Prom Guide
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Prom Guide
PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:04 AM Page F1 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:04 AM Page F2 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 1 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 2 what’s going on? We are pleased to bring you PromsPlus!™ Prom, AfterProm, and Career Planning Guide. This unique planning and resource guide is designed for high school Juniors and Seniors to provide information and resources for Prom season and careers beyond Prom; for Prom and After-Prom planning committees to successfully sponsor safe and fun events; and for parents to guide students toward safe, alcohol and drug-free choices. Our goal is to bring you a fun, user-friendly guide that promotes safe and fun events, driver safety, and informed career choices, and discourages drug and alcohol use. Proms Plus! has Three Sections: Students: Prom checklists, makeup, tuxedos, dresses, limousines. Asking your date and Who pays What? Looking your best and having fun. Careers: College, Tech School, job market, it’s all here. Undecided? 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Have a great school year! contents Proms Checklist - Girls /Guys . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4 Choosing a Prom Gown . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7 Prom Advice - Girls . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10 Prom Advice - Guys . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11 Tux Tips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12 Prom Tales . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13 Tips for a Safe Prom . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .15 Prom Etiquette . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .16 He Pays She Pays - Who Pays What . . . . . . . . . . .17 Be Prepared . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18 Prom Make-Up Tips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .18 Renting A Limousine . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .19 What’s Next Career Guide . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .29 Choosing A Career Path SAT Tips / Essays College Planning Timetable Paying For College Getting A Job / Apprenticeship Programs Military Options Prom Planning Section . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .36 Prom Planning Timetable . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .36 Budgeting & Fundraising . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .37 Choosing a Facility . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .39 Themes & Decorating . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42 Entertainment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .44 Favors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .53 Security / Permits & Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .55 Planning Other School Events . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .56 Directory of Services . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .57 Copyright 2005 Milestone Media Group, Inc. All rights reserved. Milestone Media Group, Inc. does not endorse any product or service listed or advertised in this publication. We reserve the right to reject any advertisement or listing that we feel is not in keeping with the publication’s standards. The publisher has made every attempt at accuracy. We do not assume any and hereby disclaim any liability to any party for any loss or damage caused by errors or omissions in this publication. Reproduction of any part of PromsPlus!™ is permitted only with written permission of the publisher. Some material adapted by permission from the Baltimore County Health Department, Bureau of Substance Abuse; and from the following excellent websites: www.promdress.net • www.madd.org and from the Maryland Highway Safety Office. Also used as resources in developing this guide, the following websites contain much useful information: www.prom-night.com • www.proms.net • www.perfectproms.com • www.drugfreeamerica.com The career section was developed with information from the Maryland State Department of Education (www.msde.state.md.us) Maryland Higher Education Commission (www.mhec.state.md.us) and Maryland CareerNet (www.careernet.state.md.us) and from the Maryland Association of Community Colleges (www.mdacc.org) and www.collegeboard.com. We also thank the many students, parents, and vendors who offered suggestions and comments during the development of this guide. 2 Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 3 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 4 prom checklists for the girls for the guys ❏ ❏ Start using this checklist. Ask how much money your parents are willing to contribute. List your expenses. Start saving money if necessary. Shop for that special dress. When you find it, you can put it on lay-away if need be. ❏ ❏ Pick out accessories that will coordinate with your dress and/or with your date’s outfit. Start taking care of your hair and nails, particularly if you have short or bitten nails. If you are growing your hair out, trim it every 4 weeks to avoid frizzy, split ends. ❏ 16 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ 12 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ 6 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ ❏ ❏ Purchase your Prom tickets. Pick out styles or start trying different styles of hair, even if you are doing it yourself. If you have not been asked for a date yet, check out the advice on page 10. Discuss your Prom plans with your parents. (Very Important!) 4 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ ❏ Pick up your Prom dress. Break in your Prom shoes by wearing them several times. Your feet will thank you later! Make appointments to have your hair, makeup and nails done. Everyone will want to be at the salon on that day. If you get stuck, try a salon further away, near a high school whose Prom is not on the same day as yours. 2 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ ❏ Confirm all reservations and appointments you have made for Prom day. Collect your supplies: camera, film, clear nail polish, extra pantihose, phone card, change, cash, student ID, tickets, etc. Let your parents meet your Prom date, if they haven’t already. Prom Day ❏ ❏ 4 Pick up your date’s boutonniere. Go to your hair, nails, and makeup appointment(s). 16 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ ❏ Start using this checklist. Ask how much money your parents are willing to contribute. Start saving money. Plan out a budget to cover costs. Ask your date, if you know who you want to go with! 12 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ ❏ If you have not asked someone for a date yet (or been asked!), check out the advice on page 11. Go for a tux fitting. It is helpful to know what color dress your date will wear. Coordinate colors and style. Start looking into transportation. Whose car, who will drive, or consider renting a limousine with a group. Ask around for a good restaurant for dinner before the Prom, if dinner is not included at the Prom. Consider your date’s taste in food and atmosphere (ask, if you’re not sure!). 6 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ Purchase your Prom tickets. Discuss your Prom plans with your parents. (Very Important!) 2 Weeks before prom... ❏ ❏ ❏ Call and confirm your dinner reservations, if applicable. Finalize your plans with friends, date and parents. Order your date’s corsage (coordinate color with her dress). Several Days before prom... ❏ ❏ ❏ ❏ ❏ Confirm all reservations and appointments you have made for Prom day. Wash your car and vacuum it, if applicable. Get a haircut. What time will you pick her up? Collect your supplies: Camera, film, phone card or cell phone, change, cash, student ID, tickets, etc. Prom Day ❏ ❏ Pick up your date’s corsage. (Keep it refrigerated until you leave.) Pick up your tuxedo, if you haven’t already. Make sure to get a tie and cummerbund (these could also match your date’s dress), dress shoes, cuff links and studs. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 5 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 6 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 7 choosing the perfect gown 2006 Edition The style of gowns varies from year to year. Start by looking through magazines, especially Prom magazines, or through the malls, just to see what is available. Check out dress boutiques for more unique styles. Try the internet for a wide selection of styles and sizes. You may be more likely to find a unique style on the internet. Just be quite sure to check out their return policy. However, customer service will be better at a local shop. Prom dresses are not cheap, particularly a quality dress. Longer, more elegant dresses, and anything with beads or lace, are more expensive. Get an idea of what you are looking for before you try on dresses. This will eliminate many styles that you know aren‘t right for you. And if you have doubts, try it on. Don‘t pass up a possibility (anything that is NOT a “no way!”) without trying it on. The experts know that many dresses look different on you than on the rack. This is where using a local shop with a knowledgeable salesperson is most valuable. Start shopping early, you may be able to find a sale or one at an outlet store. Wait too long and the selections get picked over. Don‘t overlook thrift stores and consignment shops. These have some nice bargains and even the latest styles. You may consider a dressmaker for a custom look. Remember, this will be an expensive choice, and you still may not get exactly what you imagined (pictures help with this). Be patient and have fun with the shopping. It adds to and extends the excitement of the Prom. Few people find their perfect dress the first time out. If you are traveling, remember to check out stores in other cities or areas. Different cities do stock different styles, or may carry more of what you are looking for. Just remember, returns are difficult when the store is 400 miles away. Don‘t forget about matching shoes and handbag. Shoes should be worn in (around the house) to make them more comfortable on Prom night. A handbag should be large enough for your essentials: lipstick, extra pantihose, film/camera, calling card, money, etc. Consider a chiffon shawl as a finishing touch to your gown This is draped around your neck, but also looks great over your arm. Be sure to choose a color that compliments your dress. and relax! don’t stress over the dress. Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 7 PromsPlus2006 8 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 8 Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 9 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:06 AM Page 10 advice for girls This is my first year going to prom, and since I am a freshman, my parents are very worried and aren’t allowing me to stay out very long. What can I do so that they will extend my curfew? Well, you can promise to be good, for one thing. Tell them you won‘t be drinking, doing drugs, or any of the other really stupid stuff, and that if the people you‘re with want to do that, then you will personally call your parents and ask them to take you home. Tell them to please trust you, and to give you some adult responsibility in this. Tell them you won‘t let them down - and then prove it to them by not letting them down! You can also add that, if they like, you‘ll check in with them every once in a while by phone. This way they‘ll know where you are and what you‘re doing. It might make them feel more at ease. What‘s a boutonniere and where does it go? It‘s a small floral arrangement the girl gets for the guy, and it goes on his lapel, or in his buttonhole, or somewhere near his heart. Is it pathetic to get set up for prom on a blind date? One of my close friends is setting up me and a few other people with her boyfriend’s friends who go to other schools. I feel like a loser but I’d rather go with someone from a different school. Am I right to feel this way or what? Why should you feel like a loser? Just think about it: you‘re going with someone you haven‘t met before, and that‘s a unique opportunity to meet a new person - it‘s a wild card, and wild cards often turn out to be the most exciting and fun of all. Still, we know what you mean; being set up with a date isn‘t the same as being asked. So yes, you can feel like a loser, and you’re not wrong for feeling that way – however, just remember that your feeling doesn‘t reflect reality. And in reality, the only losers are those who don‘t go at all (i.e., because they feel like losers). I want to wear a white strapless gown to my boyfriend’s senior prom, but that‘s the color they wear to graduate and is kind of “weddingy” (we‘ve also been together for 1-1⁄ 2 years, so people might joke). What do you think, is pure white ok for prom? Yes, pure white is just fine for a prom, don‘t worry. You won‘t be the only one in white. As long as the gown doesn‘t have sleeves or a lot of beading on the bodice and nowhere else, it won‘t be confused with a wedding-type gown. If some of your friends 10 can i ask him? want to joke – well, let them. You just go ahead and look your best and have yourself a ball. Courtesy of Promdress.net Don’t assume you have to have a date to go to the Prom - you don’t. Going with a friend, a group, or by yourself can be just as much fun. After all, it’s a celebration of your time in school, and everyone deserves to celebrate! But if you’d like to ask a date, here are some tips: • All stereotypes and traditions are broken, and girls often ask guys to go to the Prom. The attitude is “Why wait?” • Ask in person, not over the phone or by e-mail. Don’t lose the effect of eye contact and body language. • Ask as soon as you can, or your date will be going with someone else! • If you get asked, and the answer is no, let him down easily. Rejection is a hard feeling to overcome. What is the latest a person should ask her date to the prom? What is the usual amount of time that she should ask ahead of the prom? There is no latest time to ask but you should start asking as early as possible because you don’t want someone else to beat you to him! We know a girl who was asked to her senior prom three months before the actual date, so that should give you some idea of what’s possible. However, whatever you do, don’t wait. You might lose him. There’s a guy I’ve been crushing on for 2 years now. I know he’s liked me off and on. Lately I’ve talked to him more and more. Everyone says that he likes me, but I don’t know. Prom is a month away and I really want to ask him but I don’t know how or if I should. We’ve become good friends, but lately I’ve been shy around him. Several other guys have asked me, but I haven’t answered them. Should I ask my crush, or go with my guy friends? Two words: Ask him! Just listen to yourself! ‘lately you’ve been shy around him,’ ‘other guys have asked you but you haven’t answered’ – and so on! To us that says only one thing: yeah, you’re really crushing on this guy. So think about it, how much fun are you going to have if you go with someone else and you’re thinking of him all the time? Or worse, if you’re there with someone else, and he’s there with someone else, and both of you are thinking, hey, how stupid that we didn’t dare ask each other! Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 11 advice for guys 2006 Edition ...a couple of common questions. What’s the proper way to greet your prom date when you pick her up? The proper way is to pinch her on the cheek and growl - just joking. Above all, be courteous, and be formal. Say hello to her, of course. And, very very very very very very very important!: tell her she looks absolutely great. Almost as important: don’t slouch at her parents’ door when you pick her up. Talk to her folks for a few minutes. And, if you have a corsage to give her, now is the time to do it. If she lets you, then you can pin it on her dress. If it’s the wrist type, then slip it over her left wrist. asking your date I’m bringing my girlfriend to the prom and I’m not sure if I am supposed to get her a gift, like jewelry or something. If yes, what? You are definitely supposed to get her a corsage – but you already know that. So yes, although you don’t have to, you can also get her a gift. You’re too young for jewelry (that’s serious stuff!), unless you get her a very simple bracelet or necklace. Or, you can go with cute and get her a teddy bear or some other furry animal. If you have it personalized with your names and the date of prom, she will really love that. Courtesy of Promdress.net Don’t assume you have to have a date to go to the Prom - you don’t. Going with a friend, a group, or by yourself can be just as much fun. After all, it’s a celebration of your time in school, and everyone deserves to celebrate! But if you’d like to ask a date, here are some tips: 1. Ask in person, not over the phone or by e-mail. Don’t lose the effect of eye contact and body language. 2. A small gift or flowers helps sway a decision. 3. Ask as soon as you can, or your date will be going with someone else! 4. Don’t be shocked if the girl asks you, all stereotypes and old notions are gone. 5. If you get asked, and the answer is no, let her down easily. Rejection is a hard feeling to overcome. Well it’s kind of stupid, but there is this girl I really wanted to ask to go to the prom with, but I’m too shy to ask her. I really like her and I’m friends with her, the only thing she doesn’t know is that I like her more than as a friend. The first time I saw her I liked her right away. I really want to ask her to the prom, but like I said, I’m too shy and I’m kind of scared she will say no and then I look like an idiot. All my friends told me to do it and that if I don’t, they’ll do it for me. Do you think I should just ask her and how should I do it? If she says yes, do you think I should tell her how I feel about her right after she says yes or should I wait until the prom and tell her then? And one more thing, she is very popular in our school although she doesn’t think she is. Now our prom is about 12 weeks away, do you think I should ask her right after spring break or wait for the prom to be a week away? I agree with your friends: ask her, and do it soon. If you don’t, I hope your friends ask her for you! I’m serious. Come straight out and ask her. Right after spring break at the latest. As you said, she’s really popular; so if you don’t want someone else to beat you to her do not wait until a week before prom. So what if she says no? It’s not the end of the world. But if you and she are friends, and if you are the first one to ask her, I doubt she’ll say no. Nor will you look like an idiot if she says no. Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 11 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 12 tux tips Your tux is also a reflection of your taste and personality... 12 You really do need to wear a tux! Your date will be looking hot, you’ll want to look your sharpest, too. Renting is your best bet, and it will probably cost anywhere from $50-$150. Rentals usually include everything: shoes, tie, shirt, vest or cummerbund, and accessories. Many rental shops will also sell you a custom fit tux, as well. Here’s the 411 from our fashion guru: Plan ahead. Don’t wait for the last week before prom, because you could be out of luck. Call ahead and ask about the store’s policy on fitting, pick-up and return. Choose one shop where you’ll be treated first class, and go for a fitting about 3 months before the date. The hottest styles and colors, and some sizes sell out early, so don’t delay! Discuss plans with your date. This is about matching style and color with her gown. Either take her with you or ask for a color swatch of her gown. If you’re not sure what color she will wearing, order a classic black tux with neutral-color accessories (black, white, silver). And if gown colors change after your fitting, it should not be a problem to switch cummerbund and tie colors, since these are usually one-size-fits-all. Choose the right style. Some styles fit different body types better than others. Try a few on and see what you like. Just remember the type of affair and your date’s dress. Comfort rules. No prom is fun if you’re uncomfortable, so choose your tuxedo for comfort as well as style. Avoid straining your jacket buttons or tight trousers. Likewise, make certain your formal shoes fit properly and are comfortable enough to spend the evening on the dance floor. Accessories make the man. Details complete your outfit. Shoes should be plain black dress shoes, polished to a high shine, or patent leather shoes from your formalwear dealer. Cummerbund (a formal sash worn around the waist) and bow tie should match each other and at least coordinate (not clash) with your date. Vests are popular, but they are worn instead of, not with, a cummerbund. Cuff links and shirt studs complete the formal look, so ask your retailer for an upgrade from the basic accessory package. The complete look. If you want to stand out from the pack do it with choices your formalwear dealer recommends. Sneakers, jeans or tee-shirts with a formal jacket usually spells fashion disaster. And wear only dark dress socks, leaving your white sweat socks at home. You want to turn heads with your hot looks, not clownish chuckles. Underneath it all. Do not wear a regular white dress shirt. It doesn’t match, and everyone will know you’re skimping. Instead, a plain (or fancy) formal shirt is what you need. The sleeve should be a bit longer than the jacket arm, defining the sleeve and showing off the cuff links. A wingtip collar is good for a bow tie, lay down or button down collar for a longer tie. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 13 prom tales Perfect Evening For my junior prom, I wore a knee-length, cream, strapless color dress from The White House/Black Market store. I even had a design put on my stockings that said, "Savannah." I went to my prom with my friend, Timothy, from church. He was a gentleman, and he treated like a lady, with respect...all night long! My prom was held in my school's (Western Tech.) den, the old gymnasium. It was decorated beautifully, and I had a great time. We danced all night long and took many pictures. After prom, we left with a few of my friends to go eat at an Italian restaurant in Little Italy. The food was exquisite! My junior prom night then ended with me going over my best friend, Erinne's, house for a sleep over. We talked about who looked cute, pretty, and a horrid mess at prom. We had many laughs that night. My night couldn't have been anymore perfect. - Savanna Cola Collision I'm a sophomore and I got asked to the prom by a friend of mine. We're kind of like family. Well, on the day of prom everyone that was attending the prom left school early so they could go do their personal things before prom like hair appointments, nail appointments, etc. Well I went to the hair salon and got my hair done as planned that after my hair appointment I went home to get ready to go to the promenade at 5:30 before prom. Ok, my date John (that's his name) his ex-girlfriend found out that we were going to prom together. So, anyway she tried her best to mess up everything for me and John so, we went to the promenade as we planned to. It was open to students that went to our school and anyone that wanted to see the prom couples walk in. So, she tried to ruin my dress before I walked out with my date to mess everything because, she was jealous that John was taking me to prom instead of her. I wore a light pink gown that faded to a darker pink. It was strapless and gorgeous. So, I was thirsty and I asked for a drink of soda. They only had cola and other dark drinks so, (the ex-girlfriend) tried to accidently try to spill the cola on my gown. I kind of knew she was trying something sneaky so I dodged the soda and it landed on the Principal Mr. S. I swung at her and when she hit the floor I yelled in her face "Are you trying to mess up my gown? Do you know how much this dress costs and how long it took to find and buy it?" I was [very angry] at her. She apologized to my date and me but, she still got in trouble for throwing the soda on Mr. S. After that hilarious experience at the promenade, my date and I couldn't help from having a good time at prom. Prom was so much fun! I can't wait until next year's prom and MY Senior prom in 2006. I'm already counting down the days to next year's prom ! - D.B. Mixed Bag I went to my boyfriend's senior prom in 2004. I was a home- schooled 10th grader at the time and he went to Milford Mill. I wore a black strappy grown that was sexy but not slutty. My date 2006 Edition As submitted to our website www.promsplus.com was a little late. I was kinda mad about that because I had all these people in my house just looking at me while I waited. Once he got there and we did all the "awwwws,” and "how cutes,” we went to his house for a repeat. On our way to prom, which was at some hotel downtown, my date forgot the tickets and had to go back. We got to prom and I saw my ex-boyfriend and my friend. I knew they were coming together, but still! Anyway we took the pics and then went to the after party at the ESPN zone. My ex-boyfriend kept asking me to dance with him so I told him I'll think about it. Since I really didn't want to, we left and had a wonderful time on the ride home. - Samantha Jimmy, Steve & Joe I had planned to go to my Junior Prom with Jimmy, my boyfriend at the time like 7 months before Prom. Well on Prom day I got out of school early because I had a nail appointment. Like an hour after I got home, Jimmy's mom called me and told me that he got arrested today and he couldn't go to my prom. I was so upset I didn't know what to do, so I called my friend Steve to see if he had an old tux that he could wear and go to Prom with me, he was at work and couldn't get off early. Jimmy's mom called me like ten minutes after I got off the phone with Steve and said that if I could find someone to go with me that they would pay for their tux, my corsage, and dinner. Mr Mike, Jimmy's dad, had close friendships with a couple of the people who worked at the Harley Davidson Store, and this boy Joe that I had a crush on for like two years worked there. Mr. Mike told me to call there and ask Joe if he would go with me, I felt so dumb. Mr. Mike drove up to the store and asked Joe for me and told him he would pay for everything and Joe said he would. Mr. Mike got him off of work early and showed him how to get to my house. When he got here I was so scared because I had no idea what to say to him. When we got to Martin's, where the prom was, we took pictures and danced and then he asked me to be his girlfriend. Needless to say I broke up with Jimmy for Joe. - Jessica One Romantic Evening I went to Senior prom last year with Bryan, this cute guy that I’d seen for a while around school. We had one class together last year even though I was only a Junior. We talked a bit every couple of days until he asked me to Prom and it was really unexpected! He somehow managed to put an invitation into my note book for that class, asking me to meet him in the parking lot after the last bell. I still think my friend Jen helped him place the card, but she said no. It was so cute, it had fancy lettering and hand drawn flowers and ballet slippers (I’m a dancer). Anyway, I was all excited because I pretty much knew what he would ask, but when I met him outside it was so windy I could hardly stand up, so we ran back to the cafeteria to talk. My hair was so messed up he couldn’t see my face as we came inside. I told him the note was so nice and he asked me to go to his Senior prom with him. Continued on page 14 Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 13 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 14 prom tales Continued... Staying calm, I asked him if he had any plans and he told me about them, and also told me he’d been saving to pay for my ticket, and that he was also saving to chip in for a limo with a few other people. I told him I’d love to and that I wouldn’t mind helping out with the limo too. He got a big grin across his face and it was set. Prom was great! I bought a dark pink open back gown and a matching purse. The shoes hurt, I should have worn them in, but oh well. Bryan picked me up and drove me to his parents, we took pics, then off to his friend Rob’s house. A huge limo picked 10 of us up and drove to the Prom. They did a great job with decorations, every thing was perfect, Bryan looked so hot that night! We danced, but I don’t remember the food, chicken I think. It was very romantic and Bryan was a perfect gentleman. We went to the after prom party which was a blast, but one of the guys forgot a change of shoes and wore jeans and black shoes all night! There were tons of things to do, Rob won a radio, got tickets to movies, I won a gift certificate for shopping! It ended pretty late, and really wasn’t as tired as I thought I would get. Bryan and I still see each other and I’m looking forward to going to my Senior Prom this year. -Leslie P. Driver Safety Statistics Check This Out! • Traffic accidents are the #1 cause of death among 15-20 year olds. • 15% of young drivers have a reportable accident in their first year of driving. • Young drivers make up 7% of the population, but account for 14% of motor vehicle deaths. • Beginning drivers' crashes differ from other age groups: According to the Institute for Highway Safety, per mile traveled, they have the highest involvement rates (the most damage and injuries) in all types of crashes, from those involving only property damage to those that are fatal. Fact vs. Fiction: Alcohol Fiction: Everyone drinks, so drinking can’t hurt you. Fact: Alcohol is the most commonly used and widely abused psychoactive drug in the country. Consider This: Safety Alcohol, even at low doses, significantly impairs the judgment, reaction time, and 14 coordination required to drive a car safely. More than a third of all traffic deaths of 15- to 20-year-olds are alcohol-related. Behavior Alcohol depresses your central nervous system, impairs judgement, and increases the incidence of a variety of aggressive acts, including domestic violence and child abuse. Alcohol makes mood swings worse and leads to many risky behaviors that effect friends and family. Addiction Because it is so easily available, alcohol is very addictive. Lying about how much you drank? “Need” alcohol to have fun? Not sharp due to a hangover? You may already be addicted if the drink controls you. Alcohol kills 6 1/2 times the number of people killed by cocaine, heroin, and every other illegal drug combined. Ten million Americans are addicted to alcohol. Health Alcohol is absorbed directly into your bloodstream and can damage every organ in your body. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 15 tips for a safe prom Keep an eye on your date/driver to make sure he/she doesn’t drink any alcohol. Alcohol slows reaction time and impairs vision, clear thinking, judgment, and coordination. There are more drunk drivers on the roads during the weekend. Keep a close eye on oncoming drivers, as impaired drivers tend to drive towards lights. Know where you’re going before prom night and have directions to those places. After your red light turns green, wait a second before pulling into the intersection, just to be safe. Drive on well lit roads, and carry a phone if possible. That way, if you get a flat tire, you’re not stranded, waving down a cab with your silk tie or sequin purse. Beautiful girls are distracting enough - keep the radio volume turned low enough so your drive can concentrate on getting you to the fun. And don’t forget your seat belt! 2006 Edition Discuss plans with your friends/date ahead of time. Know your agenda and communicate with your parents. Plan ahead what you will say or do if someone offers you alcohol or another illegal drug. Use phrases such as, “No thanks,” “Are you kidding? I want to remember this night!”, or “Actually, I’d rather have a soda. Do you have one?” Know your date before you go. If your date is set-up, try to take a walk at a park or go for a smoothie before the big night. Both you and your parents will feel better about you staying out late with someone you know. Find out what your curfew is and share it with your date/friends before prom night. Discuss with your parents after-curfew possibilities (the party at your friend’s house or early morning breakfast at your place). Ask a trusted adult to be near a phone and to be available prom night in case you need to call them. Carry enough change to make several phone calls. Courtesy of MADD, www.madd.org Mothers Against Drunk Driving STUDENTS AGAINST DESTRUCTIVE DECISIONS By agreeing to this contract, we recognize that SADD encourages us to adopt a substance-free lifestyle and from the possibility of making destructive decisions. We view this contract as a means of opening the lines of communication between responsible adults and youth. We understand that we need to work together through education, support, empathy and trust. The issues with which we are faced today are too great to fight alone. It is only through our combined efforts that we can create a healthy environment in which to raise our families. YOUNG ADULT I agree to learn as much as possible about the dangerous issues facing young people today that may have a destructive influence on my life. Under this contract, whether it be underage drinking, underage smoking, wearing a seatbelt, the use of drugs or any illegal act, I make the commitment to you that I will obey the law. If confronted with any of these or other possible destructive decisions, I will share with you my concerns and seek your immediate advice and guidance. I also agree that I will not accept a ride with anyone who is under the influence of alcohol and or other drugs. RESPONSIBLE ADULT I will agree to learn as much as possible about the pressures facing young people today and to understand the difficulties you may face in making the appropriate decisions at the appropriate time. I agree to be available to you at anytime to discuss any problems you may be having regarding the many issues that you are or will be facing as a young person. I agree to obey the laws pertaining to alcohol, tobacco, drugs, and traffic safety. I also agree to seek safe, sober transportation home if I am ever in a situation where I or a friend who is driving has had too much to drink. ______________________________________________________________________________ Student Signature Date ______________________________________________________________________________ Adult Signature Date Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 15 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 16 prom etiquette For the Ladies... 1. Do be on time. Don't keep your nervous date waiting. 2. Don't forget your date’s boutonniere. 3. Don't refresh your lipstick more than one time a the table. 4. Do reserve the first and last dance for your date. 5. Do accept compliments with a polite 'Thank you’ (rather than a ‘I don't think so’). For the Gentlemen... 1. Do ask your date what color her dress is so that you may match her corsage to her dress. 2. Do ask your date if she would prefer a wrist corsage or a pinned on corsage (when in doubt, opt for the wrist corsage). 3. Don't forget the corsage. 4. Don't be late. 5. Don't lock your keys in your car. 6. Don't forget to turn off your car lights. 7. Do escort your date whenever appropriate. 8. Don't forget to tell her how beautiful she looks. For Everyone... PHOTO CONTEST PromsPlus! is giving away If dinner is not part of the prom, and you are planning to go out for dinner, bring $1 bills for coat-check($1 tip for each coat) and valet parking (around $5 plus $2 tip) Make sure to leave at least 15% tip on the entire check. for the best Prom photo. See our website for more information. www.promsplus.com It is customary for the boy to buy the girl a corsage for the prom. Try to find out what your date will be wearing, so you can avoid buying a color that will clash. The corsage may be worn on the body or wrist, always on the left. $100.00 16 1. Do use words like Please and Thank you. 2. Do use the proper silverware. Usually you start using the outside fork and work your way in. 3. Do turn your salad fork upside down on the salad plate when you are finished. 4. Do turn your coffee cup upside down if you do not want any coffee. 5. Do put your napkin on your lap. 6. Don't put your napkin on the table until you are finished eating. 7. Do place your napkin on the back of your chair if you are leaving to use the rest room. 8. Don't drink and drive. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 17 he pays she pays 2006 Edition the dollars and sense. Most parts of the prom are getting too expensive for the guy to pay by himself. He used to pay it all once, back when your parents had their proms; but times have changed and this is no longer possible for most guys. These days, what’s normal is to share some or all of the basic expenses outlined below. These include prom tickets, pictures, and transportation. If there is a post prom party with a cost involved, then you often split this, too. However, although many, many couples split these expenses, there are times when the guy prefers or insists on paying for the whole thing. Girls, if your date is gallant enough to offer to pay, then do not disappoint or otherwise insult him by refusing to let him pay. Sometimes, it’s not the money that matters, but the sacrifice - and that’s what makes the whole thing worthwhile. I asked him because he is a sophomore and I’m a senior! We both know that the guys pay for prom, but since I asked him, I feel bad making him pay for it. What should I do? You can do two things. You can pay for it yourself and not say anything - I don’t recommend this because you will probably offend him. Or, you can discuss it with him. Just tell him how you feel, and that if he wants to share the expense (or even have you pay the whole thing) then you’re willing to. He won’t though; and he’ll be glad you asked. You’ll see. I’m going to the prom with my boyfriend and it’s a fairly new relationship. He’s working a lot over his spring break and also trying to save up for a new car. I want to help him out with paying for prom so he doesn’t have to work so much but he wants to pay for it all. What should I do? In this case, let him pay for it all. Don’t hurt his feelings. The thing about money, is that he can always make more. If you don’t let him spend it as a gentleman, then it won’t matter to him whether he can make more or not; he will just be hurt and offended. Believe me, the money doesn’t mean as much to him as being proud to be able to pay. So live with that, enjoy yourself, and be proud and happy for him because of it. On prom night, what is the girl expected to pay for? That depends on your date. Traditionally, the girl didn’t pay for anything except the boutonniere. These days, however, there’s all sorts of arrangements made between the guy and the girl, and sometimes the girl even pays the whole thing – it’s not as simple as it used to be! So, if you’re worried that your date intends to pay for only a part of the evening, then you should talk it over with him and agree on who pays for what. If, on the other hand, he says nothing, then perhaps he’s a gentleman and will take care of it all. You just be sure to have his boutonniere ready! Courtesy of Promdress.net Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 17 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 18 going to prom? be prepared! It always pays these days to be prepared when you leave the house, especially on Prom night: • Take enough cash for your expenses, such as dinner, tips, incidentals, and a little extra money for emergencies. Also carry some change for a phone call, or bring a phone card. Put an extra car key in your wallet or purse in case you lose the original. • If you have a cellular phone, take it with you in case of an emergency. • Take a camera along to take pictures of each other, and extra film. (The chaperones will be more than willing to help with this job.) • Girls, carry extra panty hose or a bottle of clear nail polish to stop a run. A safety pin and a bobby pin can be a life saver! • Take care of your belongings. Don’t leave valuables on the table or in bathrooms. Even if you think you know everyone at the dance, it would be very sad to lose a camera or your money just because you were careless and left it sitting around unattended. • Discuss your plans with your parents. Include where you are going, with whom, what time you will be where, and when you can be expected home. Parents tend to worry about such things. Remember, even if they trust you, they don’t trust the other people out on the road. If it will help them relax, offer to check in with them sometime during the evening, and also if you’ll be late getting home. • After-Prom: these parties are always a blast! Don’t forget a change of clothes to be comfortable while you party. • Breath mints always come in handy for that after-dinner problem of not having access to toothpaste and a brush. prom make-up tips Eye Shadow Choose a color that compliments both your eyes and your dress. Select 3 shades in the same color family - light, medium, and dark. Apply the lightest shade on entire lid from brow to lashes. The medium shade should be applied from the lashes to just above the crease. This shade should bring out the color of your eyes and dress. The darkest color should be applied close to the lashes. Eye Liner Choose a well-sharpened black pencil. Start with a very thin line at the inner corner and let it widen slightly as you get to the outer edge. Practice makes perfect! Eyebrows Don't forget the eyebrows! Always choose an eyebrow pencil that closely matches your hair color. Using light short strokes, start at the cen18 ter and work outward. Make sure brows are properly shaped using tweezers, although the "natural" look is in fashion and tweezing may not be necessary. Mascara Whatever type you choose (waterproof, flakeproof, thickening, etc.), make sure it is black. The only exception is if you have very white brows and lashes, choose brown. Make sure it is on perfectly before you apply mascara. Apply mascara with upward and outward strokes. Don't use too much or lashes will become matted, and you don't want that to happen! Blush There are many techniques to apply cheek color. Here's a very easy way: choose a color that closely matches your desired lip color. Apply a dusting of color using small circular movements to the cheekbones. Blend to hide edges. Foundation Believe it or not, the use of foundation is not really necessary for a finished appearance. A good moisturizer is essential though, to keep your skin radiant. However, if you do want or need some additional coverage, make sure the foundation is applied lightly, so as not to clog pores or look like a mask. The shade of foundation should closely match your existing skin tone. Natural is key! Your best bet is an oil-free product with SPF protection. Lightly set make-up with powder. Lipstick To achieve lasting lip color, apply a light layer of foundation to lips and allow to dry. Color should be applied to center of lips and move outward. Blot with a tissue. Reapply a second layer of color. This will ensure color that will last the entire prom evening! Remember! A natural look is best. The more comfortable you feel with your make-up, the more confident you'll be in any situation. Hair Care All hair care products don't always work well on all hair types (dry, oily, permed, colored, normal). Chances are what works for your best friend may not work for you. Products really do help style hair, hold a set longer, give lift and protect your hair. It is important to read labels! Try several brands to determine the product that makes your hair shine and feel great! Did you know that bangs are in style again? To ensure picture-perfect bangs, try this: For large features, have bangs cut wider. For delicate features, narrow or wide bangs will work. To style, mist bangs with a volumizing hairspray and blow smooth with a paddle brush. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 19 renting a limousine 2006 Edition Limousine rentals for the Prom and After-Prom parties, once a rare sight, have now become quite common. Here are some tips to make your life easier... Limousines offer several benefits over driving yourself including EASE (Who’s driving? Are we lost? Where do we park?); SAFETY (Let a professional do the driving); and FUN. • If you plan to rent a limo, do it as early as possible! Around prom time, limo’s are in demand and you want to make sure that you are able to reserve the one you want. • Begin your search by deciding what size limousine (how many passengers) you require and what features you want. To reduce costs, plan to get together with other couples to go in a group to and from the event. • Do not choose a limousine company solely on the basis of price. A better price does not always mean a better limousine or a reliable company. So, rely on other factors along with price. Request references. How long has the limousine company been in business? Is the company and the driver licensed Visit us online at www.promsplus.com by the Maryland Public Service Commission (PCS), and what is their number? What is included in the cost? What is the hourly minimum, or is it a flat fee for Prom night? Does the time include travel time to and from the first pickup, or only the time after the limousine arrives? Can they provide proof of insurance? What model year is the vehicle? What special features does the limousine have (TV, DVD, soda bar, moon roof, etc.)? • If you can, ask to see the exact vehicle you will be renting. If not possible, ask for a sample vehicle from the fleet. Will your job be handled by an employee, or could it be subcontracted to someone else at the last minute? Is that company/driver insured and licensed? • Make sure you are treated professionally by the staff from the first call. If you are treated courteously over the phone, it is likely your chauffeur will also treat you with respect. On Prom night this includes every guest being treated special, like any paying customer. Ask how the driver will be dressed. • As you will be treated with respect by the limousine driver and staff, please respect the company’s rules. • Make certain to save a copy of the written limousine contract, which should include: a description of the vehicle you are agreeing to, including year, make and model; all costs of the rental, including gratuity, cancellation charges and deposit refund policy; pickup time, drop off time and itinerary; and company’s liability in case of breakdowns, no-shows, or other problems. Also ensure that the vehicle and driver are dedicated to you for the block of time you booked and are waiting outside for you. A side trip downtown by the chauffeur while you are at the event is unacceptable. 19 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 20 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 21 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 22 the steps to a successful prom Fact vs. Fiction: Marijuana Fortunately, there are many things you can do to prevent post-prom blues. Here are some tips for having the ultimate prom experience without any next-day regrets. Marijuana is safe to use. No one ever got hurt smoking pot. You Should Feel Comfortable With Your Date Share prom night with someone you really care about and feel OK with. Don’t go with partners who won’t respect your wishes, since this can lead to misunderstandings and possibly even regrets. Be Honest With Your Date Before the Big Night Your date may have different expectations for prom night than you do. So keep in mind that discussing something like this could save you a lot of heartache and regret. Go With a Large Group of Friends Prom isn’t just about the date; its about making memories with friends that you’ll cherish forever. Finding the perfect date isn’t everything; being with your friends is what you are going to ultimately remember anyway. Don’t Have Out-of-Reach Expectations Prom is a wonderful experience, but that doesn’t mean Brad Pitt or Jennifer Lopez will appear and sweep you off your feet. Trying to make Prom too perfect might actually ruin the big night more than better it. So bottom line: relax and enjoy your Prom. Stay Sober, Don’t Drink IT IS ILLEGAL TO DRINK IF YOU ARE UNDER 21. You know the seriousness of the risks of consuming alcohol. Just keep in mind that alcohol may make you do things that you might seriously regret afterwards. A good way to stay clear of alcohol is to go on a late night dinner or coffeehouse with your closest friends to get some quality bonding time with them. Or, better yet... Go to a Chaperoned Post-Prom Party These are often the best, most exciting parties around! Food, games, prizes. Everyone will be there, you can’t miss it! Make A Pact With Your Friends No, not like in American Pie. This kind of pact lets you look out for your friends. Its really simple all you have to do is promise to look out for each other, so no one gets into an unsafe situation. Be Prepared Plan how you'll deal with anyone who pressures you to drink or do something you don't want to do. Be prepared to say "No" (over and over again if necessary), give a witty response, change the subject or just walk away. Practice with someone you trust or in a mirror. Have Fun Finally, don’t forget to have a good time! Make memories that you can carry with you forever and never regret. Take lots of pictures and videos, and dance the night away. No matter what your prom expectations are, remember to always stay safe and healthy. 22 Fiction: Fact: Marijuana is the subject of more misinformation than any other illegal drug. Consider This: Lungs There are over 400 chemicals in marijuana. One joint has four times the cancer-causing tar of one filtered cigarette. Brain THC, the active ingredient in marijuana, affect brain cells, causing confusion, memory loss and self-control. Addictive Marijuana can be addictive. Nearly 200,000 people entered drug treatment programs last year to kick the habit. Health The body stores THC in fat cells for up to 30 days. It causes reduced immunity, damage to the heart, lungs, and reproductive system. Driving Hazard Marijuana clouds concentration, slows reaction time, causes confusion and sleepiness. These are excellent conditions to cause driving accidents. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 23 2006 Edition Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 23 PromsPlus2006 24 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 24 Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 25 2006 Edition Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 25 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 26 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 27 PromsPlus2006 28 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 28 Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! what’snext? what’s PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 29 choosing a career path Your helpful guide to college and career planning! Want to become a teacher? A cosmetologist? A lawyer? How about opening an auto body shop? High school will be over soon and only you can decide what’s next! College? Tech School? Job? Military? It’s time to think about your future. I’m going to college. Lookin’ Good! Careers that require college degrees pay, on the average over a lifetime, more that those that do not. There are many types of college with a huge selection of career fields to choose from. And even if you are undecided about your exact career choice (half of college students are still undecided or switch majors after two years), there are plenty opportunities to switch majors or career paths without losing time, money, or credits. College is a time to explore and match your interests with your abilities. A college degree shows future employers you’ve been trained to think out of the box, solving problems that you, or maybe anyone, has never encountered before. That increases your value to employers, and that means greater opportunities and earning potential. Bureau of Labor statistics show that workers with Bachelors degrees have half the unemployment and 54% higher salaries, on average, than those with high school diplomas. College isn’t for me. Private Career and Technical Schools: Maryland has hundreds, with great career training in fields from cosmetology to computer networks, real estate to commercial truck driving, dental assistant to air conditioning tech. Course work ranges from one week to several years. Many offer financial aid and career placement, and most combine hands-on experience with classroom work. Apprenticeships: Earn money and learn on the job. Companies, unions and governments all offer apprenticeship, programs for as little as one or up to six years. Check out some of these careers: electrician, insurance adjuster, flight attendant, police officer, fire fighter, plumber, brick layer, tool and die maker, corrections officer, postal carrier, operating engineer. Training is usually split between classroom and the job, and the cost is typically low, with employers picking up most of the tab. Community College: They offer certificate and Letter of Recognition programs, with careers such as medical transcriptionist, legal secretary, computer graphics, teacher’s aide, and emergency medical technician. Associate degrees might include criminal justice, nursing, office technology, accounting, physical therapist assistant, and legal studies. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the number of jobs requiring an Associates degree will increase by a larger percentage (35%) through 2010 than any other job requirement category or degree. Military: The five branches of the U.S. Military, including Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps, and Coast Guard, offer more than 300 different schools and 10,000 courses of instruction. Skills you gain in the military can be valuable when transferred to civilian life. And through the Montgomery GI Bill, you could qualify for assistance with school costs once you leave the service. over your life, you’ll always be happiest if you’re doing what you really like to do. Narrow the List Down: What types of companies hire people in your field(s)? What training/education is required? Where will you have to go or live to receive that education or work in that field? Narrow down the list to two or three choices at most, and then sit down and discuss them with people who know and people you trust: Parents, coaches, guidance counselors, clergy, older brothers or sisters, friends. Don’t get caught up in the gravity of the decision, because people don’t always make the right decision the first time. But go with your gut instincts into a career that you know will make you happy. As we said, only you know what that will be. I’m so….confused! Not to worry. You are definitely not alone. But it’s not too early to start thinking about your career options. Explore Your Interests: What do you like, and what are you good at? Try a career assessment like the ones on Careernet. (www.careernet.state.md.us/assessment.htm) Do Your Homework: This may be your most important homework assignment. Making informed career decisions requires the right information about opportunities that will be available in the near future. What’s hot, what’s not. How does it pay off? And what careers fit your style, personality, and interests? While you may switch jobs, or even careers, several times Visit us online at www.promsplus.com for essential career and college links 29 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 30 what’snext? SAT Test Taking Tips Before the Test Know the test directions for all six question types. Use the time you save to answer questions. Get familiar with the answer sheet. It has four pages, and you need to know what answers go in which section. During the Test Answer easy questions first. You earn just as many points for easy questions as you do for hard questions. The easier questions are at the beginning of the section and the harder questions at the end - except for Critical Reading questions, which are ordered according to the logic and organization of each passage. Guess smart. If you can rule out one or more answer choices for a multiple-choice question as definitely wrong, your chances of guessing the right answer improve. For math questions without answer choices, fill in your best guess; no points are subtracted for wrong answers as they are in all other question types. Omit questions that you really have no idea how to answer. But if you can rule out any choice, you probably should guess from among the rest of the choices. Don't panic if you cannot answer every question. You do not have to answer every question correctly to get a good score. You can get an average score by answering about half of the questions correctly and omitting the remaining questions. Use your test book for scratch work. You can also cross off choices you know are wrong and mark questions you have omitted so you can go back to them if you have time. Keep track of time. If you finish a section before time is called, check your answers in that section only. Adapted from CollegeBoard.com 30 An Essay That Works! If the college you are applying to requires a written essay, use it as an opportunity to help you stand out from the crowd. Admission officers admit that essays can make or break an application, giving an ordinary applicant an edge if the essay is great, or tipping the scales to the ‘reject’ pile. So, follow these tips to write an essay that’s interesting and inspired: Essays should reveal two things: Your writing ability, and something of your personality. Avoid a long list of activities or life history. Focus instead on one event, a person or experience that has affected you, one you feel passionate about or threw yourself into. Avoid topics that are overdone and ordinary ‘textbook’ answers to questions. Travel, sports, and overused social issues like world hunger and AIDS are tough to make interesting and unique. Don’t choose a topic that merely looks good. Choose one that you truly care about. The sincerity and passion for the topic will come out in your writing. Avoid bragging or outright lying about your many accomplishments. Instead, be honest and present yourself fairly and balanced, not as a super hero. This will show your ability to learn and grow as a person. Revise and rewrite: Edit your essay for accuracy, clarity, story development, style, and a unified theme. Avoid run-on sentences, using briefer or more condensed thoughts. Use action words to stimulate interest. And proofread your work several times, because there is no place for mistakes in your application essay. The College Application Maze So, you’ve decided where you want to apply? Now get going! But keep in mind these helpful hints: • Remember to apply to at least one college that you may like but may be too tough to get into. Plenty of factors are considered in selections and who knows, maybe you’ll get in. It could be worth the hour or so to fill out the app. Also apply to one backup school that you’re sure you can get into. • Keep track of the application deadlines. Some applications have two parts with different deadline dates for each. • Take advantage of the electronic (on-line) application, if available. Some schools actually prefer online applications because they reduce paper clutter. • Do not lie or exaggerate. Facts are easily checked by the Admissions staff at the college. • Line up your recommendation letter-writers well in advance. Choose teachers who feel you are special and have examples to back it up. Provide them with a resume for easy reference and submit multiple school requests together. • Proofread your application and copy it for your records. • Notify your guidance counselor of your application as soon as possible so your transcripts can arrive in time. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 31 Your helpful guide to college and career planning! college planning timetable Junior Year • In the Fall Maintaining your grades during your junior year is especially important. This is the year that college admission officers examine especially closely. Enroll in AP and other honors-level classes if available. Prepare for PSAT. Make sure of registration and test dates. Ask about AP exams. Take the PSAT. (Results in 4-6 weeks.) Top scores qualify for National Merit Scholarships. Develop a preliminary college list with your counselor. Your list should contain approximately 8-12 colleges you are seriously considering. Start requesting literature from colleges. In the Winter In order to identify your strengths and to determine the areas that you may need to improve upon, review your PSAT results with your counselor. Enroll for SAT prep course; start studying for SAT I and I. Take Campus Tours online or in person to further narrow your list of colleges to match your personality, GPA, and test scores. Register for the March SAT I and/or the April ACT tests. Find out from each college the deadlines for applying for admission and which tests to take. It is a good idea to take the SAT I and/or ACT in the spring to allow you time to review your results and retake the exams in the fall of your senior year, if necessary. In the Spring Review college brochures and applications. Make appointments for summer interviews. Take SAT I and I, and ACT. Confirm next year's courses. Discuss college sports with your coach now. If you’re looking for an athletic scholarship, you may need advice on how best to position yourself. In the Summer Results of AP tests arrive; start visiting and having interviews at colleges. Arranged orientations and Adopt-a-Student programs are ideal. Start a file of brochures and applications for schools you like. Meet with a consultant. Applications are available on-line after August 1. Copy applications and begin filling out draft pages. Decide if you are going to apply under a particular college's early decision or early action program. Many early decision programs are legally binding, requiring you to attend the college to which you are applying, should they accept you. Read your college mail and send reply cards to your schools of interest. Senior Year • In the Fall Give any recommendation forms to the appropriate teachers or counselors with stamped, college-addressed envelopes; prepare for SAT I and I. Meet with college reps who visit your school. Set up interviews and college visits. Make a final list of schools that interest you and keep a file of deadlines and required admission items for each school. Last chance to take the SAT I and I; continue interviewing and meeting college reps; fill out college application forms; complete early applications for Nov. deadline. Find out from the colleges to which you are applying whether or not they need official copies of your transcripts (transcripts sent directly from your high school) sent at the time of application. Some early decision replies; mail applications to colleges with Jan. 1 deadlines; ask counselor about available scholarships, financial aid forms available after Dec. 1. Take some time to think about and outline any essays required. Register for December or January SAT I and/or SAT I tests, if necessary. Continue thinking about and beginning writing (if you have not already started) any essays to be included with your applications. In the Winter Most regular decision applications due; most scholarship applications due. Early decision replies usually arrive between December 1 and December 31. If you haven't already done so, make sure your official test scores are being sent to the colleges to which you are applying. Make sure your parents have completed Visit us online at www.promsplus.com for essential career and college links their income tax forms in anticipation of the financial aid applications. Complete and submit your college financial aid application and the Free Application for Student Financial Aid (FAFSA) between January 1 and February 15, and check for other financial aid options. Submit these forms even if you think you will not qualify. You should receive your Student Aid Report (SAR) within four weeks. Make the necessary corrections and return it to the FAFSA processor as soon as possible in order to have your forms processed quickly. Request that your high school send your official transcripts to the colleges to which you are applying. Contact the admissions office(s) of the college(s) to which you have applied to make sure that your information has been received, and that they have everything they need from you. In the Spring As college acceptance letters come in, make careful decisions with parents and counselor. Compare your acceptance letters, financial aid, and scholarship offers. Visit any schools you have not seen, overnight if possible. Most colleges request your reply by May 1. If you were placed on a waiting list for a particular college, and have decided to wait for an opening, contact that college and let them know you are still interested. Notify colleges as soon as you make a decision, as this will free up space for another student. Study college course catalogs and make a list of courses you would like to take next year. In the Summer Send thank-you notes to anyone who assisted you during the admissions process. Contact your college to determine when fees for tuition, room and board are due and how much they will be. Attend freshman orientation at some colleges. Take placement exams offered by your college. You may start with credits in some basic classes. Start packing! You are ready for the adventure of a lifetime! 31 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 32 what’snext? how am i going to pay for college? Financial aid is money that helps you pay for higher education. There is a vast array of grants, loans and scholarships available, and volumes have been written about them (check out some of those volumes from the library, or go to www.promsplus.com/careers to shop). We will summarize the options here so you can get an overview. FAFSA You must submit the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) if you want to apply for Federal and State financial aid. Many colleges and universities, especially public institutions, also require the FAFSA. The FAFSA is available in paper and electronic formats. You can get the paper version from your high school, the financial aid office at any college or university, the public library, or by calling 1800-4-FED-AID. The preferred method is to submit the web-based version of the FAFSA at http://www.fafsa.ed.gov. This has several advantages, including faster processing. It is important to submit FAFSA early (after January 1) before all the financial aid is awarded to other students. You will receive a Student Aid Report (SAR) that allows you to review and correct any wrong information, including any estimates made before your Parents’ 1040 forms were completed. All Federal, State, and many private sources use this form to award money for college. Grants Federal Grants Include: Pell Grants Federal Supplemental Educational Opportunity Grants are grants available for undergraduates only; awards range from $100-$4,000. State Grants Include: Guaranteed Access Grant is determined by student need. Awards range from $400 to $11,600. Educational Assistance Grants are determined by student need and equals 35 percent of the financial need. The minimum annual award amount is $400 and the maximum award is $2,700. 32 Loans Federal Stafford Loans are student loans that must be repaid and are available to both undergraduate and graduate students. Funds may come from a bank or the government, depending on the school. First-year undergraduates are eligible for loans up to $2,625. These loans may be subsidized or unsubsidized based on need. Federal PLUS Loans are unsubsidized loans made to parents. Perkins Loans are low-interest (5 percent) loans that must be repaid. Maryland Loan Assistance Repayment Programs arrange for assistance with repayment of student loans by the State based on financial and career criteria, often with service obligations. Scholarships Maryland Legislative Scholarships are available by filing a FAFSA and contacting your local senator and delegate’s office. State-Based Merit and Career Based Scholarships are available for a variety of merit and need-based criteria, like certain careers and fields of study. Private scholarships are available for hundreds of sources for a variety of situations. Do your homework by searching books at the library or on www.promsplus.com/books, or by using a web-based scholarship search: http://www.srnexpress.com/index.cfm www.fastweb.com www.collegeboard.com www.wiredscholar.com College-based scholarships and tuition reductions are based on merit and musical, athletic, artistic and scholastic achievement. Contact the school of your choice for more information. Federal Work Study provides jobs to undergraduate and graduate students, allowing them to earn money to pay education expenses. The Maryland Higher Education Commission Office of Student Financial Assistance 839 Bestgate Road, Suite 400 Annapolis, MD 21401 410 260-4565 800 974-1024 TTY 800 735-2258 www.mhec.state.md.us Each year, the State of Maryland awards more than $80 million in financial aid to over 40,000 Maryland residents. Maryland students use this aid at community colleges, private colleges and universities, private career schools, and the State's 13 public four-year campuses. The Office of Student Financial Assistance, a division of the Maryland Higher Education Commissions, handles the administration of the financial aid funds. Much more Financial Aid information at www.promsplus.com PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 33 Your helpful guide to college and career planning! i’m getting a job. Take a look around. What are people around you doing that may interest you? Do they enjoy their occupation? What type of training was required for that job? What do you expect to get from your job? You may be primarily concerned with the financial benefits, or maybe you just want a job that you will enjoy. Do you think you would a like physical occupation and working with your hands? Or, would you prefer a ‘desk job’? What do I want to be? This is a question that you must ask yourself in order to begin down a successful career path. However, this will raise many more important questions such as: Where do you want to live? Are you going to limit your job search to a small area? Are you open to moving across the city?...state?...country? What geographic elements will best contribute to your successes? Do you think you may eventually go to college. Will you need to be near a campus or community college to take part-time classes? Never close the door of opportunity. Have an open mind about your future. Allow yourself to gain knowledge about occupations that are different from your traditional interests. Although you may think now that you are not ready to continue your education, the option may be better for you in the future. Ready to get started? The first thing that you will need to do is put together a successful resume. Your resume will be your introduction to a new company. It is important to make sure that your resume is error-free and you include all of the necessary information for each job. You may have to alter your resume slightly for different companies. Contact a manager or the Human Resources department of the companies in which you are interested to find out what type of experience and education they prefer in their work force. Before an interview... Dress the part Always dress for business. It is never unacceptable to dress professionally. Do your homework. Research the company as much as possible. See if you can pick up information about the company in advance. This also shows initiative and interest. If the company has a website, familiarize yourself with their service. Arrive on time. Arriving on time means, be there ten minutes early. This will show the company that you will be on time. If necessary, make the drive a day before your interview to clock your travel time. You’re being watched. From the time you leave your home act as if you are at your interview. Your interviewer could be driving the car in front of you or stopped next to you at a traffic light. It could be the person you cut off or don’t yield to. Practice your interview skills. Imagine different interview situations and how you would handle them, such as seating arrangements. Prepare for a oneon-one and for a group interview. Will you have a desk to protect you, or will your body be open? Come prepared. During your research, make up questions to ask the employer. At the end of 99% of interviews you will be asked if you have any questions. Ask questions relative to the company but not about compensation or benefits. Show them that you are interested! Relax. Go through you normal routine. Make sure that you are comfortable in your clothes and with all of your interviewing skills. Follow-up. Make sure that you send a personal thank you card to your interviewers. Also send one to anyone else with the company you have talked with including secretaries and the person who contacted you if he or she was not one of the interviewers. Visit us online at www.promsplus.com for essential career and college links Private Trade & Vocational School With over 120 private career schools in Maryland, there is a program for nearly every interest or field. The Maryland Higher Education Commission regulates every private school and protects students’ interests. All private career schools in Maryland are approved by the State, and many are accredited by national associations. Here are some questions to ask when shopping for a private career school... Is the school authorized to operate? What is the admissions policy? Does the program offer what you need? What does the training facility offer? What are the instructors' qualifications? Do they offer job placement assistance? What other support services are offered? What about financial assistance? How much does the program cost? Did you receive a catalog? (Maryland Higher Education Commission Website www.mhec.state.md.us) Distance Learning You’ve got to work, but you’d like to continue learning? Why not do both? Distance learning is the modern way to earn a real degree without sitting in class, today’s version of correspondence courses. Using the phone, internet, email, teleconferencing, and cable television, students can earn from a high school diploma up to a Ph.D. in many subjects. Benefits include lower cost, freedom of choice, learning at your own pace, and schedule flexibility. But distance learning is not for everyone. You need at least the following: • Strong self-motivation and self-discipline • Time to study regularly • Good organization skills • A quiet place to study • The necessary equipment, including phone, TV, computer • A supportive family 33 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 34 what’snext? Apprenticeship Programs Work and learn a job skill: a great formula for now and the future. Apprenticeship programs have much to offer in the way of career development. Apprentices are guaranteed pay raises throughout their apprenticeship, and successful completion of the program means better pay and a more stable work history. And the cost to you is small. But competition is often strong for the best positions, so pay attention: Union apprenticeship programs are typically split between supervised, on-the-job training and classroom study. Union membership will often be required. Skills learned here can be 34 used anywhere there is a union shop. Employer-sponsored apprenticeship programs also combine onthe-job training and classroom work. Completion usually assures a permanent job, and instructors are usually the best in their fields. Be certain that the skills learned will be broad enough to transfer to another company or industry, if need be. Apprenticeship programs are registered through the Maryland Apprenticeship and Training Council, which has approved and registered programs for 221 occupations. Go to... www.dllr.state.md.us/labor/appr.html for more info. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 35 military options Your helpful guide to college and career planning! Many Presidents and great American leaders started their careers in the Military. The Military offers more than 4,100 unique jobs for both officers and enlisted personnel. And each year the Armed Services hire a combined 365,000 people to fill those positions. Benefits include classroom and on-the-job training, help paying for college, qualities for a successful life, and the pride that comes from serving your country. And military service often gives The Guard offers federal and state tuition Service Academy applicants for jobs the edge with assistance, state tuition waiver, corporate recruiters. You can save Community College of the Air Force, and Scholarships for the future, enjoy the benefits of military life, and learn skills for life. Here is a closer look... Montgomery GI Bill (MGIB) & Service College Funds Once you enlist, you can take advantage of the Montgomery GI Bill and the Service College Funds as ways to pay for your college education. Combined, you can get up to $50,000 be used for... • Degree and Technical certificate programs • Flight training • Apprenticeship/on-the-job training • Correspondence courses • College Loan Repayment College Loan Repayment program allows you to pay off your federally insured student loans when you enlist in the Army in a qualifying job. Earned College Credit • Attend college and serve in the Military at the same time • Gain access to programs at accredited colleges, universities and vocational schools. • Receive college credits for military training and experience • Enroll in college courses offered online or through other distance learning options. • Take and pass college-level equivalence examinations Visit us online at www.promsplus.com For a select few, four-year scholarships are awarded to the most prestigious military academies in the world. Job Training Military job training puts you right on the job with high tech equipment and systems that civilian employees can only dream about. Skills are gained quicker and responsibility is taught at a faster pace than outside the military. Housing Free on-base housing or tax-free off-base housing allowance and discounted shopping at base PX stores. Vacation • 30 days paid leave each year • Paid holidays • Preferred rates on travel and tickets to local and national attractions and entertainment • Get discounted rates at top hotels, motels and resorts • Nearby recreational areas close to lakes or ski resorts at most posts • Space available travel–travel in uniform using military flights on a "Space Available" basis at little or no cost. • World-class resorts specially created for military personnel. more. Go to www.marylandguard.com for more information 35 Medical Benefits You and your family will receive high quality medical and dental care at little or no cost. There are also great training, education and job opportunities in the reserves and Maryland National Guard. 35 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 36 planning prom? Planning and successfully executing a Prom takes lots of planning, coordination, volunteers, energy, and imagination... Here’s some help getting started... Prom Planning Timetable Here is a basic checklist and timeline to guide you in planning your Prom. Additional information follows in this section or in the After-Prom section. September > October November > December ❑ ❑ ❑ ❑ ❑ Collect Decorations Form a Prom Committee Determine the Budget Start Fundraising Book the Facility October > November ❑ ❑ ❑ ❑ Choose the Theme Choose the Menu Hire the Entertainment Order Favors & Accessories 36 January > February ❑ Order Tickets & Programs ❑ Royal Court February > March ❑ Organize Setup & Cleaning Crews The Prom Committee Memorable Proms begin and end here. To break up the work into achievable tasks, each of the checklist items is sometimes delegated to a different subcommittee, often composed of prom committee members and possibly other interested or knowledgeable people. The subcommittee conducts the research and reports back to the Committee by a given date. The final decisions are made by the whole Committee. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 37 budgeting & fundraising 2006 Edition List your sources of money: Prom tickets, PTA, fundraising activities, donations or sponsorships from businesses, ads in the program, parent donations. Use last year’s Prom or After-prom party as a basis, but also ask neighboring schools to share information. There are many opportunities to run fundraising events in your community throughout the year: Fundraising • Car washes. • Sell candy or doughnuts. • Sell magazine subscriptions or inexpensive imprinted logo items, like plastic stadium cups. • Group photo of the Class that you can sell back to the students. • Flower sales during holidays such as Valentine’s Day and Easter; Christmas poinsettia sales. • A well advertised yard sale can make money by selling spaces and by selling donated items. • Christmas wrap booth at the mall or local department store. • A talent show or concert. • A winter dance or sock hop. • An auction or silent auction with goods donated by businesses or individuals. • A pizza and pasta dinner. Grants • Grant money may be available from several sources to help fund your celebration. Make this a priority to apply early. Check with the following sources: • Department of Motor Vehicles • Safe and Drug-Free School coordinator • Local Health Department or Bureau of Substance Abuse • Board of Education Donations Federal and State laws vary, but all donations should be acknowledged with a thank you letter. Avoid duplicate soliciting through coordination with a chairperson. Donations may take several forms: • Cash • Food • Supplies, such as decorations or paper products • Discounts from businesses • Services, such as printing or duplication • Items used as gifts and prizes • Loan of equipment • Be certain any businesses that are solicited are those patronized by students or parents from your school. Focus On the Mission: Sample Phone Script Parent support for an event that: • provides a safe environment for students. • will be adult supervised. • provides a wide variety of activities • is the the place to be for a great time after the prom! “May I please speak to _____ ?” “This is _____ with the _____ After-Prom Party Committee.” “I am joining with other parents this week who are calling senior parents of _____ high school students about the After-Prom Party.” “Did you read the flyer we sent in the mail?” Visit us online at www.promsplus.com “Our mission is to provide students with a terrific time after the prom, and one which is safe.” “Does that sound like a good idea?” “All seniors are invited even if they do not attend the prom.” “In order to attract students to the party and keep them there, we are planning lots of things that are popular among teens. We will have a DJ and dancing, food, games, entertainers, and lots of prizes. In order to provide an event of this magnitude, we will need all the senior parents to support this event by making donations to the After-Prom Party.” “Many students will not decide until the last minute to attend the After-Prom Some Possible Donors: • Parents • School booster clubs • PTA/PTSO • Civic organizations (Optimists, Rotary, Lions, Kiwanis, etc.) • Chamber of Commerce Members • Local businesses • Substance abuse support groups (MADD, SADD) • Professionals (Doctors, Lawyers, Dentists) • Real Estate companies • Gas Stations - door prize • Flower Shops • Grocery Stores • Pizza Parlors • Printing and Copying Businesses • Local Newspapers - publicity; thank-you ad to recognize donations • Health clubs • Fast Food Restaurants • Car Dealership • Religious Community Party. We are not asking for a donation because your child has decided to attend the party, we are asking for a donation so that we can provide a party that sounds so great to the students that they will all want to attend.” “We are asking all parents of seniors for contributions towards the party. Contributions are tax deductible. Can we count on you for a donation?” “Check can be made payable to _____ . (PTA, PTSA, Parent Group, School, etc.) Please send contribution to _____ .” Keep a list of activities, prizes and information about the After-Prom Party while calling parents. 37 PromsPlus2006 38 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 38 Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 39 2006 Edition choosing a facility Determine your location Bag Room What’s On the Menu? early! Aside from the school For the After-Prom Party, some students • If a full meal is not planned, start the want to change into more casual prom later, in order to give people time gymnasium, banquet halls, will attire. Others may have purses or personal to dine out. belongings they will want to check. Do restaurants and other • Menu options include a full sit-down not allow students to carry book bags or dinner, a buffet, or finger foods. Your locations get booked up any other carry bags into the party. budget, options offered by the facility or Controlling everything that can be carried for your date quickly. caterer, the preferences of the students, Many other aspects of the event, including menu, decorations, entertainment, not to mention the budget, depend upon the choice of the facility. The party and the activities are far more important than the facility. Successful parties have been held anywhere from warehouses to Bay cruises and country clubs. Although students do like to have parties someplace other than their high school, many successful parties are held in school gyms. The advantages of a school gym are the proximity to the students’ homes as well as the size and height of the room. These are often popular for Junior Proms, and save quite a bit on a tight budget. Other popular places are bowling alleys, college student unions, movie theatres, children’s museums, athletic and health clubs, restaurants popular with the teen crowd (ESPN Zone, Harbor Cruises), shopping malls and the YMCA. Consider function halls such as armories, fire halls, and VFW; for these you will need to hire a caterer. Whatever the facility, make sure that in-house staff will be on hand to solve last minute problems. Why doesn’t this outlet work? Can we have another trash can? There’s water all over the Ladies’ room. Stuff happens. Only someone with the authority and knowledge to solve your problem will prevent it from becoming a disaster. Consider the following when choosing a facility: Decorations What decorations will the facility allow? How early can the decorations committee begin their project? Give yourself plenty of time. Unloading and setting up ladders, tables, prizes, decorations, etc. will take a great deal of time. If the time will be short, increase the number of volunteers. Visit us online at www.promsplus.com around in book bags, duffel bags, sports bags, etc. will be impossible. Allowing carry bags into the party puts the parents in a position that may be seen as confrontational. Insurance The facility may require an insurance certificate stating that your group is covered for liability insurance. Contact the insurance agent for your school or group. Find out if the facility has insurance to cover any activities not covered on your school or parent group policy. If the facility does not carry insurance for the activity in question, you may be able to buy a temporary rider policy to cover the liability for the activity. • • • • Food Prep Area This is not required but is a great convenience. Most facilities allow the group to bring in donated food. If you will be purchasing food or beverage, check to see if there are any guidelines such as contracts with soda suppliers or a list of approved caterers. Parking The parking area should be well lit and close to the party. You will need enough space to accommodate the crowd. Many students ride to the prom and after-prom party in a limousine or bus. They may have cars dropped off at the after-prom party site early in the evening. Size A space large enough to handle all the activities and the students but small enough to make them feel secure. Teens like to feel like part of a crowd. Put as much in an area as possible. You don’t want the size of the facility to dwarf the size of the crowd. Measure the size and the height of the room. You will need this information to be sure the entertainment equipment can be accommodated. • • • • • • • the theme, and even school tradition play a part in helping you decide this. Many facilities have a professional catering staff who have served numerous high school proms successfully. Listento their advice carefully. If your committee is deciding between several dishes, ask for a taste test. A written contract will usually be required, often with a guaranteed minimum. The final count will be required perhaps a week or ten days prior to the event, so plan ticket sales accordingly. Get all aspects of the meal and evening detailed in the contract. Don’t forget about a soda or frozen smoothie bar, desserts, appetizer and bread trays, danish at midnight, and so on. Everything is negotiable, but only before the contract is signed. If you are planning to bring any food in from outside, ask first. Many facilities where proms are held strictly prohibit or limit this. Food is important, but not critical for a good time. Many students don’t care or can’t remember what they ate at their prom. You’re there to celebrate with your friends. Atmosphere, entertainment, and company have a lot to do with the success of an event. Keep The Food Simple. Pizza, subs, soda are favorites. Donuts, danish, fruit for breakfast. Stay away from unusual foods. Use small signs to identify foods when lights are dimmed. Avoid over-ordering food; be realistic when donations of food are offered. If a particular food runs out, just offer something else. Don’t forget that lots of leftovers means lots of work at 5:00 am. Use buffet tables in several areas to avoid congestion, with portions served throughout the night, rather than only at scheduled times, which interrupts other activities. Use adult chaperones to circulate with trays of food and drink around the various activities, and don’t forget the chaperones at the exit doors. 39 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:07 AM Page 40 prom’s over but the night is still young. party on!: The It’s on to the After-Prom Party! What’s an After-Prom Party? It’s a party that starts after the prom ends. Duh! More and more schools are now having such parties. Why? It’s a great way for a class to celebrate a last night together. And it’s safe – there are no drugs or alcohol, and it’s adultsupervised. Parents were the ones who came up with the idea of after-prom parties. They understand the intense pressure students sometimes face during prom season to indulge in activities that are seen as a “rite of passage”, such as the use of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs, and involvement in sexual activity. By providing an alternative that’s safe AND fun, they hope that teens will be able to resist behaviors and decisions that may harm themselves and others. at the door Attendance at the prom is not necessarily required for admission to the After-Prom Party. In most cases, all seniors are invited regardless of whether they attend the prom. Some schools focus on this as a “Senior Celebration” or a “Grad Gala” to encourage all the senior students to attend. The more students you have at the After-Prom Party, the more likely you are to hold the group until the end of the night. Tickets are not necessary for admission to the After-Prom Party. Admission is done in a variety of ways - tickets, no tickets, tickets with a fee, tickets without a fee, reservations, no reservations. Some schools use neither reservations nor tickets - a “just show up at the door” policy. This enables students to decide on attending the After-Prom Party even as late as when they are leaving the prom. Some schools have a “cut off” time after which students will not be admitted while others admit students all night. If students will be admitted at any time during the party, you will want to offer some incentives for the students to arrive early. Grand prizes shouldn’t be given to students that have arrived an hour before the party ends. The biggest and best prizes should go to the students that have invested their evening in the After-Prom Party. Set up guidelines so that the students who arrive early enough to invest their 40 After-Prom Parties are great for: Students • Have a party to attend. • Have opportunity to be with friends as well as others they know from classes, clubs, or sports but may not socialize with. • Can play games, be entertained, and participate in activities not available elsewhere. • Admission is free or minimal. • Can add this to the prom for a whole night of wonderful memories. Parents • Know the party is adult supervised. • Know the party is drug/alcohol free. • Do not need to worry about their children being hurt as a result of time at the After-Prom Party will be eligible to win the big prizes. For example: If the prom ends at 12 midnight and your party begins at 12 midnight decide that all Grand Prize tickets must be turned in by 1:00 a.m. Any students arriving later than 1:00 a.m. will be given everything that the other students receive with their registration packet minus the Grand Prize ticket. They can play the games, participate in the entertainment activities, eat, dance, and win raffle prizes as well as the very small prizes. But they will not have their name in for a Grand Prize. Each student can receive an invitation to the After-Prom Party with a number on it. When they arrive they will have an opportunity in the registration area to match their number with a winning number for a prize. Make this a very worthwhile prize. They must arrive by a certain time in order to match their number to be the prize winner. If the winning number does not arrive by the cut off time the prize is given away during the night as a raffle prize. Regardless of which way the prize is won, the prize does not leave the party until the end of the night. If there will be “funny money” used for the games or activities, students arriving before the designated time will receive a bonus amount in their envelope. The registration area is very important. It is the first part of the party that the students will see. Have some great decora- alcohol/drug use by their child or use by another student. • Great opportunity to network with other high school parents. • Many committees have gone on to provide other drug/alcohol free social events at their school - most for students some for parents. The Community • The entire community is safer during prom season when their students are not driving drunk or drugged. • Opportunity for the community to work together. • Support the attitude that alcohol and other drugs are not a necessary part of a celebration. tions in this area. Have your registration material very well organized. Do this before the night of the prom. Have enough tables so that this area is not too crowded or confusing. Have a sign-in sheet for guests. Guests are the responsibility of the person who has brought them. Have a sign-out sheet for anyone who leaves early. The sign-out sheet is for your liability protection. Keep the sign-out after the party is over. Hang posters in this area with the instructions for the party and the activities. Post a schedule of the evening activities. Have something for the students to do as soon as they register. This is a good spot to have a “guess how many” prize activity. Suggest to the students as they come in: • Read the instructions on “How to Win”. • Check the schedule for the evening. • Check to see if your number matches the winning number for the registration prize. • Sign your tickets – door prize, raffle prize, grand prize tickets, etc. • Put your raffle tickets in the raffle drum and your grand prize tickets in the grand prize drum. • Sign the graffiti wall. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 41 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 42 themes and decorating Many of the most exciting events are planned far in advance, sometimes by a separate decorations/theme chairperson. The following are tips on themes and decorations to get you started. Can a Prom and an After-Prom Party have different themes? You bet they can! These tips are good for either type of event. The decor could be variations of the same theme, or completely different. One theme could be a bit more romantic, one a bit more fun. Choose a theme early, so that all decorations, activities, food and publicity can be planned around it. The tickets, publicity, enty-way, and registration should all be tied in to the theme some way. Themes need not be original and the sucess of the event can be enhanced by borrowing decorations, games and ideasfrom other classes or other schools. Many parties use the same basic activities each year, but they change them to suit a brand new theme. One Note of Caution: Follow all copyright laws, do not use licensed characters in ANY form without written permission from the copyright owner. Giving credit at the bottom of the program does NOT count. Consult an attorney if you are unsure. The decoration chairperson should submit a proposed budget to the steering or main committee. This is often better than being allotted what is left after other expenses. Decorations help set the mood for the party and make it an unforgettable experience. Don’t overlook the services of a professional party/event planner. They sometimes have great cost-saving ideas, can make props for less than you could purchase them, and can often hire vendors and even caterers cheaper than you can. They also can help steer you away from dangerous situations that might not be approved by the Fire Marshall, who must be contacted prior to the event. Give them a budget and let them do much of the work. If your budget allows, use a professional decorator early, at least for some decorations that may not be possible to have using volunteers. Think of it as “helping hands” and use their expert advice to develop afforable elements of your theme. Then proceed to add decorations that coordinate with your theme as volunteers come forward or money is raised. Supply decoration committee members with copies of the facility guidelines and floor plan. It is difficult, if not impossible, to decorate all areas of a huge facility. Concentrate on several areas: entrance, registration, food, prizes, DJ or band, games, etc. Stores that sell refrigerators have large boxes that can be unfolded, painted and cut for backdrops – skylines, trees, fountains, beach sandcastles, tents, etc. Set up a decorations bank and share with neighboring high schools. Order catalogs from Party Stores. Some companies are listed below: Anderson’s Prom and Party Catalog 1-800-328-9640 Birthday Express Party Source 1-800-424-7843 Hardings of Chicago 1-800-231-2528 M & N International “Bright Idea Book” 1-800-479-2043 Oriental Trading Company 1-800-228-2269 Stumps America Party Store 1-800-348-5084 U.S. Toy Co., Inc. 1-800-255-6124 Here are a few of many possible themes for both Proms and After-Proms. Wizard of Oz Everything is decorated with green. There are green crystals all around, like the Emerald City. Cutouts of Dorothy and other characters. Dorothy’s red shoes, rainbows, tornado scene, witch hat and red striped stockings in a corner, and, of course, a yellow brick road. A Night in the Orient Oriental tapestries and wall hangings, Chinese lanterns, Buddahs, borrowed oriental rugs. Chinese fans for centerpieces. Lots of bright red. 42 Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 43 2006 Edition Circus Big top tent out of crepe paper. Multi-color balloon arches. Clowns. Colorful tents from large cardboard as backdrop around room. Wax hands for one activity. Fabulous Fifties Diner setting. Pink, white, and black balloons. Jukebox from cardboard or a real jukebox rented for music. Pink flamingos, hanging dice, records, Elvis, James Dean posters. Mardi Gras This is very popular. Use purple, gold and green balloons, streamers, feather hats, masks, and confetti. Street signs for Bourbon Street, Jackson Square and the French Quarter. Add lots of cheap beads, plus hats and noisemakers on tables for a truly festive atmosphere! Props for this are inexpensive and plentiful. And don’t forget some jazz or zydeco music in a corner for effect. Cruise to Nowhere Plan and label differently decorated areas: the casino (oversized cards, chips, dice balloons), the disco (lots of glitter), the galley (food and snacks), the promenade (a railing with starry night backdrop, great for photos), the pier (big cruise ship with lights and water), the showroom (stage props and lights). Directional signs pointing to the Barbados Deck and the Sun Deck. Cruise brochures, travel pictures, a fake palm. A huge life saver with “Welcome Aboard SS (Your High School)” for photos. Paris Eiffel Tower with lights, benches, water fountains, little cafes (there are a lot of kits available to do this), cut-outs of street artists, waiters and more. Put up directional signs to Paris attractions. Visit us online at www.promsplus.com Day at the Beach Board walk, pails, beach balls, palm trees, shells, fish. Game section at the boardwalk. Inflatable sharks-jaws. Boats. Survivor Tropical island. Thatched huts, wood deck walkway, birds, fish, fish net, boats, waterfall, raft. Music Balloons, banners, cut-outs of musical notes and symbols. Posters and pictures of any or all types of music. Standup cut-outs of famous musicians for photo ops. Inflatable guitars, saxophones and microphones. Grand Prix or NASCAR Black and white checkered paper on registration tables. Black and white checkered flags. Red, white and black balloons. Race posters. Remote control raceway for one of the activities. Wooden plank match box car race. Slanted wood plank, winning wooden booth at end of plank with winning number. Students slide matchbox cars down the plank to 1st place, 2nd place, etc. New Years’ Eve in New York Black balloons with white stars and clear balloons with black star arches. Broadway show posters. Street lamps with street names Broadway, 42nd Street, 5th Avenue. Make street lamp poles by painting large cardboard tubes from carpet stores and placing a white balloon or ball on top. Put wood dowel rod through top for street name. 43 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 44 prom planning: entertainment The right music is everything at the Prom! Whether a great band or a cool DJ, music makes the party. The following information will help you make the right decisions: • DJ’s and bands need to be booked at least 4-5 months in advance, so get going! Do your homework on this one, because the payoff will be worth it! • DJ or band, ask for references and check them. Prom experience is preferred, but not necessary. Ask if the customer was satisfied. Did they arrive and set up on time? Check with other schools for recommendations. • Live bands are exciting. But can they play the music you want? Ask for a demo tape or see them perform. Request their play list. Make a list of songs your crowd will want to hear (Note: mix it up a bit) and show it to them. Could they do justice to all of them? Can they put that in writing? • Bands do not play continuously (unless they come with two sections that take turns), so figure on a DJ to provide dance music between sets. This could be a bit more low key, even a volunteer to just spin tunes. It may also be a 44 way to compliment the band’s play list with other “must have” tunes. Some bands or their agent can set up both band and DJ for one price. • Ask about stage size, equipment, and electrical requirements. Many bands have their own lighting, sound, and special effects gear. Determine what you would like, and whether the facility has enough room and enough electrical outlets. Ask the band how much room the setup requires and check with the facility manager to ensure it can all fit. • A great DJ can also make your party perfect! The DJ is normally the Master of Ceremonies for the entire event. Again, show him your request list to be sure (they will often buy the music if they don’t have it), and ask for a commitment in writing. • DJ’s come in all styles, from simple one-person dynamos, to two-person teams, to elaborate dance troupes to • • • • get everyone dancing. They also have available a variety of cool special effects, including special lighting, laser shows, strobes, fog, video screens, and even entire stage sets. Whatever you request, ask for it in writing. Ask if the equipment is powerful enough for the size of the facility. As for bands, ask for set-up size and electrical requirements and check with the facility manager. Make up a schedule of events with times, including names, awards, announcements, and timing of any special effects, and give to the MC a week before the event. Shop around and get several quotes. Remember, however, that each performer is unique, bringing different elements and effects to his/her act. Comparison shopping for talent is not as easy as shopping for a new coat. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 45 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 46 after-prom entertainment Keeping the party going is critical at the After-Prom! A combination of games, activities, entertainment, food, and give-aways attracts students AND keeps them at the party... Unless the facility already has great music, you’ll need a DJ or band to keep the Party going. Entertainment can be of a wider variety than at the Prom. Follow the suggestions for bands and DJ’s in the Prom Entertainment section, and for all entertainers, request and check references. There are a vast number of cool and exciting events and activities for an after-prom party. See the list at the right for ideas. Many of the alternate entertainment also need lots of space and electrical power. Ask the providers and check 46 with the facility manager. Don’t forget about activities native to the after-prom facility: bowling, video games, sports activities, etc. Make prize giveaways part of the entertainment! Solicit donations of money and/or gifts, and keep announcing winners throughout the night. Here is a list of just some of the activities you can have at an After-Prom Party: Activities Rented from a Vendor Inflatable Games and Rides Arcade games Caricatures Fire Eaters Game shows Carnival Games Batting Cages Basketball Cages Magicians Balloon Twisters Clowns Face painting Hands in Wax Mini Stock Car Racing Song Recording Booths Fortune Tellers Hairwraps Temporary Tattoos Virtual Reality Games Air Hockey Tables Fooseball Tables Pool Tables Fun Photos Photo Stickers Mechanical Bull Rides Telescope Photos Photo Souvenirs Laser Tag Rock Mountain Sumo Wrestling Video Recording Booth Casino Games Bouncy Boxing Money Booths Bouncy Boxing Human Bowling Moon Bounce Video Surfing Velcro Olympics Contests Your Committee Can Arrange Hoola Hoop Pie eating Dance Stilt-walking Limbo Best Legs (Guys) Guess How Many Funniest Home Video Trivia Contest Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 47 2006 Edition Teen-aged photo of teacher ID contest Athletic Activities Arm wrestling Basketball Bowling Frisbee throw Frisbee golf Nerf fencing Roller skating Tug-of-war Volleyball Beauty Related Face painting Beauty Makeovers Hair Studio Tattoo Parlor (Body paints) Fingernail Painting Toenail Painting Memories Class photos - project slides on wall all evening Class video - tape events throughout the year and run a video loop all evening Yearbook signing Graffiti wall Entertainment Fortune Tellers Magicians Balloon Twisters Clowns Caricatures Fire Eaters Game shows Fireworks DJ’s and bands Light Shows Strolling jugglers Carnival Games NOTE: The following familiar carnival games should be modified to fit your theme. Examples: Toss pennies into saucers, becomes Toss gold coins into chest for a Mardi Gras theme or Toss cracker gold fish into fish bowls for a beach theme. Hoops over bottles Darts at balloons Races Throw football thru tire Bean bags through holes Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 47 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 48 anchor the students at your party with variety entertainment by Angel Santiago, Carnival Day 1-877-JUMP-4-FUN It’s that time of the year again. The students are different but our goal remains the same: being safe and sober, especially on Prom night. This involves keeping the students entertained, energized, and supervised. Of course, by now all of the planning and preparation has begun for prom and graduation committees. The search for that unique idea, to keep the crowd busy and not wandering, seems nearly impossible to find. But the secret is that it’s not all about what single activity you book, but offering a variety of activities and building an exciting atmosphere. From personal experience of planning my own prom I came to learn that just renting a bunch of random activities doesn’t cut it. These days teens are attending lavish affairs, extravagant birthday parties, and over the top house parties. Don’t fool yourself by thinking just anything you could rent is new and cool. In reality, by the time kids are 15 they have already played the hottest games and seen the newest thing, probably more than twice! Variety is key and by giving your event variety you are ensuring that every student will have more than one choice throughout 48 the entire evening. Remember that this is not a two-hour event. We are trying to sustain energy and excitement for up to six hours, in the middle of the night! This is not an easy task but it can be done. For example, when booking that new sumo wrestling activity, also book a bungee-run or something of that nature. Plan to offer variety and more choices for all the students. Atmosphere plays a tremendous part in the success of an afterprom event. Not only must the students have variety and choices but they must also be engaged and entertained. It is the committee’s job to make sure that the entertainment appeals to the students. As we know, the kids change every year so you must work towards building around the tastes of those particular students. A simple survey or questionnaire could do the trick. Working closer with your vendors and entertainment companies will pay off, whether it is a representative coming to speak with the students directly, or putting together a presentation of the possible activities. Good customer service is the mark of any great company, especially in entertainment. Explain to your vendors that having a piece of equipment isn’t enough. The attendant must be just as entertaining as the equipment, bringing energy to the stage instead of being just a body. What this does for the atmosphere is priceless. For example Carnival Day, a Wheaton based entertainment company, is partnered with Kids After Hours, a youth program provider. This allows the company to employ staff that is geared towards working with and entertaining young adults on a daily basis. So when hiring your entertainment, remember to ask, “Where do you get your staff from?” Lets not forget that some of these young adults have been exposed to thinking that a party and alcohol go hand in hand. Consider that the proms and after-proms are viewed to the students as the Super Bowl of high school parties. Our goal is to separate the alcohol from that notion but keep the students just as excited. It is our job as involved and responsible adults to do what we can to get the students excited about the events we plan for them. From the variety offered by the vendors to the atmosphere we strive to build, we can all make it happen. Good luck and happy planning! Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 49 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 50 After Prom Planning: Tips & Ideas As an incentive for the students to stay until the end of the party, do not let any valuable prizes leave the party until the grand prizes are drawn at the end of the night. Names can be drawn all night for the prizes but the students cannot collect their prizes until the end of the night. Small prizes won at prize wheels, carnival games and other activities can be taken home at any time. An assembly can be a good “kick off” or a promotion campaign. The After-Prom Party can be presented as a “won’t want to miss”, “biggest show in town” event. Consider giving some prizes away to set the stage for a part atmosphere. 50 Some schools have the parents of the junior class students plan the After-Prom Party. This gives the parents of the senior class students time to enjoy all the activities of the senior year. Seniors and their parents are extremely busy at the end of the year during prom season. Ask parents of freshman, sophomore, and junior students to chaperone, preparing them for future parties. Involve the students in the planning process. Consult them on the choice of a facility, the party theme, DJ, entertainment, activities, prizes or food. This is such a busy time for graduating seniors that their involvement will probably be minimal. When promoting an After-Prom Party, put the emphasis on the party; the “last night together for the class of _____”, the theme, the activities, the prizes, etc. Don’t focus on the drug and alcohol issue. Use signs, banners, posters, showcases, lobbies, and the cafeteria to publicize your event. Check with the previous year’s committee for pictures you could use. Submit something to the school to be read with morning announcements. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 51 2006 Edition Drug and Alcohol Facts for Parents Make your position clear - kids should not use alcohol or drugs at all. First and foremost, it’s illegal. State governments have imposed a limit of 21 years of age for alcohol possession and use. Parents are legally responsible for anything that may happen to a minor who has been served alcohol or other drugs in their home, whether the parents are there or not. Alcoholism runs in families. Children of alcoholics have a four times greater risk of becoming alcoholics than Keeping your Kids Drug-free • Set a good example. Consider how your actions influence your children. • Build your child’s self-esteem. Help children feel good about themselves by emphasizing what they do right. • Teach your children values such a honesty and responsibility. • Make sure your children know the facts about alcohol and other drugs. • Establish and enforce clear, strong, no alcohol/no drug rules. • Encourage good communication and decision-making skills. • Teach your children how to confidently say “No” and resist peer pressure to use drugs. • Teach your kids to manage stress in healthy ways such as participation in sports, exercise, and hobbies. • Know your child’s friends. Know their parents. • If you do suspect your child is doing drugs, do not ignore it. • Love your child unconditionally. Always be willing to listen to your child and offer your support. Make time for your child. Courtesy of The Bureau for At-Risk Youth 135 Dupont Street, Plainview, NY 11803 Visit us online at www.promsplus.com children of non-alcoholics. Parents should let their children know of any family history of alcoholism or other drug addictions and educate them on the risks of becoming addicted. Impaired judgement may lead to dangerous situations. When anyone is under the influence of alcohol or other drugs, inhibitions are lowered and people are more likely to do things they would not do. This can lead to things such as sexual intercourse, unintended pregnancy, the spread of sexually transmitted diseases including AIDS, and committing crimes of destruction. Alcohol and other drugs have also been responsible for injuries and deaths by falls, drowning, alcohol poisoning and car crashes. Family values and beliefs are important. Be aware of how you use alcohol and talk about it openly with your children. It is important to remember that what you do has more of an impact on your children than what you say. Alcohol and drug use delays the maturation process. When children use alcohol or drugs, it affects the developmental process of the adolescent years. This may result in learning difficulties, a lack of social skills and poor self-confidence. Psychological development is a factor. The frontal regions of the brain that regulate judgment and consequence evaluation are the last regions to reach maturity and are especially sensitive to alcohol and other drugs. When a child begins to use alcohol and other drugs at a young age, their maturation process is stopped at that particular age and development essentially ceases. prom planning: royal court Typically, elections need to be held to elect a King and Queen. Some schools go all out and elect several other positions as well. School tradition plays an important part in this. Voting is typically by the entire senior (or junior ) class and is organized by the Prom Committee. Elect the court early enough so that they can be sure to purchase tickets and find a date, in case they hadn’t planned on attending. Also, personalized mementos are a nice touch, so be sure to leave enough time to order these as well. Tiaras and/or crowns, sashes, scepters, and even robes have graced royalty. Order these several months ahead. 51 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 52 young drivers tips for parents of > You are your young driver's role model, and your practices are reflected in them. Correct your own driving habits, so bad habits aren't copied. > Allocate several hours a week to working with your young driver- even after they receive their license. > Be frank about the dangers of drinking and driving. Agree that you can be called any time of the day or night to provide a ride if it means your child will not drive after drinking or with someone else who has been drinking. > Be sure your teen understands that traffic violations can include fines, driver improvement classes and suspended or revoked licenses. Driving while intoxicated can result in legal fees, imprisonment, and a permanent criminal record - not to mention death or injury. > Go over what to do in the event of an accident, a flat tire, or a car that won't start. Give an auto club membership as a gift. > Make sure they know what type of gas to use, how to check oil and fluid levels, how to check air pressure in tires, and how to change a tire. > Parents control the vehicle and insurance. Take a leadership role and avoid family conflicts by setting ground rules up front. Establish rules on: > Gas; Insurance; Car upkeep and repairs; Managing the use of vehicles; Number of passengers; Hours of use; When they can use the car; When to send them out into traffic alone. > Teach your young driver defensive driving - how to anticipate problems and be prepared to react. > Stress that laws, signals and signs are there to better predict the actions of others. > Work with them on time, space needs, and the gaps in traffic when they are entering and leaving it. Emphasize that speed and positioning for adjustments are needed within lanes. > Teach them to gather and select visual information efficiently. Direct their attention, while they are driving, to road conditions, signs and signals, potential conflicts and problems and other road users. > Teach them to scan behind shrubs, buildings, trees, parked cars, etc. for cyclists, pedestrians and animals, or the behavioral clues of other drivers. > Practice the above tips when driving in the dark. - 2 out of 3 traffic deaths occur at night. > Practice driving in bad weather on a vacant parking lot. - 21% of all reported crashes involve skidding. Courtesy of Maryland Highway Safety Office Laws Affecting Young Drivers Zero Tolerance Under 21 years old, a person may not operate a vehicle with any amount of alcohol in their system. Possession It is unlawful for a person under the age of 21 to possess an alcoholic beverage. Furnishing Alcohol It is unlawful to knowingly furnish alcohol to a person under 21. 52 Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 53 2006 Edition finding the perfect favor for your prom Favors are usually distributed the night of the Prom, as a memento of the night and the year. Many imprinted favors are available. School colors or logo, as well as school name and year are popular. Also, the words “Prom 2006” or the slogan or theme of this year‘s Prom are a great idea. Drinkware, frames, imprinted chocolates, candles, plush figures and keychains are all popular choices. Another idea rapidly becoming popular is photo favors, such as key chains, telescopes, or themed frames, given out the night of the Prom. Photographers catch couples and singles or groups of friends as they arrive, at tables, or in portrait, and people pick up their souvenir before they leave (they can be made in multiple, one for each). They can also be imprinted with your school name, theme, etc. Memory Books are also gaining in popularity. These are booklets with imprinted covers that could match your theme, and can even be used as table decorations. They are filled with original material, contributions from students, faculty, administrators, or parents, or borrowed text of song lyrics or poems. It can include class photos or candids, lists of contributors or supporters, the Prom Committee, “then and now”comparisons, “remember when” notes, blessings, class officers, special thanks, the night’s program, the theme, the menu, the Royal Court, spaces for friends to write messages, a verse from your school song, whatever! Print a Program It is a good idea to print a program for the After-Prom Party to acknowledge eveyone who helped put the party on, plus to let students know what’s what. You could include: • Letters from the committee, Parents or School Officials • Schedule of events • Schedule of Drawings for prizes • Party rules, including leaving and re-enrty • Instructions to activities, drawings, etc. • Game rules Visit us online at www.promsplus.com • A floor plan showing diffent activity areas, tickets, food, etc. • List of Teacher or parent Chaperons • List of CommitteeMembers • Donors and Contributors • Funraising Contest Winners or Participants • Puzzles or games using students’ names or faces (like guessing baby pictures) Composing the program on a computer and copying it can keep this cost low. Don’t overlook a donation from a local printing company as well. 53 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 54 Drug and Alcohol Resources the deadly truth Alcoholic Anonymous World Services www.aa.org American Council of Drug Education www.acde.org Center for Substance Abuse Prevention www.samhsa.gov/csap Center for Substance Abuse Treatment www.samhsa.gov/scat Community Anti-drug Coalitions of America www.cadca.org Drug Enforcement Administration www.usdoj.gov/dea Mothers Against Drunk Driving www.madd.org Narcotics Anonymous www.na.org Office of National Drug Control Policy www.whitehousedrugpolicy.gov Students Against Destructive Decisions www.saddonline.com Safe & Drug Free Schools www.ed.gov/offices/OESE/SDFS Partnership for a Drug Free America www.drugfreeamerica.com “Make your position clear kids should not use alcohol or drugs at all.” helping teens stay drug-free Parent-School Partnerships Parents do not need to feel that they are alone in helping their children stay drugfree. Teens have the best prospects for leading healthy drug-free lives when schools support parents in their anti-drug message. One of the best ways to ensure that the anti-drug policies at your child’s school are strong is to be involved. > Learn about the current policies regarding alcohol and other drugs at school. > Familiarize yourself with how drug education is being taught in school. 54 > Ask your teen to show you any materials distributed during or outside class and take the opportunity to review them together. > Ask what happens to those who are caught abusing drugs. > Volunteer. When Your Teen Asks “Did You Ever Use Drugs?” Unless the answer is no, it is difficult to know what to say because nearly all par- ents who used, don‘t want their children to do the same thing. The response should be honest - lying risks losing credibility and teaches your children to lie. This doesn’t mean parents need to recount every moment of their experience. Some details should remain private. Ask clarifying questions to make sure you understand why your children are asking. This discussion provides a good opportunity for parents to speak frankly and explains why they want their children to avoid making the same mistake. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 55 security Some facilities will offer security, but many will not. You will then need to provide your own security. Even if they do provide in-house security, more security is better. Take full name, address, phone number, and emergency contact information when tickets are sold. This is handy information the evening of the Prom. Adult chaperones, such as parents, teachers and Administrators should be in atten- Schools that are members of the PTA will usually be covered by the PTA’s liability insurance if the school’s PTA supports the event and is willing to be a sponsor. Although many PTA’s donate money to the school’s After-Prom Party in order to show their support. The only requirement for sponsorship is the agreement of the PTA Board. The budget for the After-Prom Party will have to appear on the PTA budget for the current year. The money can be a one line item - money collected money disbursed. PTA insurance does not cover mechanical rides or sports activities. Much of the entertainment company equipment - velcro walls, sumo wrestling, inflatable joust, inflatable boxing, bungee bull, etc. are considered sports activities. Check with the entertainment vendor to make sure they carry liability insurance for whatever you are renting. The insurance carrier for the PTA requires that you inform them in writing of the type of event you are planning. You will Visit us online at www.promsplus.com 2006 Edition If students feel unsafe, no one will have fun. Troublemakers can also put a damper on a great evening, so don’t take chances! dance inside the facility. They could mingle with the crowd, watch the lobby and check the bathrooms. Students act better when they are recognized rather than anonymous. Hired or in-house security should watch the doors to ensure that only paid (or registered) guests are in attendance. Consider inexpensive two-way radios for better communication. Have enough parents to cover all the necessary chaperone positions without having too many parents. Remember this is a student party. If you have too many parents wanting to chaperone at the party, limit these positions to parents who attended meetings and were involved in the party planning. Chaperones need to be visible and attentive. There can be no question that the parents provided a “well chaperoned” alcohol/drug free event. Off-duty police officers are great for security as well. Have them watch doors, stand outside, patrol the parking lot. Students should not be staying in parked cars. Check with the school Administration regarding students who might be prohibited from buying tickets or attending, such as suspended students. At Proms and After-Prom parties, a “no reentry” policy should be enforced. That is, no student is allowed to re-enter after they have left. need to provide the insurance carrier with the date, time, location, number of students and parents attending the activities that will be available along with the name of a contact person for the event. Private schools usually use the school’s insurance for the After-Prom Party. Make sure that the facility you are using has liability insurance for the facility and any activities that the facility provides such as bowling at a bowling alley. Some communities require permits for these events. The permits that most often pertain to this type of event will be a food permit, a gathering permit, a gaming permit and, very infrequently, a casino permit. You will need to check with your local police or permit office to make sure you have filed for whatever permit is necessary. Request a pre-celebration inspection by the Fire Marshall and follow all requirements and suggestions. He is an ally who is looking out for your safety and that of the students. This will also show that the planning committee showed Require and collect each activity vendor’s liability insurance certificate each year and store them for easy retrieval. permits & insurance 55 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 56 planning other school events Many of the same elements involved in Proms and After-Prom parties also pertain to other school events. The following are tips regarding unique aspects of those events. Banquets Football Game Banquets are held for many extra-curricular activities and clubs, as well as for committee, faculty and staff appreciation. Try to involve parents, this will make your task easier and your resources greater. The facility will determine the atmosphere of the event, although extra decorations make the event more festive. Determine how much people are willing to pay before you search, it will help narrow down the choices. If engraved awards are to be given, or imprinted favors or mementos, such a T-shirts, engraved writing sets, or glassware, leave 6-8 weeks to order before the event. A printed program is a nice memento. It can be made inexpensively on the computer, using colored cover stock for the cover. Include all participants, volunteers, coaches, faculty and staff that made it possible. Double check name spelling to ensure accuracy. Food can be simple or elegant, again depending on your budget. A lunchtime event will cut food costs. Pre-game activities may include the Band, drill teams, baton throwing, various squads riding in cars, an address by the King and Queen or the Grand Marshall or the school Principal. The school chorus could sing America The Beautiful, God Bless America, or join the band with The Star Spangled Banner. These activities, if done on the football field, should be timed right before the game begins. A parade, with many of those same activities plus floats, could be held on the morning of the big game. This gets the entire community attracted to the school, and lets siblings and parents feel some school spirit. Floats are sponsored and made by various school clubs and committees. Half-time activities involve bands and choruses, as well as cheerleaders and other dancers. Some schools go for a unique display, like fireworks, mounted horse displays, a skydiver, antique cars or Corvettes, an act by the school players, or a uniformed military drill team or fife and drum corp. Regardless of the activities, make certain they won’t litter or ruin the field for the second half of the game. And don’t forget to invite a photographer. Most school dances are held in school gyms. Check the schedule to avoid conflicts with sports team practices and consult the physical plant manager about protecting the gym floor. If a gym dance is not possible, follow guidelines in the facility section of this guide. Also follow the suggestions for entertainment and security. If food is provided, allow for an eating area and plenty of trash cans. This may be a great opportunity for a club or committee (say, the Prom Committee) to sell refreshments.They could also sell flowers. Augment security with PTA volunteers or faculty. Students act better when they are recognized by adults as opposed to being anonymous. Patrol the outside, parking lot, bathrooms, and hallways. Inexpensive two-way radios (FRS radios) are great for group communication . Decorations can be handled by students or an event planner can help. Be sure to set down a firm budget and stick to it. Ticket prices are usually inexpensive, say, under $20. Pre-sale prices could be a few dollars less than at the door. If you anticipate a capacity crowd, don’t do this, or only sell tickets ahead of time. Assembly or Pep Rally Dances Homecoming This is a collection of several events. Make a checklist for each activity and form subcommittees, similar to prom planning. It usually includes a football game, dance, and an assembly or pep rally, and it may include a parade, carnival, or other activities. Try to get everyone into the spirit, including faculty and staff things will go smoother this way when schedules and routines may be disrupted. 56 This is held on the day before or day of the game. Announce the King and Queen and/or the Grand Marshall, and let them speak. Nominate your court two weeks ahead and elect them a week in advance. A sash for each and even a souvenir is appropriate. Sing school songs, cheerleader cheers, and parade the football team and/or other sports teams to cheers of the students. If you have the budget, order inexpensive noise-makers or foam “#1” hands to give out. A contest for the best football banner to be displayed at the game is a great rally activity. Dance This can be formal, semi-formal, or casual. Try not to hold this on the same day as the football game. Many are held in the school gym, with decorations by the students, while others are at off-site facilities. Follow the suggestions for facilities, entertainment, and security elsewhere in this guide. Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 57 Directory of Services 2006 Edition A Bit of Class Limousine Service Millersville, MD 410-768-5878 410-685-5466 (Balt) www.abitofclasslimo.com (see our display ad, page 1) Creating an enchanted evening. We offer the following amenities with no hidden cost, non-alcoholic beverages, disposable camera for your memories, and (upon request) red carpet service. Serving Baltimore and Annapolis vicinities. AS Midway Tours & Limousine Baltimore, MD 410-367-6900 or 1-888-573-5466 www.midwaylimo.com (see our display ad, page 21) New Luxury Limousines, SUV’s & Limo Buses for your special night. Call us first for the best rates! About Faces Caricatures and Entertainment 8706 Cedar Post Ellicott City, MD 410-480-5285 or 1-800-923-8669 www.aboutfacesentertainers.com (see our display ad, page 44) Let our Caricaturists make your event one to remember! We also have Magicians, Fortune Tellers, Henna Tattoo Artists, Clowns, Balloon Artists... Accessories Unltd. 570 Bond Ave. Reisterstown, MD 410-833-7989 www.accessories-unltd.com (see our display ad, page 43) Accessories Unlimited is a Professional Balloon Decorating Company in business since 1987 serving the Maryland/DC area. We are located in Reisterstown, MD. Our services include centerpieces, balloon sculptures, balloon drops, dance floor decor, entrances and registration tables. With just one phone call all of your questions and concerns can be answered. Visit us online at www.promsplus.com All New Limos 3302 Offutt Rd. Randallstown, MD 410-496-4713 or 1-877-350-LIMO (see our display ad, page 20) Our mission is to provide invaluable customer satisfaction and dependable services to accommodate all your ground transportation needs in a new limo, at an affordable price. All-State Career Healthcare 2200 Broening Hwy. Baltimore, MD 410-631-2742 or 1-800-TRAIN-28 www.allstatecareermed.com (see our display ad, page 34) An Exciting Career. Get the training you need to become a Medical Assistant, Medical Biller and Coder or a Pharmacy Technician. Classes are forming now! All Stretched Out Limousine Service Baltimore/Washington Area 410-969-5466 or 1-800-285-7972 www.allstretchedout.com (see our display ad, page 23) Featuring Lincoln Navigators, H2 Hummers and Lincoln Town Car Stretches. Mention our ad and receive $20 off 8 hour Prom rental. During the week specials. American Eagle Limousine Lorton, VA 202-554-2222 (DC) 301-772-5555 (MD) 703-550-7200 (VA) 1-800-730-7878 www.americaneaglelimo.com (see our display ad, Inside Back Cover) Our mission is to provide you with the highest quality service, the most professional chauffeurs and the newest fleet of limousines available - with no exceptions. Check out our website to see our exotic limousines! American Sedan & Limo Service Reisterstown, MD 410-833-1060 or 1-800-276-3449 www.americansedanlimo.com (see our display ad, page 28) It’s hard to be the best...but we keep proving it! Travel in style to your prom! We offer 24 hour door to door service. Serving all occasions including Corporate, Personal, Weddings, Proms and Concerts. American Star Limousine & Sedan Services Serving MD, DC & VA 703-707-0083 or 202-253-5501 (see our display ad, page 24) We offer guaranteed lowest rates in town. Professional and courteous chauffeur. Fully insured. Specializing in proms, graduations, birthdays, bachelor/bachelorette parties, sightseeing. American Super Limousine Serving MD, DC & VA 202-345-3030 or 1-866-888-3175 www.americansuperlimo.com (see our display ad, page 22) “In America’s Limousine Service, We make a difference.” Uncompromising, affordable luxury limousine company, serving DC, MD, & VA. Stretch your luxury level with pristine limousines and a professional driver at the wheel. With over 12 years of experience, our service speaks for itself. Baltimore Studio of Hair Design Maryland Beauty Academies 410-539-1935 (Baltimore) 410-686-4477 (Essex) 410-517-0442 (Reisterstown) www.baltimorestudio.net (see our display ad, page 34) A beautiful new career in the multi-billion dollar beauty industry. Get the training you need to become a licensed cosmetologist or nail tech. Call us! Bayside Limousine Baltimore/Washington Areas 1-800-439-2225 www.baysidelimo.com (see our display ad, pages 26-27) Make your Prom night special with one of our stretch limousines. All new fleet featuring luxury interiors plus first-class service. Make your event memorable. Continued on page 58 57 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Benn’s Men’s Wear 535 Jermor Lane 140 Village Shopping Ctr. Westminster, MD 410-848-8020 www.bennsmenswear.com (see our display ad, page 12) Benn’s offers you one of the largest selections in formalwear in the area. Voted Carroll’s Best Formalwear for the last 5 years. Bridal Elegance & All the Groom’s Men 1430 Progress Way, Ste. 119 Eldersburg, MD 410-795-8373 www.bridalelegance.biz (see our display ad, page 8) Come browse our many different styles and colors of beautiful prom dresses and accessories. Plus we have a variety of stylish tuxedos too. Bruce’s Airbrush Baltimore, MD 410-668-5632 www.partypop.com (see our display ad, page 48) Offering the best in airbrushed designs with a variety of bright colors to choose from, Bruce’s Airbrush will add many fond memories to your celebration! Caricature Concepts 410-795-4223 or 1-800-540-8520 (see our display ad, page 46) Everyone loves the caricatures that Doug and his associates draw at proms, and graduation parties. Caricatures are a great keepsake that will be cherished forever! Carnival Day Serving MD, VA, & DC 301-933-6881 or 1-877-JUMP-4-FUN www.carnivalday.com (see our display ad, page 49) Carnival Day is your one-stop-shop for all of your entertainment needs. Make your event special and different from years past with our unique products, services and concepts! Classic Limousine & Sedan Service Baltimore, MD 410-574-4606 or 410-736-8351 www.classiclimousineandsedan.com (see our display ad, page 5) Sit Back, Relax, and Enjoy the Ride. 58 Page 58 Prom- arguably the most important evening of your high school career. Arriving at prom in a brand new limo will not only turn heads, but will give you memories that last a lifetime. From your arrival filled with anticipation and excitement to your tired departure, you can trust in the safety of our limousine drivers. Crazy Clix, LLC Reisterstown, MD 410-654-5529 www.crazyclix.com (see our display ad, page 47) Digital virtual makeovers or candid snapshots printed out on the spot and placed in a novelty item, such as a beachscope, for your keepsake. Deluxe Transportation 301-384-5563 1-800-914-2855 www.deluxetransportation.com (see our display ad, page 3) Since 1990, we have been recognized as a leader in fine-chauffeured services. Boasting one of the most impeccable fleets of sedans and mini-motor coaches to be found in the Washington, DC area, we furnish our clients with superlative service, around the clock. ESPN Zone 601 E. Pratt St. Baltimore, MD 410-685-3776 www.espnzone.com (see our display ad, page 41) Non-Stop action, high-energy fun, unbelievable food, and more! The ultimate dining and entertainment experience for your post-prom celebration! Estelle Transportation Service Serving MD, DC & VA 301-449-6960 or 240-601-3799 (see our display ad, page 23) VIP style and luxury! Let us turn THE most important night of your High School year into the most memorable one. Experience the finest transportation service in Maryland, DC & Virginia..... Experience the Elegance of Estelle! Call for details and ask about our early bird specials! Events Are Us Germantown, MD 202-409-8650 www.eventsareus.info (see our display ad, page 42) We are a full service event planning company specializing in balloon decor. We offer BEAUTIFUL AND ELEGANT BALLOON DÉCOR FOR ALL OCCASIONS. The Fila Academy/ Paul Mitchell Academy 6320-F Ritchie Hwy. Glen Burnie, MD 410-789-9516 or 1-888-660-9516 www.filaacademy.com (see our display ad, page 34) Our Glen Burnie, Maryland location is a state-of-the-art 14,000 square foot facility. The beauty industry is prime and filled with wonderful career opportunities. Giron’s Limo Service Silver Spring, MD 301-933-3411 or 1-866-933-3411 www.gironslimo.com (see our display ad, page 25) One hour FREE. Cold drinks & water included. Must book before April 16, 2006 with this ad only. 8-10-12-14 passenger Lincoln Limos. Haima’s Transportation Service 10871 Bucknell Drive Silver Spring, MD 301-649-4600 or 1-800-649-4606 www.haimastransportation.com (see our display ad, page 28) We focus on each of our client’s requests, needs, and individual problems. We offer elegant, luxurious sedan and limousine services for Special Occasions, Graduations, Anniversaries, Proms, Weddings, or a trip to the Airport, or from the Airport. Harbor Cruises, Ltd. 301 Light St. Baltimore, MD 410-347-5555 or 1-800-695-BOAT www.harborcruises.com (see our display ad, page 38) Enjoy a unique and fun setting for your next event. Affordable all-inclusive package includes cruise, food, staff, and DJ! Hilton Pikesville 1726 Reisterstown Rd. Pikesville, MD Tell everyone you found it in PromsPlus! PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 59 2006 Edition 410-653-1100 www.pikesville.hilton.com (see our display ad, page 38) Celebrate your Special Night or Graduation with us. Over 50 Linen Selections to Match your School’s Colors. Can accommodate up to 350 guests. Special Prom Menu Packages! Kardwell International, Inc. Nationwide 1-800-233-0828 www.kardwell.com www.customplayingcards.com (see our display ad, page 53) Glassware for Party Favors. Large selection of Customized Glassware. Personalized and color-coordinated. Choose one of our designs or use your own. Call for a Free Brochure. Karen Carbone Entertainment Silver Spring, MD 301-572-7717 or 1-888-590-0039 www.carboneentertainment.com (see our display ad, page 46) Photo sticker booths, telescope and keychain pix, hairwraps, temporary tattoos, crystal tattoos, jewelry making, airbrush, fortune tellers, walk-around characters and more! Koko Brothers Entertainment Baltimore, MD 410-666-8586 www.kokobros.com (see our display ad, page 45) Your complete entertainment source. Talented and Experienced DJ’s & MC’s. Big screen music video parties, amazing lights, lasers and sound for all occasions. Lasting Impressions Limousine Service Westminster, MD 410-848-6898 or 1-800-583-2233 www.lastingimpressions1.com (see our display ad, page 24) Get the V.I.P. treatment with red carpet service, non-alcoholic champagne toast, bottled water, sodas, ice and movies. Visit our online limousine showroom. Limousines, Inc. 15444 Depot Lane. Upper Marlboro, MD 1-800-652-8224 www.limos-inc.com (see our display ads, Visit us online at www.promsplus.com Inside Front Cover & page 19) You’ve tried the rest... Now ride with THE BEST! We offer new model Lincoln limousines and “Extreme”SUVs. We feature 12-20 passenger SUVs including Navigators, Excursions, Escalades and Hummers or a 20 passenger limo bus. Ogilvie Transportation Services Luxury Vehicles for All Occasions Silver Spring, MD 301-598-0591 or 1-800-406-2227 www.otslimo.com (see our display ad, page 28) ONE HOUR FREE with All (8)-hour rentals.Luxury Limousines for Proms, Parties, Bar Mitzvahs/Bat Mitzvahs, Birthdays, Concerts, Graduations, Museum Hopping, Sightseeing, and much more… Paris Owings Mills Mall (lower level) 10300 Mill Run Circle, Ste. 1185 Owings Mills, MD 410-902-7111 (see our display ad, page 8) Located in Owings Mills Mall on the lower level. Come experience class and elegance, the finest gowns, suits, and accessories for your special day. Pattrapon 10425 Fawcett St. Kensington, MD 301-946-5095 www.pattraponbridal.com Unique collection of dresses for prom, graduation, debutante, first communion, accessories & shoes. Pinky’s Bridal 9988 Liberty Rd. Randallstown, MD 410-922-2800 www.pinkysbridal.com (see our display ad, page 6) We offer the latest styles in Prom Gowns, Shoes, and accessories. 50% Discount on gowns from 2005 Prom Season. Tuxedos also available with coordinating colors. Platinum Limousine Service 301-877-7176 or 1-866-278-6776 www.platinumlimousine.com (see our display ad, page 25) This is a once in a lifetime event and we want to help make it memorable. We will ensure you arrive safely and in style with one of our beautiful limousines. We serve the entire Metropolitan area. Presidential Limo Baltimore, MD 410-780-8181 www.presidentiallimo.net (see our display ad, page 24) Exclusive - Prom Pick-ups and Drop-offs! Convertible Rolls, Harleys, Escalades, Chrysler 300, all SUV’s, Limos, and customized Limo Party Busses. We Got It! Ransom’s Towson Town Ctr., 2nd Floor Towson, MD 410-832-7332 (see our display ad, page 7) Ransom’s, located in the Towson Town Center features the latest styles in gorgeous prom gowns and fall line of accessories along with superior service. Show Biz Productions 8301 Ashford Blvd., Ste. 822 Laurel, MD 202-723-4215 1-800-UR-Lucky (875-8259) www.showbizproductions.com (see our display ad, page 50) Recreational Casino Party Company also features Horse Race Programs, Props & Decorations, Carnival, Mini-Go, and a wide variety of entertainers. Synchronicity Boutique Hooks Village 25 Hooks Lane, ste. 105 Baltimore, MD 410-486-8866 www.SynchronicityBoutique.com (see our display ad, page 9) Girls, Tweens, Juniors, Missy, Women’s & Plus Size special occasion wear, jewelry, purses and accessories. Specializing in “one-of-a-kind,”“hard-to-find”& “hardto-fit.” Superior customer service! Z-Best Limousine 6809 Ritchie Hwy. Glen Burnie, MD 410-768-1148 1-800-406-0301 www.zbestlimo.com (see our display ad, Back Cover) Try our new H2 Custom Hummers! For a night to remember choose your transportation from the Prom experts. Fully Insured and Participant of Prom Promise. 59 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:08 AM Page 60 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:04 AM Page B1 PromsPlus2006 1/6/06 10:04 AM Page B2