Sage Valley Junior Invitational: The Early Days of a Great “Major
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Sage Valley Junior Invitational: The Early Days of a Great “Major
April 2014 Sage Valley Junior Invitational: The Early Days of a Great “Major” page 14 After the Storm, What About the Trees? page 24 Two of Aiken’s Nonprofit Pillars: Tri-Development Center & Children’s Place pages 12 and 22 Emmie’s Vision Becomes Aiken Young Conservationists page 11 contents • Intriguing • Empowering • Entertaining April Features Bella Favorites April 2014, Volume 11, No.3 Mailing Address 124 Trafalgar St., SW Aiken, SC 29801 10 Earth Day and the OTHER Earth Day 3 Ciao Bella 11 Enter Aiken’s Young Conservationists! 4 Bella Buzz/Community Calendar 7 The Flying Foodie: Crown Roast with Apple Apricot Cherry Stuffing 8 I Heard it Through the Grapevine: The PaperBoy Delivers! by Eric Blacks by Emmie Barth 12 Tri-Development Center Trains and Assists Disability Clients by Kathy Huff by Chef Belinda by Sally Bradley 14 Sage Valley Junior Golf Invitational Already Hailed the Best in the World by Stephen D. Hale by Missie Bowman Boisvert by Betts Hunter Gatewood by Kathy Huff Graphic Design Jim Stafford 28 Good Sense Medicine: What is a Leaky Gut? 21 Laughter is the Best Medicine: April Fool’s Day! Advertising Kathy Huff 803/439-4026 [email protected] Staff Writers Anna Dangerfield, Phyllis Maclay, Susan Elder, Tony Baughman, Sally Bradley, Stephen Delaney Hale 26 Roots and Wings: Location and Timing in One-to-One Talks 18 Jim Clemente Challenges Men to Step Up to the Plate Publisher Kathy Urban Huff [email protected] by Zoom Heaton By Phyllis Maclay 22 Celebrity Waiter Night: Raising Funds for Children’s Place by Anna Dangerfield 29 Nutrition: Chia Seeds by Cynthia F. Catts Bella is now online! www.aikenbellamagazine.com 30 Scene Around Town 24 After the Storm ? by Susan Elder www.facebook.com/aikenbellamagazine April 2014 Ad Directory Aiken Obstetrics and Gynecology Associates ................26. Aiken Ophthalmology........................................................ 6 Aiken Regional Medical Centers..................................3, 32 AllStar Tents and Events..................................................31 Auto Tech..........................................................................29.. Barbara Sue Brodie Needleworks....................................23.. Barbranne Clinton, Hair Stylist.........................................27 Barry Bornstein, Photographer......................................... 19 Bisquecuts & Glazy Pottery Studio.................................. 19.. Chef Belinda Spices.........................................................27. Cynthia Catts, RD, LD, Nutrition Therapist......................27 Doncaster—Lee Cavanaugh............................................27. Floyd & Green Jewelers................................................... 16 Guest Cottage...................................................................23.. Ice Storm Survivor T-Shirt................................................25 Janney Montgomery Smith-Ken Wiland, Sr.......................8 Lionel Smith, Ltd............................................................... 16.. Material Things................................................................. 19 Mead Hall..........................................................................20.. Nights of Horseplay anthology, Aiken Scribblers.............27.. Palmetto Cakes.................................................................27 On the cover: Sage Valley, home of the world renowned Junior Invitational, is a cruel mistress, sending players out to the number one handicap hole right at the start on the extremely beautiful and diabolically difficult par-3 No. 2. Photo by Stephen Delaney Hale 2 Palmetto Lane Cottage Rental.........................................27.. Palmetto Package & Fine Wines................................ 10, 27. Ray Massey, Attorney.........................................................5 Refresh.............................................................................. 15 Richards Furriers............................................................... 2 Rose Hill Estate ...............................................................27 . Ruby Masters, Mark Taylor Insurance.............................27. Shellhouse Funeral Home..................................................4 Oh, Schmidt! Shelly Schmidt, Photographer................... 13 Shops on Hayne...............................................................23 Stables Restaurant at Rose Hill.......................................27 Stephen Surasky Law Firm................................................6 TLC Medical Centre..........................................................20. The Tailor Shop.................................................................27 True Value Hardware........................................................ 11 Unique Expressions............................................................9 Vinya’s............................................................................... 16. Wayne’s Automotive & Towing Center............................. 18.. WKSX-92.7 FM Radio....................................................... 10. The Willcox-- Hotel, Restaurant, Spa...............................30.. York Cottage Antiques......................................................23. Want Bella delivered to your mailbox Subscriptions (9 issues per year) are available via U.S. Mail for $30. Send checks payable to: Bella Magazine 124 Trafalgar Street SW, Aiken, SC 29801 .. FUR STORAGE TIME FURRIERS 620 ELLIS ST. AUGUSTA, GA (706) 722-5138 CLEANING & GLAZING EXPERT REPAIRS BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 Ciao Bella! The Accumulated Stuff of a Lifetime When I moved back to Aiken in 2008, there were big bare spots in every room, in every closet, and certainly in the attic. I rented a storage unit that held the overflow furniture that did not fit into my cute little brick cottage and all of the document boxes my attorney said I had to keep for tax purposes. Add to that the good china that is not dishwasher-proof, surplus artwork, boxes of books I cannot part with, and old albums—both 33 rpm records and even 78s from my mother! And could I possibly have parted with the small box of 45s I played until I thought the grooves would wear out? (I mean, Dion and the Belmonts, Frankie Avalon, the Shirelles, the Supremes, the Beach Boys, the Four Seasons, the Temptations, etc. Don’t we all feel our music was the Golden Age of Music?) Fast forward three years to 2011. I had published six issues of Bella by that summer and had to have real office furniture. My son Rick drove down from Ohio in a U-Haul with all of the pieces of office furniture I had left behind. It filled what had been the third bedroom; however, that bedroom had morphed into a storeroom for even BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 more things I could not live without. Add storage unit #2. It’s now 2014. My attic is full. My closets are full. My storage units are full. Sigh. From three houses to one To be fair to myself, I have to explain that the move to Aiken occurred two years after the death of my husband, and we had three residences when he died. I felt pretty good about downsizing into my Aiken house after getting rid of the other two residences and 95% of the furniture, etc., that had filled those places. Then let me not forget that in 2009 I published The Aiken Historical Cookbook, adding to the house boxes of unsold cookbooks, and more boxes of research materials, plus approximately 40 cookbooks that supportive friends had given me. (But I had already given away nine boxes of cookbooks in Ohio! FYI, I was a caterer in an earlier life.) Of course, later, when I purchased Bella Magazine, I had hopes that the publishing business would be largely contained in computer memory. Wrong! I’m a paper person. My own style of publishing requires stacks of papers, files, photos, old issues, invoices, receipts, clipboards, and giant post-its on the wall tracking progress of the current issue’s ads and stories. More stuff. I have tried to explain away the accumulation of more, more, more by saying, “But I work at home!” True enough, but I fear there is a packrat side to me that will not be denied. A wonderful change! And now a wonderful man has come into my life. Rob is moving here from Savannah and we are to be married in May. There’s just one problem: he, too, has stuff. Where will it go? Isn’t it obvious? We’re looking at houses! Fortunately, with every move I’ve ever made, I have given away or pitched a huge number of belongings. I can only hope to maintain that habit if and when we find the perfect house and I can sell mine. Unless, of course, someone wants to buy this house “as is” … ? May your spring cleaning include clearing out the “stuff” that accumulates when we’re not looking. (I’m trying! I really am!) Kathy Huff 3 bella B U Z Z Z Z Z APRILcommunitycalendar Downtown Aiken April 5 Bottles and Brushes, a series of adult painting classes at $30 each, taught by Tamara Younce-Smith from 6-9 p.m. on the following dates: St. Thaddeus Home Tour, 10 a.m. Tour private homes in historic downtown Aiken along Colleton Avenue. Finish the tour with a Strawberries and Cream Tea and enjoy the Heritage Market featuring a variety of re-imagined antique linen gifts at St. Thaddeus Episcopal Church. Proceeds benefit area agencies and community projects. Tickets may be purchased for $25 each at St. Thaddeus, 125 Pendleton Street SW, 648-5497. April 2 - Sunflowers April 9 - Martini glass April 14 - Sunset April 16 - Peacock April 21 - South Boundary April 23 - Vase with flowers April 28 - Sunflowers April 8 Emerging Writer Series: Jamie Thomas for the Guild of Poetic Intent, 7:30 p.m. Free admission, refreshments. Horses and Courses Art Walk, Laurens Street and The Alley, 5 p.m. The 3rd annual event will feature an art walk through the sidewalks and Alley of downtown Aiken There will be numerous performing artists as well as displays of original paintings, sculptures and jewelry. Call (803) 642-7631 for more information. April 12, 13 Spring Fling- Viewpoint Dressage, Highfields Event Center, 198 Gaston Rd., Aiken, 8 a.m. For more information, visit carolinadressage.com. April 15–19, 23- 27 Aiken Spring Classic Master, Highfields Event Center, 198 Gaston Rd., Aiken, 8 a.m. Headlining events include the $15,000 USHJA International Hunter Derby and the $25,000 Grand Prix the second week. Call (803) 649-3505 for more information. April 26 Run United for Aiken County, Newberry St, Aiken, 7:30 a.m. Aiken Electric Cooperative’s 3rd annual Run United, benefiting United Way. Call (803) 649-6245 for more information. 122 Laurens St. SW 803-641-9094 www.aikencenterforthearts.org Hours: Monday through Saturday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. April 1–25 Exhibits by Amy Dobbs, Betsy WilsonMahoney, Gretchen Hash-Heffner, and the Mead Hall Episcopal School Art Class. Shellhouse Funeral Home, Inc. Old Fashioned Egg Hunt, Rose Hill Estate, 1 p.m. Co-Sponsored by the Aiken County Library. Admission is free, but donations to benefit the Aiken County Public Library are encouraged. Stay for family friendly games and a visit with the Easter Bunny. April 14 Teen Advisory Group, 4-5:30 p.m. Help plan teen programs for the summer and earn volunteer hours. Call Kimberly for more information. April 15 April 3 South Carolina Bar on End of Life Issues, 6 p.m. For National Healthcare Decision Day, the SC Bar will give a talk on legal issues related to end of life and elder law. April 7–9 Spring Break Workshops for ages 4-6 and also for students in grades 1-12, 9-11 a.m. Registration online is encouraged. Kids will learn special techniques such as texture, color, and 3D arts. Fee: $112 for members and $125 for non-members; includes all supplies. Students must bring two snacks. April 14–May 10 Exhibits by Jeannette Shoemaker and Converse College Faculty-St. Mary’s School. April 19 April 22 Steps to Start a Small Business Session 4, 6:30 p.m. SCORE Representative, Pegi Flahault will discuss costs and understanding cash flow. April 25 Government Contracting Programs of the Small Business Association, 10:30 a.m. SBA representative Michael Corp will give a free seminar that provides more information on possibilities for Government Contracting Programs. April 26 Color Exploration, 10 a.m. Students learn the art of seeing the subject in juxtapositions of color rather that sheer representation, while enjoying demonstrations by Bea. Movie, Philomena, 3 p.m. Rated PG-13. DuPont Planetarium Ruth Patrick Science Education Center 471 University Parkway http://rpsec.usca.edu/Planetarium/ pubshows.html Tickets and information: 803-641-3654 April 5, 12, 19, 26 Dark Shadows, 7 p.m. Learn how “dark shadows” are related to the phases of the Moon and to solar and lunar eclipses. The program includes hands-on activities, stunning images, and Digistar segments. It ends with an inspiring video of a solar eclipse. Two Small Pieces of Glass, 8 p.m. Celebrate the work of those who used telescopes during the past 400 years. The largest observatories in the world use these instruments to explore the mysteries of the universe. Join two young people at a star party as an astronomer teaches them how telescopes work and how the telescope has changed from Galileo’s modified spyglass – using two small pieces of glass – to the huge, space and land-based devices of today, like NASA’s Hubble Space Telescope. The Etherredge Center for Fine and Performing Arts UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH CAROLINA AIKEN URS Center for the Performing Arts 471 University Parkway Tickets and information: April 3 126 Newberry St. SW Aiken County Public Library 803-648-1438 314 Chesterfield St. SW 803-642-2020, April 5 Aiken Community Playhouse presents To Kill a Mockingbird, 8 p.m. Movie, The Book Thief, 3 p.m. Rated PG-13 April 27 Aiken Community Playhouse presents To Kill a Mockingbird, 3 p.m. matinee. April 10 LEGO Club, 4 p.m. Library will supply LEGOs. Let your K- 5 grade children show off their building skills. Tablet Computer User’s Group Meeting, 7 p.m. Will discuss new “apps” for tablet users. Tickets and information: 803-641-3305 • www.usca.edu/ec USC Aiken Jazz Band, 7 p.m. Admission is free. April 11, 12, 18, 19, 25, 26 www.abbe-lib.org Aiken Center for the Arts April 12 April 27 Auditions for Going to St. Ives, 7 p.m. For more information, visit aikencommunityplayhouse.com. April 4 Jeanne Robertson- Humorist, 7:30 p.m. For more information, visit Jeanne Robertson.com. April 9–12 Chapter Two, 7:30 p.m., presented by University Theatre. Watch a recent widower as he is encouraged to start dating again in this hilarious, farcical subplot. April 14 USCA Wind Ensemble, 7 p.m April 28 Auditions for Going to St. Ives, 7 p.m. For more information, visit aikencommunityplayhouse.com. FAMILY OWNED & OPERATED April 28 USCA Chamber Music Concert, 7 p.m. Shellhouse-Rivers Funeral Home, Inc. JASON B. HUCKS Funeral Director JASON B. HUCKS Funeral Director 924 Hayne Ave., Aiken, SC 29801 642-3456 GRAHAM P. HALL Funeral Director ROBERT W. SHELLHOUSE, Jr Funeral Director CODY ANDERSON Funeral Director C. MITCHELL RIVERS Funeral Director Aiken’s Only On-site Crematory www.shellhousefuneralhome.com 4 715 E. Pine Log Rd., Aiken, SC 29803 641-4401 www.shellhouseriversfuneralhome.com BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 ZZZ Bella Magazine will run announcements for free for non-profit organizations, community events, and Bella advertisers. Space may be limited. Please email event information to [email protected] by the 15th of the month before the event. ZZZ Aiken Regional Medical Centers 302 University Parkway 803-641-5000 www.aikenregional.com April 22 Teens Under Fire, ARMC Dining Room, 4-6 p.m. This prevention/intervention program looks at youth drug abuse, violence and crime by exposing teens ages 12-18 to the harsh consequences of highrisk decisions. Support Group Meetings: AA: Every Sunday and Wednesday evening, 7:15 p.m., Aurora Pavilion. Bariatric: 2nd Wednesday, 6-7 p.m., ARMC, Bariatric Services, 2nd floor, room 209; register at 641-5751. The Lunch Bunch–Bereavement–Grief Support for Adults: 1st Wednesday, noon to 1 p.m., ARMC, Cafeteria Dining Room A. Cancer: 3rd Wednesday, 3-4 p.m., First Baptist Church parlor. CSRA Dream Catchers -Traumatic Brain Injury and Disability, 1st Monday every month, 6-7 p.m., Walton Options for Independent Living, 325 Georgia Ave., North Augusta; register at 803-279-9611. Diabetes: 2nd Tuesday, 3-4 p.m., Odell Weeks Activity Center. Registration: 803-293-0023. Lupus: 3rd Thursday of the month, 7-9 p.m., ARMC, Dining Room A Mended Hearts: 2nd Friday, 10:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., USCA Aiken Business Conference Center April 1 Pink Ribbonettes, the American Cancer Society Breast Cancer Self-Help Group for omen diagnosed with breast cancer; guest speakers; 10:30 a.m. to noon at Millbrook Baptist Church. To register, call Irene Howley at 803-649-9267 or Diane Hadley at 803-644-3902. April 8 Aiken Cares, Alzheimer’s Support Group, for family members and caregivers, 11 a.m. to noon, Cumberland Village Library, 2nd floor. April 16 Look Good … Feel Better, free program for female cancer patients actively undergoing or about to start treatment, 1 to 2:30 p.m. at the Cancer Care Institute of Carolina at ARMC. To register, call 803-641-6044. Tax Planning Medicaid Planning Elder Law Estate Planning Revocable Trust Probate BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 Odell Weeks Center 1700 Whiskey Road 803-642-7631 Miscellaneous Venues and Events April 3 PhD on Birth Orders, workshop held by Dr. Doris B. Hammond at HammondBeyer Health Center, 920 Houndslake Dr., Aiken, 6:45 p.m. Cost is $20. Call (803) 649-1246 to reserve your space. April 4–6 April 1–31 Fit 4 Ever, 10-11 a.m., Rooms 6 & 7, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. This lowimpact, moderate-paced fitness class is great for a total body workout. $27 for 10 tickets for residents and members. $56 for 10 tickets for non-residents. Yoga I, II, and Evening Yoga, Rooms 6 & 7. Yoga I: Tuesdays and Thursdays, 8:45 a.m. Yoga II: Fridays, 8:45 a.m. Evening yoga: Mondays and Wednesdays, 5:30 p.m. Cost is $31 for 10 tickets for residents and members. $56 for 10 tickets for non-residents. Zumba Gold, 2- 3 p.m., Rooms 6 & 7, Tuesday and Wednesday. Low-impact, high-energy, easy-to-follow, Latin-inspired Zumba fitness party. $35 for 10 tickets. Line Dance, 10-11 a.m., Weeks Center Rooms 6 & 7, every Tuesday. Learn country dances as well as those taught to jazz, big band and modern music in this moderately paced fitness class. $27 for 10 tickets for residents and members. $56 for 10 tickets for non-residents. Zumba Toning, 5:30-6:30 p.m., Rooms 6 & 7, every Tuesday and Thursday. Zumba Toning combines targeted bodysculpting exercises and high energy cardio work with Latin-infused Zumba moves. $35 for 10 tickets. Zumba Sentao, 5:30-6:30 p.m., Rooms 6 & 7, every Tuesday. Zumba Sentao workout takes the thrill of the fitness party and partners it with explosive, chair based choreography. $35 for 10 tickets. 98th Annual Aiken Horse Show, Hitchcock Woods Horse Show Ring, 9 a.m. Visit aikenhorseshow.org for more information. April 12 Aiken Horsepower Spring Fling, Aiken Mall, 2441 Aiken Mall Rd., Aiken, 9 a.m. Registration is $15 in advance, $20 the day of the show. Enjoy beautiful cars, trucks, and motorcycles. Call (803) 270-3505 to register or for more information. April 12 Audubon Society Field Trip, Aiken State Park, 1145 State Park Rd, Windsor, 9 a.m. Join at no charge. Meet at the state park and bring a picnic lunch. Trip will end about 3:30 p.m. April 15, 22 Savannah River Site Public Tour, 12:30–4:30 p.m. Tour check in begins at 12:30 p.m. at the Applied Research Center located off Hwy 278. For more information, call (803) 952-8994. April 25 Benefit Golf Tournament at Sweetwater Country Club, 571 Clubhouse Lane, Barnwell, 9 a.m. Barnwell Chamber of Commerce Benefit Golf Tournament. Call (803) 259-7446 for more information. COMING IN MAY Old Fashioned Egg Hunt, Rose Hill Estate, 1 p.m. Co-Sponsored by the Aiken County Library. Admission is free, but donations to benefit the Aiken County Public Library are encouraged. Stay for family friendly games and a visit with the Easter Bunny. May 9 April 19 Mead Hall Strawberry Festival, 129 Pendleton St. SW, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., featuring fresh homemade strawberry treats, crafts, a book sale, a bake sale and casserole sale, bounce houses, giant slide, rock climbing wall, Game Dudes Truck, carnival games, and more. Free admission. Great Aiken Egg Hunt, South Aiken High School Football Field, 10 a.m. Sponsored by Cedar Creek Church. Everyone from all ages is invited for games, an egg hunt, snacks, fun, and excitement. April 26 Aiken Kite Festival, Citizens Park, 651 Old Airport Rd., Aiken, 10 a.m. Celebrate National Kite Month. This family event will kite flying, demonstrations, inflatables, open field kite flying, and food vendors. Aiken Bluegrass Festival, Aiken Fairgrounds, 561 May Royal Dr., Aiken, 5–10 p.m. May 10 May 13 Aiken Youth Orchestra Spring Concert, 7-9 p.m., Aiken Center for the Arts. Outside Aiken April 5 Wine 101, Gravatt Camp and Conference Center, 7 p.m. Spend an evening with great friends, great food, music, and wine. Aiken’s wine expert, Jolene Norris will lead you through dinner, airing each course with a delicious wine. The evening will include a tasty menu, wine tasting, live music, and more. Tickets are $30. Wm. Ray Massey Tax Attorney Smith, Massey, Brodie, Guynn & Mayes, P.A. Phone 803-643-4110 Facsimile 803-644-9057 [email protected] www.smbgm.com 5 Local Potters Gather Prior to 3rd Annual Heritage Trail Pottery Tour Local potters share their latest work at the group’s monthly gathering. Most of the women pictured will be among the 23 potters exhibiting and selling their pieces in the 3rd Annual Heritage Trail Pottery Tour. A series of events from Friday, May 2 through Sunday, May 4, will include a reception at the Museum in Greenwood and weekend demonstrations and kiln openings at five host studios. All activities are free. Visit www.facebook.com/HeritageTrailPotteryTourSale, or email [email protected] for more information. Shown here are: (back row) Sandra Meischen, Martha Buck, Donna Hallman, Lise Simons, Beth Thornton, and (front row) Kathi Hallman, Martha Lockhart, and Wilma Becker. Mares who think they’re llies? Geldings who think they’re studs? 6 BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 The Flyin g Fo ie od by Chef Belinda Crown Roast with Apple Apricot Cherry Stuffing In the culinary world our mantra is “presentation, presentation, presentation!” In addition to tasting good, food must first always look good. It is very true that we all eat with our eyes. How many times have you said, when looking at an exceptionally well-presented dish, “Oh, I can taste this already?” You have made up your mind before tasting that it is going to be really good. Why? Because we equate that visual picture with our measure of tastiness. If ever there was a candidate for the “WOW” presentation factor, it is the crown roast. All you have to do is put it on the table and start accepting accolades and taking bows. And don’t think you will be spending a lot of time in the kitchen with this one. Your butcher will do the difficult job of cutting, tying and “Frenching’’* the roast for you. All you do is season it, stick it in the oven and prepare the stuffing. Done! Pork and lamb roasts are two of the most popular entrée choices for Easter dinner. What is wonderful about this recipe is you can use a crown roast of pork or lamb. And the stuffing recipe is just as versatile. You can also use it in your turkey, stuffed chicken, pork chops and Cornish hens. Don’t you just love recipes that multi-task? Impressive during any season, the crown roast just might become the crown jewel of your holiday entertaining recipe file! Roast Crown roast, 12-16 ribs (sourced from your local butcher) 1/4 cup chopped parsley 2 cloves garlic 1 tablespoon sage Lemon zest (1 lemon) Olive oil (enough to moisten ingredients) Kosher salt Ground pepper Crown Roast with Apple Apricot Cherry Stuffing **Stale bread works best for stuffing; if yours is fresh, spread out the cubes on baking sheet and dry in a 300°F oven, 15 to 20 minutes. Serves 12-16 Stuffing 8 cups day-old bread, French, challah, brioche or your favorite** 1 stick plus 2 tablespoons unsalted butter 1 cup chopped leeks or scallions 1 cup diced celery 1 tablespoon minced fresh sage 1 tablespoon minced fresh thyme Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper 1-1/2 cups chicken stock (add more if needed, to moisten) 2 large eggs 1/4 cup chopped parsley 1 apple, cut into small chunks 1/2 cup dried cherries 1/2 cup dried apricots, chopped Fresh sage leaves, thyme or rosemary, for garnish Roast Make marinade with the parsley, garlic, lemon zest, sage and olive oil. Brush the roast and with the marinade. Set aside to rest for a half hour. Salt and pepper. Place roast, tips side up, in a roasting pan lined with foil. Stuff the cavity with a ball of foil so roast will maintain its shape. Also, cover tips of rib bones with foil. Bake in a 400°F oven for 30 minutes. Reduce oven to 350°F and cook for another 1-1/2 hours or until a thermometer registers 150°F. While the roast is cooking, make the stuffing. When roast is done, remove from oven and tent with foil for at least 15 minutes. Beat the eggs and parsley in a large bowl; stir in the bread cubes, vegetable-stock mixture, apples, dried cherries and apricots. Transfer the mixture to a buttered baking dish and dot with the remaining 2 tablespoons butter. Cover with foil and bake at 375°F for 30 minutes. Uncover and bake until golden, about 20 more minutes. When the stuffing is done, fill the center of the already cooked roast with the stuffing*** and garnish the platter with fresh herbs. At this point the dish is ready to be served. TIPS/NOTES *Frenching is the process of removing the meat from around the ends of the bones, all for presentation purposes. Cornbread is great in this recipe. If using cornbread, crumble instead of cubing. ***All the stuffing will not fit into the cavity of the roast. Use the remaining stuffing as a base for the platter and set the roast on top. It makes a beautiful presentation; especially if you line the platter first with green leaf lettuce. Do not forget to remove the twine from around the roast before serving Finally, carve individual ribs at the table. Belinda Smith-Sullivan is a food writer, personal chef, and pilot who enjoys exploring the “off the beaten path” culinary world. Her love of cooking and entertaining motivated her to give up a corporate career to pursue a degree in Culinary Arts from Johnson & Wales University. Now living in Aiken, she currently markets her own spice line called Chef Belinda Spices. Recently she was named “Artisan of the Month” by Augusta Magazine. Stuffing Cut the bread into 1/2-inch cubes. Heat 1 stick of butter in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the onions, celery, sage, thyme, and salt and pepper to taste. Cook, stirring, until the vegetables are tender, about 5 minutes. Add the chicken stock; bring to a simmer and remove from the heat. BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 7 Heard it through the grapevine… by Missie Boisvert by Missie Boisvert Beautiful Wines, Great Spirits! THE PAPERBOY DELIVERS! Truett-Hurst Winery of Healdsburg, California produces many delicious wines from many different varietals. They range in price at an average of $35 per bottle and rate very highly in taste by numerous online sources. I’m not talking about the ratings that come from wineries paying to enter their wines in tastings that will result in a rating that they can brag about or have printed in a magazine. (Yes, believe it or not, wineries have to pay to get their wines rated.) Instead, I’m talking about people who have tasted their wines, thoroughly enjoyed them, and then posted their comments, hoping to share the experience of a yummy wine with others. They are truly praiseworthy. Innovative Packaging With the recent introduction of PaperBoy Wines, Truett-Hurst is revolutionizing wine packaging with an innovative new bottle. The packaging is comprised of a wine bottle that weighs only 1.9 pounds when full. It has a molded outer shell in the shape of a classic wine bottle made from recycled cardboard, with an added plastic liner. It is 85% lighter than most glass bottles. An entire case of 12 bottles weighs only 22.8 pounds as opposed to a case of glass that weighs an average of 42+ pounds. That is very significant to me as a liquor shop and wine store owner who lifts these cases on a daily basis. On the other hand, think of the amount of transportation costs that are reduced. Talk about carbon footprint! Lightweight for Outdoor Activities In addition, the lightweight PaperBoy package provides a responsible way for us to carry wine outdoors. Fisherman, campers, hikers and beach goers can carry this package of premium wine anywhere. When finished, just crunch up the bottle and toss it into the recycle bin. Most beaches now will not allow glass on the sand so PaperBoy would be a wonderful solution for that challenge. A friend of mine does extreme skiing. Occasionally he carries a couple of beers in his back pack since they have to hike forever to get up high enough for “thrilling.” With the creation of PaperBoy packaging, I think he needs to change his libation! It’s my suggestion for you all to consider this earth-friendly, high quality wine. We have PaperBoy Cabernet Sauvignon and Chardonnay in stock just in time for this outdoor, active season. Try PaperBoy for picnic time! Elissa “Missie” Bowman Boisvert is the proprietor of Palmetto Package & Fine Wine Shop at 230 Park Avenue in historic downtown Aiken. Upon returning home to Aiken, she purchased Palmetto Package in 2002, and developed a great wine selection. She works every year with many charity wine tastings in Aiken and has also taught an adult education wine class at USC Aiken. She specializes in hands-on, one-on-one service in the comfortable, relaxed atmosphere of her store. 803/ 649-6961. Wealth Management at Janney Montgomery Scott llC investment Planning serving as the foundation for a portfolio retirement Planning to assist in preparing for your future estate Plannning to preserve, protect and pass along your wealth For more information, contact: Kenneth P. Wiland, Sr. First Vice President/Wealth Management 803.649.1147 | 866.909.4602 (toll-free) [email protected] | www.kennethpwilandsr.com Janney Montgomery Scott LLC | 401 Park Avenue SW Suite B Aiken, SC 29801 | www.janney.com | Member: NYSE, FINRA, SIPC 8 BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 All our friends are here! Unique Expressions Gifts and More 1521 Whiskey Road, Aiken • 803-641-7906 M–F: 9-6 • Sat: 9-5 BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 9 Earth Day and the OTHER Earth Day by Eric Blacks, USCA Intern Get ready everyone: Earth Day is right around the corner! You may hear clichés year round, like “Every day is Earth Day,” but how much do you actually know about this special celebration? Not much? Well don’t worry; here are some of the most useful and interesting facts. • After witnessing the damage of the 1969 oil spill in Santa Barbara, California, U.S. Senator Gaylord Nelson came up with the idea of a “national teach-in on the environment.” On April 22, 1970, 20 million Americans participated in the very first Earth Day celebration, occupying streets, parks, auditoriums, and college campuses to protest the deterioration of the environment. • Ludwig van Beethoven’s Ode to Joy melody is not only the formal anthem of the European Union, but it also serves as the tune for the official Earth Day anthem. • An official Earth Day Ecology flag was created by cartoonist Ron Cobb on November 7, 1969. It is patterned after the United States with a symbol that combines the letter “E” and “O” which stand for “Environment” and “Organism.” • In December 1970, following the first Earth Day, Congress authorized the creation of a new federal agency to deal with environmental issues, known as the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency (EPA). Today, the EPA still works with Congress to enforce regulations protecting human health and the environment. • Did you know: Earth Day is the largest civil observance in the world! Since the creation of Earth Day, more than one billion people in 192 countries choose to participate in their community’s activities. • Most people celebrate Earth Day on April 22, but there is actually another Earth Day. Both were launched in 1970, but the one many people probably don’t know about falls on March 20, the spring equinox, when night and day are exactly the same length of time. Concerning its creation, its founder, conservationist John McConnell said, The “True” Earth Day “And so I, John McConnell, drew attention to a time that is celebrated by the entire world — THE FIRST DAY OF SPRING: Nature’s moment of the Equinox when the Sun crosses the celestial equator causing the length of day and night to be equal — a state of equilibrium throughout the Earth. This is the true EARTH DAY, not because I selected it, but because it originates in the Earth’s own rotation and revolution.” Recently, I shared this information with some students on the USC Aiken campus, afterwards interviewing them concerning their feelings for Earth Day. I got a large range of answers, from “There’s another Earth Day?” to “When can we start celebrating?” Some students were unaware of its being a holiday; many others saw it as an important celebration that should be acknowledged daily. Alexis Harvin, a junior biology major, stated, “Earth Day is important because it raises awareness of the different hazardous toxins which are produced from some of our everyday products.” She believes that Earth Day is important, not only for the well-being of the Earth, but for our health as well. The Place That Provides Life Sandra Urquiza, a senior biology major, commented, “My daughter and I take the time to celebrate both Earth Days every year. Earth Day is our way of giving life back to the Earth, the place that has provided us with life and so much more.” After sharing some Earth Day information with the students and getting brief comments from them, some of the students even volunteered to celebrate Earth Day, March 20, by doing various activities, such as: picking up litter, planting flowers, and clearing debris from the cross-country trail. They had a blast! Not only did all the students enjoy celebrating Earth Day, but also most of them decided to meet and celebrate on April 22 as well. Remember, even though the March Earth Day has passed, the April celebration is yet to come. Take pride and celebrate our environment. Celebrate Earth Day 2014! Eric Blacks is a Senior at USCA majoring in communications and is an intern on the Bella Magazine staff this semester. He plans to attend graduate school to study theology. Paper Boy Wine delivers! Great taste and environmental responsibility. Frank Davis In The Morning Tony B In The Afternoon ...and Carolina Beach Music All Weekend Long! 10 (Paper bottles!) Specializing in one-on-one Customer Service and Event Planning! It’s our pleasure to serve you! 803.649.6961 230 Park Ave. SW • Downtown Aiken • Hours Mon-Sat 9:30-7pm [email protected] BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 Enter the Aiken Young Conservationists! by Emmie Barth, Guest Writer One of my favorite things to do when I travel with my family is to participate in the Junior Ranger program. Junior Ranger programs include a booklet that is available at National Parks. The booklets have information and activities that help children to understand better the park that they are visiting. When you complete your booklet, you get sworn in by a ranger as a junior ranger and you get a badge and a certificate. One ranger let me wear his hat while he swore me in! I have completed Junior Ranger programs at many different places, including Yellowstone National Park, Congaree National Park, Appomattox National Historical Park, Ninety-Six National Historical Site, and Muir Woods National Monument. Each park had different kinds of activities. History, Prizes, and Buffalo! One of my favorite things to do is a scavenger hunt. For example, at Appomattox, I hunted so that I could cross off historical objects that I saw. At Muir Woods I had to find clues at the different signs around the park to uncover a hidden message that led me to a hidden prize! At Yellowstone I kept a list of animals that I saw in the park. I saw lots of buffalo there; when I was watching Old Faithful erupt, a buffalo walked by! When I was driving around the park, I also saw elk in the woods. A fun New Program These activities are so much fun to do with my family, I thought, why not bring that fun to Aiken? With the help of my family, I developed a program for the Aiken Land Conservancy called the Aiken Young Conservationists (AYC). We made a booklet that kids can get for free. It has activities to complete in order to earn a badge and prizes. The activities are fun and teach about Aiken’s history and its ecology. Some are for home and some you do outside—activities include a safari in Hitchcock Woods, an ecology bingo game, a word search and a poetry challenge. The program is designed for ages 6-13; you do the number of activities based on your age. I can’t wait to bring new generations into this project as well, including my baby brother Carson. The Aiken Land Conservancy is working to partner Emmie Barth with scout troops and science or history classes to get children interested in completing booklets. If you have a group you can contact the ALC, or else your family can get a booklet to complete together. Booklets are available from the Aiken Land Conservancy at [email protected] or 855-ALC-LAND. Just arrived – 30 grills to choose from! 60 DAYS SAME AS CASH! Weber Spirit Grill True Value is Aiken’s Grill Headquarters Model E-210 $399 Free assembly, delivery & setup Natural Gas In Stock on Most Models START RIGHT. START HERE. www.truevalue.com BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 121 Laurens Street, SW • Aiken, SC 29801 • 803-648-8542 11 Tri-Development Center Trains and Assists Disability Clients At Tri-Development Center of Aiken (TDC), the mission is to focus on what people with disabilities can do, not what they can’t do. Aiken is recognized statewide as a leader in providing resources and opportunities for those with special needs. According to TDC’s Executive Director Ralph Courtney, the community itself is a big factor: the people in Aiken are civic-minded and care about their environment, including people with disabilities. Courtney’s career with those having disabilities began 42 years ago in Columbia when he volunteered in a residential program. Within a few months he was hired as a “teaching parent.” He has devoted his life to helping those with intellectual and physical disabilities, and he wants the community to know that even though some people have special needs, “their needs don’t prevent them from being special friends. They’re not just needy. They have strengths, and we’re here to build on them.” Tri-Development employs about 250 people; some of those positions require special degrees, and all employees receive quite a bit of training. Annual re-certification is required for all employees. According to Renee Staggs, Director of Training and Support Services, TDC is always looking for interested, caring people to work and volunteer with those who have intellectual and developmental disabilities. Staggs has worked with TDC for 19 years and describes it as “the most fun job I have ever had. There is always something new happening, gradual changes in the clients that let you see what you are doing makes a difference.” Governmental and societal views of those with disabilities have changed dramatically from the days when the disabled were isolated and warehoused. Today’s more enlightened approach promotes inclusion, not exclusion, and a realization that those with special needs can contribute in many ways to their society and can achieve varying degrees of independence, as well as enhanced self-esteem. “Not enough people realize what these individuals with special challenges can do,” Courtney said as he recited a partial list of some of the valuable ways TDC serves the Aiken Community right now. Work Programs by Sally Bradley One of the most popular areas of Tri-Development Center is the Busy Bakers, where clients produce delicious breakfast rolls, cookies, cakes, Christmas cookies, and Southern specialty items like benne wafers and cheese straws. These can be ordered online or by telephone. Frequent customers include SRS, WSI, and UPS. On a recent tour of the Vaucluse Road day support center, I observed clients in the activity area involved in a variety of tasks: de-stapling papers for shredding, sorting plastic bags for re-use, making goodie cups for Aiken Public Safety, and assembling boxes. In the kitchen, Busy Bakers had just sent 60 dozen house-made donuts to UPS, and a small group of clients in front of the center was raking up debris from the ice storm. My knowledgeable tour guide, Michelle Williams, though disabled herself, has her own business making custom jewelry. Residential Services In addition to helping them find suitable employment, TriDevelopment tries to promote independence for the disabled through its Residential Services Program. The old practice of lifetime institutionalization has been replaced by incorporation into community life. As with the day services, there is no one model of residential placement that can serve all Tour guide Michelle Williams clients. Some individuals can live alone with only limited supervision and support, with staff members available to help as needed. Others require nursing staff and help with basic needs. Tri-Development is currently serving 180 people with varying needs in 29 homes. According to Courtney, members of the community are becoming more accepting of the residential care facilities than in the past. The Day Service centers in Aiken County coordinate activities for qualifying persons with special needs. The Vaucluse Road site houses a sheltered workshop and employment services. From the Work Contracts Division at the Hampton Avenue site, work teams travel to various locations in the community. TriDevelopment also has a satellite in the North Augusta/Belvedere area, and employment specialists and job coaches support clients from the Lancaster Street facility. Those receiving necessary supports through TriDevelopment have proved that they are capable of performing valuable work and Tri-Development Center clients listen to the percussionists from Juilliard in Aiken Focusing on abilities: A Tri-Development Center in a special performance. earning income. They Work Crew Supervisor trains an individual on proper mowing techniques. perform janitorial services for the City of Aiken and yard work for the County. Clients of Tri-Development also The Mission Continues provide janitorial services for SRP’s Federal Credit Union’s 90,000- square The mission of the Department of Disabilities and Special Needs and foot building. Tri-Development clients perform housekeeping duties for Tri-Development now includes serving those with spinal cord injuries, head the Houndslake Guest Lodge, The Baymont Inn on Riverwatch Parkway in injuries, and autism; thus part of its goal is to educate people about shaken Augusta, and the Sleep Inn in North Augusta. In addition, Tri-Development baby syndrome and to promote bicycle helmet use. clients do the tableware rolling at Outback Steak House and at the Augusta National Golf Club during Masters Week. Individuals served can be trained to work in factories, food service, car detailing, child care, and many other areas. 12 BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 The Tri-Development Center Foundation has raised funds to support the center since 1999, and the 19th Annual Triple Crown Golf Classic, slated for March 31 at Woodside Country Club, benefits the center as well. Tri-Development Center is the culmination of decades of support from its forerunners, who founded the Child Development Center and later the Adult Development Center, providing hope for citizens with disabilities and their families. The Center encourages everyone to see people with special needs as individuals whose lives can be enriched by others, and who can also enrich the lives of others. For more information on the history of the Center, and for volunteer opportunities, consult the Tri-Development Center website (aikentdc. org). To place an order with The Busy Bakers, go to [email protected], or call 642-8837. Rybergs Donate Greenhouse to Tri-Development Tri-Community Development Center of Aiken recently announced a $25,000 donation from former Senator Greg Ryberg and his wife Betty for the purchase of a greenhouse for the Vaucluse Road TDC campus. “The greenhouse will be an ideal place for TDC clients to work, earn income, and produce a valuable product for consumers,” said Executive Director Ralph Courtney. “We’re excited because the greenhouse will provide experiences enabling those we serve to see clearly the wonderful products of their efforts. I can already envision the beautiful smiles being brought to their faces.” The Rybergs have admired and supported Courtney’s work for years. Betty became acquainted with Courtney when she served as a member of the Aiken County Board of Disabilities. Greg, now serving as Chief Operating Officer for the S.C. Retirement System, cosponsored the state’s seat belt law because Courtney convinced him that South Carolina had more preventable head injuries than any other state. “Ralph Courtney is the best advocate for the disabled in Aiken County,” said Betty. She views his advocacy as one of the reasons that the Aiken community is so inclusive. As an example, Betty noted a workshop in mid-March which visiting percussionists from Juilliard in Aiken held for clients from Tri-Development, some of whom work in the popular bakery there. One of the percussionists described the session as his favorite part of the week in Aiken, and the clients presented the musicians with a huge box of house-baked cookies as a thank-you. The Rybergs are well known in Aiken for their philosophy of service, of which their recent philanthropy is another example. According to Betty, when she and Greg were students at Marquette University, they were well schooled in the Jesuit philosophy: “Be the difference.” Realizing what a great life they have had thus far, they plan to continue to be the difference in their community. Betty and Greg Ryberg flank Tri-Development Center Executive Director Ralph Courtney as he points out the part of the TDC campus where a new greenhouse will be built. The Rybergs have donated $25,000 to purchase the greenhouse, making possible a new TDC program that will teach disabled clients how to grow plants to sell in the community. Sally Bradley is a staff writer for Bella Magazine. She is a retired English teacher, having taught at Aiken High School for many years. A resident of Aiken for 40 years, she holds an MA in English and dearly loves poetry. Theater-goers may recognize her from participation in theatrical productions of both comedic and serious plays at the Aiken Community Playhouse. Currently, she is a “wannabe” artist and enjoys traveling. Sally is married to Dr. John Bradley, and they have one son. BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 13 Sage Valley Junior Golf Invitational Already Hailed the Best in the World by Stephen Delaney Hale It took The Masters about half a decade to shed its original name as the Augusta National Invitational Tournament and embrace the magical name we all know it by now. It took another three decades before it became widely accepted as a major championship – one fourth of the modern professional Grand Slam. It didn’t take that long to get things started just across the river in Graniteville, S.C. The Sage Valley G.C. Junior Invitational Tournament became a “major” in about one beautiful spring day. Unveiled in April 2011 on the heretofore mysteriously hidden and dramatically beautiful 18 holes of Sage Valley Golf Club, the Junior Invitational surpassed all expectations. The tournament was already the best junior golf tournament in the world the day it began. The Junior Invitational never for a moment had a peer, and doesn’t today as it prepares its grounds for the fourth edition, welcoming, by invitation, the 54 most-highly regarded junior golfers in the world, brought here by the tournament from across the USA and 12 other countries. An Incredible Beginning Get Your Tickets Now It is a safe bet that at least a few future professional stars are in the field of 54 to play this April 24 – 26, the 4th Annual Sage Valley Junior Invitational. It might do area golf fans well to consider how easily Masters badges were had in its early days and the foresight it might show to start getting on the Junior Invitational mailing list now. The first four keynote speakers at banquets before the first round of each of the tournaments give an indication of what the world of golf already thinks of the Junior Invitational. The inaugural address in 2011 was given by South Carolina native and multiple PGA Tour and Champions Tour winner Jay Haas and his son Bill (who went on to win the PGA Tour Championship later that year), followed by former President In its year-end compilation of the Top-10 Sports Stories in Aiken County in 2011, The Aiken Standard listed the inaugural Junior Invitational as its No. 1 event of the year! In surpassing every other sporting event in the county, the newspaper said the tournament in its first year “was a huge hit, bringing 54 of the world’s best junior golfers to Graniteville’s Sage Valley Golf Club for “junior golf’s major.” The event was first-class all the way, wrote the paper’s Sports Editor Noah Feit, and drew attention The Sage Valley Junior Invitational exhibits all the pomp and pageantry of any other from the entire golfing “Major” golf tournament. Pictured is the presentation ceremony following the 2012 world. That included tournament. The officer carrying the Arnold Palmer Trophy is from the color guard of the none other than PGA Aiken Department of Public Safety. From the left are: Paul S. Simon, chair emeritus, Tour Commissioner Jimmy Gibbs, Tournament Executive Committee member, Zachary Olsen, 2012 Tim Finchem, who Tournament Champion, Garry Williams, host of Morning Drive from the Golf Channel; was on hand to present was the 2012 emcee for the trophy presentation and keynote speaker at the closing ceremony, the trophy to the Mark Chambers, Vice President Sales - Electrolux (behind Mr. Williams), winner, University of Tom Wyatt, Tournament Chairman; President, Sage Valley Golf Club, Georgia commitment Weldon Wyatt, Founder, Sage Valley Golf Club. Nicholas Reach, and help him slip on the Gold Jacket. Filming it all at George W. Bush in 2012 and perhaps golf’s the first-time event, CBS Sports showed a special greatest champion, Jack Nicklaus, last year. highlight package before a subsequent PGA Tour tournament. Gary Player to Speak Officially, the international Golfweek magazine This year The Junior Invitational at Sage Valley has recognized the tournament as the number one presented by Electrolux announced Grand Slam event in all the world of junior golf for the past Champion Gary Player as the featured Speaker for three years. 14 the April 22 pre-tournament banquet. Over the past seven decades, Gary Player has amassed a record of achievement that can be rivaled by only the top echelon of legendary players in the history of the game of golf. When he won the U.S. Open in 1965 at the age of 29, Player became only the third golfer, along with Gene Sarazen and Ben Hogan, to have won the Professional Grand Slam, also including The (British) Open Championship, the PGA Championship and The Masters Tournament. In total, Player won nine Professional Major Championships, including The Masters in 1961, 1974 and 1978. Player was joined in that Career Grand Slam trio later only by Nicklaus and Tiger Woods. Called The Black Knight, the Johannesburg native has won 165 tournaments on six continents over six decades and was inducted into the World Golf Hall of Fame in 1974. Additionally, The Player Foundation has raised more than $50 million to benefit underprivileged children and impoverished communities across the globe. Supporting the Future of Golf That emphasis on philanthropy and bringing the game and the values of golf to children around the world fits perfectly with the missions of both Sage Valley and the Junior Invitational. A few months after the 2011 tournament, which featured players from the USA and 15 other countries, tournament founders Paul Simon and Sage Valley owners Tom Wyatt and his father Weldon Wyatt, presented checks totaling $200,000 to The First Tee, The First Tee of Augusta and The First Tee of Aiken, the tournament’s designated charitable recipient. By the third year, the three organizations received checks for $200,000 each. In fact, the tournament and The First Tee, locally and nationally, have a symbiotic relationship. The Junior Invitational was created with the idea of benefiting The First Tee and helping to support its mission, said Simon after the first tournament. That mission is to impact the lives of young people by providing educational programs that build character, instill life-enhancing values and promote healthy choices through the game of golf. It aims to be the vehicle through which kids can accomplish their dreams, thrive socially, excel academically and athletically, and become productive members of society with integrity, strong family values and commitment to community. What could be a better way of supporting young children than providing a vehicle for the only slightly older future stars of the game? “I’m speechless,” said Elizabeth Smith, the executive director of The First Tee of Aiken on receiving the check last year. “This has a huge impact. The support of the tournament helps us reach 12,000 more kids in Aiken.” “What our players have learned at The First Tee will carry over to home and school and off the golf course,” said Smith, who added that the BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 values instilled through The First Tee affect more than just the young participants –it has changed the lives of families.” Besides the financial impact, many of the area First Tee kids serve as volunteers at the Junior Invitational, exposing many of them to possibilities they had never seen before, Smith said. In making the gift, Tom Wyatt thanked the kids. “Thank you so much for sharing our passion for The First Tee,” he said to the 40-odd young volunteers. “What an amazing tournament this has turned out to be. We want to give as much as we can to Aiken and Augusta. Hopefully, we’ll keep growing it.” The Course and the Legacy After the first three tournaments, everyone involved also credited the extraordinary golf course, and the stunning talent of the junior (under 19) golfers. World-renowned golf architect Tom Fazio and his team of exceptional course designers and planners guided the design and construction of the course and grounds in 2001. It is routinely ranked among the top golf courses and retreats in U.S. and the world. The course measures a daunting 7,344 yards on a huge property as dramatic as any in the world, say many experts at tournament golf. Spectators, many of them longtime Masters patrons, wandered the course in awe each round of the past three tournaments. They marveled at the design, condition and overall dramatic appeal of the course. Watching these mid-teen phenomenons hit the ball as high and as long as these knowledgeable fans are used to seeing from the best in the game makes them want to save their daily tournament programs, to prove in the future they saw these stars in the making. We’ll be reading these names on PGA scoreboards and on pairing sheets across the river in Augusta before many more Junior Invitationals have been played. The beauty of Sage Valley sweeps you away from the beginning. Pictured is the breathtaking par-4 No. 3, a hole whose length is exceeded only by its beauty. To Attend the Sage Valley Junior Invitational Tournament April 24-26, 2014 Tickets & Patron Information BADGES Tournament patron badges are $5. Children 12 and under with an adult are free. Badges may be purchased at the gate upon arrival. Tournament VIP badges, which include breakfast, lunch and access to the VIP tent, are $150 for the weekend. PROHIBITED ITEMS Cell phones, beepers, smartphones, or other electronic devices; weapons of any kind, any outside food or beverages, alcoholic beverages, flags, banners, signs, walkie-talkies, animals/pets. No animals or pets are allowed onto the grounds except those necessary and specially trained to assist or guide the physically impaired. ATTIRE Appropriate clothing and shoes. Spectators are asked to refrain from wearing any denim or blue jeans. ETIQUETTE In order to provide the fairest environment for competition, spectators are asked to refrain from addressing any player while he warms up, plays a competitive round, and before he signs his scorecard. Stay as close to the pine straw line as possible. Cross fairways only at designated locations or between tees and greens and stay outside roped areas. Do not walk across fairways while competition is in progress unless directed by marshals. Remain stationary when in the field of view of a player executing a shot. Polite applause is appreciated. Never celebrate the misfortunes of a competitor. TOURNAMENT FACILITIES First aid/medical staff, concessions and merchandise, pairings sheets with course map and tee times, on-site parking, emergency telephone access, player profile guides. For more information, see http://www.juniorinvitational.com. 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More than 350 people heard the Criminal Minds consultant talk about how he was abused in summer camp by a man he trusted and revered. He related how it had changed his personality and affected his family relationships and work performance. Yet he did not dwell on the abuse. Instead, we learned how much later, an accidental, face-to-face meeting with his abuser altered his perspective on what had happened and led to his becoming an FBI expert in the field of child sexual victimization and child abductions. Eventually, his abuser was sent to jail because of Clemente’s investigation. Not all abusers meet justice. In fact, few do, because sex and sexual abuse are taboo subjects, and only one in 10 victims ever tells about his or her abuse or names the abuser. Jim Clemente told a riveting story about how the sexual abusers in our midst are extremely intelligent and careful in grooming their victims. They position themselves so they have access to children; their behavior and activity are such that no one would ever suspect their ulterior motives. When accused, people rush to their defense, believing the charges to be false—“So-and-so would NEVER do that. He (or she) loves children! That would be the last thing So-and-so would ever do!” Yet it pays to be vigilant. Most Victims Know Their Abusers Statistics show that 80% of abusers are known to their victims. That means it’s probably not the strangers we warn our children about—it’s someone in our own circle, whether it’s family or friends, neighbors or colleagues, etc. Clemente made the comment that if someone wants to spend 18 by Kathy Huff Encourage Conversation about Sex, “Okay” Touching and “Not Okay” Touching more time in the company of our children than we would ourselves, that’s a red flag. The abusers nurture their victims for long periods of time and gain loyalty so that the victims do not want to report them. And there are many more red flags, like changes in a child’s behavior. (Clemente lamented that his mother, to her dying day, wanted to know what had changed him from a happy little boy to the sad, remote, unresponsive child he became.) Abusers find a weak spot in a child and use it as a threat. (“You don’t want your mother to know you’ve been drinking—or looking at dirty pictures,” or anything the abuser knows to be true about the child’s family culture and what it accepts or doesn’t accept.) This leverage assures the silence of the child. And it also assures the abuser’s continued access to the child. Abusers are made safe by silence. Victims fear consequences because of the sexual nature of the abuse. Our pop culture is full of sex, but there’s little discussion of it in the home. Clemente says to open up the subject—don’t turn off the TV or the radio, don’t hide the magazine articles, don’t clam up when a child shows up during a discussion about sex-related matters or stories. Make sex an age-appropriate, open subject so that children understand it’s part of life, and also understand what is “okay” touching and what is “not okay” touching. Children especially need to understand they will always be loved no matter what they tell their parents. (See the Child Advocacy Center’s [continued on next page] BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 recommended website for more information about red flags to watch for: stopitnow.org and cacofaiken.org.) Clemente spoke for 90 minutes and the audience would have listened longer. This is unusual for a difficult subject. Perhaps it’s Clemente’s fame that drew such a large crowd, or perhaps it’s that the Child Advocacy Center has helped people recognize there is a problem here (as everywhere) and we can do something about it. Where Are the Men? But Clemente also lauded the 100 Women Initiative that sponsored the dinner for the community, each of whom annually donates $1,000 to the Child Advocacy Center. And then he asked, “Where are the 100 Men? Where are the men who take a stand against child sexual abuse?” Then he raised his hand and said, “I’ll be the first. I’ll give a thousand dollars and be the first of 100 Men.” So what about it, guys? Stepping up to the plate with $1,000 to support the mission of the Child Advocacy Center and learning more about abuse red flags, prevention, and treatment programs sounds like a very manly thing to do. Call Jason Rabun, 100 Men Chair, at 803-641-3006; Gayle Lofgren, Executive Director of the CAC at 803-644-5100; or Board President John Dangler at 803-514-2677 and make your pledge today. Your children will thank you, and so will your community. www.facebook.com/aikenbellamagazine …with new FABRIC FURNITURE ACCESSORIES Browse our new one-of-a-kind vintage corner • Bolt Fabrics • Bed Linens • Furniture & Lamps • Unique Art • Fabulous Pillows • and MORE! 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This is the day upon which we are reminded of what we are on the other three hundred and sixty-four. ~Mark Twain The Swiss family was harvesting what commentator Richard Dimbleby announced was a bumper crop of pasta from spaghetti trees on the three-minute newscast from the BBC. The pasta pickers carefully placed the strands in baskets while Dimbleby informed the British audience that eradication of the spaghetti weevil and a mild winter produced pasta that passed perfection. The news show Panorama took great pains to produce the spaghetti-gathering clip by trying to hang 20 pounds of uncooked spaghetti from tree branches without success; it all fell to the ground. Cooking the spaghetti made it too slippery, but when they kept the uncooked pasta in damp cloths until ready for hanging, the pasta stuck and Dimbleby could then film local young ladies dressed in Swiss costumes climbing ladders to fill baskets full of fresh “homegrown” spaghetti. Calls flooded the BBC from some who laughed at the joke, but many from people who wanted the news agency to settle arguments whether the broadcast on April 1, 1957, was true or not. No foolin’. April Fish! Folklore about the origination of April Fool’s Day says when the French adopted the Gregorian Calendar in 1564, the new year changed from the end of March to January 1. Some people stubbornly celebrated New Year’s Day April 1 and became the object of ridicule as pranksters tacked paper fish to their backs and yelled, “April fish!” (No one knows why a fish was chosen.) Italy, Belgium, and France still practice this tradition today. Images of fish are often used on April Fool’s cards in Europe. Taco Bell announced that it would be purchasing the Liberty Bell to help reduce the national debt on April 1, 1966, and would rename it the “Taco Liberty Bell.” The company intended to move the “crown jewel of bells” back and forth between Philadelphia and its own headquarters in Irvine, California. Puzzled phone callers were patiently told that the Liberty Bell was not owned by the Federal Government (the city owned it then, and later granted custody of it to the National Park Service) and was not for sale. In the meantime, Taco Bell’s sales spiked and the company donated $50,000 for maintenance of the Liberty Bell. Foul Ball Sports Illustrated published an article that featured a story about an amazing rookie named Sidd Finch who was training with the Mets. This April 1985 edition reported the novice pitcher The following are examples of April Fool’s pranks. Can you find the one that never happened? Or were they all jokes on the public? In 2007 the Lebanon Circle Magik Company published on its website a photo of a mummified fairy found by a man and his dog while hiking. Even after the company admitted on April Fool’s Day the story was fiction, some readers messaged the site declaring they believed the story was true. Burger King announced that southpaws could have burgers their way after designing a “Left-handed Whopper.” All the condiments would be rotated 180 degrees to help prevent spillage out the right side of the burger. It was indeed their April Fool’s Whopper. A Bell of a Joke BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 could throw a 168 mph ball that smoked the previous record of 103 mph. The story stated that Finch was raised in an English orphanage and later learned to master the art of the pitch by practicing yoga. Even though he had never played baseball, one day he appeared at spring training, pitching with a hiking boot on one foot while the other was bare. It seemed impossible to hit his pitches, and catchers were knocked back when the ball slammed into their mitts. The young man could not decide if he wanted to pitch for the Mets or play the French horn; he would let management know April 1. One week later the magazine announced Finch had lost accuracy in pitching and would drop out of training. The April 15 Sports Illustrated declared the article was a joke. But the writer of the hoax had left a clue for his readers with the first letter from each word of his subtitle: He’s a pitcher, part yogi and part recluse. Impressively liberated from our opulent life-style, Sidd’s deciding about yoga.” It was 1980. To keep up with technology, the BBC announced Big Ben was going digital. The BBC Japanese service said it would sell the hands of the clock to the first four callers, which stimulated actual bidding. Australian millionaire Dick Smith gave out a press release saying he was towing an iceberg from Antarctica to be broken into cubes that he would sell for ten cents apiece. That was big news in the Sydney harbor in 1978, and the media was there to cover the story as a barge chugged, in hauling the iceberg; it was discovered to be only sheets covered with shaving cream and fire extinguishing foam. There was only one television channel in Sweden in 1962, and it announced the station could be seen in color if viewers cut up women’s tights and stretched them over the TV screen to bend the light. After the scissors came out, millions of Swedes realized they had been April fooled. Irish guards at Buckingham Palace were having a problem, according to the April 1980 issue of Soldier Magazine; their bearskin helmets needed a trimming because the fur continued to grow due to a hormone that lived even after the death of the animal. The London Daily Express ran the article as a straight story. April 1, 2008, the BBC posted a video of flying penguins near the Antarctic. Instead of huddling to survive the frigid temperatures, these birds flew thousands of miles to South American rainforests to bask in the tropical sun, according to the clip. It was announced by Golf Magazine in 1990 that the Augusta National (home of the Masters Golf Tournament) would allow public access at specific times. Hundreds of eager players called, hoping to attain the privilege of playing. In the year 2000 an announcement made by Miller Beer, printed on the local newspaper’s front page, reported that it would be the exclusive sponsor of the Marfa Mystery Lights in Texas. In on the joke, the newspaper article stated that these mystical lights bouncing around in the southern sky (caused by uranium, swamp gas or ghosts, so the locals said) would now be called … the Miller Lights. So which one is the hoax of the hoaxes? They’ve all been played to the amusement of the pranksters. From pasted-on paper fish to pampered pasta, April Fool’s Day proves life’s too short to take it all seriously. Phyllis MacLay is a published writer of articles in Country Woman Magazine, Parent Magazine, Easy Street Magazine, and Lancaster, Pennsylvania, newspapers. Originally from Pennsylvania, Phyllis moved to Aiken from Texas. She has published children’s plays and is now selling online and at Booklovers Store in Aiken her latest novel, A Bone for the Dog, the chilling story of a father trying to rescue his little girl. (Visit www.PhyllisMaclay.com) Her latest published work Sweet Brew and a Cherry Cane appears in the anthology Nights of Horseplay by the Aiken Scribblers. 21 Celebrity Waiter Night: Raising Funds for Children’s Place The smiles on their faces mask the difficult backgrounds of some of these children. Perhaps the tragic stories behind those smiles provided the motivation to form Children’s Place in 1968. Community Outreach The Stories Children’s Place provides a daytime safe haven for at-risk children from ages 2-12 and also offers programs for them and their families. Children’s Place Kids While the stories vary, many have suffered abuse and many experience behavioral problems. One child said that he didn’t have any friends until he came to Children’s Place, perhaps because he used to hit others. Now he loves playing with both programs, Children’s his friends and trains. Another Place offers enrichment, shared stories of the abuse she counseling, behavioral suffered at the hands of her treatment interventions and uncle. Some of the children are rehabilitation therapy. sexually abused, while others Parents and family suffer abuse due to neglect and members also receive help. poor parenting. They may show Children’s Place programs signs of anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder. assist them in developing positive parenting skills The Possibilities Through the care given to the kids, Children’s Place focuses not on their problems, but on their possibilities. “Their challenges have to be overcome now, so they can reach their full potential,” said Peggy Ford, director of Children’s Place. “We help prevent their falling into trouble later as the result of early childhood challenges.” The children attend five days a week and receive help and care in myriad ways. “Through routine, a variety of play, the approach used to learning, nutrition (including three homemade meals per day), teaching them basic hygiene, parenting support, occupational and physical therapy, speech and play therapy, art, positive interaction with adults, and providing necessities when needed—these are the basics of our program,” Peggy said. “It’s our job to help them experience the joys of childhood, teach them to love learning and put them on a road to success in the future.” The Programs Children’s Place focuses on five core programs: Preschool, GOTCHA, InterACT, Family Check-Up, and Families Matter. These programs help put children on a path to social, emotional, and educational success using a therapeutic childcare system. Through these 22 by Anna Dangerfield that increase family stability, decrease abuse and neglect of children, and improve children’s readiness for school. “It’s heartwarming and sweet to see the kids we help. Working here makes me want to have kids, and it shows me how to be a good parent. I’ve been working here about five years,” said Community Outreach Director, Kelly Findley. In this position, Kelly coordinates all community events. She secures people to adopt families at Christmas and volunteers to help with the Christmas shopping trip. She coordinates field trips, the Guardian Angel program and the Celebrity Waiter Night, among numerous other community outreach events. While she likes organizing the events, she also enjoys playing with the kids. Her co-workers include four therapists, four bus drivers, and 13 parent consultants and others to total about 48 employees. “It’s a great place, and I love it!” Kelly said, but it’s the director for whom she sings the highest praise. “Peggy Ford is amazing! She’s a great boss to work for and always goes over and beyond for these children. She has the biggest heart.” Celebrity Waiter Night Children’s Place receives funding from grants and also from the United Way of Aiken County, with matching state funds. The Celebrity Waiter Night fundraiser, begun in 1995, helps all of the program components of Children’s Place to continue. Phyllis Coker knows the importance of this fundraiser. “Years ago, when I was on the board, I left the meetings feeling financial needs. But Peggy had faith, and through her perseverance, she made it work,” Phyllis said. In 1995, fewer than 25 volunteer waiters paired with restaurants Up Your Alley and Olive Oil’s and raised $3,482. Last year’s event raised more than $130,000 through corporate and individual sponsorships, restaurant donations of $5 per meal, waiter tips and raffle sales from the generous donation of a pair of Floyd and Green Jewelers diamond earrings. With a goal of $80,000 set for this Thank-you photo from grateful children of the 2013 Celebrity Waiter year, Children’s Place has enlisted the help Night. The colorful horse, Sunrise the Children’s Champion, was a gift of 13 Aiken restaurants, more than 100 from Reynolds Construction Company. It was painted by artist Leslie Alexander who was assisted by children of Children’s Place. celebrity waiters and numerous corporate and individual sponsors. Money received goes to help Children’s Place serves approximately 120 support the various therapies for the children that children and their families who live throughout include physical, occupational, speech and mental Aiken County. Some of the programs also serve health. Bamberg, Barnwell, Edgefield, McCormick, and Rusty and Donna Findley have served at Saluda Counties. BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 Casa Bella restaurant for the last two years. “It is hard work, but fulfilling,” Rusty said. “We raise money for a good cause, and we have fun. The diners usually try to get waiters to do something to embarrass themselves in order to get good tips. A diner once asked me to remove my shirt, and another asked me to sing and dance to an Elvis song. But if it’s not something I want to do, I’ll just give the tips myself.” “Celebrity Waiter Night has always been as much about making friends and increasing the awareness of our mission as it is about raising treatment funds for our children,” said Peggy. “I am always grateful that our agency and children are blessed to be in such a generous community.” This year marks the 19th anniversary of Celebrity Waiter Night, which will be held on Monday, May 12. Those who wish to support Children’s Place are encouraged to call for reservations at the restaurant of their choice. For further information, call Kelly Findley at 439-7955 or email her at kellyfindley@yahoo. com, or contact Cristi Williams at 215-7857 or at [email protected], or call Children’s Place at 641-4144 or visit Children’s Place at childrensplaceinc.org. Children’s Place Wish List (Items may be gently used, except where noted) • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Blankets, any size (new only) T-shirts Underwear and socks (new only) Duplo Blocks and Legos Toy trucks and cars Dress-up clothes Riding toys Sand buckets and shovels Playground balls Puzzles Toothpaste Deodorant Shampoo and conditioner 8-pack of Crayola markers Board games and books Volunteers to be ambassadors. Like a board member without the meetings. Like a friend of CP • A New Building, because the current building is licensed for only 70 children. Based on the needs of Aiken County, their goal is to be able to serve a minimum of 120 children. 2014 Participating Restaurants Casa Bella Cumberland Village Davor’s Café *Grumpy’s Houndslake Country Club *Linda’s Bistro *Newberry Hall Swamp Fox TakoSushi The Reserve Club at Woodside *The Red Pepper *Travinia Italian Kitchen and Wine Bar The Willcox WingPlace Anna Dangerfield is a freelance writer whom readers will recognize from her long association with BELLA Magazine. She has also been published in other secular and religious magazines. Anna has a BA in English, a BS in Pharmacy, and is a volunteer with Mental Health America of Aiken County. She and her husband have three sons, two daughters-in-law and two grandsons with whom they enjoy travelling and spending time at their beach home on the South Carolina coast. * These restaurants are not taking reservations because they have been previously reserved by sponsoring corporations. The Shops on Hayne at Pendleton Antique Bronze Fountain Guest Cottage 345 Hayne Avenue SW • 803-644-0990 [email protected] BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 Linens & Gifts 405 Hayne Avenue SW • 803-649-4565 Antiques & Accessories • Sterling Silver & Old Plate 409 Hayne Avenue SW • 803-642-9524 [email protected] 23 after th e storm by Susan Elder “… in America the ice-storm is an event. And it is not an event which one is careless about. When it comes, the news flies from room to room in the house, there are bangings on the doors, and shoutings, “The ice-storm! the ice-storm!” and even the laziest sleepers throw off the covers and join the rush for the windows. The ice-storm occurs in midwinter, and usually its enchantments are wrought in the silence and the darkness of the night. A fine drizzling rain falls hour after hour upon the naked twigs and branches of the trees, and as it falls it freezes. In time the trunk and every branch and twig are incased in hard pure ice; so that the tree looks like a skeleton tree made all of glass—glass that is crystal-clear. All along the underside of every branch and twig is a comb of little icicles—the frozen drip. Sometimes these pendants do not quite amount to icicles, but are round beads—frozen tears…” Mark Twain, Samuel Clemens, was living abroad when he wrote these words for the travelogue, Following the Equator, published in 1897. He clearly had fond memories of an ice storm, possibly from his days in Hartford, Connecticut, or perhaps as a child in Missouri. He paints a glorious picture of it – sparkling limbs and branches, flashing gems of color, icicles like tear drops. Aiken has been named a Tree City, a designation awarded by the Arbor Day Foundation, to cities that meet four criteria concerning the care of our tree population. Aiken has a lot of trees, many more than 100 years old. We wondered, how these trees are going to tolerate this enveloping coat of ice? The answer: “Not well.” A Monumental Undertaking Tim Coakley, City of Aiken Public Services Director, told Bella it’s been estimated that the size of the debris associated with this storm will be as much as 275,000 cubic yards. A cubic yard is 3 x 3 x 3 feet, or approximately the size of your stove. It would be like 275,000 stoves full of debris. The largest truck the city uses now is an 18-wheeler with a construction dump. It holds 70 cubic yards. If you are wondering why clean up is taking so long – that’s why. If you just can’t wait to get rid of the stuff, “but some deciduous trees really took a hit this time.” A surprising number of Crepe Myrtles were damaged as well. On the other hand, the Chinese Pistache, planted down the middle of Laurens Street, survived like a champ. When he planted them in relatively poor soil that couldn’t be amended because of the location amid concrete and brick pavers, Rapp had expected to replace them every eight years, but the Chinese Pistaches have survived longer, and they made it through the storm without a problem. They should begin to leaf out shortly, rewarding us with bright green leaves in summer that turn red and orange in fall. The Gingkoes planted along the sidewalk on Laurens survived intact as well. Because they’re more upright, the water doesn’t collect and freeze as easily. What about our iconic Live Oaks? “They seemed to have fared okay,” Rapp declared. “Some of the newer ones had to come down, but Chavis (tree service) had already been working on Before In Aiken, the winter of 2014 brought tears to us as well - the warm, salty kind. The icy rain began on Wednesday, just as the weatherman had predicted. We brought in extra supplies – bread and batteries, food we could eat cold, or heat over a charcoal grill. It is the first loud cracks we hear in the night that frighten us. The street is dark, the power is off, and the branches hit the ground with a soft swish. We wait for the next branch to fall against the bedroom window, or worse, into the roof. The neighbor’s reassuring generator cranks up as the electric power goes off. If we can make it till morning without a branch falling through the bedroom ceiling, we will be safe, we think. Almost as soon as the first branches begin to fall, the city’s public works staff begins the clean up, removing fallen branches from roadways and other places where they present a hazard. The electric company begins the thorny task of repairing lines and fielding phone calls. 24 Photo courtesy of Michael Enloe Photo courtesy of Michael Enloe City residents can take their yard debris to Citizens Park via the Old Airport Road gate. County Residents need to take it to the County Landfill. them, removing dead branches and cleaning them up. One of the Live Oaks in the Live Oak Allée at Hopelands will have to come down, but you probably won’t miss it.” Rapp agreed that it could have been much worse. At Rye Patch, the overlook deck was the only structure that was damaged and now the work that remains there is to clean up the piles of debris. The Winners and Losers We’ve learned some things along the way about these trees- which are the survivors and which ones gets turned into mulch? City Horticulturist Tom Rapp, the man responsible for the tree population in the city’s public areas, told Bella that the Chinese Elms that have stood for years along Laurens Street suffered the most. “Chinese Elms have become undesirable trees. Like Bradford Pears, they just split right down the middle. Usually deciduous trees survive an ice storm,” Rapp stated, Photo by Kathy Huff BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 What Now? The storm caught the city in the middle of its winter maintenance cycle. There won’t be any more new trees planted until fall. After all the debris is finally collected and hauled away, there will be another pass over the parkways, collecting smaller sticks and twigs. It will soon be time to mow there and look toward spring and summer’s growing season. And then there are also the live oak leaves which fall in March about the time the pollen hits, and create their own kind of mess. “I’ll continue to plant Live Oak trees,” Tom Rapp declared. “Just because this happened, there’s no reason to give up on them. I won’t ever plant a species Chinese Elm, however, or a River Birch. They just suffered too much damage.” Tom’s advice to local property owners: “You can go ahead and plant if you like now, but you just have to be careful to water.” And what about getting rid of damaged trees? Though many websites warn us not to be too hasty in taking down a tree or in cutting branches, to wait until the tree or shrub “greens out” before we take the ax to it, Tom stopped short of telling us to be patient before tending to them. “If there is any doubt about whether a tree is in danger of falling, or if large branches are in danger of falling, call an arborist to look at it. Arborists are trained to assess the tree to see if it is salvageable.” He hopes residents will be patient with the city cleanup, Source: however. The crews worked 11The Arbor Day Foundation hour days for six days a week for a while, and they’re still working long days. The City of Aiken website offers this advice about salvaging existing trees: The likelihood that a damaged tree will survive the ice storm is closely related to the extent of loss of the live crown (the branches that make up the top of the tree). A tree with light damage has less than 50% of its live crown damaged. These trees have a high chance of survival, though the growth may slow. Moderate damage in a tree means that from 50% to 75% of the live crown is damaged. Many trees can survive this much damage, depending on where in the crown the breaks happened, and if the tree can escape infection from exposed areas where the break occurred. These trees will need periodic monitoring. With heavy damage, more than 75% of the live crown is damaged. These trees have the lowest chance of survival. November. Coakley and Rapp both praised the efforts of Public Works Departments from across South Carolina that came to lend a hand. Greenwood, Clinton, Rock Hill, Greenville, Lexington, and a little town called Springdale in Lexington County all sent trucks and crews to come and stay and help with the clean up. “You know, most of us (Public Works Departments) don’t have extra crews and equipment just sitting around with nothing to do. If you send a crew off then the people who stay behind have to work extra. It was a sacrifice for these other cities and we know it. We put the men up and fed them, but without the FEMA money, which we weren’t assured of, there wouldn’t be a way to pay them. They came anyway. And we have done the same for them.” Coakley stated. Mark Twain Gets the Last Word “By all my senses, all my faculties, I know that the ice storm is Nature’s supremest achievement in the domain of the superb and the beautiful…” Maybe he’s right, as long as you’re not the one to clean up the mess. Susan Elder is a former elementary school teacher and garden writer. These days she spends her time babysitting for her adorable granddaughter. Not All Bad News A few good things came out of the ice storm. One local obstetrician predicts a bumper crop of babies coming along about the middle of Except where noted, all photos by Susan Elder Aiken 2 Mother Nature 0 Survivor T-shirts Available in sizes S M L and XL for $18 each; add $4 each for XXL. Can be purchased at the Screenprint Factory, 157 Laurens Street, Aiken, SC 29801, or by sending in the order form to Kathy Huff at 124 Trafalgar St., Aiken, SC 29801 (checks only) or by calling Kathy Huff at 644-9165. Add $3.50 for shipping and handling for each T-shirt ordered. A portion of the proceeds will benefit local charities. ORDER FORM Front QTY. SIZEPRICE SUBTOTAL S&H TOTAL Back BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 25 by Betts Hunter Gatewood Location And Timing In One-to-One Talks Location, location, location, and timing, timing, timing. If you have ever bought or sold a house these words are very familiar. You don’t have to be a real estate agent to know that both where a house is and when you choose to buy or sell affect the price in major ways. Let’s apply this principle to our parenting strategies. When and where we choose to talk about important issues, discipline a child, or question a teen on his or her activities and concerns can be major factors in how effective we are. Let’s look at some examples of this idea: Teens Whether they want to admit it or not, or even realize it, we are still important people in their lives, with wisdom and insights to share. However, due to their developing and fragile sense of self, desire for independence, and being in various levels of rebellion, they do not always show that they are even glad we are alive! Timing is crucial when we want to have quality time with our teens, either to confront them with a concern we are having about their decisions, or to listen to what is on their minds. Due to the difference in our biological clocks, teens are at their best at night when we are ready to go to bed. We don’t have to make it a habit, but from time to time you may want to drink an extra cup of coffee, stay up later with your teen, and have some meaningful communication when he or she is willing to listen and contribute. The location of this can be helpful also; how about in the kitchen around a bowl of popcorn? Food is always welcome at this age, and many problems have been confronted and solved around a slice of pizza. One other important issue in timing and location for talking to a teen is the need for the place and time to be private. At this age, they are very much attuned to others’ opinions of them. If they are embarrassed or put down in front of their peers, we can expect serious defensiveness and lack of cooperation from them. Elementary Age These children have busy days with activities, school, lessons, etc. and are often tired and cranky when we may want to deal with problems. If something is bothering them or you, right after school may not be the best time for this age child to share or listen. Why not try feeding them a healthy snack, giving them some space, and suggest that later you would like to talk to them privately. They are usually finding their individuality at this age and being talked to like an “adult” is a powerful feeling. They will be much more receptive to your ideas and concerns if they feel they are being treated with respect also. Preschoolers One of the most powerful tricks with this age is prevention. That means the location and timing of our talking to them about a concern should be before it occurs. You are thinking, “What is she talking about? How can I talk to them before something happens?“ The answer is that you know your child better than anyone else. You know what buttons they push, what makes them whiny and demanding, and when they are apt to act out By timing your talk and addressing the problem before it occurs, you can prepare them for your expectations and the consequences if they do not cooperate. For instance: you are going into the store and you know they will ask for a treat. You are in a hurry and do not want them to expect a treat every time so today the answer is going to be no. Why not tell them before you go in that this will be a quick trip into the store, that you need him/her to help you find the three items the family needs, and that if they cry for a treat there will be time-out when you get home. Then, smiling, take a hand, thank them for cooperating, and skip into the store, hopeful that it will work. Of course, children being children it won’t always, but I have found that it does at least 90% of the time. These are just a few of the many ways you can apply this real estate principle to your child-rearing strategies as you discover the power of location and timing in dealing with the challenges you face together. Betts Hunter Gatewood is a National Board Certified school counselor with 28 years’ experience in elementary and middle school counseling. She holds an EdS degree from USC and has authored or co-authored four books on school counseling strategies and activities. 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There is a serious condition causing disease and dysfunction in modern society that is largely overlooked called Leaky Gut Syndrome. The problem is years of decadent behavior and selfindulgence combined with environmental toxins and food products ladened with steroids and pesticides have slowed our bodies down and created a host of health issues that most of us are unaware of. Leaky Gut Syndrome is very common in this day and age. It is the cause of much of our modern autoimmune diseases like: • Chronic Fatigue Syndrome • Fibromyalgia • Rheumatoid Arthritis • Asthma • Crohn’s disease • Addison’s disease • Thyroid dysfunction • Multiple Sclerosis • Lupus Other conditions that can possibly arise as a result of a leaky gut include: IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome), allergies, food sensitivities, acne, eczema, psoriasis, attention deficit disorders, yeast, malnutrition and estrogen dominance (as a result hormonal imbalances). To define Leaky Gut, It is first important to mention that our gut, a hollow tube that passes from the mouth to the anus, has the all-critical job of preventing foreign substances from entering the body. The digestive tract has tiny porous openings between the cells (called tight junctions) so that nutrients can be absorbed from our food. If the pore-like structures open too wide, toxins from the gut can flood into the bloodstream, overwhelming the liver and causing allergies and a whole host of other ailments. It’s called Leaky Gut Syndrome because the gut begins leaking larger food particles and toxins from the gut. The molecules of food and toxins leaked through the GI lining may eventually affect systems throughout the body by aggravating inflammation in the joints, triggering food sensitivities causing “brain fog” or hyperactivity Another important function of the gut is to host 70% of the immune tissue in the body. Problems occur when either of these protective functions of the gut is compromised. Hence, a Leaky Gut is one that is inflamed and in turn becomes porous, allowing large food proteins, bacteria, fungi, metals and toxic substances straight 28 into our bloodstream. Once in the bloodstream, they meet our immune system, the last line of defense to deal with these substances, but our immune system will eventually get overwhelmed if a Leaky Gut is not repaired. There are many factors that cause or worsen Leaky Gut Syndrome: get sick more often. • Skin rashes are your body’s way of trying to dump the toxins through the skin perforations. • Headaches, brain fog, excessive fatigue and memory loss are a result of the inflammation of tissue and toxin build up. • Yeast (candida) overgrowth will cause cravings for sugar and carbohydrates leading to weight gain, gas, bloating, and anxiety. One little known role of the gut bacteria is to assist in converting inactive thyroid hormone T4 into the active form of thyroid hormone T3. Approximately 20% of T4 is converted to T3 in the GI tract so poor gut function can lead to poor thyroid function. Thus the extra weight you’re carrying won’t come off no matter how much dieting you do. Hypochlorhydria, or low stomach acid, can lead to a Leaky Gut, inflammation and infection. If you are taking antacids daily or acid suppressing drugs, you may already have leaky gut syndrome or are at risk for it. Constipation from Leaky Gut can impair hormone clearance and cause elevations in estrogen, which in turn raises thyroid-binding globulin (TBG) levels and decreases the amount of free thyroid hormones available to the body. In order to normalize gastrointestinal function, there is a systemic dietary and nutritional program for intestinal barrier integrity that is science-based and designed to support the health of intestinal membranes. If you feel that your health has been compromised because of a Leaky Gut, you are in need of a gut repair. Hippocrates said: “All disease begins in the gut.” It’s only now, 2500 years later, that we’re just beginning to understand how right he was. • Stress and lifestyle factors (eating on the run fast foods) • Alcohol and caffeine irritate the gut wall; this includes colas (regular and diet), chocolate, coffee, and cocoa. • Chemicals found in processed and fermented foods (i.e., dyes and preservatives), wine, vinegar, soy sauce, tofu. • NSAIDs (Non-Steroidal Anti-inflammatory drugs); antibiotics (causes overgrowth of yeast in the gut due to immune suppression), antacids/ proton pump inhibitors (Nexium®, Protonix®, Prilosec®, etc.).Also, too many prescription drugs can slow the liver from proper metabolism resulting in toxins recirculating in the blood) Choose to find out how to get your health back on • A diet high in refined sugars and other track. Bring your most current blood work and call carbohydrates (i.e., candy, processed foods, us for an appointment today. cookies, white bread, sodas) • A diet high in gluten (i.e., oats, barley, rye, wheat; dairy items with malt flavorings in Zoom Heaton is the milk shakes and hot chocolate, processed owner of TLC Medical cheeses and ice cream; meat dishes that Centre Inc., an Independent include breadcrumbs, flour, pasta, or lunch Community Pharmacy and meat; soup or soup bouillon; sauces, salad Medical Equipment facility dressing and gravies with a flour base) located at 190 Crepe Myrtle • Ingestion of animal products that have been Drive off Silver Bluff Road. given hormonal and antibiotic treatments A pharmacist, she is a • Contaminated foods where E. coli can graduate of the University develop due to poor food handling or foods of South Carolina. She contaminated by parasites (i.e., pork, chicken, is a Certified Diabetes Educator and is certified in fresh water and hatchery fish). Immunization; she is also the chief compounding How do you know if you have a Leaky pharmacist at Custom Prescription Compounders, LLC, Gut? Symptoms can vary from person to inside TLC Medical Centre, Inc., specializing in person depending on the level of damage and Bio-Identical Hormone Replacement Therapy and the tissues being affected: Chronic diarrhea Women’s Health. Saliva testing is available at and constipation are signs of inflammation of TLC/CPC. Call 803.648.7800 or visit nooneshoerx.com the intestinal walls from a Leaky Gut. for more information. • A poor immune system will result from your body trying to wage war on itself and ignoring all the virus and bacteria we come in contact with on a daily basis, allowing you to BELLA MAGAZINE APRIL 2014 Nutrition by Cynthia F. Catts, RD, LD, Nutrition Therapist Health: the Greatest of Human Blessings Chia Seeds Everywhere you look, you’re seeing chia seeds! Chia seeds come from the plant Salvia hispanica, a member of the mint family, grown in Mexico and South America. Like flax and hemp seeds, they are an excellent source of omega-3 fatty acids, especially alphalinolenic acid (ALA), the healthy omega-3 fatty acid produced by plants. They also contain fiber, protein, minerals and antioxidants The Aztecs used chia medicinally to stimulate saliva flow and to relieve joint pain. Chia seeds may be purchased in health food and natural food stores and at larger natural foods grocery stores like Earth Fare and Whole Foods. They are safe to eat raw or may be prepared in a number of dishes. Nutty and mild-flavored, the seeds are very absorbent and develop a gelatinous texture when soaked in water making it easy to mix them into oatmeal or other dishes. Chia can be used as a substitute for eggs in baked goods, which is useful for vegans or those with egg allergies. Simply mix one part chia seeds to six parts water. About one tablespoon of gel equals one large egg. Chia’s ability to gel also makes the seeds a good substitute for pectin in jam. Chia seeds are added to a range of foods in the commercial food industry. Adding it to chicken feed makes for eggs rich in omega-3s. Feeding chia to chickens enriches their meat with omega3s; fed to cattle, chia enriches milk with omega-3s. It can also be added to commercially prepared infant formula, baby food, baked goods, nutrition bars and yogurt. I sprinkle it on my salad, once dressed, and top oatmeal with it as well. It can also be sprinkled on top of yogurt and cottage cheese. Chia sprouts are also edible and can be added to salads, sandwiches and other dishes. I remember Chia sprouts as the fuzzy green “hair” on my Ch Ch Ch Chia Pet from my childhood. My bottom line: I don’t recommend chia as a replacement for flaxseed because of the lack of substantiating research and because chia does not contain the potential cancer-protective agents called lignans, which are found in flaxseed. However, they would be a healthy addition to the diet that is already rich in omega-3 fatty acids (from flax, hemp, walnuts and fish). Chia seeds have even more omega-3s than flax. They also don’t deteriorate and can be stored for long periods without becoming rancid. And, unlike flax, they do not have to be ground to make their nutrients bioavailable. When added to liquid, chia forms a gel. This reaction takes place in your food and in your stomach, slowing digestion. Because of this, chia can lower the glycemic load of a meal making it healthier for those with blood sugar issues. This type of fiber, taking longer to leave the stomach, also provides a longer feeling of fullness, potentially helping with weight loss. Two tablespoons (one ounce) contain 138 calories and 9 gm of fat, 10 gm of fiber, 5 gm of protein and 4500 mg alpha-linolenic acid (omega-3s). Of the four published clinical trials so far, three found positive effects for weight loss, reduced blood glucose and triglyceride levels. Although rare, people who are sensitive to mustard, sesame seeds, oregano or thyme may also react to chia. Those taking blood thinners or other heart medications should not take chia. More information on chia seeds is located at the U.S. Department of Agriculture’s Nutrient Data Lab at nal.usda.gov/fnic/foodcomp/search. For more information about a diet rich in omega-3 fatty acids or to set up an appointment, Cyndi may be reached at [email protected] or at 803-642-9360. Visit her website at www. cynthiacattsrd.com and Like her on Facebook at Facebook.com/CynthiaFCattsRD. A licensed Clinical Nutrition Therapist practicing in Aiken, Cyndi Catts, RD, LD, sees clients who desire individualized programs to address weight reduction, metabolism measurement, menopause issues, cholesterol and triglyceride-lowering, blood pressure management, and diabetes management, in addition to eating disorders, anti-inflammation, and cancer prevention. Self-referred patients are welcome, as are referrals from medical personnel. Cyndi is a graduate of Florida State University in Food and Nutrition and has done graduate work at (now) Augusta State University. A longtime contributor to BELLA Magazine as a nutrition columnist, Cyndi can be reached at [email protected] and 803-642-9360 for appointments. 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