horizons - Hospice of the Valley
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horizons - Hospice of the Valley
WINTER 2011 H O RIZONS FOR SUPPORTERS OF HOSPICE OF THE VALLEY Volunteers needed to support Hospice of the Valley’s initiatives Hospice of the Valley’s 2,500 terrific volunteers help ensure that our agency delivers the highest level of service to patients and families. As HOV continues to improve our compassionate care, our volunteers play a key role in meeting the special needs of patients with serious and chronic illnesses. These new opportunities include: Hispanic Community Program – Bilingual volunteers are needed to lend support to Spanish-speaking patients. These volunteers will provide the same type of service that they normally would for home and PCU patients, only they’ll be fluent in Spanish and English and familiar with bicultural customs and practices. Kivel-HOV Jewish Hospice Partnership – HOV has established a partnership with Kivel Campus of Care to assist Jewish patients and families. Volunteers serve as companions for Jewish patients. Some may also wish to share Shabbat Blessings with patients on Friday afternoon/evening. HOV Salutes – Volunteers with military experience are needed to offer companionship to patients who also are veterans. Swap stories, reflect and validate veterans’ contributions to our country. Outreach – For more than a decade, HOV has supported adults and children with serious and chronic illnesses who are not on hospice through a program called “Outreach.” Now Outreach is expanding services, including a volunteer component. Volunteers are needed to assist patients through home visits and phone contact. Other volunteer opportunities include: 11th Hour Companions, administrative support, bereavement phone support, community and special events, dementia care, Face in the Mirror, Just a Note card makers, music partners, Mission Possible organizers, New Song facilitators, Pet Connections, Ryan House, Songs of the Journey choir, Speakers Bureau, teens, Teens in Nursing, Threads to Remember a Life, White Dove Thrift Shoppe, Wrap Pack and Wrap Up and Cuddle sewing groups. Read more about our volunteer programs in this issue. Consider becoming one. For more information, view hov.org or contact the Volunteer Department: 602.636.6336. Faith community liaison Joan Zecherle gives challah and kosher grape juice to community liaison Lois Cohen during volunteer training. Emma Green, 9, sews a pillow she donated to New Song Center. Bob Green, an Outreach patient, makes friends with a pet therapy dog at the kick-off event for HOV Salutes. FROM OUR BRINGING A D M I N I S T R AT I O N Volunteers are HOV’s foundation Susan Levine Rev. Q. Gerald Roseberry, one of our founders, wrote in his historical account of our agency’s early days that the hospice movement drew its power from volunteers who were driven to change the system. Friends of Hospice was created as the first volunteer fundraising group to advocate for this new way of caring for the dying. “The volunteers had heard of the humane treatment and compassionate care of Hospice of the Valley and wanted to be part of a movement which was transforming the way the medical establishment responds to life-limiting illnesses,” Rev. Roseberry wrote. “Thus it was not the efforts of an elite group, but the work of a diverse multitude of citizens and contributors large and small which brought into being Hospice of the Valley.” That was true when HOV was founded in 1977. And it is still true today. HOV’s volunteer cadre has grown from a dozen community organizers to 2,500 today. They support 1,700 staff members caring for more than 3,600 patients and their families every day. What motivates our volunteers? A desire to give back, to ease suffering, to offer comfort. We often hear: “I get back so much more than I give.” This issue of Horizons spotlights some of the ways people give their time. If you or someone you know is interested in finding out more, please call our volunteer department: at 602.636.6336. COMFORT Volunteering pays well Home care volunteers support patients, relieve caregivers I am honored to begin serving this year as president of the board of directors for Hospice of the Valley. Yes, it is a volunteer position, and the board has authorized a doubling of the president’s salary ($0). But the pay is not the reason we all volunteer. Serving on the board of directors these past six years has been a wonderful experience for me. I John Jennings am constantly amazed at the wonderful people who are dedicated to furthering our mission. With their easy banter and quick smiles, Oldy Oldenburg and Farroll Barrett appear like longtime pals. They chat about their lives, discuss television shows and chuckle at a funny movie. “Wikipedia” defines volunteering “as the practice of people working on behalf of others or a particular cause without payment for their time and services.” Many do not know or realize that HOV currently has more than 2,500 volunteers, with 2,000 of them devoted to patient care. Attending my first Volunteer Luncheon last year, I was amazed at the number of years many of our volunteers have served. What a tribute to our cause and our organization. Why am I writing about volunteering? Because we need more. We would like to recruit an additional 700 volunteers in 2011. I know it is a lofty goal, but when has HOV ever shied away from lofty goals? Haven’t seen it in my short tenure. But the men only met in June through Hospice of the Valley, when volunteer Oldy was paired with patient Farroll as part of a much-needed caregiver respite program. Like clockwork, Oldy goes to the Barrett home in Ahwatukee on Wednesdays so Farroll’s wife, Gloria, can run errands and have “down time.” When HOV first paired up the men, Farroll wondered how they would pass the time. “I thought, ‘What are we going to do for four hours? What are we going to talk about for four hours?’”Farroll recalled. Both men laugh, saying the hours now pass like minutes. “We haven’t shut up yet,” Oldy joked. HOV relies on volunteers like Oldy to provide regular and one-time home visits to patients, said Jodie Jacobs, an HOV volunteer coordinator in the southeast Valley. The need for volunteers continues to grow. In the southeast Valley alone, HOV serves as many as 750 patients. It recently expanded into Casa Grande. So maybe you or a friend has a little extra time and would like to work for a great cause. I can assure you that it will be a truly worthwhile and fulfilling position, and most importantly, one that pays great. Home care volunteers are most in demand during weekdays, between 8 a.m. and 6 p.m. Volunteers take a four-hour shift each week and some, like Oldy, take more. John R. Jennings President, Board of Directors “The caregivers cannot leave the house for anything,” Jodie said. “They can’t get groceries, they can’t go to the bank, they can’t even go to their own doctor’s appointments. The volunteers become very valuable during that time.” Volunteers fill a range of needs, depending on what the patient wants or needs. They socialize, watch television, read the newspaper aloud, write down life stories, take patients for walks in their wheelchairs or simply watch over a sleeping patient. In some cases, volunteers run errands with patients. The weekly respite is crucial for the Barretts as Farroll battles cancer that has spread. Gloria worries about her husband falling and can count on Oldy to keep a watchful eye. “She looks forward to every Wednesday. She has her schedule all set up,” Farroll said. Oldy and Farroll have a comfortable weekly routine. Both in their 70s and former military men, they’ve got plenty in common so conversation comes easy. They catch episodes of Judge Judy and Judge Joe Brown or watch classic movies. “We socialize, we watch all these shows,” Farroll said. “It really makes me feel good.” For his part, Oldy can’t imagine doing anything else. He started volunteering in 2002, following the death of his first wife, who received services from HOV. “I get much more out of it than I think I give,” Oldy said. “I’ve been doing it eight years, but it seems like I just started my first day.” Susan Levine Executive Director 2 Oldy Oldenburg and Farroll Barrett 3 H AV I N G GIVING FUN BACK White Dove Thrift Shoppe helps families, thanks to volunteers Stitches of love for patients and families Hospice of the Valley’s White Dove Thrift Shoppe in Phoenix needs volunteers to sort and sell donated clothing, kitchenware, art, furniture and other items. Proceeds assist needy patients and families. Every Wednesday, a few dozen sewers gather at the Glendale Adult Center to create pillows, lap blankets and other handmade items for people they’ve never met. After a half-day orientation, new volunteers can choose their desired shifts at the store, 5035 N. 7th Ave. A commitment of one four-hour shift per week is requested. Linda O’Connor and Alice Toy, both of Phoenix, have worked together on Wednesdays in the sales area for a long time and have become friends. Both had spent several years as patient volunteers before gravitating to the thrift shop. “What I enjoy (about being in the shop) is just the people—that’s number one, hearing all these people come in and show their appreciation and verbalize all that Hospice of the Valley has meant to them,” said O’Connor. Toy said “we share in the joy” when customers discover a find. “When people come in who are needful of bargains and find what they’re looking for, we feel like we’re doing a community service,” she said. JoEllen Feltham, volunteer coordinator for the White Dove, said many volunteers are professed “thrift store junkies” or treasure hunters (a side benefit of volunteering: they get a 25 percent discount on purchases!). The White Dove also has a Scottsdale store at 8461 E. McDonald Dr. Another avenue for volunteers with an organizational streak is the “Wrap Pack,” a team that goes to people’s homes—regardless of whether the person was a Hospice of the Valley patient—and packages and wraps belongings to transport and sell at the White Dove. Volunteer coordinator Anne Campbell has assembled a crew of a dozen volunteers for Wrap Pack duty and is always looking for more. “I love volunteering,” said Kathy Hamrick of Glendale. “I love helping these people (families of the deceased), and I love when people come into the White Dove and find exactly what they need for, say, Aunt Mary or Uncle George.” Apply online at hov.org or call 602.636.6336. “It’s an excellent opportunity to feel needed —because you are,” Feltham said. The “Wrap Pack” The White Dove The gifts will make their way to Hospice of the Valley patients, bringing comfort and smiles at a time when there are few other bright spots. It’s a labor of love for the volunteer sewers and a job that brings them just as much pleasure. “If we can make people happier before they leave this earth, I think it’s a wonderful thing,” said Lavonne Williams, president of the sewing group. “I really do.” And those volunteer sewers aren’t alone. HOV started its Wrap Up and Cuddle program about two years ago and today has 14 groups and a dozen individuals around the Valley making special gifts by hand, said Judy Foreman, co-coordinator of the program. Volunteers make everything from adult bibs to small pillows to walker bags. They also make specialty items like activity aprons that have pockets that can be filled with stuffed animals and other items. The aprons help provide entertaining distraction for dementia patients. “My wife held onto them for a while,” said Arbie Bowen, who lives in Phoenix with his wife of almost 54 years. “When you’re on morphine…little things like that mean a lot to you.” In the past year, volunteers donated more than 3,100 items, which went to patients in group homes, skilled nursing facilities and private homes. The Glendale sewing group alone, which has 32 members, has donated nearly 900 items since October 2009. That’s exactly why volunteer Nancy Fultz spends every week with a new project in her hands. One day, she will crochet a lap blanket, and another, she will sew a bib or small hand pillow. Fultz has also been asked to complete projects started by patients, like the granny-square blanket that needed finishing. HOV then gave it to the husband of the patient, who had since passed away. In some cases, patients may not be able to afford the items; in others, patients simply need a little something special. Either way, they are an unexpected present. “It was good to know that the family would have something to remember her by instead of something that wasn’t usable,” Fultz said. “These are gifts that are given from the heart,” Judy said. Fultz doesn’t know exactly how many items she has made for HOV patients. She doesn’t need to keep track. Last year, Ouida Bowen received a few heart-shaped pillows through the program. Bowen has terminal cancer and the small gesture made a big impact. Ellen Leavitt Edna Rudnick and Janice “Jan” Hodgson are among the group of sewers who donate their talents to HOV. “I know it helps people,” Fultz said. “Of course, that makes me feel good knowing that I’m helping people.” Leah George Alice Toy and Linda O’Connor 4 Kathy Hamrick 5 MEETING FUNDRAISING NEEDS EVENTS Hispanic program needs bilingual volunteers Ortega event owes success to volunteers who make it happen When Virginia Castillo participated in a volunteer orientation for Hospice of the Valley three years ago, she noticed that she was the only Hispanic in the class of 40, the only person fluent in English and Spanish. Even though her background prepared her for the Virginia and José work— she had lived with and cared for her mother with Alzheimer’s disease for 10 years—Castillo wondered if she was in the right place. “I felt like I didn’t belong,” she said. Seven percent of HOV’s patients are Hispanic, and of those, 4 percent speak Spanish only. Hispanics comprise more than 30 percent of Maricopa County’s population. Nationwide, the number of Hispanics age 65 or older is expected to increase six-fold by 2050. When it first began in 2003, the Nellie Ortega Golf and Wine Event surpassed everyone’s expectations by raising twice as much for Hospice of the Valley as the $25,000 goal—thanks in large part to the support of about 20 people who volunteered to serve on the core committee. Volunteers make it all happen, assisting with decorations, arranging the auction baskets and displays, marketing the event, assembling auction items and recruiting corporate and individual donors. Besides the committee, an additional 20 volunteers participate. Why do so few Hispanics turn to hospice for support? And why do even fewer volunteer? Now entering its ninth year, the annual event at Arrowhead Country Club has become one of the Northwest Valley’s premier fundraising and social gatherings, raising more than $500,000 for HOV. And the same 20-some volunteers on the core committee are still at it—working hard to make each year more spectacular than the last. “Everyone has a unique talent and ability,” said Matson. “Our volunteers run the gamut from people who don’t have a lot of financial wherewithal, but have huge hearts, to people who can give financially and in others ways. This is a vehicle for them to utilize their talents and leverage resources for hospice. They stay because they enjoy it. It’s a ministry.” “We are blessed to have these people,” said Karen Ortega Matson, a real estate agent whose mother inspired the event. “If we didn’t have these volunteers, we couldn’t do it.” For Matson, it’s the event dinner speakers who relate their personal experiences with Hospice of the Valley who inspire her each year. “I never grow tired of being reminded of the importance of the work that HOV is doing,” she said. Over the years, event proceeds have supported a new palliative care unit in Surprise, pediatric programs, the New Song Center for Grieving Children and the pet therapy program. “These are cutting-edge programs that we get to support,” Matson said. “It’s easy to do when you have a mission like HOV. It is the synergy of the mission and the hearts of the people who make this happen.” But she stuck with it and soon was matched with a bilingual patient who had been waiting two months for a volunteer who spoke Spanish. “Even though she could speak English, she wanted a volunteer who spoke her language and shared her culture,” Castillo said. “We became companions.” Late last year, as part of a broad outreach initiative to the Hispanic community, Castillo joined HOV’s staff as Hispanic volunteer coordinator. “I think the program is wonderful,” she said. “I have a strong belief that we need to educate the Hispanic community about hospice care. Our volunteers will help make that happen and improve our communication with Spanish-speaking patients and families.” The first orientation of 20 volunteers was held in January. More than half the class was bilingual; the remainder was monolingual. The orientations, conducted in Spanish, will continue to be offered throughout the year. The need for Spanish-speaking volunteers is immense. At the start of 2011, there were 34 adult and 39 teen bilingual volunteers out of a total of 2,500 volunteers. “Because we don’t know about it,” Castillo said. “In Mexico, the word ‘hospicio’ means a bad place that you abandon someone who is very sick. That is not what hospice is here. I tell them, it’s the opposite. Hospice of the Valley takes care of people who are sick, makes them feel comfortable and helps the family, too.” Castillo speaks from experience: a hospice in Tucson helped her care for her mother in her final weeks. “They sent us pain medication at 2 a.m. The CNA (nurse’s aide) didn’t give my mom a chance to say no to a bath; she would just come in and start chatting, and my mom went along with it. My mom used to fight me about baths,” Castillo recalled. Castillo continues serving as a volunteer, as well as a staff member. On a recent afternoon, she paid a visit to José, a 77-year-old man in a Phoenix nursing home. José worked his whole life picking fruit and cotton in agricultural fields. Now he has liver cancer that has spread. On good days, José taught Castillo how to play dominoes and enjoyed singing along with her songs. On bad days, Castillo simply sat beside him, offering human companionship and caring. “I love what I do,” she said. “I love working with people. I love helping.” Hospice of the Valley supported Nellie Ann Ortega and her family during her struggle with ovarian cancer. As a way to give back to HOV, Ruben Ortega, Nellie’s husband and retired Phoenix police chief, thought that a golf tournament would be a good way to leverage donations. The tournament culminated with dinner and a silent and live auction. After a few years, a wine-tasting gathering was added to the fun. Next, the event expanded to two days, and the wine-tasting got serious. This year, four vintners will donate and pour their wines. The signature auction item is a VIP Wine Tour at Paso Robles in California. Come join us… Nellie Ortega Golf and Wine Event April 17 and April 18 Arrowhead Country Club, Glendale Information: 602.930.9362 6 Some members of the core committee gather for the event. 7 NON-PROFIT ORG. U.S. POSTAGE PAID PHOENIX, AZ PERMIT NO. 417 1510 E. Flower St. Phoenix, AZ 85014.5656 602.530.6900 Fax 530.6901 hov.org [email protected] A not-for-profit organization GIVING BACK Volunteer orientations held Valleywide in 2011: Call now! We hope you will consider becoming a Hospice of the Valley volunteer. Everyone has a talent to offer patients and families—either directly or behind the scenes. Volunteer orientation requirements vary based on the volunteer’s chosen role. Those who will have patient and caregiver contact are required to take 24 hours of instruction in preparation. Volunteers gain basic knowledge of hospice philosophy, communication, self care and other concepts related to providing end-of-life care. Other types of volunteer work at Hospice of the Valley don’t require 24 hours of orientation. That includes volunteer work in our offices, the White Dove Thrift Shoppes, sewing and other endeavors that don’t involve patient contact. Hospice of the Valley’s adult and teen orientation programs are accredited by the Maricopa Community Colleges, which offer two college credits. For more information, call 602.636.6336. Orientation sessions are held at locations throughout the Valley. For a schedule, visit hov.org, click on “Volunteer,” and then “Orientation Calendar.” Horizons is published twice a year by Hospice of theValley, a not-for-profit organization serving families and patients with life-limiting illnesses in Maricopa County since 1977. Copyright 2010 by Hospice of theValley. u Hospice of theValley Executive Director: Susan Levine u Director of Communications: Beverly Medlyn u Director of Fund Development – Operations: Cheryl K.Thomas u If you would prefer to receive this newsletter electronically, please e-mail your name and address to [email protected]. u If you are receiving more than one copy of this newsletter, or if your name or address is incorrect, please mail us your label with the corrected information. u If you do not wish to receive information regarding fundraising activities, please notify us by calling 602.530.6992 or e-mail [email protected] you.