March 2008 - The Senior Times
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March 2008 - The Senior Times
Help Generations, help kids Call (514) 933-8585 MARCH 2008 VOL. XXII NO 5 C E L E B R AT I N G 2 1 Y E A R S O F B R I N G I N G YO U T H E I S S U E S ! FEATURES Cubans need us now p. 31 Dealing with vision loss Oh Jerusalem! p. 35 p. 36-37 INSIDE GUIDE TO RESIDENCES Windows of Montreal, Seymour St. Watercolour by Susan Mott Story on p. 13 Hooked on rugs p. 19 Project Genesis: still feisty at 30 p. 25 Know your tenant rights p. 26 FOR CAREGIVERS After the move p. 12 Set up the space p. 21 Annual Guaranteed Income With Growth Potential Minimum $25,000 Best Wishes for a Happy Easter! Hon. Stéphane Dion Leader of the Official Opposition Meilleurs vœux à l'occasion de Pâques! M.P., P.C. Saint-Laurent – Cartierville (514) 335-6655 Raymonde Folco Dr. Bernard Patry Hon. Marlene Jennings Hon. Irwin Cotler Francis Scarpaleggia M.P. Laval – Les Îles M.P. Pierrefonds – Dollard P.C., M.P. NDG – Lachine P.C., O.C., M.P. Mount Royal M.P. Lac-Saint-Louis (450) 689-4594 (514) 624-5725 (514) 489-8703 CELEBRATING 21 YEARS OF PUBLISHING Publisher & Managing Editor: Barbara Moser Assistant Editor: Kristine Berey Copy Editor: Gisele Rucker Journalists: Kristine Berey, Alex Matthews, Nancy Snipper Office Manager: Thelma Gearey Sales Manager: Jacquie Soloway-Cons Advertising: Jodie Alter, Gloria Beigleman, Shirley Cohen, Jacquie Soloway-Cons, Sandra Schachter Production & Design: Albert Cormier Editorial & Production Assistants: Megan Callahan, Adam Desaulniers, Emily Wilkinson Systems Manager: Scott Philip Web Designer: Gabriel Tordjman Printing: Hebdo Litho Tel.: (514) 484-5033 Fax: (514) 484-8254 Email: [email protected] Website: www.theseniortimes.com Published by Publications Newborn Inc. Contents copyright ©2008. All rights reserved. Legal Deposit: National Library of Canada No. D368087 Dépot légal Bibliothèque Nationale du Québec, 1993. 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Our Inn offers efficiencies, executive suites and well appointed rooms. • Olympic-sized swimming pool • Shopping nearby at Boca Raton & Pompano • 1.5 miles to the beach • Choice of many golf courses • FREE Continental Breakfast every morning • FREE high-speed internet Deerfield Beach, Broward County 10% Discount with ad 1401 S. Federal Highway • Deerfield Beach, FLORIDA 33441 2 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 TOLL FREE: 1-800-283-9946 www.travelersinndeerfield.com Gazette journalist to speak on Rwanda Alex Matthews WOW! WOW! WHAT A DEAL TO RIDEAU CARLETON RACEWAY & SLOTS On April 6, 1994, a surface-to-air missile destroyed a private jet carrying Juvénal Habyarimana and Cyprien Ntaryamira, the respective presidents of Rwanda and Burundi. Their assassinations triggered a 100day massacre in Rwanda. This genocide went largely unnoticed in the West, until survivors began the monumental task of counting the more than 750,000 bodies. Sue Montgomery, a journalist for the Gazette, has been to Rwanda twice and met those who experienced the genocide.“For the most part I found it very uplifting,” she said in a telephone interview. “I found it inspirational that after what they’d been through, people could get up in the morning and they could still laugh, smile, and dance. “The only time I ever really lost it was when I went to one of the memorial sites. It’s a school where the massacres took place and every room has skeletons from the mass graves.” Montgomery will draw on her experiences when she gives her presentation Rwanda: Not Just Another Scary Place at the Women’s Canadian Club of Montreal on March 17. “For the last two winters I’ve traveled to Rwanda to teach journalism at the university there,” Montgomery explained. She and many other foreign journalists have been trying to rebuild Rwanda’s media. “All the journalists either took part in the killings, fled or were killed,” she said, adding that many survivors don’t understand what a free press is. Last year, Montgomery brought one of her students to Montreal. “He stayed with me for six weeks and it was an eye-opening experience — for him, but also for me and my family.” One night when the family gathered for dinner, he asked, “When was this pig slaughtered and what farm did it come from?” “It was strange for him to have all these machines in our house doing our work,” she said. “We’re so lucky here in Canada. You just can’t imagine having to flee for your life.” Many of her students were orphans. “One of my students was in one of the churches where the slaughters took place,” she explained. “He was only able to survive by hiding under the bodies.” “I had one student who was in the Congo when it happened. 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As a senior and a cancer survivor living almost exclusively on my government pensions, I know I will not see a doctor if I will have to find $25 for a visit. Instead, I will most likely arrive in an ambulance at the hospital emergency department too late. It is shocking that the Canadian government would consider this proposal. It would mean survival of the richest. What a black — Phyllis Carter mark on Canada’s reputation! * Complete DENTURE service * Hookless Partials * Emergency 1 hr repair 2545 Cavendish 514 982-2517 Meilleurs vœux, Joyeuses Pâques et heureux printemps à vous et votre famille. Monique Jérôme-Forget M.N.A for Marguerite-Bourgeoys Minister of Finance Minister of Government Services Minister responsible for Government Administration Chair of the Conseil du trésor Pierre Arcand MNA for Mont-Royal 514-341-1151 514-697-7663 The bird houses on our cover photo by Albert Cormier were created by his friend, Jean-Marc Gaudreau. Jean-Marc died January 31, 2008 of cancer. He was 56. Best wishes for A Happy Easter and A Joyful Springtime to you and your family. Lawrence S. Bergman MNA for D’Arcy-McGee Raymond Bachand MNA for Outremont 514-488-7028 Minister of Economic Development, Innovation, Export Trade & Tourism Minister responsible for the Montreal Region 514-368-1818 Geoffrey Kelley MNA for Jacques-Cartier Implant dentures Henri-François Gautrin MNA for Verdun 514-766-7503 514-482-0199 Russell Copeman MNA for François Ouimet MNA for Marquette Jacques Chagnon MNA for Westmount – Saint-Louis Pierre Marsan MNA for Robert-Baldwin Notre-Dame-de-Grâce 514-634-9720 Vice President of the National Assembly 514-684-9000 514-489-7581 4 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 514-395-2929 March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 5 Rwanda Cont. from p. 3... Dr. Michael Wiseman DENTAL SURGEON “Gentle dental care provided with kindness and understanding.” IMPLANTS, DENTURES, GENERAL PRACTICE Ground level, wheelchair accessible, with FREE parking! RESTORATIVE DENTISTRY ★ CERTIFICATE IN GERIATRIC DENTISTRY (MCGILL UNIVERSITY) ★ FELLOW, AMERICAN SOCIETY OF GERIATRIC DENTISTRY ★ DIPLOMATE OF SPECIAL CARE DENTISTRY ★ MEMBER ROYAL COLLEGE OF SURGEONS (EDINBURGH) ★ ASSISTANT PROFESSOR, MCGILL FACULTY OF DENTISTRY 514-481-2630 5555 Westminster #102 Côte St. Luc TAXIS back all of her family had been killed.” Montgomery notes that Tutsi and Hutu tensions have cooled down in the past decade. “You’d think they’d be really bitter and angry, but you didn’t see much of that,” she said. “They live side by side and there is a certain tolerance. I think they realize that a lot of people were forced to kill or be killed. It’s just a horrible situation to be put in.” But not everyone complied with the orders. “There were a lot of people told to do things and they didn’t. They refused.” Montgomery said that many people became religious as a result of what they experienced. “I think it’s a really bad thing because they turn over all their money to the Church and they’re basically brainwashed,” she said. “I had a lot of discussions and arguments with my students — many of the priests and nuns took part in the genocide.” One day, Montgomery took her students to one of the prisons in Butare, where many inmates await trial for alleged atrocities. “There are lots of people who were going around clubbing people with their ma- chetes and they haven’t been tried yet,” she says, adding sarcastically, “They’re all innocent of course.” Sue Montgomery will speak Monday, March 17 at 12:30 pm at the Unitarian Church, 5035 de Maisonneuve Blvd. W. Info: 514-481-3251 Women strut their stuff The Women’s Art Society hosts print dealer Jan Johnson’s illustrated lecture The Neglected Needle: the Little Known History of Women Printmakers, Tuesday March 11. Author Monique Polak follows Tuesday March 18 with her talk Capturing the Teenage Imagination: Writing for Young Adults. Hear Gail Issenman sing All That Jazz and More, accompanied by Robin Chemtov on piano, Tuesday March 25. All events are at 1:30 pm, Théâtre J. Armand Bombardier, McCord Museum, 690 Sherbrooke St. W. Guests/$8. Info: 514-737-7268 24-Hour Service ◆ In business since 1922 ◆ Fast and courteous service ◆ Reservations accepted ◆ Special care for elderly and handicapped ◆ Fast and safe delivery of packages ◆ Acceptance of coupons from Diamond, Veterans & Candare ◆ Largest fleet of vehicles on Montreal Island 2008 CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED D IA MO ND A family business since 1958 GOLD 514 -27 3-63 31 6 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 FUNERAL HOME 560 Lakeshore Dr. Dorval 514-631-1511 2125 Notre Dame Lachine 514-639-1511 Julie Cardinal GUIDE TO RESIDENCES Contents Guide to Apartments.................................p. 8 Côte-St.-Luc/Ville St.-Laurent..................p. 9 NDG/Westmount ....................................p. 10 Lachine/Verdun .......................................p. 11 Downtown ...............................................p. 11 Côte-des-Neiges/Snowdon ....................p. 16 West Island ..............................................p. 18 Province of Quebec .................................p. 22 Les Résidences Soleil ...............................p. 28 Legend HK: Rel: Housekeeping Religious Services SA: A/C: Services Available Air Conditioning #9 Lorraine Avenue – watercolour by Susan Mott For gracious living at its best! March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 7 GUIDE TO APARTMENTS St Patrick’s Square Complex Southwest One L’Excelsior Les Habitations Mackle 165 Frobisher #205 Pointe Claire, QC H9R 4R8 514-697-2961 fax: 514-695-1107 www.firstcorp.ca/southwest1 5775 Cavendish Blvd. Côte-St.-Luc, QC H4W 3L9 514-788-5775 fax: 514-788 5776 www.lexcelsior.ca 6655 Mackle Rd. Côte-St.-Luc, QC H4W 2Y3 514-489-8937 [email protected] Available: studio, 1 & 2 bedrooms Including: laundry facilities Services: physiotherapist, pharmacist, pool, whirlpool, sauna, guard at night Near: pharmacy, pool, library, banks, mall Price: from $585 Contact: leasing office Available: 1-4 bedrooms Including: Stove, fridge, dishwasher, laundry facilities in each apartment Services: fitness center, spa, sauna, indoor parking, 24/7 security & doorman Near: pharmacy, pool, library, banks, mall Price: call Contact: Abraham Ayele 6767 CSL Rd. Suite 1 Montreal, QC H4V 2Z6 514-481-9609 [email protected] Available: 3 1/2 - 4 1/2 Including: all appliances, heating, hot water Services: indoor parking, outdoor pool, gym, laundry facilities, party room Near: metro, CLSC, mall, dépanneur, boutiques, banks Price: from $875 Contact: Gilles Desroches, Margot Desroches Available: Studio, 3 1/2, 4 1/2 Including: heating, hydro, fridge, stove, laundry room each floor, security cameras, large lockers Services: award-winning gardens, indoor pool, saunas, chapel, library, card rooms, billiard & exercise room, mini-putt green, events, guest rooms Near: CLSC, golf, pool, pharmacy, library, banks, CSL mall Price: $675 - $850 Contact: Dulcie Naimer (9am - 4pm) Residence Lambert Closse SHDM Residence Maison Leduc SHDM Residence Monkland SHDM 1975 René-Lévesque W., Montreal, QC H2K 2M4 514-380-7436 fax: 514-380-2100 www.rental.SHDM.com 6190 Monkland, Montreal, QC H4B 1G4 514-380-7436 fax: 514-380-2100 www.rental.SHDM.com 4400 West Hill, Montreal, QC H4B 2Z5 514-380-7436 fax: 514-380-2100 www.rental.SHDM.com Security: fire alarms Capacity: 62 Near: metro, CLSC, pharmacy, mall Price: from $703 Security: fire alarms Capacity: 31 Near: metro, CLSC, pharmacy, mall Price: from $590 Security: fire alarms Capacity: 100 Near: metro, CLSC, pharmacy, mall Price: from $590 RÉSIDENCE CÔTE-SAINT-PAUL RÉSIDENCE JEAN-PLACIDE-DESROSIERS 5400, chemin de la Côte-Saint-Paul 55, avenue Ouellette (Lachine) 514 933-2940 514 363-5353 Open house Sunday, March 16 SECURE, COMFORTABLE, ACCESSIBLE MANY SERVICES INCLUDED: Five meals a week / electricity and heating / around-the-clock surveillance / magnetic key to enter building / cable and phone / laundry rooms MORE RENTAL APPARTMENTS IN RESIDENCES AVAILABLE NOW OR COMING SOON: Résidence Des Sources 4200, boul. des Sources (Dollard-des-Ormeaux) 514 683-2323 A project by the Office municipal d'habitation de Montréal Rental office on site open weekdays from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. omhm.qc.ca 8 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 Résidence Lionel-Bourdon 12100, boul. Rodolphe-Forget (Rivière-des-Prairies) 514 648-9505 Résidence Le Mile-End 225, rue Maguire (Plateau Mont-Royal) 514 278-2870 GUIDE TO RESIDENCES Côte St. Luc Griffith McConnell 5790 Parkhaven Montreal, QC H4W 1Y1 514-482-0590 fax: 514-482-2643 [email protected] Capacity: 247 Independent, full care, short/long term Call bells, alarms, monitors 24/7 Dr. on site & on call 24/7, nurse 24/7 Kosher, vegetarian avail., snacks, café Courses, lectures HK: included & laundry SA: recreational therapists, podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, dentist Rel: Catholic, Jewish, Protestant on site Near: CLSC, pool, library, mall Pets: no pets A/C: N/A Price: $1713 - $4672, daily rate avail. Contact: Annette Rudy Ville St. Laurent Le Waldorf 7400 Côte-St.-Luc Rd. Montreal, QC H4W 3J4 514-369-1000 fax: 514-489-3968 [email protected] Capacity: 225 Independent, assisted living, nursing care, respite Alarms, monitors, call bells Dr. weekly, nurse 7 days/wk Meals optional, kosher, tea/snacks Animator, outings, exercise HK: daily, laundry avail. SA: hairdresser, manicure, shuttle Rel: Synagogue on site Near: CLSC, gym, mall Pets: no pets A/C: incl. Price: $2450 - $6500 Contact: Eileen Rabinovitch Vent de l’Ouest 4500 Jacques-Bizard Blvd. Sainte-Geneviève, QC H9H 5N3 514-620-4666 legroupemaurice.com Capacity: 60 condos, 217 apts, 37 units with personalized care Independent, assisted living Emergency call system Nurse 7 days/wk, consultation office 3 meals, café Virtual driving range, indoor pool, spa, gym, activity rooms, cinema, gym HK: as needed, laundry incl. & facilities SA: indoor/outdoor parking, banking, hairdresser, manicure, pedicure Rel: Catholic & worship room on site Pets: under 10 lbs. allowed A/C: incl. Contact & Price: Jacques Leclerc or Suzanne Fabien Place St. Moritz 1055 Côte-Vertu Blvd. St-Laurent, QC H4L 5N1 514-855-5552 fax: 514-798-0649 www.placestmoritz.com Capacity: 224 Independent, assisted, short/ long term Alarms, monitors, Lifeline incl. Doctor 1 day/week, nurse 24/7 2 meals, tea/snacks, restaurant, café Animator, outings, music, exercise, crafts, speakers, games, indoor pool HK: bi-monthly, laundry avail. Serv: indoor garage, banking, groceries, hairdresser, pedicure Rel: Roman Catholic on site Near: metro, CLSC, banks, mall, library, pharmacy, hospital 5km A/C: available Price & Contact: Liana Irmias Condo Manoir King David 5555 Trent Ave., C.S.L., QC H4W 2V6 514-486-1157 fax: 514-486-1837 [email protected] www.manoirkingdavid.com Capacity:120 Independent, assisted living Alarms, monitors, call bells, 24/7 reception desk Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, kosher, tea/snacks Animator, outings, exercise, speakers HK: daily, laundry SA:hairdresser, massage therapist, podiatrist, shuttle to shopping Rel: Jewish on site Near: CLSC, Cavendish Mall, CSL shopping centre, JGH & St. Mary’s Pets: visitors’ pets allowed A/C: avail. common areas Price: from $1775 Contact: Anna Mylonas Manoir Montefiore 5885 Cavendish Blvd. Montreal, QC H4W 3H4 514-485-5994 fax: 514-487-7832 Capacity: 134 Independent, assisted living, separate apts, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells Dr weekly 3 meals, vegetarian, kosher, special diets, tea/snacks Animators, outings, exercise, crafts, music, speakers HK: daily, laundry incl. & facilities SA: physiotherapist, hairdresser, shuttle to shopping Rel: Jewish on site Near: CLSC, library, mall, banks Pets: no pets A/C: incl. Price: from $2300 Contact: Ellen Tissenbaum or Herschel Schecter Residence Steger Le Luxor 6803 Abraham de Sola Côte-St.-Luc, QC H3X 4B3 514-341-8600 fax: 514-340-1389 www.tramsmgmt.com Available: 4 1/2 - 5 1/2 Including: 2 bathrooms, front terrace, wood floors, granite countertops Services: indoor parking, indoor pool, party room, fully equipped gym Near: metro, pharmacy, mall, boutiques, dépanneur Price: $300,000 - $475,000 Pets: some allowed A/C: incl. Contact: Tony Koury 2450 Thimens Blvd. St.-Laurent, QC H4R 2M2 514-337-0000 fax: 514-334-7422 Capacity: 104 units Independent studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells, staff on site 24/7 Nurses 7 days/wk Meals “Jewish Style,” tea/snacks Outings, exercise, speakers, crafts, computer centre, animator HK: weekly, laundry service SA: banking, hairdresser, shuttle to shopping, manicure, pedicure Rel: Jewish facilities nearby, high holiday services on-site Near: metro, CLSC, pool, shuttle, pharmacy, Place-Vertu Mall Pets: most allowed A/C: included Price: from $1800 Contact: Maureen Russell March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 9 GUIDE TO RESIDENCES Westmount NDG Mariette Place 2500 Mariette Montreal, QC H4B 2E6 514-481-5511 Capacity: 12 Independent, assisted living, Alzheimer’s unit Alarms, call bells Dr semi-monthly, CLSC visits 3 meals, Canadian style, 2 snacks Animators, speakers, music, games, HK: daily, laundry incl. SA: hairdresser, manicure, pedicure Rel: Roman Catholic on site & facilities nearby Near: CLSC, library, pharmacy, mall Pets: visitors’ pets allowed A/C: resident installs Price: call for information Contact: Elizabeth Ireson The Salvation Army Montclair Residence Huss-Singer Residence 4078 Northcliffe Montreal, QC H4A 3L3 514-489-1721 fax: 514-487-6910 Capacity: 9 Independent, assisted-living Alarms, staff 24/7 Dr monthly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, kosher, vegetarian, tea/snacks Animator, drama, music, games, bingo HK: daily, laundry incl. SA: podiatrist, pedicure, hairdresser Rel: facilities nearby Near: metro, pharmacy, pool, library Pets: no pets allowed A/C: N/A Price: from $980 Contact: Sandra Huss 4413 Montclair, Montreal, QC H4B 2J4 514-481-5638 fax: 514-481-2973 [email protected] Capacity: 50 Assisted living, 4 room sizes Alarms, call bells, monitors, staff 24/7 Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, tea/snack, restaurant/café Animator, outings exercise, speakers HK: weekly (as needed), laundry incl. SA: podiatrist, pharmacist, hairdresser, dentist, manicure, pedicure, denturologist Rel: Catholic & Protestant on site Near: metro, CLSC, library, shops, St. Mary’s Hospital 14 km Pets: birds & rabbits A/C: avail. Price: $1625 - $2125 Contact: Vicky Stewart Place Kensington 4430 Ste Catherine W. Westmount, QC H3Z 3E4 514-935-1212 fax: 514-989-1009 [email protected] Capacity: 200 Independent, light care, assisted living, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, call bells, monitors, sprinklers, doorman 24/7 Dr on call, nurse 24/7 3 meals, tea/snacks, dining room Concerts, auquafit, games HK: weekly, laundry facilities SA: physiotherapist, pharmacist, manicure, hairdresser, podiatrist Rel: Catholic, Protestant, Jewish on site Near: metro, CLSC, pool, Plaza, MGH, RVH, JGH Pets: birds A/C: available Price: $2900 - $6000 Contact: Pamela Hendy or Sylvia Zagury Resources for Seniors in Westmount & NDG Borden Place 4635 Borden Pl. Montreal, QC H4B 1A1 514-487-9267 Capacity: 22 Independent, assisted living, Alzheimer’s unit Alarms, call bells Dr bi-monthly, CLSC visits 3 Meals, Canadian style, 2 snacks Animators, speakers, music, games HK: daily, laundry SA: hairdresser, manicure, pedicure (not included) Rel: Roman Catholic on site & nearby Near: CLSC, library, pharmacy, mall Pets: visitors’ pets allowed A/C: resident installs Price: call Contact Julia Baker Westmount Public Library 4574 Sherbrooke W. 514-989-5300 Westhill Residence 6332 SherbrookeW., Montreal, QC H4B 1M7 514-726-1181 or 514-485-3030 fax: 514-485-2932 Capacity: 24 Independent, short & long term, assisted living, 1 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells Dr monthly & on call, nurse monthly, nurse’s aides 24/7 3 Meals, special diets, tea/snacks Outings, exercise, games, music, bingo, speakers/lectures HK: daily SA: physiotherapist, podiatrist, hairdresser, manicure, pedicure Rel: facilities nearby Near: metro, CLSC, library, pharmacy, pool, Cavendish mall Pets: no pets A/C: incl. Price: $2000 - $3000 Contact Mario Poliziani Oscar Peterson Hall 7141 Sherbrooke W. 514-848-4848 4646 Sherbrooke W. Westmount, QC H3Z 2Z8 514-937-3943 fax: 514-937-3946 www.manoirwestmount.ca Benny Library Capacity: 125 3465 Benny Independent studio, 1 bdr. 514-872-4147 Alarms, call bells, doorman 24/7 NDG Senior Citizens’ Council Nurse 24/7 3 meals, tea/snacks 6870 Terrebonne Animator, music, crafts, exercise, (Home support, fall prevention, advocacy) outings, speakers 514-487-1311 HK: daily, laundry incl. & facilities Services: podiatrist, banking, NDG Maison de la Culture hairdresser 514-872-2157 Rel: Catholic & Protestant on site Victoria Hall Cultural Centre & facilities nearby 514-989-5226 Near: metro, CLSC, library, pool, pharmacy, hospital Westmount Lawn Bowling Club Pets: no pets A/C: N/A 514-925-1402 Price: from $1611 Westmount Horticultural Society Contact: Tom Thompson 514-932-9349 Foyer Valiquette A friendly homey environment For seniors 1534 Valiquette Verdun • 24 hour Supervised Care • Doctor Visits • Well-balanced Meals • Social Activities • Private Rooms • Outdoor Garden Activities 10 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 [email protected] Manoir Westmount Dian & Jindra Tel: 514-768-0739 GUIDE TO RESIDENCES Downtown Lachine / Verdun Foyer Valiquette La Residence Lachine 1655 William McDonald Lachine, QC H8S 4J6 514-637-4551 [email protected] Capacity: 78 Independent, assisted living private room, 3 1/2 Security 24/7 Certified nurses 3 meals, snacks 24/7 Games, outings HK: cleaning, laundry SA: bank, hairdresser Rel: Catholic Near: CLSC Lachine, hospital Pets: to be discussed A/C: available Price: call Contact: Ginette Desjardins 1534 Valiquette Verdun, QC H4H 2E7 514-768-0739 Capacity: 9 Independent, light care & assisted living Alarms, 24 hr service Dr & nurse on call 3 meals, 2 snacks Exercise, music, games HK: daily, laundry incl. SA: banking, hairdresser, manicure, pedicure, cable Near: CLSC, pharmacy, hospital Pets: pet therapy A/C: N/A Price: from $900 Contact: Dian & Jindra Fulford Residence Résidence le Mile End 1221 Guy St. Montreal, QC H3H 2K8 514-933-7975 [email protected] Capacity: 38 Independent, assisted living Alarms, call bells & camera Dr 2 days/wk & on call, nurse 7days/wk 3 meals, tea/snacks Bingo, outings, music, exercise, speakers, painting, games, crafts HK: daily, laundry incl. SA: physiotherapist, hairdresser, manicure, pedicure Rel: Catholic & Anglican on site Near: metro, CLSC, pharmacy Pets: cat, bird, & dog visits A/C: N/A Price: $1900 - $2400 Contact: Donna Girard 225 Maguire (Plateau Mont-Royal) Montreal, QC H2T 0A2 514-278-2113 Capacity: 181 Independent 60+ Security 24/7, magnetic key Mon-Fri. lunches Laundry room SA: hairdresser, laundry Near: metro, bank pharmacy, shops, medical clinic Pets: one per resident A/C: avail. $120/yr. Price: $825 (1 1/2) - $1,535 Contact: Claudine Paradis Help Lines Referral Help Line for Seniors ................................................514-527-0007 Elder Abuse Hotline ................................................514-489-2287 Downtown Resources Résidence Jean-Placide Desrosiers Résidence Côte-St. Paul 5400 ch. de la Côte-Saint-Paul Montreal, QC H4C 0A4 514-933-2940 fax: 514-933-8170 Capacity: 138 Independent 60+ 24/7 security, magnetic key Mon. to Fri. lunches Bingo, shuffle board, games HK: Laundry room each floor SA: Hair salon Near: Parks, Atwater Library Pets: Small dog or cat A/C: resident installs Price: from $847 studio / $912 1 bdr Contact: Sylvie Martin Legend HK: Rel: 55 Ouellette Ave. Lachine, QC H8R 1L4 514 363-5353 fax: 514-363-1991 Capacity: 83 Independent 60+ 24/7 security, magnetic key Mon. - Fri. lunches Painting, bingo, tai chi, games Laundry facilities Near: bank, hairdresser available, shuttle to grocery store on Thursdays Pets: 1 per resident Price: starting $920 all incl Contact: Madeleine Bergeron Housekeeping Religious Services SA: A/C: Services Available Air Conditioning Housing Hotlines and Resources Arnold Bennett Housing Hotline...........................................514-488-0412 Assocation des Résidences du Quebec...................................514-526-3777 Quebec Housing Corporation, low rent................................514-873-2245 Côte-des-Neiges Information on Housing............................514-738-0101 OPAHQ (Orientation Personnes Agées Hébergement Québec – housing consultation for seniors) .........................514-990-8841 Project Genesis, info referral & advocacy..............................514-738-2036 Public Works (emergencies) ...................................................514-989-5268 Mile End Public Library 5434 Parc Ave. ........................514-872-2141 McGill Institute for Learning in Retirement 688 Sherbrooke St. W. #229 .....514-398-8234 Greene Ave. Community Centre 1090 Greene Ave.....................514-931-6202 Maison de la Culture Plateau Mont-Royal 465 Mont-Royal E. .................514-872-2266 Senior Citizens’ Forum of Montreal 68 St.-Joseph Blvd. W. ............514-270-8464 St. James United Church Senior Centre, 1435 City Councillors ............514-288-9245 Sun Youth Seniors 4251 St.-Urbain ......................514-842-6822 Women’s Y 1355 René-Lévesque W. .........514-866-9941 Peace of Mind For pre-retired and autonomous retired persons 3 1/2 starting at $590 4 1/2 starting at $703 24 hrs emergency service, laundry room, parking optional ( 514 ) 380-7436 • Résidence Monkland, 4400 West Hill, NDG • Résidence Maison Leduc, 6190 Monkland, NDG • Résidence Lambert Closse, 1975 René-Lévesque West, Downtown The SHDM is a non-profit municipal corporation that owns and manages thousands of competitively priced residential units. www.rental.shdm.org March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 11 Alzheimer Groupe (A.G.I.) Inc. offers ongoing SUPPORT GROUPS for spouses and PSYCHO-EDUCATIONAL GROUPS for adult children, ACTIVITY PROGRAMS, ART THERAPY and MUSIC PROGRAM for individuals in the early to mid-stages of Alzheimer Disease and Related Disorders. TRAINING for professionals and caregivers. For further details, please call 514-485-7233 GROUP PROBLEM SOLVING STUDY The Departments of Psychology and Psychiatry at McGill University are looking for men and women for a study of social interaction and problem solving in groups. Participants must presently be working at least 30 hours per week. $45 compensation For more information, please call 514-398-3717. You may also contact us by sending an email to: [email protected] This research is supervised by Dr. D. S. Moskowitz, Dr. S. Côté, Dr. D. C. Zuroff and Dr. S. N. Young SOUTH FLORIDA Seniors 6 miles to the Beaches Wynmoor adult 55+ Condominium Community dedicated to individuals who enjoy active lifestyle, clubs, sports, facilities, cultural events, & its friendly small town atmosphere. Theatre, Tennis Courts, Fitness Center, Main & Walking Pools, Clubhouse, Billiard Room, Business Center, Bike Paths, Walking Paths, Transportation Fleet, 18-hole Executive Golf. Wynmoor is located in Broward County South Florida. Studio, One & Two Bedroom Condos Starting at $45,000-$239,000 Caregiving continues after the move by Bonnie Sandler, SW Your loved one has moved into a residence. It’s the continuation of an emotional journey. You feel comfortable with your choice but you feel a sense of loss mixed with relief and guilt.You wonder what your role is now that others are caring for your family member. Your tasks may change but your role as the primary caregiver remains. This involves less of a hands-on approach and more care management. In effect, you are the eyes and voice of the resident. Once you’ve had time to breathe, you might notice things that upset you. Where are the promised fresh fruit and vegetables? Are the activities as stimulating as you were led to believe? Why are the residents in front of the TV seemingly oblivious to the program? Where is the physician who is supposed to be there weekly? You begin to question whether you made a good choice. The last thing you want is to move your loved one again. If a placement counselor was involved, you should go back and discuss your concerns. Placement counselors rely heavily on client feedback. Are the concerns valid or unrealistic? Was the counselor involved in the preplacement meetings? Sometimes discussions with the placement counselor can clarify confusing messages, or intervention from the counselor may clear up misunderstandings. As a family member, you may find it difficult to express your concerns to residence managers because you don’t want to appear difficult. But this is where your role as a care manager comes in. If you feel that your loved one is not receiving all that they should be, it’s time to speak up! Take the example of snacks. Your loved one might like to snack more often than at regularly scheduled times. In a pre-placement interview you may be assured that this isn’t a problem, yet when visiting you may notice such special requests are forgotten. If it falls to your loved one to remind staff, it often won’t get done. Safety and health issues may restrict your options — if you bring fresh fruit, for instance, you may notice it kept in the fridge instead of in an open fruit bowl, to keep it from disappearing and being found uneaten days later. You may want a small fridge in your mom’s room, but who’s going to monitor it? A residence may not be able to provide the same kind of individual care that was given at home. There are rules to maintain efficiency. This does not mean that you can’t fill in the gaps on your own. Include a stimulating activity during a visit. Bring special meals or treats. Take your loved one out to eat or shop. Check the activity schedule and plan your visits for when there are none; your visit will be the activity. Visit at different times of the day, including mealtimes. Is your loved one eating? Do they need assistance? Do they seem to be enjoying their food? You might be surprised to find that suddenly they’re eating salads, which they always resisted. Network with other families so you can keep an eye on each other’s loved ones. When babysitters are hired, parents go to great lengths to supervise the care of their children, including placing cameras around the house to monitor what goes on. Why should adult children or spouses be any less vigilant about making certain that their loved one is properly cared for? Small personal care homes and larger residences will vary on the services they provide. While a small care home can offer a cozy personal approach, it does not have the same resources that a large facility will have. For example, in one large high-end facility, the residents expressed their dissatisfaction to their children about the menu, which included hot dogs. The adult children passed this complaint on to the director, who in turn set up a meeting with the chef and the residents. The chef now meets with the residents regularly to work on a menu that meets residents’ needs and tastes. Speaking up about your concerns right away can make all the difference as an effective care manager. The response will speak loudly about the residence’s atmosphere and quality of care, and can go a long way towards peace of mind for you and your family. CHERYL STEIN Resident & Realtor 954.675.3700 www.WynmoorRealtor.com [email protected] SELLING REAL ESTATE SOUTH FLORIDA SINCE 1984 Lachine La Résidence Easy living • 3 meals a day / 7 days a week • Snacks (24 hours a day) • Regular housekeeping (cleaning and laundry) • Laundry room • Home assistance program available • Certified nurses • Qualified staff • Private telephone line [email protected] 1655 William McDonald, Lachine 78 units : Private rooms and 3 1/2 24-hour surveillance • Leisure • Games • Outings Ginette Desjardins, director WYNMOOR REAL ESTATE. Ben G. Schachter, Lic. Real Estate Broker" (514) 637-4551 Massawippi Christian Retirement Homes In the scenic Eastern Townships of Quebec Connaught Home Classic Charm in picturesque North Hatley, QC Tel: (819) 842-2164 Fax: (819) 842-2667 e-mail: [email protected] Two distinct homes with quality, licensed care in quiet, picturesque settings. Bright private rooms, well-equipped infirmaries, & semidetached cottages for autonomous seniors. Close to all services. Reasonable rates. 12 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 Grace Christian Home Friendship and Fellowship in Lennoxville, QC Tel: (819) 569-0546 Fax: (819) 569-3829 e-mail: [email protected] Walking dogs works wonders for watercolourist Signature Welcome to Convalescence Respite Assisted living Complexes dedicated to retirees living with loss of autonomy or Alzheimer's disease Susan Mott & Sophie Nancy Snipper “I walk dogs everyday. Most artists feel it would cut into their creativity, but for me, canine companionship is inspirational. Not only do I lose weight – ha, ha – but I gain insight as an artist into my immediate neighbourhood: its architectural features, lovely lanes, turrets, steeples and the great gardens we have in NDG,” says Susan Mott, one of Montreal’s most notable watercolour artists.“You can’t believe some of the delightfully quirky details that I constantly discover on my walks. It’s right up my alley.” Winter holds special charm for this all-season painter/dog walker. “De- spite freezing temperatures, I always get a kick out of watching the dogs bound about in snow banks.” Not one to let her art take second place, Mott finds ways to combine dog walking with watercolour painting. “I’ve been involved with art all my life, starting at the age of seven, with simple pencil renderings to stained glass windows, oil and watercolour painting. I really love the diversity and challenges my art brings, so it is natural for me to paint the dogs I walk.” Asking your dog to sit still for a portrait is a bit of a stretch, so Susan uses photographs to create her expressive pet portraits.“Capturing the soul of an animal is easy once you gaze into their eyes and, Cont. on p. 14 A “home-like” environment, intimate and comfortable. Personalized assistance and care, given by a dedicated and attentive nursing staff. Recent complexes , air-conditioned throughout and equipped with a high-end security system. Recreational and cultural activities, excellent cuisine and an environment where well-being comes first. 2 COMPLEXES IN THE WEST ISLAND LE VIVALIS VENT DE L'OUEST SIGNATURE 300, Stillview avenue Pointe-Claire 4500, Jacques-Bizard blvd Sainte-Geneviève 514 694-4141 514 620-4666 www.levivalis.com www.ventdelouest.com Presented by www.legroupemaurice.com LEADING SPECIALIST IN SENIORS' HEALTH CARE Windows of Montreal, Seymour St. – Watercolour by Susan Mott March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 13 Canines inspire creativity when you see how happy the owner is with the portrait of their pet, it gives you immense pleasure.” There’s a personal reason Mott enjoys making dogs immortal through her watercolours; in fact, it’s second nature for her. She’s the proud owner of Sophie, a scruffy terrier whom she rescued six years ago. Mott not only rescues animals, she’s also there for people in need. “I make meals for a couple in their eighties and have driven the sick to and from the hospital. Helping humans is also very gratifying. I particularly enjoy tapping into the artistic creativity that exists in all of us regardless of age.” She does this by Continued from p. 13 giving art classes to seniors at Lev Tov and at Saint James United Church. Modest about her own artistic success, she downplays the fact that her watercolours have gained international renown. She has just sent a large painting from her collection Windows of Montreal to a buyer in England and is finishing a Quebec landscape destined for Taipei. You might think Mott is all over the map, but she’s a local gal who is fascinated by the façades she sees on her dogwalks. To date, she has painted dozens of houses and hundred of windows and doors right from the neighborhood. “The simple joy I get from walking dogs grounds me, giving me time to reflect on what I see. Inevitably, what I see ends up in a watercolour.” Some of these paintings are on display at Galerie Cactus, a cozy space she opened with her art pals in 2005. “My days are full. Between the dogs, the art, the classes I give and the people I try to help, walking dogs allows me time to relax, laugh and reflect.” If you would like a portrait of your pet, call Susan Mott at 514-488-9009. You can view her paintings at Galerie Cactus, 5276 NDG Avenue (corner of Decarie) or visit www.susanmott-art.com. Résidence Steger Gracious Retirement Living 2450 Thimens Blvd St. Laurent WHY SPEND YOUR TIME ALONE? Come have fun with us! The Steger offers independent & active seniors a dynamic lifestyle! Live entertainment, afternoon socials, parties, exercise & activities galore! Enjoy Jewish-style meals & Sabbath services — all in a secure friendly environment! Live-in managers. Call for a personal tour & complimentary lunch! Not sure? Ask about a free-trial stay. Sign up bonuses too. Photos and watercolours by Susan Mott 514-337-0000 Charlie & Pixie Large windows, elegant & bright lobby and dining room Warm & friendly personnel Musical performances and social activites Adult-lifestyle Rental Complex Retirement Residence: ''WHERE EVERYTHING YOU NEED IS CONVENIENTLY CLOSE'' LIMITED NUMBER OF APARTMENTS STILL AVAILABLE 5 1 4 - 8 5 5 - 5 5 5 2 1055 Côte Vertu, Ville St-Laurent www.placestmoritz.com 14 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 Digby On the move again Bonnie Sandler, SW Other than my parents’ house, I have lived in my present home for the longest stretch — 10 years. In between, there were eight residences,including two in BC. I’ve owned my car for four years, a record breaker. I usually change my car every three years. I’ve been accused of having commitment issues. I respond by saying that I thrive on change. I bought my present home partly because it was near my daughter’s former high school. It is not large but it has too many rooms for 1.5 people (my daughter lives Participants Needed for Language Studies at McGill University Right-handed English speakers aged 65-80, with normal hearing & no history of stroke or brain damage are needed for a study examining how the brain processes language. Participants will be compensated for their time. Please contact Shani or Erin at 514-398-4135 or [email protected] Principal Investigator: Dr. Shari Baum $ $ INCOME TAX $ $ IRSHAD AWAN, CGA Starting from $29.99 + GST & QST @ Tax Return (Personal) until April 30, 2008 Professional Accounting, Tax & Business Advisory Services Commissioner of Oaths (514) 227-8765 6900 Decarie Blvd. Suite 3345, (Decarie Square) Montreal with me part time) and one cat. I decided to downsize. I got off to a rocky start trying to sell my home privately. Feeling ambivalent, I would take the “for sale” sign down when there was serious interest. The sign went up and down so many times that it left tape marks on the window. It was time for a commitment — at least to an agent. Two years later, three agents later, and after months of being filmed for a “Buy Me” episode, my house sold. My feelings were mixed. This was the first house I’d owned and it held many memories. But the idea of downsizing, both physically and financially, was exciting —until I began shopping around for a condo. Maybe my timing was wrong. The condos in my price range were unappealing. It was time to climb the financial ladder. I started off searching alone. I realized I needed help and enlisted the aid of a real estate agent, Ann Malka, who was supportive and encouraging. I trusted Ann’s taste and valued her opinion. I ended up buying a condo that I had never visited, thinking it was too costly, from an ad on MLS. After a visit with Ann, I quickly decided on this one. I encountered a few bumps, when my first offer went in at the same time as another offer, and I lost out. I was devastated. Time was running out. New owners would soon be moving into my house. I started to read the rental ads and discovered how expensive renting is. I began to regret having sold my home. Then I got an excited call from my agent. The first buyers had changed their mind and I could make a second offer. My offer was accepted. Ann was able to help me envision what my new home would look like after renovations. I’m not sure if my daughter shares this vision since her room does not yet Senior Services Provider You need transportation? medical and dental appointments ◗ lab testing, Xrays and physiotherapy ◗ grocery and clothes shopping ◗ daily activities and company ◗ more assistance upon request Door-to-door transportation to all your appointments ◗ Call for appointment Hinda Bilenco (514) 956-9267 have walls. They were torn down to make a larger living room space for the previous owner. My contractor has three weeks to prepare the condo for the move. He warns me that the work will not be completed by the time I move in. I tell him to ignore the kitchen; after all, I don’t really cook and will bring my takeout menus with me. My fear is that I don’t understand the contractor’s concept of time. But I am moving into a dream condo, with the plan to live there for many years to come. I may even have to keep my car for a few more years, breaking yet another commitment record. I am dreaming of April when I will hopefully be settled in my new home and can be rid of the stress. I plan to sit on the balcony, glass of wine in hand, and stare out at the beautiful view. I know that I will not be totally relaxed, just as I know that the contractor will still be working in my kitchen. Whom to notify when you move • phone, wireless, cable, and internet • financial institutions and credit cards • medicare and government services • hydro and gas • newspaper and magazine subscriptions • memberships or clubs • pharmacy • insurance (home, car, private health) • physicians and other professionals • alarm company • driver’s license and registration Canada Post offers mail redirection within province at $37 for 6 months, or $66 for 12 months. – Inspection de bâtiments – – Inspection de qualité d’air – – Home Inspections – – Air Quality Inspections – Les Inspections Inspect Expert Tel: 514-908-7613 www.inspectexpert.ca Michel Wilson Inspecteur agréé NACHI NACHI Certofied Inspector ESTATE AND MOVING SALES House Content Clearance Ronda 514-236-4159 Evening & Weekend Classes Beginning early March Notaries Durso & Toone Andrea F. Durso • Philip Toone 4635 Sherbrooke St. West, Westmount Quebec 514.931.2531 March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 15 GUIDE TO RESIDENCES Côte-des-Neiges / Snowdon Caldwell Residences Côte-des-Neiges Residence 5750 Lemieux #116 Montreal, QC H3W 3G1 514-737-7774 [email protected] Capacity: 650 Independent Security guards, cameras, sprinklers CLSC services available No meals Animators, entertainment, exercise, choir, library, discussions, outings HK: upon request SA: coordinator of services, supervisor of programs Rel: Jewish on site Near: metro, CLSC, mall, Jewish community campus Pets: no pets A/C: resident installs Price: according to income Contact: Daniel Knafo 4847 Jean Brillant Montreal, QC H3W 1T5 514-731-2985 Capacity: 15 Assisted living Monitors, staff 24/7 Dr monthly & on call, CLSC visits 3 home-made meals, tea/snacks Music, walks, outings, day centre HK: full, laundry incl. SA: manicure, pedicure, hairdresser All religions welcome Near JGH, St. Mary’s Hospital, pharmacy, cafés Pets: no pets A/C: available Price: from $1400 Contact: Mr. Goodridge Côte-des-Neiges/Snowdon resources Côte-des-Neiges Volunteer Centre ................................................ 514-340-1072 Tandem CDN (crime prevention)................ 514-736-2732 Live safely and independently in your own home Lifeline has provided peace of mind to Canadian Seniors and their families for over 30 years. Just press the help button and you are connected to a caring professional in seconds! Help is on the way. Call Lifeline today at 1-800-LIFELINE / 1-800-543-3546 and receive ONE FREE MONTH Please quote the code below to receive this special offer. Quote this code: Coupon Valid Until: XX302 September 1, 2008 Côte-des-Neiges Housing Info ................................................ 514-738-0101 Project Genesis 4725 Côte-Ste-Catherine......... 514-738-2836 CALDWELL RESIDENCES Why live ALONE? Caldwell Residences offers subsidized housing within a safe community environment to independent people who are 60 years and over with a low to moderate income. Our buildings are in Cote St. Luc & the Snowdon area close to Golden Age. • Security • Sprinkler system throughout the building • Cleaning Services provided • Recreational and Educational Activities • Exercise Program • Holiday Celebrations • Oneg Shabbat • Close to Shopping Center, Bus, Metro, Pharmacy, Bank and Local CLSC For more information call Caldwell Residences 5750 Lemieux Ave, Montreal, H3W 3G1 www.lifeline.ca Available at locally participating programs only. Not to be combined with any other offer. A minimum three month commitment is required. Discount applies to monitoring fee only. 16 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 514-737-7774 Caldwell Residences is a constituent agency of Federation CJA Ebenisterie Fidas Woodworking Deciding to move to a residence seniors have become more independent; children are too busy running their own lives; and the generation gap has widened significantly. That is why so many residences and homes have sprung up that are tailored to meet the needs of our aging generation. Before making a final choice, one should visit several residences, find out what is available and examine the premises. Compatibility with residents, sometimes from different backgrounds, can be an issue, as well as quality of food, the nearest shopping center or library and adequate transportation. Financial resources have to be examined. If a government-subsidized residence is required, a CLSC and a social worker may have to be involved. I have visited friends in residences and what struck me was that most of them seem quite happy. There are activities in most residences such as lectures, discussion groups, bridge, bingo, exercise classes, maybe swimming pools, outings, movies and the opportunity to make friends. No need to be alone, if one doesn’t want to be. Sure, the front door is no longer yours, but if you should fall, there will be somebody there to pick you up! Bob Hope said: “I don’t feel old. I don’t feel anything until noon. Then it’s time for my nap.” • Furniture refenishing • Furniture repair • Kitchen refinishing • Custom Woodworking • In-home touch ups My Way by Ursula Feist I had a long and tortuous conversation with an old friend who has to decide whether or not to move to a residence. Like so many others in this position, he knows it will be a momentous change in his life. There will be some loss of independence, rules to follow, and the need to adapt. To be popular in new surroundings requires a smile rather than a frown. If one is living alone and cannot cope with running a house, maybe the time has come to consider making the move. Thorough homework is required. Waiting too long means that others will make this vital decision and it may not be the right one. It can be a difficult decision but the plus is that someone else will be doing the chores. No more worries about who gardens, fixes the plumbing or electricity, replaces light bulbs, gets the garbage out on time, cooks dinner or cleans up. My father died at 64 but I wish he were around for me to look after him. I know that times have changed: aging parents no longer live with their children; 514-242-4021 www. ebenfidas.com Safe and Secure Home for the Elderly Three meals a day & housekeeping services included Bath & shower assistance Medication supervision Residence Westhill Smoke, fire & sprinkler emergency system 6332 Sherbrooke West, Suite 300, Montreal TEL: (514) 485-3030 • Cell: (514) 726-1181 • Fax: (514) 485-2932 RESIDENCES FOR SENIOR CITIZENS Private & semi-private rooms available with complete bathroom. Nurses’ aides on duty. Limited space available. Welcome to the • REASONABLE RATES • WONDERFUL HOME COOKING community BORDEN PLACE RESIDENCE MARIETTE PLACE RESIDENCE 4635 Borden Place (between Somerled & Terrebonne) 2500 Mariette (between Maisonneuve & Sherbrooke) FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL (514) 487-9267 OR (514) 481-5511 POINTE CLAIRE ALL UTILITIES & A/C INCLUDED Bachelor • 1 Bedroom 2 Bedrooms • 3 Bedrooms 3 bedroom townhouses Also furnished apts available www.southwestone.ca Open Daily – No Appt. needed (514) 697-2961 March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 17 GUIDE TO RESIDENCES West Island Chateau Royal Sunrise of Beaconsfield 185 Thornhill DDO, QC H9B 3M7 514-685-5548 fax: 514-685-6950 [email protected] Capacity: 110 Independent, light, respite, short/long term Alarms, monitors, concierge 24/7 Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/week, PAB Optional meals, tea/snacks, café, resto Animator, outings, crafts, exercise, games, pool, speakers, painting, music HK: weekly, laundry facilities SA: podiatrist, hairdresser, manicure, pedicure, banking, Internet, cable Rel: Inter-denominational on site Near: CLSC, shuttle, pharmacy, pool, gym, library, banks, mall, Pets: cats, dogs, & birds A/C: included Price: from $1600 Contact: Lucie Laperriere 505 Elm Ave. Beaconsfield, QC H9W 2E5 514-693-1616 [email protected] Capacity: 101 Assisted, short/long term, respite, secure Alzheimer’s unit, memory care Alarms, call bells, monitors Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, speakers HK: weekly, laundry incl. SA: hairdresser, podiatrist, manicure, pedicure, physiotherapist, shuttle avail. Rel: various on site Near: pharmacy, pool, gym, mall Pets: all pets allowed A/C: incl. Price: based on individual needs Contact: Danièle Potvin Apple Hill Residence Château Pierrefonds 115 Hawthorne Baie d’Urfé, QC H9X 2L3 514-457-1637 or 514-813-4166 fax: 514-457-8151 Capacity: 9 Independent, assisted living, convalescence Fire alarms, ADT, 24/7 supervision Dr & nurse, regular visits 3 Meals, and two snacks Exercise, games, outings, music HK: daily, laundry SA: hairdresser, transport, pedicure Rel: church visits Near: CLSC, pharmacy, church Pets: no pets A/C: incl. Price: $1850 - $2500 Contact: Jana Cerny 15928 Gouin Blvd W. Sainte Geneviève, QC H9H 1C8 514-626-2300 [email protected] Capacity: 63 Independent, respite, assisted living, short & long term Alarms, call bells, monitors Dr & nurse weekly 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks Animator, outings, bingo, exercise HK: daily, laundry incl. & facilities SA: hairdresser, manicure, pedicure, pharmacist Rel: Catholic on site, Anglican nearby Near: CLSC, pool, library, Fairview Mall, Lakeshore Hospital 5 km Pets: fish & rabbits, birds on site, visitors’ pets A/C: portable allowed Price: from $1600 Contact: Monique or Pierre Laplante October House 14 Cedar Ave. Pointe-Claire QC H9S 4Y1 514-697-8922 or 514-697-8822 fax: 514-697-8823 Capacity: 30 - 35 Full nursing, convalescence, respite Alarms, call bells Dr bi-monthly, nurse 24/7 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks Outings, exercise games, music HK: daily, laundry incl. SA: hairdresser, podiatrist Rel: Catholic, Protestant, Jewish nearby Near: CLSC, Lakeshore Hospital 10 km Pets: birds & cats in house A/C: available Price: from $2400 Contact: Noel Marrone or Denise Charron Residence Vic-William’s 93 St.-Louis Beaconsfield, QC H9W 4X9 514-695-1458 [email protected] Capacity: 9 Assisted living, light, respite & day care Alarms, monitors, call bells Dr on call, nurse 24/7 3 meals, tea/snacks Animator, outings, exercise, music, crafts, games, bingo HK: daily, laundry incl. SA: physiotherapist, banking, pedicure, manicure, hairdresser, podiatrist, Rel: Catholic, Anglican & Protestant facilities nearby Near: pharmacy, CLSC, mall, library, café, hospital 5 km Pets: visitors’ pets allowed A/C: incl. Price: $1830 - $2630 Contact: Lydia Duschkanits Ontario Heritage Lodge 48 Wall St. Vankleek Hill, ON K0B 1R0 613-678-2690 fax: 613-678-6760 www.cplodges.com Capacity: 72 Independent, assisted living, respite Alarms, call bells, front door security Dr & nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks Outings, exercise, music, speakers HK: weekly, laundry incl. & facilities SA: podiatrist, hairdresser Rel: Catholic, United, Presbyterian & Anglican on site Near: CCAC, pharmacy, Hospital 9 km Pets: no pets A/C: N/A Price: $1395 - $1478 Contact: Grace Chapman Sunrise of Dollard-des-Ormeaux 4377 St-Jean Blvd. D.D.O. QC H9H 2A4 514-620-4556 [email protected] Capacity: 101 Assisted, short/long term, respite, secure Alzheimer’s unit, memory care Alarms, call bells, monitors Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, speakers HK: weekly, laundry SA: hairdresser, podiatrist, manicure, pedicure, physiotherapist, shuttle avail. Rel: various on site Near: pharmacy, pool, gym, mall Pets: all A/C: incl. Price: based on individual needs Contact: Valerie McRae • Private residence for seniors • Bilingual team • Personalized care • In front of a park with view of river Tel 514.752.0728 10332 Belvedere St, Pierrefonds 18 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 [email protected] www.residencedubelvedere.com • We accommodate independent seniors with Alzheimer’s Hooked on rugs John Fretz Bored with formulaic media art and tired themes on gallery walls? If so, the texture and patterns of hooked rugs now on display at the littleknown Musée des maîtres et artisans du Québec, at Cégep de Saint-Laurent, will amaze you. This revolutionary folk art gripped mid-19th century North America. Women on isolated farms and in small towns could never dream of art school in Montreal or Paris or afford the brushes and paint. But they suddenly discovered the freedom of using commercially cheap burlap backing, adapting an embroidery technique to hook and knot textile strips into elaborate designs. Cloth was recycled from old dresses and cast off shirts. During long winter evenings, out came the loom and women took deserved breaks from family chores to create personal art. A proud maman would display her newest addition when the priest came to bless the family. Some 450 of these marvels form the permanent exhibition at the museum. Director Pierre Wilson says he has 9,000 more pieces in storage. Charmingly displayed in an impressively elegant 1931 replica of an 1867 neoGothic church (with a magnificent hand-carved wooden ceiling), the col- lection of handcrafted furniture, wooden carvings, textiles, pottery, silver and religious artifacts is inspirational. Of special interest is a dramatic grouping of painted rooster weathervanes. The rugs are faded to muted tertiary colours yet glow with age-old vitality. The lofty mingles with the prosaic: the superfine, exquisite abstract geometry of a woven ceinture flechée, painstakingly stitched quilts and a spool-woven rug made from discarded nylons. An exhibition of four great modern Canadian practitioners of the art of the hooked rug is on display until April 13 at the museum. Doris Eaton of Nova Scotia, taught by her grandmother, took up rug hooking later in life and has been at it for 40 years. She hooks painterly rugs that have a beaded visual precision – dreamlike florals and evocative landscapes. Newfoundland native Deanne Fitzpatrick uses second-hand clothing that achieves startling colour effects, as in her Three Trees, a dance of quince and muddy profusion. Rachelle Leblanc from New Brunswick, now living in Montreal, dyes her own wool to achieve a precise everyday reality. Her narrative images portray ancestral themes. Margaret Forsey, also from Newfoundland, and influenced by Grenfell Mission rugs, graduated from art Cactus Zinnias by Doris Eaton college in 2006 and lives in Halifax. Her smallish hooked portraits of children and teens – and a girl with the yellowest hair imaginable – have the off-centre appeal of naïve art. Her edgy colour combinations are bold and modern. Don’t miss this show curated by Penney Burton & Denis Longchamps, running Wednesday to Sunday from 12 to 5 pm until April 13. Admission is free Wednesdays and $4 for seniors Thursday to Sunday. Discover this jewel of a museum at 615 Ste-Croix (du Collège Metro). Info: 514-747-7367 EX O f r u i t s Heritage hooked rug cat All pictures by John Fretz Visit our renovated Charcuterie & Deli section Unusual Imported & Domestic Variety For the finest in Gourmet Delicacies • NUTS • BREAD • OILS • JAMS 5192 Côte-des Neiges 514-738-1384 H • CHEESES • COLD CUTS • DRIED FRUIT • COFFEE OPEN 7 DAYS: 8 am - 9 pm Sundays: 9 am - 9 pm Home Delivery Waiting for the Parade by Rachelle Leblanc March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 19 A helping hand for emergency victims Here at Sun Youth by Nicolas Carpentier • Family-Oriented Home • Long & Short Term • Convalescence/Respite 14 Cedar Ave. Pointe Claire (514) 697-8922 APPLE HILL S e nio r C it izen s’ Ho m e 24 hour supervised care Private rooms - Doctor visits Well balanced meals Daily exercise programs Fire detectors in each room J a n a Ce r ny & M i l a S e d i v y Te l 5 1 4 - 4 5 7 - 1 6 3 7 Ce l l 5 1 4 - 8 1 3 - 4 1 6 6 1 15 H awt h or n e, Bai e d ’ Ur fé In a recent press conference held at the Montreal City Hall, the city’s Fire Department officials unveiled their new plan to assist fire and other disaster victims. This new way of assisting Montrealers in an emergency situation involves three key players working in close partnership with the Fire Department (Service de sécurité incendie de Montréal, SIM): the Quebec division of the Canadian Red Cross; the Montreal Municipal Housing Bureau (Office Municipal d’Habitation de Montréal, OMHM); and Sun Youth Organization. Because each entity has a specific role to play, based on its area of expertise, comprehensive services can be offered to fire victims. Here’s how it works: Once a call has been placed with the Fire Department, the firefighters and other emergency workers rush to the scene for an immediate intervention. If the affected building is residential and requires the evacuation of tenants, the Red Cross is then called. Meanwhile, the Fire Department sends one or more buses to provide the victims with a temporary shelter and a place to gather. These red buses are modified school buses with utilities such as a washroom, a little kitchenette and an isolated area for meeting victims individually. When Red Cross volunteers arrive on the scene, they proceed to the bus where the victims are gathered. In addition to comforting them, volunteers are responsible for making a list of those affected and of evaluating urgent needs (shelter, food and clothing). As soon as it is possible, a Fire Department inspector evaluates the affected building(s) to see what apartments are not fit for habitation. The victims, rendered homeless, are invited to find temporary shelter with friends or relatives. The Red Cross has the ability to provide housing accommodations for a short period, varying between 48 and 72 You don’t need to be alone... 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We have a place for you. 514-731-2985 • 1-877-731-2985 hours, after which victims of the fire are referred to the OMHM’s referral service. The victims also receive vouchers they can exchange at various stores to fulfil their material needs (food and clothing) in the aftermath of the fire. At any moment during the initial intervention of the Red Cross, Sun Youth representatives can be called on the scene to offer emergency material assistance provided directly onsite, such as food, clothing, baby products, medication, etc. Once the situation has been assessed and after informing the Fire Department officials where the victims will be relocated, the Red Cross representative leaves the scene. With the agreement of the victims, their names are then transmitted to Sun Youth, the Office municipal d’habitation de Montréal’s referral service and to the local employment center. Sun Youth is also involved in the weeks following the event. After an initial phone contact with the victims to inform them about the services they can obtain from the organization, a Sun Youth emergency representative visits victims to ensure they are following the steps that will lead them to resume a normal life. The services offered include food and clothing assistance, baby products, medication, household accessories, etc. Sun Youth also provides logistic support such as transportation, assistance in looking for a new dwelling, recuperation of personal belongings, renewal of official documents, and more. Sun Youth’s assistance to fire victims depends largely on the generosity of the public and on the goodwill of sponsoring companies. All of the clothing provided to fire victims is new and donated by companies; all of the household accessories (pots and pans, small electric appliances, bed sheets, etc) are given by the public. Sun Youth does have a budget to purchase anything the victims need. Monetary donations from the public are always gladly accepted. M A N O I R F L E U RY P r i v a t e S e n i o r Re s i d e n c e • Assisted living & full care • 24 hour supervised care • Trained staff for Alyzheimer’s patients • Professional administration of medicine • Coded doors-intercom in every room 514.808.7698 431 24th Ave., Ile Perrot, QC [email protected] Setting up the room for your loved one Let’s talk about it Bonnie Sandler, S.W. A move into a care facility can be eased with proper room preparation. Most care facilities will offer you the choice of having a furnished room or of bringing in your own furniture. I suggest personalizing the room. This includes bringing in familiar furnishings such as a favorite easy chair, bedding and decor. Ask for a floor plan and measure what furniture can be moved to fit the room. It should not be overcrowded but should resemble their present bedroom/sitting room. Arrange a nightstand in the same way as the person is used to; this includes such items as a lamp, pictures, and tissues. The room should be set up before the move. This is an emotional time. Let family members and friends help out. Hang family photos around the room. Some residences have photos of the residents on the outside of the door. Keep in mind that too much decoration is over-stimulating. Rooms can be called apartments to give the feeling of a larger and more private space. I visited two Sunrise residences in Toronto and was impressed to see “shadow boxes” outside each resident’s room. A shadow box, sometimes called a memory box, contains articles that document the history of the person’s life such as family photos and mementos of hobbies — knitting needles, a captain’s hat, or books for a librarian or teacher. I suggest that you go back as far as possible to schooling, occupations, and marriage mementos for such boxes. I visited Sunrise model suites in DDO and was pleased to see the same concept. Photography and art or crafts by the resident or grandchildren provide a homey touch. Memory boxes are not just for the resident. Family members are also reminded of their loved ones as people with whole lives and not only as someone with an illness, and staff may refer to these boxes to get to know the resident better. If your loved one enjoys certain music, equip the room with a CD player. Avoid decorative items that may cause disturbances or confusion. A bowl of plastic fruit may be enticing and cause them to take a bite. Liquids such as perfumes with wide openings could be mistaken for drinks. As the caregiver it is important for you to help the staff understand who your loved one is, his life history, his family, his likes and dislikes, daily routines and habits, and tips on how to respond to certain behaviours. The life history of your loved one is as important as his or her care needs. Your level of comfort in your loved one’s room will be felt by them. Make yourself at home in the room; try to have a relaxed manner. Do not make a fuss over pointing out different things in the room, rather try to give the impression that it is not unusual for the two of you to be in this new room together. Moving your loved one can be difficult for everyone involved. Setting up familiar surroundings will ease the transition. Yvan Pelland Marie-Claire Le Pessec Senior Real Estate Agents AFFILIATED REAL ESTATE AGENTS SUTTON GROUP WEST CENTRE 5800 Monkland, Montreal Senior Residence 514-483-5800 Fulfilling Needs at Every Stage • Retirement lifestyle of distinction & quality • Round-the-clock caregiving by full nursing staff • Quality service • Luxurious accommodations • Recreational programs • At-home atmosphere V isit us tod ay ! 4432 St . Cat her i ne St . Wes t, We stm oun t 514 935-1212 www.placekensington.com A DIVIS I ON O F FA IRWAY M A NA GE M E NT CO RP. Model Suites Now Open Sunrise of Dollard-des-Ormeaux Drop in for a tour or join us for an upcoming event to learn more about the care and services offered at Sunrise. YOUR MOM GAVE YOU THE BEST OF EVERYTHING. NOW IT’S TIME TO RETURN THE FAVOUR. Tuesday, March 11 at 10:30 am and 6:30 pm Confused about senior living options? Get practical advice, learn what questions to ask and take home a valuable “Choosing a Senior Living Community” checklist. Suites are going fast – RSVP to 514-620-4556 today. SEMI-AUTONOMOUS ASSISTED LIVING FOR SENIORS A SEPARATE, SECURE AREA FOR MEMORY CARE They’re called the Golden Years, but for many seniors living in residences, the Sunrise of Dollard-des-Ormeaux 4377 Saint-Jean Blvd. 514-620-4556 experience is anything but. Fortunately, Sunrise Senior Living offers a quality Sunrise of Beaconsfield 505 Elm Avenue 514-693-1616 residential alternative to traditional nursing homes. Sunrise of Fontainebleau 50 des Châteaux Blvd. 450-420-2727 We’ll provide your mother with a warm, caring environment and a wide range of choices to meet her care needs. Imagine bread baking. Fresh cut flowers. Residents enjoying each other’s company in comfortably appointed, inviting living spaces. These are but a few of the ways we help make our residents feel right at home. After all, we have parents too. www.maisonsdeviesunrise.ca March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 21 GUIDE TO RESIDENCES Province of Quebec Foyer Wales Home Grace Christian Home 506 Rte. 243, Richmond, QC J0B 2H0 819-826-3266 fax: 819-826-2549 [email protected] Capacity: 185 Independent, light care, nursing, assisted living, Alzheimer’s unit Alarms, smoke detectors, call bells Dr 4 days/wk; nurse 7 days/wk, dentist, eye & ear doctors on call 3 meals, vegetarian, tea/snacks included except for apts. Animator, outings music, crafts, pool painting, exercise HK: daily, laundry incl. & facilities SA: podiatrist, banking hairdresser, pedicure readaptation therapist Rel: United, Anglican & Presbyterian on site Near: CLSC, pharmacy, shops, Hosp. 35 km Pets: no pets A/C: available Price: $850 - $3357 Contact: Brendalee Piironen 1501 Campbell Ave. Lennoxville, QC J1M 2A3 819-569-0546 fax: 819-569-3829 [email protected] Capacity: 50 Independent, assisted living full nursing care Alarms, call bells, secure Alzheimer’s wing Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks Animator, exercise, music, bingo HK: daily, laundry included SA: physiotherapist, hairdresser, pharmacist Rel: Catholic near/Protestant on site Near: CLSC, library, CHUS 25 km Pets: pet therapy A/C: available Price: from $1600 Contact: Sandra Klinck, RN Connaught Home 77 Main St. North Hatley, QC J0B 2C0 819-842-2164 fax: 819-842-2667 [email protected] Capacity: 36 Assisted living, full nursing care, convalescense Alarms, call bells, secure Alzheimer’s floor Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks Animator, exercise, music, bingo HK: daily, laundry included SA: physiotherapist, hairdresser, pharmacist Rel: Catholic near/Protestant on site Near library, CHUS 25 km Pets: pet therapy A/C: avail. Price: from $1700 Contact: Melanie Liddle Sunrise of Fontainebleau 50 des Châteaux Blvd. Blainville, QC J7B 0A3 450-420-2727 [email protected] Capacity: 101 Assisted, short & long term, respite, secure Alzheimer’s unit, memory care Alarms, call bells, monitors, Dr weekly, nurse 7 days/wk 3 meals, special diets, tea/snacks, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, speakers HK: weekly, laundry included SA: hairdresser, podiatrist, manicure, pedicure, physiotherapist, shuttle avail. Rel: various on site Near: pharmacy, pool, gym, mall Pets: all A/C: included Price: based on individual needs & size of suite Contact: Daniel Giguère Lois Hardacker Royal LePage Action, Chartered Real Estate Broker 3 Victoria, Knowlton, Brome Lake, QC J0E 1V0 • Silverware Restoration • We Buy Old Gold • Watch & Jewelry Repair IN THE HEART OF KNOWLTON One-level living. Solid brick bungalow with 3 bedrooms, laundry on the main floor, fireplace in the living room. Attached garage, a generator, cold room, air conditioning and a perfectly private yard are just some of its features. A great deal at $195,000. 450-242-2000 • [email protected] Over 30 years experience at your service BARBIERI G AUDIOPROTHÉSISTES Manoir Fleury 431 24th Ave Ile Perrot, QC J7V 4N1 514-453-7779 fax: 514-425-3402 Capacity: 14 Assisted, full-care Alarms, coded doors, intercom in every room 3 meals, dietician Walks, Karaoke, puzzles, music HK: daily, laundry Serv: hairdressing, foot care Near: CLSC, shopping, churches A/C: available Price: $1850 - $2850 Contact: Ihab Tadros or Sherine Iskander D I G I TA L H E A R I N G A I D ( S ) Adopt Wally N O W PA I D BY M E D I C A R E Come in and discover what a digital hearing aid can do for you! • Assistive Listening Devices • Audiometric Exam • Ear Protectors • Hearing Aid Repairs – All Makes • Invisible Hearing Aids Wally is an affectionate 6year-old male cat who loves life. His presence will put joy in your home. Wally is taking a supplement to protect his kidneys. Call Animal Rescue Network: 514-938-6215 Illustration not covered by medicare Come in for your ROYAL JORDAN R.M. INC., REALTOR™ CHARTERED REAL ESTATE BROKER INDEPENDENT AND AUTONOMOUS LICENSES CO M P L I M E N TA RY H EARI NG TEST Ronald Massad Chartered Real Estate Agent 1396 St. Catherine W. Suite 404 (514) 591-3472 (Corner Bishop) House calls available Call for details 22 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 514 866-1687 Registered Relocation specialist 101 Amherst Beaconsfield, Quebec H9W 5Y7 (514) 694-6900 Toll free: 1-877-694-6900 Fax: (514) 694-8176 E-mail: [email protected] Renovation nightmare – avoidable? John Fretz Can the renovation nightmare be avoided? Experience helps, but who in their right mind would want to do it again? The builder who meets deadlines is a rarity unless you are in the “by appointment to the Queen” league. In November a few years ago, my wife and I thought it would be a relatively uncomplicated and affordable proposition to make our basement usable by gyprocking the ceiling, putting in a no-frills bathroom and upgrading to copper pipes. So we find someone on the recommendation of a friend (ex-friend), who reassures us that the job will be done by Christmas. The relationship starts out promising — we discover common interests, and get along fine. His mantra is: “I got a crew standing by.” What crew? The one that’s always off on other jobs and mysteriously shows up at random times only to slip away a half hour later to some infinitely more pressing commitment. Our contractor proposes digging down ten inches to give us more headroom.“Isn’t that complicated?” we ask in all sincerity, forgetting to ask about the effect on the budget. “Three guys, one day,” he says. At this point, we’re no longer rational. “I know these homes,” he reassures us, but doesn’t check the depth of our common wall. Fast forward to February. Three days, two boulders and six men later, with the base- ment windows open 24 hours a day to accommodate an excavation ramp, the common wall, dividing us from our very nervous and by now hostile neighbour (with cracks in his wall), is sitting on a bank of oozing mud. It’s Venice à Montréal. An urgent, terse exchange ensues between the contractor, a structural engineer and us. The contractor agrees to buttress the brick wall with cement “at his own expense”. On top of this, the once pleasant plumber has turned sullen. Unbeknownst to us, costs have gone through the roof, or in our case, the basement, and he insists on being paid $15,000 for a job that we were told would cost $5,000 “tops”. We were actually told that if we wanted the contractor to control costs and meet deadlines, why hadn’t we said so? To make a long, sad story short, by March, the basement was finished and we learned that everything cost twice what we thought it would and took three times as long, and that we were seriously wanting in business management skills. Thinking of renovating? Think Zen. Foyer Wales Home Adventures in photography Join the Montreal Camera Club as Ralph Thompson shares his photographs of exotic adventures and experiences in nature photography. Ralph received a Merit Award from National Geographic in 2006. His work has been exhibited in New York, the US and Canada. Monday March 17 at 7:30 pm. Westmount Park Church, 4695 de Maisonneuve West (corner Lansdowne, Vendôme metro). Info: 514-739-9255 or www.montrealcameraclub.com There are no strangers at the Wales Home – just friends you haven’t met. For more information, please contact: Foyer Wales Home 506 Route 243 North Richmond, Quebec J0B 2H0 Tel: 819-826-3266 • Fax: 819-826-2549 www.waleshome.ca March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 23 Are you interested in learning more about protecting your vision? St. M Ladies cook up aid “You and Your Vision Health: Yes! Something More Can Be Done” is CNIB’s most recent resource guide for people 50+ who are interested in learning about vision health. This supportive guide includes information on coping with irreversible vision loss alongside risk factors, prevention, treatment and support services. Specially designed with a large font size and spiral binding that allows readers to flip the book open easily, “You and Your Vision Health: Yes! Something More Can Be Done” can be purchased for the retail price of $9.95 plus shipping and handling, by calling 1-866-659-1843. For more information, please visit www.cnib.ca/visionhealthguide. Tott Moens and Esmie Tyrell Kristine Berey Therapeutic activities at St. Margaret’s Day Centre make a real difference in the lives of participants. But people suffering from hearing loss have had trouble following the activities and some have even dropped out. Now thanks to Lest We Forget Recipes, a unique heritage recipe book cooked up by the St. Margaret’s Women’s Group, the Centre will purchase a $1600 wireless portable assistive listening device enabling everyone to participate. The group has already raised $450, thanks to the books going “like hotcakes” according to Tott Moens, who compiled and edited the precious recipes. The idea for the fundraiser came about as participants were chatting. “We were sitting around and exchanging what we knew about cooking,” Moens says. “We decided we should put it all together.” The project began last spring and Moens admits that collecting the recipes sometimes felt like “pulling teeth.” She enlisted her daughter, writer Marilyn Vanderstay, to type and format the recipes. Vanderstay also added some lighthearted graphics to illustrate the spiral-bound book. The final result was more than worth it, Vanderstay says. “These are the dishes the women, whose median age is 85, cooked for their families. Some are grandmothers and great-grandmothers and they’re using recipes their grandmothers used.” The book features over 110 recipes from more than 20 experienced cooks. Barbara Primak’s contributions come all the way from the Ukraine. “Our cuisine is very rich,” Primak says. She still cooks for her family on holidays and special occasions and says she has passed her extensive knowledge to her children and grandchildren. Zetti McLeod grew up in the Caribbean. She learned how to keep house early as all her older sisters left home before she did. “I had to wash and cook and clean,” McLeod recalls. She still enjoys cooking for herself. “I live alone but I like good food,” she says. Lovers of Italian Cuisine will enjoy Vittoria Zunini’s authentic recipe for pesto, all the way from Genoa. “It really is from our town,” Zunini says. Sade Hausner loved her experience in the group. “It’s such a diversified group of people,” she says. “We learn from each other, each person has something to offer.” Hausner’s coffee cake recipe is truly Canadian. She remembers preparing it even before she was married in 1940. At 101, looking far younger, she exudes a quiet appreciation of all the good things life has to offer. The cream soup recipes donated by Esmie Tyrell evoke special memories of her Jamaican childhood. She remembers her grandmother sending her out to the vegetable garden to pick the carrots and other goodies that she would then cook up. Sometimes, the little girl Esmie got lost in play and would forget to come back. But that was some time ago, she says. “Don’t ask me when, ‘cause I won’t tell you the truth.” Lest We Forget Recipes can be ordered by calling Elizabeth Mourelatos at 514932-3630. Sade Hausner * SPECIAL! 24 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 *Valid 7 days a week, for a limited time, on select dishes only. * 12 Sunday $ 95 Buffet 15 Sunday $ Brunch 95 ** * 514-685-5400 10500 10500 GOUIN GOUIN BLVD. BLVD. W. W. 30 years of fighting for basic human rights Michael Chervin and Susan Sokol, staff Dua Hyjazie, volunteer Barbara Moser Michael Chervin, executive director of Project Genesis, has the kind of smile that stays with you long after you’ve left his bright and busy office at the corner of Victoria and Côte-Ste.-Catherine Rd. Looking back on the occasion of the 30th Anniversary of the grassroots organization that Jim Torczyner founded, Chervin proudly says the mandate hasn’t changed one bit. “We defend people’s social rights, to have access to affordable, decent, safe housing, and the basic means to be able to live with dignity,” he says. He’s prepared notes, but the words come straight from his heart. “People need to be able to pay their rent and basic food requirements.” But Chervin is not complacent about the work that goes on within these walls. “Welfare and Old Age Pensions should enable people to live with dignity, but we haven’t reached [that stage] yet. They need to be vastly improved.” The people who come to Project Genesis, Chervin says, are not always aware of what’s available to them or how to get through the “bureaucratic maze” to access their rights, including “a strong public health care system.” Chervin says he’s angry with the government for not fulfilling its obligations to those who are most in need and at risk. “For 30 years we’ve insisted that the government has the responsibility of not only ensuring these social rights in practice, but of safeguarding and strengthening them.” He gives a telling example of a woman, in her 80s, who came to Project Genesis with questions about her housing situation. “The discussion led to the difficulty of making ends meet. With her permission, the advisor went through the income information and discovered she was entitled to $300 to $400 a month more in Guaranteed Income Supplements, in addition to retroactive payments for one year before applying.” Chervin says this is a sign the government is failing in its responsibilities — that they could easily contact individuals who send in their tax forms and are obviously not taking advantage of their eligibility for Guaranteed Income Supplements — but they do nothing. Project Genesis serves the Côte-des-Neiges neighbourhood but people from outside the area are welcome to drop by or call in with questions about housing and access to government services. Chervin appreciates the “passion, drive and skills” of the dedicated volunteers, staff and student interns who sit in colorful cubicles addressing the needs of their clientele. This, he says, hasn’t changed in 30 years: “It’s as intense and strong and bright and alive as it ever was.” Becoming a member of Project Genesis involves volunteering. No membership fee is required. On the Friday afternoon we visited, Dua Hyjazie, a UQAM law student, was busy advising a client of his rights. For Chervin, dedication to his clientele means a good dose of what it takes to fight a battle. “[We] continue to search for social justice and are just as angry and constructively active in the face of injustice as ever.” Project Genesis is strategically placed in one of the most multicultural neighbourhoods in North America. Last year, people from 131 countries of origin visited the storefront, Chervin says. He is equally proud of the trust developed between clients and advisors , nourished by confidentiality. “We treat people as people, not as cases or files or numbers.” This is evident as we read the Wish Tree that clients see upon entering the storefront. Hanging from its branches are colored strips of construction paper with messages from the people who are served by Project Genesis, such as “I hope that we continue our action and struggle to benefit the people and bring them social justice and peace.” “We continue to be relevant and grounded in the realities of our neighbourhood, attuned to local needs and aspirations,” Chervin says, “because poverty and injustices are far from ended. There is a lot of work to do.” Project Genesis has a special 30th anniversary fundraising drive. Send your donation to Project Genesis, 4735 Côte-Ste.-Catherine Rd., Montreal, QC, H3W 1M1 or call 514-738-2036 should you have a question about membership or donations, or if you are concerned about your living conditions or access to government services. If you live far from the area, they will direct you to similar services in your community. KNOWLEDGE * DEDICATION * DRIVEN * RESULTS Ready to simplify your life? We make selling or buying easy! (514) 788-1514 Contact us today for a FREE evaluation! Gail Cantor (514) 386-8410 Chartered Real Estate Agent [email protected] Courtier immobilier Agréé / Chartered Real estate Broker 3901 JEAN-TALON W. SUITE 305 MONTREAL QC H3R 2G4 Michael Prudkov (514) 923-8230 Chartered Real Estate Agent [email protected] WWW.GROUPECANTOR.COM March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 25 Know your tenant rights! Project Genesis Store Front staff offers answers to frequently asked questions. QUALITY CARE FOR SEN IORS H U S S - S INGER RESIDENCE SINCE 1985 • Private rooms available for male & female • Government subsidized. Very reasonable • Strictly kosher home-cooked meals • Supervised by Maimonides • Quiet, secure & intimate 4078 Northcliffe 514-489-1721 • 514-485-1267 Let Nichol Services help Are you feeling overwhelmed by the need to settle a loved one’s estate? Don’t know what to do next? Don’t have the time to take care of all the details involved in wrapping up an estate? We can help: Procuring required documentation - Locating and collecting on life insurance policies for the beneficiaries - Preparing instructions for banks, investment dealers, etc. for account liquidation - Itemizing and valuing personal possessions Coordinating the sale of a house - Coordinating the final estate tax filings – and much more. Call 514-247-5944 or e-mail us at [email protected] My apartment is cold, what are my rights? Is there a minimum temperature that needs to be maintained in an apartment? Can my landlord lower the heat at night? The landlord must maintain the temperature at a minimum of 21 degrees, day and night, all year long. It is not true that the landlord can wait until October to turn on the heat. If it is cold, heat must be provided, regardless of the season. The landlord also does not have the right to turn the heat down to below 21 degrees during the night. My landlord sent me a letter increasing my rent. If I don’t want to pay it, do I have to move? No. Tenants have the right to refuse a rent increase if they think the increase is unfair. If a tenant wants to refuse, he or she must do so within a month of receiving the landlord’s rent increase letter; otherwise the tenant will be considered to have accepted the increase. Sending the refusal by registered mail will help a tenant to prove that the landlord has received it. If a tenant refuses an increase, the landlord then has the right to go to the Rental Board and ask that the rent increase be decided. The Rental Board puts out estimates every year of what an average rent increase would be, depending on the heating system and other factors. However, if the Rental Board is asked to decide on an increase, these estimates will not be used. Instead the Rental Board will consider the actual income and expenses of the building in question. For more information on whether or not to refuse a rent increase, visit Project Genesis. My landlord has changed the heating system to electricity and now the bills are in my name. What can I do? Legally, a landlord must send a notice before making any changes in a lease, including changing who will be responsible to pay for heat. If the landlord sends a notice saying that heat is no longer included in the rent, you have the right to refuse this change. The landlord remains responsible for paying the heat until the Rental Board says otherwise. If the landlord refuses to pay the heating costs, the tenant can go to the Rental Board and ask that the rent be lowered to make up for the fact that the tenant is now being forced to pay for the heat. Can I be evicted in the winter? There is no law preventing a landlord from evicting a tenant in the winter. However, no one can be evicted without a decision from the Rental Board, no matter how much money may be owed. If you get any kind of eviction notice from the landlord, it is important to take it seriously and to seek legal advice. My landlord refuses to make repairs. Do I still have to pay the rent? Tenants are responsible to pay the rent on the first day of the month, whether or not the landlord makes necessary repairs. If the rent is more than three weeks late, the landlord has the legal right to go to the Rental Board and ask that the tenant be evicted. The tenant can take certain steps to obtain the needed repairs. A letter can be sent to the landlord by registered mail demanding the repairs within a reasonable time limit, and stating that the tenant will ask the Rental Board for certain relief if the repairs are not made. Then, if the landlord still fails to address the problems, the tenant can file an application with the Rental Board asking that the landlord be ordered to make the repairs. The application can also ask for a rent reduction, damages or other relief. The tenant can also contact the Municipal Inspectors after sending the letter to the landlord. I want to move. Is it true that all I have to do is give my landlord a 3-month notice? A tenant who signs a lease remains responsible for the rent until the end of the term. You cannot get out of your lease just by giving 3 months notice to the landlord. An exception to this would be if you have been accepted into Low Cost Housing or a nursing home. In these cases, you could cancel your lease by giving the landlord a 3-month notice. If you do not wish to renew your lease at the end of the term, you would need to send a non-renewal notice to the landlord 3 to 6 months before the end date of your lease. However, if the landlord has already sent a notice to increase the rent, you would need to respond to this notice within one month saying that you will not renew the lease. If you wish to leave your apartment before the end of your lease, the only other option would be to either get your landlord’s agreement (in writing), or transfer the lease to someone else. There are forms for taking these steps, which are available at the Rental Board or at community organizations like Project Genesis. Affordable Tax Credit for Home Support senior living If you are 70 or older, you may be eligi- this tax credit. You may be paying for for the Tax Credit for Home Support these services directly, or through your in a park setting ble Services for Seniors. rent or condo fees. To find out more • professional health care personnel 24 hours per day • state of the art smoke & sprinkler system • spacious main lounges & attractive outdoor patio • large elegant dining room & bar • close to shopping, churches, library & recreation • all inclusive services For appointment to view please call 514-937-3943 Manoir Westmount Inc. 4646 Sherbrooke St. W., Westmount, QC H3Z 2Z8 www.manoirwestmount.ca A project of The Rotary Club of Westmount 26 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 This tax credit is not just for people living in senior residences. If you are paying for support services and have receipts to prove this, you can apply for about the tax credit program, visit the Revenu Québec web site at: revenu.gouv.qc.ca/eng/particulier On Montreal Jewish artists Art Historian Esther Trépanier will speak about her new book, Jewish Painters of Montreal: Witnesses of Their Time, 1930 – 1948 and about the exhibition at the Musée national des beaux-arts du Québec, Thursday March 20 at 7:30 pm at Temple Emanu-El-Beth Sholom, 395 Elm in Westmount. Info: 514-937-3575. View a small exhibition of works from private collections from 7pm. In the dollhouse Celebrate St. Patrick’s St. Patrick Square 6767 Côte St. Luc Road Quebec Irish history The Centre For Oral History And Digital Storytelling presents Making History Public: Integrating Oral History into the McCord’s 2009 Exhibition of “The Irish in Quebec” with Anna Wilkinson, Penney Burton and Anthony McGuinness, Thursday March 27 at 3:30pm in rm LB-1019, Concordia University, 1400 de Maisonneuve Blvd W. Info: 514-848-2424, ext. 5465. Irish dinner and dancing The men of St. Paul’s Anglican Church sponsor their popular Irish Stew (dessert & beverage) Friday, March 14 at 6:30pm with entertainment by Greg Innes at 37944th Ave, Lachine. $10. Info: 514-634-1965. Miniature Enthusiasts of Montreal host their 28th annual show and sale this month. Club members display their work such as dollhouses, room boxes, and favourite miniature collectibles. Shop for many in-scale items, including building materials, commercially made furnishings and accessories, and pieces by renowned Canadian miniature artisans March 29 & 30, 10 am to 5 pm at the Holiday Inn Pointe-Claire, 6700 Trans Canada Highway; $7/$5 for seniors & kids under 12. Info: 514-630-0284 or mem.miniature.net 514.879.5657 / 1.800.322.9228 Large gardens, indoor pool, saunas, library, gym & billiard room, & mini putting green. 5 1 4 -4 8 1 -9 6 0 9 Royal Canadian Legion is holding a Céilí Dance, Friday March 15 at 8pm. An instructional session for new dancers will be offered. $10. The event is at 5455 de Maisonneuve W. (Vendôme metro). Info: www.siamsa.org Happy St. Pat’s! Come home to a warm and friendly place. Our caregivers make the difference... every visit, every time. In the Montreal area, please call small & large 3 1/2 Royal Canadian Legion Branch 85/90 is serving Corned Beef ‘n’ Cabbage Dinner Saturday March 15 at 5pm. 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VAN008B www.bayshore.ca 48 Wall Street, Vankleek Hill 613-678-2690 www.retirementresidences.com March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 27 GUIDE TO LES RÉSIDENCES SOLEIL Manoir Sorel 71 George St., Sorel-Tracy, QC J3P 7X3 450-742-3303 fax: 450-742-1668 [email protected] Capacity: 137 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Doctor weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Roland Desrosiers Manoir St. Léonard 7650 Lespinay, St.-Léonard, QC H1S 2Y6 514-255-9298 fax: 514-255-9986 [email protected] Capacity: 621 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Doctor weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Monique Lussier Manoir Laval 1455 De L’Avenir Blvd., Laval, QC H7N 0A1 450-629-0019 fax: 450-629-0119 [email protected] Capacity: 724 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Doctor weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Monique Lussier Manoir Boucherville 549 De Verrazano St Boucherville, QC J4B 7W2 514-449-1516 fax: 514-449-1978 [email protected] Capacity: 194 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2 restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities included SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Louise Biron Manoir D.D.O. 53 Hasting, D.D.O., QC H9G 3C4 514-620-4522 fax: 514-620-4114 [email protected] Capacity: 201 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2 restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist; mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Louis Cornoni Manoir du Musée 245 Frontenac, Sherbrooke, QC J1H 1K1 819-822-1938 fax: 819-348-9966 [email protected] Capacity: 201 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist; mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Jean-Yves Bergeron Manoir Granby 235 Denison E., Granby, QC J2H 2R5 450-378-4400 fax: 450-378-8359 [email protected] Capacity: 322 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities included SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist. mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Hélène Adam Manoir St. Laurent 115 Deguire Blvd St.-Laurent, QC H4N 1N7 514-332-3434 fax: 514-332-8343 [email protected] Capacity: 297 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Serge Lortie Manoir Mont St.Hilaire 550 Sir Wilfrid-Laurier Blvd. Mont St. Hilaire, QC J3H 5J7 450-467-8209 fax: 450-467-8964 [email protected] Capacity: 320 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Marc Labelle Pointe-aux-Trembles 13900 Notre-Dame St. E. Pointe-aux-Trembles, QC H1A 1T5 514-642-2234 fax: 514-642-5115 [email protected] Capacity: 500 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities incl. SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Diane Allie Manoir Sherbrooke 1150 Quatre Saisons St. Sherbrooke, QC J1E 3X3 819-822-1038 fax: 819-822-1681 [email protected] Capacity: 456 Independent, assisted, light care, respite, convalescence, studio, 1 & 2 bdr. Alarms, monitors, call bells, doorman Dr weekly, attendant 24/7 3 meals incl. in studio & 2 1/2, restaurant/café Animator, outings, exercise, games, pool, shuffle-board, bingo HK: monthly, laundry facilities included SA: podiatrist, banking, hairdresser, pharmacist, mall shuttle, AC Rel: Catholic on site/Protestant nearby Near: CLSC, banks, pharmacy, library Contact: Andy Veilleux 28 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 29 e eyes have it Kristine Berey Villa Maria Movements of physical awakening A global approach of the body These exercises are created (based on individual needs) to discover the pleasure of movement while liberating the body of physical, emotional and mental tension. • Develop flexibility & muscular toning • Reduce pain and stiffness • Increase self-awareness of the body • Improve posture • Calm the nervous system • Pleasure of relaxation Claudette: 450-424-3795 Certified Practitioner Class in Kirkland on Monday p.m. or Sunday p.m. in Pierrefonds French session For most of her 79 years, Linda B. had avoided going to doctors. Her last checkup had been almost nine years ago and she stoically dismissed her little aches and pains as part of aging. Even when she noticed problems with balance and changes in her vision, she wasn’t too concerned. So imagine her shock when one day she closed one eye and looked through what she had considered her “weak” eye, and all she could see was — nothing. Without her having noticed, the eye had slowly and insidiously become blind. Charles S., 83, never neglected his health. The retired university professor knew he had developed cataracts in both eyes but, believing in alternative medicine, deliberately put off surgery for other treatments he hoped would work. They didn’t. By the time he opted for the operation, one eye was considered legally blind. Though Ms. B. and Mr. S. recovered their vision following cataract surgery, they admit much suffering and anxiety could have been avoided had they paid attention to their eyes earlier. Both are delighted with the results of their operations. “I was able to read again,” Mr. S. says. “I felt my life was being given back to me.” According to Dr. Keith Gordon, Head of Research at the Canadian National Institute for the Blind, more than 400,000 Canadians over 55 experience vision loss that affects their daily life. These age-related conditions include cataracts, macular degeneration, glaucoma and diabetic retinopathy. This number is expected to double over the next 25 years, he says. Some conditions creep up unnoticed and can cause permanent and irreversible vision loss. “Glaucoma is a silent threat to sight,” says Dr. Deborah Gold, co-author of You and Your Vision Health: Yes! Something More Can Be Done, published last year by CNIB. “Because it has no symptoms, you want to examine your eyes frequently.” If diagnosed, drops will be prescribed to keep the pressure in the eyes under control. Much vision loss in seniors is preventable and treatable, so early detection makes a huge difference in eye health, Gold says. “We recommend that people see an eye doctor as early as possible. Once you see your eye professional, they’ll give you guidelines on how often you should go back.” She explains that recommenda- tions depend on each individual’s age, health and risk level. “Usually, for the elderly, more frequent eye exams are recommended.” Both an optometrist (an eye specialist who performs eye examinations, diagnoses eye disorders and provides optical aids) and an ophthalmologist (a medical doctor who specializes in diagnosis and treatment of eye disease) can tell you whether you have a condition that needs to be more closely evaluated and monitored, Gold says. “The optometrist is seen as a front line family [eye care] provider and may be the first to spot eye disease and other diseases as well.” Nutrition and a healthy lifestyle play an important role in eye health, and a diet rich in antioxidants can be beneficial, as can abstaining from cigarettes. “Smokers are three to four times as likely to develop age-related macular degeneration,” Gold says. Once you get a baseline evaluation of your eyes’ health, it is important to be vigilant and see your eye doctor right away if you notice these symptoms: • Sensitivity to light and glare • Difficulty distinguishing colours, matching clothes • Difficulty judging distances, feeling clumsy, bumping into people • Tripping, falling, missing steps on stairs • Blurred or double vision, difficulty distinguishing objects from each other, straight lines appearing to be wavy or crooked • Difficulty driving or seeing at night or adjusting to changes in light • Seeing flashes of light and flickering in your side vision or experiencing uncontrollable eye movement You and Your Vision Health: Yes! Something More Can Be Done may be ordered for $9.99 from CNIB at 1-800-563-2642. For more information on eye health, prevention or resources for people with vision loss contact the Montreal Association for the Blind at: 514-489-8201. e photographer’s muse ▲ P O S T M E N O PAU S A L W O M E N ▲ Media facts and fictions Do You Experience Pain During Sex? Help us find out why and receive treatment information by participating in a study examining possible causes and risk factors for painful intercourse. Participation involves answering questionnaires and a session lasting around 2.5 hours that includes: 1) a structured interview 2) a sensory testing session 3) a gynecological examination 4) a blood test Participants will be reimbursed for their expenses. For more information, please call Alina Kao at (514) 398-5323. This study is directed by Dr. Irv Binik, Department of Psychology, McGill University, Sex and Couple Therapy Service, Royal Victoria Hospital. 30 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 The Eleanor London Côte-St.-Luc Public Library presents The Media and the Historians: the Dialogue Between Myth and Reality, with Neil Cameron, examining how public events are portrayed and interpreted by the media at the time they take place, and the different stories of the same events that historians produce through the study of documents. Lectures are Fri., 2 pm. March 14 - April 18, $25 for six lectures or $5 per session, at 5851 Cavendish Blvd. Registration: 514-485-6926 Granite Lacroix Inc. Manufacturing monuments for three generations Our craftsmen are well-known for the ability and care they take to personalize your monument. Our Services • Delivery across Quebec • Engraving, cleaning, restorations • Porcelain photos and ornaments • Free consultation in your home • Interior and exterior showroom • Member of the Association des Détaillants de Monuments du Québec 1735 boul. des Laurentides, Vimont, Laval (450) 669-7467 www.granitelacroix.com Kristine Berey The great American photographer, Edward Henry Weston (1886-1958), is remembered as “a pioneer of precise and sharp presentation” in an era when photography was more pictorial than realistic.“I want the stark beauty that a lens can so exactly render, presented without interference of artistic effect,” he has said. Charis Wilson was only 19 when she met the 48-yearold Weston, but changed his life and his art forever. “A new love came into my life, a most beautiful one, one which will, I believe, stand the test of time,” Weston said, describing his first meeting with his future lover, creative partner, model and muse. Now 92, bent and frail, Charis Wilson looks back at her years with Weston, in The Eloquent Nude, the Love and Legacy of Edward Weston and Charis Wilson. The documentary, directed by Ian McCluskey, has been described as “a film of stunning beauty and great charm” and features sensitive re-enactments, rare archival images and interviews. The film will be screened on March 14 and 15 as part of the 26th International Festival of Films on Art, on until March 16, 2008. For a complete listing of films and venues, visit www.artfifa.com. Editorial Cubans need our help to move beyond revolutionary goals The news that Cuban President Fidel Castro is passing the torch to his brother Raul Castro is important for Canadians because it allows us to help that country’s 11.2 million people evolve, as the rest of the world has done, into the information age. Individually and collectively, we are well placed to do it. Canada has never shared the paranoid and aggressive attitude of the US toward the largest Caribbean island, 90 miles south of Florida. The US has invaded and coveted the island for two centuries and was largely responsible for turning Havana into its brothel. Mafia “banker” Meyer Lansky was on the verge of expanding gambling operations in the Melacon seaside area when, in late 1959, Castro’s band of revolutionaries forced the corrupt Fulgencio Batista to flee and then assumed power. Let us also remember that every president from John F. Kennedy to Bill Clinton authorized or condoned over 600 attempts to kill Fidel Castro, and that the CIA organized, led and financed the disastrous 1961 Bay of Pigs invasion. All of this helped the proud Cuban people unite behind their leaders. Still, times are tough in a Cuba where the average monthly income of $16 US is just not enough. Free education, which can take Cubans as far as they wish academically, is appreciated and has produced one of the best-educated and most literate countries in the world. Free health care, though not perfect, has resulted in Cuba sharing with Canada the lowest infant mortality rate in the Americas of 5.3 per 1,000 live births. But Cubans want more. Cuban university students in an historic town-hall meeting on Jan. 19 openly criticized the government for restrictions on access to the Internet, access by Cubans to Cuban hotels, and lack of freedom to travel abroad. Cuban professionals are extremely frustrated that workers in the hotel and H O U S E O F TR AV E L Special prices for SENIORS! Cruise Specialist on All Major Cruise Companies Special accompanied groups on different departures Certified specialist from Switzerland. Go nearly anywhere with Swiss Air and stop a few days in the Swiss mountains. Very special rates! For your travel arrangements, call us first or last and save! 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People want more than good education and health care, wonderful as these accomplishments of the revolution are. The Cuban regime has begun to listen. The recent purchase of 1,000 buses from China has eased chronic over-crowding and frustrating long waits for public transportation. This is a concrete sign of a shift from the top-down model to consumer-oriented economic management. Contact with the outside world gives voice to the increased pressure for change. When you meet Cubans on your vacations, and talk to them, this becomes obvious. Cubans want to be part of the Information Age. Canadians who visit the island can help. Bring over- Need help with your income tax? The CLSC René-Cassin offers a free Income Tax Clinic between March 17 and April 10, 2008 to those who: • Live in Côte-St.-Luc, Hampstead or Snowdon West • Have yearly income under $20 000 • Need a simple income tax return Info: 514-488-3673 ext 1496 the-counter medication, dental hygiene items, condoms, underwear, and pens — all in short supply or hard to get on subsistence level salaries. And take clothes and shoes you can leave behind with people who don’t have access to tourists and their tips. Visit Havana for at least a couple of days for a look at the architecture and “real life” for the average Cuban. Ironically, an end to the American economic boycott would do more to push political evolution in Cuba than more attempts to kill Castro or invade the island militarily. Human contact and the flow of dollars when U.S. tourists return to the island is the surest possible weapon the U.S. could ever use. 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It started its life in the ninth century and its original meaning was“satisfied,” in the sense of having one’s fill, or of being weary of something. For example, an early 13th century sermon relates, “Ich am noht giet sad of mine sinnes, and forthine mai ich hie noht forlete.” (I’m not yet tired of my sins, so I can’t give them up.) It then acquired senses of “strong,” “constant,” “trustworthy” and “grave”. By the end of the 14th century, “sad” had acquired a meaning of “sorrowful”, which probably represents the earliest synonym for the modern sense of “sad” and is found in Beowulf in the 8th century with the spelling “sorhfull.” The sense of “sad” as “deplorably bad” only developed in the late 17th century. Aside from “sorrowful,” the adjectives “wretched,” “forlorn,” and “woebegone” predate the use of “sad” to denote an unhappy demeanor. The word melancolie is found in Old French in 1180 with the sense of “profound sadness” and in 1256 as a medical condition. Derived from Greek, it literally means “black bile,” which was believed to cause an unhappy temperament. By the end of the 14th century, the adjective “melancholy” was used in English to denote being unhappy. Sad to say, this article is over. Howard Richler’s latest book is Can I Have a Word With You? * all rates are monthly **for those that qualify, preferred rates may be available AT T H E S R AT E S C A N Y O U A F F O R D N O T TO B E I N S U R E D ? For personalized service call 514-336-6211 We all wish to be happy and avoid being sad. Right? Well it was not always so. Until the 15th century the greatest wish of our English ancestors was to be silly; actually not silly but “seely,” as it was rendered at the time, which referred to a happy, fortunate and auspicious state of affairs. Over time the meaning of silly degraded to mean “innocent,”“deserving of pity,”“insignificant,” and finally,“foolish.” This naturally created a void in the language. Some transcendent souls could aspire to religious states such as bliss, felicity, and ecstasy. The latter etymologically refers to a separation of the soul from the body, of being out of one’s mind. Perhaps the well-heeled could expect higher echelons of being and this emotion was covered by words such as the defunct “fain,” or “joyful,”“glad,”“cheerful” and “merry.” “Merry” came into Old English with the meaning of “pleasant” and came to mean “jolly” in the 14th century. Alas, for the common churl, all he could hope for in the word “silly” was a state of contentment, which by the 15th century no longer bore this connotation. Enter “happy.” This was a derivative of the word “hap” that originally connoted chance, both good and bad, and only later came to refer exclusively to good fortune. With the weakening of the word “silly,” the English language required an adjective that expressed a statement of contentment, as opposed to one of unmitigated joy, and “happy” filled this slot. As it happened, the word Free bags for book lovers Since January 5, the Benny, Côte-desNeiges, Intercultural and NotreDame-de-Grâce libraries have all been open seven days a week. Reusable red eco-friendly bags advertising the new hours and sporting the new library logo are to be handed out for free to users when they borrow items. The bags will also be handed out at a series of lectures on reading Pour l’amour de la lecture et de la langue française ! (in French) in March and April at the libraries. For times, visit: ville.montreal.qc.ca/cdn-ndg Passion for mysteries It’s Mystery Month at The Eleanor London Côte Saint-Luc Public Library. Librarians discuss must-read mystery books Tues. March 11 at 10:30 am, and Louise Penny, award-winning author of The Cruellest Month, discusses her series of cozy mysteries set in Three Pines, Quebec, Tuesday March 25 at 2 pm. $3. You be the sleuth at Scavenger Hunt night in the library, Thursday March 27 at 7 pm. Andrea Braithwaite discusses best-selling mystery writer Janet Evanovitch. Mon. March 31 at 7:30 pm. $3. Events are at 5851 Cavendish Blvd. Info: 514-485-6900 or www.elcslpl.org Are you a baseball veteran? 32 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 Gary Bedingfield is collecting and preserving memories of North American baseball-playing veterans of World War Two for his website www.baseballinwartime.com. “At a time when baseball played a far more significant role in the life of young men, thousands of people – who played baseball at all levels – put down their gloves and bats and went off to fight for their country.” If you have memories of wartime baseball or have relatives who were baseball players and served in the armed forces. Please write to Gary Bedingfield, 5 Pineview Court, Glasgow, G15 7QT, Scotland, or email [email protected] Out on the Town Storytelling at Westmount Library N E W I TA L I A N R E S T A U R A N T Business lunches VIP section & private room The Montreal Storytellers’ Guild invites storytellers and listeners. Thursday, March 13 from 7 to 9 pm at Westmount Library. The event is at 4574 Sherbrooke W. (bus 24 or 138). Info: Christine at 514 341-6622 or www.mtlstorytellers.ca Cozy atmosphere and excellent food (514) 331-5344 Tel./Fax: (514) 331-9544 6419 boul., Gouin W. 2 steps from Lachapelle bridge Lunch Express 8 Music at McGill 95 from The Florestan piano trio, recipient of the 2000 Royal Philharmonic Society Award, play Arensky, Ives, and Beethoven at Pollack Hall, 555 Sherbrooke St.W., Sunday, March 16 at 3:30 pm. $35. Info: 514- 932-6796 Laurentians for Sugaring-Off Sugaring-off has become an annual spring tradition for the Zoological Society. Sunday, March 30, there will be a hike through Oka National Park to view waterfowl, followed by a visit to Ste. Eustache and Érabliere Jean Labelle. $65 for non-members, including transportation, park entrance, and lunch. Info: 514-845-8317 or www.zoologicalsocietymtl.org RESTAU RANT ANANCY 6587 Somerled, Montreal S O UV L A K I A WARM GREEK EXPERIENCE! Mon-Sat: noon - 10 pm Sun: 4 pm - 10 pm Real Jamaican Cooking Bring your own Wine Tel: 514-486-2629 HAPPY EASTER! 6544 Somerled 514 227-0505 514 227-0606 Dining Daily: 11 am - 10 pm Daily Luncheon SPECIALS 25% discount for seniors Free appetizer or Free dessert International cuisine Bring your own wine 4886 des Sources Blvd. 514-421-0022 from $7.00 - $8.00 Try our tasty fresh variety of fish. 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Set up five years ago by long-time church member, guitarist and jazz fan John Inder, the series, he explains, was conceived “to make use of the beautiful concert hall with the wonderful grand piano and to help support charitable groups.” The piano in question is a stunning 1890 Steinway that made its way to Canada via New York City. It had been owned by a CPR president before it was sold to Quebecois composer and Scriabin disciple Alfred La Liberté, whose widow subsequently sold the piano to the church several years ago. For this installment of the Jazz and Justice series, pianist John Roney will be accompanied by the Silver Birch String Quartet performing music that stretches the boundaries of the jazz genre, incorporating classical elements. “Roney really loved the hall and asked if he could play here,” Inder points out, a reaction musicians have always had when playing the series. While it’s a great way for audiences to hear jazz and help three groups supported by the church—The Montreal Mission, L’Abri en Ville and Équiterre—Inder says it’s also “a way for jazz performers to keep connections to the community.” The concert takes place at 8 pm on March 15 at the Unitarian Church, 5035 De Maisonneuve W. Peter and the Wolf/Fantasia Live! Two concerts to note for restless children and grandchildren who may need soothing or excitement or both about this time of year are The Montreal Symphony Orchestra’s presentation of Peter and the Wolf and the Musicians of the World Symphony Orchestra’s Fantasia Live! Prokofiev’s musical tale about Peter and his animal friends and foe will be illustrated with a projection of an animated film (directed by Suzie Templeton) on a giant screen. Also included will be excerpts appealing to children from works by Saint-Saëns, Brahms, Rimsky-Korsakov, Stravinsky, Humperdinck and R. Strauss. The MSO will be conducted by JeanFrançois Rivest at the Théâtre Maisonneuve at Place des Arts March 16 at 1:30 and 3pm. The other concert, Fantasia Live!, is an adapted for dancers and orchestra of music from the Disney film Cont. on p. 35 THE LEANOR AND ALVIN SEGAL THEATRE and THEATRE & CO in association with DELAV CONSULTING INC. PRESENT I , C L AU D I A What is Facebook? In the Loop Megan Collahan If you aren’t already familiar with Facebook, I’m sure that you’ve overheard people toss the word around. I personally can’t get on a bus or step into a classroom without hearing someone mention “facebooking”, and I can bet that if you have teenage children or grandchildren, they know what it is and how to use it. So, what is Facebook? Historically, a facebook was a publication given to the students at the start of every academic year to help them get to know each other. The Facebook website was launched on February 4, 2004 by former Harvard student Mark Zuckerberg. Inspired by the original paper versions, Facebook began as a social networking website restricted to Harvard students. However, within two months it had expanded to MIT, Boston University, Boston College and all Ivy League schools. Soon, anyone with a university email address was eligible to use Facebook, and since September 11, 2006, it has been open to anyone 13 or older. Today, it has more than 62 million active users worldwide. In a nutshell, Facebook is a service people use to keep up with more friends than they can check in on one at a time. When you sign up, you see the latest updates from all your Facebook friends at once on the main page. For friends who have a hard time getting hold of each other by phone or instant messaging, or are too busy for lengthy emails and blogging, it’s become a popular way to keep from losing touch with one another. I, Claudia at Segal Incensed and incredulous at the adult world around her, Claudia is fiercely funny about it. Written by Kristen Thomson and directed by Leah Cherniak, I, Claudia stars Michelle Polak and plays March 16 - April 13. Mon - Thurs, 8 pm, Sat. 8:30 pm & Sun. 7 pm. Matinées are Wed, 1 pm & Sun., 2 pm. Hear playwright/actor Kristen Thomson lecture at Sunday-@-the-Segal, 11am, March 16 at 5170 Côte St. Catherine Rd. Info: 514-739-7944 STARRING MICHELLE A PLAY BY KRISTEN THOMSON POLAK LEAH CHERNIAK DIRECTED BY MARCH 16 - APRIL 13, 2008 reservations: (514) admission: (514) 739-7944 790-1245 CALL NOW FOR YOUR SEASON SUBSCRIPTION 5170 Côte-Ste-Catherine Rd. www.segalcentre.org (514) 739 - 2301 ext. 8327 SEASON SPONSOR 34 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 How to register: You can access Facebook from any computer connected to the Internet. When you click the green “Sign Up” button, you’re prompted for your email address (which you can keep private), and some personal information (as little or as much as you’re comfortable sharing) so that people can find you. You can then join one or more networks, such as a school, workplace, city, or social group. Once you’ve registered, you can start finding people you know and, if you like, share photos, messages, and more. Here are some of the more commonly used features: 1. If you have friends or family that use Facebook, you can find them easily by typing in their full name in the search box, located on the upper left side of your screen. Once you’ve located someone that you want to stay connected with, you can click “Add to Friends”, which will send the person a friend request. 2. If you have pictures or videos saved on your computer, you can import them into your profile and share them with your Facebook friends. 3. On your personal profile page, you have a “Wall”, a space only your friends will see, where they can leave you messages whenever they want. Facebook also offers dozens of “Applications” that are extra features you can add to your profile. 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The program will be presented by the MWSO, conducted by maestro Joseph Milo who in 2005 set up the orchestra as a way to employ talented expatriate musicians living in Montreal. This concert combining the talents of the orchestra and Destination Danse and narrated by Charles Prévost will take place on March 30 at 2:30 pm at the Salle Claude Champagne of the University of Montreal. Russian Music Equally of note in the Symphonic category are two concerts devoted to Russian music. The first, again by the Montreal Symphony, will feature guest conductor Gennady Rozhdestvensky, and pianist Viktoria Postnikova in an allTchaikovsky concert on March 12 and 13, at 8 p.m. at the Salle Wilfrid-Pelletier at Place des Arts. Maestro Rozhdestvensky has held posts with most of Russia’s major orchestras, including that of the Bolshoi Theater in Moscow. The other concert, titled One Thousand and One Nights, features the spectacular Scheherazade by Rimsky-Korsakov, and Rachmaninoff ’s Symphonic Dances, op. 45, and will be presented by the Orchestre Métropolitain du Grand Montréal conducted by Yannick Nézet-Séguin and will also feature dancer Anik Bissonnette. This is scheduled for March 31 at the Salle Wilfrid-Pelletier, 7:30 p.m. Big Band Jazz Those who love big band jazz will be treated to Montreal’s best when the Joe Sullivan Big Band appears at l’Espace Dell’arte (40 Jean Talon E.) March 29 at 8 p.m. The event is part of an annual showcase of up-and-coming talent called Jazz en Rafale, offering groups of young musicians a chance to compete for a first recording on Montreal’s Effendi label while playing on the same bill as veterans of Montreal’s jazz scene. The event, which happens over several nights mainly at the l’Espace Dell’arte, but also at the House of jazz on Aylmer street will also feature, among others, pianist’s Yves Léveillé Sextet with guest oboist Paul McCandless of Oregon fame. Helpline operates 365 days a year For over 30 years Gayline has been offering help and information to callers with questions about sexual orientation, gender identity, dealing with homophobia, and other issues affecting LGBT people. This year, a new program is being launched called “Silk”, or Sexual Information Leads to Stop Taxing Yourself. You could spend sleepless nights filling out tax forms or let Total Tax do it for you. Plus, we’ll fill your mug of coffee for free. But only if it won’t keep you up nights. P.S. Don’t forget our Drop-off Service Knowledge. 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March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 35 Shalom Jerusalem: looking back 40 years About six months before, my boyfriend, Benny Landa, had immigrated to Israel and volunteered during the Six Day War. We rented a small apartment in Kiryat Menachem, a poor religious neighbourhood in West Jerusalem. In January we moved to Wadi Joz, renting an apartment in the “house” of Captain Younes Abdullah, then captain of the police force in East Jerusalem. There were bullet holes in the windows. We bought a gun for protection. I can’t remember whom we were afraid of. We were two of the first foreigners to enter Damascus Gate in the Old City. Israelis were afraid to enter, except to pray at the Western Wall. We bought furniture for our apartment from the storekeepers who had no idea what to charge us. At the time, one could buy a chair or table in the Old City for a few dollars. We made friends. The shopkeepers were polite and welcomed us into their colorful shops for Turkish coffee or mint tea. They were unhurried and wanted to learn from us as we did from them. I had never met such hospitable people. They were Armenians, Christians, and Muslims. Friday or Sunday their shops were closed for Sabbath. I was beginning my education in multi-culturalism. I learned some Arabic so I could Times and Places Barbara Moser Jerusalem I have many homes, but Jerusalem was my first as a young adult. I was 18 when I stepped off the El Al plane at the end of a long journey from Edmonton — and kissed the ground. That was August 1967. I hadn’t been brought up to love Israel. My father Leo was an “internationalist” and didn’t believe that Israel should necessarily belong to the Jews. But I was also a member of a Zionist youth group, Young Judaea, and living in Israel, at least for a while, had always been my dream. Because my parents were atheists, I’d felt rootless in Edmonton and alienated from my fellow Jews. At 18, I wanted to live as a Jew in this small land without having to go to synagogue. It was a different Israel from the Israel of today. It was an idealistic time. The Kibbutz was a strong force in Israeli society. The ultra-orthodox were the minority, and we were proud to be secular Jews in our own land. We were the majority. Our soldiers had fought off the Arab enemies. I was to learn quickly that life isn’t that simple. Old City Shop The “fence” 36 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 Tower of David Jaffa Gate converse with the grocery store owner and my neighbours. The Israeli army was blowing up houses of El Fatah during those months. We took in four students who had lost their temporary homes. In June, the army paraded their military might through Wadi Joz on the anniversary of the Six Day War. Our neighhours closed their shutters, took their children inside and waited for the humiliating display to end. We called our friends to come over and watch the parade, but we were ashamed. Captain Abdullah lived downstairs. His wife would invite me for tea. She was pregnant with twins. I heard, after I had left Israel, that she died in childbirth. It was common to give birth at home in those days. I had family in Jerusalem at the time — Frank and Sheila Moser. They would invite us to dinner and we would babysit their four children. Sheila Moser died last month. She was a warm and loving grandmother and great-grandmother — witty, charming, full of humour and good sense. I will miss her. This summer I returned to Jerusalem to mark my 40year relationship with this city of golden stone. I have been back many times since, but this was a special homecoming. I visited my Uncle Frank and Aunty Ruth Joy in Abu Tor, an integrated neighbourhood about a half-hour walk to the Old City. My uncle is not well and I hadn’t seen him in five years. We had become very close after my father died in 1970. We had driven to the Golan Hieghts in 1973 to deliver packages to the soldiers. Frank has always had a very open mind about the situation in the country he adopted in his fifties. Irwin and I stayed at the Ariel hotel, two blocks from my aunt and uncle’s home. We walked to the Old City and sat near the Villa de la Rosa drinking mint tea. Later we ate in one of the homey cave-like restaurants in the Arab market, where few tourists venture. I have never been afraid to walk these streets although Israelis often warn me they are unsafe. I loved this Old City in another time of innocence and idealism. But that time has changed. There is palpable anger on the faces and in the voices of the shopkeepers. They are no longer my friends — although we are not quite enemies either. These are not the men I knew. They are sons and grandsons. I try to buy something small from as many as I can. The bargaining isn’t fun anymore. They ask ridiculous prices and sneer when you make a reasonable offer. After all these years I’m surprised by how little patience I have for the bargaining game. My cousin, Judy Shoten, 80, an activist and a world traveler, took us to the Bethlehem checkpoint to see what it’s like for Palestinians coming through to Jerusalem. Judy is a member of a group of women who go to the checkpoint every morning to intervene whenever a mother or child or senior citizen is treated unfairly by an 18-year-old Israeli soldier with little life experience. It’s Sunday, 7 am, and thankfully for everyone, it’s quiet. We walk through to the other side, shake some hands, take lots of pictures and then go back to our comfortable lives, but not before buying Turkish coffee from a child with a Samovar. We spend the rest of our time in Jerusalem with our families. We go out for coffee with cousins Shani and Moti to the German Colony. Here, there are too many religious immigrants speaking English. They seem to have taken over Jewish Jerusalem. The city doesn’t belong to me anymore. Whom does it belong to? I don’t go downtown. I don’t feel a need to walk the Midrahov, the pedestrian mall full of shops and nooks. Jerusalem is a city of extremes and extremists. The moderate element seems less and less visible. Its warring factions have not marred the beauty. History lives and breathes within the walls of the Old City. But my love has waned for these narrow lanes of pushcarts, noisy children and old women in embroidered dresses sitting on stones and selling mint and onions. My innocence is gone and with it the dream of a peaceful land where Jew and Arab co-exist in harmony. I don’t think I will see that day in my lifetime and for this, I am very sad. Shalom: it means hello, goodbye, and peace. Shalom Jerusalem. Peace be with you all. View from Abu Tor Protecting the people Message on the “fence”: I am not a terrorist Cousin Judy Nothing to do (Bethlehem side of checkpoint) A Fence message Jerusalem Old City Walls March 2008 THE SENIOR TIMES 37 We Weep Up the Yangtze, a cinematic work of art Photos: Yung Chang Kristine Berey (2008, 95 min. G) Montreal filmmaker Yung Chang’s feature documentary Up the Yangtze is an inspiring example of independent Canadian cinema that we don’t see enough of on our big screens. The film raises awareness about the human cost of building the Three Gorges Dam, the largest hydroelectric project in the world. Called “environmentally threatening” by critics, it requires the uprooting of millions of people. The film also works on an emotional level. Viewers are allowed to share incredibly intimate moments in the lives of one family, as they are forced to leave their home and lose their livelihood, however meager. The work takes on social commentary as well, contrasting guests on a cruise ship with the people living off the land by the Yangtze, in the midst of brutal and grinding poverty. On a universal level, without being judgmental, it reflects the limitless gap that exists between the blissfully wealthy and the despairingly poor. And lastly, the film is a flawless work of art. Lingering images of China’s magnificent landscape by cinematographer Wang Shi Qing and a soundtrack by Olivier Alary go a long way towards making this film an intensely haunting cinematic experience. Up the Yangtze is now playing at the Cinema du Parc and the AMC Forum. A fund has been set up for the family portrayed in the film. Visit www.givemeaning.com/project/yufam Sports Celebrity Breakfast benefits seniors in crisis Public conference welcomes everyone Hockey legend Guy Lafleur will appear at a special Cummings Jewish Centre for Seniors (CJCS) event Sunday, April 6. The centre’s Fourth Annual Golden Age of Sports Celebrity Breakfast, where Lafleur will be Guest of Honor, supports Seniors in Crisis, a program that delivers financial assistance to those in need. Lafleur spent 17 seasons and won five Stanley Cup Championships with the Montreal Canadiens. He also played briefly with the New York Rangers and the Quebec Nordiques. Well known jurist and lawyer Julius Grey will speak on The Security & Prosperity Partnership, regarding the possible harmonizing of U.S. and Canadian policies. The free public conference organized by Citizens in Action will take place March 11 at the Hall Building, Concordia University, 1455 de Maisonneuve, Room 760 at 7 pm. Info: 514-846-0644 38 THE SENIOR TIMES March 2008 Canadiens assistant coach Jacques Demers is also expected at the event, along with Montreal Alouettes alumni Glenn Keeble, Ron Perowne and Tony Proudfoot. Other sports personalities including Montreal Impact Player Adam Braz, Concordia Stingers Hockey Head Coach Kevin Figsby, former Habs Rick Green and Sergio Momesso, and Sam Bloom of the McGill Redmen hockey team will also attend. Celebrities will be seated at different tables throughout the room. A silent auction of sports memorabilia will be held. The event is at 9:15 am at the Gelber Centre, 5700 Westbury Avenue. Tickets: $15. A souvenir program book and a full breakfast are included. Info: 514-342-1234 ext. 7234. Get with it Jewish Public Library offers a 12-hour intro to Microsoft Office (Word, Excel, PowerPoint), Tues. & Thurs. am. Course begins March 18. Register March 11. Info: 514-345-2627, ext. 3027. an a harmonica. th For Mr. Fraser, it was more ashes. t will always sit next to his tha e on d an r, he fat his m It was a treasured gift fro ion. 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