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F R O M GOOD TO G R E A T : HOW TO C R E A T E J E W I S H L E A R N I N G C O M M U N I T I E S OF E X C E L L E N C E STEVEN HUBERMAN, Director of Regions, Tlie United Synagogue PH.D. of Conservative Judaism, New Yoric Tills review essay focuses on Professor Bernard Reisman's book. The New Jewish Experiential Book (Jersey City: KTAV Publishing, 2002). Joel Reisman is the co-author. I dedicate this essay to our rebbe, Professor Reisman, who served as Chair of the JCSA Publications Committee for two decades. is a potent tool, engaging young people, communal leadership, and adults on a Jewish quest. Reisman's updated book provides a treasure chest of strategies to build Jewish identity. The strategies in the text substan tially further our understanding in nine areas: (1) anti-semitism/Holocaust, (2) Israel and Israel-Diaspora relations, (3) family and life cycle, (4) community, (5) leadership, (6) per sonal and professional values, (7) religion and culture, (8) pluralism, and (9) Jewish identity. "Alone a Jew is nothing. But when he is with other Jews, he is a force. Because then automatically he inherits all the strengths and all the tears, all the despairs and all the joys of his ancestors. A Jew alone cannot be Jewish. A Jew can be Jewish only if he is part of a community. " Elie Wiesel T he UJA-Federation of New York and a range of other organizations recently funded the first-ever Israel Education Month. The aim was to celebrate our intimate con nection to the land and people of Israel. As part of this effort, I served as a Scholar-inResidence in a Long Island synagogue on the theme, "After September 11: Being Jewish and Loving Israel." We could not have pre dicted the response—hundreds of young people, parents, and mature adults joined us. At each event, the attendance grew. Over Shabbat we had a remarkable expe rience. My goal was to positively transform how people felt about being Jewish and make them Israel activists. The successful techniques 1 used were from Bernard Reis man's book The New Jewish Experiential Book. They enabled me to impart Jewish values and build a sense of Chevrah—group cohesion. This article explains the rationale for Reisman's methodology and suggests how to create Jewish learning communities. A founding father of informal Jewish ed ucation, Reisman wrote his first book on experiential education in 1978; it revolution ized Jewish learning. Experiential education JEWISH EDUCATION PRINCIPLES "Learning is great, because learning leads to action." Talmud Kiddushim 40b "Imagination is more important than intelligence." Albert Einstein In 1916, John Dewey noted the relation ship between experience and learning: "To learn from experience is to make a backward-and-forward connection between what we do to things and what we enjoy or suffer from things in consequence. Under such con ditions, doing becomes trying: an experiment with the world to find out what it is like; the undergoing becomes instruction—discovery of the connection of things" (1964, p. 140). This is the underpinning of experiential ed ucation—education based on the experience of the learner. The social psychologist, Kurt Lewin, con- 175 Joumal of Jewish Communal Service / 176 TOOLS AND TECHNIQUES ducted experiments during the 1930s and 1940s on w a y s to change attitudes and b e havior. L e w i n demonstrated that the main ingredient in change w a s directly involving Experiential activities are varied. They in clude the following: people themselves in the change process: "This result (change) occurs when the facts • Rankings and priorities: forms or sched ules that ask individual participants to de termine preferences from an array of value or behavioral options • Role playing: activities in which partici pants act out a structured or self-designed vignette Questionnaires and quizzes: instraments designed to explore and extend substan tive knowledge b e c o m e really their facts (as against other people's facts). A n individual will believe facts h e himself has discovered, in the same way he believes in h i m s e l f (quoted in Mor row, 1967). This is best accomplished in a small group. Jewish experiendal education should ud- • lize creative activities that relate the subject matter to the experiences and interests of the group participants. Increasingly, Jews are on • Expressive activities using one o f the ar tistic media (music, art, dance, drama) to create a mood or an experience • Fantasy activities that encourage u s e o f the imagination to provide n e w perspec tives and insights • External stimuli: use of objects, materials, or symbols to stimulate participant reac tions a quest for a personal Jewish lifestyle. T h e right techniques nourish and expand people's interests. Through direct participation, they clarify and articulate how Jewish tradition is relevant for them. W e thus create a Jewish leaming community, a small group that e n courages peer learning and emotional sup port. Ideally, the small group should number about ten people. This is not always feasible. In m y recent Long Island experience, 1 sought to use the techniques with 2 0 0 people at a time. A m o n g the keys to success are encourag ing open and forthright participadon, letting participants feel comfortable to risk saying what they traly feel, and getting to k n o w people and referring to each other by name. Rabbi B e n Z o m a observes in Sayings of the Fathers. "Who is w i s e ? H e w h o leams from every man" (4:1). In short, T R U S T T H E PROCESS. The group leader is an expert facilitator, s o m e o n e w h o is extremely knowledgeable in the subject area and is sensitive to those in the group. In the Harvard University Busi ness School, they teach that successful busi ness leaders must combine the t w o " c ' s " — b e competent and care deeply about others. T h e maxim applies even more s o to creating Jewish learning communities. It is not enough to k n o w your area of responsi bility; you have to be a mentsch as well. There are c o m m o n threads in all o f these activities. The participants generate data, dis cuss their reactions to the data, and consider their implications. A facilitator might, for example, stimulate discussion by asking per sons to note their level of agreement or dis agreement with several statements, as shown in Table 1. Since most people derive greater satisfac tion from being active rather than passive, they are eager to react to such trigger ques tions. T h e function of the leader is crucial. H e or she needs to display enthusiasm and flexibility. Although the leader k n o w s the desired outcome of the activity, mid-course corrections—changing content, activities, or the format—may need to be made. Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel once commented, "The teacher is the creator o f the future of our people." Operationalizing Heschel's insight requires ground rules for useful Jewish content discussions. Reisman emphasizes that there are no short cuts to active listening. T o maximize Jewish expe- SVMMER/FALL 2004 From Good to Great: How to Create Jewish Learning Table L Sample Experiential Activity One: Questionnaire on Israel-Diaspora Relations A = agree; U = SD = strongly of Excellence I 177 spond to them, especially w h e n their ideas differ from your o w n . Try to avoid build ing your o w n P l e a s e n o t e y o u r level of a g r e e m e n t on e a c h item. Key: SA = strongly agree; uncertain; D = disagree; disagree Communities arguments in your head while others are talking. • Think together about what y o u want to get out of your conversations. • Respect the confidential nature of per sonal stories. 1. I d e n t i f i c a t i o n w i t h I s r a e l is t h e s i n g l e m o s t i m p o r t a n t p a r t of my J e w i s h n e s s . 2. T h e S t a t e of I s r a e l m a k e s m e p r o u d t o be J e w i s h . 3. Every Jew has a moral obligation to support Israel. Explore the disagreement. Search for the 4. O n e c a n n o t r e a l l y be a J e w in t h e full s e n s e in t h e D i a s p o r a . A b o v e all, be civil. 5. All Diaspora Jews should be e n c o u r a g e d to m a k e a l i y a h . 6. All J e w s s h o u l d c o n s i d e r t h e m s e l v e s Zionists. 7. I a m a J e w first a n d an A m e r i c a n second. 8. Without Israel the American Jewish c o m m u n i t y would be much weaker; Israel is t h e k e y t o m e a n i n g a n d c o h e s i o n in t h e American Jewish community. 9. T h e first p r i o r i t y of A m e r i c a n J e w i s h c o m m u n a l f u n d s is t o h e l p I s r a e l . 10. Israel should receive undivided s u p p o r t from A m e r i c a n J e w s so t h a t we a p p e a r u n i t e d in the e y e s of o u r e n e m i e s . 11. W e m u s t s t r i v e to i n f l u e n c e U . S . f o r e i g n p o l i c y to s u p p o r t I s r a e l — e v e n if we a r e c r i t i c i z e d for it by n o n - J e w s , t h e press, Arab countries, etc. 12. Israel should receive undivided s u p p o r t from A m e r i c a n J e w s s i n c e we c a n a s s u m e t h a t t h e p o l i c i e s of a J e w i s h s t a t e will be sound. 13. After we s e n d m o n e y to I s r a e l , we h a v e no r i g h t t o c o n t r o l t h e a l l o c a t i o n of those monies. 14. W e h a v e n o r i g h t t o d i c t a t e p o l i c y to t h e I s r a e l i g o v e r n m e n t ; for e x a m p l e , regarding administered territories. 15. I s r a e l is t h e c e n t e r of w o r l d J e w r y . . B e open to changing your mind; this will help y o u really listen to others' v i e w s . • W h e n disagreement occurs, keep talking. common . Value concerns beneath the one another's surface. experiences and think about h o w they have contributed to group m e m b e r s ' thinking. • Help d e v e l o p one another's ideas. Listen carefully and ask clarifying questions. In addition to eliciting personal reacdons to your Jewishness, experiential activities can help clarify a Jewish organization's fu ture direction. I have used the "Leadership Ranking Sheet" (Table 2) to help a group of Table 2. Sample Experiential Activity Two: Jewish Organization Leadership Ranking Sheet B e l o w is a list of 10 a t t r i b u t e s t h a t a r e p e r t i n e n t to t h e e x e r c i s e of J e w i s h c o m m u n a l l e a d e r s h i p . You are asked to d e t e r m i n e t h e i r r e l a t i v e p r i o r i t y so as t o p r o d u c e a set of g u i d e l i n e s t h a t m i g h t b e u s e d by t h e J e w i s h o r g a n i z a t i o n s in y o u r c o m m u n i t y in c h o o s i n g lay l e a d e r s for t h e c o m m u n i t y ' s social, civic, and religious o r g a n i z a t i o n s . R a n k t h e s e i t e m s from 1 to 10, w i t h 1 b e i n g t h e m o s t i m p o r t a n t a t t r i b u t e , 2 next i m p o r t a n t , a n d so o n . Maturity Jewish knowledge and commitment P r e s t i g e in t h e n o n - J e w i s h Organizational Personal community know-how assertiveness Wealth riential learning w e are reminded to adhere to these key notions: • Youth Political connections Listen carefully to others. Try to really understand what they are saying and re SUMMER/FALL Intelligence P r o m i n e n c e in J e w i s h o r g a n i z a t i o n a l 2004 life Journal of Jewish Communal Service / 178 top officers determine their recruitment pri- process is c o n d u c i v e to this desired ambi- orities. It is yet another illustration of h o w to ence. create a spirited discussion leading toward consensus. W h e n e v e r I am working with a Jewish c o m m u n a l group that i n c l u d e s n e w c o m e r s , Before doing the more specialized activ- " t w o c i r c l e s " ( T a b l e 3 ) is an ideal a c t i v i t y , ities as s h o w n in Tables 1 and 2 , it is impor- It s h o u l d b e introduced b e f o r e any o f the tant to create a sense of chevrah—a caring, more more intimate group. T o build safe space ties, threatening, self-disclosing activi- members must feel comfortable and not in timidated. At the outset y o u want to establish J E W I S H LEARNING COMMUNITIES a "heimish" setting. The environment should be a climate where persons are accepted. Every Jewish professional and every lay supported, and embraced. The educational leader is a Jewish educator. H o w they c o n - Table 3. Sample Experiential Activity Three: Two Circles P u r p o s e : T o a l l o w group m e m b e r s to g e t to k n o w e a c h other q u i c k l y and to instill a participatory m i n d s e t . T h i s a c t i v i t y a l s o s e r v e s to d i v i d e a large group into s m a l l g r o u p s ready to work on a s u b s e q u e n t e x p e r i e n t i a l a c t i v i t y . " T w o C i r c l e s " is the a c t i v i t y that w e use m o s t f r e q u e n t l y in b e g i n n i n g e x p e r i e n t i a l p r o g r a m s . S e t t i n g : A r o o m with sufficient s p a c e to a c c o m m o d a t e all the small g r o u p s . Straight-back chairs are s e t up in t w o c o n c e n t r i c c i r c l e s c o n t a i n i n g the same number of c h a i r s . Chairs in the inner c i r c l e face out, and t h o s e in the outer c i r c l e face in. Time: 3 5 - 4 0 minutes. Instructions: 1. 2. Participants sit on the pre-arranged c h a i r s . If there is a large g r o u p , o n e s h o u l d separate s p o u s e s and p e o p l e w h o k n o w e a c h other into different small g r o u p s . T h e leader e x p l a i n s that the a c t i v i t y w i l l i n v o l v e a s e r i e s of brief c o n v e r s a t i o n s ( o f about 3 to 4 m i n u t e s duration) on s u b j e c t s to be a s s i g n e d by the leader b e t w e e n the t w o p e o p l e sitting f a c i n g e a c h other. B e f o r e b e g i n n i n g the c o n v e r s a t i o n , the t w o p e r s o n s are asked to introduce t h e m s e l v e s . T h e leader then a n n o u n c e s the q u e s t i o n and asks both p e r s o n s to speak to the q u e s t i o n w i t h i n the a s s i g n e d t i m e . Participants are a s k e d to stay on the subject and, if n e e d e d , to prod their partner to obtain a full r e s p o n s e . 3. After d i s c u s s i o n on the first q u e s t i o n , the leader asks the p e o p l e in the outer c i r c l e to m o v e o n e chair to their right. (For v a r i e t y , p e o p l e from the inner c i r c l e can be asked to m o v e o n e chair to the left.) T h e n e w pair i n t r o d u c e s t h e m s e l v e s , the leader a s s i g n s a n e w q u e s t i o n , and the pair c o n v e r s e . T h i s c o n t i n u e s until e v e r y pair has c o n v e r s e d on an assigned question. 4. S i n c e m e m b e r s of the same c i r c l e h a v e not had a c h a n c e to talk with o n e another, the leader s u g g e s t s that m e m b e r s of the inner and outer c i r c l e s m o v e around and i n t r o d u c e t h e m s e l v e s to the others in the c i r c l e . 5. At this j u n c t u r e the participants are aware of a dramatic contrast b e t w e e n their initial a n x i e t y and the warm afterglow g e n e r a t e d by the s e r i e s of personal c o n v e r s a t i o n s . T h i s l e a v e s them with a s e n s e of trust for their n e w c o l l e a g u e s and r e c e p t i v i t y to c o n t i n u e the p r o c e s s o f personal sharing. S a m p l e Q u e s t i o n s for Discussion In the C i r c l e s 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. D e s c r i b e a person w h o m y o u feel e x e m p l i f i e s a g o o d J e w . What is there about the work of this o r g a n i z a t i o n that y o u like m o s t ? W h i c h p e r s o n w h o m y o u have k n o w n has had the m o s t impact on your l i f e as a Jew? What d o y o u v a l u e m o s t about b e i n g J e w i s h ? What d o y o u recall as b e i n g an e s p e c i a l l y p o s i t i v e e x p e r i e n c e s i n c e y o u h a v e b e e n at this organization? What kind o f Jew m a k e s y o u feel m o s t proud? SUMMER/FALL 2004 From Good to Great: How to Create Jewish duct themselves, the kinds of statements they make, h o w they relate to others—all of these behaviors transmit Jewish value state m e n t s — s o m e positive and some negative. The contributors to the Reisman volume emphasize that w e are each teaching role models. A s a "virtual Jewish school," w e have multiple characteristics. Jews today are autonomous so that Judaism must b e c o m e a more attractive and compelling lifestyle. W e advance their exploration by doing experi ence-centered learning. Jews should have Jewish experiences, rather than simply talk ing about them. It is one thing to study Shab bat; it is more transformative to g o to a shul and absorb it. W e are encouraged to be interactive; quality relationships with our colleagues, lay leaders, and clients are as critical as the ac tual work in which w e are engaged. In this person-centered milieu w e reach out to oth ers to d o Jewish. Our curriculum of Jewish values encompasses behaviors and beliefs w e want others to internalize. A n d w e seek to make the method of Jewish learning en joyable. Talking heads are out; caring Jewish role models are in. W e teach Jewish by dem onstrating and acting on our beliefs, not sim ply by telling or lecturing. It is on this e x panded campus where w e d o God's work of Kedushah. Jews today are strongly affected by early life experiences, including the home, Jewish schooling, and synagogue involvement (Horowitz, 2000). Later voluntary experi e n c e s — e s p e c i a l l y Jewish youth groups, Hil lel activities, and quality trips to Israel— have an impact during adolescence and early SUMMER/FALL Learning Communities of Excellence I 179 adulthood. Even if people miss out on these early and often choices they can still have high-impact Jewish experiences. For any given person w e do not know when the de sire for Jewish identity will be activated. The best strategy to create Jewish learning c o m munities of excellence is to construct an e x citing array of experiential options for all life-cycle stages. Reisman's book articu lately catalogues this vast array of growth opportunities. Reisman has trained an entire generation of Jewish communal lay and professional leaders. M y wife, Frieda, and 1 have seen Bernie as our mentor for almost thirty years. In considering his influence, w e are re minded of Ralph Waldo Emerson's state ment, "To leave the world a bit better, to k n o w even one life has breathed easier be cause you have hved. This is to have suc ceeded." B y this measure, Reisman has suc ceeded. Or as Piriic Avot 4:1 observes: "Who is wise? Those w h o learn from everyone...Who is honored? Those w h o honor all peo ple." REFERENCES Dewey, John. (1964). Democracy New York: MacMillan. and education. Horowitz, Bethamie. (2000). Connections journeys: enhancing Assessing Jewish critical identity. opportunities New and for York: UJA—Federation. Morrow, Alfred. (1967). Events leading to the establishment of the National Training Lab oratories. Joumal ence, 3, 114-150. 2004 of Applied Behavioral Sci