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CANADVENTURE EDUCATION ÉDUCATION CANADVENTURE Helping youth on the edge reach for the top Aider la jeunesse à cran à viser haut Myth Busting Trades & Apprenticeships École communautaire francophone au Nouveau-Brunswick Teens in the Age of Overindulgence Canada’s National High School Counsellor Resource CSC • T0209 www.canadianschoolcounsellor.com 2 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 3 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Contents Departments This Issue 7 Across Canada 12 Great Idea! Gordon Bell High School, 301 Weston Street Suite 218 Winnipeg, MB, CA R3E 3H4 Ph: 888.634.5556 Fax: 888.318.0005 Email: [email protected] www.marketzonepro.com Publisher: Trevor Shirtliff Editor: Barbara Chabai Art Direction & Design: Leigh McKenzie Production Coordinator: Alan Harasymchuk Circulation Manager: Rick Henkewich (NRS Mail) Advertisng Sales: Trevor Shirtliff, Contributing Writers: Candice G. Ball Barbara Chabai, Liz Katynski, Dan Kenning French Translation: Daniel Embregts (hezee.com) Canadian School Counsellor CSC-T0209 • Spring 2009 Canadian School Counsellor is produced quarterly as a source of information for Canadian High School Guidance Counsellors. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part without written permission is prohibited. The opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the publisher. The publisher reserves the right to edit or omit all materials submitted for publication including advertisements and editorial content. Although this magazine is thoroughly edited, the publisher is not liable for any damages due to editing, changes, cancellations errors or omissions. All corrections should be directed to the publisher. All work submitted for publication is assumed to be the providers original work and the publisher accepts no liability as a result of publishing such works. Canadian School Counsellor is a nationally registered trade mark pending name and unauthorised use of it is prohibited. Canadian School Counsellor Magazine is printed on acid and elemental chlorine free Forestry Stewardship Council certified paper, containing 50% recycled content including 25% post consumer waste. Printed by Harris Printing in Winnipeg, nationally recognized for their chemical free plate processing and the gold award winners for the “Best New Environmental Process” at the 2006 Environmental Printing Awards. We welcome your comments and story suggestions. For editorial inquiries, additional copies or address changes, please contact editorial@marketzonepro. com or call 888.635.7776. For advertising information call: 888.635.7776 or email:[email protected] Canadian Pubications Mail Agreement #41622023 4 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Winnipeg, MB 15 Career Opportunity Into the Wild/Dans la Nature >> 18 10 Dyslexia in Disguise Fashion Designer 36 Candice G. Ball >> Why the learning disorder often goes undetected until after high school 16 On The Bookshelf 42 Last Period École de pensée Liz Katynski >> Cette école secondaire francophone a une culture d’esprit d’enterprise 18 Into the Wild/Dans la Nature Barbara Chabai >> CanAdventure Education offers families hope with wilderness therapy for at-risk youth. CanAdventure Education offre de l’espoir aux familles avec une thérapie de pleine nature pour jeunes à risque Mitch Dorge >> 32 25 Going In For the Skill Dan Kenning >> Counsellors play a vital role in changing the stigma of a college education from a “lesser than” to an “equal to” 28 Apprenticeship: Post-Secondary Education That Matters >> Myth busting through to the truth about careers in skilled trades 32 The Wisest of Dummies Dan Kenning >> Juno Award winner Mitch Dorge marches to the beat of a different drummer with his unique approach to motivational speaking 34 The Age of Overindulgence Barbara Chabai >> Is it possible to reach and teach an entitled generation? 5 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Across Canada Nova Scotia School Promotes Importance of Reading Daily Liverpool, NS – To enhance literacy among students, Liverpool Regional High School has launched a Sustained Silent Reading (SSR) program. Already a familiar concept in elementary and middle schools, SSR is a 10-minute period of daily uninterrupted reading where everyone in the building – including students, teachers and administrative staff – picks up a book. “SSR offers our students the time and opportunity to independently explore and practice their reading skills,” says Principal Terry Doucette. The school has embraced the program. Not only do improved literacy skills have positive impact on all content areas and course levels, it encourages students to become life-long readers by incorporating reading time into their daily activities. Executive Quits Job to Teach Teens How to Thrive in Working World Vancouver, BC – Shocked by the lack of “soft skills” he was seeing in the new crop of students looking for work, Adi Rosin left his job as CEO of a high-tech company to teach future job seekers how to interact during the hiring process and in the workplace. “Something was failing these guys. They were brilliant people, but if I had asked them to interact with other team members, or write an e-mail to obtain a response, it would have been disaster,” he tells the Vancouver Province. He says many applicants had excellent credentials but they made poor impressions with little eye contact, limp handshakes and unconfident posture. Rosin started an after-school program for students in North and West Vancouver called Intelligent For Life, which helps young people pick up essential skills such as assertiveness, leadership and how to interact with people. “It’s not about being smart, but these skills aren’t taught in school,” Rosin says. “I would have loved to know these things when I was 18.” 6 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Contraband Cigarettes Attracting More Ontario Teens: Survey Ottawa, ON – According to a report by the Canadian Convenience Stores Association (CCSA), more teens are getting hooked on cheap, illegal smokes. Of the cigarette butts picked up from public grounds outside of 80 Ontario high schools, 26 per cent were found to be illegal, up two per cent from 2007. Cash-strapped teens are often the target of counterfeit cigarettes, with a bag of 200 “rollies” costing between $10 and $15, compared to a legal carton at about $75. The illegal cigarettes are not only cheaper, but potentially more dangerous as the smoker rarely knows what substances they contain or where they were made. OPP Crime Stoppers reports that police have received tips about people staking out high schools in an attempt to sell the illegal cigarettes to students. CCSA President Dave Bryans says his organization is hoping the government will help snuff out the issue. “We’re asking political parties to support a ban on use, possession, youth purchasing and youth consumption of tobacco products. It should be no different than alcohol,” he says. “That would give school principals, health boards and educators an opportunity to minimize this issue through monitoring and working with youth.” Safe Driving Message Reaches Saskatchewan Students Regina, SK – Saskatchewan Government Insurance (SGI) and the Saskatchewan Native Theatre Company (SNTC) have teamed up to present an important traffic-safety play to students. Roadies, written by Arron Naytowhow and performed by members of SNTC, targets youth and addresses such issues as impaired driving, seatbelt safety, driver distractions and speeding through skits and songs. “I think it’s very important for the students themselves because for them to see us, they can relate to us as we show and share these stories… I think they get the message a whole lot easier,” actor Lance Larocque tells the Regina Leader-Post. According to Kwei Quaye, Assistant Vice-President of Traffic Safety and Driver Services at SGI, the goal of the play is to provide a message of safety to members of the audience from people who are just like them. “One of our core goals is to over time build a road safety culture in the province. We believe that if we get to younger people today, in 10 years time, we’ll have a much safer driving community than we have today.” 7 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Across Canada Canadian Students Beat Astronomical Odds Toronto, ON – Students of Humber College Institute of Technology & Advanced Learning managed to go where no college students have gone before – by contacting the International Space Station on a communications system they designed and assembled themselves. Operation First Contact, which took four students more than a year and a half to develop as a technical design project for the Wireless and Telecommunications Technology program, successfully contacted the space station for a pre-arranged meeting in early February. Along with meeting stringent NASA-approved design criteria, the system had to be able to find and track the space station, which travels in orbit at a speed of 27,700 km/hr and transmit a radio signal 400 kilometres into space. The out-ofthis-world feat marked the first time that college-level students have designed and put together a device to make contact with the space station. New Federal Support Expands Post-Secondary Access for High School Graduates Getting a university, college or trade school education has never been more important. School counsellors play an important role in ensuring students have the right information to help them succeed. Beginning in fall 2009, the Government of Canada will reduce financial barriers faced by Canadians and make it easier for youth from low- and middle-income families to manage the cost of post-secondary education. These new measures will help students reduce and manage their student loan debt and make it easier to repay their student loans: • A new up-front Canada Student Grant for full-time students from low- and middle-income families; • A new Repayment Assistance Plan to help students who have difficulty paying back loans; • More support for students with permanent disabilities; and • More support for part-time students including a grant worth up to $1,200. Find out more about how the Government of Canada can help your students achieve their educational goals by visiting CanLearn.ca. Des nouvelles mesures fédérales rendent les études postsecondaires plus abordables pour les titulaires d’un diplôme d’études secondaires Aujourd’hui, plus que jamais, il est important d’être titulaire d’un diplôme d’études universitaires, collégiales ou professionnelles. Les conseillers d’orientation scolaires jouent un rôle important en s’assurant que les étudiants obtiennent les renseignements appropriés qui les aideront à réussir dans leurs études. À compter de l’automne 2009, le gouvernement du Canada réduira les obstacles financiers auxquels les Canadiens sont confrontés et aidera les jeunes de famille à revenu faible et moyen à faire face au coût des études postsecondaires. Les nouvelles mesures aideront les étudiants à réduire et à gérer leurs dettes et faciliteront le remboursement de leurs prêts étudiants : • une nouvelle bourse canadienne pour les étudiants à temps plein de famille à revenu faible et moyen; • un nouveau Programme d’aide au remboursement pour les étudiants ayant des difficultés à rembourser leur prêt; • davantage de soutien aux étudiants ayant une invalidité permanente; et, • davantage de soutien aux étudiants à temps partiel, y compris une bourse pouvant atteindre jusqu’à 1200$. Pour obtenir davantage de renseignements sur la façon dont le gouvernement du Canada peut aider vos étudiants à réaliser leurs objectifs éducationnels, veuillez consulter Cibletudes.ca. 8 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 9 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Spring Issue “Even in public school, I couldn’t read during reading periods. I’d have to take the book home and read it out loud.” Dyslexia in Disguise Why the learning disorder often goes undetected until after high school by Candice G. Ball As Joshua (not his real name) waited anxiously for his biology professor to call his name, he told himself he had studied hard for the exam so he probably did just fine. Finally, Joshua’s turn came and his prof handed him his paper. At the top: 30 per cent written in red marker. Joshua felt sick to his stomach. “How could I have even gotten into university if I’m so stupid?” he wondered. He had graduated from high school with a decent average and never had trouble with classes before starting university. “It was all the reading and multiple choice exams,” he now recalls. “I did fine on short answers but the multiple choice killed me.” After failing several courses, Joshua’s mother, a former teacher, suspected a reading disability and encouraged him to have an assessment done at the Saskatoon Centre of Reading Excellence Inc. 10 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Joshua went through the assessment process and was relieved to discover he wasn’t losing his mind. The diagnosis, however, was that he had dyslexia. Both Joshua and his mother found it odd that he made it all the way to university without anyone noticing his reading difficulties. But according to Claudette Larocque, Director of Public Policy and Programs at Learning Disabilities Association of Canada, it is not that uncommon for a student to discover he or she has a learning disability while pursuing their post-secondary education. “When a student is in a home environment, there’s support. The teachers also provide support,” Larocque explains. “Once they go on to a college or university setting, it’s totally different. There is no support. It’s a totally different environment in terms of the classroom – it’s a lecture format in many instances.” She adds the student is “asked to do things they weren’t asked to do in high school. Their environment has changed and because of that, their learning disability really comes out.” Certainly that was the case with Joshua. He found the volume of reading and the fact he had to learn from textbooks overwhelming. “Even in public school, I couldn’t read during reading periods. I’d have to take the book home and read it out loud. I guess that was a symptom of my dyslexia.” The intellectual potential Dr. Liz Adkins, a clinical psychologist in private practice in Winnipeg, describes dyslexia as “an impairment in the brain’s ability to take images perceived by the eyes and ears and put them in understandable language. There’s something wrong in the processing. The information gets into the eyes and the ears; so they can see okay and they can hear okay, but the processing part of the brain isn’t working properly,” she explains. Dyslexia is typically diagnosed through a learning assessment conducted by a psychologist. “We do tests to determine the person’s reading level and to determine the person’s potential,” says Dr. Adkins. “We look at the intellectual potential versus how they are performing.” There are also a number of tests that can determine whether an individual learns best by hearing, seeing or doing. “We try to also provide that information to help them work more effectively,” she says. A major component of the learning assessment includes recommendations on educational planning and student accommodations. For many students who were labeled as slow or difficult, the proper assessment can help them heal their damaged selfesteem. “It helps the person because they realize, yes, there’s something wrong with them, but it’s not that they’re crazy, stupid or lazy; it’s that they’ve got a disability.” The documentation is also the key to getting a college or university to provide the resources a student with a learning disability needs. “When you’re in post-secondary school, you’re reading to learn; you’re not learning to read,” says Larocque. “So that’s why the accommodations at a post-secondary level are specific to your program and not specific to your learning how to read.” Making accommodations Larocque recommends university or college students present themselves to a support service for students with disabilities well in advance of classes beginning. “They sit down with the advisor, go through the diagnosis and look at the recommendations, look at the type of program the student is registered in and the type of accommodations required.” That’s precisely what Joshua did when he decided to embark on the educational path towards becoming an electrician. His recommendations included taking an exam in a private setting with a reader. “After my negative experiences at university, I was afraid to go back to school,” he concedes. “But after I met with the people at the disabilities centre and made my instructor aware of my situation, everything went really well.” So well, in fact, that Joshua had no fears when it came time to retrieve his first exam. He knew going into it that he needed a 65 per cent to pass; so no doubt seeing the big red “79” marked on the page felt pretty darn good. In Good Company Here are a few of the famous who didn’t let dyslexia stop them from achieving greatness: •Hans Christian Anderson, Writer • Muhammad Ali, Champion Boxer •Ann Bancroft, Arctic Explorer • Richard Branson, Entrepreneur • Agatha Christie, Writer • Anderson Cooper, Journalist • Tom Cruise, Actor • Walt Disney, Entrepreneur • Thomas Edison, Inventor • Whoopi Goldberg, Comedian • Alexander Graham Bell, Inventor • Tommy Hilfiger, Clothing Designer • Jay Leno, TV Host • Pablo Picasso, Artist • Jackie Stewart, Race Car Driver (Source: dyslexia.com) Common Symptoms of Dyslexia • Difficulty learning and remembering printed words • Reversing letters and/or numbers • Confusing vowel sounds or substituting one consonant for another • Difficulty writing 11 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Great Idea! to take control of their lives, use their imaginations and capacity for reason to question the world and then help them create that world.” Once the students had developed and shared their stories, they were bursting to tell others about what they had discovered. The group found a venue to do just that at the Winnipeg Storytelling The Storytellers School: Gordon Bell High School; Winnipeg, MB Population: Approximately 950 students, Grades 7-12 Program: Many Voices, One World uses the art of storytelling to bring students of diverse backgrounds together Every good story needs compelling protagonists, and there is no shortage of them at Gordon Bell High School, which has students from all of Winnipeg’s major ethno-cultural groups. “The school has a truly mixed population wherein there is no real mainstream,” says teacher Marc Kuly, noting that over 50 languages are spoken in the homes of the school’s students. “If public school’s job is to help create a more equitable and hopeful world, there is no better place than Gordon Bell to get that job done.” In 2007, Kuly and fellow teacher Shelley St. Godard noticed that despite the diverse school population, there was still evidence of self-segregation amongst the students. “Students tolerated each other’s cultures, but we wanted to move beyond tolerance into understanding and perhaps even a celebration of diversity,” Kuly recalls. Kuly and St. Godard introduced 12 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Students from Gordon Bell participated in the Winnipeg Storytelling Festival students to the book A Long Way Gone, the memoirs of former Sierra Leone child soldier Ishmael Beah. Beah’s gripping story of losing and then struggling to regain his humanity resonated deeply with students, especially refugees, and aboriginal and Euro-Canadian youth. “Of the 60 students who read Beah’s book, 30 volunteered to meet after school to do more work on the sorts of intercultural activities that we had done in the novel unit,” Kuly says. The weekly meetings would start with an exercise to shake off the events of the day and focus students on being present. Kuly would then tell a story and ask the students to respond through one-on-one storytelling, small group discussions or sharing circles. “For instance, a story might have a character who faced tremendous odds or who was granted a wish. After the story was told, students would share their own experience with facing challenges or one of their wishes,” he says. Although storytelling was a natural way for the kids to interact, the process was not without its challenges – not the least of which was establishing trust within the group. “Students, especially refugee students, Festival, which donated the space and publicity for the students to participate. “The festival also booked Ishmael Beah and his adoptive mother (storyteller Laura Simms) and gave our students a chance to meet and speak with Ishmael – the man who had inspired them,” Kuly says. “They also participated in a workshop with Laura, who helped them tell their stories with more confidence, clarity and artistry.” Now in its second year, Many Voices, One World has exceeded expectations, with students able to accept someone different from themselves as an opportunity to expand their view of the world. “Students are curious about each other and more confident in themselves,” Kuly says. “They have discovered a sense of their own agency and prove it in their interactions and response to local and world events.” Impressed by the program’s ability to connect students, the Manitoba School Improvement Program arranged a secondment for Kuly, allowing him to work with students in several different schools while keeping the project going at Gordon Bell. He says the idea of Many Voices, One World can work well in most high schools, although success depends on a number of principles. “First, use high interest, relevant, high › …continued on page 39 have good reason to suspect people who ask them to tell their stories. For Canadian students, one of the biggest challenges was learning how to tell a story,” he says. “In the West, we are pretty good about talking about our feelings, but telling a story is quite different.” Kuly says that the new Canadian students were able to help out their Canadian-born classmates by modeling the way a story shows something rather than telling it. “For instance, when a student tells of his experience leaving his village for a refugee camp and attending his first day of school in the camp, a whole range of emotions are evoked in listeners,” he says. “It’s far more powerful than simply explaining that he was sad and scared and hopeful all at the same time.” Although the peer storytelling experience was emotional and even cathartic for many of the students, Kuly disagrees with the notion that Many Voices, One World is more of a therapy program than an education program. “Once we are born, we get a name and that is the start of our story. Either we become authors of our own story or we become the victim of it,” he says. “Teachers need to empower students 13 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Career Opportunity Passion for Fashion Know a style-savvy student bound to go from high school hallway to Project Runway? Here’s what they need to know about becoming a fashion designer by Liz Katynski Carrie Hayes always knew she wanted to be a fashion designer. From the age of six, she was sketching her own designs. Today, the 27-year-old Toronto resident runs her own fashion design business called Carrie, specializing exclusively in women’s day dresses for young urban customers. She sells them in small boutiques in Ontario and Calgary. She opened for business in January 2007, and does both a spring and a fall line each year. Her Spring 2009 line is her fifth collection. “Fashion design is very rewarding, if you love it,” says Carrie. “I love building fashions from scratch. It’s a hands-on job, an amazing job.” She admits she is not in it for the money, and defines her own success by being able to pay the bills doing something she loves. She knows that turning a profit can take years, and requires talent, perseverance, and significant financial backing because it’s so very competitive out there. Carrie moved to Toronto from Wiarton, ON to attend the International Academy of Design’s Fashion Design Program. Although her mother and grandmother taught her how to sew, she didn’t want to be known as a “sewn-in-grandma’sbasement” designer. She wanted professional training credibility. At 19, she was already working in the industry. She interned with Calvin Klein, to add a prestigious name to her resume. WHO CAN CUT IT? Carrie advises aspiring fashion designers that they must be talented and have something different to say, and they can’t be afraid of working hard to accomplish their dream. Get a diploma or degree from a reputable school. Be sure to ask if they offer a more artistic or more technical training program, and who some of their most successful graduates are. Complete an internship with an impressive company. Consider moving to Montreal, Toronto or Vancouver. And remember, a fashion designer can expect to work 10 years before breaking even. There are many hours in the studio cutting fabric, and sewing. Dealing with production suppliers and buyers can be insanity. It’s not for everyone. Creative design jobs at clothing manufacturers are also prestigious although they require a few years of industry seniority. Technical work can earn you $40,000 or more in a few years. Or you could consider other fashion-related jobs like fashion television or print journalist, retail buyer, marketing and public relations, stylist, model, production assistant or fashion photographer. CAREER PATTERNS • A ccording to Human Resources and Development Canada (HRDC), fashion designers design and create clothing and accessories for men, women and children. Designers may be employed by clothing and textile companies or selfemployed. Employment requirements are a university degree in fine arts or visual arts, or a clothing design program at a college or university. Creative ability is demonstrated in a portfolio of work. Use of computer-assisted (CAD) design may be required. Designers may advance to supervisor and management positions. • T he Apparel Human Resources Council says fashion designers create and develop new products based on fashion trends, clients’ needs, and the company profile. The job requires development of a collection plan, research, sketching and supervising storyboards and technicians, as well as participating in promotional events. There are 1,200 apparel firms in Canada and over 80 jobs in the industry from production to creative, and more. Of the 63,000 people working in the apparel industry in 2003, 80 per cent were in production and 17 per cent were in administration. Accessorizing Toolkit Learn more about careers in fashion design by exploring the following books and websites: • P assion for Fashion: Careers in Style by Jeanne Beker, Illustrated by Nathalie Dion • P ortfolio Presentation for Fashion Designers by Linda Tain 14 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 • T he Fashion Designer Survival Guide by Mary Gehlhar with an introduction by (successful American fashion designer) Zac Posen www.appareljobs.ca www.lorealfashionweek.ca www.fashionincubator.com www.carriehayes.com 15 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 École de pensée Cette école secondaire francophone a une culture d’esprit d’entreprise Par Liz Katynski La Polyvalente Louis-Mailloux (PL-M) à Caraquet était désignée la première école secondaire française communautaire du Nouveau-Brunswick en juin 2008. « Est-ce que c’est l’école parfaite? Non. Mais c’est une école où les jeunes aiment venir apprendre, » dit Philip Chiasson, directeur de la PL-M. « Notre école est ouverte au changement. C’est un processus continuel. Le plus gros reste à venir. » L’école communautaire a une philosophie qui cherche à retenir les élèves en leur offrant une formation plus riche et moderne. Ici, les communautés, les municipalités, les entrepreneurs, les partenaires et les parents sont encouragés à participer à l’éducation et à la formation des jeunes. Au Nouveau-Brunswick, le gouvernement anticipe ouvrir 75 écoles communautaires d’ici 2012, en accordant 3,3 millions de dollars à cette initiative. L’idée, telle qu’exprimée dans le rapport Les Enfants au premier plan, c’est de renouveler les méthodes d’enseignement afin de s’assurer que les enfants ont une vie meilleure que celle de leurs parents. La province a déjà plus qu’une dizaine d’écoles communautaires. 16 canadianschoolcounsellor. CSC•Q308 com Au Québec, on invite la communauté à participer activement au sein de l’école pour intégrer des services dans ou à partir de l’école. Leur but est de tenter d’augmenter le taux de réussite des élèves, en invitant la communauté à s’y engager à leur succès. La Polyvalente Louis-Mailloux a un comité composé de membres de la communauté, d’enseignants, de la direction, et d’un agent de développent communautaire. Ensemble, ils déterminent ce que les élèves veulent, ce dont ils ont besoin et comment intégrer le tout aux cours pour enrichir le programme d’études. Le comité existe depuis deux ans et il reste beaucoup de travail à faire, dit Mme Cormier, directrice-adjointe de la PL-M. L’année passée, la PL-M a offert une multitude de styles d’apprentissage pour répondre aux intérêts variés des élèves les mercredis après-midi. Il y avait plus de cent vingt activités telles que des cours de danse, de scrapbooking, de cuisine animées par plus de 60 personnes de la communauté. Par exemple, une acadienne qui a marié un japonais a géré des sessions de culture et cuisine japonaise pendant lesquelles les jeunes ont appris à faire du sushi. Cette année, l’école offre de tels styles d’apprentissage après l’école. « Des gens d’affaires, d’autres nous donnent un coup de main avec grand plaisir, sans rénumeration. Ils sont fiers de contribuer à l’éducation des jeunes. Maintenant d’autres personnes nous approchent, » dit M. Chiasson. Il y a un fort partenariat communautaire. « On veut exposer les élèves au monde sans se limiter à nos connaissances. » dit M. Chaisson. « On mène à l’ignorance quand on croit que l’on sait tout. » Pour donner aux jeunes le goût de poursuivre un emploi dans ces domaines, la PL-M offre des stages coopératifs- certains avant-midis sont passés aux milieux du travail tels que chez un avocat, un comptable, un enseignant, un mécanicien, un plombier pendant une séance de cinq mois. L’année passée, la PL-M a offert un cours de networking au Collège Communautaire du Nouveau Brunswick- Campus de Bathurst et Cisco Canada. Depuis deux ans, l’Université de Moncton accepte des élèves du deuxième semestre de la douzième année à s’inscrire aux cours de première année universitaire. Les élèves peuvent ensuite obtenir un crédit au niveau secondaire ainsi qu’un crédit universitaire. Puisque la PL-M se situe en milieu rural, il n’y a pas de services de recyclage mais l’école offre une formation sur le compostage, et chaque mois, il y a une grosse activité basée sur l’environnent. De plus, le directeur lit un capsule lié à l’environnent chaque matin. La PL-M a aussi une classe verte. Depuis janvier 2007, l’école a des panneaux solaires et une éolienne qui fournissent l’énergie nécessaire à faire fonctionner la classe verte. Dans la salle de classe, un logiciel permet de voir la production et la consommation électrique en watts. Si trop est produit, le surplus est envoyé à Énergie Nouveau-Brunswick, et s’il n’y a pas assez, l’énergie requise vient d’Énergie Nouveau-Brunswick. Le système de lumières s’ajuste au montant de lumière nécessaire. Des prises dans la classe sont utilisées pour des expériences comme par exemple déterminer le montant d’énergie nécessaire pour faire fonctionner un grille-pain. Pour le Congres Mondial Acadien 2009, les étudiants de la PL-M vont monter une pièce de théâtre. Des élèves d’un cours de français l’ont écrite, et d’autres groupes d’élèves ont composé la musique, écrit les paroles, et ont fait les recherches historiques sur les grands personnages acadiens. « Tu n’habites pas l’Acadie, elle habite en toi, » dit M. Chiasson. La chanson de la pièce apparaît sur un CD promotionnel. Les élèves ont eu la chance de faire l’enregistrement à un studio professionnel. « Ça peut leur ouvrir des portes. Ils vont voir autre chose › ...suite à la page 39 17 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•Q308 ❱❱ Cover Story Into the Wild Dans la Nature CanAdventure Education offers families hope with wilderness therapy for at-risk youth CanAdventure Education offre de l’espoir aux familles avec une thérapie de pleine nature pour jeunes à risque By Barbara Chabai Susan Grover’s son Juan was a well-adjusted honour student at a pleasant Okanagan Valley community school when, as she puts it, “the bottom dropped out of our life.” “Suddenly, he didn’t want to go to school anymore. He would talk about violence and retribution and stealing and that being in a gang was the only way to go. We couldn’t figure out what was wrong,” Susan says. Upon talking to the school she learned that her son’s situation was even worse that she thought. “He had a terrible attitude and wasn’t doing his schoolwork, plus I was told he was picking on other students,” she recalls. “Then one day it all culminated when he took a paring knife to school and threatened some kids.” Unbeknownst to Juan’s parents, the 13-year-old had been regularly beaten and bullied by a group of kids who were pressuring him to join their gang. According to Susan, Juan took 18 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Juan, le fils de Susan Grover, était un étudiant bien adapté sur la liste d’honneur dans une école de l’agréable communauté d’Okanagan Valley quand, comme elle le dit, « le tapis a été tiré de dessous nos pieds ». « Soudainement, il ne voulut plus aller à l’école. Il parlait de violence, de vengeance, de vol et que d’appartenir à un gang était l’unique façon de faire. Nous ne comprenions pas ce qui n’allait pas », dit Susan. En discutant avec l’école, elle apprit que la situation de son fils était encore pire que ce qu’elle pensait. « Il avait une terrible attitude, il ne faisait pas ses devoirs et en plus, on me dit qu’il s’en prenait à d’autres étudiants », se rappelle-t-elle. « Puis, un jour, cela atteint son point culminant lorsqu’il apporta un couteau à l’école et menaça des enfants. » À l’insu de ses parents, Juan, à l’âge de 13 ans, avait été régulièrement battu et intimidé par un groupe d’enfants qui the paring knife to school to ward them off then immediately threw it away knowing what he’d done was wrong. But it was too late. “Word got out that he had a knife and rumours flew that it was a 10-inch hunting knife and that he threatened to slit someone’s throat,” Susan says. “He became an instant pariah. This is a really good kid who is active in the community, involved in sports – now all of a sudden he’s branded a psychopath.” Although Juan was the first to step up and tell the truth about the incident, he was not only expelled from his school but barred for life from all schools in the district. “My husband and I were absolutely dumbfounded. We were in shock and didn’t know what to do. Does he need more discipline? Should we send him to military school? Nothing seemed to fit.” faisaient pression sur lui pour qu’il joigne leur gang. Selon Susan, Juan avait apporté le couteau à l’école pour se parer d’eux puis il l’avait immédiatement jeté sachant que ce qu’il avait fait était mal. Mais c’était trop tard. « La nouvelle qu’il avait un couteau se répandit et les rumeurs circulèrent voulant que ce fût un couteau de chasse de 10 pouces et qu’il eût menacé de trancher la gorge de quelqu’un », dit Susan. « Il est instantanément devenu un paria. C’est réellement un bon garçon qui est actif dans la communauté, impliqué dans les sports, mais maintenant, tout d’un coup, il fut étiqueté comme psychopathe. » Même si Juan fut le premier à se présenter et dire la vérité au sujet de l’incident, il fut non seulement expulsé de son école, mais également interdit dans toutes les écoles du district. Then Susan found a website for CanAdventure Education, a program on Vancouver Island for struggling teens ages 13-19 that combines a unique wilderness adventure curriculum with clinical counseling. Started five years ago by Corinna Stevenson, a former high school teacher who had spent the balance of her career engaging marginalized students, and her husband Greg, a two-time Olympian and amateur sports coach, CanAdventure offers an emotionally, physically safe and supportive community environment for youth requiring more extensive intervention. As the Director of Programming, Corinna created and oversees a one-of-a-kind curriculum that envelops experiential education, outdoor skills, cultural awareness and in-depth personal growth work in the areas of self-esteem, interpersonal relationships and the development of positive behavior for the long term. Being of Métis decent, she was also able to integrate First Nations cultural teachings into the therapeutic curriculum to offer youth a symbolic and healthy rite of passage into adulthood. “The traditional native way of life is akin to living with nature,” Corinna says. “It’s about feeling connected to the earth and to each other. So if you can teach these kids to find peace in the wilderness, so many of those lessons are transferable to their everyday lives.” Although there are similar camps for troubled teens in the U.S., CanAdventure is one of the only programs of its kind in Canada, attracting participants from across the country and as far away as Australia, Switzerland, France and Singapore. « Mon mari et moi étions complètement ahuris. Nous étions sous le choc et ne savions que faire. A-t-il besoin de plus de discipline ? Devrions-nous l’inscrire à l’école militaire ? Rien ne semblait faire l’affaire. » Puis, Susan trouva un site web à propos de CanAdventure Education, un programme sur l’île de Vancouver pour des adolescents de 13-19 en peine qui associe un programme scolaire unique d’aventures en pleine nature avec une aide psychopédagogique clinique. Démarré il y a cinq années par Corinna Stevenson, une exenseignante de niveau secondaire qui avait utilisé le reste de sa carrière à mobiliser des étudiants marginalisés et son mari Greg, deux fois olympien et entraineur de sports amateurs, CanAdventure offre un environnement communautaire émotionnellement et physiquement sur et aidant pour des jeunes ayant besoin d’une intervention plus importante. Comme directrice de la programmation, Corinna a créé et supervise un programme scolaire unique qui inclut l’éducation expérientielle, les habiletés de l’extérieur, la conscience culturelle et un travail de croissance personnel en profondeur dans les domaines de l’estime de soi, des relations interpersonnelles et du développement d’un comportement positif à long terme. Étant de descendance métisse, elle fut capable d’intégrer des enseignements culturels des Premières Nations dans le programme thérapeutique pour offrir aux jeunes un rite de passage symbolique et sain vers l’âge adulte. « Le mode de vie autochtone traditionnel est apparenté à 19 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Cover Story “One thing that differentiates us is that we don’t just focus on one element. We make a conscious effort to provide kids with more than just a physical journey; we have a holistic personal growth curriculum, the cultural aspect, the environmental studies and academic component, plus a unique aftercare program.” CanAdventure offers two unique programs – the 32-day Struggling Teen Journey Camp and the Hero’s Quest program, a boarding school alternative that provides teens with the knowledge, skills, mentorship and confidence they need to cope in the real world. Matt, 16, first came to CanAdventure last April. What was originally planned to be a month-long stay became an extended educational retreat that lasted well into the fall. “I was having lots of problems back home with drinking and drugs and stuff. I didn’t go to school for a month so my mom sent me here to see if we could figure out what was going on,” he says. “Being here has changed me. It’s a good place to be. I feel better about myself and realize that you don’t always need to get drunk to have fun. I had lots of fun while I was here and I was sober every day.” In January, Matt returned to school to make a fresh start in Grade 11. A PERSONAL APPROACH CanAdventure’s Journey program combines a core experiential curriculum and therapeutic focus sessions designed to provide interventions for teens experiencing challenges ranging from behavioral issues, family problems, anger management and abuse. Journey offers a personal approach, guaranteeing a 1:2 instructor-to-participant ratio and a maximum of six teens 20 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 vivre avec la nature », dit Corinna. « C’est le sentiment d’être connecté à la terre et à chacun de soi. Donc, si vous pouvez enseigner à ces enfants à trouver la paix dans la nature, il y a tant de ces leçons qui sont transférables dans leurs vies de tous les jours. » Bien qu’il y ait plusieurs camps similaires pour adolescents en difficulté aux États-Unis, CanAdventure est l’un des seuls programmes de son genre au Canada, attirant des participants de partout au pays et aussi loin que l’Australie, la Suisse, la France et Singapour. « Une chose qui nous différencie est que nous ne nous concentrons pas uniquement sur un élément. Nous faisons des efforts conscients pour fournir aux jeunes plus que simplement un séjour physique. Nous avons un programme de croissance personnelle holistique, l’aspect culturel, les études environnementales une composante scolaire ainsi qu’un programme unique de suivi post camp. » CanAdventure offre deux programmes uniques : le camp parcours de 32 jours pour adolescents en difficulté et le programme de la quête du héros, un pensionnat alternatif qui fournit aux adolescents la connaissance, les habiletés, le mentorat et la confiance dont ils ont besoin pour affronter le monde réel. Matt, 16 ans, est venu à CanAdventure en avril dernier. Ce qui au début devait être un séjour d’un mois est devenu une retraite éducationnelle prolongée qui s’est poursuivie jusqu’à tard en automne. « J’avais beaucoup de problèmes à la maison avec l’alcool et les drogues et tout. Je ne suis pas allé à l’école pendant un mois et ma mère m’a envoyé ici pour voir si l’on trouverait ce qui n’allait pas », dit-il. « Être ici m’a changé. C’est un bon endroit pour être. Je me sens mieux dans ma peau et je réalise qu’il n’est pas toujours nécessaire de m’enivrer pour avoir du plaisir. J’ai eu beaucoup de plaisir pendant que j’étais ici et je n’ai pas bu une seule fois. » En janvier, Matt retournera à l’école pour redémarrer à neuf en 11e année. UNE APPROCHE PERSONNELLE Le programme parcours de CanAdventure combine un tronc commun expérientiel et des sessions de concentration per group. The instructors are with the participants 24/7 and are guided by a team of Masters-level Registered Clinical Counsellors who bring years of experience. Clinical Supervisor Dr. Scott Lawrence, a former elementary and secondary guidance counsellor, works full-time with the CanAdventure counseling team. He says that most camp participants are on an expedition toward self-discovery. “When they arrive, their motivation is usually to find out ‘Who am I?’” he says. “There’s a whole range of adolescent angst and confusion about the relation between self and peers, so that’s an underlying issue. Some want to get away from substance issues (CanAdventure is not a rehab facility; Dr. Scott says that if participants have significant addiction programs, they need to detox before arriving.) or family dynamics, but generally, selfesteem and identity come up most commonly in what they’re looking for.” Participants spend 60 to 70 per cent of their time in CanAdventure’s 40-acre outdoor classroom – featuring majestic old-growth forest, grassy meadows and the crystal-clear waters of the Salmon River. Dr. Scott says that the pristine wilderness is essential in helping teens relate to the natural world. “Physically, it’s very challenging in that we offer hiking and kayaking, but we emphasize a lot more of the studies of the natural world in the First Nations tradition,” he says. “Being in these surroundings also slows the kids down neurologically. Whether they’re from the city or a smaller community, they come to us highly wired because of (teens’ constant use of) iPods, TV and the Internet. Suddenly, they’re out here and they start to slow down,” says Dr. Scott. thérapeutique conçues pour fournir des interventions pour des adolescents aux prises avec des défis allant des problèmes de comportement, problèmes de famille, de maîtrise de la colère aux abus. Parcours offre une approche personnelle garantissant un ratio d’un instructeur pour deux participants et un maximum de six adolescents par groupe. Les instructeurs sont avec les participants 24/7 et ils sont guidés par une équipe de conseillers cliniques enregistrés de niveau maître qui apportent des années d’expérience. Le Dr Scott Lawrence, superviseur clinicien, qui est un exconseiller d’orientation à l’élémentaire et au secondaire, travaille à temps plein avec l’équipe d’orientation de CanAdventure. Il mentionne que la plupart des participants au camp sont en expédition vers l’autodécouverte. « Quand ils arrivent, leur motivation est habituellement de découvrir ‘Qui je suis.’ », dit-il. « Il y a toute une gamme d’angoisse existentielle d’adolescent et de confusion à propos de la relation du soi avec ses pairs ce qui est donc un problème sous-jacent. Certains veulent se distancer de problèmes de drogues (CanAdventure n’est pas un centre de réhabilitation, si des participants ont des problèmes importants de dépendance, ils doivent suivre une cure de désintoxication avant d’arriver, selon le Dr Scott.) ou de la dynamique familiale, mais généralement, l’estime de soi et l’identité sont les points communs de leur recherche. » Les participants passent 60 à 70 pour cent de leur temps à CanAdventure dans ses 40 acres de classe extérieure composés de vieilles forêts majestueuses, prairies d’herbages et d’eaux “Therapeutically, it’s better for us to work with them when they’re at peace as it provides better access to their experience and creates an opportunity to build relationships.” While at CanAdventure, the participants are guided through the challenges that they face, facilitating growth in areas such as values orientation, communication, conflict resolution, respect, goal-setting and strategies for continued success once they return home. cristallines de la rivière au Saumon. Le Dr Scott mentionne que la nature virginale est essentielle pour aider les adolescents à se rapprocher du monde naturel. « Physiquement, c’est très exigeant puisque nous offrons la randonnée pédestre et le kayakisme, mais nous insistons beaucoup plus sur l’étude du monde naturel selon la tradition des Premières Nations », dit-il. « Aussi, être dans cet environnement, ralentit les jeunes au plan neurologique. Parce qu’ils nous viennent de la ville ou de plus petites communautés, ils nous arrivent hautement branchés à cause des iPod, de la télévision et de l’Internet (les adolescents les utilisent constamment). Soudainement, ils sont ici et ils commencent à ralentir », mentionne le Dr Scott. « Du côté thérapeutique, c’est mieux pour nous de travailler avec eux quand ils sont en paix, car cela favorise un meilleur accès à leur expérience et créé une opportunité pour bâtir des relations. » A COMMUNITY OF CARING Associate Counsellor Ben Kotler, an independent Registered Clinical Counsellor with a private practice, says he was drawn to work with the CanAdventure program because of its philosophy of caring for each individual and the focus on creating a community of caring. “I really believe in creating safe, emotionally-positive 21 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Cover Story communities for these kids,” he says. “When five or six kids start to buy in to the idea that they don’t always have to be protecting themselves and that they can have healthy relationships by supporting each other, it creates a community where kindness and compassion are core beliefs.” That sense of community is evident at the nightly council fire when the campers participate in a talking circle. A traditional talking stick or feather is passed around in turn, giving each holder an opportunity to speak from the heart. Ben says that by the end of the program, graduating campers use the circle as a forum to celebrate what each other have accomplished. “Every member of the community has an opportunity to honour one another – sharing their positive interactions with that individual, how they’ve witnessed them grow or what effect that person has had on them,” Ben explains. “It’s a very powerful experience because the families who have returned to pick up their child are hearing all these great insights. Of course, the parents love their child, they’ve seen them grow up and they know their positive attributes, but it sometimes gets lost in times of struggle and conflict. They tend to really open up and share their own positive knowledge about that child, so it’s very emotional.” This opens the door for a family counseling session to review the teen’s personal growth experience and discuss how family dynamics may need to change as the teen prepares for reentry into the home. But CanAdventure does not simply send families away – especially knowing that the teen is returning to an environment where they may be vulnerable to falling into the same negative patterns again. “Every family is part of a one-year aftercare program, which we’ve found to be very helpful in providing the support they need,” Ben says. “We are in contact with the parents and the youth on a weekly basis to monitor their situation, problem solve with them or refer them to resources within their own communities.” Susan Grover says the aftercare program has been a lifeline for them. “It was important for us as a family to have someone to turn to who could understand and help,” she says. “They’re all just a phone call away and we know that if there’s ever a problem, they’ll move heaven and earth to make it right.” Since her son graduated from CanAdventure in March 2008, Susan’s family has relocated to Vancouver – yet moving is far from the biggest change the Grovers have experienced. “The day we went to pick Juan up from camp, we saw him out shooting hoops. My husband and I looked at each other and said, ‘Is that really him?’” she chuckles. “The baggy pants with the underwear hanging out, the untied shoes and backwards cap were gone. He had a new way of walking, of carrying himself with confidence.” A month after returning home, Juan also began talking to his parents about what triggered his downward spiral earlier in the year. “When he started at his new school, he came home and told me, ‘Mom, you know what? I’m really not a fat, lazy Mexican,’” › …continued on page 40 22 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Pendant leur séjour à CanAdventure, les participants sont guidés par rapport aux défis auxquels ils font face, facilitant leur croissance dans des domaines comme l’orientation de valeurs, la communication, la résolution de conflits, le respect, l’établissement d’objectifs et de stratégies pour un succès continu lorsqu’ils retournent à la maison. Toronto’s Christian University UNE COMMUNAUTÉ DE SOINS Ben Kotler, conseiller associé, un conseiller clinicien enregistré avec une pratique privée, mentionne qu’il fut amené à travailler avec le programme de CanAdventure à cause de sa philosophie de soin pour chaque individu et l’accent mis pour créer une communauté de soins. « Je crois réellement à la création de communautés sécuritaires et émotionnellement positives pour ces jeunes », dit-il. « Quand cinq ou six jeunes commencent à croire en l’idée qu’ils n’ont pas toujours besoin de se protéger et qu’ils peuvent avoir de saines relations en s’encourageant les uns les autres, cela créé une communauté où la bonté et la compassion sont des croyances importantes. » Ce sens de la communauté est évident lors des conseils de feu de camp le soir où les campeurs participent à un cercle de discussion. Un bâton ou une plume de la parole est passé de l’un à l’autre donnant à chacun l’opportunité de parler avec le cœur. Ben dit que vers la fin du programme, les campeurs finissants utilisent le cercle comme forum pour célébrer ce que chacun a accompli. « Les membres de la communauté ont l’opportunité de s’honorer les uns les autres partageant leurs interactions positives avec un individu, comment ils l’ont vu grandir ou quel effet cette personne a eu sur eux », nous explique Ben. « C’est une expérience très puissante, car les familles qui sont venues chercher leur enfant entendent toutes ces bonnes appréciations. Bien sûr, les parents aiment leur enfant, ils l’ont vu grandir et ils connaissent leurs qualités, mais, parfois, cela se perd de vue dans les périodes de lutte et de conflit. Ils ont tendance à vraiment s’ouvrir et partager leur propre connaissance positive à propos de leur enfant, c’est donc très émotionnel. » Ceci ouvre la porte à une session de counseling familial pour revoir l’expérience de croissance personnelle de l’adolescent et discuter des changements à apporter à la dynamique familiale si nécessaire au moment où l’adolescent se prépare à réintégrer le foyer. Mais, CanAdventure ne renvoie pas simplement les familles, spécialement en sachant que l’adolescent retourne dans un environnement où il peut être vulnérable et reprendre les mêmes comportements négatifs. « Chaque famille fait partie d’un programme d’une année de soins post camp que nous estimons très utile pour apporter le support dont ils ont besoin », dit Ben. « Nous sommes en contact avec les parents et le jeune sur une base hebdomadaire pour suivre leur situation, résoudre les problèmes avec eux ou les référer à des ressources dans leurs propres communautés. » Susan Grover mentionne que le programme de soins post camp a été une bouée de sauvetage pour eux. « Il nous était important, en tant que famille, d’avoir › ...suite à la page 40 23 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 s Going in for the Skill Counsellors play a vital role in changing the stigma of a college education from a “lesser than” to an “equal to” Brian Tamblyn By Dan Kenning When it comes to getting students excited about attending college, Brian Tamblyn loves when a good program comes to bear. The president and CEO of Ontario’s Georgian College can’t hide his ebullience when speaking of Grizzly Cub Day, in which Grade 7 and 8 students in the Barrie region become honorary enrollees for a day, complete with a Georgian campus tour, workshops in skilled disciplines, prizes and contests, fun with mascot Growler Grizzly, and a basic introduction to the courses Georgian offers – including studies in automotive, aviation, nursing, fine art, culinary, business, justice and public safety and golf management. The program’s goal, Tamblyn explains, is to get students familiar with the campus and thinking about a future career. And many times he is surprised at who ends up learning the most. “The teachers and counselors who accompany the students are really blown away by what we do here,” Tamblyn says. “When they set foot on campus and see what we actually do, it really opens their eyes to what our college offers and the quality of our programs and philosophy toward education. 24 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Having them here really changes their perceptions.” The not-so-grizzly truth is, with Canada’s colleges, institutes, cégeps, university colleges and polytechnics now more than ever offering advanced courses directly linked with the needs of employers, it’s easy to see why any smarter-than-the-average-bear student would want to enrol. A recent survey by the Canadian Federation of Independent Business reported that its members who were facing severe labour shortages required the skills of college graduates versus university grads by a ratio of 6 to 1. More in tune with technology than universities, career-focused colleges are on the leading edge of skills identification, economic trends and market shifts. The facts are in, yet they may not be getting across. A panel at the 2008 Association of Canadian Community Colleges’ “Forests of Change” conference noted that too often counsellors are still dissuading students from college enrolment, acknowledging that they still had a long way to go in shifting the perception of a college post-secondary education from a “lesser than” to an “equal to.” Figuring it out As CEO of NRL Group Inc., Janet Stewart-Lussier works primarily with colleges and their local boards of education to provide students with quality career information. She believes that college programs have been undervalued for a long time, and that it’s a generational attitude. “Parents and educators, particularly those who have completed a university program themselves, are less likely to encourage a young person to pursue a college education – and yet, college programs lead to many very well-paying jobs that are in high demand,” Stewart-Lussier says. The notion that university equals success has also been engrained into the minds of students through media. TV character Rory Gilmore of Gilmore Girls vacillated between Harvard and Yale, yet never once considered Roxbury Community College or Naugatuck Valley. 25 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 More in tune with technology than universities, career-focused colleges are on the leading edge of skills identification, economic trends and market shifts. Armed with all of this knowledge, how can school counsellors help students figure out if a college or career college – the latter being privately-owned institutions which offer programs that provide students with practical skills for today’s job market after a short-term but intensive training period – is right for them? Stewart-Lussier suggests counsellors start by taking a closer look at the student’s particular skills and interests. Find out what they are really passionate about and help match those interests to potential careers. The training and education that is required will naturally flow from that conversation. “This is a healthier approach than deciding what type of post-secondary education you want to enrol in and arbitrarily selecting from the list of programs available,” Stewart-Lussier says. “This sounds obvious, but it is amazing how many students make their postsecondary education decisions that way. 26 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 150 colleges and technical institutes and thousands of private career colleges play a huge part in keeping our workforce competitive. Counsellors can be a huge help in reminding students that the options are there – and in many cases, are right in line with their dream jobs. Stewart-Lussier concurs. “When a student has a sense of what kind of work he/she wants to do, then it is relatively simple to identify the ‘right fit’ in terms of post-secondary education – and for more and more students who desire a practical, hands on, post-secondary education, the ‘right fit’ is going to be college.” Some studies have revealed that between 20 and 30 per cent of students who register for a post-secondary program have not done any kinds of career exploration before doing so.” Another worthwhile approach is the “near-to-peer” process. Counsellors can invite students from their local colleges to their school to lead job exploration exercises. “Because these young adults are currently enrolled in a college program themselves, they have proven to be “credible messengers,” notes StewartLussier. School officials can contact area colleges to find out if they have this type of program available. Head-of-the-class involvement Getting students and their parents on board is a huge piece of the puzzle, but as Tamblyn notes, getting face time with the head of the class can be equally significant. “It’s interesting how much students are influenced by their teachers,” he observes. “Colleges and counsellors should work together to educate teachers on the benefits of a college education so that is incorporated into their classrooms.” Stewart-Lussier applauds open houses such as Georgian’s Grizzly Cub Days, where teachers are invited to challenge their own misperceptions. “It is important to include teachers and counsellors of all grade levels in this process. Research has indicated that students make their career choices as early as Grade 6, so career exploration is not something that we can leave until students reach high school. It needs to be embedded in the curriculum at all levels.” With campuses in over 1,000 urban and rural communities, 1.5 million learners and 60,000 educators, Canada’s 27 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Apprenticeship: Post-Secondary Education that Matters Myth busting through to the truth about careers in skilled trades Submitted by the Canadian Apprenticeship Forum-Forum canadien sur l’apprentissage WANTED: One million skilled workers by 2020. No, you’re not seeing things. The Conference Board of Canada estimates that, if current trends continue, we could be short about one million skilled workers in just 12 years. Now compare this number with roughly 300,000 apprentices who are currently registered in Canada. Economists say that a skilled labour shortage will affect not only our ability to compete in a global market, but also our long-term economic growth. With almost 300 apprenticeable occupations and trades in Canada today, apprenticeship training touches every aspect of our lives: from the homes we live in; to the cars we drive; to the food we eat. It’s an established form of post-secondary education that allows apprentices to “earn while they learn” – opening doors to a wide range of rewarding and well-paying careers. At the Canadian Apprenticeship ForumForum canadien sur l’apprentissage (CAF-FCA), our goal is to support educators in their efforts to identify all Anyone can take an apprenticeship. And age doesn’t matter, though many young people start their training right after high school Forecasts vary from sector to sector and region to region, but the result is the same. Apprentices and journeypersons are already in demand across the country. As the baby-boom generation that makes up most of our skilled workforce continues to retire over the next few years, this demand will only increase. So why not encourage your students to take stock of their interests, skills and abilities and check out one of the many challenging and rewarding careers that apprenticeship can lead to? “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life” – Confucius 28 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 relevant post-secondary options available to their students. We know from our research that there is a real need to promote and develop career options through apprenticeship and the skilled trades. For example, a 2005 Ipsos-Reid study showed that only 32 per cent of youth aged 13 to 17 would be likely to consider a career in this area. This is despite the reality that skilled trades offer challenging, satisfying and enriching career options for Canadian youth. Apprenticeship = Respect + Opportunity + Good Pay Apprenticeship is a recognized and respected post-secondary education option that gives young people the opportunity to combine on-the-job and in-school technical training, enabling them to obtain the skills required to become a certified tradesperson. • D epending on the occupation or trade, an apprenticeship can take two to five years to complete. • A pprentices usually spend 40 to 44 weeks a year on the job and go to school for six to eight weeks. • A pprentices must find an employer and may need to pay tuition fees for in-school training. • A pprentices earn a salary on the job from their first day. • A pprentices receive a Certificate of Qualification in a designated trade. Apprenticeships cost very little compared to most post-secondary training options. Generally, tuition costs are $200-$800 per session depending on the trade and the province/territory. Other costs may include books, equipment, tools and living expenses. A recent survey of apprentices completing their first year of in-school training in Canada shows that they expect to earn an average annual income of between $52,000 and $55,000 upon graduation. Compare this to the responses received from college and university under-graduates who were making an average of $42,250 and graduates who were making $45,400. Many provincial/territorial governments have introduced special programs for secondary school students who are interested in apprenticeship. These programs offer early training in the skilled trades and opportunities to try working on-the-job. Typically offered at the Grade 11 and 12 levels, preapprenticeship programs allow students to earn credits toward their high school diploma, as well as credits toward the completion of their apprenticeship. As an educator, there many reasons to talk to your students about careers in skilled trades. Myth Busting Negative perceptions and attitudes about apprenticeship and the skilled trades have been around for years. Here are some of the most comment myths that educators can help to dispel. Myth: Skilled trades are not for students who get good grades. Reality: This is probably the most common misperception about skilled trades. The reality is that skilled trades require a strong academic foundation in reading, writing, maths and sciences. Like university, entering into an apprenticeship requires a high school diploma and successful completion takes intelligence, dedication, focus and hard work. Myth: A university degree is the only post-secondary education that provides Apprenticeships cost very little compared to most post-secondary training options. Generally, tuition costs are $200-$800 per session depending on the trade and the province/territory. Other costs may include books, equipment, tools and living expenses. Apprenticeship training has a long history as a model for work-based learning. The ancient Greek, Roman and Babylonian civilizations used apprenticeship as a way to pass on knowledge and skills. Apprenticeship systems, as we recognize them today, originated with the medieval craft guilds of Europe and crossed the ocean with European immigrants who came to North America in the 18th and 19th centuries. a good future. Reality: Completing an apprenticeship and achieving a Certificate of Qualification for a designated trade is also a ticket to a good future. Tradespeople are in demand, earn good pay, have the ability to work across the country, and benefit from solid job security. Myth: Jobs in the trades are dead-end jobs. Reality: Apprenticeship training offers a path to careers, not just jobs. There are many chances for advancement from supervisory positions, to management positions, to the possibility of business ownership. The level of advancement is up to the capability and desire of each individual. Myth: Skilled trades don’t pay well. Reality: Not only do tradespeople earn above-average incomes, they also complete their studies without being overwhelmed by debt. Apprentices “earn while they learn,” and many complete their training and achieve certification without any debt. Myth: Skilled trades are dirty, noisy and physically demanding. Reality: Though technology has greatly changed the face of many skilled trades, there is no doubt that many occupations involve “hands-on” work. But this is why many choose apprenticeship training in the first place! This type of work can be far more rewarding than a job that requires a lot of desk work. Myth: Women don’t have the physical strength needed for apprenticeship or the skilled trades. Reality: Physical work doesn’t always mean brute strength. In fact, careers in the skilled trades more often require dexterity, stamina, good hand-eye coordination and balance – all attributes that women and men possess equally. 29 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Spring Issue Key Benefits of Apprenticeship • E arn while you learn on the job. Apprentices are given a salary by the employers that hire them. This is equitable within the industry and in accordance to provincial standards. The apprentice’s salary may increase each year, reaching salary rates of Power, Passion, Precision - Canada hosts the 2009 WorldSkills Competition. Over 900 top young professionals from apprenticed trades, service and vocational programs will meet in Calgary next September to showcase their talents and abilities. Participants from 49 different countries will compete for gold, silver and bronze medals in 40 different categories, ranging from cabinetmaking and welding to fashion and web design. WorldSkills events are held every two years in a different host country. Skills competitions in Canada are held each year at regional, provincial and national levels. a certified tradesperson as they get closer to completion. • Keep student debt low. Another big benefit is that debt loads after completion of apprenticeships are much lower since apprentices “earn while they learn”. For example, a university graduate may make $30,000 in their first year of work, but they will leave school with an average debt of $19,500. An apprentice might make $28,000 their first year, but will not have to contend with a $20,000 debt. • A guaranteed job. Skilled workers are in demand across Canada and around the world. A good work ethic, a “can-do” attitude and a completed Certificate of Qualification will almost guarantee young people a job when they finish their post-secondary education. • R eceive personal training and mentorship. Apprentices have an opportunity to learn high level skills through personal, on-the-job training from a highly qualified journeyperson. Canadian Apprenticeship Forum-Forum canadien sur l’apprentissage 116 Albert Street, Suite 812 Ottawa, Ontario K1P 5G3 www.caf-fca.org Debbie Miller, Communications Manager 613.235.4004 ext. 207 / [email protected] • A cquire a skill that will last a lifetime. The skills learned as an apprentice not only last a lifetime, they will also open doors to other opportunities. Qualified tradespeople can pursue advanced training in their field and move into management or teaching positions, and many choose to start their own business. Apprenticeship programs are regulated by our provincial and territorial governments. Much like the driver license registration system in Canada, each province or territory has its own government apprenticeship office that assists apprentices in obtaining their certification. The Government of Canada supports apprenticeship training by working with the provinces and territories through the Canadian Council of Directors of Apprenticeship (CCDA). The CCDA is responsible for the Interprovincial Standards Red Seal Program. The “Red Seal” allows qualified tradespeople in 49 different occupations to work in any province or territory without having to write additional exams. Apprenticeship is a first-choice career option. The Canadian Apprenticeship Forum-Forum canadien sur l’apprentissage (CAF-FCA) is a notfor-profit, multi-partite organization that plays an integral role in bringing together the key players within the apprenticeship. The CAF-FCA works to strengthen relationships, provide opportunities to discuss the challenges facing apprenticeship training in Canada, and help develop solutions to address those challenges. The Forum offers a number of apprenticeship resources for educators, such as toolkits, PowerPoint presentations, posters and brochures. 30 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 31 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Spring Issue “I’m not standing on a soapbox. I know that drugs and drinking are going to be part of their lives. What I’m trying to do is get teens to think; to educate themselves and make better choices.” THE WISEST OF DUMMIES Juno Award winner Mitch Dorge marches to the beat of a different drummer with his unique approach to motivational speaking By Dan Kenning Rule One from the Mitch Dorge public speaking playbook: no message is heavy-handed when it’s served alongside a rubber chicken. It’s why you’ll find boxes of the pliable poultry accompanying the former Crash Test Dummies’ drummer across Canada on his high school speaking engagements, as he gives his presentation on the realities of drugs, sex and alcohol. Students love the chickens – no stretch there – yet it’s Dorge’s unconventional approach to his subject matter that earns not only laughs, but his audience’s undivided attention. At first glance, the animated, sanguine Dorge is not the lesson type. He’s self-described as erratic, he’s notorious for flouting authority and his former band is best known for a hit song totally devoid of vowels (“Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm”). So why does he think he’s the perfect candidate to get any message through to teens? “I have a different approach, I think that’s why it works,” Dorge offers. “What I’m offering is not a lecture; I’m educating about life choices. In a way it’s a performance, as I’m very aware 32 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 that the kids in front of me need to be entertained. I go that extra mile to involve them and show them that I think of them as individuals. It’s opening up a door. I’m going to create a ground for us to communicate on, and then there’s a level of trust that opens up. I’m there to tell them that I’ve got an opinion, and encouraging them to voice theirs.” Part of Dorge’s real-as-it-gets approach includes an open acknowledgement that he has done drugs in the past and a shocking laundry-list reading of ingredients involved in the making of crystal meth. “I’m not standing on a soapbox. I know that drugs and drinking are going to be part of their lives,” Dorge says. “I’m not trying to stop them from doing it. Any time you say no, the more they’re going to say yes. What I’m trying to do is get (teens) to think; to educate themselves and make better choices.” One of Dorge’s favourite things to do is dispel myths and clarify the fractured misinformation students often receive on these topics. “These kids are so used to being inundated with the death-and-destruction angle. I get up there and say, ‘I’m not gonna tell you that doing drugs means you’re going to put the baby in the microwave. Although it did happen once in America in the ‘70s…’” As he travels the country meeting kids and educators, Dorge singles out one group for whom he has tremendous respect. “I have an incredible rapport with the counsellors. They are in the unique position where they have kids that are at-risk, and they know that stuff is happening out there, but they can’t betray the trust of the kids. There are so many things they would do or intervene in but they can’t. So a lot of them identify when somebody like me comes along and brings a different kind of thinking to the school.” It’s those after-show conversations that bring Dorge back to the days of rockstar fandom. “Often, counsellors will come to me afterwards and say, ‘I don’t know how you knew to pick that kid but man, you made his day. That kid has been a challenge for me for a long time, and this is exactly what he needed.’ It’s not something that I did – it’s no revelation – it’s just the fact that I found that kid. It lets me know I’m still doing something right.” 33 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 The Age of Overindulgence Is it possible to reach and teach an entitled generation? by Barbara Chabai A great many of today’s teens have been overindulged to the point of not having the critical skills to make confident decisions or to take responsibility seriously, says a Toronto-based youth expert. Counsellor and coach Karyn Gordon has worked with teens, parents and educators for over 12 years. She says it’s little wonder that growing numbers of kids have developed an innate sense of entitlement since many have grown up being handed everything their hearts’ desire – and a whole lot more. The author of the Raising Healthy Teens in an Age of Overindulgence CD series, as well as the new book Dr. Karyn’s Guide to the Teen Years: Understanding and Parenting Your Teenager, talked to us about how parents, teens and teachers can work together to restore boundaries and balance when enough is too much. Counsellor: How do you define overindulgence? Dr. Karyn Gordon: Overindulgence is when parents give something to their child that may be inappropriate for that age – it’s too early, it’s too much, it’s too soon. On one hand, it causes kids to grow up faster but in many ways, it’s making them slower to mature. As a result of being overfunctioned and micromanaged by their parents, kids tend to stay child-like longer. In extreme cases, we see young adults in their 20s still living at home, playing video games on the sofa all day. They call it an “extended adolescence.” Counsellor: But isn’t overindulging the same as spoiling? KG: Overindulging is different from spoiling. Parents overindulge their children because it meets their own need – it alleviates their own guilt or fear – while spoiling is giving in to the child simply for the sake of keeping them quiet. For example, I met a mom who was a successful executive at a huge company. 34 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 She traveled a lot and whenever she would go out of town on business, she would buy her preteen daughter a pair of jeans. She said she recently went into her daughter’s room and discovered 12 or 14 pairs of expensive jeans! As we talked, it was like, “Oh my goodness, now I understand what I’ve been doing.” Suddenly, she was able to see that she was buying gifts out of her own guilt for working away from home so much. Counsellor: How could a child be overindulged out of fear? KG: Overfunctioning – parents micromanaging their kids or doing way too much for them – is another type of overindulgence because parents are actually doing it to fulfill their own need. It may be the need to control, to appear perfect, or they’re afraid that if they don’t do it then their child’s never going our culture. Overscheduling kids so that their time is packed with extra-curricular activities is that they get exhausted and once they get to that point, it’s almost impossible to deal with conflict in a good way. The other consequence is overspending. Many parents turn into a bank on weekends. Interestingly, research shows that youth under the age of 25 are one of the fastest groups going bankrupt because so many young people simply do not understand how money works. This goes back to the bigger problem – when parents overindulge or do too much for their child, they steal the opportunity for them to learn a fundamental skill. Counsellor: How is overindulgence spilling over into the classroom? KG: I had one math teacher tell me that kids often come to her class expecting her to have calculators and pencils “When parents overindulge or do too much for their child, they steal the opportunity for them to learn a fundamental skill.” to get it done. But when we’re telling our kids what to do, where to go, what time to do it and how to do it properly, we’re weakening their critical thinking muscle. The more we tell a child what to think, the more they don’t learn how to think for themselves. As a result of overfunctioning, parents end up doing all the work and the kids do all the taking. Counsellor: Which is how kids develop that sense of entitlement? KG: Right. Counsellor: What are some of the other consequences of overindulging kids? KG: The three most significant consequences I’ve found are overeating, overscheduling and overspending. Obviously, overeating and childhood obesity have become serious issues in ready for them. She finally had to put her foot down and tell them supplies are their responsibility! From an education standpoint, teachers have to be clear about communicating student responsibilities and really define their expectations. As a youth counsellor and coach, I find that it’s important to clarify what my job is and what it is not at our first session. I explain that my job is to coach you and teach you the right tools, but my job is not to do your work. If you come here and then just sit back and wait something magical to happen, you’re out of luck because I can’t do it for you. Counsellor: So, it’s a little like tough love. KG: With teens, you have to take a hard line, but still do it in a loving, truthful and respectful way. I was coaching one teen who I could tell just wasn’t on board; he really was not into it at all. So I asked him what he expected to get out of our sessions and he said, “What do you mean?” Being totally loving but truthful, I told him, “From what I’ve seen, you’re coming late, you’re unprepared, you’re not bringing a pen, so you’ll probably only retain 10 to 15 per cent of what we’re discussing. I’m telling you this because I care about you and I want you to attain your goals.” He was a little flustered but agreed with what I was saying. On our next visit, he came prepared and ever since, he’s done phenomenally well. Counsellor: It’s great when kids get the message, but when you have to tell them the same things over and over again… surely it becomes frustrating? KG: Of course. Many teachers grow frustrated because they think kids should already know what is expected of them. Why should I have to tell students to bring a pen or pencil to class, right? But the problem is that in the greater culture, someone else has always taken care of these little details for the kid. By the time they arrive in the classroom, the expectations are suddenly different from what they’re used to at home. But when teachers let frustration get the best of them, it blocks how effective they can be. Counsellor: Is it becoming more difficult to get overindulged kids to respect authority? KG: One of the things I talk about in my book is the difference between power and authority. Teachers, parents and counsellors have authority because it’s the position that has been given to us. Yet it has no bearing on whether or not the child will listen to us. If teachers only take a hard line, they will have zero impact in terms of getting students to listen to what they’re saying. The way we gain influence in their life is to respect them and when they feel respected, that’s when we increase our ability to influence them in a positive way. Teachers and guidance counsellors are going to gain the power to influence when they focus on respect and saying things in a loving, but truthful way. Counsellor: What is the first step towards making a difference? KG: The reality is that there is a cultural shift happening and an enormous amount of parents who are overindulging and overfunctioning their kids. Last year, I had speaking engagements across the country and by far, overfunctioning is one of the largest issues that parents identify with today. We may not like it, but we don’t have to like it to see that this is where things are at right now. However, we need to shift our own attitude, accept what we cannot control and focus on what we can. We may not be able to control a cultural shift, but we can control the way we respond by being loving, truthful and respectful to our students. Counsellor: So it’s not too late for parents and teachers to turn things around? KG: I hope parents realize that the situation is still very hopeful and that › …continued on page 41 35 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ On the Bookshelf TALKING BACK TO OCD: The Program That Helps Kids and Teens Say “No Way” – and Parents Say “Way to Go” By John S. March Guilford Press This new self-help resource from Duke University Medical Center researcher John S. March encourages teens and kids to take control of their own treatment and “boss back” when Obsessive Compulsive Disorder butts in. The book is based on a pioneering cognitive-behavioural therapy program developed by the author, which harnesses kids’ exasperation with OCD to motivate their involvement with a treatment program designed to help them reduce or eliminate their symptoms. Filled with worksheets and graphs, each chapter begins with a section that helps kids zero in on specific problems and develop skills they can use to tune out obsessions and resist compulsions. 36 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 TEEN GIRLS AND TECHNOLOGY: What’s the Problem, What’s the Solution? By Lesley Farmer Teachers College Press Drawing on the work of experts in psychology, sociology, technology and education, this book provides a framework that schools and parents can use to empower girls to succeed in today’s high-tech world. Not only does Farmer, a Professor at California State University, explores the disconnect many girls have with technology, she instructs adults on how to create an environment in which girls feel confident and comfortable engaging with technology. The book also includes fun learning activities designed specifically for girls based on their developmental needs and interests in areas like entertainment, fashion, design, business, environment, fitness and writing. I’M A VEGETARIAN By Ellen Schwartz Tundra Books Chock full of information for youth who are, or who are considering becoming vegetarians, this is an invaluable resource filled with advice on proper nutrition, how to inform parents and peers of the decision and tips for navigating a vegetarian lifestyle in a meateating world. Readers are treated to thought-provoking facts about health, food and food production that may be helpful for people wanting more data before making the choice. Light in tone, yet deeply informative, the book is a reassuring read for both parents and teens and offers a wide-ranging and accessible recipe section with ideas on how to prepare vegetarian fare. THE LITTLE BLACK BOOK FOR GUYS/THE LITTLE BLACK BOOK FOR GIRLZ By St. Stephen’s Community House Annick Press These tandem “owner’s manuals,” written for teens by teens, offer the real and the revealing details about sexuality that can’t be found in a textbook. Between covering gender-specific issues related to body image, puberty, dating, relationships, safe sex and birth control, there are interviews with certified health professionals plus a startlingly open and honest collection of stories, poems, essays and artwork about first-hand physical and emotional experiences. Both of these backpack-sized books are written, illustrated and designed by youth of St. Stephen’s Community House, a community-based social service agency in downtown Toronto. 37 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Continued From The Storytellers (13) -quality curricular materials. Second, get the help you need. Without the support of a psycho-social support worker we would not have been able to provide the trauma counseling that some of our students discovered they needed, and without the help of storytellers (such as Laura Simms), we would have had a much harder time moving as far as we did with students’ stories,” he advises. “Third, rid yourself of the belief there is a ‘real world’ waiting for students when they graduate. There is only one world and there is no need to wait to start making it better.” Talkback: We want to hear about your “Great Idea!” including successful programs, student initiatives or special events in your school. Contact us at: [email protected]. énormément d’activités, » dit Mme Cormier. La mission de la PL-M c’est de « Rendre nos jeunes entreprenant », d’ «Entreprendre et s’entreprendre. » « La tâche des enseignants n’est pas d’être experts en tout. Les autres peuvent aussi contribuer au développent des jeunes et de l’Acadie, » dit M. Chiasson. Pour plus d’information: http://plm.nbed.nb.ca École de pensée (17) que l’école et ses quatre murs, » il dit. L’éducation continue à évoluer, dit M. Chiasson. « La demande c’est de créer des cours qui donnent le goût d’un travail. Pour que nos étudiants prennent leur place dans la société acadienne, on a un rôle important. » Au mois de juin, la PL-M offre sa deuxième journée portes-ouvertes à la communauté. La PL-M a été établie à Caraquet en 1972, prenant son nom de l’Affaire Louis Mailloux. En janvier 1875, les Acadiens sont révoltés contre les Anglais pour défendre leur langue et leur foi. Ce jeune homme de 19 ans a été tué par une balle perdue. À la PL-M, 20 pourcent des étudiants viennent de Caraquet et l’autre 80 pourcent sont de la région de moins de 50 minutes de route de l’école. La PL-M a moins de 700 élèves de la neuvième à la douzième année. Il y a 12 ans, l’école avait presque 1200 étudiants. Caraquet est la capitale culturelle de l’Acadie, mais aujourd’hui, les familles sont moins grandes ayant un enfant ou deux au maximum. Aussi, la communauté voit l’exode des gens vers le sud et l’ouest à la recherche d’emplois. C’est commun pour la mère or le père de partir au travail pendant des semaines. « On connaît les parents. On parle aux élèves tous les jours. On leur offre 38 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 39 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ Continued From Into the Wild (22) Susan recalls. “I said, ‘I had no idea you thought that you were.’ Then he explained that some kids at his old school would call him stupid, lazy and fat. It had been pounded into him day after day to the point where he believed he was inferior.” Today, Juan loves going to school because, as Susan explains, he’s virtually invisible in an ethnically-diverse population of 1,500 students. “Being part Mexican, Juan stood out at his old school, but now no one looks twice. He fits in. And it’s very interesting that three of the friends he’s made since September are Mexican. He’s actually learning to speak Spanish; so instead of being ridiculed for being Mexican, he’s able to identify with it.” Susan says that Juan’s camp experience required hard work that was both emotionally and physically demanding, but firmly believes CanAdventure was the right decision for them. “Somehow, something basic inside him was fixed. He’s not perfect, but now the kind of things he goes through is just regular teenage stuff – it’s not breakingyour-spirit stuff,” she says. “I think CanAdventure saved our family. They really did.” For more information on CanAdventure Education, visit www.canadventure.ca. Dans la Nature (22) quelqu’un vers qui se tourner qui pouvait comprendre et aider. Ils sont tous disponibles sur simple appel téléphonique et nous savons que s’il y avait un problème, ils remueraient ciel et terre pour le régler. » Depuis la fin du séjour de son fils chez CanAdventure en mars 2008, la famille de Susan a déménagé à Vancouver, et le déménagement est loin d’être le plus grand changement que les Grovers ont connu. « Le jour où nous sommes allés chercher Juan au camp, nous l’avons vu à l’extérieur faisant des baskets. Mon mari et moi nous nous sommes regardés en nous demandant : ‘est-ce réellement lui ?’ », ricane-t-elle. « Les pantalons trop grands avec le sous-vêtement sorti, les souliers non attachés et la casquette à l’envers avaient disparu. Il avait une nouvelle démarche, une façon de se porter avec confiance. » Un mois après le retour à la maison, Juan commença à parler à ses parents à propos des causes de son déclin du début de l’année. « Quand il a débuté à sa nouvelle école, il est revenu à la maison et m’a dit : ‘Maman, tu sais quoi ? Je ne suis vraiment pas un Mexicain obèse et paresseux,’ » se souvient Susan. « J’ai dit : ‘Je ne savais pas que tu pensais l’être.’ Puis il expliqua que des jeunes de son ancienne école avaient l’habitude de l’appeler stupide, paresseux et obèse. Cela lui avait été répété jour après jour au point où il en était venu à croire qu’il était inférieur. » 40 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 Aujourd’hui, Juan aime aller à l’école parce que, comme Susan l’explique, il est virtuellement invisible dans une population ethniquement diverse de 1 500 étudiants. « Étant en partie Mexicain, Juan se faisait remarquer à son ancienne école, mais, maintenant, personne n’y regarde à deux fois. Il s’intègre. Il est aussi intéressant de savoir que les trois amis qu’il s’est faits depuis septembre sont Mexicains. En fait, il apprend l’espagnol, donc, plutôt que de se faire ridiculiser d’être Mexicain, il est capable de s’y identifier. » Susan affirme que l’expérience de Juan au camp a demandé un dur travail qui fut exigeant aussi émotionnellement que physiquement, mais elle croit fermement que CanAdventure fut la bonne décision pour eux. « D’une manière ou d’une autre, quelque chose de fondamental en lui a été réparé. Il n’est pas parfait, mais, maintenant, le genre de chose qu’il vit n’est que ce que les adolescents vivent régulièrement, ce n’est pas le genre de chose à vous briser le moral », dit-elle. « Je crois que CanAdventure a sauvé notre famille. Ils l’ont réellement sauvée. » Pour plus d’information à propos de CanAdventure Education, visitez www.canadventure.ca. Our Apologies In our September 2008 issue, we inadvertently left out the final words of Dr. David Palframan’s article, “Spotting Student Depression: What You Can Do to Help” (pages 40-41 and 49). In its entirety, the final paragraph should have read: Rather than feeling trusted and privileged and important, the teacher might well identify such a situation as cause for alarm. At this point, the situation will need to be shared with a health care professional. The student is in clear need of treatment. Nothing can be more painful to a teacher than a suicidal student who has extracted a promise that their secret be kept. Teachers are usually helpful and compassionate, but all of us know the feeling of being out of our depth. Any use of emotional blackmail—“If you tell anyone, it will be a betrayal and I might do something awful”—should confirm that a painful combination of depression, anger, and dependency now qualifies such a student for emergency assistance. We apologize for any inconvenience. Overindulgence (35) there are things they can do to have a radical difference in terms of their power of influence. Many times, they feel powerless or pessimistic – it’s too late; I’ve already screwed them up. The good news here is that there really is an enormous amount of things that parents can do to have an exceptional relationship with their teens. And I see it happen all the time. At school, sometimes it only takes one teacher to have a profound impact on a student. The reason it happens is because that teacher focuses on their power to influence the student by respecting and listening to them. Listening is huge. It’s one of the most powerful ways to be a positive influence in a teen’s life. Dr. Karyn Gordon has a bachelor’s degree in psychology, a master’s degree in counselling, and a doctorate in marriage and family therapy. Her latest book is Dr. Karyn’s Guide to the Teen Years: Understanding and Parenting Your Teenager (Harper Collins Canada). 41 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209 ❱❱ The Last Period by Tiffany Prochera May you be inspired today. May you be encouraged to travel your path with sure feet, confident in your direction. May you be spurred on to explore, to face the challenge, to go to the next level. May you experience many moments when you want to stand up and shout, “Huzzah! How grand this life is and I want more of it!” May you fall asleep exhausted but giddy with anticipation for what is to come, as though you cannot wait until the morning to continue the adventure, to see what glorious miracles are going to occur. And finally, may you realize your power to create such a day and such a life for yourself for you truly do possess it. From the book “A Candle At Both Ends” by Tiffany Prochera. Copyright 2005, Tiffany Prochera. Reproduced with permission from the author. 42 canadianschoolcounsellor. CSC•Q308 com 43 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•Q308 44 canadianschoolcounsellor.com CSC•T0209
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