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9960 Business Park Dr. Ste. 110, Sacramento, CA 95827 www.aasacramento.org JUNE 2012 SLIPS: Do alcoholics suffer from "Alcoholic Behavior" or are they simply victims of human nature? CENTRAL OFFICE WILL BE CLOSED WEDNESDAY, JULY 4TH FOR INDEPENDENCE DAY What’s inside? Master Calendar Speaker Meetings Group News Special Events Birthdays CommUNITY Corner A Slice Of AA History* Puzzle Minutes Treasurer’s Report Group Contributions CCFAA 2-3 4 4-5 5-6 7-9 10 11 13 16-20 21 22-23 By the late William D. Silkworth, M.D. The mystery of slips is not as deep as it may appear. While it does seem odd that an alcoholic who has restored himself to a dignified place among his fellow men, and continued dry for years, should suddenly throw all his happiness overboard and find himself in mortal peril of drowning in liquor often the reason is very simple. People are inclined to say, "There is something peculiar about alcoholics. They may seem to be well, yet at any moment they may turn back to their old ways. You can never be sure. "This is largely twaddle. The alcoholic is a sick person. Under the technique of Alcoholics Anonymous he gets well, that is to say his disease is arrested. There is nothing unpredictable about him any more than there is anything weird about a person who has arrested diabetes. Let's get it clear, once and for all, that alcoholics are human beings just like other human beings then we can safeguard ourselves intelligently against most of the slips. Both in professional and lay circles there is a tendency to label CONTINUED TO PAGE 14 Gratitude What is it? “Gratitude” that word seems to be a topic of many “discussion” meetings. But how many, who claim to be “Grateful” in these meetings, comprehend the meaning of this often used word? One of my friends seemed to properly define it when he made this statement, “I don’t give a damn what you think or how you feel when you say you are “grateful”. Just tell me what it is that you are doing to show God how much you appreciate what He has done and is doing for you”. Bill Wilson, in a letter written in 1959, wrote: “Gratitude should go forward, rather than backward. In other words, if you carry the message to still others, you will be making the best possible repayment for the help given you.” (As Bill Sees It pg. 29) So “Gratitude” is far more than an attitude, as is so often heard in our meetings. “Gratitude” is ACTION!!! That means search out (AA, pg. 96), go to (AA, pg. 102), and try to carry this message to other alcoholics! (AA, pgs. 60 & 89). The first example we have of “Gratitude” in past history is CONTINUED TO PAGE 6 You can reach us by email at: [email protected] Page 1 By The Way Deadline Dates for Submissions for the By The Way and monthly flyers JUNE 2012 TELESERVICE DESK Volunteers answer the hotline from 9AM to 1PM or 1PM to 5PM Monday through Friday at Central Office. We are looking for volunteers who can substitute in the absence of the regular volunteers. This is a great way to be of service and to help the alcoholic who still suffers. Month Flyers By The Way June 2012 Sunday 6/10 Tuesday 5/15 July 2012 Tuesday 7/10 Friday 6/15 August 2012 Friday 8/10 Sunday 7/15 September 2012 Monday 9/10 Wednesday 8/15 October 2012 Wednesday 10/10 Saturday 9/15 November 2012 Saturday 11/10 Monday 10/15 OFFICE OPERATIONS COMMITTEE December 2012 Monday 12/10 Thursday 11/15 Tuesday, June 12th at 6:00PM at Central Office 9960 Business Park Dr. Suite 110, Sac., CA 95827 Volunteers need a minimum of six months of sobriety to answer the hotline. All submissions need to be in by 5:00PM. Email ALL submissions to: [email protected] H&I MONTHLY MEETING By The Way is published monthly by the Central California Fellowship (CCF), 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110, Sacramento, CA 95827. Current subscription rate is $12.00 per year. Opinions, letters, and stories printed in By The Way are not to be attributed to Alcoholics Anonymous, the Central California Fellowship or any group within Alcoholics Anonymous unless otherwise stated or attributed. All reprinted articles are included with the permission of their respective publisher. 3rd Thursday, at 6PM Coco’s Restaurant, 1830 Arden Way, Sacramento We have an ongoing need for volunteers. Contact the Area 42 Chairman, email at [email protected] for more information. PI/CPC COMMITTEE Meets on the 2nd Monday of the month at 7:00 PM Citrus Heights Police Department Building 6315 Fountain Square Drive, Citrus Heights (Off Greenback 2.1 miles east of I80) **YP PI/CPC COMMITTEE DISCONTINUED** GROUP DELEGATES Please let us know who you are so we can send your group a FREE copy of the By The Way and the flyer mailing each month. We want to be sure we have uptodate info about your meeting location, day, time, and format. CCFAA is here to be of service to you and your group. Please feel free to visit your Central Office located at: 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110 in Sacramento! SERVICE OPPORTUNITIES @ CCFAA! We need volunteers to help with the assembly of the flyer mailing on MONDAY, June 11th at 9:30 a.m. and the By The Way mailing on FRIDAY, June 29th at 9:30 a.m. 2012 CENTRAL OFFICE CLOSURES 2012 Central Office Volunteer Days Central Office would like to have volunteers arrive at 9:30AM on the dates below. Free coffee and donuts are available in exchange for a couple of hours of your time to assist in the monthly mailings. Month June 2012 July 2012 August 2012 Flyers By The Way Monday 6/11 Wednesday 7/11 Independence Day July 4th Day After Picnic Friday 9//28 October 2012 Thursday 10/11 Wednesday 10/31 November 2012 Tuesday 11/13 Friday 11/30 December 2012 Tuesday 12/11 Friday 12/28 Please call (916) 4541771 if you plan to attend. August 20 Labor Day Friday 8/31 Tuesday 9/11 DATE Tuesday 7/31 Monday 8/13 HOLIDAY Friday 6/29 September 2012 CCFAA **CENTRAL OFFICE IS ALWAYS CLOSED HOLIDAY WEEKENDS** DAY Monday rd Monday th Monday nd Thursday November 23 rd Friday December 24 th Monday th Tuesday st Monday September 3 Veteran’s Day Wednesday th November 12 Thanksgiving Day November 22 Day After Thanksgiving Floating Holiday Christmas Day December 25 New Year’s Eve December 31 Page 2 By The Way JUNE 2012 A.A. Teleservice Needs YOU!! “I can’t explain why I didn’t hang up. I just sat there on the floor, with the receiver to my ear. The next thing I heard was “Good afternoon. Alcoholics Anonymous. May we help you?” Alcoholics Anonymous Teleservice, also known as the A.A. hotline, services alcoholics who are in need of help. We help them to locate meetings in their area or provide them with someone to talk to in times of crisis. “Came to Believe” PG 23 This is a great way to be of service to your fellow alcoholics. All you need is the use of a phone and a current meeting schedule. From the comfort of your own home on a landline telephone or even while you’re out and about with the use of a cell phone you can be of service. We would love to have you join our team. If you have at least six (6) months of sobriety and would like to be of service please contact Central Office at 916-454-1771 NCCAA CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting 65th Annual Summer Conference in Auburn, CA Saturday, June 16, 2012 Meeting starts at 3:00pm New Delegates arrive at 2:00pm PLENTY OF BOOTHS OPEN MANY SERVICE OPPORTUNITIES! July 6, 7, & 8, 2012 Gold Country Fairgrounds 1273 High Street 2625 Alta Arden Expressway, Sac., CA 95825 CCFAA PICNIC PLANNING COMMITTEE MEETINGS The Meetings will be on Friday evenings at 6:00pm on: June 15th $10 pre-reg., $15 at conference July 20th Fellowship - Workshops - Speakers Free Drawing - Dance Held at Central Office: Visit: www.ncc-aa.org 9960 Business Park Dr., Ste. 110 Sacramento, CA 95827 NCCAA Fall 2012 Planning Committee Meeting Teleservice Activity Report April 2012 Held at Group Three: 9940 Business Park Dr., Ste. 110 Sacramento, CA 95827 Teleservice Will be held the 1st Sunday of the month at 12:00pm: June 3rd at Noon July 8th at Noon 12 Step 66 261 Meetings/Info 305 1293 Total Calls 371 1554 Apr. YTD 12 51 Meetings/Info 418 1747 Total Calls 430 1798 12 Step 1040 Soule St., West Sacramento YTD Teledesk Next Area Committee Meeting June 16th at 10:00AM Apr. Teledesk Activity Report April 2012 Central Northern Interior Area 07 CCFAA August 17th Page 3 By The Way WEEKLY SPEAKER MEETINGS CAMERON PARK GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Saturday, 8:00PM to 9:30PM. WHERE: Light of the Hills Church, 3100 Rodeo Dr., Cameron Park. Main Speakers are: 6/2 George M., Sacramento, 6/9 Tamera B., Folsom, 6/16 Brian A., Folsom, 6/23 Theresa R., El Dorado Hills, 6/30 Monica H., Folsom. Last Saturday is Birthday Night. Come join us for great fellowship every Saturday night. FOLSOM WAY OF LIFE GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Thursday, 7:00PM. WHERE: Journey Church, 450 Blue Ravine Road, Folsom. FOURTH DIMENSION GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Thursday, 8:00pm. WHERE: Church of Christ, 1799 Cirby Way, Roseville. ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GROUP ~ WHEN: Every Saturday, 8 9:30PM. WHERE: 315 Lincoln St., Roseville 95678. Speakers are: 6/2 Tracy S., Group 3, 6/9 Bill D., Rocklin, 6/16 Steve H., Valley Springs, 6/23 Linbo, Folsom. SUNRISE SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: Every Sunday from 11:00AM 12:00PM. WHERE: Sunset NoAl Alano Club, 5809 Gibbons Drive, Carmichael. We have local speakers who inspire and inform. All are welcome. AUBURN FELLOWSHIP ~ WHEN: Every third Saturday at 7:30PM. WHERE: 244 Palm Ave., Auburn, CA 95603. DAVIS HOPE GROUP ~ WHEN: First Saturday of each month at 7:00PM. WHERE: St. Martin’s Church,640 Hawthorne at Sycamore, Davis. ELK GROVE FELLOWSHIP ~ WHEN: 3rd Saturday of every month. Potluck at 7:00 PM and Speaker at 8:00 PM WHERE: Native Sons Hall 9151 Grove St., Elk Grove (corner of Kent and Grove Streets). GALT FELLOWSHIP ~ WHEN: 1st Saturday of every month. Dinner: 6:00 p.m. Speaker Meeting: 7:00 p.m. Group supplies main course. Join us! Bring a side dish or just yourself and some friends. WHERE: Located at 169 4th St., Galt. Call 2097451525 for more info. Jul 7: Hot Dog/Hamburger BBQ, Speaker Norm M. – Oakland; Aug 4: Assorted Pastas, Speaker Lauren C. – Roseville; Sept 1: Chicken Dinner, Speaker Larry N. Stockton; Oct 6: Ham, Beans, & Cornbread, Speaker Laurianne R. – Pleasanton. GROUP ONE ~ WHEN: Third Sunday of the month, the noon meeting is a speaker meeting. WHERE: 2804 T St., Sacramento. GROUP THREE ~ WHEN: Third Saturday of the month at 8:00pm. WHERE: 9940 Business Park Drive, Ste. 110, Sacramento (Located in the same parking lot as Central Office). HIFLYERS ~ WHEN: Last Sunday of the month at 7:00pm. WHERE: 3077 Alhambra Drive, Suite E, Cameron Park HOPE & SERENITY SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: First Saturday of the month at 8:00PM. WHERE: UC Davis Cancer Center, 4501 X Street, Sacramento. Parking $3.00 (UCD required). We are always interested in groups wanting to host a meeting, call 9168021463 if interested. MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS ~ WHEN: Last Saturday of the month at 7:00pm to 8:15pm. WHERE: 2903 30th Street (near Franklin Blvd. and 4th Ave). NEW HOPE GROUP ~ WHEN: Last Saturday of every month 7PM. WHERE: St. Francis Episcopal Church 11430 Fair Oaks Blvd. NORTH HALL GROUP ~ WHEN: Third Saturday of the month at 8:00 pm. WHERE: 3501 2nd Ave., Sacramento. Speakers for June 16th are Jill L. (40 min.) and Matthew C. (20 min.) both from Sacramento. NORTH SACRAMENTO GROUP ~ WHEN: First Saturday of the month, 7:00 pm WHERE: 2330 Fairfield St., Sacramento. JUNE 2012 GROUP NEWS UPDATES & CHANGES MONTHLY SPEAKER MEETINGS ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT ~ WHEN: Last Friday of the month at 10:00pm. WHERE: 315 Lincoln St, Roseville. Young A.A. Speaker Meeting. SACRAMENTO MONTHLY SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: Second Saturday of every month at 8:00 pm WHERE: Centennial Methodist Church, 5401 Freeport Blvd., Sacramento. Please join us for dinner with the speaker & committee at Marie Callender’s on Freeport at 6:00pm, contact Ed L. for information. Speakers June 9: Seamus O., Oceanside – July 14: Kristina W., Windsor. SACYPAA ~ WHEN: Fourth Saturday of the month, 8:00 pm. WHERE: St Marks United Methodist Church 2391 St. Marks Way, Sacramento. Please go to sacypaa.org for more info. TRADITIONAL GROUP SPEAKER MEETING ~ WHEN: Fourth Sunday of the month at 12:00 noon. WHERE: 2625 Alta Arden Way, Sacramento. WOODLAND TRADITIONAL GROUP ~ WHEN: Last Friday of the month at 7:30pm. WHERE: 418B Main St. in Woodland (Alley entrance). Speakers for June 29th are Ray D. and Gloria M. from the Auburn Fellowship. CCFAA AUBURN FELLOWSHIP~ Discontinued Meeting~ The Tuesday night, 8:00pm men’s meeting at 244 Palm Ave., Auburn is no longer meeting. It has been permanently discontinued. COUNTRY CLUB GROUP~ New Time and Descriptors~ Now meets at 7:30pm on Thursday nights for an open, one hour, handicap accessible, young people’s, beginner’s meeting. Located at 3235 Pope Ave., Sacramento, 95821 (Northminster Presbyterian Church). OLD TOWN~ Name, Location & Day Change~ Now called “Old Town Group” and meets on Mondays at 7:00pm for an open, one hour meeting with handicap accessibility. Located at 9201 Big Horn Blvd., Conf. Rm. 1, Elk Grove, CA 95758 (Elk Grove Kaiser). REBELLION DOGS~ Time and Location Changes~ All three meetings have changed. Their new schedule is as follows: Monday, open book study at 7:00pm; Thursday, open meeting at 7:00pm; Saturday, open, Men’s meeting at 10:00am. All meetings will be held at SAAM Foursquare Church, 5801 2nd Ave., Sacramento, 95817. ROCKLIN FELLOWSHIP~ Multiple Changes~ New Location, now meets at 4865 Pacific St., Rocklin, 95677. A lot of their meetings have changed their descriptors; they changed from closed to open, book study to regular meeting, etc. The Sunday, 3:00pm meeting, has been discontinued. Please refer to the March 2012 meeting schedule or the website, aasacramento.org for current meeting information. ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GROUP ~ Time Change~ The regular 8:00pm meeting will begin at 7:00pm on the last Tuesday and Thursday of the month for birthday night. Located at 315 Lincoln St. in Roseville, 95678. SERENITY BOOK & STEP STUDY GROUP ~ Room Change~ Moved from the Mayflower Room to Rooms F1 & F2. Located at 890 Morse Ave., Sacramento. Meets Tuesday & Thursday from 10:00am – 11:30am for a closed, nonsmoking, handicap accessible, book study. SIERRA PINES ~ Additional Meetings ~ Now meets Monday thru Friday at 1:00pm for open, one hour meetings. Mon., Wed., and Fri. are book study meetings. They are located at 22559 W. Hacienda Dr., Grass Valley, CA 95949 (Sierra Pines Methodist Church). SIMPLY AA~ New Time~ Located at St. Luke’s Lutheran Church, 7595 Center Parkway (at Tangerine), Sacramento. Now meets Thursdays at 7:00pm for an open book study. Page 4 By The Way SOUTH SACRAMENTO FLORIN GROUP~ Discontinued ~ The three meetings at 2251 Florin Rd., #156 that were on Tuesday, Wednesday, & Thursday at 12:00pm are from now one discontinued. SUNDAY REFLECTIONS ~ New Location~ The Sunday 4:00pm meeting that was in Antelope has moved to 6010 34th St., North Highlands at Mutual Housing. They meet for an open, nonsmoking, one hour meeting with handicap access. WOMEN SEEKING SOBER LIVING ~ New Time~ The Tuesday night closed women’s meeting at 6010 34th St., North Highlands has moved its start time from 6:30pm to 7:00pm. Please be responsible. If there are any changes to your meeting location, mailing address, format, or if your meeting is discontinued, a newcomer to an empty room! Thank you! NEW GROUPS & MEETINGS FOLSOM THURSDAY NITE 12 & 12 MEETING~ New Meeting~ Meets Thursdays at 7:00pm for a one hour, open, nonsmoking, handicap accessible book study. Located at 1100 Blue Ravine Road, Portable Bldg. B. Folsom, 95630 (Oak Hills Church). GROUP ONE~ New Meeting~ Meets 2nd, 3rd, and 4th Saturdays at 10:00am for an open women’s meeting, children are welcome. They are located at 2804 T St., Sacramento. GROUP ONE~ New Meeting~ Meets Saturdays at 6:00am for an open, one hour, handicap accessible, book study. Located at 2804 T St., Sacramento. LOOMIS BYO 12 AND 12 GROUP~ New Meeting~ Meets Thursdays at 7:00pm for an open, one hour, nonsmoking, handicap accessible book study. Located at 5400 Barton Rd., Loomis, 95650 (Shepherd of the Sierra Presbyterian Church). MEN SEEKING SERENITY~ New Meeting~ Meets Wednesdays at 6:00pm for an open, one hour, handicap accessible, nonsmoking Men’s meeting. Located at 571 C St., Galt, CA 95632 (Methodist Church). MONDAY NIGHT BONFIRE MEETING~ New Meeting~ Meets on Mondays at 7:30pm for an open, one hour meeting. Located at 550 Nevada St., Auburn, CA 95603 (outdoor meeting, smoking is allowed). ROCKLIN FELLOWSHIP~ 4 New Meetings~ Tuesday & Thursday at 4:15pm, they meet for a closed, one hour, Big Book study. Also, Friday & Saturday at 11:00pm; they meet for a one hour, open meeting. All four meetings are at their new location, 4865 Pacific St., Rocklin, 95677. ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GROUP~ New Meeting~ Meets on Saturday nights, for a one hour, open meeting following the speaker meeting at 10:00pm. Located at 315 Lincoln St. in Roseville. SATURDAY MORNING MEN’S BOOK STUDY~ New Meeting~ Meets on Saturdays at 9:00am for a closed, men’s, one hour, nonsmoking, handicap accessible book study. Located at 111 5 th Street, Roseville, 95678 (Roseville Alano Club). SIERRA PINES ~ Additional Meetings ~ Meets Monday thru Friday at 1:00pm for open, one hour meetings. Monday, Wednesday, and Friday are book study meetings. They are located at 22559 W. JUNE 2012 your information, ASAP. Don’t send Hacienda Dr., Grass Valley, CA 95949 (Sierra Pines Methodist Church). SNOWLINE GROUP~ New Meeting~ Meets on Saturdays at 7:00pm for an open, one hour, nonsmoking meeting. Located at 5441 Pony Express Trail, Pollock Pines, 95726 (Lighthouse Missionary Baptist Church). THE THIRD TRADITION GROUP~ New Meeting~ Meets Wednesdays at 6:30pm for an open one hour meeting. Located at 9346 Greenback Ln., Suite 8 & 9, Orangevale, CA (American River Alano Club). TRADITIONAL~ New Meeting~ Meets on Mondays at 7:00am for a one hour, nonsmoking, handicap accessible, open meeting. Located at 2625 Alta Arden Expressway, Sacramento, 95825. please contact Central Office ASAP and update CCFAA GROUP ANNOUNCEMENTS FREE OUR MINDS GROUP~ Needs Support! We have been an ongoing meeting for nearly 6 years and we need support. We meet at 7:00pm on Mondays for a one hour, open meeting. Located at 4400 58th St., Sacramento (First Church of God). ROUND TABLE GROUP~ Meets Monday nights at 8:00pm for an open, one hour, nonsmoking, handicap accessible meeting. They meet at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church at 7850 Watt Ave. in Antelope. SPECIAL EVENTS JUNE 2012 AREA 34 H&I – Panel Meeting – WHEN: Sat., June 23rd from 1:30 – 3:00pm. WHERE: 315 Lincoln St., Roseville, 95678 (Roseville Tues. Night Grp). If you have questions about H&I, they can answer them and get you into service. CLARKSBURG FELLOWSHIP – Annual Speaker, Potluck, & BBQ Picnic – WHEN: June 10, 2012 at 4:00pm, speaker meeting at 6:00pm. WHERE: Clarksburg Community Church (at Netherlands Rd. and School St.). Chicken is provided; bring a side dish to share. Main speaker is Catherine O., Folsom; 10 minute speaker is Chris C., Sacramento. There will be a raffle, white elephant, and 50/50 raffle. CNIA & PI/CPC – Annual PI/CPC Workshop – WHEN: Sat., June 9th, 2:00 – 4:00pm. WHERE: 315 Lincoln St., Roseville (Roseville Tuesday Night Group Hall). There will be answers to many questions about PI/CPC and an informal panel workshop and potluck. HAPPY CAMPERS – 23rd Anniversary Potluck & Speaker – WHEN: June 19th, potluck at 6:00pm, speaker at 7:30pm. WHERE: St. George Episcopal Church, 5600 Winding Way, Carmichael. Guest Speaker is Wiley H., from Houston, TX. LOOMIS FELLOWSHIP – Ice Cream Social – WHEN: June 9, 2012, doors open at 6:30pm, meeting at 7:30, ice cream and raffle at 9:00. WHERE: Loomis Veterans Memorial Hall, 5945 Horseshoe Bar Road, Loomis, 95650. Speaker is Rod B. from Utah (Pacific Region Trustee to the General Service Board of AA). NATOMAS GROUP – 24th Anniversary Potluck Picnic & Speaker Meeting – WHEN: June 10, 2012 from Noon – 4:00pm. WHERE: Natomas Oak Park (on River Plaza Dr.). Bring your favorite BBQ for the grill or a favorite dish. All are welcome, including children. Don’t forget a blanket or a chair to sit on. RANCHO CORDOVA FELLOWSHIP – Quarterly Speaker Meeting – WHEN: June 16th at 7:00pm. WHERE: 2101 Zinfandel Dr., Rancho Cordova 95670 (United Methodist Church). Speakers are Lynne S., and one TBA. Page 5 By The Way REBELLION DOGS – Open House & Potluck – WHEN: June 16th, from 1:00 – 5:00pm, speaker at 2:00pm. WHERE: SAAM Church at 5801 2 nd Ave. (off of 59th street). Please celebrate our new location. SACRAMENTO SPANISH DISTRICT 54 & YOLO COUNTY & DIXON DISTRICTS – Unity Day 2012! – WHEN: Saturday, June 30th, from 11:00am – 4:00pm. WHERE: Discovery Park, Sycamore picnic and Pavilion Area. Fellowship, fun, kid’s games, horseshoes, volleyball, literature booths, etc. Two 20 minute speakers, one Spanish, one English. ALL food & drinks are provided, serving hamburgers, hot dogs, chips, salads, taters, sodas, and water. The park requests a $5.00 parking fee and we encourage carpooling, however, no one will be turned away. SIXTY MINUTE SOLUTIONS – Annual Potluck BBQ & Speaker Meeting – WHEN: June 10, 2012; 3:00pm – setup, 4:00pm – food & fellowship, 7:00pm – open speaker meeting. WHERE: 11430 Fair Oaks Blvd., Fair Oaks, 95628 (St. Francis Episcopal Church). Come join us for an evening of fun, food, and fellowship. Please bring a potluck dish to share. Hotdogs, hamburgers, and limited soft drinks will be served. JUNE 2012 CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1: GRATITUDE Ebby’s efforts to help Bill Wilson. Ebby, two months sober, had heard that Bill was in serious trouble with his drinking. The first thing he had to do was to find out where Bill was, take a subway and go to Bill’s residence with a single thought, “Can I help my old friend?” Ebby “sought out”, “went to” and “tried to carry” his message of hope to a suffering alcoholic. The second example we are given of “Gratitude” is Bill’s desperate search for an alcoholic he might try to carry his message to on the evening of May 11, 1935. True, his motive was a pretty selfish one. Over the previous five months, he had stayed sober only by searching out and trying to carry his message of hope to serious drinkers in New York. The only success he had was that he, himself, had stayed sober. He knew that his only hope on that most disappointing day was to find a suffering serious drinker to whom he could tell his story. So, he decided to “search out”, “go to” and “try to carry his message of hope” to a JULY 2012 problem drinker. It took a call to a local minister plus eleven more telephone calls to reach a lady who said, “Yes, I know of a TRADITIONAL – 4TH of July Alkathon – WHEN: From Tues., problem drinker. Please come on out while I will contact him”. July 3rd at 6:00pm to Wed., July 4th at 8:00pm, meetings every Bill’s selfish motive turned into a selfless motive when he finally 2 hours. WHERE: 2625 Alta Arden Expressway, Sacramento found a man who did, in fact, want to learn how to live sober. To 95825. Potluck, so bring a dish to share and come enjoy help insure the sobriety of his new found friend and to help fellowship and good food! WEST SLOPE UNITY GROUP Day Conference WHEN: 7/21/12 insure his own sobriety, Bill most willingly stayed in Akron until from 12:00 8:30pm. WHERE: 3301 Green Valley Rd., Rescue, the Fall of 1935. The end result was that a miraculous Solution for Alcoholism became a reality; Alcoholics Anonymous. Since that time, there have been literally thousands upon thousands of similar demonstrations of “Gratitude” within the Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous. One of my favorite such stories is that of a very dear friend who passed away with almost AA History in June 21 years of Big Book sobriety. His name was Jack F. Jack got sober on February 11, 1991 in Texarkana, TX. He had only been June 10, 1935 sober a few weeks when he stopped by the Club one day and Dr. Bob has his last drink. there was his sponsor having a cup of coffee. His sponsor said, Alcoholics Anonymous founded. “Good Morning Jack. How’s all going?” Jack said, “Not too good. My damn car is burning oil”. His sponsor said, “Well Jack, June, 1944 The A.A. Grapevine established. there are service stations all up and down the highway”. Jack got a cup of coffee, came back to where his sponsor was sitting June, 1950 and said, “You sound like you are a little put out with me”. His First International Conference of A.A. sponsor said, “Yes I am you ungrateful SOB (not abbreviated). held in Cleveland, Ohio. You showed up here a few weeks ago with 3 dollars in your Traditions adopted. pocket. You didn’t have a job. You didn’t have a car. Your wife June, 1953 wouldn’t let you in the house. Today, you have a job, you have a The book Twelve Steps And Twelve car, you have money in your pocket and your wife has let you Traditions published. back in the bedroom and you are complaining about a car you don’t deserve that is burning some oil. You go over there, sit down and make a list of your blessings. Then, you get off your ass and go find a sick alcoholic and tell him what God has been doing for you that you couldn’t do for yourself”. Jack learned CONTINUED TO PAGE 20 CCFAA Page 6 By The Way Happy Birthday! JUNE 2012 GROUP ONE (CONT’D) AA UNITY Leon 18 yrs Kevin 13 yrs Brian E. 9 yrs Chris H. 6 yrs Happy Max 12 yrs Anthony 3 yrs Joanna H. 6 yrs Paul M. 5 yrs Becky 1 yr Lucinda A. 3 yrs Jamie L. 2 yrs Toure’ A.C. 1 yr BY THE GRACE Teresa S. 21 yrs Kitty C. 3 yrs GROUP THREE Lucinda W. 3 yrs Susan B. 38 yrs Mark W. 33 yrs CITRUS HEIGHTS GROUP Yvonne S. 32 yrs Frank C. 31 yrs Bobby C. 24 yrs Donna G. 31 yrs Michael G. 30 yrs COURAGE TO CHANGE Judy B. 26 yrs Laura L. 25 yrs Nel R. 39 yrs Lynn M. 27 yrs Heidi H. 23 yrs Margie G. 23 yrs Teri S. 22 yrs Gloria F. 16 yrs Joy H. 22 yrs Sharon D. 21 yrs Dianne C. 12 yrs Dee S. 11 yrs James V. 20 yrs Liz O. 20 yrs Peggy M. 3 yrs Bill L. 18 yrs Lisa V. 17 yrs Kelly H. 14 yrs Lori H. 13 yrs Joe H. 10 yrs June B. 9 yrs Lisa B. 9 yrs Brian D. 6 yrs Daniel W. 5 yrs Bryce S. 4 yrs Jane C. 4 yrs Mary H. 4 yrs Rudy U. 3 yrs Tom I. 3 yrs Diana R. 3 yrs Al R. 3 yrs Jange P. 3 yrs Nancy P. 3 yrs Nick P. 3 yrs Patricia W. 3 yrs Andy Z. 3 yrs Sarah D. 2 yrs Chris B. 2 yrs Tim A. 2 yrs Michael H. 2 yrs Hartin C. 2 yrs Steve B. 2 yrs Jeff F. 1 yr GIBBONS NOON (CONT’D) Barbara F. 1 yr Andy K. 1 yr Shelia C. 4 rys Michelle M. 4 yrs Marcela L. 1 yr Carol L. 1 yr John C. 3 yrs Lisa O. 3 yrs Heaven R. 1 yr Mike G. 2 yrs Dianne M. 2 yrs HEAD ACROSS WOMENS GROUP Heather N. 1 yr Christel O. 1 yr Stephanie W. 22 yrs DAILY ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT Ruth P. 31 yrs Chuck H. 15 yrs William O. 13 yrs Cathy G. 11 yrs Sheri J. 10 yrs Dana N. 1 yr DAVIS FRIDAY NOON Lynn G. 34 yrs Lois S. 32 yrs Valerie J. 28 yrs Anne G. 22 yrs John L. 18 yrs Shawna P. 8 yrs Maureen T. 7 yrs David S. 6 yrs Vera D. 1 yr ELK GROVE FELLOWSHIP Karen M. 15 yrs Max F. 12 yrs Lorrie R. 10 yrs Eric C. 9 yrs Brandon S. 8 yrs Bryn D. 7 yrs Melissa Z. 7 yrs Lynette W. 3 yrs Sharon V. 3 yrs Karen H. 2 yrs Tony B. 2 yrs Kio G. 1 yr Patti S. 1 yr Victoria S. 1 yr GALT FELLOWSHIP GREENHAVEN GROUP H.O.W. Niko 23 yrs Tom L. 21 yrs Sandie O. 21 yrs Clari P. 3 yrs Betsy V. 9 yrs Joyce G. 9 yrs Anna B. 1 yr Glan D. 4 yrs Tiffany B. 3 yrs MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS Joe S. 30 yrs Janice L. 10 yrs Kim C. 10 yrs Dave K. 9 yrs Kevin O. 5 yrs Don H. 3 yrs Alex 3 yrs Danny M. 2 yrs GROUP ONE Jose E. 2 yrs James V. 28 yrs GIBBONS NOON Lee K. 9 y rs CCFAA Danice G. 4 yrs Dede B. 18 yrs Ann B. 34 yrs Joe E. 33 yrs Linda H. 23 yrs Esther L. 31 yrs Frank C. 31 yrs Tom L. 21 yrs Jacques M. 15 yrs Linda H. 23 yrs Joan M. 22 yrs Matt K. 15 yrs Shaun D. 12 yrs Gary H. 22 yrs Bill L. 18 yrs Page 7 By The Way Happy Birthday! JUNE 2012 MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS (CONT’D) MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS (CONT’D) REBELLION DOGS Rustie B. 17 yrs Jacques M. 15 yrs Larry L. 1 yr Judy B. 26 yrs Roderick B. 23 yrs Kelly H. 14 yrs Steve G. 14 yrs NATOMAS GROUP Jacques B. 15 yrs Steve R. 9 yrs Janet C. 13 yrs Kathy M. 13 yrs Valerie J. 28 yrs Maggie A. 23 yrs Dana N. 1 yr Erica M. 1 yr Ellen J. 10 yrs Charlie 10 yrs Donna 16 yrs Nancy Ch. 13 yrs RIO LINDA FELLOWSHIP Noel E. 10 yrs Kathleen S. 10 yrs Larry K. 13 yrs Shari N. 11 yrs Sharon C. 35 yrs Curt 12 yrs Cindy A. 9 yrs Eva C. 9 yrs Cheryl 10 yrs Katy W. 5 yrs Jeff L. 7 yrs Cliff O. 7 yrs Kym R. 9 yrs Lisa A. 9 yrs Rusty B. 5 yrs Denise 4 yrs Lisa T. 4 yrs Linda P. 3 yrs Betsy V. 9 yrs Joanie M. 9 yrs Bill S. 4 yrs Cathy D. 3 yrs Jim S. 3 yrs Brian E. 9 yrs Kevin 8 yrs Dlorah B. 3 yrs Kelly O. 3 yrs ROCKLIN RACETRACK Chris R. 8 yrs Erik J. 8 yrs Leslie A. 3 yrs Wally C. 37 yrs Doug B. 34 yrs Jeri S. 8 yrs Nancy W. 7 yrs Brian G. 30 yrs Ingrid P. 24 yrs Mike W. 7 yrs Steve H. 7 yrs William T. 7 yrs Mike S. 7 yrs Micheal H. 7 yrs Kathy H. 7 yrs Teri O. 7 yrs Shirley M. 6 yrs Lisa T. 6 yrs Darrell R. 6 yrs Lisa H. 6 yrs Manuel M. 6 yrs LisaJo D. 6 yrs Brad W. 6 yrs Robert C. 6 yrs Tymothy S. 5 yrs Tammie P. 5 yrs Stephen W. 5 yrs Miguel A. 5 yrs Gene S. 5 yrs Kevin G. 5 yrs Jennifer H. 5 yrs Candida D. 5 yrs Ray H. 5 yrs Asontie H. 4 yrs Karen B. 4 yrs Carla C. 4 yrs Fran V. 4 yrs Deborah W. 4 yrs Kri H. 4 yrs Beverley H. 3 yrs Will W. 3 yrs Teresa M. 3 yrs Rhonda H. 3 yrs John H. 3 yrs Sterling S. 3 yrs Xavier C. 2 yrs Theresa 2 yrs Adam S. 2 yrs NORTH HALL Bill L. 3 yrs Tanya F. 3 yrs Theresa E. 3 yrs Alvino V. 2 yrs Don B. 2 yrs Dean 2 yrs Theo 35 yrs Pat D. 32 yrs Dan L. 21 yrs Charlene S. 19 yrs Dara C. 31 yrs Karla P. 23 yrs Hunter J. 18 yrs David G. 18 yrs Tom L. 21 yrs Kelly C. 21 yrs Mike P. 13 yrs Ted M. 11 yrs Doug B. 18 yrs Joyce P. 18 yrs Steve F. 10 yrs Peter B. 9 yrs Bob T. 13 yrs Ray L. 11 yrs Mary K. 9 yrs Tony S. 9 yrs Eva C. 9 yrs Linda N. 4 yrs Jeff I. 7 yrs Doreen B. 4 yrs Jonathan A. 4 yrs Sara P. 3 yrs Don W. 4 yrs Michael H. 3 yrs Wyatt 2 yrs Emma B. 2 yrs Kay C. 2 yrs Laurie R. 1 yr Justin V. 1 yr Eric O. 1 yr Rebekka 1 yr Tom D. 1 yr Douglas J. 1 yr OAK TREE FELLOWSHIP Beckey B. 26 yrs Teri S. 22 yrs Bill C. 32 yrs Joy C. 32 yrs Denise 22 yrs Vince M. 19 yrs Dara C. 31 yrs Kurt VG 24 yrs Lacy T. 17 yrs Carol Sue B. 15 yrs Tom L. 21 yrs Liz 20 yrs Kevin S. 13 yrs Perfecto O. 12 yrs Verne 17 yrs Liz F. 16 yrs Ray L. 8 yrs Kris M. 8 yrs Scott O. 14 yrs Laura O. 12 yrs Chris S. 8 yrs Jim T. 7 yrs Doug K. 12 yrs Mike H. 8 yrs Frank B. 7 yrs Alethea H. 7 yrs David K. 6 yrs Kevin F. 6 yrs Randie R. 6 yrs Michaela 6 yrs Brian W. 4 yrs John H. 3 yrs Cal 6 yrs Robert F. 6 yrs Don B. 2 yrs Bill B. 2 yrs Bill B. 6 yrs Heather A. 6 yrs Casey T. 2 yrs Jimmy C. 6 yrs Tammy R. 5 yrs Russell G. 5 yrs Brook H. 5 yrs Bonnie J. 5 yrs Mark S. 5 yrs Tom S. 4 yrs Randy B. 4 yrs Tanya M. 4 yrs Margarito R. 4 yrs Timothy 3 yrs Deana A. 3 yrs Matt R. 3 yrs Manuel T. 3 yrs Aneemarie B. 3 yrs Ernie R. 3 yrs John C. 23 yrs Spickard 23 yrs Sallie O. 21 yrs Jack O. 9 yrs Francine V. 1 yr Sonny H. 4 yrs Steve G. 3 yrs Janette S. 1 yr Jeff F. 3 yrs Melissa V. 2 yrs Dave S. 1 yr Leonard G. 1 yr Corrine 2 yrs Michelle B. 1 yr Stephanie C. 1 yr Katrina D. 1 yr George D. 1 yr Chasity O. 1 yr Xander S. 1 yr Theodore J. 1 yr Paul G. 1 yr CCFAA Amber R. 1 yr Adelia Y. 1 yr ROSEVILLE 5 STREET FWP ORANGEVALE OPEN Kio G. 1 yr th Page 8 By The Way Happy Birthday! JUNE 2012 ROSEVILLE 5th STREET FWP (CONT’D) ROUND TABLE GROUP WOODLAND TRADITIONAL (CONT’D) Keenan R. 2 yrs Clarence K. 2 yrs Tony B. 18 yrs Sophia W. 1 yr Ether F. 2 yrs Jeremy V. 2 yrs SIMPLE BUT NOT EASY Late Submissions from MAY Karina T. 2 yrs Tim O. 2 yrs Mark B. 10 yrs GREENHAVEN GROUP Katie K. 1 yr George S. 1 yr SOUTHPORT SERENITY Arturo 41 yrs Mike B. 36 yrs Heather N. 1 yr Michael D. 1 yr Jan H. 16 yrs Gill H. 26 yrs Ross K. 17 yrs Matt C. 1 yr Josh K. 1 yr SUNDAY REFLECTIONS Mara P. 16 yrs Mike E. 12 yrs Rachel K. 1 yr Anna 3 yrs Robert G. 11 yrs Dave D. 10 yrs Elaine D. 6 yrs Sheila L. 4 yrs Scott K. 3 yrs Ed M. 20 yrs Steve S. 2 yrs Lesa 1 yr ROSEVILLE EAST SIDE GROUP TRADITIONAL Kim V. 6 yrs Denise B. 6 yrs Vito S. 39 yrs Wendy J. 38 yrs Dionne D. 3 yrs Mike W. 2 yrs Jeannie K. 3 yrs Judy L. 32 yrs Susan K. 30 yrs Bianca M. 2 yrs Jason 1 yr ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GROUP Becky L. 29 yrs Dave M. 26 yrs Tracy D. 1 yr Wally C. 37 yrs Bill S. 31 yrs Laua L. 25 yrs Christine C. 24 yrs Roland D. 28 yrs Dave H. 28 yrs Barbara K. 24 yrs Dreigh P. 23 yrs Becky B. 26 yrs Roberto P. 22 yrs Stephanie W. 22 yrs Jim B. 22 yrs Teri S. 22 yrs Susan N. 20 yrs Cork P. 21 yrs Cathy S. 20 yrs Kari S. 17 yrs Cinthia L. 14 yrs Lori H. 13 yrs Cathy V. 12 yrs William O. 13 yrs Dee Dee P. 12 yrs Aaron C. 6 yrs David J. 5 yrs Corrections from MAY Dawn W. 10 yrs Bill R. 10 yrs Allison W. 4 yrs Dlorah B. 3 yrs OAK TREE Cliff K. 9 yrs Greg E. 8 yrs Garry B. 3 yrs Meredith W. 2 yrs Nancy B. 29 yrs Kris M. 8 yrs Kris D. 7 yrs Jessica V. 1 yr Trisha B. 6 yrs Denise B. 6 yrs WINTERS KITCHEN TABLE GROUP Pamela S. 6 yrs Molly T. 6 yrs Wil M. 34 yrs Dennis N. 31 yrs Kim C. 6 yrs Steve E. 6 yrs Gloria R. 19 yrs Willie B. 11 yrs Eric D. 5 yrs Michael B. 4 yrs Sarah R. 9 yrs Wyatt D. 2 yrs Brook 4 yrs Traci J. 4 yrs Clint W. 2 yrs Matthew K. 3 yrs Ricky J. 3 yrs WOODLAND TRADITIONAL Jeannie K. 3 yrs Angie 2 yrs Barb N. 26 yrs Violet G. 25 yrs Amber S. 2 yrs Mitch B. 2 yrs Ann T. 25 yrs Joe V. 20 yrs Vicki P. 2 yrs Ryan 2 yrs Vince O. 19 yrs Ron H. 17 yrs Deborah H. 2 yrs Jose 2 yrs Sammy M. 14 yrs Eileen E. 12 yrs Marlow D. 1 yr Heather N. 1 yr Daniel T. 10 yrs Jenny 8 yrs Donald P. 1 yr Pat J. 1 yr Billy G. 7 yrs David M. 7 yrs Judy C. 1 yr Suzette D. 1 yr Bernice 6 y rs Laura Mc. 6 yrs Wayne K. 1 yr Syri 1 yr Shannon F. 5 yrs Esperanza Y. 4 yrs Kathryn C. 1 yr David S. 1 yr Mike T. 4 yrs Julie B. 4 yrs Nick T. 1 yr Karin W. 1 yr Melanie H. 4 yrs Jim B. 4 yrs Lara L. 1 yr Terye H. 1 yr Kim J. 4 yrs John M. 4 yrs Timothy S. 1 yr Wendy 1 yr David S. 3 yrs Mark M.L. 3 yrs Matt 1 yr Rita 1 yr Johny M. 2 yrs Anita L. 2 yrs CCFAA H.O.W. Susan A. 29 yrs Alicia G. 28 yrs Bruce K.(1) 28 yrs Julie P. 2 yrs Ryann M. 1 yr Ann Marie P. 25 yrs IN MEMORIAM BEVERLY L. COOK Beverly Cook was the Sacramento Central Office Manager for three years before returning to Reno in 2007 to become the manager of Reno’s Intergroup Office. Bev died peacefully at her home in South Reno on Friday, May 11, 2012. She had 32 years of living and working in this 12 Step Program that she loved. Memorial services will be held in Reno on Saturday, June 16th at 1PM at the Sparks Alano Club in Sparks, NV. In Sacramento, memorial services will be held on Sunday, June 24th at 2PM at the East Yolo Fellowship—1040 Soule Street, West Sacramento. Bring a dish or drinks and your memories to share. Thank you, Bev for the time you spent with us during your incredible journey. Page 9 By The Way JUNE 2012 COMMUNITY CORNER We are continuously looking for your personal stories on Steps, Traditions, Concepts, & Recovery. To submit an article, please send it to [email protected] or 9960 Business Park Dr., Ste. 110, Sacramento, CA 95827 TRADITION SIX "An A.A. group ought never endorse, finance or lend the A.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose." In March of 2011, I began going to AA meetings every day, sometimes twice a day. I knew that AA was probably the only way I could stay sober. I was resigned to the idea that my life would now consist of coffee, cigarettes, sugar, and depressed stiffs determined to drag me into their crybaby pity party. I planned to act the part of a humble, converted Christian. I would not mention my gay sister. I would not tell anyone about my years of obscenely performing loud rock ‘n roll. I would invent a good narrative that would be acceptable to management. I was determined to express nothing but regret and shame about my past. I would keep my mouth shut about anything that hinted at controversy. I would say whatever I had to so that I could get treatment for my addiction to alcohol. I thought that if I ever drank again, I would be kicked out, or deemed a loser by these happylooking people who smelled nice and asked me how I was doing. Everyone who asked me how I was doing actually made eye contact and waited for my answer. I was sure the facade would crack soon. The fake laughter would stop. I would get yelled at. One of the old timers would tear me apart for not being sober the right way. I would have to believe in God. Yes, I honestly thought these things were true. After a few weeks of enjoying a boozeless lifestyle, I relapsed in a spectacular fashion. The details are beside the point, but the conclusion was as lasting as it was inevitable. The experience removed all doubt about my ranking in the Alcoholic Big Leagues. Once the howling and shaking backed off a little, some moaning, muttering phone calls were made. I was scheduled for a fiveday detox in about a week. I went back to meetings. A lot of CCFAA familiar faces approached me to see how I was doing. They were concerned. Some of them told me their own stories about relapsing. In the days leading up to the detox, I was helped out a lot by experienced people. They carefully thought out how much alcohol I would need to avoid a seizure or cardiac arrest, versus going to the ER for some more allegedly non addictive Ativan. More calls were made. Experienced people threw their practical experience on the table and probably saved my life. At the facility, I reread the Big Book in a state of alcoholic retardation while spending five days with people I had zero in common with. There were seven other people there, but only one other drunk. I was lonesome, but having her to talk to was very helpful. She was a person I probably wouldn't even want to share an elevator with, had we not been in a process of healing together. While detoxing, we could babble in our own special “Drunkese” and get insights from each other. Since then, I have found that talking to as many alcoholics as possible continues to have a positive impact on how I approach living a sober life. There are many people I've met at meetings that I always enjoy seeing. I usually have no idea how they feel about the big game, or the next election, or anything about them apart from the fact that they have a disease in common with me. […] The Sixth Tradition reminds me that I am a part of a healing process which requires communicating with other alcoholics. By emphasizing our common affliction, we can eliminate distractions and help each other to heal. This is what is meant by the Primary Purpose of the program. My relationships with others in the program are characterized by the simplicity and singular focus of the method. All I care about is how my fellow alkies are doing. The most important gift AA has given me is the clarity to understand how to show compassion and understanding to another human being. If that were all I ever got from the program, I would call that a victory. ~By Ed H. Page 10 By The Way JUNE 2012 things and sometimes forget that these virtues must be earned. The gates of wisdom and truth are closed to those wise in their conceit, but ever open to the humble and the teachable. To discover what is true and to practice what is good are the two hightest aims in life. If we would be humble, we should not stoop, but rather we should stand to our fullest height, close to our Higher Power that shows us what the smallness of our greatness is. Remember our four questions, “Is it true or false?”, “is it right or wrong?”, “How will this affect the other fellow?”, and “Is it ugly or beautiful?”. Answering these queries every day with absolute integrity, and following the dictates of those answers one day at a time, will surely lead us well on our journey toward absorbing and applying the Absolutes. Our consideration of the Absolutes individually leads to a few conclusions. The twelve Steps represent our philosophy. The Absolutes represent our objectives in selfhelp, and the means to attain them. Honesty, being the ceaseless search for truth, is our most difficult and yet most challenging objective. It is a long road for anyone, but a longer road for us to find the truth. Purity is easy to determine. We know what is right and wrong. Our problem here is the unrelenting desire to do that which is right. Unselfishness is the stream in which our sober life must flow, the boulevard down which we march triumphantly by the grace of God, ever alert against being sidetracked into a dark obscure alley along the way. Our unselfishness must penetrate our whole life, not just our deeds for others, for the greatest gift we bestow on others is the example of our own life as a whole. Love is the medium, the blood of the good life, which circulates and keeps alive its worth and beauty. It is not only our circulatory system within ourselves, but it is our medium of communication to others. The real virtue is in our striving for these Absolutes. It is a neverending journey, and our joy and happiness must come each step of the way, not at the end because it is endless. Cicero said, “if you pursue good with labor, the labor passes and the good remains, but if you court evil through pleasure, the pleasure passes and the evil remains.” Our life is a diary in which we mean to write one story, and usually write quite another. It is when we complete the two that we have our humblest hour. But let’s compare through our self inventory and make today a new day. Men who know themselves, have at least ceased to be fools. Remember if you follow the Golden Rule, it’s always your move too. To love what is true and right and not to do it, is in reality not to love it, and we are trying to face reality, remember? The art of living in truth and right is the finest of fine arts, and like any fine art, must be learned slowly and practiced with incessant care. We must approach this objective of the Absolutes humbly. We pray for these CCFAA A SLICE OF AA HISTORY For the year 2012, each monthly issue of the By The Way will feature some article or opinion piece on the history of various practices and tools used in the early days of our society. One of the more interesting tools is the pamphlet: The Four Absolutes. Starting in January and continuing for six issues, the publication will be reprinted here. January will start with the Forward and the Introductions to the ‘Absolutes’ and each month after for the following four months, one of the Absolutes will be presented. The series will end with the publication of the Summary. THE FOUR ABSOLUTES A Summary Page 11 By The Way JUNE 2012 “This book takes A.A. members and interested friends on a quick tour of the convention, traces the history and development of the three Legacies, and looks at A.A. through the eyes of some early non-alcoholics who influenced the Fellowship’s history. The first part is co-founder Bill W.’s reminiscent sketch of the Convention, in which he takes an appreciative look at many of the participants and reflects on events that shaped A.A. The second part consists of Bill’s three Convention talks, edited and enlarged, on the Legacies of Recovery, Unity, and Service. In the third part, readers will meet five early friends of A.A. …(who) tell of their association with A.A., the part they played in its development, and their view of what the future holds.” As Bill Sees It WORDSMITHY - willing agreeable / ready / consenting /of or resulting from the process of choosing / acting or ready to act gladly / done, given, accepted, or offered freely / ready to accept or tolerate (From The Little Big Book Dictionary) Where Rationalizing Leads page 197, from a letter in 1959 “You know what our genius for rationalization is. If, to ourselves, we fully justify one slip, then our rationalizing propensities are almost sure to justify another one, perhaps with a different set of excuses. But one justification leads to another and presently we are back on the bottle fulltime.” Faithful Fivers 76 Members as of May! Register to pledge your support! Welcome Debra F. & Stan J.! Please complete and return with your first contribution to: CCFAA Central Office, Faithful Fivers Register with Central Office as a Faithful Fiver member 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110, Sacramento, CA 95827 so you’ll receive a charitable contribution receipt at the OR email to: [email protected] end of the year. You can donate in any of the following ways: Name: ______________________________________ a) Mail a check every month to: CCFAA Faithful Fivers, 9960 Business Park Dr., Suite 110, Sacramento, CA Address: ______________________________________ 95827, OR City/State/Zip: ______________________________________ b) Bring a check or cash into the office every month, OR Phone: ______________________________________ c) Try the Preferred Method! Use your online banking bill pay to set up a recurring payment: � May we acknowledge you as a new member of the Faithful Fivers Payee: CCFAA Faithful Fivers in our next issue of By The Way? Mark the box for yes we use first Central Office address, as above names and last initials only. Account number: Your Name CCFAA Page 12 By The Way JUNE 2012 In The Beginning of Alcoholics Anonymous... A B Y C J T Q U S H H N C O B R E F U B B O P E D X W R A B J I C O U L S B Y S L J M J Z L P I M K P F K O H U U I W U BIRTHPLACE P Y J V M R M W O S I L A J A Y O R Y CONFERENCE W W L E K O S T H W I K R W W P H T W V G M C F H Y B N T R R S B Z U D E H A S A Q B G Q I Q U T O E J T O D I T P H U GRAPEVINE U C O N F E R E N C E W R E R C A L G O MAYFLOWER S E R V I C E O I O N O B R W G A H F N D V T R T H H A S D W O L C M N C K T OXFORDGROUP S Y M Z A I N Q S R Y S Y I F R A E W K V U T J O B Y D O U I W O H U Y V R Q I SERVICE A C F U S J U F H V M H I Y N C A J Y V C Z E F T V X M Y V F Y F K I C H M R I SISTERMARY A E I P S O E N I V E P A R G V L E I G O AKRONOHIO U GATEHOUSE SAINTTHOMAS SOBRIETY Tradition Six (Long Form) Problems of money, property, and authority may easily divert us from our primary spiritual aim. We think, therefore, that any considerable property of genuine use to A.A. should be separately incorporated and managed, thus dividing the material from the spiritual. An A.A. group, as such, should never go into business. Secondary aids to A.A., such as clubs or hospitals which require much property or administration, ought to be incorporated and so set apart that, if necessary, they can be freely discarded by the groups. Hence such facilities ought not to use the A.A. name. Their management should be the sole responsibility of those people who financially support them. For clubs, A.A. managers are usually preferred. But hospitals, as well as other places of recuperation, ought to be well outside A.A.-and medically supervised. While an A.A. group may cooperate with anyone, such cooperation ought never go so far as affiliation or endorsement, actual or implied. An A.A. group can bind itself to no one. NEWS FROM VOLUNTEER CENTRAL WHERE GRATITUDE IS AN ACTION WORD! DURING THE SUMMER, MANY FOLKS ARE ON VACATION AND WE NEED TO FIND WILLING VOLUNTEERS TO COME IN AND ASSIST IN 12STEP WORK. We at Central Office are very grateful for those who show up on a regular basis and those who just drop by and ask if there is any way that they can be of service. We could not provide the services to the groups in such an efficient manner without the help of our reliable and willing volunteers. In service during the month of May: May Puzzle Answers on the Fifth Step Promises DE L IG HT ED LOOK T HE WORL D I N THE PE RF ECT EY E PEAC E AND E AS E F EARS FA LL F ROM US F EEL THE NE ARNE S S OF OUR CR EATOR S PI R I TU AL E XPER I ENC E K N OW H I M B E T T E R (5th Step Promises are found on page 75 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous) I F WE S K I P THI S I TAL STE P W E MA Y N O T O E R C O M E D R I N K I N G (page 72 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous) CCFAA TeleDesk Volunteers & Subs: Linda M. Donna B. July R. Joyce H. Dennis O. Cindy F. Kevin N. Cathy N. Cindy Jo M. Jim W. Jane B. Dlorah B. Sales Desk & Phones: Ron H. Karlos A. Tiffany T. Cathy N. Karen Y. Ray L. BTW & Flyer Mailing: Bill E. Sherri KW. Jim W. Cindy N. Pete G. Bob B. Carol L. Craig L. CindyJo M. Gina F. Meme W. Tammy M. Tina R. Bulk Mailing: Marvin S. Happy Birthday to Kathy K. & Dlorah B. ~Kathy, our thoughts and prayers are with you~ Page 13 By The Way CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1: SLIPS everything that an alcoholic may do as "alcoholic behavior." The truth is it is simply human nature. It is very wrong to consider many of the personality traits observed in liquor addicts as peculiar to the alcoholic. Emotional and mental quirks are classified as symptoms of alcoholism merely because alcoholics have them, yet these same quirks can be found among nonalcoholics also. Actually they are symptoms of mankind; ORDINARY PEOPLE. Of course, the alcoholic himself tends to think of himself as different, someone special, with unique tendencies and reactions. Many psychiatrists, doctors, and therapists carry the same idea to extremes in their analyses and treatment of alcoholics. Sometimes they make a complicated mystery of a condition which is found in all human beings, whether they drink whiskey or buttermilk. To be sure, alcoholism, like every other disease, does manifest itself in some unique ways. It does have a number of baffling peculiarities which differ from all other diseases. At the same time, many of the symptoms and much of the behavior of alcoholism are closely paralleled and even duplicated in other diseases. The alcoholic "slip", as it is known in Alcoholics Anonymous, furnishes a perfect example of how human nature can be mistaken for alcoholic behavior. "SLIPS" IDENTIFIED The "slip" is a relapse! It is a relapse that occurs after the alcoholic has stopped drinking and started on the AA program of recovery. "Slips" usually occur in the early stages of the alcoholic's AA indoctrination, before he has had time to learn enough of the AA technique and AA philosophy to give him solid footing. But "slips" may also occur after the alcoholic has been a member of AA for many months, or even after several years, and it is in this kind, above all, that one finds a marked similarity between the alcoholic's behavior and "normal" victims of other diseases. No one is startled by the fact that relapses are not uncommon among arrested tubercular patients. But there is a startling fact the cause is often the same as the cause which leads to "slips" for the alcoholic. It happens this way: When a tubercular patient recovers sufficiently to be released from the sanitarium, the doctor gives him careful directions for the way he is to live when he gets home. He must be in bed every night by, say, eight o'clock. He must drink plenty of milk. He must refrain from smoking. He must obey other stringent rules. For the first several months, perhaps for several years, the patient follows directions. But as his strength increases and he feels fully recovered, he becomes slack. There may come the night when he decides he can stay up until ten o'clock. When he does this, nothing untoward happens. The next day he still feels good. He does it again. Soon he is disregarding the directions given him when he left the sanitarium. Eventually he has a relapse. IN CARDIAC CASES The same tragedy can be found in cardiac cases. After the heart attack, the patient is put on a strict rest schedule. CCFAA JUNE 2012 Frightened, he naturally follows directions obediently for a long time. He, too, goes to bed early, avoids exercise such as walking up stairs, quits smoking, and leads a Spartan life. Eventually, though, there comes a day after he had been feeling good for months, or several years, and has recovered from his fright. If the elevator is out of repair one day, he walks up three flights of stairs. Or he decides to go to a party or do just a little smoking, or take a cocktail or two. If no serious afteraffects follow the first departure from the rigorous schedule prescribed, he may try it again until he suffers a relapse. In both cardiac and tubercular cases, the acts which led to the relapse were preceded by wrong thinking. The patient in each case rationalized himself out of a sense of his own perilous reality. He deliberately turned away from his own knowledge of the fact he had been the victim of a serious disease. He grew overconfident. He decided he didn't have to follow directions. Now that is precisely what happens with the alcoholic the arrested alcoholic, or the alcoholic in AA who has had a "slip". Obviously he decides again to take a drink some time before he actually takes it. He starts thinking wrong before he actually embarks on the course leading to a "slip". NOT ALCOHOLIC BEHAVIOR There is no more reason to charge the "slip" to alcoholic behavior than there is to lay a tubercular relapse to tubercular behavior or a second heart attack to cardiac behavior. The alcoholic "slip" is not a symptom of a psychotic condition. There is nothing "screwy" about it at all. The patient didn't follow directions. And that's human nature! It's life! It's happening all the time, not merely among alcoholics, but among all kinds of people. The preventive is plain. The patient must have full knowledge of his condition, keep in mind the facts of his case and the nature of his disease, and follow orders. For the alcoholic, AA offers some directions. A vital factor, or ingredient, of the preventive, especially for the alcoholic, is sustained emotion. The alcoholic who learns some of the technique or the mechanics of AA but misses the philosophy or the spirit, may get tired of following directions not because he is alcoholic but because he is human. Rules and regulations irk almost anyone, because they are restraining, prohibitive, negative. The philosophy of AA however, is positive and provides ample sustained emotion a sustained desire to follow directions voluntarily. PSYCHOLOGY NO DIFFERENT In any event, the psychology of the alcoholic is not as different as some people try to make it. The alcoholic has problems peculiar to him perhaps, in that he has been put on the defensive and consequently has developed nervous frustrations. But in many instances there is no more reason to be talking about the "alcoholic mind" than there is to try to describe something called the "cardiac mind", or the "TB mind". I think we will help the alcoholic more if we can first recognize that he is primarily a human being afflicted with Page 14 By The Way JUNE 2012 Concept VI On behalf of A.A. as a whole, our General Service Conference has the principal responsibility for the maintenance of our world services, and it traditionally has the final decision respecting large matters of general policy and finance. But the Conference also recognizes that the chief initiative and the active responsibility in most of these matters should be exercised primarily by the Trustee members of the Conference when they act among themselves as the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous. We have seen that the “final responsibility and ultimate authority” for A.A.’s service activities rest with the A.A. groups (Concept I), but to carry out this responsibility they must delegate to the Conference (Concept II). The Conference, in turn, must delegate administrative authority to the General Service Board of Trustees. Again, it is helpful if you are familiar with both the Conference Charter and the Bylaws of the general Service Board to understand this relationship and the freedom of action that the trustees must have. The trustees have the legal and practical responsibility for the operation of A.A. World Services, Inc. (which embraces A.A. publishing as well as the General Service Office) and of the A.A. Grapevine, Inc. These entities have a combined cash flow of many millions of dollars annually. The trustees are also responsible for A.A.’s public information activities. They are the guardians of the Twelve Traditions. They are responsible for carrying the A.A. message to other countries around the world. They are A.A.’s “bankers,” overseeing the financial operations and investing A.A.’s substantial reserve Fund. (Read the text of Concept XI for a more detailed account of their functions.) Bill makes the point that although “our objective is always a spiritual one,” nevertheless our world service is a “large business operation.” “Indeed,” he says, “our whole service structure resembles that of a large corporation. The A.A. groups are the stockholders, the delegates represent them, like proxy-holders, at the annual meeting; the General Service Board Trustees are actually the directors of a ‘holding company.’ And this holding company (the General Service Board) actually owns and controls the two ‘subsidiaries’ (A.A.W.S. and the A.A. Grapevine) which carry on the… services. “This very real analogy makes it… clear that, like any other board of directors, our trustees must be given large powers if they are to manage the… affairs of Alcoholics Anonymous.” (taken from the pamphlet P-8, The twelve Concepts for World Service) Vacancy Announcements from G.S.O. The A.A. World Services, Inc. Board will have two nontrustee Director vacancies following the General Service Conference in April 2013, to replace rotating nontrustee Directors. (…) The board of trustees has requested that the A.A.W.S. Board’s recommendations be presented to the trustees’ Committee on Nominating for review at its October 2012 meeting, if possible. Since resumes need to be screened and applicants interviewed by members of the A.A.W.S. Board in a timely fashion, the process must begin well in advance. We plan to review resumes starting in July so that the A.A.W.S. Nominating Committee can schedule interviews in the late summer or early fall. We, therefore, ask that completed resumes be submitted by July 1, 2012. For further information, please contact Joe Dennan by phone at 212-870-3125 or by email at [email protected] CCFAA Two Class A (nonalcoholic) trustee vacancies will occur on the general Service board at the conclusion of the 63rd General Service Conference, held in April 2013. In seeking applications for vacancies in Alcoholics Anonymous, the Fellowship is committed to creating a large file of qualified applicants that reflects the inclusiveness and diversity of A.A. itself. The committee suggests that Area Delegates, G.S.O. and Grapevine Staff, Directors, and current and past trustees submit the resumes of any friends of A.A. they believe would be interested in service as Class A trustees. Resumes are due by July 20, 2012. For further information, contact Doug Richardson, Acting Secretary, Nominating Committee. You can reach G.S.O. at 212-870-3400 or by mail at: General Service Office Grand Central Station P.O. Box 459 New York, NY 10163 Page 15 By The Way JUNE 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—May 19, 2012 (Page 1) I. Opening A. Call to Order at 3:00 pm D. CCFAA Preamble read by Marla G. Birthdays—54 years B. Open with Serenity Prayer E. 7th Tradition—$71.00 C. 12 Traditions Read by Rick P. F. Delegate Checkin/Group Announcements II. Preliminary Business: A. Delegate Checkin: Total Delegates = 37 Group Name #1 Offenders 11th Step Meditation Meeting 5th Tradition Big Book Study Group 12 and 12 Touchstone Group AA Unity Group As Bill Sees It Auburn Fellowship Auburn Women’s Step Study Group Been There Done That Group By The Grace Capital City Men’s Group Citrus Heights Group Cordova Friday Night Group Cordova Serenity Seekers Daily Attitude AdjustmentFair Oaks Davis Attitude Adjustment Group Davis Hope Group Davis Young People Destiny Group Downtown Young People's Dry Dock Group East Yolo Fellowship Elk Grove Fellowship Elk Grove Group Fair Oaks Monday Night Fair Oaks Village Group Fit for Life Women’s Folsom Big Book Folsom Friday Night Folsom Thursday Nite 12 & 12 Folsom Saturday Morning Group Folsom Way of Life Fourth Dimension Big Book Study Freedom Group Friday Fellowship of Double AA Friday Night Family Group of AA Friday Night Fellowship Galt Fellowship Gibbons Noon Girl's Night Out (GNO) Greenhaven Group Group One Group Three Head Across Women's Group Holy Smokeless H.O.W. Into ActionCitrus Heights Loomis BYO 12 & 12 Group Men Seeking Serenity Midtown Solutions Monday Night Newcomers Monday Night Big Book Study Monday Night Bonfire Meeting Natomas Group New Brown Baggers New Hope Group North Auburn Group CCFAA B. Quorum met Yes Delegate Delores T Absent Absent Absent Leon Bill B Jan G Absent Absent Yvonne W Ben B Absent Absent Bob H Linda J Bob D Absent Absent Scott J Absent Jennifer E Absent Absent Absent Absent Michael K Marla S Absent Barbara Hill Absent Absent Mary F Absent Absent Ray L Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Ginnie B Eben W Karen Y Lori E Absent Terry M Tammy J Absent Absent Stephen N Absent Paul S Absent Maria R Absent Jeffery N Rik P Last Attended 5/19/2012 2/18/2012 4/21/2012 1/21/12 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 06/18/11 4/21/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 4/21/2012 3/17/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 4/21/2012 12/17/2011 5/19/2012 3/17/2012 5/19/2012 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 03/19/11 08/20/11 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 1/21/12 5/19/2012 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 5/19/2012 08/20/11 3/17/2012 5/19/2012 03/19/11 1/21/12 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 10/15/11 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 2/18/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 2/18/2012 4/21/2012 5/19/2012 10/15/11 5/19/2012 4/21/2012 5/19/2012 10/15/11 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 Group Name North Hall Group North Highlands Fireside Group North Sacramento Group Oak Park Fellowship Oak Tree Fellowship Old Town Group Orangevale 11th Step Meditation Orangevale Open Group Primary Purpose Phone Meeting Rancho Murrieta Fellowship Rancho Murrieta Women’s Group Rebellion Dogs Recovery at the Ranch Rigorous Action Rio Linda Fellowship Rocklin Fellowship Rocklin Racetrack Group Roseville Eastside Group Roseville Fifth Street Fellowship Roseville Tuesday Night Group Roseville Twelve & Twelve Study Roundtable Group Sacramento Spring Fling Committee SACYPAA Saturday Morning Men’s Book Study Second Chance Group Serenity Book And Study Group Sharing And Caring Group Simply AA Sisters in Sobriety Sixty Minute Solution Snowline Group Southport Serenity South Sacramento Florin Group Spiritually Speaking Sunday Morning Serenity SunriseSunset Thank God It’s Simple The Acid Test The Third Tradition Group Thursday Night Men’s Group Too Young Group Traditional Group Traditions & Concepts Study Group We Can Friday Night We Care Group We Surrender Men’s Group Wed. Night Citrus Heights Group Welcome Group What a Way to start a Weekend Women’s Group White Flag Men's Group Wild Women Willing Women Women of Extravagant Promises Woodland Traditional Group Woodland Big Book Group Woodland Group Delegate Evan C Absent Absent Clenzo Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Cindy F Virgil N Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Jim W Absent Absent Absent Sean S Absent Absent Dlorah B Absent Karen Y Absent Howard H Absent Mary H Absent Ron H Absent Absent Absent Absent Absent Dave Y Absent John Q Bill P Absent Absent Sam H. Absent David E Absent Absent Absent Absent Barbara H Absent Absent Absent Last Attended 5/19/2012 4/21/2012 10/15/11 5/19/2012 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 1/21/12 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 03/19/11 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 12/17/2011 1/21/12 2/18/2012 2/18/2012 12/17/2011 4/21/2012 11/19/11 5/19/2012 1/21/12 05/21/11 4/21/2012 5/19/2012 2/18/2012 06/18/11 5/19/2012 1/21/12 5/19/2012 05/21/11 5/19/2012 2/18/2012 5/19/2012 05/21/11 5/19/2012 07/16/11 4/21/2012 1/21/12 06/18/11 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 4/21/2012 5/19/2012 5/19/2012 12/17/11 4/21/2012 5/19/2012 04/16/11 5/19/2012 2/18/2012 11/19/11 05/21/11 06/18/11 5/19/2012 06/18/11 04/16/11 4/21/2012 Page 16 By The Way JUNE 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—May 19, 2012 (Page 2) C. Attending Elected Positions CCFAA Chair Assistant Chair Treasurer Recording Secretary TeleService Chair By Laws & Procedures Chair PI/CPC Chair H&I Liaison D. E. New Delegates Cindy F. Rancho Murietta Stan J Betty K Tom W Tamera K Evan C Terry S Bill B Roger Present Present Present Present Present Present Present Present Special Needs Chair NCCAA Liaison Birthdays/Faithful Fivers Chair OOC Chair OOC Member OOC Member OOC Member Picnic Chair Jennifer B Rick S Kim B Casey K Howard Jeff N Al Y John Q Absent Present Absent Absent Present Present Present Present Eben W. Group One Visitors David W. from Traditional Serenity Book Study Straight Men’s, Michael and Mark III. Approval of Minutes April Minutes approved with no corrections. IV. Trusted Servant Reports A. Chairperson’s Report – Stan J April 21, 2012 Central Office and Welfare of CCF Volunteers needed to help assemble the By The Way. Where: Central Office. When: 05/31/12 at 9am. Deadline for flyers for June is June 10th and for July is July 10th. Deadline for submissions to July’s By The Way is June 15th. CCF Central Office Teleservice Desk needs volunteers Monday through Friday to answer our AA hotline from 9am to 1pm, or 1pm to 5pm at Central Office. The volunteers we need are people who can substitute in the absence of the regular volunteers. Volunteers need a minimum of six (6) months of sobriety to answer the hotline. To volunteer for Teleservice Hotline whether it is at Central Office or from the comfort of your own home, please contact Central Office at 9164541771. Central Office will be closed May 26th – May 28th in honor of the Memorial Day holiday. CCF Picnic: The second CCF Picnic Planning Committee meeting was held on 05/18/12. The next CCF Picnic meeting is scheduled for 6pm on 06/15/12 at Central Office. Together in Service, we are the welfare of AA in the Central California Fellowship area. Stan J., CCF Chairperson www.aasacramento.org B. Assistant Chair/CNIA Liaison – Betty K New Groups: Program of Action – Shasta Hotel, 1017 10th Street, Sacramento, CA 95814 – Open 1 hour, Sun 5:00 pm, Delegate: Eben W – Approved No CNIA Report C. Office Operations Committee – Howard H. Office Operations Committee (OOC) Report OOC Meeting 5/15/2012 Present: Rae W, Tom W, Howard H, Al Y, Terry S, Stan J, Casey K Meeting called to order at 6:02pm. Open with the Serenity Prayer, Roll Call, and Determination of a Quorum Office Manager’s Report – Rae W (Please see Rae’s report.) Note the Central Office needs volunteers to clean the office on Saturdays; any help will be much appreciated Bylaws and Procedures Chair Report Terry will report on Bylaws. Treasurer’s Report Tom will report on the status of the treasury. Old Business Status of Website – Central Office is working hard to get the website up and running. We still need volunteers to help catalog. Please contact Casey K. if you are interested or you know someone who might be interested. New Business – No New business. Adjournment at 6:56pm with the Serenity Prayer CCFAA Page 17 By The Way JUNE 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—May 19, 2012 (Page 3) D. Office Manager’s Report – Rae W. May 15, 2012 1. The Federal 990 and CA CT199 forms were completed and mailed on April 30th. 2. Our former OM, Beverly Cook, passed away on May 11th. Her service to CCF will be remembered as well as her incredible style of humor. 3. The application for the picnic raffle permit is in progress and will be submitted to the Attorney General next week. 4. The major supplier of our anniversary medallions has increased prices. The store will not increase retail prices at this time. 5. A volunteer is needed for cleaning the office on Saturday mornings. We also need more substitutes to cover for absences of our regular volunteers. We cannot function well without the help we get from reliable volunteers. We are grateful to those who answer the call time and time again. 6. We have had another nuisance caller. The number has been blocked from our hotline service. 7. We received a $417 contribution from ICYPAA. Those funds were reported as Special Events Revenue for the month of April. Thank you, ICYPAA. 8. CCF will have a literature & information table at the July NCCAA Conference. 9. Everything else is going well. Rae W. E. Treasurers Report – Tom W. Income and Expense through April 2012: Income: April shows net income of $1,280, which means more cash went out than came in. Expenses: total expenditures for April of $13,659 contributes to a favorable year todate variance of $3,794. Spending is favorable in most categories, due to there being little or no spending so far this year; the favorable variance may go away once the spending occurs. For example, the Committees category includes the Picnic Committee, which will have more expenses as the date of the picnic gets closer. The one category with unfavorable variance is Insurance; this is due to our paying the majority of insurance premiums earlier in the year, while the budget spreads the spending over the entire year. Revenue: Gross Income (after cost of goods) for April of $12,379 contributes to a yeartodate unfavorable variance of $1,768. Most categories including AAWS Literature Sales, Inhouse Publication Sales, and Medallion Sales – are on track compared to the budget. The exceptions are Group Contributions, Birthday Contributions, and Faithful Fivers. Let’s all make sure those who can contribute have the opportunity to do so. We are not yet reporting two major sources of income: Picnic Revenue and contributions from Spring Fling (in the Special Event Revenue category). The picnic does not take place until August. The Spring Fling has already taken place, and they have indicated a contribution is forthcoming. (Note: Spring Fling is not a function of CCF; rather it is a group and makes contributions as any other group would, according to ability after covering their own expenses). Summary: Overall the finances are in good shape. Any questions or comment can be submitted to [email protected]. Thank you for the opportunity to be of service. Tom W F. By Laws & Procedures Chairperson’s Report – Terry S. No report will have discussion under old business on Operating Procedures document changes. G. PI/CPC Monthly Meeting Minutes – Bill B. Each group has but one primary purpose – to carry its message to the alcoholic who still suffers” (Fifth Tradition) Activities and New Business: �� Budget $576 remaining of $1100 for the year. Costs this year include books for libraries, PI/CPC workbooks for committee members, literature where it has been requested, flyers, AA membership survey ‘easel’ & literature racks for health fairs. �� Manned a table at the Sacramento City College Health Fair April 26th. �� Distributed literature to the Sacramento County Youth Detention Facility at their request. �� We are contacting El Dorado County Libraries to determine their need for books. �� We made a presentation at the Sacramento County Adult Probation Department on April 30 th. �� We are in contact with the Breining Institute for literature and possible talks. �� We made a presentation at the Sac County Youth Detention Facility on May 11th. �� The PI/CPC Committee is planning a Workshop for June 9th in Roseville. All AA’s are invited – workshop will include how PI fits within the traditions. Please see the flyer for details if you would like to get involved with PI/CPC. PI/CPC Committee meets every second Monday of the month at 7 PM at the Citrus Heights Police Department. AA’s with significant sobriety are invited. Respectfully submitted – Bill B CCFAA Page 18 By The Way JUNE 2012 CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—May 19, 2012 (Page 4) H. Picnic Chairperson’s Report – John Q. Committee met on Friday May 18th at Central Office BOOTHS Almost all are filled. The following booths still open: Butt Cans, and Face Painting We still need volunteers to help out with the picnic so just because booths are filled members can still help out. RAFFLE Raffle tickets are now on sale at $5 for 7 tickets, $1 for single tickets and you do not have to be present to win! We will have an "Early Bird" raffle before the picnic this year. Saturday night a $100 prize will be awarded to the ticket randomly pulled. This year we will again award a prize to the person who sells the most raffle tickets. PLANNING MEETINGS Planning meetings are always held the Friday evening before the regular CCFAA Delegate's meeting. Next Picnic Planning Committee Meeting is Friday, June 15th at 6:00pm at Central Office. Please get involved and help us to make this the best picnic ever! Thank you all for your help and support! Gratefully John Q2 I. Special Needs Chairperson’s Report – Absent No report. J. Birthday Club/Faithful Fivers – Absent Report sent via email. April's figures are below expectations and decreased significantly from last month's numbers. April Faithful Fiver's total $717.00. This is $465.00 less than March. We are almost $1200.00 below expected revenue. April Birthday Club total $123.00. This is $137.00 less than March. We are about $1050.00 below expected revenue. Last month's figures seemed promising in terms of getting on track to meeting annual budget goals. However, this month we have lost momentum. I have to request that we really make the effort at meetings we attend and at our home groups to announce this opportunity to support our central office. Please email [email protected] to help pass out flyers at upcoming conferences. Additionally, please, as delegates, sign up for Birthday Club and Faithful Fivers. V. Reports – Special Committees, Delegates, Liaisons & Invited Guests A. Hospitals & Institutions – Roger M. H & I Area 42 Committee Meeting Meetings held at Coco’s 1830 Arden Way, Sacramento CA – the 3rd Thursday of the month at 6:00pm. Regional 40 Chair: Kim F. Area 42 Chair: Mike H Regional Committee Meeting sponsored by Area 43 will be held at High Flyers Group 3077 Alhambra Drive #D in Cameron Park, June 10th at 11:00am, lunch will be served. Roger talked about the importance of supporting the 7th Tradition first and made the suggestion that when you see the pink can being passed together with the 7th Tradition basket to hold the can from the basket and hold it until the 7th tradition has been passed. B. 2012 Calls Volunteers Service Apr– 12 Jan 2012 YTD 12 Step 66 261 Meeting/Info 305 1293 Total 397 1554 Open Shifts as of 4/19/2012 TeleService Special Needs 12 Step 37 9 149 Subs 72 Thurs 59 Fri 9 Mid Sat 124 Sun 124 Teleservice Chairperson’s Report – Evan C. Special Needs: Added Russian Speaking 12 step Need Chinese/Mandarin, Ukrainian, Lao, Mien, Hmong, and Vietnamese CCFAA Page 19 By The Way JUNE 2012 12Step male and female volunteers needed in Downtown Sacramento, West, East, and North Sacramento, Davis and, Lincoln zip codes. 12Step male and female volunteers needed under Any Area SHIFT COORDINATORS – No vacant shifts. If you find that your group has a need for a mini TeleService workshop to be held at your group contact Evan and she will schedule one for your group. 12 step list has shrunk due to the cleanup of the list, finding those numbers that were disconnected or contact person was not available, Volunteers needed! Contact: Chair: Evan C. at [email protected] CCFAA Delegate’s Meeting Minutes—May 19, 2012 (Page 5) C. NCCAA Liaison – Rick S Next NCCAA conference is going to be in Auburn CA., July 6th, 7th and 8th at Gold Country Fair Grounds in Auburn. Rick will be manning literature booth for CCF and would like to have some volunteers to help out. Fall conference will be in Sacramento. Next planning meeting for the Sacramento conference planning meeting will be the first or second week in June at Group 3. If you want to know the date contact Rick for questions. Sacramento conference will be in October. D. CCF Anniversary Conference Committee John Q. Thanked those that volunteered to be on the committee to do research, however at this time not needed. I am currently just mostly making phone calls to hotels. Looking into having at the Woodlake Inn where parking will be free. Looking at possibly having it the first weekend of May 2014. I will provide formal proposal at the June Delegates meeting. VI. Old Business Discussion of Operating Procedures document changes – Terry S. (vote next month) New procedures indicate that the Assistant CCF Chair responsibilities include “13.3.13. Attends all NCC Conferences and other related functions. Expenses relative to attending such conferences and functions are reimbursed by the CCF if budgeted. Expenses shall not exceed the amount budgeted is to attend NCCAA Conferences.” This is not a current responsibility of the Assistant CCF Chair, and is what the NCC Delegate Liaison does. “13.1.3. Any elected Officer, Committee Chairperson, or Office Operation Committee Member who fails to attend three OOC or Delegates’ Meetings per year is deemed to have resigned from that Office.” It was noted that there was information that stated that “Any elected Officer, Committee Chairperson, or Office Operation Committee Member who fails to attend three consecutive OOC or Delegates’ Meetings per year is deemed to have resigned from that Office.” These are conflicting statements. CONTINUED FROM PAGE 6: GRATITUDE his lesson well. Eight years later, having moved to Dallas, he and a few other “Grateful” members of the old Town North Group dug into their pockets and came up with enough money to start the 24 Hour Club; a refuge for suffering alcoholics. Another one of my favorite stories is that of Bob W. Bob is a legend in our part of the country because of the many alcoholics who were sponsored into sobriety by this man. Bob was near death on his parents ranch in West Texas. A sober and “Grateful” member of Alcoholics Anonymous, living in the Panhandle of Texas, heard of Bob’s plight from Bob’s brother. When he asked where Bob was, it proved to be a 335 mile trip, one way. He picked up a couple of his “Grateful” proteges and drove, uninvited, the 335 miles. Bob was so sick that he was hardly aware that these men had come, uninvited, to see him. Three days later, these men returned to their homes and Bob W. was on his way to recovery. They weren’t asked but the drove 670 miles and invested 3 days to try to carry a single message; “We have had a spiritual awakening as the result of the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous”. That is ”Gratitude”!!! Wesley P., another legend because of the large number of alcoholics who found sobriety resulting from his “Gratitude” clarified the difference between being “Thankful” and being “Grateful”. He said when we are “Thankful” it is enough to say “Thank you”. But, if we claim to be “Grateful”, we have spent some of our spare time in search of suffering alcoholics so we might have the opportunity to pass on to them what has been so freely given us. It is only by giving that we might receive or as my 2nd Sponsor would say, “Givein’ is livin’, usin’ is losin’ and lyin’ is dyin’” That seems to state why we learn to live by the Twelve Steps, “Our real purpose is to fit ourselves to be of maximum service to God and the people about us. (AA, pg. 77) So it would appear that most folks who claim to be “Grateful” are in reality just “Thankful”. So, if you are “Grateful”, what have you done to deserve this day of life and sobriety? PASS IT ON!!! (a share from AA History Exchange) CCFAA Page 20 By The Way JUNE 2012 TREASURER’S REPORT - APRIL 2012 APRIL 2012 Apr-12 Prorate YTD YTD Budget fav / (unfav) Income 4020 · AAWS Literature Sales 4025 · In-House Publication Sales 4035 - Medallion Sales 4100 · Group Contributions 4110 · Anonymous Contributions 4120 · Birthday Contributions 4125 · Office Services Revenue 4130 - Faithful Fivers 4440 - Interest Income 4460 - Picnic Revenue 4480 - Special Event Revenue Total Income Cost of Goods Sold 5000 - Literature Costs 5010 · Cost of AAWS Literature Sold Literature Costs/Adjustment Total 5010 - AAWS Literature Net Income AAWS Literature 5025 · In-House Publication 5030 · Paper Stock & Staples 5035 · Printing Equipment 5040 - Copy costs Total 5025 · In-House Publication Net Income In-House Publication Cost of Medallions Total Cost Of Goods Sold Gross Income (after cost of goods) 6,508 1,507 2,289 7,405 34 123 479 717 9 53 417 19,540 27,427 6,110 8,360 27,670 65 616 1,529 2,983 36 227 545 75,567 26,667 5,667 5,333 29,333 333 1,667 1,833 4,167 42 0 0 75,042 80,000 17,000 16,000 88,000 1,000 5,000 5,500 12,500 125 13,000 10,000 248,125 760 443 3,026 (1,664) (269) (1,051) (305) (1,184) (5) 227 545 525 4,530 0 4,530 1,978 19,177 534 19,710 7,716 18,167 167 18,333 8,333 54,500 500 55,000 25,000 (1,010) (367) (1,377) (617) 330 999 238 1,567 (60) 1,065 7,162 12,379 1,230 3,996 513 5,739 371 4,245 29,694 45,873 1,333 4,000 733 6,067 (400) 3,000 27,400 47,642 4,000 12,000 2,200 18,200 (1,200) 9,000 82,200 165,925 328 771 (1,245) (2,294) (1,769) 409 1,327 1,533 4,600 206 1,041 2,633 1,300 3,900 (1,333) 231 294 850 2,550 556 2,863 10,026 10,317 30,950 291 573 2,374 2,525 7,575 151 0 72 0 0 72 62 474 0 116 652 2,067 367 50 50 2,533 6,200 1,100 150 150 7,600 1,881 36 329 2,153 6,460 1,824 7,231 1,543 8,292 20,743 5,079 34,114 27,977 6,167 34,144 83,932 18,500 102,432 30 Expense Equipment Expense Total Equipment Expense Insurance Total Insurance Meetings/Conference Expense Total Meetings/Conference Expense Office Expense Total Office Expense Utilities - 5770 Total 5770 Utilities Other Committees - 6200 5990 - Picnic Committee 6210 - PI/CPC Expense 6220 - Special Needs Committee 6230 - Teleservice Committee Total Other Committees Professional Fees Total Professional Fees Payroll Expenses Salaries and wages Taxes and Benefits Total 5400 · Payroll Expenses Bank Charges Bad Debt Expense - 5686 Credit Card Fees - 5895 Bank Charges - 5690 Total Expense Net Income CCFAA 0 142 0 13,659 (1,280) 0 33 100 435 567 1,700 12 33 100 52,195 55,989 167,967 (6,322) (8,347) (2,042) Prepared by [email protected] Page 21 3,794 (2,025) By The Way GROUP CONTRIBUTIONS AS OF 5/29/12 GROUP NAME 11TH STEP MEDITATION MEETING MAY 12 YTD 0.00 180.00 2ND CHANCE GROUP 0.00 278.00 5TH TRADITION BIG BOOK STUDY 0.00 10.00 AA NEWCASTLE/LOOMIS GROUP 0.00 170.00 AA UNITY GROUP 0.00 475.00 AS BILL SEES IT MEN'S GROUP ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT GROUP OF DAVIS AUBURN FELLOWSHIP 40.00 40.00 0.00 96.00 50.00 250.00 AUBURN WEDNESDAY NIGHT YOUNG PEOPLE 0.00 56.06 AUBURN WOMEN'S STEP STUDY 0.00 25.00 BIG BOOK BASICS 0.00 111.50 BROWNSVILLE SERENITY GROUP 0.00 15.15 BUILDING D GROUP 0.00 300.00 CAME TO BELIEVE GROUP 0.00 270.00 CAPITOL CITY MEN'S GROUP 0.00 251.99 CATHEDRAL GROUP 0.00 360.00 CENTRAL FOOTHILL WOMEN'S CONF. 0.00 180.56 CITRUS HEIGHTS AA @ NOON 0.00 240.00 CITRUS HEIGHTS GROUP 0.00 47.21 COME AS YOU ARE GROUP 0.00 698.00 100.00 100.00 CORDOVA BIG BOOK STUDY CORDOVA GOOD MORNING GROUP 0.00 50.00 CORDOVA LUNCH BUNCH 0.00 178.00 CORDOVA SATURDAY NIGHT GROUP 0.00 150.00 CORDOVA SERENITY SEEKERS GROUP 0.00 122.00 COURAGE TO CHANGE GROUP 0.00 239.00 DAILY ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT GROUP 0.00 583.15 DAVIS FRIDAY NOON GROUP DAVIS HOPE GROUP 0.00 111.00 60.00 180.00 31.66 DAVIS WEDNESDAY WOMENS STEP STUDY 0.00 DIXON DRY DOCK GROUP 0.00 50.00 DOBBIN'S WILD BUNCH 0.00 31.52 Dry Diggins' Group 0.00 11.36 EAST YOLO FELLOWSHIP 0.00 150.00 EDEN VALLEY AT APPLEGATE GROUP 43.40 43.40 ELK GROVE FELLOWSHIP 0.00 966.34 ELK GROVE GROUP 0.00 159.00 ELK GROVE SOBRIETY SISTERS 0.00 204.68 ESPEE FELLOWSHIP 0.00 100.00 FAIR OAKS BEGINNERS GROUP 0.00 70.00 FELLOWSHIP OF THE SPIRIT BIG BOOK STUDY 0.00 20.00 FIT FOR LIFE GROUP 0.00 75.50 FOLSOM BIG BOOK GROUP 0.00 551.27 FOLSOM FRIDAY NIGHT GROUP FOLSOM NOON NEW LIFE GROUP FOLSOM SATURDAY MORNING FOLSOM TUESDAY NIGHT MEN'S AA CCFAA JUNE 2012 250.00 500.00 0.00 250.00 200.00 200.00 61.00 61.00 FOLSOM WAY OF LIFE GROUP 684.00 1,524.98 FOLSOM WEDNESDAY NIGHT AA GROUP 250.00 360.00 FOLSOM YOUNG PEOPLE'S GROUP 0.00 286.55 FORESTHILL BENT NICKEL GROUP 0.00 85.00 FOUNTAIN OF YOUTH GROUP 0.00 125.24 FRIDAY NITE AA GROUP - CARMICHAEL 0.00 80.00 FRIENDS OF BILL W. (CHRISTIAN VALLEY) 0.00 100.00 Page 22 By The Way GROUP CONTRIBUTIONS AS OF 5/29/12 GROUP NAME MAY 12 YTD GALT FELLOWSHIP 0.00 300.00 GIBBONS NOON 0.00 150.00 GNO GIRLS NIGHT OUT 0.00 4.53 GO TO ANY LENGTH GROUP 0.00 36.10 GOOD ORDERLY DIRECTION 0.00 114.54 JUNE 2012 GROUP NAME MAY 12 SIERRA STEP SISTERS GROUP 0.00 84.90 SIERRA WEDNESDAY AM GROUP 0.00 89.00 137.72 137.72 44.76 178.71 SIMPLY AA SIXTY MINUTE SOLUTION GROUP YTD GOTTAWANNA GROUP 279.00 279.00 SOUTHPORT SERENITY 0.00 165.00 GREENHAVEN GROUP 0.00 383.00 SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING GROUP 0.00 280.00 31.01 61.01 SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING ORANGEVALE 0.00 130.00 300.00 900.00 0.00 180.00 GROUP ONE GROUP THREE HAPPY CAMPERS HAPPY DESTINY GROUP HAPPY JOYOUS & FREE GROUP HIGH FLYERS GROUP ICYPAA IN ALL OUR AFFAIRS GROUP INTO ACTION GROUP LAGUNA STUDY GROUP LINCOLN HILLS GROUP LINCOLN THURSDAY NIGHT GROUP LIVING SOBER WOMEN'S FRIDAY GROUP LOOMIS WOMEN'S STEP STUDY 0.00 148.99 0.00 46.00 0.00 42.00 46.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 261.00 75.00 200.00 93.52 146.52 146.52 0.00 73.41 269.35 269.35 STATE OF MIND SOBRIETY 0.00 25.00 STEP SISTERS 0.00 64.80 SUNDAY REFLECTIONS 50.00 100.00 SUNRISE SPEAKER MEETING 96.21 222.70 SUNRISE SUNSET GROUP 0.00 100.00 THANK GOD ITS SMOKEFREE MENS STAG 0.00 273.95 THE OTHER MEETING 0.00 12.50 THURSDAY MORNING BOOK/STEP STUDY GROUP 0.00 60.00 0.00 213.95 65.40 65.40 THURSDAY NIGHT MEN'S GROUP TIME TO START LIVING GROUP TRADITIONAL GROUP 384.88 2,884.62 MEN AT WORK 0.00 70.00 MIDTOWN SOLUTIONS 0.00 403.00 MONDAY NIGHT CLUB 0.00 4.72 MONDAY PM WOMEN GROUP 0.00 137.56 MONDAY WOMEN'S STEP STUDY 0.00 80.00 125.00 125.00 0.00 183.56 TUESDAY NIGHT CARMICHAEL GROUP 0.00 89.07 195.85 TWELVE STEPS TO SOBRIETY 0.00 60.00 MORE WILL BE REVEALED NATOMAS GROUP NEW HOPE GROUP 0.00 NORTH AUBURN GROUP OF AA 0.00 60.00 NORTH HALL GROUP 0.00 813.53 OAK PARK FELLOWSHIP 0.00 50.00 OAK TREE GROUP 0.00 1,200.00 ORANGEVALE OPEN GROUP 0.00 55.00 ORANGEVALE SIXTY MINUTE 200.00 200.00 OVER 50 GROUP 108.21 108.21 PHOENIX FELLOWSHIP 0.00 51.00 PLACERVILLE SUNRISE ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT 0.00 360.00 POWERLESS OVER ALCOHOL WOMEN'S GROUP 0.00 92.66 RANCHO MURIETA GROUP 298.82 731.31 RIO LINDA FELLOWSHIP 100.00 300.00 ROCKLIN FELLOWSHIP 50.00 250.00 TRADITIONS AND CONCEPTS STUDY GRP 23.47 103.47 TRIANGLE GROUP 0.00 310.50 TUESDAY CORDOVA KISS GROUP 0.00 160.00 TUESDAY MIDTOWN GROUP 0.00 122.58 VALLEY SPRINGS FWP 0.00 22.50 WAY OUT BIG BOOK STUDY 0.00 45.00 WE CARE GROUP 0.00 120.00 WE SURRENDER MEN'S GROUP 0.00 55.84 WEDNESDAY NIGHT 12X12 BOOK STUDY 0.00 90.00 WEDNESDAY WOMEN'S STEP STUDY GROUP 0.00 0.00 WELCOME GROUP 0.00 378.98 WEST SLOPE FELL0WSHIP 0.00 30.00 WHAT A WAY WEEKEND WOMENS GROUP 0.00 114.17 WILLING WOMEN GROUP, THE 0.00 357.45 WINTERS KITCHEN TABLE GROUP 0.00 156.63 WOMEN OF EXTRAVAGANT PROMISES 0.00 123.39 ROCKLIN RACETRACK GROUP 0.00 60.00 ROLOFF TO RECOVERY MEN'S 140.00 140.00 WOMEN ON WEDNESDAYS 0.00 20.00 208.00 408.00 WOMEN UNDER CONSTRUCTION 0.00 31.83 WOODLAND GROUP 25.00 125.00 ROSEVILLE 12X12 STUDY GROUP ROSEVILLE EASTSIDE GROUP ROSEVILLE FELLOWSHIP MONDAY NIGHT GRP ROSEVILLE FIFTH STREET FELLOWSHIP ROSEVILLE TUESDAY NIGHT GP 93.22 239.22 100.00 200.00 20.00 287.18 250.00 1,600.00 RULE 62 GROUP 0.00 400.00 S.I.S. SISTERS IN SOBRIETY 0.00 308.69 SATURDAY MORNING REFLECTIONS GP 0.00 331.27 SERENDIPITY AS BILL SEES IT GROUP 0.00 50.00 SERENITY BOOK & STEP STUDY GP 0.00 100.00 SIERRA PINES GROUP 0.00 64.03 CCFAA WOODLAND WOMEN'S GRP ZINFANDEL & CORDOVA LANE GROUP TOTAL ICYPAA 67.00 200.00 5,430.97 33,100.54 SPECIAL EVENTS REVENUE 0.00 100.00 APR YTD 416.67 416.67 Page 23 NONPROFIT ORGANIZATION U.S. POSTAGE PAID PERMIT NO. 449 SACRAMENTO CA CENTRAL CALIFORNIA FELLOWSHIP 9960 BUSINESS PARK DR., SUITE 110 SACRAMENTO, CALIFORNIA 95827 *CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED JUNE 2012 BTW By The Way Subscription Want to join the Birthday Club? Send a dollar ( +/ ) per year of sobriety to: Central California Fellowship 9960 Business Park Dr., Ste. 110, Sacramento, CA 95827. Name: _____________________________ Address: _____________________________ City/State/Zip: _____________________________ Birthday/Years: _____________________________ Phone Number: _____________________________ Have you moved? 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