Digital Issue - Palm Beach Woman Magazine
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Digital Issue - Palm Beach Woman Magazine
2013 | Vol 2, no.2 From rock-n-roll wiFe to the rock oF her Family US US $5.95 $9.95 sailfish point N O T A L L O C E A N F R O N T P R O P E RT Y I S C R E AT E D E Q U A L . At the Southern tip of Hutchinson Island lies Sailfish Point, a 532-acre secure, private enclave surrounded by water on three sides; the Atlantic Ocean, St.Lucie Inlet, and Indian River,where the Gulf Stream keeps the waters temperate while onshore breezes moderate the climate. It is all the privacy you need and affords all the amenities you want: golf, tennis, fitness, spa, deepwater marina, elegant clubhouse and oceanfront dining.Sailfish Point is a community of interesting people who enjoy a relaxed, first-class lifestyle. In the end, it is the island’s unassuming, friendly atmosphere and its people that are the main attraction. Members here are not simply acquaintances, they are truly a community family. It’s easy to get here, but hard to leave. 800.799.7772 2 | P A L M B E A C H Woman SailfishPoint.com 1648 S.E. Sailfish Point Blvd., Stuart, FL 34996 THE POINT IS... 3 minutes to ocean, 10 minutes to private airport, 45 minutes to the Palm Beaches, 60 miles to the Bahamas. sailfish point Hutchinson Island, Florida Miles of Atlantic shoreline • Nicklaus Signature Golf • Oceanfront Country Club Helipad • Fitness Complex • Spa/Salon • Private Yacht Club and Marina INquIRE ABOuT GuEST OPPORTuNITIES 800.799.7772 SailfishPoint.com 1648 S.E. Sailfish Point Blvd., Stuart, FL 34996 The Sailfish Point Club is a private facility. Sailfish Point Sotheby’s International Realty is a licensed Real Estate Broker. Each office is Independently Owned & Operated. Equal Housing Opportunity. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 3 Contents He alth F u l l 38 Welcome to our summer Issue fr om C OVER Jaclyn Uncove r e d PALM BEACH Achi e ve rs Focus on Women for Non Profits A Fe w G o o d M e n O N T H E Frontl i n e 48 54 30 42 45 E n h a n c i n g Li ve s Step Up to the Plate H O w d oe s y o u r Garden Grow? W I N E Kno w Meet Jaclyn on page 14 Cover Image: Michael Franco Wardrobe for Cover: Eva Pappas D a y trippi ng - Boca 12 B e a u t y b ou nd L i f e i s Beautiful S u mme r Hair Fa s hion for ward 08 18 P o r s che on Fashion 24 4 H ome tren ds M i d cent u r y Modern | P A L M B E A C H Woman 58 C U L T - UR E 56 MUSIC/THEATER ARTS GARAGE d onna f u lle r 62 W E L L Re ad 68 82 C O M M O N Inte re st S O C I A L Me d i a H I G H So ci e t y SPOT-On S p e c i a l E ve nts 88 92 96 Letter from the E d ito r Welcome to Palm Beach Woman Magazine. Ah, the carefree days of summer are upon us.... Publisher Editor Art Director Design and Production 88 Media Group, LLC Lauren Malis Laura DiBartolo Sack Lunch Marketing, LLC Kara Clapp, Creative Director Gladiola Quintanilla, Senior Art Director Elena Scheiner, Graphic Designer Melissa Smock, Senior Copywriter Contributing WritersKelly O’ Conner, Lauren Donald, Dr. Lena Edwards, Lauren Malis, Erin Heit, Dr. Marc Klein, Amy Pasquantonio, Alexis Boissier, Lisa April Smith, Kara Clapp, Barbara McNally, Dr. Melissa Luke, Paul Freiberger, Karen Purcell, Betsy Kent, Line Doucet, Melissa Smock, Lola Thelin, Mary Beth Logan Contributing Photographers Paulette Martin, Amy Pasquantonio, Melissa Smock Account Executives Circulation Administrator Joselle Crocker and Linda Tepper, Karen Antonucci, Kelly Palmisano 88 Media Group, LLC For pricing and deadline information with regards to advertising with Palm Beach Woman magazine, email us at [email protected]. Palm Beach Woman, published 4 times a year, is a publication focusing on lifestyle, culture, and business women in Palm Beach County, Florida. We want to hear from you! Email all news, editorial submissions, article topic suggestions and ideas and feedback to [email protected]. Your email must include your name, address and a telephone number so that we can contact you. We reserve the right to select which submissions are published and to edit all submissions prior to publishing. 2013 by Palm Beach Woman magazine, 88 Media Group, LLC All rights reserved. Palm Beach Womans magazine is a publication supported solely by our advertisers and distributed throughout Palm Beach County and other areas. Palm Beach Woman magazine called “publisher” hereafter does not necessarily endorse the views expressed in the articles and advertisements. Advertisers are solely responsible for the contents of advertising; including photos, images, artwork and all creative works submitted for publications. All advertisers must agree to protect and indemnify 'publisher” against any and all legal action. This includes any and all liability, loss or expense arising from claims of liable;unfair competition; unfair trade practice; infringement of trademarks; trade names; patents; copyrights; violations of rights of privacy and any other claims accepted for publication in the journals. We apologize for any misprint(s) or error(s) found within any editorials. Our contributing writers are responsible for the information and facts given to 88 Media Group, LLC. For forever, summer has been my favorite season. As a young girl, summers meant spending time at our beach house in Old Saybrook, Connecticut. Back then, I left in the morning for the beach with a packed lunch and, if I was lucky, 50 cents for the Good Humor Truck, returning for dinner, sun-ripened and sandy. Over the months of freedom, we crabbed, swam in the ocean, or played board games and cards when it rained. We had dances at the clubhouse (one summer, my crush was the clubhouse band’s drummer, Billy) and rode our bikes to the corner store for candy. I even worked on the small, beach-community newsletter. Oh, and I had my first kiss in the summer, too, from a boy named Mark. Then there was my friend Kim. She and I tried our best to be good, but it was harder than you might think. Our moms were wise to the temptations of nearby Terra Mar Resort and gave us red-stained quarters to spend in the arcade. If those quarters showed up anywhere else—like the cigarette machine—Kim and I were in deep trouble. (Now, when I find the occasional red quarter, I check the date to see if it’s from that special time.) In later years, Kim, our mutual friend Kathy, and I shared summer houses, first in Newport, Rhode Island, then I with others in the Hamptons, helping me carry summer’s grand fun forward into “grown-up” life with me. My PBW partners, Kara and Gladiola, treasured their summers, too, although they lived them out in such different places from each other and from me! As a girl, Kara summered in Alaska, first at an art camp (no wonder she is so darned creative) and then at a vacation camp in Fairbanks, where, after her shift ended, she would sit around the campfire talking to the camp’s guests. Kara has also spent some hot-weather time in Paris, which makes sense, as she is a foodie who loves a good vino as much as I. I suspect we will eventually take an RV trip someday. Gladiola a Florida girl, spent her summers beach-side, swimming and diving. And, though she’s petite enough that this might be surprising, her girlhood summers are when she perfected her hoop-shooting skills. As a teen, Gladiola also volunteered for Planned Parenthood and for her church over those school free days, and now demonstrates the kick-ass spirit, good sportsmanship, great attitude she honed over all those Florida summers. Now, we’re celebrating summer together in Palm Beach and in PBW, and we’re sharing that celebration with you. In these pages, you’ll notice we’ve made some additions, including more of what we love and what you love. And long after the last days of summer fade, we will continue taking chances, trying new approaches, and keeping each issue as fresh as a summer flower! So cheers to all of us—to you and yours—for a great “Summertime”! Here’s hoping “the living is easy,” and that we all remember to enjoy the simple things—sharing a story, or some laughter, and making a summer’s worth of memories that will live forever in our hearts and souls. Lauren Malis [email protected] P A L M B E A C H Woman | 5 Palm Beach Riding Academy lessons | showing | training | boarding Offering beautiful and talented horses to cater to all experience levels, from first-time rider to seasoned competitor. To schedule a visit, tour or to make a lesson appointment, please contact us at 561-784-4275. Find us on Facebook: Palm Beach Riding Academy Wellington, Florida 6 P A L M B E A C H Woman One is not born a woman, One becomes one. - Simone de Beauvoir Triple Cascade Diamond Ring 3 cts of Dazzling Bliss JEWELRY DESIGNERS SINCE 1954 PALM BEACH · 210 Worth Ave. · 561.832.4918 MONTREAL · 2195 Crescent St. · 514.848.0595 www.kaufmanndesuisse.com P A L M B E A C H Woman 7 Da y Royal Play Day at Royal Palm Place Palm Southeast of Mizner Park you will stumble upon another shopping area that has more stores and eateries in it than most women can afford to hit in one afternoon. Breakfast at Saquella Caffè or Boc Breakfast Club. Bikini wax for beach season at Green Wave Body Waxing then pick up a new bathing suit at The Bikini Station or Swimland Swimwear. On a super hot and sunny South Florida day cool off with a smoothie from Tropical Smoothie Cafe or frozen yogurt from Fro Yo Frenzy. If you have a special man in your life who is a cigar aficionado make a pit stop into Bennington Tobacconist for a treat he will surely thank you for. Mizner Park and Royal Palm Place are highly desirable locations, and after just a few hours of roaming the streets of downtown east Boca you may want to live in the area permanently, so swing any of the real estate agencies such as Level 5 Lucury Real Estate or South Florida Real Estate Advisors. If you desire a heartier midday meal, I would highly recommend Chops Lobster Bar, Jake’s Stone Crab, Table 42 Italian Kitchen and Wine Bar or Lemongrass Asian Bistro. For the adventurous woman there is Cloud 9 Adventures where you can book an event such as a helicopter ride or get your groove on at Fred Astaire Dance Studio. By Kelly O’Connor 8 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Royal Palm Place is a retail therapy utopia as well as heaven for your tastebuds. NINJA SPINNING SUSHI Ninja Spinning Sushi in the Mizner Mile area of Boca Raton elevates the normal conveyor-belt style sushi restaurant to a whole new level. Opened just 5 short months ago, it is already the go-to spot in Boca for sushi with an enjoyable atmosphere. Small plates of a wide variety of sushi ranging from $3.00 to $7.00 float around the bar on the lazy river in boats. You grab what you like, stack your plates and pay at the end. Ninja Spinning Sushi is open 4:30pm to 1:30am, seven days a week. The sushi is always super fresh, and if possible, take a seat next to Itamae (Sushi Chef) Jack. He is extremely knowledgeable about the sushi and is highly entertaining. Ninja Spinning sushi offers an insane Happy Hour, 7 days a week from open until 7:00pm, and it includes all sushi plates at $3.00, 2 for 1, on all drinks, and most importantly to our group that went, $3.00 sake bombs. They have a creative cocktail menu that includes items such as the Sisho Naughty which is Limon, passion fruit, sisho mint leaves, blackberry and lime, or the Yuzu Cooler, which is Cucumber Vodka, yuzu juice, fresh cucumber and organic agave. Ninja Spinning Sushi also offers an eclectic full sushi menu and plenty of table seating, in addition to the bar seats along the lazy river. Ninja Spinning Sushi is seriously good sushi and an awesomely good time. Ninja Spinning Sushi’s address is 41 Palmetto Park Road, Boca Raton. - Melinda Webster Mizner Park Roaming Mizner Park For the artsy woman they offer the Boca Raton Museum of Art or if you are in luck you may be able to catch a band performing at the Count de Hoernle Amphitheater. Z Gallerie has some fabulous unique home decorations as well. IPic Theaters is a unique addition to the area which offers the most comfortable way to view a movie with a reclining leather chair and blanket. Their inhouse restaurant, Tanzy, is known for their great food, ambiance, and thirst-quenchingly delicious drinks. The theater also offers food that is not your typical movie-theater fare. The Cheese Course is great for a light lunch and a refreshing glass of wine midday. If you are anything like myself, cheese is a major food group. Mizner Park offers visitors a remarkable experience of culture, shopping, dining and entertainment in an open-air environment. Two unique local eateries owned by the same management group are Kapow Noodle Bar for the Asian flare or Dubliner if you have a wee bit of Irish in you. The Funky Buddha Experience Many places in downtown east Boca are pet friendly, so you can treat your furry family member to a gift at Love My Puppy. For some retail therapy there is Martier, Lord and Taylor, Tommy Bahama, and Sunglass Hut so you can dress the part of a South Florida socialite. Sloan’s is a trademark ice cream parlor that is famous for its bathroom. The glass wall fogs up once you lock the door, I promise. KARMA Sushi and Steakbar is not your run-of-the-mill eatery either. It’s a great location for people watching and enjoying the fresh air. For an afternoon delight stop in to Spice and Tea Exchange so you can remember your day trip around east Boca. By Kelly O’Connor The Funky Buddha Lounge is just a stone’s throw from Mizner Park and is well worth checking out. The experience begins with the atmosphere, a light smell of flavored shisha drifts through the air, tons of soft pillows, comfortable couches, warm earthy colors, excellent music, great lighting, amazing artwork created by local artists and most importantly a very positive vibe from the friendly regulars. (Did we mention that this is the perfect place to bring a date?) Once you have found a place to relax, you will be blown away by the menu. They brew their own beer, offer over 40 loose leaf teas, over 40 different flavors of shisha for the hookahs, 110 of the best craft beers they could find, a great wine selection, various mixed drinks, Kava by the shell, delicious snacks, including fresh made hummus, outrageous desserts, and microbrewed sodas. The experience is not over: don’t forget about the live entertainment. Every Monday they have free Jazz Night and every Wednesday they host the longest on-going Open-Mic in the area. There is always something going on—whether it’s new beer tapping, comedy shows, live music or art shows, it is always a good time. thefunkybuddha.com | (561) 368-4643 | 2621 N Federal Hwy Boca Raton, FL 33431 P A L M B E A C H Woman | 9 momCierge E ast Boca In case you’re daytripping around the town with little ones in tow, here are some fun filled ideas and support help in the East Boca area! EXPLORE Boca Raton Children’s Museum 498 Crawford Blvd., Boca Raton, FL 33432 561-368-6875 www.cmboca.org • $5 per person, infants are free • Parenting Enhancement Lectures • Mommy & Me Classes • Birthday Parties • Facility Rentals • Summer Camp • Educational Programs & Classes Gumbo Limbo Nature Center 1801 North Ocean Blvd, Boca Raton, FL 33432 561-544-8605 www.sugarsandpark.org • FREE admission (suggested $5 donation) • FREE Guided walk along the boardwalk • 1/4 mile Boardwalk Trail • Nature Center/Sea Turtle Garden/ Butterfly Nursery • Summer Camp • Turtle Walk & Hatchling Release Children’s Science Explorium 300 S. Military Trail Boca Raton, FL 33486 561-347-3912 www.scienceexplorium.org • FREE admission (suggested $5 donation) • Interactive Exhibits • Birthday Parties • Science Fair Tips • Science Camp • After School Science Programs 10 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Boomers 3100 Airport Road Boca Raton, FL 33431 (561) 347-1888 www.boomersparks.com • Celebrate Your Good Grades With Us! Good Students deserve a great deal. Just bring your most recent report card to Boomers! for FREE points! • Arcade, Go Karts, Bumper Boats, Miniature Golf, Laser Tag, Rock Wall, Mini-Bowling, Batting Cages, • VALUE PACKS AVAILABLE • Free Wifi / Full Cafe • Birthday Parties/Group Rates • Weekday Specials (visit website) Sugar Sand Park 300 South Military Trail Boca Raton, FL 33486 561.347.3900 www.sugarsandpark.org • Science Playground • Gymnasium • Children’s Science Explorium • Nature Trails • 155 Seat Willow Theater • Carousel • Science Programs • Family Sized Pavilions • Birthday Party Programs • Summer Camp Programs • Art Exhibits SPECIALISTS/SUPPORT Center for Autism & Related Disabilities at Florida Atlantic University 777 Glades Road Boca Raton, FL 33431 1-800-9-AUTISM [email protected] www.coe.fau.edu • Florida’s First Choice for Autism Supports • EXPERT consulting • Training & Support AT NO CHARGE!!! • For people with autism and related disabilities, their families and the professionals serving them. Adaptive Aquatics 1300 NW 8th St. Meadows Park Pool Boca Raton , FL 33486 (561) 393-7851 www.ci.boca-raton.fl.us This program provides one-on-one lessons for individuals with Special Needs. Per 8 classes: Residents $65, Non-Residents $81.25. Classes are held at both the Meadows Park Pool and The Swim Center. • R eceptive/ Expressive Language • A rticulation • Fluency • Oral Motor • Voice • P ragmatics • S ocial Skills Groups 233 South Federal Highway Suite 111 Boca Raton, Florida 33432 Phone: 561-347-0701 Email: [email protected] www.TLCSpeechTherapy.net GOOD EATS Mississippi Sweets BBQ Co 2399 N Federal Hwy Boca Raton, FL (561) 394-6779 www.mississippisweetsbbq.com • Barbecue, American, Southern/Soul • Great For Kids • Take Out/Catering/Waiter Service • Wings, Chicken Tenders, Ribs, BBQ Chicken, Pork & Beef, Salads Inspired by the Great Chefs of our Day When the truly great chefs of the world combine ingredients, they lay out an intricate palate of tastes that expand upon each other to shape a culinary chefs-d’oeuvre. Onli™ Beverages are created in the same way with a mission to transform a drink from mere accompaniment to a featured taste sensation. Each of our great tasting beverage masterpieces are lightly carbonated because, at the end of the day, life is meant to sparkle. P.F. Chang’s China Bistro University Commons 1400 Glades Rd. Bay 220 Boca Raton, FL 33431 (561) 393-3722 www.pfchangs.com • Kids Menu is Awesome! • Honey Chicken, S&S Chicken, Gluten Free Kids Fried Rice, Vegetable Stir-Fry (Gluten Free Option) & Lo-Mein • Gluten-Free Friendly • Fair Pricing for Portion Sizes • Outdoor Dining Uncle Julio’s Fine Mexican Food Mizner Park: 449 Plaza Real, Boca Raton, FL 33432 (561) 300-3530 www.unclejulios.com • Their Salsa is great! • Fajitas, Tacos, Nachos, Kidsadillas, Chicken Tenders Lotta Enchiladas • Seasonal Fruit, Fresh Juice, Vanilla Ice Cream • Boca Raton Magazine-Readers’ Choice - Best Mexican Food Sparkling All Natural Chef Inspired www.onlibeverages.com • 855-the-onlI Amici • Publix • Whole Foods Market iPic Theaters Mizner Park 301 Plaza Real Boca Raton, FL 33432 561-299-3000 • Enjoy a delicious meal while being highly entertained! • Tons of kid friendly starters including pretzel sticks, nachos, mozzarella sticks. • Burgers, flatbreads, fries, tater tots, • Killer desserts! • Visit website for showtimes & ticket info Ruby Tuesday 409 Plaza Real Boca Raton, FL 33432 561-392-5705 www.rubytuesday.com • One of those “have it all” restaurants • Mini Burgers with Cheese, Cajun Fried Shrimp, Chicken Strips, Grilled Chicken, Chop Steak, Grilled Cheese. • Healthy Sides • Fresh Garden Bar • Casual Family Dining P A L M B E A C H Woman 11 Life is Beautiful La vie est belle=French | La vita è bella=Italian | Das Leben ist schön=German 2 4 The curation of what we would have in our very own lifestyle brand celebrating items and things we love large and small that together weave the tapestry that is “A Beautiful Life.” 3 1 B e a u t y b o und 2. Yves Saint Laurent – Touche Eclat Concealer $40. 3. Special Summer Aquamarine and Pearl Bracelets Available in Single Strand or Triple Strand – Lapistree.com From $95 - $150 4.Charlotte V Tank – JMcgluaghlin.com $185. 5. South Sea Pearl 18 K Gold and Stainless Necklace – UniqueBoutiquejewelry.net $4,900. 6. Minna Zebra Wood Sunglasses – Wooedbywood.com from $120 5 6 11 1. Kate Spade – Wine cooler bag $85. 7 7. Kate Spade earrings – Neimanmarcus.com $78. 8. BAG from Roberta Rabbit Roller – 150 Worth Ave, Palm Beach 9. Bain de Soleil – Walgreens $9.99 10. Cavo Wedgies – Footcandy $120. 11. W illiams Sonoma – Hexagonal Geometric Garden Seat Williamssanoma.com $495 8 9 1 2 | P A L M B E A C H Woman 10 ches a e B alm P e h t f o humidity, and blazing sun. While fierce , heat intense its for wn kno tect your Summer in South Florida is makes for a pretty bad hair day. Pro ally usu it ch, bea the at day at gre sun. this may sound like a compromising your days in the without r me sum the of cts effe ng agi hair from the dam By: Lauren Donald Hats and Scarves Wearing hats and scarves not only protect Embrace Your Natural Texture your hair from exposure to the elements, but Put your hot tools on summer vacation and can also be a fun way to mix up your look. see what your hair is capable of when left Cover your hair and uncover a new you. alone. A little product can reveal and define what your hair was meant to do naturally. Look for leave-in conditioners and curl- Saturate And Rinse Don’t let your hair come between you and the pool. Rinse your hair with clean water prior to jumping in. This will protect your locks from absorbing the water’s unwanted elements, such as salt and chlorine. Just remember to rinse again immediately defining lotions or mousses. Apply and enjoy. afterwards. Don’t be afraid; dive right in! Moisture Is Not A Four Letter Word Shampoo Secret The more moisture you put into your hair, the less room there is for humidity. So act before humidity does! Humidity blows out your cuticle, giving the appearance of dull frizzy hair. Fill and seal your hair with a Limit shampooing your hair to 2-3 times a week. Manipulating your scalp with water and conditioner alone will remove most natural oils and dirt, and your hair will feel and smell like its been freshly cleaned. Consider this your little shampoo secret. weekly deep conditioning treatment. You’ll ______________________________________________ learn to love moisture and not let humidity Lauren Donald owns Bond Street Salon in downtown Delray. give it a bad name. bondstreetsalon.com | 561.330.8760 P A L M B E A C H Woman | 13 Jacl Rock Star Wife “Rough, Tough, Creampuff” Mom Jaclyn with her husband Scott Stapp Who is Jaclyn? I am a goal-driven, hardworking woman who is passionate about my spirituality and my family. My faith is at the core of all my relationships and activities, from raising my children to my community service. Who are you as a wife? Compassionate, loyal, protective, romantic, patient, and honest, I am committed to my marriage and willing to work hard at it, since life does not always resemble the white-picket-fence ideal. Who are you as a mom? My kids say I’m a “rough, tough, cream puff.” Although I am very nurturing, I run a tight ship; I’m a consistent, hands-on mom. I strive to keep in touch with every aspect of my children’s lives, and, leading by example, I encourage them to be confident and honest and to give back to others. Who are you as a sister? When we were growing up, my widowed mom referred to her five children as four queens and one king! Of the four girls, I was the one you went to when you wanted a direct opinion—no frou frou! These days, my sisters are all career women, and I still love it when they call me a “good listener.” I also share with them from my closet—shoes, clothes, purses! U n cov e re d Who are you as a friend? I am loyal and want my real friends to feel like family. Even when I’m traveling, I will make sure to take time to catch up with friends, really enjoy the moment when I do. Who inspires you? My mom! She is selfless, devoted, and constantly sacrificing and giving to others. A widow, she raised five children single-handedly, while working two jobs, graduating college summa cum laude, and continuing 14 | P A L M B E A C H Woman to work on her master’s degree. Her commitment, both to her children and to her education, is the reason all five of us completed college and continued on to graduate school. Who are your mentors? My family—my four siblings and my wonderful mom—inspire me with their many accomplishments and continue to offer me support for my own endeavors. My oldest sister, Julia, a former Army captain who served in Afghanistan, Kuwait, and Bagdad, was awarded both the Medal of Heroism and a Bronze Star for her service in Iraq. She is the Deputy Assistant Secretary of State, and earned her master’s degree from Georgetown. She is currently a Ph.D. candidate. My middle sister, Dr. Janette Nesheiwat, is an emergency room physician who hosts her own medical guide show. In Hurricane Katrina’s wake, she created a mobile clinic in Haiti and received the Red Cross Hero Award for her acts of compassion. My youngest sister, Dina Nesheiwat, is a New York criminal defense attorney. She works side by side with top defense attorneys in Joe Tacopina’s firm. My brother, Daniel, is working hard in law school in Jacksonville, Florida, and is married to my favorite sister-in-law in the world, Christina. How do you find balance while being married to an entertainer? Traveling with my husband, there’s never a dull moment! But we do plan ahead, creating workable routines and making sure we enjoy the places we see and the people we meet. Also, we often include ways for the kids to come on tour with us, because family unity helps us create balance. yn Stapp Even when we’re not traveling, giving family priority— whether it’s kids’ play dates, holidays, or school activities, a simple cup of coffee with my mom, or a movie with my husband—helps is so grounding. Of course, scheduling helps. When I’m home, mornings are for the children, gym classes, work emails, and phone calls. When we’re traveling, I am so blessed to have my mom take charge, and we Skype a hundred times a day. Photos By: Michael Franco, Amanda Tang, Fadil Berisha I make time for myself, too. I exercise regularly, meditate, watch my nutrition, and enjoy my personal hobbies because I know if I am not content with myself, it’s hard for me to exude happy energy to others—and that happiness is so important both at home and in the entertainment industry. But mostly, I’m true to myself. Life has its ups and downs, but I really try not to sweat the small stuff. What are your daily challenges? Okay, I admit. My weakness is that sometimes I can’t say, “No,” so I spread myself too thin with family, friends, and fans. My challenge is to delegate and prioritize so I can be effective and productive for others and still have energy left for fun. Below (left to right): Jaclyn with her mother Hayat Nesheiwat, Jaclyn’s children: Milan, Jagger and Daniel What kind of health and wellness plan do you rely on? I love vinyasa yoga and meditation. For cardio, I mix it up between barre class, spin class, and boot camp. I also love to go paddle boarding with my kids! What advice can you give other women? Be true to yourself. Take care of yourself, mind, body, and soul, so you can take care of your family or whatever else is significant to you. Believe me, it’s okay not to be perfect. Cellulite? Don’t sweat it. Just make sure you enjoy the beauty of life. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 15 PRADO SPA & SALON OFFERING THE FINEST IN SPA AND SALON SERVICES MASSAGE • NAIL CARE • FACIALS • WAXING/THREADING • EYELASH EXTENSIONS SPRAY TANNING • AESTHETICS • WINE AND TEA BAR • GENTLEMEN’S SERVICES LOCATED AT THE PRADO CONDOS • COMPLIMENTARY PARKING 600 SOUTH DIXIE HIGHWAY • SUITE 103 • WEST PALM BEACH, FLORIDA 33401 561.659.7388 WWW.PRADOSPASALON.COM 16 | P A L M B E A C H Woman A N N O U N C I N G T H E ARRIVE in Ssales T Yevent LE Performance. Polished. 2013 PORSCHE PANAMERA COMbiNiNg COMfORt, SPORtiNESS... ANd fOuR SEAtS. 866.467.6 054 www.BRAMANPORSCHE.com P A L M B E A C H Woman | 17 The Urban T homa s Steinb r u c k Creative Director Porsche Design Where do you see yourself and fashion heading in the next decade? I see myself continuing where I am today, Creative Director at PD. In 10 years from now we managed to build this brand to one of the world’s leading luxury Lifestyle brands. We have hundreds of stores worldwide and are present with Women and Men in separate shows - one in NY and Milan. What drives you day to day? My spirituality, lots of exercise, good and healthy food, humor and my family and friends. Who is at your wishful fashion dinner table (passed on or current)? Diane Vreeland, Coco Chanel, Barack Obama How do you spend you free time? I love to cook for friends, travel to exotic destinations, movies and theater and babysitting for my friend’s kids. They all became my adopted children and I love having them around me. F a s h i o n for ward What is your favorite city? NEW YORK and HONG KONG - Just love the energy and multicultural aspect of both places What are the five things men and women should have in their closet? 18 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Women Men 1. A black Dress 1. A fitted white shirt 2. The perfect Stiletto 2. A perfect straight cut denim 3. The perfect Blazer 3. A black Sports Blazer 4. The perfect Hand Bag 4. A Seasonless Trench Coat 5. A Cashmere Coat 5. A pair of great oxfords Blazer with Dart Details ‘Windsor Wine’ | Basic Blouse ‘Windsor Wine’ | Straight Out Pants with Front Pleat ‘Windsor Wine’ | Belt Icon 25 ‘Black FC Burgundy’ Fashion Photography: Ben Lamberty Modernist Back of Sheath Dress with Material Mix ‘Jet Black’ Leather Ascot ‘Jet Black’ | Classic Shirt with Hidden Placket and Collar Details ‘Bright White’ | Straight Out Pants with Front Pleat ‘Jet Black’ Tunic Length Sweater Dress ‘Jet Black’ | Leather Pants Lamb Napa ‘Jet Black’ | Metallic Cable Doughnut ‘Jet Black’ Back of Leather Combo Dress with Lurex Sweater Yarn Jet Black’ Midcentury modern Mad Men, AMC’s award-winning series, takes us back to a time when jeans were nearly non-existent; you’d surely never catch your Mother in them. If your Father wasn’t in a suit, well, he was most likely either swimming or sleeping. has brought a resurgence of demand for that look in homes today. Stores such as Design Within Reach and West Elm have re-created many of the old original classics such as the Womb Chair by Eero Saarinen for Florence Knoll and the Egg Chair by Arne Jacobsen in 1958. Homes were minimalistic in design, and host to Danish modern sideboards, wall units, and chairs that were more about form than function. Finn Juhl and Hans Wegner were two designers that greatly contributed to the style’s popularity and “madness,” especially in the USA. Other designers such as the famed Karl Springer brought back materials that were uber-popular in the 20’s. Using animal and sharks skins, horn, bone and faux leather to cover tables, consoles and lamps. He faux finished and lacquered Asian and deco inspired pieces and made fabulous furniture and accessories from Lucite, which were highly sought after in the 40’s. Many of these styles have reemerged and the demand today is just as great as it was then. 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Now at MD Beauty Labs Before After Before After Call for Your Complimentary Consultation Gift Cards / Financing Available! 320 S. Quadrille Blvd, WPB 561-655-MDBL(6325) | mdbeautylabs.com Anti-Aging… Th e Hip, t h e Hype, and t he O bvio us By Dr. Lena Edwards of healthy longevity. The term ‘anti-aging’ has gained incredible popularity over the past two decades as evidenced by the 82 million Google entries. However, in contrast to Merriam Webster’s definition of ‘anti-aging’ as “used or tending to prevent or lessen the effects of aging”, in its truest sense, anti-aging medicine has come to mean much more than the diminution of fine facial lines and wrinkles. Candidly, there is no way to truly reverse your innate biological clock to completely avoid ‘the inevitable’. The good news is that you have a lot more control than you may realize over the many of the factors that can lead to disease and premature aging. We all have the means necessary to dodge disease, harbor health, and lavish in longevity….We simply have to transform our innate knowledge into action. By utilizing these common sense tools we already have in our existing ‘anti-aging’ arsenal, we needn’t pay unnecessary attention to the vast array of ‘anti-aging’ fallacies and concoctions flirting with our time and our pocket books. #10. Attitude is Everything I H e a l t h f u ll remember my grandmother as a tenacious and vibrant woman. She was a wife, a mother of five (six if you count my grandfather), and the president of a prominent local women’s organization. When she wasn’t speaking or organizing meetings, she would pour herself into caring for her family. Although I admired all of her strong attributes, it was her perpetually positive attitude and her avid dedication to maintaining her health that were permanently influential. Oddly enough, although no entity had yet graced her television screen with tasty tidbits on ‘avoiding the inevitable’, my grandmother possessed enough intuitive knowledge necessary to maintain her youth and her health until she passed away at the age 91. My grandmother wasn’t the only member of the ‘Age Averters’ Club. In fact, some of my healthiest patients are septuagenarians and octogenarians! However, these patients don’t typically come to me seeking ‘anti-aging’ services but rather to maintain their health and entice longevity by optimizing their emotional, environmental, physical, and physiological environment. Herein lays a key distinction between ‘anti-aging’ and the attainment 30 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Decades of research confirms that people who are happy, peaceful, fulfilled, and enjoy overall life satisfaction have an up to 35% increase in longevity. Certainly your genes, your culture, and your life circumstances influence your attitude to a certain extent. However, your personality type is the biggest predictor of your attitude and thus your overall health. As a mother, physician, business owner, author, speaker, and teacher, I, too, am a member of the ‘Type A Tribe’ as one of my patients endearingly calls it. Unfortunately, although often viewed as being highly functional, the Type A trademarks of sociability, assertiveness, overexcitement, and perfectionism ultimately serve only to increase stress and shorten life spans. It is difficult to make global recommendations in this regard because we all have different circumstances and personalities. I have found that journaling and keeping a ‘life check list’ helps me keeps things in balance. What truly makes you happy? And does it really matter that your dog chewed up your Jimmy Choo shoes? #9. Embrace Quality Relationships Perhaps you can relate, but I often feel as though my husband and children are intentionally trying to land me a spot on Survivor: The Insanity Episode’. Large family gatherings can be especially trying. However, at times when I feel as though ‘Mount Lena’ is about to erupt, I take a step back and put these important relationships into their proper perspective. Although sometimes challenging, my relationships are a key part of what keeps me healthy and happy. Studies have shown that people who have satisfying relationships with friends, family, and their communities are happier, have fewer health ailments, and live longer. In fact, one study cited in the December, 2010, issue of Harvard Women’s Health found that the lack of strong and quality relationships increased the risk of premature death from all causes by 50%— an effect on mortality risk comparable to smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day, and greater than obesity and physical inactivity. Having a network of quality relationships can make a big difference in your health and your life span. However, patience and some deep breathing may sometimes be essential. #8. Practice Spirituality Spirituality describes your internal experiences centered upon the deepest values and meanings by which you live. The essence of spirituality lies in being profoundly grateful, engaging in complete acceptance, and having a strong sense of assuredness. There are many types of spirituality, religion being one example. Regardless of the type, spiritual practices allow one to enter into a larger reality by encompassing others, nature, and the Divine. It is believed that engaging in mindful based practices, such as religion, meditation, and yoga, enhances longevity by ultimately reversing the negative effects of stress on the body. Specifically, there is a reduction in inflammation, an increase in anti-oxidant levels, and enhanced production of longevity promoting hormones and chemicals. More recent studies have shown up to a 30% decrease in mortality by individuals who routinely engage in spiritual practices. There is always time first thing in the morning or prior to going to bed to quiet your mind with self reflection. #7. Maintain a Healthy Weight The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services reports that over sixty percent of American women are now overweight, and of these, one-third are obese. Evolutionarily, a female’s tendency towards fat accumulation and higher lifelong percent body fat allowed for health and longevity advantages in times of food deprivation. Unfortunately, these originally adaptive traits have now made us more vulnerable to disease acquisition and premature death. Fat cells manufacture an abundance of their own hormones and chemicals, the majority of which are harmful if produced in excess. Being overweight increases your levels of inflammation, your blood sugars, and your blood pressures, all of which culminate into DNA and cell damage and premature cell death. Although some aspects of our weight are genetically programmed, there are many other controllable factors, such as hormone imbalance, sleep deprivation, and hidden food sensitivities, which can be readily diagnosed and corrected with appropriate medical supervision. #6. Nourish Your Body Like You Would Your Garden This probably sounds cliché, but it really is true. How well would your flowers and vegetables grow if you used fertilizers containing nicotine, artificial dyes and chemicals, hormones, and pesticides? How much fruit would they bear or colorful would their blooms be if you hydrated them with alcohol or artificially sweetened soft drinks? The human body is amazingly resilient and actually much heartier than most plants. However, even it will eventually succumb under the constant onslaught of toxins, chemicals, and pollutants. Abundant research exists highlighting the harmful effects of dyes, chemicals, and artificial sweeteners added to our food and beverages, yet little is done to prevent the ongoing gustatory pollution. Start your own individual ‘Green Movement’ by making healthy food choices. Familiarize yourself with the sources and contents of the foods you eat and beverages you drink. A good rule of them is if Mother Nature didn’t make it then don’t eat it! #5. Selectively Supplement Some of my patients have developed ‘doctor phobia’ when it comes to discussing their nutritional supplements. “My other doctor says I am wasting money on making expensive urine”. If you peruse the research on vitamin supplementation, you will find there to be as much debate as with just about everything else in medicine. Couple this with the barrage of advertisements on the plethora of supplements you should be taking to maintain your health and longevity. What is a person to believe? Here are some basic facts. Our food sources have become increasingly deficient in nutrients (poor nutrient content in the soil, lack of freshness by the time it arrives at the grocery store, etc.). Furthermore, as we age, our intestines become less efficient at absorbing whatever nutrients may be contained in food, a situation worsened by stress, medications (such as antibiotics and acid reducing medications), and food additives. There is solid evidence on supplementation with omega 3 fatty acids, Vitamin D, and probiotics. However, working with a knowledgeable health care professional will allow you to assess your unique physiology to determine exactly what nutrients you need. Also, make certain you are purchasing pharmaceutical grade supplements to ensure quality and effectiveness. #4. Balance Your Hormones The majority of my patients seek my expertise to help them ‘rebalance their hormones’. They are tormented by weight gain, insomnia, and low sex drive. But they continue to suffer because of the fear instilled in them from conflicting, and often inaccurate, information regarding hormone restoration therapy. My response to my patients is if hormones caused cancer, we would all get cancer in our mid-twenties. You see, there are a number of other factors, including genetics, stress, diet, exercise levels, that influence whether or not we develop cancer. Although women live longer than their male counterparts, many of the health problems they acquire occur after they enter menopause and their hormone levels have declined substantially. In fact, the number one risk factor for breast cancer is age, not hormone replacement therapy! Estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, DHEA, and cortisol are very important hormones that control numerous bodily functions. In fact, Estrogen alone has over 400 key functions. The most important thing to consider when exploring hormone restoration therapy is expertise. It is vital that you choose to work with a properly trained medical professional who has a thorough understanding of how to properly diagnose and treat hormone imbalances. #3. Engage in Routine Exercise In all honesty, I am just as guilty as others when it comes to carving out time in my day to exercise. I have everything from my job to my children to conveniently blame, particularly on a particularly stressful day when having a nice glass of wine seems much more appealing. But again, our lives are about our choices, and this is no exception. We are quite fortunate to live in a time where we don’t have to exercise as did the (Continued on following page) P A L M B E A C H Woman | 31 members of our lineage. We have become a society of convenience, and as such, a commitment to daily exercise can sometimes be challenging. Exercise is as vital to our physiology as sleeping, eating, and breathing. An extensive amount of research has been done confirming the health promoting, disease preventing, and longevity enhancing benefits of exercise. Although there are numerous ‘expert recommendations’ on the ideal amount of exercise an individual should undertake, any type or duration of exercise is better than none! Ideally, your exercise routine should include elements which enhance cardiac and muscle function as well as balance and flexibility. If you suffer from joint or muscle problems, swimming, yoga, or pilates are excellent exercise options. maintainmyweight.blogspot.com #2. Make Sleep a Priority I know….There are too many things to do and not enough time to do them! But think twice before you choose work over sleep. Sleep is an essential part of the body’s biological clock rhythm when hormones of growth and repair are released and cells and tissues are rejuvenated. Abundant scientific research has shown that lack of adequate, uninterrupted sleep, preferably at least seven hours, can contribute to memory and learning difficulties, mood problems, especially depression, and defects in immune system function increasing your vulnerability to infections and cancers. If you suffer from insomnia, keep a sleep journal to identify what environmental factor(s) may be contributing and talk to your doctor about non-prescription sleep inducing alternatives, such as Theanine or 5-HTP. Find at bonsonno.com #1. Reduce Stress Without exception, excessive stress is the most prominent destructive influence in our lives. I have come to refer to stress as the ‘Great Equalizer” because no matter the amount of wealth, health, or beauty one has, stress levels the playing field in the end. Now, some degree of stress is a good thing. In fact, it is essential for our growth, creativity, and productivity. But when the ‘stress stoplight’ turns yellow, rather than slowing down or taking a break, our ‘do it better, sooner, and cheaper’ society has programmed us to ‘floor it’ and keep going through the red light, compromising our health and our sanity. Although certain situations tend to be more stressful than others, especially those in which we feel we have no control, the extent to which a stressor affects us is influenced directly by our attitude and personality type (remember item If you spend any time watching television or surfing the internet, you will likely be bombarded with many self proclaimed ‘experts’ offering advice on how you can reduce your stress. However, one piece of advice worth heeding is that regardless of any stress reduction technique in which you engage or any supplement or medication you try, you can never eliminate the negative effects of stress on your health if you don’t remove whatever it is that is causing your stress! References - Chong-Han K. 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Dr. Lena Edwards is an internist who is also Board Certified and Fellowship Trained in Anti- Aging, Functional, and Integrative Medicine through the American Academy of Anti-Aging Medicine. She has been in clinical practice for nearly 15 years during which time she has gained national and international recognition as an author, speaker, educator, and consultant. She has published numerous peer reviewed medical papers on various topics related to health, wellness, and disease prevention, and her book, Adrenalogic: Outsmarting Stress, has sold thousands of copies worldwide. She is currently in the process of writing additional books on stress, hormone imbalance, and dietary effects on hormone balance. Dr. Edwards’ areas of expertise are in the fields of stress, stress related diseases, complex hormone imbalances, and endocrine dysfunction. 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Foot Changes in Pregnancy During pregnancy, it is often difficult for expectant women to wear the same size and width of the shoes they formerly did. It can be challenging for them to be comfortable exercising, being active, or even simply walking around due to leg and back pain. Many of these foot, leg, and back problems happen in conjunction with an increase in the hormone relaxin early in the pregnancy. The body amplifies relaxin production to make the pelvic ligaments more flexible in preparation for the birth of the baby. H e a l t h f u ll In addition to loosening the pelvic ligaments, relaxin also affects other ligaments throughout the body, including those in the feet. Accordingly, the plantar calcaneonavicular or spring ligament in the arch of the foot becomes more amenable to stretching, as do other foot ligaments. The stretch of the ligament, combined with the expectant mother’s weight increase due to the baby she is carrying, allows the foot to collapse and roll inward (pronate) under pressure from walking or running. Consequently, lower back pain during pregnancy often comes from the rapid collapsing and over-pronation of the women’s arch as she strides or jogs and not just from “pregnancy posture”. Full Contact Orthotics End Foot and Lower Back Pain Biomechanically correct foot orthotics, such as the ICON Full Contact Orthotics I use in my practice, give stability to the ligaments of the foot and offer overall foot support. Fabricated from a direct impression of your foot, full contact orthotics provide better shock absorption of the pressures exerted when walking, cessation of overpronation, and a marked decrease in back, foot, and leg pain. Pregnancy provides a great opportunity to address underlying foot problems while your foot is malleable and able to adapt to a new position. Using the time while you are pregnant to support your foot in a new corrected position will allow proper functioning and decreased pain for years to come. Dr. Marc Klein is an Illinois-trained podiatric surgeon. His practice is dedicated to biomechanics and sports medicine. He believes in addressing his patient’s underlying problems as well as their symptoms. He lectures nationally about the Icon orthotics technology and trains other podiatrists in the newer casting techniques. He has been interviewed by ABC, NBC, CBS and Comcast newsmakers, all of which can be viewed on his website at DrMarcKlein.com. Dr. Klein’s office is located in The Garden Shops of Boca Raton, at 7050 W. Palmetto Park Rd. Suite 18, Boca Raton, Florida. Office phone number is 561-447-7571. 36 | P A L M B E A C H Woman P A L M B E A C H Woman |3 7 PA l m B e a c h HEADS of Non Profit Organizations P a l m B e a c h Achi e ve rs Aligning your values while infusing passion is more than just a formula for success. It’s propelled some of the worlds most recognized not-for-profits with an engine composed of both intellect and heart. Did you know that 73% of women make up the not-for-profit sector? While advocating for different causes these women have paved way for change with a rigorous forward momentum and an acute understanding of the betterment of our community, city, state, country and world. 38 | P A L M B E A C H Woman What is your most treasured possession? Danielle HartmAn CEO, Ruth Rales Jewish Family Service My medal for finishing the Boston Marathon in 2009. To run that marathon you have to qualify and the finish times are not easy. I qualified for Boston at the 2008 Philadelphia Marathon with a finish time of 3 hours and 41 minutes. That qualifying race was particularly special because I had recently become divorced and two of my best friends from high school flew up to be with me (and my local running mates). One of my friends ran the last three miles with me and I think she really pushed me to finish strong. I remember crying out of shear joy that I had actually qualified for Boston! It was very special and I have never seen that finish time again. What is your motto? “Out of adversity comes opportunity.” – Albert Einstein. I have certainly faced a lot of adversity in my life but that has also led to a lot of opportunities which I have certainly taken advantage of! My three daughters are my greatest loves but I also have a love of running which keeps me sane! Training for long distance races teaches you patience, hard work, how to remain calm in stressful situations, goal setting and the wonderful feeling of accomplishment! What is your greatest love? What is the trait you most deplore in yourself? I am a perfectionist and am always What or who is the greatest love of your life? I certainly have a passion for my work and challenging myself to do better. My father always said, “If you want something done right, do it yourself.” I have worked very hard over the past several years to be better at delegating responsibility to others and to improve my communication skills so that my perfectionist tendencies don’t get in the way. My natural inclination is to jump in and just “do it myself.” I have high expectations of myself and the people I work with, both volunteers and professionals. the services Ruth Rales Jewish Family Service (JFS) provides in the community. I feel blessed to lead an agency so committed to helping people and repairing the world through daily acts of loving kindness. What is the trait you most deplore in others? I am very big on living up to your commitments. If you commit to doing something, then I feel you have a responsibility to fulfill that commitment giving it your best effort. Thankfully, I am fortunate to work with my dedicated staff and volunteer leaders and together we achieve great things! What is your greatest regret? Many people would say they regret not spending more time with their children when they were young. I tell people all the time that I am extremely lucky that I have a job that allows me the flexibility to be part of my children’s lives. I am able to get most of my appointments completed during the day which leaves me time in the evening to be there for my daughters. What has been your greatest achievement? At this stage in my life, my greatest achievement is being the President & CEO of JFS. I am one of the youngest female CEO’s of a JFS of this size in the country and I hope I continue to be a role model for other young women who have an interest in becoming a CEO of a non-profit. It is also important for me to be a good role model for my daughters and to show them that women can achieve incredible things with hard work, dedication and commitment. Who are your heroes in real life? Some of my real life heroes include Ghandi, Golda Meir and Elie Weisel. It would be an honor to meet Eli Weisel one day. All of these people were and are incredible humanitarians in their own right. In the JFS world, Linda Burger, the CEO for the JFS in Houston, TX is another hero. We have similar backgrounds and she has and continues to be a mentor to me. How do you relax? When I’m not running, which I do consider a form of relaxation, I like to spend time at the beach or doing anything outdoors. I love to camp and kayak and am lucky I have a wonderful person in my life who enjoys those things, too. How do you start and end your day? My alarm is set to wake me up at 5:20 a.m. so I can get out the door to go run by 5:30 a.m. I have to get my workout completed before 7:00 a.m., when I start getting my daughters up and ready for school. My days usually end with me picking up one of my daughters from some sports activity and then helping get them ready for bed. I lovingly say that I have two full time jobs, my day job and my night job. By the end of the day I am exhausted which is why I’m fast asleep most nights by 10 p.m.! What is your biggest challenge in business? My biggest challenge is to keep a work/life balance. I am very conscious of keeping balance in my life so I don’t end up burning out. I love my job, I want to be a good mother to my children, and I want to have a fulfilling personal life. There are only so many hours in the day and sometimes things can get a bit stressful. Dr. Bernadette Russell is the provost of Palm Beach State College’s Boca Raton campus, overseeing 8,500 students, 55 full-time faculty and more than 200 adjunct instructors. She’s also in charge of the college’s Small Business Development Center, which offers free professional expertise to local firms. Russell has also established the Women’s Entrepreneur Network, with monthly meetings and guest speakers, as well as the Center for Business & Entrepreneurship and the collegewide International Education Center, based at the Boca Raton campus. Dr. Russell was born in the Philippines and has a Ph.D. in social sciences (major in economics and planning) and two master’s of sciences. One degree is in urban and regional planning, the other is in economics. Bernadette Russell Provost of Palm Beach State College’s Boca Raton campus What is your idea of perfect happiness? What has been your greatest achievement? Quiet moment of contentment, gratitude and acceptance of blessings. A 6’3 awesome son! Who are your heroes in real life? What is your greatest fear? Humble, loving and giving individuals. Darkness of solitude. P a l m B e a c h Achi e ve rs What is your most treasured possession? What is the trait you most deplore in yourself? Friends and books collected through the years. IMPATIENCE What is your greatest love? God and its wonders. What is the trait you most deplore in others? How do you relax? Dishonesty A quiet stroll along the shore. What is your greatest regret? How do you start and end your day? Not being able to say: “thank you,” “I am sorry”, and “I love you” at the opportune moment to those who needed to hear these words. With reflection. What or who is the greatest love of your life? Navigating the political arena. Life itself. What is your motto? What is your biggest challenge in business? Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated. 40 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Ellyn Okrent CEO, Florence Fuller child development center As the head of Florence Fuller what are the 3 items on your agenda that you most want to accomplish? I want to see Florence Fuller Child Development Centers become the “village” in our community where disadvantaged children and their families receive the comprehensive services they need to be healthy, strong and self-sustaining. I want to create a model that brings a number of social service providers together in a “one-stop-shop” to meet the complex needs of the children and families right here in our neighborhoods, working together in partnership, maximizing our expertise, wisdom and resources—to create a broad and powerful, community wide impact. I want Florence Fuller Child Development Centers to become the community resource center that everyone knows and refers to as the place that accomplishes outstanding outcomes and is known as the place that empowers children and families to reach their full potentials. I want to work with our dynamic Board of Directors and dedicated staff to create such excitement around what is being done at Florence Fuller Child Development Centers that everyone in the community wants to be a part of the success being generated here. Do you have any specific items that are pressing for you for women? I would say that balancing the household and a job remains very difficult for women. The responsibility of the household and the family is still viewed in our society as women’s work. While many fathers are sharing in household and family responsibilities, many working mothers are one sick child away from being fired. Caring for a sick child is the single greatest child related cause of absenteeism among female employees. Juggling this conflict prevents many from career advancements thus, perpetuating the cycle of generational poverty. When a child is sick, a parent must take time off from work, make other child-care arrangements, or try to get immediate medical care in order to comply with exclusion policies for school and child-care settings. Women, who are six times more likely to lose their job to care for a sick child, are disproportionately carrying this burden. What is your idea of perfect happiness? For me perfect happiness exists where people exhibit mutual respect and shared responsibility. It is a place where everyone is valued and works toward a common goal. Happiness includes peace, unity, team work and challenge. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 41 A FEW GOOD MEN Rapoport’s Palate for Success Redefines Dining in South Florida As a third-generation restaurant aficionado, Rapoport started his career in New York City, where his family owned and operated a successful kosher dairy restaurant for 50 years. “My first paying job was in my grandfather’s restaurant while I was in high school. I learned that the restaurant business was hard work,” says Rapoport. After college, Rapoport spent some time in the California restaurant scene before launching his long standing career here in South Florida. With a passion for travel, exploring new cuisines and flavors, and living life to the fullest, Burt’s appetite for life has carried through to each of Rapoport’s current restaurants. Treating staff more like family than employees, Rapoport’s has implemented incentive programs to encourage staff to work towards a goal. New York, Napa Valley and Chicago are just a few examples of past trips the staff and chefs have had the opportunity to enjoy. Rapoport’s Restaurant Group employs over 200 people at four restaurants and a sandwich shop all located in Palm Beach County. Rapoport has always taken a “hands on” approach to his restaurants. On any given night you will find him at one of his locations meeting with his team, mingle with guests or just enjoying dinner with his wife, Robin. On February 15, the U.S. Chamber of Commerce named Rapoport’s Restaurant Group one of seven national finalists for Burt with wife, Robin 4 2 | P A L M B E A C H Woman the 2013 DREAM BIG Small Business of the Year Award, who were selected from the top 100 Blue Ribbon Award winners across the nation. Additionally, all Blue Ribbon finalists are eligible for the Community Excellence Award, designed to highlight a business that has found success in the eyes of its community. With a tremendous support from our community, Rapoport’s Restaurant Group was honored with the Community of Excellence Award on March 1, 2013. “Aspiring small business owners in Florida and across America should look to Rapoport’s Restaurant group as a great example of a small business that gives back and shows leadership in their community,” said Thomas J. Donohue, president and CEO of the U.S. Chamber in a press release. “We are incredibly grateful for the continued support of our loyal customers, fans and community,” explains Burt Rapoport. In honor of his recent award titles, Rapoport’s Restaurant Group hosted their first annual Surf into Summer party on May 11 at the new Delray Marketplace amphitheater, adjacent to his latest concept Burt & Max’s. The charity concert and evening of food, drink and live entertainment benefitted two local 501(c)(3) organizations, Boca Raton’s Golden Bell Education Foundation and the Achievement Centers of Delray Beach. Rapoport personally flew in the Surf City Allstars, with original Beach Boy David Marks, from Southern California. “The Surf into Summer event was a fun way for myself and my incredible team to give back to our friends, raise money for two great charities and, of course, have a little fun while doing it!” Rapoport, wanting to continue to support his loyal customers and the community, recently launched a Rapoport’s Rewards, Rapoport’s Restaurant Group unified loyalty program. Guests can now earn points on every dollar spent at any of Rapoport’s locations; $30 is put back on to the cards after 500 points. Those who choose to activate their cards online at RapoportsRG.com/ Rewards, receive additional perks such as $25 for their birthday, exclusive double point incentives, and special dining deals. Known for his award-winning restaurants and sandwich shop, Burt Rapoport founded Rapoport’s Restaurant Group in 2000 with the opening of Henry’s located at 16850 Jog Road in The Shoppes at Addison Place in Delray Beach. From there the group expanded to include, Bogart’s Bar & Grille on the Premier Level of Cinemark Palace 20 Theater, Delray’s Deck 84, located at 840 E. Atlantic Ave. on the Intracoastal, located just steps away is E&J’s Sandwich Shop at 814 E. Atlantic Ave., and his latest concept Burt & Max’s, which recently opened at the Delray Marketplace. Rapoport’s Restaurant Group is an active community member, donating more than $75,000 in 2012 to local organizations including the George Snow Scholarship Fund, Boca Raton Regional Hospital, Tri County Humane Society and the American Association of Caregiving Youth. 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E n h a n c i n g Li v e s Her father honored his daughter’s life with a trip to Kenya to meet Newton, the boy Brittney had sponsored since she was 16. On this initial trip, he saw a great need for help, including medical care, education and outreach to orphans and widows. Steve James, who is nurse anesthetist and works in Selma, Alabama, at Vaughan Regional Medical Center, created Kenya Relief in 2002. Since then, more than 1,000 doctors, nurses and pharmacists have treated 45,000 patients with free medicine and performed 1,500 surgical procedures. Healthcare also means five water wells, including an above water filtration system, and a 1,600-square-foot medical clinic. Currently, Kenya Relief is seeking funds to build a full-service, 300-bed hospital. On the campus, there is the Kenya Relief Academy for more than 250 students. The nonprofit 4 6 | P A L M B E A C H Woman also sponsors a total of just under 200 children; 76 children live on campus at the orphanage Brittney’s Home of Grace. Those that aren’t on campus are either at boarding school or in home-base care. “Kenya Relief is successful because they’ve broken through the tribal and denominational walls,” says Debbie LaSorte, a West Palm Beach resident and Kenya Relief volunteer. “It’s a hands-on program that is happy to share knowledge, resources, supplies and manpower to local institutions or other agencies.” LaSorte is preparing for her third onemonth trip to Kenya in September. Kenya Relief traditional sends teams for 10-day missions, but that’s not enough time for LaSorte. “I want this experience. It has breathed life into me. I believe that as a people, we are all interconnected. We’re not supposed to survive on this world independently but interdependently. If that’s the case, then we all have a responsibility to help one another.” On her first trip, LaSorte expected to be assigned to paperwork instead she served as a dental assistant. The dentist instructed her, and after extracting hundreds of teeth and seeing 8 to 10 patients every “ hour, the work became routine. On her second trip, LaSorte dedicated her time to a local hospital’s burn ward. Along with a registered nurse from UM Jackson Memorial Medical Center, LaSorte visited the burn center twice a day carrying bags filled with bandages, clean water, topical creams and gloves, all medical items that Kenya Relief had in surplus and were able to share. them, minister to them, give them hope and tell them that they have to keep going and not lose hope. We also answer any questions about the U.S. penal system.” “The hospital lacked most necessary equipment and the conditions was horrific. Everything we brought in was very precious to these patients. We changed little kids’ and babies’ burn bandages and cleaned wounds. When we were done, we’d stay with the kids and families, or visited the other wards and passed out any additional medical material.” “People ask ‘Why Africa and not the U.S.?’,” says LaSorte. “My answer is if we don’t, then no one will. If you have the financial means, time, energy and calling, then go and make a difference. Everyone I meet in Kenya is eager to learn, but they have no one to teach them, no resources or outreach program. Kenya Relief is the real deal. My question is ‘How can Kenya Relief help everyone out there?’” In previous years, LaSorte has also volunteered to visit the men’s and women’s prisons in Migori. She travels with a small team, including a translator. “We simply talk to “ Photo Courtesy of Debbie LaSorte Everyone I meet in Kenya is eager to learn, but they have no one to teach them, no resources or outreach program There’s another great reason to continue volunteering. LaSorte sponsors two children, Maroa, 4, and Joyce, 7, whom she talks to throughout the year. Maroa and Joyce both live in the Kenya Relief orphanage. For more information please go to: www.kenyarelief.org P A L M B E A C H Woman | 4 7 Philanthropic Values Values are personal and unique to each individual. They are convictions that serve as a foundation for the decisions one makes as to where to spend time and money. By Margaret May Damen E n h a n c i n g Li v e s Values programming for women, according to psychologist Carol Gilligan, occur during adolescence as their socialization takes on a more caring, connective, and compassionate personality. As women mature, these characteristics become their authentic voice. In the 21st century, the world is in need of more compassionate and caring leadership, at a time when the zero-sum game of winner take all is no longer appropriate. The hierarchal leadership style is slowly giving way to a more flexible, co-creating partnership style defined by consensus and collaboration. The patriarchal leadership style on which the industrialization of our nation reached great heights served us well. However in this new technology and information age a combination of a complementary leadership style using strengths from both men and women is becoming a reality as society looks for ways to instill harmony and balance into a chaotic world. Women of all ages are finding that in today’s society they need to become more strategic in their giving of time and wealth and in the formation of strategic partnerships to create a better world. Especially when there is still a perception by some, according to Riane Eisler, author of The Real Wealth of Nations, that, “the hidden system of valuation in which women, and the work of caring and care giving stereotypically associated with women is devalued.” For Eisler, a critical component in creating a caring economics is the shift away from a hierarchal leadership style, authoritarian in nature and subordinate of women and femininity, to a more democratic model with mutual respect and trust. 48 | P A L M B E A C H Woman As women from various economic and social environments collaborate on an agenda for a more relationship-centered society, values take on a more significant role. Many women agree that their childhood experiences serve as both a framework and sounding board for the decisions they make on how best to use their significant economic and financial resources. In a collaborative environment discussions often take place take place that validate how family experiences and traditions have led to an invincible set of principles – fairness, consensus, caring, and equality. Women remember how as children, they grew up in a family culture that honored and practiced respectful acts of kindness, generosity, and courage, at home, at work and in the community. What is apparent today is there is an entire generation of women, boomer-women, age 49 to 67, born between 1946 and 1964 that for the first time in history have the assets of time and/or money and the experience and desire to reshape the world. It was the value programming decades of the 1950s and 1960s that have bonded a generation together with the belief they have the power to design the change women wanted to see in the world. Authors J. Walter Smith and Ann Clurman state that “with few exceptions the protest of the 1960s was about guaranteeing the bright promise of that era, not about rejecting the American Dream.” There is no doubt that this generation shared passionate beliefs and exuberant behavior. The tumultuous history of the 1960s served women well as a springboard for traveling uncharted paths to search for their new identity. Anything and everything was possible then-and still is today- as women boomers transition into their next life phase with an urgent resolve to revive kinder ways of living life while confronting their own mortality. For this idealistic and materialistic cohort, midlife is a time to reexamine the values instilled in childhood. A Money magazine survey of nearly 3,000 boomers indicated that boomers are forming a new agenda with emphasis on revival of the American Dream and a return to their basic values. The research shows a new zest for making a stock photography Sociologist Morris Massey tells us, “What a generation is like later in life is closely related to what they are like when they were values programmed.” And we know now from research that a person’s values are instilled during the first 21 years of their life. Values that accumulate from childhood are based on observations of parents, teachers, and other influential people. When our values are in alignment with our actions, decisions are easier, vision and goals are clearer, and life is congruent. In fact, how we express our values becomes the autobiography of one’s life. difference in the community and the world. For many, their childhood experiences about money and giving serve as a unifying bond. Lucille Griffo, former chief executive officer at the Tanasi Tennessee Girl Scout Council put it this way, “ The gift of giving got in my blood by osmosis; it was kind of a way of life, what you did by going along with your mom and dad when they helped out a neighbor, nothing fancy, just doing what was right.” Often when women share their childhood memories about family members and the many acts of kindness they realize how much of their own strength of character, leadership and courage is a direct result of those experiences. Looking back and evaluating the experiences from childhood on, is a method to assess if what women are doing now with their philanthropic dollars is the most efficient and effective use of resources. Such a point of reference can provide a rallying cry when seeking out like-minded donors. It can also serve as a touchstone when evaluating current giving opportunities. And it certainly makes saying “yes” to a cause so much more rewarding and meaningful. Women’s ability to capture their vision for a better world through greater alignment with their values is one of the greatest hopes this world has of finding solutions to the ever- growing problems of humanity. “Change flows through philanthropy when new ideas are adapted by key actors in a position to influence others, “write Katherine Fulton and Andrew Blau in their 2005 Monitor Group study. They go on to say “philanthropy today is pulsing with new actors filled with energy, passion, and ideas.” For women, their giving energy allows them to look deeper into themselves. They find a renewed vitality and zest, and in the process life becomes less complicated and confusing. Having the ability to center thoughts and deeds on conspicuous compassion does simplify life, and free the mind and soul to be attentive to seeing the needs of others as well as being open to creative solutions. It brings clarity of focus to what’s important in life. Knowing what is important also allows women to take ownership of the outcome. It serves to reinforce and amplify how women want their wealth and giving to impact society. And in the final analysis this ownership of outcome gives purpose and meaning to women who want their values to live through their philanthropic endeavors for generations to follow. Margaret May Damen CFP®, CLU, ChFC, CDFA, CAP® Founder and CEO of The Institute For Women and Wealth To nurture and empower women to fulfill abundantly their wealth legacy “Wow, She’s great! Wonderful, refreshing, thought provoking and inspiring.” Margaret May Damen, CFP®, CLU, ChFC, CDFA, CAP® is a charismatic speaker, author, and dynamic seminar leader. Her warm and engaging style gives audiences a refreshing yet practical vision of how to live and leave a legacy unique to their passion and purpose to make a difference in the world. She is co-author of Women, Wealth & Giving: The Virtuous Legacy of the Boom Generation, (John Wiley & Sons, December 2009) and a frequent and popular national keynote speaker and consultant. Her focus on women’s financial and philanthropic issues began in 1990 with the publication of her book, Money$ense for Women. Today, her renowned workshop series, “The Life You Live is the Legacy You Leave,” and “You are the Pebble in The Pond” inspire and empower women and men to identify and embrace their psychological and emotional essence that enables them to excel in meaningful individual and family philanthropic giving by using tools from the 10 Steps to Living the Three Principles of Abundance. ™ Her 35 year career in education, finance, and philanthropy started as an Associate Vice President for Development at Boston University and continued as public relations director for New England Conservatory of Music and Executive Director of Arts/Boston., and included 18-years as a Senior Financial Advisor with American Express Financial Advisors. She is Past President of the Treasure Coast Planned Giving Council, and serves on the national executive board of the Partnership for Philanthropic Planning, PPP (formerly the National Committee on Planned Giving, NCPG). She has presented at national AFP, AHP and NCPG venues. Audiences around the country find that Margaret May Damen’s talent and ability to speak from the heart combined with her financial and philanthropic experience; allows them to unlock “their wealth within,” connect with their values, live a purposeful life and leave a meaningful legacy. For more information on her availability for workshop, consulting or speaking engagements go to www.margaret-may.com or email: [email protected] P A L M B E A C H Woman | 49 E n h a n c i n g Li v e s Summer She is famous for her role on the TV Series Californication and she is an international supermodel. When she is not modeling she is involved in a Ocean Conservation Program to help protect oceans and raise awareness to stop trash and pollution on the beaches! 50 | P A L M B E A C H Woman When she’s not traveling the World of Fashion, Summer Crosley devotes her free time to environmentally friendly causes such as Ocean Life Conservation, a movement dedicated to protecting our beautiful oceans and keeping our beaches clean. Crosley has influenced the public to join the ecofriendly movement by advocating to decrease pollution and protect wildlife. She continues to devote her time by encouraging others to participate in clean-up efforts while educating others on the importance of reducing, reusing and recycling in order to conserve our beautiful ocean life. Most people fail to realize the importance of ocean life conservation. Crosley enlightens her peers and youth communities by drawing attention to the damage caused to wildlife by polluting our oceans— dolphins, whales, sea turtles, tropical fish, and other sea life are at risk of endangerment and extinction. Crosley has traveled to the world’s top beach destinations, including Fiji, Bali, Africa, Mexico, Brazil, Costa Rica, to raise awareness about this massive problem. She continues her mission to influence thousands to join the eco-friendly movement to protect our beautiful ocean life. Photo Courtesy of Crosley Summer Summer Crosley grew up living between Palm Beach and Illinois with her parents. She earned a degree in Advertising & Marketing, and was hired to work for Ivax Pharmaceuticals in Miami, FL doing Pharmaceutical Sales. Crosely was discovered by a scout for a modeling agency while working in Miami. She started doing shoots all over South Florida,Cape Town, South Africa, and Europe. Her career took off at speeds one only dreams of. During her travels to exotic beach locations she noticed massive amounts of trash and pollution on the beaches, so she got involved in Ocean Conservation. Crosley began at a local level, forming beach clean-ups and encouraging others to participate. If everyone could just pick up one piece of trash it would make a world of difference. 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Today, local farmers, producers, and food artisans offer pastureraised meats and poultry, sustainably grown fruits and vegetables, artisan breads and cheeses, and farm fresh eggs and honeys to an increasingly savvy public who have caught on to the value—and flavor— of the high-quality foods produced under the Farm-to-Table banner. Sure, “Farm to Table” is a buzz-phrase, but the “buzz” is significant. While “Farm to Table” simply means buying food directly from those who are producing it on a very small scale, it has a big impact. “Fresh Picked,” “Fresh Caught,” or “Fresh Served,” local, sustainable, and often organic, these are ingredients that are simply tastier (and healthier) than those that have spent days—or weeks!—traveling in the back of a refrigerated semi-truck. My great-grandmother’s generation knew nothing but Farm to Table. Their connection with farmers and fresh food was woven into the lifestyle of their era. There really was no other choice. Now, of course, we 5 4 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Steven Polowy Executive Chef Table 26, West Palm Beach Table 26 farm-to-table philosophy has always been sourcing fresh, seasonal and available produce such as Florida Kale, Green, Potatoes, Watermelons along with local fish with an emphasis on freshness and simple scratch preparations that reflect global comfort food. Table 26 serves food that is approachable of the best quality, taste and without being pretentious or people having to save all year just to come here. Farm to Fork is simple — use ingredients that people understand, use the best have a wide variety of choices —and one of them, purchasing from local growers, can make a difference to our communities. You see, Farm to Table is a movement of relationships. Farming isn’t easy. It’s a labor of love. When you support a local farmer you are supporting a web of community relationships: the farmer, the farmer’s family, all the people the farmer does business with, and even the land that the food is produced on—all of these are part of the network you enter when you purchase directly from a local grower. And it’s not just consumers who have the opportunity to build direct relationships with farmers; chefs at Farmto-Table restaurants know precisely where their ingredients come from; they are in alliance with the men and women who produce those ingredients: the farmers, the fishermen, the foragers. For the chefs, these relationships are as important as the foods the producers present at the kitchen door. People who are passionate about food—be they farmers, chefs, or those of us who just love to create delicious, high-quality meals for our friends and families—always seek the best ingredients they can find and use them as creatively as possible. In South Florida, that passion is on display in the restaurants of our Farm-to-Table chefs, who, using a variety of local ingredients, create wonderfully diverse menus featuring Florida favorites, as well as vegetarian, vegan, and glutenfree dishes. Clay Conley Executive Chef / Owner Buccan, Palm Beach “Farm to Table” is essentially utilizing the best of what local agriculture has to offer. That means keeping with seasonality. Local, seasonal foods inherently taste better, and we use this ideal as much as we can. In Florida, however, seasonal produce is atypical of the rest of the country, and committing to seasonality isn’t always possible. For instance, my favorite fresh summer ingredient when I lived in New England was a tomato, but tomatoes are actually a winter crop in Florida. So, my true “Florida farm to table” summer favorite would be all the different strains of mangoes that are abundant right now. With the exception of tropical fruit, few things grow well here in the summer heat. Chris Degweck Executive Chef Bistro Ten Zero One, West Palm Beach Our “farm to fork” concept at Bistro 1001 is a new way to embrace how generations past approached food. My goal here at Bistro 1001 is to step back in time and serve our guests with a much more honest interpretation of cooking. “Farm to market” is reminiscent of a time of scarce refrigeration and no mass distribution, when preparing a meal consisted of choosing produce available at local markets. I encourage everybody who is able to, to incorporate the “farm to fork” concept in their daily lives by venturing to the local produce stands and farmer’s markets, instead of relying on large super market chains. It is hard not to notice the superior taste, quality and nutritional value of the food in doing so. Another advantage: supporting local business! I have thus been fortunate enough to build relationship with local farmers. Their expert advice has allowed me to grow a thriving garden here on the property. There is nothing that gives me greater pleasure than to share the fruits of my labor with our guests, paired with our specialty cocktails or expertly picked wine. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 55 The Rules Domaines ott W i n e Know (France) $44.00 56 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Color is part of the experience of drinking a rosé, so by all means choose a color that pleases one and will be attractive on a table on the terrace or pool side, go well with your landscaping or even your bathing suit or a colorful Lily. Be particular but don’t be overly fussy. The quality of rosé wines is now excellent for the most part, and Palm Beach residents have wisely and enthusiastically made them a part of life. Not only are they seen on the best tables in Palm Beach, we can choose from domestic and imported labels at all the South Florida wine stores. Have some fun with it. Those who rattle on too much about depth or complexity in a rosé ought to have their glass impounded until they lighten up. Look for a nice balance of fruit and acid. Rosé should always have a fresh fruit and floral profile in its bouquet and taste. Aromas of strawberries, melons, peaches, citrus, rose petals and violets come to mind. Yet there is not an awful lot beyond the obvious that you need to focus on. Only the worst sort of wine snob will discuss a rosé in terms more appropriate for a serious burgundy. Seriousness is just not there and was never intended to be. Rosé is a wine that should be joyous and buoyant and exhilarating. stock Photography Editors PICK: 1 2 3 Here are the Cinque rules for choosing and drinking rosé wine: 5 This is one time to get caught up in the youth culture. Drink your rosé while it is young. The sassy, sprightly qualities often fade after a year or two, and not even a shot of botox will revive its youth There are only a few basics you have to know. Rosé wines are generally made from red grapes. The one exception is sparking rosé, where blending is traditional. Depending on the goal of the wine maker, and on the coloring capacity of the grape skins, a maceration process occurs where the pressed grapes stay in contact with the grape juice. This takes anywhere from a few hours to a few days. Fermentation is almost always in stainless steel rather than wood, and begins only after the maceration is complete. From there the vinification is the same as for a white wine. The wine will be ready to drink in the spring following the fall harvest. Perhaps because of the speed of the process, rosé wines are usually reasonably priced. The Rosé wines come from almost every wine producing region across the globe. We often associate them with Provence and the southern Rhone in France or more generally the Mediterranean. But both old and new world growers and wine makers are producing rosés you should try. Whereas we in English use the French term “rosé”, in Spain they are called rosado and in Italy rosato on the labels. The universal term is delicious. One reason is that on a humid summer day your mouth may react to acidity in white wines, but rosé has less acidity, and it is combined with such inherent flavors as strawberry, cassis, wild berries or mango. At my table, I avoid May-December marriages between wine and food so I pair rosés that are young, fresh, bright and have clear tastes with seasonal and preferably local ingredients. Rosés are food friendly to the extreme. Photo By paulette Martin The final rule is as follows: When guests drop by, simply hand them a glass of Rosé – no other option. I can certainly promise that they will be back for a second and third! By Michael Cinque Those who rattle on too much about depth or complexity in a rosé ought to have their glass impounded until they lighten up. 4 Have a few bottles cooling at all times, without exception, from Memorial Day to Labor Day, and preferably year round. Keep the bottles chilled but not to cryogenic levels. I prefer it cold enough to be refreshing to the palate, but never so cold that it masks or distorts the delicious fruit flavors. Michael’s RecoMmendations Conde de Caralt Cava Brut Sparkling Wine (Spain) $9.99 Maipe Malbec Rose (Argentina) $10.99 Chateau de Nages (France) $10.99 Tavel Les Vignes des Precheurs (France) $16.99 P A L M B E A C H Woman | 5 7 Building Community Through the arts by Amy Pasquantonio Arts Garage was founded on the idea that exposure to art is a vital building block of a vibrant community and the organization has made education and community outreach a core part of its mission. 1 C u l t - u re 2 Arts Garage is a magnet sitting at the ground level of a parking garage, pulling people into the slipstream of culture that swirls and eddies around it. Situated at the head of Pineapple Grove Arts District, just one block north of busy Atlantic Avenue in Delray Beach, it has a bit of everything a culture-seeker could possibly desire. There are concerts by internationally renowned jazz and blues artists, up-to-the-minute hip-hop, spoken word and reggae recording artists, R&B and soul greats, one-of-a kind world music performers, and the best and brightest emerging performing artists. There is world-class theatre here with The Theatre at Arts Garage, which presents and produces the best new work in American theatre, along with an educational outreach program that taps the 5 8 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Arts Garage, the brainchild of Creative City Collaborative (an organization founded by the city of Delray Beach to build cultural infrastructure) and intrepid visionary Alyona Ushe, Executive Director of the venue, just celebrated its two-year anniversary this past April. In a short amount of time, this 501(c)3 nonprofit organization has become an anchor to the Pineapple Grove Arts District, integrating into the existing community as though it had always been there. It has surpassed everyone’s expectations and become a valuable asset not only to the city, but also to the entire region by evolving into a vibrant venue that celebrates the arts. The whole operation runs on the fuel provided by its passionately engaged audiences, and the relentless drive and commitment of Ushe, dedicated board of directors and talented staff. Arts Garage relies on the generous support of donors, city funding, and ticket sales. Under the fierce direction of Ushe, a small group of driven employees help make the vision of Arts Garage a reality. Arts Garage was founded on the idea that exposure to art is a vital building block of a vibrant community and the organization has made education and community outreach a core part of its mission. Drew Tucker, Director of Education and founder of the academy, is passionate when he expresses his feelings on the matter: “Our students are able to learn in a safe environment and in a culture where they can find their individual voices and thrive as artists and people. As the only cultural All photos: Amy Pasquantonio | amatistaphoto.com creative potential of local students. It’s also the place for rollicking cabaret shows featuring female impersonators, collaborative community round-table events, and a performing arts academy for both adults and children. Arts Garage Performing Arts Academy is a year-around school for students of all ages that aims to enrich lives through the study and performance of music and drama. There is always interesting and diverse visual art displayed on the walls, and an unending procession of talented individuals in and out of its doors. 4 The Theatre at Arts Garage is dedicated to presenting the best in new American theatrical works and is headed by artistic director Lou Tyrrell, who believes that theater can be a vehicle of cohesion—bringing communities together to reflect on issues 5 that affect us all. “In an effort to unite people in discussion and sharing, we go into the community to work with kids from underserved populations to expose them to the arts in a way they would not otherwise experience,” asserts Tyrrell. For example, last spring The Theatre at Arts Garage presented Woody Sez, a musical based on the life and work of legendary folk musician Woody Guthrie, which addressed issues of politics and protest. As part of the educational outreach program Stage It!, Arts Garage presented the play to close to 1,000 South Florida students and then asked them to write monologues exploring similar issues in their own lives. Students then had the opportunity to perform their monologues on stage, in the Arts Garage production 6 Pieces of Me. Tyrrell, who many know as the former artistic director of Florida Stage, is happy in his new home and relishes his additional role as a community liaison, and says, “Arts Garage is music, theatre, dance, visual art. Artists inspiring artists and their artwork inspiring our audience. It’s a perfect expression of community through culture.” Arts Garage serves as a beacon to every person who loves the arts by providing a venue where all varieties of artists can create, perform, learn and express. World-class performers and visual artists are met with enthusiastic appreciation by delighted fans, and students are given new and expansive opportunities to grow. “We truly believe in serving the community in the fullest sense by giving everyone—all adults and children, regardless of their challenges in life-- access to the highest quality performances and arts education!” declares Ushe. For more information: artsgarage.org PHOTOS: 7 8 1. Zoë Fromer | Young Virtuoso 6. Federico Britos | Global Invasion 2. Andrew Forman | Young Virtuoso 3. Anna Haas | Arts Garage Presents 7. Cliff Burgess and Betsy Graver |The Theater at Arts Garage | Lungs by Duncan Mac Millan 4. Eric Biddines | Urban Underground 8. Performing Arts Academy students | Spring Recital 5. Substance | Urban Underground 9. Rachel Andes | Arts Garage Presents 9 Arts Gar eagraG strA enrichment of its kind for youth in Delray Beach, our academy puts special emphasis on its impact on the community, and strives to make arts education available to all!” The hard-working staff and educators at Arts Garage believe no student should be denied access to cultural arts education. Scholarships are made available to students with the deepest needs and the highest 3 talent, enabling economically disadvantaged youth and adults to study and perform music and drama in a state-of-the-art facility. Arts Garage works to build community by offering these emerging talents the opportunity to perform throughout the region, and as a by-product of those experiences, to learn lessons in commitment, discipline, and teamwork. The academy also collaborates with a variety of organizations that serve youth, including the Milagro Center of Delray Beach, an organization that aims to improve young lives through arts education. Donna By Alexis Boissier Colorado Standoff - Acrylic 6 0 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Paintings provided by the artist C u l t - u re Home Grown Talent Fuller Florida Panther- Watercolor Beach Condos - Watercolor Donna Fuller’s creative forces run deep. As a painter, teacher and graphic designer, Fuller’s talent carves a wide swath of artistic diversity in theme and medium. Whether for pleasure and business, Fuller has been involved in the art world for more than 40 years. Her artistic path began as a child. The driving force was initially her uncle, whose own career took him to California where he worked in the art department in the early days of The Walt Disney Company. “My uncle would encourage me by mailing me little art projects that he had done. I would redraw his work and make it into my own,” explains Fuller. Fuller grew up on an island called Minocqua in Northern Wisconsin. Her vibrant imagination and the surrounding nature inspired her to draw and paint. “Other than admiring my uncle’s artwork, I never received any formal art training until my studies at University of Florida and Florida Atlantic University.” Today Fuller lives in Boca Raton and serves as a teacher at the Delray Beach Center for the Arts at Old School Square. To be able to teach her students in any medium, Fuller is proficient in all styles, including acrylic, watercolor, oil, drawings and color pencils. Her classes are taught in groups but each individual works on their own project. “Everyone is not doing the same artwork in my class. When I see a student is developing their own style, I help them develop it. I push them into their own style. If their talent level is high, I focus on the composition to help them grow as an artist,” says Fuller, who has been teaching for the past six years. Fuller is also a member of the Delray Art League, the Lake Worth Art League, and Women in the Visual Arts, and a signature member of the International Acrylic Society. and even with an air purifier, I breathed in the overspray, which got into my optic nerve,” explains Fuller. “I could no longer see enough to paint and so I traveled north to study sculpting and pottery. It released tremendous stress for me.” Before embarking as a teacher, Fuller worked in computer graphics and design work for a commercial agency. Weekends were dedicated to practicing her talent and working on freelance projects. “I’ve been lucky to turn this into a business, but I will tell you that the creative business is very tough.” When Fuller is not leading a class, she works in her own studio. Inspiration runs the gamut from visiting zoos and botanical gardens while traveling to her interest in cultural anthropology and her Russian heritage. “There is beauty everywhere, especially in Florida with its flora and fauna. You just have to look around. I see the world very different.” Despite the ups and downs, the creative field is a must for Fuller. Even when Fuller developed a serious eye disease and became partially blind, she never gave up on art. “I was airbrushing at the time, After almost a full year, Fuller finally was diagnosed. “I went to specialists all over Florida, and they all told me I was blind forever. They could not ID the cause of the blindness,” says Fuller. “Then the pain grew, and I went to my general practitioner. He took one look at me and diagnosed me. Turns out his son was an artist in New York and had suffered the same illness.” Fuller is available to do commission art. Please email her at fuller9574@bellsouth. net. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 61 book w e n m the o r f t p er An Exc ith pril Sm A a s i L r o by auth Multi-talented Jupiter resident, Lisa April Smith discovers her true passion – writing sizzling suspense “Lisa April Smith has woven an intriguingly rich tapestry of delightful welldeveloped characters into a perfectly balanced plot bursting with riveting mystery, crimes of the petty and the horrible sort, suspenseful twists, and romantic tension complete with love scenes that sizzle and pop.” Photos COURTESY Of Bigstock W e l l Re a d Before discovering a passion for writing Ms. Smith traded in antiques, taught ballroom dancing and managed projects for IBM. College studies included psychology, archeology, literature, history, anthropology/ sociology and computer science. She holds degrees in the latter two fields. Combine those widely diverse interests with a wry wit and creative ingenuity and readers won’t be surprised at the amazing reviews her books inspire. Perhaps one admiring reviewer said it best, “Lisa April Smith’s books have the pace of and heat of Jacqueline Susann and the style and sophistication of Dominick Dunne.” 62 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Excerpt from Exceeding Expectations: Chapter One January 2, 1962 Glancing down at the Porsche’s speedometer Jack eased up on the gas. The nearest car was a mile back, but a cop could be hiding around the next bend. Being stopped by the police did not fit into Jack’s plan. He blamed the excitement and guilt. Composing the single page to his daughters had been agony. There was no nice way to say he intended to kill himself. There were no comforting euphemisms for suicide. No words to excuse a mortal sin. And worst of all, no way to ease the pain his beloved girls would experience. But they, and everyone else, had to believe his intention was absolute and irreversible or the plan would fail. After several miserable gut-wrenching attempts, Jack wrote of how much he loved them and said that this was something he had to do to protect them. Knowing he could rely on Petal’s steely strength, Jack’s letter to his wife was more direct. He had explained that he was doing this to save her and his girls from scandal and disgrace. As he was making this noble sacrifice, he knew she could be relied on to be good to his daughters. Petal might not be the maternal sort, but no one could accuse her of being tight-fisted. After reading the letter, his dying declaration, and waiting for two Chivas Regal’s straight to take effect, she would call a few select members of her powerful family, and her attorney. The results of those calls would be a discreet obituary in The New York Times, another in the local paper, hinting at a long-term debilitating disease, and no further investigation. A quiet memorial service would be held in Manhattan, Petal’s preferred place of residence, and she would be stunning in black for the next six to ten weeks, depending on her social calendar. The best thing about his plan was its simplicity. He would wait until two or three in the morning when the roads would be deserted, park the car on the middle of a bridge and disappear into the night. The bridge and town had been carefully selected – less than a five mile walk to the railroad to prevent someone later recalling giving a lift to a stranger. The town had to be small – an insignificant speck on the map. The smaller the town, Jack had reasoned, the less sophisticated the police force. Fielding, Florida, a town that lacked a drug store, supermarket, bank, and beauty parlor was ideal. Serious crime in Fielding probably consisted of intimidating the kids who tipped over outhouses on Halloween and jailing the same town drunk every Friday night. A costly abandoned car, coupled with the later discovered suicide notes, guaranteed Jack would be the topic of intense gossip for years, and the object of a bumbling investigation for no more than a week. The Porsche would get more attention than the lack of a corpse in an area where alligators outnumbered house pets, and a Ford with all four fenders intact was considered a damned fine automobile. Once he boarded a train he’d be safe. Men who rode the rails kept secrets. They were members of a tribe of vagabonds who preferred the town around the next curve – adventurous men ready to share a pot of tramp stew with another kindred spirit. He was eager to join them. For the last two and half decades, his life had revolved around his girls. Jack had chosen that life and never once regretted it. A man couldn’t have finer daughters than Amelia and Charlotte. But they were grown now and maybe he had earned himself a change. He thought he might head for Texas, a leviathan-sized state where a man’s past was not apt to be questioned. Texas was known for its horses. He loved horses — riding them, watching them trot, canter, toss their heads, nurse their foals. Gorgeous, glorious creatures they were. After several hours of driving through towns too small to boast a stop sign, Jack reached his destination. A weather-beaten building with a concave roof housed the grocery that doubled as Fielding’s post office. He gave his letters to a leathery man behind the counter and gazed at a jar of pickles with interest. He had been so focused on reaching his destination he had forgotten to eat lunch. “Is there a place around here to get something to eat?” “Just Wiley’s. Kind of a bar/restaurant down the street. Lost its sign in the last hurricane, but you’ll find it.” An orange neon light in the window erratically flickered Budweiser. Jack glanced inside. It was more bar than restaurant, and grimy. Lacking an alternative, he entered. A wall of vacant knotty-pine booths faced a long bar backed by a mirror so streaked with fly droppings and smoke that reflected images appeared cloudy. Five or six patrons turned to note his presence and then quickly resumed what they had been doing. Jack proceeded to the bar’s last booth and took a seat where he could oversee the comings and goings. The gym bag containing twentyseven thousand dollars he stowed under the table. A blowsy overweight waitress with an elaborate hairdo and a too-tight skirt approached. “Need a menu?” he asked as she wiped the table with a dingy towel. “What time do you stop serving food?” “The kitchen closes at eight.” Jack removed his buck suede jacket and placed it on the seat beside him. Assuming this place closed at midnight, he had five long hours to kill. “Bring me a draft beer and a hamburger. And if you could spare a newspaper, I’d appreciate it.” She soon returned with his beer and a ten-page weekly tabloid filled with notices of church events, and feed and grain ads. It was a typical weekday night in a small town bar: plenty of griping and boasting, lengthy recitations of what could have been and should have been, a few stale jokes, more men than women, a lot of talk, little action. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 63 “Would you turn up the radio?” a customer called from the far end of the bar. “That’s me and Wanda’s favorite song.” The bartender adjusted the dial. A twangy melancholy western tune drowned out the dull background noise. “Turn it down! Turn that blasted thing down!” several customers shouted in unison. The bartender found an agreeable level of volume and conversation resumed. It started to rain about nine — a light drizzle at first and then a steady hard-driving downpour. On her return trip from the ladies room, a woman in her late thirties, attractive in a tired way, paused to inquire if Jack would be in town for a while. He politely explained that he was just passing through and she rejoined her companions at the bar. “That would be eighty cents, including the beer. Would you mind settling up now?” the waitress asked at nine-thirty. “I’m leaving in a few minutes. Buddy, that’s the bartender, he’ll take care of you. I’m going home to my kids.” Jack handed her a dollar and told her to keep the change. At ten o’clock Jack went to the men’s room and ducked into a stall. Removing the bills from the gym bag Jack distributed them around the money belt. Twenty-seven thousand dollars. Money painstakingly gleaned from his checking account in amounts that wouldn’t later arouse suspicion. It wouldn’t finance the way of life he had been enjoying very long, but it could buy ten new Chevrolets. More than enough for a fresh start. Customers, who had been checking their watches and shaking their heads for the last hour or more, decided the rain was not going to let up. One by one, they finished their beers, turned up their collars, cursed the weather and dashed into the street. “Last call,” the owner announced to Jack and two stragglers. “Closing at eleven cause of this miserable weather.” 64 | P A L M B E A C H Woman “No more for me. I gotta go to work tomorrow,” the older of the two remaining men announced. He wiped his mouth with the back of his hand and paid his tab. Jack closed his eyes and listened to rain pounding the wood roof. The last customer drank his beer and stared out the front window at the unrelenting downpour. He was about Jack’s size and weight, somewhere in his twenties – a kid. His light brown hair was home-cut and in need of a trim. His pants were deeply creased and stained with what Jack guessed to be grease. A handyman, or maybe a mechanic who worked nearby. Jack grabbed the empty gym bag, handed a dollar bill to the bartender, and headed for the door. The kid blocked the exit. “My truck’s about a mile or so down the road. It weren’t raining when I started out. I’d be grateful, mister, if you could give me a ride,” the kid said. thousand dollars in the money belt, but this kid didn’t know that. All he knew was that it was pouring, it was cold and he needed a ride. Eleven o’clock was far too early for Jack to carry out his plan. All that awaited him was two or three hours of boredom in a parked car. “What’s your name, kid?” “Folks mostly call me Iowa.” “My name’s Jack and the Porsche across the street is mine. Wait here. No sense both of us getting soaked.” By the time Jack reached the car and jumped in, his hair and clothes were drenched. Mostly Iowa had fared little better. “Which direction?” Jack asked his passenger. “You’re headin’ the right way. Just follow the road a piece. I’ll tell you where to turn.” “Is it on the left or the right?” “Left.” Jack appraised the kid grinning back at him. Crooked teeth vied with one another for space, and his tired green eyes spoke of a resilience born of hardship. The faded denim shirt he wore over a grimy T-shirt, would provide no protection from the cold and rain. Jack looked at the bartender owner hoping for some indication that this kid was a local, but the bartender was busy counting the day’s receipts. “You having any trouble with that truck?” Jack tapped his chest. “This old ticker of mine doesn’t work as good as it used to,” he lied. “If you need a hand with that truck, I’m afraid I’m not going to be able to help.” “I got no trouble with the truck. Runs dandy,” he assured Jack. “I left it at a farmhouse to be unloaded. Sold them folks a cord of firewood. But they had to unload and stack it theirselves. That was the deal. They unload it and stack it theirselves whilst I go into town.” Jack weighed the risk. He had twenty-seven “I expect you live around here.” “Just passin’ through.” They soon left the residential part of town. The driving rain and incessant flip-flop flipflop of the windshield wipers blurred his vision. Jack tried the high beams and quickly switched back. Pointing to a dim light on what appeared to be a house he asked, “It that it?” “Nope. That ain’t it. It’s up yonder a bit.” “When I first saw you, Iowa, I said to myself, now there’s a fellow who knows his way around cars. You a mechanic?” “I fiddled with cars some. Nothing as swanky as this.” For the next two or three miles there wasn’t a break in the road — not a path, planted field, farmhouse or shed, only endless sawgrass and pine trees. “That had to be some hike into town. Are you sure we didn’t pass it? You did say it was on the left?” “Yep. On the left.” While Jack had been struggling to locate the elusive house and truck, Mostly Iowa had been facing right. Damn! What an idiot he had been! A solitary man wearing expensive clothes and a flashy gold watch. A new Porsche – obviously his. A mysterious gym bag that had never left his side. A transient loner who needed a ride. “We must have passed it. I’m going to turn around.” “Just pull over here!” Mostly Iowa’s eyes were cold. His right hand expertly cradled a knife. Targeted like a deer by a hungry kid. Stalked! Jack’s foot remained on the accelerator. “You don’t want to do this, Iowa. How about I slow down to ten, fifteen miles an hour and you jump out? We part friends and forget this ever happened.” “You stop this here car or I’ll stick you like a pig. It wouldn’t bother me none to kill you.” Now Jack was a man who liked a good laugh as much as the next guy, but irony had its place. Dying the very night he scheduled his fake suicide was not his idea of a joke. Iowa grabbed Jack’s right arm. “Stop this car or I’ll cut out your gizzard and leave it for the birds.” “I’m not stopping the car as long as you got that knife,” Jack said in a calm friendly voice. He could feel the frightening tip of the steel blade through his suede jacket. “Toss it out the window and I’ll stop the car.” Iowa grabbed the steering wheel. The Porsche hydroplaned and fish-tailed, barely avoiding trees on both sides of the road. By intuitively releasing his grip, the finely engineered racing car realigned itself. Jack glanced at his passenger looking for some hint of humanity, still hoping to change the kid’s mind, yet very much aware of the danger. “You’re going to get us both killed. We’re doing twenty miles an hour. The ground is soft from the rain. Open the door and roll out.” “Not a chance in hell, you miserable fuck. You’re going to die.” The knife slashed the jacket and dug into the money belt. If it weren’t for the thick wad of bills, the blade would be boring into his rib cage. Jack deliberately swerved the car right and then left. Iowa grabbed the wheel. Using the butt of his right fist Jack smashed his attacker’s hand. Iowa howled with pain and dropped the knife. He alternated curses with punches aimed at Jack’s head. Jack fought to simultaneously keep the car on the road with his left hand and ward off his attacker with his right. A pothole caught Iowa off balance. He slid away. Jack used the opportunity to use the bent right arm, that had been guarding his chest, to lash out, landing an explosive blow with his clenched fist. He could feel the bridge of Iowa’s nose collapse, hear the bones crack. “Goddamn you! You jackass. You busted my nose!” Iowa fumbled beneath the seat. Seeing the dreaded knife reappear, Jack made the only decision left. “Don’t say I didn’t warn you.” He braced himself and floored the Porsche, aiming the passenger side at a massive oak tree. Iowa reached for the wheel again, too late. The car hit the tree with a violent jolt, throwing both men forward. A branch smashed the windshield a microsecond before Jack’s head reached it. The glass shattered harmlessly, but his chest had struck the steering wheel with an impact that left him gasping for air. The motor groaned and sputtered as Jack waited with his eyes closed. His chest ached with every breath. Tentatively touching his fore- head he discovered a swelling throbbing bump. Jack opened his eyes. Mostly Iowa had not fared as well. He lay slumped against the door. Blood from the broken nose bathed his face, neck, and shirt. Jack didn’t know if he was dead or unconscious, but he wouldn’t be a threat for a while. “Why didn’t you jump when you had the chance?” Jack asked the limp figure. “Soon as I find out what kind of shape I’m in, I’ll figure out what I’m going to do with you. If I can walk back to town, I’ll send someone out to help. And that’s better than you deserve, you dumb bastard, considering you were trying to kill me.” Limb by limb, joint by joint, Jack tested his extremities. His arms, hands, and fingers moved, painfully, but they didn’t appear to be broken. He flexed one leg and then the other. “My legs seem okay,” he informed his silent companion. His chest and shoulders ached. “Probably cracked a few ribs and there’s a buzzing in my ears. Going to be sore for a while, as well as black and blue, but I’m alive. What about it, Iowa? You going to make it?” Jack leaned across the inert body expecting to hear a heartbeat. Nothing. Silence. The kid was dead! Jesus Christ! He hadn’t intended to kill the kid. His goal had been to prevent his own imminent demise. “Now look what you did, Iowa. You tried to “There was no nice way to say he intended to kill himself. There were no comforting euphemisms for suicide. No words to excuse a mortal sin. And worst of all, no way to ease the pain his beloved girls would experience.” P A L M B E A C H Woman | 65 kill me and you ended up killing yourself. God damn dumb kid!” he said to keep his teeth from chattering. “God damn dumb kid!” His entire right side throbbed and he was trembling. “Got to get out of here.” He tried the door handle. It turned, but the bowed door would not budge. He threw all his weight against it and grimaced. It groaned in sympathy and swung open causing him to crash onto the muddy ground. The rain had subsided to a trickle. Jack wiped his hands on soggy moss and sat down to think beside the demolished car. There was nothing more that could be done for Iowa. His problems were over. Jack’s problems had tripled. In a day or two, Petal and the girls would read the letters he had mailed. A first-class plan wiped out because he wanted to help out a dumb kid. Okay, he told himself, if faking his suicide by leaving the Porsche on a bridge was no longer possible, he simply needed a new plan. A new plan. Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. The Porsche would be traced to him. They would find a dead kid in his car. If he disappeared now he would be accused of murder. Unless . . . Unless . . . Iowa was about his size. The police would assume the body belonged to Jack Morgan if – if it was unrecognizable. But how? The car and its contents would The tight quarters inside the crumpled Porsche, coupled with Jack’s reluctance to touch the bloody corpse made the exchange time consuming, exhausting, and grisly. As a final touch, Jack traded shoes with the dead man before shoving him into position behind the wheel. An hour had passed since the crash and no one had driven by. His luck was holding. Now he needed matches. Matches or a cigarette lighter. His pockets yielded neither. His plan would fail because he lacked a pack of matches that every bar and restaurant supplied free. Think, he told himself. There had to be a solution. The Porsche’s cigarette lighter. Would it still work? Leaning over Iowa’s body, Jack located it and pressed it. Thirty seconds later it popped out glowing red. God bless the Germans! Every twenty or thirty years, it took a war to remind them who was boss, but they sure knew how to build a car. Jack looked for something to start the fire. Downed branches were too wet. A dry rag. He kept a towel in the trunk. Jack walked to the rear of the car to unlock the trunk but it wouldn’t release. He kicked it with his heel. Another sharp kick. The trunk creaked open. A white, still-folded hand towel lay tucked in a corner. A few more minutes and it would be over. carry a switchblade. He would have to find it. Ten minutes passed as he searched the car and the corpse. He was about to give up when he felt it lodged under the passenger seat. He folded it, tucked it into his belt, and inserted the dependable lighter. Half a football field away Jack leaned against a tree and waited. Several times the flame appeared to die, only to flare up again. And then the rag ignited with an enormous pop – followed by earsplitting thunder. Roaring flames, the height of a church steeple leapt from the car’s rear. Jack could no longer make out Iowa’s silhouette in the flames. Just a few more minutes, he told himself. The smoke and heat from the blaze reddened his face and seared his lungs. When it was time to leave Jack strode away in Iowa’s ill-fitting shoes, away from the wrecked Porsche, the town of Fielding, and his past. Then he heard it. A train whistle. The magical hollow sound of a train whistle. And it wasn’t far off. Damn, if he wasn’t a lucky soand- so. One of God’s favorite children. Jesus tolerated the pious, sober, and abstinent. Yes, He tolerated the tiresome righteous and their smug unforgiving Christian smiles. And He had little pity for the tyrant, the merciless, and the cruel. But Jesus loved the ordinary sinner. have to be burnt beyond recognition. He could do that. Provided he kept calm, and no one came along in the interim, it was a good alternative plan. Jack removed the ruined suede jacket. It could go on the corpse. A scrap of burnt He stuffed as much of the towel as would fit into the gas tank, then replaced the ignition key. As he was about to press the cigarette lighter he remembered the knife. What if it were found with the remains? Palm beach socialite Jack Morgan didn’t Isn’t that what the bible taught? The Almighty loved sinners. Without sinners there would have been no reason for Jesus to come to earth and experience the joy and pain of mortals. suede would add to the illusion, as would his wedding band. He had intended to sell it before he reached Texas, but it would be better Exceeding Expectations was named to “Top Twelve of 2012” best used now. As he removed the ring he noticed novels and is available in both digital format and in print. This his prized gold watch. They might look for it. It was too bad about the watch, but it too had to go. page-turner can be purchased at www.Amazon.com and www. Barnes&Noble.com. For more about Ms. Smith, sample chapters of all her books, visitors are invited to stop by her website: www. LisaAprilSmith.com. 66 | P A L M B E A C H Woman P A L M B E A C H Woman | 67 Long Beach • Laguna Hills • Sherman Oaks By Kara Clapp The weather was quite cold the entire week there, but that doesn’t stop the gorgeous sightseeing that can be done in March in Laguna. Every year the Natural Products Expo West is out in Anaheim, California. The Expo showcases the latest and greatest products that are currently on the market and many which are trying to break in. Basically, it’s Whole Foods Market on steroids, with every single protein powder and “hip for the moment” natural product competing for an “in.” We were out there to see it, and had lots of fun checking out the rest of the LA scenery. C o m m o n In te re st We started by renting a house in Long Beach, which turned out to be a great idea. The house was gorgeous and is rented by a couple that work and live between two cities (Atlanta and LA). Instead of their place sitting uninhabited when away, they rent it out, which is extra income for them and turned out to be a sweet spot for the team on our business getaway. The location was perfect— situated two blocks from 2nd street, which is adorned with restaurants, trendy shops, and hip little bars that carry on long after the sun goes down. After an exhausting day at the Expo, we popped into “La Creperie Cafe” (www.lacreperiecafe.net) for bite to eat. The ambiance is comforting and stylistically reminiscent of French Bohemian decor. They truly live up to a Parisian crepe. Their sauces could turn their most unimpressed patron into a returned customer. The two savory crepes we tried were the “Au Bon Curry” (chicken breast, potatoes, cilantro and mozzarella cheese in a curry cream sauce with mango chutney and sour cream) and the second was the “Al Mare” (jumbo shrimp, sun-dried and plum tomatoes, wild mushrooms, shallots and mozzarella cheese in a lobster basil cream sauce). They were both out of this world and each last bite was savored. “Christy’s on Broadway” (www.christyslongbeach. com), which was recommended to us by locals, is the next mentionable spot in Long Beach. We were more than pleasantly surprised by the great service, abundant wine selection, fair prices and a menu diverse enough to please any palate. We ordered a number of small plates (listed by their price points), including the “Cherrywood Bacon Wrapped Dates (with a favorite, manchego) and the “Carciofi Brasato” (braised artichoke stuffed with bread crumbs and parmesan cheese). The entrees were equally 68 | P A L M B E A C H Woman stock Photography I heard from others that both the breakfast and dessert crepes are equally as delectable. If you’re in the area and in the mood for something rich in flavor and extremely affordable, this is not a place to miss! Mahé, Dana Point RJ’s Cafe, Dana Point delicious. The chef must have been “on” that night—the specials were out of this world. The pan-crusted halibut served on a creamy risotto was sublime. The dessert wasn’t quite as impressive, but still good. The creme brulee lived up to its standard. Food wasn’t the only thing on the agenda aside from the trade show… After the Expo wrapped, I headed up to Laguna Hills to meet up with a friend from San Diego. I’ve heard a lot about Laguna, but this was the first chance I had to go there for a little R&R. And rest I did! Even though the temperature was pretty low the entire week there, it was March, southern California is notorious for its never-ending sunshine, which always lends itself to a gorgeous day of sightseeing. Did you know whale watching is spectacular in March? The whales migrate through Cliffs Marriott Resort & Spa, Dana Point the area on their way back north and there are numerous sightings daily. Captain Dave was on the Ellen show talking about his tours. To sign up go to: www.dolphinsafari.com Here you can also see how many whales, dolphins, etc., were spotted each day. My stay was made comfortable, with breathtaking views at Laguna Cliffs Marriott Resort & Spa in Dana Point. Majestically set out overlooking the Dana Point Harbor, the hotel features a beautiful spa, small golf green, two pools and hot tubs. Their food was impressive and the bar managed to make a perfect “dirty” martini accompanied by large blue cheese stuffed olives. The only downfall for my visit was the broken whirlpool in the ladies spa (they assured me and my guest this was a one time problem), however the seven-jet shower was just as worthy an experience, if not better. The massage was great (a little on the pricey side, even with Palm Beach standards), but relaxing nonetheless, and a great way to decompress. I had quite a few meals there, but the only two places worth mentioning are “Mahé” (a nice sushi restaurant across from the actual harbor). I had to try their roll called the “Heat Wave” (spicy tuna, crab, jalapenos, cream cheese, salmon, soy paper, light tempura); the cream cheese perfectly offset the heat of the jalepeno, making for a solid flavor combination. The locals around the area said that if you wanted fresh fish, that was the place to go. Honest bunch of locals they were. 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I played the role of obedient wife, nurturing mother and smiling hostess; but I wasn’t happy. Although our divorce wasn’t easy, I finally felt liberated to live life for myself and embrace all the world had to offer. Being single terrified me at first, but I found that I was much happier alone, living the life I wanted, rather than trapped in a relationship where I felt like I couldn’t be myself. There’s such a stigma to being single (aka alone), but for me being single has been a doorway to self-discovery. I’ve done things I could have never done when I was married, living my life constantly in sync with another person. I’ve discovered a whole new world and a whole new me. It’s not that I’m against entering into a committed relationship again if the right partner comes along; but for now, I feel blessed to be single. After spending years focused on the needs of my husband, I finally feel liberated to live for myself, by my own terms. Here are 10 reasons why I think it’s fabulous to be single: Reason #1 You choose what you want to do and when. You don’t have to check multiple calendars or work your life around another person’s schedule. Reason #2 You can speak your mind, without having to worry about the impact your opinions might have on your partner. Reason #3 You can make your own friends, regardless of if they will get along with your partner or not. Reason #4 There’s peace and quiet whenever you need it. Reason #5 You have the freedom to join organizations and social groups without feeling like it’s taking time away from your partner. Reason #6 Your money is yours to spend and you don’t have to explain your purchases, like why you splurged on that new pair of shoes. Reason #7 You can eat healthy without being tempted by your partner’s choices (talk about a diet buster!) Reason #8 You can decorate in the style of your choosing without having to consider the design tastes of your partner. Hot pink walls? No problem. Reason #9 You can enjoy a sensual and sexual life without boundaries or restrictions. C o m m o n In te re st Reason #10 You can devote your time and energy to focusing on you- your health, interests, friendships and career. Barbara McNally is the author of Unbridled, a memoir chronicling her journey from stifled, predictable housewife to independent and joyous living. A mother and philanthropist living in San Diego, California, Barbara is also the founder of Mother, Lover, Fighter, Sage, a foundation inspired by her own journey and dedicated to providing women with opportunities for growth and selfdiscovery. Visit her website at http:// unbridledfreedom.com/. 7 2 | P A L M B E A C H Woman By Barbara McNally OPEN 7 DAYS A WEEK OPEN 7 DAYS A WEEK OPEN 7 DAYS A WEEK P A L M B E A C H Woman | 7 3 THE POWERHOUSE LEADER: By Dr. Melissa Luke C o m m o n Inte re st CEO’s struggle with making employees happy and creating an effective corporate culture. This is a daunting task, much like keeping an old AM radio in tune; it takes constant adjustment. TheCEO is responsible for the vision and the direction of the corporation, and typically imparts that vision through the traditional top down hierarchy. How can you be more effective? Before I became a corporate trainer I was an IRS agent and Corporate Fraud Specialist. I was trained to analyze behavior and acquire information in unusual ways. Early in my training career I came to the realization that most people in an organization at times lie to their superiors—not to cover fraudulent activity, but to avoid voicing uncomfortable issues. If most managers conceal some information from their leaders, how does the CEO proactively change the corporate culture with only partial facts and an airbrushed version of employee concerns? One way I’ve found is to hang out where the people are and to keep my ears open. Well situated bars, coffee shops and restaurants can work wonderfully for the observer. Just now as I’m working through this piece, I’m sitting in a Starbucks listening to some senior managers from a famous pharmaceutical company. They are not exposing trade secrets, but they are discussing the uncomfortable work conditions that they have to deal with. I believe I have learned more about the problems of Fortune 500 companies 74 | P A L M B E A C H Woman hanging around coffee shops sipping $2.00 coffee than I would have in getting a Wharton MBA. Let’s face it, most CEO’s of large companies work in a rarified bubble. They strategize in quiet board rooms, meet the investment community for exclusive lunches, and travel on private jets. I would seriously suggest to a CEO to dress down and hang out for a day at a Starbucks near the headquarters and listen. Then hit happy hour at the right bar, down a few club sodas and again listen to the conversations. They are probably work related and you are not likely to hear how happy they are at work. Actually this isn’t that much different from “managing–by-walkingaround”, where CEO’s hang out on the factory floor and just listen and observe. My first real experience with disgruntled upper managers was with a “big oil” company several years ago. I was there to train these managers in how to train their direct reports in training their direct reports. It sounds weird, but many very competent leaders running divisions with thousands of employees are not skilled in training the people reporting to them. The meeting was set up by the head of HR who was sensing a problem. I walked into the room and sensed the problem also. I couldn’t get anyone to laugh or even smile—and that’s one of my strong suits. I turned off my Keynote, closed the door, and asked them what was wrong. Silence. I knew I was going to accomplish very little and that I had to change directions quickly. I tossed my lesson plan (which was two weeks in preparation) into the garbage and told them I wouldn’t teach the class. That made them even more uncomfortable because my leaving would reflect poorly on them. I gave them an option: If you tell me everything that is bothering you here, I’ll stay all day and compile your notes for the HR Director and the President and present them anonymously. Doing it this way would let them speak and present the problems as a group collectively, rather than as individuals. I was yet to gain their trust. So I had to explain that most people lie to their managers and that employee satisfaction surveys don’t really work for most companies. They could continue to be miserable in their jobs or they could trust me. And then I told them that I would probably lose my fee for not doing what I was to be paid for and receive a black mark in the speaking industry for pulling this kind of stunt. The managers said that they would likely be fired for speaking their minds. So we began. The communication dam broke, and I became a moderator rather than a teacher. The comments came so quickly that I had to remind them like a grade school teacher, “We don’t interrupt when others are talking.” “No you have to be more specific: Lack of communication isn’t a specific problem. Give the president specifics.” “If you make that comment, your manager will know EXACTLY who you are. Change the way it is stated.” “We can’t list a bunch of problems. How do we fix them? Give the president ideas to make things better.” “No, you can’t say that you wish Bob would get run over by a bus.” Well, by the end of the day we had an excellent outline to present to the HR Director who said cheerfully, “Wow that was a long day. How did it go?” I handed her the report and watched while she read it. Her smile vanished, and I waited in uncomfortable silence. Do you know what your employees really want, or do you just know what they said on the survey? She looked at me and said, “Oh! We didn’t know this. The annual survey of over 500 people in the company stated that people were happy”. I told her people lie and started to gather my stuff to leave. Then she asked me when I could return to finish evaluating the remaining managers. They wanted to rectify the situation immediately. My jaw dropped. As my career has continued, I have begun to specialize in this area. Senior management knew what I was doing with their managers, and requested it. The most difficult part of my job now is in gaining trust. I’ve been asked dozens of times, “Can I really say what I think without being fired?” And, “What are they going to do with the information? Each year we take surveys and nothing changes.” I quickly tell them that they are the ones who are going to make the changes. There’s only so much a CEO can do by himself. The most common complaints a leader will encounter are likely to be within these three categories: Communication issues, Compensation, and Work Hours/Flex-Time. Obviously these are broad and difficult areas for Executives to deal with—with communications being the most troublesome. You can almost imagine a CEO saying, “Oh, I didn’t know that. Increase everyone’s pay and let them all come to work when they want, wearing whatever pleases them. If I did not communicate this clearly enough, please, tell them to stop by my house for a glass of wine to discuss further”. A few years later I ran into this situation at a large bank where I was conducting training. I used the same technique that I used at the oil company, and I found these to be the main points of employee dissatisfaction: The temperature was too low in the building (they kept the building at 62 degrees.) The employees disliked the chairs. The people wanted “casual” Friday and did not want to wear suits 5 days a week. As a CEO this was a dream come true. Turning up the heat was an easy fix compared to rectifying a serious communications disconnect throughout the company. But nobody had told the senior management about the temperature or the crummy chairs. The surveys had shown that the employees were happy. What can you do as a Powerhouse Leader? One way to understand and deal with these hidden and chronic areas of employee discontent is to build a diverse, interdepartmental “crew” to work with you in both identifying and ameliorating these areas of discontent. The “crew” should be structured outside the HR Department for them to be truly “diverse”. Here is one structure that can be effective. Announce that you are forming a committee within the organization to increase employee satisfaction. (12 might be a good size for the group.) The committee membership would be volunteer positions, but some perks might be in order for their efforts. Make the committee temporary—perhaps one year. Then it would be dissolved and reconstituted with a new membership. Care should be taken so that the committee membership is as random and broadly interdepartmental as possible. The committee will ask the employees to rank the morale of the company, ask them what the biggest concern they have about the company is, and to propose at least one solution. Okay, this cannot be like the surveys that the employees lie to. Anonymity must be carefully preserved either through drop boxes or preferably through outside moderators. Compensation issues should be outside the purview of this committee. The committee will review the information and will work on the top three problems as identified by the respondents. They will need to work hard to create positive improvements and to measure those improvements in employee satisfaction after a year. This is the tricky part; committees are always being formed, especially by politicians who often use them to appear to be doing something while, in reality, they’re just stalling. The changes needed as identified by the employees can be coordinated by the committee, but they have to be instituted and bought into by the employees themselves for long-term results. One little side note: I encountered a company where the top problem identified by the employees was the CEO himself, and his ability to effectively run the organization. If you are the leader and you are identified as the chief problem, resign or make changes to yourself quickly! Are you a Powerhouse Leader? There are many aspects to an effective leadership. But one crucial attribute for you to be a leader is that you must have followers. Last year’s surveys and evaluations are probably not what your people really think about your corporate culture. An effective Powerhouse Leader will gather his followers by empowering them to find and implement solutions on their own. Through implementing these solutions organization-wide from the bottom up you will unify the organization towards excellence. Melissa Luke has a doctoral degree in management (DM) specializing in corporate fraud at the public level. She was co-founder and president of one of the first online trading floors in the United States, was a Revenue Officer for the U.S Treasury, worked as a Sr. Business Analyst for one of the largest consulting firms in North America, and has been lecturing at the university level for a decade. Melissa now speaks professionally to a diverse group of audiences covering human analytics, increasing performance in organizations, and trains corporate speakers and executives for heightened creativity. Melissa is author of Trader 2000 and Life in the World of YOMO:Start the Adventure to Your Perfect Calling. Currently Melissa is the CEO and co-founder of www.yomoworld. com, an Internet based company that matches today’s youth with business internships and humanitarian possibilities for optimal career potential. She presently resides in Princeton, NJ. Her new book, Life in the World of YOMO: Start the Adventure to Your Perfect Calling, can be found on Amazon.com, Barnes and Noble and other fine booksellers. For more info visit www.DrMelissaLuke.com. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 75 Master Trainer, Bio-mechanics Specialist Founder and CEO Fitness, the fountain of youth. By Line Doucet, PFT, AFT, MT, C o m m o n In te re st Line Doucet, founder of One Focus, is a Certified Master Trainer who specializes in Bio mechanics of Sports and Exercise. She is a former Olympic-class athlete who holds a degree in Business Administration and Marketing. She has over 20 years’ experience in wellness and physical fitness and is certified in the following: • Functional Training • Diabetes Care • First Aid/AED (cardio resuscitation) • Sports Nutrition • Sports conditioning focusing on Golf Performance • Water Therapy • Arthitis/Fibromyalgia fitness care • Post Surgical Care •E xercise Recovery for clients with heart diseases Y outh and Fitness happen to be the topic of many conversations as well as debates about the various options for achieving optimum health. Some of these options can cost in excess of thousands of dollars a year and range from legitimate products and services such as spa treatments and plastic surgery to more questionable methods like: pills, growth hormones, injections and more… None or those will give you permanent benefits of more energy, better sleep quality, freedom of motion and longevity as Fitness will. It is wise to grasp the big picture, and know that it is never too late to feel good. We often take for granted that the perfection of our body’s design is such that it heals itself automatically, and not even a thought is needed for the body to renew itself. You might have noticed that the renewal process seems to slow down as we age. There are many reasons for that since the body is so complex, but no matter what problem we have, it is safe to say that breath, more precisely, oxygen plays an instrumental role in: • Following any type of surgery, the recommended care is to breathe into a little apparatus in order to measure your lung capacity which encourages deep breath. The deeper you breathe, the faster you get rid of anesthesia, and the faster you heal. • Birthing since it is about breath, no breath no life. • The Lamaze method is mostly about breath for rhythm, strength, and to prevent panic, or hyper ventilation. • The treatment for cancer prevention and post treatment. Cancer cells do not like oxygen. • Yoga, re-birthing, meditation, martial art, long distance sport performance and more. Bottom line; the more fitness activity you perform, the greater your lung capacity, the higher the blood oxygen level. This blood is carried to the entire system and renews the cells with greater fuel which promotes healing, better skin, youthful color, thicker hair, relaxation, a less constricted body, better sleep, less snoring (maybe), stronger muscles, better stability, more stamina, a slower heart beat and lower blood pressure. Exercising will also usually help with meeting new friends or work contacts and help you accomplish far more in all areas of life due to more energy. Fitness will keep you young and filled with vitality, not to mention that it will save you years of pain and money in care to correct the alternative options. So what are you waiting for? Today is a good day to start. There are gyms everywhere, Yoga studios, Pilates classes, and a variety of exercise classes you can choose from. If you are like a lot of people who are intimidated by gyms or who know that the commitment won’t last more than a couple of months, or don’t have the required time for this, visit my website at www.virtualfitness1. com. Get your workout done in a half hour from the comfort of your home or wherever you are. It’s easy, personalized one-on-one and very effective. You need no other reasons; go to www.virtualfitness1.com. Your complimentary consultation is awaiting you. You are never too busy to feel good. • MS Conditioning • Weight Management • Core/stability Training Let’s face facts; fitness and health equal A better quality of life and more years to enjoy your freedom. Toll free 1-888-691-6610 | Cell 561-704-8483 | [email protected] | www.VirtualFitness1.com 7 6 | P A L M B E A C H Woman If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. – Katherine Hepburn P A L M B E A C H Woman |7 7 Undaunted, she signed on with the Office of Strategic Services, precursor to the CIA. Toward the war’s end, she was posted to China and Ceylon, serving as Chief of the OSS Registry. So far, then, Julia had worked as a typist, as a copywriter and, depending on one’s willingness to romanticize her wartime career, as a secret agent. In Ceylon, she met the man she would marry and whose name she would take, Paul Cushing Child. As Julia Child our heroine suddenly becomes recognizable. She had changed jobs again, going on to a whole new career as a TV personality and author of best-selling cookbooks. Julia McWilliams, by no means a household name, was born in California in 1912 and graduated from Smith College in 1934. Then she moved to New York City, worked as a typist and wrote advertising copy for W. & J. Sloane, then a major home furnishings reseller. By 1942, the United States had entered World War II, and Julia put her career on hold. She wanted to enlist; but both the WACs and the WAVEs put limits on the heights of enlistees, and they disqualified a 6-foot-2-inch Julia. Julia died in 2004, but her image lives on, and she is remembered today as something of a force of nature. On live-to-videotape TV, she rolled with the punches, a glass of wine in hand and potential disasters – like the chicken that slipped from platter to studio floor – met with cheerful insouciance. In today’s job market, a change in career is not always voluntary, but it has become common. In Julia’s day, people were likely to stay in a career for their entire working lives. The average worker today, according to the U.S. Department of Labor Statistics, changes careers three times. Job Interview Challenges While career change may not be rare, it is still something that an interviewer will question. Why are you making this move? What went wrong? Are you changing because you are desperate, or are you driven by a heartfelt desire? Applicants should be well prepared for this line of questioning, bearing some key topics in mind. Transferable Skills C o m m o n Inte re st Take a close look at the requirements of a new job in light of the skills you applied in the past. If specific skills apply, emphasize them by all means, but remember that general skills are often transferable from job to job. Managerial and organizational skills are of value anywhere. Effective communication always has a place. For Julia, typing was the skill she transferred from advertising to espionage. She started her OSS career as a typist of index cards. In time, superiors noticed her education and intelligence, leading them to assign her to more responsible positions. Even a minor skill can open doors. by Paul Freiberger 7 8 | P A L M B E A C H Woman for a Career Change Eliminate the Negative If your explanation focuses on the things you hated about your past career, interviewers will be all too ready to share your negativity. At that point, you have increased the odds that they’ll take a skeptical view of your alleged enthusiasm for this new career. You don’t have to paint a picture of the past that’s overly rosy, but emphasize the positives of your new career, not the frustrations of your old job. Here lies the secret of Julia’s success. When she left the OSS, she and Paul moved to France. She fell in love with French food, studied cooking at Le Cordon Bleu and started teaching cooking in her Paris apartment. Her career change was motivated by the very forces emphasized by career guides. Find something that you love to do. Then find a way to make money doing it. It sounds so simple, but it’s no easy task in real life. The point is not that an applicant must wait for divine inspiration before submitting a resume. Instead, try to communicate genuine enthusiasm. Julia’s enthusiasm was entirely sincere, but not everyone is lucky enough to be in that position. Some of us must learn to act the part. Choice, Not Compulsion If you can’t quite sell your interviewer that you are driven by an irresistible passion for your new career, you still have to make it clear that you are here by conscious choice. Here, you may want to acknowledge a negative aspect of a previous job, but tread carefully. When Julia applied to the OSS, she explained that she was leaving her job as a typist because, by that time, she had “typed over 10,000 little white cards,” according to her personnel file. She was ready for something new. That makes for an easily understood motive, and she did so without disparaging her old boss or her previous workplace. The idea that you are making a conscious choice applies to both the new field and the new company. Be sure to demonstrate familiarity with current industry events. You know about important recent developments and are versed in the forces that are shaping the field. In order to convince an interviewer, however, be prepared to add concrete evidence of your sincerity. Julia covered this base when she applied to the OSS. At the time, she had a “good reading knowledge” of French, but she let the OSS know that she was taking private French lessons three times a week. Adding that to her resume made her commitment concrete. Apply the same reasoning to the company itself. You applied because you knew what that company was all about. You knew its strengths and weaknesses. You understood its culture. You are here because this is where you want to be, and you expect to make a valuable contribution. Be prepared to elaborate on those contributions. Be as specific as you can. In addition, be prepared to deal with differences between your past life and your present ambitions. If you worked at a large firm, will you thrive at a small one? If you were in a back-office role and rarely saw the light of day, how will you fare in a very customerfocused position? The key is the ability to see through employers’ eyes. If you were the interviewer, what would worry you about this career-changing candidate? Accentuate the Positive Employers can be wary of applicants who are changing careers, and that attitude can influence the applicants themselves, making them too defensive about their choices. It’s easy to forget that there is a positive side to changing careers. Career change requires flexibility and, since you’ve established that your change is a deliberate one, it takes courage. After all, you would not be changing careers unless you had thought long and hard about the move. Your presence in the interview, even your willingness to plunge once more into the job market, speaks to your commitment to this new opportunity. These qualities are all rather abstract, and abstractions don’t resonate with interviewers. As part of interview preparation, an applicant should find ways to tie those qualities to specific situations. Turn the abstract into the concrete and interviewers will take notice. In the face of a potentially skeptical interviewer, don’t ignore the positive side of the very qualities that led you to a career change – and this interview – in the first place. Paul Freiberger is the author of When Can You Start? How to Ace the Interview and Win the Job (Career Upshift Productions, 2013). He is also the President of Shimmering Resumes, a career counseling and resume writing company in Northern California. For more information, please visit http://www.shimmeringresumes.com/. P A L M B E A C H Woman | 7 9 We Can STEM the Gender Gap By Karen Purcell Studies that have examined test scores for both sexes at a variety of ages suggest that academic performance is not the greatest obstacle for girls who want to study math, science, or engineering. The gender stereotypes instilled in girls’ minds at an early age are the real dream killers. By the time girls reach their teenage years, they have already formed opinions about which occupations are appropriate for their sex. Many young women decide to avoid science altogether without knowing its promise or the stimulating work it entails. That’s because they are rarely encouraged by their parents, teachers or peers to follow such a path and therefore are not exposed to it. While young males with average mechanical and mathematical abilities are likely to be encouraged to explore the STEM fields, it is only our young females with remarkable abilities who are thought to be prepared for the field. As a society, we learn about the world and advance our well-being through science. The United States may be known around for its higher education, but there isn’t as strong a focus on educating scientists and engineers as there is in many other countries. One significant reason for our falling behind is that female students are not being encouraged, as they are abroad, to pursue career paths in science, technology, engineering, or math. If we want to attract the best and brightest minds to the fields that will move us forward in the 21st century, we can no longer look to only half of the population for solutions. For this reason, it is important to confront gender stereotypes head-on, and long before young people are faced with declaring their majors at the college level. Without making efforts to break gender stereotypes, we face the consequence of limiting the potential of our youth, both female and male, and equally important, the innovation potential of our country, as documented here: http://bit.ly/GKFrRZ. If careers in all STEM fields were truly open to both sexes, future generations would be encouraged to pursue the careers that best matched their interests and skills. There is another issue with the STEM gender imbalance. By maintaining certain fields as maledominated, we are also allowing the culture within those fields to be established and maintained by men. Therefore, the males in math- and science-related institutions and workplaces will continue to foster cultures that only meet the needs of men. These maleoriented cultures are not inviting to women, and as a result, they deter young women from choosing fields in math and science even if they have exceptional abilities. Throughout history, women have achieved tremendous accomplishments in the traditionally male-dominated STEM fields. Women worked on the Manhattan Project, contributed to our understanding of DNA, discovered radium, and helped design and build the Golden Gate Bridge, just to name a few accomplishments. In addition to mastering difficult “By maintaining certain fields as male-dominated, we are also allowing the culture within those fields to be established and maintained by men. ” 80 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Stock Photography C o m m o n Inte re st There is no easy way to explain why more women are not encouraged to follow STEM career paths. Some arguments assign blame to the media for fostering an image that scientists and mathematicians in our society are male. Other views place the blame on educators for directing men into those “manly” fields and women into traditionally acceptable “womanly” fields such as teaching and nursing, which supposedly fit a woman’s nurturing nature. Whatever the reasons, and no matter how complex they prove to be, they cannot be justified. There is no legitimate excuse for anyone not being encouraged to follow his or her passions in life because of gender. subjects and techniques of experimentation, however, these women also had to overcome the obstacle of a bias against their participation in and restricted access to STEM disciplines. Although that hurdle is less overt today, biases and restrictions still prevent women from choosing STEM career paths in large numbers. Mac Fabrics Overcoming the lack of exposure is one of the main obstacles standing in the way of creating more gender balance in the STEM fields. So, what can professionals do to help? Act as a mentor. Especially for women, teaming with a mentor is a career strategy that can bring huge benefits in male-dominated work environments like science. The majority of successful women time and time again credit their participation in some sort of mentorship program for dramatically helping them to reach their career goals. Although not everybody is cut out to play a mentoring role, many professionals will take on the opportunity to be a mentor if shown appreciation for their efforts. Those that are being mentored must put in the extra work in order to demonstrate that the guidance of their mentor is leading to success in college as well as on-the-job results. While the feeling of making a difference will be a rewarding payoff for mentors both on a professional and personal level, professionals will inevitably want those being mentored to reach professional goals and milestones. Mentors for young women can be men or women. Men should not be viewed as monsters or enemies in the STEM fields. Rather, we should see them as partners, colleagues, and confidants. Women are not trying to flip the situation and dominate the fields in which men currently rule; women are merely trying to work in tandem with them and in more equal numbers to help advance the fields. After all, science is about critical thinking and taking risks in order to unveil knowledge; it is about learning all we can. Leveling the playing field will help crush the social stigma that says careers in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics are for boys only. Fabulous & Affordable 1,000’s of Instock Fabrics for the Designer in all of us About Karen Purcell: Karen Purcell, P.E. is the founder, owner, and president of PK Electrical, an award-winning electrical engineering, design and consulting firm, which handles public and private sector work ranging from $5000 to $76,000,000. Purcell holds a bachelor of science in electrical engineering from Widener University. She is available for speaking engagements. Websites: www.unlockingyourbrilliance.com, www.stemspire. com, www.pkelectrical.com Unlocking Your Brilliance: Smart Strategies for Women to Thrive in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math is available for purchase on www.amazon.com, www.barnesandnoble.com and through all major booksellers 426 Clematis Street, West Palm Beach, FL 33401 Store: 561.833.7000 Toll Free: 855.622.3227 [email protected] Which social Media platform Is Best I n just a few short years Social Media has evolved from a huge phenomenon to become part of nearly everyone’s life, and part of almost every business’ marketing efforts, in one way or another. As a digital marketer who uses Social Media as a tool to help small businesses get more exposure, compete better, gain new customers, and engage with the ones that they already have, I’ve witnessed this transition firsthand from the inside. But in spite of the astounding numbers of people who use Social Media sites every day, many small business owners are still mystified about how to use them efficiently. If you fit into this category, you are not alone. S o c i a l Me d i a By Betsy Kent Betsy Kent has been at the forefront of digital marketing for over a decade. An early adopter of the Internet as a marketing medium, she draws from her extensive experience in the media, marketing and advertising industries to help business owners and marketing executives leverage the power of digital channels. Betsy is known as someone who demystifies digital marketing trends in simple, straightforward, business oriented terms. She helps businesses fine-tune their identities in order for their customers to understand the true nature of what is being offered, and its value to them. for Your Business? First, here are a few things that you should keep in mind: • Social Media represents an opportunity that businesses have never had before • it’s not going away, in fact, it’s expanding • Your business can grow and thrive without Social Media • But it can grow and thrive faster with it If you are a new business owner, or an experienced one that is new to Social Media, it’s important to take a look at the landscape and decide where to put your efforts. Even if you are planning to hire an outside agency to help you set up or manage your Social Media marketing, it’s still important that you understand the most popular platforms. So, here’s a list of the most prominent social sites and a description of each, to help you figure it all out. Facebook More time is spent on than anywhere else on the web, so it’s sort of a no-brainer that your business should have a presence. For B2C businesses Facebook is an absolute necessity, but it requires a plan. From setting up your business Facebook Page to building your community, there are right and wrong ways to do it. What you want to avoid is a lot of wasted time here. There are hundreds of blogs and articles on the web that will help you set up your Page correctly, build your community, engage with the community, run ads, hold contests, and ore. All you need to do is search and make sure the articles you use are current, because Facebook is changing all the time. In terms of building a community, harness first your personal Facebook friends, then your customers (Facebook advertising can help here - it’s inexpensive and effective). Next you need a communications plan. How often should you post? What should you post about? Can you get your fans to respond and share your messaging with their friends? What are the rules? Again, Google is a treasure trove of free information that can help you with all of it. Just search! Reach: 1 billion users worldwide 8 2 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Crucial for B2C business Good for B2B businesses depending on business category Helpful article: socialmediatoday.com/ ubersocialmedia /1335031/facebook-business-benefits LinkedIn I like to think of LinkedIn as the quiet giant. Nearly every business and businessperson has a presence here and LinkedIn listings are highly visible in Search Engine results. On LinkedIn you can set up a company Page and populate it with your marketing messaging, linking it from your personal profile as well as have your employees set up profiles for themselves and link to the company page as well. Moreover, LinkedIn Groups are a great way to share your blogs and business news with your colleagues. If you want to be seen as a “thought leader” in your field, LinkedIn is must. 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Inspired by a colorful resident’s crime! “ The heat of Jacqueline Susann and the sophistication of “Dominick Dunne” “bursting with riveting mystery, suspenseful twists and love scenes that sizzle and pop.” Find them at Amazon.com, Barnes &Noble.com, LisaAprilSmith.com E-book - $2.99 Paperback - $12.99 P A L M B E A C H Woman | 83 Twitter Twitter is completely public - there are no walls between you and your customers here such as there are on Facebook. It’s easy as pie to build your community and there are tons of tools that can help with that (we love Tweepi). Twitter, if used properly and monitored consistently, can help your business reach out and actually communicate directly with your clients, customers, and potential ones, too, as well as colleagues and notable experts. Twitter marketing an art that can be mastered in time. It’s also a great tool to keep tabs on your competition and get real-time news about your industry subjects that affect your business. Reach: 200 million active users worldwide Good for both B2B and B2C businesses Helpful article: www.socialmediaexaminer.com/ how-to-use-twitter-for-business-and-marketing/ Reach 100 million users Best for B2C businesses Helpful article: blog.kissmetrics.com/biggestmisconceptions-about-instagram/ Pinterest What do people share most on Social Media? Images. And Pinterest is a social network that is nothing but images. Think of your business Pinterest page as a set of bulletin boards where you have “pinned” things that inspire you or of products that you sell. Pinterest tends to drive a lot of traffic to websites since every image that you “pin” to a board is linked back to the original web source. How all this traffic can benefit a B2B website, is up very much dependent upon what type of business you have. Reach: 48.7 million users Google Plus (or Google+) is Google’s answer to Social Media and although it’s been a lot slower to grow than many expected, the bottom line is that Google owns Google+ and that means that anything that is posted there has a chance of showing up in Google searches. It’s simple to create a business Page. If you blog, upload all your blogs there, too. For local businesses, make sure you create a Google+ Local profile, this will enable searchers for your business on Google to see an enhanced listing with your address, business information and even a map. Great for B2C and B2B (especially for local businesses) Helpful article: business2community.com/ google-plus/4-secrets-to-maximize-google-plus-forbusiness-0449477 Instagram Instagram, which was recently purchased by Facebook, is a social network for photo sharing from mobile devices (Instagram has recently launched a desktop website, but most usage is on mobile). If you have a very visual business and images are important (such as fashion or interior design) Instagram is a great way to get exposure. And, we have found that one of the best uses for Instagram is for live events, such trunk shows. Some creative uses for Instagram include sharing photos of your employees and running Instagram contests. 84 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Sweet Spots are: • Content Development for Websites • Website Development • Mobile Websites and Mobile Marketing • Search Engine Marketing • Social Media and Blogging Strategies Betsy Kent is the president of Be Visible Associates, a digital marketing agency that caters to the needs of small businesses. Best for B2C businesses [email protected] Good for B2B businesses www.bevisibleassoc.com For a comprehensive tutorial on using Pinterest for business, check out this eBook: Pinterest for Business: bevisibleassoc.com/resources/downloadour-free-pinterest-for-business-whitepaper/ 212-420-5950 We believe that most businesses should set up a profile on at least two of the major Social Media sites, even if these sites are not going to be actively used. Every platform where your company name and story appears does help with your business’ overall visibility and helps you control every site that your business is on (it’s still possible for anyone to set up a Facebook Page for any business, even if that person isn’t affiliated with the business). However, if you are not going to be actively using the social sites (or aren’t using them yet) don’t add links to them from your website. A website that leads a user to its Facebook page that has only 3 fans is risking a bit of a negative impression. Still confused? A good rule of thumb is to pick one site and get comfortable with it, then move on. For B2C businesses that choose Facebook, for B2B businesses choose LinkedIn. And remember, Google is your best friend. All the help you need is there, for free! Note: There are currently hundreds, if not thousands, of Social Media sites on the web, some of which you probably have never encountered. Check out the site below to see a really cool list of most of them, and the amount of people who are using each one. expandedramblings.com/index.php/resource-how-many-people-use-the-top-social-media/ Public Relations sPecial events bRand MaRketing PRoduct design & PRoduction celebRity bookings luxuRy concieRge South Florida | New York | New England | Beverly Hills cell 917-609-8017 Phone 561-827-2075 www.theluxegrp.com P A L M B E A C H Woman 85 PAGE ONE PALM BEACHISTA™ and THE PALM BEACH GIRL™ are out and about in Fairfield County, Connecticut, and other points north. What are we up to? We’re meeting friends, old and new; uncovering unique scenes and cuisines; and rediscovering the very best of our old standbys. What have we packed? Our wanderlust, wonderment, and will for adventure. Of course, it’s summertime, and, according to contributing gal Laura McKittrick, AKA, The Greenwich Girl (greenwichgirl.com), many residents of Fairfield County are off on their own adventures: biking in Tuscany, visiting family in Israel, shopping in Paris, cruising the Mediterranean—or simply heading to Maine to dine on just-caught lobsters or to Newport to spoon up fresh clam chowder. (Or they’re moving into their vacation homes in the Hamptons, on the Cape, or on the Vineyard. Sigh.) But believe us, a little va-cay can’t dim FF County’s special sparkle. And it certainly won’t slow us down. You can trust us to get the goods on Fairfield County and surrounding locales. So, what’s new in food, fitness, and fun in Fairfield? First, the growing food-truck trend has pulled in to FF County. With Tandoori Express’s Indian food truck parked at the Greenwich train station, the Melt Mobile (gourmet grilled cheeses) alternating between Stamford and Greenwich, and Snappy Bites staking its territory in an Old Greenwich parking lot, grabbing something yummy just got a whole lot easier for Fairfield-ians. But what about those of us who prefer a delicious meal WITHOUT wheels? Check out brand-new Zeppoleme in Port Chester, New York, just across the Greenwich border. There you’ll find paninis, zeppoles, and wine served up in a charming venue—one complete with tables and chairs for a leisurely meal-time chat. Must SEE. Must DO. Must HAVE. Must GO! If you’re craving more resty adventures (resty=restaurant), how about participating in a DishCrawl? DishCrawls, which have just arrived in FF County, are organized a little like treasure hunts—but the “treasure” you and your fellow food enthusiasts discover on your DishCrawl evening are three or four “mystery” restaurant destinations which are serving dishes that will be kept secret until the Crawl begins! Visit DishCrawl.com to find out when your town will be featured next— and Crawl your way through FF County! After encouraging all this delicious dining, it’s only “Fair” that we share a bit about Fairfield County’s new workout trends. You can now stretch your mind and your muscles with pole fitness and the Barre Method. Check out Vertical Addiction Pole Fitness Studio in Stamford or Pure Barre in Greenwich. And don’t forget Palm Beacher’s Greenwich barre studio, Go Figure. It’s almost time for us to wave farewell to Fairfield. Our plan? Head up I-95 to Watch Hill, Rhode Island—with just a quick stop at The Griswold Inn. This Essex, Connecticut, sweetspot has a Tap Room that really raises your spirits (and not just the spirits in your glass!) with song, stories, and popcorn for all. Want a little more jingle for your mingle? Just off I-395, on your way to Rhode Island, you’ll find both Foxwoods and Mohegan Sun, two high-grossing Connecticut casino-complexes, rising seemingly out of nowhere. Both have a slew of celeb-chef restaurants and fab entertainment on-tap for you. Did you know? Prior to the Hamptons and the islands off the Cape becoming de rigeur, Newport, Rhode Island, was the place to summer. Back in the day, Palm Beachers packed up their cars (okay; they most likely did not do the actual packing!) and headed to Newport, where great mansions like Rosecliff, People Keep Talking About the location of the original Gatsby movie, welcomed them for the season. Now, personally, we prefer to stay at The Chanler at Cliff Walk or at a small B&B, enjoy clam chowder at Black Pearl and dine at Clarke Cooke House. And, as Palm Beachers, we are still sure to see a friend or two from home. Once we leave Newport, we’ll ferry to Nantucket and leave our bags at The Summer House or our own cottage at the White Elephant. We’ll check out the season’s restaurant changes and make a foray to The Nantucket Hotel. Then we’ll pop over to Martha’s Vineyard and visit the quaint town of Oak Bluffs before heading to Edgartown to spend time with friends. From the Cape Islands, we will be lured to the rocky coast of Maine by the thought of its succulent lobsters (don’t miss Surf 6 Restaurant), cool evenings, and carnival town of Old Orchard Beach, where, yes, there really is a carnival open all summer! And, enticingly, from Old Orchard it’s just a short jaunt to bustling, foodie Portland! Finally, we’ll hit the Hamptons, where we have no doubt we will meet the entire town of Wellington. There, we’ll stay at the American Hotel in Sag Harbor, cheer on our favorite equestrians at The Hampton Classic, and get a little wine-tip tutorial from our very own Wine Guy, Mikey, at Amagansett Wines and Spirits. Oh, and we’ll also check out Chef Tom Colicchio’s new hot spot, Topping Rose House Restaurant in Bridgehampton, set in an absolutely fabulous 1842 Greek Revival mansion that features Chef Tom’s 50-seat restaurant and showcases its own one-acre vegetable plot. So, it seems we’ve mapped our journey and plan to log a lot of miles, smiles, and memories. And, yes, we are anticipating a summer to sigh for, after all! (since last issue......) We Hear: Debra K’s show is now on several PBS Stations and she already has plans for the next go around. Michaela Paige: just dropped her new single “Something in the Water’ which can be downloaded on ITunes. Kevin Breslin: Has completed filming Blowtorch which releases in 2014 and that he begins filming Forsaking All Others based on Jimmy Breslin’s Book (yes, that Jimmy Breslin and Yes, Kevin’s dad). Big Cast Rumored, Don Omar, Jessica Biel, Billy Baldwin & Diogo Morgado. Jackie Curcio & Michael Cardarelli Photography by Alain Martinez Photography at the The Breakers , Palm Beach Photography by Alain Martinez Photography Carolyn Ribeiro to Brandon cohen at the The Breakers , Palm Beach South Florida I do’s Laura DiBartolo & Matt Bishop at the Mai-Kai , Fort Lauderdale Photography by Chelsey Boatwright Photography P A L M B E A C H Woman | 8 7 Palm Beach Woman H I G H S oc i e t y Launch Party At Solita In Delray Beach Featuring Michaela Paige From “the Voice” 88 P A L M B E A C H Wome n HIGH SOCIETY A LIST Palm BeachWoman Guests HIGH SOCIETY A LIST DKJA Safari Nights Benefit Photos Left to right: DKJA Board President Lesley Zafran with Honoree Sharon Rubin Kamber and Head of School Karen Feller. Right: Auction Chairs Jason and Deborah Brown with Event Chairs Alan and Lynne Goldberg of Boca Entertainment (Event Sponsor), Sharon Rubin Kamber and Jan Savarick., Harold and Beatriz Jacobsohn. 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By: Alexis Boissier K itchens and baths are the most-renovated rooms in a home, and they should be. These two rooms are high-function spaces and can soak up so much style. “The kitchen is the heart of the home, and baths are personal sanctuaries,” says Jamie Janson. “These rooms are the hot zones in every house.” Janson is the founder of SoFlo Home Design, a boutique design company based in downtown West Palm Beach. When it comes to kitchens and baths, Janson sees infinite design possibilities and has crafted a career niche by specializing in kitchen remodeling and bathroom renovations. Two years ago Janson launched the company from her apartment, which she has since outgrown. Her career is the result of hard work and good luck: While in between jobs, Janson accepted a gig in the designing world and discovered her hidden talent. “This job was out of my comfort zone, but ultimately it served as my stepping stone. It opened my eyes to a world of design.” Inspired by the possibilities, Janson returned to school. She enrolled in night classes at Palm Beach State College to receive a degree in interior design and graduated in 2007. With dual degrees in business and interior design, Janson finally felt ready to go off on her own. She teamed up with fiancée Erik Wietholter, who focuses on the business affairs. Spot On Today, SoFlo Home Design is a one-stop shop. Kitchen and bath designs require attention to specific details, and Janson handles it all, including the measuring, designing, presentation, ordering, receiving and project management. She is also a dealer of cabinetry, faucets, plumbing supplies, knobs, hardware and cork. Janson teams up with one of her favorite general contractors for the demo and installation, and Wietholter serves as project manager. Every client receives a big dose of the company’s philosophy: live, love, design. Janson and Wietholter live and breathe the work motto too. It’s a part of their daily lives. On the weekends, the couple ride their scooter around neighborhoods in Palm Beach and historic areas such as El Cid for pops of architecture that inspire. Consignment stores and fashion also peak Janson’s interest and get her thinking about textures and colors. 92 | P A L M B E A C H Woman In the office Janson mostly works with three cabinet lines: Kith Kitchens (an entry level line), Design Craft (a Euro-style frameless line with sleek door options and exotic woods) and Medallion Cabinetry (a semicustom line). “My favorite line is Medallion Cabinetry because it allows me to sketch out a cabinet for a custom quote. While they offer 48 different door styles and endless options for stains, specialty finishes, custom pain colors and distressed finishes, I strive to set the trends, not follow them and Medallion helps me do that.” One of Janson’s secrets is offering concierge-type services to clients. She pays close attention to the clients’ needs by meeting them at their home to find out their likes and dislikes, their needs and wants, how large their family is and if there are pets. Then the designing process begins. “The kitchen is the center of the floor plan of the house. You’ll spend eighty percent of your time. If the kitchen lacks, then the house suffers,” says Janson. “The key to a successful kitchen is mixing elegance with efficiency, and incorporating personal style as the main ingredient, which is all important in the resale factor.” From there she adds a variety of elements and textures, from cabinetry and hardware to countertops. Janson turns up the creativity in the bathroom arena. For these smaller and personal rooms, Janson encourages clients to push outside of their comfort zone. “Bathrooms, particularly powder rooms, are the perfect opportunity to think outside the box. I love to go for a crazy wallpaper, a bold color, funky fixtures or even a mural.” During the entire design Janson never forgets the client. She even shows her appreciation with a design surprise element. “Clients give me their upmost confidence to bring their vision to life. The best part is their reaction. It’s always bigger and better than what they expected.” www.soflohomedesign.com “The key to a successful kitchen is mixing elegance with efficiency, and incorporating personal style as the main ingredient, which is all important in the resale factor.” I appreciate GETTING TO SHARE MY STORY WITH PBW READERS. I hope to reach other business-minded women, those who want to reach high, who would like a chance to work for themselves. I want my readers to feel my struggles—both in business and in life—because, while I am a woman with a business instinct, I am still not sure I will achieve the satisfaction I am seeking, no matter how many challenges I endure. Erin Heit MADE UPDATE Does Product Momentum = Personal Strength? P reviously, in Palm Beach Woman, I shared some experiences—including my participation in the development of Glacéau Vitaminwater— that led me to create my own beauty-nutrition brand, Beauty Bumps, an all natural, vegan, mint flavored chewable hair supplement that is clinically proven to grow your hair by 42% and an overall excellent anti-aging product. Ups and Downs Now that we’ve launched, I can see the impact that building my own brand has on me personally, as well as professionally. I am much more emotionally connected to the day-to-day establishment of Beauty Bumps than I was when I was supporting someone else’s product: The ups and downs affect me more because they reflect me more. Let’s Put on a Show! When I supported others’ products, I found muchneeded emotional distance by reminding myself that, while I cared about the products I promoted, none were my “own baby.” But with Beauty Bumps? I’m not playing a part in someone else’s show: Beauty Bumps is my show! When there’s positive momentum carrying Beauty Bumps forward, I’m optimistic; but on days when business is stagnant, I feel pessimistic. It’s a dilemma. As a brand owner, how do I separate my emotions from my business? Check, Please! Our Good News I’ve created a checklist of attitude “refreshers” that help me make the adjustments I need on a daily (or hourly!) basis while I’m riding the wild roller-coaster of a brand-new business. Allure Magazine’s Beauty Bloggers raved about our product; our recent ABC News interview will air in July; a Canadian company hopes to break Beauty Bumps across Canada; an established music producer has interest to partner and put Beauty Bumps in front of his artist; and my business partners will feature Beauty Bumps in their soon-to-film nationally aired reality show! • Exercise patience: It’s a process; sometimes things just take time. • Seek support: Connect with my encouraging fiancé and with my motivating, grounding partners. • Remember: One day’s trickle may become the next day’s flow. • Build my “house” on rock, not sand: No matter my product’s momentum, I should not look to that for strength; I must be strong and proud even in the lulls to survive and grow. Spot On Erin Heit CEO and Founder of Beauty Bumps sharing some ‘Bump’ momentum with Hair Stylist Camelly • Recall the positive: We’ve made great strides with Beauty Bumps; count those blessings every day! But Even Better... BEAUTY BUMPS “GROW” Most importantly, we’re getting wonderful feedback: Erin, I wanted to let you know my mom loves her Beauty Bumps. She is on her third reorder! Her hair looks so much thicker and shinier. Thank you for making her so happy. Bottom Line? I have a brand I can be proud of and a great support system. Do I still grapple with daily emotional struggles? Sure. Is it worth it? Exercise patience: Only time will tell. Contact: ERIN HEIT AT [email protected] OR VISIT BEAUTYBUMPS.COM I appreciate GETTING TO SHARE MY STORY WITH PBW READERS. I hope to reach other business-minded women, those who want to reach high, who would like a chance to work for themselves. 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Co-Chairs: Wendy Legum, Roxane Lipton & Jill Viner ruthralesjfs.org 12/9 “Candlelight Soiree” Where: The Breakers salvationarmysouth.org 1/10 International Society of Palm Beach: “A Night to Remember” Where: Mar-a-Lago Club palmbeachgalas.com 1/14-1/18 FOTOfusion Palm Beach Photographic Centre fotofusion.org 1/17-2/2 South Florida Fair School of the Arts Foundation Guild: Where: South Florida Fairgrounds southfloridafair.com Musical Luncheon, 11:30am at Club Colette 561.805.6298 or www.soafi org 1/23-1/27 12/13-12/17 Where: Palm Beach County Convention Center artpalmbeach.com Palm Beach Food & Wine Festival Where: Various Locations pbfoodwinefest.com Art Palm Beach 1/30 Kravis Center for the Performing Arts: jan dec “Palm Beach Wine Auction” Where: Mar-a-Lago Club 2/14-2/18 Palm Beach Jewelry, Art & Antique Show 3/6-3/15 Festival of the Where: Palm Beach County Convention Center Arts BOCA palmbeachshow.com Where: Mizner Park Amphitheater & Mizner Park Cultural Center Plaza Real festivaloftheartsboca.org Kravis Center for 2/24 The Performing Arts Annual Gala, 6pm at the Kravid Center. Monika Preston, chairman; Kathryn Vecellio, honorary chairman; Kim Havlicek, vice chairman. 561.651.4320 2/27 JFS Reflections of Hope Luncheon Where: Boca West CC. Co-Chairs: Judi Donoff & Nancy Schiller. Vice Co-Chairs: Michele Blair, Alison Robbins & Jill Viner 2/28-3/2 Palm Beach Fine Craft Show 3/20-3/23 Palm Beach International Boat Show Where: Flager Drive, Downtown WPB showmanagement.com 3/21-3/23 Boca Bacchanal Where: Various Locations bocabacchanal.com 3/29-3/30 PrideFest of Lake Worth and the Palm Beaches jun may apr 4/4-4/11 Palm Beach International Film Festival Where: Various Locations pbifilmfest.org 4/7 JFS Great Golf for a Great Cause Where: Delaire CC. Co Chairs: Arnie Friedman & Robert Marton ruthralesjfs.org 4/25-4/27 Delray Affair Where: Atlantic Ave., Downtown delrayaffair.com 4/30-5/4 SunFest Where: Flager Drive, Downtown WPB sunfest.com Where: Bryant Park, LW compassglcc.com Where: Palm Beach County Convention Center craftsamericashows.com jun Salvation Army: 12/6 may 1/9 Where: Palm Beach County Convention Center aifaf.com apr equestriansport.com Mar FTI Winter Equestrian Festival American International Fine Art Fair feb 1/8 Mar feb jan dec 2/4-2/9 M a r k my Word s Go ahead. Make your own list. And make sure YOU are on it. Make Hopes & Dreams Your Companions Lauren Malis, Editor-in-Chief 98 | P A L M B E A C H Woman Stock Image I believe in a lot of things: The goodness in people. Hard work. Hardcover books. Heavy cream in my really good coffee. Roadside farm stands. Giving what you may not need to others who might. Side-splitting laughter. Second, third, and even fourth chances to get it right. Stopping at a lemonade stand. 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