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© 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. June 2011 • Vol. 2 Issue 8 • Free Publication Gary Sadlemyer Reflects on Huskers, Fans and Football John Wayne: The Man, The Movies, The Exhibit Local Author Writes a Must-Read For History Buffs © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. TABLE OF CONTENTS June 2011 Omaha Lifestyles Features Gary Sadlemyer on Huskers, Fans and Football 3 By: Leah Parodi A New Trend: Home Staging 4 By: Kristy Brannen Omaha Gold: Local Author Creates A Must Read For History Buffs 5 By: Leah Parodi Anne Fenner: Making You Look and Feel Good 7 By: Leah Parodi Your Financial Picture 9 Mark Brungardt - Heritage Financial Services, LLC Diabetic Retinopathy 10 A Fond Farewell to The Fifties 11 By: Midwest Eyecare By: Perry Block www.OmahaSeniorLifestyles.com Omaha Lifestyles 50+ Omaha Senior Lifestyles Magazine is published by Hathaway Publishing, Inc. Omaha Senior Lifestyles Magazine is protected by copyright and may not be reproduced without express written permission of Hathaway Publishing, Inc. Articles, editorial and advertisements in Omaha Senior Lifestyles Magazine do not necessarily reflect the opinion of the publication and / or publisher. 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No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. Gary Sadlemyer on Huskers, Fans and Football By: Leah Parodi nize him for his voice, not by his face. Recently, Gary was notified that he will be inducted into the Nebraska Broadcasters Association Hall of Fame in August of this year. To which he responds with a smile; “shouldn’t I be dead or retiring first?” But this is an apt and fitting award for the once “voice of Huskers football” and all around nice guy. Pictured: Gary Sadlemyer A s a transplant from back east I have become a student of many things Omaha. For example, I learned quickly that the best time to do pretty much anything on a fall Saturday is when the Huskers are playing football. But we have now become Big Red football fans and have been accepted as such by friends and neighbors, no matter what our point of origin. That brings me to my next lesson learned; people in the Heartland are very, very nice. And Gary Sadlemyer is no exception. As we have lunch in a popular Dundee eatery, Gary is amiable as fans and friends approach the table to say hello and shake his hand. He laughs at the thought of his role as a longtime Omaha radio legend, still admitting surprise when fans recog- Gary is originally from Minnesota where he studied broadcasting at Concordia College in Moorhead. After graduation Gary was placed with KRGI radio station in Grand Island, NE. “When I was being placed I said that I would go anywhere,” says Gary. “I was lucky to get KRGI. Usually you start out someplace small.” At KRGI Gary played records and reported the news. In 1976 Gary moved to Omaha and to KFAB and has been there ever since. “Stability is unheard of in radio and I didn’t want to move anymore,” he says. “The next thing you know its 34 years later.” In 1982 KFAB obtained the rights to broadcast the Nebraska Cornhusker football games. Gary started out doing game day traffic and sideline reports before he moved up to the booth for color commentary in 1985. “I played football in high school and college, it’s my passion. Then I moved to Nebraska, are you kidding me?” Gary was thrilled to be in the booth and called the games on KFAB through the 1995 season. Gary considers himself both a Minnesotan and a Nebraskan, so that and his football background make him the perfect person to explain the Husker fan phenomenon. “It’s about excellence,” he says. “You have to understand that it’s not a sports phenomenon, it’s a cultural phenomenon. And it doesn’t hurt that people here like sports, like football.” “There are also socio-economic advantages when there is a home game. Even when we went through bad years we would sell out, we drew numbers, they didn’t diminish. Even then game day was still huge. There was a rocky time for football until Bo Pellini became head coach in 2008. Now we are good again.” Gary says that the fan phenomena can also be credited for causing Nebraskan State unity as the Nebraska Cornhuskers are the only division one football team in the state. And then there are the fans and the unity because of Bob Devaney and Tom Osborne. “Tom Osborne is a football genius. It was such a thrill watching him coach. Watching him on the sidelines, he was stoic. He was always 2, 3, 4, 5 plays ahead of the coach across the field. What a brilliant guy.” As for the next season, with Nebraska’s move to the Big Ten Conference, Gary sees it as a positive one. “Once the Texas faction took over the Big 12 Conference, it wasn’t great for Nebraska anymore.” “The fans reactions have been really positive. We get to play new opponents like Ohio State, Michigan and Penn State.” Gary recalls when, in 1982, he had an opportunity to interview legendary Penn State coach Joe Paterno. “I called his house and his daughter answered the phone,” he laughs. “I called during his dinner and he was apologizing to me. He was as nice as could be and as gracious as possible.” Gary reflects on the upcoming season and is looking forward to new and some not so new opponents. “The Ohio State game will be cool. We played them in the 1950’s a couple of times. They are kind of like how we are with a huge and loyal fan base, no jerks,” he says with a smile. Gary, who is going on his 35th year with KFAB, is both a Good Morning Show Host and Program Director and is not quite ready to retire. “Its fun, just as much fun as it was in the beginning,” he says. “When I’m at work, it doesn’t feel like working. Besides, the ratings are good and they keep paying me.” Gary and the KFAB morning show runs from 5am to 9am and has weather, traffic, news and sports as well as topical discussions peppered with humor and frankness. “Our fans are loyal; they listen to KFAB all day long. We’ve had tremendous success here.” “We are the go-to source for news and severe weather. We have to be there especially for people that are not home, so when they go to KFAB we better be there.” For more information on the shows at KFAB, visit their website at www.KFAB.com. Congratulations, Gary, on your well deserved award from the Nebraska Broadcasters Association and your induction into the Broadcasters Hall of Fame. And thanks for talking football with an east coaster, if I wasn’t an official Husker fan before, I sure am one now. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. A New Trend: Home Staging By: Kristy Brannen I f you are one of the many homeowners who are trying to sell their home right now, staging might be the solution. With so many houses for sale, it’s important to make potential buyers take notice and staging does just that. “Professional staging is more than walking through a house and suggesting how to get the house ready to sell,” said Beth Lube, an associate broker with RE/MAX Real Estate Group in the Omaha area. She has more than 30 years of experience and is an accredited and certified staging professional. She believes staging is about making the home appeal to the most buyers for a faster sale and at top dollar. “Staged homes sell faster and for more money,” she said.“Hands down. Period. It’s a win-win for everyone.” What’s involved in staging your home? Lube explained that staging is not decorating. It is about helping potential buyers picture themselves in that particular home. What’s involved in staging a home varies greatly on the individual home, but Lube said a professional can help identify problems and create solutions. Like many stagers, Lube has her own warehouse of accessories that include dishes, placemats, candles, new towels, lamps, plants and more. What started as a few carts full of accessories has led to a supply large enough to fully stage 50 to 60 houses. Adding accessories may be enough to add appeal, but it also might take more drastic measures. Neutralizing things such as paint and wallpaper may be necessary. Lube works with a crew of three to help stage homes. Typically, she will provide the seller with a list of things they can do to help prepare the home for staging. Once that is done she requests half a day in the home without the homeowner present to work. “We move stuff around, figure what looks best and have a great time,” she said. “We might move a lamp five times before we get it right.” Often times Lube and her crew use the homeowners’ pieces and simply showcase them in a different way. It simply depends on the home. The key, she said, is bringing the house into the 21st century with accessories that keep within the home’s décor. “I am not an interior designer, but I know what sells houses,” she said. A new trend “Staging is definitely new,” Lube said. “Helping sellers get their houses ready to sell is old. In past markets, we walked through houses and told sellers to clean, de-clutter and paint. Now, we are in a beauty contest with lots of competition so we have to figure out how to make our homes look the best.” Lube received her Accredited Staging Professional Certification in 2006. She attended a three-day course in Minneapolis where she learned the basics of staging in order to receive Cont. on page 24 © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. Omaha Gold: A Local Author Creates A Must Read for All History Buffs By: Leah Parodi As a grade school student many, many years ago, I really did not have much appreciation for history classes of any kind. However, as I have gotten older and wiser, the history of this wonderful country has captured my attention and living in Omaha provides more than enough historical material. And I am not alone. Lawson McDowell, a long time railroad employee and enthusiast also shares in the love of Heartland history, so much so, that he has written a novel that combines historical fact with a fascinating fictional story. His book is a must read not only for history buffs, but for anyone that lives in and loves Omaha. Lawson has been working with Union Pacific Railroad for nearly 40 years and is the Director of Network Operations – Automotive Premium Operations. His division oversees the transportation of auto products making sure that parts get to plants and finished vehicles get to distribution points. Lawson is also responsible for seeing that other imported goods and products make their way from ship yards to designated points across country. Lawson has done just about every job on the railroad that one can imagine and has lived in cities all over the United States. “I came up the ranks,” he says. “And I even met my wife through the railroad.” Lawson and his wife, Virginia have been married for 33 years. They live in Omaha and have two sons. Lawson has always had a love of history and living in Omaha with his railroad background, he hit pay dirt for a significant part of our country’s growth and legacy. But what prompted Lawson to write a book was a chance meeting with a stranger. “There was an older gentleman in the parking lot (of Union Pacific),” he says. “I thought he was lost but he said he came to see the old railroad, the site of the transcontinental main line. And that piqued my interest so I did a little research and found out, wow! Not just the railroad came through here, but historic figures came too, people like U.S. Grant and William Sherman.” “Many people in Omaha do not know how Omaha played a pivotal role in the Western Expansion,” says Lawson. “Omaha and the railroad became the nation’s best hope for healing and reunification after the Civil War.” Lawson decided to write his book, not for anything else, but to share what he was learning about our area. Omaha Gold was released last June and tells parallel stories of Omaha past and present. Hours and hours of research intertwined with rich story telling make this book a source of knowledge as well as entertainment. “History tells us what happened, historical fiction tells how it felt,” says Lawson. Omaha Gold tells the present day story of a young man, Steve, who finds a brass box along the shores of the Missouri River, a box filled with gold belonging to someone from the past. As Steve tries to uncover the origins of the box he is faced with public officials, crooked cops and would-be thieves who want the box and its contents. Lawson uses local points of interest and landmarks to connect the reader to Omaha. As for the past, Omaha Gold takes us back one hundred and forty years to America’s pioneer days and the construction of the transcontinental railroad. Lawson’s main character from the past is Gene Davenport, a disabled soldier who is caught between doing his duty and fighting the corruption he faces while working for an unscrupulous employer. And while Gene may be a fictional character, Lawson has him intermingled with the Pictured: Lawson McDowell very real Abraham Lincoln, U.S. Grant and Omaha’s very own nemesis, the very unethical Doctor Durant. Lawson took great pains to ensure that all of his history was factual and took no liberties there. “The history in Omaha Gold will withstand scrutiny,” says Lawson. “This is dead-on.” Lawson saw fit to include historical photos and maps as well as drawings that were created by one of Lawson’s sons. All help the reader become immersed in the story as well as in the history of Omaha. Lawson’s desire for factual accuracy took him to historically rich sources like the Herndon House, Douglas County Historical Society and Creighton University, just to name a few. And Lawson’s historical accuracy is so impressive, that Omaha Public Schools has approved Omaha Gold for use in their high school classrooms. “Omaha Gold is a good cross-over book,” he says. “It’s good for teens and adults because it puts the reader right © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. June 2011 Omaha Lifestyles 6 in the action of the construction era. It’s not about dry statistics, you see how it felt. You have a first person inside look at things going on; the Civil War, Lincoln, the railroad.” As much as Lawson enjoys writing, he also enjoys speaking to groups about Omaha Gold and the unknown bits of historical facts that helped shape the book. “Its one of the things I enjoy doing; presenting the railroad’s story and Omaha Gold,” he says. “And so as a locally published book, I get to speak to book clubs and other groups.” Lawson has presented his power point presentation to many local groups like the Douglas County Genealogy Society, local schools and book clubs. Omaha Gold is available for purchase on Amazon.com and Kindle as well as local book stores and can be found at your local library. For more information on Omaha Gold visit www.OmahaGoldNovel.com. For more information on a presentation by Lawson McDowell call RAWR Publishing Company at (402) 391-7649 or contact them at publisher@omahagoldnovel. com. I am now, officially, a history buff due in part to Lawson McDowell’s great read. And though my passion for history has been a few years in the making, I would say it was well worth the wait. But I cannot help but wonder that if I had a fun, exciting and factual account of historical events like those found in Omaha Gold, I may have done much better in my history classes. Providing the best ear, nose & throat care for adults & children since 1962 Board Certified Otolaryngologists Head & Neck Surgeons Trent Quinlan, MD, FACS Patrick Farrell, MD David Denman, MD, MPT Debora Goebel, MD Ryan Sewell, MD, JD Louis Sully, PA-C Audiologists Kenneth Stallons, MS, FAAA Misty Mueller, MS, CCC-A 366 Regency Parkway Dr, Omaha www.omahaent.com Time to get your hearing checked?? 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Anne Fenner is an image consultant who realizes that there is power in perception and has spent the past thirty years helping people not only dress for success, but fine tune their approach and attitude to create a better you; on the inside and out. Anne Fenner Image Management is dedicated to helping individual clients and businesses be their best through appearance, behavior and etiquette. Whether someone is looking for a wardrobe update or lesson in social skills for personal upkeep or business advancement, Anne’s business is able to help. Anne began her career in image consulting when she took a career development class with the Junior League of Omaha. “I was an at-home-mom with two children,” she says. “And I knew it was time for me to go back to work.” Through the classes at the Junior League, Anne realized that one of her strengths was that she was adept at both right and left brain thinking. In short, she is both creative and organized. At the same time Anne was aware of the nationally syndicated news paper column and Dress for Success books by John Molloy. “He called himself a wardrobe engineer,” laughs Anne. “That got me thinking that no one in Omaha was doing this type of consulting.” Anne says that she wanted a job that would fill a need in Omaha, but did not want it to feel like work to her. “I thought; if I can do anything and not get paid for it, what would that be? I wanted people to feel comfortable about themselves.” In 1981, Anne began consulting and started by giving free talks on what colors look good on what types of people and soon got her first client, who is still a client to this day. Today, Anne has many more clients, including several businesses in Omaha and Lincoln that hire her for what she calls Style Development that helps clients discover, manifest and maintain their look. Anne does this though a series of steps. First, Anne will Analyze, with the client. This is done by taking a verbal and/or written inventory of values, wardrobe and lifestyle needs and uses a detailed questionnaire (which can be found in Anne’s book). “This is the first step, we size up the situation.” Anne takes time to get to know the personality of her clients as well as surmises body type, color palette and work needs. Next, Anne will Apply, or take what she and her client learn from the initial Analyze process and use it for the client’s present life and business situation. “We then Apply the colors and styles needed for that particular person and situation to the wardrobe hanging in their closet. I teach the client where to shop and give them a list of stores or go shopping with them.” Anne uses her first client as an example. “She was a very busy person with a high profile volunteer job.” Anne says that her client wanted to dress and look better and had Anne help her figure out what her style was. “We went through her closet, kept the best of what she had that worked for her and got rid of what didn’t. We mixed and matched what she already had and then added certain staples to make her wardrobe complete. I would then shop for her and then take her with me to check out the items that I had found.” Anne says that in addition to adding new wardrobe pieces for your image makeover, it is also important to get rid of items that do not work. The last step is to Act by taking action and change © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. June 2011 how clients dress and shop. But this last step goes a bit further in that it incorporates the most important part of the wardrobe: self confidence. “When you don’t feel that you look good, you act the same,” says Anne. “I had a client in Des Moines who worked in a bank. She did the questionnaire and we applied that information to her then present wardrobe. We then picked out an outfit for a blind date that she had. Well, she ended up marrying him! And she is still married to him! I attribute that to confidence.” In addition to Style Development for individuals and businesses, Anne also offers: Head-to-toe Critiques: conversation on details of dress for office, memos and other business related issues. Color Consulting: that helps clients choose colors that enhance them and their environment. Coaching: by working along side of clients as they work to achieve goals in work and in life. Workshops: to teach how to make the best possible first impression. Anne has also taken her experience and knowledge and put it in a book entitled: Dress Smart. Now in its 2nd edition, Dress Smart features the drawings and insights of Anne’s good friend Sandi Bruns. The book helps readers navigate their individual fashion needs with a very in detailed questionnaire, diagrams and do’s and don’ts when it comes to fads and fashions. Anne’s book, published by Fairchild Books out of New York City, has been picked up by various Community Colleges as a text book for learning how to become an image consultant. Dress Smart is a workbook that encourages readers to docu- Omaha Lifestyles 8 ment and take notes, learning about themselves and their individual sense of style. Anne is available for individual consulting as well as for businesses and other groups wanting to brush up on their etiquette, style and confidence. Anne has also worked with schools helping students with basic manners and etiquette techniques. For more information or to contact Anne, visit www.annefenner.com or call (402) 598-4898. Dress Smart can be purchased online though Fairchild Books, Barnes and Noble and Amazon. And while you truly cannot judge a book by its cover, it does happen. But with the help of Anne Fenner, you will certainly look like a great read. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. A Fun Fond Farewell to The Fifties By: Perry Block Ozzie and Harriet, Zorro, Speedy Alka-Seltzer. Just reading these names and so many others from the 1950s, we feel pretty nostalgic for the salad days of our youth. Perry Block felt the same way, and went to the trouble of writing a fun Fond Farewell to the Fifties. I realized then that the era of my youth, the 1950s, was submerging faster than Lloyd Bridges’ character Mike Nelson in Sea Hunt. Time to take stock of a few lingering memories, I figured, before the likes of Jack Benny and The Lone Ranger also sink fully ‘neath the waves: beyond, and made a full-fledged star out of cookie-cut Troy Donahue. “Dobie! Wants a girl who’s dreamy. Dobie! Wants a girl who’s creamy.” And what a creamy, dreamy cast of supporting characters The Many Loves of Dobie Gillis had: beatnik Maynard G. Krebs, proof positive that Bob Denver was a talented comic actor before he set sail for a three hour/ life-long trashing of his career; Thalia Menninger, which was our first panting look at the incredibly gorgeous Tuesday Weld; Herbert T. Gillis, Dobie’s lovable but blowhard dad, a proud veteran of “WWII, the Big One!”; spoiled rich kid Chatsworth Osborne Jr.; even Warren Beatty as a proto-Chatsworth in the early episodes. Yes, Dobie— in the person of Dwayne Hickman— wanted a girl to call his own, and boy oh boy so did we. And even as Dobie Do (as Chatsworth called him) fades away, a lot of us still Dobie-Do! Like 77 Sunset Strip. It was a cool L.A. private-eye show, or at least as cool an L.A. private-eye show as you could have starring Efrem Zimbalist Jr. . It did have a sense of fun, however, as well as some slicker elements in the character Jeff Spencer, played by Roger Smith (later to be AnnMargret’s husband), and Ed “Kookie” Burns, whose “Kookie, Kookie, lend me your comb” greasy hair set off a national craze, even if we laughed at it a decade later. But 77 Sunset Strip’s greatest cool was in spawning a spate of cookie-cutter follow-ups, all from ‘the Studios of Warner Brothers,’ which planted cookie-cutter private eyes in Hawaii, Miami, and points There were many jingles too, from “Plop, Plop, Fizz, Fizz” to “Kerplunk Go the Tablets”… but only one Speedy Alka-Seltzer. In that sugarsweet voice all his own, the little boy with the chest made of an Alka-Seltzer tablet and a shock of brown hair tumbling out from under an AlkaSeltzer hat sang the praises of the relief–giving tablets all throughout the 50s. In those days before Gumby roamed the earth, the stop-action technology that breathed life into Speedy seemed incredible, rendering him a favorite with us children and with the adults who actually used the fizzy stuff many a morning after one highball too many. Speedy It was the second time in just a few months that the hard truth smacked me right in the face! First, a 30-ish-year-old woman I know confused American comedy legend Jack Benny with less than legendary (to me) British comedian Benny Hill. Then the even bigger blow: my 15year-old son had no idea who The Lone Ranger was. seemed so real, you just wanted to cuddle him, to make him your own special playmate. But as we grew older, Speedy didn’t, and with a barely audible “plop, plop” in the early 60’s, kerplunk went Speedy— only to be tentatively resurrected, more or less, just the other day! Then, in the not-even-yet wee hours of the morning, there was the Indian Head Test Pattern, flittering across our TV screens in the place of today’s diet of Letterman, Leno, Conan, Kimmel, Ferguson, Fallon et al. and often more entertaining than the whole lot of them. There was no such thing as all-night TV, oh my children. The three (count’ em three!) networks all went early to bed and not so early to rise. In their place, and all through the night, was an oddly designed screen with a series of circles and adorned with an Indian Head, as we called it in those days. Why did the test pattern feature the head of a Native American? Could it be that because we took their land, they got us back good by taking our TV? was oddly named, a program about the unadventurous couple next door that claimed to offer Adventures. Yet though none of the Nelsons solved crimes or explored the untamed West, Ozzie and Harriet did possess a certain quirkiness not found on most other “just dropped by to borrow a cup of sugar” shows. For one, we were never enlightened as to what Ozzie did for a living; I seem to remember he was a band-leader, which might explain why he was home all day every day. But it was not very clear; he might have been with the CIA, or sold drugs, or been the Hubcap King of Santa Monica. Harriet for her part sometimes exhibited an offbeat sense of humor, and son Ricky began as a scrawny kid who picked up a guitar and wound up a full-fledged rock legend, complete with untimely death. Ozzie and Harriet can also bid fair to be our first brush with Reality TV; as the kids grew and married, they married their real-life wives on the show. Recently, the last of the brood, David Nelson, passed away at age 74. 74!!!!! I kind of miss his family’s Adventures. The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet Zorro, in the sanitized Disney tradi- © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. June 2011 to the basic lameness of the show, the lightning strike at the opening and the very “Z” that Zorro carved were obviously animated. Still, Zorro and his brocade-clad alter ego were suavely played by Guy Williams— later to go mustache-less on Lost in Space— and for little kids not used to much sophistication in the 50s, Zorro-Zorro-Zorro was fun-fun-fun! tion, was a light-hearted look at a masked, mustachioed, caped crusader of Old California, whose adventures exuded no sense of danger whatsoever. Talk about suspension of belief: Don Diego de la Vega looked, spoke, and comported himself so exactly like the alleged scoundrel Zorro that it was impossible to believe even the doltish Sergeant Garcia couldn’t figure out who he was, let alone the general populace of the future state. To add Brylcreem promised us guys that “a little dab would do” us and cute-asall get-out women would fall into our arms. Brylcreem certainly helped Ed “Kookie” Burns make a career for himself, but I’m not sure the gooey stuff otherwise lived up to its rep. “Watch out, the girls’ll all pursue you, they’ll love to get their fingers in your hair” warbled an all-male choir on the omnipresent commercials in which male and female puppets found romance when the male puppet’s hair went from shaggily disheveled to Omaha Lifestyles 12 gloppily sheveled. Maybe wooden puppets and ultra-cool 50s dudes achieved feminine fingers in their hair, but all I got was a greasy pompadour— until one day the Beatles came along and washed it all away. Imagine the questions you’d get if you were introducing the Hula Hoop to the world today: “How much RAM do you need? Is there an app for it on the iPhone? How voluminous are the operating instructions?” Well, the instructions were simply to wrap the plastic hoop around your middle, jiggle a bit, and have yourself some fun. In many ways the 50s were less than ideal, with blatant discrimination, no Civil Rights Act, and an environment in which you and I could be unfairly rejected for a job easy as Mom’s apple pie. But when it came to sheer satisfaction in the simplicity of the Hula Hoop, the Fabulous Fifties were just fine! And to them, I bid a fond farewell! Angels Care Home Health Skilled Nursing in the comfort of your home or residence. Our services include: Call to learn about our Disease Management Programs Alisha Thompson RN, DON Administrator Kelly Tolliver LPN Marketing Representative r%JBCFUFTr$01%r"M[IFJNFST r'BMMT1SFWFOUJPOr1BSLJOTPOT r)ZQFSUFOTJPOr$)'r4USPLF5#* r-JHIU4UFQ/FSWF1BJO/FVSPQBUIJFT Nichole Baugh Marketing Representative Omaha (402) 934 -4752 Covered 100% by Medicare © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. 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How Work Can Affect Your Social Security By: Jim Miller Dear Savvy Senior I’m looking at retiring sometime this year and starting my Social Security benefits, but would also like to work part time. Will this affect my benefits, and if so, how much? Social Insecurity Dear Insecurity You can collect Social Security retirement benefits and work at the same time, but depending on how old you are and how much you earn, it can cost you temporarily. Here’s what you should know. Working Rules Social Security says that if you’re under your full retirement age (which is 66 if you were born between 1943 and 1954; if not, see ssa.gov/pubs/ageincrease. htm to find your full retirement age) and are collecting benefits, then you can earn up to $14,160 in 2011 without jeopardizing any of your Social Security if you don’t reach your full retirement age this year. But if you earn more than the $14,160 limit, you’ll lose $1 in benefits for every $2 over that amount. In the year you reach your full retirement age, a less stringent rule applies. If that happens in 2011, you can earn up to $37,680 from January to the month of your birthday with no penalty. But if you earn more than $37,680 during that time, you’ll lose $1 in benefits for every $3 over that limit. And once your birthday passes, you can earn any amount by working without your benefits being reduced at all. Wages, bonuses, commissions, and vacation pay all count toward the income limits, but pensions, annuities, investment income, interest, and government or military retirement benefits do not. To figure out how much your specific earnings will affect your benefits, see the Social Security Retirement Earnings Test Calculator at ssa.gov/OACT/COLA/RTeffect.html. Temporary Loss It’s also important to know that if you do lose some or all of your Social Security benefits because of the earning limits, they aren’t lost forever. When you reach full retirement age, your benefits will be recalculated to a higher amount to make up for what was withheld. For details and examples of how this is calculated, see ssa.gov/retire2/whileworking3.htm. Tax Factor You also need to factor in Uncle Sam. Because working increases your income, it might make your Social Security benefits taxable. Here’s what the IRS says. If the sum of your adjusted gross income, nontaxable interest, and half of your Social Security benefits is between $25,000 and $34,000 for individuals ($32,000 and $44,000 for couples), you have to pay tax on up to 50 percent of your benefits. Above $34,000 ($44,000 for couples), you could pay on up to 85 percent, which is the highest portion of Social Security that is taxable. About a third of all people who get Social Security have to pay income taxes on their benefits. Savvy Tips: For more information on how working can affect your Social Security see ssa.gov/retire2/whileworking.htm and ssa.gov/pubs/10069.html, or call the Social Security helpline at 800-772-1213 and ask to receive a free copy of publication number 05-10069, “How Work Affects Your Benefits.” And for information on Social Security taxes call the IRS at 800-829-3676 and ask for their free publication 915, “Social Security and Equivalent Railroad Retirement Benefits,” or see www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p915.pdf. Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. Supporting A Charity Can Actually Make You Feel Better By: Pam Dillon Neuroscientists and researchers spend no small amount of time poking, prodding, and peering into the human brain. This three-pound organ, mostly made of water, is also comprised of about 100 billion neurons linked by trillions of neurotransmitters. Yes, there is a lot going on in there. Advances in neurochemistry, genomics, imaging, analysis and molecular biology have made a real difference in recent years in the understanding of brain- and human functioning. And most of us are hoping these people in the labs with microscopes and high tech wizardry will keep right on prodding and discovering how the brain functions. In some cases, the neuro-exploration involves figuring out the basis of what is already widely recognized. And this is what we do know for sure: Giving makes us feel good. It seems like a contradiction. Isn’t the economy of the entire western world fueled by getting? Aren’t we evolutionarily hard-wired to take, to stock up and store and acquire in survivalof-the-fittest fashion? That may be true to a certain extent. However, it would seem that our brains are also configured to allow us-even prompt us- to pass it on. Perhaps it dates back to the era when Betty, Barney, Wilma, Fred and the rest of the cave dwellers went out with their clubs and rocks, tracked down some meat and dragged it home to share. Regardless of the history and the evolution in human functioning, the fact remains true today. Altruism makes us happy. It gives us a real sense of satisfaction. In fact, we’re motivated to help others. Consider the Golden Rule: Treat others as you want to be treated. Our human capacity for empathy means we can imagine how it feels to be in somebody else’s circumstances. We can “feel” for somebody else. As a result, philanthropy, volunteerism, kindness, our instincts to be good Samaritans and to help those in need are an innate part of our humanity. subjects with the highest rating also had the It’s scientifically proven that altruism gives us satisfaction. There’s science to prove it. According to NINDS (the National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke), a couple of studies have looked at how and where that feeling good message originates in the brain. A 2007 report called Inner Workings of the Magnanimous Brain by Daniel Stimson, Ph.D. offers some insight into why we want to give and to do good things for others. Stimson notes that one study, on record in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, charted brain activity when subjects were given the option to give to charities or receive money. It turned out that a similar pattern of brain activity was seen when subjects chose either to donate or take a payoff. Both types of decisions were associated with heightened activity in parts of the midbrain, a region deep in the brain that is known to be involved in primal desires (such as food and sex) and the satisfaction of them. This result provides the first evidence that the “joy of giving” has an anatomical basis in the brain- surprisingly, one that is shared with selfish longings and rewards. Scientist Jordan Grafman, Ph.D. led the work and when he and his team asked the same people to rate their everyday charitable involvement, Stimson’s report says they discovered highest level of activity in the prefrontal cortex. Dr. Grafman, a senior investigator in the intramural research division NINDS, is quoted as saying, “There’s a lot of controversy about what the prefrontal cortex does. “We’re interested in how this uniquely human part of the brain represents and processes information.” Meanwhile, Stimson’s report also mentions a study in Nature Neuroscience has linked altruism to another part of the brain called the posterior superior temporal cortex. It’s in the upper back part of the brain and it allows us to perceive goal-directed actions by somebody or something else. Basically, thanks to this part of your brain, you are able to recognize that other people or organizations have goals and when you give or contribute to those goals, your actions will have positive consequences. While the workings of the brain are still largely a mystery, undoubtedly there are a number of areas and processes involved in our desire to give. What’s more, when we anticipate something good, such as do- nating, giving a gift or helping others, other brain mechanisms come into play and, in the real world, there is a payoff: we feel good even in planning and preparing for our good deeds. There is a real-world payoff when we plan to make a gift. Those are some of the countless benefits of planning giving. Making the choice to support a charity or non-profit organization as part of your estate plan can actually make you feel better. And you don’t have to be a neuroscientist to understand that there’s a great deal of contentment and satisfaction in knowing you’re doing your bit to help make the world a better place. (Reprinted with permission of Fifty-Five Plus Magazine) © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. The Secret to Satisfying Donations Bev Carlson, APR Director of Public Relations – Lutheran Family Services of Nebraska Kristy says, “If it weren’t for this program, I’m sure I would be fighting the state for custody of my kids right now.” Jen says, “This program kept me from having to choose between putting gas in the car or diapers on my baby…” Carol says, “It’s because of this program that I have my family back…” At Lutheran Family Services of Nebraska (LFS), the reasons for giving are as varied as the people who give. But in most cases, the donor ultimately wants to know they’ve contributed to a program that has helped someone else: Someone who needs help learning to parent. Someone who needs a hand up to take care of their child. Someone in crisis who needs help to see a way out. The expanse of LFS’ varied programs – over 30 at last count — all focus on one thing: building and strengthening individuals, families and communities. Whether it’s helping a foster child locate a permanent home, a refugee family discover its place in America, providing therapy for a sexually abused child, or helping a traumatized soldier find the peace of recovery – everything is focused on the wellness of the person, the family, and society. “Not everyone is blessed with a healthy home,” says Ruth Henneman, Vice President of Development for LFS. “I consistently hear from our major donors – they want to make a difference for people who are hurting. And they know we [LFS] are right in the middle of the messiness of life, working to help others who need to heal – one person and one family at a time.” Most of LFS’ donors give because they believe in this mission and they want to be part of it. They will also tell you they appreciate the organization’s strategic business model and operational efficiency. And there are those who give because it is an important part of their spiritual life. Henneman also points out that donors like the longevity of the organization. Lutheran Family Services of Nebraska is preparing to celebrate 120 years of service in 2012. What started as two orphanages in Fremont and Omaha – has now grown to include a full spectrum of services for children, new communities, and those with behavioral health needs. To learn more about being part of LFS’ work, email [email protected]. Thank you for your support of Lutheran Family Services of Nebraska. Your gift is making a difference in the lives of children and families EVERY DAY. We know you can’t see it, but we wish you could. We can see it in their eyes: a traumatized soldier finally at peace – an abused and neglected child thriving in her new, adoptive family – a young mother gaining the confidence to parent with love. Thousands of lives changed every year simply because you cared enough to help. We see the impact of your generosity every day. You have created a future of hope. www.LFSneb.org “I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.” —Matthew 25:40 © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. Caregiver Column June 2011 too much for some of these individuals to bear. Pictured: Stacy Randels, Senior Living Counselor Heritage Ridge Retirement Community W orking in the senior living industry brings many caregivers my way. A lot of the time they come to me with a less than ideal situation. The stress of being the caregiver can be almost It’s important for me to focus on the person in need of care but it’s also important for me to focus on the caregiver. When I ask the question, “When’s the last time you have done something nice for yourself?” I usually get a puzzled look because most people don’t think about it. They know they are stressed but don’t have the time to think about what it is doing to them. Most people can’t respond to this question because they don’t know. I have a lot of people tell me that when they do get a break, they are too physically or mentally exhausted to do anything. This is obviously not healthy and can ultimately take a huge toll both physically and mentally! Omaha Lifestyles 19 member or a neighbor to take over your duties for awhile and then make the most of it!! • Take a nap or get a massage • Go for a brisk walk or to the gym • Pray or meditate • Talk to friends or join a support group • Go for a long drive • Rekindle an old hobby or find a new one such as fishing or scrapbooking And remember, when it’s all said and done, you can’t be a good caregiver if you can’t care for yourself first!! 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No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. John Wayne: American The Man, The Movies, The Patriotic Spirit Exhibit Strategic Air and Space Museum From June 11th- October 2, 2011 By: Leah Parodi O n June 11, The Strategic Air and Space Museum opens John Wayne: American. Through his movies and his life, John Wayne has been the inspiration and role model for many soldiers, sailors, airmen, and marines. Come see a rare collection from the Duke’s film roles as a cavalry officer on the American frontier to a Green Beret in the jungles of Vietnam. Omaha Lifestyles 50+ magazine had an opportunity to speak with Brian Downes, Director John Wayne Birthplace and Joe Zuckschwerdt, President Board of Directors John Wayne Birthplace. These two men, along with the Strategic Air and Space Museum staff, have collectively designed an exhibit that showcases artifacts from the actor’s movies and personal life, pulled from one of the most impressive John Wayne Collections ever assembled. Omaha Lifestyles 50+: How did you become involved as the director of the John Wayne Birthplace located in Winterset, Iowa? Brian Downes: Before moving to Iowa in 2008, I had worked 35 years for the Chicago Tribune during which time I met and worked with John Wayne on a couple of newspaper articles. One was on his support for the Panama Canal Treaty--which came as a shock to many conservatives-and the other was his opposition to mandatory retirement at age 65. In subsequent legislation, John Wayne’s side prevailed in both instances. I had been a fan since boyhood and when I learned that they were celebrating John Wayne’s 100th birthday (2007) in his birthplace town of Winterset, Iowa. I volunteered to assist in the presentations. I helped organize the hometown parade and produced an old fashioned Buffalo Bill style Wild West show to honor Mr. Wayne. A couple of months later, the Birthplace board decided to hire an executive director and, so impressed was I with the organization and the community, I did not take long in deciding to send in my application. That was three years ago and I’m still enjoying every minute of it. Omaha Lifestyles 50+: Joe, when did you become interested in John Wayne? Joe Zuckschwerdt: When I was a young boy my father took me to see TRUE GRIT. I was aware of John Wayne before, but that movie was the beginning of realizing how impressive he was; forthright, honest, his integrity. Overnight he became my mentor. I searched libraries, bookstores, anywhere I could get information on his life and times. began to recognize my passion and knowledge of this great man. One day I was approached and asked if I would consider becoming a member of the Board...I accepted with great honor, and I will remain with them as long as they will have me. When I got older and started earning a salary, my collection began in earnest. Thirty-five plus years later, I am still collecting. Over the years, I had made several trips to Winterset, Iowa and eventually got involved in their yearly celebration of John Wayne’s birthday by offering to do anything they asked of me. The Board members Omaha Lifestyles 50+: Joe, what is your most prized John Wayne memorabilia? Joe Zuckschwerdt: Now that’s a hard question! These are not especially in order.... I have an autographed photo of Duke that he signed to me just 6 weeks before his death. I was so impressed that he took the time considering how ill he was at the time. I have three of his personal daily planners, years 1977-1978-1979. His saddle that he used in THE COWBOYS. His shirt, jacket and hat that he wore in RIO BRAVO. His shirt that he wore in the last bar scene in THE SHOOTIST. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. June 2011 Omaha Lifestyles 22 Omaha Lifestyles 50+: Tell us about the planned John Wayne Birthplace Museum and Learning Center and When Completion is Scheduled? Brian Downes: Our museum will focus not only on John Wayne’s incredible film career--he remains the most popular motion picture star of all time--but also on his character and his enduring values of honesty, self-reliance and patriotism. There is a yearning for those qualities in today’s culture and it’s my firm belief that no American figure represents the United States as splendidly as Duke. And why not? His is the American experience. He was born in modest circumstances in heartland America at the time when his country was on the verge of becoming the most powerful in the history of the world. His family moved west and, after much struggle and hardship, Wayne got an education and, unable to continue law school or receive an appointment to the U.S. Naval Academy, he went to work in the bottom rungs of the motion picture industry. No overnight success, he studied the craft, honed his acting skills and ultimately achieved top motion picture stardom. Lesser likes have fine museums but Duke has nothing. That’s why this project is essential. The museum will contain movie poster art, wardrobe, guns, personal correspondence and contracts, fine art--paintings and sculpture--and will tell the story of John Wayne: his life and his times and his place in our culture. This effort really did not kick into high gear until 2008, just in time for the Great Recession, but we are attracting a number of influential donors who could make our opening happen as early as 2012. Omaha Lifestyles 50+: What might people not know about John Wayne? Joe Zuckschwerdt: John Wayne loved to fish off his yacht THE WILD GOOSE. BUT, he would NOT eat the fish...he HATED fish! The last ten years of his life he drove a Pontiac Station wagon. He had the roof ‘’raised’’ so that he could comfortably wear hats when driving. He never legally change his name from Marion R. Morrison to John Wayne. Omaha Lifestyles 50+: What is your favorite memory of John Wayne? Brian Downes: Well, I have many favorite movie memories, as do legions of other fans. But for me, this is personal. In a very real way, John Wayne made me the individual I am today. Lacking a strong father figure, I learned from my hero that a man who is not generous or does not keep his word--always--is no man at all. When we met in 1977, I was 25 years old and trying to find my way professionally. By opening his home to me and providing me with a couple of newspaper exclusives he provided me a great career boost. While I sometimes--as all young men do--lacked confidence in myself and my abilities, by taking me under his wing he provided me prestige with my employers and gave me the courage to push myself to the limit. I would not trade that endorsement for anything. The Strategic Air and Space Museum is located at 28210 West Park Highway in Ashland, Nebraska. For more information, call 402-944-3100 or visit www.sasmuseum.com. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. Making A Difference: Barb Grabowski Coleman By: Kristy Brannen After a gall bladder surgery in 2004, Barb found herself in unexplainable pain. “My body felt like it was eating itself and every inch of my back was in severe pain,” the now 62-year-old said. “Since I had experienced natural childbirth I knew this pain was unbearable.” For nearly two years after the surgery, Barb said she searched for answers to what she described as unbearable pain. Finally, in 2007 after several different doctors, she saw a doctor in Sarasota, Fla. who had four different degrees and taught medical school. Within minutes, she said, he knew I had fibromyalgia. As great as it was to have answers, it was equally disappointing to learn that there wasn’t enough research to tell her how to treat the disorder. According to the Mayo Clinic’s web site, www. mayoclinic.com, widespread musculoskeletal pain is the main characterization of fibromyalgia. The disorder typically also impacts sleep, memory and mood. “There was no cure, only pills that might mask my pain,” Barb said. “By knowing what I had, I knew what I had to do.” Putting her skills to work Grabowski said she was just in eighth grade when she decided to be a teacher. During her first year of teaching, she decided to pursue a master’s in guidance and counseling. Once she retired from teaching in 2003, she decided to use her education background and become a professional educational speaker and consultant as well as a life coach. After receiving her diagnosis, Barb said that the same research skills she had learned in college studying to be a history teacher helped her cope and educate herself on the disorder and possible solutions. She also turned to her counseling skills and prayer. “With positive thinking, relaxation music and daily prayer my life turned around so I could use my energy and talents to help others,” she said. “By then I was a talking medical textbook on the subject of fibromyalgia, I listened to others and knew that I had to do something to help them. Their pain was affecting their work, their families, their self-esteem and their quality of life.” She explained that she felt that she couldn’t just walk away from others who were suffering. “I was fortunate that I had an education, I had pension, I had the time and the savings,” she said. After her mother’s death in 2006, Barb said she was inspired to use her inheritance to found the first nonprofit in Nebraska for fibromyalgia, Fund Fighting Fibromyalgia. “Each day I try to help others and try to bring about more awareness of disease that is estimated to affect 56,000 people in Nebraska,” she said. “I might be one voice, but isn’t that better than none?” Honored with the United Way Business Volunteer Award This year Barb was the recipient of the United Way Business Volunteer Award for her vision and desire to help those who are affected by fibromyalgia. However, awards and honors don’t seem to mean much to her. For her it is truly about the ability to help those around her who are suffering. “What is important to me is to help others,” she said. “I find personal satisfaction in being there for others.” In her new role, she is able to use all her skill sets – teaching, speaking and counseling – and she believes that is what has made her successful. “My efforts are one step at a time, trying to bring about fibromyalgia awareness, government funding and donations to help others who by no course of their own actions caused this disease to affect them,” she said. She hopes that with more education and more awareness about the disease, there will be more understanding and compassion for those who are suffering from this mysterious disease. A new perspective Nowadays, Barb is enjoying some dancing and Pictured: Barb Grabowski Coleman playing golf again in addition to running the nonprofit and a business, Caring Hands. She also cares for her five-year-old grandson during part of the day. “I have learned what is important in life,” she said. “It’s not how clean your house is or how you fix your hair and nails or even how you dress. It is how you make time for your fellow man.” According to her, balancing all of her roles is easy. It’s about priorities and for Barb her grandson comes first and community service follow. Right now she is enjoying her friends and family and hoping to take classes in law and photography. In addition, she wants to spend more time traveling. With everything she pursues there is a level of passion and care and the hope that she can educate someone new on fibromyalgia. For more information on fibromyalgia, visit www. fundfightingfibromyalgia.org © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. June 2011 Omaha Lifestyles 24 Home Staging Cont. from page 4 it. At the end of the course, she and her fellow classmates staged a million dollar home. In 2007, she attended a short class to receive her Certified Professional Staging Certification. She believes her home sales have been positively affected by these certifications. “The time my listings are on the market has dramatically decreased since I began staging my listings,” she said. “It would be hard to know for sure, but I feel certain that the homes sell for more than if they weren’t staged.’ The cost of staging For Lube’s clients, staging comes at no additional costs. She said a staged home sells faster, which is part of the reason she doesn’t charge. The other part of the reason she doesn’t charge her clients for her staging services or accessories is because she truly enjoys this aspect of her job. If you choose to go with a professional stager who uses their own accessories, anticipate paying at least $1,000. According to Lube, there are some stagers who may do consultations for a few hundred dollars. For those do-it-yourselfers, Lube suggests attending one of her free staging classes. She holds a class every other month and shares a variety of tips. “Homeowners can learn to do the basics themselves,” she said. There are many resources online and on television. However, Lube said the new design shows, like the ones on HGTV, have been helpful and harmful. “On one hand, they are great because they give sellers an idea of things they can do to their homes. On the other hand, they create such high expectations for buyers.” Her best advice to those who are preparing to sell their home is to call a full-time realtor who doesn’t have another job. They know how to get houses sold since it’s their only business, she said. For more information the free staging classes or to reach Beth Lube, contact her at 402-5942000 or e-mail her at [email protected] Omaha Lifestyles monthly crossword Across 1 1. Steep slope 6. Lip 10. Deities 14. Communion table 15. Capital of Western Samoa 16. Away from the wind 17. Specialty 18. Breathe hard 19. Demeanor 20. Compass pt. 21. Buffet meal 24. Go in again 26. Sounds 27. Greek goddess of the dawn 28. Inclined 30. Fighting 33. Official notification 35. Knock vigorously 38. Light wood 40. Hurried 41. Like beaches 43. Salt Lake City athlete 44. Checked 47. I did it! 48. Entice 49. Numero ___ 51. Soap ingredient 54. Flaw 58. Orcinus orca 61. So that's your game! 62. Initial stake in a hand of poker 63. Cries of discovery 64. Giver 66. Unskilled laborer 67. Attic 68. Writer Jong 69. "___ She Lovely?" 70. Go out with 71. Male duck 14 15 16 17 18 19 Down 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. More secure Shut ___ Grows in Brooklyn Deserter "Voila!" 2 3 4 20 5 21 24 6 7 9 28 32 33 39 43 44 13 35 36 37 55 56 57 29 34 40 41 45 46 48 52 12 26 38 51 11 23 25 31 10 22 27 30 8 47 49 53 42 50 54 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 66 67 68 69 70 71 65 50. Required 6. Flavor 51. Giraffe's cousin 7. On ___ with 52. Queues 8. Vocalize melodically 53. Singer John 9. Diabolical 54. Moisten while cooking 10. Ploy 55. Ancient region of Asia 11. Mixed bags Minor 12. Caterpillar rival 56. Sudden impact 13. Dispatches 57. Greek goddesses of the 22. Small plateau seasons 23. Mends a shoe 25. You can't catch fish without 59. Rider's command 60. Handle of a knife them! 65. Bruins great Bobby 28. ___-garde 29. Fork feature 30. Aladdin's monkey Solution to last month’s puzzle 31. Sylvester, to Tweety 32. Land in la mer 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 L U C E R N E M U S I C A 34. Faucet problem 15 16 I T A L I A N I T E R A T 35. Genetic messenger 17 18 P A R O D I C S A R A C E 36. Use an abacus 19 20 21 22 S H E L O O T A T O M 37. Monetary unit of Burma 23 24 25 M I S D O A P E D 39. Mountain ridge 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 A A R O N E P O D E A S 3 4 3 5 3 6 3 7 42. Smallest component C R A V E N S L O V E T 38 39 40 41 45. Green beryl C I T I Z E N D R E A M E 42 43 44 45 46. Blunt R E T E W I G E R R O R 46 47 48 49 48. Aptitude A L L 50 Answers will be printed in the next edition of Omaha Lifestyles, or email us at [email protected] and we will email the answers to you. R E B A 51 52 E W E R 54 S 60 A 65 L 67 55 I T E A E L K 61 E S V E N E X P E N L A 56 E D B R A D R S S E 62 I N 53 T I L E N S 33 H O R S Y E X 57 E M N N 14 58 R T 63 64 P E A 59 E R L 66 S P O N G E S 68 H O T C A K E © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. June 2011 6/01-6/26 Guys and Dolls- Set against the color of New York City’s high lights and low life, this show is an entertaining fable of love, marriage and temperance on Damon Runyon’s Broadway. It has a classic score and book that includes such songs as “Luck be a Lady” and “Sit Down You’re Rockin’ the Boat.” Performances take place at the Omaha Community Playhouse, located at 6915 Cass Street. For more information, call 402-553-0800 or visit www.omahaplayhouse.org. 6/08 The Alzheimer’s Association Midlands Chapter has an Early Stage Alzheimer’s disease and Other Dementias Support Group designed for care partners and their loved ones with an early stage dementia, over the age of 65. They participate in a non-threatening environment to discuss issues dealing with emotions affecting the loved one with dementia, the caregiver, the family and others as well as promote ongoing education. It is held at New Cassel Retirement Center, Lecture Hall, located at 900 North 90th Street, Omaha on the 2nd Wednesday of each month from 4:30 pm- 6:00 pm. Contact Betty K. Chin at 402502-4301 for more information or to reserve your spot. 6/09-6/26 Rave On- Electrifying, high-energy, rock n’ roll extravaganza featuring America’s premier Buddy Holly interpreter, Billy McGuigan! Backed by the rockin’ Rave On band, their incredible musicianship ignites the stage and breathes new life into the music of Buddy Holly! Experience all the thrills of a Buddy Holly concert re-imagined. In a unique twist, Billy as ‘Buddy celebrates the birth of an era and pays homage to fellow rockers Jerry Lee Lewis, Elvis Presley, Chuck Berry, Ritchie Valens and The Big Bopper. Performances take place at the Omaha Community Playhouse, located at Omaha Lifestyles 6915 Cass Street. For more information, call 402553-0800 or visit www.omahaplayhouse.org. 6/10 Village Pointe Wine FestivalJoin us for the inaugural Village Pointe Wine Festival presented by Brix! Experience more than 100 premier wines from around the world in a complimentary Riedel tasting glass as you savor signature small plates from Kona Grill, Firebirds Wood Fired Grill and Brix. Purchase your tickets now at Brix for $45 per person. All tickets sold prior to June 10 will include a $10 Brix gift card. For more information, call 402-991-9463 or visit www.brixomaha.com. Museum, located at 28210 West Park Highway in Ashland, Nebraska. For more information, call 402-944-3100 or visit www.sasmuseum.com 6/14 Tempo of Twilight Series: The Fabulous Rogues- From all-time favorite cover songs to artistic originals, talented local bands will create a memorable musical experience for visitors of all ages. Purchase delicious and affordable meals from the café or bring your own snacks and beverages. Bring blankets or chairs to relax in the garden. Event takes place at Lauritzen Gardens, located at 100 Bancroft Street. For more information, call 402-346-4002 or visit www. lauritzengardens. org. 6/10-12 Omaha Summer Arts Festival6/22 Summer 135 of the nation’s finest visual artists, Health Fair at three stages of continuous entertainment Skyline Retirement including national performers and a Community. large hands-on Children’s Fair. Food, Admission: Free Nebraska craft brews, + giveaways- Free special events and blood sugar & artist demonstrations. blood pressure One of the city’s s c r e e n ings. premier destinations Cholesterol checks for exceptional art, for $15 Lunch: atmosphere and Pictured: Summer Arts Festival $3. Many health entertainment. Event related vendors takes place on Farnam on hand to answer Street between 10th and 15th Streets. For more questions. Event takes place from 10:00-2:00 p.m. information, call 402-345-5401 or Skyline Retirement Community is located at 7300 Graceland Drive. visit www.summerarts.org. 6/11-October 2 John Wayne: American ExhibitThrough his movies and his life, John Wayne as been the inspiration and role model for many soldiers, sailors, airmen, and marines. Come see a rare collection from the Duke’s film roles as a cavalry officer on the American frontier to a Green Beret in the jungles of Vietnam. Stay tuned and check back often as we further develop this exhibit around the greatest icon of American patriotism. Exhibit takes place at Strategic Air and Space 6/23-6/25 33rd Annual Quilt Show- Includes quilt display and vendor mall. Event takes place at the LaVista Conference Center, located at 12520 Westport Parkway. For more information, visit www.omahaquiltersguild.org. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. © 2011 Hathaway Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, in any form or by any means, without permission in writing from the publisher, Hathaway Publishing, Inc. HELPING YOU LIVE BETTER Join the Y today and become part of a community committed to helping you learn new things and make new friends at any stage of your life. Visit your local Y or purchase your membership online at www.metroymca.org.