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Contents Dea r M u m, your first period? Do you remember u for the big event? yo e ar ep pr um m How did your e, g a huge mileston in ch oa pr ap e ar u w As a mum, yo . She needs you no er ht ug da ur yo ith to side by side w re. She needs you fo be to ay w t en er n in a much diff cence, and you ca es ol ad to in y ne ur ly support her jo g with her, especial in at ic un m m co ly do so by open periods. when it comes to ow about her body kn ld ou sh rl gi y er lp We believe ev n this booklet to he te rit w ve e‘ W . ks or and how it w rls go through and gi g un yo t ha w nd nship you understa deepen your relatio to w ho on ce vi offer you ad . with your daughter x ox o, alwa ys t is just as importan er ht ug da ur yo to PS – Talking vice and other mums for ad fo! as connecting with fo.co.uk for more in in say w al t ou ck support. Che PUBERTY Pages 4 - 5: JOURNEY TO WOMANHOOD PERIOD Pages 6 - 7: COUNTDOWN TO THE BIG DAY Pages 8 - 9: KICK OFF THE CONVERSATION Pages 10 - 11: 1ST PERIOD WITH CONFIDENCE Pages 12 - 13: KNOWING HER BODY Pages 14 - 15: TEEN MENSTRUAL CYCLES Pages 16 - 17: 10 QUESTIONS EVERY GIRL ASKS Pages 18 - 19: TIPS FOR MUMS & DAUGHTERS 04 ed r i sp ul SOWE f y o J ME A s w e e t dr iou s spicey Become your daughter’s number one supporter. Compliment her often on her strengths and achievements. Encourage her to make healthy choices for her body. Be there to listen when she needs to blow off some steam. If you help keep her confident, she will strive! d Let‘s admit it: we said “whatever” a gazillion times when we were teens. So every time your darling rolls her eyes, huffs in disapproval or makes a huge fuss ... smile (best on the inside) and recognise that she is actually listening to what you are saying. Try not to take it so personally and just be there for her when she does need you. g Be Her Confidant clo u Stay tuned in e a m in Girls go through many physical and emotional changes during puberty. They have loads of questions about their bodies and want answers, but don’t always feel comfortable asking. ON cur Be there for her questions in 05 Fire cker cr a Journey to womanhood IRON MAN Today she‘s feeling 06 07 Countdown to the big day The best time is now Talking about body changes during puberty isn‘t a one time gig. It‘s an open-ended conversation that ideally starts before the first signs of puberty. One thing we know for sure: it‘s never too early for a girl to know more about her body and feel confident! Stage 2 A girl’s first period, called the menarche (MEH-nar-kee), usually happens between 11-13 years of age. However, every girl’s body has its own schedule. You can expect her first period about 2-3 years after the first signs of puberty. Mum’s Tip: Ease Look for these signs! Stage 1 Countdown to big day Stage 3 her worries Your pre-teen may be alarmed when she discovers whitish discharge for the first time. Reassure her that this is perfectly normal Let her know she could get her period soon Buy pantyliners to help her feel fresh Breast buds Breasts enlarge Armpit hair Growth spurt Peak growth spurt Menstruation First pubic hair Pubic hair darkens, Growth slows down Body odour becomes curlier Onset of adult breast Vaginal discharge Pantyliners protect your knickers and help keep you feeling fresh all day long. Check out our range at: www.always-info.co.uk 08 09 Kick off the conversation Can’t seem to get that first conversation about periods started? We’ve written the words for you. Just choose one of the notes below that sounds most like you. Write it down and sign it, then give it to your daughter (or leave it where only she‘ll be able to find it). ghter, Dear Dau at tty weird e r p e b n a Puberty c me, I remember! st u r me times. T w you so o h s o t e lik r peI‘d really u get you o y n e h k w stuff for ou can as y t e g r ‘t fo riod. Don e! g, anytim in h t y n a me ays, Love Alw Dear Daughter, I really don‘t wan t you to be confused about ge tting your period - or afraid to ask me anything. So, ask me whatever, whenever you wan t. Love Always, Mu m PS: I will not frea k out pinky promise!!! Mu m Mum’s Tip: Best Times to Talk Over a cup of tea… take one to go and sit on a park bench After shopping, if you have privacy. In the car when you have 10 minutes alone 10 11 1st Period with confidence When the special day does arrive, like every mum, you want your daughter to feel confident and happy. You can help her feel more prepared by encouraging her to always have a liner or pad with her, just in case. Always offers ultra-thin pads and liners that come individually wrapped – perfect for on the go! Am I normal? Girls want to know that they are normal. Be totally upfront with your daughter and explain that periods can vary in duration, flow, cramping and even colour. Most importantly, let her know that there is no reason for her to be worried! Mum’s Tip: Share your stories A sure fire way to get your daughter‘s attention is to share personal success stories of how you mastered menstruation‘s challenges when you were a teen. Best stories to share: • Managing periods while in school • Your first time using a tampon • What your mom forgot to tell you about periods A secret pouch that hides liners or pads will help ease your daughter‘s worries about others knowing she has her period. It should be super small, super discreet and fit easily in her backpack or handbag. Keep the stories upbeat, mum! Your daughter wants you cheering for her (not scaring her). 12 13 K nowing her body K nowing her periods Your daughter will feel self-reliant and more secure knowing when she will get her next period. It‘s super easy and she can do it herself - all she needs is a calendar. 3 Easy steps to track her cycle 1 Note the first day of her period on a calendar. Mark every day thereafter until the last day of menstruation. This lets her know the average length of her period. 2 Count 28 days from the BEGINNING of the last period. This is when she can expect her next period. In the meantime, she can continue having fun and stock up on feminine protection products. 3 Repeat. With practice, your daughter will notice a rhythm. Encourage her to pay attention to hormonal body changes, such as cramping, discharge and moods. Check out our period calendar on www.always -info.co.uk If she knows when her period is, she can always be prepared. What is PMS? Some women experience premenstrual syndrome it‘s a combination of symptoms prior to her period. Headaches, cramps, bloating, skin problems and angry outbursts can all be signs that she is struggling with PMS. Don‘t worry, a few changes in her routine can help relieve symptoms. Mum’s Tip: How to relieve PMS Goodbye sugar and dairy. Hello to more fruits and veggies! Getting at least 9 hours sleep helps level out moods Exercise - not intense, just regularly. Dancing and yoga are also great stress reducers. 14 15 Teen menstrual cycles Parenting requires you to be flexible and adjust to suit the given moment. Funny enough, the same is true with adolescent periods. Your daughter will benefit from using a range of products according to her menstrual flow and activities. Intensity of menstrual flow Days Other ways. Other days. Your daughter will most likely be curious about tampons and pantyliners, yet too shy to ask. Many girls start using Tampax tampons when they go swimming and find them more comfortable to wear when they are active on their period. Always Dailies pantyliners protect knickers and will help keep your daughter feeling fresh all day long. TAMPAX Daytime “Invisible” period protection Day Always Ultra Normal for light days Always Ultra Normal Plus with wings for moderate flow Always Ultra Long Always Ultra Long Plus with wings for moderate flow for moderate to heavy flow Night Always Ultra Night for heavy to very heavy flow at night Always Ultra Secure Night for heavy to very heavy flow at night Your daughter might want to try different Always pads to find out which one fits her best. Mum’s Tip: ALWAYS DAILIES Daily - as needed When she doesn’t have her period, but wants to feel fresh Sa mple Day Set aside some time at home to see and feel different types of liners and pads. It will be sooo much more comfortable for her at home versus deciding in the store aisle! • Determine her preferred product and length • Pocket size products assure your daughter that her period goes unnoticed by others • Individually wrapped products are ideal for on-the-go 16 17 10 Questions every girl asks Girls receive a lot of mixed messages and often look to the period pros (like Mom) for advice. Take her questions to heart and remember how sensitive your daughter might be at this time. She probably needed a lot of courage to ask in the first place! 1. Will my period hurt? It‘s not so easy to remember our first period pains (there‘s another benefit of getting older). Some girls feel normal, while others have cramps. You can offer to make your daughter warm compresses to help her, if needed. 3. Does chocolate ease cramps? Like mother, like daughter ... she may reach for the chocolates and comfort foods during menstruation. Dazzle her with healthier alternatives like dark chocolate and sparkling water mixed with fresh fruit juice. 2. Can I flush my sanitary products? Avoid your drains getting clogged by teaching her to never flush pads, liners or tampons. She‘ll probably be worried about being noticed with wrappers, just reassure her that all girls go through the same thing. 4. How long does a period last? Your daughter‘s period will probably last anywhere from 3 to 7 days, however everyone is different. Most girls experience heavy flow the first few days. Afterwards, it becomes lighter - liners are perfect for these days. 5. Can I go swimming during my period? Girls need to know that they can still do all the things they love when they have their period. She can absolutely swim during her period by using a tampon. Check out tampax.co.uk together for insertion tips and more! 7. What is discharge? Adolescent girls are often confused and embarrassed by discharge. You can explain to your daughter that discharge is perfectly normal and healthy. Wearing Always Dailies pantyliners can help her feel clean and fresh, every day. 9. Will people notice I have my period? Just like most women, your daughter may feel self-conscious during her period, especially about being noticed by others. Always pads with leak guard protection and odour neutralisation will help her feel more confident. 6. Are tampons comfortable? Your daughter may feel more comfortable wearing “invisible”protection, like Tampax tampons. When inserted correctly, tampons do not hurt. Let her know that with practice, she will feel more comfortable inserting a tampon. 8. Can I take a bath during my period? Moms, you know that a warm bath can solve many problems! Plus, good hygiene is essential for girls during menstruation. Your daughter may already be concerned about odours, and rightfully so on average, women sweat more during their periods. 10. Do thicker pads offer better protection? No - not always. Some pads (often called “ultra” pads) are really thin, but they are made with a super absorbent core made of millions of gel granules where the fluid is absorbed, so that it hardly resurfaces. And because they‘re thin, they‘re really comfortable and discreet too! 18 19 Tips for Mu ms & Daughters Give confidence Connect Your daughter wants to know more about her body and its changes. Deepen your relationship with open communication. Behind every confident girl is a strong support system. Let her know that you are always there for her and she will succeed. Celebrate Puberty can be awkward, but there is no reason to hide. After all, it is your daughter’s first step into womanhood.