Mar - Congregation Shir Ha
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Mar - Congregation Shir Ha
the Ma’alot March 2015 ● ADAR~NISAN 5775 Join Us for These Events & Much More! • Red Cross Blood Drive at SHM Sunday, March 1st: 8:00 am to 2:00 pm • PURIM Shpiel & Carnival Sunday, March 8th: 10 am Shpiel / 11 am Carnival Religion at the Core with guest, Andrew Lustig “Jewish Slam Poet” Tuesday, March 10th, 5:30 pm • Musician-in-Residence, Billy Jonas Friday, March 20th, 7:30 pm Saturday, March 21st, 6 pm Family Havdallah Experience Sunday, March 22nd (during Religious School) • Capital Campaign Informational Events Saturday, March 14th, 6:00 pm Sunday, March 22nd (9:15 am or 11:00 am) • Women’s Seder Sunday, March 29th, 4:00 pm A L I F E T I M E O F B E L O N G I N G EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Beth Carroll President Carole Frankel the Ma’alot Rabbi Richard M. Steinberg THE RONA PERLEY MEMORIAL SENIOR RABBINIC CHAIR Vice-President/Membership, Chavurot Rabbi Leah Lewis Wendi Fast RABBI AND DIRECTOR OF LIFELONG LEARNING THE JAFFE FAMILY RABBINIC CHAIR Vice-President/Administration Sharon Blindell Vice-President/Community Relations Cantor Arië Manela Shikler Rod Stern THE HOLLANDER FAMILY CANTORIAL CHAIR Vice-President/Legal Vice-President Richard Sternberg Treasurer Heath Liner Secretary BOARD MEMBERS Debra Borden Karen Brutman Kim Burger Shannon Coleman Debra Goldman Marty Hart Jamie Evans Sharlene Konowitch Eileen Lenson Lisa Monette Ellen Olshansky Charlotte Radziminsky Lori Reznick Abby Rozenberg Jerry Silver Joe Sloate David Susson Bob Yonowitz BROTHERHOOD David Teincuff Talia White, M.A.Ed. Becca Clark RELIGIOUS SCHOOL PRINCIPAL THE ALPERT-WALDMAN FAMILY EDUCATION CHAIR YOUTH DIRECTOR Beth Shikler, M.S. THE LOEB FAMILY EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR CHAIR Stacy Bleiweis, M.B.A. MEMBERSHIP DIRECTOR Lindsey Morlan, M.A. OFFICE MANAGER/ASSISTANT TO RABBI STEINBERG AND CANTOR SHIKLER Kat Key Entzminger ASSISTANT TO RABBI LEWIS & EDUCATION DEPARTMENT Lynne Koffler BOOKKEEPER Lynda Cline COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTOR/GRAPHIC DESIGN Rabbi Bernie King, z”l FOUNDING RABBI S H A B B AT PERSPECTIVE THE Rachel Harman-Friedman Friday, March 27th Friday, March 6th • 6:30 pm: Teen Shabbat at Rabbi Lewis’ home (Grades 8-12) • 7:00 pm: Family Shabbat Service with 6th Grade Participation and Youth Choir & Band • 7:30 pm: Friday Night Live! Shabbat Service, “Klezmer” President CHAI SOCIETY Barbara Kaitz Co-Chair Friday, March 13th • 7:30 pm: Shabbat Service with Adult Choir & Temple Musicians Sid Kuperberg Co-Chair NASHIM (SHM WOMEN) Jamie Evans Co-Chair Katherine Liner Friday, March 20th • 7:00 pm: Jr. Congregation (Grades 3-7) • 7:00 pm: Shabbat Service with guest, Musician-in-Residence, Billy Jonas Co-Chair 2 March 2015 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING OUR RABBI’S PERSPECTIVE OUR TEMPLE FAMILY Do you remember the song from 1979 called, “We Are Family?” We are family… Get up everybody and sing We’re giving love in a family dose… To get our share of the world’s delights Here’s what we call our golden rule Have faith in you and the things you do You won’t go wrong This is our family Jewel In my time with Congregation Shir Ha-Ma’alot, I have come to understand how our Temple is just that–a family. Over the course of our 47-year history, our family home has moved numerous times; from Lido Isle to Balboa Island to Jamboree, and in 1994 to Irvine. Now that we are deeply engaged in our Capital Campaign and Building project, it becomes important to see and understand that the “family home” we aim to build now will sustain us well into the future. And just as with any true family, we must make this happen together. When we began this journey, the one thing I felt very strongly about is that we had 100% participation from our Temple family. Everyone laughed at me and thought I was naïve when I suggested that we have involvement from 100% of our synagogue family members. To me it is no laughing matter at all, but rather the true essence of the inclusiveness we value so highly as a congregation. As the Torah says about those who built the Tabernacle, “Let those whose hearts so move them bring gifts {for the project}.” Our synagogue is as warm and loving as it has ever been and if you have been served well by our Temple, or if you have been touched by an event or moved by a sermon, or if you have received in a way that stirred your heart–now is the time to give. Friends, the mitzvah of tzedakah is not measured by amount, but by intention, for it transforms the giver as much as the recipient. As a Temple family, I want us to grow together and I can tell you as your rabbi, and on behalf of our leadership, your participation and vote of confidence in our project is as important as whatever it is we end up building. For some, that will mean a $100 donation paid over five years A LIFETIME OF BELONGING and for others it will be tens of thousands of dollars donated at one time. Don’t get me wrong, amounts matter; but they matter because of the intention behind them. I want you to give because you feel that this is your home, that this is your community, your family. We strive and work hard to make our Temple a home and inside this home we endeavor to sustain, nurture, and develop a sense of family. As the song states, SHM is a place where everyone “gets up and sings,” where “we give love in a family dose,” where “we share of the world’s delights,” and where “we call our golden rule–have faith in the things you do, you won’t go wrong, this is our family jewel.” Many of our family’s leaders, dozens and dozens of people, are working day and night to create our new family home. From our communications committee, to our events committee, to our Building and Campaign committees, we are creating a place of magic to touch the souls of each and every person who walks onto our campus. Last month you received, in the Ma’alot, a brochure with Frequently Asked Questions regarding our plans for the remodeled new campus right here; we are working hard to create sacred space–a fitting home–for our congregation to continue to flourish and grow spiritually. A story is told of a King whose daughter was to be married in 3 months. He sent out invitations to his entire kingdom for everyone to come and celebrate at the wedding feast. He also asked that guests bring no gifts. All that he requested was that each household, in the weeks before the wedding, should bring a pitcher of their finest red wine to the town square. There, he had erected a huge barrel–8 feet tall and 4 feet wide. During the weeks that led up to the wedding, each household was to bring their pitcher of wine to the barrel, climb up a ladder and open the lid and pour it in. In this way, when it came time to toast his daughter and her new husband, they would do so using the shared bounty of the entire community. As the weeks and months passed and the wedding date grew closer, a representative from each household came to the town square, climbed up the ladder, opened the lid and poured their pitcher Rabbi Richard Steinberg The Rona Perley Memorial Senior Rabbinic Chair into the huge barrel. It slowly filled with each offering until it was almost completely full. Finally, the day of the wedding arrived. The bride and groom stood under the Chuppah, rings were exchanged, the glass was broken. Everyone shouted MAZAL TOV!!! Then, at the beginning of the feast, the King prepared to bless the wine and called for the first toast. He held a clear, crystal glass up to the tap on the bottom of the barrel. He broke the seal, opened the spigot and out came a stream of pure…water. You see, each townsperson, as they heard about the King’s request, thought to themselves, “So many people are contributing to the King’s toast, and it’s such a huge barrel, if I just pour water in, no one will know the difference!” So, one by one, thinking that their contribution didn’t count, each person poured water, not wine, into the barrel. The moral of this story is obvious–but worth stating: Every member of a community has value, and the community continues to thrive only to the extent that everyone engages as a member of that group. Every one of us has an essential and vital perspective to share. If everyone does not feel as though their contribution is going to make a difference, then, in the long run, we are all diminished (As told by Rabbi Joe Black - http://rabbijoeblack.blogspot.com/2013/09/ an-open-community-erev-rosh-hashanah.html). Your contribution matters greatly to me, our committee, and our entire Temple. In the depths of my heart, I do believe we are family in the best of times and in the worst of times. Our synagogue home ought to reflect every opportunity to enhance people’s lives. WE ARE FAMILY! I HAVE ALL MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS WITH ME! March 2015 3 LIFELONG LEARNING PERSPECTIVE Rabbi Leah Lewis Rabbi & Director of Lifelong Learning The Jaffe Family Rabbinic Chair When the High Holy Days arrive each year, we sit together in an overflowing sanctuary and, together, we offer words of hope and faith that we will once again be inscribed in the Book of Life. I have always had a difficult time accepting a literal notion of that formidable book that will, somehow, determine how the future will play itself out for each of us. But when I came to appreciate that much of the meaning of the liturgy can be found when we understand it as metaphor, I began to conceive of the ‘Book of Life’ not as some cosmic chart of behaviors and consequences, but as a reminder that each of us has the opportunity to fill the pages of our own book, and that as we grow and experience life, our stories evolve. According to rabbis Kerry Olitzky and Rachel Sabath, “Because the world is a different place each moment I am alive, there is unlimited potential for change.” The High Holy Day prayer book (Machzor, it is called) is a reminder that embracing change, when change is warranted, gives us the opportunity to live lives that are relevant and meaningful in a new day, a new year or a new generation. And, so, since the days of the Talmudic rabbis, it has been evident that in each generation, not only do our stories evolve, but so do the tools we use to access our stories—our prayer books. When Gates of Repentance was first published in 1978, it was a reflection of the exciting and progressive ways in which our Reform movement considered some of the prayers and themes of the High Holy Days. It has served our movement well for nearly two generations. Mishkan Tfilah, the blue prayer books that we use throughout the year, was published in 2007. At that point it became abundantly clear that while the worship experience that was now being shaped by our prayer book throughout the year was indeed relevant and meaningful in this generation, when it came time for the High Holy Days, there was a disconnect. And, so, the leadership of the Central Conference of American Rabbis went about the work of creating a High Holy Day Machzor that would enable 21st century Reform Jews to access the profound meaning of the ancient liturgy through a contemporary lens. After many years of drafts and revisions, the new Machzor, Mishkan HaNefesh, will be ready for the coming High Holy Days. • Expanded options for Torah Readings • Study texts that provide background and context • New transliterations that capture the beauty of the Hebrew • Original woodblock art by acclaimed artist Joel Shapiro 4 March 2015 And while much is new, many of the readings and liturgical developments that many of us have come to anticipate and love in Gates of Repentance have, indeed, made their way into Mishkan HaNefesh. Our clergy team and the Reform movement internationally is excited at the prospects this new Machzor present for a rich, meaningful, uplifting and relevant High Holy Day experience for the next generation. Starting with the next High Holy Days, it is this new Machzor, not Gates of Repentance, that we will use here, at SHM. We recognize that this requires you, our members, to purchase Mishkan HaNefesh. In advance, we thank you for your willingness to make this once-in-a-generation purchase. As always, for those who are unable to purchase their own, there will be a limited amount of books available to borrow during High Holy Day services. Please see the notice below for information on the special promotion if you pre-order your copies during the month of March. “When you focus all your thought on the power of the words, you may begin to sense the sparks of light that shine in them. The sacred letters are the chambers into which God pours flowing light. The lights within each letter, as they touch, ignite one another, and new lights are born” (from Mishkan HaNefesh). The New Machzor of the Reform Movement Inspiration, Tradition, Innovation A few of the Machzor’s Special Features: Just a few of the many revisions and updates include: • Updated and more user-friendly transliterations • Updated and new contemplative readings and poetry • Innovations in the liturgy itself • Universal gender-neutral language for God (no more guessing what the person sitting next to you will say, or what you ‘should’ say the next time a reference is made to God!) Shir Ha-Ma’alot will adopt this new Machzor for the High Holy Days, 2015… order your’s today I look forward to experiencing a new generation of light and life along with you in the new year. Prayer book Pre-publication discount is available through April 1, 2015 ($36.00 per set) After April 1st all books are $42.00 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING FRIDAY NIGHT LIVE! Shir Pleasure Gift Shop Located in the Temple lobby CLEARANCE SALE OFF 30% All Merchandise “Klezmer” (Except Tallits) Friday, March 27th 7:30 pm Music is a powerful tool for evoking the inner space within which transformative prayer can happen. The ancients knew this, and music was a big part of the ancient temple ritual. This service features congregational melodies and eclectic, contemporary music which compliment the creative service booklet compiled by Cantor Shikler, specifically for this service. Making Room for New Merchandise!! Gift Shop Hours: Sun: 8:00 am to 1:00 pm Tues: 3:00 pm to 6:30 pm Wed: 4:00 pm to 5:00 pm Thurs: 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm One hour before Friday services SAVE THE DATE CANTOR’S CONCERT Saturday, June 6, 2015 7:00 pm Cantor Arie Shikler in concert A LIFETIME OF BELONGING March 2015 5 THE EDUCATION PERSPECTIVE Every year on the 14th of the Hebrew month of Adar the Jewish people celebrate the festival of Purim. This day commemorates the salvation of the Jewish people in ancient Persia from Haman’s plot to destroy all the Jews on this single day. Talia White Religious School Principal The Alpert-Waldman Family Education Chair Over the years, I have developed a deep affinity to this holiday. I am intrigued by the twists and turns throughout the storyline, the absence of God in the text, Esther’s courage, and the coincidences that factor into the saving of the Jewish people. I truly enjoy the customs and traditions that this historical event has created for us and how the holiday continues to retain its importance. Customary on this day is the Reading of the Megillah which recounts the story of the Purim miracle, the giving money or gifts to the poor, the sending of gifts of food to friends, and the festive Purim feast. Jews around the world dress-up in costume becoming superheroes, clowns, cowgirls, Queen Esther and Mordechai bringing the realization of the Persian Jews’ courageous act to life each year. When we see our students dressed up and reacting to the megillah with boos and praise, we know that our children have embodied the strength Looking forward to seeing you and your family at our Megillah Reading and Purim Carnival on Sunday, March 8th! SHM Youth Groups B’nai Mitzvah Students Register for these events online at shmtemple.org under “Events & RSVP” or follow the registration link in the emails. Samuel DeLeo CAN’T WAIT TO SEE YOU THERE! March 13, 2015 Son of Rachel DeLeo and Chris DeLeo I attend: Tarbut V’Torah I enjoy: All sports, especially soccer and reading comic books Mitzvah Project: Collected items needed by the children at Tias Arms, a non-profit dedicated to helping children affected by HIV/Aids in South Africa. SHMOFTY (Grades 9-12): Teen Shabbat at Rabbi Lewis’ house! (8th Grade included) Friday, March 6th, 6:30 to 8:30 pm Join your friends in grades 8-12 for a special Shabbat dinner at Rabbi Lewis’ house! Free to attend, but an RSVP is appreciated! Address will be sent out to those attending. Jason Sokolow March 28, 2015 of the Jewish People. As a Jewish educator, the costumes, the megillah and the festivities signal to me that our efforts as parents and educators has been rewarded. We see our children becoming strong, vibrant participants in Judaism. This is the paramount lesson of Purim, that through all the twists and turns of our lives today, we remain courageous and resilient. Son of Joel & Amy Sokolow I attend: Rancho Santa Margarita Intermediate I enjoy: Paintball, video games, and spending time with friends and family Mitzvah Project: Volunteered at Reptile Rescue JIFTY (Grades 6–8): Sky High! Saturday, March 28th, 6:00 to 8:30 pm Head to Sky High in Costa Mesa for an awesome night of jumping with your JiFTY friends! Dinner is included. Drop-off and pick-up at Sky High: 2970 Airway Ave., Costa Mesa 92626 MITY (Grades 4 & 5): Pool Party at the JCC! Sunday, March 22nd, 3:30 to 5:30 pm Head to the JCC in Irvine for a fun afternoon at the pool with your MiTY friends! Snacks included; please wear a bathing suit, sunblock, and bring a towel. Drop-off and pick-up in front of the JCC: 1 Federation Way, Irvine 92603 MINIMITY (Grades 2 & 3): SHMuperheroes! Sunday, April 19th, 12:30 to 2:30 pm Join your MiniMiTY friends for a superhero afternoon at SHM! We will be doing lots of games and challenges, all with a superhero theme. Lunch is included. Hang out in the Youth Lounge with Madrichim after Sunday school ends until our event starts at 12:30! 6 March 2015 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING OUR PRESIDENT’S PERSPECTIVE CELEBRATING PURIM THE SHM WAY! Ask a dozen Jews what their favorite holiday is and many will answer Chanukah while others will respond Passover. I’m fond of both of these holidays, but one of my favorite holidays is Purim. It’s not only the Hamentaschen and the revelry, but the whole Megillah! We celebrate Purim in style at SHM! First, there is the amazing story of Purim—the Megillah. Here’s a quick refresher on the story: A young Jewish woman in Persia, Esther, is raised by her cousin Mordecai. When King Ahasuerus, known also as King Xerxes I of Persia, decided he was tired of his Queen Vashti, he needed a new queen. Esther was gorgeous and charming and maked quite an impression on Ahasuerus. She was chosen in a beauty contest to be his wife. He doesn’t know that she is a Jew because Mordecai told Esther to keep her identity a secret. Haman (BOO!) is the king’s arrogant and evil advisor. He hates Mordecai because Mordecai refused to bow down to him. Mordecai also foiled an attempt on the King’s life. Haman convinces the King that Jews are disobedient and trouble makers and that they should be put to death on a day chosen by chance, by casting lots. Haman prepares a gallows, and is ready to do away with the Jews, especially Mordecai. Mordecai persuades Esther to speak to the King on behalf of the Jews. Esther was exceptionally brave to go to the King without being summoned and prepares a beautiful banquet for the King so she can tell him about the plot against the Jews. The King is grateful for the banquet and asks Esther is there is anything she wants, to which she responds: the lives of her people. She confesses she is a Jew and that the death planned for her people should also apply to her. The King is furious with Haman and issues an order to have Haman and his ten sons hanged on the very gallows that Haman had set up for Mordecai. This story has a strong and brave woman at its core. There are other such women in the bible, but the fact that Esther’s story is celebrated every year certainly makes her stand out. Her willingness to sacrifice for her people, her cleverness in determining the right way to get to the King, her A LIFETIME OF BELONGING bravery in breaking with protocol and her loyalty to her family are all examples both boys and girls can follow. Purim Traditions: Reform Jews do not fast at Purim, which is traditional, but celebrating this holiday in a rowdy fashion certainly tops the bill. It’s by commandment that we read the book of Esther each year. Making noise when Haman’s name is spoken is intended to remind us that Haman was evil and that we are supposed to erase evil. It’s especially important for kids to be involved in the noisy eradication of the evil of Haman…to learn the lesson that evil cannot be allowed to persist. We’re commanded to eat, drink and have fun. Drinking copious amounts of alcohol is highly encouraged with the admonishment to drink until you can’t tell the difference between Haman and Mordecai. We are told to send gifts and to donate to charity at this time. The tradition of giving to the poor is said to go all the way back to Mordecai, which I think is especially moving. It’s also customary to have a carnival, a play or “shpiel”, and costume contest. Eating triangle shaped cookies called Hamentaschen is also a favorite activity. We are so fortunate to have our very own Megillah scroll that was donated by the 2012 Confirmation Class. SHM Purim starts early with our bakers getting together to prepare dozens of homemade Hamentaschen for the celebration. Other volunteers plan months in advance for our action packed carnival and festivities. Everything from food, games, prizes, and decorations to the Tween Zone, Game Truck, and bouncers is carefully scheduled, staffed and confirmed. The Rabbis, Cantor and others get really creative every year to deliver the story of Purim in new and innovative ways—much to the delight of the children and parents alike. Our fun-filled celebration is planned for Sunday, March 8 from 10 am to 1 pm. We start with a reading of the Megillah, the shpiel, and a costume contest for all ages. We’ll then launch into so much yummy food, games, prizes, raffles, face painting, and costume clad kids and adults all contributing to the fun. Beth Carroll Temple President This amazing event engages at least 100 volunteers to make it a success! It is one of the biggest volunteer events of the year and is a terrific way to meet new people, have fun with people you know and dip your toe into volunteering. If you didn’t have a chance to let us know you want to help, helping at a game booth that is short-handed or hanging out after the carnival to help put the Temple back in order is always appreciated. Purim is important to me because of the celebration of Jewish people triumphing on their own against an oppressor, the always hilarious Purim schpeil created by our clergy and staff, the wonderful and fun carnival, the smiles on the kids faces as they collect prizes and eat the tasty treats of the day, and the grins of parents as they follow their costumed children around SHM and tell us year after year “this is the best Purim celebration.” Happy Purim Shir Ha-Ma’alot! March 2015 7 Welcome New Members Red Cross Blood Drive at SHM Sunday, March 1st 8:00 am–2:15 pm Randy Burg & Mark O’Connor Steve Secofsky Give the gift of life at the Red Cross Blood Drive at Mazel Tov to… SHM. You must be age 16 or over. (Parents must be present to give permission for 16 year olds to donate). Reserve your time online at www.givelife.org, sponsor code “shir” or contact Bruce Gary at (949) 854-0898. Brenda & Joe Colgate on the birth of their granddaughter, Caroline Sydell Olson Condolences to… Cary Glenn on the death of his mother, Dolores Kursman Louise Beckerman on the death of her greatnephew, Max Heffernan Debbie Sogolow on the death of her father, Ed Villim Rosanne Griffin on the death of her brotherin-law, Wade Griffin Royce Sachs on the death of her father, Leonard Schleikorn Libby Frolichman on the death of her mother, Blanche Frolichman Mel Roth on the death of his brother, Allen Roth Adam Robles on the death of his grandmother, Sarah Cohen Richard Pattis on the death of his sister, Susan Pattis Vikki Zukerman on the death of her mother, Barbara Shef RELIGION AT THE CORE .............. WITH SPECIAL GUEST, ANDREW LUSTIG Andrew is a “Jewish Slam Poet,” and a Spoken Word writing workshop facilitator. Andrew’s poems have received over 500,000 views online. (See his powerful YouTube video “I Am Jewish”). WHEN: Living Room Learning at the home of Harriet Malmon Tuesday, March 10th, 5:30 pm Thurs., April 9th, 10:00 am Come and listen to the core of faith taught by a unique voice in Judaism. This program, designed for women, will cover timely issues, concerns, and topics in a safe, intimate, and warm environment. No fee, however registration is requested so that we may know how many to expect. RSVP online at www.shmtemple. org or call the temple office at 949-857-2226. 8 March 2015 WHAT: A 2013-14 Dorot Fellow in Israel, Andrew studied mindfulness meditation. He is co-creator of the One Wish Film Project, a Pardes alumnus, and artist-in-residence/ mentor at the Brandeis Collegiate Institute. WHO: Open to the entire congregation, join our Chai Society and High School students and parents for their multi-generational night of learning and growth. MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING MARCH 2015 EVENT CALENDAR Sunday 1 Monday 2 PURIM 10 am - Purim Shpiel with Clergy & Staff 11 am - Purim Carnival Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday 3 4 5 6 7 4:15 pm - Hebrew School 6 pm - Executive Committee Meeting 6 pm - Hineini (Jewish Mindfulness Group) 7:30 pm - Board of Trustees Meeting 10 am - Happiness Program 6:30 pm - Temple Musicians 10 am - Torah Time for TINY Tots 6:30 pm - Teen Shabbat (Grade 8-12) at Rabbi Lewis’ home 7 pm - Family Shabbat Service with 6th Grade Participation and Youth Choir & Band 8:30 am - Torah Study Purim Carnival Set-up 9 10 11 12 13 9:30 am - Mah Jongg 6:45 pm - Adult Choir 4:15 pm - Hebrew School 7 pm - Brit Tikvah: Wine 5 pm - 7th Grade BMC & Whine 5 pm - 8th-10th Grade 7 pm - Women’s Support Classes Group 5:30 pm - Religion at the Core with guest, Andrew Lustig “Jewish Slam Poet” 6:30 pm - 11th & 12th Grade Class 7:30 pm - SHMoFTY Board Meeting 7:30 pm - Men’s Spirituality Group 8 am to 2 pm - Red Cross 9:30 am - Mah Jongg Blood Drive at SHM 6:45 pm - Adult Choir 8:30 am or 10:45 am Religious School with Pre-K—2nd Grade Family Camp 8:30 am - 7th Grade Action Day 8:30 am - Nosh & Drash: Kaballah–It’s not Just for Madonna 10:15 am - Youth Choir 12:30 pm - Youth Band 8 Tuesday 15 16 17 NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL 9:30 am - Mah Jongg 4 pm - The Story of the Jews 4:15 pm - Hebrew School 6:30 pm - Contemplative Service 6:30 pm - Board of Education Meeting 22 23 24 8:30 am or 10:45 am 9:30 am - Mah Jongg Religious School with 6:45 pm - Adult Choir guest, Billy Jonas 9:15 am or 11 am - Capital Campaign Informational Event 8:30 am - Nosh & Drash 10:15 am - Youth Choir 10:45 am - Torah Time for Tots 12:30 pm - Youth Band 3:30 pm - MiTY: Pool Party ! 4:15 pm - Hebrew School 5 pm - 7th Grade BMC 5 pm - 8th & 9th Grade Classes 29 31 30 8:30 am or 10:45 am 9:30 am - Mah Jongg Religious School 6:45 pm - Adult Choir 8:30 am - Nosh & Drash: Does Judaism Believe in Life After Death? 10 am - Matzo Ball Soup Cook-off! 12:30 pm - Youth Band 4:00 pm - Women’s Seder 18 19 20 6 pm - Brotherhood: March 7 pm - Shabbat Service Madness with Musician-inResidence, Billy Jonas 7 pm - Jr. Congregation (Grades 3-7) 25 14 6:30 pm - NaSHiM: Women 10 am - Torah Time for & Wellness TINY Tots 6:30 pm - Temple 7:30 pm - Shabbat Service Musicians with Adult Choir & Temple Musicians 8:30 am - Torah Study 10 am - Bar Mitzvah of Samuel DeLeo 6 pm - Capital Campaign Havdallah & Reception with guests, Michael Lehrer and Roberto Sheinberg 21 8:30 am - Torah Study 6 pm - Family Havdallah Experience with guest, Billy Jonas 26 27 28 6:30 pm - Temple Musicians 7:30 pm - Friday Night Live! Shabbat Service, “Klezmer” 8:30 am - Torah Study 10 am - Bar Mitzvah of Jason Sokolow 6 pm - JiFTY: Sky High! 4:15 pm - Hebrew School A LIFETIME OF BELONGING March 2015 9 Torah Study Taught by Rabbi Steinberg & Rabbi Lewis Saturdays at 8:30 am 3/7, 3/14, 3/21 & 3/28 WANT TO KNOW more about OUR ISRAEL Adult Learning Programs TRIP CONGREGATION SHIR HAMA’ALOT 2016 Israel Family Trip Lead by Rabbi Leah Lewis PERFECT for your WHOLE June 26–July 7, 2016 FAMILY? Nosh and Drash Sundays 8:30–9:30 am Join us on Sunday mornings to enjoy a bagel and coffee and food for thought: 3/1: Kaballah–It’s Not Just for Madonna 3/22: Freedom from Your Own Personal Egypt 3/29: Does Judaism Believe in Life After Death? INFORMATIONAL MEETING Wed., April 1st 6:30 pm Come and meet with Rabbi Lewis and learn the details about this fabulous family experience! Save the Dates “The Story of the Jews” Facilitated by Jeff Blutinger, Chair of Jewish Studies, CSULB Tuesday, March 17th 4 pm Screening/5 pm Discussion Join with other SHM members to watch and discuss episodes of the crtically acclaimed 5-part PBS series, The Story of the Jews. Explorations of each period of Jewish history will be guided by special guest, Professor Jeff Blutinger. A New Perspective Brotherhood: March Madness NaSHiM: Women & Wellness “The Peri-Menopausal Years” Thur, March 12th, 6:30 pm Thur, March 19th, 6:00 pm Get together with your temple brothers and your brackets for an evening of college basketball and friendship. It doesn’t get any better than this!! Snacks & beverages will be provided. RSVP to the temple at 949-857-2226 or online at www.shmtemple.org by Monday, March 16th All women’s bodies change with time. Join with Dr. Ellen Olshansky, professor and Founding Director of the Program in Nursing at UCI and member of the SHM Board of Trustees, for an evening of exploration, learning, and connection. Hineini: Jewish Mindfulness Tues., March 3rd, 6:00 pm Judaism can inspire one to live a mindful life, but it takes practice. Be a part of acquiring the gifts and benefits of hineini as part of this group. Happiness Project Wed., March 4th, 10:00 am Join us on this journey to explore what it means to find happiness in all aspects of your life as you age. 0$7=2%$// 6283 &22.2)) Sun., March 29th 10:00 am Bring a batch of your best Matzo Ball soup to share, along with copies of the recipe and a clever name for your recipe... and let the voting begin! i Stove will be available starting at 9 am to heat your pre-made soup i The tantalizing taste test will run from 10:00—11:00 am i And the winner is...the exciting announcement to be made at 11:00 am i GRAND PRIZE: $25 SHM Bucks for the temple Gift Shop Contemplative Service Tues., March 17th, 6:30 pm Through music, prayer and contemplation, this service will allow us to become more open to the present and to listen to the spirit that dwells within us. 10 March 2015 If you would like to participate in the competition, register online at www.shmtemple.org or call the Temple office at 949-857-2226 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING C O N G R E G A T I O N S H I R H A M A ’A L O T BILLY JONAS March 20–22, 2015 Friday, March 20th 7:00 pm Billy Jonas will be a part of this special Shabbat Service designed for youth and adults. Billy helps audiences discover the music within common items…and within themselves. Bring the entire family and your friends for a one-of-a-kind experience! Saturday, March 21st Torah Study, 8:30 am Family Havdallah, 6:00 pm featuring BILLY JONAS in partnership with Shalom Family & PJ Library SHM with Shalom Family and PJ Library is excited to host this fun and interactive Family Havdallah. Bring the kids, young and old, for a fun-filled evening with Billy Jonas as we celebrate the end of Shabbat. $10 per family for SHM members $20 per family for non-members (Dessert will be served) Sunday, March 22nd (During Religious School) Everyone is invited to join Billy Jonas as he enchants with a creative and interactive performance! CONGREGATION SHIR HAMA’ALOT 3652 MICHELSON DRIVE • IRVINE 92612 949-857-2226 • SHMTEMPLE.ORG A LIFETIME OF BELONGING March 2015 11 OUR TEMPLE ~ OUR TIME ~ ALL IN! Building Campaign FAQ’s In last month’s Ma-A’lot, everyone received a comprehensive document addressing tons of questions about SHM’s Building Campaign and project. Have you seen it? Here’s a small sampling of some of the information; you can find the full document online at www.shmcapitalcampaign.wordpress.com What will we do with our beautiful stained glass windows? Our stained glass windows are a congregational treasure and an important part of SHM’s identity. Our stained glass windows will be placed in a prominent position in which they will receive the appreciation and light that they deserve. In addition, the stained glass panels were designed to be tactile pieces of art, so that will definitely be taken into consideration as we find the most appropriate place to display them. BUILDING OUR DREAMS OUR TEMPLE ~ OUR TIME ~ ALL IN Thank you for your donation to our Capital Campaign. We are truly appreciative of your support. Mr. & Mrs. Marc Allcorn Mr. & Mrs. Robert Allen Mr. & Mrs. Jeff Anderson Mr. & Mrs. tom Armbruster Mr. & Mrs. Eyal Aronoff Mr. & Mrs. Larry Bann Mr. & Mrs. Ken Bassman Mr. Greg Berkowitz & Mrs. Janet Lawrence Mr. & Mrs. Alexander Berman Ms. Julia Berman Mr. & Mrs. Darin Blindell Mr. & Mrs. Michael Borden Mrs. Leona Brodner Mr. & Mrs. Alan Brutman Mr. & Mrs. John Burger Mr. & Mrs. James Carroll Mr. & Mrs. Bradley Cohen Mr. & Mrs. Robert Cohen Mr. & Mrs. Michael Coleman Ms. Linda Coss Mr. & Mrs. Bradley Eisenstein Mr. Sasha Erlik Mr. & Mrs. Nathan Evans Mr. & Mrs. Barry Fast Mr. & Mrs. Albert Feldman Mr. & Mrs. John Firth Mr. & Mrs. Ari Flechner Mr. & Mrs. Robert Fleishman Mr. & Mrs. David Fliegler Mr. & Mrs. Alan Frankel Mr. & Mrs. Marc Franklin Mr. & Mrs. Bruce Gary Mr. & Mrs. Douglas Golden Mr. & Mrs. Jeremy Goldman Mr. & Mrs. Myron Goldstein Mr. & Mrs. Stephen Gordon 12 March 2015 Dr. & Mrs. Matthew Greenberger Dr. Gary & Mrs. Linda Greene Dr. Rachel Harman-Friedman Mr. & Mrs. Martin Hart Mr. & Mrs. Jonathan Jaffe Mr. & Mrs. Robert Kaitz Dr. & Mrs. Ike Kempler Dr. Stephen & Mrs. Lynne Koffler Mrs. Sharlene Konowitch Dr. Benjamin Kraut Mr. & Mrs. Sid Kuperberg Mr. & Mrs. Lloyd Lenson Mr. & Mrs. Howard LePatner Mr. David & Rabbi Leah Lewis Mr. & Mrs. Heath Liner Dr. Simon Madorsky Dr. & Mrs. Herbert Modelevsky Mr. & Mrs. Marc Monette Ms. Blaze Newman Mr. & Mrs. Jay Orrill Mr. & Mrs. Tony Park Mr. Richard Pattis & Mrs. Ellen Olshansky Mr. & Mrs. Howard Perley Dr. & Mrs. Daniel Perlmutter Mrs. Charlotte Pinsky Mr. & Mrs. Ed Pulwer Mr. & Mrs. Ron Radziminsky Dr. & Mrs. Allan Raff Mr. & Mrs. Nicholas Reichert Mr. & Mrs. Michael Reznick Dr. & Mrs. Jay Rindenau Mrs. Abby Rozenberg Mr. & Mrs. Alfie Schekman Mr. Chris Schran & Dr. Mona Rosenberg Mr. & Mrs. Jack Selcer Mr. Marvin Selcer Mr. Lloyd Sellinger Cantor Arië & Mrs. Beth Shikler Mrs. Ruth Shulman Mr. & Mrs. Jerry Silver Dr. & Mrs. Stanley Silverstein Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Sloate Mrs. Rosalie Sogolow Dr. Tom Staple Rabbi Richard & Mrs. Beverley Steinberg Mr. Hal Stern & Mrs. Hara Waldman Mr. & Mrs. Rod Stern Mr. Richard Sternberg & Mrs. Lou Ann Schemmel Mr. Cory & Dr. Stephanie Sukert Mr. & Mrs. David Susson Mr. John Tharp Mr. & Mrs. Laurence Thompson Mr. & Mrs. Michael Wagschal Mr. Phillip Waldman & Dr. Teri Alpert Mrs. Pearl Wasbin Mr. & Mrs. Paul Wasserman Mr. & Mrs. Howard Weinstein Mr. & Mrs. Albert Weiss The Schwartz-White Family Mrs. Lynda Wisecup Mr. & Mrs. Norman Witkin Mr. & Mrs. Robert Yonowitz The Zeleznick Family Anonymous Will this project address our facility’s energy efficiency/usage problems? Yes, the energy efficiency issue will be fully addressed. As part of this renovation our entire facility will brought up to current standards, with an emphasis on both long-term savings and everyday comfort. Things that are not currently working well, such as the air conditioning system, will be completely restructured. What will be done to make the facility more “green”? Our design team is expert in implementing strategies that address all facets of Green Design, from simple solutions such as low-flow plumbing fixtures, natural ventilation and natural lighting to more complex options such as energy generation and water treatment. The design will leverage the existing structure, tried-and-true technologies, and the unique climatic conditions of Southern California. Depending on our budget and the project scope, the new facility will incorporate some or all of the following: • Natural light (“daylighting”) and natural ventilation • Water use reduction and waste water reduction strategies • Construction materials that are from local/ regional sources, have a high percentage of recycled and/or rapidly renewable materials, and that omit or reduce gas emissions • Water- and energy-efficient HVAC (heating, ventilation and air conditioning) and plumbing equipment • Solar energy panels and solar hot water heating systems • On-site rainwater retention When renovating portions of our existing facility, we also plan to salvage and keep items that can be reused. What will be different about the parking lot after construction? The most noticeable difference to our main parking lot will be the ambiance and approach.Our architects believe strongly that all aspects of the campus should be attractive and welcoming, and this will definitely apply to our parking areas. Our current asphalt lot will not be affected much in size; however, it will be improved significantly in appearance and effectiveness. In addition to having a more “parklike” setting, we will be creating a convenient way to handle religious school drop-off safely away from the parking lot entrance on Michelson Drive. We will also be improving the appearance, functionality, and efficiency of our overflow lot that is adjacent to the golf course. MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING OUR TEMPLE ~ OUR TIME ~ ALL IN! Rabbi Steinberg, along with Capital Campaign Chairs, Ken Bassman and Bob Yonowitz cordially invite you to join in either of the following special events to hear first-hand about out exciting Building Project. The meetings are all held at SHM and will include presentations on the progress we have made to date and our goals as we move forward. Ken, Bob, and Rabbi Steinberg will also be speaking about the fundraising campaign and asking for your participation. All of your questions will be welcomed and addressed! Saturday, March 14th, 6–7:30 pm Havdallah & Reception featuring Michael Lehrer & Roberto Sheinberg from Lehrer Architects LA Michael & Roberto will be there to share our progress and answer questions. Sunday, March 22nd Session 1: 9:15–10 am / Session 2: 11–11:45 am Meeting is at SHM, light brunch will be served. Feel free to drop by whether your kids attend Religious School or not! Getting closer with more space RSVP online at shmtemple.org or to Lindsey Morlan at [email protected] or call 949-857-2226 Saturday Evening April 11,2015 8:00 pm SOKA Performing Arts Center TICKETS Purchase tickets 24/7 at the Symphony Box Office 714-731-8079 or online at www.southcoastsymphony.org A LIFETIME OF BELONGING March 2015 13 SAVE THE DATE! COMING IN APRIL… Shabbat Service with guest, Dr. Randy Scheckman, Ph.D. Friday, April 17th 7:30 pm Randy Schekman is a Nobel Prize-winning American cell biologist at the University of California, Berkeley. For the past three decades, Dr. Schekman has been characterizing the traffic drivers that shuttle cellular proteins as they move in vesicles within a cell. His detailed explanation of cellular travel patterns has provided fundamental knowledge about cells and has enhanced understanding of diseases that arise when bottlenecks impede protein flow. Dr. Schekman… (waiting for email) CONGREGATION SHIR HA-MA’ALOT In Every Generation… Women's Seder Sunday, March 29, 2015 4:00 in the afternoon Bring a mother, daughter, sister or friend, or come to meet new friends! Make new memories while we recall the past during our catered Seder. Guests are welcome. Special program for Girls ages 5-12 Yom Ha’atzmaut with guest, Dr. Rachel Korazim “Israel Diaspora Relations–Changing Narratives” Thursday, April 23rd 6:30 pm: Reception 7:00 pm: Program Based on reflections on over 100 years of Jewish and Zionist history, this session will explore early images of Israel in the eyes of Diaspora Jews as well as images of the Diaspora in Israel. The proximity of the Shoa to the birth of the state of Israel had a lot to do with these images. We will explore possible new ventures as Israel is well over 60 and ready to explore more mature relations with Jewish communities overseas. PLEASE NOTE SPECIAL PASSOVER SHABBAT SCHEDULE: • 1st night of Passover on April 3rd there will be no Shabbat Service • There is a Kaddish minyan on Saturday, April 4th at 9:30 am “Let all who are hungry come and eat” (Passover Haggadah) Once again this year, you will have an opportunity to participate in the mitzvah of feeding the hungry. More information to follow. Community Seder Saturday, April 4, 2015 at 5:30 pm Congregation Shir Ha-Ma’alot Rabbi Richard Steinberg and Cantor Arie Shikler will conduct the Seder. A traditional Seder dinner will be served. Members: $54 Adult/ $30 Child Guests: $60 Adult / $35 Child RSVP by Wednesday, March 25th You can reserve online at www.shmtemple.org or call the Temple Questions? Call the Temple Office (949) 857-2226 Congregation Shir Ha-Ma’alot 3652 Michelson Drive, Irvine, California 92612 * Vegetarian option available by request. 14 March 2015 MEMORY • MITZVAH • MENTSCH MAKING • MAKING MEANING Tzedakah Donations RABBI STEINBERG’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Jill & David Susson in memory of Daniel Lewis Rosalie Sogolow in memory of Ed Villim Brenda & Joe Colgate in honor of our new granddaughter, Caroline Sydell Olson Alana & Bob Yonowitz, thank you for your guidance in helping Sabrina prepare for her Bat Mitzvah Louise Beckerman in loving memory of Max Heffernan Helene & Dan Frainer in memory of my dad, Ray Leister, forever in our hearts Alan & Jeanine Mouchawar, thank you for making Nate’s Bar Mitzvah so memorable RABBI LEWIS’ DISCRETIONARY FUND Alana & Bob Yonowitz, thank you for your kindness and help in preparing Sabrina for her Bat Mitzvah CANTOR SHIKLER’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Louise Beckerman in loving memory of Max Heffernan Alana & Bob Yonowitz, thank you for all you did to prepare Sabrina for her Bat Mitzvah. Your music and voice touched us all Brenda & Joe Colgate to celebrate the marriage of our daughter, Jacqueline to Mark Jecmen Alan & Jeanine Mouchawar, thank you for making Nate’s Bar Mitzvah so special CULTURAL ARTS/FNL FUND Bob & Nancy Wolf in memory of our dear parents, Goldie & Jay Risman Nancy Wolf in memory of my dear sister, Carol Oppenheimer Bob Wolf in honor of David Teincuff ’s birthday Nancy & Bob Wolf in memory of Leonard Schlickorn, father of Royce Sachs Nancy & Bob Wolf in memory of Ed Villim, father of Debbie Sogolow GENERAL FUND Lori Schwartz & Bert White in memory of Debbie Sogolow’s father, Ed Villim Ina Zeleznick, condolences to Mel Roth on the loss of your brother, Allen Frank & Valerie Magursky in honor of Ethan’s Bar Mitzvah JESSICA HERRON ADOPT-A-FAMILY FUND Mark, cindy & Ariana Spero in memory of Milt Wernick Lori Schwartz & Bert White in memory of Randy Riley’s mother A LIFETIME OF BELONGING LIBRARY FUND The Maureen Thompson Family in memory of Maureen’s mother, Ethel Sandler The Larry Thompson Family in memory of Larry’s father, Deo N. Thompson ONEG SHABBAT FUND Robert, Lylle, Ben, Shelly, Dylan , Cameron & Hayden Breier and Drew & Jake Henderson in memory of Eileen Breier RITUAL (JERRY JACOBS) FUND Lois Jacobs in memory of my mother, Esther Kaplan-Jacobs, father, Albert Kaplan, father-in-law (stepfather) Michael Jacobs, and Cecelia Lipson, my grandmother YOUTH GROUP FUND Debbie Spielman in memory of Sarah Spielman YAHRZEIT FUND Jill Susson in memory of Ira Miller Norman Einhorn in memory of Shirley Schrager Sonya Shvartsman in memory of Rachmil Kuperman Donna Pick in memory of Selma Zimberoff Hope Sherwood-White in memory of Irving Sherwood and Murray Burka Daniel Katz in memory of Jacob Katz Esther Kalin in memory of Dora Leibovich Harold Plon in memory of Ruth Plon Harriet Raff in memory of Stephen Klein Edward Pulwer in memory of Rose Lelowski Sara Pulwer in memory of Morris Talerman Marvin Selcer in memory of Sylvia Selcer Ina Zeleznick in memory of Doris Zeleznick Patty Bialak in memory of Max Bialak Pearl Wasbin in memory of my sister, Lillian Klein Loralee Sheridan in memory of my father, Victor Sharrow Loralee Sheridan in memory of my mother, Naomi Sharrow Sharon Blindell in memory of Sylvia Selcer Pearl Wasbin in memory of my father, David Schwartz Pearl Wasbin in memory of my brother, Morris Schwartz Todd Creager & Family in loving memory of Mortimer Creager, father & grandfather Bob Kaitz in memory of William Kaitz Bob Kaitz in memory of Jeanne Aleong Bob Kaitz in memory of Alice Rabb Barbara Kaitz in memory of Bernard Ritea Barbara Kaitz in memory of Jacob Feingold Marcie Howard in memory of Andy Goldscheid Marcie Howard in memory of Charles Jassen Bunnie Mauldin in memory of Fannie Blatt Richard Sternberg in memory of Kathy Sternberg Robert Sherman in memory of Brian Sherman Richard Plon in memory of Ruth Plon Audrey Greenberg in memory of Julius Berest Jessica Herron Sharing & Caring Program for Passover Sun, March 29th 8:30–11:30 am donation deadline Please join us in helping needy Jewish families celebrate Passover by donating grocery gift cards, cash or checks made out to Congregation SHM-Jessica Herron Passover Program. Thank you so much for your participation in this most worthwhile project! Thank you for For more information contact Dana Klein at [email protected] March 2015 15 NON-PROFIT ORG US POSTAGE PAID NEWPORT BEACH, CA PERMIT NO. 272 CONGREGATION SHIR HA-MA’ALOT 3652 Michelson Drive • Irvine, CA 92612 (949) 857-2226 ph CHANGE SERVICE REQUESTED DATED MATERIAL— Please Deliver Before March 1, 2015 Other Donation Opportunities Memorial Board $360 per name Tree of Life $180 per name Prayerbook Fund $35 per book Congregation Shir Ha-Ma’alot has many Sanctuary and Facility Giving and Naming Opportunities. Please contact the Temple office for further information. Tzedakah Contributions Please enclose contribution and mail with this form to the Temple office. (Minimum $10.00 per name or occasion) Donation Given by: Acknowledgment sent to: Name___________________________________ Name ________________________________ Address_________________________________ Address ______________________________ City/Zip:________________________________ City/Zip: _____________________________ Amount of Donation $______________ Check Credit Card on file Visa/MC ___________________________________ Exp.___________ In Honor of ___________________________________________________________________ In Memory of _________________________________________________________________ Special Occasion _______________________________________________________________ Other _________________________________________________________________________ Please Apply My Contribution to the Following Special Fund(s): Alex Zeleznick Children’s Fund Cantor Shikler’s Disc. Fund Cultural Arts/FNL Fund Elana Frenkel Memorial School & Youth Florence Ruth King Chesed Fund General Fund Jessica Herron Adopt-a-Family Fund Library Fund Oneg Shabbat Fund Prayer Book Fund Rabbi Steinberg’s Disc. Fund Rabbi Lewis’ Disc. Fund Rita Teller Camp Scholarship Fund Ritual (Jerry Jacobs) Fund Special Events Fund (Aaron & Brock Silverstein) Stained Glass Fund Todd Evan Ross School Fund Yahrzeit Fund Youth Group Fund Please note: If we receive your donation by the 15th of the month prior to a newsletter it will appear in that issue. After the 15th will be in the next issue. (Example: 2-15 will be in March issue).