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Free Copy www.citymasala.com May2008 A Lifestyle and Entertainment Magazine for Today’s South Asian IN THIS ISSUE CityMasala A Lifestyle and Entertainment Magazine for Today’s South Asian 16 Ragamala Music & Dance Theater In Tampa On the Cover Shivana Jorawar (Photography: Shiva Photo 2008) A dancer and activist, Shivana is making strides toward merging arts and empowerment in the South Asian community. She is currently involved with anti-domestic violence work and is also the newest host on the Imaginasian TV show "Pulse: The Desi Beat." Brought to Tampa by the FIA, don’t miss the opportunity to witness Ragamala’s electrifying performance in Tampa on May 10th, 2008. Story on page 16 and ticket information on page 38. 28 Auntyji Ko Pucho Most readers know by now not to expect Auntyji to hold their hands and sympathize with them when they are being unreasonable. Auntyji says it like she sees it – and sometimes it is stuff that people do not want to hear. 12 Cover Story Vai Alandikar’s work was recently showcased at the Tim Salen Gallery at St. Petersburg Clay Company. Vai wishes to address the discovery of self through mantra (prayer) through his work. His interview lends insight into a passionate artist’s mind and heart. 30 Mom, Give Yourself A Gift 8 Treat Mom To a ‘Beauty-Full’ Day Ways to get the children involved in the kitchen no matter how old they are. Make it fun and give yourself the opportunity to sit back and relax. This Mother’s Day, treat your mom to a ‘beauty-full’ day by getting her a Gift Certificate from one of the beauty service providers in this column. Splurge a little on the woman in your life who gives you so much. 24 Bollywood: The Unforgettables The Unforgettables tour has changed its lineup many times over. Now Preity Zinta is in there along with Akshay Kumar, Madhuri Dixit, Saif Ali Khan and Shahid Kapoor. Not to mention, of course, the Bachchans! Published By CityMasala LLC May 2008 14 Beauty: The Virtues of Henna 18 Cricket: Sledging 18 Comic Strip: Small Hands 22 Reel Talk: Movie Reviews 26 Health Talk: Itchy Skin 26 Parents’ Chat Room 29 TechTalk: Can You Hear Me Now? 30 Daru Ka Nasha: Drinks for Mom 31 In The Kitchen: Recipe Okra In Tamarind Gravy 31 CityMasala Book Club: Call Me Ishmael Tonight 32 Star Lite Star Brite: Horoscope TEAM MASALA Marketing Tampa 813-476-5415; 813-642-3313; 863-558-3356 Editor and Publisher Chhaya Sanghavi Shaphali Jain Marketing Orlando 813-465-2311 Email Sales: [email protected] Marketing Representative Tampa Manisha Sajnani Anita Singh Ashish Jain Javid Lateef Dr. Maulik Trivedi Nandini Chakraborty Nicolas Aujula Nidhi Chanani Shahnaz Husain Sheniz Janmohamed Vish Viswanathan Guest Contributors Dr. Rima Sanka Email [email protected] On the Web www.citymasala.com CityMasala is published by CityMasala LLC. The opinions and viewpoints of our contributors and advertisers do not necessarily reflect those of CityMasala’s. CityMasala disclaims any liability with respect to the use of our reliance on any such information and further disclaims any liability to any party for loss or damage caused by errors or omissions, negligence, accident or any other cause. CityMasala reserves the right to reject any advertisement they deem unacceptable or inappropriate for publication in CityMasala. Every effort has been made to ensure accuracy and originality of content. Copyright © 2005 CityMasala LLC. All rights reserved. Reprinting of any material without prior permission from CityMasala is prohibited. CityMasala www.citymasala.com 6 www.citymasala.com May 2008 Mothers! You can’t live with them and you can’t live without them - or is that women? In any case, mothers are the most precious gift on earth and once a year, we get the chance to show our appreciation for all that they do for us. This Mother’s Day, treat your mom to a ‘beauty-full’ day by getting her a Gift Certificate from one of the beauty service providers in this column. Most of them have put affordable packages together for a truly relaxing and rejuvenating experience for the woman in your life who gives you so much. Splurge a little and remember, you found this information in CityMasala! AISHA BEAUTY SALON Aisha She says that hair cutting and styling as well as threading, are some of the most popular services that people choose. 9444 S Orange Blossom Trail, Orlando 407-334-5465 “What sets me apart from others is that I genuinely care very much for my clients and make them feel comfortable. They come back to me because they feel I am their friend.” [email protected] Aisha provides a variety of services from both her home as well as at a salon. Threading, Waxing, Facials, Hair Cuts, Hair Coloring, Bridal Make-up and Party Make-up are some of them. APNA ANDAAZ BEAUTY Ishrat Hair Coloring & Henna Coloring and Facials. 9444 S. Orange Blossom Trail, Orlando The most popular services so far have been Threading, Hair Cuts and Facials. 407-859-0020 [email protected] Website coming soon: www.apnaandaaz.com. “We are open 7 days a week. I have waited for 5 years to open a salon at this location. It is very central where women have the convenience of shopping, dining and getting beauty services in the same area. I wanted to offer a one stop shop for women.” This is a brand new salon which has been opened by Ishrat, the owner of Apna Andaaz, the boutique. The salon offers services like Hair Cuts, Styles, Threading & Waxing, Mehndi (by appointment) Bridal & Party Make-up, hair cuts & styling. The salon has recently acquired the services of a person from Egypt by the name of Issan who is really good with hair, especially the south Asian kind. He is also an exceptional make-up artist. BADAR’S HAIR N’ ALL Badar 2321 E Fowler Ave. Tampa 813-979-0058 [email protected] Badar’s salon is the oldest in the Tampa area and one of the most popular. Threading, Hair Cuts, Hair Styling, Manicures, Pedicures and all kinds of Facials for all kinds of skin types are offered at her salon. Badar says, “I have been here for 35 years – people know me and the quality of service I offer. I am always on the lookout to offer more to my clients.” The most popular services that people choose are threading and Contd. On Page 10 CityMasala www.citymasala.com 8 www.citymasala.com May 2008 Contd. From Page 8 ELITE DAY SPA Suji The most popular services are Threading & Facials. 1102 Lithia Pinecrest Rd. Brandon Gift certificates are available and can be purchased online and by phone and can be mailed out to the customer. 813-684-8440 www.elitedayspabrandon.com. Suji’s Elite Day Spa is about 7 months old and beautifully put together. She offers Threading, Bridal Make-up, Hair Styling, Updos, Facials, Massages, Manicures, Pedicures, Waxing, Dermabrasion and Henna designs at her salon. “This salon is my dream come true. We give exceptional customer service to each and every person who walks through our doors. Our business grows by word of mouth and we have seen tremendous success in the last 7 months that we have been in business.” “We are one of the oldest running salon and boutique businesses in the area. We are located conveniently with services available 7 days a week. We welcome both male and female clients and are flexible with scheduling and accept walk-ins. Our beauticians, henna and make-up artists are award winners back home and have 20 plus years of experience. In addition, and above all, the loyalty and support of our customers attributes to our success in this business.” INSTYLE FASHIONS BOUTIQUE & SALON Khusboo & Purnima 7717 Turkey Lake Rd. Orlando 407-354-0002 Services provided by the salon are Eyebrow and Facial Threading, Waxing, Facials, Henna and Bridal Packages. Since today’s mothers are busy women, the salon is extending their special offer from mother's day weekend until the end of May. MARY KAY Asha Arthur-Fraga 2306 Merrily Cir N. Seffner —ers for the whole month of May 2008. Asha also offers FREE facials and a hands pampering session (one sitting only). 813-508-5701 She says, “what makes Mary Kay products so special is that they are not sold in malls so we end up giving one on one care to our customers. The products are carefully put together for individual care. We go to the customer to pamper them and anything bought from us has a 100% satisfaction guarantee or the customer gets their money back within 30 days.” [email protected] www.marykay.com/ ashaarthurfraga. Some of the award winning items that Asha carries from Mary Kay are Satin Hands Set, Affection women’s perfume and Microdermabrasion Sets. Nail polishes, eye-shadows and blush are all 50% off for moth - “What sets me apart from others is that I take my time with my clients and don’t rush them through the service they have come for. I also take time to explain what causes certain conditions such as facial hair growth and teach them how to take better care of themselves. I will honestly tell them if they don’t need a service, especially hair removal because once you start, you have to maintain it. I spend time on my clients as I would want time to be spent on me.” OM BEAUTY Minita 820 E SR 434, Ste 150 (Inside House of Spices), Longwood 407-462-0227 [email protected] Minita is the owner of Om Beauty and provides various services such as three kinds of Facials - pHisoderm, Shahnaz Herbal and Shahnaz 24 K Gold, Threading, Waxing, Mehndi and bridal services such as Hair Updos, Dress up and Make-up. Contd. On Page 27 CityMasala www.citymasala.com 10 www.citymasala.com May 2008 By: Shaphali Jain Vai Alandikar’s work was recently showcased in the Tim Salen Gallery at St. Petersburg Clay Company. Vai wishes to address the discovery of self through mantra (prayer) through his work. If the world is to be a better place, he says, “it’s important that one tries to find one’s inner self and then approach the world.” Vai was introduced to ceramics in 2003 at the University of South Florida while enrolled in an art class. Although he was tempted to change his major to art, he completed his Bachelor’s degree in Chemistry at USF. After college, he pursued art in classes at local colleges. He was then accepted as an Artist In Residence at St. Petersburg Clay Company in 2007. The majority of Vai’s work is wheel thrown ceramics. His approach to clay is dictated by the improvement in the quality of daily life by the use of hand-made functional ware. He teaches Beginning and Intermediate wheel thrown pottery at SPCC. Vai is as passionate a teacher as he is an artist and CityMasala found it a privilege to interview him. CM: Tell us a little bit about where you grew up and how early you became interested in art? Vai: I grew up in Nagpur, India. When I was 15, I moved with my parents to St. Petersburg, Florida and have been here ever since. You could say that I was interested in art from an early age but it came about in the form of science projects back home since the exposure wasn’t there. The full realization that this is something I really love came at age 23 when I enrolled in an art class at USF. CM: What made you realize the love of art that you feel? Vai: Art gave me a creative outlet that I thought was missing during my college years. When I started spending close to 60 hours a week in the studio while taking pottery classes, I figured it out! CM: You also teach art. How do you feel about being a teacher? Vai: I connect with it more than I do with any other profession. I feel my best when I am teaching. CM: What are some of your other passions other than art and teaching? Vai: I like kayaking, biking, running, Cricket, Football, music such as classical Indian, both north and south, and Western music, classical and modern. I also like some of the music from other parts of the world. CM: What is your ultimate goal as far as your art work is concerned? Where do you see yourself in the next few years? Vai: I am currently working full time towards show casing and exhibiting my art in different galleries. My first show was here in St. Pete and I CM: How did you break into ceramic art? would very much like to take it globally in the next Vai: My introduction to ceramics was in my senior 5 years. I cringe at the thought of it being called year in college. I took an art class and was invited just a hobby because it really isn’t. It’s more than to a one-day “clay party”. I figured I’d give it a try that. It’s more than a profession really. It’s a way and was intrigued by the movement and stillness in of life. It requires a lot of adaptation in thought clay. and daily processes because it’s just so different. It CM: What is wheel thrown ceramics? requires an immersion of self into the process, self Vai: Wheel thrown ceramics is pottery made on discovery, movement, and the expression of that the wheel process or thought into something physical. I can CM: Why the name “mantra” for your art show? go on for hours here but don’t want to take up all Vai: Different people have different meanings for your time! this term. In my case, it meant self discovery CM: Where do you get your inspiration from? through repetition. Vai: My inspiration comes from many things. Sometimes, it’s a certain pottery making technique, CM: How does this come across in your art? form, or surface. Mostly, it’s having something to Vai: I write Sanskrit mantras on my art work. say and figuring out a visual way to say it. In my Also, the pottery making, and in some cases the mark making, process is very repetitious. It started recent show in April, it was the idea of self discovery that inspired me. as a random thing that I started to do and then I couldn’t hold it back. For me it became a way of meditation. Most people don’t think about writing as a way of meditating - it is mostly about chanting. This work makes me feel that I connect with the original writers of our scriptures. I am also able to relate across cultures through my inscriptions. In Judaism, writing a word means bringing it to life. I’ve been given this amazing opportunity to share my art with people and I want to take it as far as I can. CM: What do you expect to achieve by showcasing your work? Vai: Well, I’d like to exhibit my work for one. Secondly, I think I’d like to invoke an individualized thought process in the observer of my artwork. CityMasala www.citymasala.com CM: What message would you have for our readers, especially someone who wants to follow a similar passion such as yours? Vai: Discover who you are before you conform to mainstream expectations. Follow your dream through. If it doesn’t work out, you can go back to a fallback plan but at least gave your dream a try. CM: How can our readers contact you should they need to get in touch with you? Vai: They can email me at [email protected] or visit this site on the web http://www.stpeteclay.com/galleryvai.html. 12 www.citymasala.com May 2008 By: Shahnaz Husain On the topic of dyeing hair and some better alternatives to using chemical hair dyes, henna remains the most popular natural hair colorant. The advantage is that henna is also a wonderful natural conditioner. Here, I would like to mention that one should be wary of using “kali mehndi” or “black henna.” There is no such ‘natural’ ingredient as black henna, because the natural color of henna is a reddish brown. So, the so-called “kali mehndi” may contain elements of harmful chemical permanent dyes. There is no way of knowing for sure so I would suggest staying away from this to be on the safe side. Please send your questions and comments to [email protected]. CityMasala COLORING HAIR WITH HENNA Unlike chemical colorants, henna does not penetrate the hair shaft. In fact, it coats each hair shaft and actually adds strength and body to the hair. By adding kaththa (catechu) or coffee, one can get a richer brown color. Dry amla can be powdered and added to the henna mixture too. Amla is known to check graying so, I advocate the use of amla along with henna. In fact, we have included amla and other natural ingredients in our henna for hair coloring and also in hair conditioning powders. Amla is extremely rich in Vitamin C and as we know, Vitamin C strengthens the immune system. In fact, the Vitamin C found in amla is so stable that it does not get destroyed even on heating. To control graying, you can add the juice of one raw amla to a glass of water. You can also consult an Ayurvedic physician for an amla based tonic or, include foods rich in Vitamins B-Complex and C in your daily diet. Natural products are non-toxic and do not harm the structure of the hair. The body is also safe from the build-up of toxins and their harmful effects. A natural dye like henna does not enter the hair www.citymasala.com Hair Mascara, which disguises a few strands of grey hair, or may be used for quick touch ups. Hair Mascara is If you would like to add amla to your somewhat like henna paste, you can soak a handful of crayons, which dry amla in about 2 to 3 cups water can be used to overnight. Next morning, strain the “streak” strands water, but do not throw the water away. of hair. It also Grind the amla and add it to the henna helps add glampowder along with 4 tsps each of lemon our to the hair, juice and coffee, 2 raw eggs and enough by coloring amla water, so that the henna mixes into strands a differa thick paste. If you do not wish to use ent color for a eggs, add more amla water. If your hair change you may be seeking only on a is dry, add 2 tsps of hair oil. Keep the temporary basis. It can be used to sport mixture for about two hours and then a different look, just for fun, or to add apply this on the hair, from the roots to another dimension to one’s looks. It is the tips so that the entire head is coveasier to use and remove, and the effect ered. Keep it on for two hours and wash lasts only until the next shampoo. Hair off with plain water. Mascara is available in many colors. You can also add amla to hair oil. You One of the most important aspects of can roast a handful of dry amla in an beauty is to be aware of the damage iron karhai (wok/pan) and mash it into a caused by chemical ingredients. Some powder. Add this to 200 ml of hair oil. treatments, like hair dyes, can have disYou can choose sesame seed (til) oil or astrous results and, the damage may pure coconut oil. Place in a jar with an even be permanent. As far as possible, air tight lid and leave in the sun for 10 to avoid exposing the skin, hair and body 15 days. Strain and use, base quantity to harmful ingredients. People all over according to the length of your hair. the world are realizing that it’s time to Temporary colors can also be used to turn back to nature and look at it with protect your hair from the damage of enlightened eyes. The choice is yours! chemical dyes. We have formulated shaft and also benefits the scalp. It restores natural balance and actually promotes the health of the scalp and hair. 14 www.citymasala.com May 2008 ensemble Mu Daiko, former Alvin Ailey dancers Uri Sands and Toni PierceSands, Western composer/vocalist Ruth MacKenzie, deaf actor Nicole Zapko, and Balibased Kecak artist I Dewa Putu Berata. Ragamala's work has been presented in prestigious venues around the world, including the Miao-Li International Mask Festival in Taiwan, the Open Look Contemporary “Since co-founding Ragamala Music and Dance Dance Festival in St. Petersburg, Russia, the Leid Theater, Ranee Ramaswamy has astounded audiences with works that expand one’s perceptions of Center of Kansas in Lawrence, and the New Jersey Performing Arts Center in Newark. The company dance, cross-cultural collaboration, and spiritual also performs annually at the Southern Theater in meaning.” Minneapolis, Minnesota, and O’Shaughnessy AudiCamille LeFevre, Minneapolis Star Tribune. torium in St. Paul, Minnesota. In 2004, Ranee Ramaswamy's global collaborative work, Sethu Artistic Directors Ranee Ramaswamy and Aparna Ramaswamy’s choreography draws from the exqui- (Bridge) was commissioned by the internationally renowned Walker Art Center in Minneapolis, Minsite Pandanallur style of Bharatanatyam. Their work emphasizes the importance of preserving the nesota. Most recently, by special invitation from the Bali Government Culture Office, Ragamala preclassical form while bringing it into conversation sented two performances of Sethu to overflowing with contemporary themes and diverse influences audiences at the Bali Arts Festival in Indonesia. from around the world. Ragamala Music and Dance Theater's work provides a bridge between cultures both ancient and modern, exploring a unique style of living poetry for the stage. Don’t miss this opportunity to witness Ragamala’s electrifying performance in Tampa on May 10th, 2008. (Please look at page 38 for more details on ticket information and timings.) Rooted in Bharatanatyam, a classical dance form from southern India, Ragamala blends dance, music, and poetry together. Old forms are used in new ways to retain the past, enhance the present, and inspire the future. The show will be strictly that - a show for the audience to enjoy minus any speeches or add-ons. In case any of you had the opportunity to take in their last show at the Tampa Bay Performing Arts, you will remember being spellbound by their performance. The Federation of India, which is bringing the Founded in 1992 by Artistic Director/ show to us this time around, promises that you will Choreographer Ranee Ramaswamy, Ragamala Munot be disappointed this time either. They promise sic and Dance Theater is dedicated to preserving great cuisine and a wonderful atmosphere and tout Bharatanatyam while using it as a springboard for this show as the “most fabulous show in town! Call innovative choreography. Ragamala's vibrant clasus to buy your tickets, for mom for a wonderful gift sical work and pioneering cross-cultural collaborafor Mother’s day, for your employees as a benefit, tions demonstrate to diverse audiences the versatilfor your friends and for sources of referrals. This is ity, depth, and contemporary vitality of Bharatanatnot a show just for Indians; anyone will enjoy it yam. tremendously. We guarantee it. It is an internaRagamala has collaborated with several US based tional fusion dance on "India Night - Dances & and international artists of diverse backgrounds. For Cuisines of India" on May 10th Saturday night at 7 example, poet Robert Bly, Chinese pipa virtuoso PM at the India Cultural Center.” Gao Hong, New Delhi-based sitarist Shubhendra For more information of Ragamala, visit Rao, African dance troupe Ko-Thi Dance Company, www.ragamala.net. jazz musician Howard Levy, Japanese drumming CityMasala www.citymasala.com 16 www.citymasala.com May 2008 By: Javid Lateef To Sledge or not to sledge …. that is the question. Cricket has gone through some major introspection this summer. The Indian team that toured Australia, and the hosts, have been involved in some major battles, with bat and ball and verbally. The whole world was watching as this drama unfolded, as the Aussies are known for their ‘sledging’ or verbal battering of opponents. selves this summer. The batting especially has looked very vulnerable. I think the fact that they think that they are slipping up a bit on the field is making them uneasy, and hence the controversial statements. Matt Hayden, towards the end of the series called Harbhajan Singh an “obnoxious weed”. Now, as an international cricketer and role model, that was completely uncalled for. He was given a slap on the wrist for this outburst from Cricket Australia and the ICC has not said a word. The Indian squad that visited Oz was unlike any other Indian team that had toured there before; a combination of youth and experience, and most importantly, a very aggressive captain. The youth in this team had experienced success at the highest level, winning the 20/20 World Cup, and it was won by playing the game with a positive and aggressive outlook. This new found attitude has been carried forward to test match and ODI cricket. What is really heartening to see, is the seniors in the squad have also imbibed this spirit and were ready to take the fight straight into the opponents’ camp. This is where we get into, what I perceive to be, unfair and biased treatment. The Aussies have been getting away with using profanity and abusing players on the field, yet when somebody retaliates and dishes it back, they get all wimpy and complain. To make matters worse, the so called match referees always seem to take the side of the Aussies. The other team’s pleas usually fall on deaf ears and their teammate or team is fined or given a warning. This has to stop. The ICC has to step in and either there is sledging or there is no sledging. They have to make up their minds and please, no more preferential treatment for the Aussies. The Aussies are the ones that elevated sledging into an art form. They start before any tie and the captain or some spokesperson will come out with a very controversial statement, with the express intent of eliciting a passionate response As I write this, the first three games of the IPL from the opponent. It is usually directed This has to stop. The ICC has to step in and have been played. The opening ceremony in was a spectacle, to say the very towards an individual, rather than the whole either there is sledging or there is no sledging. Bangalore team. Something like … “We have noticed a least. A full crowd at Chinnaswamy Stadium was treated to all kinds of multimedia enterflaw in Dhoni’s technique, and we will take advantage of it”. This usually makes the individ- rics with barbs of their own. tainment coupled with the Washington Redskins ual uneasy and gets the whole team riled up. cheerleaders providing that extra bit of oomph. What made things interesting, I personally feel, is There have already been some spectacular knocks What the Indian team had done on this tour was to that there was parity on the cricket ground. The and good cricket, but that is for a later time. Till fight fire with fire and matched all of their theatAussies have not looked like their invincible then …. happy watching. CityMasala www.citymasala.com 18 www.citymasala.com May 2008 R E E L T A L K By: Team Masala TASHAN BHOOTHNATH Dir: Vijay Krishna Acharya Cast: Saif Ali Khan, Kareena Kapoor, Akshay Kumar and Anil Kapoor. Dir: Vivek Sharma Cast: Amithabh Bachchan, Juhi Chawla, Aman Siddiqui & Shah Rukh Khan (Special Appearance) One of the most anticipated movies of the year, Tashan promises oodles of style and substance. What happens when a mischievous little boy joins forces with an old and cranky-turnedlovable ghost? Ravi Chopra’s production Bhoothnath promises to be an entertainer that will win the hearts of children and adults alike. Starring Saif Ali Khan, Kareena Kapoor, Akshay Kumar and Anil Kapoor in main roles, Tashan tells the story of four unique people on a fateful journey that will alter the course of their lives. Bhoothnath is a story of a seven year old naughty yet innocent boy, Banku, who unknowingly turns www.erosentertainment.com The movie stars Amitabh Bachchan, child artist Aman Siddiqui, Juhi Chawla, Satish Shah and Rajpal Yadav. Shah Rukh Khan has a guest role in the film. It is believed that children have the strongest connection to God. They have the ability to perceive goodness in everything and everyone. The film tells the story about call center executive Jimmy Cliff (Saif Ali Khan), gangster Bachchan Pande (Akshay Kumar) and Pooja (Kareena Kapoor), a girl who can't be trusted. The three of them are on a dangerous journey across India, which will alter the course of their lives in more ways than one. In addition to that, there is the evil eye of Bhaiyyaji (Anil Kapoor), a maverick gangster who enjoys killing people as much as he enjoys speaking English. Tashan's soundtrack, released on March 28, 2008 by Yash Raj Films, was composed by VishalShekhar whilst lyrics were penned by four different lyricists: Piyush Mishra, Anvita Dutt Guptan, Vishal Dadlani and Kausar Munir. Joginder Tuteja from indiaFM gave the film's soundtrack 4 out of 5 stars and noted, "songs in Tashan excite, get on to you quickly and make you put them on a repeat mode.” There is not a single dull moment in this entire album, which has its tallest highpoints in Dil Dance Maare, Dil Haara and Falak Tak. CityMasala www.citymasala.com www.erosentertainment.com Abhishek Bachchan plays the title character Drona, Priyanka Chopra enacts his bodyguard while Kay Kay Menon plays a negative role in this, one of Bollywood’s biggest budget movies. Jaya Bachchan is also starring in the film. Parts of the film were shot in Czech Republic, Kuchman, Bikaner, Maharashtra and Namibia. Abhishek is said to have spent many hours with veteran fight director Shyam Kaushal mastering the art of sword fighting. The climax has a brilliantly choreographed fight sequence between Abhishek and Kay Kay Menon. Priyanka too has performed some daredevil stunts and action sequences for the film and is rumored to have had injured herself while shooting. The film marks the directorial debut of Vijay Krishna Acharya who wrote the screenplay and dialogues for hits like Dhoom (2004) and Dhoom 2 (2006). Tashan has completed filming and is scheduled to release on April 25th, 2008. Apart from the major star cast, Khan's son, Ibrahim, will be seen making his debut in the film, and is reported to play his son. All the actors will be seen sporting new looks designed by designer Aki Narula, with Kapoor in a very glamorous role and reportedly donning a bikini. DRONA Dir: Goldie Behl Cast: Abhishek Bachchan, Priyanka Chopra, Kay Kay Menon & Jaya Bachchan. www.erosentertainment.com a foe into a friend - it is the story of Banku and his friend Bhoothnath. Banku and his mom come to Nath Villa which is inhabited by a ghost who is stuck in limbo. Banku befriends this ghost and helps him achieve salvation. This is a story about innocence, honesty and the pure love of a child. It is believed a mother’s love is selfless. However, a child’s love can transform relationships. It comes with no expectations and no boundaries. This kind of love can make you believe in miracles. Bhoothnath is a story that will make adults see the world through the eyes of a child. Drona is the compelling modern tale of one man's spectacular voyage through the labyrinths of mystic myths and legendary legacies. As good and evil clash in this contemporary fantasy fable, a breathtaking journey beckons you into a world of mythical heroes and malicious magicians, of cunning curses and absolute innocence. A world, where spells can turn live-flesh to cold stone. A world, whose whispers lay closely guarded in a land of mirages. A world thriving with thrills, a world of mystical magic, a world where adrenalin bursts out into a riot of colors. A world of audacious adventures, a world of fantastic folklores. Drona is a slick, twenty first century tale that travels across continents but is profoundly and proudly Indian. The bond between Big B and Aman is said to be unbelievable. Says Big B, "Aman is an absolute darling. I've done several ads with him. And, of From the times, when time itself was a newborn course, we earlier did a film together. In Eklavya, baby, the universe has kept one secret carefully he had played junior Saif Ali Khan." camouflaged within its folds. A secret, which if unraveled, could unlock the destruction of manThe film is made under the banner of BR Films kind and the entire cosmos. Today, only one man and the music is composed by Vishal-Shekhar. can protect the universe's precious secret and thus, save the human race from absolute annihilation. This movie is slated for a release on May 9th, DRONA. 2008. This film is slated for release in August of 2008. 22 www.citymasala.com May 2008 B O L L YWO O D By: Nandini Chakraborty www.erosentertainment.com Attention Floridians... Aby’s Baby and Mrs. Jr. B are in Miami and will be there until at least April 20th, where they’ll be celebrating their first anniversary. Big B and Mrs. Big B will also be there for some time, but will return before the anniversary. According to Jr. B’s unofficial website, he’s staying at the Doubletree Grand Hotel Biscayne Bay, Miami. If ANYONE sees him, PLEASE pass on the rant of an ardent fan of his father’s who will be 9 MONTHS PREGNANT with her third child by the time the Unforgettables world tour kicks off in July and won’t make it to the show, so if he has it in his heart to pay me a PERSONAL VISIT all the way in Philadelphia, I will be eternally grateful!! If not, PLEASE take a picture and send it to CityMasala so at least I can feel partially responsible for getting all of you together? BTW, John Abraham and Priyanka Chopra are also there, so you’ll get a whole star-studded picture. PS… don’t forget to wish Happy Anniversary to Mr. & Mrs. Jr. B. obvious already!), can someone PLEASE get the word out there that I will be 9 months pregnant, ready to pop, and won’t be able to go!!! Mr. Bachchan, if you happen to be reading my article, this is my fervent plea to you. PLEASE make a pit stop in Philadelphia to say hello!! Cho Chweet... Recently at the Lakme Fashion Week, debutante Ranbir Kapoor very gallantly threw a kiss to his ladylove, Deepika Padukone, who was sitting next to his mother, Neetu Singh. After months of playing coy with the media, speculations that Deepika was involved with Yuvraj Singh and Ranbir with Sonam Kapoor, they’ve made their true feelings known. According to one source, “Fashion Week is becoming increasingly more about flaunting relationships and putting an end to rumors than about clothes.” by OSO’s runaway success, so is trying to do a one-upmanship instead. I’m sorry, but the thought of those classic songs being replaced by Himesh’s besura nasal crooning just gives me the heebiejeebies!! On top of that, he’s got some new floppy-hairdo and has done away with his signature baseball cap. Talk about Dard-E-Aankhen, Dard-E-Kaan, Dard-E-Sir, Dard-E-Everything!! Humse Bhool Ho Gai, Humka Mafi Dei Do... In case you haven’t heard, Vivek Oberoi had apparently done a kaan pakadke maafi maangna to Salman Khan at a recent awards function. Vivek was on stage and Salman was sitting in the first row. Salman chose to turn the other cheek and not acknowledge the gesture. The animosity stems from Vivek saying nasty stuff about Salman being a jilted lover at a news conference more than four years ago. The former believes that his “not so “Mera Baap Chor Hai…” good luck” in Bollywood has all been a result of Actually, no…but it’s the only other famous tattoo the feisty, reckless, protective lover role he asI could think of. Saif has decided to set the record sayed with Aishwarya when they were an item. straight with his tattoo, relationship, and KaTumko Na Bhool Payenge… So I guess Salman won’t let bygones be bygones. reena’s one-dimensional figure. Apparently the The Unforgettables tour has changed its lineup tattoo is permanent, marriage is definitely not in Eena Meena Deeka… many times over. Lara Dutta dropped out, as did the cards for now, and Kareena is not anorexic… At last check, Farah Khan’s triplets were lovBipasha Basu. The former claimed knee injury, she’s on a “scientific diet.” Okay Saif…whatever ingly nicknamed Om Shanti Shanti. But their real but the latter was more direct about her dissatisyou say! names are Czar, Anya and Diva. According to faction over remuneration. Lara was worried that Ms. Khan, motherhood is a piece of cake, her kids Mrs. Jr. B would overshadow her during the Dard-E-Dil... are low maintenance, and she isn’t going through show, so she didn’t want to deal with that. Now Now the latest on the Karz remake is that Himesh Preity Zinta is in there along with Akshay Kumar, Reshammiya has decided to do away with ALL any frumpy mommy moments. Why, you may ask, when we all know how incredibly frazzling Madhuri Dixit, Saif Ali Khan and Shahid Kathe original scores of the movie and has done his poor. Not to mention, of course, the Bachchans! own version of each song! Apparently, it stemmed just one child can be? She claims that with three The North American leg will begin in Toronto in from the fact that Dard-E-Dil was the inspiration babies, you don’t get to be frenzied over one. Whatever that means. The slew of ayahs, nannies July, but final venues, dates, etc. are yet to be for Dard-E-Disco in Om Shanti Om. If you reand personal assistants she has tending to them to announced. The website hasn’t been updated call, the opening sequence started with Rishi Kasince the original announcement, but you can keep poor’s stage performance in the original Karz with make her non-frenzied motherhood less so, apparently deserves no mention! I wonder if she can tabs on it at www.theunforgettabletour.com. As SRK added into the audience of extras with Farah send someone my way in July? per my previous request (if I haven’t been more Khan. Himesh didn’t want to be overshadowed CityMasala www.citymasala.com 24 www.citymasala.com May 2008 By: Dr. Rima Sanka My name is Dr. Rima Sanka and I recently completed my fellowship training at USF in Adult and Pediatric Allergy, Asthma, and Immunology. One of the main roles played by allergists is to educate patients on what their true allergies are, how to avoid them, and how to treat and/or cure them so they may live a healthy lifestyle. I hope that this column will answer some of the common questions, verify or refute common allergy myths, and empower you to make positive decisions with regard to your health and allergies. ITCHY SKIN Urticaria, or hives, is a common skin condition that affects 15-25% of the population at some point in their lives. It affects females more often than males (4:1). Most cases of urticaria are self-limited. Wheals from urticaria can appear anywhere on the body, including the face, lips, tongue, throat, and ears. The pink or red wheals may vary in size from about 5 mm (0.2 inches) in diameter to the size of a dinner plate; they typically itch severely, sting, or burn, and often have a pale border. The wheals usually fade within 24 hours, but new lesions may develop continuously. Urticaria is classified as either acute or chronic. Acute urticaria is defined as urticaria that has been present for less than 6 weeks. This occurs most often in children and young adults. Chronic urticaria is defined as urticaria that has been continuously or intermittently present for at least 6 weeks. When urticaria becomes chronic, it can be a very problematic and frustrating condition, both for the patient and the clinician. Ninety percent of chronic urticaria has no identifiable cause and is then referred to as chronic idiopathic urticaria (CIU). This occurs most often in middle aged women. Autoimmune disease such as rheumatologic conditions, hyper or hypo thyroidism, and malignancy should be ruled out. The pathophysiology of urticaria is an inflammatory reaction in the skin, causing leakage of capillaries in the dermis, resulting in an edema which persists until the interstitial fluid is absorbed into the surrounding cells. Urticaria is thought to be caused by the release of histamine and other mediators of inflammation (cytokines) from cells in the skin. This process can be the result of an allergic or non-allergic reaction, differing in the mechanism of histamine release. Causes of acute urticaria are usually due to direct contact with an allergenic substance, an immune response to food or some other allergen, or for other reasons, such as emotional stress. Drugs such as anti-diabetic sulphonylurea glimepiride, dextroamphetamine, aspirin, NSAID’s, penicillin, clotrimazole, sulfonamides, anticonvulsants, and herbal supplements have been implicated. Other causes include recent or chronic infections, vaccines, or insect stings. Even innocent events mere rubbing, sweating, exposure to cold or sun can trigger urticaria. Angioedema is a condition that involves swelling of the deep dermal and subcutaneous/submucosal tissues. It is often painful or burning and affects the hands, feet, eyes, lips, and sometimes airway. Some patients can have both urticaria and angioedema, occurring simultaneously or separately. Approximately 50% of patients have both urticaria and angioedema, 40% have urticaria alone, and 10% have angioedema alone. A severe case of angioedema of the throat can be fatal. Treatment of urticaria can be very difficult. There are no guaranteed treatments or means of control. Some people are treatment resistant. Medications can spontaneously lose effectiveness, requiring new medications to control attacks. It can be difficult to determine appropriate medications because urticaria is intermittent and outbreaks typically clear up without any treatment. Most treatment plans for urticaria involve avoiding one's triggers, but this can be difficult since there might not be any clear trigger. If triggers can be identified then outbreaks can be managed by limiting exposure to these situations. There is a lot of exciting new research regarding urticaria and alternative treatments. Your allergist can provide you with more information on the treatment options that are best for you. Stay tuned for my next few articles covering the following topics: eczema, food allergies, and drug allergies. www.allergydoc.us. [email protected]. By: Dr. Maulik Trivedi Second is the fact that more than one person is involved in the decision-making process. Your free will is intertwined with your husband’s and your inlaws’ priorities. Addressing this will challenge your ability to think independently but without being individualistic. Very often, it is helpful to seek help from an independent third party who is trusted by both sides and also has no bias in the matter. point is that they don't really discipline the kids at all! I realize that I have to talk to my wife again and make it clear that we have to play a more meaningful role in raising our children but don't know how to do it without hurting a lot of feelings. Frustrated Dad. A: You seem to have a good grasp on understandRemember that worrying does not ever help solve a ing your situation. If you accept a couple of dilemma. Convert this energy into creative problem ‘natural’ laws of life, you will find a more logical solving and you will actually come up with an an- solution to your situation. swer to your dilemma. 1. In relationships, you get out what you put in. If The dilemma you present must be resolved from the you value your relationship with your children so depth of your conscience. Don’t lose patience. Be- much, you must find ways to invest more time in lieve that you can come up with a creative solution and with them. This leads us to the second law. using ‘outside the box’ thinking and clear and logi- 2. One is always giving up something to get somecal communication. You know the answer. You thing else. You must keep in mind what you are just need to have the courage to accept it into your gaining by having your in-laws take care of your Two things make your situation difficult. First is life. children. the unexpectedness of your present circumstances; Q: Dr. Trivedi My in-laws live with us and play By finding a new balance between your family life the timing of events often seems interruptive to our life plans. In order to make a fair decision that suits an active role in bringing up our two boys. My wife and your work, while incorporating the two ‘natural your life plans, you should have a ‘let’s think out- and I work and don't get back home until the eve- laws’ mentioned above, you are sure to reclaim your side of the box’ approach. You’ll have to understand ning. Now, although I do appreciate their help and lost connection with your children and maintain a your husband’s and your in-laws’ priorities in ask- their input, after I get back home, I want to spend balanced and dignified relationship with your inlaws. ing you to have one of only two choices. This will some time with my kids. My in-laws tend to be around all the time and continue to deal with our be a challenge to your patience. Try to come up children as if we aren't there. I have asked my wife Dr. Trivedi is a Board-Certified Psychiatrist. He with a solution that meets your husband’s and into talk to them but she feels that it's confusing for treats children, adolescents and adults. Please visit laws’ perspectives and yet adheres to your own www.MINDvantage.com for more information. choice. This is where your creativity will be chal- the children to have one set of disciplinarians dur- Send your questions to: ing the day and a different set in the evening. The lenged. [email protected]. Q: Hello Dr. Trivedi - My husband and I moved to the US about a year ago. We are students and decided that we would not have a child for a while. I am now pregnant and he wants me to have an abortion. His parents think I should have the child and send the child to them in India until we are better able to take care of the child ourselves. I don't agree with any of these options and feel that even though it didn't really fit in with our plans, we should have the baby and manage as best as we can. My husband has told me that I basically have the first two options to choose from and refuses to discuss this any further. I have less than a month to decide - I don't know what I should do - I just want to keep my child. Anonymous A: You are facing a choice that has you between a rock and a hard place. Most problems of this sort test your patience and creativity. CityMasala www.citymasala.com 26 www.citymasala.com May 2008 Contd. From Page 10 Sangita 407-257-3271 Sangita provides beauty services from her home as well as at the customer’s home. She is willing to travel to cater to your beauty needs to any location in Orlando, Tampa, Jacksonville, Miami, Ocala, Gainesville as well as some others. Her services include Bridal Make-up, Groom Makeup, Waxing, Facials, Threading and Henna. She has won prizes in Gujarat and in Tampa at the Arts of India Festival 2004 for her wonderful henna designs. “Call me and I can visit your mother to pamper her.” TAMPA YOGA Dale Morphew (LMP - Licensed Massage Therapist & RYT - Registered Yoga Teacher) 4821 E. 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Dale says that what sets his center apart from the rest is, “the fact that we are a spiritual center which offers betterment of body, mind and spirit.” CityMasala www.citymasala.com 27 www.citymasala.com May 2008 By: Auntyji Auntyji recently got feedback from CityMasala that one of the readers who had asked for advice from Auntyji was not happy with it and as a result she is going to stop reading the magazine. What was she expecting writing to a ranting drunk woman expressing her opinions in a free gossip rag? If her problems are really that deep-seated, and she is so prone to drama, then it’s time she invested some money in getting real therapy. Then maybe instead of walking away from CityMasala she would be reading Daru ka Nasha to follow the recipes for a wonderful party where she can make some new friends. Most readers know by now not to expect Auntyji to hold their hands and sympathize with them when they are being unreasonable. Auntyji says it like she sees it – and sometimes it is stuff that people do not want to hear. She has expressed often enough that most CityMasala readers are part of a privileged group of people, and we should count our blessings and be thankful for what we have and not constantly complain or run after insignificant things. If wrongs have been committed against us in the past, forget about them and A: Mrigrow up – learn from the experience. Auntyji believes in living life in the present. nalani – Q: Hello Auntyji, my problem has been bothering me what a for some time and I Auntyji would still love to hear from her readers and admirers … but just cautions you to take her advice pretty want a positive for what it is … just Auntyji’s opinions. There is wisdom in them, but they are laced with acid not honey name – attitude to deal with (hey – what do you want for free?) If you heed her words, you will walk away happier and wiser. If you your husit which you seem choose to ignore her, and continue in your ways, what can she say … it’s your life, and you can choose to band is to have plenty of! I live it the way you want. being a am almost 40 years very unold and have never reasonable person in trying to force you to do forget that. Occasional loneliness is better than been married. I live here in the US and get to things that obviously make you feel uncomfortbeing stuck in a bad marriage. You can overcame able. If you do not want to eat meat or drink alcotravel all over the world as part of my work. I some of it by making some friends who are in a have a good life and have quite a few good hol, he should respect that and not force you to do similar situation to yours or by keeping yourself friends. I do get lonely especially when I touch it. These things are more than frivolous choices – base with other friends my age who are all settled more occupied with hobbies or other things that they are part of your beliefs. You are making you like. down with children. Some of them are now dichanges in your life to adapt to this new society vorced because their marriages didn't work out. Auntyji feels that there is not much need to coun- that you live in, and there are certain things that My parents have always given me the freedom to sel you – you seem to have a very level head on you are not willing to change about yourself. decide what I want to do with my life, but now your shoulders. As for your parents, let them Your husband on the other hand is the one that they are also getting a little desperate to see me know what a fulfilling life you live. Tell them how needs to change his thinking and behavior. Some married. I have dated quite a few guys but have- successful you are in your career. Introduce them one not eating meat or drinking alcohol is not a n't found anyone I would like to spend the rest of to your friends (including the ones that are disource of embarrassment. There are probably my life with. Recently, my parents set me up with vorced). Let them know that you appreciate their some of his own shortcomings that are making a guy who is also in the US, and I couldn't even concern, but you are happy where you are in life. him feel embarrassed and he needs to address have a decent conversation with him - we had Finding a partner would be nice, but living a fulthem. If his friends are embarrassed (which Aunnothing in common! I want to continue living my filling life is very important. tyji seriously doubts), then its time to get new life without being obsessed with getting married friends. if it happens, it happens. Also, I want my parents Living the alternate life style is the new “black”. to understand that although I appreciate their Your sticking to your values and traditions probaQ: Auntyji, I have a question for you about concern, they need to leave me alone. How do I something that my husband expects me to do and bly does make you stand out – in a positive way. accomplish both of these things? Neena People try to get noticed and distinguish themthat I am not comfortable with. We have been selves from others – and you are achieving that in married for about 3 years now and have a pretty A: My dear Neena – Auntyji really empathizes a positive manner. If your husband was complaingood relationship. I come from a very convenwith your situation. There are a lot of people ing about you not serving meat or alcohol at a tional upbringing but have tried to adapt to life caught up in similar situations, who tend to give party you were having, he might have a slight here in the US. I am a strict vegetarian and don't in. Auntyji applauds your decision not to cave into point (although, even doing that would be perdrink. He wants me to start eating meat and pressure. Our society is not comfortable seeing fectly acceptable), or you not letting him eat meat wants me to start drinking. He says that when we people who cannot be neatly labeled or boxed in. or drink alcohol (which he should be allowed to), go for social gatherings with his friends or from People expect a woman of your age to be married then Auntyji might see some logic in his comhis work, I stand out like a sore thumb and this with children. It is irrelevant that this is not what plaint. embarrasses him a lot. I was very hurt when he you want or if you are happy in that role. It is just told me this but he said that he doesn't expect me As things stand now, stick to your guns, you are expected of you. to change completely - just sip a glass of wine probably the life of the party. Your husband might Years ago, you probably would not have had a and at least try chicken or sea food. The thought be the sore thumb embarrassing you. Go Girl … choice. Times are changing, and people are break- makes me sick! I do want to make him happy but keep doing what you are doing! ing away from the mold. You live a good life, are I don't want to change myself so much that I obviously successful in your career and have Don’t forget, life is short - live it to the fulldon't recognize myself. What should I do? friends, freedom, and a positive attitude. Do not est with attitude! [email protected].. Mrinalani CityMasala www.citymasala.com 28 www.citymasala.com May 2008 By: Vish Viswanathan One day, I was waiting in the lobby to meet with my client and I hear a voice say “Hi! How you doing?”. I turn around and see a man talking. I don’t answer and he gets pretty upset and says, “That’s rude!”. I tell him, “I wasn’t sure that you were talking to me, with that thing hanging from your ear”. He was wearing a bluetooth cellphone headset in his ear. Unhappy with my current Bluetooth headset, I went shopping for my 6th Bluetooth headset. My previous headsets had all kinds of issues - either the sound quality was bad or they didn’t fit in my ear properly or they looked ugly. These days, a new crop of these headsets offer great sound quality and some even define new fashion wear. I tried quite a few headsets before I settled on my favorite – the Aliph Jawbone. So, try a few before buying one and look for features such as these: Built-in noise cancellation If a headset has digital signal processing - which isolates voice sound waves from background noise - you will be able to make a call from a busy street corner or in windy conditions without your spouse hearing the roar of traffic or wail of sirens. Secure fit A good Bluetooth device should come with rubber ear buds in a few different diameters; over-the-ear mounts should be adjustable or come in multiple sizes. Long battery life Standby time tells you how long you can go between charges; 150 hours is about standard. You will most likely want six hours or more of talk time. Easy charging solutions Many devices can be charged over your computer’s USB port, great if you hate the idea of packing yet another bulky wall plug. This also lets you charge in the card, with proper adapter. I have reviewed 4 Bluetooth headsets. Hope this information is useful in your quest to find the perfect Bluetooth headset to match your needs. Comments? Write to [email protected]. Model Motorola H680 Price: $60 Earpiece: over-the-ear hook and bud Aliph Jawbone Price: $85 Earpiece: over-the-ear hook and bud Nokia BH-803 Price: $140 Earpiece: Bud, removable hook and clip BlueAnt Z9 Price: $80 Earpiece: over-the-ear hook and bud Battery Life About 9 hours of talk time; 190 hours of standby; uses micro-USB cable for charging Capably filtered out background noise, resulting in clear audio About 8 hours of talk time; 120 hours of standby; includes USB charger About 6 hours of talk time; 160 hours of standby; includes micro-USB wall charger No background noise issues, but other headsets were a bit louder and clearer. About 51/2 hours of talk time; 200 hours of standby; includes USB charger Comfort Comfortable Comes with 4 ear buds and 4 over-the-ear mounts; will fit almost anyone Comes with optional overthe-ear mounts. Bottom Line Rating: A Audio quality was high; the device was light and comfortable; and it’s the cheapest Rating: A+ This is the granddaddy of this bunch and if you’re often calling from noisy places, the Jawbone is king. Moreover, it’s cool looking. Rating: AThis headset is neither too big or too small. The ear bud is a bit bulky and doesn’t fit snugly; button placement is intuitive. Rating: B+ BlueAnt put a lot of thought into noise cancellation, but the fit and the talk time could have been better. Sound Quality Bluetooth, which first appeared on the horizon in 1998, is a radio-based wireless technology that lets you connect multiple, compatible devices at a range of approximately 30 feet. Unlike the IrDA (Infrared Data Association) standard, Bluetooth does not require a direct line of sight. You can keep your Bluetooth-enabled mobile phone in your pocket, your purse, or your desk drawer, and CityMasala www.citymasala.com Aliph’s “Noise Shield” completely canceled out ambient noise. The difference was striking. BlueAnt has two microphones to handle noise cancellation, which considerably reduced wind and echo, but other headsets were better. other Bluetooth devices can still find it and make a connection. cates how important companies from the Baltic region (nations including Denmark, Sweden, Norway and Finland) are to the communications inBluetooth got its name from Harald Blatand (aka dustry. Bluetooth is all about unity. Each succesBluetooth), the Danish king who managed to unite sive specification is backward-compatible and the Denmark and part of Norway into a single kingpresence of a universal standards group means dom and then introduced Christianity into Denthere are no competing versions from which conmark. Choosing this name for the standard indisumers must choose. 29 www.citymasala.com May 2008 By: Ashish Jain To all the sons and daughters out there; keeping in line with the Mother’s day theme, let me enlighten you with some of the drinks that you can share or make for the most amazing lady in your life. Let me start with yet an other story - my mom was visiting us and not being much of a drinker at all, got hooked on to Mud-slides! It was so nice to see my mother actually enjoy a drink and to often ask for a Mud-slide in the evening, not to mention that she even took some premixes back with her to India. This preference was short lived as she stopped drinking after her one week stint while she was here. On the other hand, my mother-in-law really enjoys and looks forward to her drink in the evening – her favorite is a good scotch and her capacity to partake is limited to one drink. If she ever asks for a second one, you are in for a long evening as she loves to tell stories in excruciating detail, being that she’s from the nawab city of Lucknow. Her stories are like a full length feature film with dance numbers , villains and the other characters. Getting to the business of making something special for the special lady in your life here are some ideas. TEA-TINI Pour the ingredients - 1 3/4 oz vodka (I recommend a triple distilled vodka for the added smoothness), 1 oz sweet iced tea and 1/4 oz fresh lemon juice into a shaker with ice cubes. Shake well. Strain into a chilled cocktail glass rimmed with sugar. Garnish with a lemon wedge and serve with a smile. One can also use a light iced tea for this refreshing vodka martini with a hint of lemon. You can add a splash of flavor by adding a small amount of berry, lavender, rosemary or chamomile to the steeping tea depending on your mom’s preference – the taste is subtle yet soothing. Melons and cucumbers combine well for a unique flavor and aroma. This cocktail of fresh, summery scents is a perfect way to pamper your mother. Muddle a few slices of cucumber over ice in a mixing glass. Pour the muddled cucumber, vodka 2 oz (SKYY Melon Vodka) and simple syrup ½ oz into a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake well. Strain into a chilled cocktail glass and garnish with a cucumber slice. ROSY RUM COSMO Go beyond the Cosmopolitan and make this special drink for your Mom. It's as easy a conversion as using rum and a mint leaf to obtain a special drink just for her. Add 1 1/2 oz Bacardi Limon, 1/2 oz triple sec, 1 tbsp lime juice, 1/2 tbsp cranberry juice into a cocktail shaker filled with ice and strain into a cocktail glass and garnish with a mint leaf. WHITE/BROWN LADY Easy to make and can be put together quickly as it needs only 3 ingredients. Personally, I think everyday should be Mother’s day but hope you can make To make this drink, pour the ingredients - 1 1/2 oz gin, 3/4 oz Cointreau, 1/4 this Mother’s day a special one for the lady who has done and continues to do oz lemon juice into a cocktail shaker filled with ice cubes. Shake well. Strain so much for you. into a chilled cocktail glass. This is Till next time have a balle balle a gentle, mother like variation of time appreciating your mom. In the the Sidecar and the White Lady can next issue, we will cover my recent make a simple, stunning appeartrip to New Orleans and Baton ance on Mother's Day. With only Rouge. three common ingredients, this is a Write to great last minute cocktail creation. [email protected] MELON-CUCUMBER-TINI with any questions or comments. By: Team Masala member to enforce it on a daily basis. If one child clears the table, one should be responsible for wiping it clean. Also, remember that even you should not take over that task - it is their responsibility. No matter how old they are, (well, hopefully, they’re at least 4 years old) they are old enough to help mom out in the kitchen. You will find that it’s possible to not only make them comfortable in the kitchen, but also to have loads of fun together. In the evenings after homework, during summer vacations, or weekends, make them a part of what you do on a regular basis. Start small and delegate simple and easy to do kitchen chores to your little ones. Tell them exactly what to do, down to the last detail and then actually let them do it. Follow up with positive reinforcement. Don't do the job for them. Give them gentle reminders about the chore every day and remember to keep it fun. Getting Ready for Cooking • Get organized so there is less to clean up in the end. Have the kids wear an apron so the clothes don’t get too dirty • Teach them the essentials of washing hands before cooking as well as eating. • Take all the ingredients the recipe requires and have them on the counter. This makes the children familiar with where everything is kept. • The cooking utensils should also be taken out at this time; items such as pans, cups, spoons, and bowls. • Arrange everything on the kitchen counter or table according to the recipe. Illustrate the CityMasala www.citymasala.com Taking it SLOW You have to remember to stay calm. This is very important as the kids can sense your hurry to get things done when they do things slowly. When they’re starting out, it may take them some time to figure out how things are done. My Own Little Cleaning Cloth Give each kid a cloth to wipe their hands on, so they don’t use their clothes or yours! point that doing this (or getting organized) saves time while cooking. Getting Ready for Chores Kids love challenges and most thrive on competition! Invent some games that are fun and get things done at the same time. • Time them on laying the table. • Time them for emptying the dishwasher (safely!) • Assign points for how well the dishes, silverware and Tupperware were put away when emptying the dishwasher. • Assign prizes for who cleaned the table better - winner gets to eat dessert in front of the TV. Remember to assign one task per child and re- 30 Get those Stepping Stools Out Having them in the kitchen at the right height is important for their safety. They can get on to a stool or step ladder to get them to the counter if they’re really little. Older Ones can take on More Remember that the Middle School kids are a little more capable than their littler Elementary school going siblings. They can not only empty out the dishwasher, but can also put leftovers in the fridge and the dirty dishes away. Put your feet up at least once a week to let your children take care of everything - from putting a simple dinner together to clearing it all away! www.citymasala.com May 2008 Preparation time: 30 minutes Cooking time: 25 to 30 minutes Serves: 6 to 8 INGREDIENTS • 250 gm Okra • 3 tbsp oil • 1 tsp mustard seeds • 1 tsp cumin seeds • 5 to 6 curry leaves • 1 tsp ginger garlic paste • 2 green chillies • A pinch of asafetida • 1 large onion sliced • 1 large tomato diced • 1 tsp gm turmeric • 1 ½ tsp red chilly powder • 1 tsp coriander powder • Salt according to taste • 1 tsp tamarind paste • ½ tsp garam masala powder • • 1 cup water 1 tbsp rice flour or besan METHOD 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. Cut the okra into 1 inch pieces. Soak the tamarind and extract pulp or use one tsp tamarind paste. Chop the onion and the green chillies. Heat oil and add mustard seeds, cumin, curry leaves and asafetida. When they begin to crackle add onions, ginger and garlic paste. Sauté onions for 2 minutes on medium heat and add okra and cook for another 2 minutes. Add the tomatoes and green chillies. Add salt, red chilly powder, turmeric powder, coriander powder , tamarind paste and add some water and cook until the okra is tender. 9. Add rice flour or besan and mix well ensuring that no lumps form. 10. Add garam masala powder and cook for another 30 seconds. Serve hot. To submit your recipe along with original picture, write to [email protected]. By: Sheniz Janmohamed the phrase seems quite common, Ali is able to use it innovatively. One couplet heavily weighted with meaning is the third one, “My book’s been burned? Send me the ashes, so I can say: /I’ve been sent the phoenix in a coffin of light.” There are no such things as ghazals in English. Right? Wrong. Call Me Ishmael Tonight, by Agha Shahid Ali is stunningly beautiful proof that ghazals can, and indeed are, written in English. The Kashmiri-American poet was known for his ability to adapt the ghazal form into English without losing the nuance of a traditional ghazal. The most difficult element to retain in a ghazal is the form, but Ali does so with grace and ease. The couplets are not forced, the internal rhyming is natural, and the refrains are made new. Another jewel in the collection is “Water”. The ghazal is riddled with startling imagery and turns of phrases, “At the temple and the mosque the rose petals/lay all night perfuming the stunned water.” Another lovely couplet, “There was only a tea of the second water/we drank tea steeped in cardamom and almond water.” What is interesting to note about the collection is that Ali uses the same refrain in different ghazals. For example, there are two poems with the refrain ‘water’, and two with ‘Arabic’. This allows the reader to witness Ali’s genius and creative energies at work - how he can use the same refrains in different poems and be just as effective. Call Me Ishmael Tonight, a Finalist for The National Book Award, is a triumph of a collection, providing the reader with gems of phrases. Ali has an innate ability to synthesize fresh, rich imagery with philosophical ideas. The problem that arises with much rhyming poetry or poetry that has refrains is that it loses its potency and unintentionally becomes comical. Ali is very aware of this possibility, and manages to keep at a safe distance. Call Me Ishmael Tonight is one of Agha Shahid Ali’s literary masterpieces, and is highly recommended to poets and poetry-lovers alike. Buy this book online: www.amazon.com. There are many lovely ghazals in this book, including “Of Light”. “Of Light” is the title as well as the refrain of the ghazal, and although CityMasala www.citymasala.com 31 www.citymasala.com May 2008 Zodiac of the Month Taurus: Apr 20th - May 20th Ruled by Venus; Gemstone: Diamond; Lucky Day: Friday; Lucky Number: 6 Practical, down to earth and deeply sensual, you are the driven people of the zodiac who fulfill responsibilities and obligations with ease and pride. A love of luxury is bestowed upon you through your chart ruler, Venus, where only the best will do, and you have a weakness for anything aesthetic and artistic. Sensuous and earthy, you take your time with love making and like to savor every moment. You are not one to take affairs of the heart lightly. Preferring a stable, orderly life, you are renowned for your possessive and stubborn nature which can be one of your biggest challenges. Your Horoscope: As a larger than life personality takes centre stage, you will be brimming with confidence and there is no stopping you in the pursuit of fun and enjoyment. Full of wit and an infectious sense of humor, people are drawn to every word you say. This is a time when everything is possible so use this influence to push ahead with any projects and ideas that you may have in mind. Success is just around the corner. Aries: Mar 20th - Apr 19th Ruled by Mars Gemstone: Red Coral Lucky Day: Tuesday Lucky Number: 9 Money and what it can buy becomes the source of great amusement as there is no hesitation in spending wealth for wholesome entertainment and satisfying lavish tastes. Whether that be throwing parties, giving gifts or making grand purchases, these tend to reflect the need to show how much you’re worth. Make sure to also reflect upon inner values, for these are just as important as material ones. Gemini: May 21st - Jun 20th Ruled by Mercury Gemstone: Emerald Lucky Day: Wednesday Lucky Number: 5 With a strong desire to express ideas and opinions, there is little to stop you nattering away for hours, discussing the latest news, local gossip and happenings. If others don't agree with what's being said, plenty of aggressive outbursts and heated debates can ensue as you refuse to back down. Rather than create unnecessary foes, use every opportunity to learn and expand upon what others have to say. Cancer: Jun 21st - Jul 22nd Ruled by the Moon Gemstone: Pearl Lucky Day: Monday Lucky Number: 2 A time when careful planning and calculated action is vital, there is a tendency to overestimate oneself only to be faced with disappointment and criticism at a later date. The most potent element of this influence is to bite off more than you can chew. It is best to respect limitations and realize how much one can take on. This in itself is an exercise that leads to greater awareness as to where capabilities lie. Leo: Jul 23rd - Aug 22nd Ruled by the Sun Gemstone: Ruby Lucky Day: Sunday Lucky Number: 1 With physical energies at a low, it is best not to overexert yourself. Instead, partake in some well needed peace and solitude. The main reason for this is that the ego isn't very strong at this time, making it quite a challenge to pursue activities. Even working with others can result in a feeling of being dominated. Instead, CityMasala www.citymasala.com work should be done alone during which there would be plenty of scope to reflect and be one with the universe. Virgo: Aug 23rd - Sep 22nd Ruled by Mercury Gemstone: Emerald Lucky Day: Wednesday Lucky Number: 5 If experience makes one prudent in worldly matters, then this can herald a time when lessons are learnt, criticisms are embraced and lofty ideas are turned into solidly based decisions. Anything started now is bound to be carried out to its conclusive end. Also, mature and older individuals can be a source of great inspiration and wisdom, so make no hesitation in asking for their advice in any given situation. Libra: Sep 23rd - Oct 22nd Ruled by Venus Gemstone: Diamond Lucky Day: Friday Lucky Number: 6 In need of a well deserved break, plenty of thought can be placed on the world at large and what it has to offer. Travel can be the ideal way to broadens one's horizons and provide ample opportunity to explore new places and people. Have no hesitation in either jumping on to the next airplane or even making plans for a future trip. Explore undiscovered locations and new cultures. Scorpio: Oct 23rd – Nov 21st Ruled by Mars and Pluto Gemstone: Red Coral Lucky Day: Tuesday Lucky Number: 9 A period for bringing recent endeavors to a climax and reaping the rewards - as long as everything has gone according to plan - there is nothing to stand in the way of a successful conclusion. However, avoid feeling smug or arrogant because this can put others off, especially authority figures. Instead of supporting your accomplishments, they can work to hamper them the world at large judges past efforts. Sagittarius: Nov 22nd - Dec 21st Ruled by Jupiter Gemstone: Yellow Sapphire Lucky Day: Thursday Lucky Number: 3 With great focus placed on everyday tasks and daily work, there is a need to evaluate the purpose of each 32 and every undertaking. The aim is to be efficient in what you do and to eliminate previous routines that are unhealthy and not in one's best interests. Whether that be in changing one's diet or employing new cleaning methods that make life easier in the kitchen. Capricorn: Dec 22nd - Jan 19th Ruled by Saturn Gemstone: Blue Sapphire Lucky Day: Saturday Lucky Number: 8 A love interest can be the source of great conflict and aggressive outbursts, especially if recent relations have been strained and unsatisfactory. Rather than waste futile energy on bickering, spend time by being honest about what the reality is. A renewed sense of togetherness can be achieved followed by plenty of passionate and intimate moments. Singles can have great luck in being with whom they set their hearts on. Aquarius: Jan 20th - Feb 18th Ruled by Saturn and Uranus Gemstone: Blue Sapphire Lucky Day: Saturday Lucky Number: 8 With aroused idealism and a vivid imagination, there is plenty of inspiration in the kind of things that you desire to achieve. Use this opportunity to reflect upon and dream about endless possibilities of what could be, for it is through this inner pondering that new ideas take form. Intuition and psychic insights are also strong - use them wisely to guide in decisions and visualize where you are headed in life. Pisces: Feb 19th - Mar 19th Ruled by Jupiter & Neptune Gemstone: Yellow Sapphire Lucky Day: Thursday Lucky Number: 3 Past memories and childhood moments can bring back poignant feelings to the surface, highlighting the need for examining their effect on one's current adult life. Rather than being fearful, take a more pragmatic approach to the situation - realize that it is by understanding one's past that one can help oneself. Also, this can be a period when people and situations of the past come asking for a final resolution. Nicolas Aujula is an accredited astrologer with the New Age Foundation. He is also a Hypnotherapist, Past Life Regressionist and Metaphysical Healer. Visit Nicolas Aujula at www.inspired-artisan.com. www.citymasala.com May 2008