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Shabbat Shira Pages 4 & 5 Social Justice Committee Speaker Page 9 Shabbat Dinners Pages 6 & 16 Shabbark Shalom Page17 Re-Jew-Vination Page 19 Congregation Beth Israel West Hartford Connecticut January / February 2016 Tevet / Shevat / Adar I 5776 Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Joint Commemoration with Bethel A.M.E. Church Friday, January 15, 7:30pm at CBI Reverend Daylan Greer Sr. will speak Sunday, January 17, 9:00am at Bethel A.M.E. Church 1154 Blue Hills Avenue, Bloomfield Rabbi Michael Pincus will speak With the CBI and Bethel A.M.E. Choirs For More Information: [email protected] or 860-233-2815 SAVE-the-DATE Second Annual Martin Luther King Jr. Youth Day of Service Monday, January 18, 10:00am The morning begins with a service led by CBI’s 8th grade students. Come partake of wonderful age appropriate projects for your and your family. All projects benefit the moms, dads and kids at the Community Renewal Team family shelter in East Hartford. RSVP to Max Schwimmer: [email protected]. More details to follow! “It’s about what can be done by us together.” President Barack Obama Congregation Beth Israel’s Bulletin is published six times per year, at Congregation Beth Israel, 701 Farmington Ave., West Hartford, CT 06119. Subscription is $36 per year, free to members of Congregation Beth Israel. The material in this Bulletin may not be reproduced without permission. On occasion, dates, times, and details of services and events published in this Bulletin may change. Subscribe to our weekly email newsletter, Chai Lights, for the latest information. Contact [email protected]. Visit our website, www.cbict.org, for additional content and information. FROM OUR PRESIDENT Gail Mangs, President of the Board of Trustees Why are you a Reform Jew and what does Reform Judaism mean to you and your family? Is it something you were born into or were you searching for a meaningful spiritual path? Did you discover Reform Judaism through study or friends? Or was Reform Judaism a compromise choice made by you and your spouse because one of you grew up in another religion? Whoever you are and however you joined us, we hope we have made you feel welcomed, wanted and included; for Reform Judaism is a religion of inclusion. This was the message of the Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) Biennial, which was attended by a Beth Israel delegation comprised of clergy, CBI lay leaders and members, our youth staff and our executive director. From November 4 – 8 in Orlando, Florida, we learned, prayed, sang and met 5000 other Reform Jews from across North America; it was an amazing and inspiring experience (and no, I did not visit Disney!). The URJ represents and supports a vibrant movement comprised of approximately 1.5 million people and 900 congregations. But we are not part of a monolithic union. Under the umbrella of “Audacious Hospitality”, the URJ invites its members to put the ideas of diversity, outreach and inclusion into daily practice. For Reform Jews are not a homogenous group of people: we are made up of families with young children, baby boomers and empty nesters, the elderly, young singles, interfaith families, LGBTQ Jews, Jews with disabilities or special needs and Jews of diverse racial and ethnic backgrounds. In fact, the diversity of Reform Judaism is both our strength and our future, and why we continue to grow as a movement. In addition to learning about how to effectively welcome and include our diverse membership at Beth Israel, members of our delegation attended sessions on Strengthening Congregations (developing future leaders, congregational life, financial issues and collaboration among synagogues), Tikkun Olam (we are now part of a Community of Practice around an exciting social action project that you will be hearing more about) and Transforming (Jewish) Texts. There were more interesting sessions offered than any of us could possibly attend. But in addition to these sessions, there were both traditional and experimental worship opportunities each day in the morning and evening, musical performances, Shabbat services like you have never experienced, and the opportunity to meet people from all over North America (it helps to hear how other congregational leaders deal with the same kinds of issues that we face). But you are in luck! The next Biennial will take place December 6 – 10, 2017, right next door in Boston, Massachusetts. Please consider this to be your personal invitation to be a part of this remarkable experience. Even though you might not have been able to attend the Biennial, I hope you were able to hear Rabbi Eric Yoffie, the immediate past president of the URJ, at our scholar in residence weekend in November. His optimistic messages about the future of Reform Judaism (we are the fastest growing movement in Judaism), the strength of Israel, Israel’s ability to face its challenges and the slow but gradual growth of the Reform movement in Israel was fascinating and inspiring. For those of us who attended the Biennial, Rabbi Yoffie’s words were particularly timely. In addition, Rabbi Yoffie’s visit allowed us to put in practice one of the Biennial’s lessons: collaboration. Rabbi Yoffie’s visit was sponsored by all five of Greater Hartford’s Reform synagogues. Their clergy participated in the Solidarity Shabbat service and their members were in attendance at Beth Israel to hear Rabbi Yoffie. Before closing, a couple of thank you's are due. First, to the Tribute Committee whose hard work brought us a wonderful evening of fabulous food and exciting music (featuring Allegra Levy!) in support of the Rabbi's Fund for Lifelong Learning at Beth Israel. And next, to Doctors Michael and Barbara Honor who have sponsored the installation of the new digital display in the lobby. Their generosity has made it possible for us to communicate with our congregants and visitors in a vibrant and appealing (21st century) way! Finally, allow me to wish you and your loved ones a happy and healthy 2016 full of blessings and joy. Whatever challenges you may face this year, your Beth Israel family is here for you. 2 January / February 2016 Upcoming Board of Trustees Meetings All CBI Members Welcome All Meetings take place at 7pm in Feldman Hall January 19, 2016 April 19, 2016 February 16, 2016 May 17, 2016 March 15, 2016 Rabbi Michael Pincus Sometimes it can be easy to forget that our synagogue is part of a larger community called the Union for Reform Judaism with almost 900 congregations across North America. Because of the URJ we were able to give 18 of our children an incredible Jewish summer camp experience. We are able to take our Confirmation class this month to the Religious Action Center in Washington DC and join with hundreds of other teens from across the nation to study what Judaism has to say about the issues of today—and we are able to go up to Capitol Hill and find their voices. We are able to join a community of practice and work with other synagogues on how we might be a better “community of action.” And we can join every two years with 5,000 people and study and learn and grow together. Next time it will be December 6-10, 2017 in Boston. I hope you will consider joining me there…. One of the teachers we were able to study with at the Biennial was Rabbi Lawrence Hoffman. He summed it up this way: The Reform biennial offered a proud and joyous vision of a mirror image that might matter. It gave a rationale for choosing Judaism in its Reform guise. In times past attendees left biennials with best practices. This year, they departed with best principles, reasons to believe that the world itself requires the amplified voice of progressive Judaism. Already the largest Jewish movement in America, and worldwide, Reform Judaism (it was said) can yet double or triple its influence – not by programs but by these principles: 1. Absolute commitment to the State of Israel, but modified by the right—even the obligation— to critique and to oppose any immoral governmental policies; 2. The recovery of the prophetic call for justice, righteousness, and compassion; 3. Eliminating barriers to full participation by all who seek what Reform Judaism is; 4. Serious grappling with the vast library of Jewish classics, to access their wisdom for our time; 5. Responsibility to the Jewish People and its universal mission to add light to the world; and Members of Beth Israel’s Biennial delegation enjoying Shabbat Dinner 6. Striving, along the way, to enrich one’s own life, personally, through spirituality, community, and commitment to what God asks. CBI MISSION STATEMENT BOARD OF TRUSTEES NOMINATING COMMITTEE The individuals serving on the Nominating Committee for the Board of Trustees for 2016 are: Liz Freedman Jeff Smith Andy Katz Jennifer Mailly Aaron Frank Clare Feldman Melissa Geller Suggestions are welcome and can be given in person to any member of the committee or can be emailed to [email protected]. Our mission is to serve the lifelong spiritual and educational needs of our congregants, within a welcoming and caring contemporary Reform Jewish Community. (Current Mission Statement) Every so often it is important to review our mission as a Congregation. The Board of Trustees is conducting a survey for congregants to provide input about our current mission statement. Surveys are available in the lobby and all congregants are encouraged to fill out these brief, one-page surveys. Completed surveys can be put in the labeled box in the lobby or sent to the CBI office. If you prefer just to email us, please email Rob Berman or Liz Freedman at [email protected]. Thank you for your input! 3 January / February 2016 “Music is the language of the spirit. It opens the secret of life bringing peace, abolishing strife.” Kahlil Gibran SHABBAT SHIRAH (the Sabbath of Song) Friday January 22 at 7:30pm WHY I SING” With the Adult Choir of Congregation Beth Israel ‘Shiranote’ our Youth Chorale CBI Kabbalat Shabbat Band Music by Mozart; Schubert, Bonia Shur; Leonard Cohen and many others! I SING BECAUSE: It warms my heart and expands my musical knowledge. Cabaret are special; my choir friends are special. Singing keeps me happy! Bobbie Mindell I Sing Because… When I was little my mother sang lullabies to me and I was comforted. I Sing Because… My father played the piano and sang children’s songs to me and passed on his own love of music. I Sing Because… In High School when a classmate passed away and my Madrigal Group sang at his funeral, I comforted others and felt strong emotions through singing. I Sing Because… I’ve made music with others who have become lifelong friends through sharing the heart-felt love and joy of expressing the inexpressible through sharing our voices with each other. Beverly Silver I sing because I never lose interest; there is always room for me to improve. Each time I sing it is an opportunity for me to grow as a person as well as an artist, I choose to sing at a synagogue because here the music is about something much larger than me. Through music, I express and celebrate my personal faith at the same time that I join together with others as we develop our Jewish identities, however we came to them. Emily Forman I sing because I have to. Music pours out of my mouth from my soul. Singing makes me happy and has made me weep with joy; I do not sing because I am happy, I am happy because I sing. I intend to sing my whole life, because my life would not be whole without singing. Sheryl Simoni I sing because it gives me immense joy which I am then able to share with others. I also feel that each of us has a sacred and joyful obligation to use the talents and gifts which God has given to us. That's why I sing. Mary Silverberg I sing because when I feel the music my spirit soars to wonderful heights and I only feel love and joy. Music fills my soul like no other thing I can describe, and, hopefully, it makes those who listen feel the same joy . June Schweitzer Why do I sing? Why do I breathe? One supports life, The other living. Fred FitzGerald 4 Why do I sing? Because I must! Because I am alive, Because I LIVE! (Con’t. next page…) January / February 2016 I sing because music is my peace. My escape from all the madness and craziness that's around us. Katherine Peacock Jones I sing because I love the feeling of creating something beautiful when I sing; It is hard to put into words, because it doesn’t last, like a drawing or painting, but because it is my body that is my instrument, that sound that I create is my SELF flying in the Universe. To sum up, I SING BECAUSE I CAN, and I MUST. It is for me the oxygen and water without which I am not able to live. Claire Katz I sing because I feel singing is spiritual and I always feel uplifted. It is so joyful to sing in CBI. Singing helps to make me stronger. It is building my lung capacity and possibly will help me breathe easier. I do love singing with the choir and feel like the members are part of my extended family. I like to sing anywhere and almost all sorts of music. Judy FitzGerald I sing because my father Joseph Zaslow shared his love for music with me and my siblings. The highlight of my week is our adult choir rehearsal. It would be very difficult for me to choose between my love of art and my love of singing. I sing to express myself in the same way I express myself through my artwork. I have been able to use both of these gifts to express and share my faith. “Those who sing, pray twice. “ Barbara Friedman I sing because singing makes my spirit grow, the biggest it can be. It is my best gift. When it comes to a way of connecting with living beings and things, including animals and plants, singing provides me with a universal opening for connection and communication because I sing for God. Nothing provides me a greater honor. Faith Furst I sing because when I sit in services after a hectic week, music helps wash away all the stress and worries about what still needs to be done, and helps me make a sacred space for Shabbat to fill. I don't want to think about the words, I want to feel them and music does that for me. It makes me feel as though the unknown prayers in my soul have a vehicle to heaven...this is why I sing. Michelle Meyer I sing because it provides an opportunity for me as a choir member to create together, and to experience the shared ensemble of musical expression and prayer. Jewish music, historic and contemporary reflects the varying themes, nuances and energy of our Reform Movement, and the essence of human variables emotionality and meaning. Dianne Friedman PhD Back in 1974, Elton John wrote a big hit for Kiki Dee called "I Got the Music in Me". I guess I could say that for me, it has always been about the music. I just love to sing, whether solo or with others, and when I sing, I move to that place where I have always been most comfortable inside myself. Why do I sing? I have to sing. It is who I am. Mitch Cohen PRAYER BOOK ANGELS NEEDED We are in need of additional Mishkan T’Filah and are looking for some angels interested in helping with this important work. Please consider honoring a parent, grandparent, child, teacher, mentor, or event through a donation of $36 per prayer book. If you can help, please contact the synagogue office (860-233-8215; [email protected]) or Scott Myers ([email protected]) SEEKING TOY DONATIONS Sam Frank is collecting toys for his Bar Mitzvah project: "Please help collect new toys for children at Hartford Hospital who have gone through surgery. These toys will help them feel a little bit better before they can go home. Toys should be new and fairly small. Examples of the kind of toys we are looking for are: crayons with coloring books, stuffed animals, or toy cars. Please no used toys!!! Thank you!" Sam Frank. The collection box is located in the Synagogue's main office. 5 January / February 2016 Richard and Andrea Balogh Haley & Jacob Abiya-Dov Epstein Byron Fisher and Janice Cohen Eliot and Leah Bassin Bryce Boris and Dolli Ginzburg Leland Brandt and Lynne Tapper Eli & Sophie Richard and Kathryn Liburdi Tasha, Ariel & Dario Charlotte Croog Max Wax-Krell and Carrie Field Grady & Cooper Paul Deleeuw Joseph & Halley Kerry Wiland In November, Congregation Beth Israel was privileged to host a solidarity Shabbat service with the Reform synagogues in our area. Immediate past president of the URJ, Rabbi Eric Yoffie, was our scholar in residence. A special thank you to Ruth Mellion for her help in sponsoring this weekend in memory of her brother Bruce Mellion. Spirituality KOL SHABBAT Youth Engagement Program Update Lauren Benthien, Director of Education Friday, February 5, 6pm and 8pm Kol means both “voice” and “all”. We have a camp-style service at 6pm with a song leader playing guitar, designed especially for elementary school age children. Our Kindergarden will participate in the service this month. At 8pm, join us for a service with emphasis on introspection and reflection Our Youth Engagement Program is busy each week with exciting programming and engaging experiences. We are so fortunate to have an amazing teaching staff that is dedicated to creating these enduring lessons in and out of the classroom! Enjoy photos from many of our programs on this and the next page, and thank a teacher when you see them! They are hard working, dedicated, and passionate about their Judaism---and it shows each week when they work with our children! In between, we host a community dinner. Please reserve your Kol Shabbat meals by the Monday before the event. The cost is $10 per adult, $5 per child. If you sign up after Monday, the cost goes up to $15 per adult and $10 per child. Sign-up here: http://www.cbict.org/events-3/kol-shabbat/. You may pay cash or check at the door. Questions? Contact [email protected] or 860-233-8215. First grade enjoys a visit from our Israeli Emissary, Edo, with teacher Bonnie Schneider and madricha Jenna Gershman. KABBALAT SHABBAT January 29 & February 26 at 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat means to welcome Shabbat Shabbat. The Mystics of Sfat in the 15th century introduced to Judaism the power of music to welcome in the Sabbath. Come experience our own special service in song SAVE-The-DATE Dinner Following the February Service Watch for details in February and RSVP by Monday, February 22nd. $20/ adults and $12/ seniors and children. The cost goes up to $25/ adults and $17/ seniors and children after the reservation deadline. For a complete listing of our Shabbat Services, see the calendar on pages 24 & 25. 6 January / February 2016 Kindergarten students learn about balloons and colors with a story from our Israeli Emissary, Dona, and teacher Amy Rosenfield. We Thank the following donors who purchased new SCHOOL DOORS with enhanced security features for our classrooms: Estate of Marc Abrahms Brotherhood Gail and David Mangs Sisterhood Ruth and Ron Van Winkle Anonymous Our 5th & 6th grade Ruach Judaic Studies class about Life Cycle events learns about Jewish weddings under the chuppah with Lisa Berman. 4th Grade students working in small groups in Hebrew class with teacher, DJ Fortine. Family Participation mornings with Rabbi Pincus: Our 5th & 6th grade Ruach Judaic Studies class about Social Justice creates their own Maimondes Ladder with Max Schwimmer. 8th Grade Journey Onward students visit the Humane Society and make a donation of pet food, with teacher Naomi Scheinerman. 7th Grade Journey Onward students consider the idea of a silver lining with Rabbi Shaffer and Co-Teacher Jordan Sicklick 7 January / February 2016 6th & 7th Graders prepare to leave for their Shabbaton at Camp Eisner with Rabbi Shaffer. Joe Dix Shemot (Names) Exodus 1:1-6:1 The Children of Israel multiply in Egypt. Threatened by their growing numbers, Pharaoh enslaves them and orders the Hebrew midwives, Shifrah and Puah, to kill all male babies at birth. When they do not comply, he commands his people to cast the Hebrew babies into the Nile. A child is born to Yocheved, the daughter of Levi, and her husband, Amram, and placed in a basket on the river, while the baby’s sister, Miriam, stands watch from afar. Pharaoh’s daughter discovers the boy, raises him as her son, and names him Moses. As a young man, Moses leaves the palace and discovers the hardship of his brethren. He sees an Egyptian beating a Hebrew, and kills the Egyptian. The next day he sees two Jews fighting; when he admonishes them, they reveal his deed of the previous day, and Moses is forced to flee to Midian. There he rescues Jethro’s daughters, marries one of them (Tzipporah), and becomes a shepherd of his father-in-law’s flocks. G-d appears to Moses in a burning bush at the foot of Mount Sinai, and instructs him to go to Pharaoh and demand: “Let My people go, so that they may serve Me.” Moses’ brother, Aaron, is appointed to serve as his spokesman. In Egypt, Moses and Aaron assemble the elders of Israel to tell them that the time of their redemption has come. The people believe; but Pharaoh refuses to let them go, and even intensifies the suffering of Israel. Moses returns to G-d to protest: “Why have You done evil to this people?” G-d promises that the redemption is close at hand. (From Chabad.org) Mishpatim (Judgments) Exodus 21:1-24:18 This is a fairly lengthy parsha. It contains 53 mitzvot. There are laws concerning Hebrew servants, personal injuries, protection of property, social responsibility, justice and mercy, and festivals. 21:1-23:19. God then warns the people to obey His angel and to follow all His commands and He will bless and protect them and establish their borders. 23:20-31. The Israelites are not to make a treaty with the people living in the land or worship their gods. 23:32-33. The Lord then Lisa Wenig, partner of Glenn Gilman summons Moses, Aaron, Nadab, Abihu and 70 elders to come up to Mount Sinai but only Moses is allowed to approach God. 24:1-2. There are sacrifices; the people affirm their willingness Betty Salner, mother of Andrew Salner and his to accept the covenant “ wife Patricia We will do everything the Lord has said; we will obey”(24:7); Moses, Aaron, Nadab, Abihu, and the seventy elders go up Mount Sinai and behold the God of Israel. 24:9-11. Then Moses alone is summoned up the mountain to meet with God. Aaron and Hur are left behind to answer the people’s disputes. And the glory of the Lord covers the mountain. 24:12-18. The parsha begins ve-eleh ha’mishpatim (and these are the judgments). What is the significance of starting the parsha with ‘and these’? To show that this parsha is connected with the previous parsha. Just as the Ten Commandments were given at Sinai, so too were these commandments given at Sinai. They carry the same weight and authority as the Ten. They expound on the Ten given in chapter 20. The people of Israel have to learn how to set up their own society and live as a free people. They will need a system of laws and punishments for transgression of those laws. Being free does not mean everyman for himself. The poor, the widow, the orphan, and the stranger would be left helpless. But God demands that we take care of such people. 22:21-27 23:6, 9. 8 January / February 2016 Phyllis Katz, wife of Sherman Katz; mother of Nancy Rossler and her husband Donald Debra Levy, wife of Jim Levy; mother of Emily and Stephanie Susan Block, beloved CBI member Isabel Northrop, beloved CBI member Merton Honeyman, beloved CBI member Gloria Breitman, beloved CBI member Ilya Gostomelsky, beloved CBI member S ocial J ustice "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." "We may have all come on different ships, but we're in the same boat now." Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Social Justice Speaker Sunday, January 10. - 9:30 Am Professor Cheryl Greenberg Paul E. Raether Distinguished Professor Of History Trinity College "WHY 'BLACK LIVES MATTER' SHOULD MATTER TO JEWS" Dr. Greenberg holds an A.B. from Princeton University, summa cum laude, and an M.A., M. Phil. and Ph.D. from Columbia University. She teaches courses in African American history and the history of race in the United States, as well as courses on many social and cultural history topics, including crime and protest movements. Her research interests range from African American communities during the Great Depression to grass-roots organizing in the Civil Rights movement, and from postwar liberalism to Black/Jewish relations. Professor Greenberg has been a Fulbright Distinguished Lecturer at Nankai University, Tianjin, P.R. China and a Fulbright Distinguished Chair at the University of Helsinki, Finland. She has received numerous honors, awards and fellowships, and her books include "To Ask for an Equal Chance: African Americans in the Great Depression" and "Troubling the Waters: Black-Jewish Relations in the American Century." Dr. Greenberg's current projects include Editor: "A Day I Ain't Never Seen Before,” a community oral history and memoir of a civil rights worker in Marks, Mississippi; African Americans and the Politics of Gay Marriage; and Civil Liberties and Civil Rights: The Case of Hate Speech. Dr. Greenberg has served on the Trinity College faculty since 1986. SOUTHERN JEWISH CIVIL RIGHTS JOURNEY By Jim Friedman Following the Union For Reform Judaism Biennial Convention in early November in Orlando, Dianne and I joined a group of 30 people of varying ages from the World Union for Progressive Judaism for a remarkable Jewish Civil Rights Journey. From Atlanta we traveled by bus to Montgomery, Alabama to the Rosa Parks Museum, the Southern Poverty Law Center, the Freedom Riders Exhibit at the Greyhound Bus Station and a local Reform synagogue. The next day was at Selma and a talk by a woman who, as an 11 year-old child, had marched across the Edmund Pettus Bridge and experienced being beaten by the police and state troopers, we then walked across that infamous bridge, then on to Birmingham, the Civil Rights Institute, Freedom Park and the 16th Street Baptist Church, where the four little girls were killed in the bombing. Back to Atlanta and a visit to the Names Project/AIDS Quilt, the King Center and Ebenezer Baptist Church, the National Human and Civil Rights Museum, and a visit to The Temple, which was bombed in 1958. The Journey was led by a superb Jewish trip leader/educator from Atlanta, and included three Reform Rabbis, two from London and one from Israel, young World Union Fellows from Budapest, Belarus, Israel and the US and people from England and the US. We strongly recommend the Journey for Jews of all ages, for those who want to re-experience the Civil Rights struggles of the 50s and 60s, for those who want to see up-close the history of the Civil Rights struggle in America, and for teens to be exposed to the historic Black-Jewish relations of that challenging time in our country. Please contact me if you would like information about creating such an experience for your group. I can be reached at 860-236-0580 or [email protected] 9 January / February 2016 Finding Youth Engagement Under The Table\ Rabbi Dena Shaffer [Originally printed in The Union For Reform Judaism’s Inside Leadership] There’s an old Hassidic story about a prince who is convinced that he is a rooster, and therefore takes off all his clothes and refuses to eat unless he may do so from underneath the king’s table. After inviting many experts in child rearing (whose advice fails to make an impression on the prince), the king finally calls upon the local rabbi. Much to everyone’s surprise, the rabbi too crawls under the table and eats a meal there with the prince. After some time he says to the prince, “hey, did you know that roosters can wear clothes if they want?” “Oh good,” replies the prince and pulls his sweater over his head, “I was getting cold under here.” After a few more minutes the rabbi continues, “Did you know that roosters, too, can eat at the table if they want?” “Oh good,” replies the prince, crawling out and climbing into a chair. “My back was starting to hurt sitting under there.” And thus the rabbi succeeds in bringing the prince back to the king’s table. The story is an allegory, and one that has profound implications for those of us who work with teens. It hits upon the lesson we have been learning and repeating for years. As a Jewish professional, the rabbi knows that he may never convince the prince that he is not a rooster, but he also understands that this is not his job. Instead, his job is to crawl under the table and simply be with the prince wherever he happens to be. This idea of “meeting them where they are” is one that drives us in youth engagement and has become our mantra in recent years. We know that when we do this, we are successful, even when it is difficult and accompanied by a sense of sacrifice and loss. When we don’t, we are typically less successful. We are left wondering why, though we lead the proverbial horse to water time and time again, he never takes a drink. We talk about this adaptability in youth leadership all the time, but it is so much harder to follow in action. I suspect there are a few reasons for this gap from theory to practice. First, we get stuck in the rut of trying to replicate what worked for us when we were young. We know that those methods are tried and true; clearly they were powerful strategies of engagement, or else we wouldn’t be doing the work we are doing today. And yet, we forget that a teenager’s world today is so vastly different than our own was. Even aspects that remain unchanged, such as the value of youth group programming, have to be re-interpreted for this new generation. Secondly, we get caught between competing values in our profession: The first, to act like that rabbi in the story who is unafraid to go out on limb and try something completely crazy in order to prove the relevancy of Judaism to our youth. And the second, to protect and safeguard the authenticity and sanctity of Jewish life. This conflict often makes it easy to talk about revolutionary change – but much, much harder to implement it. This past year, the youth culture in my community – Congregation Beth Israel in West Hartford, Connecticut – found itself in the midst of these competing values. We had watched as our traditional youth group, WHTY, dwindled to a mere fraction of what it once was. Our participation in regional events had, over time, become nearly non-existent, and our young leadership was nowhere to be found. By May of 2014, we were at a point of no return. Only one teen, a rising high school senior expressed an interest in “running” for a position on what was an effectively defunct youth group board. So what were we to do? As you might imagine, in the months leading up to this demise, my youth programmer and I spent many hours re-hashing what went wrong and what we could have done better. These conversations were largely unproductive. There was a feeling of “what was done was done.” We then spent time with that rising senior, teaching him about engagement and strategic conversations, role-playing with him so he could replicate these experiences with his friends and try to subtly prompt them into becoming active members of the youth group. But it was to no avail – he simply, as teenagers often do, did not follow though. We were at an impasse, and plagued with the challenge that our youth group would not look like it was “supposed to.” In my mind, we had two choices: fold up the entire operation, shift our efforts to our 6th, 7th, and 8th graders, and hope that in a few years’ time we would create the culture we envisioned (and hope also, that suddenly the secular high school experience in our community would be different). Or, we could run our youth group ourselves with no student board, using a model traditionally reserved for much younger cohorts, and thus disenfranchising the very population we were hired to empower. (Con’t. next page…) 10 January / February 2016 But perhaps there was a third option. Instead of following either of these paths, we did something that was, for us, revolutionary. We listened to the kids themselves. Over a few weeks, we had dozens of impromptu, completely informal conversations with teens. These were not forums. They were not organized by the synagogue. They were offthe-cuff dialogues that took place in hallways, in the car, over the phone, and through texting. We simply asked kids, with no judgment – “Where are you? “ We asked them questions like, “How come we never see you? Do you know that this programming is going on? Why don’t you ever want to come?” And what we got were honest answers that confirmed none of our worst fears. It wasn’t that teens thought youth group was lame or that they weren’t receiving communication about it. Instead, their answers clustered around one central theme: college. What our students cared about more than anything else was getting into a good college. They were thoughtful and careful about their activity choices with this end in mind. They weren’t stepping up as leaders in WHTY programming because they did not see it as serving this goal. We were not meeting them where they were; we had failed to get under the table! We knew how youth group was “supposed” to be run, so instead of listening – we were trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. So, at this milestone point in NFTY’s history, we abandoned the sacred structure. We no longer have programming vice presidents (PVPs) or membership vice presidents (MVPs). We painstakingly threw all of that away in an effort to get under the table. This year, for the first time, our youth group is being run by three incredible Youth Engagement Interns. They will spend the year building their resumes and learning skills that will benefit them in the college and professional worlds. They are being paid a stipend, being supervised rather than advised, and have partnerships with both professional staff, and key lay leaders in our community. They have portfolios, not positions; an office, not a lounge. We cut the programming calendar down to just three events that they will plan and execute for their peers; and the rest of the time they will be managing projects in the fields of development, member relations, and communications – projects that impact the entire congregational landscape, not just their own WHTY corner of the map. We know that it may be harder for them to relate to their peers in NFTY-North East (regional events are now “professional development opportunities,” by the way) and only time will tell whether this change will be as successful as it predicts on paper. But for now, the view from under the table looks pretty good! CBI TEENS ATTEND NFTY NEW ENGLAND FALL CONCLAVETTE CBI high school teens recently attended the National Federation of Temple Youth’s New England Fall Conclavette in Newton, Massachussets. This three-day event featured programming for and by Jewish teens, including Shabbat services, leadership and spiritual development, singing, dancing, and lots of fun. Over 300 teens from the northeast attended! CBI's Youth Programs Professional Max Schwimmer and Rabbi Shaffer also attended the event, and collected the following feedback from CBI teens: Favorite part of NFTY-NE Fall Conclavette _______: “Meeting all the kids and creating relationships that I can look forward to if I do again. When I first got here I didn’t know anybody, but once I met my hosts I felt comfortable.” _______: “The host families, getting to know new kids that I’ll definitely make friends with. I even saw kids I already knew from camp.” Big Takeaways _______: “Being Jewish you are part of a diverse community. Everyone is very different, but we all have one thing in common.” _______: “Everybody wants to be your friend, so I learned to approach people with kindness.” (Con’t. next page…) 11 January / February 2016 Israel Activism 101: Youth Israel Advocacy Program January 5, 2016, 5:30 pm - 9:45 pm Beth Sholom B’nai Israel 400 Middle Turnpike East, Manchester, CT 06040 Calling all Jewish youth ages 17-27! Participants in this free program will share a vegetarian meal and engage in dialog about identifying anti-Semitism on college campuses, what is BDS and how to combat it, and how youth can participate in Israel advocacy. This workshop will be led by Rena Nasar, the Tri-State Campus Coordinator at StandWithUs, an international, non-profit organization dedicated to educating the public about Israel to combat the extremism and antiSemitism that often distorts the issues. If you would like to receive more information about this program, please send an e-mail with your contact information to [email protected]. Non-members are warmly welcome to participate. There is no cost to participate although registration is required: http://www.myshul.org/ events/youth-israel-advocacy/. Mazel tov to Elliot Donn who was recently inducted into the Connecticut Veterans Hall of Fame. Elliot was honored for his service to veterans and their families. He is pictured here (right) with CT Lieutenant Governor Nancy Wyman and Sean Connolly, Commissioner of the CT Department of Veterans’ Affairs. We welcome Julia Elise Kerns, granddaughter of Jeff Smith and Jane Zande. Julia was born on November 24th. Her parents are Rachel and Matthew Kerns. Mazel tov Jeff and Jane! 12 January / February 2016 NFTY NEW ENGLAND FALL CONCLAVETTE (Con’t.) To CBI Teens Considering a Future NFTY Event _______: “You should come because it’s fun and you meet new people and you learn a lot…you’re representing your temple and it’s really fun.” Samantha: “It’s worth your time! You have to put yourself out there in order to have a good time. Just go for it!” _______: “It’s such a great experience. I will go with you so you won’t feel awkward! I will introduce you to people! It’s worth going because it creates connections with people and you never know if you’ll see them again in college!” _______: “I would definitely recommend going. You will meet cool Jewish people you never knew existed. Make a friend. Make friends with their friends!” NFTY-NE's Spring Conclavette is coming up! It's a similar event from April 1st through 3rd at a Boston area congregation. More information and registration is available at northeast.nfty.org. To learn more, contact Max Schwimmer at [email protected] Rabbi Pincus leads Havdallah at a Chai gathering in November at the home of April Haskell and Jerry Passman. Ben Wenograd has been elected to the West Hartford Town Council. Mazel Tov Ben! CHECK US OUT... The Ellen Jeanne Goldfarb Community Learning Center/Deborah Library Long winter nights? Snowy home-bound days? Librarian Karen Beyard suggests: Great Company Thanks to a generous friend and benefactor, our library now owns the complete Yale Jewish Lives Series. Named “Book of the Year” by the Jewish Book Council (the first time a series has been honored), these expertly written short biographies are perfect introductions to the Jewish greats: King David and Rav Kook, Freud and Einstein, Peggy Guggenheim and Leonard Bernstein, Trotsky and Moshe Dayan, Hank Greenberg and Kafka, and more. Coming soon: Groucho Marx, Barbara Streisand, and Louis Brandeis. Something Yummy Karen is drooling over two gorgeous cookbooks that combine personal journeys with great food: Zahav, A World of Israeli Cooking by Michael Solomonov with Stephen Cook (partners in America’s best Israeli restaurant and a mini-empire of other great Philadelphia eating) and Amelia Saltsman’s The Seasonal Jewish Kitchen: A Fresh Take on Tradition, a farm fresh, year-long culinary journey. For people who prefer reading to cooking, there’s Stir: My Broken Brain and the Meals that Brought Me Home – a beautifully crafted memoir by Bob Fechtor’s granddaughter Amy, and Falafel Nation: Cuisine and the Making of National Identity in Israel by Yael Raviv. Guilty Pleasures Yes, we have the newish and Jewish bestsellers you crave. Interested in Who Do You Love, the latest by Simsbury native Jennifer Weiner? In the Unlikely Event by children’s author turned adult writer Judy Blume? Or Book of Joan, Melissa Rivers’ memoir of mom, mirth, mischief, and manipulation? What about Joseph Kanon’s Leaving Berlin (Alexander McCall Smith called it “a combination of Le Carré and Graham Greene”) or Marriage of Opposites, Alice Hoffman at her “resplendent best in a trenchant and revelatory tale of a heroic woman and her world-altering artist son” (Booklist starred review)? And don’t forget On the Move, A Life, the last book by the late great Oliver Sacks. Is that him with the leather jacket on a motorcycle? There’s a lot we didn’t know. Food for Thought Can it be 20 years? We just received Killing a King: The Assassination of Yitzhak Rabin and the Remaking of Israel by Dan Ephron. Or you can watch the You-Tube video of a recent memorial at https:// www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGgJMZ71Amg . We also have Ally by Michael Oren, Doomed to Succeed: The US-Israel Relationship from CBI BOOK GROUP Truman to Obama by Dennis Ross, and Believer: My Forty Years in Politics by David Axelrod. Wednesday, January 6, 7pm We will be reading The Paris E-mail [email protected] or call 860 233 8215, x2300 to have a book Architect by Charles Belfoure saved or to let Karen know what you would like to read. Normal & library hours are 10-3 Tuesdays, 10-1 Thursdays, and 8:45-12 Wednesday, February 3, 7pm Sundays when religious school is in session; other times by Book to be announced appointment. Karen is part-time, so it’s best to call ahead. Karen is also thinking about making some winter deliveries to people who For more information, contact: cannot get out so everyone can curl up with a great book this Edee Tenser, [email protected] winter. 13 January / February 2016 PURIM! PURIM! PURIM! Are you feeling lonely? Listless? Left out of the loop? Never fear! Purim is almost here! Well, Purim rehearsals, anyway! This year, after the resounding popularity of our Beatles-inspired spiel, ACROSS THE JEWNIVERSE, CBI will present another rocking and rolling Purim extravaganza: GOOD CHAI-BRATIONS! featuring the music of THE BEACH BOYS with all new lyrics by congregant Pattie Weiss Levy! Our Purim players, from ages 8 to 80+, report that Purim helps lower their blood pressure, weight, and bad cholesterol and helps raise their grade point average and SAT scores! So please JOIN US! Join the FUN! Join in the JOY! Rehearsals will be held Sunday afternoons, beginning Sunday, January 10, 2016 from 2 – 5 p.m. (Auditions—and we use the term loosely— also will be held that day.) All are welcome—no experience necessary! For more info, contact Cantor Pamela Siskin, [email protected] or 860-233-8215 x2340. Performance date: Sunday, March 20, 2016 14 January / February 2016 S.A.G.E. S.A.G.E. Snow Policy: When West Hartford Public Schools close due to inclement weather, S.A.G.E. Activities are cancelled. The Dr. Robert A. Kramer Fund / Beth Israel Seniors Group S.A.G.E: Beth Israel Seniors for Arts, Growth & Education January and February Events RSVP: By 3PM On Sunday of the Week You Wish To Attend: Jan Glass, 860-675-9105, [email protected] or Nancy Kramer, 860-243-8558 Tuesday, January 5 11:15am Discussion with Fred Corwin 12:15pm Lunch $8 1:00pm Rabbi’s Forum Tuesday, January 12 11:15am Discussion with Martha Reingold 12:15pm Lunch $8 1:00pm Rabbi Stephen Fuchs will discuss his exciting ten-week experience in Germany. Tuesday, January 19 10:30pm Martha Reingold is a movie buff par excellence. She will present a movzie in commemoration of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King that we will all watch together on our “big screen,” and discuss over lunch. Please arrive by 10:15am so we can begin promptly by 10:30am. 12:15pm Lunch $8 Tuesday, January 26 11:15am Discussion with Karen Beyard 12:15pm Lunch $8 1:00pm Jerry Siskin presents ‘They Call Me Barbra’ Barbra Streisand, a woman of enormous talent and moral conviction! Come hear Jerry Siskin’s take on this great singer! Tuesday, February 2 11:15am Discussion with Lenore Blank 12:15pm Lunch $8 1:00pm Rabbi’s Forum Tuesday, February 9 11:15am Discussion with Rabbi Stephen Fuchs 12:15pm Lunch $8 1:00pm Dr. Roberta Tansman will outline CBI 's new social justice initiative in association with URJ and the RAC. We will be talking and working with you about ways our community can engage in sustainable, effective social justice especially as it relates to global health. 15 January / February 2016 Tuesday, February 16 11:15am Discussion with Tracy Mozingo (CBI Executive Director) and Sunny Kagan (CBI Membership Coordinator 12:15pm Lunch $8 1:00pm Trivia Pursuit Tuesday, February 23 11:15am Discussion with Merv Strauss 12:15pm Lunch $8 1:00pm Karen Beyard has chosen “Purim Night” from Edith Pearlman’s Binocular Vision, a 2011 National Book Award Finalist. The 79 year old author may be the most famous writer you haven’t read yet: She won the National Book Critics Circle Award, Wallant Award, Mary McCarthy Prize, and PEN/Malumud Award for Excellence, and Oprah listed Honeydew, Pearlman’s fifth collection, as one of “19 books to read right now.” Set in a Displaced Persons camp in 1947, “Purim Night” brings our holiday survival story to vivid life. Pick up your copy at SAGE (January 5 on) or in our library, and join the discussion! BETH ISRAEL’s PARKING & SNOW POLICIES Please note that no overnight parking is permitted at CBI. Our parking lot is now monitored at night by a towing company to ensure the lot is clear for plowing this winter. Cars left overnight will be towed. We post weather-related cancellations on the home page of our website,and on CBS, NBC and ABC (television and internet). You can also call the synagogue office at 860-2338215 for a recorded update. For more information, contact Tracy Mozingo at [email protected] or 860-233-8215. Brotherhood and Sisterhood The Brotherhood & Sisterhood Are Sponsoring A Family Pasta Dinner and YOU’RE INVITED! Friday, January 29th at 7:30 PM Following Kabbalat Shabbat Services Cost is $18 per adult, $6 per child with a family cap of $42. But sign up now! If you sign up after Wednesday, January 26, 2016, the cost will go up to $20 per adult and $8 per child with a $48 family cap. Sign up by email only to [email protected]. More From Sisterhood SISTERHOOD BOARD MEETING Tuesday, January 5th at 7:15pm Feldman Hall You have paid your membership dues and attended Sisterhood events, now come and see what we are all about. Please join us! Meet your Board Members Learn more about our organization Hear about upcoming events. Dessert and coffee will be served. DO YOU KNOW HOW TO KNIT OR CHROCHET? Do You Want to Learn to Knit? Join us on Sunday, January 10 at 10am In the AV room at the back of the Library Bring a size 8 pair of knitting needles and we will explain the easy project we are doing for the babies at Connecticut Children’s Medical Center. Questions? Call Sue DeMartino at 860-521-6807 16 January / February 2016 Sisterhood is now on Facebook. You will be able to find out the latest news and events. Mah Jonng Tournament is returning this Spring more details to follow… TU B’SHEVAT: THE NEW YEAR OF THE TREES Rabbi Dena Shaffer After Hanukkah we always feel a little sad, thinking that we have to wait until Purim for another opportunity to celebrate. But then we remember…Tu B’shevat is almost here! Tu B’shevat, which literally means the 15th of the month of Shevat follows just a few short weeks after Hanukkah (this year on January 24-25). It’s a fascinating Jewish experience that reminds us that even the most mundane activities can be elevated to heights of joy and holiness. Tu B’shevat originated as an agricultural practice, a sort of biblical tax day. You see, back in the day, our ancestors who were fruit farmers were taxed in the form of tithes. In order to tithe your orchard, you needed to know if your fruit belonged to last year’s harvest or this year’s. And since most fruit ripens in the summer, a winter day, Tu B’shevat, became the agreed-upon day when the fruit tax would be collected and the new tax year would begin. This is why Tu B’shevat is often referred to as the “new year of the trees!” Like most Jewish festivals with agricultural/cultic origins Tu B’shevat had to be reimagined after the destruction of the Temple, further evidence of the vitality and plasticity of Jewish tradition. Each generation added its own meaning and relevance to this Jewish arbor day. The kabbalists (Jewish mystics of the 16th century, mainly in the ancient Israeli city of Sefat) invented a Tu B’shevat seder. Using Passover as their guide, the mystics would bless and taste the seven species of the land of Israel (wheat, barley, pomegranates, vines, figs, honey, and olive oil – based on Deuteronomy 8:8) in between four cups of wine. Later, in the early days of the Zionism, young pioneers and immigrants celebrated Tu B’shevat in the context of the return to our homeland and the need to make the dessert bloom. The tradition of planting trees in Israel on this holiday stems (pun intended!) from this time (learn how you can do this by visiting www.jnftrees.com). In contemporary North America the theme of living with the earth and the obligation to protect the natural world dominates this holiday. We live in an unprecedented age of climate change and we face a wide array of environmental problems. Tu B’shevat has emerged as a chance to both celebrate God’s creation and do teshuvah as we think about our collective behaviors that threaten to destroy the natural world that sustains us. I know I’m not alone when I admit that, while, I find entry points to God in many places, one of the most powerful paths for me is spending time in nature. Indeed many of us experience deep spirituality, a connection with the forces greater than ourselves, and the seemingly endless holiness, when find ourselves in God’s sanctuary. Tu B’shevat hence becomes a sacred and important opportunity to consider how we celebrate and protect God’s great gift, our life-giving planet. “SHABBARK SHALOM: A CBI MEET-UP Saturday, January 30, 3:00-4:00PM Nodbrook Wildflife Management Area, Simsbury If you are feeling cooped up, join Rabbi Shaffer and her dog Darby for a walk, hot chocolate and short Havdalah service. Bring your dog, kids, and friends for a fun outing to beat the winter blues!! Dress warm! Nodbrook Wildflife Management Area, Simsbury is off Route 10, in Tower Business Park. Meet in the bottom of the parking lot. For more details and directions, call Sunny Kagan 860-233-8215, ext. 2240 or email [email protected] 17 January / February 2016 GETTING TO KNOW US: CBI’s ADMINISTRATIVE TEAM TRACY MOZINGO, Executive Director Phone: 860-233-8215 ext. 2250 / E-mail: [email protected] See Tracy About: Lay leader and committee needs, event planning and business matters. Tracy moved to West Hartford 5 years ago with her husband Chris and two young daughters Josie and Coco. She enjoys spending time outdoors walking, biking and relaxing and capturing nature with her novice photography skills. Much of her free time is spent enjoying her daughters' many activities including basketball, lacrosse, swimming and 4H. KAREN BEYARD, Librarian Phone: 860-233-8215 ext. 2300 / E-mail: [email protected] See Karen About: All your library needs including assistance locating or reserving books and reading recommendations. Karen and her husband, professor and author Don Ellis, have been part of the CBI community since 1987. If she isn’t in our library or spending time with SAGE, she is in California with Allie or Vermont with David, Alison, and grandson John; enjoying opera, theater, and museums in New York; or cooking something up somewhere. Israel is always on the horizon. She loves to read. And talk! CHERYL GOLDBERG, Administrative Coordinator Phone: 860-233-8215 ext. 2230 / E-mail: [email protected] See Cheryl About: B’nai Mitzvah administration, scheduling an appointment with Rabbis Pincus and Shaffer, yahrzeits and general reception needs Cheryl is amazed that she has worked at CBI for nearly 10 years! When not at work, Cheryl can usually be found attacking any number of DIY projects. Though the completion of these provides a great deal of satisfaction, she much prefers to be sewing, gardening, hiking and reading. SUNNY KAGAN, Membership Coordinator Phone: 860-233-8215 ext. 2240 / Email: [email protected] See Sunny About: Membership, increasing your engagement and connection with the CBI community, volunteer opportunities, Shabbat dinners and outreach events. Sunny has been a member of CBI for nearly 30 years, with her husband Jeff. Her free time is spent walking their dogs, enjoying their grandchildren, traveling and boating. LAURIE LEADER, Communications Coordinator Phone: 860-233-8215 ext. 2320 / Email: [email protected] See Laurie About: Submissions to our weekly e-news, Chai Lights, and the CBI Bulletin, questions about our website, and inquires about publicity. Laurie has been a member of CBI for 15 years. She enjoys singing, swimming, walking in the woods and by the ocean, traveling and cultural pursuits, and spending time with her husband, Robert. MICHELLE MEYER, Operations Coordinator Phone: 860-233-8215 ext. 2270 / Email: [email protected] See Michelle About: Billing questions, reserving space for a meeting or event, cemetery information, and memorial plaques. Michelle lives in the West End with her son Isaiah and two crazy cats Teddy and Junior. She loves watching Isaiah play sports, singing with the choir, walking the Reservoir and puttering in the garden. Tracy, Karen, Cheryl, Laurie and Michelle welcome you to stop by the office to say hello and will be happy to assist you with anything you may need. 18 January / February 2016 SAVE THE DATE - TUESDAY FEBRUARY 23 7:00PM - 8:30PM THIS IS THE DAWNING OF THE AGE OF Re-Jew-Vination Calling All Women! LET'S SAY PHOOI TO WINTER! Join us for an evening of Meditation; Music; Healing and Harmony (And a smoothie / glass of wine - or two!!) Admission: $10 For reservations or more information contact Cantor Pamela Siskin - [email protected] or Sunny Kagan - [email protected] Pre-K Family Program! Events for Parent with child 2-4 years old Let’s explore Jewish holidays and rituals in a fun, hands-on educational and social environment! Events will include arts and crafts, snacks and stories. Time: SUNDAYS, 9:00-10:30 am (during religious school hours!) Where: Downstairs in one of the Educational Playcare classrooms When: See dates below, come to one, come to all! January 24th Shabbat & Havdalah (January 17th snow date) February 21st Discover Purim (March 6th snow date) March 27th Discover Passover May 1st 19 Story of Noah’s Ark January / February 2016 Giving AN UPDATE ON THE AIM CHAI CAMPAIGN By Clare Feldman Over the last several years the Jewish Community Foundation through the Aim Chai Endowment Campaign has raised over $30 million to support and sustain Jewish organizations in our area including Beth Israel. Our leadership set a goal of raising $3 million in legacy and cash pledges through the Aim Chai Campaign to insure our wonderful community will be here for years to come. A number of generous individuals have already helped us by their commitment of cash pledges and legacy gifts made to the Foundation for the benefit of Beth Israel. An example of one of those gifts would be a fund Ron and Judy Schlossberg created at the Foundation that supports CBI’s religious school by funding a first grade teacher each year. You have an opportunity to be part of this generous group of people in one of several ways: 1) by establishing a named fund at the Foundation for the benefit of CBI. Named funds require a minimum cash donation of $5,000 which can be done all at once or by contributing $1,000 per year for 5 years. Of course you can contribute more than $5,000. This is something my husband Barry and I, along with others, have chosen to do. 2) by making a legacy gift through a bequest in your will. I, along with Jeff Winnick, Gary Greenberg, David Miller and Richard Rubenstein, am leading the Beth Israel campaign to raise $3 million to help support our wonderful synagogue. We will be working with individuals to support those things that are important to them at Beth Israel through gifts to the Foundation. Please call me @ (860) 416-4794 if I can answer any questions or help you support the Aim Chai campaign. Congregation Beth Israel Gratefully Acknowledges The Following Fund Distributions In Support of Beth Israel Libbian & Jerry Cohen Fund CBI Tots Fund by David and Lauri Miller Dr. Nathan Lewis Dubin Rabbinic Chair Fund Stanley & Susan Fellman Fund Carol Gabrielson Fine Fund Bruce & Debra Fischman Fund Four Devoted Deborahs Fund (by Elaine Lowengard) Ida and Milton Gladstein Fund Aaron Hollander Fund Simon Hollander Fund Rose Hurowitz & Anna Hurowitz Lublin Fund Johnston Family Fund Mailly Family Fund David & Lauri Miller Family Fund David & Lauri Miller Family Fund II Bennett & Libby Pearl Fund Sharon & Alan Reisner Family Fund Schlossberg Teaching Chair for First Grade Amy Selzer Memorial Fund Silberman Chapel Fund Mark & Ruth Solomkin Fund Linda Bland Sonnenblick Fund Ruth Tupper Fund Genevieve & Joseph Weinstein Fund 20 January / February 2016 For programs not included in Synagogue budget For the Tots Program To Underwrite the Senior Rabbi's compensation For general support For general support For general support The Library For general support For the Library, SAGE, Youth Education Special Learners Program, and general support For the Library, SAGE, Youth Education Special Learners Program, and general support For the Youth Education Program and SAGE For general support For general support For cantorial and music programs For general support For the Youth Education Program For general support For the Youth Education Program For the Rabbi's Tribute for Lifelong Learning For the repair and Maintenance of the Silberman Chapel For general support For general support For general support For general support Giving The SECOND ANNUAL TRIBUTE to Rabbi Pincus on October 24th to benefit educational programs was very successful. Over 130 people gathered for a beautiful Havdalah service in the Sanctuary, followed by a wonderful reception and a concert by CBI's own Allegra Levy. Allegra is receiving rave reviews and she and her band were outstanding. Thanks go to many people for supporting this event in honor of Rabbi Pincus: BETH ISRAEL BENEFACTOR Sue Fulleton CHARTER OAK CHAMPION Sandra and Arnold Chase Gail and David Mangs SANCTUARY SUSTAINER Clare and Barry Feldman Lea and Richard Rubenstein CLERGY CIRCLE Sandy and Aaron Gersten Corinne and Michael Johnston Adlyn and Ted Loewenthal Ira Spar Ruth and Ronald Van Winkle Lorrie and Randy Wexler PRESIDENT’S CLUB Karen Beyard and Donald Ellis Barbara and Jack Blechner Riki and James Brodey Mary-Jane Eisen and Robert Yass Susan and Stanley Fellman Liz Freedman and Trey McPherson Melissa and Ari Geller 21 PRESIDENT’s CLUB (con’’t.) Sunny and Jeff Kagan Pat and Michael Kazakoff Judy and Stuart Levy Jennifer and Todd Mailly Lauri and David Miller Paula Schenck and Bruce Badner Judy and Ron Schlossberg Eve and Gerald Tarre Michael Wilder Margie and Jeff Winnick CONGREGANT CONTRIBUTOR Lauren and Ross Benthien Beth Berinstein Sandra Berinstein Renee Dubin Ruth Feinberg Jan Glass Jill and Barry Goldberg Barbara and Mike Honor Libby Pearl Gwen and Chet Zaslow January / February 2016 DONOR Meg and Michael Aronow Suzy and Stan Glantz Claire and Bob Katz Ellen and Robert Lerman Billie Levy Mari and Stephen Maidman Susan and Thomas Reich Albert Rosenfield Sonny and Mark Shipman Leslie and Samuel Silverman Ari and Howard Steinberg Joseph Streltsov Cindy and David Ward EVENT COMMITTEE Sue Fulleton & Lorrie Wexler, Co-chairs Clare Feldman Judy Levy Gail Mangs Paula Schenck Mark Steier Ruth Van Winkle SPECIAL THANKS TO Pattie and Harlan Levy Bruce Badner T houghtful D onations CANTOR SISKIN DISCRETIONARY With gratitude to the Caring Committee by Bette Glickman In honor of Lucia’s Bat Mitzvah by Denise Padilla and Andy Katz In memory of Dorothy Nathan by Leslie and Lynne Nathan In honor of Ashley’s Bat Mitzvah by Rona and Barry Gelber In memory of Phyllis Katz by Barbara and Jack Blechner With gratitude for the Temple by Ruth Solomkin In memory of Janet Feinstein by Andrea Labinger DR. ROBERT ALLYN KRAMER / SENIORS/SAGE To wish a speedy recovery to Julian Adler by Phyllis Cherlin In memory of Stanley Freifeld by Marvin Freifeld In memory of Norton Glass, my beloved husband In memory of Stephen Reitman, my dear brother by Janice Glass In memory of Robert Gordon, my husband by Fayette R. Gordon In memory of Irving Kramer, my beloved father-in-law by Nancy Kramer In memory of Isabel Northrop by Laurie Reynard by Irma Schoen by Natlee & Morris Steinberg by Jennifer & Thomas Marshall GENERAL CHARITABLE In memory of Abram Tsvok by Lyusya Blekhman In memory of Edythe GerstenScott by Bernard Bodine In memory of Isabel Northrop by Arlyn & Marc Brierre by LorraIne Bulba by Sandy & Jerry Cohn by Jean & William Gourley To honor the birth of Samuel John & Riley Ashton by Faye Cohen In memory of Harold M. Cohn, my father by LInda & Henry Cohn In memory of Igor Gitelman, my son by Meri Gitelman In memory of Khaya Gitelman, my mother-In-law by Meri Gitelman In memory of Edythe GerstenScott by Carmen Holzman In memory of Hannah Kholodner by Tatyana Kagan In memory of Maria Stolberg, my mother by Nellya Kamenskaya by Asya Reyngold by Roza Ofengeym In memory of Nathan Lerman, my father by Bob Lerman 22 In memory of Eva Lerman, my mother by Bob Lerman In memory of Betty Hartman In memory of Jerry Lowengard by Elaine Lowengard In memory of Yakov May, my husband by Shifra May In memory of Brocha Ofengeym by Roza Ofengeym In memory of Mikhail Ofengeym by Roza, Alla & Igor Ofengeym In memory of Dr. Leo P. Reiner by Jeffrey Reiner In memory of Maryam Gorodinskaya, my mother by Lilya Rozenberg In memory of Nuta Rudyak by Sima Rudyak In memory of Norma Belle Beatman In memory of Max Rogers In memory of Edythe GerstenScott by Paula Schenck In memory of Mark Tsvok, my grandson by FaIna Sorokin In memory of Lev Sorokin, my husband by Faina Sorokin In memory of Edythe GerstenScott by Ruth & Ron Van Winkie In memory of Yakov Zheleznyak, my brother by Lidiya Volodarska In memory of Edythe GerstenScott by Carmen & Stephen Witt In memory of Isabel Northrop In memory of Susan Block In honor of Dominic Figueroa by Jane Zande & Jeff Smith In memory of Yakow Zheleznyak by Tamara Zheleznyak In support by Leeann & David Zubrow LOUIS ANTUPIT YOUTH In memory of Phillip Antupit, my father by Bunny Antupit ABRAHAM J. FELDMAN MUSEUM In memory of Gerald F. Aronson by Arnold Aronson MUSIC In memory of Phyllis Katz by Joan & Dan Fine GOLDSTEIN MUSIC FUND In memory of Judy Goldstein by Jill and Mark Goldstein NEW AMERICANS In memory of Sarah Puritz, my sister by Gusta Budyansky In memory of Michael Zaretsky, my father by Mariya Burshteyn In memory of Samuel Burshteyn, my father by Semen Burshteyn In memory of Fanya Shafir by Inna Gruarary & Igor Budyansky January / February 2016 In memory of Khasya Kagan, my grandmother by Vladimir Zalozhin Rabbi Fuchs’ Foodshare Transportation Fund In memory of Hon. Robert L. Krechevsky, my husband by Phyllis Krechevsky RABBI SHAFFER DISCRETIONARY In memory of Samuel Dolinger by Sheldon Dolinger In memory of Debra Levy by Joan & Dan Fine In support by Jeff Smith & Jane Zande In memory of Helen Rosenfield by Lorrie & Randy Wexler With appreciation by Edith & Bob Whitman In memory of Norman Zeldis by Martin Zeldis LIBRARY In memory of my father, A. Arthur Giddon by Pam and Roger Freedman RABBI PINCUS DISCRETIONARY With appreciation for your comfort and in memory of Susan Block by Lisa & Peter Block by Julie & Ken Saffir In memory of Rosalind Rose, my mother by Debbie Blotner In memory of Gloria S. Breitman by Richard Breitman To honor the birth of Ayelet Leora Glantz, our granddaughter by Lorry & Martin Clayman For all the help to Ashley for her Bat Mitzvah by Rona & Barry Gelber In memory of Harry Gerber by Mollie Gerber In memory of Edythe GerstenScott by Aaron Gersten To honor the birth of Ayelet Leora Glantz, great-granddaughter by Suzy & Stan Glantz In memory of William B. Glotzer, my beloved husband by Janice F. Glotzer In appreciation by Janis & Michael Green In memory of Glenn Johnston by Corine & Michael Johnston In support by Jodi Lynn & Bruce Kanner As a thoughtful donation by Vera Karchov In support by Elizabeth Kaslusky In memory of Kate Weinman by Estelle Laschever In memory of Bruce LeVine Mellion, my son by Ruth Mellion Mazel tov Henry and the Mandell family by Lauri & David Miller With appreciation for a beautiful ceremony by Julie Miller & Mark Sperl In memory of Marge Rosenthal by Maxine Moncini In memory of Isabel Northrop by Steven Northrop To celebrate the Bat Mitzvah of Lucia Katz by Denise Padilla & Andrew Katz In memory of Morris M. Roisman by Gerald Roisman In memory of Harold L. Rothstein by Marilyn Rothstein In memory of Sidney Kittredge, beloved father and grandfather by Rachel & Bill Shipman and family In memory of Evelyn Rosenstein by Rachel & Bill Shipman and family In memory of Gertrude Siegel, beloved mother and grandmother by Judy & Ed Siegel and family In memory of Milo Levin, beloved grandfather and great-grandfather by Judy & Ed Siegel and family In memory of Dr. David Weinstein, my husband by Mildred Weinstein In memory of Debbie Levy by Lorrie Wexler With appreciation by Edith & Bob Whitman In memory our mother, Elinor Tannenbaum by Ruth, Susan and Lewis With thanks for Rabbi’s guidance of Hailey as she prepared for her Bat Mitzvah By Lauren Fine, Michael Singer and family SOCIAL JUSTICE COMMITTEE In memory of Florence Fisher, my beloved mother by Arlyn & David Bamberger In memory of Solomon Breslau by Claire Breslau In memory of Janet M. Friedman by Jim Friedman In memory of Anne Rosenworcel by Elliott & Willa Rosenworcel FOODSHARE YOM KIPPUR COLLECTION In memory of Meyer Goffman, my father, by Phyllis Reiter ROBERT FALK MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Robert Rosenthal by Helen & Howard Falk SILVER COURTYARD In memory of Susan Block by Karen Beyard by Libby Pearl Thoughtful Donations (con’t.) 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Jackowitz (new member) Claire and Bob Katz Billie Levy Judy and Stuart Levy (new members) June Mandelkern (new member) Lynn Rappaport Bonnie Schneider Irma Schoen Judith and Gerard Selzer Kathy Smiley (new member) Mark and Claudia Teitelbaum (new members) Richard Tulman David and Cynthia Ward (new members) Marlene Wenograd Mara Whitman, Marc Edrich and Family 23 Patrons Lisa and Rob Berman Jack and Barbara Blechner Devida Botwick Sheri Caplan & Ken Merkatz (new members) James and Marcia Fine (new members) Aaron and Sandy Gersten Janice Glass Michael and Pat Kazakoff (new members) Jen & Todd Mailly (new members) Libby Pearl Renee Samuels Wilma Sicklick Ruth Solomkin Ira Spar Mervyn Strauss (new member) Edee Tenser Beverly Thomas (new member) Jane Zande and Jeff Smith Shirley Zelman (new member) January / February 2016 Benefactors Hermia and Arnold Aronson Sheldon Dolinger (new member) Morton Fine Jeffrey and Sunny Kagan Robert Kirschbaum & Jacqueline Metheny Martin Koppell Elaine Lowengard Gail Mangs Bill Markowitz (new member) Marilyn Rothstein Richard and Lea Rubenstein Ed and Judy Siegel (new members) Linda Bland Sonnenblick (new member) Michael Wilder January 2016 SUN MON Tevet / Shevat 5776 TUE WED THU 4 FRI SAT 1 New Year’s Day Office Closed 6:30pm Shabbat Service (NO 6pm or 8pm Service / NO Dinner) 2 9:30am Torah Study - Shemot 10:30am Tot Shabbat 11:00am Shabbat Service 3 NO Youth Engagement 4 5:30pm Minyan 5 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 7:15pm Sisterhood 7:15pm Brotherhood 6 4:30pm Youth Engagement Program 7:00pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 7:00pm Book Group 7 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 8 7:30pm Shabbat Service 7:30pm Jr. Congregation 9 9:30am Torah Study - Va’eira 11:00am Shabbat Service 10 8:30am Community Coffee 9:00am Youth Engagement Program 9:30am Social Justice Committee Speaker 10:00am Sisterhood Knitting Group 2:00pm First Purim Spiel Rehearsal (Audition) 11 5:30pm Minyan 12 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 13 4:30pm Youth Engagement Program 7:00pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 14 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 15 7:30pm MLK Joint Commemoration Shabbat Service with Bethel A.M.E. Church / Simcha Shabbat 16 9:30am Torah Study - Bo 10:30am Tot Shabbat 11:00am Shabbat Service 17 8:30am Community Coffee 9:00am Youth Engagement Program 9:00am MLK Joint Commemoration Service at Bethel A.M.E. Church 18 Martin Luther King Day Office Closed 10:00am MLK Youth Day of Service 5:30pm Minyan 19 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 7:00pm Board of Trustees 20 4:30pm Youth Engagement Program 7:00pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 21 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 22 Foodshare Truck 7:30pm Shabbat Shira Service 23 9:30am Torah Study - Beshalach 11:00am Shabbat Service 24 8:30am Community Coffee 9:00am Youth Engagement Program 9:00am Pre-K Family Program 25 Tu B’Shevat Soup Kitchen (offsite) 5:30pm Minyan 26 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 6:30pm Spiritual Committee 27 4:30pm Youth Engagement Program 7:00pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 28 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 29 7:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service followed by community dinner 30 9:30am Torah Study - Yitro 11:00am Shabbat Service 3:00pm Shabbark Shalom Walk Time TBA - PJ Havdalah Family Event 31 8:30am Community Coffee 9:00am Youth Engagement Program 24 DAILY MINYAN Following a break last month, our weekday Minyans are resuming in January on Mondays and Thursdays at 5:30pm. The Silberman Chapel is also available for those seeking a quiet, contemplative place outside of scheduled Minyan times. January / February 2016 February 2016 SUN Shevat / Adar I 5776 MON TUE WED THU FRI SAT 1 5:30pm Minyan 2 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 7:15pm Sisterhood 7:15pm Brotherhood 3 4:30pm Youth Engagement Progam 7:00pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 7:00pm Book Group 4 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 5 6:00pm Kol Shabbat Followed by Community Dinner 8:00pm Meditative 6 9:30am Torah Study Mishpatim 10:30am Tot Shabbat 11:00am Shabbat Service 7 8:30am Community Coffee 9:00am Youth Engagement Program 8 5:30pm Minyan 9 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 10 4:30pm Youth Engagement Program 7:00pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 11 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 12 7:30pm Shabbat Service 7:30pm Jr. Congregation 13 9:30am Torah Study - Terumah 11:00am Shabbat Service 14 NO Youth Engagement Program 15 5:30pm Minyan 16 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 7:00pm Board of Trustees 17 4:30pm Youth Engagement Program 7:00pm Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 18 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 19 Foodshare Truck 7:30pm Shabbat Service / Simcha Shabbat 20 9:30am Torah Study - Tetzeveh 10:30am Tot Shabbat 11:00am Shabbat Service 21 8:30am Community Coffee 9:00am Youth Engagement Program 9:00am Pre-K Family Program 22 Soup Kitchen (offsite) 5:30pm Minyan 23 11:15am SAGE 5:00pm YEP in Farmington 5:30pm Minyan 6:30pm Spiritual Committee 7:00pm Re-Jew-Vination 24 4:30pm Youth Engagement Program NO Intro to Judaism 7:00pm Choir 25 4:00pm YEP at JCC 5:30pm Minyan 26 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat followed by Community Dinner 27 9:30am Torah Study - Ki Tisa 11:00am Shabbat Service 28 8:30am Community Coffee 9:00am Youth Engagement Program 29 5:30pm Minyan 25 January / February 2016 Congregation Beth Israel 701 Farmington Avenue 860-233-8215 [email protected] West Hartford, CT 06119 FAX: 860-523-0223 www.cbict.org A Reform Congregation founded in 1843 and affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism since 1877. The Synagogue Bulletin is published with the kind cooperation of the Solomon and Katie Wohl Foundation. Our mission is to serve the lifelong spiritual and educational needs of our congregants, within a welcoming and caring contemporary Reform Jewish Community. PAJAMA HAVDALAH FAMILY EVENT Co-Sponsored by PJ Library and CBI Friends of the Library Join us at Congregation Beth Israel for Havdalah (“separation” of Shabbat”) stories, PJ Library family activities, snacks and more! Free and open to public, bring a friend! Saturday, January 30th, Time TBA Look for details on our Website in January NONPROFIT ORG U.S. POSTAGE PAID HARTFORD, CT PERMIT NO. 840