Deciphering Individual Education Plans
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Deciphering Individual Education Plans
[ FREE ] Afterschool Adventures | Eat, Play, POA | Outside at PCM AUGUST 2014 Back to School (Yes, already...) But th ere’s still tim late su e! Our PDX p mmer ic on pgks start . 42. metro-parent.com | August 2014 3 [ Contents ] FEATURES Adventures in Afterschooling...............................................................................14 It’s 3 pm. School’s out, but you’re still at work. Now what? By Cathie Ericson. Deciphering Individual Education Plans......................................................22 We go behind the scenes to help you navigate the IEP process, start to finish. By Helyn Trickey Bradley. 14 DEPARTMENTS Editor’s Note.......................................................................................................................... 6 Play Room...............................................................................................................................10 Oregon baby names, by the numbers, plus MP’s favorite apps for long summer car rides. Field Trip................................................................................................................................. 30 Digging the new outdoors exhibit at the 30 Portland Children’s Museum. Family Supper.....................................................................................................................32 Healthy, fresh food and a playroom to boot at Poa Cafe in NoPo. Recipe File............................................................................................................................ 34 Did someone say kale smoothie? Janice Grube turns on the Vitamix. First Person: Daddy Issues.................................................................................... 36 Our new columnist, Ryan White, works out his drive-thru dilemmas. 34 Pay Attention .................................................................................................................. 38 Campaign season is just around the corner. Family Forward Oregon’s Lisa Frack highlights issues to watch. Angels Among Us........................................................................................................... 40 Schoolyard Farms brings vegetables to the cafeteria. Time Out..................................................................................................................................42 PDX’s best family-friendly August activities, from bike rides to camp outs. RESOURCES Back-to-School.............................................................................................................15 - 29 Parties........................................................................................................................................47 On Our Cover: Back-toschool glee captured by local photographer Rachael May. See more of her work at rachaelmayphotography.com. metro-parent.com | August 2014 5 [ Editor’s Note ] If you’re a parent, you’ve heard the term “fourth trimester.” It’s those first few months after the baby’s been born, when you’re finding your sea legs together, so to speak, and learning all about your new normal. Some moments are just the way you imagined they would be, but most of the time you’re thinking to yourself, “what have I gotten us all into?” If you’re like me, you’re unsure whether the nurses ever should have let you leave the hospital in the first place — whose idea was it to put you in charge? That’s pretty much the way I’m feeling about my new job as the editor of Metro Parent — not quite sure of what I’m doing, but hopeful that alongside my tribe, I’ll figure out it. Only in this case, the tribe is you — all of the kids and their grown-ups who keep Portland weird and make it such a great place to raise a family. I’ve got lots of plans for the magazine in the coming year. The goal is to become even more local, more relevant and more fun to read. By the end of the summer, we should have our new website up and running, and I’m hoping to hear plenty from our readers on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram — find, friend and follow at @Metro_Parent or www.facebook. com/MetroParentPortland. In the magazine, look for some new features in this month’s issue, including a focus on family-friendly restaurants and dining in Portland’s ever-expanding food scene, and a new look for what’s called the “front-ofbook” — those first few pages you leaf through. In the coming months, we’ll roll out more stories about the way we — and our kids — live now, from lifestyle to neighborhoods to technology. So here’s to the fourth trimester, and beyond, to keeping it weird and finding those sea legs. I’m so glad you’re all along for the ride. — Julia Silverman [ Contributing Writers ] Michael Barton (Field Trip) spends a great deal of time exploring Portland’s natural areas and blogging about connecting children to nature (at exploreportlandnature.wordpress.com). He lives in SW Portland with his son, Patrick, daughter, Afton, and wife, Catherine, a librarian for Multnomah County Library. He owns more books than he’ll ever be able to read. Helyn Trickey Bradley (Deciphering Individual Education Plans) is passionate about proper semicolon use, re-homing stray animals and potato chips, preferably with extra salt. When she isn’t writing on deadline, she’s trying to find her zen among the chaos of three children, one dog, one cat and a patient husband. Also, she’s trying to hold the perfect triangle pose for more than two seconds. She lives in Portland with her family. 6 August 2014 | metro-parent.com Cathie Ericson (Adventures in Afterschooling) Cathie Ericson is a Portland-based mom of three who contributes freelance pieces to a wide variety of parenting, business and fitness publications for print and online. When she’s not at her computer, she’s out chauffeuring kids or doing laundry, and keeps sane with exercise and reading. Follow her @ Cathie Ericson for her thoughts on the writing biz, parenting, fitness, and yes, sometimes laundry. Ryan White (Unhappy Meals) is the author of “Springsteen: Album by Album,” which comes out in October. He won’t mind if you go and preorder it right now. He lives in North Portland with his wife and their 4-year-old daughter. [ In The Cloud ] Serving the Families of the Portland Metropolitan Area Looking to get out of the house with your kids? We’ve got you covered with the metro area’s biggest and most comprehensive daily events calendar, an online exclusive. From sing-a-longs to library storytimes to free days at the museum, it’s all there on our sister site, www.pdxkidscalendar.com. PDXKidscalendar.com is also the place to look for great giveaways, plus the next round of voting for local family favorites. Next up are schools and birthday party venues, so show your favorites some love. Metro Parent’s website is in the midst of upgrades, but it’s still the place to look for online exclusives. This month, we’re featuring stories on what to do with itchy tweens after school gets out, and local pediatrician Dr. Katie Oldread answers more of your medical questions. Want more ways to stay connected? Make sure you’re signed up for our PDXkidscalendar email newsletter, a handy-dandy summary of our top picks that comes out twice a week, once with the week’s best kid-friendly events, and once for the weekend warriors. 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She stayed at home, raised five kids who all see her every week still and she sewed clothes and baked pies. When I asked her why she thinks we need the ERA she paused and said “it goes without saying.” Q: What’s the next step for your campaign? A: The next step for our campaign is outreach. We’d like to ask all Oregonians to please help us by sending an email to [email protected] to let us know you support us and also if you can help us in any way. Q: You were a backer of HIllary Clinton’s campaign in 2008. Do you think she’ll run for president again? A: In 2008, I took it upon myself to fly to Dallas to help her with her primary. I do not know if Hillary is running. I do know that we must stand together to support the candidate who will stand up for women and children. Q: As a former legislative staffer, you’ve spent a lot of time in Salem. Any tips for exploring the Cherry City with kids? A: I think a trip to Oregon’s Capitol should be part of the curriculum for every child in Oregon. I’ve taken my son to the Capitol many times and he loves it. The walk to the top to see the “Gold man” is amazing and the view is extraordinary. Age 5 and up is good to have them sit in on a committee hearing. Calling ahead of time to see if there are a few representatives or Senators who would be willing to meet the children is fantastic — the legislators are great with kids. And there are flags from all the states outside the Capitol and it’s a great place for kids to run around while learning about our country. n Getaway: Vernonia What kid doesn’t love a swimming hole in high summer? Find one of the metro area’s hidden gems in Catching crawfish along Rock Creek in Vernonia. No cars allowed, making it perfect for little ones. Or, head to the Vernonia Pioneer Museum, with exhibits Vernonia, about 43 miles from on the lives of early settlers in the Portland, where Rock Creek is Nehalem Valley, plus Native American dammed up every year around the artifacts from local tribes. Eat at summer solstice to make a perfect the Blue House Mediterranean wading pool and shady swim area Cafe, whose owners say they for families at Hawkins Park. There’s a cook the food they make for their lifeguard on duty Monday-Saturday own kids, and no item on the kids’ from 12 p.m.-6 p.m. Pro tip from local menu is more than $4. Camp out at mom Caitlin Hunter: Below the pool is PHOTO BY CAITLIN HUNTER. a little waterfall, where kids can poke around the rocks in the shallow water to look for crawfish. Anderson Park, at the confluence of Rock Creek and the Nehalem River; reservations are available via Vernonia City Hall. Or splash There’s also a stocked fishing pond and several local out with a stay at the McMenamins Grand Lodge, playgrounds around town. Hunter says that even on the 18 miles away in Forest Grove, where family-friendly bunk stickiest days, the temperature in Vernonia is usually about bed rooms start at $40-$45 a night per person. 10 degrees lower than it is in the city, so go ahead and Directions: Take Highway 26 West to Highway 47, and make a weekend out of it. Bring everyone’s bikes for a spin down the Banks-Vernonia State Trail, Oregon’s original rails-to-trail path, which features 21 easy-grade miles that wind past streams and more than 13 old railroad bridges. head north on 47 for about 15 miles. If you’re headed to the swimming hole, stay on the main road, past the flashing light, for about three blocks. Hawkins Park is on your left, just past the Rock Creek Bridge. n metro-parent.com | August 2014 9 45,026 18,148 Total number of babies born in Oregon in 2013: en and now h t , s me a n y b Oregon ba Number that were first-borns: 13 190 28 20 Ran 459 Rank of “Leonard” in 2013, on a list of the top 500 names for boys k MA of RY in Chalkboard: [ Play Room ] Number of Emmas born in Oregon in 2013: RANK OF LEONARD IN 1928: Rank of Mary in 1928: Number of Years “Emma”has been the 1 1 Number baby name for girls in Oregon: 252 261 Number of Liams born in Oregon in 2013 NUMBER OF YEARS “LIAM” HAS BEEN THE MOST POPULAR BOY’S NAME IN OREGON. Source: Oregon Health Authority, Center for Health Statistics. Oh, how the mighty have fallen. Back in the 1980s, you could walk into just about any elementary school classroom in Oregon and be guaranteed to find a few little Jessicas or Jasons in attendance. These days, those names, and other 1980s and early ‘90s favorites (Brittany, anyone?) are out of favor — there were just 12 Jeffreys born in Oregon in 2013, compared with about 1,900 of them in the 1980s. Instead, parents are influenced by celebrity choices (think baby Mason, from the Kardashian family tree), and reaching back to the Victorian era for names, or even futher back, to the Bible. Aiden and Caleb are on the rise for boys; Penelope and Charlotte are moving up the list for girls. So hear this, new parents: if you really want a unique name, you might just consider Jessica. Or maybe Jason. Liam may be king for boys, but here are the other top Oregon baby boy names from 2013: Mason • Elijah • Benjamin • William • Henry • Ethan • Noah • Logan Emma rules for girls, but other names gained ground in 2013, too: Olivia • Sophia • Abigail • Ava • Emily • Amelia • Isabella • Evelyn 10 August 2014 | metro-parent.com [ Play Room ] Apps We Love: When Dr. Katie Oldread, a pediatrician at Sellwood Medical Clinic, isn’t at work or answering our readers’ questions, she likes being silly with her two daughters. Headed out this summer on a classic Oregon family road trip? It’s a long way to Sunriver or Crater Lake or Cannon Beach. Ward off the “Are-we-there-yets?” with our picks for COURTESY OF MURTHA DESIGN the best kid apps for a long car ride. Drawing Pad: Budding artists of all ages will love this virtual sketchbook, which gives kids an array of tools to pick from. They can “draw” with charcoal or colored pencil, chalk or paintbrushes, and save or share their creations when they’re done. Bonus: no markers on your car seats, or lost somewhere in the COURTESY OF DR. KATIE OLDREAD. deepest recesses of the backseat. $1.99, ages 3 and up. Ask Dr. Katie Road Trip Bingo HD: Think the classic car ride game, with an y Dr. Katie Oldread, Pediatrician, B Sellwood Medical Clinic interactive twist. Give the device a little shake, and the app will generate a “bingo” card for you. Then you and your little Q one can watch out the window for a police car here, a stop : It’s summer, and it’s hot outside, but I’ve noticed that my kid is a very sweaty sleeper. Is this normal? What can I do to keep her cool and comfortable? 12 August 2014 | metro-parent.com ages 3 and up. The Oregon Trail: Come on. How could COURTESY OF GAMELOFT A : Summer is here and it has been a hot one so far! It is very common for young children to sweat during sleep, whether fall, winter, spring or summer. Children are more likely to sweat in their sleep simply due to the fact that they spend more time in deep stages of sleep, and that their ability to regulate their body temperature has not fully developed. That being said, some kids sweat because they are hot … so how to tell the difference and make sure your little ones are indeed comfortable at night? One nice trick is to feel your child’s head early on after they have fallen asleep. An overheated child will typically feel warmer earlier in the night, before they have reached deep stages of sleep. If your child is sweating early in the night you can adjust the room temperature, avoid overdressing (typically one layer of pajamas is sufficient, even in the winter), and choose lightweight cotton sheets or blankets as bedcoverings. In addition to normal sleep patterns as well as overheating, there are some situations in which night sweats can indicate a medical condition that warrants further examination. If your child has any additional symptoms that accompany sweating during sleep (fever, bone pain, bruising, lethargy, pallor, snoring as some examples), it is recommended that you contact your doctor to discuss further. Got a question for the doctor? Tweet it to us at @Metro_ Parent, or hit us up on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ metroparentportland. n sign there. First one to five in a row is the winner. $1.99, we NOT pick this one? Best for older kids who have probably learned about the pioneers in their covered wagons already at school. They’ll navigate their way across the country, trying their virtual hands at river-crossing, rafting and gold-panning — but watch out for the disease (dysentery, anyone?) and bandits (those nasty varmints!). Ages 5 and up. $4.99. UNO: Everyone loves UNO, but it’s tough to play cards in the car. Problem solved! There’s a free version, but it might be worth it to spring for the $4.99 one. Ages 5 and up. Bonus: Don’t have a touchscreen device, or maybe you’re a low-media family? Head to your county library and check out their audiobooks selection. We’re particularly partial to Roald Dahl’s reading of “Fantastic Mr. Fox” and Judy Blume’s narration of “Superfudge.” Happy trails! [ Play Room ] Bookshelf: Still got some summer reading to do? Check out hot-off-the-presses picks from Kira Porton, children’s book buyer at A Children’s Place on NE Fremont in PDX. AGES AGES 3-5 Who doesn’t love Sandra Boynton? Her latest introduces ten rabbits who like to dance, sing, jump, and content and pithy hamsters might amass thousands of Twitter followers, we might as well start the next generation early. Bring on “Underwater Doggies:Colors,” by COURTESY OF CARTWHEEL/SCHOLASTIC. COURTESY OF HACHETTE PUBLISHING GROUP Internet’s most popular the threat of attack is constant. How to letters and numbers? survive? The Official Combat Handbook will Make your bed? Or set teach you everything you need to know to the table? Can you do defend yourself from hostile monsters and enemy players. By Scholastic, Inc. Due August 26. Fisher. In stores now. bunny ears. Due September 9. videos are some of the In Minecraft, you’re never alone and shoe? Write your picture book from author-illustrator Valorie join the chorus line after donning a pair of In a world where cat Can you tie your stones like these are tracked in this new their audience, but anyone is welcome to Colors Minecraft Combat Handbook I Can Do it Myself it by yourself? Important childhood mile- wiggle their noses in unison to entertain Underwater Doggies: 6 up: and Fly Guy’s Amazing Tricks The latest in one of the best series for early readers we’ve found, Fly Guy has learned a lot of new tricks. But showing off at dinnertime doesn’t work out for Fly Guy or his owner, Buzz. By Ted Arnold. Due August 26. COURTESY OF SCHOLASTIC, INC. COURTESY OF WORKMAN PUBLISHING Bunny Rabbit Show COURTESY OF RANDOM/SCHWARTZ&WADE 0-2 AGES Emma and the Blue Genie Younger readers know Cornelia Funke for her groovy books on princesses who are perfectly capable of saving themselves from the dragon, thankyouverymuch. Her latest is a full-color chapter book for young readers. Heroine Emma frees Genie Karim photographer Seth Casteel. The board from a bottle, but he’s lost his magic mojo, book pairs simple text on color identifica- and needs Emma to help him recover his tion with portraits of swimming dogs. Think lost powers. Due October 14. William Wegman, but for the toddler set. On sale now. TOP 5... Places to Picnic in Portland ➊ At the top of Mount Tabor ➋ The Skidmore bluffs at sunset ➌ Tanner Springs park, after you’ve hit the playground at The Fields and the fountains at Jamison Square ➍ On the trail at Cooper Mountain in Beaverton ➎ Under the peach trees at Sauvie Island Farms. metro-parent.com | August 2014 13 Getting messy is part of the fun. f PHOTOS COURTESY OF CAMPFIRE COLUMBIA. or Atkinson Elementary School fifth grader August Reinhart, after-school care is as much a part of his day as school itself. His mother, Kate Reinhart says that over the years, her family’s been very pleased with the continuity and care that on-site childcare provider Vermont Hills Family Life Center has offered. Adventures in Afterschooling BY CATHIE ERICSON “There are people there I have known since Auggie started attending in kindergarten,” she said. At the program, Auggie can choose to sit quietly and work on homework or throw himself into activities with other kids, including games, small groups and outside play. That freedom — and staff with the wisdom, enthusiasm and flexibility to handle whatever kids throw their way — is key to a good aftercare program. Fun for Big Kids, Small Kids Aftercare providers have to offer a wide range of activities that will keep kids engaged — no easy feat when you consider the level of ages and interests of a typical group. Staffers at Vermont Hills, which provides aftercare to 30 schools around the Portland metro area, as far out as Hillsboro, say the goal is to meet the needs of its student and parent population alike. “We know that some of our kids want to just breathe after coming in from a tough day at school,” said Jon Myers, who oversees Vermont Hills’ aftercare program, “while others crave a wide variety 14 August 2014 | metro-parent.com BACK-TO-SCHOOL “Their art choices are always so in-depth, much more than just painting and drawing. These kids are never just killing time.” of activities that might include literacy, drama, science experimentation or manipulative building. “We pride ourselves on involving kids in different activities throughout the day. Once kids get bored, you lose them,” Myers said. From science projects that are also art, like creating and playing with “slime,” to woodworking, Myers says they strive for both a “play” and “learn” aspect. For example, a group might repurpose electronic parts and turn them into a robot, allowing kids to exercise both creativity and fine motor skills. Kirsi Baird Barber, director of before-and-after-school programs for Campfire Columbia, which reaches kids around the Portland area and in West Linn, said the group’s “Choice and Voice” program ensures that that kids are directly involved in choosing the activities. Through surveys, suggestion boxes and brainstorming sessions, they seek input from the kids and families on what activities they’d like. “We have found that kids are most engaged when they are interested in the subject matter so we want to tap into that,” she said. continues on page 16 metro-parent.com | August 2014 15 Beyond the school walls, Barber says Campfire emphasizes community projects. She’s had a group who wanted to work with seniors at a nearby retirement center, participating in scrapbooking and T’ai chi. At another school, kids worked together to make healthy homemade dog treats, created packaging and sold them at Grant Park, raising $128 for the Oregon Humane Society. In Sunnyside, a group worked with the church across the street to make sandwiches for food insecure families. Parent Amber Kern-Johnson, whose sons Zach and Lucas go to aftercare through Campfire at Beverly Cleary, says they have really embraced the service component. Her son Zach loved working on the dog treat project, and they even whipped up another batch at home. “We’ve seen our boys grow into strong community members and develop great character traits,” KernJohnson said. “It’s so much more than just daycare.” PHOTOS COURTESY OF CAMPFIRE COLUMBIA. Alan Bagnall, whose son Malcolm is a sixth grader at Beverly Cleary Elementary in Northeast Portland, appreciates how hard the staff works to create programs that reflect the kids’ interests. “There is always a string of options so enticing that sometimes Malcolm can’t even decide which one he wants to do,” Bagnall said. One recent favorite was a comic book group, where Malcolm learned more about the graphic medium. “Their art choices are always so in-depth, much more than just painting or drawing,” Bagnall said. “These kids are never just killing time.” An important component is allowing the older kids to help plan and teach. “This makes them feel empowered, since we find they want to set a good example, have fun and help these younger kids,” Barber said. Studentled clubs include activities such as building models of the solar system or folding origami. “Leading a group emphasizes planning, writing and public speaking skills, but it also teaches patience and helps them think about their own behavior in a classroom setting.” Barber said. Overall, the program leaders say the goal is to create variety so there’s something for everyone – whether it’s being active, or learning more about art and science. “Some kids just want to shoot baskets, but we try to encourage them to make new choices and try something new,” Barber said. And while programs like Vermont Hills and Campfire focus on variety in daily activities, Art4Life takes a different approach, tying its offerings to a particular country. Sandra Santoro, director of Art4Life, which reaches seven schools in Portland, says the program’s goal is to connect the world through arts and community, using visual and performing arts to focus on a different country each month. The week before school starts, she and her teachers pick the countries they are going to explore in the coming year, taking care that it’s not a country they have covered in the past two years. Santoro said kids are especially partial to “Etiquette Fridays,” where they create a restaurant-like atmosphere, continues on page 18 16 August 2014 | metro-parent.com BACK-TO-SCHOOL metro-parent.com | August 2014 17 PHOTOS COURTESY OF CAMPFIRE COLUMBIA. serving the food of the country they’re studying, and practicing their table manners. “You can change people’s world through art and through food,” Santoro says. Who’s In Charge? A second crucial aspect of aftercare is the providers. After all, no matter how compelling the activities, it’s the staff who brings them to life. “It’s so apparent that the staff at my son’s school really love their jobs,” Bagnall said. “I couldn’t have asked for more.” Camille Campbell, whose daughters Shaylin and Kadence attend Jason Lee Elementary in Northeast Portland, finds the Vermont Hills teachers friendly, compassionate and patient: “They have really helped my girls flourish,” she says. “We put together teams that have different skills and life experiences to really bring that rich background to our students.” And this excellent care is reflected in how the staff themselves are treated and the support they receive. Staff training is a key part of all the programs. Barber holds monthly sessions where staff talk about what’s working and what they might do differently. Myers adds that communication with parents is an important part of his role. “I want them to know that they can talk to the staff or me if they have any questions or concerns about our program,” he said. “We are all in this together.” Santoro of Art4Life says that her program’s staff stands out because of their credentials — each of her staff has a degree in a related field, whether it’s art, theater, literature or music. They all have also traveled outside the United States, which allows them to bring that cultural aspect to the classroom. “We put together teams that have different skills and life experiences to really bring that rich background to our students,” Santoro said. 18 August 2014 | metro-parent.com She also prides herself on a ratio that’s below the statemandated guidelines, a program aspect echoed by Jennifer Merrill, afterschool department director for the Portland Jewish Academy. “Our parents really appreciate our low teacher-to-student ratio, as well as the stability of the staff.” Merrill says that PJA, which hosts after-care programs onsite at local Portland schools as well as at its own facility, only hires staff with degrees and specific experience in education. “Because we pay living wages for part-time work, as well as offer benefits and vacation, we have staff who return year after year,” she added. “Parents appreciate that we have staff who invest in their child and care about them as much as their teacher does.” After School, At School The bottom line is that as good as any childcare might be, if the child can’t get there easily, it’s not going to work for the family. That’s why school-based programming is so popular — kids just head right over after school. Not only does it eliminate transportation logistics, but they are also able to stay with their peers, in an environment that’s familiar. Nancy Hauth, program manager for aftercare at Portland Public Schools, says, “By a huge margin, our school communities are really happy with the on-site care we offer. There will always be some parents who opt out, and in some school communities there are more options than others. There might be dance, art or tae kwon do studios nearby, or even a stand-alone child care facility, that can transport kids. But by and large, we find that quality on-site care is the most convenient for most parents.” To ensure that the quality stays high at each facility, she maintains an ongoing system for evaluation, including an annual parent survey and input from principals. And the true measure of a program’s quality? The reaction from the kids. Says Kern-Johnson, “I know that the program is high-quality because it’s hard to get them to leave. My boys really want to be there.” Echoes Campbell, “Almost every day when I pick the girls up, they complain about having to leave.” n BACK-TO-SCHOOL Story times, classes, and camps for toddlers, pre-k and elementary metro-parent.com | August 2014 19 BACK-TO-SCHOOL HOME EDUCATION RESOURCE CENTER real choices for real learning Classes and Community For Homeschoolers Open House September 15 & 17 www.villagehome.org [email protected] (503) 597 - 9100 Personalized Education for Teens Independent Learning for Independent Minds Child focused. Life oriented. A Portland tradition since 1977. Educating children 3 - 12 years. msb.org Montessori Montessori School of Beaverton Beaverton School 20 August 2014 | metro-parent.com BACK-TO-SCHOOL metro-parent.com | August 2014 21 Deciphering Individual Education Plans BY HELYN TRICKEY BRADLEY 22 August 2014 | metro-parent.com W hen John* was in kindergarten his teachers complained to his mother about in situations, but if it doesn’t come to bear on education, the student may not be eligible for school services.” his behavior. He was rowdy in the classroom, regularly answering questions out of turn and having trouble concentrating, they said. It’s important to note that even if a physician has diagnosed a student with a disability such as ADD, dyslexia or anxiety, “I knew something was going on with [my son],” says Portland parent Laney Masterson*, who asked that her and her son’s name be changed to protect their unless the disability interferes with the identities. child’s performance in school, academically, behaviorally or socially, she may not be “The school thought he had Attention Deficit Disorder [ADD], but I was eligible for an IEP. But having a firm medical suspicious of that diagnosis,” says Masterson, who works as a full-time nurse. “I hemmed and hawed for a bit, and then the school tested him and found that he diagnosis can help parents and school of- scored on the Autism spectrum.” ficials understand where a student struggles John’s teachers advocated for him to be placed on an Individualized Education Plan (IEP), but Masterson admits the thought of putting him in any kind of special and how best to meet her needs. “I would tell parents that IEPs are great, Parents should ask questions when they don’t understand something about the process. but don’t accept the first diagnosis,” says education track made her nervous. “When I went into this I knew nothing about it. I didn’t even know what an IEP stood for,” she says. “I didn’t realize that an IEP was a good thing — the services are Masterson. “The IEP [may] not go away, but it might change, and the student might qualify for different services.” so helpful.” Keep Up Communication IEPs for school-aged kids fall under the umbrella of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act [IDEA], which was passed at the Federal level in the 1970s Margaret Zuercher, a learning specialist with the Lake Oswego School District, and makes available services to more than 6.5 million special needs youth around urges parents to view the IEP evaluation process as a collaborative effort between the nation ages zero to 21. the school, your child and you. Students who struggle academically, socially and/or emotionally may qualify “The best way to help is to stay informed [about the IEP process] and in contact for a wide range of services through an IEP, including preferred seating; speech, with the teachers and learning specialists. Everybody is on the road together, and physical or occupational therapy; extra time to take we’re all working together for the sake of the child. There needs to be trust and tests; tests tailored to a child’s specific learning style; open communication,” she says. and educational assistants who can provided one- Parents are an integral part of the IEP evaluation and planning process. According to attorney Hungerford, it’s mandatory for a parent to be included in IEP is developed with the idea that a student should the meetings, along with educators who work with your child, and a district be educated alongside peers in general education representative (usually the school’s principal). Other school employees who work COURTESY OF NANCY HUNGERFORD. on-one classroom help, among other services. An classes as much as possible, making allowances for special needs. Some services such as speech therapy may take place before or after school hours, according to Nancy Hungerford, the founder of the Portlandbased Hungerford Law Firm, which specializes in Portland attorney Nancy Hungerford. with your child, such as counselors or therapists, may also attend. Once a student receives an IEP, an annual meeting is scheduled to assess a student’s progress and set new goals. A student on an IEP is evaluated every three years to determine if they still qualify for the IEP under evaluation measures that differ district by district. “Parents should ask questions when they don’t understand something about student rights and disability education law. Homeschooled students may also the process,” says Jennifer Peterson, a learning specialist with the Clackamas qualify for specialized educational services, but each student is considered on a School District. “What kinds of tests will my child take? If my child is removed case-by-case basis. from her classroom, how long will she be gone? Will my child need to attend a different school? Parents shouldn’t be afraid to ask any of these questions.” First Step: Evaluation To initiate an IEP, either a parent or teacher may request an evaluation, and by law the school must consider the application. “The evaluation is structured to each child, and could address [among other things] behavioral or cognitive problems,” says Hungerford. “The evaluation team, which includes a parent, must determine if a child’s issues affect her schooling,” she says. “For instance, the child could be anxious Additionally, Peterson advises, parents should make sure they are offered a copy of their rights at each yearly IEP meeting, a document that clearly outlines parents’ rights and responsibilities in relation to their child’s specialized learning plan. “Disability is just a different way of accessing information, but it can be a difficult thing for parents to hear,” says Peterson. “It is [the school’s] obligation to make sure kids meet specific criteria, and having that label is our district’s way of supporting the child — it is an avenue to access those services.” continues on page 24 metro-parent.com | August 2014 23 “He’s met all his goals and exceeded them because he got proper treatment,” says Masterson. She says she’s learned how important it is to be involved with her son’s education every step of the way. “As a parent, you know your own child well. Follow up when you see your child is not meeting goals, and advocate for any services that you are entitled to by law,” she says. Here are a few more tips from our experts and parents: • If a child is on medication, make the school aware and let teachers know if medication doses change. • Be aware of all accommodations open to a student on an IEP. There is a comprehensive list available on the Service Summary page of an IEP. • Parents should feel free to ask a psychiatrist/psychologist or other professional who has been working with your child to attend an IEP meeting if they feel it would help advocate for their child. • Make sure an IEP spells out in specific detail the kinds of accommodations your child will receive, including how many hours of the day she will spend out of her regular Teaching kids to advocate for themselves is one way to make special education students feel more powerful. Keep Kids in the Loop IEP services can change dramatically as a student progresses from elementary school to high school, so it’s important for parents to actively participate in setting their child’s learning agenda for each school year. As students become more independent, they are encouraged to come to each IEP meeting and take part in the assessment and planning document, so make sure to take as much time as you need to be thorough. Make sure any accommodations helpful to your child and discussed in an IEP meeting are documented in the IEP plan. • There should be a section of the IEP dedicated to your child’s background, and this is the area a parent should use that what may seem like a fun activity for the elementary to make any educational professionals aware of a student’s student — going to special classrooms for learning activities personal history that might be pertinent to the child’s or taking tests differently than peers — can suddenly seem educational progress. “The child knows they are different, and the more honest • Review your child’s report cards from the past year before attending each IEP meeting, and have handy a list of your parents can be with them, the better,” says Zuercher who goals for your child for the next year. If your goals and the says teaching kids to advocate for themselves is one way to goals of your child’s educators differ, make sure to note make special education students feel more powerful. that in the parent comment section of the IEP. “A huge gift a parent can give a child is the acceptance of the disability,” Zuercher says. For some special education students, a decision to pursue • If you feel your child’s needs are not being met through her current IEP, make a prompt appointment with the school principal. If that meeting does not solve the a modified diploma may come up in high school, usually in problem, scheduling an appeal with the the student’s sophomore year. A modified diploma means school district’s special education that the high school curriculum has been changed to best director is the next step. n meet the special education needs of the student, and it can impact the eligibility of the graduate to enter a four-year university or the military. An eighth grader this year, Masterson’s son, John, is thriving. With the correct diagnosis, he’s been getting the tools through his IEP to blossom in school. August 2014 | metro-parent.com • Parents should fully review an IEP before signing the process. Zuercher, the Lake Oswego learning specialist, notes mortifyingly uncool at the middle and high school level. 24 classroom. BACK-TO-SCHOOL RESOURCES: An Individualized Education Plan (IEP) can be a lifesaver for both students and parents trying to navigate school in the face of academic, behavioral or social challenges, but the acronyms alone associated with special education can make anyone’s head spin. Here are a few tips and resources that can help set parents on the right path: • How to Read an IEP: Acronyms and Language This is a comprehensive list of acronyms a parent may read on an IEP. www.ncld.org/students-disabilities/iep-504-plan/ individualized-education-program-terminology • Oregon Department of Education Standard IEP forms www.ode.state.or.us/search/page/?id=1163 • Oregonlaws.org Individualized education plan and special education law in Oregon www.oregonlaws.org/ors/343.151 • Disability Rights Oregon Special Education: A Guide for Parents and Advocates is an 88-page guide to the educational services available for children (newborn to 21 years old) with disabilities. www.droregon.org/resources/5-publications-1/ education/Special-Education-Guide-6ed.pdf metro-parent.com | August 2014 25 BACK-TO-SCHOOL 26 August 2014 | metro-parent.com BACK-TO-SCHOOL metro-parent.com | August 2014 27 BACK-TO-SCHOOL 28 August 2014 | metro-parent.com BACK-TO-SCHOOL metro-parent.com | August 2014 29 [ Field Trip ] V isiting a museum generally means One-year-old Afton Barton finds going inside — to view art displays, a perfect place to play hide and seek. see natural history specimens, or interact with science exhibits. Kids spend their time roaming around a large building, and only when it’s time to leave do they head outside. A new exhibit at the Portland Children’s Museum in Washington Park, however, prompts visitors to enter the museum and to then head right back outside. In Outdoor Adventure, which BY MICHAEL D. BARTON opened at the museum on Earth Day, 2014, kids and their grown-ups tromp and explore through 1.3 acres of previously unused land. And, given that the exhibit’s logo includes a rain boot splashing in a puddle, Outdoor Adventure is intended for visitation at any time of year, rain or shine. In most natural areas that families can visit, visitors are required to stay on trails and in some cases to not even climb on trees. Our risk-averse culture demands that children stay close and keep two feet on the ground. But at Outdoor Adventure, one of several emerging nature play areas in Portland, kids “You’ve climbed high enough.” Venturing on, older kids can can run wild without leaving city limits. scramble on rocks and get wet in a manmade creek, which The exhibit is designed to spotlight natural elements that can descends from the top of the hill on down. be found around the Pacific Northwest, focusing “on natural At the bottom of the hill elements that promote a sense of place.” Children can kiddos can observe nature in The When you first enter at the top of the hill you’ll find a gated Meadow, an area with native meander area where you can let your toddler clamber over rocks and plants and a good view of the engage in messy fun in a large sand pit and water play area. among trees sky, perfect for lying on your (Hint: have a change of clothes for little ones.) From there a and test back and looking for pictures in trail descends to the bottom of the hill. Along the way, The their climbing the clouds. The overlook at the Campsite lets older kids tap into their inner “Survivor” as they top of the hill is a great place to skills on the construct shelters and forts from building materials such as have lunch (whether packed from tarps, big pieces of driftwood and twine. In The Grove, farther instantly iconic home or purchased from the down the trail, children can meander among trees and test and massive museum café), while a pavilion their climbing skills on the instantly iconic and massive Zoom and natural amphitheater down Zoom Tree. Tree. Up to a point, of course. The tree boasts a sign stating, Running Wild in the City Outdoor Adventure at the Portland Children’s Museum 30 August 2014 | metro-parent.com Patrick Barton, 8, explores the creekbed. OUTDOOR ADVENTURE Portland Children’s Museum 4015 SW Canyon Rd Portland, OR 97221 (503) 223-6500 www.portlandcm.org Open daily 9 a.m.-5 p.m., closed major holidays Admission: Under 1 free, 1-54 $10, over 55 and military $9 Target Free First Fridays: free admission from 4 p.m. -8 p.m. Local libraries also allow you to check out free admission passes for the museum. Outdoor Adventure is free for members and included in museum admission. PHOTOS BY MICHAEL BARTON. below are designed for programs, performances and birthday parties. In May, internationally renowned artist Patrick Dougherty, with help from volunteers, constructed a woven stick sculpture that twists and turns, perfect for a game of hide-and-seek. And students from the museum’s Opal School created art pieces for a large mural of animals and plants that now graces the side of the building facing Outdoor Adventure. My kids and I have visited Outdoor Adventure once during the grand opening celebration in April and again in June. Families could easily spend a couple of hours exploring the exhibit. Before entering the museum from the exhibit, visitors pass through The Field Station, an indoor space to relax and learn more about nature. During our first visit, it rained pretty hard, and while many folks hurried into The Field Station (my 1-year-old daughter and myself included), my 8-year-old son remained outside. After the rain stopped and we went back outside, he told me, “I was already soaking wet from playing in the creek. So I figured I could stay and play in the rain.” He hit the nail on the head: As Outdoor Adventure reminds us, when you’re a kid — and hey, it’s true for grown-ups too — it’s okay to get dirty, and it’s okay to get wet. n Parking: Washington Park pay stations: $1.60/hour; $4.00 All Day (OctoberMarch); $6.40 All Day (April-September). Parking can be paid at any pay station throughout Washington Park. Trimet: Washington Park and its attractions are easy to access by light rail (MAX Red Line and MAX Blue Line) www.trimet.org. metro-parent.com | August 2014 31 [ Family Supper ] At Poa, Food As Good As The Playroom BY JULIA SILVERMAN I n the nearly six years since our twins were born, our family has made the rounds of kid-friendly restaurants in this town. If there’s a play area, or just even a bucketful of toys somewhere stashed away, if there’s a kids’ menu, or crayons and a coloring page available, if there’s a stack of high chairs in the corner, we’ve probably been there, done that and made our apologies on the way out for the inevitable mess under the kids’ chairs. And so I’d like to think that I can speak with a certain amount of authority when I say that the kids’ play area at Poa Cafe, newly opened at the far end of a bustling stretch of North Williams Street is among the very most thoughtfully designed and well-appointed restaurant playspaces in town. For starters, it’s huge, making it much less likely that your toddler will get trampled by some third-grade ringer. For another, the owners clearly gave some thought to kids of all different ages — for grade-schoolers and up, there’s a massive chalkboard wall, a shelf of books and games, and even a row of standalone keyboards on which to bang. (The restaurant’s blog says iPads are coming soon — a first for a PDX-area restaurant, as far as I know. I’ll be watching to see how that one turns out.) For the preschool set, there’s a play kitchen, a Duplo table, and a handful of well-chosen, sturdy wooden toys that are big enough to share and share alike. For the littlest ones, the cafe is already playing host to a roster of well-known Portland entertainers, including tunes from the perennially popular Mr. Ben and an every-otherweek Spanish storytime with the Portland Early Learning Project. And everyone will like the sunny back patio garden, with enough open space for games of Simon Says and Red Light, Green Light while you wait for your food. Okay, okay, but how is the food? Too often in Portland, we’ve found that kid-friendly can mean mediocre, as if restaurant owners know that you’re so grateful not to be cooking dinner for once, and so relieved not to be being glared at by laptop toters or couples out for romantic evenings that you will settle for soggy fries and and a greasy burger. So, I’m extra-pleased to report that I texted my healthiesteating friend right after our meal at Poa to tell her that if she hadn’t already been there with her kids, they should check it out. The food there is simple, fresh and clearly prepared 32 August 2014 | metro-parent.com with care. (The restaurant has attracted a few ornery Yelp complaints that the waits are too long, but in my book, good food is worth waiting for. Our wait was a totally doable 15 minutes for kid food, five more for the adults, and the restaurant offers complimentary bowls of organic popcorn with sea salt and nutritional yeast to snack on while kids wait, which is a nice touch.) Also a plus: The kids’ menu goes beyond the hot doggrilled cheese-chicken fingers trifecta, and offers some more unexpected choices — my daughter the vegetarian was pleased with her bowl of black beans and brown rice, especially after we stirred in some of the avocado from my husband’s plate, and my son put his head down and refused to share his wholewheat pizza, though I snagged some bites of the generous bowl of cut-up seasonal fresh fruit that came as a side to his meal. Kids can also choose to have a bowl of applesauce or Greek honey yogurt, for a total of $6.95 for a meal that includes all three. You can also get solo servings of the kid-sized entrees, which also included a grilled cheese on whole grain bread and steamed carrots with yakisoba noodles for just $3 apiece, without the sides. Pro tip for the grownups: Try to go during happy hour (not so much of a problem when your little Vikings start demanding their dinners at around 5 p.m.) when Poa’s long list of cocktails are all just $5, and a glass of red wine clocks in at $4. That deal is from 3-6 p.m., seven days a week. A glass of the house wine, paired with a large salad full of fresh greens, brussel sprouts, cucumbers and lemon tahini dressing, alongside a small plate of sliced salami, cheese, bread and olives, made a perfect light summer supper. A grown-up version of the rice-and-bean bowl came with corn, tomatoes, fresh herbs and a garlicky sauce, plus a hunk of sweet cornbread, made in-house. I’m already plotting a return for their breakfast menu, which includes avocado baked eggs ($10.50) and a kid-sized serving of oatmeal with pure maple syrup. There’s also a long list of tasty sounding smoothies available, some baked goods available at the counter and fresh fruit for sale, making Poa a good stop if you’ve forgotten to pack a snack. All-in-all, I’m calling this one a keeper. The restaurant is billing itself as an “oasis for the modern day family” — that sounds just about right. n PHOTO BY CHRISTINE TAYLOR. [ Recipe File ] Poa owner Janice Grube and her son, Rocket. PHOTO BY CHRISTINE TAYLOR. A Favorite Smoothie From Poa’s Owner BY JANICE GRUBE 34 August 2014 | metro-parent.com O ur family’s go-to nutritional staple is a green smoothie. The ingredients are colorful with different textures, so it keeps the kids interested. Plus they taste yummy. My kids like when I use my different-sized glass mixing bowls (Duralex makes a set of 10 for $40) so they can see all the colors and shapes in front of them. For the little ones, it’s like magic when they blend into something they can suck through a straw. When we decided to open Poa Cafe, smoothies were high on our menu list. Most everyone loves them. We like to blend together a bunch of kale or spinach, along with fruit, seeds or protein and a milk sub such as almond or coconut milk. I let them pick the fruit, veggies and anything else they might want to try in it, such as avocado. Herbs are great as well and a ripe banana for some sweetness. n A favorite: SuperGreen Smoothie A little less than 1 cup of milk substitute, such as almond or coconut milk 2 handfuls of soft kale, such as lacinato or dinosaur varieties 1 handful of frozen fruit (I love mango or peaches when using greens so they won’t turn the drink brown) 1/2 ripe banana 1 tablespoon chia seeds a tiny bit of sweetener such as agave/honey/stevia a scoop of almond butter or greek yogurt Blend on high (we have a Vitamix and it rocks) for 10-15 seconds, pour in a cup and enjoy. DIAPER SERVICE and Natural Baby Boutique www.tideedidee.com Redeem this ad for 1 FREE WEEK DIAPER SERVICE with 4 prepaid weeks One per customer per calendar year Vancouver and Salem (800) 540-4547 Portland (503) 777-3856 metro-parent.com | August 2014 35 [ First Person: Daddy Issues ] The author’s 4-year-old daughter, Stella, in full-on superhero mode. Unhappy Meals BY RYAN WHITE PHOTOS BY RYAN WHITE. “Is that Happy Meal for a boy or a girl?”crackled the speaker. I hate that question, and I’m not alone. In April, Slate ran a piece by Antonia Ayres-Brown, who, in 2008, when she was 11, wrote a letter to McDonald’s CEO wondering if it would be legal for McDonald’s “to ask whether someone wanted a man’s job or a woman’s job.” She also hated that question and decided to do something about the problem. At 11, she was better than me. She also had less to do. I was in a hurry, or I wouldn’t have been at McDonald’s. I also realize the person asking that question is wearing A perfectly rational response to a Spiderman compact. a headset and is in the middle of a long day of dealing with people like me. That person doesn’t deserve, and isn’t paid nearly enough, to deal with Dad acting aggrieved on behalf of a 4-year-old who doesn’t care. I swallowed my guilt — which tastes better than the food; the resulting acid reflux tends to be roughly the same — and said, “a girl.” My 4-year-old daughter opened the box, delighted to find a purple and pink, Spider-Man-themed beauty compact. Its super power: a retractable comb. I hated it 36 August 2014 | metro-parent.com doesn’t make any sense. There’s no reason for it to exist in the Marvel (or any other) universe. Spider-Woman wouldn’t need it. She’s a crime fighter, not a Kardashian. She’s far too busy saving sizable urban populations to worry about her bangs. But let’s say she does hit the town with friends. She’s immediately. Not because of its colors. Not because a going to assume her secret identity, and she’s definitely not major movie studio and a nearly $30 billion company were going to use branded product in public. That’s just asking engaged in team gender stereotyping. I hated it because it for someone to make the connection. Makeup and accessories are nowhere to be found in the origin story. “Excuse me, could I borrow your mirror for a … Oh my god, you’re Spider-Woman!” Then the movie ends. No sequel. No reboot. And now Right. Merchandise. It was, technically, a Spider-Man compact. Same logic applies. Bruce Wayne doesn’t keep his pants up with Batman’s utility belt, Aquaman doesn’t use that I mention it, where is the Spider-Woman movie? the public pool, and Toby Maguire doesn’t pretty up with a Because there is indeed a Spider-Woman. I Googled her compact. That’s what standing next to Leonardo DiCaprio origin story. That alter ego, Jessica Drew, grew up on a is for. uranium farm, was inevitably poisoned, then saved by her (I know. Toby Maguire isn’t the new Spider-Man, but I mad-scientist father, who injected her with untested spi- have no idea who they’re using these days. I’ve made my der serum (must have seemed like a good idea?) and locked peace with the fact that Toby Maguire is probably the last her in a genetic accelerator. What he missed in Father’s Spider-Man I’ll ever know. Unless they come around to Af- Day cards he made up for by being able to say, “I made fleck, because the world always comes around to Affleck.) Spider-Woman what she is today.” Spider-Woman’s corporate origin story is a little more direct: Marvel wanted to nail down the copyright. Still, Spider-Woman seems like a tough character and I like tough characters. I especially like tough characters I Which brings us back to McDonald’s. Or me to McDonald’s because without a doubt you’re a better parent than me in this one regard. We can at least agree that a Happy Meal beats untested spider serum. The good news, of course, is, that like all cheap plastic can point my daughter toward. She knows not of Spider- toys, this one was quickly forgotten. Or lost. Or hidden. Woman. She knows only Spider-Man, because you need And the next time we swung into the drive-thru (“at least only be alive in this country to know of Spider-Man. it’s not a genetic accelerator,” I told myself), we didn’t get Every six or eight months there’s a new Spider-Man movie that isn’t substantially different from the last Still, Spider-Woman seems like a tough character and I like tough characters. I especially like tough characters I can point my daughter toward. the question. We got a Pokemon toy, which was easy. I knew what to do with Pokemon. I do it all the time. Spider-Man movie, but for a slightly better waxed leading “What is it?” my daughter said. man. You know the drill: Peter Parker, radioactive spider, “I don’t know.” n Uncle Ben nooooooooooo, a love interest, super villain, big fight, good guys win, merchandise, fin. metro-parent.com | August 2014 37 [ Pay Attention ] i f you’re a parent, then you know the drill: you wake up to a feverish child on a work day and your first thought is what you’ll do about work that day Paid Sick Leave: The Time Is Now It’s a good start. But in our opinion, it’s not enough. America’s work-family policy needs a makeover. Paid sick time is one step towards the kind of workplaces that today’s families need to combine work home, or how and family. It is a type of “workplace flexibility” that miserable your makes it possible for parents to provide and care for child will be if their families, without sacrificing one or the other. It you send her to makes it possible for parents to care for a sick child the school anyway way they want to and should: at home, for as long as the (not to mention child needs it. With paid sick time, pregnant women can that you’ll get to their prenatal appointments and take their young be spreading kids in for well child visits and vaccines. Without paid contagion at or protected sick time, missing work for these important your school services is out of reach for too many. and breaking their 24-hour exclusion rules). You can’t win! You’re forced to choose between your job and your child (and it won’t be the last time). voted on a similar sick leave proposal. if you stay or childcare BY LISA FRACK, FAMILY FORWARD OREGON the stands, city council members in Eugene will have Other policies that would help American families better meet the often competing demands of work and family include paid family and medical leave (currently only some workers are eligible for unpaid family and medical leave), affordable child care (Oregon tops the charts for expensive care), and equal pay for equal work For parents who don’t have so mothers are better able to paid sick time where they work — and that’s about 50% of us — missing work to care for a sick child also means losing pay. And provide for their families (about A paid sick leave supporter, at a recent Eugene City Council meeting. 2/3 of mothers today are either primary or co-breadwinners for their families.) the lower your income, the less If you are committed to a likely you are to have sick time, more family forward Oregon, making it even more challenging we invite you to join us at www. for low-wage families. familyforwardoregon.org, where But things are changing. As possible for parents in Oregon to within the city of Portland, you raise families with enough time have a right to job-protected sick to care for them and enough income to provide for them. And, has five or more employees, that we’re celebrating our 5th birthday time must be paid. Check the with a fun, free family party in City’s web site to learn how this Portland’s Peninsula Park on portlandoregon.gov/sicktime/. Other Oregon cities are following suit: By the time this issue hits August 2014 | metro-parent.com COURTESY OF JUVENTUD FACETA. time — and if your employer new law applies to you: www. 38 we are working hard to make it of January 1, 2014, if you work Saturday, August 16th. Think cake, ice-cream, music, and free massages for parents! See you there, we hope. n metro-parent.com | August 2014 39 [ Angels Among Us ] Ladybug, ladybug, fly away home. Schoolyard Farms BY COURTNEY LEEDS, COFOUNDER AND EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR H ow many times have you heard your child say, “I don’t want to eat that,” when served a side of vegetables at dinner? And forget about getting them to eat the vegetables served in the school cafeteria — usually pre-cooked and reheated, and therefore tasteless and uneaten. Kids have a hard time eating vegetables. Schoolyard Farms is trying to change all that. The program’s one-acre pilot farm is tucked away on the northeast corner of Candy Lane Elementary’s spacious schoolyard in Oregon City. Over the last few years, the once unused acre of the schoolyard has been transformed into a working farm, complete with 33 raised beds, a high tunnel (a round-topped structure with a plastic covering) and a greenhouse. This summer, Schoolyard Farms is adding an outdoor classroom/basic kitchen where students can prepare simple, healthy meals with the produce from the farm. Late-summer harvests include locally adapted tomatoes, eggplant, peppers, squash and greens, all packed for Community Supported Agriculture members (CSA), local restaurants and, most important, the school cafeteria. Schoolyard Farms sells the 40 August 2014 | metro-parent.com The high tunnel at Schoolyard Farms. produce to help fund the program. Since 2012, the farm has produced more than 5,000 pounds of produce. The farm at Candy Lane not only serves as a source for fresh produce, but also as a classroom. Each week, Schoolyard Farms’ garden educators bring every student from Candy Lane out to the farm for a garden-based lesson. One week students will learn how to prep a bed and plant a seed, the next week they will learn how nitrogen from the atmosphere can become fixed in the soil, and the third week they will harvest the produce and learn how to prepare a healthy snack. Cast Your Vote Today! Showing off the garden’s treasures. PHOTOS COURTESY OF SCHOOLYARD FARMS. In the summer, the farm transforms into a summer camp where first through sixth graders spend a week exploring the farm, harvesting the produce and preparing healthy snacks. Metro Parent’s Family Favorites continue as we invite you to vote for your family’s favorite education and birthday resources. Now through August 10th, visit us online to cast your vote in the following categories: When kids are involved in a school garden they are more likely to think positively about fruits and vegetables. And when kids are involved in a school garden that circles its food back the cafeteria, they are more likely to eat fruits and vegetables. BIRTHDAY RESOURCES Kids Cooking Amusement Parks/Bowling/ Swimming & Water Parks Language Education Schoolyard Farms’ vision is to see a school farm on every schoolyard. We imagine scaling up the traditional size of a school garden — around a dozen raised beds — to the size of a school farm, at least one acre. By expanding, enough produce can be grown to sell, generating revenue to support the program. Also, there is enough space to host programs like summer camp and after-school classes for the community. Instead of hearing, “I don’t want to eat that,” the question we often hear at the farm is, “Do we get to eat the vegetables?!” We’re so happy to tell them, “Yes!” EDUCATION RESOURCES Arts & Crafts/Cooking Performing Arts Preschools/Daycares Dance/Gymnastics/ Acrobatics/Martial arts Schools Entertainers Science/Technology/Math Indoor Playspaces Sports and Active Outdoor Venues Tutoring/Learning Assistance Party Suppliers Restaurant/Theater You can support Schoolyard Farms by becoming a CSA member or sending a child to summer camp next year. We are always in need of volunteers on the farm and to help with our garden-based classes. Or simply making a donation goes a long way toward realizing our vision of a farm on every schoolyard. You can learn more at schoolyardfarms.org. n #M P Fam es Fav Science/Nature/Museums/ Animals/Farms/ Horseback Riding Sports and Active We’re hosting five separate voting periods this year, covering all your family’s favorite destinations, attractions, resources and more. Categories include educational attractions, visual and performing arts, outdoor and indoor attractions, sports and active fun, food and dining, day trips, parenting support, education, and more. ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● pdxkidscalendar.com/mpfamfaves-vote metro-parent.com | August 2014 41 [ Time Out ] En Plein Air: Pack your smocks, and perhaps a beret for this oh-so-French event on the Portland Park Blocks, right in front of the Portland Art Museum. The museum is hosting a giant outdoors art party, with nature-inspired art projects for the littles, an outdoor exhibition of the park-inspired paintings made by local “plein air” artists, and free admission to this summer’s blockbuster museum show, “The Art of the Louvre’s Tuileries Gardens.” The fun starts at noon and goes until 5 p.m.; big kids can stay out later for the free screening of romantic comedy Gigi in the museum’s courtyard at 8 p.m. Sunday, August 10. FREE. COURTESY OF THE DANCERS OF OREGON BALLET THEATRE AND COURTESY OF M REALTY Dance, Dance Revolution: Pack up your toe shoes, leotard and aspiring ballerina or ballerino, and head to Pioneer Courthouse Square in downtown PDX, when the venerable Oregon Ballet Theater moves their dance studio to the open air. Kids and their grownups can watch the dancers rehearse for this fall’s untitled-asof-press-time premiere ballet by choreographer Nicolo Fonte, and even take a class with OBT’s faculty members and its guest artists. It’s all FREE. Monday, August 25-Thursday, August 28. Check www.obt.org/ outreach_events_exposed.html for performance times. PHOTO: COURTESY OF NATIONAL GALLERY OF ART, WASHINGTON, D.C., AILSA MELLON BRUCE COLLECTION. Go. Play. Explore. August | 2014 COURTESY HIGH MUSEUM OF ART. 42 August 2014 | metro-parent.com PHOTOS COURTESY CITY OF PORTLAND. Night Owls: Go meet your neighbors, plus local emergency responders, at parks and schools all over the metro area. It’s National Night Out, when kids and their grown-ups make like Mr. Rogers and mingle with the people in their neighborhood, be it the family next door, the local police officer or the fire chief. SE Portland’s Piccolo Park does this one in style, with the members of the Hosford-Abernethy Neighborhood association scooping up free ice cream, plus a bubble machine, chalk for kids to draw to their heart’s content and police motorcycles to clamber on (stationary ones, of course). Or head to Beaverton City Park Fountain, where you can watch the police K-9s in action. Check your local police department web page for NNO events in your backyard. Tuesday, August 5. FREE. metro-parent.com | August 2014 43 [ Time Out ] Training Wheels: No cars + lots of bikes = a really good summer Sunday. Rainy weather will be back soon enough, so get out for a family bike ride this month while the getting is good. Balance bikes, tricycles, training wheels, cargo bikes, unicycles, trailer bikes, ride-along bikes and tandem bicycles — all are welcome at the Sunday Parkways in SE Portland. Seven miles of road are closed to cars, so kids can bike as fast (or, more likely) as slow as they want. Along the way, neighborhood residents set up lemonade stands and snowcone machines — be neighborly, and partake. Better yet, there are convenient pit stops every couple of miles, at parks along the route, where kiddo entertainers have set up shop. Our pick is Laurelhurst Park, where the Joy Now project, a motley crew of circus arts performers usually camps out, giving free juggling lessons and hula hoop demonstrations. There’s food for sale too, from Portland’s trusty army of mobile food trucks. Sunday, August 24, 11 a.m-4 p.m. FREE. Meanwhile, the Providence BridgePedal attract hordes of serious cyclists to downtown Portland to coast over the bridges that span the Willamette, mostly all closed to cars for this once-a-year event. It can be overwhelming for the youngest pedalers, which is why the BridgePedal folks came up with KidsPedal, a shorter, three-mile route that only crosses the Hawthorne and Steel Bridges. Adults can ride this route only if they are “chaperoned” by a kid 8-years-old or younger. There’s no charge to ride, but there’s only room for 1,000 participants — and every one of them needs to be wearing a bike helmet, organizers say. The KidsPedal starts at a familyfriendly 10 a.m. at SW Morrison and Naito Parkway. FREE. 44 August 2014 | metro-parent.com COURTESY OF THE PORTLAND BUREAU OF TRANSPORTATION Picture break, on top of the Fremont Bridge. Ready to put the pedal to the metal. COURTESY OF PROVIDENCE BRIDGEPEDAL. COURTESY OF PROVIDENCE BRIDGEPEDAL. Flying High at the state fair. COURTESY OF OREGON STATE FAIR. Rides-O-Rama: Oregon State Fair: This is the big one. The Oregon State Fair might not have deepfried butter statues — this isn’t Iowa, people — but there’s plenty to keep a family busy, from all the farm animals that have ever showed up in a Sandra Boynton board book to 20 different kiddie carnival rides. If you’d rather hit a concert, let your littles rock out to Joan Jett and the Blackhearts on August 30, at 4 p.m. The fair lasts from August 22 to September 1, but one great day for families to go is Saturday, August 23. That’s Les Schwab Kids Day, with free kids admission tickets available at Les Schwab stores around the metro area. Oregon State Fairgrounds, Salem. Monday to Thursday 10a.m.-10 p.m. Friday to Sunday 10 a.m.-11 p.m. Adults $8, kids 6 to 11, $6. metro-parent.com | August 2014 45 [ Time Out ] COURTESY OF METRO Under the Stars COURTESY OF SEAN MINOGUE. Rox Out Books, music, sunshine — what’s not to love? All three should be out in full-force at Rox in Sox, a jumbo celebration of kids’ music and books in Lake O. The grown-ups say you should bring chairs and blankets. But who will have time to sit down? Kids will be too busy jamming out to the sounds of Recess Monkey, Mesta Cookie Jar, The Not Its and Red Yarn. Some really cool authors will be there to read and show you how they create their books. As if that’s not enough, you can play games, make crafts and much more. Rox rocks from 10 a.m.- 4 p.m. Sat. Aug. 2. It’s FREE with a donation of new shoes, socks or books. Head over to The West End Building, 4101 Kruse Way in Lake Oswego. Sleep with the lions and tigers and bears, oh my! Pitch your tent and snuggle into your sleeping bag on the big lawn for Camperoo at the Zoo. But before you nod off, you’ll get guided tours to see what the animals are up to when those picture-taking humans go home. Get a peek behind the scenes and learn about some of the Zoo’s newest residents. The fun starts at 4 p.m. on August 2 and lasts until 9:30 a.m. the next morning. Camperoo costs $54 per person for ages 12 and up and $40 for ages 3-11. Kids 0-2 are FREE. It sounds pricey, but you get dinner, snacks, a campfire with s’mores and continental breakfast. Zoo members get a discount. Registration is required. Ewe otter have more fun than a barrel of, well, you know. For the more rugged campers, Oxbow State Park near Troutdale accepts reservations for tent sites, and has great Sandy River access for tubing and splashing. The park gets crowded during the day, but things quiet down after dark, and there are family-friendly singalongs, stargazing parties and naturalist presentations on weekends all summer long. We like the sound of “Bear Stories” on August 9, with tracker Linda Jo Hunter promising to tell some tall tales and teach you some bear body language to boot. Head to www.oregonmetro.gov/oxbow to reserve your site. Music Al Fresco: COURTESY OF PORTLAND FESTIVAL SYMPHONY 46 August 2014 | metro-parent.com In our minds, nothing says summer more than a concert in the park. Think a picnic dinner, maybe a bottle of wine and plenty of room for the kids to roam. There are outdoor concerts almost every day of the week in the Portland area this month, but one of our longtime favorites is the Portland Festival Symphony’s weekend shows. It’s a great way to introduce your kids to live, classical music, but the best part is the very end, when kids are given their own plastic recorders and invited to tootle along with courtly conductor Lajos Balogh and the rest of the musicians during the “Toy Symphony” number. Just one warning: Those recorders are yours to keep. We recommend putting them on a high shelf, unless you like being awakened by your mini-bugler at 5 a.m. Saturday, August 2, Laurelhurst Park, Sunday, August 3, Peninsula Park, Saturday August 9, Grant Park and Sunday, August 10, Washington Park. All shows start at 6 p.m. FREE. PARTIES COURTESY OF RASMUSSEN FARMS, PHOTOS BY PATRICK MILLING Fruit Loops: If a trip to the Hood River Valley’s Fruit Loop is not already on your family bucket list, it should be. Head out there August 16-17 for the annual Summer Fruit Celebration, when heirloom Gravenstein apples (the baker’s choice for pies and applesauce) are just coming into season, late-blooming cherries are ripe for picking and peaches are at their peak. Fruit stands all along the Fruit Loop are open, but a few have family-friendly events planned, including pie walks, a corn maze and treasure hunts at Rasmussen Farms, and visiting the alpaca babies at Foothills Yarn&Fiber. More info is at www.hoodriverfruitloop.com. FREE, but be sure to weigh your kids before they start picking. 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