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PUBLISHER: Bent Share Entertainment, LLC EDITOR-IN-CHIEF: Michael Westman [email protected] CREATIVE DIRECTION: Jason Young Steven H. Garcia [email protected] PHOTOGRAPHY: DISTRIBUTION: CONTRIBUTING WRITERS: Chris Azzopardi Scott Boardman Will Cloutier Steven H. Garcia Charlie Gage Porter Gilberg Bryan T. Greene Josh Jaquez Stan Jenson JP Kane Nikolas Keith Wes Miller Nicholas Snow Kim Stanwood Terranova Michael Westman MARKETING: Christopher Jackson [email protected] SALES: Eric Davis [email protected] Tina Del Dotto [email protected] Brett Payton [email protected] Advertising Inquiries: [email protected] National Advertising Representation: Rivendell Media 212-242-6863 [email protected] Editorial Inquiries: [email protected] /GEDmagazine Bent Share Entertainment, LLC GED Magazine Cover Model: Brent Corrigan Photo By: Keesha Langdon Kathy Griffin Photos courtesy of E! 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GED Magazine assumes no liability for any claims or representations contained anywhere in this magazine and reserve the right to cancel or refuse advertising at publisher’s discretion. 6 | GEDMAG.com 6475 E. Pacific Coast Hwy, #438 Long Beach, CA 90803 (800) 810-3416 www.GEDmag.com From The Editor Your Source for LGBT: Photos Travel Tours Events Our Love and Sex Issue is here and celebrates the advancement of marriage equality (36 states and counting) and of course, the fun of sex... Our cover model Brent Corrigan talks about the porn industry, Kathy Griffin talks about her “Gay Mission,” the premiere wedding planning event is coming to LA, the fabulous sexy new game “Jarring Questions”, and so much more. Celebrate and Enjoy!t Please visit us on the web at GEDmag.com and sign up for our monthly insider newsletter. Insiders will be entered into monthly drawings for trips, event tickets, dinners and more. And for all the updates on social media, follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @GEDmagazine and be sure to tag us in your photos #GEDmag and #GrabItLikeIt. Whether in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Palm Springs, San Diego, Sacramento, Las Vegas, Phoenix, Denver, or beyond, Gay Entertainment Directory is here for YOUR entertainment! site eb NEW W ON! g SO n i m o C 8 | GEDMAG.com 10 | GEDMAG.com Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] BARTAB: LONG BEACH MARVEL UNIVERSE LIVE! OK, so the name Marvel has grown from being the imprint on comic books aimed at schoolboys to one of the largest movie franchises in history. Do we need even more Marvel? Arena specialists Feld Entertainment say, “Yes, it’s time to see your Marvel heroes live!” Millions of dollars have been spent to produce an arena show that uses the most cutting-edge technical effects ever seen as a cast of over 25 Marvel Superheroes, including Thor, Captain America, Iron Man, Hulk, Spider-Man, and Wolverine trek across the universe to beat Loki and other villains in locating fragments of the all-powerful Super Cube. The producers have assembled some of the world’s most gifted athletes and performers from the worlds of gymnastics, X-Games, wrestling, and even skiing. Supported by a unique blend of aerial stunts, pyrotechnics and state-of-the-art special effects, these hunky men in leotards bring an epic live action experience to life right in front of the audiences’ eyes. Marvel Universe Live!plays in arenas in Phoenix, Sacramento, San Jose, Anaheim, Fresno, Ontario, San Diego, Inglewood and Bakersfield between March and May of this year. (marveluniverselive.com) GUYS & DOLLS This quintessential Broadway musical is making a whirlwind tour through the western states, including a number of one night stands. The tale of uptight Sarah Brown being wooed out of the nesting arms of The Salvation Army and getting a glimpse of the glamorous life of gamblers and their dolls opened on Broadway in 1951 and played for 1,200 performances. It was a hit movie with Frank Sinatra and Marlon Brando, and is one of the most frequently produced musicals in the world. If you have somehow not seen the show, this professional tour would be a good opportunity to correct that with performances in Palm Desert, Santa Barbara, Phoenix, Tucson, Fresno, Reno, and Costa Mesa. (guysanddollsontour.com) FUGUE How can composers Piotr Tchaikovsy, Arnold Schoenberg and Carlo Gesualdo – from three different countries and three different centuries – balance the chaos of their creativity with their need for love? Playwright Tommy Smith and Director Chris Fields explore that in an exciting new work called Fugue, playing at Echo Theatre Company. The three stories are set on three sections of the stage, and the stories unfold sometimes separately, and sometimes overlapping, much as one section of an orchestra will carry the melody for a while, and then play in counterpoint with another section. Each of these composers has personal struggles in their love lives, and the playwright explores whether these struggles somehow gave rise to their genius. With Tchaikovsky, played by Christopher Shaw, the composer is forced to hide his homosexuality in 18th century Russia. He even marries a young music student, though the marriage was a catastrophe and he abandons her within weeks. One of his greatest passions was for his young nephew, Vladimir, which Shaw says is quite overtly portrayed in the production. In his research, the actor found that even though Tchaikovsky probably killed himself to avoid the societal shame of being gay, today’s Russian gays are being chased by gangs of vigilantes, even to the point of being killed. Certainly nothing has improved. LA Weekly described Echo Theatre Company as the “Best bet for ballsy original plays,” and Fugue looks like a top contender. Plays February 14 through March 22 at Atwater Village Theatre. (echotheatrecompany.com) 12 | GEDMAG.com BARTAB: ORANGE COUNTY & INLAND EMPIRE BARTAB: INLAND EMPIRE Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 13 FEATURE Thank you! I am so-o-o-o excited! I mean, obviously I have the biggest shoes in the world to fill. But the fact that Joan and I were such good pals – and, in fact, discussed the show many, many times – it’s just, for me, if I can get serious for one second, actually meaningful. And I know it’s a silly show – we’re gonna make fun of silly celebrities and pictures – but Joan was such a good pal to me, but also an unrecognized pioneer in many ways. I have to say, I really am getting a lot of gratification out of the fact that I believe posthumously she’s finally getting the respect that she so earned and so deserved, and that’s kind of a mission that I’ve assigned to myself. No one has assigned it to me, but it’s just important to me that her legacy is protected and honored, because it’s a legit legacy. Kathy Griffin: In All Seriousness… Comedian opens up on Joan’s death, hosting Fashion Police and emojis from Cher By Chris Azzopardi Kathy Griffin isn’t kidding when she says, “If I can get serious for one second…” Putting aside her usual biting assault against all things celebrity, the comedian gets candid about her dear friend and idol Joan Rivers in our latest interview: Griffin’s frequent death-related conversations with the late comedy legend, “literally” getting Joan’s permission to supersede her on Fashion Police, and how Joan taught Kathy “not to give a fuck.” Hi Kathy, how are ya? Umm, this isn’t gonna go out to any, uh, gay people, right, Chris? Because, you know, you give those people an inch, they’ll take a mile. Are you talking about penis size? I’m talking about, when are we gonna end it with the letters and the numbers, Chris! LGBTQIA-2-3-4-5! Dammit! I’ve got a GLAAD Vanguard Award and an HRC Award and I still can’t keep up. I’m gay myself and I can’t keep up. (Laughs) Which letter or number are you? Just the G for now. Look, Chris, you’ve gotta up your game. You’ve gotta stick in at least – can’t you be a Q? How hard is it to be a “questioning”? For you, Kathy, I could be a Q. And I could be a number. OK, good. I just wanted to get a little something out of you, because, you know, I gotta be up on the times with the LGBTQIA2s, and from what I understand you people are adding letters on a daily basis. It’s really confusing you straight people, I know. (Laughs) Keep it simple for the breeders! We are simple people, 14 |dammit! GEDMAG.com So, Kathy, congratulations on Fashion Police! I mean, she was wild and outrageous, and I get it – with the sequin jackets and the feather boas and the saying crazy things to TMZ – but just as a female comedian, I mean, talk about a feminist, talk about a groundbreaker. I would never have this career without her, and I don’t mean just this job (on Fashion Police) – like, duh – but I mean everything from the beginning: what she did for women in comedy in such a male-dominated field, and for the LGBT community, and being down with the gays long before Stonewall, before it was cool. Anyway, it’s such an honor for me to sit in that chair. Because Joan obviously was such an immense influence on you, do you see your lives and careers aligning in any ways? I see our careers aligning in every way except stylistically. Joan was the master of the one-liners and the zingers; I am a lot more improvisational and conversational. Don’t think that I’m really gonna be doing Joan’s style of comedy, because one of the reasons we got along so well is that we were never competitors in any way. First of all, she was a fucking living legend, an icon, and I’m just me. But in addition to that, we had a deep understanding – and this is very inside baseball – that stylistically, she was in her lane and I’m in my lane, and that’s what’s gonna happen on Fashion Police. I’m gonna do what I do. I am off the cuff and take-no-prisoners, and in that way we shared a philosophy, but stylistically we’re actually quite different. As far as our careers aligning, yeah, of course. I mean, the struggles. And one of the reasons I loved her so was, I’ve never seen anyone in my career have to fight so hard on their own. And this is no disrespect to my representatives, etc., but one thing I always admired about Joan and that we share is, I never had a Lorne Michaels, I never had a studio head take me by the hand and say, “Here, I’m gonna set up an environment for you.” That’s why my show was called My Life on the D-List, and that’s why my talk show – I had a blast, but it was canceled after two years. It’s been a struggle for me, and that’s just my road. So when I look at Joan, I look at someone that struggled and it really paid off, and it paid off in so many ways. What I learned from her is something that is just my story as well, and it’s not everybody’s story, but it’s – you’ve got to have your tentacles everywhere. What was so great about Joan was the QVC line and the reality show with Melissa (Rivers) and Fashion Police and touring. We would often talk about how that’s just the way it is for us; it’s not just gonna be the one job where then we have summers off and we flip houses and we have our gifted children that go to school with other celebrity children. We’re just workhorses. So, that’s the way I roll, and that’s the only thing I know. I’ve come to actually really love it. You’ve said that Joan, before she died, passed the Fashion Police torch onto you. How so? What was the context of that conversation? Besides the fact that she literally said it to me at dinner one time? I mean, we used to talk about death all the time, which is very common for comedians. It might sound macabre, but we talked about everything under the sun, and we would joke about everything, and nothing was ever off-limits and nothing was ever off the table. She did, in fact, make all these jokes (about), “If anything happened to me…” She would say, “If Jennifer Lawrence ever kills me, you should take over Fashion Police,” and I would say, “If Demi Lovato ever kills me, you can take over my one-nighter at such-and-such center.” Stuff like that. We discussed a wide array of things, but certainly the thing we discussed probably more than anything was, I would say, “Who was your Joan Rivers?” She would say, “Look, for a long time Phyllis Diller and I were linked, but the truth is, Phyllis was kind of the only girl in certain clubs.” She said, “Phyllis was a little older, so she paved the way for me and, of course, there’s Moms Mabley and Totie Fields.” And, for me, that person was Joan. So when I say I lost my person, that’s really what I mean. As much as I’m a fan of all the comedy girls and I am a comedy girl fan, I am not a competitor. Everybody has a different story, so, for some reason, Joan is the one that I connected with the most, (especially) as far as, “What are you in trouble for this week?!” and always laughing through it and never really feeling like it was like real trouble. We used to say, “Are you in real trouble or ‘Hollywood trouble’?” And it was always Hollywood trouble. Through her example, and whether or not it’s to my detriment, I really did learn not to give a fuck. Regarding the skepticism of your role as host of Fashion Police – how do you respond to the naysayers who doubt you know anything about fashion? First of all, I would say that I really did have a fashion evolution, and what’s so funny about that is, and I actually talk about it in one of my specials, it’s called a “gay mission.” When I started out on Suddenly Susan I would turn to Brooke Shields and say, “You know all these people who can give me an outfit for a day!” I was on the worst dressed list and then stylist Robert Verdi came into my life and he said, “That’s it. I’m making this a gay mission. I just think, because of who you are – a wacky comedian – you need to be out there in labels. I don’t think you’re Eva Longoria where you can be putting designers on the map. You’re someone that needs to be out there in Oscar de la Renta, Carolina Herrera, Michael Kors and Dolce & Gabbana. If you look at my red carpet stuff over the last couple of years, that’s all I’m in. So, it’s been an evolution for me, and it’s been a learning process that I love. I love getting to know these designers, and I do legitimately love fashion. And so I am learning and continue to learn and I love the artistry of it, but I’m always gonna make fun of it. I’m gonna bring the hammer down no matter how amazing these designers are. and the ridiculousness, that’s my job. They’re actually identifying it now as a comedy show. They didn’t hire me to really be a fashionista. I love fashion, but they hired me to really be the funny one and be the brutally honest one, and also brutally kind whenever it warrants. Just like my act, I never know what I’m gonna say. Of everything you’ve done – books, television, and now Fashion Police – where does standup rank for you at this point in your career? Number one always. First and foremost. And I’ll tell you why: It’s the fuel for everything. I actually believe that as a nation, if not world, we are on the verge of some sort of return to legitimacy. What I mean by that is, with everybody lip-syncing, you actually notice a real-live singer and you can’t help but notice it whether you’re looking at them on Vine or on an old-fashioned television or live or at a movie star who’s talented versus some dumbass reality star. I’m in the business of comedy, and I have two Emmys and a Grammy and the Guinness World Record (for having the most televised comedy specials), and I am performing at the Kennedy Center and have performed at Carnegie Hall and Sydney Opera House, and so standup is always gonna be number one for me because no matter what sort of trendy device for finding our art exists, nothing can ever replace the live experience. I mean, I have literally played bus stops in Oklahoma and people know the real deal versus, you know, somebody who doesn’t know how to bring it. That’s why standup is always gonna be number one for me, because that live experience can’t be faked. You cannot lip sync a comedy show. You can’t do them in seven seconds. You can’t Instagram it. You can’t edit it. The live experience is still gonna be the most pure artistically. It’s where I rea-a-aally don’t hold back. I mean, Fashion Police is gonna be – I’m gonna try to get fired, let’s face it. I’m gonna try to say something so heinous I get fired – same with any talk-show appearance – but honestly, the live experience, it’s the one place you can’t get fired. Being that I’m a gay man, I’m naturally concerned about Cher, one of your BFFs. How is she doing health-wise? Is she better? She is! I just texted her last night and she hit me right back and she’s feeling better. It’s funny, I reached out for the same reason you did: I was like, “I’m a gay man and I need to know,” and she was like (in Cher voice), “I’m feelin’ a lot betta.” She texted me back in seconds. If she’s able to text me back within five seconds, I’m thinkin’ that’s a good sign. And of course she stuck in some emojis, which I think is an even better sign. Which emoji did she send? She did two lips – kisses. Good. I’d be concerned if she did “happy poop.” (Laughs) Six of one and half dozen of the other – they’re both good emojis from Cher. You wouldn’t be Kathy Griffin if you didn’t. Lastly, Kathy, if you could turn back time…? I’m gonna be the Tom DeLay of Fashion Police, except without serving the prison time, and I’m not a conservative. Someone’s gotta bring the hammer down, and Fashion Police is still the go-to destination to see who’s gonna really tell it like it is about who was best and worst dressed. I mean, it’s Fashion Police, but it’s not all gonna be limited to fashion; it may be for the others (on the panel), but as far as when it’s time to infuse the comedy I would have slept with Anderson Cooper for the one week he was heterosexual during his 21st birthday. I tried everything in the book, trust me, and it just wouldn’t happen. I tried everything short of the Cosby. Chris Azzopardi is the editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBT wire service. Reach him via his website at www.chris-azzopardi.com. 16 | GEDMAG.com BAR TAB: WEST HOLLYWOOD Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 17 Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] BARTAB: WEST HOLLYWOOD (continued) 18 | GEDMAG.com Sex and Fitness Did you know the healthier you are the better your sex will be??? Well not so much better in the actual physical act of sex - that comes with talent, experience, and partner preference - but the actual hormones and physical endurance will be better than if you were not in physical good health. Captain obvious right? What is not obvious is what exercises are the best for increasing hormones and for sexual performance. Specific workouts, specific exercises, and eating a healthy diet can improve many factors where it comes to making the “magic” happen. First let’s talk about legs! Oh yes, that is right, legs. If you just thought to yourself that your legs are good and you don’t need to work them out think again flamingo. All upper body with no legs creates a very disproportional design and look, not including limiting your testosterone potential. Testosterone, the coveted male hormone that builds muscle and...(Enter Superman theme song) creates the male sex drive, is secreted primarily by the adrenal glands of the testicles in men and ovaries in women, and is increased and stimulated by packing on lean muscle. Legs are the largest muscle grouping, so stimulate them! Build the muscle and create lean body mass. Resistance training is the only way to build lean body mass. Remember, cardio training only works the heart and builds your endurance. To create more testosterone you must lift heavy to build your muscle mass. Design an exercise program built around heavy lifting. Whether it be strength training or hypertrophy training, both will build mass, but design the program that is best for you. Sex drive and testosterone will come with both. You are not through the woods yet if your diet is not under control. Again, your goal is lean muscle mass, so eat healthy. Eating healthy or clean eating, is eating a controlled diet to attain lean muscle mass. It involves only natural foods, unrefined sugars, good fats, and complex carbohydrates. A term you will hear often is “eating dirty,” that means eating whatever and whenever. Not the best choice, but people will do if for mass because calories are calories and calories will achieve size. Maybe not lean body mass, but muscle will be the result with the proper workout regimen. There you go. All the basic tools for your tool! Apply them and see the results. If you are not already why not try them out. The worst you could achieve is getting into better shape and no one has ever said, “I wasn’t so good in bed.” Ever. Why not get better??? Fitness Tip: Leg exercises to help increase testosterone. Squats, lunges, dead lifts - oh my! You can follow Bryan on Facebook and Instagram @TheLOOKFitness 22 | GEDMAG.com BARTAB: LOS ANGELES Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 23 continued on page 28 24 | GEDMAG.com 26 | GEDMAG.com Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] BARTAB: PALM SPRINGS & CATHEDRAL CITY PARENTAL GUIDANCE This issue we look at four new queer indie films all dealing with issues related to either being a parent or with parents and family. MY STRAIGHT SON (AZUL Y NO TAN ROSA) Venezuelan writer/director Miguel Ferrari’s debut film MY STRAIGHT SON is equally funny, moving, and heartwarming. The film centers on Diego, a young and successful photographer, who lives in the glamorous but shallow and excessive world of fashion. A tragic accident turns his world upside down when a gay bashing puts his partner Fabrizio into a coma. Unexpectedly, while trying to deal with this tragedy Diego’s estranged teenage son Armando is dropped off by the boy’s mother. Diego is unprepared to raise a teenage boy, and Armando is closed off to accepting his father’s gay world. MY STRAIGHT SON doesn’t just simply tell the story of two opposite people learning new ways of seeing the world; it uses this dynamic to explore deeper issues of homophobia, domestic violence, and transsexuals in Venezuela. Much like Spanish director Pedro Almodovar, Ferrari mixes over-the-top supporting characters, exotic scenery, family values, music and laughter to tell a rich, multi-layered story. Available at Amazon and TLA Gay THE DARK PLACE THE DARK PLACE is the follow up feature from the team who brought us the film Judas Kiss. A suspense thriller, THE DARK PLACE tells the story of Keegan Dark (Blaise Embry) a young gay man with the power to remember his life in video graphic detail—a gift that proves to be a blessing and curse. Keegan returns to visit his mother at their family winery after many years in hopes of rebuilding their relationship and to introduce his boyfriend (Timo Descamps). All plans quickly turn into a dark mystery as he suddenly learns upon arrival that he now has a stepfather and stepbrother (Sean Paul Lockhart, aka Brent Corrigan) with questionable intentions. Soon his mother drops into a coma, his boyfriend disappears and the town’s sheriff sees him as the prime suspect. Left alone and with little time he must try to use 30 | GEDMAG.com his abilities to unravel the mystery. THE DARK PLACE has strong suspense, high stakes, and hot guys. Available at Amazon and TLA Gay BIG GAY LOVE Can a chubby gay man find love in Los Angeles? The new film BIG GAY LOVE explores that question through the eyes of Bob (Jonathan Lisecki), a pudgy, wise-cracking party planner with a great job, a new house, fabulous friends, but no true love. When romance does find Bob in the form of a sweet muscular chef named Andy (Nicholas Brendon from Buffy The Vampire Slayer), he wonders if the relationship could be true love, due to his years of insecurity. Actress Ann Walker plays Bob’s over-the-top and overbearing mother who in trying to advise her son in the ways of love only serves to heighten his own doubts, jealousies and fears. BIG GAY LOVE is simple and light comedic look at gay society’s perceptions of self-image, self-esteem, and self-acceptance. Available at Amazon and TLA Gay TWO MOTHERS (ZWEI MUTTER) This drama from Germany tells the story of happily married couple Katja and Isabella who decide to have a child. While the idea seems simple at first they are confronted with many unexpected obstacles, bigotry, and extreme medical bills, which forces them to explore the idea of doing their own home insemination and finding their own sperm donor. As their quest drags on Katja begins to doubt if she still wants a child while Isabella becomes more obsessed and determined to get pregnant regardless the emotional costs. While TWO MOTHERS has excellent acting from the two leads it could seem slow and dragging if you’re not used to the typical slow pacing of European dramas. Available at Amazon and TLA Gay Palm Springs Pick SERIOUS FOOD AND DRINK Serious Food and Drink offers o a twist on an upscale pub style menu with a modern flair. Right in the middle of Downtown Palm Springs, serving up rustic comfort food favorites such as Buttermilk Fried Chicken, Shepherd’s Pie and their own unique Seriously Good Burger with bacon-onion jam on a house-made brioche bun. Hand crafted cocktails and local craft style beer are among the many distinct beverage options available, in addition to hand selected wines to accompany the delicious food. Housemade desserts. Led by Executive Chef, Jacqueline Bruton and Chef/Owner Kathleen Brown, both graduates of the California School of Culinary Arts, 'Le Cordon Bleu' in Pasadena. Serious Food and Drink is located at 415 N. Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs, CA (760) 832-6023 or www.seriousfoodanddrink.com INN EXILE RESORT Inn Exile is back as one of Palm Springs’ Springs most popular clothing optional resorts. With almost two acres of property and 32 spacious and comfortable remodeled rooms, guests have plenty of room to roam andmake new friends. Take a dip in one of four swimming pools or two jacuzzis. Sauna, gym, play areas, and full 24 hour access to All Worlds Resort too. (Be sure to check out the All Worlds Resort weekend pool parties, with naked Go-Gos!) In the heart of Warm Sands area, and only minutes away from downtown Palm Springs, gay bars and restaurants. Inn Exile is located at 545 Warm Sands Drive, Palm Springs, CA (760) 327-6413 or www.innexile.com *This feature changes monthly. For a FULL listing of all the LGBT and LGBT-Friendly places to EAT and STAY in the Greater Palm Springs Area, go to www.GEDmag.com. 32 | GEDMAG.com BARTAB: DENVER Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 33 GEDMAG.com | 35 36 | GEDMAG.com GEDMAG.com | 37 38 | GEDMAG.com EVENTS PARTIES WEDDINGS [email protected] HigmanPhotography.com BARTAB: PHOENIX 40 | GEDMAG.com 42 | GEDMAG.com Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] BARTAB: LAS VEGAS LAS VEGAS’ ONLY GAY OWNED & OPERATED MEN’S CLUB 3rd Saturday Monthly THE COMMERCIAL CENTER 953 EAST SAHARA AVENUE SUITE 35 B 102 LAS VEGAS, NV 89104 702-731-4295 OPEN 24/7 HAWKSGYM.COM The Season of Nonviolence It has been said that every season has a reason, and maybe it is true! At World As One, this season has great meaning, because this time of the year we honor the Season for Nonviolence. If you have not heard of this campaign, well it is time you do. For over 18 years this program, The Season for Nonviolence, has been dedicated to inspiring the citizens of the world to take a bolder step in creating peace and equality on Earth. The program is focused around the memorial dates of two masterful peacemakers, Mahatma Gandhi and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The Season for Nonviolence began on January 30 and continues for 64 days, completing on April 4th. These dates honor the memory of when both of these great leaders died - Mahatma Gandhi on January 30th and Martin Luther King, Jr. on April 4th. These two men dedicated their life to taking a stand for peace and equality. The intention of this campaign is to bring forward the philosophy of attaining peace through nonviolent action as demonstrated by these two great men and many others that have courageously walked with them. In the world in which we live there is so much happening... each day we can look at our own lives and in the lives of others in our world and see where life is changing and evolving at a rapid speed. Each day gives us another opportunity to participate in the happenings of the world or not. We can look out into our communities and see the places of violence and inequality that still exist, where judgment, racism and separation are running wild in day-to-day happenings. What we must remember is that we too have a choice in where we place our attention, and where we give our energy. We too can be the peacemakers of society; we too can take bold actions to create a world that honors all races, all people equally. Our work is to go within to discover pathways of peace in our everyday lives. Opportunities where we can choose to stay calm in the world where judgment may exist and find ways to be the voice of peace. We can be the change, with each choice we make. Every time we choose to heal a hurt, reach out to another, curb a sharp word, or boldly stand for equality in the face of separation, it is in those precious moments that we are making choices that change our lives, and change our world. Anywhere we can catch our own inner judgments of another, stop our language patterns from contributing to any agreement of separation, and truly take a stand for equality, oneness and peace, we are then making a mighty difference! Today, this season, may you have the courage and strength to walk in peace and be a light bearer of truth and equality! Together, we CAN make a difference. Together we can honor the Season for Nonviolence in every step and choice we make! “It isn’t enough to talk about peace. One must believe in it. And it isn’t enough to believe in it. One must work at it.” ~Eleanor Roosevelt WORLD AS ONE, www.worldas1.org 818-879-1959 Committed to creating peace principles that empower humanity. 44 | GEDMAG.com 46 | GEDMAG.com BARTAB: SAN DIEGO Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 47 Marriage Equality – A Changing Map By: Michael Westman The marriage equality landscape is changing quickly, and may have even changed since this story went to print. Over the past year and half, courts have made rulings that have vastly changed the landscape in favor of same-sex marriage. Same-sex couples are now able to legally marry in 36 states*, the District of Columbia, and some counties in Missouri. The marriage states are: Alaska, Arizona, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Iowa, Indiana, Kansas, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New Mi York, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Vermont, Virginia, Utah, Washington, West Virginia, Wisconsin and Wyoming, as well as the District of Columbia. What does that mean in terms of numbers? That means that approximately 70 percent of Americans live in states where same-sex marriages may currently be performed. “The overwhelming tidal wave of court rulings over the last year has put America on the cusp of nationwide marriage equality.” Sarah Warbelow, Legal Director for Human Rights Campaign. In contrast, during the same period of time, a federal court in Louisiana and the Sixth Circuit federal appeals court, have upheld existing bans on same-sex marriages. The Sixth Circuit ruling applies in four states: Kentucky, Michigan, Ohio and Tennessee. As a result of these now conflicting rulings, the United States Supreme Court has agreed to resolve the split and decide the issue for the entire country. Although the LGBT community has been fighting for such a review, it is a double-edged sword. The Supreme Court could rule that the US Constitution requires states to permit and recognize same-sex marriages. This Co would force individual states to eliminate any existing state statutes or amendments limiting marriages to one man and one woman, and a nationwide victory for marriage equality! Or, the Court could rule that individual states retain the power to define marriage, in which case earlier judicial decisions striking down marriage bans could be reversed and some same-sex marriage bans remain in place. So, the map is set to further change, in one direction or the other, by this June. ____________________________ *Alabama is the latest state to strike down a same-sex marriage ban (number 37), but it is assumed the Judge will stay the decision pending the US Supreme Court review. Photo by: GEDmag.com 48 | GEDMAG.com 50 50 | | GEDMAG.com GEDMAG.com BAR TAB: SAN FRANCISCO Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 51 Modern day record minstrel, Mark Farina, has thrilled crowds globally, entertaining over 1 million fans per year. As one of the most ubiquitous DJs in Dance Music, Farina’s known for both his unique style of mixing Jazz, Downtempo and House Music as well as being the creator of Mushroom Jazz: West Coast jazzy, organic productions combined with East Coast Hip-Hop, Urban beats. Drawing from his vibrant youth, which included being a trumpet player in marching band, a drummer in a nu wave cover band and a guest DJ, Friday nights on WNUR (Chicago), Mark found his passion for the luscious world of vinyl, turntables and nightclubs. At 16, Farina began his DJ career as a resident at Chicago’s underage mecca, Medusa’s. At the same time Mark joined forces with emerging DJs Derrick Carter and Chris Nazuka then moved into a loft space called Rednail. Rednail became infamous not only for raucous parties but also as the home to the trio’s first productions under the moniker, Symbols & Instruments. Their release,”MOOD,” sold 35,000 copies in the US & UK and is credited as “the first ambient house track.” Farina relocated to San Francisco in 1992. Fans embraced Mark’s downtempo style and he started co-hosting a weekly Mushroom Jazz club night in ʻ93. In 3 short years, Farina established a fanatical, cult-like following for his Mushroom Jazz sound and in 1996, OM Records released the first mixed comp CD, simply titled, Mushroom Jazz. Since then, Mark has released 7 volumes of Mushroom Jazz with 2013 marking the 20th anniversary of the series. Other notable releases include OMʼs Seasons, San Francisco Sessions Vol. 1, Connect, House of Om, Live in Tokyo, and Fabric 40. When Mark’s not touring the world, headlining festivals including Harbourlife (Sydney), Southport Weekender (UK), DEMF (Detroit), Coachella (CA) and T in the Park (Scotland), you’re likely to find him in his studio working on new releases or podcasts for his label, Great Lakes Audio. On days off he’ll be cruising his ‘68 Toronado with his son, Dylan (aka “little peanut”), and his Yorkie, Pumpkin. Voted as one of the top DJ’s in the world by URB, MUZIK and BPM magazines, Mark Farina’s taste making skills continue to turn the heads of seasoned Dance Music veterans as well as newcomers to the scene. http://www.djmarkfarina.net http://dopedenproductions.com http://twitter.com/djmarkfarina 52 | GEDMAG.com BARTAB: SAN FRANCISCO (continued) Do we need to add your listing? Do we need to update your listing? Contact us at [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 53 Las Vegas Hustlaball 2015 is now one for the record books. During its Martin Luther King weekend run at The Artisan boutique hotel it managed to bring sex, kink, porn stars, freaks, jocks, hookers, drag queens, go go boys and everything in between under the same roof. Just some of the porn stars in attendance were: Trenton Ducati, Ryan Rose, Boomer Banks, Sebastian Kross, Casey Everett, Brent Corrigan, Jesse Colter, Kurtis Wolfe, Armond Rizzo, Leo Forte, Brenner Bolton, Johnny V, Blue Bailey, Samuel Stone, Theo Ford, Eli Lewis, Rocco Steele, Bennett Anthony, Ryan Raz, Brandon Baker & Cockyboys: Tayte Hansen, Levi Karter and Ricky Roman. The reviews on the entire weekend have been generally favorable. Let’s be honest, the promoters could have done a carbon copy of what they did last year and played it safe, but these bitches took it one step further, incorporating hardcore sex in every aspect of the weekend made ticket holders of this now annual event eat it all up! If you were a hotel guest, you were less than impressed with the tiny rooms. “What the fuck, I thought I was getting a suite,” I think I exclaimed. Although no fault to the promoters of Hustlaball, The Artisan is in dire need of a spring cleaning and a gay touch. However, seeing it from the perspective of the Hustlaball crew this small, unassuming hotel was the perfect location for porn aficionados day or and night. Saturday night was the VIP Party located on the 5th floor of the hotel. The crazy part: the entire floor was filled with men half naked looking for some action. Pop star Lance Bass even mentioned on his weekly radio show “Dirty Pop” that he was receiving photos of men in action. Granted I can’t recall too much and I’m not sure how much I’m legally allowed to say. The main deejay for the evening was DJ Euro-Steve and in any given room you could find random guys going at it, and with performances going on by the professionals like Ryan Rose! Porn-celebrities like director Mr. Pam were in attendance catcalling for men to have sex. When I grow up I want to be like Pam! Obviously Mr. Pam is a supporter of mixing business and pleasure! The sex and the party didn’t stop until the sun came up! No one seemed to tire of exploring all that the 5th floor had to offer. Sunday was the official Hustlaball party and there was a line out the door around the corner, and it seemed at one point that the fire department might have to come and disperse the crowd. Admittedly it’s a phenomenal party when Las Vegas locals can’t even elbow their way in the doors. Literally, you HAD to be at this party! I was the negative Nancy telling most of my party that this would be soft core only since it was in the lobby and main lounge area of the hotel and security was everywhere. I’m usually not wrong, but I was blown away to see Rocco Steele and Bennett Anthony going at it in one of the side rooms. This room had a packed attendance for every sex show that was featured throughout the night. The one complaint people had was they didn’t know where to go or what was happening when. You would walk into one room and a random spectator would say “Did you see what just happened in that room over there?” I felt like I was at a theme park and needed not only a map, but a breakdown of what time everything was happening! Again the party didn’t end until the sun came up and I know this because the romper room was on floor three – the floor I was staying on and we heard the fans walking up and down screaming until 6am. Overall the weekend was EVERYTHING and I have to give the team of Las Vegas Hustlaball a BIG “thumbs up” for taking a chance, being creative and pushing the boundaries of what I thought would ever go down in a small hotel off the Las Vegas Strip! For now we wait, until next year…. 54 | GEDMAG.com Aquarius (January 20th - February 18th) “Yes.” This simple word rolls off the tongue with grace. It brings a sense of calmness and peace to things. You, generally, are a “yes” sign taking on challenges, that extra load or help to finish any project. You pride yourself in facilitating, but learn to say “no” this month. This will keep you from taking on a task that can bring more trouble than it’s worth. Pisces (February 19th - March 20th) The chances of you winning the grand prize lottery is about 1 in 175,223,510. You might ask yourself, “What’s the use of even playing?” Well, that’s the thing - you have to play to win. You might be a bit apprehensive of an uncertain path that has been presented to you. Playing it safe won’t always ensure progress. Why not roll the dice? You might just hit the jackpot after all. Aries (March 21st - April 19th) There’s an old Mark Twain quote that says, “If it’s your job to eat a frog, it’s best to do it first thing in the morning.” At first glance or sound of it, you might think it to be a silly saying, but the importance of this metaphor, for you, is learning to deal with any doubts at hand first thing, so the rest of the day may run a bit smoother. You will find this simple trick will serve you well. Taurus (April 20th - May 20th) Orenda- a mystical force present in all people that empowers them to affect the world, or change in their own life. Your Orenda is beaming with a blinding light. Now is the time to act. Try out that new idea. Phase your tactics of domination into your health and crush that “I want to get fit” into “I am fit!” Empower yourself and trouble the waters. The force is with you. Gemini (May 21st - June 20th) There’s a friend/colleague in your life that you don’t seem to be getting through to. You’ve exhausted all trails, made the banners and t-shirts, even left huge bread crumbs to the obvious solution. Still, they waiver in uncertainty on what to do. It’s time to stop trying to help. They’ll need to get this on their own. Their need for you is support. Cancer (June 21st - July 22nd) “Ready or not, here I come.” Sometimes we see life’s storms coming, causing us to burrow and hide till it passes. But you don’t always have to wade through the downpour. An eagle will soar above the storm and pass up all inclement weather while maintaining a beautiful view of its flight. Any potential threats mean spread your wings and soar high. Leo (July 23rd- August 22nd) Imagine you were floating out in space, with nothing. The illu- 56 | GEDMAG.com sion of having nothing, or losing everything can be terrifying to some. We want to hold on to all this stuff, as if this stuff, other people, status, material possessions define who we are. But you know better. When you let go of everything, and the idea no longer scares you, you can be quite happy in your outer-space. Virgo (August 23rd- September 22nd) In nature, when winter rolls in, everything seems to die off as part of a much bigger cycle. Death doesn’t have to be so ugly. In fact, it can be quite beautiful! This time of year, the pace of life is slowing down to show you what no longer belongs. You can change your life in this cool clarity. Use these beginning months of the year to plan out what you want to see. Libra (September 23rd- October 22nd) What makes you happy? What excites you? What’s your joy, bliss, passion? We all have something that lights that fire inside of us - have you discovered what yours is yet? Don’t make excuses. Find that life purpose, not what society, self, or anybody has lead you to believe is your passion. You know you. Go do it. Scorpio (October 23rd-November 21st) You have an obligation to be the best you, the “Great I Am” that you can be. You owe it to yourself to do good. Don’t let fear consume you to the point you don’t do anything. Let go of the “what if’s”, open up that heart; laugh, love, do all you can do with this time that you have right now. Sagittarius (November 22nd- December 21st) Practice makes perfect, right? We can think, meditate, or tell ourselves how we’ll react to a situation. But it’s not until we get out there and live, that we get to put all these beautiful thoughts into practice. You will be tested this month, Sagittarius. Don’t cling to just the ideas of being a nice, better person, act on it. When the opportunities present themselves to you, this is the time to DO. Capricorn (December 22nd- January 19th) There’s a problem that keeps reoccurring in your life, Capricorn. The universe (you) finds a way of attracting similar people, events, and scenarios into your life until you pass the test. You can’t seem to identify what it is, how it got there, or if you even have a problem at all. Like seeing something out of the corner of your eye, but when you go to look at it nothing’s there. It’s hard to solve a problem, when you’re not quite sure where to begin. Visualize the end result and how it feels to not have this problem. HUSTLABALL LAS VEGAS The annual porn star extravaganza at the Artisan Hotel in Las Vegas. VIP, cocktail and dance parties and dozens of porn stars. Sponsored by Gay Entertainment Directory. Photos by: @PhilliyT - NightsInWeho.com Click here to add photo or Drag photo here 58 | GEDMAG.com HOOKIES Mr. LA Escort of the Year Rentboy.com’s 2015 Mr. LA Escort of the Year contest at Mickys. Hosted by ChiChi LaRue and Billy Francesca. Photos by: @PhilliyT - NightsInWeho.com GEDMAG.com | 59 February 27, 2015 Loveball San Francisco, CA Portland’s Love Ball is coming to San Francisco. Loveball is a charity event for San Francisco’s OPENHOUSE, a nonprofit that serves the needs of the LGBTQ senior community. Celebrity Judges and DJs. Doors open at 9p, Ball begins at Midnight. $20 Cover. For tickets and more information, visit: www.sfoasis.com. April 3-5, 2015 Cathedral City LGBT Days April 3 – 5, 2015 The First Annual Cathedral City LGBT Days Cathedral City, CA Not your typical Pride event, this event promises to be interactive, festive, and OUTrageous! Fun events including: Bed Races, Pool Parties, Easter Bonnet Contest, Bar Hops, and more await you. Visit http://tinyurl.com/mxtnsez for more information. February 28, 2015 Rainbow Galleria – The Premiere Same Sex Wedding Planning Event of the Season Santa Monica, CA Plan your wedding in a fun, loving and welcoming environment. Showcasing the best LGBT friendly exhibitors covering the spectrum of wedding resources, including destination weddings. Panel discussions, cake tastings and more. For more information about the event, please visit www.rainbowgalleria.com. April 5th Easter Walk Long Beach, CA. 18th Annual Easter Walk Benefitting the St. Mary’s CARE Program. www.EasterWalk.com March 21, 2015 The Black & White Ball Long Beach, CA The LGBTQ Center of Long Beach’s signature gala is back with an evening of elegance and sophistication in the spirit of celebrating our community’s many accomplishments. Dinner, dancing, awards and celebrity guests, all at the Hotel Maya. Tickets are on sale now! Visit www.centerlb.org for all the details. April 11-12, 2015 Phoenix Pride Phoenix, AZ This year’s 35th Annual Phoenix Pride Festival will be a two day celebration with over 150 entertainment performances on 5 stages and over 300 Exhibitors showcasing a huge variety of food options, shopping opportunities and community resources. The Phoenix Pride Parade steps off on Sunday April 12th at 10am. For more information visit www. phoenixpride.org. Let Us Know About Your Events [email protected] GEDMAG.com | 63 This is the high point of Leather Contest Season as I call it and it’s great to see the contests are starting to have more than two contestants as in the last few years. Regardless of your opinion on “Leather Contests” and “Titleholders” it’s great to see there is still an interest in stepping up and keeping that part of our history alive. For many this can be a way of breaking out of their shell and taking on a new adventure. One of the two largest contests held in California is produced by the San Francisco Bay Area Leather Alliance and they have announced their contestants for Mr. SAN FRANCISCO LEATHER 2015 being held during Leather Alliance Weekend, March 5 – 8, 2015. Current titleholder Scott “Big Red” Farrell, Mr. SF Leather 2014 will pass the sash to one of these lucky Leather Men. Mr. POWERHOUSE Leather – Daniel DeLage Mr. SF EAGLE Leather – Chris Humphreys Mr. EDGE Leather – Gerald Borjas Groups and Individuals who create and support communities in San Francisco through events and projects since 1965. This is the longest-running Leather Community Awards in the world. I do want to acknowledge two titleholders In NorCal that I had missed previously. Mr. Santa Clara County Leather 2014, Frank and Ms. Santa Clara County Leather 2014, Diana Heideman for winning their titles last November. Frank says his platform for my title year is: “Bridging the Changing Faces of Leather & Kink.” With that check out his website and see all the great events they have already had and look for any new events coming up at www.mrsccl2014.com Speaking of contests the latter part of January had quite a few SoCal titleholders around Los Angeles selected in preparation of the 2015 Mr. LA Leather Contest in March. Mr. EAGLE LA Leather – Patrick Smith; Mr. PISTONS Leather – Brain Goss; Mr. LA LEATHER BEAR – Frank Cavallo; Mr. OIL CAN HARRY’S Leather – Franco Americano Mr. SOBER SF Leather – Stephen Shute Mr. FRIENDLY SF Leather – Steve Jirgl Mr. DADDY’S BARBERSHOP Leather – Trevor Wisnieski Since 2008 The SF Bay Area Leather Alliance has been a 100% volunteer 501(c)(3) non-profit organization that was formed by merging of the Inter-Club Fund and the Leather Forum. “While honoring the pasts of both organizations, the Leather Alliance is committed to moving forward with our communities. Our Board reflects the clubs, groups and individuals within the leather, fetish, kink, gear and motorcycling communities.” The Alliance also offers education through their member organizations which you can find on their website www.leatheralliance.org. The week actually kicks off with the 4th Annual Community Roast/Tribute to Donna Sachet on Friday, February 27 at BeatBox. As the “Leather Empress” Absolute Empress 30 of San Francisco, Donna Sachet has been a big supporter of the leather community by having emceed the Mr. SF Leather Contest for many years as well has hosted the titleholders brunch at Folsom every year. Congratulations on a well-deserved tribute and recognition by the San Francisco Community. During the week there will be several seminar events one of which is a PReP Symposium by Mr. LA Leather Eric Leue on March 5 at Mr. S Leather from 7-10PM. The Contest will take place on March 7 at the Hotel Whitcomb. Rounding out the week is the SF Leather Community Awards on March 8. Previously known as the ICF Motorcycle Awards they have been honoring 64 | GEDMAG.com UPCOMING CONTESTs & EVENTS: FEBRUARY 7: MR. BULLET LEATHER 2015 – The Bullet Bar. Contact Michael or Steve for more information. (http://tiny.cc/mrbullet2015) FEBRUARY 28 MR. OCIC LEATHER – The Frat House. The Orange County Imperial Court is producing its first Leather Contest. Contact Puppy Jeff or Mr. Gay OCIC Anthony for more info (http:// tiny.cc/ocicleather) MARCH 22-29 LA LEATHER PRIDE - There are several events leading up to the 2015 Mr. Los Angeles Leather Contest on March 28 with the OFF SUNSET FESTIVAL happening on Mar. 29 (http://tiny.cc/ laleatherpride) To get all the information on each event type the tiny url into your browser and it will take you directly to the website or Facebook event page. Have an event you want covered? Email me at [email protected]. Remember to always have fun and play safe. 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