carved turkeys and enough monetary donations for us to purchase: 100 lbs. of ham and enough dinner rolls, butter, half & half, coffee, pumpkin pie, sugar, corn, green beans, cranberries, mashed potatoes, stuffing, paper goods, soda, milk, etc. to feed over 375 people! Our cars were loaded Christmas morning and a group of Waysider's drove down to St. Benedict's to deliver the food, help prepare the parish hall, visit with some very lonely people, and help spread the joy of Christmas! We pray that you are able to support this wonderful cause again this year! You can help by offering to cook a nice big juicy turkey, cook a ham or three, make mashed potatoes or stuffing for 50 (hams, potatoes and stuffing provided) or make a monetary donation. The turkeys can be dropped off at Pete and Jan LeTourneau's house on Christmas Eve or between 8:00 and 8:30 Christmas morning. The "shopping team" will use the donations to buy all of the other items. We will go shopping Wednesday, December 23, so we would appreciate donations be made by Tuesday, December 22. Donations can be dropped off at the LeTourneau's house, checks can be made payable to then OLW/St. Vincent DePaul Society for tax purposes. Another way you can help is by providing hat, scarf and glove sets for the homeless, you can wrap these if you like or just drop them off. These are handed out after dinner and often times it will be the only gift many people will receive for the year. If you are not in a position to help this year, please remember the folks at St. Benedict in your prayers. As mentioned earlier, there are some families who caravan down to St. Benedict's on Christmas morning. Some folks just take the trip to help deliver the food and head back home. Others like to stay awhile to help prepare the hall and food or just visit with some of the guests. The caravan leaves the LeTourneau house between 8:00 - 8:15 a.m. Christmas Day. The guests are served from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. They are usually looking for servers, so if you would like to serve the meal; plan to arrive around 10:30 to receive your table assignment. In addition, they can always use help with clean-up, this usually begins around 1:30. Please visit SignUpGenius http://www.signupgenius.com/ go/10c0f45afa82aa7ff2-stbenedict to donate/prepare food or help out on Christmas morning. If you would like to make a monetary donation or provide gifts, please contact us drectly. Christmas Blessings to all, Pete and Jan LeTourneau - Our Lady of the Wayside 3 Arlington Heights, Illinois CHRISTMAS REFLECTION …Father Ed Fialkowski, Pastor of Our Lady of the Wayside Dear Parishioners of Our Lady of the Wayside: Generally when people tell and retell their favorite stories, we often find that every time we tell them, there are a few details that we can’t leave out of the story. My mother was one who loved details in stories. Many times when she told a story or heard one, she would focus on the details. To her the details were more important than the point of the story. Whether it’s the name of the hotel where you stayed on a honeymoon or the hospital where your children were born, or what the course looked like on the day you got that hole in one. There is some detail or details about every important story of your life that may seem insignificant, but you simply can’t leave them out. The story of the nativity, the birth of Christ, is no different. A word of caution here is for all of us to recognize when our listening audience finishes our stories for us or fills in the details that we have omitted. Just maybe they have heard your story before! Probably many, many times! Be aware of this. We know the Nativity Story: Mary, nine months pregnant with Joseph her husband, traveling to Bethlehem because of the mandatory census. We know that when they arrived, there was no room for them in the inn. The innkeeper offers them a manger as alternative accommodations. This is an important story even without any of those details, because the heart of the story is: “God loved us so much that God became one of us, so that we all might love God and one another.” But that’s not the way the Gospel tells it. The Gospel tells us about a baby, to be born to a couple, who found themselves under extraordinary circumstances. The Gospel account tells us where the child was born. It wasn’t enough for the Gospels to just say “he was born” or even “he was born in Bethlehem.” The detailed Gospel story tells us that “he was born in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.” A manger isn’t much. Some Nativity Stories tell us it was a stable or maybe for our purposes a barn where farm animals were housed and fed. The crib was not a bed. It was probably a feeding troth for the barn animals. The troth was filled with hay as a mattress for the child. It was perhaps the most unexpected resting place for a newly born Messiah. For God’s first night as one of us. But as much as we remember the manger, we also remember why Jesus was born there. We remember that when Mary and Joseph got to the inn, they were told there was no room for them. We have to wonder why there was no room in the inn. Joseph and Mary were Jewish and they would only stay at an establishment owned by Jewish people. The inn keeper had to know that they were travelling to fulfill the requirements of the census of that time. Joseph and Mary were greatly inconvenienced by this journey especially with a baby due any day. Didn’t the innkeeper, someone who was probably Jewish himself, understand their plight, their circumstances? Did you ever wonder if maybe there was room at the inn and that the innkeeper had a couple of rooms left but he decided he didn’t want to rent them a room? Mary was obviously pregnant and he did not want to be bothered with assisting with the birth of the baby and whatever inconveniences might follow by letting them stay at the inn. OK let’s give the innkeeper the benefit of the doubt and say that there really weren’t any rooms left. He was being honest and upfront with them. Couldn't he and his wife and maybe his family find some place for a woman who was nine months pregnant and about to give birth, some place a little more comfortable than a manger or a stable or a barn? Even something temporary? Well we know that they could not or would not find alternative housing so Jesus wasn’t born in the inn but in a manager among farm animals and humble surroundings. We don’t know the name of the innkeeper nor the name of the inn or better said the manger Jesus was born in. The innkeeper, the inn and the manger are not named. Did you ever wonder if the innkeeper ever realized who they turned away? He probably did not. Now, if this was just a story about an innkeeper who missed a change to open the doors to Christ over 2,000 years ago, (continued on page 4) 4 (Christmas Reflection - Father Ed continued) it wouldn’t be memorable. The Nativity Story isn’t about what an unnamed innkeeper at an unnamed inn did 2,000 years ago. Its about what God did, and what God still does. And it’s about what we do next. Christ still comes into this world. Christmas still happens. It didn’t just happen once, it happens all the time. So often in the Gospels a person or place is left without a name. We are to provide the name. Maybe it is us! Sometimes God knocks at our doors, and we are asked if there is room in the inn. And sometimes we look out, and we don’t really like what we see, or we don’t like what it would mean to let Christ in, and we close the door and say: “There’s no place for you here”. But sometimes, even when we don’t really want to, even when we’re not sure we want to open that door up, we do anyway. And that matters. Because Christmas may be about the story that we read. It may be about Mary and Joseph and the baby and the manger, and no room in the inn. But that story teaches us about more than just an event that happened centuries ago. It teaches us about opening ourselves up to what God is trying to accomplish in us in this world. It’s about telling God that, even if we don’t know what it means yet, there is room for God in our lives, and we want to be part of what God is doing. There’s a good chance that if you are reading this article that some part of you wants to be part of that Nativity Story. Some part of you wants to be a part of love made real, of God being active in our world, of a world that can change. Some part of you wants to be a part of the Christmas story. Maybe not the one that’s written in the book with the shepherds and the manger and the wise men, but a part of the Christmas story, nonetheless. I believe that God is not only still active in this world, and God is still writing the Christmas story. God is still writing the story of what happened when Christ came into this world as the Prince of Peace, and what happened next. And you can be part of that story. The question is do you want to be the innkeeper who could not find room for Jesus or do you want to open your heart wide? “Make My Life a Bethlehem” (Courtney) Make my life a Bethlehem, a manger of my heart, Let me hear the angels sing and let the music start. May I fall in simple faith and wonder to my knees, In the manger of my heart let Christ be born in me. In my life there is a place that’s scattered with the straw of every disappointment, each regret and every flaw. In this dark and dismal place my beasts of burden lie weary from the heavy load they long to lay aside. Make my life a Bethlehem… Come and sweep this stable clean and swaddle it with light, And let the Child be born in me upon a starlit night. For though He’s born a thousand times in far off Bethlehem, until the Savior’s born in me I cannot worship Him. Make my life a Bethlehem… May I fall… “The Family Tree” (Matthew 1:1-17) Merry Christmas to all and have a blessed Christmas. Father Ed 5 ARCHDIOCESE OF CHICAGO Archbishop Quigley Center 835 North Rush Street * Chicago, IL 60611-2030 Phone: 312-534-8230 * Fax: 312-534-6379 Christmas 2015 Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, A Blessed Christmas to you all. My greeting comes at a time marked by sad and troubling news for our city, our nation and our world. The joyful news of Christmas competes in these days with stories of street violence in our city, of wars, conflicts and acts of terriorism throughout the world including in our own nation. As people of faith, we must read these “signs of the times.” As we do, so Christimas gives us a proper perspective: the sadness of violence and war does not have the last word. God has come to save us, for we cannot save ourselves. The savior born to us raises us up from darkness and brings us into his own wonderful light. One of the Christmas readings taken from Paul’s letter to Titus says this: When the kindness and generous love of God our savior appeared, not because of any righteous deeds we had done but because of his mercy, he saved us…Titus 3:4-5 We hear those words “because of his mercy,” especially as we celebrate the Jubilee of Mercy this year. The challenge for us is not just to believe that God is merciful, but also to believe that God is merciful to us and that God is blessing us with his mercy precisely at this very moment, and in the limited circumstances of our lives and relationships. When we accept that mercy, we will be transformed and become the merciful light of God in a dark and cold world. Then, our own works of mercy will, in turn, bring hope, healing, and renewal, just as God’s mercy has done for us. LITURGIES OF CHRISTMAS 2015 CHRISTMAS EVE Thursday, December 24th, 2015 Vigil of Christmas 2:00 p.m. Mass with children’s participation Presider: Father Ed Fialkowski 4:00 p.m. Teen Ministered Mass Presider: Father Louis Golamari 6:00 p.m. Vigil Mass Father Ed Fialkowski 9:30 p.m. Musical Prelude of Carols 10:00 p.m. Midnight Mass Presider: Father Dan Brady CHRISTMAS DAY, FRIDAY, DECEMBER 25, 2015 The Nativity of the Lord 7:30 a.m. Father Dan Brady 9:30 a.m. Father Ed Fialkowski 11:30 a..m. Father Louis Golamari THE HOLY FAMILY OF JESUS, MARY, AND JOSEPH Saturday, December 26, 2015 5:00 p.m. 7:00 a.m. Sunday, December 27, 2015 8:15 a.m. 9:45 a.m. 11:30 a.m. SOLEMNITY OF MARY MOTHER OF GOD Holy Day of Obligation Thursday, December 31, 2015 5:00 p.m. Friday, January 1, 2016 8:30 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. May God bless you and your families with his mercy and enable you to be the hands of his mercy in our world. THE EPIPHANY OF THE LORD Regular Mass Schedule Sincerely yours in Christ, Saturday, January 2, 2016 5:00 p.m. Most Reverend Blase J. Cupich Archbishop of Chicago 7:00 a.m. Sunday, January 3, 2016 8:15 a.m. 9:45 a.m. 11:30 a.m. 6 Please come join us to celebrate the OUR LADY OF THE WAYSIDE RELIGIOUS EDUCATION 15TH YEAR OF SIMBANG GABI at Our Lady of the Wayside Sunday, December 20, 2015 5:00 p.m. Celebrant Most Rev. George J. Rassas Concelebrants Father Ed Fialkowski Father Louis Golamari Father Dan Brady Father Vince Costello Reception to follow at The Father Mackin Center MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS The Christmas Eve Mass times will remain the same 2:00 p.m., 4:00 p.m., 6:00 p.m., and 10:00 p.m. This year the Christmas Day Masses will be at 7:30 a.m., 9:30 a.m., and 11:30 a.m. This will ease the traffic flow between Masses on this high traffic day. Since Christmas is on a Friday and followed by a weekend, we will have 4 days of Masses in a row. Even when this is not case, it is often difficult to find enough Eucharistic Ministers, Lectors, Altar Servers, and Ushers, to staff 8 Masses over the course of Christmas Eve and Christmas, and we are hoping that this schedule for Christmas Day will help with all of those things. FEAST OF THE HOLY FAMILY Join us at Mass the weekend of December 26th and 27th the Feast of the Holy Family - for a special blessing of all families. RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS Tuesday, December 22 There are no R.E.P. classes during Christmas vacation. CHRISTMAS EVE MASS 2:00 P.M. Christmas Eve Mass at 2:00 p.m. has the children participating in it. All children who have a part in the Mass are asked to be in their assigned seats no later than 1:30. Benches in Church will be saved for families who have a child participating in the Mass. Only a certain number of benches can be saved which may not accommodate all families. 7 You can reach Kevin at Youth Ministry at 847 847--253 253--5353 xt. 241 or email him at [email protected]. 8 9 KATHY O’NEILL, R.N. OUR LADY OF THE WAYSIDE GRIEF AND THE HOLIDAYS If you have recently lost a loved one, the holidays may be very painful for you. Here are some guidelines about dealing with your grief during a time when so many are joyful: Expect some pain. Don’t be afraid to cry. Worrying about crying is an extra emotional burden. Let your feelings flow. Think about your holiday traditions and routines. You might keep your favorites but begin new ones: Have your holiday dinner at a different time, place or serving style (i.e., buffet instead of sit down dinner). Worship at a different service. Buy gifts on-line or from catalogs. Ask a friend to do your shopping. Or skip gift-giving for his year. It’s all okay. Eliminate baking cookies, sending cards or decorating if it seems more than you can handle right now. Focus on winter activities rather than holidays. HOW TO HELP A GRIEVING FRIEND Many newly bereaved say the holidays from Thanksgiving through New Year’s Day are the hardest for them. That is when the void caused by loss of the loved one is most acutely felt. If you are a friend to someone who is grieving during the holidays, you can help in small but meaningful ways: Be there. Your loving presence means more than you can imagine. You need do nothing special. Listen. Let your friend set the pace and direction of your conversation. Avoid offering advice. Avoid platitudes. Simply listen. Be comfortable with the silences. Encourage your friend to express his feelings sorrow, anger, disbelief, whatever needs airing. Respect those feelings, and don’t try to talk him out of them or ask him not to cry. Offer your help with the extra work the holidays bring - shopping, baking, wrapping gifts. Do this work together if possible. Small blocks of time often work best. Honor your friend’s loved one by speaking her name. Share rich memories of her. Perhaps you will want to express your own sorrow at her absence and your wish that she were with you both during these holidays. Accept invitations to spend time with people you enjoy, and prepare them for the possibility of your leaving early. Decline invitations that will make you feel sadder. Be patient with your friend. Grief is a journey that is different for everyone - and it knows no timetable. Don’t act as if the deceased never lived. Talk about your loved one. Encourage others to share stories that will enhance your memories. Recommended books and websites: • Don’t Take My Grief Away From Me by Doug Manning Do something for others. Donate your time, talents or resources for someone in need. • A Grief Observed by C.S. Lewis and Madeleine L’Engle Get enough rest. Grief is exhausting. Rest heals. • A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss While Others Are Celebrating By Harold Ivan Smith Remember that next year you can change your mind about this year’s choices. Prayer: Dear God, there are many who are missing from my holiday gatherings. Even as I grieve their absence, help me take comfort in my memories of them. Amen. • Good Grief by Granger Westberg • Advocatehealthcare.com • griefnet.org • grief-recovery.com • griefshare.org/holidays 10 11 MINISTERS OF THE LITURGY 5:00 pm Saturday, December 26, 2015 Presider: Father Dan Brady Lector: Peter LeTourneau, Jan LeTourneau Euch. Min.: Bob Guretz, Coord., Robert Crabbe, Rosalie Crabbe, Letitia Gunn, Mike Hollis, Jeanne Kabler, John Kabler, Pete LeTourneau, Kathy Maday, Joe Panarale, Colleen Wozniak Altar Serv.: Andrew Bremner, Elizabeth Czulno, Alex Konopka, Mary Naughton Music Min.: Choir/Instrumentalist 7:00 am Sunday, December 27, 2015 Presider: Father John Bosco Ssekkomo Deacon Michael Madison - Preaching Lector: Dave Heiss, Arnie Lemke Euch. Min.: Owen West, Coord., Marlene Bowen, Julie Cleary, Teresita Epino, Jane Holland, Mary Jo Lee, Terry Smith Altar Serv.: Jordan Colgan, Jack Lynch, Owen Mongoven, Marisa Pacocha Music Min.: Cantor 8:15 am Sunday, December 27, 2015 Presider: Father Ed Fialkowski Deacon Michael Madison - Preaching Lector: Joyce Voss, Louise Dickey Euch. Min.: Tom Mezza, Coord., Marie Guska, Don Hansen, Nancy Odon, Pete Odon, Edith Pena, Genny Powers, Marcella Stein, Ron Stein Altar Serv.: Sarah Conneely, Jacob Gustafson, Hanna Haber, Moira Newell Music Min.: Cantor 9:45 am Sunday, December 27, 2015 Presider: Father Dan Brady Deacon Thomas Corcoran - Preaching Lector: Dave Woods, Jim Stapleton Euch. Min.: Sally Shewmon, Coord., Irene Corcoran, Chris Esposito, Linda Kesteloot, Ted Kesteloot, Darla Krzeczowski, Mary McBride, Rich Pfisterer, Annette Quick, Tony Russo, Krys Tischer Altar Serv.: Nicholas Galvan, Jack Lewis, Mia Parise, Matt Quick Music Min.: Ensemble/Instrumentalists 11:30 am Sunday, December 27, 2015 Presider: Father Ed Fialkowski Deacon Thomas Corcoran - Preaching Lector: Martha Cavers, Jeff Scardami Euch. Min.: Miriam Pecora, Coord., Gene Beiswenger, Winnie Bowles, Krystyna Chadzichristos, Mary Dubiel, Kathy Freiburger, Pat Keating, Rita Kokotis, Frank Maniscalco, Vivian Maniscalco, Mary Jane Niman Altar Serv.: Abigail Longstreet, Zeph Mussman, Dave Orecchio, Matthew Ritterbusch Music Min.: Cantor/Instrumentalist PRAY FOR THE DECEASED For the Deceased Members of Our Lady of the Wayside Our Lady of the Wayside Upcoming Events Monday, December 21, 2015 - Sunday, December 27, 2015 Monday, December 21, 2015 7:00-7:45 p.m. Monday Night Prayer Group in PC201 Seton Room Tuesday, December 22, 2015 10:00 a.m.Girl Scouts in Rectory Meeting 12:00 p.m. Room 7:30-9:00 p.m. Choir Regular Rehearsal in Rectory Meeting Room 7:30-9:00 p.m. R.C.I.A. in Gathering Place Wednesday, December 23, 2015 7:00 p.m.PADS in Rectory Rooms 12:00 a.m. Basement Thursday, December 24, 2015 12:01-7:00 a.m. PADS in Rectory Rooms Basement Friday, December 25, 2015 8:30-10:00 p.m. AA Regular Meeting in Rectory Meeting Rooms (basement) Saturday, December 26, 2015 No Events or Meetings Sunday, December 27, 2015 8:00-11:30 a.m. Sunday Coffee in Gathering Place (after the 7:00, 8:15 & 9:45 a.m. Masses) During the 9:45 Mass Children’s Liturgy of the Word in Rectory Rooms (basement) 6:00-7:30 p.m. Boy Scout Troop 161 in Rectory Rooms Basement 12 CYCLES OF FAITH December 25, 2015 Nativity of the Lord" And we saw his glory." Never before or since, in the entire course of human history, have men and women been able to gaze upon the face of God. But for a brief moment in time, God "became flesh and made his dwelling among us." This is the remarkable event we celebrate on Christmas. At that first Christmas some two thousand years ago, the glory of God was revealed through the face of a child. As a tiny, helpless creature, completely dependent upon his mother to sustain him, this humble little baby came into the world. Yet this infant was "the only Son, God, who is at the Father's side." Why is it that the eternal majesty of the triune God should choose to appear in such a simple way? How does this humility reveal what St. Paul calls today, "the refulgence of [God's] glory, the very imprint of his being on Christmas"? Today we celebrate a holy day that is unlike any other. Indeed we celebrate a BELIEF that is unlike any other when we proclaim, as Christians, that God became man and walked in our midst. No other major world religion makes such an astonishing claim. And with this comes our unique understanding of the humble nature of God. We believe in a God whose glory is not the glory of the world. His majesty is not like that of earthly kings and rulers. Rather, we believe in a Heavenly Father who loves his little children enough to live among them. This Father takes joy in the joy of his children. Jesus once remarked that just as we desire to give good gifts to our children, "how much more will your heavenly Father give good things to those who ask him" (Mt 7:11). This Christmas, may we remember that the greatest gift is Christ himself. SACRED LITURGY Monday, December 21, 2015 7:00 am Communion Service 8:30 am Michael Morrissey Tuesday, December 22, 2015 7:00 am Communion Service 8:30 am For the Deceased Members of OLW Wednesday, December 23, 2015 7:00 am Communion Service 8:30 am Joseph Grabowski Thursday, December 24, 2015 - Christmas Eve 2:00 p.m. Mass with children’s participation 4:00 p.m. Teen Ministered Mass 6:00 p.m. Vigil Mass 10:00 p.m. Midnight Mass Friday, December 25, 2015 - Christmas Day 7:30 a.m. Deceased Members of OLW 9:30 a.m. Deceased Members of OLW 11:30 a.m. Deceased Members of OLW Saturday, December 26, 2015 8:30 am Communion Service 5:00 pm Mary Jane Nickol, Eugene Duffy, Tom Dooley Sunday, December 27, 2015 7:00 am Bob Taraba, Norma Kaminski, Debra Hoey and For the People of OLW 8:15 am Edwin Ozimek, Brendan Kennedy, Berenice Guarisio, Orlando Mastrangeli, John Stubing, Barbara Horrigan 9:45 am Josephine Stubing, Linda Poutot, Bob & Barbara Walters, Joseph Grabowski 11:30 am Dr. Fernando Caburnay, Jim Doherty, Edmund Klimek, Richard Estaver, Gordon Saas, Nick Pecora Readings for the Week of December 20, 2015 Sunday: Mi 5:1-4a/Ps 80:2-3, 15-16, 18-19/Heb 10:5-10/ Lk 1:39-45 Monday: Sg 2:8-14 or Zep 3:14-18a/Ps 33:2-3, 11-12, 20 -21/Lk 1:39-45 Tuesday: 1 Sm 1:24-28/1 Sm 2:1, 4-8/Lk 1:46-56 Wednesday: Mal 3:1-4, 23-24/Ps 25:4-5, 8-10, 14/Lk 1:5766 Thursday: Morning: 2 Sm 7:1-5, 8b-12, 14a, 16/Ps 89:25, 27, 29/Lk 1:67-79 Friday: Vigil: Is 62:1-5/Ps 89:4-5, 16-17, 27, 29/Acts 13:16-17, 22-25/Mt 1:1-25 or 1:18-25 Night: Is 9:1-6/Ps 96:1-3, 11-13/Ti 2:11-14/Lk 2:1-14 Dawn: Is 62:11-12/Ps 97:1, 6, 11-12/Ti 3:4-7/ Lk 2:15-20 Day: Is 52:7-10/Ps 98:1-6/Heb 1:1-6/Jn 1:1-18 or 1:1-5, 9-14 Saturday: Acts 6:8-10; 7:54-59/Ps 31:3-4, 6, 8, 16-17/Mt 10:17-22 Next Sunday: 1 Sm 1:20-22, 24-28 or Sir 3:2-6, 12-14/Ps 84:2 -3, 5-6, 9-10/1 Jn 3:1-2, 21-24 or Col 3:12-21 or 3:12-17/Lk 2:41-52 PRAY FOR THE SICK Michael Harth, Joe Walker, Sr., Bev Folkedahl, Kristina Fitzgerald, John O’Neill, Maureen Sexson, Pam Barton, Joshua Leese, Chad Demas, Catherine Hansen, Marie Caranci, Geraldine Shufeldt, Peter Phillips, Jean Ferrero, Debbie (Flack) Fry, Carol Herman, Ann Kelley, Lynn Steele, Margaret Soboleski, Marie DeSanto, Steve Demas, Chuck Petrovski, Judy Madda 13 14 15 16 S.H.A.R.E. JOB & NETWORKING MINISTRY S.H.A.R.E. offers job support services and is the result of the combined efforts of Our Lady of the Wayside, St. James, and St. Edna Parishes in Arlington Heights, and St. Raymond Parish in Mt. Prospect. Meetings are held at St. Edna on the First and Third Wednesdays of each month at 2525 N. Arlington Heights Road, Arlington Heights, IL 60004. Speakers cover a topic for 1 hour and the remaining time is devoted to networking. For questions contact Tom Mannard at [email protected]. PARISH LIFE COMMISSION PARTICIPATE IN OUR ONGOING EVENTS Enjoy the parish community by meeting other parishioners at events such as Women’s Golf, Men’s Golf, Women’s Bowling, Men’s Basketball, Women’s Bridge, Widows of Wayside (W.O.W.), and Christian Family Movement (CFM), the Senior Group and FilAmerican Group. Contact [email protected] with questions. WORSHIP AND SPIRITUAL LIFE CHILDREN’S LITURGY OF THE WORD Sunday Readings and Homily adapted for ages 3 to 10 on most Sundays at the 9:45 Mass before the Liturgy of the Word. The children are invited to participate. The children will return for the remainder of the Mass. No registration is required! BIBLE STUDY Focus on the readings for the coming Sunday and their context in scripture. No registration or fee. Come when your schedule permits. Friday mornings in the Gathering Place 9:30 - 11:15 a.m. ROSARY PRAYER GROUP Meets in the Seton room (#201) every Monday at 7:00 p.m. Contact - Chris CARE AND OUTREACH Violence is never justified; you are are not alone. Illinois Domestic Violence 24-Hour Hotline - 877-863-6338 SHAWL MINISTRY This prayerful ministry offers knitted or crocheted shawls to those who are in need of comfort physically, emotionally and spiritually. We meet every Thursday at 1:00 p.m. in the Parish Center - Cabrini Room. Questions contact Kit, Winnie, Patsy. ST. MARK’S - NON PERISHABLE FOOD DRIVE EVERY SUNDAY Drop off bin located in Gathering Place hallway across from the drinking fountains (8-12 every Sunday) in addition to the Garage drop off (2nd Sunday of each month). To Volunteer - The Toomeys--collecting-The Clearys--delivery. THE ELIZABETH MINISTRY The Elizabeth Ministry offers families prayer and support during the joys, challenges and sorrows of the childbearing years. To contact a minister, please complete a card from the banner in the back of the church, or call the parish office or e-mail [email protected]. or [email protected] RESPECT LIFE The Respect Life Ministry works to make life issues visible and viable at the parish level. To get more involved in Respect Life at OLW, please email [email protected]. FUNERAL LUNCHEON MINISTRY This Ministry offers families in their time of sorrow a continental breakfast in the Gathering Place or sit down luncheon in the Rectory Meeting Room. For further information contact the parish office. SPECIAL NEEDS MINISTRY Special Needs Ministry was established to identify and meet the needs of our pacrishioners with special needs. Contact the parish office or email - [email protected] or [email protected]. ST. VINCENT DEPAUL SOCIETY An emergency source for short term financial help. For information or assistance, contact the DePaul voice mailbox at the parish 847-2535353 x398. MINISTRY OF CARE OLW has trained Ministers of Care who are available to visit and bring communion to those parishioners who are homebound. If you are interested in receiving communion or being part of this ministry contact Kathy O’Neill, 847-253-5353, ext. 238. LITTLE SAINTS PRAY & PLAY Little Saints Pray & Play for children and their caregivers, meets twice monthly. Email [email protected] for more information. OUR LADY of the WAYSIDE 434 WEST PARK STREET • ARLINGTON HEIGHTS, ILLINOIS 60005 RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) There is a process available for those adults interested in learning more about the Catholic faith in order to receive the Sacraments of Baptism, Eucharist and/or Confirmation. Call the Parish Office at 253-5353. Check out OLW Website www.olwparish.org Parish Information Parish Office and Rectory (847) 253-5353 Parish FAX: (847) 253-7175 School FAX: (847) 253-0543 Parish School Office (847) 255-0050 Parish Religious Education Office (847) 398-5011 Web Site: www.olwparish.org Sacrament of Reconciliation Saturday 11:00 am to 12 Noon or request another time by contacting one of the priests. Sacrament of Marriage Contact the parish office at least six months ahead of a preferred date for necessary preparation. Sacrament of Baptism Celebrated on the First and Third Sunday of each month at 1:00 pm in the Church. A Baptismal preparation session is necessary before Baptism. Contact the Parish Office as soon as possible for details. Sacrament of Anointing the Sick Homebound or ill who wish to receive this Sacrament and the Eucharist, please contact the Parish Office. Weekend Eucharistic Liturgies Saturday: 5:00 pm Sunday: 7:00, 8:15, 9:45 and 11:30 am Weekday Eucharistic Liturgies 8:30 am Monday through Friday Weekday Communion Services 7:00 am Monday through Friday 8:30 am Saturday Mr. Larry Lawrence Chairperson Parish Pastoral Council Mr. Tom Aichele Chairperson Parish Management Council Judith Amberg Worship & Spiritual Life When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice and said, "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb." - Lk 1:41-42 Excerpts from the Lectionary for Mass ©2001, 1998, 1970 CCD. Our Lady of the Wayside In Honor Of… Christmas 2015 His Eminence Blase J. Cupich Archbishop of Chicago Remember In Beauty Your Loved Ones Francis Cardinal George Archbishop Emeritus Rev. Edward R. Fialkowski Pastor Rev. Louis R. Golamari Associate Pastor Rev. Daniel J. Brady Retired Priest & Resident Diana Gust By Mary Lou & Bob Alfini The Holy Trinity Anonymous Brian Patrick Nozicka Anonymous Angelina Belmonte Sister Adrienne Weseman Sister Joan Shields By Thomas & Louise Dickey Genevieve Izycki By Ala & Don Kendal Lynn By George A. Miller Roberta O’Neill Robert O’Keefe Johnny Reisel By The O’Neill Family Leona Skulavik By Frank & Betty Wren 1 In Memory of In Memory of Bill Banach William & Lillian Banach Joseph & Helen Ziebka Ann Hollowed Germaine Zaker By Muriel Banach Rev. Harold T. O’ Hara Founder of Our Lady of the Wayside Rev. John J. Mackin Pastor Emeritus Rev. Richard J. Ehrens Pastor Emeritus Dan Barney By Maureen Kennedy Barney Robert & Mildred Fialkowski By Rev. Edward Fialkowski Robert Bauer Robert Raymer By Dorothy Bauer Jack Vainisi Josephine Vainisi Salvatore Vainisi Lucille Alfini Anthony Alfini By Mary Lou & Bob Alfini Albert & Juliet Habib James C. Bennett, Sr. Cameron Fritz By The Bennett Family Tom Amberg By Judith Amberg Charles & Katherine Cantal Mary Bertolini By Jerry & Frances Bertolini & Family Larry Ames By Kathy Ames & Mike Ames The Deceased Members of the Bottalla & Ryan Families By Joseph & Helene Bottalla George L. Anderson Kathryn Tracy Laura Duffy By Pat Anderson Robert, Tim & Patrick Botterman Jim Colloton By Marian Botterman Louis & Lee White Jack & Margaret Bonomo Anonymous James and Helen Bourke Lawrence Vonckx By June Bourke Rudy J. Ban By Irene Ban Larry Cahill The Deceased Members of the Murphy & Cahill Families By Maureen Cahill 2 In Memory of In Memory of Hermogenes R. Diego Azucena A. Oida By Sonia Diego Roland Caranci By Marie Caranci Bill Graf Bill Crosson The Deceased Members of the Arends Family Gregg Swiderski By Betty Crosson Sam DiGioia By Rosa DiGioia Perpetuo, Francisca, Apolonio, Mercedes, Pedro & Nilda Dilay Gonzalo Hernandez Ligaya Alday By Art & Nattie Dilay Arthur J. O’Grady Bert Daday Jon Koller Grace Oliver Daday By The Daday Family The Deceased Members of the Dixon & Watt Families The Deceased Members of the Guk & Krzywy Families By Art & Jackie Dixon Bob Deitelhoff Brad Stehley By The Deitelhoff Family Ray North Mary Ann Paliliunas By The Demeter Family Thomas Dooley The Deceased Members of the Rehkamp & Dooley Families By Loraine Dooley Barbara DeZellar Barbara Kerwin John T. Kerwin By Jim & Karen DeZellar Eleanor & Edward Dubiel Roman Bojan Erwin Eckert By Edward & Mary Dubiel Ed & Mary Dianovsky Ted & Adeline Ptasek By Narcissa & Ron Dianovsky Neal Farrell Joe Farrell By Susan Farrell Anna & Orlando Mastrangeli Theresa Belmonte Sr. Eugene Belmonte Enos Dickey Dave Giammarusco By Thomas & Louise Dickey The Deceased Members of the Ferraro Family By Robert Ferraro Dennis A. Gabel By The Fino Family 3 In Memory of In Memory of Tom & Mary Henegan Jo Ryan Michael Ryan By The Henegan Family Anthony & Mary Wiszowaty Casey & Helen Florczak Rev. Leonard Korosacki By The Florczak Family The Deceased Members of the Stark Family Roy & Mary Lou DeJohn By Kathy Freiburger Lawrence P. Johnson By Barbara A. Johnson Norma Kaminski By Joseph Kaminski Stella Furmanek Joseph Furmanek, Sr. Walter Furmanek Louise Luebke George Luebke By The Furmanek Family Stefan Izycki Sophie Blankenship Loren Blankenship By Ala & Don Kendal Nick Montesano Alice Kennedy Brendan Kennedy By Kathy & Pat Kennedy The Deceased Members of the Maloney & McCauley Families The Deceased Members of the Gordon Family By Frank & Kathy Gordon William & Mable Leonard Francis & Elizabeth Klein By Mark J. Klein The Deceased Members of the McGrath & Grabarski Families By Patricia Grabarski Joseph Kopec Henry Stawasz John & Mary Cieslicki Dan & Jean Czubernat John & Stephanie Bakinowski By Lottie Kopec Edward G. Guska Linda Marie Guska By Marie L. Guska Joseph & Margaret Halka Helen Halka Patricia Kasovic Frederick Gorman Bruce & Marian Dent Bruce F. Dent By Joseph Halka & Lorraine Gorman Stanley Kopielski John & Martha Filar Julius & Elizabeth Kopielski By Camille Kopielski Richard Kowalski By Genny Kowalski 4 In Memory of In Memory of Mary Jane Nickol By The Lundgren Family John & Ilda Marini Edward & Harriet Krupnik John Marini Dennise Grant By Ed & Mary Anne Krupnik Patrick Snyder Ann Snyder By Kathleen Mangiamele John & Victoria Kus Mary F. Chmielowski By Mr. & Mrs. John Kus & Family Penny Martini Peter Wenzel Patricia Wenzel Michael Wenzel By Carol Martini Anna Fijolek Kusek Rozalia Witek Kuta By Celeste Kuta The Deceased Members of the Lamich & Wiltgen Families By Ginny Lamich Jim & Mary K. McCabe The Deceased Members of the Roy McCabe and Gene Sullivan Families By The McCabe Family The Deceased Members of the Buccieri & Lawrence Families By Larry & Beth Lawrence Dr. John & Dorothy McMahon By Dan McMahon Bruce & Katy Graham Thomas & Marjorie Mezza By Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Mezza Tricia Leane Helen & William Fitzgerald By Joseph & Mary Leane The Deceased Members of the Miller & Hermsen Families Carolyn Fodrea By George A. Miller Leo & Adeline Lipinski By Nancy Lipinski The Deceased Members of the Liput & Jamieson Families By Jim & Pat Liput Jerrold Molepske By Rita Molepske & Family Ann A. Losos By Edward J. Losos Jr. Tom Burns John Morley Dr. Pat Skarda By Tom & Janette Morley Jeanette Kubiak LaVerne Maday The Deceased Members of the Kubiak & Maday Families By Kathy Maday & Frank Kubiak Pauline & William Moyer By Michael Moyer 5 In Memory of In Memory of Frank Fehring By Anne Fehring Peterson Dave & Marie O’Connell Bernard & Charlotte Murray By Jim & Pat Murray Leonard & Joan Piotrowski Walter & Bernice Borek Sister Sandra Sosnowski By Bill & Connie Piotrowski & Family William Donato Brenda Donato Grace Hoffman Dorothy Myers By The Myers Family John & Frances Jason Robert Jason Donald & Patricia Jason Sigmund & Stephene Ptaszek Ronald Kalish By Mr.& Mrs. Robert Ptaszek Eric Collins By Tom & Meghan Newell Mr. & Mrs. Arthur Ludwig Mr. & Mrs. Walter Newquist Joyce A. Schoenrade By Daniel & Carol Newquist Keenan Parents Puetz Parents By Russell Puetz Barb & Jim Niesman By Steve & Karen Niesman Eugene Edward Ryan By Monique Ryan The Deceased Members of the Bodor & Olivo Families By Kay & Gene Olivo Gordon Saas By Marianne Saas Cathy Sadowski Hynes Ken Sadowski By Maureen Sadowski Nicholas Palmer By Joan Palmer Kathleen Pawula By John Pawula Jim Fiessinger George & Mary Fiessinger Emil & Gay Saelens Janice Saelens By Mike & Greta Saelens Nicholas A. Pecora Sr. By Miriam Pecora The Deceased Members of the Odrunia, Pena & Ugalino Families Maria Bernardita Torres Dr. Herbert Medina By Edith Pena Stan & Marge Tomasiewicz Mr. & Mrs. Chester Saternus By Christopher & Ann Marie Saternus 6 In Memory of In Memory of Bob Taraba Danny, Amanda, Jessica & Michael Taraba By Joan Taraba Joe & Anne Skiba By Al & Barb Schladt Art Anderson By Dan, Kim, Emily & Charlie Schmidt Donald Petterson William Dawkins John & Victoria Tarzon By John & Ann Marie Tarczon Paul & Elizabeth Sansone Rudy & Irene Seifert By The Seifert Family Angeline DelGiudice By Irene Serpico Kelly Trecka Maureen Lavin By John & Kathleen Trecka Robert Sidor Tom Sidor By Dolores Sidor Kenneth Vaughan By Gregory & Madeline Vaughan John Joseph Milligan Robert Glenn Simpson By Pete & Jean Simpson Peter & Dorothy Marti By Sandra Westergaard John B. Winters By Marlene Winters The Deceased Members of the Barry, Mullen & Sloan Families By Catherine Sloan Bill & Bertha Martinkus Mary Ellen Martinkus Marisa Talbert Louis Skulavik Donald & Pauline Wren By Frank & Betty Wren William & Irene Wicher By The Smith Family Joe & Loretta Gaffey Michael & Agnes O’Meara Mick Gaffey Christy Gaffey Paul Masterson Michael Smyth By The Michael Smyth Family James Stearns The Deceased Members of the Stearns & Fiedler Families By Grace Stearns 7