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Fast Times on the Rivers
With this issue of Chesapeake Style, we begin our fourteenth year! Except
for a brief hiatus when we were online only, we have been in Style since 1998.
When we began in print again in 2007 we added our Teen Style pages.
Each month teachers and staff from local high schools send work from their
students. This has given local teens exceptional exposure and, we hope,
encouragement. For these past two years we added a Teen Style Awards
Contest, with winners receiving cash. This year we had entries in all five
categories, Fiction, Non-Fiction, Poetry, Photography and Fine Art. In the
center of this issue are five pages celebrating the winners of the contests.
Many thanks go out to the teachers who encouraged their students and
collected and delivered their works: Lee McKenzie, Shauna McCranie
from Lancaster HS, Holly Ransone, Washington and Lee HS, Eddie
Barnes, Northumberland HS. We also had entries from Rappahannock
HS and from Home Schooler, Leslie Sadler, from Gloucester.
Members of the Rappahannock Art League, with help from Tom Norris,
judged the Fine Art and Photography: Linda Byrum, Jacquie Colligan,
Barbara Dolney, Maggie Gilman, Karin Heffernan, Faith Kauders,
Nancy O’Shaughnessy, Joan Robinson and Margaret VanEtten.
Judges for poetry this year were Ellen Dugan, Alessa Lemming and Ficklin
Bryant. Their comments are included on the winners’ page in this issue.
Judges for Fiction (two entries) and Non-Fiction included Jeremy
Peill, Elizabeth Stokes and Ran Walker. Each judge added a comment
about each essay. These will be published when the essays are
published—two in this issue, the remainder in future issues.
Businesses and individuals who contributed to the cash prizes include:
Phyllis Davis, Hall and Sally White, Women of Moose Tappahannock,
Rivah Interiors, Marie Stone, Kathy Brodtman, Walter Brodtman,
NetCruisers, Marcia Peters, Dawn Miller, Ellen Dugan, Hope Jackson.
All submissions will be published in future issues. Winners will be
contacted and teens will receive prize money to spend as they choose.
In an effort to make the monthly Teen Style pages more “user friendly” the
guidelines and entry/parent-guardian permission forms are now online at
www.chesapeakestyle.com; click on Teen Style and download the forms. Work
may also be submitted electronically. Please note the monthly Teen Style pages
are for teens in ninth through twelfth grades in the ten county Chesapeake
Bay Region. Entries may also come via the local schools and home schoolers.
Many thanks to all who contributed money, judged, entered the contest!
Also included in this issue are additional Books in Style. These reviews
will appear periodically and will be written by local authors about
books written by local authors. Specifically, work from members of the
Chesapeake Bay Writers and the local critique groups will take precedence.
We ask that folks who want books reviewed either find a reviewer or
agree to review another author’s book. Ask for our guidelines, please.
Several writers have series of articles in each issue of Chesapeake Style; Paula
Shipman, Jean C. Keating, Elizabeth A. Stokes. Others write monthly columns
of interest. We appreciate and celebrate the contributions of all of our writers.
This month we also have a “First” from one of our regular
advertisers, White Dog Inn. Folks with “smart phones” can
scan the ad and instantly find current information about the
business. Check it out! They have great food and ambiance!
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About
the cover~
the Bee Balm in the cover photo to
Deborah Figg was born and
raised on a farm in Middlesex
County where she grew up with
a love for animals and plants.
After working as a technician
at a local veterinary hospital she
decided to pursue a job in property
management. It allowed her gain
a copious amount of knowledge
about flowers and plants.
Deborah has spent the past ten
years learning which plants are
most beneficial to gardens. Adding
her garden tripled the number of
hummingbirds, bees and butterflies
buzzing around her home. Deborah's
love for nature is demonstrated
through her photography."I don't
go anywhere without a camera;
Nature is full of surprises and we
never know when we might get the
opportunity to capture the beauty
of God's Creations." she added.
Editor’s note: See page 31 for her
stunning hummingbird photo.
September 2011
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First Manassas~An End to Innocence
O
By Jean C. Keating
n July 21, 2011, Virginia’s governor,
government officials, the head
of the National Park Service,
the entire service community of
Prince William County
and special guests gathered on the
hallowed grounds of the Manassas Battle
Field Park near the slow running waters of
a wandering stream called Bull Run. They
came to honor the men who fought and
died there 150 years ago, to pay tribute
to the courage, stubbornness, fortitude
and dedication of those soldiers, Union
and Confederate, whose blood saturated
the ground beneath their feet. That day
marked the end of innocence for both
sides in a conflict that spanned four years
of bloody war and claimed the lives of
620,000 men and 1.2 million horses.
Park Rangers volunteered from facilities
all over Virginia to guide participants
and guests on the hot July day. One
of the speakers commented that 150
years ago the day had been hot, also,
but not as hot as this day. Trouper Eric
Evans from the Washington Capital
Mounted Police stood prominently in
front of the speakers’ stand, providing
sign language support to the crowd.
Despite the 107 degree temperature, Evans
managed to remain poised and neat in riding
pants, highly polished boots and spurs, though he
admitted that his horse, Stoney, was just as glad
to have been left in a cool stall in Washington.
Speakers attempted to bring meaning to
the horrific battle which opened the worst
carnage ever experienced by our country.
Decades of controversy finally erupted in
the battle fought on these rolling hills of open
farmland on July 21, 1861. Sectionalism had
increasingly divided the country. The extension
of the railroads through the west, linked western
and northern segments of the country, forming
a voting block that overpowered the south. One
of the main quarrels was the tariffs—taxes—
levied on goods from and to foreign countries.
Higher taxes were imposed on Southern goods
than on Northern ones, so southern profits were
being sacrificed to support inferior northern
products, in the minds of southerners.
Ethical and human rights issues of slavery
fanned the divisiveness. John Brown’s raid and
his stated intent to cause insurrection and a
blood bath in slave owning territories inflamed
the south. Segments of the north, especially the
radical elements of the abolitionist movement,
intensified the ill feelings by treating Brown
There Stands Jackson Like A Stone Wall
as a martyr and memorializing the day of his
execution . Southerners saw the threats as
hypocritical since it was northern interests that,
at high profits, had brought slaves to American
shores and sold them to southern agricultural
enterprises, and then threatened secession from
the Union in the early part of the 19th century
when the importation of slaves was abolished.
Southern attitudes solidified regarding the states’
rights to decide on issues of slavery and on their
choice of remaining a part of what was viewed
increasingly as an unfair union. The Corwin
Amendment passed by the United States Congress
on March 2, 1861 would have forbidden attempts
to subsequently amend the Constitution to
empower the Congress to abolish or interfere with
the domestic institutions of the states, but by that
time, it was too little, too late. Sectionalism had
replaced any willingness to talk or compromise.
Young men rushed to battle eager to ‘save the
Union’ or ‘preserve our state from invaders.”
The Union called for enlistments for three
months to put down the insurrection. The
Confederacy saw this as a second revolution,
and strongly held to their right to separate
themselves from a government that took
advantage of them as had the English crown.
The lines were drawn. Some 22,000 Confederate
troops were poised at a sleepy little
crossing of the Orange and Alexandria
Railroads some 28 miles southwest
of Washington. President Abraham
Lincoln wanted the threat removed,
was concerned that the three month
enlistments were drawing to a close, and
rejected Union commander, General
Irvin McDowell’s concern that his
35,000 troops were green and not ready
for combat. “You are green, it is true,
but they are green also,” he reassured
McDowell. “You are all green alike.”
Union politicians pressed for
the suppression of the rebels.
And so the blood bath began.
In their innocence, both sides
expected a quick and easy victory.
They were both wrong!
The forerunners of modern warfare
and the medical support we use
today for our wounded warriors
in Iraq and Afghanistan had their
birth here at First Manassas.
McDowell marched his green troops
toward the Washington side of a stone bridge
over Bull Run creek, making diversionary attacks
there while he moved his main column of 20,000
north to flank the Confederate left. The first use
of signal flags in battle came with the message
from Porter Alexander to Colonel Nathan Evans:
“Look out for your left, you are turned.”
Evans shifted his reduced brigade of 1,100 men
to meet the threat. They were soon reinforced
by two of the four brigades, those under Brig.
General Barnard Bee and Col. Francis S. Bartow,
that had been rushed by railroad from the
Shenandoah, the first tactical usage of railroads in
battle. Even with these reinforcements, the badly
outnumbered Confederate lines along Mathews
Hill were forced to retreat and fall back toward
Confederate lines a mile away on Henry House Hill.
The retreat became a rout and Union troops
were jubilant, believing the ‘only’ battle of the war
to be a crushing victory. McDowell rode along his
lines proclaiming the win—a bit prematurely.
Beverly Abbott photo.
This is the first in a series.
September 2011
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Collection Goes Back Twenty Years
O
By Ellen Dugan
nce upon a time—
long before Carole
Jean McConnico
began collecting
them—T-shirts hung
out on the fringes of respectability.
They were viewed as little more than
undergarments, seen in public only
on clothes lines or perhaps neatly
folded in a stack of unmentionables
on the back shelf of a clothing store.
Today it’s a vastly different story.
Due in part to Marlon Brando’s
Stanley Kowalski in A Streetcar
Named Desire and James Dean’s role
in Rebel Without A Cause, T-shirts
became sexy. From there, it was a
short trip down the fashion runway
to respectable outer-wearhood.
No longer confined to sweat and
hard labor, today’s T-shirts have
become mobile billboards. They sport
pictures and messages, sometimes
bold, sometimes funny, but always
impossible
not to stop,
look at
and read.
The
T-shirts
Carole Jean
has been
collecting
go back 20
years. The
messages
they
convey
underscore
a
memorable part of her long
association with The Turkey Shoot, A
Hospice Regatta that is much beloved
by boaters throughout the Northern
Neck and Chesapeake Bay areas.
Each of Carole Jean’s T-shirts
commemorates a specific year in the
regatta’s history. As such, they serve
as fond markers for her. They bring
back memories of the role she has
played in the regatta’s success and
the good times she and her husband
John have enjoyed throughout the
years as active “turkey shooters.”
This year Carole Jean and John,
recently back from a trip to France
to visit John’s brother, have decided
to enjoy the regatta less actively
from a spectator’s perspective.
John, who, with friend, Chuck
Harney, started the Turkey Shoot
more than 20 years ago, recalls the
event’s early days. “When we got
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to 20 boats, it was unbelievable!”
he remembers. After that, the
event just seemed to take off.
Today, with more than 100 boats
each year, the Turkey Shoot is the
largest Hospice Regatta in the
nation and the second largest on the
Southern Bay. It has been officially
associated with Hospice Support
Services of the Northern Neck and
the Riverside Hospice Agencies in
Tappahannock and Gloucester for
15 years and is
their major fund
raising event.
Since its
inception Carole
Jean has worn
many regatta hats
and T-shirts. Chief
among them is a
hospitality cap that
ensures captains
and their crews
begin each race
day with enough
energy to win.
This means fixing
as many as 1,000
breakfasts! Somewhere in the
neighborhood of “200 plus dozen
eggs” according to Carole Jean,
and lots and lots of Hardee’s
biscuits, Edward’s sausage links,
grits, Starbuck’s coffee and juice.
As Captain of the Breakfast
Brigade, Carole Jean’s culinary
crew over the years has included
Colleen and Meade Shore, Janice
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and delight the soul!
Nucklos, Nancy Wells—chief ‘egg
cracker’—Ron Koris and Gwyn
Nethaway. “We have perfected a
synchronized system of scrambling
the eggs,” laughs Carole Jean.
The Turkey Shoot is a famously
fun event for skippers, crews and
spectators. It celebrates the joys
of sailing in a classically-designed
boat and will be held this year on
October 7 thru 9 at the Yankee Point
Sailboat Marina in Lancaster. For
more information or to register for
the regatta, contact Karen Knull
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Ellen Dugan photos of John and
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September 2011
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Spotlight on People in Style
By Ellen Dugan
Everyone knows that computers
are designed to test your frustration
level, but what would we do with
them? Like it or not, the Internet has
become an important part of our
culture almost overnight. Recognizing
this, the question we asked is: How
much time do you spend online?
Farnham resident Jeanine
Bordeau
is an
enthusiastic
computer
user who
seems to
thrive on
all things
technical.
Maybe this
is because
she works
for the Virginia Department of
Emergency Management and has
to be prepared all the time. Jeanine
works “mostly on grant programs,”
ones that will ultimately help to
prepare us for responding to terrorism
or acts of nature. She enjoys working
on her computer and is online “quite
a bit.” Since moving to the area over
a year ago, Jeanine says that social
networking is very important to her.
“It has become a way of life. I’d be
lost without the Internet,” she says.
“And thank
goodness
for the
libraries!”
she adds,
“Especially
when my
system is
down.”
Seventysix year-old
Charles
Towles of Lancaster is at the opposite
end of the computer user spectrum.
“I’m too old for computers,” he says.
“All I have is a cell phone to talk to
my son up North.” But, as an avid
reader of western stories, Charles
does enjoy “paper technology,”
and he likes to watch TV. Charles
served in the Korean War and is a
decorated veteran. He remembers
returning home from the war and
being refused service in a restaurant.
“Now ain’t that something,” he says.
“Off fighting for your country and
come home and be treated like
that?” We noted that it wouldn’t
happen today. Charles’ grandfather
was born a slave on Towles Point
and hence, his family’s name. “I’m a
mixture of everything,” says Charles.
Perhaps
one of the
liveliest
people in
the town
of Lively is
Nancy P.
Carter who
owns and
operates
The Oaks
Restaurant
on Route
3. Nancy is an “import from the
military” she says and has lived
all over the world. She settled in
Lively after meeting and marrying a
local guy named Carter. “His name
is Marty but his family calls him
Pete,” she laughs. Nancy describes
herself as a “one horse and pony
show” during restaurant hours, and
says she’s actually not online that
much, about two hours a week. “I’m
still very hands-on about people.
I prefer to talk to you face-to-face
or on the phone,” she says. And
Nancy’s daughter Cameron? “Well,
that’s another story!” says Nancy.
If you purchased stamps, mailed
a letter or unlocked your postal box
at the Mollusk Post Office on River
Road, you’ve probably been greeted
by a friendly smile and a welcoming
hello from Karen Lewis. She is the
Postmaster. Karen is married and
doesn’t look old enough to be a
grandmother, but she is. “I have two
grandchildren,” she smiles. Karen
says she
probably
spends
“perhaps
a couple
of hours”
online
at home
each day.
“More than
I watch
TV,” she
adds. She
likes to browse and shop online,
and Craig’s List and EBay are
among her favorite sites to visit.
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Style Spotlight~Creating History at the Bay
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By Kelsey Sipes
ucked away
in a corner
of Mathews
is restaurant
loved by locals
and enjoyed by travelers who
visit. Located at former Girl’s
Baptist Camp, Sandpiper Reef
is a locally owned business
that has been around for
more than 20 years, though
Liz Scribe has owned it for four. The
restaurant serves fresh seafood—all
of the ingredients come from farmers
and watermen local to the area in
and around Mathews. Though the
restaurant is at the mouth of the
Chesapeake Bay, it isn’t just a seafood
restaurant; it’s much more than that.
In addition to fresh seafood,
Sandpiper Reef also serves
sandwiches, brunch, fresh steaks
which are cut to order, homemade
desserts, and more. All of the
food served at Sandpiper Reef is
completely fresh and they have
a full bar with a wine selection
that is updated weekly.
To Liz, the Sandpiper Reef isn’t
just a restaurant—it’s a way to be a
part of the community and to watch
families grow. Plenty of people have
gotten engaged, and even married,
at the Sandpiper Reef. Liz says, “It
is so wonderful to be a part of their
history and I love when they return
for anniversaries. We’ve even hosted
a few of their baby showers which is
really meaningful
and special
for me. It is so
wonderful to
see generations
of families
returning.
To me, this is
what having a
local business
is all about.”
Liz loves that
Sandpiper Reef has become a
regular part of so many families’
routines. She enjoys watching
people grow up and grow together.
The most difficult part of running
Sandpiper
Reef is that
it’s hard to
balance work
and family
time—which
is why Liz is
happy that
her daughters
work with
her. Jason,
her husband, supports by keeping
things calm on the home front even
after a long day’s work so that Liz can
devote her attention to her restaurant
without worrying about home.
When at work, Liz loves to
see customers return again and
again and she likes nothing more
than sitting at the bar listening to
customers tell their stories, how their
days went, or the newest joke. For
her, Sandpiper Reef is more than
what she wanted as she says—“I
am happy to work with people I
truly love and I am proud of the job
they do and the food we serve.”
When it comes to food, Sandpiper
Reef is easily set apart from many
of the restaurants in the area. There
isn’t a single frozen item served.
Everything is made to order and the
meat is prepared and fish caught
the day before the restaurant opens
for their weekly business. Take the
crabs, for example, they are caught
on Wednesday and Sandpiper Reef
opens up on Thursday. The most
popular item they serve is their
fried oysters.
Their seafood
sampler is also a
favorite because
it offers their
own homemade
crab cakes as
well as the rest
of the seafood
that is currently
on the menu.
Their prime rib comes in two
cuts and is requested often. Fish
tacos are a staff favorite and have
turned out to be a great seller.
The whole experience at Sandpiper
Reef isn’t like other restaurants. As
Liz puts it, “Our motto is casual fine
dining and that’s what we are all
about—casual, friendly atmosphere
with great food. We’ve been around
for more than twenty years and we
are Mathews oldest dinner restaurant,
come in and find out why!”
Her dedication to making those
who come to visit Sandpiper
Reef feel at home is shown by her
comment, “We offer a full menu
and invite you to check it out. I
want you to come in and not only
celebrate a special event, but also
to feel welcome for a sandwich or a
piece of homemade cheesecake.”
As far as entertainment goes,
Sandpiper Reef has it covered. They
feature live music on most weekends
and keeping a running schedule on
their website. The music can vary
from dinner music to a live late night
concert after dinner has been served.
They host a Shag Dancing Night
once a month and a Halloween
Costume party after trick-or-treating
is completed. For kids, tweens and
teens who come with their parents,
they have a menu with smaller
portions depending on the age—and
plenty to do to keep them occupied.
Sandpiper Reef can be reached
for reservations at 804-725-3331,
for catering or special events at
804-832-7338, and by email at
[email protected]. They
can also be found on Facebook by
searching for Sandpiper Reef and
online at www.sandpiperreef.net.
Liz Scribe, Greg Howell, The Shaggin’
DJ. Megan Freeman photos.
September 2011
7
The D C Connection~Bookworm Tendencies Appear
M
By Elizabeth A. Stokes
ama said that the
war improved
the economy.
Families like
ours could
afford now to buy more things for
their families. Nobody wanted the
Hoovervilles to come back to the big
cities—veterans under Hoover, after
having been promised bonuses set
up shacks on the Anacostia Flats with
other homeless persons to protest
against the government. They lived
in squalor and crime, sometimes
causing riots, soup lines supported by
the Red Cross until Hoover had them
squashed by the military, and burned.
With the election of FDR in the
ensuing years came social programs
to aid the poor, WPA, a works
program, CCC—civilian conservation
program—designed to give young
men jobs, relief to the poor, the
Federal Reserve and others. We
listened to FDR’s fireside chats on our
second hand radio. After seven years
of a leaky kitchen roof, my uncles
came and re-tarred it and cleaned
our chimneys. They also installed a
bolt rope secured with toggle bolts on
the inside steps so Mamary could get
up and down the stairs. The owners
put in electricity but still no inside
plumbing and wanted to increase
the rent, but Mama balked, citing the
improvements she had made herself.
I was excited when we got a
telephone with a party line! Mama
bought new linoleum for the floors
and a new divan for the living
room. One Christmas I got a record
player! Those were the days of the
victory gardens, air raid alerts and
sirens and blackout shades.
I came home one day from school
to the aroma of baked ham, fresh
string beans, potatoes and onions,
Mamary’s rolls on the wood stove
in the kitchen. We were celebrating
brand new dining room table and
chairs! Soon we were painting the
walls with Kemtone again, those
walls sucking it up like a sponge.
Mamary, in her eighties on her
cane, supervised the small garden
plot that my brothers dug in the back
"jungle", a tract of trashy, weedy
space in the rear of the woodshed.
We grew all the veggies we needed
for the table: tomatoes, string beans,
cressies, sometimes, corn, squash.
Neighbors cleared more of this plot
where they sat up tables, steamed
crabs over a bonfire, we kids roasted
hotdogs and marshmallows.
The grown-ups played Louie
Armstrong, Hadda Brooks, they
gambled, drank beer and we
played tag and board games. The
grown-ups sang, somebody had
a harmonica, a guitar. We were
serious at the end of each party. We
gathered in a circle, held hands and
prayed for FDR, he was very ill.
Most Sunday evenings I sat on
the front in the glider with Mamary
reading to her from her Bible. When
I got tired of that I read her chapters
from Hemingway or Faulkner, Little
Women and occasionally make up
stories with my own characters.
Around this time a German neighbor
was tutoring me in a little German
and let me read Mein Kampf. I was
obsessed with reading adult novels.
My Uncle Earnest, who had been
a brilliant scholar at Hampton came
to live with us for a short while. He
provided the male stability in the
household that my brothers needed.
Photos courtesy Elizabeth A. Stokes.
Brother Robert Alexander(deceased),
Elizabeth Alexander Stokes &
brother George Alexander in 1941.
My Maternal grandmother,
Mary Carter Elizabeth
(Williams)Allen, 1863-1945
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Style Spotlight~Home Style Ice Cream is Short Lane Away
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By Kelsey Sipes
hort Lane started as a
desire to restore an old
building and has grown
into a staple of the
Gloucester community.
For Kim Williams, the two years prior
to opening Short Lane were enough
to get her through the training that it
takes to run her own ice cream shop.
Coming from a family of foodies,
Kim learned how to make ice cream
at home from her mother and, as a
mother, was the reason her children
enjoyed freshly made treats.
Before opening up Short Lane,
Kim worked at an interior designer
firm, a prior profession that shows
throughout the store. While some of
the store’s decorations come from the
antique store that had been housed in
Short Lane’s building before
the ice cream shop, others
Kim picked up through her
travels—some she travelled
to obtain. She and her
husband co-own both Short
Lane Ice Cream and Ware
Neck Produce. This means
that, while not everything
that’s put into the ice cream
Kim makes is grown on her
farm, she does get fresh
berries and other items
from her own backyard.
One thing that most
people notice about Short
Lane is that the store doesn’t
take credit cards. Though this
may be a surprise, there’s
actually a very good reason behind
their insistence upon only taking
cash or check. All small businesses
are charged a fee for each transaction
with any card. While this isn’t a huge
issue for most eateries, it is a problem
for one like Short Lane, where most
sales are less than five dollars. The
only way that credit sales would be
able to make their way into Short
Lane is if the prices were raised and
Kim doesn’t feel the need to do that.
Short Lane itself is homage to
the original Short Lane Post Office,
located in the same building. The
location of the shop was not chosen
specifically because of where it is
located—but because it was one
of the only old buildings on the
market when Kim was looking for
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one to recreate. While they were
remodeling the building, Kim and
her husband toyed with the idea of
having a lunch menu in addition to
their ice cream shop but eventually
decided that, in order to keep the
freshness of the ice cream at its
peak, it would be best to devote the
store entirely to frozen desserts.
All of the ice cream is handmade
every week with natural ingredients.
Any additions that are made to
the ice cream, like nuts or fruits,
are all mixed in by hand. The most
popular ice cream flavor is chocolate,
though seasonal ice creams are a
favorite among visitors, too. Kim
tries to have something that will suit
everyone and is not afraid to try new
things. In fact, one of the current
featured flavors at Short Lane is
Caramel Popcorn Nut ice cream.
In many ways the team at Short
Lane is very much like a family.
In fact, some of them are family!
They don’t necessarily have to
be related to Kim but Short Lane
does hire family members of prior
employees and Kim jokes about
hiring a family full of people. All of
the staff at Short Lane are trained
to be able to do a variety of things
and are very good at multitasking.
Each and every staff member
assists with the ice cream making.
Short Lane promotes the family
atmosphere by not only being a
fun, family friendly place to go at
any time—excluding Mondays
and the winter months—but
also by taking suggestions for ice
cream flavors from customers and
those who work at the store.
What once was a Post Office—
though some remember it being
an antique store—has grown into
an ice cream shop that is sure to
please even the pickiest of eaters.
Short Lane Ice Cream has become
a stop for out of town guests, family
outings, and sports events alike.
Short Lane Ice Cream, located
on Route 17 at Ware Neck, can
be reached by phone at 804695-2999 on any day of the
week other than Monday.
Here’s your cone! Kim Williams.
Photos by Megan Freeman.
September 2011
9
What will you do in Retirement?
By Mary Duley Guy
In retirement, I am so
busy, I had to go out
and buy an appointment
book. Johnny Hayes.
hen you think
of retirement,
do you visualize
cottages nestled
at the mouth
of the Chesapeake Bay where
hammocks whisper love songs in
moonlight; and fishing poles, cans of
iced Bud Light and Coke are stacked
close by like obedient children?
Although that kind of retirement
sounds appealing, today, unlike our
grandparent’s day—since sixty-five
is the new forty-five—retirees aren’t
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settling for the sedentary life
of afternoon naps, cold beer
and fly fishing; but they, like
new parents unwrapping
their infant for the first time,
embrace their “bucket lists”
that in some cases wrap
around a city block. Here, in
the Chesapeake Bay region
there are retirees whose
passion for the visual arts
overflows like vintage wine.
“In retirement, I am so
busy, I had to go out and buy
an appointment book,” says
Johnny Hayes with a twinkle
in his eye. “I have always been
interested in art, although I
only participated in it later
in life.” Johnny grew up in
Newport News, graduated
from the University of North
Carolina, served in the army, retired
as a general contractor in l998,
moved to the sleepy village of White
Stone where he lives with his wife
Anne, also a painter. Together, they
eat and breathe art—art shows, art
classes and volunteer work at the RAL
Gallery. Every year, Johnny attends
Spring Maid Water Media workshops
in Myrtle Beach for intensive classes
with nationally knows artists like Alex
Powers from Nags Head. This past
spring, Johnny received honorable
mention from the Virginia Watercolor
Society for his painting, Kia.
Another retiree who chose art
in retirement is Ed Ramsey. After
a twenty nine year career with the
Virginia Power
Company in the
Corporate Office,
Ed retired to the
village of Sharps
where he and
his wife, Sue, a
painter, restored
a l9th century
fisherman’s
cottage and
began his journey
studying pottery,
as of it were
a nine to five
job, with noted
master potters
in Richmond
and across the
country. Every summer, he attends
workshops with potters such as Chris
Gusten at Haystack Mountain in
Maine. First loves are memorable. Ed
says his first love is, “hand building
using slabs or coils.” Even though
he renders both decorative Raku
pieces and practical stone ware, he
prefers Japanese Raku firing because
of the “surprise in the crackling.”
In retirement, Professor Ken Baker
re-kindled his love of watercolor after
years of working in the performing
arts, directing theater works, musicals
and operas. He also taught theater
at the University of Kansas, Hollins
College and was Director of Theater
at American University where he
holds Emeritus status. “I see the
stage as a picture as movable art,
a movable painting…” says Ken
whose paintings with titles like, Near
Smith Point, and Gathering Storm,
are on display at RAL Gallery.
So, what will you do in retirement?
Do you smell the sweet lavender of
the Chesapeake Bay with summer
porches and hammocks that tango?
Will you fall in love with Picasso’s
cubism or Degas’ soft pastels? Will
you paint passionately in watercolor
like Johnny Hayes or Ken Baker, turn
Raku pots like Ed Ramsey? Or will
you perform with the community
theater, write steamy romance
novels, learn to play golf like Tiger
Woods, dance like Ginger Rogers,
volunteer for Hospice, swim the
English Channel? What will you do?
Ed Ramsey, Johnny Hayes
photos by Mary Duley Guy.
This is the first in a series.
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10
Style Notebook~Forensic History in Action
O
By Ellen Dugan
n a quiet June
evening in 1892
Francisca Rojas ran
screaming from
her home. Her
two lifeless children, six year-old
Ponciano and his four year-old sister
Teresa, lay forever still in their beds.
Both had been viciously beaten in
the head. Blood was everywhere. It
spattered their pillows and sheets.
Thirteen years later in the
Chapman Oil and Colour Shop
near London, seventy-one year-old
Thomas Farrow lay dying on the floor
of his shop. His sixty-five year-old
wife Ann was near death upstairs.
The shop’s cashbox was empty.
And a few years later, in New York
City, Charles Crispi was on trial
for burglary. The evidence against
him included a pane of glass.
These crimes were not committed
by the same person, but historically
they are very much related. Each
was a landmark in its day.
In the Rojas case, Francisca
accused her neighbor of killing
the children in revenge and anger
because she had refused to marry
him. In the Farrow case, an alert
detective noticed
something important
about the empty cashbox.
And in the Crispi trial
the prosecution engaged
in an impressive
dramatic display.
What these crimes
had in common was
the use of comparative
dactyloscopy, the new
“individualizing” technique more
commonly known as fingerprinting.
There was a bloody thumbprint
on the door jam outside the Rojas
children’s bedroom, a greasy smudge
on the cashbox’s inner tray, and a
perfect print on the glass that was
removed from the door at the Crispi
burglary scene’s point of entry.
Francisca was probably not the first
mother to kill her own children, but
she is believed to be the first criminal
found guilty through fingerprint
evidence. Although it didn’t help
her case when gossips informed the
police that Francisca
had another, younger
suitor who had refused
to marry her because of
the children, what really
sealed Francisca’s fate
was her confession. She
made it after being told
that her thumbprint
matched the bloody one.
In the tragic Farrow case
(the couple died), the greasy smudge
on the underside of the cashbox
tray turned out to be a thumbprint.
Since fingerprint identification was
in its infancy at the time (1905),
police relied on witnesses and
good detective work to arrest Alfred
Stratton and then his brother Albert.
With a 12-point match to the right
thumbprint of Alfred, the brothers
were convicted and hanged less than
two months after the crime. This case
is widely regarded as the trial that
truly launched forensic science.
In the Crispi trial of 1911, the
first to obtain a conviction solely on
fingerprint evidence in the United
States, it was the jurors who were
fingerprinted. Lieutenant Joseph
Faurot fingerprinted each juror on
a paper card. Then he left the room.
While he was gone his assistant asked
a juror to place a fingerprint on a
piece of glass to simulate burglary
conditions. (The prosecution had
Crispi’s print on glass found at the
scene.) When Faurot returned with
the cards, he developed the print that
had just been left on the glass. Then
he consulted his cards and correctly
identified the juror who had made it.
Needless to say, Crispi
changed his plea to guilty.
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I
By Bill Graves
have been writing on
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than 62 to use or set a side for their
retirement years. You have to have
good equity, that’s it. You don’t need
good credit or income. You will not
be personally responsible for the
loan, your property will. Your heirs
don’t have to worry about it either.
The HECM—home equity
conversion mortgage—saver product
came out about a year ago. It is a
dramatic change and is effectively a
no load reverse mortgage. This means
there is no up front sales charge. It
was developed for customers who
desire to reduce the up front costs
and may not have the need for the
maximum amount of monies that
a reverse mortgage may provide.
What does this all mean? It
means you could pay the closing
cost up front, set up a credit line
with a 4% growth rate and have
zero loan balance. You don’t pay
for money you’re not using. You
don’t have the annual mortgage
insurance premium either.
A quick example: 68 year old
couple with no mortgage on a
$500,000 home gets a HECM SAVER
loan at 2.44%. Pays $4,500 in closing
cost. Now they have a credit line
of $216,000 that in ten years, if not
touched will be worth approximately
$335,000. No tax liability and it’s
insured. If they never use it they are
out the closing costs and that money
remained in the home’s equity.
A loan that looks like an
investment? A hedge against falling
property values? Too good to be
true? It’s just the facts. I predict that
the day will come when people will
get reverse mortgages whether they
need them or not. The rainy day
fund of choice, only time will tell.
Another important point is
effective October 1, 2011 they
are considering rolling back the
Principal Limit—the amount of
money available with a reverse
mortgage—from the current level
of $625,500 to $417,000. There is a
lot of contention in Congress and
the White House about this. I’m
opposed to it. If it happens it will
mean fewer monies available across
the board. Also, rates will certainly
start to climb. So if getting a reverse
mortgage is something you’ve been
debating, call your financial advisor,
attorney, CPA or have them call me.
I’m not one to use fear of loss
as a marketing ploy. Many folks
take years to make the reverse
mortgage decision and that’s
fine with me. I think Wall Street
has cornered that technique.
To learn more call Bill
Graves 866-936-4141
September 2011
11
What is my IP address?
I
By Rob Mink and Chris Schaefer
f you are connected to the
internet via a broadband
connection you usually
have two IP addresses.
Local IP address. This is
the IP address on your local network.
This usually changes unless you
have set it to be static. The only static
IP address on your local network
is probably your router, if you have
one. If not, you don’t have a local
address. Your local address is likely
to be 192.168.1.x, 192.168.0.x or
10.0.0.x. To find your local address,
hit Control Shift Escape. This will
bring up the task manager. From
here, select the Applications tab. Then
click the New Task… button. At the
Open prompt type in ‘cmd’ and hit
enter. A black box with white text will
pop up. Type in ipconfig and press
Enter. Find the connection that has
information in it. Your IP address will
be the one listed after IP Address.
Internet IP address. Finding
your internet IP address is easier.
To do this, open a browser and
go to www.whatismyip.com.
Why does my computer keep a
history of where I look online?
Every browser keeps at least
two copies of where you have been
online. The first copy is the one you
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see through the browser, the history
field. This is kept so that users can
go back and see where they have
been. This can be cleared. Mozilla
Firefox and some other browsers
can be set to clear your history every
time you close the browser window.
The browser’s history also only
shows the history for that browser.
The other place that your browsing
history is kept is in your temporary
internet files. Every picture, module,
and page loaded is kept as a copy on
your computer. By looking through
this copy, one can see where and
when someone has been to a site.
How do I remotely access
my home computer?
The easiest option is to use some
free web options such as www.
logmein.com or www.gotomypc.com.
To use these sites, you sign up,
download a program that will run
in the background of the computer
and allow you to remotely access
it. From there, you can log into
the web site, and then connect
remotely to your computer. This
method requires two passwords,
one for the online account, and the
other to connect to the computer.
Does updating my flash
player plugin help protect
me from viruses?
Yes, plugins such as Silverlight,
Flash and Java load and execute
programs without asking your
permission. Because of that, and
security holes that could let the
programs do malicious things,
keeping an updated version of
these plugins can greatly improve
security on your system.
Updating the plugins is easy as
they typically let you know when
they are out of date and offer you an
easy upgrade option. Just keep an
eye out for the notifications on the
system tray by the clock in the lower
right hand corner of your screen.
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applies to PCs. Frequently the
information for a Mac is different.
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12
Style Spotlight~Putting Bills In Your Wallet
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By Tara Ann Neville
ith today's
economy,
everyone, young
and old, rich and
poor, working
and unemployed are looking and
listening for smart saving tips that
keep their bills in their wallet. Some
ideas might involve discussions of
investments, the housing market
and health care. Without a doubt,
Americans are becoming more
and more aware of their personal
financial portfolio and taking
charge of their financial future.
While most of us
believe we know
enough to make
educated decisions
about our finances,
many people
need to learn
more about how
reverse mortgages
can serve seniors
and the families
that love and care
for them. “The
baby boomer is
about 65 years
old—65% of them
are not prepared
for retirement,”
says Bill Graves,
a federally licensed loan officer
and reverse mortgage specialist.
“Good online sources for seniors to
learn about their options include
the AARP and urban development
websites. But, health fairs and
corporate presentations are also
great at getting the message out.”
He regularly speaks to groups about
how reverse mortgages can be a
viable financial tool for retirees.
Bill explains, “The reverse mortgage
is a financial tool to supplement
income. That's why it was put into
place. It is a way to tap into equity
in the home and help with everyday
expenses.” To understand how the
process works involves talking with
a specialist and learning the details.
Reverse mortgages are available for
people over 62 years old—whomever
is on the deed of the home can be on
the reverse mortgage. With a reverse
mortgage, the senior is not personally
liable for the loan. The house is liable
for the loan—it is a non-recourse
loan. “It's not your problem if the
house can't pay off the loan. The
misconception is that the bank owns
your home. You own your home and
any money left over after the home is
sold goes back to the client” says Bill.
The amount of money an individual
receives is based on their age and
the property value. Of course, with
property values dropping in most
regions of the country, loan amounts
are following course. The reverse
mortgage typically provides about two
thirds of what the house is worth.
There are many ways in which a
reverse mortgage benefits seniors. For
some, feeling relieved of the house
debt and knowing cash is available
is liberating in itself. For others, the
money is likely to be used to fund
elderly care for a spouse, purchase
a second vacation home, travel or
for supplemental income for bills.
“The majority of my customers get
it to retire an existing mortgage—
they want to get rid of that monthly
expense. They then can have peace
of mind and can grow their equity
and still have cash available for an
emergency or a change in lifestyle,”
says Bill. “I’ve never had an unhappy
customer. I've had people say 'If
It wasn't for you I couldn't put my
wife in assisted living' or 'buy a
home near my kids' or 'pay bills'.”
Deciding when, how and for
what purpose to utilize a reverse
mortgage loan means educating
yourself about your own finances
and taking a realistic look at your
financial future. Anticipating lifestyle
changes and medical needs, as well
as fulfilling life-long dreams should
be considered. But, knowing that
the unexpected costs of aging means
more pressure on a fixed-income
senior. Talking with a federally
licensed loan officer about your
interests and concerns can minimize
the stress of an uncertain future.
Bill advises, “Be patient. Don't
make quick decisions. You have to
be informed and understand your
options.” He believes more and
more seniors are discovering reverse
mortgages and are spreading the word
about how beneficial they can be.
“The thing that's starting to
happen now and will be going on
indefinitely is that anyone who
can get a loan, will get one. It gives
them great comfort to know they
have a growing line of credit readily
available and they are not paying
for money they’re not using. It
can be a no-load loan.” Bill says.
Consider a reverse mortgage to
help you manage your financial
needs now and in the future. Call
Bill Graves at 866-936-4141 or email
him at [email protected]. Bill
is a federally licensed loan officer
and a nationally recognized leader
in reverse mortgages He prepares
professional presentations about
reverse mortgages and senior
financial options to health care
organizations, elder care attorneys,
certified financial advisors and
families or groups of any kind
involved in financially advising
seniors. Bill will give you the
time and education necessary
to ensure you make the best
decisions for your lifestyle.
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September 2011
13
Books in Style~The Ballad of Johnny Madigan
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By Jean C. Keating
oung Johnny Madigan's
life has been filled with
hardship. At sixteen, he
is an orphan struggling
to keep himself alive by
working in a stable which gives him
a roof under which to sleep even if it
is with the horses. The sales pitch of
Union army recruiters to Irish
emigrants fresh off the boats at
the New York waterfront of a $50
sign-up bounty and free food and
lodging as army recruits seems
to offer a chance for betterment.
In spite of depressing reports
of the killed and wounded
resulting from a clash of arms
at Antietam, Johnny lies about
his age, leaves one of his only
friends, a near-fifteen year
old girl named Deirdre, and
volunteers as a soldier.
John A. Bray's carefully
researched and written The
Ballad of Johnny Madigan
follows this young soldier
through the rigors of training
and into the battlefront as a
replacement in the 88th regiment
of the Irish Brigade. Thanks to
the details of his writing, the
reader feels the sway of the
train ride taking him to training
camp, tastes the hardtack
biscuits soaked in coffee, feels the
ruts in the road through his poorly
constructed shoes and enjoys the
beauty of night camps enriched
by the songs of Irish soldiers.
A new friend Liam helps him fit in
with the seasoned troops and steadies
him as he moves to his baptism of
fire at Fredericksburg when the Irish
Brigade is thrown against the stone
wall at the base of Marye's Heights.
He falls with a bullet in his gut,
but is rescued by his sergeant and
eventually nursed back to health.
Sent to provost guard duty while he
recovers his strength from the horrific
wound, he distinguishes himself
with his sharp observations and
response to a possible assassin. His
ability to identify the assassin leads
to his detached assignment with the
National Detective Service where
he helps to break up a ring plotting
the assassination of the President
and to the capture of all the gang
save one out-of-work actor. When
Johnny returns to New York City on
furlough to spend a brief time with
his young girl friend, he is carrying a
hidden gun and uses it to defend her
from an old enemy. But Deirdre is
shocked at the changes in the young
boy she has loved and waited for.
Bray's descriptions of settings,
depth of characterization, and
superb handling of dialogue make
this a must read for civil war buffs,
historians, Irish history devotees
to name but a few. Readers are left
wondering what will happen in the
lives of these young people torn apart
and aged prematurely by a brutal
civil war. Can a sequel be far behind?
Spellbound readers hope not.
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Spike’s Wildlife Almanac~ Sora Rail
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By Spike Knuth
he first time you hear
the cackling, laugh-like
call or “whinny” of the
sora, you might think
a bird of the jungles
has somehow gotten into the marsh.
The first time you see a sora, you
might think it’s an exotic dark-colored
chicken with striped sides. The
sora is the smallest of the rails that
are hunted, measuring about nine
inches in length. They spend most
of their time hidden from view, deep
in the tangles of marsh vegetation,
feeding in the mud on various insects,
mussels, and other small, marshdwelling animals, as well as various
seeds of marsh plants like wild rice.
Soras tend to be nocturnal in their
feeding habits, usually getting active
at dusk, and this is when they often
step out of the thick marsh vegetation,
walking chicken-like, along the
edges where mud flats are exposed.
Though cautious, soras are curious
birds, and just throwing a stone into a
marsh or making a clapping noise is
often met with a responding chorus
of calls and chuckles. Its call is often
described as a rapid series of notes
running together, descending in
scale and slowing down at the end.
The sora is the smallest of
the rails that are hunted,
measuring about nine
inches in length. They
spend most of their
time hidden from view,
deep in the tangles of
marsh vegetation...
Often called the Carolina rail,
the sora’s colors are basically olivebrown above with some
feathers edged in white.
Its under parts are gray
and its flanks are heavily
barred with white and
dark olive-brownish or
brownish-gray. It has
a black face and throat
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patch and yellow bill.
The sora breeds
over most of southern
Canada from coast
to coast, and in the
northern tier of
states as far south as
Maryland, southern
Ohio and Illinois
and Kansas. It favors
freshwater marshes,
but will nest in
brackish marshes
on the coast, with
a special liking for
cattail marshes or
wet meadows near
water. The nest is a
cup like affair made
up of the available
grasses and emergent
vegetation, often
with an arch of taller
grasses over the top
for cover. An average
of 10 to 12 eggs are
laid, but as many as 14 to 18 eggs
have been found in some nests, in
layers of two or three. The young
when hatched are little fluffs of black
down with red chins and breasts.
Young and eggs often fall prey to
crows, herons, muskrats, raccoons,
snakes, bullfrogs and even turtles.
When startled and flushed, the
sora rises, seemingly with great effort,
in weak, fluttery flight. It makes
one wonder how this bird is able to
migrate as much as 3,000 miles or
more to places like Venezuela and
Peru. Occasionally they land to rest
on vessels hundreds of
miles at sea, or maybe
in a city backyard.
Many winter around
the Carolinas south to
the Gulf Coast. Come
spring they make the
trip back and soon the
freshwater marshes in
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Teen
Award Contest Winners
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Poetry~First Place
Tameka Parker~Poetic Soul
Washington & Lee High School
My soul is poetry itself
Abstract as it may be
A scroll of mystification
Worn on my sleeve
For the world to see
A beautiful combination
Of misery and pleasure
Of nightmares
And of dreams
A twisted fairytale
Or strange reality
Beyond any measure
Among a few lessons learned
Many tears have been shed
My soul is an endless poem
Just waiting to be read
Interpret it as you wish
No two verses are the same
The lines are my life
And the title is my name
My soul is a work of art
Whether or not you know it
The world is my audience
And I am the poet
Poetry~Third Place
Callie Morgan~Trampled
Washington & Lee High School
Trampled,
Mistreated,
Underappreciated,
No one respects me,
I hold them up,
I help them stand,
Everyone looks down on me,
I look up to them,
But I shouldn't,
Trampled,
Mistreated,
Underappreciated,
I am the floor.
Poetry~Second Place
Ellery Sadler~A Tribute
Home School
Another day is dieing,
Sacrifices they render,
light begins to fade,
so huge and great,
My thoughts drift back to him,
The honor, gratitude they deserve,
Given only when too late…
Him so kind, so good, so brave.
My hero is the soldier.
My hero is the soldier.
Battle is continued, love
for freedom beats,
Within the heart of
each brave man,
Sacrifice with pride meets.
My hero is the soldier.
When they die do we
care, do we even see?
These ones who finally
give their lives,
They die for you and me.
My hero is the soldier.
At home I sit, content,
unafraid and free,
While they fight and
bleed and die,
For freedom and for me.
My hero is the soldier.
Heroes each one, whether
great or small,
These one’s who give
their lives-their all
For God and for freedom
My hero is the soldier.
Poetry~Honorable Mention
Poetry~Honorable Mention
Mary Sisson~My Shoe
Heather Jones~To Anyone Who Cares
Washington & Lee High School
Washington & Lee High School
My shoe spoke to me softly,
He asked me to let him go.
His face was worn and
his tongue was torn,
So I laid him softly in his grave,
And watched as he let go.
To anyone who cares:
Is anybody there?
Can you! hear me
screaming inside?
Would you even care if I died?
I feel so alone right now.
I’ve got to get away somehow;
away from my desire
for Iife to end.
I’m so miserable, You can't
even comprehend.
To anyone who's listening:
Can You see that my
eyes are glistening?
I’m trying not to let
these tears fall,
so let them fall within my wall.
If they remain inside,
this won't show.
Leave me alone; let it go.
Comments from Poetry Judges:
We sincerely thank everyone who participated in this
contest. Poetry is a unique art form that often defies
definition. Often, we know what we like but not exactly
why we like it. Something about the poem just seems
to click. It sounds right or strikes an inner cord. In this
year's submissions we looked for “that special quality.” It
could be defined as creative originality,thoughtfulness,
use of words, ability to evoke empathy or perhaps the
best definition is “imaginative expression.” In any case,
judging a poem is always a subjective process. If a poem
did not win in this contest, it does not mean that the
poem lacked merit. It simply means that a particular
set of judges chose another poem at this particular time
based on their life experiences and knowledge. Another
set of judges may have made a different choice. So,
congratulations are in order for everyone who submitted
an entry. This in itself is an achievement to be proud of!
September 2011
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Teen
Award Contest Winners
Encouraging Young Artists, Photographers, Writers
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Fine Art
Second Place
Raven Roy~Social Desperation
Washington & Lee High Schoo
Fine Art~First Place
By Natalie Jackson~Hope
Lancaster High School
Photography~First Place
Taylor Bradford~Bay Ropes
Washington & Lee High School
e
September 2011
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Photography
Second Place
n
Summer Newsome~Untitled snail on a reed
ol
Northumberland High School
Fine Art
Third Place
DaVonte’ Hager~A Bird On A Tree
Washington & Lee High School
Photography
Third Place
Tonya Jones~Old Barn
Washington & Lee High School
September 2011
18
Teen
Award Contest Winners
Encouraging Young Artists, Photographers, Writers
T
For Guidelines and Permission Forms go to www.chesapeakestyle.com, click on Teen Style.
Fiction~First Place~
he coast off the
Outer Banks of North
Carolina is littered with
the remains of ships
that were laid to rest
at the hands of infamous pirates. I
would like to tell you a tale that has
been passed down in our family
by oral tradition for generations.
There once was a pirate named
Julianna, who sailed her ship, the
Megan Elizabeth, in these same
waters. She made her living on raiding
ferry boats carrying tourists from
Hatteras to Ocracoke Island. She had
established a system with the spinster
Jocelyn and her slightly dimwitted
brother James. They were the keepers
of the light house on Hatteras Island,
and due to the economic hardships of
the time, they aided Julianna in return
for a percentage of the loot. They
used a coded system with the lights
to inform her when she would be
safe to travel into the Pimlico Sound
and await a vulnerable ferry without
being spotted by the Coast Guard.
Now, the Coast Guard hadn't
posed much of a threat to her, until
a new officer was appointed to man
the fleet. Captain Matthew Gregory
Barnes was polished and decorated.
He was a no-none-sense seaman,
and had been assigned to the
area to rid the Outer Banks of this
scallywag. Very single minded in his
pursuit of Julianna; he would stop
at nothing to bring her to justice.
One late afternoon, when the
dog days of August were upon us,
Julianna set out to the Pimlico
Sound, having received a signal from
the light house. She hid the Megan
Elizabeth in a shallow marsh, and
waited patiently for the ferries to
make their return trip to Hatteras. Her
plan was to take siege of the last boat
crossing that evening. Unbeknownst
Cecilia Noel Shriyock~The Dread Pirate Julianna
Washington & Lee High School
to Julianna, Captain Barnes had
wandered the crusty old crabber,
set up a trap to ensnare her.
Capt. Nick. He rolled the maiden
The tide was coming in as the sun
over, and pondered whether or not
began to set, but the waves seemed
to leave her for the seagulls. Nick
to be coming in harder than usual.
didn't recognize her, but when
Something in the salty air didn't feel
Maisie came leaping over the dunes
right to Julianna, but she needed
to protect her; he immediately
this last raid before heading south
knew who she was, the dreaded
for the winter. She began to set
pirate of the Outer Banks. Gathering
the sails as the sun began to set,
some driftwood, the crusty crabber
and in the distance she could see
fashioned a makeshift gurney and
a thunderstorm brewing. Through
transported her back to his humble
his binoculars, Captain Barnes was
shanty. For the next nine months he
scrutinizing the approach of Megan
nourished Julianna back to health.
Elizabeth. He could taste his success,
When May came around and
and was ready to pounce, but the
the weather was fair and the water
weather was not cooperating with
was placid; Julianna got the itch to
his best laid plans. As the pirate ship
go back to the sea. She told Nick of
neared the ferry, the storm hit.
her plans, and promised to pay him
Before she could even board the
back for all his kindness. They were
ship and plunder the unsuspecting
laying out crab pots, when a stranger
vacationers, waves from the hurricane spotted them. Julianna quickly hid
Noel pounded against the hull of the
her face, but it was too late. She'd
ship. The speed boats from the Coast
been made. They rushed back and
Guard had nearly surrounded her,
she gathered food and meager
and it became clear that her plans
belongings and headed out to sea
were foiled. She attempted to turn her on one of Capt. Nicks old skiffs.
sturdy ship towards the open seas, but
She soon realized the makeshift
the winds and rains were unrelenting. boat wouldn't make it, and steered
Suddenly, as she was surrounded,
towards the light house. On arrival,
lightning from Noel hit the mast,
she docked and went ashore to
and split it in two. One of the large
find her old friends, in hopes that
shards struck her head and knocked
they would harbor her. Upon
her unconscious. As the ship began
entering the lighthouse, she was
to sink, pirate Julianna's faithful dog,
immediately surrounded by the
Maisie, came to her aid. The cunning
Coast Guard. It all happened so
canine latched on to her ponytail,
fast she never saw it coming.
and began to paddle against the
Captain Barnes proudly displayed
current towards shore. Captain
his shackled prisoner to the media.
Barnes realized his opportunity
His patience has finally paid off,
had been foiled by the storm, and
and he was ready to reap his
headed full speed for shelter.
reward. This would definitely mean
The following morning the sun
a promotion. The rank of "Rear
arose on a beach strewn with the
Admiral" would soon be his to boast.
shattered pieces of the once beautiful
The captain was determined that
Megan Elizabeth, and amongst
Julianna would meet demise befitting
them laid Julianna, more dead
her crimes of piracy. He brought her
than alive. Strolling up the beach
to the Aquarium on Roanoke Island,
and planned an execution by sharks.
A plank was placed above the glass
tank of sinisterly hungry sharks, and
yet Julianna, who would be forced
to walk, showed no fear in her eyes.
Faithful Maisie still chained to her
side was awaiting the same fate.
Julianna is forcefully shuffled at
blade point to the end of the plank.
She turns to the masses who have
gathered to witness her demise. The
crowd roars as she plunges head first
into the shark infested waters, with
her first mate, Maisie, right behind
her. She comes to the surface, and
the great whites begin to circle. The
end is certainly near. The circle gets
continually smaller. Suddenly, the
largest of the carnivores speeds
towards her like a bullet. The crowd
gasps and awaits the carnage still
to come. The torpedo comes within
inches, and Julianna stealthily
latches herself onto its dorsal fin.
The shark breaks the surface of the
water with Julianna saddled to its
back. It hurdles itself over the side
of the tank and into the open bay.
Ben, the shark trainer, who had
been watching the events from his
feeding tower, chuckled softly to
himself. All the hours of endless
training had finally paid off. It was
ironic that Barnes had selected this
method of execution. Julianna looked
back and smiled, she always knew
she could count on her big brother
when the time came, even though
there had been years of sibling
rivalry between the two of them.
As the shark reached the mouth of
the bay, Julianna jumped off and
swam to the jetty, where a jet ski
had been left unattended by the
Coast Guard and sped away into the
sunset, with Maisie riding shotgun.
They were never to be seen again.
September 2011
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Award Contest Winners
Teen
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Non-Fiction~First Place~
Danielle L. Shelton~Beautiful Water
W
ater beholds a
strong power
to encompass
you with its
beauty, serenity,
and calmness. The way it sways
back and forth, sends a calming
sensation throughout my mind
and body. Born and raised on the
water, I have always cherished the
water for the fun it has supplied
me throughout my childhood. Now
that I have matured, I cherish it not
only for the fun it provides but also
for the power it has to overtake me
with calmness and serenity. My
experience that is memorable is
neither adventurous nor expected,
but it has always stuck with me as one
of my most cherished experiences.
Have you ever been tired of your
life? Just wanted to escape and get
away? Well this was me, two years
ago. I was going through a rough time.
I had lost both my grandfather and
great uncle to heart attacks within
a month of each other. It was a very
Lancaster High School
that all could do was stare. The sun
difficult time in my life considering I
was going down and it was at the
had never lost someone close to me
tip of the water perfectly so that the
before then. I was having a stressful
ripples in the water reflected the sun
day about two weeks after loosing
as it was seeing taking in its final
the two of them. I had got home from
school to find out that I had a C in one minutes of the world for that day. The
colors were so bright and beautiful.
of my classes. This was unacceptable
Cascades of yellows, pinks, and
in my household. I knew it was
oranges spread out and enclosed
because I had been so overwhelmed
everything. It made the whole world
with all that was going through my
appear beautiful and at peace. I
mind. That was my breaking point;
can't explain why or how but I felt
I calmly got up and walked out the
serenity and peace. A sensation
house. I was only fifteen years old
shot over me that made me feel like
therefore I couldn't drive so I
everything was going to be okay. At
decided to walk as far as I could
that moment, I looked and saw two
to escape from all the stress and
holes shining through low clouds
pain. On my quest for an escape, I
that seemed extra bright. It looked as
discovered something has forever
though someone had taken their two
changed me. I walked about a mile
hands and spread the clouds open
down the street, through a field,
to look down upon the world, upon
beyond a small wooded area, until
me. I smiled and for the first time
I reached where I couldn't walk
since my grandfather and uncle had
any further. I broke down and cried
because I knew nobody could see me past away, a tear rolled down my
face that was from joy not pain.
but I was wrong. About five minutes
Something inside me knew that my
passed, and I finally looked up to see
grandfather and uncle had spread
a beauty that was so breathtaking
Non-Fiction~Second Place
Emma East Hollowell~Emma’s Day at the Beach
Lancaster High School
Fiction~Second Place
Ellery Sadler~A Day on the Bay
Home School
Non-Fiction~Third Place
Emma Hand~Trailing Tranquility
Lancaster High School
Editor’s note:
Space permits inclusion of First
place in the Fiction and NonFiction essays. Other placements
will be published in future
issues of Chesapeake Style.
Look for entries from all
categories to be published in future
issues of Chesapeake Style.
For each essay, Fiction and NonFiction, each of the three judge’s
comments will also be published.
The Dread Pirate Julianna:
✔ This writer has a strong
sense of story and how to
deliver an entertaining yarn.
✔ The author of The Dread
the clouds to make those holes so
they could look down upon me to
tell me that they knew I was having
hard time and needed an escape, and
that this was their way of showing
me that they are always there for me.
From that moment, I knew I would
be okay. I knew they were gone in
person but they weren't fully gone.
To this day, when I am having
a stressful day, I go to this spot
and stare at the water and sunset.
This experience would never have
happened if it wasn't for the water.
I cherish the water and that spot
especially to this day. The beauty of
staring out into a calm river, creek,
bay, or ocean as the sun sets on it is
a feeling of calmness and serenity
that I hope everyone can feel one
day. So my experience with the great
outdoors isn't adventurous or exciting
but it changed my life forever. Nature
stories aren't just about adventure
and near death experiences, they
are also about realizing the beauty
within nature. It can change a person.
Pirate Julianna has a stirring
imagination, with strong details,
and adept tense switching.
✔ The Dread Pirate Juliana brings
back Blackbeard the Pirate! Kudos!!
Beautiful Water:
✔ The author gives a vivid
portrait of how the water can
soothe personal wounds.
✔ The author of Beautiful Water
is a gifted teacher of life-lessons.
✔ I enjoyed this story about
the solace and beauty of nature,
especially in our times of need.
Thanks to essay judges:
Jeremy Peill, from Moratico,
Elizabeth Stokes, from Burgess
and Ran Walker, from Hampton.
September 2011
20
One of Life’s Moments~RRYC
T
By Gwen Keane
he Rappahannock
River Yacht Club
(RRYC) in Irvington,
was home to many
local hard core sailors,
during the 1940’s. Sailing was the
local sport during and immediately
after the war years, when it was hard
to obtain gasoline for powerboat
racing. Today the RRYC is an active
sailing club and home to many
avid sailors. This fall they will
celebrate their 75th anniversary.
Recently I attended their Jr.
Sailing Regatta. Our granddaughter,
Sam Fuller, was a participant. For
me, returning to this facility was
a step back in time, a reminder of
stories I was told as a child, about
the early sailing days, when both
my grandfather Carter Keane,
and my father Paul Keane, sailed
competitively. This connection
prompted me to give back to
RRYC the regatta trophies my
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family won during 1941-1943.
On the morning of the Jr. Sailing
Regatta, Sam and I arrived early at
RRYC. We found ourselves amongst
many local sailors and others
from sailing clubs as far south as
Hampton and Norfolk. This was
Sam’s first regatta, and I, the typical
grandmother, sensed the seriousness
of this event. Everyone was busy, and
focused on getting their child ready
to race. Everyone, except us, seemed
to know what they were doing. It had
been fifty years since I had raced!
Sam got her boat rigged and
off she went, out of sight, into the
Rappahannock River. It was a
beautiful scene with all of the young
sailors heading out to their courses.
The course for the younger sailors
was laid out in Carter’s Creek.
Sam’s Mom, Sandy, and Sam’s best
friend Sarah, had driven up from
Virginia Beach to help cheer her on.
They boarded the Spectator Boat,
while I waited on shore for Grandpa
to arrive. We then joined the other
parents and grandparents left behind
to sit, rock and wait on the front
porch. On that day the temperature
soared into the high 90’s and we knew
then, it would be a long day. Not
being able to see what was happening
in the Rappahannock River created
tension. Yet, the cell phone did play a
vital role. Sandy texted me a picture
and status report. Sam had finished
fourth in the first race. I was thrilled
because one week of sailing each year
is the only exposure Sam has for the
sport.
Later
the
Spectator
Boat
returned.
I greeted
Sandy and
Sarah.
They
told me
Sam had
problems
with the
second
race and
was way off course. That sounded
strange! Sam was a competent sailor.
What could be the problem? We’d
probably never know, but that was the
beginning of a stressful afternoon.
We ate lunch and by 1:30 the
younger sailors returned, tired and
hungry. The older kids began to show
up too, but not Sam. At 3:15 everyone,
except Sam, had returned to shore.
“Where is Sam?” we asked. “Oh, she’s
still out there.” “But why?” No one
knew. Finally a boat spotted Sam and
towed her in. Needless to say, we
were overjoyed to see our precious
fourteen-year old safely back on land.
“What happened?” we asked. At
the end of the first race a boat hit
Sam. From then on she could only
make right turns. Her words were
“My boat was broken.” I then asked
myself, “Could this experience have
caused so much frustration, that she
will never want to go sailing again?”
Later that night, Sandy called to
say Sam had told Sarah the regatta
was a great experience and she
wants to do it again. My guess is,
her sailing school, Premier Sailing,
will again see Sam next year.
Sailing teaches a great lesson
in life. We learn that no matter
how skilled and prepared we are
for those unknown situations, we
can’t always control the outcome.
For anyone interested in serious
sailing, contact RRYC at their
website, www.rryc.org. Interested
in taking adult or child sailing
lessons? Contact the Premier Sailing
School, located at the Tides Lodge
in Irvington, www.premiersailing.
com. Sailing is a fun sport but
competitive sailing is just “awesome.”
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Invasive Plants and Native Alternatives
A
By Kathey Brodtman
fter a difficult summer
for gardeners, fall may
be a good time for
planting new additions
to your yard. Let’s talk
about some plants you do not want
to consider. Invasives! An invasive,
alien plant—non-native—will spread
easily producing a large number of
new plants every year in any weather
condition and soil type. It does not
have the normal checks and balances
of native species. Most invasive
plants have been imported from
Asia and Europe. Some cause harm
to the environment and animals.
Here are a few that are familiar
to us: Burning bush, Barberry, Tree
of Heaven, Yellow Flag, Japanese
Wisteria, English Ivy, Kudzu, Japanese
Honey Suckle, Phragmites and
Purple Loosestrife. A complete list
for Virginia is located on this website.
www.dcr.virginia.gov/natural_
heritage/documents/invlist.pdf
Burning Bush is sold in nurseries
and catalogs. This alien forms dense
thickets in eastern North American
forests choking out native plants
becoming a monoculture. Growing
in the shade, the plant remains green
until the leaves fall in winter. Birds
eat the berries and spread the seeds
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Instead, encourage
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grow in place of
Burning Bush. It has
a beautiful red fall
color with berries
that are favored
by birds. Barberry
is deep red with
sharp spikes. It
spreads when birds
and other animals
transport the fruit.
Sadly, it is sold as a
shrub everywhere.
Coppertina™ Ninebark is a
beautiful native alternative.
Tree-of-heaven grows quickly
and can be very tall. It is persistent
and most plants cannot survive in
the area where Tree of Heaven is
growing. Yellow flag grows in fresh
water and will choke out all other
aquatic plants. It forms a thick mat
of roots and is extremely difficult
to remove. Most of us are familiar
with Japanese Wisteria, English Ivy,
Kudzu—seen along local highways—
and Japanese Honeysuckle. These
plants will take over an area and can
be a problem if you don’t cut them
back every month in warm weather.
Phragmites grows in brackish
creeks and will choke out the native
grasses that benefit fish and crabs.
Purple Loosestrife rapidly degrades
freshwater wetlands, out-competing
native plants and diminishing their
value for wildlife habitat. A better
choice would be Blazing Star—Liatris.
Let’s all try to plant native!
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Sumac in fall.
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Nutty Buddy~Part III
T
By Paula Shipman
here I was, watching
from home the race that
could forever separate
two friends. The
relationship between
a horse and groom can be compared
to the bond of a mother
and child. You spend
countless hours with the
horses in your care. You
are responsible for their
health and well being.
You care for them when
they are sick and nurse
them back to health.
You know that horse
inside and out, better
than the owner or trainer
knows his or her horse.
Race horses are a
business, a means to
make money. They are
sometimes sold—it’s
the nature of the racing
world. How would I have
ever come to have Nutty in my care
if his previous owner had not sold
him to my employer? Horse racing is
a tough business, competitive and,
at times, vicious, but it is a way of
life for a lot of people. I love horse
racing. I was ''bitten'' by the horse
racing bug at an early age and once
it bites you, it is in your blood.
You never, ever get attached
to your race horse. Easier said
than done for me anyway.
I am sitting on pins and needles
as I watch Nutty race, listening to the
race announcer call the race. Then
I hear it, the announcer says,''Here
comes Stirseventimes, going to a new
barn tonight!'' To say my heart broke
is not an adequate description of
what happened to me after hearing
those words. I was crushed.
That night was rough, I could not
sleep, knowing that in the morning I
would not see Nutty when I arrived at
work. Morning came and I seriously
thought about not going to work.
I did go to work however—Nutty
might not be there but the other
horses needed me and I could not
just sit at home. I needed to be busy,
I needed to go on, without Nutty.
I walked in the barn that morning
and my eyes went straight to Nutty's
stall. It was empty. I fed the other
horses their breakfast, and then
I broke down and cried. I didn't
know If I could get through the day.
I had so many emotions that day.
A few weeks later Nutty's new
owner entered him in a race. I was
at home watching the races on my
computer, waiting to see Nutty race.
What I saw was ''Stirseventimes
scratched.'' That meant he was not
going to race. My mind raced with
questions, what was wrong, is he sick,
lame? I found out later that Nutty
had been turned out with another
horse and that horse had kicked
him the day of the race. He would be
OK but would not race that night.
The next week Nutty was
entered again. Jan was there
racing one of hers that night too.
She called and told me Nutty was
in the paddock but something
was terribly wrong with him.
Paula Shipman photo.
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September 2011
23
Chip’s Tips~Living Will
V
By Joseph T. Buxton 111
irtually every
estate planning
client that comes
through my door
signs an advanced
medical directive. Exactly what
is this document and why
should everyone make sure
they have such a document?
As we age we often encounter a
variety of serious health conditions
such as stroke, dementia and other
diseases. If we are unable to make
informed decisions regarding our
treatment, someone needs to be
authorized to make decisions for
us otherwise a court will have to
appoint a legal guardian to make
those decisions. An advance
medical directive (AMD) can
eliminate the need for court
involvement and can dictate how
you want to be treated if there is
no possibility of your recovery.
We need to think ahead and plan
to protect ourselves and
our families from slipping
into a situation where
we are hospitalized,
unable to make decisions,
perhaps attached to tubes,
intravenous feeding, on
pain drugs and helpless.
We need to allow our
loved ones along with
our trusted doctors to
“pull the plug,” as we call
it, when it is in our best
interest to pass away
peacefully. This part of an
AMD is commonly called
a “living will” and upon
admission to a hospital
one of the first questions
staff will ask is if you
have signed an AMD.
No one likes to think
about such times, but my
job as an area elder law
attorney is to urge you and
your family to take of these
matters now—while you
are well. There is nothing quite so sad
as when a loved one is in a helpless
state and the family has no authority
or directive as to what it can to do to
help a loved one who is suffering.
Our advanced medical directives
give your loved one the right to make
decisions for you, to transfer you
to whatever health care facility that
could provide treatment and care,
employ and discharge any of your
health care providers, have full access
to medical records and to act as your
agent and make decisions on your
behalf even if you cannot speak.
Our medical directives come with
an added benefit. Upon signing
them our clients can be immediately
registered with DocuBank, a
company that offers your health care
providers world-wide immediate
24 hour access to your AMD 365
days a year. Our clients do not have
to worry about where to keep such
records and whether they have
them on their person whenever
emergency health situations may
dictate immediate access.
One more tip to readers who may
already have a medical directive
on hand. The Commonwealth has
recently changed the law applying
to AMD’s. You can now give
your agent authority to deal with
mental incapacity and dementia.
It would be wise to have your
attorney look over your existing
directive and make any changes
that may be needed to update it.
Life is short. Make plans while
you can. Make sure each member in
your family has a will or trust, power
of attorney, and medical directive
on hand. These are basic tools each
person needs for the journey we make
in life. Time is passing. None of us is
getting any younger. My best advice is
don’t wait to plan for these necessary
documents until it is too late to have
them when you need them most.
Summer is passing by quickly and
autumn is almost here. Enjoy the
last few months of warm weather.
Joseph T. “Chip” Buxton III is
a Certified Elder Law Attorney
with offices in Urbanna.
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September 2011
24
Style Spotlight~Bay Seniors’ Best Friend
M
By Tara Ann Neville
ore and more
families
are finding
themselves
using Skype and
email to stay in touch, and many
jobs require some degree of regular
travel or relocation. Often hundreds
of miles separate parents from their
adult children and grandchildren.
Frequently the elderly are left to
manage their own housing, health
and financial needs without direct
support of their family members.
For many, this burden is too
much and our aging population’s
health and stability are tested.
Fortunately for residents of the
Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula,
Bay Aging is the best friend our aging
population needs and deserves.
Bay Aging has proven their support
of seniors and disabled adults by
providing services that continue
to give the greatest opportunities
for a better quality of life.
About 1100 volunteers and 375
employees enable
Bay Aging to serve
a 2,600 square mile
region that includes
four of the oldest—
by population
percentage—
counties in Virginia.
Originating from the
Lyndon B. Johnson
idea of The Great
Society, which placed
a heavy emphasis
on taking care of our own people,
Bay Aging was formally established
in 1978, first with Meals on Wheels
and later adding home repair. Since
1978, Bay Aging has expanded its
programs and services to correspond
to the needs of local citizens.
One need was for public
transportation. In 1996, Bay Transit
service was established with one
bus in Gloucester County. Now,
in 2011, Bay Transit has a fleet of
buses, provides transit in 12 local
counties, with ridership averaging
150,000 rides per year. Bay Transit
provides transportation for people
of all ages and for all reasons.
The need for affordable, accessible
senior housing was identified as
another growing need. The Meadows
in Colonial Beach was their first
senior apartment complex. Bay
Aging now has developed and
manages ten senior apartment sites
which offer supportive services—
there remains a huge demand for
affordable housing, not only for
seniors but for middle to low-income
families throughout the region.
Over time, as foreclosure concerns
arose all over the country, Bay Aging
met our local need for community
action and financial counseling
services to help families maintain
their independence. This service may
also identify clients who have other
service needs. Bay Aging strives to
have a No Wrong Door approach to
helping people connect with needed
services. Kathy Vesley-Massey, CEO
of Bay Aging, explains, “A volunteer
may be delivering a meal for our
Meals-On-Wheels program and
notice a housing repair is needed. Or
he may notice potential depression
or suicidal indications, in which
case we would make a referral to
the Community Services Board or
Bridges at Rappahannock General
Hospital. In-home companions have
identified instances of physical and
financial abuse—a growing problem
in the current economy—which
allowed us to involve Adult Protective
Services at Social Services…we refer
to our partners at Rappahannock
Community College when adults are
looking for continuing education.”
Long-term clients receive biannual assessments to ensure they
are receiving services necessary
for optimal health and well-being.
Bay Aging strives for continuity
in care whenever possible. Kathy
says, “Our clients are our friends,
and it is our volunteers and front
line employees that really bring
the community together.”
Because Bay Aging regularly
joins forces with similarly-focused
organizations, time, money and
talent are not wasted—services are
enhanced and programs flourish.
As we have witnessed the country’s
changes in economy, concerns
about federal, state and local funding
for senior care cannot be denied.
This reality disturbs Kathy. “Our
partnerships with foundations,
churches and other service providers
allow us to stretch resources;
however, we still rely on government
funding as the safety net for our
frailest clients. Meals, travel to a
doctor or work, in-home care—these
provide for a basic quality of life...
“The budget decisions being
made could be a statement about
our society—should we pull out
life supports from our oldest and
most vulnerable neighbors? I hope
everyone will pay attention to
budget reduction proposals—to
ensure we don’t overlook basic
human needs and dignity.”
Bay Aging will continue to provide
services for the thousands of people
who depend on them as long as their
volunteers and community support is
available. Their services speak to their
sincere desire to offer our community
a friendship and a better way of life—
one that transcends political trends
and challenging economic hardships.
Bay Aging is a non-profit
organization which depends on and
appreciates community support.
To learn more about the services
offered at Bay Aging, please visit
their website at www.bayaging.
org. Consider making a donation
or volunteering your time—visit
the website or call 800-693-6109
in the Middle Peninsula or 800493-0238 on the Northern Neck.
Megan Freeman photos.
September 2011
25
Balanced Change
T
By RuthE Forrest BA,NCBTMB,CMT
he Earth Mother
archetype for persons
oriented toward the
transitional rhythm
of Solstice/Equinox
describes them perfectly. This
fifth rhythm identified by ancient
metaphysicians has no season of
it’s own, but describes the period
of change between the seasons. It
manifests as that tipping point on
the scales of time when a balanced
pause spills into the next cycle. Indian
Summer is a time of both gathering
the second harvest of summer’s
bounty, and putting up stores for
the upcoming winter. It holds the
balance of opposing forces, the past
and the future held in the present.
Solstice/Equinox people are
great diplomats. They can see
both sides of an issue. They hold a
steady strength while nurturing the
necessary change going on all around
them. Like the eye of the hurricane
they bring a centering, calming,
supportive touch to all within their
sphere of influence. The colors of
this rhythm are the yellowgolds and
browns of Indian Summer foliage as
Nature transitions through the Fall
and into the fallow time of Winter.
Earth-energy persons walk with a
slow rolling side-to-side stride that
never seems rushed or hurried. They
are light-footed though, and speak
with a singing rhythm that inspires
trust and confidence in others. Fairminded, and empathetic, they often
go into healing professions, volunteer,
or seek other altruistic pursuits.
This energy rules the organs of
nurturing the body—the stomach and
spleen, lips and mouth, saliva and
flesh. All things sweet exist within
Earth’s rhythms. Persons of Earth
persuasion may have a sensitive
digestive system, being prone to
belching or retching after having too
much fun or stress. It is often easier
to see what is best for another than
to look at our own needs objectively,
so they have a tendency to hold
back. Retarding change in their own
lives, they stay too long in unfulfilled
relationships or in jobs that do
not support their highest good.
Resisting loss even when you know
it is a valuable and necessary part
of life can be a challenge for them.
Because they have no set season,
Solstice/Equinox people may wonder
“when is it my turn to be nurtured?”
In their zeal to help others they may
not take the time to nurture their
own growth, turning their strongest
characteristic into a self-imposed
handicap. They may fall into excessive
worry as their stress emotion
is manifested in codependent
sympathy. In this mode they may
be overprotective to the point of
stunting another’s growth, babying
them into submission instead of
nurturing healthy balanced change.
As we transition through the
seasons of our lives we must allow
the lessons of the preceding season
to teach us how to better navigate the
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challenges of the next season. It is
in this Solstice/Equinox energy that
we process and integrate these two
energies. Balanced in the pause, we
transform past mistakes into wise
and compassionate lessons for the
future. During this Indian Summer
take time to pause and reflect on
Summer’s fullness, and be inspired
by the incoming brisk energy of
Autumn. This is a continuation of a
five-part series of articles discussing
the five rhythms of life as described
by traditional Asian medical theory.
See previous installments www.
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September 2011
26
Tidewater & Timber~Fall Appreciation
A
By Chelly Scala
s summer drifts into
fall a great number
of fish will be
available to welcome
cooler weather. The
numerous throw-back flounder
that we have been releasing
throughout the summer may have
grown to keepers. Croaker season
will come to a close this month,
after some terrific catches in both
Maryland and Virginia waters. Blues,
Spanish mackerel and rockfish
will provide some great fun.
Trolling, bottom fishing,
chumming and casting will all be
options in the bay and its tributaries
this month. Watch for diving birds,
swirling baitfish and feeding,
splashing predators showing the way
to the hottest ongoing action. This
is one of the premier times when
fish are feeding on baitfish. So, even
when signs of fish on the surface
don't show,
trolling familiar
areas can produce
catches as long as
there are baitfish
schools nearby.
This is the
month when
anglers working
Southern
Maryland waters
from the Patuxent
River to the
Virginia line can
find mixed schools
of rockfish, blues
and mackerel, all
willing to hit the
same trolled lures.
The croakers—or hardheads as they
are sometimes called—will school
up along the deep channel waters
as they head south and out into the
Atlantic Ocean after a late spring and
summer in Chesapeake Bay. Anglers
drift fishing the
slopes along the
Bay and Lower
reaches of the
tidal tributaries
can enjoy some
great finale
season action
with big croakers.
These fish will
be feeding in
anticipation
of their long
trip into ocean
waters. Double
hook rigs baited
with squid strips
or bloodworms
will remain
the best bait for these late season
croakers. Other baits to try include
shrimp or peeler crab pieces.
Large bluefish surprised anglers
in both Maryland and Virginia
Chesapeake Bay waters last month
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and their catches continue. While
some of these 5 to 7 pound slammers
have been caught in the chum
slicks in Southern Maryland's
Middlegrounds and the Triangle
area, the best recent big bluefish
action has been by trolling.
Big lures may sometimes produce
big catches, however September is
still the time to match lure size to
the predominant size of bait in the
waters being fished. Shiners and
medium size Alewives are among
the more prevalent baitfish in most
Chesapeake Bay and tributary waters,
so mid-size Tony Accettas and #2
Clark spoons are some of the best
options to fish with. Spanish mackerel
will hit the Clark and smaller Tony
Acettas or crippled alewife spoons,
however drone spoons are favorites
for the mackerel this month.
Mix up the colors of the lures for
blues, mackerel and stripers to see
which ones get the most attention.
When the fish are near the surface,
just a few ounces of in-line sinker are
needed with 25 to 30 feet of 30 pound
test leader. Planers in #1 or #2 sizes
will also work well when trolling.
Enjoy the relaxation of fishing and
enjoy the fall with cooler weather.
Until that cooler air sets in, enjoy
fishing early or late in the day.
Mike Agnew and son Tom have
enjoyed the 2011 croaker catches.
Photo courtesy of Chelly Scala
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September 2011
27
Walter Dean Myers, One Hundred Books Later
N
By Sarah C. Honenberger
o high school
dropout or selfproclaimed street
scrapper could
have predicted
that fifty years later he’d end up
on a stage in rural Virginia telling
the story of his checkered youth
to an auditorium of children and
adults on a steamy summer day.
But on August 1 Walter Dean Myers,
nationally acclaimed author, related
his journey before a rapt audience
as a guest of the Northumberland
Public Library. Many listeners
were familiar with his blunt, but
optimistic voice, from his 100 plus
award-winning young adult (YA)
novels about teenagers in trouble.
In characteristic self-deprecation
he described his troubled
youth and his journey to
self-realization through
writing. “Despite 11
years of speech therapy,
when I spoke, everyone
laughed. When they
laughed, I’d fight. I
liked to play basketball,
baseball, but I had a
talent for fighting. I
stopped fighting after I
lost a few fights. Writing
was just something to
do in my spare time.”
Myers attributes
early failures to his
“15 year-old brain.”
When his uncle died,
his father was depressed, and his
family fell apart. Foster parents in
Harlem raised him. He read all the
time. “My sister complained that
I read in the bathroom.” Poised to
quit school at fifteen, he remembers
one teacher’s advice. “She told
me no matter what I did, keep on
writing.” After an army stint and
factory work, he published his first
book at 29. That hobby-turnedcareer made him a millionaire. His
constant appetite for books meant
that he had enough of an academic
background to turn his life around.
“The idea of being an artist starts
with having your own voice and
strengthening that voice.” He takes
a pen and notebook wherever he
goes. Sixty years old, Myers is now
at a point where he can write what
he likes. “I try to do the best I can.
I love the process.” Five books will
be released this year, including
Kick, co-written with Ross, a young
writer who emailed after reading
one of his novels. Myers’s themes
explore tough decisions faced by
city kids, where parents are missing
or create additional challenges.
To emphasize the hard work of
writing, Myers explained his hands
have typed so long they require
regular therapy and aspirin. Typically
he has three books going at once.
“At 5 a.m. I feed my wife’s ugly cat.”
He starts on Book #1, five pages
daily. Afternoons are Book # 2 and
evenings, he plans Book # 3. Each
book requires a month of outlining.
“From 9 to 12 I irritate my wife. She’s
fun to irritate.” He conceded that she
helps by creating photo murals of
people and places for each novel.
Currently he’s planning a novel
about the Bedford Boys, charged with
protecting black soldiers at Normandy
in a segregated army. For research
he reads newspapers from library
archives and interviews veterans.
Myers believes education is the
pathway to opportunity, but notes
that job opportunities are not as
plentiful today. He speaks regularly
with young people in prison. “Those
kids want the same things we wanted,
jobs, families, houses.” Recently
honored with the first Coretta Scott
King Lifetime Achievement Award,
he’s received every major award for
children’s literature. “I want to touch
the lives of my readers, to give hope
to those kids like the ones I knew.”
Sarah Collins Honenberger lives
and writes fiction in Tappahannock.
Her award-winning novels include
White Lies (2006), Waltzing Cowboys
(2009), and Catcher, Caught (2010).
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28
Books in Style~I Found the Key
I
By Sarah Collins Honenberger
f you know Buzzie the Clown
from Callao, you know Greta
Baker Ward’s infectious
smile. And her unusual jest
for life. That enthusiasm
extends to her percussion spot in The
Praise Band, her line dancing at area
nursing homes, and her children’s
book series. Ward’s latest book is
different. Over two decades ago she
was abducted and raped. I Found the
Key: Love and Forgiveness in the Face
of Evil is a memoir, one day in her life,
the kind of day you don’t ever forget.
The author’s faith sustained her
through that day and inspired this
57 page journal of her thoughts and
emotions after she made the decision
to pick up a hitchhiker. He looked
like every college kid she’d ever
known, headed home to his parents.
Ward’s narrative, interspersed with
passages from the Bible, recites the
gruesome experience and the wonder
of God’s love,
which she believes
saved her from
being murdered. In easy prose
Ward conveys the
circumstances that
put her in harm’s
way. A story within
a story, I Found the
Key describes the
harrowing twist
that changed a
Samaritan’s kindness
into an opportunity
for evil to manifest
itself. Unusual in its
lack of graphic detail,
Ward’s scenes are
sharp and chilling
in their simplicity. Despite the horror
of her direct recitation of events
that day, her own particular blend
of optimism and understated grace
radiates in these 14 short chapters. Astra Publishers
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With bible verses
and personal
reflections Ward
relates her ability to
forgive and the rapist’s
inability to commit
the murder he’d
planned as examples
of God’s lesson of
forgiveness begetting
forgiveness. Through
her faith Ward was
able to move beyond
bitterness and anger
at the stranger to a
stronger commitment
to Jesus. Familiar with
books as pathways
to share experiences,
Ward hopes that
other women who have suffered
similar traumas will be moved
to let God work through them
toward forgiveness and release.
Since the book’s publication by
the author earlier this year, she
has spoken about these issues to
several Northern Neck groups and
hopes to continue to use the book
as a vehicle to spread the Word. Parental advisory: This
book is for adults.
Sarah Collins Honenberger writes
mostly fiction and loves to ‘talk
books.’ Her third novel, Catcher,
Caught, is set in Tappahannock
and is available online and at
bookstores; locally at Twice Told
Tales and the Essex County Historical
Museum. She will be speaking at the
Chesapeake Bay Writers’ September
15 meeting in Williamsburg.
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Hard Decisions~Euthanasia and Your Pet
A
By Colleen Morgan, DVM
t the risk of making my
readers sad, it seems
that many people want
to see an article about
euthanasia. I can tell
you my feelings on the subject and
how Homecare Vet goes about it.
There is no set list of rules about
when to help our furry friends out of
their misery. If your pets end up with
a painful disease where they can’t
walk, won’t eat and are never going
to improve, the decision is pretty
easy—yes it’s time. Oftentimes it’s
not so black and white. The slowly
declining pet is the tougher one to
decide. The three main conditions I
see are old cats with declining kidney
function, dogs with hip or knee pain
and brain dementia. Questions I ask
are: 1. Can the pet get up and walk
without assistance? 2. Are they still
happy to interact with you? 3. Are they
still eating and drinking normally?
Answering no to any of these is a
pretty sure bet that it’s probably
time. This being said, don’t forget the
importance of having a veterinarian
check to make sure the problems
can’t be resolved. In my experience,
the brain dementia and blind patients
are the toughest call. They get lost,
they pace endlessly, they urinate
and defecate all over the house, but
once you touch them or put a bowl
of food down, they are happy. This
decision I must leave to the family,
with the understanding that I fully
support any decision they make.
On to how we do it. As you know,
Homecare Vet is a full-service
mobile unit—basically a hospital
on wheels. After arriving at your
house, we like to take care of the
business end first, before emotions
get even tougher. This means entering
your chart information, getting a
permission form signed, and paying
the bill—our price to date is $250.
Our next step is to go in and spend
a few minutes saying hello to the
pet, then we give a strong sedative
that just slips in under the skin. We
go back to the unit and give you
some time to spend with your pet
while they are getting very relaxed
and sleepy. Once we are sure the
pet is comfortable and relaxed, we
use a butterfly catheter to inject the
euthanasia solution. The actual name
of the drug is Pentobarbitol. Back
when I first got out of school—26
years ago—Pentobarbitol was used
in pets and people to induce “sleep”
before intubation and surgery. This
means we know exactly how it feels—
it’s that countdown from 100 where
you never get past 97, no matter how
hard you try. The difference is that
we continue to give the medication
to a dose that will stop the heart
and respiration. Since it is first an
anesthetic, the use of Pentobarbitol
ensures that your pet is completely
Peake into Life~A Soulful Connection
W
By Tara Ann Neville
hen I think of my
growing years,
I remember the
swim meets and
soccer games. I
remember loving pizza and wearing
Jordache jeans. I recall the faces of my
older “crushes”. One of my strongest
memories is not an event or an
occasion—it is a feeling—a feeling of
unconditional love. One of my best
friend's mother always seemed to be
intuitively aware of a little girl's needs
and concerns. She always asked the
right questions and say the right
things when I felt alone. There were
plenty of cool moms, I noticed, but
this mom was beyond cool—she was
special. I found myself wanting to be
with her as much as I could without
hurting my own mother's feelings. As
I grew into a teenager, I spent many
evenings at her kitchen table—my
friend, her mom and I sipped iced
tea and talked. My friend would
get bored and leave the room, but
I'd stay, talking with her mom. She
was my “mom” too, I felt. She was a
confident, a friend, a mentor and,
when boys came into the picture, she
was a counselor. There was nothing I
didn't share with her. And, she loved
me anyway. I know she loved me
because she lit up when she saw me
and she always answered my calls—
no matter the time of night. I know
she loved me because she opened her
home to me anytime I needed a place
to go. She held my hand as I walked
into adulthood, found love and got
married. When I was a nervous new
mom to a little boy, she calmed me
down with stories of the early days
with her son. She made me feel as if
what I was saying really mattered. She
validated my feelings. Yet, she always
found a way to interject her opinion
and advise—most of which I took to
heart. Despite the generation between
us and having our own family, I
always felt we are connected at our
most basic level. As time has moved
on, my oldest is almost 16 now, I have
less frequent phone talks and even
fewer visits with my second mom.
But, she is never out of my mind.
Whenever I think of my childhood,
or explain my own growing years
to my kids, it undoubtedly includes
story after story of shared experiences
with her and brings a giant smile to
my face each time. We have a soulful
connection that gave me confidence
asleep before everything stops—no
awareness at all. Once the injection
is complete, I check for a heartbeat
or breathing. Normally, all has
stopped before I even remove the
injection. We then slip out quietly,
or help you get the pet to the burial
site. If you have opted for cremation,
we take the body for transfer to the
cremation service. Cremation does
cost more, based on weight, but we
take the pet and after cremation,
bring the ashes back to you.
Again, this information is based
on my opinions and how Homecare
Vet goes through this difficult time
with you. It’s always better to talk
with your vet and make plans as
soon as you see your pet’s quality of
life declining. It’s hard enough going
through euthanasia, but it’s even
worse if you are scrambling to plan
when you’re already out of time.
Contact Dr. Colleen Morgan, at 804815-7616 or www.hvsdoc.com
and strength during the most trying
times. She gave me the courage to
be who I am and not be ashamed,
yet inspired me to want to be better
all the time. I was given her love and
companionship because I needed it
and am grateful for her sincerity and
patience. To share a second mom
with a second family has been one
of the greatest blessings of my life.
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September 2011
30
Cooking with Style by Betty B.
D
on't put that grill
away yet. It's still
grilling time. As
a matter of fact,
some people
grill all year long.
Why fire up the grill for just the
meat; grill your vegetables too.
Grilled Shrimp
Ingredients:
2 sticks of butter or margarine
2 cups of water
1 cup of sugar
1 teaspoon of salt
2 tablespoons of
minced garlic
1 pound of peeled
shrimp with tails on.
In a medium sauce
pan, melt margarine
in water. Add sugar,
salt and garlic. Simmer
for about 10 minutes
until the sugar
dissolves. Remove
the mixture from the heat and
let cool for about 5 minutes.
Add shrimp and stir, coating them
thoroughly with the mixture.
Place pan in the refrigerator,
allow the margarine to harden
again. Skewer the shrimp and
grill. Do not overcook or they will
toughen. As you are grilling, brush
the excess liquid mixture on the
Restaurateur Wanted
shrimp to add additional flavor.
Grilled Summer Vegetable Medley
(Makes 8 - 1 cup servings)
2 tablespoons of olive oil
1 tablespoon minced fresh parsley
3 garlic cloves, minced
One-half teaspoon lemon
pepper seasoning
1 large onion, sliced
1 pound whole fresh mushrooms
1 medium red pepper cut into
one-fourth inch slices
1 medium zucchini cut into chunks
1 medium eggplant cut into chunks
1 medium yellow squash
cut into chunks
Combine olive oil, garlic, parsley
and lemon pepper seasoning in
medium bowl. Place mushrooms,
onion, red pepper slices, eggplant,
zucchini and yellow squash on a
large piece of aluminum foil.
Drizzle olive oil and seasoning
mixture evenly over vegetables.
Seal foil tightly. Grill covered
over medium-high heat for
10-15 minutes on each side.
Vegetables will be crisp-tender.
Contributed by Diana Wise
Grandma Schrupps Dill Pickle
Recipe
3 quarts Water
1 quart apple
cider vinegar
1 cup canning/
pickling salt
cucumbers and dill
pinch of alum to
each jar, add just
before sealing
garlic (optional)
touch of sugar
(optional)
slices of onions
(optional)
Pack cucumbers in jars, putting
a head of dill in the bottom of
the jar and another piece of dill
when you have the jar half filled
with cucumbers. Boil water,
vinegar and salt—touch of sugar,
optional—together and pour over
the cucumbers in the jars and
Add a pinch of Alum to each jar.
Seal the jars and process in a hot
water bath about 10 minutes, just long
enough to be sure jars are sealed.
You can also add onion slices and
garlic to each jar, if desired.
Recipes kitchen tested and
photographed by Diana Wise.
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Photos in Style
Male hummingbird protecting his territory. The others come to
the feeder, this bird flies around and chases them away or takes
a drink, leaves and comes right back. Deborah Figg photo.
Reedville Fishermen's Museum
Boats for Sale~List is subject to change
1990 21 foot Sunbird fiberglass O/B 200 HP
Johnson, good condition. Asking $2700.
1985 Bayliner 18 foot Capri 2.1 liter
Volvo I/O with trailer. Asking $2000
1934 Hartge built Chesapeake 20’ Sail boat
and trailer, glass over wood. Asking $4000.
1971 20 foot Highlander
Sailboat and 1998 Venture
Trailer. Asking $2700
1992 Yamaha jetski with trailer.
Asking $300
Not Shown
1985 Mistral
Equipe Windsurfer.
1971 Windjammer 17 foot fiberglass sailboat
Homebuilt 8 foot row/sail dinghy with
Asking $300
w/1997 Venture trailer. Asking $1600
oars, sail and rigging. Asking $550.
Not Shown
If interested, please contact Committee Chairman Clif Ames through the RFM 804-453-6529
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