December - The Key Awareness Newspaper
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December - The Key Awareness Newspaper
FREE I N S I D E A W A RE N E S S “Turning Positives Into Print” Men of Club 533... Special Blessing 2 Geri's Inspirations 3 Life's Journey: Johnnie Bernice Barlow 4 Cynthia's Health News 5 Black History Museum 8 Dr.Virgie M. Binford (Continued from page 1) 9 Drugs Uncut:The Earl Jasper Story! 10 Visit our website: www.keyawarenesspublishing.com or email us at [email protected] Volum e XV, Num b e r IX • De ce m b e r 2011 Little Sam Got Her Van! - On behalf of the Dillard family, we thank everyone for their participation and financial donations in helping to make this a reality. Now we are working to make the second half of the Dillard family's wish, of adding on a downstairs, wheelchair accessible bedroom for Lil Sam come true. With your continued support, together we will make this too a reality. Blessed are those who share-Thank You--May God continue to bless you all! Contact info: Lucy Memmo (804) 920-7731 | lucy4eye1@ comcast.net Make checks payable to Samara Dillard, Wells Fargo Account Mail: Wells Fargo at Bon Air 9 0 2 6 Forest Hill Ave | Richmond, Va. 23235 | Paypal: vanforsam@ gmail.com Proudly Introducing, Dr. Virgie M. Binford: A Role Model’s Role Model! Life is a journey. Preparation is a most essential dynamic for the success of the journey. For without knowledge of the road we tread, we may easily be subjected to 40 years of wilderness wandering. It is God’s desire and purpose for His children as we embark upon our journeys, discovering and activating our ministries to serve and to lead, that we grasp all educational opportunities. It does not bode well with the spirit of man to follow an uneducated leader. “Education is a social process… Education is growth… Education is, not preparation for life; Education is life itself”. (Source: philosopher John Dewey) “Education is a better safeguard of liberty than a standing army” (Source: Edward Everett). It is said that only the educated are truly free and remember: “He who opens a school door, closes a prison”. (Source: Victor Hugo) It is a great privilege and honor to have such an elite, world renowned educator to grace our Key Continues on page 9 Mosby Court Faith Leaders Day Program… A Great Success In The Mosby Community! The Mosby Court Faith Leaders Day turnout, sponsored by the Richmond Police Faith Leaders Partnership was a great success. The program held in the Mosby Community lived up to its theme of Food, Fun and Fellowship as Mosby residents and friends intermingled with participants of the Richmond Faith Leaders Partnership while enjoying great food, fantastic entertainment and wonderful socialization with one another. “In the Faith Leaders Partnership there are about 45 churches that come together; they meet with me and Continues on page 6 Glad Key Awareness Wishes You All Tidings & A Merry-Merry Christmas Page 2 Key Awareness • December 2011 The Men of Club 533 Continues To Be A Special Blessing For Their Richmond Neighbors In Spite of Economic Hard Times! Give… give… and then… give some more; this is what you safe… thank you very much”. our heavenly Father has instructed us to do. Resident Irvin Taylor commented: “I appreciate my Jesus said, “And whosoever shall compel thee to go a Thanksgiving food box and I wish you all many more mile, go with him twain. (2 miles). Give to him that asketh Thanksgivings”. thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou 4th Avenue resident, Dianne Francis Smith said, “Thank away”. [Matthew 5: 41-42] you”. You know; I remember as a child growing up in the James Lawson, 4th Avenue resident commented: “First old-school neighborhood where no one went without a of all I give the honor and praise to our Lord and Saviour; meal, because neighbors shared the little that they had with for the men of Club 533 we thank you all and we really one another to make sure nourishing food was provided for appreciate it and we wish you all a blessed Thanksgiving”. families and individuals who came up a little short. A cup Mary R. Johnson, 4th Avenue resident stated, “I thank of flour here, a cup of meal there… a pot of beans from Ms. you once again because this is my second time receiving a Johnson down the street… and then take the book to one of gift basket from Club 533”. the corner markets and get meat and bread on time. Bam… Gloria Winston said, “I just want to thank you all for you’ve got a meal! Back in the day… through hard-times, my basket”. Old Brook Circle neighbors stuck together and we all survived. 3900 Old Brook Circle resident, Sarah Cook Guess what? Hard-times are back again… just look around; but thank God for old-school commented, “I just want to let the men of Club 533 know that I really appreciate the food neighbors like the men of Club 533. basket”. All year long these old-school neighbors are busy assisting the needs of the people in the Willie Stuken, Old Brook Circle resident stated: “I’m very thankful for the food basket Richmond community with blessings of food, monetary donations, non-perishable gifts as well from Club 533”. as the most important gift of all… the gift of time. Robert May said, “I want to thank you all for bringing these food baskets to us”. Today we are focusing on the blessed generosities from the men of Club 533 through their Linwood Jeter, Chairman of the Community Affairs Committee for Club 533 stated: “We annual giving of food baskets for senior residents at Fay Towers, 1611 4th Avenue and Old do this the whole year around. In addition to donating Thanksgiving baskets, we give Christmas Brook Circle senior living facilities in the Jackson Ward and north Richmond areas. baskets as well as helping the people of Richmond in other ways. The needs of the people are Recipient Kathleen Hewlett really growing, we don’t get any of Fay Towers senior facility outside donations, this is all done commented: “I thank the men by members of Club 533. We are of Club 533 for donating this proud to do this. To be able to Thanksgiving Food basket, I help someone and to see the joy in plan to prepare a big dinner on their face… that’s what we get out Thanksgiving day”. of it. I hope the Lord continues to Robert Lee of Fay Towers bless us and bless them too”. stated: “I appreciate you guys “He who is kind to the coming by and giving us these poor lends to the Lord, and He food baskets; I pray that God will reward him for what he has continues to bless you all and keep done”. [Proverbs 19:17] 1611 4th Avenue Fay Towers Whole House $99.99 Apartment $49.99 One Room $19.99 Now Hiring!!! 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Great Gift Ideas! Barky’s Spiritual Store Hymnals • Ballads • Videos • Bibles • Robes Usher Pens • Bulletins • Etc. 18 E. Broad St. • 643-1987 Geri’s Inspirations Do Nothing When Nothing Works How many times have you gone out of your way to make life easier for someone else only to have them act as though what you are suggesting is an inconvenience to their agenda? If you are a proactive person such as me, then you know exactly what I am referring to. You are the kind of person who tries to prevent mishaps rather than react to them after the fact. You anticipate challenges so that you are not caught off guard at an inopportune time. You spend quite a bit of time planning things rather than letting things just happen. You try your best to control the energy that comes into your space. Because of who you are there will be times where you do nothing when nothing works. This past month I had a number of occasions where my assistance was met with resistance. Rather than try to explain my intentions, I decided to do nothing. For me doing nothing takes the issue off my plate and allows me to focus on the positives in my life. I refuse to allow someone else’s agenda to steal my joy. If the way you want it done is more convenient to you, yet causes me undue stress, then we need to meet some place in the middle. This especially applies to customer service where I am spending my money. No matter how bad I want an item, if the energy surrounding the purchase is negative, then I will forfeit the purchase. In the spirit of Christmas, I have done just that this week. I will continue to be conscious of the energy that comes into my space from now on. Not just during the holidays, but at all times. If nothing you do is working anyway, then you might as well do nothing. This decision may eliminate the stress of trying to fix the situation. Sometimes by the time you get back to it everything has worked itself out. Remember we are responsible for our thoughts and feelings. No one can make us sad or happy. I choose happy! For Insurance Call: Sometimes that means I do (804) 264-9443 nothing when State Farm Insurance Companies nothing works. Home Offices: Bloomington, Illinois Michael Fisher Page 4 Key Awareness • December 2011 Life’s Journey: Johnnie Bernice Barlow Sunrise: June 2, 1945- Sunset: November 4, 2011 I had the pleasure of meeting “Johnnie Girl” when we were about fourteen years of age. Initially she would stop by to see us when my brother in law’s sister would come to visit my sister and her husband who were living in the apartment two doors down from us in Gilpin Court. “Johnnie Girl” would pop in and just start talking and acting crazy, flashing that infectious undeniable smile of hers that no one could deny warming up to. Mama took a liking to her immediately and pretty soon whenever they came to visit my sister and her husband, “Johnnie Girl” would come over by herself and sit down and eat dinner with us, still talking and acting crazy. Now back during that time it took a lot of charming for Mama to invite you to sit and have dinner… especially when times were hard… but like I said earlier, “Johnnie Girl’s” infectious undeniable smile and outgoing down to earth personality won us all over. And with “Johnnie Girl”, once she won you over, you became a friend of hers for a lifetime. Such was my pleasure and experience with her. At age fourteen she became my buddy for life and whenever we saw one another throughout the years that followed, her special smile always made me smile. From now on just like in the past… whenever I think about “Johnnie Girl” it will bring a smile to my heart that will resonate upon my face. What a ‘blessed gift’ she possessed. A friend and admirer, Robert W. Evans/ Key Awareness Publishing “A smile for all, a heart of gold, one of the best the world could hold. Never selfish, always kind. These are the memories you left behind”. Our beloved Johnnie Bernice Barlow, 66, of Richmond, Virginia was called to eternal rest. She completed her journey here on earth on Friday, November 4, 2011 and accepted God’s offer of everlasting life. She was born June 2, 1945, the youngest daughter of the late Emily and John (Bayboy) Barlow Jr. Johnnie, affectionately known to all as “Johnnie Girl”, was educated in the Richmond Public School System. She was employed for 30 years as a bus monitor with Richmond Public Schools and was also employed at Regional Marketing Concepts Events (RMC) as a security officer. Johnnie was a member of St. Paul’s Baptist Church, having given her life to Christ at an early age. Johnnie was most known for her outgoing, and generous spirit. She embraced each day to the fullest being the life of any party or outgoing event. A very genuine person, whether it was her family, a friend, her church or work, she was very loyal and would do anything for you. She loved her family. We will never forget her infectious smile, genuine personality and positive attitude. Johnnie leaves a void in the lives of the many relatives and friends who both loved and admired her. Cherishing her memories two caring daughters, Selma Barlow Dandridge and Rashida Renae Coleman of New Jersey’; loving son-in-law, Stephon L. Dandridge, “heart and soul” grandson, Stephon L. Dandridge II; one sister, Joan Delores Barlow; one aunt, Mary Barlow; two devoted friends, Helen Crawley and Mary Elizabeth Mines; devoted niece, Yolanda Mines with a host of other nieces, cousins, other relatives and friends. Not How Did She Die, But How Did She Live Not how did she die, but how did she live? Not what did she gain, but what did she give? These are the units to measure the worth Of a woman as a woman, regardless of birth? Not what was her church, nor what was her creed? But had she befriended those really in need? Was she ever ready, with a word of good cheer? To bring back a smile, to banish a tear? Not what did the sketch in the newspaper say, But how many were sad when she passed away. ABC ELECTRICAL HVAC PLUMBING GAS PIPING 804 869-9173 NEW CONSTRUCTION Decks-AdditionsGarages Insurance Claims RENOVATIONS KitchensBathrooms-Spas REPAIRS Dry Wall-Doorswindows VA. Class "A" license #2705099418 Dewayne Jones/Master Carpenter J. Beane/Master Electrician A. Bell/Master Plumber/HVAC/Gas Fitter Page 5 Key Awareness • December 2011 WORLD AIDS DAY: DECEMBER 1, 2011 “Every 9½ minutes (on average), someone in the United States is infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS.” (CDC) Get the Facts: United States: • 1.2 million people in the United States are living with HIV infection and 1 in 5 are unaware of their infection. (Data Source: Centers for Disease Control) Virginia: • Approximately 23,000 Virginians are living with HIV & AIDS o Males (16,890) are almost three times as likely to have HIV & AIDS as females (6,103) o African Americans (13,941) continue to face the most severe HIV burden followed by Whites ( 6,975) and Hispanics (1,542) o Transmission Categories: How infected? • Male-to-male sexual contact (MSM) = 41% • No risk factor reported or identified = 23% • Heterosexual contact = 19% • Injection drug use (IDU) = 11% • MSM & IDU = 4% • Pediatric = 1% • Blood recipient = 1% • Greater Richmond Metropolitan Area: People living with HIV by locality, and rate per 100,000 residents o Chesterfield 489; 161.1 o Goochland 181; 863.7 o Henrico 589; 201.3 o Petersburg 389; 1,181.8 o Richmond 2,520; 1,247.5 (Data Source: Virginia HIV Surveillance Quarterly Report, fourth quarter 2010, Virginia Department of Health) Get Tested: Free HIV/AIDS Testing Sites 1. Fan Free Clinic 1010 North Thompson St., Richmond, VA 23230 Phone: (804) 358-6343 Ext 140, Call Susan Tellier for Appointment 2. Minority Health Consortium 208 E. Clay St., Suite D, Richmond, VA 23219 Phone: (804) 225-0820 3. Richmond City Health Department 500 N. 10th Street, Room 114, Richmond, VA Phone: (804) 205-3500 Cynthia's Health News 4. Cross Over Ministry 108 Cowardin Avenue, Richmond, VA 23224 Phone: (804) 233-5016 5. Daily Planet 517 West Grace Street, Richmond, 23220 Phone: (804) 783-0678 6. Vernon J. Harris Health Center 719 North 25th Street Phone; (840) 840-8835 Get Involved: Volunteer in your community. Everyone has a role in the fight against HIV/AIDS. Contact the HIV/AIDS Testing sites listed above for volunteer opportunities. Page 6 Key Awareness • December 2011 Mosby Court Faith Leaders Day Program… A Great Success In The Mosby Community! morning, this is just wonderful”. The Mosby Court Faith Leaders Day program also featured Dental and Health Screenings, Parenting Resources, Youth Counseling, A Job Fair and Educational Opportunities. We are constantly reminded that we are to love our neighbors as ourselves. Philosopher Henry Ward Beecher quotes, “If a man cannot be a Christian in the place where he is, he cannot be a Christian anywhere”. my command staff every month. We decided that we needed to go out into the community to do some outreach, and the Mosby Court community is one of those places we decided to come to”, stated the City of Richmond’s Chief of Police, Bryan T. Norwood. Chief Norwood continued, “The turnout for this event is absolutely awesome, it’s better than we could ever expect. People are having a great time, we’re giving away clothes, food and we’re giving away supplies to folk who need them. This program is fostered by the Faith Leaders Initiative which has about 45 clergy members who meet with our police department monthly to discuss the needs of the community”. Patricia Williford, President of the Mosby Court Tenant Council stated, “This function today is just beautiful, the turn out is just wonderful… it’s great, actually better than the turnout we had last summer. I’m so happy to see all of our tenants out here participating as well as the faith leaders who are out here this Page 7 Key Awareness • December 2011 A Healthcare Home Your Family Can Count On. When choosing a healthcare provider, consider their dedication to improving the health status within your community. Consider the commitment to accessibility, and culturally responsiveness to healthcare services. Consider the span of on-site services provided to meet your healthcare needs. CAHN has, and we are proud to serve the families of our communities. We provide healthcare services to insured, uninsured, Medicaid and Medicare patients, with dignity and respect. We also offer patient education, specialty referrals, and social services support. Consider CAHN, a healthcare home your family can count on. Main Street Medical Center Northside Medical Center Vernon J. Harris Medical Center Glenwood Medical Center Southside Medical Center 2025 E. Main Street Richmond, VA 23223 T. (804) 591-2890 • F. (804)591-2895 2809 North Ave. Suite 206 Richmond, VA 23222 T. (804) 525-1800 • F. (804) 525-1811 719 N. 25th Street Richmond, VA 23223 T. (804) 780-0840 • F. (804) 780-0862 2709 Byron Street Richmond, VA 23223 T. (804) 525-1818 • F. (804) 525-1820 101 Cowardin Avenue Suite 102 Richmond, VA 23224 T. (804) 420-1300 • F. (804) 420-1290 Page 8 Black History Museum & Cultural Center of Virginia Holiday Exhibitions During the holidays, the public is invited to view the Black History Museum’s three newest exhibitions: “Louis Hansel Draper: The Way I See It,” “Darrick Claiborne: Biblical Proportions,” and “Jerome and Jeromyah Jones: The Art of Father and Son as One.” The Black History Museum & Cultural Center of Virginia collects and exhibits artifacts and objects that serve to illustrate the history of Black peoples, with an emphasis on Virginians. The Museum is open daily, Tuesday-Saturday, 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Admission is $5 for adults, $4 for seniors/students and $3 for children 12 and under; members are free. For more information, call 804-780-9093 or fax to 804-780-9107 or visit 00 Clay Street; Richmond, VA 23261 Mary C. Lauderdale Museum Manager Black History Museum and Cultural Center of Virginia Key Awareness • December 2011 Local Black History News Compiled by RRHA James H. Blackwell (Blackwell Community) James Heyward Blackwell was an educator and businessman. In 1880 he graduated from Richmond Institute (now Virginia Union University) and became a teacher in New Kent County, then returned to the Manchester community in Richmond. During that time, Blacks had successfully lobbied for black teachers in Richmond and the Maury School opened with Blackwell as one of the three black teachers. He became Principal in 1888. After more than 40 years in public education, Blackwell retired in 1922. During the remaining years of his life he managed the Interstate Colored Teachers Agency and Better Service Bureau employment agencies. He died in 1931. In 1951 the Dunbar School became a combined elementary and junior high school. The following year, the school board renamed it the James H. Blackwell School. An elementary school only since 1970, the school gave its name to the surrounding neighborhood. Today the Blackwell community is undergoing revitalization through the Neighborhoods in Bloom program and our HOPE VI initiative, which is bringing new apartments, single-family homes, a revitalized park and self-sufficiency programs and services for the former public housing families. Grandma’s Tasteful Foods… With A Touch of Soul Cook Book “A Great Christmas Gift” $15.95; Special for the Holiday- $9.98 For example: “Baked Chicken in Hickory Bacon” You’ve never tasted food so good! Great recipes for the Holidays… from ‘The Country Chef’ (A ten year old can cook from this book) “We deliver… place your order today” (804)- 814- 5578 Page 9 Key Awareness • December 2011 Dr. Virgie M. Binford (continued from front pg.) Awareness issue this month. We are truly blessed by her acceptance. Dr. Virgie M. Binford is a graduate of Virginia State University where she earned her B.S. and M.S. Degrees in Elementary Education. She specialized in Early Childhood Education at Colombia University in New York City; and earned her Doctor of Education Degree in Administration and Supervision from V.P.I. and State University in Blacksburg, Virginia. She has furthered her education at the University of Virginia and in international studies in Africa, Asia and Europe. She earned her Ph.D. Degree from New Hope Bible Crusade College and Seminary in Baltimore, MD. Her work experiences include 37 years in the Richmond Public Schools as a teacher, supervisor and director of various Early Childhood and Elementary Education Programs. She served as adjunct faculty member in the School of Education at Virginia Union University from 1969-1987. During the 1988-89 school year she was employed by the Department of Education in the U.S. Virgin Islands where she served as Federal Programs Monitor on the islands of St. Thomas, St. John and St. Croix. Presently, she serves as adjunct faculty member at J. Sargeant Reynolds Community College in Richmond, VA. “I was born in the cotton fields of Washington County, Mississippi, 100 miles south of Memphis Tennessee… down in the cotton fields. My primary caretaker was my maternal grandmother, Josephine Singleton, because my mother, Alice was a teenager, too young to raise a child. Dr. Binford stated as she continued to speak highly of her beloved grandmother. “I attended a little country school called Leland Elementary in Leland County and later attended Natchez High School in Natchez, Miss. My grandmother, although she didn’t know how to read or write, was my greatest inspiration. She taught me many things and greatly prepared me for my life’s journey. She taught me to always believe in God, never stab anybody in the back and to always remember, that it is more blessed to give than to receive. She was a domestic, washing and ironing for white folk, and even though she didn’t know how to read or write, she thought that education was the passport to get where you wanted to go. She supported and instilled that principle in me from the very beginning. My educational philosophy and background have broadened in the more than forty years I have been actively involved in the teaching-learning process. I have had a variety of experiences in studying in Europe, Africa and Asia. My success as a classroom teacher, college teacher, supervisor, administrator, consultant workshop facilitator in Early childhood, Elementary Education, Parent Education, Self-Esteem Building, Educational Administration and Supervision experiences have given me a broad view of programs and practices for all age groups. My strengths as a teacher and administrator lie in my success as a communicator. I completed the Dale Carnegie Course which greatly enhanced my effectiveness in the field of interpersonal relations. Working with diverse groups provided opportunities for me to demonstrate successfully, results-oriented management. Through the years my strength in effectuating plans for a two-way viable partnership between home-school and community has been recognized in several districts from as far as Roberts College in Istanbul, Turkey where I served as an Educational Consultant”. Dr. Binford continues, “Education is really preparation for setting goals and achieving them; and if you don’t have any goals set, you’re missing the boat. If you’re truly interested in setting examples for others to follow, then you have to be a leader. Successful Leadership goes hand in hand with education. You must be able to get out there and achieve your goals because if you’re not leading… you are following… and you might be following in the wrong direction”. Remember, man is imprisoned by the limited capacity of his own thoughts: broaden our thinking capacities and we set ourselves free as we trek forward through the journey of life. (Source: RWE) “Education makes people easy to lead, but difficult to drive; easy to govern, but impossible to enslave.” (Quote: Henry Brougham) Thank you Dr. Virgie Binford for your lifetime dedication through education of setting the captives free. Special Awards and Recognition Virgie M. Binford is an educational consultant, motivational speaker, and workshop facilitator. “Avenues of Success”, “Self-Esteem Enhancers”, “Character Education”, and “Are You Famous? I want to Be Just Like You!” are among her books published by Providence House Publishers. As a volunteer she has provided assistance for the needy in diversified areas. She has earned several awards and recognition from a variety of agencies and organizations for providing exemplary services. The Educational Wing of the Juvenile Detention Home in Richmond, Virginia is named the Virgie M. Binford Center for Education for her outstanding services in conducting workshops for youth who are experiencing difficulty with coping in society. Distinguished Pi Lambda Thetan Award. The Distinguished Pi Lambda Thetan Award is presented in recognition of outstanding contributions to Pi Lambda Theta and the profession of education. It is the highest honor Pi Lambda Theta can bestow on a member, July 2003. The Clara Barton Volunteer Leadership Honor Award. The highest and most prestigious award an American Red Cross Member can receive, March 2004. Toastmasters International ATMAS Award. July 2004 The Richmond Times-Dispatch Newspaper observed Dr. Binford’s 80th birthday and her many years of dedicated teaching and community service with her photo on the cover of the Metro page, November 2004. Profiled by NBC 12 and featured in a special segment called “Profiles in Black History” that aired during the 5:00 p.m. newscast on Wednesday throughout the month of February 2005. Honored as the conference founder, at the 25th Annual Conference for the Parenting Is Basic Program, Richmond Public Schools, March 20-22, 2005. Shining Star Award during J. Sargaent Reynolds Community College’s Viva Las Reynolds” Employee Awards and Recognition Extravaganza, May 11, 2005. Received the Key to the City by the Mayor of Leland, Mississippi during the Leland Homecoming 2005 for giving the keynote address, July 8, 2005. National Sorority of Phi Delta, Inc. Outstanding Educators Award, April 2006. Toastmasters International ATMG/ACL Award. July 2006. Toastmaster International DTM Award. September 2006. Dr. Binford is also actively involved in community services where she shares time in civic, church and educational organizations and spends most of her time as a volunteer in several organizations. Some of the places where she finds needs and fills as a volunteer are these agencies and organizations: Sacred Heart American Red Cross Pi Lambda Theta National Honor Society in Education Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Phi Delta Kappa National Honor Society NAACP Life Member Delver Woman’s Club Virginia State University Alumni Association (Life Member) National Council of Negro Women (Life Member) YWCA American Association of University Women National Association of University Women Union- PSCE Advisory Board All Souls Presbyterian Church (Ordained Elder) Virginia Area Chapter of the National Coalition of 100 Black Women, Inc. Dr. Virgie M. Binford’s authored publications can be found at: Barky’s Spiritual Store; 18 E. Broad St.; (804) 643-1987 Page 10 Key Awareness • December 2011 DRUGS UNCUT: The Earl Jasper Story! This is a reprint. Thank you Earl and we wish you a speedy recovery from your recent accident. What we do individually, affects our body, collectively. We might think that when we abuse our body, our mind and spirit, with strong drugs and chemical substances, that it has no effect on others. But that’s as far from the truth as believing that a foundation built on soft ground will remain solid. The moment we imbibe any mind altering substance we are building on shaky ground, a foundation based on false reality. And from that moment on we spend a lifetime adjusting and readjusting to the negative effects of that drug, or drugs depending on how many and how much we need in order to suffice our cravings, and to satisfy a never ending dependency. So in other words, while we’re struggling within the realm of these new found changes, not only are we not able to help others in need of our services and abilities, but we are in need of somebody’s services and abilities to help us. So we’ve gone from being ahead 2 points to being 2 points in the hole. And believe me, in this game of life we need all the points we can muster to stay ahead of the game, because life comes at us fast and it plays to win. So we better be ready. The Earl Jasper Story: “I was 18 when I first started getting high. I was hanging with the boys, smoking reefer and drinking beer. It all started very sociable. We’d smoke a joint, go play some basketball, come back drink a beer. Then that phase of it started fading. I started selling reefer, by then I was in my 20’s. By then I had gotten a job at Philip Morris. I was dealing on the job. My mom and I were very close; after mom died I shot myself in the chest. The bullet went in the front and came out my back; it didn’t hit any vital organs. It did no damage to me. All the time God was with me but I didn’t change my life style. I had my own night club for thirteen years. By then I was selling cocaine. I was supplying the Tidewater area with cocaine as well as Church Hill, Southside and Goochland County. I was going to California to get cocaine. I even went to the Bahamas to score. After thirteen years of this lifestyle I started noticing that other drug dealers around me were getting busted. I knew the police was watching me so I slacked up from dealing. Then I started smoking coke. After thirteen years I became seriously addicted. My habit per day was $600 a day. I did $600 a day for a whole year without missing a day. I lost my house, I lost respect and I lost my pride. My family didn’t put me down but they didn’t give me money to encourage me either. My son stop speaking to me. My neighbors were good to me. They helped me and made sure I had food to eat. When I hit my bottom I was selling my jewelry, my clothes, my stereo, and my TV’s. I was tired. Tired of going through this. Tired of my lifestyle. I remember wanting to just end it all. I remember swallowing half a box of Decon rat poison and drinking a Pepsi cola, nothing happened. I didn’t even have a stomach ache the next day. God was with me. I remember about a year before this I had gotten into an argument with a co-worker over some money he owed me for drugs. I remember that since that time he had stopped using and was clean. I said Lord please help me. So I decided to humble myself and give this guy a call. I was going to apologize to him about the argument we’d had and to see if he could help me since I had heard that he was now clean. I went outside and cut my grass, I never did call him. While I was cutting my grass he pulled up. He had come to see me. I knew right then and there that God had sent him. That God had answered my prayer for help. I got clean after that for three months. By this time I was homeless. A guy name Maurice Hill brought me into his house. He told me that he didn’t care if I wasn’t working but I wasn’t going to get high in his house and that I had to attend AA meetings on a regular basis. He got on my nerves but he saved my life along with a lady name Nesta Smith. I knew that Philip Morris was about to fire me some time back, so I resigned and was waiting on my profit sharing check. I was working day to day at the temp service. When my profit sharing check came I took a hundred fifty dollars and bought me some crack. I wanted to see if I was strong enough to handle it, I wasn’t. I called my sponsor; he made me go to every AA meeting he could find every day. I took the rest of my profit sharing, paid off my bills and enrolled in a truck driving school. That was sixteen years ago and I haven’t looked back since. Once I saw a guy OD on drugs, that scared the crap out of me. It helped to keep me straight. Today that guy is clean and has been for 12 years. I’ve been clean for 16 years. Drugs and alcohol, all of it is substance abuse. One is as worse as the other. After being clean I didn’t know that you could have so much happiness. I can be broke with no money and I am happy, because I know that in my life today that I’m doing the right thing. Today I attend Bible study. I want to thank Pauline Wright and her family, my sister Connie Goode and her family, my neighbors on 19th street, Evelyn and Sarah Wiggins. These people and several others fed and supported me while I was in my struggle. I just want to say that when it comes to drugs, old people don’t be no old fool, and young people, don’t be no d_n fool. Because it ain’t no win, drugs will eventually kill you. It doesn’t matter whether you’re using, selling or occasionally using. It doesn’t matter how smart you think you are drugs don’t discriminate against race, color, or sex. Drugs have no respect of person. One of the best rewards I’ve received from being clean is, today my son and I are back together. We’re as close as a father and son should be. That’s special to me. Remember, like I stated at the beginning of this article, what we do individually, affects one another collectively". 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