Breast cancer heroes - Star
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Breast cancer heroes - Star
6E Sunday, October 14, 2012 Compiled by June Naylor and Caitlynn O’Hara Special to the Star-Telegram Strong supporters Debbie Lenox, 57, North Richland Hills Nominated by: Her mother-in-law, Helen Lenox, 82, Haltom City My daughter-in-law, Debbie Lenox, helped me so much during the difficult time of my breast-cancer journey. I wondered about losing my hair after surgery; it seemed that this would be so hard to face. When I mentioned this to Debbie, she brought me a wig. Helping me with this problem seemed so easy for her and she made it easy for me. My surgery was near Christmas and I thought that this would be another problem; that I would not be able to do my Christmas shopping. Debbie assured me that I would. She drove me to the Gainesville Outlet Mall, and helped me do my shopping without a problem. In addition to taking care of me, Debbie was working a full-time job. This had to have been hard, but she never complained. I am thankful to all of the blessings I received regarding my breast cancer. My cup is full and overflowing with blessings and I am so grateful that Debbie is and has been in my life. Dr. Robyn Young, Fort Worth Nominated by: Gloria Stringer, 69, Granbury In 2005, I lost my husband to cancer. In 2008, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Oddly, the only thing on my mind, other than my children, was that I would die before being able to reach my goals. In the spring of 2008, my instructional book and workbook for dyslexia were published. More than anything, I wanted to continue to tutor my students and I hoped to train other parents and teachers to help dyslexic adults and children. The real hero in my story is my oncologist, Dr. Robyn Young. She cared for me through four surgeries, and, what was to me, a lot of chemotherapy, in a manner that allowed me to function. I didn’t experience any nausea, diarrhea or the other horrible things that most fear when they hear that they have cancer. I wish all patients could have the quality of care that I received. The nurses in her clinic were warm and very professional. They helped to ease my fears and I looked forward to seeing them. Vicki Mitchell, 48, Fort Worth Nominated by: Morreen A. Singleton, 73, Fort Worth When I was diagnosed with breast cancer in October of 1999, Vicki was working for Alcon on the graveyard shift. She went to the doctor with me for my last exam before my surgery. On our way home, we talked about my aftercare. My husband worked days; he left early for work and most days worked overtime. Vicki thought about it, and then said that she would be putting all her things in storage and moving in with me so that she could care for me. And she did. When she got off work, she came home and lay down in the bed with me to get a little bit of sleep. Every time I would move, she would ask me what was wrong. She took me to my chemotherapy treatments and all of my doctor appointments. She took every step with me; no matter how hard things got, she was there; she held my hands through it all. She never let me feel sorry for myself. When I lost all of my hair, she bought me a pair of big earrings and told me how beautiful I looked. I will always be proud of her for what she did for me. It takes a special kind of person to walk that walk and Vicki was and still is that special kind of person. Tim Halperin, 25, Fort Worth Nominated by: Ann Louden, 56, Fort Worth A talented singer/songwriter and finalist on American Idol, Tim Halperin has become an inspiration to breast-cancer survivors across the country. With two original songs dedicated to those in the cancer fight, Tim has contributed his time, talent and personal resources to give back. It all began just two months after Tim’s 2010 graduation from TCU. As a longtime TCU administrator and breast-cancer survivor, I approached Tim to write the first of two breast-cancer tribute songs. We Fight Back was immediately embraced by Komen officials, including founder Nancy Brinker, who praised the song as an anthem of hope. Komen National selected the song for its promotional video, which has been distributed around the world. And after appearing at TCU’s Frogs for the Cure games, Tim has been inundated with performance opportunities at Komen Race for the Cure events around the country. From the largest race in St. Louis, to singing in Washington, D.C., on the National Mall, to performing at halftime of the NFL breast cancer Panthers vs. Saints game in 2011, Tim toured the country for the cause last year. Tim’s second original cancer song, Cross That Line, is a poignant pledge to reach for the finish line in a race that cancer patients never choose to run. More than 1,500 TCU students, faculty and staff, survivors and community leaders will join Tim in the filming of the 2012 music video for the Frogs for M Breast cancer heroes the Cure. Glen B. Pittman, 83, Hurst At every turn in these last two years, I Nominated by: His daughter, Michele Stehave been touched by Tim’s commitment to vens-Willett, 55, Grapevine the cause. He has gone out of his way to get In the spring of 2004, my parents, then 73 to know survivors, to offer them encourageand 75, moved from their ment, and to give his time whenever he is longtime home in Brownasked. wood to Hurst with the idea that as they aged, I would be close by to help them. Ironically, I was diagnosed in August of that year with breast cancer. At age 47 with a full-time job, a 10-year-old son and a totally non-supportive husband, the timing was especially bad. City of Hurst Firefighters My mom and dad began by taking me to Nominated by: Pat Gurley, 56, Hurst M.D. Anderson in Houston. In the car on the On Dec. 21, 2007, I received the phone call. The biopsy was malignant; I had Stage II way to Houston, I asked my mom, who had breast cancer. I sent a text to my family and one breast removed from breast cancer at age tried to end on a light note: “Boobs are really 42, when she had her last mammogram on overrated.” My family is small, a sweet hus- her remaining breast. She replied, “Oh, my band, three daughters and 56 sons. Fifty-six doctor told me I don’t have to have mammoboys is not a misprint. My official title is Ad- grams anymore.” I was horrified and told her ministrative Assistant of the Hurst Fire De- that was not true and asked her to please partment, but in reality, I am the mother to schedule a mammogram ASAP. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in 56 firefighters. The word cancer is scary. However, these October and my dad became our rock. He did men rush into situations that are scary for everything for both of us for months, drove the rest of us — and this one was no differ- us back and forth to Houston and went from appointment to appointment, back and ent. Early January was spent having tests, forth while Mom received chemo treatments surgery, a port installed, prescriptions filled, in one room at the same time as I received my the first chemo and a wig bought. Just prior chemo in another room. He never comto chemo Chief Brown brought me a card plained. He always smiled and encouraged filled with several thousand dollars that the us and said prayer after prayer for us. Just when we thought we were about out firemen had donated with a note saying they of the woods, in August 2005, I was diagwished to “invest” in my cure. With all these medical expenses occurring in January, I had nosed with a totally different type of breast deductibles to meet and co-pays to pay. The cancer in my other breast, followed this time amount they gave me exactly covered my en- by a lumpectomy and radiation treatments. tire out-of-pocket costs for the biopsy, Back to Houston, more appointments, more scans, tests and surgery. I was able to begin tears, more prayers. I recovered and finally began to get my health back around the chemo without a medical bill. They cooked meals and drove me to che- spring of 2006. Sadly, my Mom’s cancer came back in the mo. They checked on me, hugged, kidded summer of 2007 and this time it had metasabout my hair — or lack of. Every day, they did something funny (or stupid) that would tasized in her jaw. Back to Houston for surmake me laugh till I cried. The boys knew gery and six weeks of intense radiation. when you can laugh at cancer, cancer loses Again, my Dad stayed by her side and was her 24/7 personal nurse. She came home in Noits power over you. The bottom line is these strong men vember, but just never regained her strength loaned me their strength when I had none. and passed away in December. Dad is now 83 and still lives alone, drives a When I couldn’t fight, they fought. They carried me to safety out of a fire that was too car, mows his lawn, gardens, babysits his neighbors’ two young sons and walks his hot to survive. faithful companion, Buddy, every day. Barbara Smith, 64; Maryellen Hicks, Congregation of First United 64; Kathleen Hicks, 39; Linda Pavlik, 60+; Betty Brown, 65+; and Methodist Church, Grapevine Alainia Hearne, 72, all of Fort Worth Nominated by: Pastor and members of the Nominated by: Charlotte Ann Evans, 59, Fort Worth I would like to nominate six special angels God sent to aid me in my recovery and survival of my breast-cancer surgery in September 2011. These ladies have been with me every step of the way, be it cleaning my house, bringing me groceries, sending get well & encouragement cards, calling often to see how I was doing or if I needed anything. God has shown me that I can always count on them, when I need love, strength to keep going, positive energy and prayers. I’ve had texts from others to show that they care and I am grateful for them. Ms. Alzinia Hearne, Ms. Barbara Smith and Ms. Betty Brown were at the hospital before and after the surgery to hear the results from the doctor, and they have been caring for me ever since then. Judge Maryellen Hicks, Kathleen Hicks and Ms. Linda Pavlik have sent cards of get well and encouragement, to let me know that they are with me and thinking of me. Doctors, family and Mary Moore Elementary School, Arlington Nominated by: Kathy Woods, 58, Arlington It feels like breast cancer has always been around me. My mother was diagnosed when I was in elementary school. Her treatments of surgery and harsh cobalt radiation helped her survive, but not without severely alterNominator Kathy Woods, ing her body. left, and her daughter Kelly She was my Beatty, right hero. Breast cancer reappeared in my life in 1995 when it was discovered during my mammogram at age 41. Luckily, my PCP, Dr. George, fought to get me mammograms beginning at 35. Dr. Allen, my surgeon, agreed to perform a mastectomy instead of the recommended lumpectomy. My oncologist, Dr. Deur, provided chemotherapy. Those same doctors treated me when I was diagnosed with breast cancer again in 2005. Dr. John oversaw my radiation this time. But while fighting both of my breast cancers, I taught third grade at Mary Moore Elementary. The Moore students, parents and staff were so supportive. They accepted my wigs, absences and lack of energy. When I went without my wig on Crazy Hair Day, my students thought it was “cool.” My fellow teachers, staff and administrators provided me with at least three meals a week, a chemo blanket, and an iPod for support during my journeys. Moore even formed a team called “Walk Moore” to walk with me in the Komen Breast Cancer 3 Day Walk in October 2006. We raised over $20,000, partly funded by the sale of pickles and pink wrist bands at school. It was a therapeutic walk and a memory I’ll never forget. Finally, my family played a huge role. My loving husband, Mike, has been there every step of the way, along with his workplace, Apex Capital. My children, Michael and Kelly, supported me through it all. Now we support Kelly, who was diagnosed with breast cancer in January at the age of 31. I’m only one of her many angels that surround her now on her journey. She’s my hero, too. church In the few months between August 2011 and January 2012, three members of a local United Methodist Church and one of their pastors were all diagnosed with breast Cindy Ryan, Rhonda Hill, Anita cancer. Dr. Cindy Mullins and Robin Blankenship Ryan, assoof First United Methodist ciate pastor, Church received her diagnosis in August, and Rhonda Hill, Anita Mullins and Robin Blankenship found out just after the holidays. “Each of us was shocked and rocked by our diagnosis. But it sure helped to know we weren’t alone. Through our different connections in the church, we kept up with each other and encouraged each other. We coached one another a bit on what was next. We cheered one another along and celebrated even little milestones,” said Ryan. She continues, “Our faith in God and the power of prayer was something we each relied on and our congregation was just great, supporting us with meals, gifts, prayers and cards. Now, we are soul sisters in this journey. In October, our congregation will have Pink Sunday to highlight breast cancer awareness. Men, women and children will wear pink to church to show our commitment to fight this disease which has touched so many of us.” Donna Guest, 65, Weatherford Nominated by: Rhonda Morton, 43, Weatherford Having lost my mom three years earlier, reading the words “abnormal mammogram” and subsequently hearing “we need to do a biopsy” rocked my world. At that moment, there wasn’t anything I wanted more than the comforting words of my mom and a “mommy hug.” Just days before my biopsy, I visited my mom’s closest friend to give her a small birthday present. During my visit, I shared my news with her. Without any hesitation, Donna took on the role of “my other mom” and now six months later she continues her role as my guardian angel on earth. Donna was with me on the day of my biopsy and she has been to all of my doctor appointments, including the breast surgeon, the plastic surgeon, the oncologist and the surgeon who placed my port. In addition, Donna has bathed and dressed me as you would a 2-year-old, ensured that I have eaten well and taken my medication as needed, attended appointments with a nutritionist, my wig fitting, and a “look good, feel good” program, and she sat with me during all of my chemo treatments, as well as the days that I received blood transfusions, platelet transfusions and all other necessary scans and tests. I have some of the most amazing headwear to cover my bald head, thanks to Donna! There is not a moment that Donna has not been here for me as I walk this breast cancer journey. www.star-telegram.com Dr. Sumeet Teotia, Dallas Nominated by: Janet Hankammer, 60, Bedford The hero in my breast cancer story is my wonderful plastic surgeon, Dr. Sumeet Teotia, and his team of great nurses. I never expected a plastic surgeon to be so comforting and approachable. When he released me from the hospital after my double mastectomy, Dr. Teotia gave me his cellphone number and told me to call or text him any time, day or night, if I needed him, and he would meet me at the hospital. Fortunately, I never had an emergency, but whenever I had a question or concern, he would answer my text immediately. His nurses were also caring, compassionate and gentle. During my many doctor visits, they were always upbeat and reassuring. When I look back on the events of three years ago, I don’t focus on the shock and pain of having breast cancer. Instead, I remember the doctor and nurses whose skill and compassion enabled me to go forward with my life. Lauren Rego, 22, Arlington Nominated by: Her sister, Andrea Rego, Arlington My eldest sister Lauren Rego is a cancer hero. She bicycled more than 4,000 miles from Austin to Anchorage for 70 days this summer through the desert and over mountains to raise money for the cancer charity Texas 4000. My sister raised nearly $5,000, and took more than a year to prepare for the ride that consumed most of her free time during her junior and senior years at the University of Texas at Austin. She spent time speaking to organizations, writing letters, and making calls to raise money. The ride was challenging and grueling. She told us of the pain in her knees and ankles, burned and chapped skin because of the heat and wind, but she never complained. She used ice to soothe the aches and be ready for the ride early the next morning. Why? This pain is nothing compared to what a cancer patient and their families have to go through, she would say. On the ride, they solicited food, water and money to cover their needs and expenses so that all the money they raised would benefit the charity and not be spent on them. She endured no sleeping quarters and bathroom facilities, wore unlaundered and sweaty clothing, but did not complain. Only a person who is so deeply genuine, caring and concerned would take on a challenge like that. Only a selfless and passionate person, only a person who wants to make a difference in other people’s lives. My sister is that person. She is riding for a cure. Steffanie Johnson, 42, Burleson Nominated by: Kaye Kauffman, 55, Burleson “If I find out you needed something and you didn’t call me, I’m going to be mad.” Those were the words from my friend within days of my diagnosis of breast cancer. I didn’t need to call. Steffanie, anticipating my needs, didn’t wait for calls. Everybody says, “Let me know what I can do,” but Steffanie stepped in and took action. When my oncologist told me yes, I would lose my hair, she located a highly recommended wig shop and went with me to try wigs before my chemotherapy began. The first wigs just weren’t right; when I tried on the final one, her reassurance gave me confidence I would be OK in a wig. What I dreaded most about my treatment was losing my hair, so this was big. When I was newly bald and sporting the wig, Steffanie went with me to the American Cancer Society’s Look Good, Feel Better program. Having a friend enter a room of strangers with me enabled me to relax, enjoy and appreciate this wonderful program. Not only did Steffanie check on me regularly, she would call and say, “I’m cooking and I’m bringing you supper.” At a time when favorite foods didn’t taste good anymore, she would show up with the most delicious meals that would last me most of the week. To this day, her kind words echo in my head and her expressions of love reverberate in my heart. Ken Evans, 54, Crowley Nominated by: His wife, Kristi Evans, 53, a survivor “Hero” doesn’t begin to describe the person who walked with me every single step of my breast cancer healing adventure. Angel, best friend, cook, cleaner, driver, encourager, shoulder-rubber, teardryer, smile-giver . . . this list could go on forever. He has been by my side at every turn of this journey from the second-look mammogram, biopsy and having my diagnosis explained at the Joan Katz Breast Center, to the many doctor appointments, surgery, chemotherapy, more surgery and more appointments. He gave me his shoulder when I cried and couldn’t stop. He listened patiently when I was mad. He held me tightly and did not let go when I was so scared I didn’t know whether to scream, cry or run. He was my relentless prayer warrior. He laughed hysterically with me when I described what I thought I would look like with a bald head . . . did anyone see the movie Paul about an alien — well that’s what I looked like. He is the person who emphatically told me that I was beautiful with no hair. When chemo was over and my hair started to grow back, he encouraged me to More on SUPPORTERS, 7E www.star-telegram.com Supporters Continued from 6E ditch my wig and be proud of the minuscule bit of hair I had covering my head. He helped me to see my altered looks as a badge of courage for what I had fought so hard to be — a survivor. This amazing man is my husband of 34 years. Damon Warren, 62, Fort Worth M Breast cancer heroes had to hear those dreaded words again! I was diagnosed with metastatic disease in May of this year. The breast cancer returned and has spread to the lung and bone areas. I cannot imagine trying to navigate through the maze of diagnostics and treatments again by myself. My heroes are the Joan Katz Breast Center; the nurse navigators Sherree Bennett, Director, and Maureen Madewell; the lay navigators Kristi Evans and Sue Cook; Mae Fowler, financial and social navigator; Glenda Brooks, psych/mental health counselor; and volunteers Toni Geren, Terry Stanford and Gayle Wood. They offer understanding, compassion, hope; they are our angels on earth! Nominated by: His wife, Linda Warren, 62, Fort Worth My hero is my husband. When I was diagnosed, he was my strength. He told me how much he loved me and always told me how Tony Bocks, 49, Fort Worth beautiful I was, even when I had no hair. He Nominated by: His wife, Samantha Bocks, helped me fight every step of the way. When 46, Fort Worth My hero is a man I met at age 16, he was a I cried, he held me and said, “I love you.” mature 19 … an unlikely That took away so much worry. I have always couple, a British girl and felt special with him. On Oct. 30, I will be a a true Texan. Now, 30 14-year survivor. That day is also our 41years, three children and year anniversary. I love him more than the two grandchildren later, day that we got married. this man, my husband, Tony Bocks, is my breast Dr. Jill Coleman Chilcoat, 45, Fort cancer hero. Worth Tony has worked hard since he was 15, Nominated by: Jane Lawrence, 57, Fort and though he has been blessed in many Worth ways, he has also experienced hardships in Dr. Chilcoat joined Radiology Associates his life. However, he always remains an upof North Texas in 2000. We beat, positive, glass-half-full, encouraging, are currently celebrating our motivating, strong, loving and funny man. 75th year and are the largest Now I, his wife of 27 years, am “fighting like (121 strong) radiology praca girl” and aiming to beat this ugly cancer. tice in Texas. Part of the reaHow could I ever survive without this son for our success is due to man? Every single day he makes me smile our continuous improvements and commitand laugh. Among the other stresses in our ment to excellence in patient care. lives he is forever optimistic. Tony listens to For the patient, what sets Radiology Asdoctors, asks the right questions, lets me sociates apart is the compassion and respect sleep but makes me gets up to walk at the they are shown by our accredited staff, park. He distracted me during nausea, made where Dr. Chilcoat leads the way. She is anything I could or would eat and he still committed to always getting a patient in smiles during my hot flashes! He encourag“today” if the patient or their physician has a es me to leave everything to him (cooking, concern. She has come in outside of normal cleaning, bill paying ) while I read a book, go business hours rather than have patients to yoga or a support group, or to meet a wait angst-ridden weeks for follow-up imfriend for lunch. Never does he complain aging, praying right along with them for a and he encourages me not to … his love is good result. unconditional. I have gone with Dr. Chilcoat to speak to some of our referring physicians at their offices, where it is amazing to watch her go Julie Wilson, 36, Decatur from being a down-to-earth mother of four Nominated by: Her husband, Rodney Wilboys to a physician who believes in what she son, 40, Decatur Over four years ago, my wife’s sister was is doing. She will often call physicians regarding patients where there is concern and diagnosed with breast cancer. For the first couple of years, Julie, my wife, was traveling is always accessible to them. to Waco from our home in Midlothian to be with and support her sister. As her sister’s Dr Robyn Young, Helena cancer progressed and spread, the hospital Iannaccone, Pam Crisp and the visits increased and so did my wife’s travel to entire staff at the Center for Cancer Waco. and Blood Disorders, Fort Worth Her sister’s oncologist in Waco gave the Nominated by: Roxanne Martinez, 30, Fort diagnosis that all those who fight breast Worth cancer dread — he was running out of opWhen I was diagnosed with breast cancer tions. The option that gave her sister the in November 2010, just weeks into my preg- best chance was experimental treatment in nancy, Dr. Young was the first person to tell Dallas. For two years, my wife gave selflessly me that I could receive lifesaving cancer traveling back and forth to Waco to transtreatment while bringing a new life to the port her sister to her treatments. world. Dr. Young prayed with me and my The true measure of a hero is how they family during our very first visit and educat- act when all hope is gone. My wife’s world ed me about the disease and treatment op- for two years revolved around getting her tions. Dr. Young, along with her team, made sister the experimental treatment she needme feel very much involved in my treatment ed and giving her two more precious years of plan and always provided compassionate life. My wife was there with her sister, as all cancer care. Everyone at The Center made a big sisters should be, in life and when her very difficult journey much easier. Now can- sister went to be with our Lord and Savior. cer-free, I am proud to be a volunteer at The Center, spreading hope and giving support Patti Derdowski Merryman, Keller to others through the Simply the Breast sup- Nominated by: Her husband, Bill Merryport network. man, Keller Marissa Ford, 29, North Richland Hills Nominated by: Her mother, Sharon Crowder, Euless When I was diagnosed with breast cancer after a routine mammogram, we discovered that I would need several surgeries, chemotherapy and a year of ongoing treatment. This meant more than 50 medical appointments in less than a year. Marissa, my daughter, was attending college as well as working full time, but she insisted that she be the person to attend each doctor visit, be present during all surgeries and not only take me to every chemotherapy and immune therapy appointment but stay the several hours each procedure required. She arranged her work schedule as well as her classes to ensure she would be able to be fully present for me. Despite the stress, my memories of chemotherapy are of joy, laughter and a wonderful time of sharing the special bond that mothers and daughters can have. As I drifted off to sleep during these sessions I would see the look of intense love shining on her face as she held my hand, and the peace that gave me is hard to describe. Joan Katz staff Joan Katz Breast Center and Staff Nominated by: Robin Kresge, 49, Keller In 1995, I was diagnosed with breast cancer; I was 32. Had it not been for my primary-care physician, I don’t think I would’ve found the right doctors. There were plenty of doctors; however, there were no fellowshiptrained surgeons in the Fort Worth area. I wish there had been breast centers, nurse navigators, fellowship-trained surgeons, everything you can now find at the Joan Katz Breast Center in Fort Worth. I am now 17 years into survivorship and I My wife, Patti Merryman, is not a survivor, but a hero nonetheless. She walks the three-day, 60-mile Susan G. Komen walk. She has completed eight and will complete her ninth this fall in Dallas. Through her involvement she has inspired so many others to walk and raise money. She would never take credit nor should she, but through her example and her connections, the number of dollars raised since she started this crusade is well beyond multiple six figures. She wears a shirt with the names of all those affected by breast cancer that are associated with her team. It affects everyone. Dr. Frank E. Brown Jr., Fort Worth Nominated by: Tom Dowler, 82, Fort Worth On Oct. 1, 2009, my wife went to her gynecologist for a routine annual checkup and routine annual mammogram. The gynecologist performed the expected manipulation of the breast but found no anomalies. The mammogram technologist said they would notify us of the results. The notification was to the effect, “Come in Tuesday for a sonogram. The doctor would like to verify something.” The doctor was Dr. Frank E. Brown Jr., at Harris Methodist Southwest hospital. The sonogram results confirmed that “a lump” was in my wife’s breast, but it appeared to Dr. Brown to be benign, as did the spot in the mammogram that had led to our return. But Dr. Brown nevertheless recommended that my wife get a surgical biopsy. The gynecologist recommended a leading breast surgeon, and in due time that surgeon performed another sonogram. The nurse said it looked benign. The surgeon said it looked benign. “But do you want to know for sure?” the surgeon asked. Remembering Dr. Brown’s recommendation, we immediately said, “Yes!” The biopsy doctor performed yet another sonogram. Again, the nurse said it looked benign. But the biopsy doctor, handling the tissue removed from the lump, had “a bad feeling,” and pathology determined that the tissue came from an invasive ductal carcinoma. Would we have settled for the “benign” judgments of four highly trained medical specialists without Dr. Brown’s recommendation? Maybe, maybe not. But following his conservative recommendation, the cancer was identified while it was still too small to be detected by manipulation of the breast, so early that it did not look like a cancer in a sonogram, and promptly enough that my wife was able to undergo a successful lumpectomy with no after-effects or post-surgery treatment. Others played their roles, but I believe that Dr. Brown is responsible for saving my wife’s life. Members of Christine’s Rack Pack, about 39, Flower Mound Nominated by: Mike North, 72, West Hill, Calif. In March of 2008, our 39-year-old daughter Christine found a lump in her left breast. She made an appointment to see her OB/GYN when they returned from a family ski vacation. On Monday after they returned, she noticed an e-mail from a friend inviting her to join her on a 60-mile 3-Day Breast Cancer Walk. She thought she would in honor of her mother, a two-time breast cancer survivor, but she did not immediately respond. The next day, her OB/GYN felt the lump and sent Christine straight to the radiologist. The radiologist confirmed that it was cancer in her left breast, and attempted to biopsy the right. An MRI confirmed a tumor in each breast. By now, several of Christine’s friends knew about Christine’s cancer and the invitation to do a breast cancer walk. The following week Christine received a dozen yellow roses with a note from a number of her friends saying that they would walk the 60 miles with her. They soon had a team of 14 girls signed up to do the Dallas/Fort Worth area 3-Day walk. Their team name: “Christine’s Rack Pack.” All 14 members completed the 3-day 60mile walk, raising over $35,000 to fight breast cancer. Christine started the walk just 16 days after completing chemotherapy, with chemo in her veins, expanders in her chest and no hair. Sunday, October 14, 2012 7E play and he was “my rock.” He prayed with me and he went to every doctor appointment with me. He nursed me through my surgeries and reconstruction, getting up in the night to give me medication, changing bandages, clearing drain tubes and holding my hand when the pain seemed unbearable. Evelyn Tinney, 71, Azle Nominated by: Genelle Dunaway, 72, Azle Three years ago I was diagnosed with Stage II triple-negative breast cancer. I was devastated and terrified. I did not want to tell my friend of 55 years what was happening. I did tell her, of course, and started my journey. I had a mastectomy and chemo every three weeks for four months. I lost my hair, my appetite, nothing tasted right and there were so many other side effects. My friend knew just when to call, just when to drop by and on occasion she brought little gifts to lift my spirits. What makes her a standout? While she was keeping tabs on me, she was diagnosed with early stages of Alzheimer’s and did not want to tell me. Sharon Reese, 62, Hurst Nominated by: Her sister, Patricia Frost, 69, Bedford Along with her military duties, she has carried me through three battles with breast cancer every step of the way. From 2005 until today, she has taken me to doctors, chemotherapy infusion, hospitals and slept near me after surgeries. She changed bandages, emptied drain tubes and made sure I took my medications when I was in chemo fog or too weak to bother. During the first round of breast cancer, she was here in Fort Worth. During second and third battles, she was stationed at Fort Hood and traveled the 2 1 ⁄2- to 3-hour drive every weekend and often during the week, too, driving late at night to be at her post the next morning. She is a veteran of the Persian Gulf War, was at the White House during 9-11 and is a shining example of “Army Strong.” Dr. Fred Duffy, Dallas Nominated by: Lisa Lingenfelter, 59, Arlington I met Dr. Fred Duffy in 2008 when my sister, Renee, traveled from Albuquerque to Dallas for post-mastectomy reconstruction surgery. I had no idea in 2008 that I would be returning to his office in 2012, myself a breastcancer patient. Because of family history, I determined at the time of my diagnosis that I would opt for bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction at the conclusion of chemotherapy. When the time came, I contacted Dr. Duffy’s office and from that first contact was met with compassion and kindness. This spring, my sister lost her life to breast cancer just weeks before my surgical consult with Dr. Duffy. He and his staff were all sensitive to how tender I was, battling a disease that had just taken the life of my only sister. Dr. Duffy and his partner, Dr. McKane, are skilled surgeons and take great pride in their work, and women travel across the country seeking their services. But their pride is not limited to the outcome of a breast surgically restored. They also take great pride in the difference they make in the lives of their patients as they give back to a woman something very precious that breast cancer has taken away. D’Anne Carson, 62, Euless Nominated by: Debbie Barnett, 55, Southlake At the time of my diagnosis, I barely knew Dr. D’Anne Carson, as she was a co-worker of my husband whom I had spoken to only briefly a few times at various company functions. But, boy, did she respond when she learned about my diagnosis. Immediately, she reached out to me, insisting that we have lunch together. Her secret plan, of course, was to calm my fears by sharing her personal journey with breast cancer, just one year earlier. Because D’Anne had experienced everything I was about to experience, I trusted her. She inspired me to stretch my arms farther during my surgical rehab when it hurt, challenged me to go for walks when I felt too tired, and made me laugh when I wanted to cry. She was there for me every step of my journey with texts, e-mails, phone calls and well wishes via my husband. Penny Hines, 50, Mansfield Nominated by: Jim Lane, 68, Fort Worth The phone rang; “Meet me at the house,” Janet said. I was afraid of what she was going to tell me. I was shocked, frozen with fear, confused, not willing to accept this news of breast cancer. Not Janet, not this healthy, beautiful woman, my wife, and the mother of a baby boy. After I gathered my emotions, we made a plan. We will fight cancer. Within a week Janet and I were sitting in a surgeon’s office. The doctor began to explain the treatment options and each consequence. I was once again confused, speechless. I knew that I could not help Janet make these life-changing decisions. Janet needed someone smart, compassionate, understanding and a real female friend. I told Janet to call Penny Hines. Penny is a successful businesswoman, mother, wife and a beautiful woman on the outside and inside. Janet called Penny and Penny stepped in and took over. Penny went with Janet to every appointment. She researched treatment options with Janet and helped in Janet’s decisions. If Janet had to be at the hospital at 6 a.m., Penny was at our house ready to go at 5 a.m. Penny helped in every way, every day. She never failed us. The NEAT Ladies, Hurst, Euless, Bedford, Fort Worth, Arlington, Richland Hills and North Richland Hills Nominated by: Wendy A. Tilley, over 40, Fort Worth The NEAT Ladies represent Nutrition, Exercise, Attitude, and Treatment. They’re more than my heroes but are one another’s heroes, supporting the communities in which they live in Tarrant County. They are professional women with their own survival and recovery as they help other survivors through the journey. The NEAT Ladies support the American Cancer Society with Strides for Breast Cancer Walk, Relay for Life, and the Susan G. Komen Foundation. They are guided by Cheryl Dale of Hurst, and the group includes Brenda Stoll, Francis Bobo, Lynda Koziatek, Pat Peters, Polly Post, Jan Yockey, Bettye Collette, Donna Olson, Philip O’Rear, 71, Weatherford Nominated by: His wife, Laurel O’Rear, 71, Barbara Chambers, Connie Fletcher, Susie Floyd, Cherie Prewitt, Debbie Gerwick, BarWeatherford In April 2009, I had been diagnosed with bara Chavez, Betty Alderette, Donna Shaw, invasive carcinoma, a Joyce Sharp and Barb Viragh. form of breast cancer where the cancer grows like cobwebs, surround- See more stories of strong survivors, tireless ing healthy tissue like a caregivers, compassionate healthcare providcarnivorous mutation on ers and angels who won’t soon be forgotten. the loose. Philip, my hus- Section J band of 47 years, looked devastated as I shared my news. I started to quietly cry and he walked over to me, wrapped his arms around me and said, “We will get through this!” His words were that we are going down this road together, whatever it takes. All of the wonderful and loving traits that he so quietly possesses quickly came into www.star-telegram.com M Survivors lowed by 14 months of chemo and 37 radiation treatments. I don’t think it surprised anyone to see her back at work 10 days after surgery. She rarely allows herself the luxury of slipping into moods of resignation or defeat. Throughout it all, she has retained her contagious smile, sense of humor and neverending concern for her family, friends and co-workers. She is uplifting to be around. Nancy made a conscious effort to consider herself cancer-free from the day she had surgery. She also attributes her ability to keep a positive attitude to her faith, her huge support system of family, friends and her awesome medical care team. Tamiko Robinson, 43, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her sister Bridgette Davis, Fort Worth Tamiko is my baby sister who, two years ago, I took to the ER because she was having breast pain. We went to her family doctor for more testing and learned she had Stage III inflammatory breast cancer. All of this while she was helping me care for an uncle who was dying of stomach cancer. Tamiko wouldn’t give up, even when the Fort Worth doctors said there is nothing else we could do. At M.D. Anderson in Houston, she went through tests and then chemo. I’ve seen my sister weak, fatigued, with cancer in her blood. She still made it to church on Sunday and to all family functions, while caring for her 15-year-old daughter and helping her son, who became the father of twins. My sister is my rock; even when she is in pain, she takes it with a smile. Jan Adams Tobey, 74, Haltom City Cathy Walkinshaw, Arlington Nominated by: Her husband, John Walkinshaw, Arlington Cathy is my spouse and best friend of 40 years. For better or worse — how easily those words came in 1972. After a breast biopsy the surgeon gave the grim news in 2005; it was surely cancerous. A single mastectomy was performed and 29 lymph nodules removed. Reconstruction with an expander began, with an implant later. We entered into the endless visits for medical procedures, chemo, baldness, scans and hot flashes. A mother dead of breast cancer was Cathy’s motivation to see future grandchildren. At Komen walks, we could see where each family was in the process, denial or victory, supported or alone. Returning to teaching took her mind off health issues, allowing her to value herself and move forward. She would later go through a number of medical hardships, including carpal tunnel surgery, a hysterectomy, lymphedema and open heart surgery. I can say she is my hero for sheer endurance, gratefulness to those who lift her up in prayers, her Bosom Buddies cancer support group and the blessing of the Lord for being so good. Claude Leis, 74, Arlington Nominated by: His wife, Barbara Leis, 72, Arlington Claude was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 73 in December 2010. The following year saw a series of over 140 appointments with doctors, hospitals, the cancer center and home healthcare. Following his mastectomy he had six chemotherapy treatments and then some severe problems in the ensuing months. July was another challenge when his heart pulse was over 150 a minute and he needed to be hospitalized to have cardioversion (his heart shocked). This was a success due to another series of a wonderful doctor, nurses and hospital staff. Kim Thrasher, 30, Palestine Nikki Tidwell, 21, Arlington Nominated by: Their grandmother, Wanda Tidwell, Arlington In1993, the sisters lost their mom to breast cancer; she was only 30. At the time, Kim was 12 and Nikki was almost Nikki Tidwell and Kim Thrasher 2. They have done very well and I’m proud of both of them. At 22, Kim was pregnant when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had chemotherapy and a double mastectomy right after her son was born. She had implants but her body rejected them and they had to be removed. She is now 30 and a 911 operator in Palestine, raising her son, and an 8-year survivor, doing great. When Nikki was 18, she found out she has the breast cancer gene, too, like her mom and sister, and she’s being closely watched by doctors. She’s a student at UTA, working part-time. Even though they are hours away, they stay in contact and are there for each other every step of the way. Eva Jean Fuqua, 80, Fort Worth Sunday, October 14, 2012 1J Continues to inspire. Uplifting to be around. Never let it get her down. Hallelujah. Strongest woman I know. Courage and dignity. I am in awe. Grateful for every day. Unyielding faith. Resilience. Shining spirit. She’s a joy to all. Thankfulness for life. Grace and positivity. Strength of a warrior. Cancer didn’t beat her. STORIES OF BREAST CANCER HEROES We asked readers to nominate their local breast cancer ‘heroes’ and were overwhelmed with the responses. Stories poured in about strong survivors, tireless caregivers, compassionate healthcare providers and angels who won’t soon be forgotten. These are their stories and their faces. Nominated by: Her granddaughter, Heather Douglass, Carrollton A loving heart filled with family and faith. Smiling eyes and giant laughter abound. She’s Eva Jean Fuqua and she is my grandCompiled by June Naylor and Caitlynn O’Hara mother and hero. She surSpecial to the Star-Telegram vived a radical mastectomy 37 years ago without the aid of chemotherapy or radiation. Her husband of 61 years, a Methodist minister, led many a congregation to lift her up in prayer and still continues to. Now 80 bravely faced not one, but years young and still dancing through life, cancer. On Aug. 1, 2007, she had a mastectomy removing her left breast. After treatment two life-threatening illnessshe’s a hero. she now faced health problems with her 94es. Throughout it all, her optimistic outlook has never Elizabeth Seeton Gill, 75, Fort Worth year-old mother, who later died on March faltered and it continues to Nominated by: Sam L. Gill, 76, her hus- 22, 2008. During the last few months she made several trips a week to be with her bring comfort and inspiraband, Fort Worth In July 2006, word came that my wife’s mother in Mansfield at the same time she tion to others. Nancy’s first brush with a life-threatenbrother living in Grove, Okla., was being was recovering from breast cancer. I am treated for lung cancer. Before his death on pleased to say in August 2012 she is cancer- ing illness was in 1990, when she was only 40 years old and faced open heart surgery afJan. 6, 2007, she made nine trips covering free. ter a diagnosis of constrictive pericarditis. 10,000 miles to be with him during these last Nancy Hale, 62, Burleson Then a routine mammogram in 2010 refew months. Nominated by: Roberta Bates, 66, Arling- vealed Stage III B breast cancer. Nancy had a On a July day one year later in 2007, durton breast and all lymph nodes removed, foling a routine exam, she found she had breast Over the past 20 years, Nancy Hale has Nominated by: Her sister, Jean Adams Maddox, 68, Saginaw She is the middle of three sisters and is the most fearful person I have ever known. Growing up, she was afraid of everything! She never rode a tricycle or bicycle, and could not learn to drive because she was so afraid. She grew up, got married and had four children. Even as an adult she was terrified of storms and of someone breaking into her house. Things changed when both of her twin daughters had to battle cancer. Her world changed and she became the strongest mom. God was preparing her for her breast cancer they found in her left breast in 1991. The fearful sister I grew up with became a shining example of her faith in God and keeping a positive attitude. You would think this would be enough to prove to her family she was a hero, but not yet! In 1994 the left breast she had removed had a growth on the breast wall. It was cancer again. We could not believe it; even the doctor thought it was not cancer. We were in shock and so afraid! She never let it get her down. To me she is my hero, for her faith in God, keeping a positive attitude and never EVER giving up. She is cancer-free today. Maxine Shipps, 82, Haltom City Nominated by: Her granddaughter, Renee Shipps, 28, Bedford My grandmother was diagnosed at age 64. After getting over the initial shock she took it very well. She would remind me and my sister, Kelly, to be sure and get mammograms because our grandmothers on each side of the family had mastectomies. I watched her as she would do those funny exercises of standing an arm length away from the wall and then walking her fingers up and down it. She thought she would never be able to raise her arm again. Then one day at the store she couldn’t quite reach something on the top shelf. Another customer helped her by getting it down and then Me-Maw laughed and asked her to put it back because she had to do it herself. They both had a good laugh. I think she has been heroic through the whole ordeal. She preferred the mastectomy rather than having to take chemo if she only had the knot removed. Dorothy Head, 63, Fort Worth Nominated by: Cynthia Weeks, 60, Fort Worth My best friend and sister survivor was born in Glasgow, Scotland, and trained as a RN, then came to work at Harris Hospital for a year, 41 years ago. I met Dorothy in 2002 through a yoga class. She was a three-year breast cancer survivor and I was a five-year breast cancer survivor. We have shared many laughs and shed many tears over the years. Dorothy has been a source of inspiration to me and other survivors over the years. After her diagnosis, she became aware of resources in the area and the latest information about breast cancer. She found her niche when she became a breast cancer patient navigator at the Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders and for 6 1⁄2 years helped women and men that were newly diagnosed with cancer. She was a source of hope to these patients and calmed their fears and helped navigate them through the trials and tribulations of breast cancer treatment. With the help of the American Cancer Society, she opened the first resource center at “the Center.” Dorothy has been a proud Komen supporter since her diagnosis and has participated in runs, walks and sprint triathlons over the past 13 years. Dorothy continues to inspire and encourage others. Amy Pitman, 47, Keller Nominated by: Patti Page, 57, Fort Worth I am nominating Amy because she is such an example to me of how to really live your life. Amy was diagnosed with IBC in 2001. Inflammatory breast cancer is one of the rarer breast cancers and very hard to treat or beat. Most cases of IBC are fatal. Amy never had medical insurance, going to doctors, clinics at JPS over and over to get the treatment needed. After several other breast surgeries, she had a double mastectomy. Amy has always been a single mom, works full time, volunteers for a host of Breast Cancer Awareness functions. She is the first one there with food, a hug, big smile, phone call, whatever you need, whenever you need it. Amy practices what she preaches and lives life to the fullest making sure everyone around her is able to do the same. Allison Morris Parkey, 36, Dallas Nominated by: Her aunt, Lucille Henry Helton, 70, Arlington; along with her mother, Martha Henry Troy; husband, Ben Parkey; brother, Ryan Morris; her uncle, Gordon Clark Henry. 2J Sunday, October 14, 2012 Allison and her husband, Ben, had so looked forward to having a child. After going through two rounds of in vitro fertilization, they got the wonderful news that Allison was pregnant. After a healthy pregnancy, baby Stella arrived five weeks premature. A month after celebrating Stella’s first birthday, Allison discovered a lump in her breast. Two days following Christmas 2011, Allison learned the tumor was malignant. She was frightened, confused at how this could happen at the age of 35, and worried about being around for her young daughter as well as her husband, but she was determined to do everything she could to fight. Further testing revealed that she had the BRCA2 gene. This called for a very aggressive treatment plan. Allison elected for a bilateral mastectomy, along with the aggressive course of 16 rounds of chemotherapy. She started a blog (www.alliparkey.blogspot.com) to keep friends and family up to date on her journey to beating breast cancer. Allison decided at an early point in the process that if she had to go through this journey, she wanted to help as many other women (and men) as possible along the way. Since January 2012, she has completed five out of her six surgeries related to her breast cancer, and 16 chemo treatments. Throughout this most challenging and difficult ordeal, Allison has been determined to complete her treatment plan. Her outlook has remained positive despite the difficult circumstances. Angela Sherman, 49 Fort Worth Nominated by: Her son, Antone McCray, 26, Fort Worth When Angela Sherman was diagnosed with breast cancer in August 2011, she was understandably fearful and confused. She kept her head up though and put forth her best efforts to maintain strength even in the face of death. She took on all of the tasks that come with trying to beat breast cancer (surgeries, chemotherapy) with unwavering courage while at the same time continuing to raise her 7-year-old son, as well as being the grandmother to a 2-year-old. She kept her head held high in the midst of hair loss, fatigue, and the pain associated with chemotherapy. She never looked defeated, and for the most part she carried herself as if she wasn’t sick at all. I believe she taught people things on so many levels. She taught fellow breast-cancer patients that the diagnosis is not necessarily a death sentence. She’s encouraged the women in the family to stay on top of their checkups as well. She is my hero because of the fact that she made what was such a scary, depressing situation into one of positivity and I believe everyone close to her took something away from the experience as far as knowledge and encouragement. Eileen Richards, 76, Fort Worth Nominated by: Sally Werst McKeen, 78, Fort Worth Eileen Richards, one of the four original “Bosom Buddies” of Fort Worth, coordinates a monthly gathering of breast-cancer survivors. This group, under Eileen’s coordination and leadership, has greatly enriched hundreds of lives in many ways. The Bosom Buddies’ mission is to help breast-cancer survivors have easier and happier lives during their journeys with the dreadful disease, knowing they are not alone. Membership is offered to women in all stages of breast cancer. In her role, Eileen plans programs on health issues, sends countless e-mails to members on the latest findings in breast cancer and health, handles publicity, luncheon locations and menus. As of August 2012, Bosom Buddies had 206 members. Lori Walker Lopez, 52, Coppell Nominated by: Tracy Casto, 52, Arlington Lori had been on my mind, along with a nagging sense that something wasn’t right, when I opened an e-mail from her one night in October 2010. The only words I saw were “breast cancer.” Lori — incredibly fit, tennis player and marathoner, mom to two sons, and now, cancer patient. After Nov. 24, 2010, when a physician told her “incurable” and “Stage IV,” Lori’s perspective on life changed and her faith M deepened. Although the thought of if or when the cancer will return remains in the back of her mind, she’s learning to no longer hold her breath from scan to scan, but instead to live life fully and appreciate each day. Lori has defied the odds. While recovering from biopsies, chemo, infusions, hysterectomy and a double mastectomy, she kept running. When her doctor gave her the OK in January 2011 to start running again, he said to use common sense and to pace herself. So, while her friends ran the Houston Marathon, she ran the half marathon. This run was different from her dozen other half marathons; it proved to cancer that it did not have control over her life! In April 2011, scans showed that the tumors in her femurs were microscopic and in remission, and the breast tumor activity had slowed. Now she could undergo the double mastectomy. A few days after the surgery, her son graduated from high school. His mom was there, on pain meds and with three drains hidden under her jacket. The incredible news came, again by email, on June 12, 2012. Again, it brought tears. “Great news! My latest pet scan is clear!” Nanette York, 48, Fort Worth Nominated by: Kaminka N. Kelley, 36, Fort Worth When she first told me she had breast cancer she told me in a text message. I called her back and attempted to encourage her, but instead, she ended up encouraging me. When she first told her daughter that she had breast cancer, her daughter, who was 11, said a little prayer and asked God for a sign of rain that everything would be OK. The next day it rained and rained and rained. During the time of her battle, a co-worker had just lost her mother to breast cancer and a co-worker had died of cancer. Nanette said that she was fighting this fight not only for herself, but for her friend that lost her mother. She has just completed six weeks of radiation and did it with joy. Although the breast cancer caused her to have to have a complete mastectomy, she found joy and welcomed the reconstruction surgery. During her treatment when they told her she was going to go bald, she shaved her head, on her own terms. Nannette had a child that was in his last year of college and he was about to make the decision to come home and help her through this. She told him to stay and finish what he started. She did not think about herself at all, but always considered others. Pat Mahanay, 78, Burleson Nominated by: Her daughter, Pam Toole, 55, Burleson When I think what my life would be without her then I am humbled to call her Mom. She is a survivor because her cancer was caught at the first sign. I believe that was probably about 25 years ago. She never focused on her cancer but moved forward with the cure to continue her life. It was an inconvenience but she never wavered in her endeavor to put others first. My mom has taken so many risks. She is the mother of six children and only one was born to her. She never hesitates to truly love her neighbor. She lived her life frugally so that she could be home with her children. All six children were afforded a paid college education if they desired. She worked from her home for about 20 years doing income tax for people in our community. She has taught Bible classes for many years. Karen Kuczek, 50, Arlington Nominated by: Rayma Hawkins, 47, Arlington Karen was diagnosed with Stage III breast cancer in June 2000. From the first day, there was only one option: FIGHT, with a great attitude! Karen immediately began to educate herself on her disease, treatment options and her strategic plan for survival. She knew she was facing a huge battle but she never spent one day complaining or questioning why. She just went to war. And through it all, she was still the same Karen she had always been … always putting everyone else first, always concerned about taking care of others and making sure her friends and family were OK. At the time of her diagnosis she was a mother to two young girls, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a best friend to too many to count. Karen is so loved and each and every one of us are so thankful that she won her battle with breast cancer. But for Karen there is still a war to be won. Even though Karen is now cancer-free she continues to be a major support for others diagnosed with the same disease and many other forms of cancer. Overwhelming compassion and empathy show on her face each time she learns that someone new has been given the same dreadful news she heard back in June 2000. Cheryl Ann Tanferno, 45, Flower Mound Nominated by: Her husband, Bob Tanferno, 55, Flower Mound Cheryl was notified in January shortly after her annual mammogram of an abnormality that was present from the test results and a biopsy was quickly scheduled; this wasn’t the first time so we weren’t terribly worried. Things changed quickly and dramatically during the appointment with her general surgeon, who informed us that the biopsy revealed DCIS and he recommended a lumpectomy to remove a mass of breast tissue the size of a nickel. Day surgery was quickly scheduled and upon completion, the follow-up visit was a frightening event. We were informed the cancer was “invasive” and the new diagnosis was full blown “Stage I” breast cancer. The treatment plan, which included reconstructive surgery, chemo Herceptin and Tamoxifen, were at the time overwhelming even for the strongest person. Cheryl has endured the mastectomy surgery and as of Aug. 17 has completed her chemotherapy, as we wait for her immune system to recover and her hair to grow back she is actually looking forward to the next surgery as it marks another milestone and one step closer to considering herself a true breast-cancer survivor. Through all of this, Cheryl has faced this diagnosis with much courage and dignity and I only hope should I ever face a diagnosis of similar magnitude, I demonstrate the same strength and humility. Alea Pena, 47, Decatur Nominated by: Marty Sherman, 50, Decatur Alea was diagnosed with breast cancer last spring, after having missed a couple of the dreaded yearly screenings. She had no family history of breast cancer, led the active life of today’s “supermom,” ate right, and followed the doctor’s orders for health and wellness so she had no cause for worry. While Alea’s cancer was considered noninvasive and she was deemed ‘lucky’ that it was confined to a duct and could be ‘easily’ removed, there were still the questions about what the future might bring, what Alea’s children might face, and how her family would adjust to whatever decision was made. Alea has spent the summer recovering from surgery and is still undergoing radiation treatments. She has kept her graceful composure, her sense of humor through all of it and has managed to still be there for her family, her friends, her co-workers and her students; comforting and reassuring them through every step of her journey. Her latest e-mail stated, “While my journey has had its share of challenges, I realize how “easy” I have had it. I am reminded every day when I go to treatment and wait with other cancer patients. I know this experience has also given me more patience, understanding and clarity than I could have ever imagined. It’s already afforded me some wonderful opportunities to encourage others.” www.star-telegram.com Tonya G. Mayes, 52, Fort Worth Nominated by: Arlene Scott, 55, and their RSBC Sunday school class Tonya promised God, that when he healed her, she would in turn dedicate her life to helping others and doing his will. She goes over and beyond. She is a Christian, a friend, a counselor, a listener, an encourager, and much, much more. She freely shares her story, the ups and downs. She is dedicated to her family, friends and co workers. She is a hard worker, and a major supporter of breast-cancer awareness. She leads a team every year for the walk, she emphasizes the importance of mammograms, and all good health precautions. She is an avid youth leader, and Sunday school teacher at church, and is dedicated to helping the senior church members any way she can. Marian L. Hargis, 63, Forest Hill Nominated by: Her husband, Willie R. Hargis, 68, Forest Hill During the latter part of 2009, my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. We had a family meeting to discuss the diagnosis and suggested treatment with our three boys. This was not an easy task, but this was when I first saw my wife handle the meeting in such a manner that the boys were assured she would be all right. We decided to have the surgery immediately after Christmas. The surgery went well and we celebrated the new year in the hospital. My wife always had a beautiful head of hair. However, when she began the chemotherapy she began to lose her hair. She decided to have her hair cut and went to her beautician and was informed that all her hair had to be cut off. She admitted to me that when she left the beautician she pulled over and cried. I kept the appearance situation light, however. On one occasion, she was talking with another lady about the hair lost and I interjected my “two cents” into their conversation. I told them that I did not know why they were feeling badly about their hair loss, because (being bald), no one felt sorry for me when I lost my hair. I believe they appreciated the light moment under serious circumstances. The thing I love the most about my wife is that I never saw her feeling sorry for herself or acting in a way that would bring pity to her from others. She just recently had her yearly check-up and she is cancer-free and continues to be an example for others. Judge Sherry Hill, 65, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her husband, Dr. Lee S. Anderson, 64, Fort Worth We had only been married for two years when we received the diagnosis of breast cancer Stage IV in October 2011. We had shared a whirlwind romance of four years prior to that with trips, friends, and new adventures. Being a physician myself, I was terrified for her. I went with her to her appointments and she always made everyone else comfortable! She made new friends at chemotherapy and radiation, which lasted nine months. After her hair, lashes and brows fell out, she made the best of it with wigs so no one actually could tell how truly different in appearance she was. Our greatest moment, however, was after two months of the six months of chemo, we walked the Komen race at Ridgmar mall. It was a cloudy, humid day. After 1⁄2 mile of the 3-mile walk, she said her wig was too hot to wear! I jokingly said, “Well, just take it off” and she did! Off we went, talking and enjoying the walk and her with her totally bald head! The bystanders cheered and it was just a joyful, Dolores A. Bland, 73, Boyd Nominated by: Her husband, Donald liberating day! She has been an inspiration to others and comfort to many during this very Bland, 78, Boyd Dolores is a mother of three, a grand- long ordeal. mother of six and great grandmother of one, Kay Dahms, 64, Arlington with one on the way. Very well loved by all, Nominated by: Joyce Holden, 65, Fort including in-laws, and was like a daughter Worth with my mother and between them kept me Kay Dahms will celebrate her 65th birthpretty well in line. Her battle with cancer day on Oct. 27. Ten years ago started 17 years ago in the breast and in the this October, she was diagfirst four years looked like a win but it came nosed with breast cancer, back in her lungs and liver. These, of course, which spread to her bones. led to more than 10 surgeries, not counting At Kay’s two-year check radiation, and about 15 stays in a hospital, up, her doctor informed her where she is right now. that when he first saw her she had Stage IV This woman who worked hard all her life, cancer and he did not expect her to live over learned to snow ski at 50 and only gave it up six months. The doctor told her a higher after lung surgery took half of one plus the power was taking care of her. Kay told him it outer sack is, without a doubt, a real hero in was the prayers of her family, her church and the eyes of those who know her well. More on SURVIVORS, 4J www.star-telegram.com M Sunday, October 14, 2012 3J 4J Sunday, October 14, 2012 her friends in the small group from her church. After taking chemo, Kay continues to take treatments for cancer every week. They give her medication to keep her from getting sick, which usually makes her sleep the rest of the day and evening. She is also an inspiration to other patients getting treatment. Through all of this, Kay’s faith in God had continued to grow. She is always willing to help anyone who is diagnosed with cancer. If there is a need, Kay is always ready and willing to help, all while she has to walk with a cane or use her motorized scooter. Kay does more for others with her physical limitations than many who enjoy perfect health. Linda Storer, 59, Bedford Nominated by: Debbie Tribble, 59, of North Richland Hills Linda Storer is a wife of over 35 years, the mother of two wonderful adult children, an executive assistant for the Hurst-Euless-Bedford school district, a talented decorator/designer with taste and style, an author who writes with several of her closest friends, and a breast-cancer survivor. She battled through chemotherapy, loss of her hair and eyelashes, and a double mastectomy to emerge as more than a survivor, but a lover of life, grateful to be able to use her experience to counsel other women in HEB ISD. Many women feel less alone because Linda prepares them for what lies ahead, and because she is so lovely, they know that there is beauty on the other side of breast cancer. On one occasion I heard her speaking on the phone to a parent who was complaining that her son’s principal made him remove his “I love boobies” bracelet. According to the mom, he was wearing it because he was concerned about breast cancer, although he was using it to disrupt a junior high class. With quiet dignity Linda told www.star-telegram.com M the parent that she was a cancer survivor herself, and if the young man really cared, he wouldn’t wear an attention-getting accessory, but instead would do chores to raise money to find a cure. Linda exemplifies the words of Mother Teresa, “You can do no great things ... only small things with great love.” Maxine Shipps, 82, Haltom City Nominated by: herself! I was 64 at the time of my mastectomy. I can’t help but name all the women (and a few men) who have gone through breast cancer as heroes. It is a terrifying experience for them and their family and friends. I salute them all and since I am a survivor myself. I wrote a poem you might enjoy. I Am a Survivor I consider myself blessed That I found the lump when I did I found it very early It wasn’t deeply hid I confess it gave me quite a fight But friends and family prayed That God would give me all His strength and take the fear away He will also give you the strength to fight and give you an inner peace If you’ll just go to Him in prayer and all your fears release It pains me that some are not so lucky by not finding it in time So won’t you PLEASE get those mammograms and self exams are fine You can see why I feel so lucky and very truly blessed I still have my life, I only lost a breast Dorothy (Dottie) Wofford Corbin, 75, Stephenville The late Dr. Robert S. Sparkman Nominated by: Dottie’s husband, Bill Corbin, 76, Stephenville Dottie was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 37 years old; and Dr. Robert S. Sparkman, chief of surgery at Baylor, was her doctor. We celebrated our 54th wedding anniversary this year. Dr. Sparkman saved her life. When she was 37 years old, Dottie was diagnosed with breast cancer and surgery was recommended. Dr. Sparkman performed a Halsted radical mastectomy, which is very invasive. Dottie still has Dr. Sparkman’s hand-written note addressed to her and his picture hanging in our bedroom. She says he was the kindest, gentlest and most trusted doctor she has ever known. It could have been a very devastating surgery for Dottie and her family but she didn’t let that happen. As I recall, she was taking business calls the same day or the next day of the surgery and was back in the office that same week. Dottie is my hero because, although she went through a very traumatic experience, she didn’t let it interfere with raising two sons, managing a successful career and marriage, and remaining a very active and positive influence on those around her. She has now had 39 annual breast exams. These are always stressful for her. However, she has remained cancer-free for 39 years. Marilyn St. Clair, 64, Weatherford Nominated by: Dr. Sue Casey, 65, North Richland Hills Marilyn St. Clair, department chair of Business and Computer Information Systems at Weatherford College, was diagnosed with breast cancer in March 2007. Since Marilyn has no family other than 92-year old parents who live in Hurst, the Weatherford College family immediately stepped in to be with Marilyn during what could be a trying time in her life. Marilyn accepted this WC family with a smile on her face, a never-ending positive attitude and a steely determination to keep on with her life during this time. Faculty and staff signed up to be there for surgery, bring food, exercise with her daily, go to appointments, and run errands. In fact, people started exercising with her the first day she was home from the hospital in early June 2007. Marilyn never felt sorry for herself. She attacked this as something to overcome and get behind her as soon as possible. She pressured the doctors to give her approval to go to work and to continue with an acceptable exercise program. When school started in August, Marilyn was there with her jaunty, stylish cap on that “chemo head” and a smile on her face. She made everyone around her proud and happy. Enedina M. (Nina) Sánchez, 67, Grand Prairie Nominated by: Her sister, Silvia M. Briceño, 57, Arlington After having fought a victorious battle against breast cancer with the grace of God and the help of our beloved mother (now deceased) and her husband, Tony, Nina’s cancer has been in remission for 26 years. Even though the chemotherapy treatments made her very ill along with the loss of her beautiful hair, Nina emerged an even more beautiful, stronger, busier and generous role model. She is a very active member of St. Michael’s Catholic Church in Grand Prairie. Nina is grandmother to nine children. Five of those grandchildren are special needs boys. Nina makes herself available to be there for her four children but especially for the mothers (her two daughters) of these boys. Her calendar, which hangs on her kitchen wall, is available for noting the dates when she will be needed to watch one or two or all five of the boys. To my knowledge, she has never said no to any request. She does it without complaint and watches the boys with so much love. Her grandsons know, in spite of their mental challenges, that they are loved very much. Since two of her children live out of town, she frequently travels to be with them in times of illness and celebrations. In addition, Nina’s home is open to all her brothers and sisters and their families whenever they are in town. She is a fantastic hostess and a much sought-after cook. Alice Bennett, 56, Arlington Nominated by: Her daughter, Angela Bennett Redman, 28, Arlington My mom Alice is a breastcancer hero, though perhaps an unconventional one. She is my hero because she battled through her diagnosis, treatment, surgeries and recovery quietly and with such grace and patience that it was barely a blip on my radar as I completed my senior year of high school and began college. Rather than miss out on my senior year, Mom put on a brave face and attended a Top 40 banquet, band banquet, baccalaureate, graduation, then TCU orientation … the list goes on. While I was aware of her battle and concerned about the future, I now see that my mother gave me an incredible gift — she did not allow breast cancer to overshadow one of the most exciting times of my life. Looking back, I realize how much pain she was in, how frustrated she was, how many major decisions she was making, and how worried she must have been, but Mom kept all of these things to herself and continued to smile, encouraging my sister and me to live in the moment. Mom has now been cancer-free for over 10 years, and writing this for her is a small way to thank her for being my hero. age 30 and while she was pregnant, she fought for her life and her daughter’s life. She was determined to fight breast cancer with a baby on the way. Despite enduring surgeries and chemotherapy while pregnant, she gave birth to my beautiful, healthy granddaughter, Serenity Milagros Shelbon, last year. She has embraced motherhood, fought the cancer and is now cancerfree. She has inspired me and her family and friends to get educated about this disease and to do something about it. She’s not only a mother now, but she’s also a breastcancer awareness advocate and gives hope and encouragement to other women. Through her organization, Team Roxy, she helps other women battling breast cancer by making survivor baskets for them, comforting them and letting them know that they are not alone. Roxanne shows everyone that there is life after cancer and doesn’t take it for granted. She has always been the strong one and a leader in our family. Despite the fears she might have had during treatment, she kept her faith and fought hard. Thanks to her great doctors at the Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders, Roxanne became educated on breast cancer and pregnancy and now serves as a support woman for other women battling cancer while pregnant. Roxanne’s story of hope is published in the Chicken Soup for the Soul: Hope and Healing for Your Breast Cancer Journey book. To learn more about her story, visit www.team-roxy.com. Charlotte Minor Walton, 57, Cresson Nominated by: Her sisterin-law, Debby Walton Qualls, 61, Littleton, Colo. Charlotte has spent her life helping others as a nurse and is currently a nursing supervisor at Texas Health Harris Methodist Fort Worth where she has spent the last 25 years. In March 1998, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Even though she had a partial mastectomy, chemotherapy and radiation, she continued to work helping patients at Harris. Charlotte encouraged other family members to begin medical careers. While she was still in treatment and undergoing therapy, she attended her stepson’s white coat ceremony when he was admitted to UT Houston Medical School. She encouraged her niece to become a registered nurse and was able to attend her graduation from nursing school. In November 2011, she found the disease had returned. This time, as metastatic breast cancer in her lungs, bone and lymphatic system. She continues to work helping others and remains on a second round of therapy and treatment. Many people might let all of this affect their spirit, but not Charlotte. She continues to fight this disease with true courage and a positive attitude. Cyndi Sekerke, 55, Mansfield Nominated by: Her husband, Wayne Sekerke, 56, Mansfield My wife was a child cancer survivor (Hodgkin’s) while in high school. The treatment back in the ’70s was radiation. During that time, the amount of radiation was not documented like it is today. When her breast cancer was diagnosed in 2007, the only option was surgery and chemotherapy. After her initial surgery, she had to undergo yet another surgery, a lymph node dissection. We felt God was leading us to another surgeon to perform this. That’s where we met Dr. Sam Buchanan. After our initial visit, we were sure he was the surgeon we wanted. This is Roxanne Martinez, 32, how God works: Soon after Fort Worth we met Dr. Buchanan, I was Nominated by: Her moth- attending my regular Moner, Patricia Martinez, 50, day night Bible Study FelFort Worth lowship (BSF) class in Fort Diagnosed with breast Worth with 700 men. Who cancer in October 2010, at do I run into for the very first time, but Dr. Buchanan? I could not wait to get home and tell Cyndi, who was overjoyed. Cyndi is the most dedicated teacher I know. She made sure to schedule her surgery during a break at the college she teaches at (Northwood University) and the BSF children’s class she also teaches in Mansfield. Additionally, she was one of the dedicated moms at the Texas Girls’ Choir helping out in the kitchen. Cyndi made sure to schedule her chemotherapy on Fridays so she could recover during the weekend and try to gain her strength early in the week. Also, as a result of the Hodgkin’s, Cyndi had to undergo open heart surgery to replace a valve and a bypass in May of this year. One of Cyndi’s many gifts is to reach out by sending a personal card to friends or family who need some encouraging or comforting words. Elizabeth Edmonson, 45, Azle Nominated by: Yvonne Rose, 73, Weatherford Diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 38, Elizabeth had surgery, chemo, radiation and reconstruction with courage and dignity. She has gone on to run in the Komen Race for the Cure each year. She is also a spokesperson for ladies groups on the disease as she shares her experiences and provides comfort to many women. Elizabeth is now a professional singer, a minister’s wife and a student in counseling at Texas Wesleyan University, with a 4.0 grade point average. Patricia Earley, 58, Arlington Nominated by: Her husband, John Earley, 58, Arlington Tricia finished her last radiation treatment last month, which ended our eightmonth journey through breast-cancer treatment. Thousands of women go through breastcancer treatment every year. The whole time, she always thought of others before she thought of herself, especially me. From the time she first suspected to when she knew for sure, she did not tell me or anyone else. My mom became gravely ill and died on Dec. 1. When she told me, on Dec. 8, she insisted on not telling anyone, even our daughter until after the holidays so as not to ruin the special days. She sailed through the chemo, through the surgery and through the radiation, never really feeling bad or not being able to do the things she normally does. Even the doctors were amazed at her fortitude. As I think about how she handled herself from the time she felt the lump until we walked out the door from the last radiation treatment, I am in awe. Sheri Sterling, 44, Mansfield Nominated by: Her sister, Kristi Canon, 35, Grand Prairie In June, Sheri was diagnosed with breast cancer and had a mastectomy. Sheri was also diagnosed with paraneoplastic syndrome, a rare disorder that is triggered by an abnormal immune system response to a cancerous tumor. The cancer-fighting antibodies were mistakenly attacking normal cells in the nervous system, thus causing the significant decline in her motor skills. By August, tests showed the cancer was gone and her antibody level had returned to normal, but still. her motor skills were deteriorated. Sheri is confined to a wheelchair and can only stand or walk with significant assistance. When she speaks, we can only understand some of her words and she often has to repeat her words several times for anyone to understand. She is unable to write or use her hands. Sheri is working hard to restore some sort of normalcy to her life and currently goes to three hours of physical, occupational and speech therapy three times a week. www.star-telegram.com With God’s grace and love, Sheri’s determination, and the love and support of family and friends, we feel certain that Sheri will someday be able to return to family responsibilities in the home which she so dearly loves and is looking forward to doing again. Dr. Christine Banner, 51, Fort Worth Nominated by: Barbara Schoen Johnson, 66, Southlake In July 2001, just as the love of her life, Steve Banner, was moving to Fort Worth to be close to her, Christi, a child psychologist, was diagnosed with breast cancer. She was 40. She underwent chemo and surgery but continued to work. Once while discussing a child we were both treating, I remember thinking, “When will your eyelashes grow back?” But she wore her superb wig and treated her patients faithfully. One day she told me that she and Steve had discussed marriage, but that she did not want to be married until she had hair again. On April 12, 2003, the day she calls the “happiest day of my life,” Christi married Steve and became Dr. Banner. She remains devoted to our child and adolescent patients and their families. When a co-worker, patient or family member, friend, or acquaintance is diagnosed with cancer, she is right there to encourage and lend her wisdom to their journey. Lewis Paulk Jr., 49, Fort Worth M surgeries: once in 1994, when there was not much awareness of cancer as today, and again in 2007. In 1994 you could see the fear in her eyes; she had surgery and did well. She had lots of family support, one would never hear her complain or dwell on anything. I would say she is a trooper, but more beautiful, elegant and graceful. In 2007, cancer was back in her other breast. Her first doctor had done a lot of unnecessary cutting on her, and it took 13 years for me to find this out. She had surgery and again it was successful and a much better job. I have had problems this year with my breast. My mom and I both go for mammograms now. I need not complain, because my hero never did. I know she has stayed calm and strong through the grace of God. Glenda Kay Easter, 65, Crowley Lisa Kay Prescher, 43, Burleson Nominated by: Her sister, Linda Ray Freeman, 65, Crowley My twin sister is my hero — Glenda Kay Easter, who had breast cancer in 1982, and again in 1987. Linda Freeman, Lisa She had chemo Prescher and Glenda and radiation. I Easter was told I was a walking time bomb waiting to explode. In 1988, I did have breast cancer and within six months I had it on the other side. I also went through chemo. In 2007 we heard the dreaded news that my niece, Glenda’s daughter, Lisa Prescher, had breast cancer, she was devastated. Lisa decided, having a daughter herself, that she wanted to know if she was a carrier of the disease. She was tested for the BRCA gene and found out that she was a carrier and opted to have both breasts removed and a hysterectomy because, with the BRCA gene, you have a greater risk to get ovarian cancer. Then, her mother, my twin sister, decided to be tested for the BRCA gene and she, too, was a carrier. My sister decided to have a hysterectomy, and she told me that I should. After the surgery I thought everything was fine, but a week later I received a call from my doctor that I had cancer in my left fallopian tube. The doctor said that I should send my sister roses because if I had waited, within six months, I would have been dead. That is why my sister is my hero, as well as Lisa, too, because if she had not been tested for the BRCA gene, we would not have known that we are carriers and needed to have the hysterectomy. Nominated by: His mother, Patty Paulk, 68, Fort Worth No parent can describe the shock of learning that their son has “breast cancer” because this disease is often considered a woman’s illness. However, our shock transitioned to inner-strength because of our son’s attitude. He is our hero because he faced overwhelming news by unyielding faith, encouraging others, and continuing a positive outlook on life. He feared that after surgery some cancerous cells might remain. However, his courage to defeat cancer overrode his fears. Although weary, his faith remained. He often reminded us: “Cancer cannot take my soul or faith.” Cancer weakened his body but strengthened his spirit. The strength he possesses uplifted all his family. He reminded us that love conquers all, including cancer. His strong faith and continuous support for others increased his positive outlook on life. He taught all who knew him that life is about others, not material possessions or career. Even in “remission,” he reaches out to others who fight cancers, seek cures or battle Karen Osborne, 49, Westlake life-altering experiences. Nominated by: Her sister-in-law, Anne Osborne Gifford, 63, Colleyville Shirley Coxsey, 73, Watauga More than 25 years have passed since Nominated by: Her daughter, Lori Barringmedical student John Osborne woke up from ton, 50, Paradise I was with my mom through both of her a brain surgery and proposed to Karen Lynn. She turned to me and said, “Do you think it is love or the drugs?” For the next 12 years they privately carried the gnawing fear that John’s tumor would recur. Then it happened. However, this time it wasn’t John. Instead, it was Karen who faced surgery — for breast cancer. For the entire year of 2002, Karen endured chemotherapy, a double mastectomy, more chemotherapy, radiation and additional surgeries. Nine years later as survivors, Karen and John celebrated their miracle stories with their church. Unfortunately, Karen received the news that her cancer had returned and metastasized. If that wasn’t enough, her sister, Kathy, was diagnosed with breast cancer. Not wanting to frighten her sister with her own potentially dismal outcome, Karen set her own grief aside to remain courageously strong and upbeat as she cared for Kathy during her surgeries. Later, as Karen’s cancer progressed and Kathy recovered, she broke the news of her own diagnosis. What makes her my “hero”? It is her sacrificial love and strength despite adversity. I also love her sense of humor. She once told me, “Think about it. If I don’t live very long, I won’t have to deal with my children’s obnoxious teen years.” Sondra Johnston, 70, Benbrook Sunday, October 14, 2012 5J Denise came close to losing her faith in God, and who could blame her? But again, she worked her way through it and now has a lovely goddaughter to pamper. Denise has a beautiful sustaining spirit, a wonderfully wicked, self-deprecating sense of humor, and a twinkle in her eye. She is a talented interior designer who also creates vignettes in her own back yard. Her sad story might make you cry, but her sweet nature will make you smile, and her sense of humor will probably make you laugh out loud. Lora Crews, 60, Mansfield Nominated by: Her daughter, Rae Lynn Fisher, 41, Arlington I will never forget the sinking feeling in my stomach the day my mother called me to tell me the word we had all feared: malignant. I was at her house. She was at work. I remember being specifically irritated that they called her at work. I planned to go get her, as I did not think she would be able to drive home. Even then, her positive attitude came through. She said, “I can drive myself home. I’m not dying, Rae. I just have breast cancer.” That was 16 years ago, and my mom and her positive attitude are alive and well today. She had recently experienced (recent, as in a week before) a marital separation from her husband of 26 years. I was already out of the house, but she still had my two little brothers, ages 16 and 12 at home. She told me, “Rae. I am not going to die. I am going to live long enough for my kids to graduate from high school.” She never showed to us that she ever had any doubts that she would make it. She met every adversity with a positive attitude and a smile. My mom still greets everyone with a smile. Despite adversity, she keeps her chin up. Sometimes, when I have a little pity party for myself, I think of everything my mother went through — cancer, raising her children on her own, conquering her fears of death — I realize that my problems are not so bad. Nominated by: Ann Freeman, 70, Fort Worth Sondra, who was diagnosed at 66, has endured many trials and she is absolutely an angel, never complaining and always smiling. She had a double mastectomy, and has been receiving treatments since then. If all continues to go well she will be off treatments after next year. Throughout this, even with the loss of her blond hair (which came back in black), she has continued to participate in many activities such as attending her church, playing bridge, volunteering at Harris Southwest at the front desk. Sondra loves seeing her six grandchildren and taking them on fun trips. Many friends helped her through these hard times, but the best friend she had was her husband, Glynne Johnston. Sondra has not missed a race, with her buddies helping Beverly Windsor, 69, Arlington her for the “Race for the Cure.” I must men- Nominated by: Ann Rinella-Kelly, 71, Artion four couples with whom they go to din- lington ner every Friday night and how much they Bev is a 25-year survivor of breast cancer. have done for her. She is amazing! I met her in 1984 when I moved to ArDenise Brookman, late 50s, lington. She Fort Worth was an active Nominated by: Kathy Rice, 61, Fort Worth member of the Denise’s bout with breast cancer was University sandwiched between the devastating losses Catholic Comof both of her children. When she lost munity. On a Thomas in his late teens, we all wondered how she would go on. Go on, she did, but weekly basis she provided goodies for the only to face the breast-cancer diagnosis. UTA students who participated in our proWith the support of family, friends, volun- grams and helped with the youth program. A teers and doctors, she survived with a lovely year later she was diagnosed with breast new breast. A few years later, Denise lost cancer and subsequently had radiation newly-engaged Sarah in a boating accident. treatment. Over the years she has participated in many Komen Races for the Cure. She 6J Sunday, October 14, 2012 unfailing captains a team of 20 family and friends who participate in the local race. She also took part in two Three Day events. While she remained a friend, I only spoke with her a few times a year until I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2003 and called her for support. She went with me to meet with the oncologist, came to my first chemo treatment and some subsequent sessions in the eight months of my treatment. Since 2005 I have been a team member of her Komen team, Grandma’s Blessings. Throughout all the years she has remained a positive, happy, and very giving individual. She is enthusiastic and untiring in support of breast-cancer survivors and is a wonderful example to all of us. Clare Davis, Keller Nominated by: her husband, John Davis My wife, Clare, found a lump in her right breast in January of 2011. She wanted to believe it was a pulled muscle or some other anomaly — she had been working with a personal trainer in preparation for a cruise. Unfortunately, she got the call on Feb. 16, 2011, that it was indeed breast cancer. We sought a second opinion as we prepared for the fight. She also had to cancel her cruise amid all the doubt of surgical options. Clare decided to attack the disease very aggressively, and opted to have a double mastectomy with reconstruction. She underwent four months of chemotherapy to (hopefully) eliminate any cancer cells that might have strayed undetected. The chemo was hell but Clare kept her head held high during the ordeal. She lost all her hair but remained as beautiful as ever. In fact, I believe I saw new beauty — both physical and emotional — in her that I didn’t realize she had. Her final chemo treatment was Aug. 5, 2011. She had her reconstruction surgery on Nov. 11, 2011, and looks as beautiful as ever. I am in awe of her resilience and courage during this journey. Nicole Chase-Morgan, 35, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her mother, Twila Burleson, 57, Fort Worth In September 2010, one month after my daughter’s 33rd birthday, she was diagnosed with Stage III breast cancer. She is also BRCA 2 positive. This was a devastating blow to our family. Here was this young mother of five children (ages 17 to 5), and facing the most challenging battle anyone could imagine. As we rallied prayer warriors nationwide, Nicole entered into 24 weeks of chemotherapy and two months of intense radiation. Through it all, she still worked full time; and her responsibilities of being a wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend. She did not complain and was more concerned about us than herself. After the treatments, she had a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction. In July 2012, at the insistence of her husband, due to pain that she wouldn’t mention to family, an MRI confirmed the source: Stage IV metastasis to the ribs, pelvic bone and lower spine. Further infusion to strengthen bones, radiation and a lifetime of oral chemo was the “cocktail” of choice. She still works full time, maintains her responsibilities as wife, mother, sister, daughter and friend. My daughter is a Mighty Warrior and I salute her. Her steadfast faith in God and her concern for her loved ones keep me smiling and fighting the good fight of faith. Carrie Adams, 46, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her husband, Kent Adams, Fort Worth Carrie was diagnosed with breast cancer April 11, 2011, and her first example of heroism came during the long period of diagnosis, tests, praying, and waiting. Through fortuitous planning, she had a girls’ trip to Carmel, Calif., on the calendar. It was great timing as it allowed her to get her mind off of the diagnosis and relax with friends. During the weekend, she made all of them (plus an occasional stranger) feel a real live breast cancer lump so that they would have firsthand knowledge of what one felt like. Another act of heroism came a couple of weeks prior to her mastectomy. Our good friend, Marcus Cannon, was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma while he was participating in the NFL draft. Carrie’s giving spirit immediately kicked in as she put her situation aside and organized meals three days a week for Marcus and his very large roommates. Carrie and Marcus underwent chemo during the same time period and I venture to guess that Marcus, as tough as he is, was glad she was there for him. Carrie is still giving. She is a rock of support for old friends, new friends, and friends she has yet to meet that are fighting this dreaded disease. She is a sympathetic ear, a purveyor of “been there” advice and a living testament that you can fight the battle against breast cancer with a positive attitude and courage. Betty White, 57, DeSoto Nominated by: Susan Blair, 62, North Richland Hills As a nurse and teacher, Betty has spent a lifetime giving back through her numerous responsibilities and service. Diagnosed in 2010 she courageously continued working through the grueling treatments. Suddenly this year her beloved husband, the father of their two daughters, passed away. I add this to say that she never missed a lick. She is committed to her fellow workers and students. She is my hero because through all this adversity she comes to work with a wonderful sense of humor, a smile and kind disposition. Betty is an exceptional woman and an inspiration to her fellow professors, students, daughters and church family. Betty has a zest for life. She gives her all to all around her. Her passion is nursing, which M working tirelessly to raise money for the outstanding choral group Schola Cantorum. This as she recently was told by her doctor that one of the tumor has started to grow again. Tammy recently started yet another new chemotherapy treatment. Realizing she will need chemo the rest of her life has never Cheryl Caudill, 40, Weatherford Nominated by: Linda Currier, 65, Fort dimmed my hero’s shining spirit. Worth At the time Cheryl was preparing for a Clarice Clark, 79, Fort Worth shopping trip to France and Italy in May Nominated by: Her grand2007, her doctor found a daughter Tracy McDaniel, lump in her breast. Being a 41, fort Worth self-professed shopaholic, My grandmother, “Big she promised to follow-up Mama,” was diagnosed with after her shopping trip. breast cancer at the age of 77, in the summer Cheryl’s closest cousin, Ja- of 2010. My grandmother immediately tonne Caudill Adcox was already battling the started the process to have the cancer redisease. Now the cousins had even more in moved. In October that year, my grandcommon. They both were fighting breast mother underwent a mastectomy and it was cancer. a success. Two years prior she had also surThey cooked and cared for each other, as vived colon cancer. She stills baby-sits her best they could, until Jatonne passed away great-grand kids, drives around town, does Oct. 9, 2008. That is when Cheryl’s personal yard work, works at the food bank and more. mission began, after recovering from a dou- She has not missed a beat since her mastecble radical mastectomy herself. tomy. As far as her doctor’s report, everyShe thought of creative ways to raise thing is just fine. funds for research and treatment services, Once I found out my grandmother was and she has already raised thousands of dol- diagnosed with breast cancer, I started planlars. And, she is not finished yet. To honor ning to participate in the Susan G. Komen Jatonne’s memory, Cheryl compiled a Race for the Cure. I got together a team 185-page recipe book, 3 Chilies and a Bean. called “Stump the Lump,” which included 47 Hundreds of the books are being sold with all family and friends. My grandmother was not proceeds going to support breast cancer re- just on the team — she also participated in search. Her beauty and inner qualities shine the one-mile run. Her motto is “I can do all through and inspire others, to help them things through Christ, who strengthens me.” fight their own battles, breast cancer included. But Cheryl designs and markets beauti- Cheryl Ball ful, unique aprons. She personally has raised Nominated by: Her mother, Carole Murray, thousands of dollars in door prizes for a ben- Fort Worth I’d like to tell you about Cheryl Ball. efit golf tournament this month. Cheryl’s fundraising goes to the Careity Foundation, When she got diagnosed with breast cancer, guess what she did? She planned a wig party! for breast-cancer research and treatment. She invited friends to come to the cancer center and help her pick out a wig. There was Bonnie Renegar, 68 Nominated by: Debbie Sheffield, North much laughing and joking during that, then we all went for lunch. What an upbeat perRichland Hills Bonnie Renegar epitomizes the word son Cheryl is and never wavering in her faith. She’s such a joy to all, and I should know “survivor” to me. Bonnie has survived both because I’m her mother. the dreaded disease breast she knew she would be in sixth grade. I think this alone tells you the character of this woman She is very excited to spend her birthday in September as a two-year survivor of breast cancer and our hero. cancer and also the devastation it has brought into her world by taking both family and friends from her. It’s bad enough to have to go through the diagnosis, treatment and all the uncertainty this brings to you and your family ... then to lose so many that are near and dear to you just doesn’t seem fair, does it? Yet no one ever said that this life would be fair. Bonnie is also a teacher. She also embodies this role like she does everything, wholeheartedly. She is retired, but remains in her chosen role as a teacher in her church’s Sunday school department. Her “girls” (ladies of varying ages from early 30s to 86) are her dear friends and she is their confidante and mentor. She is truly an inspiration to all who know her. She is one of the greatest advocates that breast-cancer research could ever have, doing the walks both here and out-of-state, even when her feet become blistered terribly with the effort. Her fundraising and spirit know no bounds. Joyce Nell Mitchell, 67, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her sister, Rebecca Dawn Trammell, 70, Granbury My baby sister was diagnosed in spring 1994 at the young age of 38 after finding a lump under her left armpit. This was the exact location of the cancer that took the life of our mother in 1981 after she suffered for 4 1⁄2 years. You can only imagine the panic that struck our family. My mother had a radical mastectomy with lymph node involvement that metastasized and ultimately spread to her liver. After undergoing a partial mastectomy and beginning radiation, Joyce made the difficult decision to cease further manmade plans and depend on God for her subsequent healing. She and I, along with several Christian friends took our Bibles and marked every Scripture pertaining to physical and spiritual healing that is still a gift from God today for all believers. Joyce had a difficult time finding a physician that would monitor her condition since she had refused further treatment. Today she is cancer-free; an 18-year cancer survivor. She is a healthy woman, mother of two children, grandmother to four, and greatgrandmother of three, with no other diseases. She runs her own accounting firm with more customers than she can process alone. Additionally, she has a ministry among churches and women’s groups as a living testimony to the mighty exhibition of power and healing through the Lord. Tammy Strobel, 49, Keller Nominated by: Jolene Mattison, Fort Worth I have known my friend, Tammy Strobel, for the past 8 years. She is battling Stage IV for the second time but continues to be positive, directing all of her energies toward nurturing the people that surround her. Shortly after I met Tammy, she broke the news that she had been diagnosed with a fierce breast cancer. I’m sure her positive outlook and faith helped her to win that battle for the next five years. She showed her true selfless nature while still battling this first round of cancer. I received news of my own Stage I breast cancer at that time. While fighting for her very life, she proved to be the most loyal of friends, supporting me while I went through surgeries and radiation. Two and a half years ago, Tammy received the news that there were new tumors on her liver. Yet she once again remained fiercely optimistic to beat the odds. It seemed the more cancer there was to fight, the more of a blessing she became to everyone and everything in her path. Tammy is a singer as well, and has been Stacia Imhoff, 52, Arlington Nominated by: her mother, Sharon Clements, Arlington I will never forget the day that she told me, and after, how we both cried. Finally, she said, “We can cry now, mom, but no more.” I promised her that I would follow her request, but when I was alone in the next months, I cried a lot. After the mastectomy, she received news that the cancer had spread to several lymph nodes, so it was time for some decisions. Stacia’s biggest concern was her four children, especially Olivia, who was only 6. She decided to go with the most aggressive treatment the doctors recommended. Of course, Stacia lost her hair soon after she started chemo. She took that in stride, along with everything else that was going on. During all of this, I saw a brave woman who faced every challenge with courage and a smile. One thing that really stands out as an example of her courage concerned one of her children. Her son, Jordan, was a senior at Martin High School and was playing on their varsity baseball team. During the entire season and playoffs, Stacia never missed a game. Sometimes she couldn’t hide how bad she felt, but she was always there, cheering Jordan on. Cheryl Green, 45, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her aunt, Mary Sutter, Mansfield Cheryl was taking a shower when she detected a hard lump about the size of a pistachio in her breast. Her doctor’s appointment confirmed the worst — it was cancer. She quickly accepted the fact that she had cancer and then set out to fix it. She never once thought that she was going to die. The doctors said that she had found it early, which was encouraging. Soon after surgery, she started chemo and radiation. Her supporters started pouring in: one church gave her a hat party and another prayed for her every day for a year. Her supporters were many. When she started losing her hair, she had her whole head shaved. Her 8-year-old son, Travis, did the same. Cheryl says that she met so many wonderful people that gave her hope, faith, courage and love that, when I asked her about her overall experience, she said, “Some people might not understand, but to me, the cancer was a blessing.” Tricia Collum, 68, Arlington Nominated by: Her husband, Robert Wimberly, 75, Arlington At 49 years old, Tricia Collum was driving from her home in Arlington to her job in Dallas at 6 a.m. every morning while holding a barf bag and trying to ignore the pain of the long tube that was connected from her heart area to a medical bag that pumped medication into her bloodstream. When asked why she chose to go to work in this condition rather than stay at home as her boss requested, she simply told everyone that she could feel lousy at home or feel lousy at work, surrounded by all her friends. This was only a part of what made her the special person that she is behind a constant facade of bright smiles and happy faces. This all began in 1994 when I took her to the doctor for a routine breast lump removal. During the process at the hospital, I was thinking about where to take her for lunch when the doctor came in and, with a quiver in his voice, told me that he found that the tumor was cancerous and had spread to her lymph glands. He wanted to remove it now instead of waiting. After months of my nightmares and her bravery, dismissing the whole ordeal as though it were nothing more than the com- www.star-telegram.com mon cold, her happy face and bright smiles were still there, only real. The man upstairs definitely answered all of our prayers. I think he thought her too special and brave for there to be any other outcome. Betty Davis Brown, 68, Justin Nominated by: Her husband, Jack T. Brown, Justin My wife received the breast cancer diagnosis on March 3, 2006 — on her 62nd birthday. Her first concern was for our daughter and for me. She prayed as she made her decisions about doctors, hospitals, treatment centers. She did not want us to hover, nor change our lifestyles any more than necessary. During this whole period of time and even today, she visits others with cancer and heart attack, stroke and accident victims, as well as mourning families. She prays with them, hugs and encourages them; prepares food, drives others to doctors appointments and any other place they may need to go. She finds those who need help, love, encouragement, kind words, hugs, a friend — she is there, day or night. Ginny Lyn Charles, 51, Celina Nominated by: Her mother, Betty J. Miller, Fort Worth She has always been a very health conscious mother, and she never missed her annual screenings. But on one of those trips, she was shocked to find out that cancer treatments were in her future. Rarely in the long ordeal of her treatments did she ever miss a day of work, but there were times when it took a great effort for her to get there. Never did she give in to self-pity or despondency. Later, her sense of humor rang out through a T-shirt she sometimes wore that proclaimed, “Sure, these are fake. My real ones tried to kill me!” She is now past the five-year mark, and we are all celebrating. Zonia Milan, 57, North Richland Hills Nominated by: Her sister, Maria Rougeau, North Richland Hills My story about my sister starts with me finding a lump in my breast about 12 years ago. In the process, she went to get checked and found that she had one as well. Mine turned out to be OK, but hers was malignant. Even though she had to have a mastectomy, she was able to get three chemo treatments while she was forced to raise five grandkids that her oldest daughter dumped at her door. Then, she had to have both hips replaced due to arthritis, and then replaced again. I don’t know how or where she gets her strength to go on. My sister has been through hell and back at 57 years old and she still has the job of raising those kids; the youngest just started second grade, and one is a teen. Rachel Barriga, 50, Burleson Nominated by: Her mother-in-law, Anita Barriga, 72, Mansfield In July of 1988, she married my youngest son Michael, who since childhood was battling cystic fibrosis. At just 30 years old, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. I will never forget seeing Michael in the driveway, leaning against the cab of his truck, crying like a baby. After approaching him and asking what was wrong, he told me about Rachel’s diagnosis and that she would have to undergo a double mastectomy as well as chemotherapy. She exercised such strength and courage during such a difficult time though, that many didn’t even know of her illness. After a successful surgery and rounds of chemo, Rachel went back to work. She continued her chemo by administering her doses to herself by use of a small machine that she hid in her pocket. Rachel was sick from the treatments but she never missed work. She would simply rest her head on the desk until the wave of nausea subsided. She went through so many doctors visits and reconstructive surgeries that I will never understand how such a tiny person could survive it all, but she did. In 1995, Michael and Rachel went through the process of adopting a child. Welcoming a handsome baby boy, Mickey, made their family complete. They were the picture of happiness until Rachel had to demonstrate her strength once more at the passing of her husband Michael, my son, in April 1997, when he finally succumbed to CF. It encourages me to witness her deal with the hardships of life with such grace and positivity. She is a very strong and beautiful, inside and out. Emma Penny Tapp, 73, Azle Nominated by: Her daughter, Tina Nelson, 50, Mechanicsville, Va. My mother is my hero because at age 58, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had a total mastectomy of her right breast, went through five treatments of chemotherapy; lost all of her hair and, very sick, she had a final mastectomy of her left breast. At age 71, cancer spread to all of her bones. She had 13 radiation treatments to her lower back and hips and 10 treatments to her right shoulder. At 72, the cancer spread to her liver. She now takes oral chemotherapy medicine. She has a portable catheter in her chest and receives monthly treatments to help keep her bones strong. My mother is my hero. She never gives up and is always strong and happy. Her motto in life is, “Every day is a blessed day.” Cynthia Ann Teezar, 69, Arlington Nominated by: Brenda Hall, Arlington Cynthia is recovering breast cancer hero while at the same time struggling www.star-telegram.com with multiple sclerosis. I have never heard her complain about how she feels, or see her miss work. She is more concerned about others and giving of herself. Cindy has taught me to see the glass half full instead of half empty, as I am prone to doing. Cindy went through chemo and lost her hair, even while hurting from MS — in her hands especially. To relieve the numbness of her hands, she would put them in hot water, all the while smiling and getting back to work. After about five years in remission, her husband of 43 years was diagnosed with stomach cancer. She worked two, sometimes three, jobs and was a caregiver to her husband. Never once did I hear complaints about her feeling sorry for herself. She lost him within a year of his battle with cancer. It has been a year that Cindy has been widowed, and she still works and lives an active life of concerts, theater, trips and cruises. Sue Hightower 69, Bedford Nominated by: Her mother, Margie Wooley, 90, Fort Worth Sue, my only child, always came to me every Sunday. One Sunday, she was sitting on the sofa beside me and she said, “Mother, I have some bad news. I have cancer.” I thought my world had ended. She had to have her left breast removed. Everything is going OK so far. Laurie Jones, 48, Keller Nominated by: Her sister, Amy Avery; and her nieces, Maggie Avery, 12; and Jordan Avery, 10; all of Tyler Laurie’s battle with cancer began nine years ago at the age of 39 when she detected a lump in her breast during her self-examination. She underwent a lumpectomy and so started her long bout of chemo treatment after chemo treatment and multiple radiation treatments. The cancer eventually spread to her liver, vertebrae, pelvis and then to her brain. During all of this, she continues to remain optimistic with an unwavering faith in God and her doctors. Her life these past years has definitely been a roller coaster ride of highs and lows. Through it all, we have never seen her cry or become emotional. She worries more about her family and how they will handle the bad news versus how she will handle it. Though all of this, she continues her passion of caring for abused, abandoned and neglected dogs. She has fostered many fortunate, loveable dogs and worked to find them wonderful homes. During her own battle, she assisted our mother in her cancer treatments and in our mother’s care as her battle ended. She continues to fight this long, hard fight with the strength and courage of a warrior. Robyn Zumar, 48, Weatherford Nominated by: Her mother, Emory Farrell, 69, Aledo Robyn Zumar, 48, of Weatherford was diagnosed with breast cancer in fall 2011. She underwent two major surgeries for breast cancer. It was going to be a hard struggle.She set herself a goal. After her second chemo treatment, she said she was going to fight harder because she needed to stay on top. Her goal was to make the World Palomino Horse Show in July 2012 in Tulsa. She has an outstanding horse/companion and she wanted him to compete for his last year as a junior horse. She struggled with harsh chemotherapy and radiation treatments over 10 months. She managed to keep Indy ridden and fit in order to fulfill the biggest dream in her life; to win a world champion title only nine days after completing radiation treatment. At this time, Robyn should be cancerfree. Beverly Van Scotter, 61, Arlington Nominated by: Her husband, Al Van Scotter, 68 The real hero is my wife, Beverly Van Scotter. If I recall, it was a bright and sunny day in early March of 2007 when Beverly got word from her OB-GYN that a very tiny lump showed up on her mammogram and it should probably be checked out soon. We held hands in Dr. Mary Brian’s office as she told Beverly that indeed the node in her left breast was cancerous (Stage II). From that moment on, I swear it was Beverly’s will to survive along with her strong belief in God that got her through to this point; to survive the seven chemo sessions (and the second day thereafter of being sick and often being bed-ridden), the 32 radiation treatments that burned and blistered her skin so bad that she couldn’t sleep many nights along with the constant fear that the big “C” might one day return. Unfortunately, the medicine that she had to take for five years to keep the cancer at bay has severely aggravated her arthritis to the point that her hands are so gnarled that she can no longer even take injections to relieve the pain. Yet, every day, she goes to work and thanks God for being alive. Shelley Peiffer, 59, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her sister, Marianne Hess, Fort Worth She doesn’t know she is my – our family’s – hero, because we haven’t said it enough. Shelley’s “health journey” began at age 35 when she had to undergo a hysterectomy after never bearing children. Then, at age 42, she suffered her first heart attack. She was not overweight, had never smoked nor drank, and her symptoms were at first ignored before she underwent open-heart bypass surgery. Two years later, after another heart attack, she underwent her second. Several years later, after retiring in Colorado, her husband of just five years died suddenly of cardiac arrest. Over the next six years, Shelley would move from Colorado to Ten- M nessee to Fort Worth to care for our aging parent. After our mother’s death, Shelley was diagnosed with an advanced form of breast cancer. What followed was a yearlong journey of the usual breast surgery, chemotherapy, radiation and countless doctor visits and hospitalizations. In addition, she lives alone and had to face many days of weakness, pain and nausea on her own. It has only been a year since Shelley completed her treatments and she remains cancer-free today. Karen McBroom, 62, Mineral Wells treatment. I am now cancer-free, and my hero was my support system. Recently, after two years of ongoing breast reconstruction, Carey was told that her reconstruction would need to be redone. She was also diagnosed with lymphedema, and incurable swelling in the arm due to removal of the lymph nodes, requiring her to wear a pressure sleeve and glove to control the swelling. This month, she will have a complete reconstruction of both breasts. The best victory for this hero is that she is still cancer-free. My friend, Susan, better known as SuSu by her grandchildren, was diagnosed with breast cancer in February of 2011. SuSu has undergone multiple surgeries, chemotherapy and radiation treatments over the past year. During this ordeal, she has remained positive and encouraging to women who have been diagnosed with breast cancer, putting their needs before her own. Easter of 2011, I had finished cooking dinner and wanted to take her dessert, just to let her know that I was thinking of her. I had Mary Jo McCoy, 70, Arlington just showered, dried my hair and ran over to Nominated by: Herself her place, fuzzy hair and all. Here she was, I am a 32-year breast can- sick, and looking better than me on my best cer survivor. day. I told her that she always looks great, I had two biopsies in my even on her worst day. left breast and had several small cystic lumps in my Karen Cichocki, 50, Aledo right breast. Dr. Jerry Bane, a Nominated by: Her mother, Rosemary general surgeon in Arlington, recommended Holliday, 72, Fort Worth bilateral mastectomies to reduce the risk of Karen was diagnosed breast cancer, but first he wanted me to have with Stage III breast cancer a mammogram. The mammogram indicated in October of 2009. Her three areas in my right breast that were mamastectomy was performed lignant. I had a right radical mastectomy folthe following November. lowed by simple left mastectomy five weeks One week after this surgery, she returned to later. The reason for radical surgery and bi- work in her husband’s ophthalmology office. lateral mastectomies was that I was premeHer surgery was followed by 16 chemonopausal. I did not have lymph node in- therapy treatments. Several once-a-week volvement and did not require chemothera- radiation treatments followed the chemo. py or radiation. It has been 32 years, and Karen also had a hysterectomy due to her there is life after breast cancer. My husband cancer being hormonal, and another surgery and I have been married 53 years and have for breast reconstruction. seven grandchildren and 2 great-grandchilOne of the most traumatic things was dren. losing her beautiful red hair. She takes time Nominated by: Debbie McDougall, 53, Mineral Wells One definition of a hero is a person distinguished by exceptional courage and strength. I would like to nominate my neighbor, Karen McBroom of Mineral Wells. She discovered that she had breast cancer at age 58. She had surgery and still takes her chemotherapy meds daily. She is now 62 years old. Karen is a special needs teacher for 3- and 4-year-olds at Lamar Elementary in Mineral Wells. She had several careers in her life, but decided to teach and returned to college to pursue a degree in special education. Not only did she continue to teach after the discovery and treatment of cancer, but she still teaches today. Karen loves and nurtures her children and grandchildren, including providing college tuition for them. She cares for her elderly mother and father-in-law. Cancer didn’t beat her; it made her stronger. When I think of a person with courage and Linda Ellis Parris, 62, North strength, it would be my hero, Karen. Richland Hills Peg Dansereau, 68, Bedford Nominated by: Her husband, Dan Dansereau, 69, Bedford My wife, Peg, doesn’t often wear a cape or jetpack, but make no mistake, she is a genuine, 68-year-old superhero. She lost her hearing over a 15-year period and since 2004 has been “virtually deaf” without hearing aids. Even with them she often struggles with communication. Of course Super Peg has refused to be deterred. She continued to provide academic counseling to medical students and loving care to our three grandkids. In 1974, nine years after our marriage, my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. She died in 1976. Fortunately, by the time Peg was diagnosed, heroic researchers and practitioners had greatly improved breast-cancer treatment outcomes. Peg summoned her superpowers and dealt with the diagnosis, mastectomy, and six months’ recovery with style and grace, even while coping with her hearing impairment and a sometimes panicked husband. When we finally got the “all clear,” Peg did her “happy dance” for the oncologist. I don’t know whose smile was bigger. Rebecca Cyphers, 45, Benbrook Sunday, October 14, 2012 7J Nominated by: Carol Mudry, 54, North Richland Hills In 1999, Linda Parris had to bury her husband because of cancer. Nine years later, my hero had to bury her second husband because of cancer. The following year, my hero’s only child succumbed to cancer. All three times, my hero stayed home from work and became their nursemaid, hoping to lengthen their lives through endless doctor appointments, radiation and chemo treatments, but mostly with her unconditional, unwavering care giving, love and support. In 2011, my hero was diagnosed with breast cancer. Within a short time of the diagnosis, my hero underwent a mastectomy. Two days later, my hero went home from the hospital. Never once did my hero ask for help; she never complained. We have been friends for 36 years. We have been through marriages, births, divorces, deaths and yes, even cancer survival together. Kathy Lynn Henderson, 46, Burleson Nominated by: Her mother, Peggy McElvoy, 80, Mansfield My breast-cancer hero is our daughter, Kathy Lynn Henderson. Kathy was 43 years old when she was diagnosed with cancer. At first, she was misdiagnosed. When it was finally diagnosed a month later, the tumor had grown quite a bit. Kathy is a home health nurse and she continued seeing her patients throughout her treatments. Kathy is a wife to Ron and a mother to Josh, who was 13, and Meghan, who was 11 at the time. She always had the time to attend all of the children’s activities and was able to keep the house running smoothly. She had a double mastectomy in August 2010 and then had to have more chemo as well as radiation, but she was still able to keep up her heavy schedule. Nominated by: Her mother-in-law, Martha Cyphers, 80, Aledo About five years ago, at age 45, Rebecca discovered a lump. To her, it was just a hiccup in the road of life. She investigated all of her options and was determined to go through the treatment once. She had both breasts removed. She never complained about the chemo and radiation treatments, any discomfort, or being sick; not even when she found out that the chemo had not been kind to her female organs. When her hair came out, she got a wig. She went through the reconstruction — the stretching of the skin, the discomfort, more stretching — and finally, the results were in Barbara Brockman Lind, 76, Fort and the tattooing was finished. She’s my he- Worth Nominated by: Her husband, Don Lind, 79, ro — and that was quite a hiccup. Fort Worth In September of 1998, we Alan Johns, 64, Fort Worth planned the trip of a lifetime Nominated by: Jenny Johns, 64, Fort with three other couples — Worth 19 days in Africa on a photo Dr. Alan Johns is a 64-year-old Fort safari. The key to the plan Worth gynecologist. Our daughters, Julie was to time the trip for the Schmidt, Jessica Johns, and I wish to nominate Alan. First, Alan displayed amazing middle of May. The money was paid and we courage and determination were ready to go. However, that January my during his diagnosis and wife, Barbara, was diagnosed with breast treatment. Second, Alan’s cancer. February was surgery with some indiagnosis has had a positive vasion in the lymph glands with chemo in impact on our community the April-May horizon. When Barbara exwith the establishment of plained our plans to her oncologist, he looked at the scheduled chemo and decided the Joan Katz Breast Center. Alan is a 14-year breast cancer survivor. he could make some adjustments that would For a male, a breast cancer diagnosis adds make the trip possible. First was to have her confusion and disbelief to an already con- white cell count the highest when we left to fusing and frightening process. Alan became counter the unknown diseases in Africa and the patient who received the mammogram. an immediate treatment on the arrival home. Alan’s treatment regimen began with a mas- Barbara, chemo-bald, covered her head in a tectomy followed by chemotherapy and con- baseball cap for the entire trip. The trip was cluded with five years of Tamoxifen. wonderful; from the huge elephants in BoThroughout his treatment, Alan continued tswana to the little penguins in the south of to see his patients. Caring for them lifted and South Africa. She has now been cancer-free 14 1⁄2 years. buoyed Alan’s spirits. His patients’ concern for him was very comforting and humbling. The girls and I know Alan as a husband, faCarolyn Atkins, Fort Worth ther, and grandfather. His peers know him as Nominated by: Helga Gerlinger, Fort a dedicated physician. His patients know Worth him as their advocate and friend. Most imI am a 40-plus year friend of Mrs. Caroportantly though, Alan is known as a breastlyn Atkins, who is a 30-plus cancer survivor with a grand vision that year breast-cancer survivor. came true. He is our hero. Mrs. Atkins is a caring woman who doesn’t put her Carey Hensley Peterson, 50, own worries about her breast Saginaw cancer (which reappeared Nominated by: Her mother, Jean Hensley, about five years ago) over those women who 73, Mineral Wells are currently dealing with their breast canI am nominating Carey. cer. Mrs. Atkins has been working as a social Her cancer came as a surworker at Harris Methodist Hospital in Fort prise in 2010 following a long Worth in the past and is currently working delayed mammogram. Only for US Oncology in Fort Worth, where she is three weeks after the masadvising new breast-cancer patients on how tectomy of one breast, she required back best to deal with their cancer nightmares surgery as she was unable to walk due to an daily. It is my feeling that Mrs. Carolyn Atearlier injury. She remained strong and posikins has a soothing effect on those who come tive despite a long and painful recovery from to her with worries, giving them hope beboth surgeries. cause of her own experience. -An unexpected development in this story occurred in 2011, when I was diagnosed with the same kind of breast cancer she had. Susan Buchanan, North Richland Despite her continuing problems, she was Hills there for me — preparing, encouraging, and Nominated by: Sheila Carter, North Richassuring me as I went through surgery and land Hills to send encouraging notes to other women going through this dreaded disease or battling other forms of cancer. Her journey has been difficult, not only for her but her mom. To see your child fighting breast cancer, never complaining and having that “I can do this” attitude has certainly made her my special hero. Karen is now a three-year survivor. Louise Gidden Jones, 87, Fort Worth Nominated by: Her husband, Jack P. Jones My wife was 54 years old and we were preparing for a very special vacation trip. She had a history of benign cysts in her breasts and was going to her physician for a routine check-up before leaving. Dr. Burgess Sealy found a lump and asked her to have a mammogram. Everything was OK, but Dr. Sealy wasn’t satisfied. He said, “Go on your trip, but let’s take another look when you return.” He was right. It was malignant. She had a modified radical mastectomy followed by 37 radiation treatments. The corporation I worked for here was being acquired by another and I was offered the opportunity to become an officer of the acquiring corporation, which would mean a move to their headquarters in Jacksonville, Fla. She was in a delicate period of her recovery, was under excellent care, and I decided to decline the offer. But being the trooper that she is, her response was: “This is a good opportunity, let’s go!” We did. Dr. Sealy recommended a physician there, but she also continued to fly back to Fort Worth regularly for checkups. She knew no one there but soon volunteered for the auxiliary at the large medical center and became president and was eventually appointed to the hospital board. Upon retirement, we moved back to the city. Louise, upon learning of someone’s diagnosis of breast cancer, still continues to offer her message of hope and encouragement. It hasn’t always been easy. About 12 years after her surgery she began to feel numbness in her hand and arm, and, finally the loss of much of the use of them, which was finally diagnosed as radiation plexitus. Charlotte Walker, 81, North Richland Hills Nominated by: Maxine Shipps, 82, Haltom City Charlotte’s cancer was diagnosed when she was in her 50s. She went through chemo at Harris Hospital since there were so few places giving treatments at that time. Never once did I hear her complain nor did I ever see her without a smile on her face, even after having a double mastectomy. She knew God was with her through her pain and fear each step of the way. She has had no reoccurrences since, although approximately 25 years later she noticed a mole on her leg which was unfortunately a sarcoma. She lost the leg up to her hip. She uses a walker now but hasn’t let that hinder her. She is an active member at North Richland Hills Senior Center, playing bridge and learning new tips in sewing and embroidering. She drives herself wherever she needs to go and also is involved in lots of church work at St. Paul’s Presbyterian Church. Tymissha L. Butler-Steptoe Nominated by: Donita Caldwell A breast cancer diagnosis can be many things for a patient. For one of my true besties, as a patient she saw it as another challenge to conquer in life. From the day she was diagnosed almost 14 months ago she has been my inspiration. I have seen her not only continue to be a strong single mother to two adorable angels (Tyler, age 10, and TaNiya, 4) but have seen her tirelessly continue through life while battling a fight for her life. My friend wears several hats: mom, daughter, sister, aunt, best friend, classmate and many more. But to me, she wears the hat of a hero. She has completed a journey of chemotherapy, a mastectomy, loss of hair, doctor visits after doctor visits while maintaining a “normal” life with her kids and a “This is not going to beat me attitude.” She has shown me, not only does breast cancer not discriminate but it can also be beat with a smile on your face. Nancy Wilson-Webb, 80, Fort Worth Nominated by: herself I’ve had cancer since 1994, when I found 8J Sunday, October 14, 2012 M www.star-telegram.com a large tumor in my breast, just 14 months after a mammogram. Scans revealed surgery was necessary, as the cancer had spread to 23 lymph nodes. As a Fort Worth ISD school administrator, I was passionate to get back to my job within 10 days. Then I lost my mother. As my father had Alzheimer’s and I’m an only child, my tasks were many. Three years into cancer therapies, I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease, five macular whole eye surgeries and major neuropathy foot problems. Losing one eye and breast, I continued working for six years longer before retiring with 47 years in education. My parents left a cattle ranch to me. For the last 12 years, I’ve managed and worked my cattle, never having been a rancher. Managing the side effects of illness with work-related activities, as well as re- cer. But progress was made in those 22 years maining on numerous community boards, and there is now gene testing. When this is has kept me active. found, it is recommended that in addition to a mastectomy, a hysterectomy is advised. Leslie has two daughters. The older girl Leslie Steele, 59, Arlington Nominated by: Adell Campbell, 89, Ar- was tested and had a radical mastectomy in 2011. The younger daughter has no sign of lington Leslie was diagnosed with cancer in 1988. the infamous gene. However, Les’ husband She had a radical mastectomy, followed by a had gall bladder surgery in 2012 and Les herfull course of chemo and radiation. Her em- self had gall bladder surgery in 2011. And ployer at that time cut her salary because she now she has an added burden of caring for was not performing well. Les would drive to me. her cancer treatments at lunchtime, eating Marilyn Wallace Bohannan, 68, her sandwich while she drove, but she was Grandview discharged from her job because her emNominated by: Marie Gatlin, 68, and Molly ployer couldn’t depend on what time she Milner, 68, Burleson would return from lunch! Then, 22 years latPolio struck Marilyn at age 2, leaving her er, the cancer was back. I was devastated, as unable to walk without the aid of braces and both my grandmother and mother had cancrutches. By the time she started school in 1950, she had the admiration of everyone in the small community of Grandview. She never complained about her struggles as she kept up with her classsmates, though every task was a major endeavor for her. After teaching school on an Indian reservation in New Mexico, she returned to Grandview, married and taught school until she retired in 2002. She continued to walk with crutches and a brace. And if life were not tough enough, she was diagnosed with breast cancer in October 2008. She never said this wasn’t fair. She pushed onward with chemo and radiation, never giving up. After battling for over a year, losing both breasts and all of her hair, she — with God’s help — triumphed over the dreaded disease. Angels to address their needs — even during her courageous eight-year war with breast cancer. To her students at Keller High School — 28 years’ worth — she was the best teacher most of them ever had. To her church family members Debbie was the smiling face they saw on every BBC mission endeavor — including one at home, where she helped Birdville’s children evolve into vibrant, young Christian women. To her friends she was, simply, the strongest person any of us ever knew. Her aforementioned “war” spanned five battles in all, each more taxing than its predecessor. Never once did we see Debbie let the cancer gain the upper hand. Even when the war was over. brain or liver. Her mind was as sharp at the end as it was when she was young and she never lost her courage or sense of humor. When she would go to the cancer center for a visit, she would carry a change purse with her in her pocket, full of all the change she could get, so she would weigh more when they checked her weight. The cancer did metastasize in her bones the last year before she died, which caused her a lot of pain, but she never complained and would say she was fine even when she wasn’t. She wanted to see her family, and she never showed how bad she felt. The last nine months of her life she lost her appetite, but would eat something for me, because her will to live was so strong. Alden Summers, died November 2011 Nominated by: his partner, Barbara Sims, 80, Arlington Sixteen years ago, my husband died of prostate cancer. I immersed myself in my interior design business and my work as a docent at the Kimbell Art Museum. Five years later, I met a tall, handsome man who also was a widower. I took him to the Kimbell; his in-depth knowledge of the stories behind every painting floored me. From that time on, he would help me give more poignant facts on the tours that I led. That night before he drove me home, he kissed me outside in the moonlight. A short time later, I found out that I had breast cancer. I was in love and now devastated by this news. It was Stage IV cancer with a tumor so big that it had to be shrunk with chemo before the mastectomy. There went my dream of a new love. I didn’t expect him to tolerate a sick, mutilated woman. I told him to go away and find someone else. But he stayed and stayed for years. Two years later, Al started getting backaches. The cancer was diagnosed as multiple myeloma or bone cancer. Now, it was my turn to be his guardian angel. By then, we were so deeply in love, and together, that we put ourselves in God’s lap. Alden died last November. Michelle Anne Hammell, died April 1997 Nominated by: her mother, Judy Steffans, 72, Arlington Michelle was only 29 when diagnosed with Inflammatory Breast Cancer. After the shock of the news and after being told all of the treatments that she would be undergoing, she said, “Let’s go get our pictures taken before I lose my hair.” She persevered for four years. Several courses of chemotherapy, radiation, multiple transfusions, radium implants threaded across her chest and every other treatment that her doctor could find for her took place. She never once said, “Why me?” When she would be waiting to see the doctor, she would go around the room and speak to other patients, trying to give them hope and encouragement. One day she said to me, “When I recover from this disease I would like to go back to school and get a degree in counseling so that I can help others who find themselves in the position.” Sad to say, that was not meant to be. She did, however, continue to fight until the end. Debbie Gutierrez, died July 16, 2012 Nominated by: Peggy Rogers, 55, Haltom City There were all manner of moving words spoken at the funeral of Debbie Gutierrez. None presented as eloquent a eulogy as the throng that attended the service. Roughly 1,000 pink-clad friends and family members scooched into pews. Those who didn’t arrive early enough to scooch stood in the back. And they all — the scoochers and the standers — spent more than an hour paying tribute to a saint. That’s what you call someone whose life helps others see God more clearly. Debbie did that — practically every day of her 50 years on this planet. To the members of her family Debbie was a rock who never ceased Paulette Ruffin Agnew, died in 1993 Nominated by: Cindy Wilson-Arrick, 63, Fort Worth Paulette was such a beautiful person both inside and out, with such a magnetic personality that people were naturally drawn to her. She was so talented in so many ways, one being her amazing voice. Many may remember her from the Johnnie High Country Music Revue. At the age of 36, she received the devastating news she had breast cancer. She took on a CAN DO attitude with such strength, courage and grace. From radiation to chemo to the latest techniques, ending with a stem cell transplant. Early on, she decided she would look good and have a positive attitude. She didn’t lose her sense of humor, either. She embraced her baldness, making a game of it so it wouldn’t scare her young son. He thought his mother was the coolest space alien ever. Before going to the hospital for a stem cell transplant, she went back to see her Johnnie High family and friends. Though weak as a kitten and at great risk, she went onstage and performed magnificently. Paulette also finished her gospel tape late one Sunday evening before entering the hospital Monday. She wanted to impart her undying faith, spreading her ministry. The day she died, she left so many of us without extra special light in our lives. Cheryl Mershon, Mansfield, died Nov. 28, 2008 Nominated by: Judy Thompson, Burleson This is the story of my best friend and hero to me, Cheryl Mershon. We met in 1976 when we became neighbors. We bonded well, as did our children and husbands. We vacationed together, partied together, went on our girl trips, tried our yearly diets when it came to swimsuit season and became one big family. In early 2001, Cheryl found “the lump” and thus began her journey through the world of surgeries, chemo, hair loss and everything the medical field could come up with. When she had a really bad day or maybe she was just afraid, that was OK. I couldn’t do this for her but I could and would do it with her. I saw a resolve and strength I never knew she had — ever the lady, always of deep faith while we traveled together through all of the phases of this terrible disease. On Nov. 3, 2008, she came over to help me unpack, as we had just moved into a new home. Instead we sat all day just talking, laughing and enjoying the day. Cheryl passed on Nov. 28, 2008. I now know she was giving me that one last day with just the two of us. We were more than friends; we were “sisters.” Leah discovered a lump in her breast at Christmas 1994. She did not tell anyone except her husband, Gary, until after the Christmas festivities. In January, she had a biopsy that revealed cancer. Leah called Dr. Marilyn Leitch, oncology surgeon at UT Southwestern Medical Center and got almost an immediate appointment. This was part of God’s protection as Dr. Leitch had been in the same youth group with Leah at Travis Avenue Baptist Church in Fort Worth. Tests showed that 16 of the 26 lymph nodes tested after a mastectomy were malignant. Her cancer journey over seven years included mastectomies, reconstruction, radiation, chemo, stem cell transplant and many hospital stays. Here’s why Leah was my hero: She was strong-willed and a beautiful baby. When the nurses brought her in the first time, they had curled her hair on top. She always had a drive for success, survival and achievement. This was valuable to her when she was diagnosed with cancer. As her mother, I saw how brave, optimistic and hopeful she always was. I helped with her care through 12 days of hospice at her home. I was amazed at her strength and unwavering faith! Bob D. Garrison, Arlington, died in 2006 Nominated by: His wife, Myrna Garrison, 82, Arlington In 1994, long before we began hearing about male breast cancer, it hit Bob, then 67, big time. Thirteen years before, Bob had a severe heart attack necessitating open-heart surgery. During a heart checkup, the doctor discovered a lump. Of course, Bob was sent immediately to a surgeon. The surgeon was 99.9 percent sure the tumor was malignant and asked permission to do a mastectomy while Bob was on the operating table if the biopsy test showed positive. Of course, Bob’s reply was yes. Fifteen lymph nodes were involved, and the report returned Stage IV. A second oncologist thought that with more aggressive treatment the survival chances could be 70 percent for five years. Without hesitation, Bob said he was going to fight. Chemo was started at 7:30 p.m. that same day. Bob had 18 months of aggressive treatment. This wonderful man kept a smile on his face, never complained and never gave up. We continued our passion of collecting, researching and writing books about Imperial glass. Ten years of breast cancer treatment followed. Most unfortunately, a different cancer spread to his bones. He smiled for two more years before losing his fight. He never complained. Imogene Henderson, Arlington, died in 1984 Nominated by: Her daughter, Mary Roberts, 77, Arlington My mother, Imogene “Henny” Henderson, and I were really close. At 62, she discovered she had a knot in her left breast, and immediately had a mammogram. Dr. Dale Rank treated her, and she had a radical mastectomy to remove her breast and lymph nodes. Then she had radiation for six months and chemo started right after that. Dr. Rank called her his “miracle” because Leah Suzann Johnson Garmon, died she lived 10 years and went through so much. Aug. 26, 2002 She had a really strong will to live and was Nominated by: Her mother, Bettie John- fortunate that the cancer never went to her son, 80, Fort Worth Berthamae Dollar, Fort Worth, died in 1979 Nominated by: Her daughter, Donna Dollar Edwards, Colleyville Eighteen months after my father died from stomach cancer, my mother and I were just beginning to adjust to the loss. It was the spring of my senior year in high school. Mom and I were finding some relief from our grief in the excitement of planning for my freshman year in college at Texas Tech University. Then my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and had a radical mastectomy. As the surgeon explained the advanced nature of her cancer, fear gripped me to the very core. How could I move to Lubbock and leave her now? During one of our daily trips to the Moncrief Radiation Center, I told Mom of my decision to stay home during the coming year. My mother wouldn’t hear of it! She insisted that I go on to Tech, even though she would be all alone. Mom battled cancer successfully until two months before my college graduation. Following her second radical mastectomy, Mom’s surgeon said that this cancer was much worse. Although weakened from chemotherapy and with a bad case of shingles, Mom made it through my wedding four months after her surgery. She refused to give in to fear throughout the amazing seven years that she battled cancer. She never complained, even during the last seven months of her life. She was incredibly brave to the very end. When I was diagnosed with breast cancer eight years ago, the memory of my mother’s bravery and unselfishness inspired me to encourage our children to continue with their plans in the same way. Sharon Kay Hoffman, DeSoto, died in January 2012 Nominated by: Her sister, Lisa Bolton, 45, Bedford This is my hero, my angel, my sister, Sharon Kay. She left us this past January after fighting breast cancer for 18 years. Her doctor said it best and I would like to quote, “She loved her family and shared with them her joy in living. I was always so impressed by her resolution and cheerfulness in dealing with her illness and with adversity. I view Sharon as a wonderful role model and hope I can keep her example always before me.” I miss my sister every day. Please, every woman, get your yearly mammograms and continue to fight for a cure. Brenda L. Robinson, Newark, died in May 2012 Nominated by: Her sister-in-law, Helen L. Hegwood, 65, Saginaw After one outing with the family, Brenda told me about a malignant lump in her left breast. But at the time, my brother was to undergo knee replacement and didn’t carry www.star-telegram.com insurance to cover Brenda and neither did the shelter for women where she was employed. She looked for help everywhere, but the doors seemed closed. As time passed, Brenda kept growing weak. She finally located a doctor in Decatur who treated her, but by now it had spread too far. She never lost her precious sweet spirit, and continued to be optimistic throughout the darkest periods of her life. One week before her passing, Brenda personally delivered to me money toward a collection for a friend who’d been paralyzed. That was the last time I saw my friend. I have a picture of her that day in her wheelchair. She loved the flowers and enjoyed our talk that beautiful spring evening. Sharon Boren Washburn, died in 2011 Nominated by: Lynn Fraser, 51, Fort Worth I am one of thousands Sharon touched. Sharon blogged frequently about her cancer, but mostly about her love for God through her cancer. Sharon never blamed God, never expressed bitterness, but spoke of her gratitude for all of the people she loved and the blessings she had. She inspired hope in hundreds of cancer patients who read her blog (“Sweets Surrender”) or met Sharon. Even today, Sharon’s life inspired The Sharon Washburn Center for Hope, a nonprofit Community Enrichment Center and housing for women and their children who are victims of abuse. Sharon told us, “The Will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.” In her final weeks, she told me, “I feel sorry for you, because this is going to be hard on you ... But I’m not going to miss you at all!” and we would both just laugh. She wanted to live life and not die trying. Months before her death, she asked me to drive her to get her passport renewed. I watched my friend shed her scarf for her passport photo. “I can die anywhere,” she said. “[Mike and I] might get to go to some exotic place!” She also wanted it to spur her husband into renewing his passport so that he would go visit missionaries after her death. Until her death, she embraced others and gave out God’s mercy and message of love and grace. Evelyn Scott Meeks, Fort Worth, died June 9, 2011 Nominated by: Her daughter, Jackie Meeks, 47, Fort Worth My mother, Evelyn Meeks, is not only my hero but a champion. She is a champion not just as a noun as in winner; as an active verb, as to work for the betterment of others. She always was there for everyone and worked tirelessly in the Fort Worth ISD for 42 years. My mother loved me without reserve; and she still had enough for her family and friends, co-workers and peers, students and care providers. My mother’s cancer allowed us to spend M five very close, wonderful years together as she fought that very tricky, slick, meanspirited disease. Through surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation therapy she continued to live life with passion for the people and causes she loved and compassion for those suffering or in need. Last month, over a year after my mother’s death, I received an e-mail from a former student of Morningside Middle School. He loved her and thanked her for taking a chance on him when no one saw his potential. That sums up my mother. Seeing the potential in all. Nurturing through the ups and downs. Loyal to her beliefs and loved ones. Patient during times of trial. Shaping the lives of all she touched for the better. delighted in her scrapbooks during the precious days between treatments, but what amazed me was her tenacity and dedication to continue her projects when she was weakened by chemo and radiation treatments. Her three children each received a beautifully embellished scrapbook in celebration of their life, and friends and family members received Melanie’s personalized calendars as gifts. From the first year of her cancer battle, Melanie participated in Burleson’s Relay for Life. Many photos I have of my brave friend show her surrounded by family and friends who attended the events in her honor. The reason Melanie is my hero is that in her efforts to record milestones in her children’s lives, she gave them more than just a book of their mother’s treasured memories. Sammie Wright, Fort Worth, In the pages of her beautiful, creative scrapdied in 1984 Nominated by: Her daughters, Sherry Fer- books, my friend gave her children a preguson, 71, Aledo; and Becky Gibbs and cious gift: She showed them what a loving mother truly values: every fleeting moment Debbie Isaacs Although she passed away 28 years ago in with her family. 1984 after battling breast cancer for 10 years, she is and forever will be in Charline Joanne Nesky-Harrison, our thoughts daily. Sammie Fort Worth, died Oct. 28, 1999 was a strong, brave woman Nominated by: Her husband, Cleadus Harwho was an inspiration to all rison, 61, Fort Worth who knew her. She worked Our lives tobeside Dad in their successgether began on ful custom home building business for over Aug. 21, 1971. She 30 years. She organized the subcontractors was 18 and I, the with grace, treating everyone with respect, ripe old age of 20. and she kept the books and financial side of Back then, a man their business perfectly, long before the age of less than 21 had of computers. They gave jobs to many young to have parental men on the east side of Fort Worth, teaching consent to marry; so we drove to Glen Rose, them the ethic of hard work. and I lied about my age. It became a 28-yearShe and our dad served together in our long joke that we were not legally married church for over 40 years. Mother was the due to a lie. treasurer for Camp Sagamore, the youth In June of 1989, she had a lump diagnosed camp at Sagamore Hill Baptist Church for all in her right breast. Cancer had already those years, and it was one of the highlights spread to her lymph nodes. She was only 36 of her life each year. One of her last wishes years old, and we were in for the fight of our was to go to camp one last time, but God took lives. her the month before. She and Dad loved Her attitude was always jovial. She never young people and even to this day, adults said, “Why me?” We even made jokes about still tell us that our mother was the best Sun- us combing out her hair and her looking a day school teacher they ever had. She was a little like Bozo the clown with no hair on top, mentor to other women who also contracted only the sides. We were blessed with two breast cancer. children. Our hero was lucky enough to see The day we learned that our mother had all four of our grandchildren born. breast cancer was so devastating. She was In January 1999, she was diagnosed again definitely the rock and the backbone of our with breast cancer and it had spread to her family. She fought her battle with such grace uterus. She showed us how precious life is and dignity, never wanting her family to and continued to battle. Oct. 11, 1999, I worry about her. turned 49 and as I blew out my candles, I wished for her full recovery or for God to come and get her. Two weeks later, she woke me up and said, “I think I’m dying. Will you Nominated by: Karen pray with me?” Payne, 62, Burleson We recited the Lord’s Prayer and she My hero and dear friend, drifted off to an endless sleep without pain. Melanie DeWitt, “scrapbooked” with the same in- Dixie Stoller, Fort Worth, died in tensity with which she apMarch 2011 proached her eight-and-a-half-year Nominated by: Her husbreast-cancer battle. Melanie found joy in band Daniel Stoller, Fort recording in great detail the memories she Worth attached to each treasured photograph. She Dixie was a hero to me and Melanie DeWitt, Burleson, died Jan. 21, 2009 Sunday, October 14, 2012 9J all who knew her during her 12-year struggle to survive a diagnosis of Stage IV breast cancer in May of 2000. Despite this tragic news, Dixie was determined to at least see our grandson, Trenton, graduate from high school and spent the next 12 years relentlessly refusing to succumb to the cancer. Dixie was employed as the executive secretary to the director of the Tarrant County Health Department and continued her work for 11 years after the diagnosis. Her determination and spirit during this time was an inspiration to many. She continued to enjoy her passions: decorating, shopping, and selling Southern Living items to simulate others to dress stylishly and live well. She endured many hardships along the way, always with grit and grace. Dixie lived over double her most optimistic prognosis through superb scientific medical treatment and by her indomitable will. Dixie fought on after being told chemo would no longer work, never acknowledging that the end was near, and signed up with Season Hospice — just to placate me, she told anyone who asked. On Feb. 25, friends took Dixie on what would be her last shopping trip, to Ikea, administering morphine as needed and pushing her in a wheelchair. At noon March 1, 2011, in her own family room surrounded by loved ones with her favorite gospel tunes playing on the radio, she took her final breath, but her will to live and vibrant spirit never died. Pat Stevenson, Fort Worth, died at 56 Nominated by: Her granddaughter, Tischa Schroeder, 41, Crowley My grandmother is my hero because of the many life lessons she taught me. She went through two mastectomies, a broken hip, and, as the cancer metastasized, bone and brain cancer, all with a smile on her face and the knowledge that she was going home to a better place. Most of all, she taught me love; the unconditional kind that parents give to their children. My grandmother opened her home, not only to me, but all of my high school friends as well. After I had left for college, my best friends who stayed local came to visit my grandmother as if she were their own; she wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. One of my most cherished memories was actually at my grandmother’s funeral. My friends and I had formed a circle at the graveside and we held hands and prayed and cried together. When I looked up from our prayer, I saw a crowd of people just silently watching this shared moment. After that, someone said to me, “What a special moment between you and your friends. I’ve never had friendships that close.” I smiled and thought to myself, “These girls are so much more than just friends; they’re family. I have my grandmother to thank for that.” 10J Sunday, October 14, 2012 www.star-telegram.com RUSSELL FEED & SUPPLY M www.star-telegram.com Strong supporters Sherree Bennett, 47, Bedford Nominated by: Joe and Sue Cook, 70s, Granbury Sherree Bennett is a hero to over 3,000 breast cancer survivors and their families. These are the women who have just started the journey, or undergoing treatment, and/or in survivorship. Sherree is a Certified Breast Health Nurse Navigator. This remarkable young lady is a 23-year registered nurse and a 12-year breast cancer survivor. Her journey included breast conserving surgery followed by chemotherapy and radiation. Sherree’s career and life purpose is to serve others who hear those dreaded words, “You have breast cancer.” She had the medical knowledge to help women and their loved ones to understand their diagnosis in order to make informed choices. Most importantly, she has “walked the walk.” Marty Slaughter, 59, Fort Woth Nominated by: Susan Idelman, Fort Worth Marty Slaughter is a kind and caring wife and mother of three and also a breast cancer survivor. She is a hero to many but most significantly to two individuals, Gail and Susan, who were also diagnosed with breast cancer. Marty unselfishly devoted time and energy to share her breast cancer experience and ensure that Gail and Susan had a “cancer coach” at every stage of their treatment. Marty was diagnosed with breast cancer almost five years ago. Not having cancer in her family or any first-hand knowledge of treatment plans for breast cancer, she initially had difficulty, not only with the trauma associated with the diagnosis, but with finding the proper route of care for her somewhat rare form of breast cancer. As a result of her difficulty, she has reached out to others who have needed someone to share the path. Crowley, River Oaks, son of survivor Wanda Crowley When my 86-year-old mother was diagnosed with breast cancer and the biopsy confirmed it, the next job was finding a surgeon. So many people gave glowing endorsements of Dr. Bussey that I kidded with my sister that she seemed more like a cult leader than a surgeon. Our first meeting at her office explained why she was so valued. My mother used to volunteer for hospice and had many detailed questions about various treatments and procedures. Dr. Bussey answered them all without making us feel rushed or like she had something more pressing to attend to. This ability to treat the experience of the disease with as much skill as the disease itself is why I think Dr. Bussey is a hero. She treated my mother as if she were her own. Any surgeon could perform the surgery; fewer can recognize that the explanation for the disease is different from the experience of the disease; fewer still treat the experience with the same skill as the surgery. Trips to Dr. Bussey’s office after the surgery were more like trips to a concerned friend or relative than that clinical sterility that is the norm in modern medicine. Donald Boyd, Fort Worth Nominated by: His wife, Shirley Boyd, Fort Worth I am a two-time cancer survivor; however, my doctor tells me I have not passed the five-year mark. I was first diagnosed with cancer a few months after I had a heart attack in 2009. The doctor said it was cancer of the uterus. It is a shock when you hear the words, “it is cancer.” My husband of 55 years immediately stepped up to the plate. He loved me, uplifted me, and went to all my doctor visits. After my operation, he was the best caregiver any woman could ever ask for. He even learned how to cook for us. The following year, 2010, I went for my mammogram. They called me back and I got a sinking feeling when they told me they were going Archie Earle, 87, to do a biopsy. The call came, Arlington “Shirley, you have breast Nominated by: His wife, cancer, and you are going to Marjorle H. Earle, Arlington have to find a surgeon right My husband of 66 years away.” It took my breath went with me to a specialist away, but again, Don was my when I learned of the lump in my breast. When he told me that he was 95 percent sure that I had cancer, we had him do a biopsy the next day, verifying his claims. So, we had him remove my right breast and 18 lymph nodes. I went for chemotherapy the next day. Archie read and studied all of the material of administering it so that he could do it. When they were going to change the tube that first time, he told the nurse that he would like to change it, under her supervision. He did it and the nurse praised him on his skill. The next time, he asked to do it again. The nurse allowed it and brought in one of the student nurses to observe. The nurse told him that his procedures were perfect. I have now been cancer free for 21 years. I don’t believe that I would be if it hadn’t been for the wonderful care my husband gave me. Dr. Jane Bussey, Fort Worth Nominated by: Mike Sunday, October 14, 2012 11J M The Trimble Tech Class of ’86 rock. We found a surgeon, and a nurse navigator. Together we learned all about the options, and we decided on a mastectomy. The operation was performed successfully, and the lymph nodes were not affected. Don tells me every day that he loves me; that I am precious to him, and I will always be the most beautiful girl in the room. Trimble Tech Class of 1986 Nominated by: Themselves In the summer of 2006, Trimble Tech, class of 1986, began their 20-year class reunion with a meet-andgreet in downtown Fort Worth. A crowd of smiling faces could be seen grouped around two scarf-headed women, LeShawn SpeightsRoss and Teresa LafeyetteCarter. Little did the classmates know, these two would bring our individual efforts of supporting them in their battle together to form a group of “Bulldogs,” our school mascot, battling with them and others in the fight against breast cancer. In 2005, LeShawn and Teresa’s paths crossed during chemo treatments at the Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders. Initially, neither was aware of the other’s diagnosis. LeShawn was engaged in her second battle and Teresa, her first. They forged a bond and vowed to support one another in the fight. Heroes sometimes need help and they seek others to join the fight, like “The Super Friends.” When they came together, they pulled us all in for the fight. At first, support was from individual classmates who remained close over the years. After 2006, they had the support of the entire class. Support was provided through phone calls, hospital visits, overnight stays, running errands, drives to therapy and monetary support when needed. LeShawn passed away in May of 2008 and Teresa in April of 2011. The class of ’86 continues to fight and support breast-cancer survivors. Sharon Holliday, 46, Houston Nominated by: Karen Cichocki, 50, Aledo “You have cancer.” The three words that no woman ever wants to hear, I heard on October 14, 2009. To make matters worse, it was Stage III. I will never forget that day, or where I was when my life changed and I began the journey for breast cancer. I have many breast cancer heroes — my husband, my children, my parents — but my main hero is my Sisters Sharon sister, Holliday, left, and Sharon, who is 4 Karen Cichocki years younger than I and lives in Houston. When she heard that I would need chemotherapy and I would lose my hair, she decided that she was going on the “bald journey” with me. My sister is a beautician by trade and on Dec. 12, 2009, eight days after my first chemo session, we had a head-shaving party. Three years later, we both have short hair, which neither one of us would have had, and have a bond that is unbreakable. Albert Moser, 60, Hurst Nominated by: His wife, Linda Moser, 55, Hurst A little over 39 years ago, we stood at the altar and took our vows: for better or worse, in sickness or in health. We were a military family, traveling where the USAF sent us for 23 wonderful years. We stood together, raising two wonderful sons, seeing the world together. We blinked our eyes and our lives led us to live in the wonderful city of Hurst, where we had developed a great deal of friendships among our neighbors. About two years ago, during the 4th of July weekend in 2010, my husband took me to San Antonio, so that I could get my mind off of what was to come. We had received news of my breast cancer and I made the decision to have a double mastectomy. This was when our vows were truly tested and I found out just how much my husband loves me. He was there for me in every possible way and more. I feel that we grew together through this journey and we are stronger than ever. In this past year, I have lost my mom and aunt to breast cancer. I am a fourthgeneration breast cancer patient and through everything, I’ve had a wonderful support system. I owe so much to everyone, but most of all, my loving spouse, Al, who has always been my shining knight from the moment I married him. Marc Johnson, Granbury happily and without complaints. When times were tough for me, he was the one that held me and reassured me that everything was going to be fine once again. After the last surgery, I was afraid to look at my body for the first time, but we did it together and he told me that he would always love me as a person, no matter what the scars looked like. It made me realize how thankful I was to have someone like him to encourage me and make me feel whole. Ralph Smith Nominated by: His exwife, Juli Smith It was April 2, the day after my 49th birthday. That morning, I got my daughter to school and returned home to call my exhusband to share with him that I was really sick. While we had been divorced for seven years, we had remained good friends. I explained my symptoms to him and he drove me to the emergency room of Harris Southwest. It was there that we were told that I had Stage IV breast cancer and it had spread to my bones, liver and lungs. We both started crying, hugging each other. From that point on, he became one of the strongest people I know. He asked me who he needed to call and we made a list. While it was hard for him to make the calls, he got it done. The whole time, he was assuring me that he would get me the best care and that I would survive. Since that day, he has been there for me. Running errands when I couldn’t drive, cooking and cleaning, doing laundry, and staying at my house while I traveled to Houston for my treatments. He constantly tells me that I’m beautiful, even when I feel awful. Nominated by: His wife, Pat Johnson, Granbury I am a two-time breastcancer survivor. After being in remission for eight years, I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer again. I have had many heroes in my past and present who have gotten me through all the surgeries and treatments, but my biggest hero is my husband, Marc. Marc has been the one who has sat or walked with me during all the different Read more Strong phases from diagnosis to re- Supporters stories in mission. He has done things the Life & Arts section. for me that I thought I would never have to ask anyone to do and he has done them 12J Sunday, October 14, 2012 M www.star-telegram.com