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Written By WavErlEy traininG & EvEnts The Big STory geneSiS To revelaTion Discover the Bible’s overarching story and link your life to God’s strategic plan for the renewal of creation 12-16 March 2012 inTroducTion To BiBlical counSelling Understand people from a biblical perspective and help them get to the root of their problems 19–23 March 2012 The passionate, warm and immensely practical words of the apostle Paul to the fledgling church in Thessalonica form the subject of Jeff’s studies this issue. As a parent cares for his children, Paul longs for these new Christians to live faithfully and avoid error. The times and culture are different, but the challenges and opportunities of being human remain the same. As we join Jeff in reading Paul’s encouragements, we too are inspired to stay true to the risen Jesus, who will be faithful to us to the end. Life Every Day is written bimonthly by Jeff Lucas to help you apply the Bible to your everyday life. Through laughter and tears, and his customary wit and wisdom, Jeff will help you day by day to gain insight, understanding and practical application from God’s Word. Expect to be challenged, encouraged, entertained and confronted. (You can also follow Jeff daily with current updated comments on the notes on www.facebook.com/jefflucasuk) jeff lucas JAN/FEB 2012 All saints JAN/FEB 2012 y a D y Ever Website: www.cwr.org.uk Email: [email protected] PRICE: £2.85 International author, speaker and broadcaster, Jeff Lucas also holds a pastoral teaching position at Timberline Church in Colorado, a church that has grown to 10,000 members. PreParaTion for Marriage Explore key issues and build a solid foundation for your marriage 23–25 March 2012 pens 3–6s topz 7–11s yp’s 11–15s All saints mettle 14–18s cover to cover Every Day www.cwr.org.uk/training Inspiring Women Every Day for more information visit: every day with jesus Other CWR daily BIBLE-reading notes Tel. 01252 784719 Applying God’s Word to everyday life and relationships LOLED JF 12_cover.indd 1 a p p ly i n g t h e b i b l e t o l i f e 26/8/11 10:13:17 Call me odd if you like, but I’m an avid reader – of church newsletters. I’m privileged to find myself speaking in a variety of different congregations and denominations. One of the best ways of finding out about the church I’m with is to scan their news sheet, especially the ‘Word from the Minister’ section, which often reveals a lot about where the church is at on their journey. As we turn to Paul’s first epistle to the Thessalonians, think of it as a letter from a minister to his congregation. Paul wrote not as a local pastor at Thessalonica, but as the apostle who founded the church there, laid its foundations and endured opposition in the city (from some elements within the congregation and opponents of the faith). What we’ll discover is passionate, warm and immensely practical, as Paul writes as a parent to his children (1 Thess. 2:7,11). This church, planted in the middle of the first century, lived in a culture very different from our own. But the challenges and opportunities of being human remain the same. Paul urges his ‘dear children’ towards faithfulness to Christ. As we listen in on their conversation, may we be inspired to stay true to the risen Jesus, who will be faithful to us to the end. Thank God – He is going to stick with us! P.S. Join in the conversation on Facebook for a further comment on each day’s notes – live and added daily … www.facebook.com/jefflucasuk is based at Waverley Abbey House in Farnham, Surrey, and is committed to enabling people to apply God’s Word to their everyday lives and relationships. We pray that Life Every Day will inspire you to get to grips with the Bible in a whole new way and help you grow in your understanding and spiritual life. Be prepared to be challenged and to laugh – and meet God through His Word every day. You can find further information about CWR’s worldwide ministry at www.cwr.org.uk and don’t forget you can visit the Life Every Day readers’ forum at www.cwr.org.uk/forum LOLED JF 12_cover.indd 2 Contemplate the mystery and majesty of the Messiah These six studies for Lent examine the way Jesus fulfils Old Testament ‘types’ and looks at His key ‘I am’ statements in the Gospel of John, to reveal something fresh of the mystery and majesty of the Christ who came to redeem us. Ideal for individual or small-group use. cover to cover lent Study guide: Magnificent Jesus by Wendy virgo 84-page booklet, 148x210mm isBn: 978-1-85345-621-3 £6.99 renew your spiritual strength day by day Each of our new devotional books for older people contains 30 selected Bible passages, encouraging reflections and suggested prayers. Clear, simple layouts with Bible readings printed in full make these devotionals engaging and easy to use. by rita Mclaughlan 32-page booklets, 153x231mm new every day – god’s unfailing love isBn: 978-1-85345-650-3 new every day – god’s great faithfulness isBn: 978-1-85345-651-0 £4.99 strengthen your prayer life with a deeper understanding of how Jesus prayed Take a closer look at Jesus’ prayers and you’ll be surprised at the depth and breadth of what He prayed – and how He prayed. Seven sessions with icebreakers, discussion starters and leader’s notes make this guide ideal for both small-group and individual use. cover to cover Study guide: Prayers of Jesus – hearing his heartbeat by Peter Hicks 72-page booklet, 148x210mm isBn: 978-1-85345-647-3 £3.99 Enjoy freedom from both legalism and lawlessness Explore in depth the apostle Paul’s complex and passionate letter on freedom from religion, and living a life by the Spirit that is both free and righteous. Icebreakers, discussion starters and more make this guide perfect for both small-group and individual use. cover to cover Study guide: galatians – freedom in christ by John Houghton 72-page booklet, 148x210mm isBn: 978-1-85345-648-0 £3.99 Prices correct at time of printing and exclusive of p&p available online at www.cwr.org.uk/store or call +44 (0)1252 784710 – also available from Christian bookshops 26/8/11 10:13:20 Written By jeff lucas JAN/FEB 2012 y a D y Ever All saints Copyright © CWR 2011 Published 2011 by CWR, Waverley Abbey House, Waverley Lane, Farnham, Surrey GU9 8EP, UK Tel: 01252 784700 Email: [email protected] Registered Charity No. 294387 Registered Limited Company No. 1990308 Front cover image: Getty Images/Cultura/Les and Dave Jacobs Concept development, editing, design and production by CWR. Printed in England by Linney Print. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without the prior permission in writing of CWR. Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture references are from the Holy Bible: New International Version (NIV), copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by the International Bible Society. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 1 26/8/11 10:07:11 how to get the best out of life every day LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 2 26/8/11 10:07:12 01 JAN of Acts 17:1–3 // Acts 17:10 Beginnings Paul was a tactician; he knew that Thessalonica, about 100 miles from Philippi, was a strategic city. Located on some important trade routes, it had a bustling harbour and was a thriving business centre. Greece’s second largest city, with a population of 200,000, this was an ideal hub for sharing the Christian message in that area. Paul launched his work by speaking at the local synagogue, his usual practice (Acts 14:1; 17:10). And on his way to Thessalonica, he didn’t stop to preach in Amphipolis or Apollonia, probably because those cities had no synagogues. Paul reasoned with the synagogue-goers – the word used here means dialogue. As Jews, they were already immersed in the big story of Scripture. They worshipped the One God and had expectations of Messiah’s coming. Paul didn’t just preach at people, but talked with them. When it comes to sharing our faith, let’s listen as well as talk. Let’s not ignore or discount the spiritual experiences of others. And let’s start where people are. ... let’s listen as well as talk LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 3 To ponder: Why is dialogue with people harder than preaching at them? 26/8/11 10:07:12 MON 02 JAN Healthy church BIG PICTURE Acts 17:4 Acts 2:42–47 Focus ‘Some of the Jews were persuaded and joined Paul and Silas, as did a large number of Godfearing Greeks and not a few prominent women.’ (Acts 17:4) Growth is natural where there is health ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 4 It had been a full day of speaking, but I’d enjoyed the conference. I was heading back for a break when one of the delegates approached me. ‘The church you’re part of it – it’s big, isn’t it?’ he asked. ‘One of those megachurches, is it?’ The tone of his voice made it obvious that he wasn’t terribly pleased that Timberline Church has grown substantially in the last decade. He managed to make ‘megachurch’ sound like a disease. As Luke describes the first three weeks of missional work in Thessalonica, he reports, without hesitation, on the growth of the fledgling congregation there. He mentions the ‘large number’ ... and also records that ‘not a few prominent women’ believed in Christ. Unconcerned by the potential charge that he was more interested in the influential than the ‘nobodies’, Dr. Luke is delighted to report: the church was growing. Not every church can be large, or needs to be. That’s especially true in rural communities. An incredible impact is made when there are just thirty or so people gathering in a village church – which might represent half the total population! And some labour for years without seeing any obvious fruit – Hudson Taylor is an example. But let’s not be disparaging about larger churches, writing them off as entertainment centres, only good at pulling a crowd. Growth is natural where there is health and, if we’re missionally focused and perhaps in a metropolitan area with a large population like Thessalonica, then we should pray, work and hope for numerical growth. Prayer: Lord, bless the church that I call home. May we be effective in reaching people with words and works that declare Your love. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:12 A close friend of mine says that it is one of the sins that he fears most, because it has such a power to destroy. It leads some Christian leaders to launch vitriolic attacks on each other, volleying Scripture-laden accusations over the internet. It can tear a previously close worship group apart, or create a huge schism in a formerly united leadership team. It motivates unwarranted sniping about the more successful church across town. Corporate boardrooms, sports teams and marriages can all succumb to this aggressive virus, which creates chaos and trouble wherever it infects. Courtrooms will be busy today because of it. What sin am I talking about? Jealousy. Apparently bitter because some potential synagogue converts were choosing to follow Christ, some of the Jews in the city decided to launch an attack on the church. It wasn’t a doctrinal dispute or an argument over money that sparked opposition – but envy. Some believe that the jealousy might have come from Jewish teachers who were envious of the response Paul had received. Jealousy – where we become bitter because others have what we want – is the soil in which terrible weeds grow – ‘disorder and every evil practice’, according to James. The jealous will accuse unjustly. As Shakespeare put it, ‘For oft, my jealousy shapes faults that are not’. May God give us grace when others succeed in areas where we have failed, or prosper beyond what we have enjoyed. May we recognise jealousy for what it is – and fight it. TUES 03 JAN Jealousyfuelled conflict BIG PICTURE Acts 17:5 James 3:13–18 Focus ‘But other Jews were jealous; so they rounded up some bad characters from the market-place, formed a mob and started a riot in the city.’ (Acts 17:5) Prayer: Lord, save me from envy and jealousy. Help me to celebrate others’ successes – especially when they are more successful than I am. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 5 26/8/11 10:07:12 WED 04 JAN Jealousy thinly disguised BIG PICTURE Acts 17:6–9 Mark 15:1–15 Focus ‘These men who have caused trouble ... have now come here, and Jason has welcomed them ... They are all defying Caesar’s decrees, saying that there is another king ... Jesus.’ (Acts 17:6–7) Jealousy usually disguises itself ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 6 Jealousy usually disguises itself and when religious people get jealous, they often resort to pious carping, using shrill tones and inflammatory language to veil their real motives. Obviously Paul had been teaching about the kingdom of God – which is the main message of the New Testament. The Jews who attacked the young believers in Thessalonica were jealous of the success that Paul and his team were enjoying, but they phrased their complaint with insincere words that implied they were deeply concerned about allegiance to Caesar as king. The original Greek of their accusation uses a word that describes a terrorist leading a revolt. This was an accusation of high treason, and one that would have placed the lives of the new Christians at risk. Treason was a capital offence. It’s tough when you’re attacked by people who are sanctimonious hypocrites, but that was one of the first obstacles that the church at Thessalonica had to overcome. Early in their history, they learned that being slandered is part of the deal when you’re a follower of Christ. And sometimes innocents get especially singled out for attack, like Jason here. He is mentioned nowhere else in the New Testament, so we have no idea who he was. The apostolic team, who were bringing good news of peace with God through Christ, were maligned as troublemakers. Is someone attacking you, and making it sound as if they are full of integrity as they do so? That’s tough to take – but not dissimilar to what new converts had to cope with in Thessalonica. Prayer: When I am criticised by people who use religious terms and pious words, help me to be gracious, gracious God. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:13 CWR ministry events Please pray for the team Date Event Place Presenter(s) 9–10 Jan Leaders’ Time Out Waverley Abbey House Philip Greenslade & Andy Peck 14 Jan Counselling Training Enquirers’ Morning WAH CWR team 7 Feb More Than You Can Handle Alone WAH Lynn Penson 10 Feb Helping Survivors of Childhood Sexual and/or Emotional Abuse WAH Heather Churchill 17–19 Feb Bible Discovery Weekend – Mark’s GospelWAH Philip Greenslade 18 Feb Small Group Leader’s Toolbox WAH Andy Peck 28 Feb The Bible in a Day WAH Andy Peck 29 Feb Headteachers’ seminar WAH Coleen Jackson Please also pray for students and tutors on our ongoing BA in Counselling programme at Waverley and our Certificate and Diploma of Christian Counselling and MA in Integrative Psychotherapy held at London School of Theology. Waverley Spring Programme For spring 2012 we have planned a variety of residential courses at Waverley to help you to grow in God and be equipped to help others. 9–11 Mar Women’s Weekend of Spiritual Refreshing with the Women at Waverley Team 12–16 Mar The Big Story with Philip Greenslade 19–23 Mar Introduction to Biblical Care and Counselling with the CWR team 26–30 Mar Pastoral Care in the Local Church with Stuart Pascall & Lynn Penson We look forward to welcoming you! For full details phone 01252 784719, international +44 (0)1252 784719 or see the CWR website for further information www.cwr.org.uk LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 7 26/8/11 10:07:13 THURS 05 JAN Life is a mixture BIG PICTURE Acts 17:10 1 Thessalonians 2:17 Focus ‘As soon as it was night, the believers sent Paul and Silas away to Berea. On arriving there, they went to the Jewish synagogue.’ (Acts 17:10) Don’t wait for perfect days to dawn ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 8 I’d like a perfect life. I sometimes catch myself dreaming about waking up one day with no mortgage, being totally up to date with all my emails, feeling rested, at the peak of physical condition and stepping on the scales to discover that I’m at my ideal weight. Oh, and the sun would be shining in a brilliant blue sky – but, it being the perfect day, I wouldn’t get sunburned. Life isn’t like that. Paul and his team had enjoyed great success in Thessalonica, as some key people in the city were won for Christ – but at the same time they faced terrible opposition. So fierce were Paul’s opponents in that city, they would travel far and wide to harass him (see 17:13–14; 21:27). Notice that Paul showed some practical wisdom when the rabble were running around town looking for blood. He and his companions hid, escaping by night and heading 45 miles or so to Berea, where they found a more open-minded reception. But this must have been a difficult day, both for the Thessalonian Christians, brand-new in their faith, and for Paul himself. He writes about being ‘torn away’ from them. It’s a strong word he uses here: it is only used once in the New Testament and means ‘orphaned’. Paul felt like he’d been ripped away from his family. Great joy and deep sorrow were mingled in the same season. Don’t wait for perfect days to dawn, in order to be content – in reality, they are rare. Live fully today in the knowledge that we all do life and faith in a mixture of circumstances. Be thankful to God in the midst of life as it is, not as we’d like it to be. Prayer: Lord, help me to learn the secret of contentment so, whatever the mixture of joy and pain in my life, I live to the full each day. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:14 I’ve been pondering the amazing commitment of the Victorian missionaries. It’s said that when those pioneers bade farewell to their home shores and set off to take the message of Jesus across the world, they took their coffins with them. They knew that they were probably not coming back and they literally laid down their whole lives to serve the Lord. Their dedication was epic. Often they didn’t see much fruit, labouring for years without seeing a single convert. But there is another side to this – there are times of incredible fruitfulness, where amazing results come rapidly. That’s what happened for Paul and his team in Thessalonica. They were only preaching in the synagogue for three weeks (‘three Sabbaths’) but a church was established, one that would be strong and flourish. In days, a city was hugely impacted. Don’t underestimate what can be accomplished by small actions in a short time. And this isn’t just about epic missionary endeavours. A simple act of kindness here, a word of encouragement there – a burden shared, a gift given ... God is able to multiply the small things we do and make them have an impact, as that young lad found when he surrendered his lunch to Jesus. Often we will never know the result of a small gesture or a caring word; eternity alone will reveal the effect of what seemed like inconsequential acts of goodness. As we turn to Paul’s letters to the Thessalonians, let’s keep in mind the mighty God who was at work in that city – and is at work where we live too. FRI 06 JAN Much achieved BIG PICTURE Acts 17:1–10 Matthew 14:13–21 Focus ‘... and on three Sabbath days he reasoned with them from the Scriptures.’ (Acts 17:2) Prayer: Mighty God, thank You that You are able to multiply the effect of small, good decisions that I make today. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 9 26/8/11 10:07:14 07/08 JAN Acts 18:1–5 // 1 Thessalonians 3:6 Friendships of depth When you care about people, you worry when you don’t know how they are. Paul’s hasty departure from Thessalonica meant that he was concerned about what trouble he might have left behind. Knowing that Jason had been hauled out by the mob must have preyed on his mind – and so Timothy was sent to find out how things were. Timothy’s reunion with Paul (by now in Corinth) and the message he brought from the Thessalonian church was revealing: ‘He has told us that you always have pleasant memories of us and that you long to see us, just as we also long to see you’ (1 Thess. 3:6). Timothy was bubbling over with enthusiasm about the faith and love of the Thessalonians, and their warmth towards Paul: the word used here literally means ‘he came back evangelising about you’ – the only time in the New Testament that the idea is not used in connection with sharing the faith. I’m challenged by all this: would my love and faith cause someone to want to boast excitedly about me? May our love for God – and each other – be of such depth that we’re worth shouting about. I’m challenged by all this ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 10 To ponder: Do you have friends who are worth ‘shouting about’? Why? 26/8/11 10:07:14 It happens from time to time – like yesterday. A spiteful email arrived, loaded with vague, generalised criticisms that were difficult to respond to but laced with the clear message: the sender does not like me at all. I’m blessed to receive plenty of encouragement but I’m still disappointed by my vulnerability to unkind words. Constructive criticism is helpful: acerbic attacks are hurtful. It messed up my day. I decided to respond with warmth and grace (which, frankly, was not what I wanted to do). I’m still not sure if I got it right. Sometimes unkind people need to be told firmly that their behaviour is unacceptable. But on the basis that ‘a gentle answer turns away wrath’ (Prov. 15:1), I decided to take that approach. Paul had been heavily criticised in Thessalonica. Some of the believers there were hurt because, following his hasty exit under cover of darkness, he’d not been able to return. His motives were questioned. But he responded with words of grace and peace. His opening words of greeting were formed in the accepted form of letter writing of the day, but look beyond the protocol and see him reaching out in warmth to some who have been quite unkind. Notice that he includes Silas in the greeting. This is probably the same Silas who had joined Paul in his midnight hymn singing. Perhaps it’s true that when you’ve sat on what might have been Death Row, a little criticism doesn’t matter too much. When under attack, ask for grace to respond gently. It might prevent a full-on war. MON 09 JAN Responding to hurt BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 1:1–2 Proverbs 15:1–2 Focus ‘Paul, Silas and Timothy, To the church of the Thessalonians in God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ: Grace and peace to you.’ (1 Thess. 1:1) Prayer: Father, help me to respond, not to react, in tough situations where I’m criticised. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 11 26/8/11 10:07:14 TUES 10 JAN We Christians can be a strange lot. Thanking a minister for a sermon, a lady was surprised to find that he responded to her encouragement with a mild rebuke. Encouragement Pointing heavenward, he blustered, ‘No, madam, please give Him the glory. It was the Lord.’ Wrinkling her nose, she replied, ‘Actually, it wasn’t that good ...’ We all need encouragement. I’ve been to churches where people serve quietly and faithfully for years – and BIG PICTURE seldom does anyone take a moment to thank them. 1 Thessalonians 1:2–3 Perhaps it is assumed that they do what they do for 1 Thessalonians 5:1–11 Jesus, and therefore no human appreciation is needed. But that’s wrong. Paul certainly didn’t take that view, but Focus ‘We always thank God rather praises his friends in Thessalonica for their work, for all of you, mentioning faith, hope, endurance and love. Endurance here means you in our prayers.’ ‘bearing up under a heavy load’. Paul frequently talks (1 Thess. 1:2) about faith, hope and love together. We are all going to encounter people today who carry heavy burdens – not just within the church. A kind word of thanks, or a note of appreciation, can bring strength to the struggling. Why not aim to encourage two or three people sincerely today? If we’re unsure of what to say, Paul’s beautiful sentence, ‘I thank God for you’, is a great place to start. And it’s not just leaders who should take that responsibility for expressing appreciation. Encouragement is a responsibility we all share. And if someone brings thanks and encouragement to you, accept their words with grace. We do what we do for the glory of God – but that same God knows that we all need to be cheered on once in a while. We do what we do for the glory of God ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 12 Prayer: Lord, help me to use the opportunities I have today to strengthen and encourage others. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:14 It was an idea that blew a fuse in my brain – God’s choosing of us, or the doctrine of election. The Church has been arguing about this for centuries, and I don’t think I’m going to resolve the issue here in a few words! But, at first glance, it seems that if God has ‘picked’ some people to be saved, then that means that He has picked others not to be saved – some are effectively ‘selected’ for eternal rejection. I don’t buy that. If the offer is made to any and all to come, then that means that the door is wide open – whoever wants to, can. I believe that the key to this is found in the background to the idea of election. God chose Israel as an elect people, as Chris Wright says, ‘not at the expense of the rest of the world, but for the sake of the rest of the world’.1 In other words, God decided to use a people for His purposes – not individuals, but a people together. This truth is beautifully outlined in Deuteronomy 7. We tend to individualise Scripture – so when it talks to us, using the word ‘you’, we think ‘me’ rather than ‘us together’. What God has done is to use the Church, the people of God, as a lighthouse to the world, just as He intended Israel to be the people for His purpose. Just as they were ‘set apart’ for God, so we too are ‘saints’ set apart for His usefulness. God has chosen the Church and everyone is invited to join that chosen people. All are loved by the Lord – and discover His love as they share in the colourful adventure of the people of God together. WED 11 JAN Chosen BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 1:4–5 1 Peter 2:1–10 Focus ‘For we know, brothers loved by God, that he has chosen you.’ (1 Thess. 1:4) Prayer: Father, I’m grateful to be part of the people of such purpose and calling. Amen. 1 C.J.H. Wright, Living as the People of God: the Relevance of Old Testament Ethics (Leicester: IVP, 1983) p.45. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 13 26/8/11 10:07:14 THURS 12 JAN Imitation BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 1:6 1 Corinthians 4:14–16 Focus ‘You became imitators of us and of the Lord; in spite of severe suffering, you welcomed the message with the joy given by the Holy Spirit.’ (1 Thess. 1:6) Challenged? Me too LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 14 I’ve been reminded recently about how much we learn by imitation. Out shopping with my grandson, I sat with him on a bench. I folded my arms. He folded his. I put my sunglasses on. He followed suit. In the development of language, body language and social habits, so much is done by copying. In my early days as a Christian, some fellow Christians would say: ‘Don’t look at us, look at Jesus.’ Obviously they were trying to rescue me from disappointment. New converts can easily develop idealism about the Church, and then be discouraged by the reality that we are all flawed people who are still very much in the process. But, although we are all called to ‘look’ at Christ by faith and focus our attention on Him, God has always wanted His people to be a living demonstration of what life with God looks like. Israel was called to be a lighthouse people, as we saw yesterday. Paul is able to call his readers to be imitators of him and of the Lord. This is not a ‘Do as I say, not as I do’ statement from a hypocritical theorist, strong on ideas but weak on example. Paul was able to use his own life as an example of what the Christian life should be. And he even puts himself first in the sentence – because the first introduction to Jesus the Thessalonians had was through his life. Ultimately the model is Christ, as Paul clarifies in writing to the Corinthians: follow me, as I follow Christ (1 Cor. 11:1). Nevertheless, Paul was able to use himself as a model for others to emulate. Challenged? Me too. Prayer: So work in me, mighty God, that others might find my life a godly example to follow, as I continue to walk with You. 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The use of the word ‘model’ here speaks of the impression made when hammering out a coin. Paul had left his mark on the Thessalonians – now they were making an impression on other believers far and wide. It’s sobering to remember that we all have influence – not just leaders. The ways in which we respond to criticism, use our money, treat our friends and spouses or handle conflict – all of these surely make a mark. But we make the greatest impression by the way in which we handle trial and even persecution. The Thessalonians became a model because they had welcomed the gospel ‘in spite of severe suffering’. I’ve discovered that to be true in my own life in the last couple of years. I’ve attended many conferences and been glad to hear lots of inspiring teaching. But, by far the greatest example to me has been that of friends who have decided to cling tight to Christ in the midst of the darkest trials imaginable. Their lives ‘preach’ to me with unprecedented power, and nudge me towards perseverance, with an eloquence that words alone could never have. Perhaps you’re in a season of terrible suffering right now. I pray that you’ll be encouraged, and not exhausted, by this truth: as you’re faithful, you’re not just surviving – you’re making a mark. Prayer: Lord Jesus, in Your suffering, You showed us how to be faithful. May the pain of those who struggle now strengthen others. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 16 26/8/11 10:07:15 14/15 JAN 1 Thessalonians 1:8 // Hebrews 11:1–40 Faith in God I so enjoyed last year’s royal wedding in London. The television coverage was beautifully done and one of my favourite shots was of Westminster Abbey’s bells pealing after the ceremony. Their beautiful sound was a proclamation of joy. As Paul celebrates the Thessalonians’ faith in God – ‘which had become known everywhere’ – he uses a term which means ‘pealing’ or even ‘thunderclap’. And, as he does, I think of the hall of faith in the book of Hebrews. What a motley group of people are listed there: Father Abraham, and Samson who destroyed his life with his behaviour. Even Rehab the harlot is listed there. ... to trust Him when they don’t understand ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 17 So what is it about faith that counts so much in the sight of God? Perhaps it is the tenacity that causes people to hope in Him in the face of their huge frailties; to trust Him when they don’t understand; to accept His grace when they stumble and fall; and to believe that, however dark life becomes, the light of His love can never be extinguished. Certainly that was true of the Thessalonian Christians, who began following Jesus amongst such fierce opposition. As we trust God, the bells ring. To ponder: Why is authentic faith arresting and appealing? When is faith unattractive and ugly? 26/8/11 10:07:15 MON 16 JAN Turning BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 1:8–9 Acts 9:1–9 Focus ‘They tell how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God.’ (1 Thess. 1:9) People come to God in different ways. Some, like me, had very little Christian influence in their upbringing, only to experience a sudden, cataclysmic conversion. Paul’s headlong fall from his high horse of pharisaic religiosity is probably the most famous example of such a sudden conversion. As he met the risen Christ on the road to Damascus, he had an immediate turnaround. But some believers – in fact most – do not come through crisis conversion. Many are brought up in Christian homes, and have loved Jesus for as long as they can remember. There will have been moments of commitment and connection along the way, but no earth-shattering conversion as such. And that’s fine – what matters is not how we come to God but that we come to God. Whatever the route of our journey, we should realise that turning will always be involved. The believers in Thessalonica had turned from idols to serve the living God. There had been an awakening in their understanding, and they’d switched their loyalties from empty beliefs to the true and living God. The journey of discipleship calls us to navigate many junctions and involves many moments of turning. We turn away from shame, easy living, addiction, gossip, arrogance, to list just a few. Notice that there is not just a turning away from – but a turning to God Himself. Christianity is far more than dumping our armfuls of idols and being left empty. Rather, it means embracing by faith the living Christ who promises to be with us always. Prayer: Lord, when I’m standing at a critical junction of life, help me to make the right turn. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 18 26/8/11 10:07:15 In my early years as a Christian, I devoured many books about the second coming. Most of them are out of print and for good reason. Writers interpreted what was going on around the world at the time, attached significance often to random scriptures and assured us that Jesus would be making an appearance very soon. I know of people who decided against getting an education because they expected Christ to return at any moment. Eventually, disappointment set in with the realisation that the ‘signs’ had been wrongly read. Not that this stopped some prolific authors: they simply amended their manuscripts and brought out further editions. Years later, it seems there are two ways to approach the second coming. One is to be obsessed with it, and embrace a ‘head in the clouds’ mentality that insists long-term planning and work are useless because Jesus’ appearance is imminent. The other is to do the opposite, and virtually ignore the truth of Christ’s return, seeing it as irrelevant. Wearied by fruitless speculation, we just get on with life. Both extremes are wrong. Paul gives the Thessalonians a model to work from with regard to the End Times – he wants them to be working and waiting. In both letters the second coming is mentioned in every chapter, so this is a dominant theme in his thinking. Paul calls us to dig in and work as if the coming of Jesus might not be for another thousand years, but always to keep an eternal perspective, remembering that what we have now is not all that there will be. Prayer: Lord, help me to serve wholeheartedly as if You were not coming yet, and live faithfully as if You were coming today. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 19 TUES 17 JAN Waiting, but working while we wait BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 1:10 1 Corinthians 1:4–9 Focus ‘... and to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead – Jesus, who rescues us from the coming wrath.’ (1 Thess. 1:10) ... what we have now is not all that there will be 26/8/11 10:07:15 WED 18 JAN Responding to false accusation BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:1 2 Corinthians 4:1–6 Focus ‘You know, brothers and sisters, that our visit to you was not without results.’ (1 Thess. 2:1) Confession time – sometimes I don’t challenge people who criticise me, because I just don’t want it to escalate into a fight. In fact, I don’t even want to continue the conversation. An apology is easier. But it’s not always the right way. There is a time to defend ourselves, and defend the integrity of what we’re doing. Paul was obviously insulted in Thessalonica, first by those from outside the church, who sneered at his sudden departure and described his mission as a failure. Those unkind words must then have infected the church, causing some to think that Paul was a charlatan who had abandoned them. And so the words that we will consider over the next few days are Paul’s robust defence in the face of those unfair charges. He refuted the idea that his visit to Thessalonica had been a waste of time and without results, as obviously the current rumours were suggesting. In this situation, not only was he personally under attack, but the power and effectiveness of the Christian message was in question as well. Of course we should be gracious when we’re falsely accused, and sometimes silence and a refusal to get further into the fight is the right way to go. Jesus Himself demonstrated that when He stood silently before His accusers. But there is also a time to give a robust (yet still gracious) reply to those who malign us. If they’re wrong, they’re wrong, and a kind but firm rebuttal might be exactly what is called for, lest those who spread lies continue the practice unchallenged. Prayer: Lord, when I am falsely accused, help me to know when to speak, and when to be silent. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 20 26/8/11 10:07:16 Sometimes I struggle with Paul. He can be a little too blunt at times. I wish he’d been a little more sympathetic to the frailties of others, like John Mark. But I also admire him, not only for his fearlessness (he describes his preaching as bold and courageous in the face of opposition) but for his consistency of life. Look again at the words he shares, and see that he was able to use his own life as a clear example for the gospel. He was able to say to the Thessalonians, ‘You know what I am like’ – and expect a positive response. Perhaps we all have areas of our lives where we struggle and would rather hide the facts from others. Sometimes I meet Christian leaders who are plainly living dual lives. They preach against the use of alcohol, and drink to excess; they applaud others in public, and then sneer about them behind closed doors. Paul seems able to say that, while he was not claiming to be perfect, he was in private what he was in public. He was not looking for the approval of the Thessalonians – more about that tomorrow – but he knew they could attest that he lived the message he spoke so boldly. So much was this the case that Paul doesn’t have to defend himself, but just reminds his friends in Thessalonica of what they knew to be true. At my daughter’s wedding, she stood up and said: ‘My dad is privately what he preaches publicly.’ I cried, and still do when I remember that day, my joy mingled with an awareness of my own many failures. May we be able to say with confidence: ‘You know what I’m like.’ Prayer: Lord, only grace and the work of Your Spirit can make me into the likeness of Christ. Work in me today, I pray. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 21 THURS 19 JAN Integrity that is known BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:2–5 2 Corinthians 11:1–12 Focus ‘You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed – God is our witness.’ (1 Thess. 2:5) … he was in private what he was in public 26/8/11 10:07:16 The importance of Next month Jeff will be travelling to the UK from the USA to contribute to the ‘Honest’ conference, organized by Faithworks. This is being held in Bristol on 10–11 February and Manchester on 17–18 February. He will be joining Steve Chalke and Ruth Dearnley for this event. ‘Honest’ is an opportunity for Christian leaders and activists to gather, question, probe and even confront. The purpose of the conference is: • To see that it really is good to talk and ask some vital questions, such as: - Why does honest conversation matter? - What makes us shrink back from honesty? - What are we afraid of? • To think honestly about the Bible. Can we question and disagree without launching a stoning? LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 22 26/8/11 10:07:16 being honest Lucas on life … • To talk about church – what it is and what it could be. No cheap cynicism or whining here, just a chance to confront the tough issues facing the church we love. • To reflect about leadership. How can we create safe places for leaders to wrestle with the tough challenges that leadership in postChristian Britain presents? • Most importantly, those who attend the conference will talk about what they want to talk about. Much of the agenda will be set by the delegates. Honest is what Jesus was and is. He was honest about the struggles of life, the foibles of religion, the potential and fragility of humanity. Jesus’ honesty delighted some and enraged others. He sent Temple tables tumbling; He enraged the entrenched authorities and enjoyed slap-up meals with the excluded ... All to make it clear that we can come to God just as we are; honestly. Come and join the conversation! For more details go to www.faithworks.info LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 23 26/8/11 10:07:16 FRI 20 JAN Approved by God BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:6 2 Timothy 2:15 Focus ‘We were not looking for praise from people, not from you or anyone else, even though as apostles of Christ we could have asserted our authority.’ (1 Thess. 2:6) Here’s another confession – I like the approval of others. Don’t we all? Sometimes it is for good reasons. If I go to speak at a church or a conference, I know that people have gone to considerable time and effort to make that event happen. So it is important to me to know that I have served them to the best of my ability, and that something has been achieved, by the grace of God. But it is possible to become compulsively insecure, desperate for the approval of others. Then their applause can become more significant than the approval of God. And there are times when we might find ourselves saying things that are unpopular – and not get such a positive response. That happened to me during a visit to a church in the USA. I had been there on numerous occasions and had always been well received. But I felt that I needed to preach a message about what might happen to that church – or indeed any church – were it to resist mission-driven, Spirit-led change. The result was fairly blunt and confrontational, although I tried very hard to speak with kindness. The reaction was horrible. People rushed past me at the end of the service, seemingly desperate to escape as fast as possible – and I was never invited back. I’ve searched my heart over that experience. I might be wrong, but I do feel that I was obedient to what I felt God was saying. Sometimes we have to make a choice: a smile and a ‘Well done’ from God – or one from His people. And the two don’t always go together. Prayer: Father, help me to be confident when criticised for doing right, and responsive when criticised for doing wrong. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 24 26/8/11 10:07:17 21/22 JAN 1 Thessalonians 2:7–9 // 2 Timothy 2:24–25 Gentleness I’m increasingly disturbed by some comments that well-known speakers are making about masculinity. Reacting against what they describe as the feminisation of the Church, they insist that Jesus was a ‘man’s man’. Incredibly, one writer says that he could never worship a Jesus that he could beat up, which is amazing seeing as Jesus was called the Lamb of God who did allow Himself to be beaten up. These are twisted images of masculinity. Paul describes his ministry among the Thessalonians not only as gentle, but as being like a mother who cares for her child. The language used is very tender and caring. This a model for Christian leadership. God is not on the side of aggressive, heavy-handed shepherds – there are still too many reports of spiritual abuse in churches. It also gives us a picture of what a ‘man’s man’ like Paul was really like; not an aggressive macho Rambo figure, but a tender nurse of the flock of God. A good mother is gentle, self-sacrificing and caring. May we be the same – men and women both. ... a tender nurse of the flock of God LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 25 To ponder: What do you think of the statement: ‘I could never worship a Jesus whom I could beat up’? 26/8/11 10:07:17 MON 23 JAN True character BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:10–12 1 Timothy 3:1–7 Focus ‘... encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.’ (1 Thess. 2:12) What does a ‘good’ Christian look like? We’ve all bumped into people who claim to be ‘holy’, but are unkind with it. And we’ve met others who are endlessly and wonderfully serving their neighbours, but seem to have little time for God. Then there are those who are so odd (thinking that strangeness is to be equated with deep spirituality) that they don’t worry too much about what those outside the Church think about them. When their enthusiasm is mocked, they just assume that they are being persecuted for Jesus’ sake. As Paul writes to the church in a city where he has been laughed at and derided, he speaks of three character traits: holiness (which includes pleasing God and being set apart for His purposes); righteousness (which is about doing life justly and caring for our neighbour); and blamelessness (which relates to public reputation). Those who are not Christians might criticise us for our convictions, but shouldn’t be able to point an accusing finger at our character. Paul may have been criticised, but the criticisms were false and without merit. And then he was able to switch metaphors from that of being motherly and speak of the fatherly encouragement he gave to the believers there. I can’t think of a better definition of Christian character: to please God, love people and have a good reputation with outsiders. And Paul was able to say that God Himself was a witness to such character. May the same be said of us. And don’t forget: everyone needs encouragement. Prayer: Lord, may my life be an event that is a sign and a wonder to those who do not know You. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 26 26/8/11 10:07:17 After a 40-hour flight home from Australia recently (I’ll spare you the details), I spent a couple of days in bed recovering from dehydration. I felt weak and ill. This wasn’t just jet-lag and it was all because of insufficient water in my system. Energy drinks helped my recovery. As Paul writes about the transforming power of ‘the word of God’ in the lives of the Thessalonian believers, he talks about the Word being at work within them – the Greek word means ‘energy’. Whenever this word is used in the New Testament, it usually refers to supernatural activity. And that’s exactly what Scripture does. We don’t just read it because that is what good Christians are supposed to do. Instead, as we read, reflect and apply it, so we are nourished, challenged, energised and transformed. In a grimy world where there are 10,000 unclean messages trying to weasel their way into our minds, and thereafter to show up in our behaviour, Scripture is the pure straight edge of God’s truth that builds the muscle of faith. The Holy Spirit is actively at work, shaping us as we bring our hearts and minds to it. No wonder the writer to the Hebrews described it as being ‘living and active’. Let’s be honest, parts of the Bible are less exciting than others. But if we are to be energised to run the marathon of faith, we must make time to read and reflect on Scripture daily. Only then will we ‘run and not grow weary ... walk and not be faint’ (Isa. 40:31). Prayer: Teach me how to feed on Your Word each day, Lord. Strengthen, energise and change me as I do. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 27 TUES 24 JAN The Word at work BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:13 Hebrews 4:12–13 Focus ‘And we also thank God continually because, when you received the word of God ... you accepted it ... as ... the word of God, which is indeed at work in you who believe.’ (1 Thess. 2:13) ... nourished, challenged, energised and transformed 26/8/11 10:07:17 WED 25 JAN Racism BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:14–16 Galatians 3:23–29 Focus ‘You suffered from your own people the same things those churches suffered from the Jews who killed the Lord Jesus.’ (1 Thess. 2:14–15) These words could be dangerously inflammatory, taken out of context. As Paul launches a tirade against the Jews in Thessalonica, he seems to be indulging in an anti-Semitic rant. Some have suggested Paul did not write these words, but that they were inserted later – but there’s no evidence for that at all and no need to assert it. Paul had suffered considerable persecution and had nearly lost his life at the hands of hostile Jewish agitators. That was a fact which he affirms here. And then he states that it was Jews who were involved in Jesus’ trial and execution. Obviously the Romans played an enormous part as well, but it was the Jewish religious leaders who had done everything in their power to get rid of the Christ. And so Paul speaks of this plainly. He says what is true. But he is not condemning a whole race because of the actions of some of its members. Racial prejudice is evil, and the Church has been guilty of it. Martin Luther is lauded as a hero of the Reformation but, as John Stott points out, Luther’s work On the Jews and their Lies (1543) is ‘intemperate’. ‘It is true that his health was declining, not long before his death, and that he was disillusioned over his earlier hopes for the conversion of the Jews. Yet these things do not exonerate him for his diatribe against them, or for his call to set fire to their synagogues, destroy their homes, confiscate their Talmudic books and silence their Rabbis.’2 Too many lives have been damaged by racism. May we celebrate the truth that ethnicity is irrelevant. Prayer: Lord, may not a hint of prejudice be found in me. Amen. 2 LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 28 John Stott, The Message of Thessalonians (Nottingham: IVP, 1991). 26/8/11 10:07:17 There’s been a lot of debate about the nature of hell recently. I welcome this, because it’s good to talk. We should be able to discuss our theological convictions without fear and allow others to compare them to Scripture. But, whatever the outcome of the discussions is, I confess to being worried about Christians who seem to relish the idea of a final hell and damnation for those outside Christ. God’s profound desire is that no one should spend eternity outside His love – He is ‘not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance’ (2 Pet. 3:9). That is why He went to such desperate measures in sending His only Son among us. If that is true, then there’s no room for glee among the people of God at the thought of others being judged. And Paul’s words here about the wrath of God coming upon the Jews can easily be misunderstood, as if he were delighted that they were suffering judgment. Writing around AD 50, he was probably referring to some natural disasters and political upheavals that had taken place, and was interpreting those events as judgment on the Jewish agitators who had been such a threat to the Church. These are not racist words of condemnation against the Jewish people generally but against the tormentors of the Church specifically. Once again, we see the danger of taking Scripture out of context. I’m deliberately labouring the point – don’t let there be even a hint of racism towards any ethnic group in our lives and churches. And, whatever hell is, we shouldn’t be happy about it. On the contrary. THURS 26 JAN Happy about hell? BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:16 2 Peter 3:1–18 Focus ‘The wrath of God has come upon them at last.’ (1 Thess. 2:16) ... not wanting anyone to Prayer: May I live and speak in such a way that points people to a knowledge of Your love, Lord. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 29 perish ... 26/8/11 10:07:17 FRI 27 JAN Satan hindered us BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:17–18 Ephesians 6:10–20 Focus ‘For we wanted to come to you – certainly I, Paul, did, again and again – but Satan blocked our way.’ (1 Thess. 2:18) It was an exciting, occasionally frightening, day. On safari in the Eastern Australian rain forest, we narrowly avoided stepping on a red-belly black, a very poisonous snake. We were nervous of cassowaries, ostrich-like creatures that charge and then disembowel you. The day was almost over, and our jeep was skidding along a remote mountain track, when suddenly we realised that getting home might take a little longer than we had anticipated. A tree had fallen across the track, completely blocking it. I was grateful for the chainsaw that our guide had strapped to the roof. Thirty minutes later, we were on our way again. As Paul writes of his longing to see the Thessalonians, he mentions that Satan hindered him – the word used here means to ‘cut in’ or to ‘block a path’. Something had happened to prevent Paul revisiting the city. It is interesting that the man who was ‘prevented by the Spirit of Jesus’ from going into the city of Bithynia was now experiencing a devilish roadblock. The exact nature of the block isn’t shared – some say that the Thessalonian authorities put a legal injunction upon Jason, making a further visit from Paul impossibly precarious for him. Others say that fresh attacks were planned in the event of a return visit from the apostle. Whatever the reason, Paul’s route through life was not without interference. We’ll see tomorrow that it is possible to give Satan too much credit for the difficulties we experience in life – but we should be prayerfully aware that we continue to live on a battlefield. Prayer: Lord, help me to remember that You never said that life would be easy. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 30 26/8/11 10:07:17 28/29 JAN 1 Thessalonians 2:17–18 // Ephesians 4:17–32 Satan and sanity I’ve paused on these verses, because we’ve all met Christians who claim their lives are littered with supernatural encounters and experiences. Insisting that God speaks to them almost audibly on an hourly basis, they don’t have opinions, only revelations. And the battle seems especially intense for them. If anything goes wrong, it’s the result of the devil’s activity. Paul doesn’t tell us how he determined that Satan had been hindering his path – only that it had happened. But be careful of rushing to lay blame at the devil’s door for any unforeseen difficulties, especially those that are the result of bad choices. And don’t fall into the trap of insisting that ‘the devil made me do it’ when you are tempted and fail. Don’t be afraid, either. I’ve met Christians, about to embark upon an new season of adventure in the mission of God, who were paranoid about the potential satanic backlash that might come upon them or their families as they made strides forward in faith. Don’t be ignorant of the devil’s wiles or obsessed by them – either extreme is unbalanced. To ponder: How can we avoid this imbalance in our Christian lives? Don’t be afraid, either LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 31 26/8/11 10:07:17 MON 30 JAN Too heavenly minded? BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 2:19–20 2 Timothy 4:1–8 Focus ‘For what is our hope, our joy, or the crown in which we will glory in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes? Is it not you?’ (1 Thess. 2:19) ... significant It’s been said that some Christians are too heavenly minded to be of any earthly use. I don’t think it is possible. Some get sidetracked into foolishness, like those who once taught that education was unimportant because of Jesus’ imminent return, so why waste time studying for a college degree? I’ve also met Christians who feel that environmental action and responsibility are unnecessary because ultimately the earth is going to be burned up. This is so wrong on so many fronts. In fact, the earth will be renewed. But true heavenly mindedness stirs us to action and love. Paul speaks with such tenderness to his brothers and sisters in Thessalonica – because one day he will share with them such amazing joy when Jesus returns. And so now he longs to see them, whatever the risks. The bright future ahead stirs him into action in the now. There’s one other detail we might notice: as Paul speaks of a day to come of joy together, in the presence of Jesus, this clearly suggests that we will be able to recognise each other when we’re in the presence of God for eternity. There’s so much we don’t know about what that eternity will look like, simply because we aren’t told. But I’m comforted by the reality that, in Christ, the relationships that have been birthed here will continue for ever. Death truly is not the end. And, as Paul speaks of the Thessalonians being ‘his crown’, we once again see the depth of his love for them. May God help us to build significant sustaining relationships – that will truly go on for ever. sustaining relationships ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 32 Prayer: Help me to build relationships of depth and commitment, Lord – that will last for ever. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:18 cwr today … g n i n i a r T g n i l l e s n u o C : e f i L r Fit fo ‘I leave here a different person from the one who came’ • Five-day Introduction Course • Certificate in Christian Counselling • Diploma in Christian Counselling • BA (Hons) Counselling • MA in Integrative Psychotherapy For more information about our counselling training visit www.cwr.org.uk/care-counselling Or telephone +44 (0)1252 784731 CWR – helping you to help others LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 33 26/8/11 10:07:18 TUES 31 JAN Agonising love BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 3:1 2 Corinthians 12:20–21 Focus ‘So when we could stand it no longer, we thought it best to be left by ourselves in Athens.’ (1 Thess. 3:1) It’s the agony most parents go through. Your child is making the wonderful, awkward transition into being an adult, and perhaps now is out on her first date. The hands of the clock have passed the time that you agreed for her return and now, as each minute ticks by, your anxiety grows – and you imagine terrible things. When she returns safely, you experience a mixture of relief and frustration. As Paul speaks of ‘not being able to stand it any longer’, he was tormented by the uncertainty of not knowing how his dear friends in Thessalonica were faring. We’ve already seen that he likens himself to a parent to the Thessalonians – now he experiences the pain that parental love brings. Even though it would mean Paul being left alone in Athens, he was willing to endure that loneliness in order to allow Timothy to travel and report back on how the Thessalonian believers were doing. Paul was not only an evangelist and apostle – he was a true pastor. Truly good shepherds don’t just count sheep – they are willing to lay down their lives for them. Pray for those who lead the people of God: sometimes the concern that leadership brings is overwhelming. When you really care about people, there’s plenty to be anxious about. But perhaps there’s someone you know who is likely to be anxious about you, simply because you haven’t taken time to tell them how you’re doing. Why not relieve their agony by making contact today? Being in touch could end some real fear and concern in them. Prayer: Father, may I not cause others pain because I leave them uncertain about me. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 34 26/8/11 10:07:18 If there’s one truth we need to hear repeatedly, it’s that life is hard and Christians suffer along with the rest of the world – and sometimes suffer more because they are followers of Christ. Paul’s language here makes it clear that this was the sober warning that he continuously reiterated to them. Why don’t we want to believe it? Most of us have not bought into the faith and prosperity teaching that promises riches and freedom from sickness if we have enough faith. It doesn’t take too much biblical study to realise that was not the experience of the disciples of Christ in the New Testament. But still we get ‘surprised’ at the fiery trial that comes upon us, to borrow Peter’s language. Why? Do we hanker to be protected from all harm, and hope it will turn out that way? Do we hold a theology that echoes the basic human conviction (at least in the Western hemisphere) that bad things happen to other people, not us, and that because God loves us He will ensure that we don’t have to experience any endurance tests? And do we cling to the ridiculous idea that if storm clouds arrive it means that God has left us or, worse still, is judging us? Sometimes we quickly affirm that life is good because God has been good to us. Does that mean that if life is rough, then God is not being good to us? Of course not. Like the Thessalonians, we too need to be reminded. We will suffer. God loves us. Life is tough. Difficulty doesn’t mean desertion. On the contrary, we need to affirm our trust that He will walk with us through the trials. Prayer: Loving God, help me to trust You when I don’t understand, and to pray when life threatens to leave me speechless. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 35 WED 01 FEB Life is tough BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 3:2–4 1 Peter 4:13–19 Focus ‘We sent Timothy ... to strengthen and encourage you in your faith, so that no one would be unsettled by these trials.’ (1 Thess. 2:2–3) ... Christians suffer along with the rest of the world ... 26/8/11 10:07:18 THURS 02 FEB Temptation and faith BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 3:5 Luke 22:31–38 Focus ‘I was afraid that in some way the tempter had tempted you and that our labours might have been in vain.’ (1 Thess. 3:5) We tend to think that when the enemy uses temptation, the aim is to draw us into sinful behaviour or addiction. But I think that’s wrong. The main target is not our integrity, but our faith in Christ. Paul’s thinking went like this: trials may have surprised and unsettled the Christian family at Thessalonica, and so Paul was worried about their faith. Timothy was sent to strengthen it (v.2), and to report back on it to Paul. Peter was warned by Jesus at the Last Supper that Satan was after him, and the focus of Jesus’ praying for Peter was that his faith might not fail. Just as the tempter whispered in Eden, ‘Did God really say ...?’, the enemy wants to undermine our confidence in God’s existence and goodness. Let’s realise that our faith in God is what the enemy really wants to erode – that’s why he goes after our integrity. If he wins, our shame taunts us, hopelessness begins to take over and, before we know it, we wonder if we’re really even followers of Christ at all. We can be overwhelmed by the ‘unfinished business’ that is us – or disappointed by the immaturity of other Christians – and the tempting question comes: is God at work anywhere at all? If Jesus is so active, how come so much pettiness and stupidity continues in our lives? Our faith comes under threat. If you’re battling crippling doubt at the moment, you need to realise that this is not only normal but is part of our spiritual warfare. Christians who never experience crises of faith make me wonder – are they actually living on the battlefield at all? Prayer: Strengthen my faith, Lord, especially when the battle is heavy. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 36 26/8/11 10:07:18 Faith and love: Calvin called this sentence the ‘total sum of all godliness’. In just three words, as he hears good news from Thessalonica, Paul gives us a great description of what healthy Christianity looks like. And he goes even further when writing to the churches in Galatia: ‘… the only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love’. Some people insist that they have great faith, but they’re loud, intolerant of others who don’t have the same vision and passion, and seem to delight in pointing out the many shortcomings of the Church. True faith is shown not only by diligent prayer and hopeful expectation, but by kindness, servanthood and humility. Faith means that we’re not only trusting God, and asking Him to do things, but that we’re walking with Him. And you normally get to become like someone with whom you spend a lot of time: their character rubs off on you. God’s primary character trait can be summed up in yet another pithy three-word sentence – ‘God is love’ (1 John 4:16), so it naturally follows that those who truly spend a lot of time consciously around Him will become like Him. Timothy’s report warmed Paul’s heart, because these new disciples were growing fast, in their relationship to God – faith – and in the depth of their commitment to each other – love. Earlier in the letter Paul had used the two terms together: ‘We ... remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labour prompted by love’ (1 Thess. 1:3). Faith and love: one without the other just won’t work. Prayer: As I walk with You, as I trust You, may I become like You, loving God. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 37 FRI 03 FEB Faith and love BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 3:6–10 Galatians 5:6 Focus ‘But Timothy has just now come to us from you and has brought good news about your faith and love.’ (1 Thess. 3:6) Faith and love: one without the other just won’t work 26/8/11 10:07:18 cw 04/05 FEB 1 Thessalonians 3:11–13 // John 11:17–37 I love you The more I read Paul’s words to the Thessalonians, the more convinced I become that he was not the stern, focused apostle he’s often portrayed to be. His words are tender, vulnerable and effusive – he wants his friends to be in absolutely no doubt that he loves them very much. All this talk of overflowing love, coupled with his saying once again that this is exactly how he feels about them, shows us that Paul certainly knew how to say, ‘I love you’. At every opportunity I let my family know how much I love them. Sometimes they get to hear it twice a day. I occasionally worry that this might get redundant, and become meaningless. But I want them to be in absolutely no doubt. Obviously words only count when they are backed up by action. Paul’s affectionate language was endorsed by his willingness to risk his life for the Thessalonians. However effusive we might be, let’s remember that our profession of love must always be followed by actions and choices that prove the words to be authentic. All that said, if you love people, make sure that they know it. Tell them – often. ... if you love people, make sure that they know it LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 38 To ponder: Can the words ‘I love you’ be overused? Why do we sometimes hesitate to express our love verbally? 26/8/11 10:07:19 cwr today … g n i n i a r T : e f i L Fit for ‘I’ve learnt so much and come away with plenty to put into practice’ • Pastoral Care and Counselling • Bible Discovery • Life and Discipleship • Leadership • Women at Waverley For more information about our training courses visit www.cwr.org.uk/seminars-courses Or telephone +44 (0)1252 784719 CWR – helping you to maximise your potential LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 39 26/8/11 10:07:20 MON 06 FEB Pleasing God BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 4:1–2 2 Corinthians 5:1–10 Focus ‘As for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living.’ (1 Thess. 4:1) He … offers a welcome ‘Well done’ as I choose well … LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 40 There are some things that are just beyond me. I could never sing in an opera, paint a portrait or crack a complicated mathematical question. I was so bad at maths at school, I didn’t even bother to show up for my GCE exam. Praise the Lord for calculators. Some things are just impossible. Here’s something else that I used to think was impossible: pleasing God. I assumed that no matter how much I prayed, it would never be enough. My holiness would never be unblemished, my love for others never untainted by selfishness and false motives. Quite simply, whatever I did, I could not imagine bringing a smile to God’s face. When you believe that you’re living with someone who is ultimately impossible to please, you soon lose hope and give up trying. If God is never delighted, and if our best efforts are rejected as insufficient, then life becomes an endless trudge, heartbreaking as well as back-breaking. As Paul speaks to the Thessalonians about living in such a way that pleases God, I realise how wrong I have been. I don’t have to wait for perfection in order to bring pleasure to His heart. He knows my frailties, but offers a welcome ‘Well done’ as I choose well, look for His purposes, and do my best. Eric Liddell, of Chariots of Fire fame, described the sense he had that God was delighted by his athletic skills: ‘When I run, I feel His pleasure.’ Perhaps you’re working hard, and feeling unappreciated. Know that there is One who is pleased. May you have a sense of the pleasure of God towards you today. Prayer: Lord, help me to live in a way that pleases You – and, as I do, may I tangibly sense that You are pleased. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:20 We please God by living in purity – which was a challenge for those living in Thessalonica, where it was normal for a married man to have a mistress, or even to take part in religious cults that used sex as part of worship. Here’s a potentially startling statement: purity can be especially difficult in the context of church, because it’s an ideal place for immorality to develop. In a healthy church family, we talk openly about our struggles, making ourselves vulnerable. We frequently express our love for one another. Hugs as well as handshakes are often in evidence. All of this is good – although caution is advisable around anyone who seems to enjoy hugging a little too much ... Not only are we quite intimate with each other but, in opening ourselves spiritually and emotionally, we potentially open ourselves up sexually. Anyone who has ever worked at a youth camp knows that the night when people are moved to respond to a genuine work of the Holy Spirit is also the time when the leaders need to be especially diligent in their late-night patrolling. Those very same young people who just responded to God might be being a little too enthusiastic in their response to each other. Paul warned the Thessalonians against taking advantage of each other as they shared and cared from day to day. We need to be wise and alert: not reserved, but diligent. Let’s not allow even a hint of immorality to ruin the beautiful, unsullied purity that not only pleases God, but can also turn the heads of those who don’t know God. TUES 07 FEB Purity BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 4:3–8 1 Timothy 5:1–2 Focus ‘It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality.’ (1 Thess. 4:3) Prayer: May I love with absolute purity, Lord. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 41 26/8/11 10:07:20 WED 08 FEB Prized BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 4:9–10 Romans 5:5 Focus ‘Now about your love for one another we do not need to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love each other.’ (1 Thess. 4:9) I’ve not won many awards – a white strip for swimming a width is about the limit of the athletic prizes I’ve been blessed with. I do have a couple of cut glass sculptures that were presented to me after I had been a speaker at some overseas conferences. But no trophies or medals adorn the shelves of my study. Paul was able to present the Thessalonians with a verbal award that I would certainly covet. He could say that he did not need to write to them about loving one another. That was already happening because they had been taught by God to love so well. Let’s remember that God has lessons He specifically wants to teach us (John 6:45). Often we use the term ‘self-taught’ – but that’s never the way it is for the Christian. In fact, the Greek word here literally means ‘God-taught’. The problem with self-made people is that they tend to worship their creator. And the love that Paul describes was phileo – loving between brothers and sisters, family love that is deep and practical; and agape, the highest form of self-sacrificing love. All this talk of love is in the present tense. Awards generally celebrate something we once did, not necessarily something we are doing at the moment. It’s not that we’ve arrived, passed the test and got the prize; the process continues daily. Let’s not rest on our laurels, because sometimes churches that have a reputation for what was can fail to see that everything has changed. The same is true of us as individuals. Let’s keep on loving. Let’s keep on loving LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 42 Prayer: Lord, give me grace to excel in love today. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:20 Sometimes I’d like a quiet life. I’m blessed with a ministry that contains plenty of variety, and I’d never want to complain about the opportunities for challenge, travel, meeting new people and learning from the experience of reaching across the different denominational traditions. I’m grateful. But there are moments, when I come under attack from Christians, when yet another flight misconnects, or when I’m battling to put words on screen for Life Every Day, when I wonder what it would be like to quietly do little or nothing – or just to do some work which ended at 5pm, every weekday. I could be tempted to use Paul’s encouragement to live a ‘quiet life’ in defence of my occasional fantasy. But this dream is not what Paul is talking about at all. Far from calling his friends at Thessalonica to live bland lives, he is talking about the pursuit of an inner calm; and his word for ‘ambition’ here is energetic – making every effort to be peaceful. How do we do that? Don’t get ensnared in gossip, mind your own business and find pleasure and satisfaction from the ordinary, like your everyday work. Paul knew some epic moments in his life but, even for him, most of life wasn’t exciting – it was more about faithfulness. What was true for him is true for us. May you know calm today as you go about what might be just another ordinary day. Just as the Thessalonians were promised, people who are discreet, trustworthy and hard working will always find respect from those who are not Christians. Quiet living might do more for the kingdom than loud shouting. THURS 09 FEB Quiet living BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 4:11–12 Ephesians 4:17–32 Focus ‘... make it your ambition to lead a quiet life.’ (1 Thess. 4:11) Prayer: Teach me how to live quietly, Lord. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 43 26/8/11 10:07:20 FRI 10 FEB In approaching the scriptures which are traditionally used to support the ‘rapture of the Church’ doctrine, in which all followers of Jesus are suddenly snatched up into the sky, I need to say that I don’t interpret these scriptures in this way. I believe that Jesus is coming back to fully establish His kingdom rule in the earth and He will come gloriously – but not in a ‘rapture’. Fuelled by the Left Behind series, the rapture idea BIG PICTURE has become increasingly popular in many church circles 1 Thessalonians over the last few decades. But the idea is only about 4:13–18 180 years old – prior to 1830 (when the doctrine was 1 Corinthians 15:51–54 popularised by J.N. Darby) teaching on the rapture did not appear in the Church at all. Focus In writing to the Thessalonians, Paul indulges in his ‘For the Lord ... will come usual love of metaphors, which have then been taken down from heaven, with literally; hence the rapture idea. Taking Scripture literally a loud command, with the voice of the archangel is not the same as taking it seriously. So, for example, and with the trumpet call Revelation talks about a lamb on the throne, but it doesn’t of God, and the dead in mean that Jesus is a sheep! Christ will rise first.’ We’ll look at Paul’s metaphors over the next couple (1 Thess. 4:16) of days, and I’ll be asking us to read this same portion of Scripture a few times over. As we consider this idea which has filtered into mainstream consciousness in many churches, let’s do so without fear. God wants us to consider our beliefs, debate them kindly and, above all, allow our beliefs to be held up to Scripture rather than popular opinion. After all, the Church used to teach that slavery was acceptable because the New Testament seemed to condone it. We got that wrong ... Rapture? Prayer: Lord, thank You because Your Word assures me that You are the coming King. Help me, especially when life is hard, to live by that truth. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 44 26/8/11 10:07:20 11/12 FEB 1 Thessalonians 4:13–18 // Exodus 19:20–20:21 The trumpet sound When we suffer, we can be tempted to slip into the belief that God doesn’t care, we’ve been abandoned and life is meaningless. When Moses was up Mount Sinai receiving the Torah, the Law, the fickle people of Israel slid quickly into hopelessness and then, later, idolatry. The very loud trumpet blast, and the Lord coming down in a dense cloud, made it clear: God wasn’t absent at all. And Moses came back down the mountain to see what had been going on. Wanting to affirm the truth that Christ will come again, Paul uses language connected with the Thessalonian Jewish Christians, letting them know that they were not abandoned in their sufferings. The mention of trumpets would have stirred images of Mount Sinai and the moment that Moses came down the mountain. The imagery of clouds also connects with the vision of the Son of Man in Daniel 7 and refers to Jesus’ ascension to heaven, not His coming back to earth. Just as Jesus suffered but was then vindicated and received into glory, so we too will be welcomed into an eternity, forever with Christ. We have not been left alone. ... God wasn’t absent at all LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 45 To ponder: Why does suffering so quickly prompt us to think we are abandoned? 26/8/11 10:07:20 MON 13 FEB Even so, come, Lord Jesus BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 4:13–18 Revelation 21:1–4 Focus ‘After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.’ (1 Thess. 4:17) Based on this metaphor, the idea has developed that we will ascend into the sky, wait there for seven years (while terrible tribulation envelops the earth) and then return later with Christ. But Paul teaches that we will welcome our coming King back to the earth. He is referring to the protocol in New Testament times when an emperor or king visited a colony or province. The citizens would go out to meet him as he approached and then escort him back into the city. The idea is not that we are heading for the clouds, but that Jesus is heading back to earth as glorious King and Judge, ultimately to establish His kingdom, fully and finally, in a renewed heaven and earth. What we believe about this matters. The prevalence of ‘escapology eschatology’, where our ultimate aim is to get out of here, can lead to environmental irresponsibility, in the mistaken notion that the earth is going to be destroyed anyway. God has not finished with the earth, and the new Jerusalem, the full rule of God, will come down to earth. Earth will be renewed as Jesus fully rules the planet with His people. Chick Yuill puts it like this: ‘Discipleship is not membership in an emergency plan for the safe evacuation of the faithful to “a better place”. Rather, discipleship is enlisting in God’s resurrection project for the world that he created. It is a world that he sustains by his word of power, that he loved enough to die for, and that he will one day heal from every hurt and wound.’3 Let’s be faithful today, and look forward to the glorious future! Prayer: Come, Lord Jesus! Amen. 3 LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 46 Chick Yuill, Moving in the Right Circles (Nottingham: IVP, 2011). 26/8/11 10:07:20 I hesitate to mention it here, lest Howard Camping of Family Radio in America ends up with more publicity – but he certainly created quite a firestorm with his talk of knowing the date of the return of Christ last May (22 May 2011, a date that was revised to October, which obviously didn’t pan out as he predicted). And of course there are ‘end of the world’ speculations because of the Mayan 2012 phenomenon, where some suggest that a new era – or perhaps global catastrophe – will be launched on 21 December 2012. In the face of these pseudo-Christian or New Age speculations, it’s important that those who follow Christ stand firm. We believe that the world ultimately is in the hands of Christ, the returning King – and that no one knows when He will come. Thieves in the night don’t call ahead. And Jesus made it clear to His disciples that it was not for them to know the key seasons in God’s calendar. Surely it’s a futile exercise to speculate about these things, not only because the New Testament makes it clear that we will not know, but because it shouldn’t change anything. As we’ll see as we continue to reflect over the next few days, we are called to live as children of the light anyway. It seems that some in Thessalonica had been asking about times and dates. Paul cuts across that and silences speculation with his ‘thief’ metaphor. Don’t be panicked or fearful about these predictions – they’ve come and gone over the years. Live for Christ today. TUES 14 FEB Surprise, surprise BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:1–3 Acts 1:1–11 Focus ‘Now, brothers and sisters, about times and dates we do not need to write to you, for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night.’ (1 Thess. 5:1) ... the world ultimately is in the Prayer: Lord, help me to live with this affirmation and trust: our times are in Your hands. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 47 hands of Christ ... 26/8/11 10:07:21 WED 15 FEB Children of the light BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:4–5 Romans 13:12–14 Focus ‘But you, brothers and sisters, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. You are all children of the light and children of the day.’ (1 Thess. 5:4) It’s confession time again. There are times (usually in the middle of the night, when I can’t sleep) that I not only fear death, but I get worried about what’s going to happen after death. My concerns about dying are not so much about not being alive any more, but more to do with the process of dying. I concur with Woody Allen: ‘It’s not that I’m afraid of dying, I just don’t want to be there when it happens.’ But then there’s the issue of meeting God after death. Yes, I understand the truth of grace, being saved by faith and the goodness and love of God. But the crux of my nervousness is this: at that point, I will be placed utterly and completely in the hands of Someone else, in an environment that will be totally foreign to me. Hence my apprehension. Apparently some Christians in Thessalonica had similar fears and were nervous at the thought of Christ’s coming. Paul sought to assure them that, as children of the light, they would be able to welcome and celebrate the coming of Christ, the Light of the world. As we’ll see, being children of the light is not just about assurance, but is also a call to holy living. But Paul’s overall intention is to set the Thessalonians’ hearts at rest. There’s much that I don’t know about the future. It’s an unfamiliar and potentially anxiety-creating journey. But, in the night, I find myself whispering this: ‘I can trust in You, Lord Jesus, my Saviour and Friend.’ We can trust Him with our past, our present – and our future too. Prayer: Lord, when I am afraid, no matter what strikes fear in my heart, I will trust in You. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 48 26/8/11 10:07:21 I must be in confession mode, because here comes another one. When I’m speaking at Timberline Church, I have to be up very early in the morning, in order for final preparations, exercise and then a team meeting at 8am. I live with a recurring concern that I’m going to oversleep, which would not be good. And so my solution (here I blush) is that I set an alarm clock. Actually, I set three alarm clocks, timed five minutes apart. My reasoning is simple: if one fails, or I’m in such deep sleep that I snore on through it, I’ve got two backups. I want to be absolutely certain that I’ll be awake at the right time. My bedroom looks (and sounds) like a clockmaker’s shop on Sunday mornings. Using the analogies of wakeful alertness and sleep, Paul encourages the Thessalonians not to fear, but to remain diligent and wide awake in their faith. I discover that daily alertness is vital. It doesn’t take very long to make a foolish decision that can spell disaster, and that’s easy to do if you’re spiritually and emotionally drowsy. There are plenty of calls to alertness in the New Testament. Discipleship is not a habit, but a daily choice. The trouble with sleep is obvious: it comes upon us slowly. One moment I’m sitting in the plane looking alive and alert, and then the next minute my head is back, my mouth potentially a fly trap. Sleep is something we drift into. So is sin. Most people don’t fall: they drift. May God keep us sharp and diligent today. A decade of faithfulness can be destroyed by an hour of drowsiness. Prayer: Lord, sometimes I get weary, and cruise through days rather than walk intentionally with You. Help me to stay awake and alert. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 49 THURS 16 FEB Awake BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:6–7 1 Peter 5:8–11 Focus ‘So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be awake and sober.’ (1 Thess. 5:6) May God keep us sharp and diligent today 26/8/11 10:07:21 FRI 17 FEB Sure and certain hope BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:8–9 Ephesians 6:11–14 Focus ‘But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet.’ (1 Thess. 5:8) ... because we are saved, our hope is certain LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 50 ‘Hope’ is a potentially misleading word. I hope that the sun might shine, I hope that my exercise programme is working and, as you already know, I really hope that my three alarm clocks will perform and I’ll wake up and get to church on time. Hope used in these contexts means wishful thinking and anticipation, but not certainty. But New Testament hope is not like that. Rather, hope is what results from salvation: because we are saved, our hope is certain. It’s interesting that in writing to both the Thessalonians and the Ephesians, Paul maintains the metaphor of salvation as the helmet in our armour. While to the Thessalonians, faith and love are the breastplate, to the Ephesians, it’s righteousness. Once again, this illustrates how much Paul uses (and mixes around) his metaphors. No soldier would dream of going into battle without his helmet – it was the most vital piece of equipment in his armour. The brain must be solidly protected on the battlefield. The key truth is this: in all that goes on around us and as we ponder the future to come, what needs to guard our minds is the reality that, in Christ, we are saved – and that realisation will lead to faith and hope in our lives. Our position in Christ, as rescued people, needs to be central in our thinking when we’re tempted to fear or the battle is heavy. And that’s another very good reason for guarding what we put into our minds. Affirm this today, by faith: we have been saved, we are saved and we will be saved. And all through Jesus. Prayer: Father, thank You for the hope that is mine through Christ. The future is beautiful. I will praise You then and I praise You now. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:21 cwr today … g n i c n e r e f n o C : e f i L r o f t Fi Waverley Abbey House ... ‘The beautiful surroundings create an ideal atmosphere for a refreshing and inspiring time away’ • Conferences and meetings • Team building events • Church away days • Eight meeting/conference rooms • Lounge, coffee bar and patios with seating • Ample parking For more information about our conferencing facilities visit www.cwr.org.uk/wah Or telephone +44 (0)1252 784733 CWR – the perfect venue for your meeting LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 51 26/8/11 10:07:22 18/19 FEB 1 Thessalonians 5:10–11 // Ephesians 4:29–32 Authentic encouragement Trying to bring words of encouragement and comfort can mean that we end up hurting people. Ask Job, who suffered greatly at the hands of his ‘comforters’, who were probably well-meaning but utterly unhelpful – and wrong. We can be so desperate to say something of comfort to a sufferer that we resort to clichés or meaningless slogans or, worse still, offer false conclusions that create even more pain. ‘Cheer up’ is not great advice to the grieving. ‘It’s okay, he’s with the Lord’ is equally unhelpful, because the pain is that the dead person is not here with us. One of my least favourite ‘encouragements’ is ‘It’ll be all right’. Really? How do you know? As Paul not only commends the Thessalonians for the culture of mutual encouragement they enjoyed, but commands them to continue to build each other up, we realise that he is not calling for a church that is a back-slapping club where everyone exhorts each other to smile. The idea of ‘building up’ refers to building faith and character. Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up, as Paul reminds the Corinthians (1 Cor. 8:1). ... continue to build each other up ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 52 To ponder: Who is the best encourager you know? Why? 26/8/11 10:07:22 We Christians are good at going from one extreme to the other. In some churches, the pastor, minister or whoever is leading is revered so much that it has become unhealthy. Their presence in a Sunday morning service is greeted by an undue reverence. ‘The man (or woman) of God is in the house’ seems to be the unspoken mantra. But, in other churches, the pendulum has swung too far the other way. Having taken on board the biblical truth of the priesthood of all believers, church members then simply reject the idea of leadership as being unimportant or even stifling. John Stott calls this the swing between clericalism and anticlericalism. Both extremes are wrong. We need leadership, not to dominate the flock of God, but to serve them. Leadership is a vital gift of God to the Church. Without hardworking leadership that is wise and able to give guidance (two hallmarks of authentic leadership that Paul offers here), then the Church is certainly less effective. And then leadership does have authority – the word Paul uses here is also used of shepherds, managers and stewards. The word ‘guidance’ means admonish – that speaks of warning us of bad choices. Leon Morris says, ‘The word is brotherly, but its tone is big brotherly’. But in the kingdom of God people don’t have authority because of a hierarchical system or the strength of their personality. We freely give kingdom authority to others; it is not authority which they take over us. Thank God for humble, servant leadership: the only kind that can be trusted with authority. MON 20 FEB Leadership BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:12–13 Ephesians 4:11–16 Focus ‘Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you.’ (1 Thess. 5:12) Prayer: I pray today for the leaders and shepherds of Your flock, Lord. Bless these women and men with wisdom, grace and courage. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 53 26/8/11 10:07:22 TUES 21 FEB Straight talk BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:14 Titus 2:1–15 Focus ‘And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.’ (1 Thess. 5:14) Someone recently told me that, as a preacher, ‘I’m not to his taste’. I don’t want to be sarcastic (or defensive), but I’m not a pizza, and my role in life is not to entertain or please people. On the contrary, the role of the teacher/preacher is to present the truth of Scripture, however uncomfortable and even irritating that truth might be. Of course, that gentleman doesn’t have to like my ‘style’ – that’s not required, and we all have preferences when it comes to teaching, worship or a host of other elements of church life. But my calling is not to try to please. Inevitably, in pleasing some I will displease others. Preaching is not a means of making people feel good, although, as we see in what Paul says here about encouraging those who are discouraged and helping the weak, the proper preaching of truth should bring strength and grace. But Paul also tells the church there to warn those who are ‘idle and disruptive’ – the words used mean ‘playing truant from their regular duties’. Apparently there were some in the church who were neglecting their work, allowing others to support them and using their time to spread division. And so Paul insists that these people should be ‘warned’. I would imagine that those on the receiving end of that warning would not be best pleased. Allow truth to confront you. When faithful preaching makes us squirm, let’s respond by wrestling with the issues raised and offering whole-hearted obedience to God. And don’t shoot the messenger. Prayer: I pray especially for those who have the task of confronting or challenging, Lord. Give them grace to speak. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 54 26/8/11 10:07:22 I’ve discovered another uncomfortable truth about myself. I am quite willing to be patient in dealing with new Christians and those on the fringes of the church. I expect that they will take time to see some of their life issues sorted out. But I have a special intolerance towards critical Christians who are easily offended and seem to enjoy majoring on minors. And I am impatient with any stubborn resistance to change. In a way, I think I have a good precedent for my foot-tapping tut-tutting attitude towards it. Paul didn’t hesitate to confront it head on. Those who profess to have walked with Christ for years should know better and are held to a higher standard than new babes in faith. All that said, I discovered that I was becoming pharisaic towards Pharisees, quickly writing them off, deciding that when they fought change it was just because they were being their usual picky selves. It never occurred to me that, if I just took time to explain change, they might feel happier. As Paul calls the Thessalonian church – and remember he’s not just addressing leaders, but the whole Christian community there – to patience, he uses a word that means to take action only after waiting a long time. And this patience is to be offered to all. That doesn’t mean that the church should only move at the speed allowed by its most resistant member. But it does mean that we should approach everyone with gentleness, care, explanation and prayer. Ultimately, patience is what God shows to us every day of our lives. Let’s pass it around. Prayer: Thank You for Your steadfast patience with me, Lord. Help me to bear with others; help others to bear with me. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 55 WED 22 FEB Patience with all BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:14 Ephesians 4:1–6 Focus ‘Be patient with everyone.’ (1 Thess. 5:14) Let’s pass it around 26/8/11 10:07:22 THURS 23 FEB Payback BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:15 Romans 12:17–21 Focus ‘Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.’ (1 Thess. 5:15) ... how I respond is within my control LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 56 Payback is a great film starring Mel Gibson. The word describes the moment of getting even. We can all feel a sense of exhilaration when the villain ‘gets what he deserves’ – a victim has been rescued, justice done. God’s love does not only speak of the way He cares about the poor – He also calls for justice. But there is a ‘payback’ that is more about revenge than justice. Seeking vengeance will consume our emotional energy. Our mind churns over and over, endlessly dreaming of how we can hurt someone. In a sense, we continue to be their victim, because they carry on having such a strong influence on our lives. So their crime against us continues to torment us, because we allow it to do so. In 1999, Denise Green and her husband, Bill, discovered that their son, William – who had been treated at Liverpool’s Alder Hey Children’s Hospital in 1992, and who later died – was one of hundreds of children whose organs were removed, without consent, for research purposes. As parents prepared for multiple burials, the Health Secretary Alan Milburn described what happened at Alder Hey as ‘unforgivable’. The Greens disagreed. Denise, speaking of her choice to forgive, said: ‘What happened was out of my control, but how I respond is within my control.’* Forgiveness isn’t always an instant decision – perhaps it never is. Perhaps you’re not in a place where you’re able to forgive – or even want to. My prayer is that God’s grace will help you at least to begin the journey towards forgiving. Prayer: Save me from the self-inflicted pain of vengeance, Lord. Where I have been hurt, bring healing, that forgiveness might eventually come. Amen. *Taken from http://theforgivenessproject.com/stories/denise-green-england/ 26/8/11 10:07:22 Next issue Turning the tables MAR/APR 2012 Next month we continue our journey through Paul’s correspondence to his friends in Thessalonica, as we investigate his second letter to them. This was written as a postscript, and it’s entirely appropriate that we continue to reflect on Paul’s counsel to the church there. Those who followed Jesus in that city were still under siege, bewildered by external opposition, but also confused by some mischievous false teaching about the second coming that was doing the rounds in the church. Paul writes to remind them that, in the midst of suffering and gross injustice, they need to remember that a day is coming when the tables will be turned. Justice will reign and glory will replace pain. Join me as we discover for ourselves encouragement in the midst of our own challenges. Obtain your copy from CWR or your local Christian bookshop LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 57 26/8/11 10:07:23 FRI 24 FEB I’m grateful BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 Philippians 4:4–9 Focus ‘Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.’ (1 Thess. 5:16) I’ve recently added a new element to my daily exercise programme – now I run, lift weights – and practise gratitude. I realised lately that I had got into a rut of not noticing the good things around me – a sunny day, a smile from my daughter, a call from my son, a stunning sunset. And when you don’t notice, you can fixate on the challenges of life and even move to a place of wishing you were someone else or were living at another time. Thanksgiving presses the pause button. It changes us from being petulant, grabbing people for whom enough is never enough. Instead, we celebrate the moments and, as we mark them with thanksgiving, our joy increases. And these verses seem to imply that prayerful thanksgiving is the opposite and perhaps an antidote to anxiety. That’s certainly true in my experience. One quick caution though: 30 years ago this verse was used to fuel a bestselling book that suggested we had to thank God for everything – including terrible injustice, tragedy and evil. I didn’t buy it then, and I certainly don’t buy it now. We’re a kingdom people, who celebrate when things are done God’s way, and not when the enemy triumphs and people are hurt. Thanksgiving is a consistent discipline, but it doesn’t involve kissing our brains goodbye. Sometimes we get confused about what God’s will is. Here, His will is definitely made clear – He’s looking for a thankful people. Are there elements in your life right now that are good, but you just haven’t been noticing? Prayer: Father, help me to notice, pause, celebrate and give thanks. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 58 26/8/11 10:07:23 25/26 FEB 1 Thessalonians 5:19–22 // 1 Corinthians 14:1–25 Testing the prophetic A healthy church is one that is open to the work of the Holy Spirit. As Paul encourages the Thessalonians not to ‘quench the Spirit’, we see that God’s Spirit is actively wanting to speak to us through the prophetic. My life has been shaped and changed by some of those moments. But there are some who seem to think that to question or evaluate the prophetic, or to ask people to wait for an appropriate moment to prophesy, or not prophesy at all, is quenching the Spirit – and they couldn’t be more wrong. As we test what is being said, hold it up to the light of Scripture and consider it carefully, we actually create an environment of confidence where prophecy can operate safely. The alternative is that prophecy is never checked, and that leads to cynicism and disillusionment. In fact, manipulation can also flourish in such an environment. When we refuse to listen to prophecy – or we refuse to test it – we end up despising it. Either extreme is evidence that we are not approaching the prophetic with maturity. To ponder: What should we do if prophecy is shared in a public or private setting in the church, but we’re not convinced that it’s valid? ... open to the work of the Holy Spirit LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 59 26/8/11 10:07:23 MON 27 FEB He will do it BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:23–24 Philippians 1:3–6 Focus ‘The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it.’ (1 Thess. 5:24) ... God is looking for responsiveness in us LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 60 It’s a challenging verse: ‘May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ’ (1 Thess. 5:23). In the early days of my Christian life, I so desperately wanted this verse to be true of me – that God would have everything that was me and I would be entirely set apart for His purposes. This meant that I responded to just about every sermon I heard. Some of my behaviour was rather neurotic. Nevertheless, God is looking for responsiveness in us. However, it’s so easy to forget that Christianity is not primarily about what I do – but what God does in me. It’s a daily supernatural event. Mere religion is about effort, striving and self-improvement. That doesn’t mean there won’t be battles – we are called to wrestle, stand firm, endure and fight. But, ultimately, the work is not ours. We are not the architects or engineers of change in our own lives: God is. We are called to co-operation and response. G.K. Chesterton was right when he made his assessment of the Sermon on the Mount and exclaimed: ‘This is impossible stuff.’ Truly, it is impossible – but God is faithful and can work the impossible in us. Philippians reminds us that He has begun a good work in us, and He will complete it. Perhaps you’re tired of the same-old same-old ruts of failure you have fallen into. Get up, dust yourself down and realise that God will keep working in you. Prayer: Lord, I’m glad that being a Christian is not something I have to do alone. As I surrender, Your Spirit is at work in me. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:23 As Paul begins to conclude this warm, open letter, he places himself in a position of need. Rather than just signing off with a reminder of his apostolic calling, he appeals to his family at Thessalonica to pray for him. He frequently makes that request in the New Testament, seemingly very aware that it was only as others stood shoulder to shoulder with him in prayer that anything substantial could be accomplished for the gospel. This truth is so familiar to us all, but how often do we actively covet the prayers of others? As a final confession (I’ve made quite a few in this issue of Life Every Day), I admit that I can be slow to ask for prayer support. Such a request can appear self-centred, to bring my needs to others when they may be battling against equal or greater challenges. But Paul would have none of that reluctance. Following the example of Jesus, who repeatedly asked His friends to watch with Him in Gethsemane, Paul unashamedly asked for prayer. Perhaps you need to think – when did you last ask for prayer? Who would you immediately turn to with a prayer need? The best friendships include not only the ability to pray together, but the opportunity to share prayer requests. In them, we know that the other person won’t just promise to pray and then forget – but that prayer will really be offered. And, if I may, allow me to ask the regular readers of Life Every Day – can I ask for your occasional prayers, that God will grant me direction, wisdom and peace? To those able to respond, I say thank you. I’m grateful. TUES 28 FEB Pray for us BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:25 Ephesians 6:18–20 Focus ‘Brothers and sisters, pray for us.’ (1 Thess. 5:25) Prayer: Lord, help me to realise the strength that comes, even as others pray for me. Amen. LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 61 26/8/11 10:07:23 WED 29 FEB Grace and peace to you BIG PICTURE 1 Thessalonians 5:25–28 Romans 16:20–27 Focus ‘Greet all God’s people with a holy kiss.’ (1 Thess. 5:26) ... may I offer grace and peace to you ... LOLED JF 12_internals.indd 62 It’s a moment in the Anglican Communion service that many can find awkward: the sharing of the peace. I feel for those who are naturally introverted, who find interaction with others – especially strangers – to be daunting. And there can be some awkwardness around protocol. What are we to do? Is it a hearty handshake, a hug or a kiss on the cheek? A friend of mine tells of the first time he ever entered a church service and, as a complete outsider, was greeted with a hug and a kiss on the cheek from the burly (and unshaven) greeter. He went along as a casual enquirer and ended up with razor burn. It didn’t put him off ... Awkwardness aside, there’s something beautiful about the moment of greeting – and Paul encourages the practice of greeting each other even as he signs off. I’ve attended some ‘Communion’ services that were anything but communal – everyone dived into a period of private introspection before sharing bread and wine, which was not relational in any way. Sharing in an Anglican conference recently, I attended four Eucharists in four days – and each time the sharing of ‘the peace’ took a good five minutes or so, as everyone moved around the hall to express the love of Christ to each other. It was moving to celebrate our togetherness as members of the same family. Grace and peace were extended. And, as we conclude our look at Paul’s first letter to the Thessalonians and have hopefully discovered help and strength in our journey together, may I offer grace and peace to you: consider yourself hugged! Prayer: Thank You for the privilege of being part of the family of God, Lord. May I be a carrier of grace and peace to many today. Amen. 26/8/11 10:07:23