September - First City Network
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September - First City Network
NETWORK NEWS V OLUM E 2 5 ISSUE 11 - AUGUST 2 0 11 THE C O A S T A L E M P I R E LGBT C O M M U N I T Y N E W S A F I R S T CI T Y N E T W OR K P R O D U C T I O N FCN Board Elections - p.6 Board Bio’s South Georgia - p.7-9 Pride - p.12 Braves Game to benefit Georgia Equality - p13 Savannah GLBT Film Fest News - p.16 Emory Launching ManHunt-Like Site - p.23 Election 2012 - p25 First City Network invites and welcomes everyone without regard to ability, age, ancestry, beliefs, class, gender, race, sexual orientation or identity. NETWORK NEWS THE FINE PRINT First City Network, Inc. is a local, private, non-profit community service organization charted in 1985 by concerned citizens seeking a gay and lesbian positive community. First City Network serves as a forum to share strengths and ideas, stimulate personal growth and provide so cial activities. We provide national, state and local information and referral services for health care, counseling, education, advocacy and mutual support. We hope you share our pride in 22 years of publication of the Network News. Production costs are borne by subscribers, advertisers and donors. NETWORK NEWS - Production Staff Comments or opinions in the Network News may not reflect the policies of FCN, its members or board of directors. FCN policy safeguards the privacy and confidentiality of all members. Mailing lists and inquiry calls are always confidential. Editor-In-Chief Contributors Billing Ad Manager Distribution Photography Travis Sawyer The Community Hank Reineking Travis Sawyer Hank Reineking The Community FIRST CITY NETWORK - Board Officers Co-Chair Co-Chair Treasurer Secretary Nicole Oretsky Candace Hardnett Hank Reineking Travis Sawyer FCN BOARD OF DIRECTORS Bobby Jeffery Kevin Clark Marsha Ipsen Will Bellais Roger S. SATURDAY UPCOMING SOCIAL EVENTS Hosted By: David Pibel September 3rd 7:30 - 10:00 Phone - 912-234-2898 902 East Henry Street Savannah, GA More information on Page 5 Hosted By: Georgia Equality First City Network and Savannah Pride The Enchanted Harvest Weekend Event November 5th-6th The Network News is a product of First City Network, which does not discriminate because of ability, age, ancestry, beliefs, class, gender, race or sexual orientation. All written material (excluding Gay Guide) will use only first names, unless members authorize in writing the use of full names. FCN endorses and supports the use of full names, but realizes that some members need to safeguard their privacy. FCN respects that right. Submissions to the Network News become the property of FCN. A writer’s name and telephone number must accompany submissions, but pseudonyms may be used if requested. FCN does not buy submitted material, and has no obligation to use or return submissions. Material accepted may be edited. You are welcome to copy all or part of this issue to share with others. We encourage other organizations and publications to reproduce articles of interest. Please credit Network News, Savannah, Georgia. FCN Network News P.O. Box 2442 Savannah, Georgia 31402-2442 [email protected] All submissions become the property of FCN and your name will NOT be printed unless we are given written permission. The editor reserves the right to decide what is suitable for publishing. Please note that the deadline for submission is the 20th of each month, Thank you. More information on Page 5 NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 3 the SAVANNAH GAY GUIDE SUPPORT GAY-FRIENDLY BUSINESS - TELL THEM YOU FOUND THEM IN THE FCN NETWORK NEWS BOOKS & VIDEOS Home Run Video & News 4 East Liberty St (912) 236-5192 CEREMONIES Ceremonies Plus – Teri Joseph (912) 667-3119 [email protected] COLLEGE ORGANIZATIONS AASU Gay Straight Alliance Apple PH 706-910-6426 [email protected] Georgia Southern University Gay Straight Alliance Contact Person: Laura Cahill 912-531-8326 [email protected] Savannah College of Art & Design Queer & Allies (Q&A) (912) 525-6729 Krista Haberson (Faculty) [email protected] Colleen Mattis (VP of Q&A) [email protected] COUNSELING & PSYCHOTHERAPY Ellen Farrell LPC, EEMCP Holistic Psychotherapy 6203 Abercorn St. #108 (912) 247-4263, www.ellenfarrell.com Karen Abato ATR-BC, LCAT Art Pyschotherapist - 912-220-0071 Braswell Gamble, LPC 23 East 38th St. (912) 231-8429 Sarah Holmes, Ph.D. 23 East 38th St. (912) 233-7304 Duke Miles, LCSW Psychotherapy 23 E 38th St.. (912) 233-1312 Nancy Wallace, LCSW 23 East 38th St. (912) 447-0230 Martha Womack, PhD. Psychologist. 23 East 38th St. (912) 447-5660 / fax (912) 447-5661 FINANCIAL SERVICES Brouillette & Cowan 1 Oglethorpe Pro Bldg, Ste 102 (912) 354-2262 Dawn Phaneuf (912) 398-2800 [email protected] Mitchell Bush 340 Eisenhower Dr. 300 Ste A (912) 356-0266 ext. 106 FUNERAL SERVICES Adams Funeral Services 510 Stephenson Ave. (912) 354-6260 (912) 354-6261 GOURMET FOOD & MORE Brighter Day Natural Foods Organic foods, books, herbs, health supplies, etc. 1102 Bull St., (912) 236-4703 Thrive Carryout Cafe 4700 Highway 80 E Whitemarsh (912) 898-2131 HAIR SALONS Designs 804 Salon. 210 East Park Ave. (912) 201-0070 Christopher’s Hair Salon 529 E Gordon St. (912) 234-7070 HEALTH/HUMAN SERVICES Assisted Recovery Center of Ga. 7722 Waters Ave (912) 352-2425 or (888) 570-6391 My Brothaz Home Inc. HIV/AIDS support services for Everyone 2111 Price St. (912) 231-8727 / fax (912) 231-8730 Stand Out Youth Every Friday at 7 pm 307 East Harris St. (912) 657-1966 HIV Services. Chatham CARE Center 107 B Fahm St. (912) 651-2253 INSURANCE AGENCY Bush Insurance Agency. 340 Eisenhower Dr. Bldg 300 Ste A (912) 356-0266. INTERIOR DESIGN Free legal services to HIV+ who meet income guides. 10 Whitaker St. (912)651-2180 HOME REPAIR/CLEANING Timothy Burkett Interiors (912) 236-6500 Advice Guys Web/Business Services (912) 228-3612 - adviceguys.us LEGAL SERVICES Robert W. Bush. P.O. Box 8432. (912) 651-2180 ~ (912) 231-9906. Georgia Legal Services Bill Broker 6602 Abercorn Street (912) 651-2180. LODGING Brunswick Manor 825 Egmont Street Brunswick, GA 31520 (912) 265-6889 NIGHTLIFE Blaine’s Backdoor Bar 13 E. Perry Ln. (912) 233-6765 Chuck’s Bar 301 West River St. (912) 232-1005. Club One Jefferson (Home of The Lady Chablis) 1 Jefferson St. (912) 232-0200 TailsSpin 4501 Habersham St. (912) 691-8788 TailsSpin.com PHYSICAL THERAPY Phoenix Holistic Center 1138 B East 72nd St. (912) 660-3031 I’m Fixin Too ! LLC (912) 398-2800 Free Estimates. Call Today! Skidaway Family Chiropractic Center. 5704 Skidaway Rd. (912) 356-5886. Summit Pest Control Once a year Pest Control (912)351-0979 Small World Therapeutic Massage Brantley Moate NCTM, NMT, CMT, LMT Whitemarsh Island - next to Jalapenos (912) 897-7979 Sparkling House Cleaning Asian Style (912) 257 6587 4 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net PRINTING/DESIGN/PHOTO Creative Approach 306 Jefferson Street acreativeapproach.com (912)233-8300 II Davy LLC Home Repair Service (912) 303-0363 HOME REPAIR/CLEANING CONT. Savannah Pride Inc. savannahgapride.org Brian Clyatt - Island Interiors 8114 Waters Avenue (912) 352-8005 Hospice Savannah Inc. Homecare and Hospice House; grief support services. OUTDOORS 1352 Eisenhower Dr. Roys Hideaway (912) 355-2289 (912)225-3900 royshideaway.com Union Mission Phoenix Project. HIV housing and support. PET SERVICES 120 Fahm St. Save-A-Life (912) 231-0123 Julie - (912) 354-7357 HIV/AIDS LEGAL PROJECT PRIDE ORGANIZATIONS POLITICAL ORGANIZATIONS Georgia Equality Savannah Chapter 106 W. 38th St. (912) 944-0996 CLASSIFIEDS and EVENTS G A Y G U I D E C O N T I N U E D . . . FREE - EMAIL [email protected] FOR PLACEMENT BEFORE THE 20TH OF EACH MONTH INTEGRITY AT ST. PAUL’S 7 PM, Third Tuesday of every month, St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 34th & Abercorn (Contact: Richard Gourley, Phone - 912-713-5546) GAY MEN’S HEART CIRCLE 7 PM, Second Tuesday of every month, Los Robles, 101 East 34th Street (Contact: Richard Gourley, Phone - 912-713-5546) SATURDAY UPCOMING SOCIAL EVENTS Hosted By: David Pibel September 3rd 7:30 - 10:00 Phone - 912-234-2898 902 East Henry Street Savannah, GA One Horse Photography Onehorsephotography.com REAL ESTATE & MORTGAGE David’s spacious home is idea for an FCN Social. The house was built in the early part of the 20th Century. David has hosted socials in the past. He is well known for his sculpture and featured in national art books and journals. His carvings will be on display. David creates miniature figures that will surprise and delight. Austin Hill Realty 7505 Waters Avenue, Suite B-7 912-354-2100 Coastal Real Estate Group Roy Hill & John Giles 315 E Liberty St. (912) 233-5900 Hosted By: Georgia Equality First City Network and Savannah Pride The Enchanted Harvest Weekend Event November 5th-6th 5th - Garden Tour The Enchated Harvest “Fall Formal” RMG Civil Rights Museum 6th - More info to come... Donald Callahan Keller Williams Realty (912) 441-4416 Ron Melander Keller Williams Realty (912) 441-7124 RESTAURANTS Wright Square Café 21 West York St. (912) 238-1150 LOCAL WEBSITES Gaysavannah.com [email protected] WORSHIP SERVICES Agape Empowerment Ministries 703D Louisville Road agapeempowerment.org Asbury Memorial UMC 1008 East Henry St. (912) 233-4351 St. Luke’s Lutheran Church 2716 Mechanics Ave. (912) 354-6815 St. Paul’s Episcopal Church 34th and Abercorn - Savannah (912) 232-0274 Unitarian Universalist Church 313 E Harris St (912) 234-0980 Unity Church of Savannah 2320 Sunset Blvd. (912) 355-4704 Unitarian Universalist of Statesboro 609 East Grady Street (912) 489-8338 FIRST CITY NETWORK Board Meetings Open to the Public First Tuesday of Every Month 6:30pm 307 East Harris St. - Second Floor Come One Come All STAND OUT YOUTH The Board is currently discussing a New Schedule for Meetings. 307 East Harris St. - Second Floor SAVANNAH PRIDE Board Meetings Open to the Public Second Tuesday of the month 7:00 pm 307 E Harris St. - Second Floor Come One Come All GAY VOLLEYBALL We are playing Volleyball again for the Summer season. Sundays at Daffin Park near the Water St. side. ~ 2:00pm till 5:00 pm Everyone is welcome to play so please join us. It’s Never Too Darn Hot For A Social By. Billy Wooten There are many FCN members and supporters who have wondered if they could host the First Saturday Social; would anyone come, is the house big enough, will the food run out? Afterall, it’s just the longest running GLBT monthly event in Georgia. First time host Brian had those questions answered when he opened his spaceous southside Savannah home for the August 6th event. More than 120 of our “family” enjoyed the warm weather and even warmer hospitality, the jello shots, the selection of snacks and deserts, plus the wonderful fellowship and networking. Several of the attendees were first-timers while others were back for the second or third time; once newcomers discover the Social it’s hard to keep them away! In attendance was Jeff Felser, a candidate for Mayor of The Hostess City, who was busy speaking to as many of the attendees as possible. A number of the candidates for the upcoming FCN board election were also present, handshaking and hugging while encouraging members to be more active in the organization. You, like Brian, can also be a highly successful first-time host of the Social. Contact Will or any member of the FCN board and sign up. Get involved. FIRST CITY NETWORK MEMBERSHIP & SUBSCRIPTION Mail your completed form with payment to: First City Network PO Box 2442 Savannah, GA 31402-2442 $100 Corporate - $40 Family/Couple $25 Individual - $10 Student w/ ID You can also become a member online at: firstcitynetwork.net Join today and Find a Whole “Family” Waiting to meet you... Monthly Socials, Newsletter Delivered to your door and a way to meet people to form lasting bonds with. What are you waiting for? Name Address City, St, Zip E-mail Phone NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 5 R O F E M I T S ’ IT N C FB O A R D T h i s month we will elect a new Board of Directors that will lead and guide Georgia’s oldest GLBT organization for the next twelve months. ELE S N O I T C FCN, a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit, has been run successfully by volunteers like you for more than 25 years! SERVICE TO THE GLBT COMMMUNITY IS EXCITING, REWARDING, AND FUN! ~ ONCE ON THE BOARD, THE REQUIREMENTS INCLUDE: attending the monthly board meeting on the first Tuesday night of each month - attending the monthly FCN Social volunteering on one of several committees - assistance with the newsletter - assistance with the annual oyster roast and other fund raising events - represent FCN with our partners, some of whom are: StandOut Youth, PRIDE, and Georgia Equality - possibly serve as one of four officers IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT THE UPCOMING ELECTION: Ballots will be mailed with the September newsletter. Only members in good standing are eligible to vote. Each member will receive one ballot. All returned ballots must be postmarked by September 20th. The new board will be installed at the board meeting on October 4th, 2010. PLEASE REMEMBER THAT IN ORDER TO RUN FOR THE BOARD YOU MUST BE A MEMBER IN GOOD STANDING OF FCN. PLEASE ENJOY THE BIO’s IN THE FOLLOWING PAGES AND REMEMBER TO VOTE FOR WHO YOU WANT TO BE OUR NEXT BOARD OF DIRECTORS. FCN RESERVES THE RIGHT TO REFUSE MEMBERSHIP TO ANY PERSONS. 6 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net And the Candidates are... Pastor Candice Hardnett | Co-chair (incumbent) Candace E. Hardnett is a local pastor and activist. Candace served her country as a United States Marine directly following 9/11. The wisdom, experience, and discipline that she gained from the Corps carries forward into every facet of her life. She and her partner founded Agape Empowerment Ministries in 2009 and she serves as the Senior Pastor. Candace is a sought after orator and has helped to plan and organize several rallies and marches in Savannah. She and her partner Erika own their own online business, Me and HCG. Candace is an avid runner and health enthusiast. She holds a B.S. in Religion from Liberty University and is currently pursuing her MDiv from her Alma Mater. She currently serves as Co-chair of First City Network and looks forward to serving on the board again if re-elected. Nicole Oretsky | Co-chair (incumbent) Nicole is the current President of FCN, stepping into the role when former President Carolyn Bowden resigned and moved. She is delighted to seek a second term on the board and to again serve the FCN membership. She wants to continue making a contribution to the goals of our community. This service fits neatly within her assemblage of interests and work in community development and education. She moved to Savannah from New York City in 2008 to work as an Assistant Professor of Urban Studies and Planning at Savannah State University. She is grateful to all in the FCN community for welcoming her into the local LGBT family. Hank Reineking | Treasurer (incumbent) I grew up in a small town in Northern New Jersey. After college and a few jobs, then several years of operating and owning an Insurance Agency, I moved to Sleepy Hollow, NY after meeting and moving in with my partner of 31 years. I spent my life working in the insurance industry managing a large department. When we retired, Rich & I moved to Savannah in 2001, and found the Saturday night socials a great place to meet new people. Around 2005 we became involved with stuffing and mailing the FCN newsletter. With the 2009-2010 elections for the First city Network Board, I found myself voted on as a write-in. In May of 2010 I took over the job as Treasurer and have continued in that position. I was re-elected for the 20102011 term and look forward to serving the GLBT community again if reelected. Travis Sawyer | Secretary | Editor FCN Network News (incumbent) Born and raised in a small town in South Carolina he came to Savannah to pursue a degree in Graphic Design. Once here he fell in love with Savannah and the charm that this city had to offer as well as the GLBT Community. While in college Travis became an active Board Member for Savannah Pride from 2003-2007 he held many titles such as PR Marketing, Treasurer, Secretary, Fundraising and Sponsorships. Before graduating from SCAD he opened his own design and printing firm in Downtown Savannah called Creative Approach, which was recently voted, by the Readers of Savannah Morning News, one of the top Three Printers in Savannah. Currently he is the Editor and Chief of the FCN Network News and Secretary for FCN. He looks forward to working with other GLBT organizations and seeing the Savannah Unite Chapter grow. NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 7 And the Candidates are... Paul Melnykowski Born in Cleveland, Ohio and grew up between there and Detroit, Michigan, After enlisting in the U.S. Army in 2001 he relocated to Ft. Stewart, Ga and spent the next 4 years in the Savannah area serving his country with a few deployments along the way. During Paul’s 4 years he had grown to love the city of Savannah and made a family away from family here. Afterfull-filling his enlistment and being honorably discharged Paul couldn’t leave his new home Recently, Paul decided to leave his current career path to follow his passion, and continue his education in the fields of architecture and interior design. He will be attending the SCAD this September. Paul also seeks to utilize his free time to get more involved within the community. He feels his leadership skills paired with his ability to follow through with tasks and/or goals in a well organized fashion as well as his contagious personality would be a great fit for the First Will Bellais | Board Member | Socials Organization (incumbent) Came to Savannah in 2001 and became an active participant in FCN affairs. From Washington, D.C., I was a 20-year member of the Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington, an officer in the Gay and Married Men’s Association (GAMMA). Retired as a Professor of Theatre at Montgomery College, Rockville, MD, and an active member of the Screen Actors Guild and the American Federation of Television and Radio Artists. I have been trained as a Sacred Intimate at the Wildwood (Body Electric) program in California. Joined the FCN Board last year and was appointed chair of the Monthly Social Events. I believe that GLBT people must be heard by the “establishment” here in Savannah. I believe that gay men and lesbians have a mission in this society and that mission is to create a society that has a social conscience. Carl and I were married December 19, 2009 at the Unitarian Universalist church of Savannah. And the Candidates are... Marsha Ipsen | Board Member | FCN Newsletter Chair (incumbent) I am a current member of the FCN Board of Directors. I happen to be transgender and have been married to my wife Jollie for 33 years. I am the owner of a pest control company here in Savannah and have been in business on my own for 18 years. Every month I am learning more and more about the Savannah LGBT community and meeting new members of our community at the socials. FCN is an LGBT social organization and that is what I would like to work towards preserving and enhancing. There are many other fine LGBT organizations in our community doing good things, however, FCN is the social fabric that keeps us together; uniting us, celebrating relationships, maybe creating others, and above all, bringing us together on a regular basis and giving everyone the real feeling of being part of our community. Roger S. | Board Member (incumbent) I have lived my life in the Southeast United States and lived in Savannah since 2007. I currently serve on the FCN Board. Working on the Fund Raising Committee, Community Outreach Committee. The Oyster Roast and silent auction have been my biggest effort for FCN, this year. I am working to build ties with the other organizations of our Community. I have served on numerous Non-profits. I am a member of the Chatham County Democratic Committee. I previously served on the Board of a North Carolina based Credit Union and a Domestic Violence Tranisitional Program Non-Profit Board. I also served on the Disaster Preparedness Committee of Holden Beach, NC. My hope is that next year we will have greater success with the Oyester Roast and lay the ground work for a Community Center. Kevin Clark | Board Member (incumbent) Mr. Clark was elected to the Board of Directors of FCN in 1997. Elected Co-Chairman of FCN in 1998 until 2002. He was elected to the Board of Directors of Georgia Equality Project in 1998 and formed the Savannah Chapter of GEP. Bobby Jeffery | Board Member (incumbent) Originally from Syracuse NY, however I consider myself a southern since I’ve been in Savannah from a very young age. I was raised Catholic and come from a half Irish half Italian family. Coming out as a teenager was very challenging. Kevin opened “Under the Rainbow” inn after 3 1/2 years of extensive restoration. His home now serves as a meeting place for many local organizations. In my late 20’s, I co founded Savannah Pride (SP!) with Carol Riles, a former FCN Board member. With the blessing of First City Network, we form the Savannah Pride Committee in 2000. During my six years on SP! I held various positions including Executive Director for the majority of the time. Under my management Pride became the second largest pride in Georgia. In 2004 SP! was honored to host Interpride Region Four Conference called P.O.S.EPrides of the Southeast. The POSE conference to date is the largest LGBT conference ever held in Savannah. Acting in the capacity of FCN Co-Chair and Director of Georgia Equality Savannah, Mr. Clark led the efforts that convinced Savannah City Manager, Michael Brown, to include “sexual orientation” in Savannah’s non-distrimination law in 2002. Mr. Clark led lobbying efforts to persuade this new Council to unanimously approve an official Resolution opposing SR 595, Georgia’s proposed Constitutional Amendment banning samesex marriage on March 18, 2004. If the members of FCN so choose to re-elect me to the board, I promise to bring my abilities and knowledge to help foster a positive relationship between the LGBT community. Our community has splintered off in many directions and we all need to come together. Georgia Equality Savannah led the fight against hate and violence in Spring 2006 when a series of hate crimes occurred in Savannah. As a result, City Council unanimously adopted the “Equality Resolution” on January 4, 2007. New Police Chief Michael Berkow appointed Star Corporal Trace Walden as GLBT Liaison to the Savannah-Chatham Metropolitan Police. Mr. Clark ran as a candidate for Georgia State Senate District 2 in the 2008 Democratic Primary election - the first openly gay candidate to seek a State Senate Seat in Georgia. Afterwards, he led lobbying efforts to persuade Savannah City Council to unanimously adopt Domestic Partner benefits for City employees on October 7, 2010. This first-ever pro-gay policy initiative made Savannah the 6th city in Georgia to offer these benefits. 8 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net Are you interested in being on the FCN Board... All that is required is for you to be a FCN Member in good Standing. Email your bio and picture to [email protected] and get published in next months issue before the voting commences... NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 9 Friday, September 9th 7-10pm Hosted by Spyke and Pixies Salon 2405 Bull Street | Savannah, Georgia *Starland District Music, Light Hors’Doeuvres and a Cash Bar Admission is ten dollars Sponsored by Spyke and Pixies Salon and hosted by First City Network. Learn more by visiting Savannah Pride online ~ savpride.com South Georgia PRIDE By. Raynae’ Williams Health Mate By. Ron Blake South Georgia Pride will be celebrating its 4th Pride Festival this September 17, 2011 in Valdosta, Georgia. This year’s event will be held at the John W. Saunders Park at 1151 River St, Valdosta, GA from 12pm-6pm. Your favorite subject in school was probably not math unless you had the sizzling hot teacher who taught you how to properly use your protractor. Most of us weren’t living in that Van Halen video world so we hated the subject. I’ve got breaking news that will have you loving math and using it to get you healthy too. It’s all simple numbers about the food and drinks you put into your body every day. Turn on your Texas Instruments and let’s begin! This year’s event has made a place in the city of Valdosta, Georgia’s History. Our Mayor John J. Fretti signed a Proclamation that proclaimed September 17, 2011 as “South Georgia Pride Day”. We are all so very excited to be involved in an organization that is changing peoples hearts and minds about how they perceive Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender citizens! The Valdosta State University’s Gay Straight Alliance Students started South Georgia Pride, in 2008. The first event was celebrated as “Diversity Day” on the VSU front lawn in 2008. The following event was also held at VSU in 2009. Richard Willis and several other students recognized that in order for this organization to grow it needed to come off the University campus and be a stand-alone group. So, with a dream of bringing the entire community together, Richard went about getting the incorporation of South Georgia Pride. That was accomplished in August of 2009. The year 2010 was the biggest event to date of the organizations’ history. We had 30 vendors, Elke Kennedy, The Kym Berry Band, TNT Entertainment from Jacksonville, FL, and around 400 attendees that day in September. The dream had turned into a reality. With our Rainbow Flag flying high from the flagpole, we let Valdosta, Georgia know that their LGBT citizens were celebrating Diversity that day! So once again in 2011, we will be celebrating on the third Saturday of September. The LGBT citizens of Valdosta and surrounding South Georgia counties will gather with their family and friends and take a stand against bullying and anti gay crimes. The celebration will kick off with the first ever “Pride Pet Show” at 2pm. Your pet can show its Pride colors in the Best Costume Category! During the day come get some Fried Oreos, BBQ, and other good things to eat! Talk with the different vendors that have gathered for the day at Pride. Kings and Queens will grace our stage and also local artists Jennifer Anders and Drew Kelly. The band Mercury Heat will headline that night, and Elke Kennedy will do the closing ceremonies and share her personal story of how a hate crime changed her life. The word has gotten out in Valdosta and the local businesses are supporting their LGBT community. We now have applied for our 501(c) 3 status and that has made a big difference in our growth. We anticipate bigger sponsors for the following years and with that our dreams will be a reality for our community. To learn more about South Georgia Pride, Inc please visit our website www. southgapride.org and you can find us on Facebook. 12 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net The average can of soda is 150 calories. That’s not a lot of calories until you start building a pyramid with all your empty cans and realize those ancient Egyptian architects had nothing on you. A can a day over a year will earn you just under 55,000 calories. That equates to about 16 pounds of persona non grata. Switch to diet sodas or just grab some water instead. Braves Game to Benefit Georgia Equality By. Dennette Thornton In an effort to raise awareness of homophobia, the Braves are hosting an “Out in the Stands” night to help raise money for our safe schools work. This decision came about after an antigay rant by the Braves pitching coach; the subsequent fallout from that incident was very public and widely condemned, spurring conversations with the team about how they could change. After ongoing dicussions they decided to use their resources to help fund Georgia Equality and the safe schools work that we are engaged in. A portion of proceeds from ticket sales purchased on the “Out in the Stands” night September 13th will go directly to Georgia Equality and our safe schools work. Tickets must be purchased through Dennette Thornton in order to go toward the benefit. Enjoy a night out at the ballgame and help combat bullying at the same time! The average serving of potato chips is usually about 150 calories too. That should seemingly be OK because you don’t gobble up chips every day. You reserve this type of fun for those moments when you get home from work and sometimes just want a little snack to tide you over. You plop into your easy chair and get your daily DVR dose of the “A List New York” while inhaling “not one, but two” servings of those tasty treats. Twice a week over a year nets you about 31,000 calories and 9 pounds of extra you. Grab an apple instead for your viewing of those catty gay housewives. Meow! Monday mornings are special and require additional ammunition to get past the gates of grumpiness and sentinels of sadism. A delicious grande caramel frappuccino from ye olde corner coffee shop gives you the credentials to enter the work force gallantly each new week. You’re awake after this jolt so you’ll now understand that this comes with a price tag. Fifty-two weeks of liquid jumper cables at 350 calories per dose amounts to 18,200 calories after I properly carry over my numbers in my dutiful calculations. Your weekly introductions can just start with a good night’s sleep on Sundays to have you ready for reveille. Those Jared commercials have you excited and standing in line at Subway several times a week during lunch time. You follow the signs pointing you toward 6 grams of fat per six inch sub. Dawn is your sandwich artist par excellence and knows you love your cheese and want double slices on your ham subs. Get ready to interrupt Dawn when she makes your “usual” next noon hour. Those four slices of Wisconsin’s finest equal 200 calories and are culpable of creating 31,000 calories over 12 months when consumed three times per week. That is 9 pounds of laughing cows on your belly. Skip the Swiss! Math can be fun when it can help you! And this really was an easy lesson to understand. A little addition and multiplication can help you see your frequent follies. Now get back to using arithmetic and start some subtraction from now on; it’s time to see math help you create a whole new you! A-A MEETS EVERY SUNDAY & WEDNESDAY FROM 7:30PM TO 8:30 PM 307 E Harris Street NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 13 DIRECTED BY CASEY COLGAN SEPTEMBER 28 - OCTOBER 23, 2011 At the forefront of Dreamgirls – the spunky, flashy and infectious Broadway smash that still has audiences singing its tunes – are the backstage stories of the popular Dreams, the hottest girl group in the 1960s and ‘70s. Winner of six Tony Awards and two Grammys, Dreamgirls is the immensely popular look at the making of musical superstars. Featuring the hits “One Night Only,” “I Am Changing” and the powerful “And I Am Telling You I’m Not Going.” SAVE $ 45 The Drowsy Chaperone ... Dec. 7 – 31 ... Inventive, fast-paced and delirious, Chaperone is a hilarious show-within-a-show about a Broadway fanatic in love with a 1928 smash hit called The Drowsy Chaperone. 6 Tonys! Lend Me A Tenor ... Feb. 7 – 26 ... The leading man – the greatest tenor in the world – has gone missing in this fast-paced, hijinks-fueled, uproariously funny farce full of mishaps, miscues and mistaken identities. 2 Tonys! How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying April 25 – May 27 ... Fresh off a smash-hit, Tony-winning Broadway revival, don’t miss the proverbial mad men tackle 1960s corporate America. 10 Tonys! Shout! The Mod Musical ... June 19 – July 29 ... Travel through the music of the 60s in a show that brings back the sounds that made England swing. THERE ARE THREE WAYS TO SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE! Full-Season Preview Plan $199 ($224 value) Full-Season Plan $224 ($249 value) Flex Plan $240 ($265 value) PLUS Save $15 in other performances! Appeals court upholds transgender inmates’ right to medical care SGLFS NEWS By. Deb Riney Film Society & Telfair Museums Partner to Present LGBT Films The Savannah Gay & Lesbian Film Society and the Telfair Museums have partnered to present year round LGBT cinema at Telfair’s Jepson Center, beginning October 14-15. The inaugural October opening coincides with the SGLFS International LGBT Film Festival. We have featured films at the Jepson previously but this partnership joins Telfair Museums, who has for 125 years, offered compelling expressions of visual culture connecting people of all ages and backgrounds with SGLFS mission to organize and manage year-round cinema that supports and strengthens lesbian, gay, bi-sexual and transgender visibility through media arts. Benefits of the partnership include means to help hold our costs down and the potential to expand our audience numbers. The Film Society’s events will now be publicized to Telfair’s 2000+ members and hopefully, our audience size will increase and not rest precariously on LGBT attendance which has been inconsistent. Reflections and Plans Our first two years of film screenings were well attended and sustained by the LGBT community. However, the 2010 Festival and December series film was poorly attended and did not cover costs which triggered the SGLFS Board and membership to carefully consider causes or reasons and to assess how to proceed, or even if we should proceed. Series films were put on what was hoped to be a temporary hold in order to budget for another Festival. Possible causes were examined and discussed by the SGLFS members (in no particular order): the economy; advertising rates and ad placement in a timely manner, the size of our LGBT community in regards to an audience pool; our venue and its costs; film selection and fees; and scheduling. Consensus was that our community tries to work with one another in promoting each others events but they are not givens and perhaps we need to look at other means in getting word out regarding our film events and explore other areas we might derive benefits from in order to continue. It was noted that our film events have received good coverage by the general media sources in Savannah. Both the Savannah Morning News and Connect publications have consistently publicized our film events with numerous feature articles having appeared in both publications and we even got a little TV coverage in the past at WTOC. Our film selections, costs and scheduling are enmeshed. We strive to get the best of the best in current LGBT cinema, many of which have won filmmaking or audience awards. While some films are simply out of our price range some become 16 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net Courtesy of SGLDN.com more accessible price-wise following the festival runs and become one of our quarterly films. From day one we have maintained that we do not seek to please nor cannot please everyone with every film. We do try to offer variety hoping to deliver fun and thought-provoking films from around the globe that document and celebrate LGBT lives. Mid-October timing for our Festival did not seem an issue on any level and was even regarded as a plus factor. The U.S. Court of Appeals for the Seventh Circuit today upheld the right of transgender people to receive medical care while they are incarcerated. Other venues have been considered and remain open to consideration but our Jepson venue, in addition to helping hold our costs down, presents the opportunity to expand our audiences into the arts community which is a good fit for the caliber of cinema we bring to Savannah. Past levels of sponsorship, advertising and sole LGBT audience attendance is not enough to sustain us and needs to increase. The venue cost and size, film rental fees, sponsor and ad revenues all directly relate to pricing our admission tickets. If the admission price is high it will impact attendance. We work on keeping admission prices as low as possible. “This was a discriminatory law that cruelly singled out transgender people by denying them - and only them - the medical care they need,” said John Knight, senior staff attorney with the ACLU Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Project. This year’s Film Festival has gone back to a two day event offering three feature length films and a shorts program screening Friday evening and Saturday afternoon. To do Saturday matinees with a Saturday night screening it was felt that most people would not want to sit all day and then go back in the evening for another film so we kept the tradition of a Friday opening film night with Saturday matinees in hopes of more overall attendance. We will conduct a survey at this year’s Festival to help gauge planning for 2012’s Festival. We plan to resume quarterly film screenings pending a successful Festival and hope to offer some free public films this year and to present some university campus studentrelated screenings. If you value having LGBT films screen in Savannah we ask for your support as a SGLFS member, donor, advertiser, or attendee at the October 14-15 Film Festival. Tickets go on sale September 30th. For more information go to: www.sglfs. com. Thank you! R O F E M I IT’S T N C FB O A R D E N O I T C LE S The American Civil Liberties Union, the ACLU of Wisconsin and Lambda Legal had challenged a Wisconsin law that prohibited prison doctors from prescribing hormone treatment or sex reassignment surgery to transgender inmates. “Too often the medical needs of transgender persons are not treated as the serious health issues that they are. We are glad that the appeals court has found that medical professionals, not the Wisconsin legislature, should make medical decisions for inmates.” Mara Keisling, executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equality, applauded the court ruling. “This court ruling signifies the fast growing acceptance of transgender people, including those who are incarcerated. The court upholds access to medically necessary care for transgender people. And they’ve done this to address both the distressing safety conditions of transgender inmates, and the need to honor the private health decisions between doctors and patients. We needed this court ruling, and more importantly, we need other public services to follow suit,” Keisling said. A national survey called Injustice At Every Turn, released with the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, found that 12% of transgender people incarcerated were denied routine health care. Another 17% were denied medically necessary hormones. Denying transgender inmates the care recommended by medical professionals is a psychological and physical danger, which, as the court says, “amounts to torture.” The appeals court wrote: “Surely, had the Wisconsin legislature passed a law that DOC inmates with cancer must be treated only with therapy and pain killers, this court would have no trouble concluding that the law was unconstitutional. Refusing to provide effective treatment for a serious medical condition serves no valid penological purpose and amounts to torture.” In 2005, the state of Wisconsin passed a law that barred prison doctors from providing transgender inmates medically necessary hormone therapy or sex reassignment surgery while in state custody. The ACLU, the ACLU of Wisconsin and Lambda Legal sued the state on behalf of transgender inmates, some of whom had been receiving hormone treatment in Wisconsin prisons for years. An injunction was granted to continue hormone treatment until a ruling was made. In April 2010, after a full trial, a federal district court struck down the so-called “Inmate Sex Change Prevention Act.” “The court correctly ruled that denying prisoners medical treatment constitutes cruel and unusual punishment,” said Dru Levasseur, Lambda Legal’s transgender rights attorney. “The medical needs of transgender people don’t disappear once they enter prison. We’re glad that the court has ruled that the legislature cannot outlaw the only effective treatment for some people with Gender Identity Disorder.” “This decision should make it abundantly clear that it is unconstitutional to deny transgender inmates hormone therapy and sex reassignment surgery absent a medical basis for doing so,” said Larry Dupuis, legal director of the ACLU of Wisconsin. NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 17 brouillette & cowan Wealth Managers Tax Professionals At Brouillette & Cowan, we help provide clarity, confidence and personalized financial solutions to the clients we serve, with the goal of creating and preserving wealth while maximizing tax savings. Marianne K. Brouillette, EA C. Jason Cowan, CPA ® Financial Advisors Want to contribute to the Network News... please email you articles or advertisements to [email protected]. Remember the deadline is the 20th of each month!! Telephone 912.354.2262 Fax 912.354.3165 Securities www.BCSavannah.com Being Gay Doesn’t Mean Being A Leftist By. Jessica Lee “It is quite a shock at the age of five or six to find that in a world of Gary Coopers you are the Indian.” —James Baldwin I have always held the above words dear to my heart. At a very young age I stumbled upon the fact that something was different about me. Thus crept into my being a sense of other-ness and a coming molasses-slow embrace of my non-conformity. I expect that many LGBT individuals have also experienced a similarly not-quite-typical coming of age process. In my long years of establishing a confident place within a reality in which I was “other,” the countervailing force was to me always clear: the predominantly straight, and often hostile, world. In my fantasies I was, at best, a rebel and, at worst, a misfit. Now, as I amble toward my middle years, with the confusing and challenging coming of age process firmly under my belt, I confront a new countervailing force as I find myself again identified as “other.” But this time it is by a surprising group of people: other gays. Specifically, the gay left. In a chilling reenactment of the dreaded grade school recess, the gay left takes aim at conservative gays. There are many examples from which I could harvest an illustrative example. So I shall only reach back to an oped published Aug. 4, 2011, in this newspaper and penned by contributor Sean Cotter. His column initially takes aim at GOProud, of which I am a board member, by painting an association among GOProud, an embrace of reparative therapy and the Tea Party. As much as I am disappointed and wearied by this style of argument, I am getting used to it. Like many of the other written attacks against gay conservatives and GOProud that have come before it, Cotter’s op-ed posits that it is appalling to be gay and not a leftist, or in the least a Democrat. In Cotter’s view, GOProud is not only conservative, (emphasis mine) but is “enabling of homophobia.” Gay conservatives “have worked for and campaigned and legislated agendas that have explicitly sought to curtail not only their own rights, but to reverse the social and civil rights measures for women and minorities that gay political activists have supported in the past.” This is the critical theoretical jump: the bridge that the gay left, in publications and in blogs, often constructs to connect gay conservatives to Really Bad Things. Among these Really Bad Things are self-loathing, treason against one’s own, and even being secretly heterosexual and aiming to destroy the gay community. As a side note, I can assure conspiracy weavers that I am indeed gay. It is sad when a group of gays disputes the sincerity, integrity and even sanity of another group of gays that holds a differing viewpoint. Cotter looks back affectionately to a past in which the gay rights movement “was explicitly leftist. Essays and manifestos from these activists tell us that to be ‘gay’ was 18 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net meant to be something new. It meant not just having samesex attractions, but also espousing a certain set of political beliefs.” In this gay dystopia, conforming to a leftist agenda is more important than intellectual freedom. But, in truth, intellectual freedom (in this case holding conservative views) does not make you self-loathing, traitorous or the perpetrator of Really Bad Things. Rather, it makes you fabulous. I do not long for the days of identity politics, when being gay meant being a leftist. I am happy right now, when being gay means I can be myself, a conservative. I hope that one day all viewpoints will be welcome in our community so that we can work together for the cause of LGBT freedom. Settlement Reached in Case of Gay Couple Told to Move to Back of Bus By. Lucas Grindley The bus driver who told a gay couple they needed to move to the back of the bus has been disciplined, an apology has been issued, and new training classes are planned for the company’s drivers — all of this announced today after Lambda Legal intervened with a threatening letter. Musician Ari Gold and his boyfriend Timothy Nelson were riding a New York Shortline bus in early July when the driver pulled over and demanded they move to the back of the bus because they were holding hands and acting like a couple. “Your driver would not have challenged Mr. Gold and his boyfriend — much less summoned law enforcement — had they been a heterosexual couple,” wrote Hayley Gorenberg, deputy legal director for Lambda Legal in a letter to Shortline later that month. Gold and Nelson refused to move, so the bus driver called police. When officers arrived, they told the driver the couple was breaking no laws. Lambda Legal pointed out, though, that Shortline was breaking the law by discriminating. “Lambda Legal is always prepared to go to the courts when members of the LGBT community face discrimination, but we’re pleased when it doesn’t have to come to that,” said Gorenberg in a statement. “Short Line’s swift and serious response shows this company knows that doing the right thing is also good business.” The driver has been “appropriately disciplined,” policies and training on nondiscrimination laws are on the way for employees, and Gold got a refund for his tickets and an apology, according to Lambda Legal. All of those were on a wish list of possible outcomes that Gold shared during an interview with The Advocate after the incident. NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 19 SGLFSfest3 By. Deb Riney LGBT Film Festival Time! The U.S. Census Declares the Gayest City in America The Savannah Gay & Lesbian Film Society will present the 3rd Annual International LGBT Film Festival October 14-15 in partnership with the Telfair Museums screening at the Jepson Center for the Arts, 207 W. York Street. There will be three feature film programs and one shorts film program over the two days. Tickets will be sold for each individual program or see all the films with a Festival Pass. For a complete listing of Festival films go to: www.sglfs.com. The Festival opens on Friday evening with LEAVE IT ON THE FLOOR, Sheldon Larry’s audacious and big-hearted musical with songs by Beyoncé music director Kim Burse and choregraphy by Beyoncé dance master Frank Gatson Jr. Have you been looking for a sizzling mix of PARIS IS BURNING, RENT, and DREAMGIRLS? This film delivers it as it takes us into the fabulously funky world of voguing (the ball-scene was the inspiration for Madonna’s song “Vogue”). Here the setting is contemporary downtown L.A. Our hunky, homeless hero Brad, discarded by his homophobic mom, falls in with the members of The House of Eminence, ruled by the stern aging diva Queef Latina, who keeps a careful, loving watch over her makeshift family of runaways and throwaways. When two of her crew fall for Brad, the Queef is royally unamused. High flying and low down, LEAVE IT ON THE FLOOR is a one of a kind celebration—a gay African American musical about finding your true family. With eleven original songs it also features a song by Beyonce, and a surprise performance by the amazing artist Ledisi. Pulsing with energy, joy and some of the catchiest and queerest dance songs ever, it will keep you coming back for more. Showtime Friday is 7 pm. Saturday - 3 film programs | Noon – 6 pm. Program #1 at Noon WISH ME AWAY, the story about award-winning country music artist, Chely Wright (“Shut Up and Drive”, “Single White Female”) who seems to have it all but feels like she is living a lie. While her dreams of stardom came true, she remained tormented by her sexuality and paralyzed by the fear of coming out. After years of denial, she decides to finally do what no one else has done: become the first major country music singer to come out of the closet as gay. This penetrating documentary looks at an artist about to make a life changing announcement. This touching portrait follows Wright as she discovers the transformational power of living an authentic life. Program #2 at 2:30 pm SHORTSfest, a delightful crowd-pleasing international collection of humorous short films sure to tickle your fancy. From a young woman who falls in love with the voice of the GPS in her parents’ car; to a gay man’s nightmare about aging; to a topsy-turvy musical that takes place on the streets of a Norwegian town when a son comes home to tell his parents about the guy he’s just “snogged” those are but a few of the 8 gems in this years SHORTSfest. For a complete listing of all the short films at this year’s Festival go to: www.sglfs.com. 20 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net By. Brian Moylan LGBT Film Festival Time! Program #3 at 4:15 pm GUN HILL ROAD, was an official selection of this year’s Sundance Film Festival and has won numerous LGBT Audience Awards and Best Acting Awards. As Enrique returns home after three years in prison, he finds that he doesn’t know his son Michael at all. Enrique tries to make up for lost time by focusing even more attention to his son, only to realize that Michael is transitioning and spends a lot of time as Vanessa. It features a “pitch-perfect” cast with Esai Morales (Caprica, NYPD Blue, Bad Boys) as Enrique the father, Judy Reyes (Scrubs, OZ) playing Angela the mother and newcomer Harmony Santana in a true breakout performance who shines brightly as Vanessa. HOW TO BUY FILM FESTIVAL TICKETS General ticket sales start Friday, September 30th online at www.sglfs.com and at TailsSpin Festival box offices and at Los Robles. PRICING *Friday, October 14th Opening Night Film: $15 General Admission. ($12 SGLFS & Telfair Members) *Saturday, October 15th 3 Matinee Programs: $10 per film program. ($8 SGLFS & Telfair Members) *$40 FESTIVAL PASS: will be available to purchase beginning September 30th either online, or at the TailsSpin Festival Box Office locations, or through Los Robles. Festival Passes will admit holder to ALL films from Opening Night through all 3 Saturday matinee programs. *Online Tickets: Starting 9/30 at www.sglfs.com with credit card. There will be a one dollar transaction fee per charged ticket. Available tickets may be purchased on SGLFS website until 5 pm the night before each show date. Tickets purchased online using a charge or debit card will automatically be placed at Will Call. No tickets will be mailed. *SGLFS Festival Box Offices: Starting 9/30 at TailsSpin’s two locations: 4501 Habersham Street (Habersham & 61st Street) and 473 Pooler Parkway in Pooler. Tickets also available at Los Robles by calling Richard Gourley at 713-5546. Only cash and personal checks accepted at the TailsSpin and Los Robles locations, NO charges. *Will Call: Pick up your Will Call tickets on the day of the screening. Will Call will be open forty five minutes prior to each program’s screening. Only the person listed on the ticket order will be allowed to pick up Will Call tickets. Please bring a copy of your charge receipt with you for pick up. *Day-of-Show Tickets: Jepson box office opens forty five minutes prior to the scheduled screenings and closes ten minutes after the screening begins. Cash or charge only on day of show. All charges will have a one dollar transaction fee added to the total. *Seating: Ticketed seating is guaranteed only until ten minutes prior to screening. No late seating for sold-out screenings. If you purchased a ticket or Festival Pass in advance and arrive less than ten minutes prior to a sold-out screening it will be at the House Manager’s discretion to offer your empty seat for a Rush Line ticket purchase. *Rush Tickets: Sold Out! Though advance tickets may no longer be available, a limited number of Rush Tickets may be available at the door. Rush tickets will be offered as soon as the number of unoccupied seats has been determined, approximately a few minutes before show time. The Rush Line starts 15-20 minutes before each screening program. According to data on same-sex couples released by the U.S. Census Bureau, the gayest city in these 50 states is, not surprisingly, Provincetown, Mass., the vacation spot of circuit boys, insane writers, and homosexuals who make a whole lot more money than any of us. The Williams Institute at UCLA Law School has been crunching the numbers on the various states as the data comes out. The only states that haven’t reported yet are North Dakota, New Mexico, Mississippi, and Tennessee, but I highly doubt they have anyplace as queer as P-Town. Also, Census data is a little wonky when it comes to tabulating practicing homosexuals. Since it doesn’t ask citizens their sexual orientation, the number of gay people can only be divined by those who went out of their way to mark that they were part of a same-sex couple. This is by no means a full accounting of all gay people everywhere, but it seems like the statistics don’t lie. According to census data, P-Town has 163 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. For comparison, Manhattan only has 19.3 gay couples per 1,000 households. That means New York—with the fashion industry, Broadway, and Andy Cohen’s nightstand drawer—is still only a tenth as gay as P-Town. The second gayest city is Wilton Manors, Florida, outside of Ft. Lauderdale, which has 140 gay couples per 1,000 households. Next up is Palm Springs, California, with 115 gay couples per 1,000 households. It seems that most of the gays—or at lest gay couples—are found in vacation destinations that attract citizens of a certain age. Apparently like monarch butterflies, we will all one day flock to the same several locations and make they brilliant with our gayness before we die. As for states, it appears that Vermont, Massachusetts, and California boast the most ‘mos in their respective populations. It looks like gay people are exactly where you expected to find them anyway. 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You can also sign up online! “Based on the evidence, the APA, like every other professional medical, scientific, child-welfare, and social science organization, is calling for an end to the unfair exclusion of same-sex couples and their families from marriage and its 30 it brings crucial meanings to familes, including the safety-net to couples and their kids.” Emory’s so gay it’s launching Manhunt-like site Courtesy of Project-Q Atlanta Emory University is so overrun by the gays that the campus wants to make it easier for them to cruise one another through a Manhunt-esque site it’s launching this fall. Could an Emory Grindr be far behind? Out on Campus is now taking submissions from students, employees and alums who identify as LGBT – and since it’s Emory, queer, genderqueer, same-gender loving and anyone else that’s non-heterosexual – for the new page, which will launch this fall when it has more than 50 participants. Somehow, we’re figuring it’ll have more than 50 by week’s end. And this is where it gets fun: The public page will include your photo, graduation year – ha, try and fudge that one like you do in your online cruisy life – and the “gender and/or sexual identities you want included.” Want to cruise your former profs? Yes, the page asks for your Emory affiliation – student, staff, faculty and alumna/us. Of course, Emory explains away its new Manhunt-esque page as an effort of its Office of LGBT Life to boost the visibility of the campus’ queer population. It’s part of a two-pronged effort. The Office of LGBT Life and the President’s Commission on Sexuality, Gender Diversity and Queer Equality are working on two projects that need your support. Although it is amazing to see the progress Emory has made to create an inclusive and equitable environment over the last 40 years*, there is a renewed need to increase the community’s visibility. To that end, the Office of LGBT Life is launching an “OUT on Campus” webpage and the President’s Commission on Sexuality, Gender Diversity and Queer Equality (PCSGDQE) is launching a campaign to increase awareness of campus non-discrimination and equal opportunity policies through the stories of LGBTQ individuals and their allies. The Office of LGBT Life found that despite Emory leading the way in creating a gay-friendly campus, seeing a 239 percent increase in student visits to its office, a president that shows the gay love, prominent HIV research efforts and hosting everyone from a gay bishop to a gay mayoral candidate, that students might not know LGBT staff and faculty or about outreach efforts. Community is important and it can be difficult to create community when our identities are not always visible. In recent focus groups and surveys, many students indicated that they do not know any LGBT identified faculty and staff. They specifically noted a lack of knowledge of out faculty and staff of color and transgender/ genderqueer faculty and staff. Students also indicated a desire to have LGBT faculty as mentors. In a survey of faculty, staff, and students conducted by the PCSGDQE last year, there were concerning responses by participants who were clearly unaware of Emory’s commitment to the LGBT community. It is therefore important to acknowledge the LGBT community’s vibrant presence at Emory as well as increase staff, student, and faculty awareness of Emory’s values and its commitment to diversity. NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 23 Does dating a Transgender woman make a guy gay? Election 2012 Courtesy of Marriageequality.org The short answer is NO. Let me personally make clear the reason why males who date transsexuals aren’t gay. Firstly, it must be known that every man has their very own likes and dislikes in terms of sexuality and emotional companionship. Many “straight” men are not as straight as they say they’re, but that doesn’t necessarily make them gay or bisexual. Simply due to the fact society likes to label people with straight, gay or bisexual doesn’t mean everyone suits those categories. In the Transgender Dating world those terms don’t always match up to reality. Each presidential candidate has 12 plans that will affect 31 million LGBT voters. By. Gregory Martin Additonally, transgenderism has nothing related to sexual orientation. Lots of men will look for transsexuals for dating and love simply because they feel that transsexuals are in fact more feminine than genetic women. Yes, that’s right.... MORE feminine! In addition , men find that genetic for women who live lots of hangups within the bedroom department they feel transsexuals don’t have. While which may be true to some degree, it’s not a hard and fast rule to reside by. Transsexuals have been born in a male body, but have female brain chemistry and therefore are truly women stuck inside a man’s body until they begin transitioning into a female outer appearance. On the other hand , it has to be known that nobody ought to be judged solely on their outward appearance as their are many complicated circumstances which impede the changing process, the majority of that can come from society and financial barriers. Everyone has the right up to now whomever they would like to without judgment, however that is just not where society or the truth is at nowadays so I cannot stress enough the importance of living your life in a way that enables you to happy without worrying about what your friends or neighbors will think. 1102 Bull Street • Savannah, GA • 31401 (912) 236-4703 • Fax (912) 236-9026 Update: 17 August 2011 • Presidential candidate Buddy Roemer’s 3 position changes take 2 steps forward, but 1 step backward. If elected, he now will say: (1) “yes” to equal pay/benefits for military personnel with same-sex spouses, (2) “yes” to ending discrimination for LGBT federal civilian workers, but (3) “no” to open service, because he would reinstate “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”. Past vs. present vs. future • In one of the 12 lawsuits challenging the Defense of Marriage Act, attorneys hired by the Republican-controlled House of Representatives recently claimed that: (a) LGBT people have enough political power already; (b) anti-LGBT bigotry is fairly new and relatively insignificant; and (c) discrimination stops being relevant so long as it is declining. But the candidates’ individual plans (above) show that LGBT political power hasn’t yet resulted in equality, anti- LGBT laws aren’t new or minor, and some candidates want little or no improvement. Methodology • Starting in August 2011, a survey was delivered to the office of each active, formally announced candidate via e-mail, web mail, and/or facsimile, and also via certified U.S. mail for which a staff member signed a receipt confirming the delivery. Each candidate’s survey showed his or her latest stand on each LGBT issue, based on speeches made, documents signed, and interviews given. All candidates were invited to notify MEUSA of updates to their positions as they occur, up through election day on 6 November 2012. While some men who date transsexuals may be bisexual, those men who’re gay wouldn’t be in the slightest interested in dating someone who is NOT actually a guy, but a transsexual who embodies exactly what is beautiful in a woman. It is also important to point out that not all transsexual male to female play an active role sexually using their male genitalia. Actually, many transsexuals do plan to have total SRS (sexual reassignment surgery) at some stage in their lives. Men shouldn’t approach transsexuals with the expectation that they will always have another penis in the relationship. Transsexuality isn’t a sexual fetish, but a gendor dismorphic disorder that comes from before birth. That isn’t to say that being transgender is a “bad” thing or mental illness, it simply is really a fact of life which has not yet been fully embraced by most civilized countries . 24 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net In conclusion I applaud those men who’re not afraid to say they would rather date transsexuals and do not be worried about what society will think. But please be aware how the greatest sacrifice is made by those people who are transgendered and have to struggle with the constant abuse which society and ignorant males prey upon them . NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net - 25 Same Gender Means Some Problems By. Leslie Robinson You might enter into a same-sex relationship thinking you know all the troubles that lie ahead. Discrimination, rejection by family and friends, spending eternity in hell - none of that is news. But I’ll bet you never considered the bundle of difficulties caused by being in a relationship with someone who’s a lot like you. Someone with whom you share everything from chromosomes to conditioner. Here’s an example of what I mean: My partner and I have the same name. Her first name is Anne, which is also my middle name. It took me a while to get comfortable saying her name. I felt like I was calling myself and having attacks of egomania. Opposite-sex couples can experience this trouble too, of course. A woman named Jordan can marry a man named Jordan, or a Jean can connect with a Gene. But the chances of twin names are much increased with gay couplings. We all know a Mike and a Mike, or a Sarah and a Sarah. The other day I heard a lesbian couple referred to as “the Rachels.” Anyone who’s adamant about maintaining individuality might have to rethink this gay thing. Turning to accessories, our friend Susan recently told Anne and me that she has begun carrying a purse again. The problem is, her partner Joyce uses a purse that looks the same. Now each woman can find herself leaving the house with the wrong life. Straight couples don’t have this trouble. On another subject, while anti-gay activists argue that male and female genitalia were meant to go together, they’re ignoring a more compelling biological argument. Two women going through menopause should never live together. Between us, Anne and I have every menopause symptom going. When she’s having a hot flash, I’m too busy obsessing over my weight gain to notice, let alone sympathize. In straight households where the woman is experiencing menopause, it’s the man’s job to be sympathetic - when he isn’t driving his girlfriend around in his new Ferrari. Anne and I don’t get sympathy, but we aren’t being cheated on, so I guess it’s a wash. Overall, though, I feel it’s only right for young people to be alerted to the complications inherent in same-sex relationships. If the prospect of hell doesn’t scare twinks, the prospect of sharing hair gel might. I suppose preventive action is a possibility. A lesbian could legally change her name before starting a relationship, pick a name that no other woman is likely to share. Like Augustina. Or Pittsburgh. Or Cementmixer. Then there’s the issue of clothing. Back when I was in a straight relationship, my boyfriend was too tall and too male to borrow my clothes. Now, all bets are off. Anne has borrowed everything from bras to hats. She so covets a shirt of mine she whimpers a little when I wear it. I’ll soon know what it means to give someone the shirt off my back. She and I aren’t the same size, nor do we have identical taste. For these reasons, I know my entire wardrobe won’t go missing. But I can imagine what it must be like for, say, a femme couple with similar proportions where one woman is constantly pilfering and the other can never find what she planned to wear. On a morning when the latter can locate nothing to wear to work but pumps and a nightgown, the fur will fly. I’d be remiss if I didn’t note that sometimes it’s a boon, clothing-wise, to be in a same-sex couple. You can double your wardrobe. But only if you have like builds and taste. I suppose there are women out there who assess a potential partner for kindness, respect and to-die-for pencil skirts. 26 - NETWORK NEWS - First City Network - 912.236.CITY - firstcitynetwork.net Learn More | Volunteer | Enjoy savpride.com
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