1964: "An irreversible act"
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1964: "An irreversible act"
L’arche Edmonton community newsletter Special Anniversary Edition September 2014 Happy 50th Anniversary, L’Arche! Fifty years ago, Jean Vanier changed the lives of thousands of adults with developmental disabilities when he walked into an institution in Trosly-Breuil, France, and brought three men home to live with him as family in a dilapidated house with no electricity or running water. Vanier named his home L’Arche after Noah’s Ark – a place of refuge and new beginnings. Today, there are 146 L’Arche communities in 35 countries. Edmonton’s first home was the second in Canada when George and Doris Meyers founded Shalom in Sherwood Park in 1972. On Sept. 20, L’Arche Edmonton will commemorate this historic occasion with a 50th Anniversary Gala at the German Canadian Cultural Centre. Tickets are $60 each or $450 for a table of eight, and are available at the Community Centre, 10310 56 St., phone 780-465-0618. Leave a message for Maria Kruszewski in the general mailbox or call Debbie Weismiller, ext. 213. The deadline for purchasing tickets is Thursday, September 11th. 1964: "An irreversible act"* Jean Vanier, as interviewed by Charles Eric Hauguel in 1989 Raphael, Jean and Philippe “I went to visit Father Thomas, who was the chaplain of a residence, the 'Val Fleuri', which welcomed about 30 men with an intellectual disability. I was deeply touched by my first contact with these men, by their remarkable tenderness, coupled with their deep suffering.....a strange mix of enormous tenderness and enormous anger. “During a visit to one asylum, I had met three men. The parents of both Raphael and Philippe had died, and these two men had been placed in the asylum, events which were devastating for them. There was a third man, Dany. I invited these three men to come and live with me. Dany was not able to stay more than one night because he was too unstable. I had no long term plan. The only thing I was sure of as I began, was that this beginning was an irreversible act. “I was able to buy the house, L'Arche, in Trosly-Breuil. It had no electricity, no toilet, and only one tap with running water. There was electricity but I didn't know where the meter was, so we lived for a while with candles! “Raphael, Philippe and I started very simply to live together. We cooked together, ate together, did the shopping together, and worked together in the garden. We lived very poorly materially, as the house was completely dilapidated.” *Articles with an asterisk can also be found at www.jean-vanier.org Philippe Seux: “When he took me out of there, well, I felt......phew!”* “He [Jean] took me out of a centre where I had been placed by social workers. It had really been desolate there: There was no village nearby, there was no way of communicating with the outside world, and we were always inside surrounded by four walls. When he took me out of there, I felt so relieved: ‘phew!’ “When I came to L'Arche, there was no electricity, none. We used candles for lighting, it was fun! There were no toilets or showers, but I felt like I was exploding with joy - phew! - I was so happy to be there. Previously, for me, it had been no life at all: all day long, sitting in a room. There was nothing to do, we never went out, we were bored stiff, there was no life. I even cried. I was not at all comfortable there. Little by little, at L'Arche we settled down and things were sorted out.” Henri, Jean-Pierre, Mira, Barbara, Benoit, Lucien and Jean behind the first house in Trosly-Breuil Louis Pretty: “I said to myself, 'He's completely nuts!'”* Excerpt from an interview, April 26, 2012 “I met Jean early in June 1964. He explained his plans to me, though nothing had yet begun. It was a Friday night, and he told me that on the Sunday he was going to see a house in Trosly-Breuil. As I am an architect, he invited me to go along with him, to give him my opinion. “It was a house which had been abandoned for some time. There was no bathroom, no toilet, the roof leaked a little bit more or less everywhere, there was no heating or insulation, and the floor was laid directly on the bare earth without any foundation. There was only one tap with running water, located in the kitchen. The garden had been completely neglected as well, and some of the weeds were a metre and a half high. “On the other hand, the structure was sound, and the lovely older architecture style included gabled windows. Jean asked me if I would stay to draw up plans for the renovations. I stayed almost a month, until I left for a training session at Macon, for people wanting to go and work in developing countries. “When I returned to Paris, as I was getting off the train, who should I see to my enormous surprise, but Jean Vanier! This meeting was completely by chance, as he had no idea where I had been or what I was doing. We were both astonished. He told me that he had bought the house, and that he had moved into it, as it was, with Raphael and Philippe. I said to myself, ‘He is completely nuts, to move in there!’ Then Jean said to me, ‘Perhaps you could come and see, and give us some advice?’ Thus, I went.” “In a healthy society, the strong need the weak as much as the weak need the strong.” - Jean Vanier Antoinette Maurice: “In spite of everything, that meal amazed me”* Antoinette Maurice, Cette richesse qui vient du pauvre, 2009 “At the end of August 1964, I was invited to lunch at L'Arche. It was August 25th, the feast day of Saint Louis. I remember the meal very well. Jean Vanier himself had done the cooking. We ate carrots which Jean had not peeled. "It seems", he said, "that if carrots are peeled, they lose their vitamins". There was also herring, a fish I do not like at all. As the guest, I was given the biggest portion, and it was not cooked all the way through. I ate everything, the carrots and the barely cooked herring. For dessert, there was applesauce, served on the same plates as the main course, so the applesauce tasted of herring! However, in spite of everything, that meal amazed me. “What moved me was not so much the menu as the atmosphere in that house. Each one participated Supper with the community in the early days according to his abilities: Philippe ground the coffee, Raphael swept the floor, and everyone, including the guest, did the dishes together. The atmosphere of attentive listening, of joy, and of I'm not quite sure what else, meant that I returned there often. I was moved by the friendly welcome, and the warm and brotherly atmosphere. I was very struck by the focus on the needs of the people living with disabilities.” Please continue to keep Therese Vanier and those who loved her in your prayers. Therese, sister of Jean Vanier, died in June at the age of 91. Despite a busy medical career, Therese strongly believed in her brother’s mission, co-founded L’Arche in the U.K. and acted as L’Arche regional co-ordinator in northern Europe. The Economist's Intelligent Life magazine in the U.K. has published an inspiring article about L'Arche and Jean Vanier in its July-August 2014 issue, entitled “JEAN OF ARK.” It can be accessed by clicking here or by typing the following into your browser: http://contentviewer.adobe.com/s/Intelligent%20Life/7b89e5228771411a81ef6ba6485fb0cb/ com.intelligentlife.jul14/17266.html#page_0 The Servanthood of Margaret Ross By Annette Marie Williams Margaret Ross, a vulnerable woman in my journey revealed of my inability to see. And it must be tiresome for Margaret to always and forever be explaining things and teaching people to see. Importance of reflecting brings me to one prayer night when our L’Arche Community set up a circle of chairs - a holy place with towels and basins of water. The celebration began with all reflecting on giving thanks for the gift of servanthood. Each individual began by kneeling in front of another person. I experienced much joy through the movement and tenderness Margaret Ross performed in holding Angelina’s foot, holding the foot with a tenderness, drying that foot in a way I will never forget. I could almost see Margaret’s purity of heart, kindness of thought exercised with all humility possible in one or two motions giving me heaps of Joy. Margaret took this activity and demonstrated to me the real place of service, a very special service realized in the gift of the moment. Margaret is a quiet, gentle and joyful woman, seemingly knowing there is always a reason for hope of happiness whatever her life’s circumstances - while living her world of silence… (Annette Marie Williams is a former assistant and board member with the L’Arche Association of Edmonton. Currently she is an associate member and friend of the community.) Lunch with L’Arche When: Every Friday Cost: $5 Drop-In or $20/month Time: Noon Where: L’Arche Community Centre 10310 56 Street NW For more information, contact Day Program at 780.465.0618, ext. 210 [email protected] In The Boat is a regular newsletter produced by the L’Arche Association of Edmonton. We welcome submissions on any topic. For more information, contact [email protected] 465-0618, ext. 201, or Debbie Weismiller at [email protected] 780-465-0618, ext. 213. If you are from outside the L’Arche community, and you would like to receive mailed correspondence from us, please phone Suzanna at the above number. CONNECT. ENGAGE. BELONG. YES, I want to be involved with L’Arche Edmonton! OPPORTUNITIES INCLUDE: Volunteering Attending upcoming community events Working as an assistant Having a presenter speak to a group about L’Arche Making a financial donation to L’Arche Enclosed is my gift of: $250 $100 $50 $____ Please make cheque payable to L’Arche Association of Edmonton Charitable Registration #: 10759-7635-RR0001
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