Winter 2012 - Cuyahoga County Children and Family Services
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Winter 2012 - Cuyahoga County Children and Family Services
Cuyahoga County Division of Children & Family Services Winter 2012 News Notes 2011 PCSAO Family of the Year Award It is with great pleasure and honor that CCDCFS congratulates Tony and Barbara Crump as the 2011 PCSAO Family of the Year Award recipients. Every year at their annual conference, the Public Children Services Association of Ohio (PCSAO) publicly recognizes birth families who have successfully stayed together or have had their children returned, and kinship, foster, or adoptive families who have voluntarily opened their homes to provide temporary or permanent homes to children who needed them. Public recognition of these families’ accomplishments, commitment to providing protection and stability to children, and hard work are testimony to the unique value of each and every family. Mr. and Mrs. Tony Crump first became involved with Cuyahoga County Division of Children and Family Services (CCDCFS) in December 2009 when they agreed to provide care for their two grandchildren. The children entered CCDCFS custody because of mental health issues with their biological mother. The Crumps later took the necessary training to become licensed foster parents through CCDCFS in October 2010. The Crump Family Mr. and Mrs. Crump adopted their grandchildren’s biological mother many years ago, when she was eight years old. Later the adoption failed due to the mother’s serious mental health issues and lack of community supports which are now available to families in similar situations. Mr. and Mrs. Crump had to relinquish custody of their daughter after six years, but they remained in contact, supported and welcomed her into their home. The Crumps never stopped caring and supporting their daughter even when she had children of her own. The bond that Mr. and Mrs. Crump have developed with their grandchildren since birth Barbara and Tony Crump accepting the is remarkable. It is extremely evident that the children truly only know and identify PCSAO Family of the Year Award the Crumps as their grandparents. Prior to the Crumps fostering the grandchildren, they were doing poorly in school. Now in the Crumps’ care, the children are excelling in school and at home. The Crumps are really like any other concerned and engaging grandparents; they want only the best for their grandchildren. Not only do the Crumps provide a solid home structure for the academic success of the children, they take them to therapy, church and keep them active in sporting programs. Inside this issue: Director’s Corner A Celebration of Fatherhood... Fathers Matter It’s True, Wherever You Find Love, It Feels Like Christmas! Terrell Howard - Rising Up and Moving On! Free School Meals for Children in Foster Care 12th Annual Halloween Party More Halloween Photos 2 3 4 5 5 6 7 Equally important, Mr. and Mrs. Crump want and do permit their daughter to be involved in her children’s lives. For this reason, they continue to communicate and support her. Sundays are family days at the Crumps’ with mom and the children. During this valuable bonding time, the family members talk about schools, extra curricular activities and traveling. Since family is paramount to the Crumps, when mom gave birth to her third child, the Crumps approached a niece to foster the new baby, and she agreed. The niece, just like the Crumps, is committed to making sure all three children are raised together in one family with every opportunity to have a positive relationship with their mother. The Crumps expose the children to many different cultural activities and instill positive values, structure and stability in the children’s lives. They go above and beyond the duties as kinship/ foster parents. It is for these and many more reasons, that Tony and Barbara Crump received the 2011 PCSAO Family of the Year Award. Director’s Corner Patricia Rideout Dear staff, Many of you have noticed that we’re talking a lot more about how often kids in care are visiting their parents these days. We’ve been trying to figure out just how regularly children have these visits, and to understand the reasons why some don’t see their parents very often. We’ve asked our network providers to assess the family visiting patterns of the kids in their foster homes, and we’re meeting with our collaborative partners to talk about expanding opportunities for visits in their neighborhoods. Why the big fuss, some may be asking? Well the obvious answer, which won’t surprise anyone who works here, is that it’s the right thing to do. Our mission is to ensure that children are nurtured within a family, after all. And when we take a child away from their birth family, we have a legal and moral obligation to do all that we can to support that family and maintain their connections to one another until such time as they can live safely together once again. When parents and children see one another frequently, and in comfortable settings that allow them to interact in the most natural, family-like ways possible, their attachments to one another are nurtured, parents’ motivation to work on reunification plans is supported, and both parents and kids may find it easier to keep hope alive and envision their eventual return to life as an intact family. These are not just assumptions or gut feelings. Research has shown that the more frequently children in care spend time with their parents, the earlier and more safely their eventual reunification is likely to be. Yet a recent desk review of open placement cases revealed that not even half of the children in our custody are visiting their parents on a weekly basis. Is it any mystery that, for over a third of the children in our care who ultimately return to their parents , it takes more than a year to reunify? Close your eyes for a moment, and think about a child you love -- a child with whom you spend a great deal of time. Your son or daughter, niece or nephew, grandchild or neighbor or godchild: imagine that they must live with others for a period 2 Winter 2012 of months or years, and that you can only see them once or twice a month, for a couple of hours. I’m sure that for most of us, it’s easy to imagine the pain this would cause. I believe that our aspirations for the children in our custody must be the same as for our own loved ones; this is the measure we should strive for in all that we do. If we consider the status of our current practice around family visits, can we do anything less than advocate for change? It won’t be easy. Children placed with relatives or in our own county foster homes must rely on our own workers to do most of the transporting (and when necessary, supervising) to make family visits happen. We no longer have a Family Visits staff at DCFS to lend a hand. And our network agency partners have for the most part followed our lead, and ensured only every-other-week visits for the children in their care, who represent 3/4 of all our children in foster homes, so big changes will also be necessary for them. Many people are working hard on this issue as I write: we have groups of DCFS staff from many units meeting with one another and with network agency partners and community collaboratives. We’re trying to determine what the impact on workloads and budgets might be if we succeed in meeting our initial goal of a minimum weekly visit for every child in care with his/her parents. We also know that, simply by talking to one another about this issue, many staff and foster parents, as well as GALs, community partners and others, will stretch to make these visits happen more frequently. Surfacing the issue and shining a spotlight on it is raising awareness already -- which is a terrific thing for kids and families. But it will take much more, and so I want to encourage everyone on our staff to be a part of the solution. We need your ideas and energy, your heartfelt concern for the people we serve, to transform our system’s longstanding acceptance of twice monthly visits and create a new norm, a cultural shift – and solid reason to believe that many of the families we work with can be safely reunited more swiftly than ever before. Let’s make it happen. A Celebration of Fatherhood Fathers Matter. Winter 2012 3 “It’s True, Wherever You Find Love, It Feels Like Christmas.” By Lisa Dickson One of my favorite movies in college was “A Muppet Christmas Carol.” As a former foster child, I could relate to Scrooge’s need to come to terms with Christmases of the Past, to find a place to belong in Christmas Present, and to summon up the courage to face Christmases of the Future. I believe that this is a journey that continues for all of us… I can still remember the 14-year-old girl I once was, living in an all-girls group home, and facing Christmas without family. My father was abusive and often absent. My mother’s death had left a void in my life that had yet to be filled. To quote from my journal at the time: “Peering out from frost-covered glass, I feel a chill on my face as gusts of fresh wind burst through the open window. It’s tough to face the fact that my own father chose not to visit me – that sharp sting of abandonment. My heart feels the bitter taste of winter’s emptiness. I squint my eyes to stare at the falling snow, noticing how each individual snowflake falls from the sky in its solitary travel; separate, isolated and alone.” colorful shirts. Whoever bought these clothes somehow knew my favorite colors: red, pink, turquoise and indigo-blue. Over the years, I’d grown accustomed to handme-down clothing; I typically borrowed clothes from my roommates or raided the charity boxes. “Do they do this for us every year?” I asked my roommate incredulously. “Yeah. They start saving up in January and put away money all year until the beginning of December. The group home sends them a list of things we need.” I stared at the huddle of figures in the periphery of the room. The men wore dusty, work-worn overalls, embellished with holes and caked with dirt. The women were equally without embellishment – no make-up, plain clothes. “I hope they have enough money left for their own kids. It doesn’t look like they could afford to pay for all this stuff.” I commented. A woman standing across the room caught my eye and smiled gently. My roommate hissed in my ear. “Shut up, Lisa. They might hear you.” “Okay, okay.” I stole another glance over at the strangers in the corner. Their selflessness astounded me. Why did they do this? Why sacrifice for us? My own father didn’t send any Christmas presents to me. Warmth insisted on making its way into my winter holidays -- particularly the Christmas when I was 16 years old… As I exited the gathering that day, my arms filled with gifts I had received, the air outside was crisp and clean. My breath rose in a smoky haze. My new coat enveloped me, surrounding me with a feeling of warmth. For one brief moment, I felt cherished and secure. The snow outside was white and pure, as I walked through the door of the main gathering area of the co-ed group home. The room was filled with a multitude of gifts, donated by members of a church somewhere in our county. Some of the packages had my name on them. That day, for me, was an integral experience in my life –one of many such seeds for the future that make me who I am today. Long after I had fought to build a future for myself and successfully established a marriage and family of my own, this snapshot from the past remained. I opened up each of my presents, one by one, and stared at my brand-new blue jeans, white sneakers and assortment of This particular experience helped me survive in that moment, and I am determined that its legacy will carry on… However as Albert Camus once pointed out, “In the midst of winter, I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer.” 4 Winter 2012 This vision is at the heart of why the Ohio Chapter of Foster Care Alumni of America hosts multiple Thanksgiving Events for foster care teens and young adults every year, with the help of partners such as Antioch Baptist Church, Cuyahoga County Children Services, the National Council of Jewish Women, Adoption Network Cleveland, and Village Network. There are moments in our life when we have the opportunity to step outside of our comfort zone to make a difference. As we look back upon our lives, we can each remember those special people who went the extra mile in our lives – and how their actions continue to make each and every one of us who we are. As Scrooge discovered in the Muppet Christmas Carol: “It’s true, wherever you find love, it feels like Christmas.” We cannot save the entire world – but we can save some. We can and should continue to invest in our young people in and from foster care. We can offer them the gift of our love, encouragement, and empowerment. We can provide them with hope in this moment, and education regarding available resources that can help to pave the way for their future. Inasmuch as it depends on us, we can provide them with a “summer of the soul in December.” We should expect nothing less from ourselves and one another. Note: Lisa Dickson is a founding member of Foster Care Alumni of America (FCAA) and co-founded the Ohio Chapter of FCAA, for which she currently serves as Communications Chair. She is an online journalist who writes for Voices for Children, a national adoption site, and Imaginif, an Australian child protection site. She also co-facilitates the Ohio State University’s Alumni Support and Assistance Project (ASAP) to support foster care youth seeking higher education. She serves on the planning committee for Ohio’s Annual Independent Living Summit, is an active supporter of the OHIO Youth Advisory Board, and a member of the statewide Ready to Launch Coalition. Terrell Howard Rising Up and Moving On! Terrell Howard, a former foster care youth at Cuyahoga County Division of Children and Family Services (CCDCFS), has dealt with difficult situations in life. Despite his involvement within the child welfare system, he has been able to overcome many obstacles and utilize all adversity faced as strength to turn the negatives into positives. Terrell completed high school successfully and is currently attending college. He’s made a tremendous impact on other youth by exemplifying leadership skills, courage, and strength. He’s also touched others by speaking out, sharing his story, shedding knowledge and encouraging his audience to provide support and assistance by doing whatever is necessary to make positive changes within the foster care system. Year Award” from Adoption Network Cleveland (ANC). Terrell’s hard work and dedication will never go unnoticed, and his consistent strive to press forward to become the upstanding young man that he has grown into is exemplary. Terrell is a current participant in CCDCFS’ TAG and brings lots of energy, knowledge and perseverance to the group. He was just recently appointed as the State Treasurer on the Youth Advocate Board (YAB), along with winning an “Adoption Advocate of the For more information regarding the CCDCFS’ Teen Advocacy Group (TAG) program, please contact Jamiese Davis, TAG Coordinator, at (216) 881-3061 or via e-mail at [email protected]. CCDCFS wants to congratulate Terrell on his accomplishments. We also want to congratulate all of the 2012 Ohio YAB Statewide Officers: • President Cieria Rodriguez-Toney, Lorain County • Vice President Alexander McFarland, Montgomery County • Media Spokesperson Dauntea Sledge, Franklin County • Secretary Denae Haney, Athens County • Parliamentarian Autumn Kester, Portage County • Treasurer Terrell Howard, Cuyahoga County Free School Meals for Children in Foster Care According to the Children’s Bureau Express, the recently signed Healthy, Hunger-Free Kids Act of 2010, make it easier for school districts to enroll foster children for free school meals. Children in foster care are now automatically eligible to receive free school meals, regardless of household income, and they can remain enrolled for the entire school year, even if they leave foster care during the year. Because of this, the process of school districts enrolling foster children into this program is simplified. An article written by Nate Frentz and Zoe Neuberger for the Center on Budget and Policy Priorities covers six tips on how to take advantage of this new Act, so that families can receive the best opportunities possible: • Directly certify children in foster care for free school meals by matching data from foster care agencies or a court with student data. • U se the notification that schools receive from child welfare caseworkers or a court of a child’s foster status to certify the child for free school meals. • R evise school meals applications to reflect the categorical eligibility of children in foster care for free school meals and the potential benefit to the foster family of including children in foster care on the same school meals application as other children in the household. • Notify foster parents that their children in foster care are eligible for free school meals and explain how to apply for benefits. • Maintain certification when a child in foster care changes schools by transferring the certification for free meals to the new school. • R elieve foster families of paperwork if an application with a child in foster care is selected for verification by obtaining documentation of the child’s foster care status directly from a foster care agency or court (or by allowing foster parents to provide contact information for an appropriate third party who can verify the child’s foster status, such as a social worker). The full article, Six Ways that States and School Districts Can Make It Easier for Children in Foster Care to Get Free Meals at School, can be found on the Center on Budget and Policy Priorities website at http://www.cbpp.org/cms/index.cfm?fa=view&id=3559. Winter 2012 5 12th Annual Halloween Party at CCDCFS !!! On Friday October 28th, 2011, the Jane Edna Hunter Building and the satellite offices were invaded by ghosts, goblins and ghouls for the afternoon. Organized by the Wellness Committee and with the help of agency staff, our 12th annual agency Halloween party for our foster children was a big success. An instant hit from its inception in 1999 with kids and staff alike, this year’s party was no exception. Costumed characters filled all three floors at the Jane Edna Hunter Building as the transformation from agency to haunted fun houses provided safe environments with treats, laughter, and an occasional “boo!” Trick-or-Treat bags were distributed to all children, and everyone had a great time. In similar fashion to previous Halloween events, staff went all out and awards were given for the best decorations and costumes. The creative decorations, scary costumes, and abundant treats created an atmosphere where our kids and staff could just be kids for the afternoon. The Wellness Committee would like to thank all staff and volunteers for getting into the spirit of the day. Whether decorating, appearing in costume, donating candy or handing out treats, your efforts made this a special day that our children will long remember! Halloween at Old Brooklyn included: Best Decorated Unit -Pirates of the Caribbean Intake Fas C-Silke Pagendarm, Jamie Paige, Jenny Kovi, Tanya Burgess, Jackie Campbell, Lori Delsignore and Selina Brown Best Children’s Costumes Bridget Daly, Landon Future, Caitlyn Dedic Best Adult Staff Costumes Aaliyah Salters, Mary Blinas, Shindana Jackson Honorable Mentions for Best Decorated Unit/Office Kimberly Kuczma, Wanda Morales-Negron 6 Winter 2012 Winter 2012 7 CU YA CU YA IO OH IO OH COUNTY GA OF HO COUNTY GA OF HO Cuyahoga County Division of Children and Family Services Patricia Rideout, Director 3955 Euclid Avenue Cleveland, Ohio 44115 216-431-4500 Ohio Relay Service 711 MISSION: Happy New Year!! To assure that children at risk of abuse or neglect are protected and nurtured within a family and with support of the community. The Division of Children and Family Services embraces the philosophy that children grow better in families and support this by keeping children close to their families whenever possible through neighborhood foster care. Their programs have the goal of stabilizing and reuniting families that have been weakened through poverty, illness or crisis, resulting in neglect or abuse to children. News Notes... News Notes, the newsletter of the Cuyahoga County Division of Children and Family Services, is published quarterly. The Newsletter Committee consists of Mark McMillian, Eddie Lebron, and Sonya McLoyd. Most photographs are by Luke Owens, Jr.; with additional photographs by Eddie Lebron and others. We will be glad to publish contributions from readers (on a space-available basis). All submissions are subject to editing. Please send contributions via e-mail to Eddie Lebron, [email protected]