Networking
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Networking
Networking: Is it really a dirty word? Presented by: Rose Terzariol, CFRE Vice President, KCI (Ketchum Canada Inc.) Who are you sitting with? Networking • What is it? • Why is it important to EVERYBODY? • How does it work? • How can you network? Networking: What most people think it is • Schmoozing • Insincere or fake • Self-serving • For business or job-hunting purposes only Networking: What it really is • • • • • For social and business purposes A way to make friends The process of building relationships A way to help people A way to find people who can help you Networking is about connecting humanity Networking: Why is it important? • It will make you happy! • It will keep you healthy! Six Degrees of Separation • The Small World Phenomenon • Bonding & Bridging • The Strength of Weak Ties Darcy Rezac’s 7 Secrets of Positive Networking 1. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince 2. Networking is not all about you: it’s discovering what you can do for someone else. 3. Introduce yourself by name, always carry business cards and give them out. Make it a habit. Source: “Work the Pond”, by Darcy Rezac with Judy Thomson and Gayle Hallgren-Rezac. Darcy Rezac’s 7 Secrets of Positive Networking 4. Treat everyone as equals. 5. Give everyone permission to network. 6. Learn the power of asking questions and use it. 7. Be there and know something. Source: “Work the Pond”, by Darcy Rezac with Judy Thomson and Gayle Hallgren-Rezac. Some additional secrets 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. Smile. Make eye contact. Remember everybody hates networking as much as you do. Don’t be afraid to start a conversation anywhere with anyone. Give your name even if you’ve already met the other person Bring a buddy. Pay it forward. Don’t bring a purse. 13 Networking Mistakes 1. Waiting 2. Being Clueless 3. Being Unprepared 4. Forgetting Business Cards 5. Using a Silly-Sounding Email Name 6. Being Pompous. 13 Networking Mistakes 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. Monopolizing someone’s time Dressing down Being a wallfower Being passive Lying Treating your networking relationships as short-term flings 13. Forgetting where you came from You too can network! 1. Introduce yourself to someone you don’t know. You too can network! 2. Start a conversation… even when you have nothing to say. You too can network! 3.Exchange contact info – business cards are the easiest way to do this. You too can network! 4. Follow up after your initial meeting – with a call, an email or a note. You too can network! 5. Connect people from different networks. BUSINESS ICEBREAKER: So what does a typical day at work look like for you? SOCIAL ICEBREAKER: Tell me about the best vacation you ever had. Anybody want my Any questions? business cards? Resources 1. “Work The Pond”, by Darcy Rezac with Judy Thomson and Gayle Hallgren-Rezac. 2. “The Fine Art of Small Talk” by Debra Fine. 3. “The Rules of Networking”, by Rob Yeung. 4. Monster.ca