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Page 1 The Monthly Publication of Congregation Beth El of Bucks County November/December 2015 Cheshvan / Kislev 5776 By now most of us have put away our sukkahs, started raking leaves and the chagim seem like a memory. In many respects they are. But I hope we haven’t lost their meaning or forgotten why we come to shul each fall. As we begin November, the transition from Cheshvan to Kislev in the Hebrew calendar, we have a rare occurrence; there is not one Jewish Holiday celebration in the month. Having just completed 6 weeks of nonstop observances, we come to November and get a chance to catch our breath. While the Jewish calendar takes a break before Hanukkah, our national calendar has two of the most significant days of the year in November, Election Day and Thanksgiving. (Three if you count my birthday) SCHEDULE OF SERVICES Morning Minyan Sunday ......................................... 8:00am Monday - Friday .......................... 7:00am Evening Minyan Monday - Thursday .................... 7:30pm Shabbat Services Friday ...........................................6:00pm Saturday .................................... 9:30am SYNAGOGUE OFFICE HOURS Whether you are Republican, Democrat, Independent or somewhere else on the political spectrum is irrelevant. The reason that Election Day is significant is that Monday - Thursday ..... 8:30am - 4:30pm it is an annual reminder of what we are: a democracy that offers its citizens the Friday .......................... 8:30am - 2:00pm right to freely elect their leaders. In principal it sounds almost trivial, and if you Office is closed from 12:00pm-1:00pm go by voting records, it is. But as the oldest democracy in the world, we should Monday through Thursday not take this obligation lightly. Cara and I have moved three times and each BUBBES’ JUDAICA time one of the first things we did was register to vote. As my father would say, if you don’t vote, you can’t complain about the elected officials. SHOP HOURS The second major day in November happens on the fourth Thursday of the month. Thanksgiving is my favorite secular holiday of the year. First it is based on food, can’t argue with that. Our family takes this seriously. We have certain traditions we don’t deviate from; turkey, Cara’s candied yams with marshmallows on top, green bean casserole with crunchy onions and plenty of dessert. We usually try one or two new side dishes, but the staples are a must. But more important is that I know we will be together. The only time we have not all been together for Thanksgiving is the year Adina spent in Israel before college. Wherever our daughters have been, we always bring them home. So maybe it’s not just about a 5,000 calorie meal, but being able to sit around the table and be a family is what’s really important about Thanksgiving. We have much to be thankful for and I hope you and yours find this Thanksgiving a day to rejoice and enjoy with family and friends and remember what’s really important in our life. And don’t forget to vote. L’Shalom, Leon Weissman Sundays .......................... 9:00 am - noon Wednesdays .................10:00 am - noon Fridays ...........................10:00 am - noon To schedule an appointment, please contact Michelle Flash at [email protected] UPCOMING EVENT INFORMATION Check out Our Event Calendar http://www.bethelyardley.org/ info/calendar.html Page 2 From the Rabbi I would like to share two urban legends with you. An urban legend is a story or an event that has been passed around by many people for some time. There is no real way to determine whether or not the legend is actually true, and for all intents and purposes it does not really matter. What does matter is the message behind the story, or the lesson which the carefully crafted story or actual event aims to teach. Whatever the truth may be, urban legends continue to grow in number and their importance continues to be relevant even today. The first story is one that could have taken place anywhere or at any time. Here is the version that I was told some time ago. A group of second-year medical students enter a lecture hall for what promises to be a most difficult final examination on anatomy. They suffer through the three-hour exam only to come to the final question which has a note above it that tells them that if they do not answer that question correctly they will fail the entire examination. You are probably thinking that it was some detailed question about the heart or the like. However, this question was not based on anything that they had learned in class or in any of their textbooks. The question read, “What is the name of the custodian who cleans the anatomy lab after your class?” All of the students thought to themselves that they had seen this man a thousand times if they had seen him once. Yet none of them knew his name. The professor did not fail the students, but a valuable lesson had been learned. The second story happened on a country road, in the middle of a dark rain-soaked Alabama night during the 1960’s. An African-American woman was stuck on the side of the road with great car troubles, and she feared for her safety during those turbulent times while she sat in the car praying that someone would come along to help her. Eventually, after waiting for what seemed like an eternity, a young Caucasian man stopped to help her. He drove her to a nearby gas station and then waited with her until her car was fixed. Just prior to leaving the woman wrote down the man’s name and address and promised to repay this kind gesture in some way. A few months later the man was sitting in his house with his family when he heard a knock at the door. When he opened the door there was a delivery-man with a large box that contained a television. The man was told that the television was paid for in total and that it was a gift. The note in side read, “Thank you for helping me when no one else would and when I was in fear for my life. Fondly, Mrs. Nat King Cole.” November is traditionally considered to be the month of thanksgiving because of the holiday. I would submit that being thankful and expressing that that sentiment should not be confined to just one month. Thankfulness must come throughout the year and not just during this November holiday season when it is celebrated. In Judaism we have built in thankful nature in our daily prayers. In addition, the holiday of Thanksgiving always falls somewhere near the holiday of Hanukkah which is also exudes an air of being thankful. Yet despite these inherent moments of generic thankfulness; where we need to improve is in our relationship with our fellow human beings. There are so many people who exist in our worlds who deserve our thanks for all of the things that they do for us. For some it may be the custodian who cleans up after we make a mess. For others it may be the random stranger who is willing to help us in our greatest time of need. For all of us we have family and friends who deserve our gratitude for all that they have done for us and all that they will do for us. I am reminded of a series of Citibank commercials where someone does something frightfully wrong like asking someone mistakenly when their baby is due. To escape the inevitable trouble they simply respond thank you and everything is all better. I do not suggest that a simple thank you can solve all problems and make up for all wrongdoings. However I do believe firmly that a thank you can go a long way. I think that if we all took a little more time to stop and thank those around us who help and impact our lives that these people would appreciate it greatly and be there for us whenever we needed. Since I also believe that a good rabbi should practice what he or she preaches, I would like to end this article by offering some thanks of my own. I would like to thank the entire Beth El community for what was an amazing holiday season. I would also like to thank the people who I work with on a daily basis who make my life so much easier. Karen, Judi, Marian, Norma, John and our entire staff do a wonderful job on a daily basis of keeping this place in tip-top shape. Thank you for all that you do for me and the entire Beth El community. Have a Wonderful November Page 3 The Beth El Family Welcomes Our New Members Wendy and Jonathan Algazi, Jordyn and Lexi Erica Apfelbaum, Dorian and Madison Dalit and Michael Berlin, Gabriel and Raphael I. Lee Dickstein Merrie and David Eisenstadt Rocio and Warren Flax, Julia and Josh Karen Garfing Jenifer and David Goldstein and Benjamin Lisa and Kevin Haimovitz, Ethan and Brynn Melissa and Conrad Hough and Riley Marjorie and Bernard Katz Mindy and Anthony Kehrberger, Lily and Timmy Abbey-Shayna and Gregory Kramer, Jacob and Brayden Felissa and David Lane, Kaitlyn, Gilian, Sophia and Jacob Karen and Levi Minsky, Alex, Josh and Aiden Melissa and Andrew Mitnick, Remi, Allie and Macie Evelyn and Marc Ostro Rebecca and Jonathan Pearlson and Judah Rachel and Adam Reiss and Addison Michelle and Bob Smilk Capital Campaign Update To date we have raised $1.3 million! We thank all those who have so generously contributed to this campaign. Our beautiful stained glass window panels are selling briskly. There are still some panels available in the price range of $10,000 to $72,000. Anyone interested in dedicating a panel should contact Randall Flager, [email protected], or Philip Freidenreich, [email protected], as soon as possible. Page 4 Get to Know Our Beth El Community Phil Freidenreich I grew up in Highland Park, NJ in a Conservative household, attended an Orthodox yeshiva through sixth grade, and had private tutoring for my Bar Mitzvah and through 11th grade. As part of the yeshiva learning experience, I attended Junior Congregation every Shabbat. (My parents took me out of yeshiva because they were afraid that I was headed toward a career in the rabbinate!) For my Bar Mitzvah, I read the entire Torah portion and led Musaf and my father led Shacharit. I tutored my two younger brothers and three other children for their Bar Mitzvah. My parents were very active in the community. My mother rose to be a Regional Vice President of Hadassah. After marrying my mother, my father moved to Highland Park and quickly became Treasurer of our shul, The Highland Park Conservative Temple and Center. He also served as President of the yeshiva and as a member of the board of trustees of the local Federation. In addition, he served as President of the local Chamber of Commerce and, as such, was responsible for making sure that Christmas decorations were installed every year on Raritan Avenue, the main thoroughfare. So I guess it is no surprise that I followed my parents’ lead in becoming active in the Jewish community. Harriet and I moved to Lower Makefield Township in March 1978 and joined Beth El. I was immediately invited to join the Religious Activities Committee and served as its Chair from 1983 until 1994. I was elected to the Board of Directors in 1979 and then served a twoyear term as a vice president under Seymour Kaplan (Zihrono L’vraha). I was President from 1994 until1999, during which time the Perez (school ) Wing was built and the Congregation moved from Levittown to Lower Makefield, and also from 20012003. For the intervening two years I was Treasurer. I have served on many committees of the Board: the Executive Committee, Rabbinical Search, Budget and Finance, Nominating, and Catering. Since retiring as President, I have managed the building and its grounds. I have been Hazzan Sheni for the High Holidays since 1979 and have read Torah every Shabbat since 2003, unless someone else volunteers. I also make sure that the Sifrei Torah are always positioned properly. Together Randy Flager and I are chairing our third, and we hope last, Capital Campaign. With your generous support we have raised over $4.5 million dollars over the three campaigns. Wendy Winokur On a trip to Yardley to search for a new place to live in a new community we passed by Beth El. It was a Friday and my husband Marc talked me into checking it out. We rang the bell and were greeted by Karen, invited into the office and met Rabbi Gruenberg. We left that meeting with a sense that this was the Jewish community that we wanted to join. Three years later we have settled into Yardley. We moved here from York, PA. My husband Marc is a Commander in the US Public Health Service. We have two amazing kids. Paxton is 17 years old and a junior at Pennsbury High School. He is active in USY and has been active assisting with the FJLC every Sunday. He is now attending Ha’Moadon, our new Jewish High School program at Beth El. Helen is 8 years old and a 3rd grader at Quarry Hill. She LOVES all things Beth El and thinks it great that she gets to go to FJLC two times a week this year. She participated in a Taste of Ramah this summer and promptly informed us that she will be returning for a session next summer. I am a Family Nurse Practitioner and work in Palliative Care. I grew up in Scottsdale, Arizona and am a graduate of Northern Arizona University. I started my nursing career on the Navajo and Apache Indian Reservations where I met Marc. I spend my days having difficult conversations about advanced chronic illness with patients and their families. It can be emotionally and spiritually draining and I would not be able to sustain myself without returning to my center with Judaism and faith. Two year ago I was presented with the honor of being asked to join the Beth El Board and this year was again honored to be asked to be a Co Vice President of Education with Rachel Oring. Through our many moves we have been members of three synagogues. My children have never been so willing and happy to attend religious school as they have at Beth El. I believe this will leave a lasting impression and cultivate their Jewish identities. The success of the school is dear to me and my family and it is an honor to represent it. Your feedback is important and vital to the success of FJLC and the youth programming at Beth El and I welcome any thoughts from the kids, parents and congregants. In addition, I served on the Boards of the Abrams Hebrew Academy (for 16 years) and the Jewish Federation of Trenton/ Greater Trenton/Mercer-Bucks (for 12 years). Our sons David and Aron grew up in the Congregation and attended Abrams and then Akiba Hebrew Academy. David and his wife Sara Kahn Troster live in Portland, ME with their two children, Naomi and Jacob. Aron and his wife Tova live in Cherry Hill, NJ and have three children, Nerya and identical twin sons Amitai and Zemer. Harriet and I are very committed to Beth El – the community is a very important part of our lives. We attend Shabbat and holiday morning services unless we are out of town and we help make morning and evening minyan regularly. Go to: https://smile.amazon.com/ch/ 23-1538398 Page 5 Education & Youth In the month of November our Beth El and Fierverker Jewish Learning Communities will be exploring the value of Nedivat Lev, literally meaning Generosity of the Heart. The idea of nedivut, or being generous, is found throughout our Jewish texts, especially in regards to the bringing of gifts. This notion of generosity through gifts is first found in Exodus Chapter 25, when God asks Moses to tell the Israelite people to bring gifts from all whose hearts move them. In other words, the people were to bring voluntary gifts and only give what they could. From these gifts, the people built a mishkan--a tabernacle or dwelling place for God. What we learn from this story in the Torah is that when we all act with generosity and offer of ourselves what we are able, God will be among us. Furthermore, nedivut should not be understood as an obligation within our tradition, but a virtue motivated out of our desire to be virtuous. It is important to note that tzedakah--righteousness and charity and g’milut chasidim – acts of loving kindness are values that frequently are misunderstood as the value of Nedivat HaLev. Both tzedakah and g’milut chasidim refer to more of a deed and action, while Nedivat HaLev refers to more of an attitude. We learn from Pirke Avot 5:15 that “those who want to give and want others to give, they are saintly people.” With the right mindset and with our hearts in the right places, we can show our generosity and inspire others to do so as well. During our FJLC sessions, participants of all ages will reflect on what it takes to be an authentically generous person. With the coming of Thanksgiving and later Hanukkah, this is a perfect season to think about how we give of ourselves. I hope that you will take some time as we explore Nedivat HaLev to discuss this value with your family and perhaps come up with some ideas to practice the value in real time together. Here are some questions you may want to bring up with your family: 1. Do you think that becoming a generous person is something you have to train yourself to do? 2. What type of mindset do you need to have to be generous? 3. In what situations do you feel the most reluctance in being generous? Why? What might you do to overcome that obstacle? 4. What can you do to model this value personally, at school, at work, at home, and/or with friends? I will close with a simple quote from Winston Churchill: "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." Wishing all of us a November of opening our hearts to the world around us. I am excited to announce that Ha'Moadon is off to an incredible start! Over the course of the last 3 weeks our program has grown to 23 enthusiastic teenagers who are enjoying their time together where they learn and grow as a group. I have heard a great deal of positive feedback about the program in my conversations with our teens. While sitting in the advanced Hebrew session taught by Barbara Faber I was able to observe teens who were allowed to speak only in Hebrew. In Rabbi Gruenberg’s Israel session the group has talked about media bias and how the same story can be spun differently. In Healthy living with Levi Minsky the group explored what the Rabbis have to say about the way we live and what we can do to protect our bodies. And I cannot forget to mention our M.I.T program Madrichim in Training where 11th and 12th graders are being trained to become future Hebrew school teachers. This is only the beginning! We are excited to be on this journey together! Our Bucks County Youth group activities with Congregations Brothers of Israel, Ohev Shalom, Tifereth Israel and now Adath Israel in Lawrenceville our BUSY and bustling with tons of ruach (spirit)! USY our youth group for 8th12th graders had over 40 teens at their opening bonfire. Chaverim/Kadima, our group for 3rd-7th graders had over 45 kids both at their opening Sukkot Sleepover and at our recent Sky Zone event. If you know of any Jewish children in the area (they do not have to belong to one of the synagogues) please tell them about our awesome youth group programs and have them contact Karen Lewin, our youth director, for more information. To get the latest updates on our events, go online at www.bucksyouth.weebly.com! Page 6 B’nai Mitzvah at Beth El Mazal Tov to Lexi Schachter Saturday, November 7, 2015 Hi! My name is Lexi Schachter. I will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, November 7, 2015, and will read from Parshat Chayei Sara. My parents are Lee and Michelle Schachter. I have an older brother Andrew, a younger brother Jake, and a dog, Captain. He is my favorite brother. I am a seventh grader at Abrams Hebrew Academy. I enjoy playing basketball and soccer. I play on the Abrams teams and township travel teams. In the summers, I go to Camp Ramah in the Poconos. This summer will be my fifth year going to Ramah. For my Bat Mitzvah project, I have been going online to a website called freerice.com and donating rice. For every correct answer, ten grains of rice are donated through the World Food Programme to help end hunger. Sign up and join my group, Lexi's Bat Mitzvah at http:// freerice.com/content-group/lexis-bat-mitzvah Hazak Page 7 Sisterhood Sisterhood’s Secret Shop Coming in November to FJLC, Sisterhood's Secret Shop Hanukkah Bazaar. We will be offering FJLC students and all Beth El kids an opportunity to purchase Hanukkah gifts at reasonable prices for their parents, siblings, family, friends and teachers. The shop will operate during school hours on Sunday, November 15 and Sunday, November 22. A list of items and their prices will be circulated one week prior so parents may help their children choose appropriate gift items. Cash only, please. Please contact Gloria Feldman if you have any questions - [email protected]. CONGREGATION BETH EL SUPERMARKET GIFT CARD PROGRAM Do you eat? YES! Then here is an easy and effective way to help raise money for Beth El at NO ADDITIONAL COST TO YOU!!!! Simply purchase your supermarket gift cards from Beth El and 5% of your purchase is directly donated to Beth El. Don’t believe it? Let’s say you spend $100 at the supermarket. At the store, instead of paying cash or Credit Card, use your gift cards and $5 will automatically go directly to Beth El. Therefore, if 200 congregants purchase $100 of gift cards per week, Beth El earns $1,000 in a single week!! Imagine what this money will mean to Beth El. Perhaps, your dues would remain the same or fewer fundraisers would be needed! All of this can be accomplished by purchasing the groceries that you already buy! What could be simpler? To purchase supermarket gift cards/certificates, come to the Beth El office during business hours, the gift shop during their hours, or contact Debbie Lubin at 215-321-0772 or [email protected] Page 8 Page 9 A CANTOR’S TALE—November 14, 2015 ~ 7:30pm USA, 2005, English, 95 minutes, Directed by Erik Anjou Chazz'n, A Cantor's Story is a documentary film about chazzanut past, present and future through the prism of Chazzan Jack Mendelson's career. In addition to stellar singing, the film visits a bar-mitzvah at the legendary Beth El Synagogue in Borough Park, Brooklyn and interviews are seen with luminaries such as Ben-Zion Miller, Mati lazar, Alberto Mizrahi, Alan Dershowitz, Neil Shicoff and Dr. Larry Hoffman. THE STURGEON QUEENS—December 19, 2015 ~ 7:30pm USA, 2014, English, 52 minutes, Directed by Julie Cohen Four generations of a Jewish immigrant family create Russ and Daughters, a Lower East Side lox and herring emporium that survives and thrives. Produced to coincide with the 100th anniversary of the store, this documentary features an extensive interview with two of the original daughters for whom the store was named, now 100 and 92 years old, and interviews with prominent enthusiasts of the store including Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, actress Maggie Gyllenhaal, chef Mario Batali, New Yorker writer Calvin Trillin, and 60 Minutes correspondent Morley Safer. Rather than a conventional narrator, the filmmakers bring together six colorful longtime fans of the store, in their 80s and 90s, who sit around a table of fish reading the script in the style of a Passover Seder. Only $9/person—Family Rate: $18 Open to the community! ALL are welcome! RSVP to the Congregation Beth El office or online at BethElYardley.org COOK FOR A FRIEND Join Cook for a Friend on Tuesday, November 10th at 6pm and Wednesday, December 16th at 6pm to help us prepare 100-140 meat meals to be donated to the Klein JCC in Northeast Philadelphia for distribution. Don’t have time to come and cook? Consider making a donation to the Beth El Cook for a Friend fund. Our main source of revenue is from donations. You can send a check to Beth El with “Cook for a Friend” on the memo line. For more information, contact Beth Sadoff, [email protected] Page 10 Let 5776 be the Year You Get to Know Your Community Following services we will have a Pot Luck Dinner. Please bring a dairy or vegetarian main course, side dish or salad to serve at least 8-10 people to enjoy! RSVP by December 9, 2015. Let us know # of people and what you are bringing. Go BethElYardley.org or call Judi at 215-493-1707 x4. Share Shabbat Dinner Enjoy a Member Hosted Shabbat Dinner Friday, January 29th at 6:45pm Dinners will be dairy/vegetarian To participate please send your RSVP to [email protected] or call Susan Strouse (215) 355-8999 To be fair to our hosts, all RSVPs must be received by January 17, 2016 Future dates: April 1, 2016 Page 11 Keep In Touch! We welcome your ideas and submissions to The Shofar. Email feedback, articles and pictures to: [email protected] by December 15, 2015 for inclusion in the January-February issue. I would like to thank the Beth El community for the card and beautiful flowers we received for Rosh HaShanah. –Sarann Fierverker The Jewish Federation's food pantry at KleinLife in Northeast Philadelphia is currently seeking volunteers on select Fridays from 10am-1pm as it expands its hours to serve more clients. The Choice Food Pantry at KleinLife features an innovative model where the clients get to choose what food they receive (rather than a pre-packaged box) and use a touchscreen to make their selection. Anyone interested in volunteering can email Jeremy Heller directly at [email protected]. We make every effort to ensure our information is accurate and up-to-date. If you find that we have made an error or if you have any new contact information, please contact the synagogue office, 215-493-1707 x4 or email [email protected] If you would like to receive a hard copy of The Shofar via regular U.S. mail, do not hesitate to request a monthly issue to be delivered to your door. Simply call the synagogue office, 215-493-1707 x4 or email [email protected] Page 12 Sa Michelle & Lee Schachter and family in honor of their daughter Lexi Schachter who will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, November 7, 2015. Ellen & Jerry Schachter and family in honor of their granddaughter Lexi Schachter who will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, November 7, 2015 Bonnie & Ian Schachter and family in honor of their niece Lexi Schachter who will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, November 7, 2015 Phyllis & Larry Schachter and family in honor of their niece Lexi Schachter who will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, November 7, 2015 Mel Hunn beloved partner of Selma Spivack Rena Stern Sister of Blanche Sussman Fran Nitkin wife of Andy Nitkin daughter of Thelma Neufeld We are looking for a few good Minyaneers Congregation Beth El holds both morning and evening minyan services open to our members and friends in the community. We invite you to join us and become a regular volunteer. It’s a mitzvah! It’s good for you! It’s good for our community. Morning services: Monday to Friday at 7 AM Evening Services: Monday -Thursday at 7:30 PM Please contact Brian Levey, our Minyan committee leader, to sign up and answer any questions you may have at 267-250-7526 or Email: [email protected] Page 13 CONGREGATION BETH EL GIFT OPPORTUNITIES Tree of Life Honor a birthday, anniversary, wedding, Bar/Bat Mitzvah or any other happy occasion with an engraved leaf on our tree of life for $180 or a boulder for $750. Donation Cards Our donation cards are a wonderful way to recognize important life-cycle events , extend wishes for speedy recovery or show your appreciation for someone’s kindness and helps fulfill the mitzvah of tzedakah. There are two different cards to choose from - a beautiful Menorah card ($7) and a colorful picture of three of our Torot ($18). Your gift can also be designated to one of the following funds: Building Fund Fierverker Education Fund Hesed Fund (meals for ill & those in mourning) Rabbi Gruenberg's Discretionary Fund Rhoda & Morris Volk Memorial Fund Eric J. Marinoff College Outreach Fund Heidi Mittleman Memorial Library Fund Perez Youth Scholarship Fund (for Jewish camp & USY programs) Religious Books & Articles Fund Cook for a Friend Project Book Dedications There are also opportunities to have a bookplate placed on the back of the front cover of a Siddur (Prayer Book), - any time someone opens the book, they will learn of your donation: Prayer Book $54 Yahrzeit Plaques Among the customs to help us with loss and bereavement is the commemoration of a loved one on a Yahrzeit plaque. These plaques, which are affixed to a special memorial board in our Chapel, are an expression of love and devotion. The plaque will be mounted on our Yahrzeit board in perpetuity. Each year you will receive a notice of the date of the yahrzeit, it will be announced during Shabbat services, and the plaque will be lit in memory of your loved one for a full month. The cost is $750 for members and $900 for non-members. Cemetery Plots - Congregation Beth El owns cemetery plots at King David Memorial Park in Bensalem which can be purchased for $1,500 each. CONGREGATION BETH EL DONATION FORM Enclosed is my gift of $_____________________ (Menorah card $7-$17, Torot card $18+) □ Building Fund □ Eric J. Marinoff College Outreach Fund □ Fierverker Education Fund □ Heidi Mittleman Memorial Library Fund □ Hesed Fund □ Perez Youth Scholarship Fund □ Rabbi Gruenberg's Discretionary Fund □ Religious Books & Articles Fund □ Rhoda & Morris Volk Memorial Fund □ Cook For A Friend Project □ Prayer Book ($54) Recipient _________________________ Occasion ____________________________________ Recipient Address _______________________________________________________________ Donor Name ____________________________________________________________________ Donor Address __________________________________________________________________ I would like more information on: □ Tree of Life □ Yahrzeit Plaques □ Cemetery Plots □ Other Ways I Can Give Page 14 Thank You For These Generous Donations BUILDING FUND ERIC J. MARINOFF MEMORIAL COLLEGE OUTREACH FUND In Honor Of: Wishes for a Sweet New Year to Eleanor Gutbezahl Gloria Rosenberg & Irvin Rosenberg Barry Troll’s 75th birthday Lana & Raymond Skwer Rita Pruzan Carol & Stuart Lighter’s 10th anniversary The Bat Mitzvah of Kayla Francis Traiger Ruth & Jack Laks Caroline Bogage Schlam The marriage of Jay Kawarsky & Alec Soto Lois & Brian Levey Marcia & Harry Kratz Melissa, Jeff, Zachary & Sophie Freedman The Auf Ruf and upcoming marriage of Jamie Koretsky and Adam Levy Linda & Ken Greenberg and family The marriage of Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Ruth & Jack Laks Charlotte & Harold Denenberg The marriage of Claryne Weinberg’s Ruth & Jack Laks granddaughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough The marriage of Marsha Flager’s daughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Ruth & Jack Laks The marriage of Randy Flager’s daughter Ruth & Jack Laks Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Marsha Wishnov Linda & Ken Greenberg and Family The marriage of Renee & Andy Flager’s granddaughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Ruth & Jack Laks Marsha Wishnov In Memory Of: John Bijaczyk, son of John P. Bijaczyk Lois & Gil Golstein Lee Horowitz, husband of Irma Horowitz Alice Goldstein Shirley Mitnick Eleanor Gutbezahl ERIC J. MARINOFF MEMORIAL COLLEGE OUTREACH FUND In Honor Of: Aria Fishbein’s Hebrew Naming In Honor Of: The Bar Mitzvah of Harris Albuck, son of Mindy & Rick Albuck Lindsay & Jordan Goldman Renee & Andy Flager Barry Troll’s 75th birthday Sue & Hank Epstein The Auf Ruf of Jamie Koretsky and Adam Levy Barbara Fineman Gloria & Ed Mittleman The engagement of Judy Nussbaum & Marvin Gelblat’s son Yehuda Gruenberg The marriage of Jay Kawarsky & Alec Soto Renee & Andy Flager Janet & Norman Marinoff Herb Strauss Sylvia & Sid Goldberg Deborah & Steven Lubin The marriage of Claryne Weinberg’s Gloria & Ed Mittleman granddaughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough The marriage of Marsha Flager’s daughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Gloria & Ed Mittleman The marriage of Randy Flager’s daughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Gloria & Ed Mittleman The marriage of Renee & Andy Flager’s Gloria & Ed Mittleman granddaughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough The marriage of Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Jessica Marinoff & Jim Charatan Charlotte & Harold Denenberg Janet & Norman Marinoff Sylvia & Sid Goldberg Tina, Michael, Mara & Max Rettig In Memory of: Elaine Ferst Ellen Wach’s mother Lois & Jerry Barksy Janet & Norman Marinoff Arlene Spevak & Alan Weisgold Gertrude Cossrow, mother of Selma Spivack Sara Pollock John Bijaczyk, son of John P. Bijaczyk Mike Altabef Morris Wenick Paul Morrison Tibe Turoff Janet & Norman Marinoff Janet & Norman Marinoff Charlotte & Harold Denenberg Sara Pollock Lois & Jerry Barsky FIERVERKER EDUCATION FUND In Honor of: Dr. & Mrs. Marvin Loev’s grandson Andrew’s bar mitzvah Leon Rudolph’s birthday The Bar Mitzvah of Harris Albuck, son of Mindy & Rick Albuck Selma Spivack Roz Kleiman Barbara & Mark Melmed The marriage of Jay Kawarsky & Alec Soto Barbara & Mark Melmed Beth & Fred Godett In Memory of: Fran Nitkin, daughter of Thelma Neufeld Roz Kleiman Gertrude Cossrow, grandmother of Jeffrey Spivack Robin & Hal Terr HEIDI MITTLEMAN MEMORIAL LIBRARY FUND In Honor Of: Ellis R. Jacob’s 80th birthday Roz Kleiman HESED FUND In Honor Of: The marriages of Claryne Weinberg’s Juliette & Ron Harvey grandchildren The marriages of Marsha Flager’s children Juliette & Ron Harvey The marriages of Randy Flager’s children Juliette & Ron Harvey Karen, Marc & Matt Shoemaker The marriages of Renee & Andy Flager’s Juliette & Ron Harvey Grandchildren Karen, Marc & Matt Shoemaker The Auf Ruf of Jaime Koretsky & Adam Levy Renee & Andy Flager The marriage of Jay Kawarsky & Alec Soto Linda & Ken Greenberg Dr. & Mrs. Daniel Shoemaker’s Karen, Marc & Matt Shoemaker Anniversary In Memory of: Gertrude Cossrow, Carol Benderson–Lighter & mother of Selma Spivack Stuart Lighter Mel Hunn, loving companion Carol Benderson–Lighter & of Selma Spivack Stuart Lighter Speedy Recovery: Margie Wellerstein Juliette & Ron Harvey MORNING MINYAN FUND In Honor Of: The welcoming minyan so I could say Lynne Goldman Kaddish for my father In Memory of: David Rothstein Judy Nussbaum & Marvin Gelblatt Page 15 Thank You For These Generous Donations PEREZ YOUTH SCHOLARSHIP FUND In Honor Of: The birth of Madeline Chloe Goldberg Bonnie Abrams The marriage of Marsha Flager’s daughter Bonnie Abrams & Family Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough The marriage of Randy Flager’s daughter Bonnie Abrams & Family Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough The marriage of Jay Kawarsky & Alec Soto Bonnie Abrams The birth of Liav Omri, Bonnie Abrams grandson of Jeri & Len Zimmerman In Memory of: Carol Goldberg Jean Snyder & John Paolini Speedy Recovery: Robert Epstein Jean Snyder & John Paolini PRAYER BOOK FUND In Honor Of: The marriage of Jay Kawarsky & Alec Soto Faye Laveson Debbie & Dan Wachspress Tina, Michael, Mara & Max Rettig RABBI GRUENBERG’S DISCRETIONARY FUND In Appreciation of: Rabbi Gruenberg’s kindness In Honor Of: The Bar Mitzvah of Harris Albuck, son of Mindy & Rick Albuck Christine Schwartz Ruth & Jack Laks The marriage of Jay Kawarsky & Alec Soto Arleen & Bill Barisa Judy Nussbaum & Marvin Gelblat The marriage of Renee & Andy Flager’s granddaughter Melissa Flager to Conrad Hough Judy Nussbaum & Marvin Gelblat In Memory of: Marty Kreiner Janet & Bill First Congregation Beth El expresses our gratitude to the people who have served on the Board of the Galilee Village/ Pavilion over the years. Sheldon Ackerman Raymond Alexander ז״ל Carol Benderson-Lighter Milton Berger Marvin Block ז״ל Richard Byron Sidney Charschan ז״ל Sidney Clearfield Charlotte Denenberg David Dickstein ז״ל Murray Ellman ז״ל Benjamin Feldman ז״ל Rabbi William Fierverker ז״ל Benjamin Feitelson ז״ל Barbara Fineman Andrew Flager Leon Fradkin Louise Fradkin ז״ל Julius Friedman ז״ל Mark Fried Alvin Goldberg Myrna Goldberg Kurt Goldschmidt Murray Goldstein ז״ל Boris Gutbezahl ז״ל Eleanor Gutbezahl Carol Hirsch Peter Hirsch Seymour Kaplan ז״ל Ellis Katz Florence Kent Eric Kleiman Rosalyn Kleiman Rochelle Klein Jack Laks Ruth Laks Marvin Lazoff ז״ל Edward Levitt ז״ל Irwin Light ז״ל Mitchell Mitnik ז״ל Shirley Mitnik ז״ל Melvin Newman ז״ל Joel Olener Karen Olener Marvin Rappaport ז״ל Gabriel Rosen ז״ל Herman Rosenberg ז״ל Martin Rosenzweig Sandy Rosenzweig Steven Schoennstadt Nathaniel Schwartz ז״ל Marshall Spector ז״ל Pearl Stark ז״ל Leon Warach ז״ל Margie Wellerstein Charlotte Yablonsky No one really expects the need of having to buy cemetery plots. It is a wonderful benefit of belonging to Congregation Beth El of Yardley. There is no better time to buy than the present time, before you have the need. We want to help you make the choice before the emotional time after a death. Many Funeral directors encourage the Pre-Need arrangements of all of the aspects of the funeral, burial, and monuments. The Cemetery Committee can offer you the time to select a plot at the cemetery or just by reviewing our plot maps and photographs. King David Memorial Park is located in Bensalem, PA. Beth El has over 400 plots in section R. Many are already owned and reserved. In 2013 the Board of directors approved the price of $1500 per plot. This is far below the price for the general public making a request at King David. A Family Gravesite includes four plots and costs $6000. These charges are transacted with the synagogue only and you may not deal with King David or other congregants directly for the purchase or sale of any plots in Section R. When a plot is paid in full the owner is granted the rights of sepulcher and these rights are shared with their heirs even if they are not members. Beth El does not sell plots to non-members of the congregation. In the event of an owner moving or not needing their plots, they may return their papers for a refund less 10 % of the purchase price. The price of the plot does not include any services, openings, burial, vault, or monument charges. For more information please call Michael Weinberg, Cemetery Committee Chairman @215-321-1312 Page 16 Congregation Beth El 375 Stony Hill Road Yardley, PA 19067 Shofar Editorial Committee Charlotte Denenberg [email protected] Barbara Fineman [email protected] Sara Pollock [email protected] Main Office .......................................... 215-493-1707 Fax ........................................................ 215-493-7717 E-mail .................................. [email protected] FJLC ............................................................................ x2 Gift Shop .................................................................... x6 Professional Staff Joshua Z. Gruenberg, Rabbi ..................................... x5 Karen Lewin, Education & Youth Director ............... x3 Judi Pogachefsky, Office Administrator ………..……..x4 Marian Berger, Bookkeeper ..................................... x4 Congregation Beth El Officers Leon Weissman............................................. President Sheryl Fruithandler ............................. Vice President Rob Lightman ...................................... Vice President Larry Schachter .................................... Vice President Wendy Winokur ............. Co-Education Vice President Rachel Oring ................... Co-Education Vice President Beth Sadoff .................................................. Secretary Steve Lubin ................................................... Treasurer