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2009 Edition
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contents
Choosing a Prom Gown . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4
Tux Tips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4
Proms Checklist - Girls /Guys . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5
Prom Advice - Girls / Guys . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8
Be Prepared . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9
Prom Tales . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10
Renting A Limousine . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11
He Pays She Pays - Who Pays What . . . . . . . . . . .12
Prom Etiquette . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20
Tips for a Safe Prom . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26
What’s Next Career Guide . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .14
Choosing A Career Path
SAT Tips / Essays
College Planning Timetable
Getting A Job / Apprenticeship Programs
Prom Planning Section . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .21
Prom Planning Timetable . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .21
Budgeting & Fundraising . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22
Choosing a Facility . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24
Themes & Decorating . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26
After Prom Entertainment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .27
Directory of Services . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28
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Some material adapted by permission from the Baltimore County Health Department, Bureau of Substance Abuse; and from the following excellent websites:
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much useful information: www.prom-night.com • www.proms.net • www.perfectproms.com • www.drugfreeamerica.com The career section was developed with information
from the Maryland State Department of Education (www.msde.state.md.us) Maryland Higher Education Commission (www.mhec.state.md.us) and Maryland CareerNet
(www.careernet.state.md.us) and from the Maryland Association of Community Colleges (www.mdacc.org) and www.collegeboard.com. We also thank the many students, parents,
and vendors who offered suggestions and comments during the development of this guide.
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choosing the
perfect gown
The style of gowns varies from year
to year. Start by looking through
magazines, especially Prom magazines,
or through the malls, just to see what
is available.
Check out dress boutiques for more unique styles.
Try the internet for a wide selection of styles and sizes. You may
be more likely to find a unique style on the internet. Just be quite
sure to check out their return policy. However, customer service
will be better at a local shop.
Prom dresses are not cheap, particularly a quality dress.
Longer, more elegant dresses, and anything with beads or lace,
are more expensive.
Get an idea of what you are looking for before you try on dresses.
This will eliminate many styles that you know aren‘t right for you.
And if you have doubts, try it on.
Don‘t pass up a possibility (anything that is NOT a “no way!”)
without trying it on. The experts know that many dresses look
different on you than on the rack. This is where using a local shop
with a knowledgeable salesperson is most valuable.
Start shopping early, you may be able to find a sale or one at an
outlet store. Wait too long and the selections get picked over.
Don‘t overlook thrift stores and consignment shops. These have
some nice bargains and even the latest styles.
You may consider a dressmaker for a custom look. Remember, this
will be an expensive choice, and you still may not get exactly
what you imagined (pictures help with this).
Be patient and have fun with the shopping. It adds to and
extends the excitement of the Prom. Few people find their
perfect dress the first time out.
If you are traveling, remember to check out stores in other cities
or areas. Different cities do stock different styles, or may carry
more of what you are looking for. Just remember, returns are
difficult when the store is 400 miles away.
Don‘t forget about matching shoes and handbag. Shoes should be
worn in (around the house) to make them more comfortable on
Prom night. A handbag should be large enough for your essentials: lipstick, extra pantihose, film/camera, calling card, money,
etc.
Consider a chiffon shawl as a finishing touch to your gown
This is draped around your neck, but also looks great over your
arm. Be sure to choose a color that compliments your dress.
and
relax!
don’t stress
over the dress.
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tux tips
You really do need to wear a tux! Your date will be
looking hot, you’ll want to look your sharpest, too.
Renting is your best bet, and it will probably cost
anywhere from $50-$150. Rentals usually include
everything: shoes, tie, shirt, vest or cummerbund,
and accessories. Many rental shops will also sell you
a custom fit tux, as well.
Here’s the 411 from our fashion guru:
Plan ahead. Don’t wait for the last week before prom, because
you could be out of luck. Call ahead and ask about the store’s policy on fitting, pick-up and return. Choose one shop where you’ll be
treated first class, and go for a fitting about 3 months before the
date. The hottest styles and colors, and some sizes sell out early,
so don’t delay!
Discuss plans with your date. This is about matching style
and color with her gown. Either take her with you or ask for a
color swatch of her gown. If you’re not sure what color she will
wearing, order a classic black tux with neutral-color accessories
(black, white, silver). And if gown colors change after your fitting,
it should not be a problem to switch cummerbund and tie colors,
since these are usually one-size-fits-all.
Choose the right style. Some styles fit different body types
better than others. Try a few on and see what you like. Just
remember the type of affair and your date’s dress.
Comfort rules. No prom is fun if you’re uncomfortable, so choose
your tuxedo for comfort as well as style. Avoid straining your jacket buttons or tight trousers. Likewise, make certain your formal
shoes fit properly and are comfortable enough to spend the
evening on the dance floor.
Accessories make the man. Details complete your outfit. Shoes
should be plain black dress shoes, polished to a high shine, or
patent leather shoes from your formalwear dealer. Cummerbund
(a formal sash worn around the waist) and bow tie should match
each other and at least coordinate (not clash) with your date.
Vests are popular, but they are worn instead of, not with, a cummerbund. Cuff links and shirt studs complete the formal look, so
ask your retailer for an upgrade from the basic accessory package.
The complete look. If you want to stand out from the pack
do it with choices your formalwear dealer recommends.
Sneakers, jeans or tee-shirts with a formal jacket usually spells
fashion disaster. And wear only dark dress socks, leaving your
white sweat socks at home. You want to turn heads with your
hot looks, not clownish chuckles.
Underneath it all. Do not wear a regular white dress shirt. It
doesn’t match, and everyone will know you’re skimping. Instead,
a plain (or fancy) formal shirt is what you need. The sleeve should
be a bit longer than the jacket arm, defining the sleeve and
showing off the cuff links. A wingtip collar is good for a bow tie,
lay down or button down collar for a longer tie.
Your tux is also a
reflection of your taste
and personality...
2009 Edition
prom checklists
for the girls
for the guys
16 Weeks before prom...
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Start using this checklist.
Ask how much money your parents
are willing to contribute.
List your expenses. Start saving money if necessary.
Shop for that special dress. When you find it,
you can put it on lay-away if need be.
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Start using this checklist.
Ask how much money your parents are
willing to contribute.
Start saving money.
Plan out a budget to cover costs.
Ask your date, if you know who you want to go with!
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Pick out accessories that will coordinate with
your dress and/or with your date’s outfit.
Start taking care of your hair and nails,
particularly if you have short or bitten nails.
If you are growing your hair out, trim it
every 4 weeks to avoid frizzy, split ends.
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Purchase your Prom tickets.
Pick out styles or start trying different styles
of hair, even if you are doing it yourself.
If you have not been asked for a date yet,
check out the advice on page 8.
Discuss your Prom plans with your parents.
(Very Important!)
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If you have not asked someone for a date yet
(or been asked!), check out the advice on page 8.
Go for a tux fitting. It is helpful to know what color
dress your date will wear. Coordinate colors and style.
Start looking into transportation. Whose car, who will
drive, or consider renting a limousine with a group.
Ask around for a good restaurant for dinner before
the Prom, if dinner is not included at the Prom.
Consider your date’s taste in food and atmosphere
(ask, if you’re not sure!).
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Purchase your Prom tickets.
Discuss your Prom plans with your parents.
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Pick up your Prom dress.
Break in your Prom shoes by wearing them
several times. Your feet will thank you later!
Make appointments to have your hair, makeup and nails
done. Everyone will want to be at the salon on that day.
If you get stuck, try a salon further away, near a high
school whose Prom is not on the same day as yours.
Several Days before prom...
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Confirm all reservations and appointments
you have made for Prom day.
Collect your supplies: camera, film, clear nail polish,
extra pantihose, phone card, change, cash, student ID,
tickets, etc.
Let your parents meet your Prom date,
if they haven’t already.
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Pick up your date’s boutonniere.
Go to your hair, nails, and makeup appointment(s).
Confirm all reservations and appointments you have
made for Prom day.
Wash your car and vacuum it, if applicable.
Get a haircut.
What time will you pick her up?
Collect your supplies: Camera, film, phone card or cell
phone, change, cash, student ID, tickets, etc.
Prom Day
Prom Day
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Call and confirm your dinner reservations, if applicable.
Finalize your plans with friends, date and parents.
Order your date’s corsage
(coordinate color with her dress).
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Pick up your date’s corsage.
(Keep it refrigerated until you leave.)
Pick up your tuxedo, if you haven’t already. Make sure
to get a tie and cummerbund (these could also match
your date’s dress), dress shoes, cuff links and studs.
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prom advice
can i ask him?
Don’t assume you have to have a date to go to the Prom you don’t. Going with a friend, a group, or by yourself can
be just as much fun. After all, it’s a celebration of your
time in school, and everyone deserves to celebrate! But if
you’d like to ask a date, here are some tips:
• All stereotypes and traditions are broken, and girls often
ask guys to go to the Prom. The attitude is “Why wait?”
• Ask in person, not over the phone or by e-mail.
Don’t lose the effect of eye contact and body language.
• Ask as soon as you can, or your date will be going with
someone else!
• If you get asked, and the answer is no, let him down easily.
Rejection is a hard feeling to overcome.
What is the latest a person should ask her date to the
prom? What is the usual amount of time that she should
ask ahead of the prom?
There is no latest time to ask but you should start asking as early
as possible because you don’t want someone else to beat you to
him! We know a girl who was asked to her senior prom three
months before the actual date, so that should give you some idea
of what’s possible. However, whatever you do, don’t wait. You
might lose him.
asking your date
Don’t assume you have to have a date to go to the Prom you don’t. Going with a friend, a group, or by yourself can
be just as much fun. After all, it’s a celebration of your
time in school, and everyone deserves to celebrate! But if
you’d like to ask a date, here are some tips:
1. Ask in person, not over the phone or by e-mail.
Don’t lose the effect of eye contact and body language.
2. A small gift or flowers helps sway a decision.
3. Ask as soon as you can, or your date will be
going with someone else!
4. Don’t be shocked if the girl asks you,
all stereotypes and old notions are gone.
5. If you get asked, and the answer is no, let her
down easily. Rejection is a hard feeling to overcome.
Prom Q & A
From our web site
www.promsplus.com
How do garters for prom work? What is the "tradition"
exactly? Also, where do you buy a garter from. People say
bridal stores but they charge way too much! Are there any
stores which sell them for cheaper? Around $4-$5?
Thanks!
Garters can be a fun way to add some color or splash to an outfit.
They are not necessary, and you may not miss it. However, there
just aren't any real traditions that have stuck. It was picked up
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Girls
Boys
from weddings, where the groom offers (and places) one on the
bride. No such tradition exists for Prom, and many girls buy them
for themselves as a memento or an accent. Some are available with
the year on it. Check out www.tjformals.com, they are $7.00 each.
Hi, I'm a senior and my first prom is in June. My date and I
barely speak in school. I chose her because all others were
occupied. Please tell me what I should give her as present
and what we should talk about during the prom. Thanks.
With a little preparation, you will have a wonderful prom night –
even if you do not know your date very well. First things first, you
do not have to give your date a gift, per say, but it is a traditional
gesture to give your date a corsage (small bouquet of flowers
worn around the wrist). It is best to order the corsage from a
flower shop a week or two in advance, if possible. It is also best
when the corsage matches your date’s dress. So be sure to ask her
what color she will be wearing, and then tell the florist the color
of her dress when you order the corsage. The florist can help you
pick out a match. You will present the corsage to your date when
you pick her up for the prom.
The answer to your next question is not exactly as cut and dry.
There are plenty of things to talk about on prom night. And
because you don’t know much about her, there is actually even
more to talk about! I’d say it is best to talk about something you
have in common – your school. Ask her favorite subject, ask
which teachers she likes, and about her extra curricular activities.
She will likely ask you the same. Also, since you both are completing your second half of high school, you can ask if she is looking
at colleges, or what she may plan to do after high school. The
prom night itself will also provide plenty of conversation material.
Talk about the food that is being served and whether or not you
like it. Also talk about the kind of music she likes/you like and
whether or not you are likely to hear it at prom.
Beyond that, there is plenty of “getting to know you better” conversation you can try. You can ask if she has brothers and sisters,
where she has lived, and if her extended family lives near or far.
That should be plenty to get you two chatting. And if you both
like to dance, you will spend a lot of time dancing instead of talking anyway. One last point of conversation – tell her how lovely
she looks! Have a great time.
My daughter went shopping without me and came back
with a short, tight fitting, white prom dress. YIKES!!! I am
trying to explain that a long dress is the rule for prom
night. She wants to be "different". Well, I don;t want her
to look cheap nor do I want people talking about her
behind her back. Am I being old-fashioned?? HELP!!
Well, Mom, I'm afraid you might be a little behind the times on
this one - but not all wrong. Janet Donahue of the Perfect Pear
LLC informs us that "knee length dresses are HOT right now!" But
she cautions that if you decide to go knee length, you must select
something very dressy. The key is fabric, color and style. What you
want is a dress that is elegant, with a more flirty style than a typical "cocktail dress" (which is usually very form fitting). Chiffon
fabric is ideal for this. Don't go above the knee for prom. You
want to look really dressy - not vampish. So while knee length
works, a tight white dress that lands above the knee is most likely
inappropriate. Happy hunting!
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going to prom? be prepared!
It always pays these days to be prepared when you leave the house, especially on Prom night:
• Take enough cash for your expenses, such as dinner, tips,
incidentals, and a little extra money for emergencies. Put an
extra car key in your wallet or purse in case you lose the original.
• If you have a cellular phone, take it with you in case
of an emergency (please make sure it’s charged up).
• Take a camera along to take pictures of each other.
• Girls, carry extra panty hose or a bottle of clear nail polish to
stop a run. A safety pin and a bobby pin can be a life saver!
• Take care of your belongings. Don’t leave valuables on the
table or in bathrooms. Even if you think you know everyone
at the dance, it would be very sad to lose a camera or your
money just because you were careless and left it sitting
around unattended.
• Discuss your plans with your parents. Include where you are
going, with whom, what time you will be where, and when
you can be expected home. Parents tend to worry about such
things. Remember, even if they trust you, they don’t trust
the other people out on the road. If it will help them relax,
offer to check in with them sometime during the evening, and
also if you’ll be late getting home.
• After-Prom: these parties are always a blast! Don’t forget a
change of clothes to be comfortable while you party.
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prom tales
Should Have Gone To The
After-Prom
Hi, my name is Rashanda and I went on my junior prom and I had
a ball. My prom night was fun the music was the worst of the
whole night- that's until my date and I had went to this diner and
the place was robbed. That was the wildest experience in my life.
My date and I were very cute. My family was more excited then I
was because I was a little nervous. When we got there we took
pictures and danced all night long.
Cola
Collision
I'm a sophomore and I got asked to the prom by a friend of mine.
We're kind of like family. Well, on the day of prom everyone that
was attending the prom left school early so they could go do their
personal things before prom like hair appointments, nail appointments, etc. Well I went to the hair salon and got my hair done as
planned that after my hair appointment I went home to get ready
to go to the promenade at 5:30 before prom.
Ok, my date John (that's his name) his ex-girlfriend found out
that we were going to prom together. So, anyway she tried her
best to mess up everything for me and John so, we went to the
promenade as we planned to. It was open to students that went
to our school and anyone that wanted to see the prom couples
walk in. So, she tried to ruin my dress before I walked out with
my date to mess everything because, she was jealous that John
was taking me to prom instead of her.
I wore a light pink gown that faded to a darker pink. It was strapless and gorgeous. So, I was thirsty and I asked for a drink of soda.
They only had cola and other dark drinks so, (the ex-girlfriend)
tried to accidentally try to spill the cola on my gown. I kind of
knew she was trying something sneaky so I dodged the soda and
it landed on the Principal Mr. S.
I swung at her and when she hit the floor I yelled in her face "Are
you trying to mess up my gown? Do you know how much this
dress costs and how long it took to find and buy it?" I was [very
angry] at her. She apologized to my date and me but, she still got
in trouble for throwing the soda on Mr. S. After that hilarious
experience at the promenade, my date and I couldn't help from
having a good time at prom. Prom was so much fun! I can't wait
until next year's prom and MY Senior prom in 2006. I'm already
counting down the days to next year's prom ! - D.B.
Two More Chances
I was a sophomore, and last year I met this guy named Samuel,
Sam for short. We hung out alot and I started to like him, not alot
but enough so that when he asked me to go to prom with him I
freaked. Mainly because he asked me out only a week before
hand. I said yes, of course, and we went together. He mostly hung
out with friends and I was left there by myself. I did have fun,
though, because I knew some of the people there and we danced
together. Well, he took me home and that was it. No after parties,
no kiss, nothing. Needless to say I was a little upset. A couple of
weeks later he was going out with my friend L. They're still going
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out and are going to prom together, but I am happy because she
can be really vicious if he makes her mad like he did me. As for
me, I have a great boyfriend and he just asked me to prom! I have
two more chances to make have fun at prom, this one and my
senior prom, so I can't wait!. - Samantha
One Romantic Evening
I went to Senior prom last year with Bryan, this cute guy that I’d
seen for a while around school. We had one class together last
year even though I was only a Junior. We talked a bit every couple
of days until he asked me to Prom and it was really unexpected!
He somehow managed to put an invitation into my note book for
that class, asking me to meet him in the parking lot after the last
bell. I still think my friend Jen helped him place the card, but she
said no. It was so cute, it had fancy lettering and hand drawn
flowers and ballet slippers (I’m a dancer). Anyway, I was all excited because I pretty much knew what he would ask, but when I
met him outside it was so windy I could hardly stand up, so we
ran back to the cafeteria to talk. My hair was so messed up he
couldn’t see my face as we came inside. I told him the note was
so nice and he asked me to go to his Senior prom with him.
Staying calm, I asked him if he had any plans and he told me
about them, and also told me he’d been saving to pay for my ticket, and that he was also saving to chip in for a limo with a few
other people. I told him I’d love to and that I wouldn’t mind
helping out with the limo too. He got a big grin across his face
and it was set.
Prom was great! I bought a dark pink open back gown and a
matching purse. The shoes hurt, I should have worn them in, but
oh well. Bryan picked me up and drove me to his parents, we took
pics, then off to his friend Rob’s house. A huge
limo picked 10 of us up and drove to
the Prom. They did a great job with
decorations, every thing was
perfect, Bryan looked so hot
that night! We danced, but I
don’t remember the food,
chicken I think. It was very
romantic and Bryan was a perfect gentleman. We went to the
after prom party which was a
blast, but one of the guys forgot a
change of shoes and wore jeans and
black shoes all night! There were
tons of things to do, Rob won a
radio, got tickets to movies, I won a
gift certificate for shopping! It
ended pretty late, and really wasn’t
as tired as I thought I would get.
Bryan and I still see each other
and I’m looking forward to going
to my Senior Prom this year. Leslie P.
Photo provided by: Signature Ink Modeling Company
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renting a limousine
Limousine rentals for the Prom and After-Prom parties, once a rare sight, have now
become quite common. Here are some tips to make your life easier...
Limousines offer several benefits
over driving yourself including EASE
(Who’s driving? Are we lost? Where do
we park?); SAFETY (Let a professional
do the driving); and FUN.
• If you plan to rent a limo, do it as early
as possible! Around prom time, limo’s
are in demand and you want to make
sure that you are able to reserve the
one you want.
• Begin your search by deciding what
size limousine (how many passengers)
you require and what features you
want. To reduce costs, plan to get
together with other couples to go in a
group to and from the event.
• Do not choose a limousine company
solely on the basis of price. A better
price does not always mean a better
limousine or a reliable company. So,
rely on other factors along with price.
Request references. How long has the
limousine company been in business?
Is the company and the driver licensed
by the Maryland Public Service
Commission (PCS), and what is their
number? What is included in the cost?
What is the hourly minimum, or is it a
flat fee for Prom night? Does the time
include travel time to and from the
first pickup, or only the time after the
limousine arrives? Can they provide
proof of insurance? What model year is
the vehicle? What special features does
the limousine have (TV, DVD, soda bar,
moon roof, etc.)?
• If you can, ask to see the exact vehicle
you will be renting. If not possible, ask
for a sample vehicle from the fleet.
Will your job be handled by an
employee, or could it be subcontracted
to someone else at the last minute? Is
that company/driver insured and
licensed?
• Make sure you are treated professionally by the staff from the first call. If
you are treated courteously over the
phone, it is likely your chauffeur will
also treat you with respect. On Prom
night this includes every guest being
treated special, like any paying customer. Ask how the driver will be
dressed.
• As you will be treated with respect by
the limousine driver and staff, please
respect the company’s rules.
• Make certain to save a copy of the
written limousine contract, which
should include: a description of the
vehicle you are agreeing to, including
year, make and model; all costs of the
rental, including gratuity, cancellation
charges and deposit refund policy;
pickup time, drop off time and itinerary; and company’s liability in case of
breakdowns, no-shows, or other problems. Also ensure that the vehicle and
driver are dedicated to you for the
block of time you booked and are
waiting outside for you. A side trip
downtown by the chauffeur while you
are at the event is unacceptable.
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he pays she pays
the dollars and sense.
Most parts of the prom are getting too expensive for the guy
to pay by himself. He used to pay it all once, back when your parents had their proms; but times have changed and this is
no longer possible for most guys. These days, what’s normal
is to share some or all of the basic expenses outlined below.
These include prom tickets, pictures, and transportation. If there is a post prom
party with a cost involved, then you often split this, too. However, although
many, many couples split these expenses, there are times when the guy prefers
or insists on paying for the whole thing. Girls, if your date is gallant enough
to offer to pay, then do not disappoint or otherwise insult him by refusing to let him
pay. Sometimes, it’s not the money that matters, but the
sacrifice - and that’s what makes the whole thing worthwhile.
I asked him because he is a sophomore and I’m a senior! We both know that the
guys pay for prom, but since I asked him, I feel bad making him pay for it. What
should I do?
You can do two things. You can pay for it yourself and not say anything - I don’t recommend this because you will probably offend him. Or, you can discuss it with him. Just tell
him how you feel, and that if he wants to share the expense (or even have you pay the
whole thing) then you’re willing to. He won’t though; and he’ll be glad you asked.
You’ll see.
I’m going to the prom with my boyfriend and it’s a fairly new relationship. He’s working a lot over his spring break and also trying to save
up for a new car. I want to help him out with paying for prom so he
doesn’t have to work so much but he wants to pay for it all.
What should I do?
In this case, let him pay for it all. Don’t hurt his feelings. The thing
about money, is that he can always make more. If you don’t let him
spend it as a gentleman, then it won’t matter to him whether he can
make more or not; he will just be hurt and offended. Believe me, the money doesn’t
mean as much to him as being proud to be able to pay. So live with that, enjoy yourself,
and be proud and happy for him because of it.
On prom night, what is the girl expected to pay for?
That depends on your date. Traditionally, the girl didn’t pay for anything except the boutonniere. These days, however, there’s all sorts of arrangements made between the guy
and the girl, and sometimes the girl even pays the whole thing – it’s not as simple as it
used to be! So, if you’re worried that your date intends to pay for only a part of the
evening, then you should talk it over with him and agree on who pays for what. If, on
the other hand, he says nothing, then perhaps he’s a gentleman and will take care of it
all. You just be sure to have his boutonniere ready! Courtesy of Promdress.net
I asked a guy friend from another school to go with me to my prom. What do I
have to pay for??
COMMON QUESTION, BUT NO EASY ANSWERS. A typical scenario is this: You pay for the
ticket and a boutonniere for him. He buys you a corsage. You share the ride, dinner, you
buy your dress, shoes, etc. He rents the tux. If you are sporting, you may pay for photos
to share, or a photo key chain, etc. He may appreciate your gestures, or he may be
insulted because he wanted to at least pay his own way. This varies person to person.
We can't tell from here, so you'll need to talk to him about this, and the sooner the
better. Don't be afraid, just a short chat (in person, not IM) to clear things up, so you
can relax and enjoy your Prom.
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2009 Edition
the steps to a
successful prom
Fortunately, there are many things you
can do to prevent post-prom blues. Here are
some tips for having the ultimate prom
experience without any next-day regrets.
You Should Feel Comfortable With Your Date
Share prom night with someone you really care about and feel OK
with. Don’t go with partners who won’t respect your wishes, since
this can lead to misunderstandings and possibly even regrets.
Be Honest With Your Date Before the Big Night
Your date may have different expectations for prom night than
you do. So keep in mind that discussing something like this could
save you a lot of heartache and regret.
Go With a Large Group of Friends
Prom isn’t just about the date; its about making memories with
friends that you’ll cherish forever. Finding the perfect date isn’t
everything; being with your friends is what you are going to
ultimately remember anyway.
Don’t Have Out-of-Reach Expectations
Prom is a wonderful experience, but that doesn’t mean Brad Pitt
or Jennifer Lopez will appear and sweep you off your feet.Trying
to make Prom too perfect might actually ruin the big night more
than better it. So bottom line: relax and enjoy your Prom.
Stay Sober, Don’t Drink
IT IS ILLEGAL TO DRINK IF YOU ARE UNDER 21. You know the
seriousness of the risks of consuming alcohol. Just keep in mind
that alcohol may make you do things that you might seriously
regret afterwards. A good way to stay clear of alcohol is to go on a
late night dinner or coffeehouse with your closest friends to get
some quality bonding time with them. Or, better yet...
Go to a Chaperoned Post-Prom Party
These are often the best, most exciting parties around! Food,
games, prizes. Everyone will be there, you can’t miss it!
Make A Pact With Your Friends
No, not like in American Pie. This kind of pact lets you look out for
your friends. Its really simple all you have to do is promise to look
out for each other, so no one gets into an unsafe situation.
Be Prepared
Plan how you'll deal with anyone who pressures you to drink or
do something you don't want to do. Be prepared to say "No" (over
and over again if necessary), give a witty response, change the
subject or just walk away. Practice with someone you trust or in a
mirror.
Have Fun
Finally, don’t forget to have a good time! Make memories that you
can carry with you forever and never regret. Take lots of
pictures and videos, and dance the night away. No matter what
your prom expectations are, remember to always stay safe
and healthy.
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what’snext?
what’s
Your helpful guide
to college and
career planning!
choosing a career path
Want to become a teacher? A cosmetologist? A lawyer? How about opening an auto
body shop? High school will be over soon and only you can decide what’s next!
College? Tech School? Job? Military? It’s time to think about your future.
I’m going to college.
Lookin’ Good! Careers that require college
degrees pay, on the average over a lifetime, more that those that do not. There
are many types of college with a huge
selection of career fields to choose from.
And even if you are undecided about your
exact career choice (half of college students are still undecided or switch majors
after two years), there are plenty opportunities to switch majors or career paths
without losing time, money, or credits.
College is a time to explore and match
your interests with your abilities.
A college degree shows future employers
you’ve been trained to think out of the
box, solving problems that you, or maybe
anyone, has never encountered before.
That increases your value to employers,
and that means greater opportunities and
earning potential. Bureau of Labor statistics show that workers with Bachelors
degrees have half the unemployment and
54% higher salaries, on average, than
those with high school diplomas.
College isn’t for me.
Private Career and Technical Schools:
Maryland has hundreds, with great career
training in fields from cosmetology to
computer networks, real estate to commercial truck driving, dental assistant to
air conditioning tech. Course work ranges
from one week to several years. Many
offer financial aid and career placement,
and most combine hands-on experience
with classroom work.
Apprenticeships: Earn money and learn on
the job. Companies, unions and governments all offer apprenticeship, programs
for as little as one or up to six years. Check
out some of these careers: electrician,
insurance adjuster, flight attendant, police
officer, fire fighter, plumber, brick layer,
tool and die maker, corrections officer,
postal carrier, operating engineer. Training
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is usually split between classroom and the
job, and the cost is typically low, with
employers picking up most of the tab.
Community College: They offer certificate
and Letter of Recognition programs, with
careers such as medical transcriptionist,
legal secretary, computer graphics,
teacher’s aide, and emergency medical
technician. Associate degrees might
include criminal justice, nursing, office
technology, accounting, physical therapist
assistant, and legal studies. According to
the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the number
of jobs requiring an Associates degree will
increase by a larger percentage (35%)
through 2010 than any other job requirement category or degree.
Military: The five branches of the U.S.
Military, including Army, Navy, Air Force,
Marine Corps, and Coast Guard, offer more
than 300 different schools and 10,000
courses of instruction. Skills you gain in
the military can be valuable when transferred to civilian life. And through the
Montgomery GI Bill, you could qualify for
assistance with school costs once you
leave the service.
doing what you really like to do.
Narrow the List Down: What types of companies hire people in your field(s)? What
training/education is required? Where will
you have to go or live to receive that education or work in that field? Narrow down
the list to two or three choices at most,
and then sit down and discuss them with
people who know and people you trust:
Parents, coaches, guidance counselors,
clergy, older brothers or sisters, friends.
Don’t get caught up in the gravity of the
decision, because people don’t always
make the right decision the first time. But
go with your gut instincts into a career
that you know will make you happy. As we
said, only you know what that will be.
I’m so….confused!
Not to worry. You are definitely not alone.
But it’s not too early to start thinking
about your career options.
Explore Your Interests: What do you like,
and what are you good at? Try a career
assessment like the ones on Careernet.
(www.careernet.state.md.us/assessment.htm)
Do Your Homework: This may be your most
important homework assignment. Making
informed career decisions requires the
right information about opportunities that
will be available in the near future. What’s
hot, what’s not. How does it pay off? And
what careers fit your style, personality,
and interests? While you may switch jobs,
or even careers, several times over your
life, you’ll always be happiest if you’re
what’snext?
SAT Test Taking Tips
Before the Test
Know the test directions for all
six question types.
Use the time you save
to answer questions.
Get familiar with the answer sheet.
It has four pages, and you need to know
what answers go in which section.
During the Test
Answer easy questions first.
You earn just as many points for easy
questions as you do for hard questions.
The easier questions are at the beginning
of the section and the harder questions at
the end - except for Critical Reading
questions, which are ordered according
to the logic and organization of each
passage.
Guess smart.
If you can rule out one or more answer
choices for a multiple-choice question as
definitely wrong, your chances of guessing
the right answer improve. For math questions without answer choices, fill in your
best guess; no points are subtracted for
wrong answers as they are in all other
question types.
Omit questions that you really
have no idea how to answer.
But if you can rule out any choice, you
probably should guess from among the
rest of the choices.
Don't panic if you cannot
answer every question.
You do not have to answer every question
correctly to get a good score. You can get
an average score by answering about half
of the questions correctly and omitting
the remaining questions.
Use your test book for scratch work.
You can also cross off choices you know are
wrong and mark questions you have omitted so you can go back to them if you have
time.
Keep track of time.
If you finish a section before time is called,
check your answers in that section only.
Adapted from CollegeBoard.com
An Essay That Works!
If the college you are applying to
requires a written essay, use it as an
opportunity to help you stand out
from the crowd. Admission officers
admit that essays can make or break
an application, giving an ordinary
applicant an edge if the essay is
great, or tipping the scales to the
‘reject’ pile. So, follow these tips to
write an essay that’s interesting and
inspired:
Essays should reveal two things: Your writing ability, and something of your personality.
Avoid a long list of activities or life history.
Focus instead on one event, a person or
experience that has affected you, one you
feel passionate about or threw yourself
into.
Avoid topics that are overdone and ordinary ‘textbook’ answers to questions.
Travel, sports, and overused social issues
like world hunger and AIDS are tough to
make interesting and unique.
Don’t choose a topic that merely looks
good. Choose one that you truly care
about. The sincerity and passion for the
topic will come out in your writing.
Avoid bragging or outright lying about
your many accomplishments. Instead, be
honest and present yourself fairly and balanced, not as a super hero. This will show
your ability to learn and grow as a person.
Revise and rewrite: Edit your essay for
accuracy, clarity, story development, style,
and a unified theme. Avoid run-on sentences, using briefer or more condensed
thoughts. Use action words to stimulate
interest. And proofread your work several
times, because there is no place for mistakes in your application essay.
The College
Application Maze
So, you’ve decided
where you want to
apply? Now get going!
But keep in mind these
helpful hints:
• Remember to apply to at least
one college that you may like but
may be too tough to get into.
Plenty of factors are
considered in selections and
who knows, maybe you’ll get in.
It could be worth the hour or so
to fill out the app. Also apply to
one backup school that you’re
sure you can get into.
• Keep track of the application
deadlines. Some applications
have two parts with different
deadline dates for each.
• Take advantage of the electronic
(on-line) application, if available.
Some schools actually prefer online applications because they
reduce paper clutter.
• Do not lie or exaggerate. Facts
are easily checked by the
Admissions staff at the college.
• Line up your recommendation
letter-writers well in advance.
Choose teachers who feel you are
special and have examples
to back it up. Provide them with
a resume for easy reference and
submit multiple school requests
together.
• Proofread your application
and copy it for your records.
• Notify your guidance counselor
of your application as soon as
possible so your transcripts can
arrive in time.
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Your helpful guide to college and career planning!
college planning timetable
Junior Year • In the Fall
Maintaining your grades during your junior year is especially important. This is the
year that college admission officers examine especially closely.
Enroll in AP and other honors-level classes
if available. Prepare for PSAT. Make sure of
registration and test dates. Ask about AP
exams.
Take the PSAT. (Results in 4-6 weeks.)
Top scores qualify for National Merit
Scholarships.
Develop a preliminary college list with
your counselor. Your list should contain
approximately 8-12 colleges you are seriously considering. Start requesting literature from colleges.
In the Winter
In order to identify your strengths and to
determine the areas that you may need to
improve upon, review your PSAT results
with your counselor. Enroll for SAT prep
course; start studying for SAT I and I.
Take Campus Tours online or in person
to further narrow your list of colleges
to match your personality, GPA,
and test scores.
Register for the March SAT I and/or the
April ACT tests. Find out from each college
the deadlines for applying for admission
and which tests to take. It is a good idea to
take the SAT I and/or ACT in the spring to
allow you time to review your results and
retake the exams in the fall of your senior
year, if necessary.
In the Spring
Review college brochures and applications. Make appointments for summer
interviews.
Take SAT I and I, and ACT.
Confirm next year's courses.
Discuss college sports with your coach
now. If you’re looking for an athletic scholarship, you may need advice on how best
to position yourself.
In the Summer
Results of AP tests arrive; start visiting and
having interviews at colleges. Arranged
orientations and Adopt-a-Student programs are ideal. Start a file of brochures
and applications for schools you like. Meet
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with a consultant.
Applications are available on-line after
August 1. Copy applications and begin
filling out draft pages.
Decide if you are going to apply under a
particular college's early decision or early
action program. Many early decision
programs are legally binding, requiring
you to attend the college to which you are
applying, should they accept you.
Read your college mail and send reply
cards to your schools of interest.
Senior Year • In the Fall
Give any recommendation forms to the
appropriate teachers or counselors with
stamped, college-addressed envelopes;
prepare for SAT I and I. Meet with college
reps who visit your school. Set up interviews and college visits.
Make a final list of schools that interest
you and keep a file of deadlines and
required admission items for each school.
Last chance to take the SAT I and I; continue interviewing and meeting college reps;
fill out college application forms; complete
early applications for Nov. deadline. Find
out from the colleges to which you are
applying whether or not they need official
copies of your transcripts (transcripts sent
directly from your high school) sent at the
time of application.
Some early decision replies; mail applications to colleges with Jan. 1 deadlines; ask
counselor about available scholarships,
financial aid forms available after Dec. 1.
Take some time to think about and outline
any essays required.
Register for December or January SAT I
and/or SAT I tests, if necessary.
Continue thinking about and beginning
writing (if you have not already started)
any essays to be included with your
applications.
In the Winter
Most regular decision applications due;
most scholarship applications due.
Early decision replies usually arrive
between December 1 and December 31.
If you haven't already done so, make sure
your official test scores are being sent to
the colleges to which you are applying.
Make sure your parents have completed
their income tax forms in anticipation of
the financial aid applications.
Complete and submit your college financial aid application and the Free
Application for Student Financial Aid
(FAFSA) between January 1 and February
15, and check for other financial aid
options. Submit these forms even if you
think you will not qualify. You should
receive your Student Aid Report (SAR)
within four weeks. Make the necessary
corrections and return it to the FAFSA
processor as soon as possible in order to
have your forms processed quickly.
Request that your high school send your
official transcripts to the colleges to which
you are applying.
Contact the admissions office(s) of the college(s) to which you have applied to make
sure that your information has been
received, and that they have
everything they need from you.
In the Spring
As college acceptance letters come in,
make careful decisions with parents and
counselor. Compare your acceptance letters, financial aid, and scholarship offers.
Visit any schools you have not seen,
overnight if possible. Most colleges
request your reply by May 1. If you were
placed on a waiting list for a particular
college, and have decided to wait for an
opening, contact that college and let them
know you are still interested.
Notify colleges as soon as you make a
decision, as this will free up space for
another student.
Study college course catalogs and make
a list of courses you would like to take
next year.
In the Summer
Send thank-you notes to anyone who
assisted you during the admissions
process.
Contact your college to determine when
fees for tuition, room and board are due
and how much they will be. Attend freshman orientation at some colleges.
Take placement exams offered by your college. You may start with credits in some
basic classes.
Start packing! You are ready for the adventure of a lifetime!
Your helpful guide to college and career planning!
i’m getting a job.
Take a look around.
What are people around you doing that may interest you? Do they
enjoy their occupation? What type of training was required for
that job? What do you expect to get from your job? You may be
primarily concerned with the financial benefits, or maybe you just
want a job that you will enjoy. Do you think you would a like
physical occupation and working with your hands? Or, would you
prefer a ‘desk job’?
What do I want to be?
This is a question that you must ask yourself in order to begin
down a successful career path. However, this will raise many more
important questions such as: Where do you want to live? Are you
going to limit your job search to a small area? Are you open to
moving across the city?...state?...country? What geographic elements will best contribute to your successes? Do you think you
may eventually go to college. Will you need to be near a campus
or community college to take part-time classes?
Never close the door of opportunity.
Have an open mind about your future. Allow yourself to gain
knowledge about occupations that are different from your traditional interests. Although you may think now that you are not
ready to continue your education, the option may be better for
you in the future.
Ready to get started?
The first thing that you will need to do is put together a successful
resume. Your resume will be your introduction to a new company.
It is important to make sure that your resume is error-free and
you include all of the necessary information for each job. You may
have to alter your resume slightly for different companies. Contact
a manager or the Human Resources department of the companies
in which you are interested to find out what type of experience
and education they prefer in their work force.
Come prepared.
During your research, make up questions to ask the employer. At
the end of 99% of interviews you will be asked if you have any
questions. Ask questions relative to the company but not about
compensation or benefits. Show them that you are interested!
Relax.
Go through you normal routine. Make sure that you are comfortable in your clothes and with all of your interviewing skills.
Follow-up.
Make sure that you send a personal thank you card to your interviewers. Also send one to anyone else with the company you have
talked with including secretaries and the person who contacted
you if he or she was not one of the interviewers.
Private Trade & Vocational School
With over 120 private career schools in Maryland, there is a
program for nearly every interest or field. The Maryland
Higher Education Commission regulates every private
school and protects students’ interests. All private career
schools in Maryland are approved by the State, and many
are accredited by national associations. Here are some
questions to ask when shopping for a private career school:
Is the school authorized to operate?
What is the admissions policy?
Does the program offer what you need?
What does the training facility offer?
Continued on page 20
Before an interview...
Dress the part.
Always dress for business. It is never unacceptable to dress
professionally.
Do your homework.
Research the company as much as possible. See if you can pick up
information about the company in advance. This also shows initiative and interest. If the company has a website, familiarize
yourself with their service.
Arrive on time.
Arriving on time means, be there ten minutes early. This will
show the company that you will be on time. If necessary, make
the drive a day before your interview to clock your travel time.
You’re being watched.
From the time you leave your home act as if you are at your interview. Your interviewer could be driving the car in front of you or
stopped next to you at a traffic light. It could be the person you
cut off or don’t yield to.
Practice your interview skills.
Imagine different interview situations and how you would handle
them, such as seating arrangements. Prepare for a one-on-one
and for a group interview. Will you have a desk to protect you, or
will your body be open?
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what’snext?
i’m getting a job.
Continued from page 19
What are the instructors' qualifications?
Do they offer job placement assistance?
What other support services are offered?
What about financial assistance?
How much does the program cost?
Did you receive a catalog?
(Maryland Higher Education Commission Website
www.mhec.state.md.us)
Distance Learning
You’ve got to work, but you’d like to continue learning?
Why not do both?
Distance learning is the modern way to earn a real degree without
sitting in class, today’s version of correspondence courses. Using
the phone, internet, email, teleconferencing, and cable television,
students can earn from a high school diploma up to a Ph.D. in
many subjects. Benefits include lower cost, freedom of choice,
learning at your own pace, and schedule flexibility. But distance
learning is not for everyone. You need at least the following:
• Strong self-motivation and self-discipline
• Time to study regularly
• Good organization skills
• A quiet place to study
• The necessary equipment, including phone, TV, computer
• A supportive family
prom etiquette
For the Ladies...
1. Do be on time. Don't keep your nervous date waiting.
2. Don't forget your date’s boutonniere.
3. Don't refresh your lipstick more than one time a
the table.
4. Do reserve the first and last dance for your date.
5. Do accept compliments with a polite 'Thank you’
(rather than a ‘I don't think so’).
For the Gentlemen...
1. Do ask your date what color her dress is so that you may
match her corsage to her dress.
2. Do ask your date if she would prefer a wrist corsage or a
pinned on corsage (when in doubt, opt for the wrist corsage).
3. Don't forget the corsage.
4. Don't be late.
5. Don't lock your keys in your car.
6. Don't forget to turn off your car lights.
7. Do escort your date whenever appropriate.
8. Don't forget to tell her how beautiful she looks.
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Work and learn a job skill: a great formula for now and the future.
Apprenticeship programs have much to offer in the way of career
development. Apprentices are guaranteed pay raises throughout
their apprenticeship, and successful completion of the program
means better pay and a more stable work history. And the cost to
you is small. But competition is often strong for the best positions, so pay attention:
Union apprenticeship programs are typically split between supervised, on-the-job training and classroom study. Union membership will often be required. Skills learned here can be used
anywhere there is a union shop.
Employer-sponsored apprenticeship programs
also combine on-the-job training and classroom
work. Completion usually assures a permanent
job, and instructors are usually the best in their
fields. Be certain that the skills learned will be
broad enough to transfer to another company or
industry, if need be.
Apprenticeship programs are
registered through the Maryland
Apprenticeship and Training
Council, which has approved and
registered programs for 221
occupations.
Go to...
www.dllr.state.md.us/labor/appr.html
for more info.
For Everyone...
1. Do use words like Please and Thank you.
2. Do use the proper silverware. Usually you start using the outside fork and work your way in.
3. Do turn your salad fork upside down on the salad plate when
you are finished.
4. Do turn your coffee cup upside down if you do not want any
coffee.
5. Do put your napkin on your lap.
6. Don't put your napkin on the table until you are
finished eating.
7. Do place your napkin on the back of your chair if you are leaving to use the rest room.
8. Don't drink and drive.
If dinner is not part of the prom, and you are planning to
go out for dinner, bring $1 bills for coat-check($1 tip for
each coat) and valet parking (around $5 plus $2 tip)
Make sure to leave at least 15% tip on the entire check. It
is customary for the boy to buy the girl a corsage for the
prom. Try to find out what your date will be wearing, so
you can avoid buying a color that will clash. The corsage
may be worn on the body or wrist, always on the left.
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planning
prom?
Planning and
successfully
executing a
Prom takes lots
of planning,
coordination,
volunteers, energy,
and imagination...
Here’s some help getting started...
Prom Planning Timetable
Here is a basic checklist and timeline to guide you in
planning your Prom. Additional information follows in
this section or in the After-Prom section.
September > October
November > December
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❑
❑ Collect Decorations
Form a Prom Committee
Determine the Budget
Start Fundraising
Book the Facility
October > November
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❑
❑
Choose the Theme
Choose the Menu
Hire the Entertainment
Order Favors & Accessories
January > February
❑ Order Tickets & Programs
❑ Royal Court
February > March
❑ Organize Setup & Cleaning Crews
The Prom
Committee
Memorable Proms begin and end
here. To break up the work into
achievable tasks, each of the checklist items is sometimes delegated to
a different subcommittee, often
composed of prom committee
members and possibly other interested or knowledgeable people. The
subcommittee conducts the research
and reports back to the Committee
by a given date. The final decisions
are made by the whole Committee.
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budgeting & fundraising
List your sources of money: Prom tickets, PTA, fundraising
activities, donations or sponsorships from businesses, ads
in the program, parent donations. Use last year’s Prom or
After-prom party as a basis, but also ask neighboring
schools to share information.
There are many opportunities to run fundraising
events in your community
throughout the year:
Fundraising
• Car washes.
• Sell candy or donuts.
• Sell magazine subscriptions or
inexpensive imprinted logo items,
like plastic stadium cups.
• Group photo of the Class that you can
sell back to the students.
• Flower sales during holidays such as
Valentine’s Day and Easter; Christmas
poinsettia sales.
• A well advertised yard sale can make
money by selling spaces and by selling
donated items.
• Christmas wrap booth at the mall
or local department store.
• A talent show or concert.
• A winter dance or sock hop.
• An auction or silent auction with
goods donated by businesses
or individuals.
• A pizza and pasta dinner.
Grants
• Grant money may be available from
several sources to help fund your celebration. Make this a priority to apply
early. Check with the following
sources:
• Department of Motor Vehicles
• Safe and Drug-Free School coordinator
• Local Health Department or Bureau of
Substance Abuse
• Board of Education
Donations
Federal and State laws vary, but all
donations should be acknowledged
with a thank you letter. Avoid duplicate soliciting through coordination
with a chairperson. Donations may
take several forms:
• Cash
• Food
• Supplies, such as decorations
or paper products
• Discounts from businesses
• Services, such as printing
or duplication
• Items used as gifts and prizes
• Loan of equipment
• Be certain any businesses that are
solicited are those patronized by students or parents from your school.
Some Possible Donors:
• Parents
• School booster clubs
• PTA/PTSO
• Civic organizations (Optimists, Rotary,
Lions, Kiwanis, etc.)
• Chamber of Commerce Members
• Local businesses
• Substance abuse support groups
(MADD, SADD)
• Professionals
(Doctors, Lawyers, Dentists)
• Real Estate companies
• Gas Stations - door prize
• Flower Shops
• Grocery Stores
• Pizza Parlors
• Printing and Copying Businesses
• Local Newspapers - publicity;
thank-you ad to recognize
donations
• Health clubs
• Fast Food Restaurants
• Car Dealership
• Religious Community
Focus On the Mission: Sample Phone Script
Parent support for an event that:
• provides a safe environment for
students.
• will be adult supervised.
• provides a wide variety of activities
• is the the place to be for a great time
after the prom!
“May I please speak to _____ ?”
“This is _____ with the _____
After-Prom Party Committee.”
“I am joining with other parents this week
who are calling senior parents of _____
high school students about the
After-Prom Party.”
“Did you read the flyer we sent in
the mail?”
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“Our mission is to provide students with a
terrific time after the prom, and one which
is safe.”
“Does that sound like a good idea?”
“All seniors are invited even if they do not
attend the prom.”
“In order to attract students to the party
and keep them there, we are planning lots
of things that are popular among teens.
We will have a DJ and dancing, food,
games, entertainers, and lots of prizes. In
order to provide an event of this magnitude, we will need all the senior parents
to support this event by making donations
to the After-Prom Party.”
“Many students will not decide until the
last minute to attend the After-Prom
Party. We are not asking for a donation
because your child has decided to attend
the party, we are asking for a donation so
that we can provide a party that sounds so
great to the students that they will all
want to attend.”
“We are asking all parents of seniors for
contributions towards the party.
Contributions are tax deductible. Can we
count on you for a donation?”
“Check can be made payable to _____ .
(PTA, PTSA, Parent Group, School, etc.)
Please send contribution to _____ .”
Keep a list of activities, prizes and information about the After-Prom Party while
calling parents.
2009 Edition
The prom’s over but the night is still young.
It’s on to the After-Prom Party!
What’s an After-Prom Party?
by another student.
After-Prom Parties
It’s a party that starts after the prom ends.
• Great opportunity to network with
are
great
for:
Duh! More and more schools are now
other high school parents.
party on!:
having such parties.
Why?
It’s a great way for a class to celebrate a
last night together. And it’s safe – there
are no drugs or alcohol, and it’s adultsupervised.
Parents were the ones who came up with
the idea of after-prom parties. They
understand the intense pressure students
sometimes face during prom season to
indulge in activities that are seen as a “rite
of passage”, such as the use of alcohol,
tobacco and other drugs, and involvement
in sexual activity.
By providing an alternative that’s safe AND
fun, they hope that teens will be able to
resist behaviors and decisions that may
harm themselves and others.
Students
• Have a party to attend.
• Have opportunity to be with friends as
well as others they know from classes,
clubs, or sports but may not
socialize with.
• Can play games, be entertained,
and participate in activities not
available elsewhere.
• Admission is free or minimal.
• Can add this to the prom for a whole
night of wonderful memories.
Parents
• Know the party is adult supervised.
• Know the party is drug/alcohol free.
• Do not need to worry about their children being hurt as a result of
alcohol/drug use by their child or use
• Many committees have gone on to
provide other drug/alcohol free social
events at their school - most for students some for parents.
The Community
• The entire community is safer during
prom season when their students are
not driving drunk or drugged.
• Opportunity for the community to
work together.
• Support the attitude that alcohol and
other drugs are not a necessary part of
a celebration.
time at the After-Prom Party will be eligible to win the big prizes. For example: If
the prom ends at 12 midnight and your
party begins at 12 midnight decide that
all Grand Prize tickets must be turned in
by 1:00 a.m. Any students arriving later
than 1:00 a.m. will be given everything
that the other students receive with their
registration packet minus the Grand Prize
ticket. They can play the games, participate in the entertainment activities, eat,
dance, and win raffle prizes as well as the
very small prizes. But they will not have
their name in for a Grand Prize.
Each student can receive an invitation to
the After-Prom Party with a number on it.
When they arrive they will have an opportunity in the registration area to match
their number with a winning number for a
prize. Make this a very worthwhile prize.
They must arrive by a certain time in order
to match their number to be the prize
winner. If the winning number does not
arrive by the cut off time the prize is given
away during the night as a raffle prize.
Regardless of which way the prize is won,
the prize does not leave the party until the
end of the night. If there will be “funny
money” used for the games or activities,
students arriving before the designated
time will receive a bonus amount in their
envelope.
The registration area is very important. It
is the first part of the party that the students will see. Have some great decora-
tions in this area. Have your registration
material very well organized. Do this
before the night of the prom. Have
enough tables so that this area is not too
crowded or confusing.
Have a sign-in sheet for guests. Guests are
the responsibility of the person who has
brought them. Have a sign-out sheet for
anyone who leaves early. The sign-out
sheet is for your liability protection. Keep
the sign-out after the party is over. Hang
posters in this area with the instructions
for the party and the activities. Post a
schedule of the evening activities. Have
something for the students to do as soon
as they register. This is a good spot to
have a “guess how many” prize activity.
at the door
Attendance at the prom is not necessarily
required for admission to the After-Prom
Party. In most cases, all seniors are invited
regardless of whether they attend the
prom. Some schools focus on this as a
“Senior Celebration” or a “Grad Gala” to
encourage all the senior students to
attend. The more students you have at the
After-Prom Party, the more likely you are
to hold the group until the end of
the night.
Tickets are not necessary for admission to
the After-Prom Party. Admission is done
in a variety of ways - tickets, no tickets,
tickets with a fee, tickets without a fee,
reservations, no reservations. Some
schools use neither reservations nor tickets - a “just show up at the door” policy.
This enables students to decide on attending the After-Prom Party even as late as
when they are leaving the prom.
Some schools have a “cut off” time after
which students will not be admitted while
others admit students all night. If students will be admitted at any time during
the party, you will want to offer some
incentives for the students to arrive early.
Grand prizes shouldn’t be given to students that have arrived an hour before the
party ends. The biggest and best prizes
should go to the students that have
invested their evening in the
After-Prom Party.
Set up guidelines so that the students
who arrive early enough to invest their
Suggest to the students
as they come in:
• Read the instructions on
“How to Win”.
• Check the schedule for the evening.
• Check to see if your number matches
the winning number for the registration prize.
• Sign your tickets – door prize, raffle
prize, grand prize tickets, etc.
• Put your raffle tickets in the raffle
drum and your grand prize tickets in
the grand prize drum.
• Sign the graffiti wall.
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choosing a facility
Determine your location
early! Aside from the school
gymnasium, banquet halls,
restaurants and other
locations get booked up
for your date quickly.
Many other aspects of the event, including
menu, decorations, entertainment, not to
mention the budget, depend upon the
choice of the facility.
The party and the activities are far more
important than the facility. Successful
parties have been held anywhere from
warehouses to Bay cruises and country
clubs. Although students do like to have
parties someplace other than their high
school, many successful parties are held in
school gyms. The advantages of a school
gym are the proximity to the students’
homes as well as the size and height of
the room. These are often popular for
Junior Proms, and save quite a bit on a
tight budget. Other popular places are
bowling alleys, college student unions,
movie theatres, children’s museums, athletic and health clubs, restaurants popular
with the teen crowd (ESPN Zone, Harbor
Cruises), shopping malls and the YMCA.
Consider function halls such as armories,
fire halls, and VFW; for these you will need
to hire a caterer.
Whatever the facility, make sure that
in-house staff will be on hand to solve last
minute problems. Why doesn’t this outlet
work? Can we have another trash can?
There’s water all over the Ladies’ room.
Stuff happens. Only someone with the
authority and knowledge to solve your
problem will prevent it from becoming
a disaster.
Consider the following
when choosing a facility:
Decorations
What decorations will the facility allow?
How early can the decorations committee
begin their project? Give yourself plenty of
time. Unloading and setting up ladders,
tables, prizes, decorations, etc. will take a
great deal of time. If the time will be
short, increase the number of volunteers.
Bag Room
For the After-Prom Party, some students
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will want to change into more casual
attire. Others may have purses or personal
belongings they will want to check. Do
not allow students to carry book bags or
any other carry bags into the party.
Controlling everything that can be carried
around in book bags, duffel bags, sports
bags, etc. will be impossible. Allowing
carry bags into the party puts the parents
in a position that may be seen as confrontational.
Insurance
The facility may require an insurance certificate stating that your group is covered
for liability insurance. Contact the insurance agent for your school or group. Find
out if the facility has insurance to cover
any activities not covered on your school
or parent group policy. If the facility does
not carry insurance for the activity in
question, you may be able to buy a temporary rider policy to cover the liability for
the activity.
Food Prep Area
This is not required but is a great
convenience. Most facilities allow the
group to bring in donated food. If you will
be purchasing food or beverage, check to
see if there are any guidelines such as contracts with soda
suppliers or a list of approved caterers.
Parking
The parking area should be well lit and
close to the party. You will need enough
space to accommodate the crowd. Many
students ride to the prom and after-prom
party in a limousine or bus. They may have
cars dropped off at the after-prom party
site early in the evening.
Size
A space large enough to handle all the
activities and the students but small
enough to make them feel secure. Teens
like to feel like part of a crowd. Put as
much in an area as possible. You don’t
want the size of the facility to dwarf the
size of the crowd. Measure the size and
the height of the room. You will need this
information to be sure the entertainment
equipment can be accommodated.
What’s On the Menu?
• Menu options include a full sit-down
dinner, a buffet, or finger foods. Your
budget, options offered by the facility or
caterer, the preferences of the students,
the theme, and even school tradition
play a part in helping you decide this.
• Many facilities have a professional
catering staff who have served numerous
high school proms successfully. Listen to
their advice carefully.
• If your committee is deciding between
several dishes, ask for a taste test.
• A written contract will usually be
required, often with a guaranteed minimum. The final count will be required
perhaps a week or ten days prior to the
event, so plan ticket sales accordingly.
• Get all aspects of the meal and evening
detailed in the contract. Don’t forget
about a soda or frozen smoothie bar,
desserts, appetizer and bread trays,
danish at midnight, and so on.
Everything is negotiable, but only
before the contract is signed.
• If you are planning to bring any food in
from outside, ask first. Many facilities
where proms are held strictly prohibit
or limit this.
• Food is important, but not critical for a
good time. Many students don’t care or
can’t remember what they ate at
their prom. You’re there to celebrate with
your friends. Atmosphere, entertainment, and company have a lot to do with
the success of an event.
• Keep The Food Simple. Pizza, subs, soda
are favorites. Donuts, danish, fruit for
breakfast. Stay away from unusual foods.
• Use small signs to identify foods when
lights are dimmed.
• Avoid over-ordering food; be realistic
when donations of food are offered.
If a particular food runs out, just offer
something else. Don’t forget that lots of
leftovers means lots of work at 5:00 am.
• Use buffet tables in several areas to avoid
congestion, with portions served
throughout the night, rather than only at
scheduled times, which interrupts other
activities.
• Use adult chaperones to circulate with
trays of food and drink around the
various activities, and don’t forget the
chaperones at the exit doors.
• If a full meal is not planned, start the
prom later, in order to give people time
to dine out.
themes and decorating
Many of the most exciting events are planned far in
advance, sometimes by a separate decorations/theme
chairperson. The following are tips on themes and
decorations to get you started.
Can a Prom and an After-Prom Party have different themes? You
bet they can! These tips are good for either type of event. The
decor could be variations of the same theme, or completely different. One theme could be a bit more romantic, one a bit more
fun. Choose a theme early, so that all decorations, activities, food
and publicity can be planned around it. The tickets, publicity,
entry-way, and registration should all be tied in to the theme
some way.
Themes need not be original and the success of the event can be
enhanced by borrowing decorations, games and ideas from other
classes or other schools. Many parties use the same basic activities each year, but they change them to suit a brand new theme.
One Note of Caution: Follow all copyright laws, do not use
licensed characters in ANY form without written permission from
the copyright owner. Giving credit at the bottom of the program
does NOT count. Consult an attorney if you are unsure.
The decoration chairperson should submit a proposed budget to
the steering or main committee. This is often better than being
allotted what is left after other expenses. Decorations help set the
mood for the party and make it an unforgettable experience.
Don’t overlook the services of a professional party/event planner.
They sometimes have great cost-saving ideas, can make props for
less than you could purchase them, and can often hire vendors
and even caterers cheaper than you can. They also can help steer
you away from dangerous situations that might not be approved
by the Fire Marshall, who must be contacted prior to the event.
Give them a budget and let them do much of the work.
If your budget allows, use a professional decorator early, at least
for some decorations that may not be possible to have using volunteers. Think of it as “helping hands” and use their expert advice
to develop affordable elements of your theme. Then proceed to
add decorations that coordinate with your theme as volunteers
come forward or money is raised.
Supply decoration committee members with copies of the facility
guidelines and floor plan. It is difficult, if not impossible, to decorate all areas of a huge facility. Concentrate on several areas:
entrance, registration, food, prizes, DJ or band, games, etc.
Stores that sell refrigerators have large boxes that can be unfolded, painted and cut for backdrops – skylines, trees, fountains,
beach sandcastles, tents, etc.
Set up a decorations bank and share with neighboring high
schools.
Here are a few of many possible themes for both Proms
and After-Proms.
Wizard of Oz
Paris
A Night in the Orient
Day at the Beach
Circus
Survivor
Fabulous Fifties
Music
Mardi Gras
New Years’ Eve in New York
Cruise to Nowhere
See our website for more details on these theme ideas.
tips for a safe prom
Keep an eye on your date/driver to make
sure he/she doesn’t drink any alcohol.
Alcohol slows reaction time and impairs
vision, clear thinking, judgment,
and coordination.
There are more drunk drivers on the roads during the
weekend. Keep a close eye on oncoming drivers,
as impaired drivers tend to drive towards
lights.
Know where you’re going before prom
night and have directions to those
places.
After your red light turns green, wait a
second before pulling into the intersection, just to be safe.
Drive on well lit roads, and carry a
phone if possible. That way, if you get a
flat tire, you’re not stranded, waving
down a cab with your silk tie or sequin
purse.
Beautiful girls are distracting enough - keep the
radio volume turned low enough so your drive
can concentrate on getting you to the fun.
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And don’t forget your seat belt!
Discuss plans with your friends/date ahead of time. Know your
agenda and communicate with your parents.
Plan ahead what you will say or do if someone offers you alcohol
or another illegal drug. Use phrases such as, “No thanks,”
“Are you kidding? I want to remember this night!”,
or “Actually, I’d rather have a soda.
Do you have one?”
Know your date before you go. If your date is set-up, try to take
a walk at a park or go for a smoothie before the big
night. Both you and your parents will feel better
about you staying out late with someone
you know.
Find out what your curfew is and share it
with your date/friends before prom
night. Discuss with your parents aftercurfew possibilities (the party at your
friend’s house or early morning breakfast at your place).
Ask a trusted adult to be near a phone
and to be available prom night in case
you need to call them. Carry enough
change to make several phone calls.
Courtesy of MADD, www.madd.org
Mothers Against Drunk Driving
2009 Edition
after-prom entertainment
Keeping the party going is critical at the After-Prom! A combination of games, activities,
entertainment, food, and give-aways attracts students AND keeps them at the party...
Unless the facility
already has great
music, you’ll need
a DJ or band to keep
the Party going.
Entertainment can be of a
wider variety than at the
Prom. Follow the suggestions
for bands and DJ’s in the Prom
Entertainment section, and for
all entertainers, request and
check references.
There are a vast number of
cool and exciting events and
activities for an after-prom
party. See the list at the right
for ideas.
Many of the alternate entertainment also need lots of
space and electrical power. Ask
the providers and check with
the facility manager.
Don’t forget about activities
native to the after-prom facility: bowling, video games,
sports activities, etc.
Make prize giveaways part of
the entertainment! Solicit
donations of money and/or
gifts, and keep announcing
winners throughout the night.
Here is a list of
just some of the
activities you
can have at an
After-Prom Party:
Activities Rented
from a Vendor
Inflatable Games and Rides
Arcade games
Caricatures
Fire Eaters
Game shows
Carnival Games
Batting Cages
Basketball Cages
Magicians
Balloon Twisters
Clowns
Face painting
Hands in Wax
Mini Stock Car Racing
Song Recording Booths
Fortune Tellers
Hairwraps
Temporary Tattoos
Virtual Reality Games
Air Hockey Tables
Fooseball Tables
Pool Tables
Fun Photos
Photo Stickers
Mechanical Bull Rides
Telescope Photos
Photo Souvenirs
Laser Tag
Rock Mountain
Sumo Wrestling
Video Recording Booth
Casino Games
Bouncy Boxing
Money Booths
Bouncy Boxing
Human Bowling
Moon Bounce
Video Surfing
Velcro Olympics
Contests Your
Committee Can Arrange
Hoola Hoop
Pie eating
Dance
Stilt-walking
Limbo
Best Legs (Guys)
Guess How Many
Funniest Home Video
Trivia Contest
Teen-aged photo of
teacher ID contest
Athletic Activities
Arm wrestling
Basketball
Bowling
Frisbee throw
Frisbee golf
Nerf fencing
Roller skating
Tug-of-war
Volleyball
Beauty Related
Face painting
Beauty Makeovers
Hair Studio
Tattoo Parlor (Body paints)
Fingernail Painting
Toenail Painting
Memories
Class photos - project
slides on wall
all evening
Class video - tape events
throughout the year
and run a video loop
all evening
Yearbook signing
Graffiti wall
Entertainment
Fortune Tellers
Magicians
Balloon Twisters
Clowns
Caricatures
Fire Eaters
Game shows
Fireworks
DJ’s and bands
Light Shows
Strolling jugglers
Carnival Games
NOTE: The following
familiar carnival games should
be modified to fit your theme.
Examples: Toss pennies into
saucers, becomes Toss gold
coins into chest for a Mardi
Gras theme or Toss cracker
gold fish into fish bowls for a
beach theme.
Hoops over bottles
Darts at balloons
Races
Throw football thru tire
Bean bags through holes
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Carbone Entertainment
Silver Spring, MD
301-572-7717 or 1-888-590-0039
www.carboneentertainment.com
Airbrush - shirts, hats, tattoos & faces, telescopes - keychains & other photo novelties, photo booths, patch hats, glitter &
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Crazy Clix, LLC
Reisterstown, MD
410-654-5529
www.crazyclix.com
Beach scope pictures for your next event perfect for graduation parties and After
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601 E. Pratt St.
Baltimore, MD
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Silver Spring, MD
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301-910-5350
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Towson, MD
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Largest selection of latest, most exciting
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Silver Spring, MD
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Providing luxury, reliable limousine,
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2009 Edition
Sheraton Baltimore North Hotel
903 Dulaney Valley Road
Towson, MD
410-321-7400
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The Sheraton Baltimore North Hotel
offers two magnificent ballrooms to
accommodate that special evening, from
a small Graduation gathering to a grand
Prom event for up to 350 guests.
Prom Q & A
Stella Bridals
3309-21 Eastern Ave.
Baltimore, MD
410-522-7447
www.stellabridals.com
Over 500 gowns in stock! Top designers
such as Jovani, Tiffany, Alyce and many
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I need help finding a beautiful dress for my formal, which
is in a month or so. I won't bore you with details of my
social life, but suffice to say it is important that I look
good. I own several beautiful vintage cocktail dresses
that I inherited from my grandmother, but I'm terrified
to wear them to prom!! I don't want to wreck them! Is it
possible to either get them copied or find something similarly styled? They all have knee length circle skirts and
corset bodices (huzzah for major flattery!) and I haven't
been able to find a similar style that's formal enough!!!
I see why you are nervous about donning your grandmother's
vintage threads on prom night. But, I do have to point out that
beautiful dresses were meant to be worn!
If you are dead set on leaving those dresses in the closet on prom
night, you just might be able to hunt out a few good replicas.
Tonja Stevens, of Bridal Elegance in Eldersburg, agrees that corset
gowns are in. If you are looking for the bubble skirt, then make
sure to check out the bridesmaid gowns and not just the prom
gowns. She notes, "No one is going to know the difference, and
this year more bridesmaid gowns are being sold for prom than
prom gowns!!!! Plus more color options to make those eyes POP."
I asked a guy friend from another school to go with me to
my prom. What do I have to pay for??
COMMON QUESTION, BUT NO EASY ANSWERS. A typical scenario
is this: You pay for the ticket and a boutonniere for him. He buys
you a corsage. You share the ride, dinner, you buy your dress,
shoes, etc. He rents the tux. If you are sporting, you may pay for
photos to share, or a photo key chain, etc. He may appreciate
your gestures, or he may be insulted because he wanted to at
least pay his own way. This varies person to person. We can't tell
from here, so you'll need to talk to him about this, and the sooner the better. Don't be afraid, just a short chat (in person, not IM)
to clear things up, so you can relax and enjoy your Prom.
There is this guy I want to ask to prom. I just asked if he
was going, he said nah, I just wanna cruise around that
night. He's a senior and I would really like to go with him
but scared to ask! What do I do?
Short answer: Hold your breath and ask him. If you wait, he may
decide to go with someone else who asks him first!
Longer answer: Just because he SAYS he doesn't want to go,
doesn't mean he won't say yes when asked. After all, boys are
often pretty shy about asking girls, and they take rejection as
hard or harder than girls. So the "I'm just gonna cruise around"
line could really mean, "I'll go if you go with me." You'll never
know unless you ask.
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When Your Teen Asks:
“Did You Ever Use Drugs?”
Unless the answer is no, it is difficult to know what to say
because nearly all parents who used, don‘t want their children to do the same thing. The response should be honest lying risks losing credibility and teaches your children to lie.
This doesn’t mean parents need to recount every moment of
their experience. Some details should remain private.
Ask clarifying questions to make sure you understand why
your children are asking. This discussion provides a good
opportunity for parents to speak frankly and explains why
they want their children to avoid making the same mistake.
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