Winter 2013 - Our Lady Queen of Martyrs
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Winter 2013 - Our Lady Queen of Martyrs
CenterView A Newsletter published by Our Lady Queen of Martyrs 53 Prospect Road Centerport, NY 11721 Confirmation 2012 Winter 2013 631-757-8184 CenterView A newsletter published by and for Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Church Purpose This newsletter provides up-todate information about our faith community. It covers all aspects of parish life, including Liturgy, Education, Service and Social Ministry. This newsletter is provided to highlight the mission of our Catholic parish in its ideals and its action. CenterView Editorial Staff Publisher Msgr. John D. Gilmartin Editor Rose Ann Walsh Contributing Writers Jini Baltrus Megan Butler Sr. Eileen Corcoran Ninette Euler Laurie Giannetta Rebecca Kupka Judy Smith Photographers Frank Anastasi Ninette Euler Judy Smith Graphic Design & Layout George S. Keenan Judy Smith Advertising & Printing The Church Bulletin Inc. 200 Dale Street West Babylon, NY 11704 631-249-4994 Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Church 53 Prospect Road Centerport, NY 11721 631-757-8184 www.olqmparish.org [email protected] Table of Contents Features Winter 2013 A Message from Father John ..................................................Page 4 Parish Social Ministry- A New Direction .............................Page 5 Hurrican Sandy-Our Parish Response...........................Page 6 & 7 Growth in Ministry..............................................................Page 8 & 9 Hearing the Needs of One Another......................................Page 10 Faith Formation.........................................................................Page 11 Confirmation .....................................................................Page 12 & 13 Around the Parish in Photos .........................................Page 14 & 15 Adult Faith Formation.....................................................Page 16 & 17 Golf & Tennis Outing .......................................................Page 18 & 19 Theater Summer Camp ..................................................Page 20 & 21 Finance Committee Report....................................................Page 22 Finance Report ............................................................Page 23 Baptisms, Weddings, Funerals & Welcomes ...........Page 24 & 25 With Thanks To Those Who Serve.......................................Page 26 On the Cover: Bishop Robert Brennan returns to Our Lady Queen of Martyrs to confer the sacrament of Confirmation. CenterView Winter 2013 Page 3 A Message from Father John Dear Parishioners, With the input of many parishioners and staff, we are delighted to bring you this edition of CenterView. As always, the purpose of this publication is to share with you information about many of the programs and activities going on at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs. This issue of CenterView shares the story of our parish’s response to Hurricane Sandy, highlighting the tremendous outpouring of help from so many in response to the needs of our neighbors. It was truly another ‘defining moment’ of the mission to which we are called in our parish. Jini Baltrus had just become a member of the staff and she immediately stepped in to help organize our efforts, all the while making sure that she was available to people in need as our new Parish Social Ministry Director. The Finance Committee is an essential part of our parish that assures us stability and clear direction. We have an outstanding group of parishioners with expertise in finance who serve on this committee and we are grateful for their stewardship. It is your generosity as parishioners which enables us to offer many important ministries here at the parish and we are most appreciative of your support. $80,000 for the parish. Thank you to those who provide such fine leadership for this event and special congratulations to Jane and George Devine, who were honored for their many years of service to the parish. Two members of our staff, Ninette Euler and Sister Eileen, have been at the center of parish life for many years. As you can see in their articles, they continue to provide outstanding programs for parishioners. Our Faith Formation program has over 1200 young people and Sister Eileen continues to provide us with wonderful programs for adults, including an upcoming retreat for the parish and excellent speakers throughout the year. In our next issue, we hope to focus on our Youth Ministry program, including some excellent articles from young people who experienced a visit to Nazareth Farm. We’d like to highlight their efforts as well as the many other activities of our parish youth under the direction of Deacon Chris Sisini. Please consider this a brief review and I hope it invites you not only to read the articles but to consider becoming involved in one of the many ministries that make up this great parish of Our Lady Queen of Martyrs. Peace, Father John Our annual Golf and Tennis Outing was a tremendous success this year, raising over Page 4 CenterViewWinter 2013 Parish Social Ministry~A New Direction Jini Baltrus Director of Parish Social Ministry As reported in previous issues of CenterView, we enlisted the aid of two very competent consultants, Richard Dina and Rick Van Dyke, to complete a comprehensive study of our Parish Social Ministry. After interviewing over 50 parishioners and consulting with parish staff, they recommended we begin a search for a Director of Parish Social Ministry. The selection process included advertising this position with Catholic Charities as well as in every parish in the diocese. From this search, over 25 candidates applied for the position. I personally interviewed each candidate and selected from this very fine list of people three finalists who were very capable candidates. With the aid of four other people who assisted in the final interview process, Joe Siniscalchi, Richard Dina, Rick Van Dyke and Linda Leone ( Parish Social Ministry Director in Saint Anne’s), Jini Baltrus was chosen to serve as our new Director. a strong understanding of the social Gospel and a commitment to seeing it enhanced and expanded in building upon the very fine program we have had here for many years. In the director we were looking for a person with this understanding of our mission and the drive to develop an even greater number of volunteers to respond to the needs of our community. Key to this effort is a person of strong faith, deep compassion and ability to articulate the mission to our community. Jini comes to us with a strong background in administration. In reviewing her work in the corporate world, she had major responsibilities which included activities related to providing assistance for people in the organization who had lost jobs, or experienced mortgage problems or other related financial difficulties. This was one of the dimensions of her background we felt was critical for the position. St. Vincent De Paul volunteers We are working together in several areas, including ministry to families who have children with special needs, developing a Share a Meal program within our parish, and training new volunteers to serve in Parish Social Ministry. Jini also has the assistance of an Advisory Committee to guide her. Please join me in welcoming Jini and I invite you all to come to know her as a person who is here for you if you have a need and looking to hear from you if you are interesting in helping as a volunteer. Clearly this was not the only area of expertise Jini brings to us. One of the major areas we sought was Jini has been ‘introduced’ to Parish Social Ministry with the coming of Sandy. She immediately came to know many people in need and offered her compassionate presence to the many who came to the parish seeking assistance. Now that things have settled down a bit, she has begun the task of coming to know the volunteers and the needs of our parish and to build this ministry. CenterView Winter 2013 Page 5 Hurricane Sandy The scribe asked Jesus, “Master, which is the greatest commandment?” Jesus answered, “Love God with all your heart, all your soul and all your will, and your neighbor as yourself.” This past fall we had the opportunity to not only hear the Word, but to put the greatest Commandment into action. In light of the unprecedented damage caused by Hurricane Sandy, our faith community at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs gathered together to help our neighbors and friends in need. We opened our doors and our hearts to the community. The Community Room became the ‘Sandy Command Center.’ We provided coffee, hot meals, warmth, television and internet connections, a “charging station” and companionship. Parishioners Danielle Martin and Erin Deacy came to us, desperate to help their family in Breezy Point. Within hours, a collection station had been set up and organized. Donations of warm clothing and blankets, shoes, coats, gloves, toys,and books were sorted and delivered to families who had lost everything. Within a day, Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Parish became a collection site for the hurricane relief effort. A request was made for clothing, food, water, batteries, flashlights and cleaning supplies. Many hands, young and old, organized and sorted mountains of food, clothing and supplies. Thank you to the hundreds of people who pitched in to help. We are grateful to all of you for your time and effort. We are especially grateful to the following people and establishments Jini Baltrus, our Director of Parish Social Ministry, worked tirelessly for days to coordinate services for so many. She organized rides to polling places, meals to the home bound, overnight accommodations at parishioners’ homes, rides to Page 6 CenterView Winter 2013 Our Parish Response their tremendous generosity and hours spent seeing that our “hospitality operation” ran smoothly. Our ability to respond so quickly to help our neighbors is truly reflective of the leadership of the dedicated staff and generous volunteers and parishioners at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs, and so many who donated vast amounts of food, clothing and supplies. hospitals and doctor appointments and even provided space in the rectory living room for a patient to have dialysis treatment. Jim Feeley and the Centerport Fire Department and Craig Hamilton for providing trucks to help us transport the donations to central locations. We were able to send truckloads of supplies and clothing to St. Hugh’s and St. Edward’s parishes. Liz and Pat Madigan for the countless hours of “kitchen duty” and to Beth Cotter and all the other ladies who worked so hard to feed us all. Green Cactus, John John’s Sandwich Shop, Ruvo Restaurant, Jimmy’s Pizza and the Knights of Columbus for providing additional food and snacks to feed us all. We were honored to offer hospitality to the utility workers from Canada who worked in the snow, sleet and rain of the Nor’easter to restore power to the neighbors and our surrounding communities. We have been able to truly live the gospel and build on our faith community here at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs. We were able to demonstrate our love for God and bring compassion and caring to our neighbors. Memories of Hurrican Sandy and the destruction left behind won’t soon be forgotten; but perhaps this experience has changed us a bit too. We may never be completely prepared for what Mother Nature sends our way, but our hearts must always be prepared to live the greatest commandment. May we all continue to share in God’s goodness and blessings. Pastor Mark Bigelow, who graciously offered his facilities at the Congregational Church of Huntington on Election Day so that we could continue to provide hospitality. Joe Siniscalchi and Barbara Butler for CenterView Winter 2013 Page 7 Growth in Ministry Jini Baltrus has become our new Director of Parish Social Ministry and was quickly introduced to the needs of our parish as “Sandy” arrived. As a result of the storm and in connecting with so many people in need, we have significantly expanded our Parish Social Ministry. • Your generosity, involvement and help in these past months provide us the opportunity to continue to develop this important Ministry. Some of the major projects completed this Fall include: • Opening the parish facilities for the people of the community who were in need during the storm and continue to need assistance. • • Providing Thanksgiving and Christmas for over 40 families in need. We also introduced the Page 8 “Adopt a Family” project and have 42 families involved. The St. Vincent de Paul Society is working closely with Parish Social Ministry in this effort. The “Share a Meal” project is intended to regularly provide meals for families who are faced with major difficulties. Our parishioners generously donate and deliver these meals. We celebrate mass with our friends with special needs on a monthly basis. Mass is on Saturday evening at 5:00 in the Community Room. Please check the bulletin for upcoming dates. CenterView Winter 2013 • The Respite program is in the stages of development. Many people with extensive backgrounds in working with special needs have volunteered to assist in this effort. Special training will be provided. • • We are in the planning stages of a Nurse Ministry, a cancer support group and other parenting programs in the upcoming year Additionally, a parent support group has been formed and meets monthly to share thoughts and information and provide support for another. We invite you to contact Jini Baltrus at 754-9045 if you are interested in volunteering in any of these initiatives. We appreciate and depend on our volunteers to help us help others. Thank you for your continued support. As we begin the new year, additional ministries are being developed. • The Advisory Council will hold its annual retreat in February to further discuss and establish the vision and direction of Parish Social Ministry. • “Every child, every person needs to know that they are a source of joy; every child, every person needs to be celebrated. Only when all of our weaknesses are accepted as part of our humanity can our negative, broken self-images be transformed.” Jean Vanier Training will begin in January for our special group of volunteers who will be coordinating the direct services for the needy in our community. CenterView Winter 2013 Page 9 Hearing the Needs of One Another As many parents of children with special needs can attest, there is a certain understanding that happens among us. The special needs of our young (or perhaps, adult) children may be very different in terms of the particular kind of diagnosis, but the experience often transcends the specifics. When parents of children with special needs gather together, there is a lot of nodding and smiles of recognition. Most importantly, there is something that is often lacking in the larger world, filled as it is with “typical” children: a lot of shared sympathy and understanding. As the mother of a young son who is on the autism spectrum and a young daughter who is “typical,” I know first-hand how helpful this is. What Can our Parish Do to Help? It is just this kind of sympathy and understanding that abounds in the recently formed support group for parents who have children with special needs. The group formed as a result of Father John’s sending out a question to our faith community: What can we do to help families who have children with special needs? What can our parish do to include them? And how, specifically, can we help you? The response so far has come in the form of monthly support group meetings and Masses that are geared specifically toward special children, their families, and those who care for them. Our support group has held monthly meetings in the Community Room, where families discuss both the joys and challenges inherent in parenting children who are not, for lack of a better word, “typical.” As of this writing, the group consists of approximately ten families, with children ranging from elementary school age to adults in their early 30’s and 40’s. While parents talk in one room, their children — those with special needs and their siblings —play in another room, where they are entertained by volunteers from the parish. At our first meeting in the fall, Father John, Jini Baltrus and the group of parents discussed not only what it’s like to be the parent of a child with special needs, but more importantly, what it means. As we sat together in our circle, we discussed how it feels to be on this particular journey, which has a different set of milestones and a Page 10 different set of expectations. Parents were able to share how each of us has navigated through whichever part of the journey we’re on at this time. At the end of the evening, the kids emerged from the adjacent room with beaded necklaces and Play Doh cakes, clamoring eagerly about when they could come to Church. A Truly Special Mass When Father John celebrates Mass for families who have children with special needs, gone are the labels of “Down Syndrome” or “autism spectrum,” as we listen to these children do spirited readings, help serve at the altar and participate in singing joyful songs. The acceptance of behaviors that might be found distracting in the ‘upstairs’ Church allow for the Mass to feel more fluid and open. This is especially helpful to children who have sensory or other issues that can be more visible in a restrictive enivronment, which often keeps families from attending Mass with the larger community in the main Church. This Mass, which is open to all families, not only doesn’t restrict, it welcomes all. Father John has modeled this ministry on one that he founded in his previous parish, Saint Anne’s in Garden City. Plans for additional programs are already in the works, such as Respite for parents, who can take some needed time off while their children are entertained for several hours on a Friday night by caring and competent volunteers. The parents’ support group continues to meet and we welcome new families who have children with special needs. If you are interested in finding out more about this, please contact Jini Baltrus at 754-9045 and she is sure to help you get connected. Although this is a group that has been brought together in one way or another by labels, this is one place where any and all labels can be set aside, where the word “special” can be felt and understood not in terms of separateness or difference, but with all of its many layers of meaning. ~ Laurie Giannetta CenterView Winter 2013 Faith Formation Changes for the New Year Parents are the first and primary teachers of the faith. We who are called to be ministers in Children’s Faith Formation see our mission clearly. We strive to assist parents in the faith formation of their children, and thereby hope to invigorate the entire faith community here at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Parish. In Children’s Faith Formation we have close to 1200 students enrolled in grades one through nine. Since we do not have a large school building, approximately 70% of our classes are taught by catechists in their own homes. The class sizes range from 6-12 students. These faith formation classes become, in effect, small Christian communities. In these small groups, students feel comfortable not only learning about God and the Church but also sharing with each other their personal faith stories. It is in this way that we hope to inspire our students to form a real relationship with Jesus. Students in 1st and 2nd Grades are beginning their preparation to receive First Reconciliation and First Communion. This is an exciting and important time for these students as well as for their families. Last spring we had 125 students receive the Lord Jesus in Holy Communion for the first time. Our 5th graders learn about other Christian Churches and visit St. Paraskevi Greek Orthodox Church in Greenlawn. Our 6th graders visit the Huntington Jewish Center to hear about the Jewish faith and its customs. Formal preparation for Confirmation begins in the 7th grade, and continues until the sacrament is conferred in the fall of 9th grade. Students at this level are asked to make a personal commitment to attend Mass regularly, and complete Mass reflection sheets about the Sunday gospels. They also write a letter to the pastor requesting Confirmation, make a commitment to helping others though Christian service projects, and take part in a spiritual retreat. We offer some large, grade-level events throughout the year. However, our focus is on smaller celebrations, which allow the students to really feel a part of what is happening. We have, especially in the past few years, tried very hard to re-introduce the importance of the Mass to our students. Father John celebrates individual class Masses, either in the chapel or at a catechist’s home. These liturgies become meaningful learning experiences for the students, as well as their parents. The Pflaum Gospel Weeklies program is another natural progression in this process. This year we completed our move to using the Gospel Weeklies for all of our grade levels. It is a program based on the themes and lessons of the Sunday Gospels. There are 5 groupings, starting with pre-school and going up through 7th & 8th grade. The lessons are new every year; they follow the cycles of readings and teach in real time the seasons of the liturgical year. Everyone in the faith formation program, from Pre School through 8th grade, is learning the same gospel lesson each week, although it is, of course, modified for each age group. There is also a Catechism component to the program, instructing and re-enforcing the topics & themes being taught each week. Although our Children’s Faith Formation program goes from first grade through ninth grade, we teach our students that their faith formation is a life long journey that does not end when they receive Confirmation. At Our Lady Queen of Martyrs, we are fortunate to have a Youth Ministry program, and a twicemonthly Teen Mass, through which we invite older teens to keep their connection to the parish and to our liturgical celebrations. Through Youth Ministry, these young people continue the work of Christian Service well into their teen years. In our parish Faith Formation program, we are also blessed with a couple of teams of energetic and committed teenagers who have been confirmed, and continue their own faith formation, as they become catechists to share their faith with the younger children in the parish. Faith Formation at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs is truly a living, breathing, growing ministry, involving more than 200 trained and dedicated catechists and volunteer aides. CenterView Winter 2013 Page 11 Wisdom - Understanding - Right Judgement This fall, on October 25th, Bishop Robert Brennan came to Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Parish to anoint 158 ninth graders in the Sacrament of Confirmation. Even though it was a dreary day outside, within the walls of our church, there was much brightness and joy. The Holy Spirit came down upon our Confirmation candidates and their families in two beautiful and reverent celebrations. Some students read the readings, and some brought up the gifts during the presentation, but all those in attendance shared in celebrating the liturgy with prayer and song. Confirmandi that Jesus loves us so much and wants to be part of our lives forever. And he thanked them for accepting this gift of friendship, and being open to the possibilities it offers. During the anointing, Bishop Brennan took a personal moment with each of the candidates, as he blessed them, wished them peace and congratulated them. After the ceremony, the bishop joined the students and their families downstairs in the Community Room for pictures. It was a wonderful culmination of their years of study and preparation. Before the ceremonies, Bishop Brennan spent a little time with the Confirmandi and their sponsors, introducing himself to them. In his homily, the bishop spoke directly to the ninth graders and explained that our faith is a relationship with a very real person, a friend. He told the story of the first Pentecost, when the Holy Spirit came down upon the apostles and they were no longer afraid or confused. With great excitement, he told the Page 12 CenterView Winter 2013 Courage - Knowledge - Reverence - Wonder & Awe Our Faith Community congratulates the newly confirmed young men and women of our parish, their parents, families and sponsors Brianna Ackerman Sarah Aliperti Andrew Amoruso Christopher Amoruso Brendan Anderson Jillian Banger Rose Barbera Benedict Barnes Jarrod Bartlett Owen Berkery Olivia Bongiorno Gabrielle Bonifazio Blake Borghard Zachary Bossey Evan Bossey Frederick Buckholtz Nicholas Campbell Michelle Carillo Victoria Carino John Carney Matthew Carney Victoria Carroll Jenna Casalino Lauren Castaldo, Vince Catenacci Joseph Cavallaro Patrick Clemente Julia Clementi Kaitlyn Coughlin Alexander Coventry Elizabeth Crofts Brendan Cunneen Dakota Cunningham Hunter Cuthbertson Emily Davenport Brendan Deegan Jillian DeSantis William DeVito Justin DiOrio Kaitlin Dluginsky Cole Drew Aidan Dwyer Katherine Ellsworth Gerard Espinoza, Gabriella Farino Patrick Finn Gabriella Forte Jane Franco Isabella Gambone Julia Gatto Matthew Genovese Rachael Glackin Marybeth Greenberg William Gross Dori-Jo Gutierrez Zacharie Happel Michael Harvey Marc Hochwald Scott Huffman Michaela Hunter Mary Interdonati Grace Interrante Caroline Johnson Ruby Jusas Jenna Kaufman Gabriel Kave Patrick Kawakami Matthew Kelly Kathleen Keys Alexandra Koumas William Kranz Owen Lamerson Ryan Lanner Peter LaRocca Alexander Latham Eric Leone Michael Logrieco Henry Mack Caroline Maggio Erin Malico Gabrielle Mank Gabriella Marchesi Patrick Margey Jenna Martin Justin Martinolich Maxwell Martuscello Alexandra Mastroianni Simone McGovern Katelyn McHale Caitlin McHugh Kayla McKenna Quintin McKenna Bridget McLoughlin Bridget McMahon Jake Miller Nicolette Milligan Alexandra Mills Taylor Miltner Daniel Mollitor Kelly Moore Kiera Morency Hunter Morris James Muehlemann Ryan Mulligan Chayse Nasiatka Christopher Neary Lauren Nevirs Kyle O’Brien Danielle O'Connor Justin Oh Noelle Ozimek Miranda Ozimek Casey Pace Andrew Palacios Kelly Palladino Ariana Pergola Caroline Petrozzo Trevor Phillips Shannon Quigg Fiona Quinn CenterView Winter 2013 Hunter Radecki Jack Ratti Meghan Rieger Lauren Rincon Mitchell Rittenhouse Brian Root Anna Savino Meaghan Scally Ryan Scanlon Dylan Schedler Benjamin Schorn Amanda Semmelmeier Michael Shortt Ella Simkins Chelsea Skipper Charlotte Smith Cara Sorrentino Caroline Spears Hannah Staib Christina Stefanac Mariel Stein Kelly Stone Michael Sullivan Sean Sullivan Chelsea Taranovich Emma Todd Kevin Topolovec Stephen Trimble Elizabeth Triscari James Tully Hayden Uresk Matthew Ventre Georgia Viggiano Abigail Vogt Olivia Vomero Erin Walsh Michael Wegmann Neil Worden Page 13 Around the Parish Page 14 CenterView Winter 2013 in Photos CenterView Winter 2013 Page 15 Adult Faith Formation SPIRITUALITY “The day of my spiritual awakening was the day I saw, and knew I saw – all things in God and God in all things.” --Mechtild of Magdeburg Here, at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs, we offer many programs in spirituality. Some such are: Book Club, Week of Directed Prayer, Workshops on Current Topics, MOMS (Ministry of Moms Sharing), and Celebration of Evening Prayer and Taize. As one can see, many rich ideas are presented that have implications on one’s spiritual journey. In his book, The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle tells this story. It seems a beggar had been sitting by the side of a road for over thirty years. One day a stranger walked by and asked for some change. “I have nothing to give you”, said the stranger. Then, he asked, “What’s that you’re sitting on?” “Nothing”, replied the beggar. “It is just an old box that I have been sitting on since I don’t know when.” “Have you ever looked inside?” asked the stranger. “No”, said the beggar. “What’s the point? There’s nothing in there.” “Have a look inside”, insisted the stranger. Reluctantly, the beggar pried the lid open, and with astonishment and disbelief, he saw that the box was filled with gold! All of us are like that beggar, in so far as we are all looking for something. Some of us may remember lyrics from the song “The Seeker” by the Who: “ I’ve looked under chairs, I’ve looked under tables, I’ve tried to find the key, to fifty million fables. They call me The Seeker.” We are all that seeker and what we are looking for is not in some far off place, but rather it is in the present moment, where we are! The truth of God is written in us and around us, as near as the air we breathe. As a Seeker, you are invited to A Religious Art Presentation – TEARS OF FAITH: A LENTEN PRESENTATION WITH SLIDES OF JOY AND SORROW IN THE LIVES OF BELIEVERS. We are Page 16 so wondrously made that tears can accompany both joy and sorrow in our lives. This presentation with slides over the course of a Saturday morning (March 9th, 9:45 to 12:00 Noon) will reflect on our reaction to the experience of Jesus, the experience of his disciples and more generally, the joy and sorrows of human experience today. Fr. Leo O’Donovan, S.J., President Emeritus of Georgetown University, will guide us on this spiritual journey. Also, you are welcome to our Lenten Evening Prayer, which will take place on the dates below in the church at 7:30PM. Reflections on our parish theme, Faith, are by: March 6 - S. Vicki Toale, Professor of Theology at Molloy College March 13 – Fr. George Drance, Professor of Theatre at Fordham University March 20 – Mrs. Marge Dritto, former Director of Faith Formation, Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Are you a Seeker? Please accept the invitation and come. Yes, I think we are all Seekers, as the Bible implies. What we are seeking, we already know. What we want, we already have. “You already know. The Spirit is with you and the Spirit is in you.” -John 14:7 ~S. Eileen CenterView Winter 2013 Spirituality - Are You A Seeker S. Vicki Toale, O.P., is originally from Brooklyn. She has taught on elementary and high school levels, been a Pastoral Minister and a Director of Religious Education at St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Astoria. She taught for 20 years in the Intercommunity Novitiate. Currently, S. Vicki is an Associate Professor in Theology at Molloy College and is the Chairperson of the Interdisciplinary Studies Department. She also serves as a Pastoral Associate at Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal Parish in Wyandanch. She holds a Doctorate in Ministry from the Graduate Theological Foundation. Fr. George Drance, S.J. entered the Society of Jesus in 1983 and was ordained in 1995. His work with the Jesuits has taken him to Central America, East Africa, and the Oglala Sioux Reservation in Pine Ridge South Dakota. He received his Theology training at the Jesuit School of Theology, now a part of Boston College. He also holds an MFA in Acting from Columbia University, and has performed and directed in over twenty countries on five continents. He currently serves as Artist-in-Residence at Fordham University Lincoln Center, as artistic director of the critically acclaimed Magis Theatre Company, and assists with liturgies and workshops at St. Malachy's Church (The Actor's Chapel) in New York City. Fr. Leo J. O’Donovan, S.J. is President Emeritus of Georgetown University, and Past President of the Catholic Theological Society of America. He was born in New York City, graduated from Iona Preparatory School, Georgetown University and was a Fulbright Scholar and Danforth Fellow. He obtained a doctoral degree in theology in 1971 from the University of Münster, in Germany, where he studied under Jesuit theologian Karl Rahner. Fr. Leo was the 47th President of Georgetown. Fr. Leo is a long-standing supporter or the programs and initiatives of the Department of Pediatrics and the Child Development Center of Georgetown University Children’s Medical Center. He is a champion of community and children’s issues. The Leo J. O’Donovan, S.J. Dining Hall at Georgetown opened in 2003. And yes, he is on the Board of Directors of The Walt Disney Company, too. Marge Dritto was Director of Religious Education here at OLQM for 24 years, retiring in June, 2010. Originally a Catholic School teacher, she worked in the Diocese of Rockville Centre for 46 years. Marge received a Masters Degree in Religious Education with a minor in Scripture from the Seminary of the Immaculate Conception in Lloyd Harbor. Presently Marge volunteers as secretary on the board of Newborns in Need, a charity that helps babies, located in Huntington Bay. She and her husband Joe love being grandparents to Timmy, aged 1 and a half and Rosalind, 4 months. CenterView Winter 2013 Page 17 Golf RCIA & Tennis Candidates Outing 30th Annual Monsignor Joseph F. Colligan Memorial Golf & Tennis Outing Despite the dreary weather on October 4th, 2012, the Golf & Tennis outing was a huge success and enjoyed by all. Thank you to all our parishioners, friends and business sponsors. The Annual Golf and Tennis Outing is the parish’s major fundraising event. Your generosity and support enables Our Lady Queen of Martyrs to provide programs that serve both our parish and community. A Brief Look Back The first Outing was held in 1983. A short time after Monsignor Colligan had attended a Golf Outing for Chaminade High School, he decided to try to duplicate this event for OLQM. Along with Joe Posilico and Phil Raciniello, Msgr Colligan organized the first Outing at the Huntington Crescent Club and raised $35,000. The parish quickly pulled together a committee to expand the outing. After five years the invitation was extended to all parishioners and the event has continued to grow. At Monsignor Ryan request, tennis was added to the venue of the Outing. The dinner was expanded with the addition of live and silent auctions, raffles, and a cash raffles. Each year more parishioners join us for the golf, tennis, fun and fellowship. Golf & Tennis, Dinner & Auction The weather did nothing to dampen the spirits of the more than 120 golfers and 20 tennis players who came out to play at the beautiful Huntington Crescent Club. Our tennis players enjoyed a light courtside breakfast and Page 18 warm up clinic while our golfers enjoyed a hearty brunch and headed out to the course. After a day on the course and courts, the party moved into the club. The evening festivities began with a cocktail hour followed by dinner, raffles, prizes and live and silent auctions. Fr. Kevin Smith, pastor at St. Dominic’s in Oyster Bay was the emcee for the evening. Fr. Kevin announced right at the start of the auction that he was there to perform a “walletectomy” on the guests. He was true to his word but he certainly had help from the fantastic prizes on offer: stays at homes in Mattituck and Montauk, an appearance on Telecare, cocktail party at the Old Fields Inn and the ever-popular “Big Blue Experience” (a fully catered, chauffeured RV trip to a Giants game) and the Jets Package! The evening wrapped up with the drawings for the three cash raffle prizes. Our Honorees We were proud to recognize Jane and George Devine as our honorees this year and thank them for their years of service to our parish. The Devines joined the parish in 1993 and have been actively involved since. Jane is a Eucharistic Minister at the church and at the hospital. She is a member of the Liturgical Environment Committee, serves on the Pastoral Council and also facilitated bereavement groups. Jane has been involved in local government for a number of years, most recently serving on the Suffolk County Water Authority’s Board of Directors and the Town of Huntington Planning Board. George came to our parish as a Lector and currently served on the parish Finance Committee. George enjoyed a long and successful career at Grumman and retired in 1993. Over his many years on the Finance Committee, George contributed his CenterView Winter 2013 knowledge and advise to three different pastors! We thank and commend him for his years of service. The Devines continue to donate their time and talent to Our Lady Queen of Martyrs and we were delighted they accepted this honor from our parish. Dr. Ernest Vomero was also recognized and presented a plaque in recognition of his ten years of Tee and Green sponsorship. The evening was enjoyed by all. Thank you to all who volunteered, participated and contributed to making this year’s outing a huge success Just Wait Until Next Year We offer our sincere appreciation to Frank Fiore, Louise Kelly and Marina DeVito for chairing this year’s event and to the committee members for their countless hours of hard work and dedication to this event. We look forward to our 31st Annual Monsignor Joseph F. Colligan Memorial Golf and Tennis Outing. CenterView Winter 2013 Page 19 Theatre Summer Camp Summer Happenings: CLASSIC KIDS in the Community Room Many years ago–in 1999, to be exact–I experienced one of those life-altering events that come into a person’s life every now and again. To put things in context, I spent most of my time in those days pursuing my dream of being on Broadway. When not auditioning in New York, I traveled around the country performing roles in regional theatres. One of those theatres was The North Carolina Theatre, a well-respected company in Raleigh, North Carolina. I became friendly with the producer of the theatre while working on a production of Grease, and he invited me to return to Raleigh several months later as the choreographer of their established Summer Theatre Arts School, or STAS. Now, while this was certainly a compliment, it was by no means how I intended to spend my summer! An actress who wishes to be on Broadway must be NEAR Broadway in order to attend auditions– everyone knows that. And so I politely let him know that provided I was not otherwise engaged, I would certainly consider his kind offer. Secretly, of course, I had no intention of returning to North Carolina that summer. And to prove my point, just weeks before the program was to begin, I managed to secure final callbacks for not one, but two Broadway shows–in the same day, no less! Giddy with possibility, I began planning my summer… Would I be the swing in Smokey Joe’s Café, or the understudy to the female lead in Saturday Night Fever? One thing was for sure: I would not be running some little kids’ program down in Dixie… Page 20 Fast-forward to July. The scene: NCT’s Summer Theatre Arts School. The city: Raleigh, NC. The choreographer? You got it: Me. Not only did my inevitable Broadway debut fail to materialize, I was now stuck honoring my promise to act as choreographer since I was, sadly, quite available. What, you may ask, could this little anecdote possibly have to do with an article about OLQM’s Summer Happenings? Ah, there’s the rub. After begrudgingly traipsing down South, a chip the size of Times Square firmly planted on my shoulder, I walked into the first production meeting of the summer and was promptly introduced to the program Director, David Overton… See where this is going? Six months after my reluctant Raleigh trip, I was engaged. One year later, we were married. Twelve years later, we are the parents of three beautiful, quirky and talented little girls, two of whom spent their summer participating in our inaugural CLASSIC KIDS Summer Theatre Intensive at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs. Since our experience together in North Carolina, David and I talked often about recreating something similar for children in our area. Over the years– somewhere amidst all the diapers and training wheels–David earned his PhD in Theatre from the University of Colorado at Boulder, and I eventually achieved that coveted Broadway debut (in Saturday Night Fever, no less… the very show I’d been in the running for before my stint in NC). David taught and I continued to perform on Broadway and off, but we came no closer to actualizing our vision of a theatre program for kids… until recently. CenterView Winter 2013 Somewhat battered by the economy and other, shall we say, “unexpected” events (a.k.a. McKenna Grace Overton, born September 1, 2011), David and I took our ideas to the newly-installed pastor, Fr. John Gilmartin. Supported by our tireless advocates, Deirdre Kupka and Hugh Carroll, we presented Father John with a prospectus for our burgeoning theatre, Long Island Classics Stage Company. Our first order of business was to secure a space for a summer program to begin building a base of students and interested parents. Fr. John eagerly offered the Community Room and classrooms, which are rarely used during the summer months. On a wing and a prayer, we began advertising for two sessions of CLASSIC KIDS, hoping for at least fifteen students in each session. Less than two months after running our first ad in the OLQM bulletin, both of our sessions had a waiting list and we were suddenly preparing lessons for over 80 students! With David at the acting helm, me in my dance pants (not nearly as easy to squeeze into, mind you, as they were in 1999) and a young NYU Musical Theatre graduate named Gina Salvia tickling the ivories, our very first NY-based Overton endeavor began its journey. Session One began on July 9th and ran through July 20th. Session Two began on July 30th and ran through August 10th. Both sessions offered varied curricula and culminated in a Showcase Presentation on the final Friday of the program. While many area programs focus solely on musical theatre, CLASSIC KIDS introduced students to a wide variety of genres. David and I feel strongly that our current culture not only supports but glorifies the “Reality TV” mentality: “You, Too, Can Be a STAR…!!” (Provided, of course, that the viewing audience votes for you…via text!) As performers ourselves, we believe that this mentality can be damaging to children as it presents show business as a glittery, exciting world of fame and fortune, without addressing the years of hard work, education, determination and disappointment that define the lives of the vast majority of actors. With CLASSIC KIDS, we sought to create a safe, nurturing environment in which children of varying levels of age and experience could explore the many facets of theatre, not just as performers, but as students. We are proud to have presented pieces from such seminal works as Oedipus Rex, A Midsummer Night’s Dream, The Miracle Worker and Metamorphoses, among others. Our focus on education rather than performance enabled the students to delve into roles and material that might otherwise be deemed “too challenging” or “too advanced.” While other programs send the kids home with a T-shirt, our “Classic Kids” went home quoting Shakespeare. Different? Yes. Unexpected? Yes. Successful? Based on the touching feedback we received from students and parents alike, I would have to say yes. “The show was amazing!” said one parent. “Thanks for every little detail you included. For example, they didn’t have to buy another T-shirt and they all looked beautiful.” Said another, “Thank you for providing the children with an awesome theater experience. It far exceeded any of our expectations. The Showcase was fabulous! (Our daughter) learned some very valuable lessons and is looking forward to what you will be offering in the future.” The support of our audiences was also palpable, not only in their smiles and cheers, but in their generous free-will offering to OLQM’s Parish Outreach: Nearly $600 was donated to help needy families in our own community. As parents–and as individuals– David and I often find ourselves making decisions that go against popular culture. Our long-term goal with Long Island Classics Stage Company is to begin to create professional-level productions that challenge conventional ways of thinking. As is the case with most artists, however, we have an endless supply of creative ideas… but not an endless supply of funds. We are grateful to Father John and the OLQM community for their support, and we welcome any thoughts, feedback…or benefactors! Our theatre company is still very much in the beginning stages, but it is our hope that the 2012 CLASSIC KIDS summer program at OLQM will be the launching pad for future dreams. CenterView Winter 2013 –Rebecca Kupka-Overton Page 21 Finance Report Finance Committee The Finance Committee serves as ‘steward’ of the generous resources you have provided to Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Parish. An essential aspect of our role is to update our parishioners on the financial condition of the parish. At this time, we want to highlight three areas: our financial report for the year ended August 31, 2012; a final report on the use of funds from the Capital Campaign and, finally, the decision of the Committee to hire an outside auditor who will review our finances and ensure transparency to you as parishioners. Financial Report – Included in this issue is our year-end financial report. Each year the pastor, the parish administrator and the Finance Committee collaborate to produce a budget, which is submitted to the diocese. We are pleased to report that we ended our fiscal year with a surplus. A number of factors contributed to this. Revenue was better than expected, primarily due to a 5% increase in donations for Sundays and holydays. This was also an increase over the prior year. We have seen an increase in electronic giving and encourage parishioners to consider choosing this option to help balance the variations in the amount donated each week. (For any who are interested, please see text box in the bulletin for how to enroll.) Thank you to the parish for your generous contributions in a most difficult economy. In addition, our expenses were lower than budgeted and lower than the prior year. A significant reason for this was a reduction in the Trinity Regional School subsidy. This reduction may not continue going forward. Another contributor was a reduction in the cost of fringe benefits, due to a change in the composition of the staff. The surplus will be set aside for future capital projects and to help us weather difficult economic times. system for energy efficiency; a new roof for our Church and resurfacing of the parking lot. (The parking lot by the rectory was completed last summer.) The resurfacing projects were done at a much reduced cost thanks to the Posillico family, who has been so generous to the parish over the years. We are most grateful to Whitney Posillico for her assistance and to Charlie Forte for his expertise and direction. At this point, the funds received during the Campaign have been disbursed to complete all of the planned projects. Audit Firm- The Finance Committee has studied the issue of transparency in reporting the financial condition of the parish. The diocese has provided fine assistance to the Parish in the past. However, the Committee went one step further and brought in an outside firm to review our operations and provide ongoing oversight of our financial reporting. We value the importance of being totally transparent and believe a review from a firm independent of the parish and of the diocese we will provide the best assurance of continued vigilance related to the stewardship of our parish resources. If any of you have questions, please feel free to contact us. We thank you for your continued support. Capital campaign - The final projects of the Capital Campaign of 2006, to which you have so Sidonie Flaiz, Robert Carillo, George Devine, generously contributed, are now completed. They Art Dignam, Eileen McGaw-Dietrich, include the following: new controls for the heating Tom Pirro, Joseph Siniscalchi, MM Weiss Page 22 CenterView Winter 2013 Finance Report Removal of old oil tank. August 2012 Our Church gets a new roof. August 2012 CenterView Winter 2013 Page 23 WEDDINGS BAPTISMS June 2012 Anabella Maria Czekaj Carolin James Guido Mia Ruth Moeller July 2012 Luciana Angela Pizzo Emmett Joseph Owens Penelope Ruth Bilbao Augustine Jude Stuertz Amelia Grace Moscati Patrick Thomas Olino August 2012 Joshua Ryan Anastasi Luke Ryan DeMonte Samuel Steven Welkie Alaina Sophia Campisi Edward Daniel Shea September 2012 Luke Bauer Shanley Emma Marie McCarrick Henry Thomas Soper Harrison James Perrota Riley Lucas Conway Frank Joseph Foster Parker Lewis Hallberg Connor Michael Probst June 2012 Oliver Ludwig Dovovich & Sally Kathryn Williams Joseph DeSantis IV & Rebecca Lynn Dowling July 2012 David Andrew Lutz & Jillian Victoria Pearsall Jaimie Paul McKeon & Michelle Rose Pirro August 2012 Edward Joseph Cahill & Jennifer Wittman Stefan Mutchnick & Farah Saran September 2012 John Michael McManus & Kristin Elaine Colavito October 2012 Nicholas Riccardo & Keri Lyn Bohlen Joseph Miscavige & Katherine Foret November 2012 Matthew Alan Parker & Melissa Ann Anderson William John Quinn & Lisa Michelle Caputo December 2012 John Louis Garutti & Danielle Evangeline Cozzi October 2012 Katherine Marie Competello Olivia Grace Della Valle November 2012 Mattea Jolee Dawson Nicholas Ryan Domino Julia Grace Pisco December 2012 James Robert Ciafardoni Mackenzie Mae Martin Page 24 Kristin and John McManus married on September 29, 2012 CenterView Winter 2013 FUNERALS June 2012 Frances D. Ryan Raymond J. Marvin Jeanne P. Michalek Leonard C. Sokolski Frances Squillan Corey Lee St. George John F. Lombard July 2012 Patricia Fox John J. Cadden Louise Hammer George Cafaro Therese Caruso August 2012 John Jay Walsh John D. Moro, Jr. Margaret M. Hanlon September 2012 Anne F. Holinski Marie A. Scarduzio Michael Wenk Gladys Marcinisen Rita Vesce Hortense Schwefel October 2012 Maryann R. Dragonetti David R. Paul Anne P. Royce Ronald Cuppernull Gerard Endres November 2012 Barbara Biasi Gloria Martin Alice McGuckin Irene Piaseczny William J. McGaw Cheryl Bane December 2012 Florence D. Wragge Richard Hegler Ruth K. Borders Mary Ellen O’Connor WELCOMES Brian & Colleen Aerne Michael & Mary-Scarlett Albano Mark & Dina Allan Joanne Allegretti Philip & Kimberly Arias Robert & Lisa Badolato Philip & Sharon Bartlett Carlo & Kelly Belcastro Elizabeth Biasi Richard & Lisa Biggica Michael & Kimberly Bilbao Gregory & Carolynn Black Matthew Blitch & Danielle Conte Peter & Kellie Boller David & Laura Borghard Carolyn Bryant Joseph & Nancy Burke Thomas & Dana Busa David & Kristin Casillo Robert & Margaret Cavallo Christopher & Laura Clarke Stephen & Jayne Cowden Rita DeLuise Mario & Lisa DelRosario Jack & Barbara Denis Mary Doherty Elizabeth Dolci Robert Dragonetti Boyd & Allison Dyer Joseph & Clare Eaton Eric & Melissa Eusanio Brian & Carey Fahrbach Ronald & Donna Farrise Thomas & Jennifer Fazio Christine Fermo James & Karin Fey Gilbert Frellick & Renae Presh Kenneth & Samanth Garritano Michael & Jennifer Gilhuley Michael & Mary Gilmore Elaine Giordano Calvin Gladen & Laura Sweeney Lynn Griffiths Alexander Gross & Nicole Napolitano Patricia Hall Kenneth & Lisa Henry Sung Woo & Sohee Hong Robert & Rebecca Howard CenterView Winter 2013 Jeffrey & Anne Hummel Jane Karas Aidan & Erin Kiernan Jerry & Ana Larice Virginia Laskaris Joseph & Susan Lauria Theodore & Dawn Levchenko Gregg & Eva Maria Lodato Matthew & Lisa Malerba Paul & Charlotte Manfuso Frank & Shae Masia John & Diana Massaria Michael & Jenna McCarrick Thomas & Jessica McTygue Charles & Judith Menacho Arlene Miller Michael Mulligan & Fiona Larkin Kevin & Jennifer Newman Drew & Maureen Paradine Ronald & Jean Paragallo Stephen Penkovsky Sean & Corine Perrotta Robert & Jessica Piccarillo Gavin & Claudette Poole Juan Ramos and Sally Fox Jackie & Susan Reed Reilly-Waterlou Family Gary & Dina Renart Teresa Rhodes Ian & Tiffany Ritcey Philip & Deborah Ronan Joe & Ema Rosario Joshua & Elizabeth Rosenthal Christine Schmitt Zoltan & Alyssa Schulcz Joseph & Janice Schulman Kevin & Meredith Shanley Samantha Somma & Matthew Baker Daniel & Suzanne Sullivan Joseph & Alison Tizzio Jeffrey Toner & Alice Stone Thomas & Christine Trainor Philip & Leslie Travaglia Edward & Patricia Travaglianti Cesar & Karen Vallejos James & Christine White Kenneth & Sandra Wolf Christopher & Lori Wren Scott & Danielle Zavack Page 25 With Thanks toCommunion Those Who Serve We Celebrate First with Joy! On October 14, Bishop Murphy awarded Grace Gardner the St. Agnes Medal of Service. Grace has been an active parishioner for more than 37 years and “an extraordinary human being, just a gem,” said Sister Eileen. Grace is a lector, the founder and facilitator of our Parish baptismal preparation program, and religious education teacher for 29 years! The St. Agnes Medal is awarded yearly to one individual or married couple from each of the 133 parishes in the diocese. “Honorees are lay people whose love of the Church has been shown through the devotion to the Holy Father, to our diocese and to their parish,” said Bishop Murphy. “They are the unsung heroes in our midst who build up our parish communities by extraordinary service in parish ministry, parish administration or some significant volunteer role.” Thank you, Grace, for being exactly the type of hero the Bishop describes. THE PARISH CHURCH Beyond the red brick parish church Where tidal waters chafe her lawn Beneath embosoming willows glide A dozen snow white swan. Along the nearby Mill Dam flats Where mewing seagulls dip and rise, The ebbtide breathes its briny scent, Reveals clams seagull prize. Thrice daily rings the angelus Commemorating Gabriel’s call Upon the maid of Galilee Reversing Adam’s fall. Full often these same bells announce The newly baptized infant’s dry, The bride and bridegroom’s solemn vows, Godspeed to those who die. To those will in the mind of God Who ages hence shall glimpse this scene, May they, like us, find solace on This promontory green. Above the fluctuating tides, Within the harbor’s sweet embrace; God grant them peace down all their days, And us His saving grace. John Cadden Ninette Euler (second from Left) stands with Claudine Fiore, Maryann Mank and Louise Montovano, all of whom received the Pius X Award for 10 years of service in catechetical ministry. ABOUT THE AUTHOR John Cadden was a long time parishioner at Our Missing were Susan Western and Theresa Lady Queen of Martyrs. He and his wife Phyllis Taranovich, also 10-year recipients, and Lorraine were married for 60 years and had four (4) chilGrenier, who received the St. Elizabeth Ann Seton dren; three (3) daughters and a son. Mr. Cadden Award for 25 years of service. passed away this past summer. He was one of the educational leaders who got Nassau County ComBishop Murphy presented the awards at the annual munity College off the ground and helped shape the Catechetical Service Award Ceremony at St. Agnes Cathedral on October 23. educational map of Long Island. He wrote this poem about our church. Thank you for your dedication to the children of our Parish!SJ Page 26 CenterView Winter2013 For information regarding advertising space in this magazine please contact the office of publication 200 Dale Street W. 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