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ORL A1 - Diocese of Orlando
Florida Catholic The Orlando edition www.thefloridacatholic.org Sept. 29, 2006/Vol. 67/No. 24 Pope expresses New parish created in Four Corners area respect for Muslims ORLANDO CASTEL GANDOLFO, Italy Meeting with Islamic ambassadors and representatives, Pope Benedict XVI expressed his deep respect for Muslims, pledged to continue dialogue, and said Islamic and Christian leaders should cooperate to curb violence. “Faithful to the teachings of their own religious traditions, Christians and Muslims must learn to work together, as indeed they already do in many common undertakings, in order to guard against all forms of intolerance and to oppose all manifestations of violence,” the pope said. “As for us, religious authorities and political leaders, we must guide and encourage See timeline them in this direction,” of events since he said. the pope’s The unprecedented speech and encounter at the pope’s local bishops’ summer residence Sept. 25 was designed to soothe reaction, Muslim resentment over Page A12. a recent papal speech that cited a historical criticism of Islam and the concept of holy war. The pope later distanced himself from the quoted material and said he was sorry Muslims had been offended. Addressing the Islamic representatives at Castel Gandolfo, the pope alluded only briefly to the earlier speech. Instead, he focused on assuring Muslim communities that his papacy was not backtracking on the dialogue opened by the Second Vatican Council and developed in large part by his predecessor, Pope John Paul II. The pope expressed his “esteem and profound respect” for Muslim believers and said he wanted to continue to build bridges, especially between Muslims and Christians. Productive dialogue, he said, will be based on mutual knowledge, which “with joy recognizes the religious values that we have in common and, with loyalty, respects the differences.” He said historical animosities should be left behind. The lessons of the past, he said, should help Christians and Muslims seek Bishop Thomas Wenski of the Diocese of Orlando has established a new Catholic parish in the Four Corners area of central Florida. St. Faustina Catholic Church is named for St. Maria Faustina of Poland who introduced the devotion of the Divine Mercy. Her feast day is Oct. 5. Father Stephen Phillips will be pastor of the parish. The Westgate Inn at 9200 W. U.S. Highway 192 in Four Corners (Clermont mailing address) will serve as temporary housing for church services, expected to begin the weekend of Sept. 30 and Oct. 1. Masses will be celebrated Saturdays at 4 p.m. and Sundays at 10:30 a.m. and 4 p.m. “God’s extraordinary mercy guided us to this point and we seek to imitate that mercy as we build the faith of our people,” Father Phillips said. The property of St. Faustina Parish is located approximately five miles north of the intersection of U.S. 192 and Route 27 in Lake County. Temporary housing for church services will continue until a parish community begins fundraising for a church building. “We announce the establishment of St. Faustina at the same time we are concluding our diocesan synod, Starting Afresh From Christ,” Bishop Wenski said. “This announcement proclaims a new start in Christ in the Four Corners area.” “St. Faustina’s entire life was an imitation of Christ’s and was lived as a doer of mercy,” the bishop continued. “It is my hope that our newest parishioners will also imitate Christ and become doers of mercy in the Four Corners area.” St. Faustina was the first saint canonized in the new millennium. She was canonized on Divine Mercy Sunday in 2001. The parish cell-phone number is 352-9788888 and the mailing address is P.O. Box 135576, Clermont, FL 34713-5576. The e-mail address is stfaustinacatholicchurch @earthlink.net. Whirled peace TFC PHOTOS BY CHARLES HODGES Students at St.James Cathedral School,in Orlando,planted pinwheels for peace Sept. 21. The “Pinwheels for Peace” program offers a way for students to express their feelings about the world and in their lives. Last year, half a million pinwheels, in more than 1,325 locations throughout the world, whirled in the breeze. Sept. 21 is recognized as the International Day of Peace. Above: Left to right, Florence Poulin, Zana Berisha and MacKenzie Mylod arrange their pinwheels to catch the optimum breeze to spread thoughts and feelings about peace throughout the country and the world. Left: Hannah DiBona (kneeling), Caroline Newsome (center) and Montana Blanchard search for the right spots to plant their pinwheels for peace. See MUSLIM, Page A12 I N S I D E THIS ISSUE MAILING LABEL BELOW Florida Catholics travel to Starke for death penalty vigil Page A19 ORL A1 Other stories: • Churches need to be ready to help domestic violence victims. Page A9 • Catholic men executed in Indonesia, triggering riots. Page A20 A2 www.thefloridacatholic.org ORLANDO DIOCESE NEWS Father Webster prepares to leave Basilica of St. Paul The Florida Catholic • Sept. 29, 2006 St. Paul’s receives new cupola Raymond T. Cordani native.” Father Webster ser ved as DAYTONA BEACH associate pastor for three years Father Robert Webster, rector before taking over as pastor. Since of the Basilica of St. Paul, cut ordination, he has held many jobs, across the church to the sacristy including stints as secretary for to vest. He had his breviary tucked former Bishops Thomas Grady beneath his arm. It was Monday, and Norbert M. Dorsey. Following Aug. 28, the feast of St. Augustine, his sabbatical, he will become and the parish was holding an allthe diocese’s full-time director of school Mass. liturgy. Inside the basilica, the organ “I’ve had a lot of jobs and Bishop creaked to life and the children (Thomas) Wenski has finally said began to sing, “City of God.” I can only have one job,” Father Father Webster’s homily focused Webster said. on architecture, specifically of the The Daytona Beach church will spiritual variety, and he enjoined receive its new pastor in October, his children to continue he said. Father Tim to help build God’s Daly will become the ‘This was my kingdom on Earth and church’s parochial this parish, even after first parish as a administrator. Father he has gone. Daly is the president priest. I’ve been After 12 years, Father of Father Lopez High Webster is stepping here so long School in Daytona down as pastor. He I’m a native.’ Beach. will go on sabbatical After so many years, — Father Bob Oct. 1. He made the Father Webster has Webster announcement at mixed emotions about Sunday Mass, a day leaving St. Paul. earlier, then repeated the news to “There’s so much of me the parochial school students. For splattered in the community,” the next few weeks, he said, he will he said. “The crowning glory of brush up on his Italian — and catch that was being recognized as a up on his sleep — before moving to basilica.” Rome to study for four months. In January, Pope Benedict XVI “We’re going to have fun for designated St. Paul as a minor four weeks,” he told the students. basilica, making it the 60th basilica “We’re going to have some kind of in the United States and the first a celebration to celebrate our life one of his pontificate. But Father together. I baptized most of you and Webster said there is so much celebrated your first Communion. more to the parish, which he said Some of you are my godchildren. is one of the poorest in Volusia All things are good. We pray that County. the next few weeks will be fun. We One of his major projects has will continue to build the kingdom been to establish the basilica as of God together.” the center of Catholic resources in Before leaving for Rome, Father the county. In the future, Catholic Webster also plans to spend time Charities plans to open a food with his family. His twin brother, pantry nearby and a counseling Rick, an Orlando nurse, reportedly office will be set up in a former is seriously ill. law office adjacent to the parish, Strolling through the basilica he said. later that morning, Father Webster Though it will be difficult to considered his time at the Volusia leave it all behind, Father Webster County parish. said he knows it’s the right thing “This was my first parish as to do. a priest,” he said fondly. He was “It’s time,” he said solemnly. ordained 20 years ago, he said. “I think I’ve taken them as far as “I’ve been here so long I’m a I can go.” TFC PHOTO BY JENNIFER SURGENT Father Robert Webster said during the Mass he celebrated before the raising of the new cupola on Sept. 14, “Be careful of what you dream because it might come true.” He remembered saying he wished he could replace the original cupola that had called the rooftop of St. Paul home since 1926. He said that God had a sense of humor because, shortly after he said those words, three hurricanes in 2004 made his wish come true. With each hurricane the cupola slowly fell apart. Copper pieces of the original cupola were found up to two miles away. Some neighbors returned the pieces of copper they found. The parish had no choice but to remove what was left. The local Knights of Columbus donated $125,000 from the sale of its hall to help replace the cupola, covering half of its cost. Above, Father Webster speaks with lifetime St. Paul parishioner Chuck Cameron, who owns the sign company that made the new aluminum cupola. Catechists compare notes and enhance skills during Faith Formation Day Raymond T. Cordani TFC PHOTO BY VALETA ORLANDO Father J. Glenn Murray, SJ, makes a point during his keynote speech. ORLANDO Clergy, catechists and parish ministers from across the Orlando Diocese and around the state gathered Sept. 16 at Bishop Moore High School for an annual Faith Formation Day. Buses from outlying regions of the diocese arrived early Saturday morning. The campus was a beehive of activity with soccer players running drills and other students directing traffic. Browsers sipped coffee and looked at CDs and books in the cafeteria before Bishop Thomas Wenski made his opening remarks. “This is a wonderful ministry,” he said, “a ministry in which you help so many people answer the question Jesus poses to us: ‘Who do you say I am?’” Catechists, clergy and other parish ministers met to help form their faith as they assume leadership roles in their parishes and carry the message of Christ to others. Catechists hand on the word of God to help form the faith of the community and also educate candidates for initiation into the ORL A2 church about the teachings of Christ. Several hundred people attended this year’s sessions. Along with a keynote address, participants had a choice of 14 workshops to attend. The workshops included, “At the Name of Jesus,” “Stress Less = Success” and “Delivering the Gospel to Elementary-Age Children in Their Media.” Speaker Father J. Glenn Murray, SJ, from Cleveland, helped catechists answer the question Jesus posed to his disciples, “Who do you say I am?” Father Murray’s expertise is liturgy, but he was asked to speak about catechesis and evangelization. “All these things have something to do with how we worship,” he said. “I have some passion about catechesis, the role catechists play in the church,” he said. “Who was Jesus? Jesus was a person who was brilliant at preaching. As catechists, we are called to enter into people’s lives. Jesus was someone who was brilliant at encounters; he used everyday examples to illustrate the catechesis in our lives.” ORLANDO DIOCESE NEWS The Florida Catholic • Sept. 29, 2006 www.thefloridacatholic.org A3 Students learn positive approach triumphs over bullies Laura Dodson MELBOURNE A rapt audience of thirdthrough eighth-grade students, teachers and the principal of Ascension Catholic School heard a firsthand account of how painful being bullied can be. Tony Bartoli was a slight child — born premature, weighing less than 3 pounds, and with cerebral palsy. Now 36, Bartoli travels the countr y sharing his stor y of God’s empowerment in his life — a life of rejection, physical struggles, ridicule and fear. The disorder struck the left side of his body, affecting his coordination. Doctors told his mother that he would never walk. But he overcame physical and emotional obstacles. “ To n y B a r t o l i ’ s p o s i t i v e approach of focusing on how God created each of us special is what appealed to me the most. His use of his life made it a real lesson for the children,” Principal Angela Coombs said of Bartoli’s recent presentation at the school. The students seemed to internalize Bar toli’s hur t and come away challenged and empowered. Corey Musgrave is a precocious thir d-grade student who, like Bartoli, has a physical disability that requires leg braces. “He taught us we can be dif ferent in our own special way,” Corey said. Four th-grader Cecilia Deruelle and fifth-grade student Kevin Kostyk heard another Web sites about bullying Speaker Tony Bar toli and writer Laura Dodson recommend these Web sites to learn more about bullying and how to remedy it: • www.tonyb4hope.com, provides an over view of Bartoli and his program. • www.bullying. org, from Canada. Gives link to information on cyberbullying. • www.bullypolice.org, an advocacy site. • www.stopbullyingnow. hrsa.gov, fr om the U.S. Depar tment of Health and Human Services, content in Spanish and English, sections for children and adults. • www.safeyouth.org, general antiviolence site specifically for teens. • http://en.wikipedia. org/wiki/bullying, references for all forms of bullying. part of the message. They both were touched that one student, defending Bartoli against bullies, rallied 300 more to help. Gar r ett Kealer, seventhg r a d e r, w a s m o t i v a t e d b y Bartoli’s perseverance, “Even though you may have some problems, you can tr y your hardest to do something. He overcame a lot of obstacles,” he said. Katie Raynor is only in eighth grade, yet she summarized Bar toli’s message well, “We are all God’s children and we should treat people all the same, because God is in all. We’re all brothers and sisters.” Bullying has become a major focus for schools, workplaces, those who work with domestic violence and as a result, in our state and federal legislatures. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Ser vices, “Bullying happens when someone hur ts or scares another person on purpose and the person being bullied has a hard time defending her/himself.” It includes physical hur t, spreading rumors, ostracizing from a group, teasing in a mean way, people “ganging-up” on others and its newest for m — “cyberbullying.” Bullying affects not just the people who ar e bullied and the bullies themselves, but also the largest group — the bystanders — who often feel helpless to stop the behavior. Wh en as ked a bout th eir own experiences of bullying, the students mentioned some minimal teasing and namecalling. Two of the students acknowledged feeling hurt after being teased about their weight. Eileen Hillman, a teacher at Ascension for 12 years, indicated there have been few bullying incidents during her tenure. However, she is sensitive to the issue. Hillman experienced bullying in high school. She was teased Advice on handling bullies Laura Dodson MELBOURNE Tony Bartoli lives with the effects of cerebral palsy. Once a slight child, he was bullied for five years. He now speaks to youths on the dangers of bullying. Bar toli of fers this advice on how to handle bullies. • Talk, talk, talk! If you are bullied or know someone who is bullied, talk to a teacher, school official or other adult. • Encourage groups. Bullies look for “targets” — someone alone and defenseless. Find another student to walk the halls, sit with at lunch and walk home or to the bus stop. • Give comebacks to a bully: Comebacks defuse a situation making the bully feel less in control. For example, change the subject. Try, “What are we having for lunch today?” or be assertive, “Late for class again; gotta run!” • You are not alone and it is not your fault: Bullying touches every school in America. It is not normal or a part of growing up. No one should ever be for being Catholic, a “goodygoody” who made choices based on her faith. For Hillman, Bar toli’s strongest message verbally or physically harassed. You are NOT weak, soft or the only one. • Get active: Do something y o u e n j o y, f o r e x a m p l e , extracur ricular clubs, a community or church group, exercise, read, listen to music. Take your mind away from the bullies. • Develop a giving lifestyle: Reach out to others at home or school. Encourage other students. Show the bullies they will not get to you. • Understand some facts about bullies: Bullies are often insecure and lonely because there are things about themselves they don’t like. They bully to gain acceptance, status or crowd appeal, but the bystanders are the largest group in the bullying dynamic and they want the bullying to stop. • People can help: Counselors and crisis hot lines help victims deal with the effects of bullying. After other alternatives have been exhausted, and the case of bullying is severe, legal intervention may be required. was, “This is something we all need to work on together. It is a really good thing for us to do. We can make a difference.” Remember the life of St. Francis with a pet blessing Tanya Goodman In memor y of St. Francis of Assisi, the patron saint of animals and ecology, Catholics created the custom of blessing animals. In recognition of the Oct. 4 feast day of St. Francis, churches and schools throughout the Diocese of Orlando will hold pet blessings as follows: Sept. 30 9 a.m., St. Stephen Parish, Winter Springs. 10 a.m., St. Francis of Assisi Church, Apopka, in front of the chapel prior to the “Old Fashioned Country Fair.” 1 p.m., Blessed Sacrament, Clermont, with Deacon Paul Schneider, at the church portico. Oct. 1 TFC PHOTO BY JULIE GREENE Father Richard Walsh of St. Margaret Mary in Winter Park blesses Peeper, one of Bob Banas’ pet geese, during the annual “Blessing of the Animals” last year. 3:30 p.m., St. John Vianney Parish, Orlando. 4 p.m., St. Brendan Parish, Ormond Beach, will hold a blessing of the animals in anticipation of the feast of St. Francis and in honor of Respect Life Month on ORL A3 the northeast lawn of the church, 4 p.m., Annunciation Parish, near the Blessed Mother shrine. Altamonte Springs, church plaza. 4:30 p.m., Blessed Trinity Parish, The Canticle of Brother Sun will be read, as will Ocala, followed by passages from Just how many pets do Mass at 5:15 p.m. 6:15 p.m., the Franciscan Omnibus that Americans own? Blessed Trinity, highlight St. Pets have become par t Orlando. 6:30 p.m., St. Francis’ profound of the American household. respect for all life. According to the American Anthony Parish, “St. Francis” may Pet Products Manufacturers, Lakeland. make a guest based on a 2005/2006 survey, 6:30 p.m., St. Mary of the Lakes, appearance. Americans own: 6 p.m.,Blessed Eustis. • 90.5 million cats Sacrament Oct. 7 • 73.9 million dogs Parish, Cocoa. 8:30 a.m., St. • 16.6 million birds Oct. 4 Clare Parish, • 148.6 million fish 8 a.m., Our Deltona. Third • 11 million reptiles Lady of the Lakes Order Franciscans will be on hand Parish, Deltona. 8:30 a.m., after Mass, St. Brendan to accept pet food donations for Parish, Ormond Beach. Journey’s End, a local animal 10 a.m., after the 9 a.m. Mass, sanctuary. St. Catherine of Siena Parish, 10 a.m., St. Patrick Parish, Mount Orlando. Dora, at the statue of St. Francis on 2:15 p.m., St. Teresa Parish, the church grounds. Noon, Our Lady of Lourdes, Titusville. 3 p.m., St. Isaac Jogues Parish, Daytona Beach, in the prayer Orlando. garden. 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The Florida Catholic • Sept. 29, 2006 Pope Benedict and Islam The violent reactions by some in the Muslim world, following Pope Benedict’s academic lecture at the university where he once taught, were ignited not so much by his words but by those who seek to manipulate religious passions in the ser vice of an ideology of hatred. Those who in this way misuse religious faith malign much more grievously the teachings of Islam than the perceived (and unintended) slight of the Bishop of Rome could ever do. What he actually said, if taken in its proper context, could never justify the violence associated with the orchestrated protests that began some three days after the discourse was delivered. An attentive reading of his talk finds a well-reasoned argument against violence in the name of religion and a heartfelt call to a “genuine dialogue of cultures and religions so urgently needed today.” That he quoted from historical sources only illustrates the long history and the depth of feeling behind the divisions between Christians and Muslims — and how urgently such dialogue is needed. Last year, the Pope met Muslim leaders in Cologne and there too he described dialogue with Islam “a vital necessity, on which in large measure our future depends.” That vital necessity, long recognized by the Church, was also stated by Catholic leaders during the Second Vatican Council 40 years ago. The bishops, whom the young Father Ratzinger served as a theological adviser, then wrote in Nostra Aetate: “The Church regards with esteem also the Moslems. They adore the one God, living and subsisting in Himself; merciful and all-powerful, the Creator of heaven and earth, who has spoken to men; they take pains to submit wholehear tedly to even His inscrutable decrees, just as Abraham, with whom the faith of Islam takes pleasure in linking itself, submitted to God. Though they do not acknowledge Jesus as God, they revere Him as a prophet. They also honor Mar y, His virgin Mother; at times they even call on her with devotion. In addition, they await the day of judgment when God will render their deserts to all those who have been raised up from the dead. Finally, they value the moral life and worship God especially through prayer, almsgiving and fasting.” (NA #3) In the course of centuries not a few quarrels and hostilities have arisen between Christians and Muslims. Admittedly, relations between Christians and Muslims have always been fragile. So it is still not clear whether this present storm of indignation will threaten any possible future engagement between Muslims and Christians, or whether cooler heads will prevail and thus the frank honesty of the pope’s entire discourse will open new opportunities for a more candid and substantive dialogue between members of our two world religions. Often, in the past, the voices of moderate Muslims, whether because of fear or a false sense of group solidarity, have not been heard. But, thankfully, already both here and elsewhere, there are encouraging signs that this is changing — and if so, some good will have come out of this episode. And while the Islamic world and Muslims are very sensitive to those who speak of Islam, especially when they do not belong to the Muslim faith, when Benedict condemns religious motivation to justify violence, he undoubtedly expresses the sentiment and the desire of millions of Muslims throughout the world who would agree that religion cannot be the foundation of a conflict, a war, or any other kind of violence. There can be — and is — much common ground among the three great religions of the Book, as Judaism, Christianity and Islam are sometimes described. Adherents of each of these religions claim Abraham as their father in faith. But that common ground can only be found, as Pope Benedict XVI insists, through an attitude of mutual respect and honest dialogue. Family life column: Emotional and verbal abuse are major components of domestic violence Terri O’Sullivan ORLANDO Domestic violence is the “No. 1 health risk to women in the U.S.,” according to the office of the U.S. surgeon general. That is a startling statistic! October is Respect Life Month and domestic violence is one of the issues addressed under this theme. It is estimated that at least one out of every four women will be abused at some point in her life. What is domestic violence? It is any kind of behavior that a person uses to control an intimate par tner through fear and intimidation. It includes physical, sexual, psychological, verbal and economic abuse. The abuser wants to have power and control over the other person. Until I worked at a domestic violence shelter, I had no idea how pervasive and insidious this problem is. I met with victims (mainly women) from all walks of life, race, culture and religion. I heard heartwrenching stories of all types of abuse. They always told me that the worst type of abuse was the emotional and verbal because it attacked their feelings of self-worth and made them feel responsible for the abuse. They often felt shame as well as fear, which made it difficult for them to reach out for help. Often the first place a victim will go for support is to her church. As church families, our goals should be safety for the victim and children first of all, then accountability from the abuser and restoration of the relationship (if possible), or mourning over the loss of the relationship. The U.S. bishops state, “Violence and abuse, not divorce, break up a marriage.” Sometimes religion is used as an excuse to abuse with misquotes of Scripture. The U.S. bishops’ pastoral statement, “When I Call for Help: A Pastoral Response to Domestic V iolence Against Women,” states, “As bishops, we condemn the use of the Bible to support abusive behavior in any form. A correct reading of Scripture News briefs Vocation awareness special on CCTN Catholic Community Television Network (CCTN), the Office of Vocations of the Diocese of Orlando and the Knights of Columbus have joined together to provide a two-hour special, “Aspects of Discernment,” that will be broadcast Oct. 8 from 3:30 to 5:30 p.m. on WLCB, Orlando Channel 45 (cable channels vary as to the provider). The three presentations focus on the vocation to the priesthood, the vocation of women religious and the vocation of Christian married life. In addition to these excellent presentations, sponsored by ORL A4 leads people to an understanding of the equal dignity of men and women and to relationships based on mutuality and love.” The bishops’ pastoral statement, “When I Call for Help,” offers specific, practical suggestions for the abused, the abusers and pastoral staffs on how to make our churches safe places for those in need. To read the full text, visit http://www.usccb. org/laity/women/violence.shtml. Terri O’Sullivan is associate director of the Family Life Office. Need help? See Page A9 for contact information. the Florida Knights of Columbus, CCTN will also broadcast a Joseph Campo film, produced by Grass Roots Films Inc. and promoted by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, called “Fishers of Men,” which is about vocations to the priesthood. Spanish-language immersion Priests, deacons, religious and those involved in Hispanic ministr y might consider the course “Immersion in Spanish Language and Culture,” through the Southeast Pastoral Institute. The next course will be held June 3-21, 2007. For more information, e-mail sepimiami@aol. com. The Florida Catholic • Sept. 29, 2006 ORLANDO DIOCESE NEWS www.thefloridacatholic.org A5 September in the Orlando diocese Our Lady of Hope Parish in Port Orange celebrated its 25th anniversary Sept. 17. Bishop Thomas Wenski celebrated Mass and a reception followed in the parish center, where a large display of memorabilia documenting the church’s history filled the room. Coleen Petrosky and her daughter, Julie Ann, look at the display of pictures and memorabilia that was created for the anniversary celebration. TFC PHOTO BY JENNIFER SURGENT PHOTO COURTESY OF WOODY SMITH/BLESSED TRINITY Parishioners of Blessed Trinity in Orlando examined parish operations and needs at a parish assembly Sept. 16. The assembly was modeled after the Diocese of Orlando synod. The assembly proved a great learning experience for the new pastor and associate who came on board Sept. 1. TFC PHOTO BY VALETA ORLANDO Priests assemble at St. John Vianney Parish, in Orlando, to concelebrate a synod closing Mass with Bishop Thomas Wenski. Closing Masses were celebrated in each of five deaneries. St. John Vianney hosted the central deanery Mass Sept. 19. Pictured from left to right are: Father Emanuel Akalue, The Cathedral of St. James, Orlando; Father Bob Brown, St. Joseph Parish, Orlando; Father Jose Munoz, St. Isaac Jogues Parish, Orlando; Father Raul Valdez, St. Mary Magdalen Parish, Altamonte Springs; and Father Luis Barrera, St. Augustine Parish, Casselberry. Father Joseph Bellerive, parochial vicar at St. Catherine of Siena Parish in Kissimmee, performs at the “Priest American Idol,” during the recent priest convocation in Orlando. Father Bellerive sang “Ave Maria” and “Our Father.” Each participant was a winner. TFC PHOTO BY CAROL FERRAZZANO TFC PHOTO BY CAROL FERRAZZANO Pray the rosary with Bishop Wenski in October — Bishop Thomas Wenski joined students from Annunciation Catholic Academy at the Annunciation Parish chapel in Altamonte Springs Sept. 20 to pray the luminous mysteries of the rosary. Catholics will be able to pray the rosary with Bishop Wenski during October, the month of the rosary. The prayer session will be available on video in October on the diocesan Web site, www.orlandodiocese.org. ORL A5 A6 www.thefloridacatholic.org ORLANDO DIOCESE NEWS The Florida Catholic • Sept. 29, 2006 Mass offers spiritual healing for separated and divorced Relationships and circumstances within your family may have changed, but God’s love for you is ever present and does not come to an end. Grasp the hands of those who reach out to you in loving concern. Extend your own hand to others whom you meet on the road to healing and reconciliation. There is a home for you within our parishes and communities of faith. — “Follow the Way of Love,” a pastoral message of the U.S. bishops to families. Kiki Hawkins ORLANDO Dealing with divor ce or separation can mean suffering from depression and feelings of isolation. The Cathedral of St James in Orlando and the Family Life Office of the Diocese of Orlando focused on this time of crisis as they celebrated the seventh annual diocesan Mass for the separated and divorced Sept. 17. Coordinated by Terri O’Sullivan, associate director of Family Life, the spiritual-healing event was described as a guiding light in the hearts of others in need by many involved in the ministry to help the separated and divorced. O’Sullivan helps establish support groups for the separated and divorced throughout the diocese. Father Brian Sheridan, pastor of Good Shepherd Parish in Orlando, celebrated the Mass. Good Shepherd Parish hosts a videobased divorce recovery workshop. Father Sheridan’s words evoked warmth and encouragement, “The Lord God is always our help and our hope.” The Mass was filled with memorable points of reflection. One woman mentioned this ministry has brought her a sense of peace in all her chaos. Bob Ross found his support group to be a “good program” that helped him to continue his process of healing. His group helped him connect to others and, most of all, to God. “There is a tendency to isolation during a divorce,” Ross said. He said his support group gave him a “new dimension” in recovery. He suggested people in similar need contact their parishes to seek support groups. Linda Watts said she knew she needed help right after the “shock” of her divorce. Her group helped her “let go of pain.” She was happy to still have the chance to go out and socialize on weekends. She began to have enthusiasm again in her life. “My sons were so happy for me,” Watts said. Jeanine Zuckerman described her experience as a definite “renewal in faith.” She said she is slowly healing and believes the support group has been a “good thing” for her. “The group helps you see who you are as an individual,” she said. Watts shared the advice that brought her peace, “Let Jesus carry your cross until you can carry it yourself.” For additional information, contact Terri O’Sullivan, M.A., at the Family Life Office at 407-2464867 or e-mail tpsi;;ovam@orland odiocese.org. DADS walk crime-ridden neighborhood to ‘take back the community’ Jennifer Surgent DAYTONA BEACH The Volusia County chapter of MAD DADS Inc., made up of people from different faiths, gathered recently in a high-crime area in Daytona Beach for its monthly patrol of the streets. With a Daytona Beach Police escort, the group set out to reach out to the residents of Orange Avenue, a well-known area for gangs, drugs, prostitution and other crimes. Volusia County MAD DADS vice president Willie Kimmons led the group, roaring the words, “Save our communities; take back our children; say no to crime; save our schools.” The group of more than 20 supporters followed, chanting along with him. The purpose of the patrol was not to intimidate, but to show a presence and a commitment for change. In 1989, a group of 18 black men who were fed up with crime in Omaha, Neb., developed an organization called MAD DADS (Men Against Destruction — Defending Against Dr ugs and Social Disorder) and took to the crime-infested streets to take back its community. The group has grown in the past 17 years to 60-plus chapters in 15 states, totaling more than 65,000 members nationwide and now has its headquarters in Jacksonville. A group from Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Daytona Beach joined those marching for change. Parishioner Dixie Morgese said she participated because, “Father Phil Egitto challenges us all to bring about social justice, to go outside of our own communities and help build the kingdom of God everywhere. The kingdom of God can and should be built everywhere, and it must go beyond our church walls and into the community.” During the walk those in the MAD DADS group stopped and prayed with people they encountered on the streets. The group’s spiritual leaders prayed for the people’s protection and well-being. Several children from the community walked and rode their bikes alongside the MAD DADS par ticipants. The hope of the group is to bring about a positive change and to protect the community youth. For more information on MAD DADS Inc., visit the Web site, www.MADDADS.com, or call 386-451-4780. TFC PHOTO BY JENNIFER SURGENT To take a stand against crime, Our Lady of Lourdes Pastor Father Phil Egitto, left, and Nancy Tattner, principal of Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic School, joined members of the Volusia County chapter of MAD DADS Inc., for a street-patrol walk through a high-crime area in Daytona Beach. Despite challenges, actors deliver a message of God’s love Debra Tomaselli ORLANDO Angels Amongst Us, a song- and- dance troupe of 21 entertainers with challenges, will perform Oct. 7 at St. Margaret Mary Catholic Church in Winter Park to help raise funds for the housing project of the Mission Office of the Diocese of Orlando. The group is led by Father Tom Smith and directed by Elsie Doughty. Father Smith, with a background in Broadway, has coordinated several shows in the diocese. When Angel, a parishioner at St. Mary Magdalen Parish in Altamonte Springs who uses a wheelchair, wanted to be a dancer like one of the Rockettes at Radio City Music Hall, in New York, Father Smith had an idea. “Why not invite all diocesan parishioners with challenges onto the stage?” T wenty-one participants responded and Angels Amongst Us was born. The group rehearses weekly at St. Mar y Magdalen Parish. “We’re very spontaneous,” said Father Smith, who encourages the group’s creativity. “The show came out of them; we didn’t thrust the show on them.” What emerged is stunning. The performance opens with spotlights flashing across the darkened room, as the music swells and the performers rush the aisles, waving their arms, hopping, smiling and singing. With help from assistants, they struggle up stair ways onto the stage. Father Smith is not afraid to show their struggles along with their abilities. In one scene, Katie, diagnosed with Down syndrome, twirls, skips and prances across the platform, choreographing her steps to the song, “A Whole New World.” In another, John, using a wheelchair and unable to walk or talk, throws his arms open wide and beams as he is wheeled around to the melody, “Why Walk When You Can Fly.” In yet another, Joe, blind ‘We’re very spontaneous. The show came out of them; we didn’t thrust the show on them.’ — Father Tom Smith COURTESY PHOTO Participants watch Adriana Kenney dance solo in an Angels Amongst Us performance. since birth, beats a tune on the bongo drums. The troupe captivates audiences, who are silent one moment and laughing at jokes the next. Spectators hum the Broadway tunes, tap their toes and smile. They are not the only ones having fun. “The kids love every minute ORL A6 of being on stage,” Father Smith said. “You can tell by the big smiles on their faces and their willingness to perform.” Parents agree. “Katie lives for these practices,” said Kathy Byrnes of St. Mary Magdalen. “My daughter, Adriana, loves coming here,” added Anne-Marie Kenney, parishioner of St. Charles Borromeo in Orlando. “We learn more than they do,” said Father Smith. “We learn there is a beauty and uniqueness of every individual. “The show is evangelization; it’s a ministry,” he added. “Everything in the show has a message of love. Everybody is unique. Everybody is loved by God. We start with a song called ‘I Am What I Am’ and end with ‘We are What We Are.’ Tickets are $10. Call Steve Marshall, 407-256-1518, or Matt Gorden, 321-277-2074. Angels Amongst Us is available to perform in your parish for outreach and fundraising needs. For fur ther information, contact Father Smith at 407-695-1720. ORLANDO DIOCESE NEWS The Florida Catholic • Sept. 29, 2006 www.thefloridacatholic.org A7 CATHOLIC ATTORNEY Volunteers keep D • I • R • E • C • T • O • R • Y home for mentally challenged going Riley Allen J. Scott Murphy Ruth R. Jackson ST. CLOUD It sounds as if it could be an exclusive resort with mature trees, open spaces, security systems and a staff trained in CPR and first aid on site 24/7. It is so much more. The community is Bishop Grady Villas in St. Cloud. It is dedicated to providing persons 18 and older who are mentally challenged with a place of belonging, wellness, development and faith. The welfare of these residents and upkeep of the facilities are prime concerns of Debbie Vallone — and others — who will never live there. Vallone is the first president of the fledgling Bishop Grady Villas Auxiliar y. Vallone, along with officers Francine Mettevelis, Geraldine Parke, Diane Provenzano and a scant 14 volunteers, know their work is essential to the villas’ future. “Almost all of the parishes in the Orlando Diocese’s nine counties pledged money used to construct the campus,” said Lori Brothers, Bishop Grady Villas business administrator. “But now our main sources of discretionary funding are donations and the auxiliary.” Building and maintaining facilities are costly endeavors, but the villas are more than wood, glass and stone. Residents benefit from group activities, sports and physical exercise programs, and transportation to Mass at nearby St. Thomas Aquinas Parish. Vallone believes increasing auxiliar y membership is a crucial element to supporting these programs. 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Allender & Allender DeLand, FL 32720 Elder law and living trusts Bishop Grady died before the villas 386-734-5685 • Fax: 386-736-7704 Estate planning • Wills opened in 2004. Sister Stoup, who E-mail: [email protected] Probate • Guardianship remains a strong proponent of 118 Country Club Drive the facility, remembers his great Titusville, FL 32780 Terrance H. Dittmer contribution. 321-269-1511 Wills • Trusts • Estates “We’re thankful for his vision 1485 N. Atlantic Ave. 1615 Edgewater Drive • Suite 150 Cocoa Beach, FL 32931 Orlando, FL 32804 and leadership which made the P.O. Box 540057 321-784-5238 blessings of this much-needed Orlando, FL 32854-0057 7351 Office Park Place campus possible. Now we must 407-843-0348 • Fax: 407-843-0774 Viera, FL act in faith to continue the work,” 321-784-5238 she said. Michael P. Falkowski, P.A. E-mail: [email protected] The auxiliar y’s next act of Attorney-at-law • Personal injury faith is the third annual Harvest Anne-Marie L. Bowen, P.A. Auto accidents • Slip and falls Bankruptcy law Ball at the Rosen Plaza Hotel on 338 N. Ridgewood Ave. Bankruptcy may still be Oct. 28. Harvest Ball committee Daytona Beach, FL 32114 an option for you. chairwoman Carol Brinati, well 386-257-1606 • Fax: 386-254-2870 Helping people in financial aware of the blessings villas residents 386-445-1410 (Palm Coast) distress find peace. receive, themed this year’s event, 386-738-0518 (DeLand) • Chairman 2002-2003 Bankruptcy Committee, OCBA “A Celebration of Thanksgiving.” Adrian Gabaldon • Admitted to practice before the Joining the celebration are Bishop Attorney-at-law U.S. Supreme Court Thomas Wenski, who will give 210 S. Main St. • Treasurer/Board of Directors, the invocation; Florida’s first lady, Auburndale, FL 33823 Central Florida Bankruptcy Law Columba Bush, who will give 863-967-3557 • 863-967-0755 Association E-mail: [email protected] a special opening address; and • Judge appointed to Local Rules WKMG-TV newscaster Marla Committee Ann Marie Giordano Gilden, P.A. 1516 E. Hillcrest St., Suite 103 Weech, who will be mistress of • Marital and family Orlando, FL 32803 ceremonies. • Juvenile and adoptions 407-228-1300 The evening begins with a silent P.O. Box 940610 Over 18 years experience auction at 6 p.m., followed by dinner 151 Lookout Place, Suite 110 www.bowenbankruptcylaw.com Maitland, FL 32794-0610 and entertainment at 7 p.m. 407-599-1170 • Fax: 407-629-0900 To volunteer, contribute auction Nadine A. Brown, Esq. E-mail: [email protected] IMMIGRATION LAW items, or sponsor a corporate table, 1073 Willa Springs Drive, Suite 2053 contact Lori Brothers, 407-892-6087, Ian L. Gilden Winter Springs, FL 32708 or e-mail lbrothers@bishopgradyvil Ian L. Gilden, P.A. 407-678-2224 • Fax: 407-788-2225 Wills • Estates • Guardianships las.org. www.nadinebrownpa.com Summerfield parish celebrates anniversary The Chur ch of St. Mark the Evangelist in Summerfield celebrated its one-year anniversary Sept. 10. The celebration began with a Mass and the unveiling of the parish coat of arms. To remember the occasion, each parishioner received a picture of the coat of arms. Father Simon Shaner, OSPPE, pastor, joined parishioners at a reception following Mass. In a year’s time, the parish has 25 ministries and 2,000 parishioners. The meaning of the St. Mark the Evangelist coat of arms A golden cross divides a pointed shield into four quadrants. SON OF G O D Dennis R. OʼConnor Board-certified civil trial lawyer 111 N. Orange Ave., Suite 850 Orlando, FL 32801 407-843-2100 E-mail: [email protected] The first quadrant depicts the insignia of the Pauline Fathers and Brothers, the spiritual and temporal custodians of St. Mark the Evangelist Parish. The second quadrant depicts a blue fleur-de-lis, a symbol used to refer to the Virgin Mary, and its three-pointed petals represent the Trinity. The third quadrant depicts a golden chalice and white host, depicting the Holy Eucharist, the center of a parish’s sacramental life. The fourth quadrant depicts a lion with the scriptures, a symbol depicting the Gospel of St. Mark the Evangelist. The motto includes the title “Son of Mary,” only found in the Gospel of St. Mark. N SO A OF M RY Robert J. Buonauro, P.A. Florida Bar certified in criminal trials 390 N. 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Box 1776 Winter Park, FL 32790 407-678-4LAW (4529) 877-678-4LAW (4529) www.FlaUsaLaw.com E-mail: [email protected] Personalized attention and superior service Frank D. Zilaitis, P.A. Marital/family matters Contract disputes Criminal defense Personal injury 25 W. New Haven Ave., Suite F Melbourne, FL 32901 321-768-1107• Fax: 321-768-1558 E-mail: [email protected] www.zilaitis.com TO ADVERTISE YOUR LAW FIRM IN The Florida Catholic, PLEASE CALL ROSEMARY 1-888-275-9953 The hiring of a lawyer is an important decision that should not be based solely upon advertisements. Before you decide, ask an attorney to send you free written information about his or her qualifications and experience. A8 www.thefloridacatholic.org Spiritual events: Mass to pray for canonization of Father McGivney: Oct. 9, 7 p.m., St. Vincent de Paul Church, Holiday, in honor of Knights of Columbus founder. Visit www.floridastatecouncil.com. Grand Diocesan Fiesta 2006: Oct. 15, 3:30-5:30 p.m. Mass; 5:30-7:30 p.m. reception, St. Isaac Jogues, 4301 S. Chickasaw Trail, Orlando. Bishop Thomas Wenski will celebrate Mass. Activities include procession with the Virgin, patrons and flags of Latin American countries. 407-246-4930 or e-mail [email protected]. Spiritual enrichment and renewal: Oct. 14, 5 p.m. and Oct. 15, 9-11 a.m., reflection and Mass. Special concerts by Jeanne Cotter, Oct. 15, 6:30 p.m., Oct. 16-17, 7-8:30 p.m., St. Stephen Parish, 575 Tuskawilla Road, Winter Springs. Contact: Gail or Bernadette, 407-6995683 or e-mail [email protected]. Pray rosary for life: Third and fifth Saturdays, 7 a.m., abortion facility on Lucerne Terrace in downtown Orlando. St. Augustine’s Respect Life Committee invites fellow Catholics to join them in praying the rosary. 407-699-4328. Healing Mass: Third Mondays, 7 p.m., in English and first Tuesdays, 7 p.m., in Spanish, St. John Vianney Catholic Church, 6200 S. Orange Blossom Trail, Orlando. 407-855-5391. Healing service with Eucharist: Fourth Thursdays, 7 p.m., San Pedro Center, 2400 Dike Road, Winter Park, 407-671-6322. Meetings, other events: Facilitator enrichment: Sept. 30, 9:30-11:30 a.m., chancery. Heidi Peckham, L.M.H.C., director of Family Life Office, will offer training in the RESPECT model of facilitation. Free. Terri, 407-246-4867. Life chain: Oct. 1, 2-3 p.m., Belleview, Highway 441; Dunellon, Highway 484; Forest, Highway 40; Lady Lake, Highway 441; McIntosh, Highway 441; Ocala, Pine Avenue, Highway 441. Call 352-8548892 or e-mail [email protected]. Life chain: Oct. 1, 2-3 p.m., Route 192, New Haven Avenue, Melbourne. T H E ORLANDO DIOCESE NEWS AROUND Diocese Signs and water available 1:45 p.m., in front of Melbourne Square Mall. Contact: [email protected]. San Damiano, new Franciscan Fraternity: Oct. 4, following 9 a.m. Mass, St. Mark the Evangelist Catholic Church, 7165 Highway 42, Summerfield. Men and women are welcome. Meetings will be held on first Wednesdays. Contact: Kathryn Hampel, 352-750-6334. “Healing the Family Bloodlines” retreat: Oct. 7, 8 a.m.-6 p.m., Blessed Sacrament Parish, Clermont. Liferenewing retreat with author and speaker Sister Phillip Marie Burley. Hosted by women’s ministry organization. Charlene Shoemaker, 352-394-3562, ext. 106. Annual fall festival: Oct. 7, 8 a.m.-3 p.m., St. Theresa Catholic Church, 11528 S.E. U.S. Highway 301, Belleview. Auction, baked goods, crafts, international food court, raffles and more. Auction, 10 a.m. Bake contest, 1 p.m. Vendor tables: outside, $10; inside booth, $20. JoAnn, 352-245-2458. Angels Amongst Us: Oct. 7, 7 p.m., St. Margaret Mary Catholic Church, 526 Park Ave. N., Winter Park. Unique Stars Theater Program presents Father Tom Smith and the Fabulous Four in a blend of song, dance and comedy. Tickets: $10. Proceeds benefit the housing project of the Mission Office of the Diocese of Orlando and the sister diocese in the Dominican Republic. Call Matt Gorden, 321-277-2074 or Steve Marshall, 407-256-1518. Rummage sale: Oct. 7, 7:30 a.m.2:30 p.m., annex Building D, Room 7, St. Mary Magdalen Parish, 861 Maitland Ave., Altamonte Springs. Proceeds to benefit various charities. Call 407-3311719. Catholic Charismatic Conference: Oct. 13-15, Hilton Hotel, Altamonte Springs. Featured speakers, Bishop Thomas Wenski, Father Trevor Nathasingh, Sister Ann Shields, SGL, and David Thorpe. Call 407-275-1965 or visit www.orlandocharismatic.net. “Sacrament of Marriage and Annulments”: Oct. 18, 7 p.m., St. Ann Parish, Debary. Presented by Father Paige Blakely, judicial vicar of the Marriage Tribunal. 386-668-8270. Church carnival: Oct. 19-22, St. Joseph Catholic Church, Alafaya Trail and Highway 50, Orlando. Rides, games and international food, crafts, prizes and more. 407-275-0841. Boutique sale: Oct. 21-22, 8 a.m.-2 p.m., Holy Family Catholic Church, 5125 S. Apopka Vineland Road, Orlando. Sponsored by St. Martin de Porres Circle to benefit Honduran and African missions. Retrouvaille program: Oct. 20-22, Spring Hill Suites, Sanford. This is a program for couples in troubled marriages. Call, 407-977-8136. Information is confidential. Music for celebrations with youths workshop: Oct. 28, 9-11:30 a.m., St. Margaret Mary Church, 526 N. Park Ave., Winter Park. Presenter: singer and songwriter Sarah Hart. Explore valuable tools and resources for selecting scripturally and liturgically based music for worship. This workshop is for music directors, choir members, youth ministers, teens and other interested parties. $5 per adult; free for youths. Preregistration: Office of Liturgy, 407246-4860, or liturgy@orlandodiocese. org. Sarah Hart in concert: Oct. 29, 7:30 p.m., St. Margaret Mary Church, 526 N. Park Avenue, Winter Park. Contact: Andrea Cavalere, 407-998-5698, or [email protected] Orlando Catholic Singles: Offers spiritual, social and service activities for the 40-plus age group. Terry Brown, 407-761-1506. Orlando Catholic Singles swing dancing: Fridays, 7:30 p.m., St. Mary Magdalen Catholic Church, 861 Maitland Ave. 407-521-8127. Catholic War Veterans: Father John Washington Post 1944, second Sundays, 10 a.m., Prince of Peace Parish, 600 S. Nova Road, Ormond Beach. All Catholic men and women who have served honorably in the armed forces of the United States are invited to join. Gene Swarbrick, 386-255-3814, or email [email protected]. Catholic War Veterans of Lakeland: Bishop Charles B. McLaughlin Memorial Post 1917, third Mondays, 6:30 p.m., St. Joseph Parish hall, 210 W. Lemon St., Lakeland. All Catholic men and women who have served honorably in the armed forces of the United States are invited to join. Spouses are welcome. Dinner follows. Steve Jones, 863-6888787, or e-mail sirstevetheknight@ear thlink.net. Secular Franciscan order, Lady of Poverty Fraternity: First and third Tuesdays, begins with evening prayer at 7 p.m., Mary, Mother of God Chapel, San Pedro Spiritual Development Center, 2400 Dike Road, Winter Park. Meeting follows. Contact: Dan Hardester, SFO, minister, 407-302-4145. Secular Franciscan Fraternity: Fourth Saturdays, 10 a.m., Queen of Peace Parish hall, Ocala. Secular Franciscans commit themselves by promise, not vow, to live the Gospel life of Jesus Christ in the spirit of St. Francis of Assisi. 352-854-5647 or 352-7510747. Secular Franciscan order, St. Francis Fraternity: First Sundays, 12:30 p.m., St. Francis of Assisi Parish, youth building, 834 S. Orange Blossom Trail, Apopka. Call 407-277-8101 and leave a phone number for a return call. Secular Franciscan Fraternity, Little Flowers of St. Francis: Second Saturdays, following the 8:30 a.m. Mass, church hall, Church of the Epiphany, 201 Lafayette St., Port Orange. Peg, 386-677-7089. Knights of Columbus Squires meetings: Msgr. Bishop Circle 1400 Columbian Squires meets third Wednesdays, 7 p.m., at the Msgr. Bishop Knights of Columbus Council Hall 2112, 5727 Cornelia Ave., Orlando. Meeting is open to boys ages 10 to 17. Contact: John Poulos, chief counselor, 407-678-2112 or 407-590-4068, or visit the council’s Web site at http:// bellsouthpwp.net/g/g/g. Ministries and support groups: New Beginnings support group for separated and divorced: • Beginning Thursday, Oct. 12, 7 p.m., All Souls Catholic Church, parish office, Sanford. Angie, 407-681-4258, or Gary, 407-468-4639. • Mondays, 7 p.m., St. Stephen Parish, Winter Springs. Ron Colonel, 352-3601252. • Thursdays, 7 p.m., Catholic Charities of Central Florida Inc., Lakeland office, 863-686-7153. 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Singles, separated, widowed and divorced group: First and third Tuesdays, 7:30 p.m., Holy Name of Jesus community room, Indialantic, 321259-5650; first and third Fridays, 7 p.m., parish center, Church of Our Saviour, 5301 N. Atlantic Ave., Cocoa Beach. 321-213-6629. Bereavement support groups: • Thursdays, 10-11:30 a.m., St. Mary Magdalen Parish life center, 861 Maitland Ave., Altamonte Springs, 407831-1212. • Tuesdays, 7 p.m., Holy Redeemer Parish, 1603 N. Thacker Ave., Kissimmee, 407-846-2033. • Thursdays, 7 p.m., St. Augustine Catholic Church, 375 N. Sunset Drive, Casselberry, 407-331-2829. • First and third Thursdays, 1 p.m., St. Anthony Catholic Church, 820 Marcum Road, Spiritual Development Center, Lakeland. Dianne Turner, 863-858-8047. VITAS bereavement support groups: Tuesdays, 7-8:30 p.m., (ongoing), Nativity Catholic Church, 3255 N. Ronald Reagan Blvd., Longwood. Free; Tuesdays, 10-11:30 a.m., (ongoing), Blessed Trinity Catholic Church, 4545 E. Anderson Road, Orlando. Free. 407-691-4579. Same-sex support groups: • Courage, spiritual support groups for persons with same-sex attractions striving to lead chaste lives in accordance with the teachings of the Roman Catholic Church. In Ocala, 352854-2181. In Orlando, 407-791-3717. • Always Our Children of Ascension and Our Saviour parishes, a support group for parents, families and friends, Our Saviour Parish, Cocoa Beach. 321-773-5258 or 321-242-1951. Volunteers: Building volunteers needed: The diocesan Mission Office needs volunteers to assist with its goal of building homes in the Dominican Republic. Several mission trips are planned for the year. Trained and untrained are needed. 407-246-4890. Tutors needed: The Office for Farmworker Ministry after-school tutoring program seeks tutors to provide academic assistance to at-risk middle- and high-school students in Apopka. Tutoring takes place Mondays and Wednesdays, 2-6 p.m. Sheila Zahn, 407-886-5151. VITAS needs volunteers: Would you like to befriend terminally ill patients, provide relief for a weary caregiver, have your pet be a PetPal, make bereavement calls, sew, make crafts or help with administrative work? Call 407-691-4541 or e-mail linda. [email protected].