SEAL. Friend. Son. Hero.
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SEAL. Friend. Son. Hero.
SEAL. Friend. Son. Hero. FRIDAY, MAY 2, 2014 The Erik S. Kristensen Klassic brings together family, friends, golfers, volunteers, donors and sponsors to celebrate Erik’s life and his commitment to being a Man for Others while giving the full measure in service to our Nation. The Klassic raises funds to help families of active duty military personnel afford an education at Erik’s high school alma mater, Gonzaga College High School. To all of our friends, families, golfers, volunteers, sponsors and donors: Thank You for making The Klassic possible. We especially thank Cindy Heller and her team at The Courses at Andrews for their hospitality; Ken Schulz at Abundance Media for his innovative strategic communications guidance; Thomasina Armwood for her accounting prowess and Priscilla Flynn for her presentation creativity; Hargrove for its generosity with our signs and banners; Jeff Reid/Sierra Nevada and Matt Stanton/Beam for the kind beverages; and Hank Isaac with River Rock Creative and Tricia Reyda with McArdle Solutions for their incredible insight in designing this program. Most importantly, we thank Sam and Ed for sharing Erik with us and letting us honor Erik each year through The Klassic. To Erik! 2014 ADMIRAL SPONSORS 2014 CAPTAIN SPONSORS The Rathjen Family ERIK S. KRISTENSEN ’90 Known as “Spider” to all his classmates and teammates, Erik was a proud 1990 graduate of Gonzaga. While on Eye Street, Erik was a scholar, a football player, a lacrosse player, and a trumpet player in the band. While in the band, Erik achieved the ranks of First Chair, Section Leader, and Co-Concert Master. A gentle giant with a kind soul and unique sense of humor, he also earned the rank of Eagle Scout and poured himself into all of the activities in which he participated. After graduation from Gonzaga, Erik attended one year of prep school at Andover before attending the United States Naval Academy. Erik earned his varsity letter in heavyweight crew at Navy before graduating with an English major and French minor in 1995. After several years of service, Erik knew he wanted to be a Navy SEAL but was told that he was too old and would not be able to make it. Instead of listening to those who told him he could not, he chose instead to work to achieve his future. After failing once to make the SEALs, he tried again. Overcoming injury and obstacles, Erik finally realized his dream and became a SEAL and joined SEAL Team 10 based at Naval Amphibious Base Little Creek in Norfolk, VA. On 28 June 2005 in Afghanistan, Erik led a mission to help four fellow friends and SEALs who had come under heavy enemy fire. The helicopter that he, seven other SEAL members, and eight Army Special Forces members were in was shot down. Erik was buried with full honors at the Naval Academy and rests among our Nation’s heroes as one of them. True to his love of learning, Erik had been awarded an Olmsted Foundation Scholarship and was to have studied at the Institute for Political Studies in Paris in 2006. In his honor, Erik’s family, classmates, friends, and those who were inspired by him founded The LCDR Erik S. Kristensen ’90, USN, Memorial Scholarship Fund. The fund assists Gonzaga students whose families serve in the United States Armed Forces. It will forever remind Erik’s fellow Eagles of what it means to be a Man for Others. WHY DO WE CALL HIM “SPIDER”? Erik transferred into Gonzaga as a junior. He had learned much of the school through his cousin who had just graduated and two cousins who would become alumnae of nearby Georgetown Visitation. Growing up as the son of a Naval officer, Erik was used to going to new places and making friends. He hit the ground running on Eye Street. Erik was not a small teenager. His height was as obvious from far away as it was close up. The first group of students he met were the players trying out with him for the football team. Under the blaring Washington, DC, August sun and humidity, there he was, smiling and making friends. High school boys can be a tough crowd. Bravado and ego cut a large swath, especially in football. Competition was fierce for roster spots that summer, and here came the new kid, gunning for a piece of the pie. Erik was what everyone would come to know as his jovial self, never lording over smaller players, always helping guys off the ground, and just taking in his new environment. While Erik was very tall, he still had some filling out to do. He had not yet added all the mass to his body that would one day make him one of the Nation’s elite Navy SEALs. As a result, getting into low stances was at times challenging, and you could see him getting as low as he could. As he sank down, his knees and elbows would protrude into the air, and you could tell if Erik was the one in a drill as his great limbs clearly identified him. At one point, one of the toughest seniors sauntered up to Erik and asked, “Say, you don’t mind if I call you ‘spider’ do you?” Indeed, he looked very much like a spider with his arms and legs supporting his core, especially in that low stance. And so, he became Spider. Erik loved his nickname—it was evidence how, extremely quickly, he was one of the guys, an accepted member of the Gonzaga family, especially among his fellow football players. More importantly, it evidenced how Erik, in all his friendliness, brought out the best in everyone. Even an older student who did not know him wanted to talk to him, be his friend, give him a nickname. Erik truly was everyone’s friend—studying in the classroom, playing in the orchestra, or playing on the football and lacrosse fields. He was true to himself in each arena. But, to his Gonzaga classmates, he was simply Spider. To Erik! THE LCDR ERIK S. KRISTENSEN ‘90, USN, MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP FUND The LCDR Erik S. Kristensen ’90, USN, Memorial Scholarship Fund was established in Erik’s honor by his family, classmates, and friends. The idea for the Scholarship Fund started with Erik himself. When Erik interviewed at The Olmsted Foundation for a prestigious scholarship that he earned, the interviewer asked a very simple question: if you won the lottery, what would you do with the money? Erik’s first answer showed his love and dedication to his parents, Sam and Ed Kristensen. Erik responded that he would pay off his parents’ mortgage. Secondly, Erik said that he would establish a scholarship fund to provide tuition assistance to students at his high school alma mater whose families served in the military. As the son of a career Naval officer, Erik knew firsthand how his parents worked hard and sacrificed to send him to a school providing a premier education. Erik’s friends and family took on his goal and, in his name, made it happen. Thanks to the generosity of Erik’s family, friends, Gonzaga and Naval Academy classmates and alumni, and supporters of The Klassic, Erik’s fund was established in 2008 and fully endowed within one year of its creation. Erik’s fund has grown in the years since and now supports three students from military families. We hope that the proceeds from The Seventh Annual Klassic will allow us to fund a fourth student. To Support the Fund, Visit: kristensenklassic.com Seeing My Friend Depicted in ‘Lone Survivor’ By JOHN ISMAY I dreaded the idea of seeing my old roommate’s death depicted on screen in the movie “Lone Survivor.” But when I saw a pair of Birkenstocks walking away from the camera on the big screen, I knew someone had taken the time to get the details right. Someone really cared about this story. The actor Eric Bana plays the role of my friend, Erik Kristensen, a Navy SEAL officer killed in Afghanistan on June 28, 2005. I’d known Erik since I was a kid — he’d gone to Gonzaga College High School in Washington with my older brother Dave, and they later rowed crew together at the U.S. Naval Academy. A few years later, I followed them to Gonzaga and then rowed at the Academy, too. We’d known each other for 15 years, and we were roommates when he went through SEAL training in Coronado, Calif., and I was stationed on a destroyer across the bay in 2000. Mr. Bana said of Erik: “He’s a guy I would have gotten along with had I gotten to meet him.” A good story is in the details, and Mr. Bana himself ensured those details were included. Here’s the back story. Operation Red Wings Lt. Cmdr. Erik Kristensen was the Task Unit Commander when a SEAL mission that went terribly wrong. On this operation, 19 Americans died and only one SEAL, Petty Officer Marcus Luttrell, lived to tell the story. The movie, the book — it’s Petty Officer Luttrell’s story. His four-man SEAL team deployed to the mountainous region of Afghanistan near the Pakistan border to begin surveillance on a Taliban leader named Ahmad Shah, but their location was discovered and they were soon outnumbered by enemy fighters. On the mountaintop, the four SEALs radioed for help, and Erik personally led the response. But his helicopter was shot down before it could deploy Erik and the rescue team. The Movie I already knew the ending, and didn’t want to see the movie. But when Erik’s mom, Sam Kristensen, asked some of his friends to accompany Erik’s cousins, Jen and Allison, to see an advance screening of “Lone Survivor,” I went. You always do what a gold star mother asks. As the story progressed, an actor appeared on screen wearing utilities with the name KRISTENSEN, but of course, it wasn’t Erik. Not our Erik. But then I saw a glimpse of something that made me think of my friend. In the film, when communication with Petty Officer Luttrell’s reconnaissance team was lost, a petty officer named Shane Patton woke up Commander Kristensen — Mr. Bana — to update him on the situation. And as Mr. Bana walked away, the movie cut to a shot of his feet shuffling down the hall. He was wearing Erik’s favorite sandals: Birkenstocks. Now there are maybe a few dozen people in the world who’d see that scene and immediately grasp the significance: Erik was rarely without his Birkenstocks, and was even buried with a pair on his feet. How did that get into the movie? I wanted to know. So I emailed the production studio and ended up with a 30-minute interview with the actor. “I Really Loved That Side of Him” When asked about how he prepared for the role of playing Erik, Mr. Bana said, “There’s this fine line where you go digging for information as much as you can get in a short amount of time.” He added, “And there are a few constants in Erik’s character I loved reading about.” One of them was Erik’s humility. Despite his rank, Mr. Bana said he realized, “he didn’t take himself too seriously.” “I know that’s a common theme with Special Forces,” Mr. Bana said. “But when the time came for orders to be given, he assumed that mantle and was extremely capable. I really loved that side of him.” “The other constant was his sense of humor,” Mr. Bana continued. “He just seemed like a real interesting guy. A guy I know I would’ve gotten along with if I’d gotten the chance to meet him ” With all the research he did on Erik, Mr. Bana acknowledged that “Lone Survivor” was a movie, not a documentary. “At the end of the day, you’ve got to turn up and back your instinct that you know enough about him, but the real job now is you’ve got to do a good job as an actor,” he said. “Because we can all have these great intentions to honor everybody — and that can fail if we allow the overwhelming sense of responsibility to cloud our instincts as actors or our judgment as co-storyteller. “Fortunately, the story is so compelling, and the beats of Erik within our film are really strong.” At a premiere of “Lone Survivor” in Los Angeles, Mr. Bana met Erik’s parents: Sam, his mom, and Ed, his father, a retired two-star Navy admiral. “It was great to get a chance to meet them,” Mr. Bana said. “It meant a lot.” Mr. Bana said his research had turned up a few mentions of Erik wearing Birkenstocks, and the fact that he was even buried wearing a pair. “The day when we were shooting the scene where Patton comes and knocks on the door and wakes me up, I was telling Pete [Peter Berg, the director] the story about the Birkenstocks, and he said, ‘That’s great, let’s put you in Birkenstocks.’ So he called the props and the wardrobe department, and they got us a pair straight away.” “There’s always a way of someone showing individuality without bucking the system,” Mr. Bana said, “so a little detail can be really important.” John Ismay is a former U.S. Navy Explosive Ordnance Disposal officer and a member of Columbia Journalism School’s class of 2014. You can follow him on his blog and on Twitter. 2014 MIDSHIPMEN SPONSORS 2014 HOLE SPONSORS Frog’s Hole Josh Brady, Class of ‘90 Sean Clifford Matan, Inc. People to People Ambassador Programs Tom and Jeanette McHale Supporting a “MAN FOR OTHERS”: The Slaters of Gonzaga: Jack (‘13) & Ridge (‘15) Gonzaga Alumni Association Michael Marrion (‘90) and Family For Erik! With Love and Great Memories, Uncle Fred, Aunt Sally, Steve, Danielle, Jen, Sean, Al, and Ollie. Pablo Perez (‘90) and Americana Grocery Urgo Hotels Dr. & Mrs.Kevin Murphy and sons in celebration of Erik’s life and his inspiration to others Mrs. JoAnn V. Palmer: To Erik, a boy who loved his black cat The Boyle Family is Proud to Honor an American Hero! The Brodnik Family Jake Seher The Courses at Andrews “There is nothing like him left for gallantry and conduct in battle. It was not a foolish passion for fighting for he was the most gentle of all human creatures and often lamented the cruel necessity of it, but it was a principle of duty which all men owed their country in defense of her laws and liberty. He valued life only as it enabled him to do good, and would not preserve it by any act he thought unworthy. He is gone, and I shall lament him as long as I remain.” —Vice Admiral “Old Cuddie” Collingwood on the loss of Admiral Horatio Nelson To Support The LCDR Erik S. Kristensen ’90, USN, Memorial Scholarship Fund, visit: kristensenklassic.com