Lifetime Defining Sisterhood Moments

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Charm City Pearls members at the 2013 Retreat (photo credit: Michael Davis)
Special Edition
The Sisterhood Edition of “The Pearl” Newsletter— Issue 2
Dear Charm City Pearls,
Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart
President
Letter from the President
Happy New Year! Welcome to our second publication of “The Pearl” newsletter! Did you hear me
Sorors? Our second publication! God is so amazing and worthy to be praised for the wonderful works
and bountiful blessings He continues to bestow upon our interest group. As members of our great
sisterhood which is 260,000+ members strong, Madame Supreme Basileus—Soror Carolyn House
Stewart and Madame Regional Director—Soror Constance R. Pizarro expects each and every one of us
to carry the torch high for Global Leadership Through Timeless Service. My dear Sorors, it is with
great pride to see that you are carrying the torch in the spirit of our group’s values: Excellence,
Spirituality, and Compassion. Our programs of service continue to be successfully implemented with
substance, doors to resources continue to open for us, our relationships amongst each other and with
our Sorors in area chapters continue to blossom, and our families are growing and continue to be
blessed beyond measure. Read about all of these highlights and more in this publication of “The Pearl”.
When our group initially discussed the vision for “The Pearl”, we agreed each publication would be informative, evoke thought,
and inspire excellence in each of our members. This has continued to be our focus. During our most recent creative meeting with
Soror Annette Griffin, Editor-In-Chief, I asked her to dig deep in her talented mind and identify a topic that is very real for our
members today. The goal was to highlight a theme of discussion that we can challenge each Soror to search her heart and reflect
upon. It was also at that meeting where Soror Annette shared her personal experience in working with Soror Iyanla Vanzant’s
show “Fix My Life”, and how that self intervention resulted successfully due to the love and support shown from Sorors. In Soror
Annette’s words, “...it was my life defining sisterhood moment.”
The truth? Every Soror has a life defining sisterhood moment! It is that vivid memory and personal experience that has
shaped your heart for Alpha Kappa Alpha. I am speaking about those situations however loving, pleasant, unpleasant or
otherwise that has affected how you truly see the organization. These defining moments have either grounded you through the
years, kept you engaged or disengaged, brought you back to the sisterhood, or kept your love shining bright for Alpha Kappa
Alpha. Since we are an interest group of over 80% of reclaimed Sorors, we thought this topic would be valuable. In this special
edition of “The Pearl”, you will be blessed with true testimonials from your fellow Charm City Pearls on their personal sisterhood
moments. Kindly note, every experience shared does not have the not warm and fuzzy theme—but a real experience for those
Sorors and proved to be a milestone in their Alpha Kappa Alpha journey. All stories captured are designed to serve as a point of
self reflection and to let Sorors know that many experiences in life are shared not hidden. May each heartfelt testimonial
encourage, deliver, and strengthen your foundation in our organization. It’s a New Year Sorors! Let’s commit anew to greater
service in East Baltimore City, build upon our sisterhood experiences and create new ones, and look forward towards a bright
future. Enjoy!!
[sis•ter•hood]: 1. unity and friendship among women 2. a deep bond based on eternal
love and respect 3. solidarity and support for a lifetime
4. the foundation of a sorority.
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In this edition….
Letter from the President:
TABLE OF
Page 1
CONTENTS
Charm City Pearls Program &
Community Highlights:
Pages 4—9
2013 International Leadership
Conference & Group Retreat:
Page 10
Membership Corner:
Page 11
Special Feature:
Pages 12-19
Noteworthy:
Page 20-21
Charm City Pearls - Community Service in Action
The IVY Prep Academy is the signature service program for the Charm City Pearls Interest
Group. In partnership with the Female Intervention Team (FIT) of the Maryland Department of
Juvenile Services, the IVY Prep Academy is designed to enhance the FIT platform by
providing adjudicated female youth with mentoring, guidance, and support services. It is
based upon five core competencies, 1) mental health, 2) physical health, 3) relationships, 4)
education and 5) finance.
Since the launch of the IVY Prep Academy, participants and
their parents have attended multiple monthly workshops
designed to support the development of the five core program
competencies. Recent sessions covered topics such as
Physical and Mental Health Wellness, Financial Management,
Education and goal setting incorporating the use of Vision
Maps. At the conclusion of each session healthy snacks were
provided to all participants to encourage better eating.
Bringing the 2013 operating year to a close, the Program
Committee has reviewed the evaluations from each session to
incorporate successes and lessons learned for 2014
programs. Well done Soror Ledonnis and the IVY Prep
Academy team!
CCP!
Soror Ledonnis Hernandez
IVY Prep Academy Program Chairman
The Emerging Young Leaders (EYL) Program is one of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority,
Incorporated’s national initiatives led by Madame Supreme Basileus, Soror Carolyn House
Stewart. It is designed to impact the lives of 10,000 girls in grades six (6) through eight (8)
by providing leadership development, civic engagement, enhanced academic preparation
and character building. Charm City Pearls Interest Group has partnered with Dr. Bernard
Harris, Sr. Elementary School, Mount Washington Elementary School, and the Harriet Lane
Clinic out of Johns Hopkins Children’s Center located in East Baltimore for implementation of
the Emerging Young Leaders program.
The EYL program hosted a mega seminar titled, “How to be A Leader.” EYL participants and
fifth grade girls from Dr. Bernard Harris, Sr. Elementary School attended the seminar and
learned how they can be a leader at home, in their school, and
amongst their friends. EYL participants also worked with their
assigned mentors and attended a session titled “Living
Healthy” and participated in Omega Psi Phi Fraternity,
Incorporated ~ Lambda Gamma Gamma chapter’s Annual
Youth Leadership Conference. Some of our girls served as
CCP!
panelist for the social media forum and parents were given an
opportunity to learn how to be better guardians in the new age
Soror Renata A. Sanders
of technology. In addition, EYL participants attended a
EYL Program Chairman
seminar focused on the non-traditional career woman and
wrapped holiday gifts for a family in need. Way to go Soror Renata and the EYL
team!
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Great job this past quarter Sorors! Members are getting more involved in the community on their own
and making sure our group’s sisterhood and service continues to add value. Remember our strategy
Sorors...let’s get further embedded in our East Baltimore City communities! We continue to blaze trails
with our international programs. Many thanks to those Sorors who made a donation to Heifer
International, and beyond. At the request of the Baltimore Ravens organization, our homeless shelter
resource drive will now be a 2014 initiative. Planning will commence with AKA Baltimore City chapters
Epsilon Omega, Rho Xi Omega, and participating Divine Nine organizations in Q1 2014.
New Initiative! Charm City Pearls will partner with the Eastern Region Vice President of Alpha Phi
Alpha Fraternity, Incorporated—Mr. R. Anthony Mills, Baltimore City Greeks, and Horseshoe Casino
Baltimore on an Economic Empowerment initiative designed to provide jobs for Baltimore City
Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis
unemployed residents. More to Come!!
First Vice President—Program Chairman
Baltimore meets in New York City!
Congressman Elijah Cummings, Soror Crystal
Jones—Pearls of Promise Interest Group Mid
Atlantic Region, and Charm City Pearls
members Soror Tonja Eaton and Soror Annette
Griffin enjoying the musical “Motown”
(right) Soror E.. Francine Stokes McElveen — President,
Epsilon Omega Chapter (left) Soror Tracey Barbour Gillett—
President, Rho Xi Omega Chapter (center) Soror Joan
Wilmer-Stewart—President, Charm City Pearls Interest
Group
Members of Charm City Pearls attended Associated
Black Charities’ “Girls Night Out with Jada Pinkett
Smith”. Great job Diane Bell-McKoy and Team
ABC!
R. Anthony Mills—Eastern
Region Vice President, Alpha Phi
Alpha Fraternity, Incorporated
and Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart—
President, Charm City Pearls
Interest Group
Delta Sigma Theta Centennial Celebration! Madame Regional Director,
Soror Constance R. Pizarro, members of Theta Omega Omega chapter,
and Charm City Pearls members Soror Samantha Richards and Soror
Joan Wilmer-Stewart—President
Charm City Pearls’ EYL
participants and members from the
Charm City Pearls’ Program
Committee
Go
EYL!
50th Anniversary March On
Washington
Sorors from near and far along
with the nation celebrated the
historic event at the march and
culminated with a Prayer
Breakfast hosted by the King
Family. The keynote address
was delivered by President
Barack Obama. Pictured: MidAtlantic Regional Director—
Soror Linda H. Gilliam and area
Sorors.
Charm City Pearls’ EYL participants at
the holiday community service event
and members from Charm City Pearls
Congratulations Iota Phi Theta Fraternity, Incorporated on your 50th anniversary! Pictured: Madame Supreme
Basileus—Soror Carolyn House Stewart and members of Charm City Pearls!
Area Crab Feast Fundraisers!
We Help Each Other!
Members from Charm City Pearls at the
Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated
Baltimore County Alumnae chapter, Alpha
Kappa Alpha chapters Upsilon Epsilon
Omega and Omicron Gamma Omega Crab
Feasts
Upper Left: Charm City Pearls’ EYL participants attended Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Incorporated’s Youth Annual
Leadership Conference. Upper Right: Baltimore City Mayor—Stephanie Rawlings Blake, Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart—
President, Charm City Pearls, and Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis– First Vice President, Charm City Pearls at the Mayor’s
“Journey Home for Homeless” fundraiser. Bottom Left: Guest Speaker—Rhonda Hill and members of Charm City Pearls
at IVY Prep. Bottom Center: Soror Valerie Daniel at Black Women’s Agenda—Congressional Black Caucus. Bottom
Right: Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart at Black Women’s Agenda with Susan L. Taylor, Dr. Michael Eric Dyson, and attendees.
Below: Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart at Black Women’s Agenda with the National President of The Links, Incorporated—
Margot James Copeland.
Charm City Pearls received a surprise donation from corporate partner, Morgan Stanley, in the amount of
$500 in support of their service programs. We appreciate the blessing! Go CCP!!
This holiday season Charm City Pearls served the community in a mighty way! We sponsored a family of six
whose matriarch was recently incarcerated; partnered with our Sorors in Rho Xi Omega chapter on a service
program gifting and feeding foster children at the Children’s Guild; and, contributed canned foods to the Bea
Gaddy Family Center. Way to go Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis– First Vice President/Program Chairman and
the Program Committee for your excellent leadership in organizing these valuable programs of service.
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International Leadership Conference 2013
Membership Retreat 2013
“Today, I am part of a greater community. I am not alone.
I take my place in the web of sisterhood. I am responsible
for myself and for my sisters. I affirm the better part of
me, step into my greatness, and OWN it. Today, I go to the
rock and help another sister, along the journey.”
~ Michelle Madrid Branch
The Charm City Pearls 2013 Retreat was fantastic!! Kudos
to Soror Lyn Nasir and Soror Nina
McFadden for doing a super job!
Membership Corner
Looking forward to 2014 Sorors, and all the new memories that will be made! We worked well and we worked hard
this year and our bonds continue to be strengthened. Many thanks to those Sorors who attended and/or facilitated
any of our Sisterly Relations activities and the Membership Committee for their continued support. Again,
congratulations to our 2013 Soror Spotlight Award Winners. These Sorors Rock!!
Soror Tonja Eaton
Second Vice President—
Membership Chairman
Spirited
Sisterhood Award
Soror Lyn Nasir
D.I.V.A Award
Passion for Programs
Exceptional
Soror Jala McClelland Leadership Award
Award
Soror Renata Sanders
Soror Tonja Eaton
Charm City Pearls Leaders were honored
by Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart—President,
at the annual leadership dinner for their
sisterliness, leadership, commitment and
sacrifice. Soror Leaders were gifted with a
catered dinner that was prepared by a
private chef from Flemings Steakhouse. It
was truly a beautiful evening.
Prayer Corner
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To Soror Jala McClelland on her new Regional Marketing position with a
property management company. She is responsible for the entire east coast 
in this new role.
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To Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis on her new position as Director of Clinical 
Operations for Glass Mental Health. She is responsible for eight drug
treatment programs in the state of Maryland.
To Soror Tonja Anderson on her new management position within the
medical industry. She is responsible for overseeing a region of business.
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To our President—Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart, who was recently appointed
to the Board of Directors for Norfolk State University Foundation, and also
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named Vice President of Human Resources for Caesars Entertainment—
Horseshoe. Soror Joan will oversee the hiring of 1,700+ jobs in Baltimore— 
$442 million dollar project and historically one of the largest investments in
Baltimore City.
Madame Regional Director, Soror Constance
R. Pizarro on the healing of her knee and
traveling mercies as she moves throughout the
Region
Former Supreme Basileus, Soror Norma
Solomon White on the loss of her mother
Former Supreme Basileus, Soror Barbara
McKenzie on the loss of her mother
Soror Renata Sanders on the loss of her
Mother In-Law
Soror Audrey Bennett for the health recovery of
her mother
Soror Lyn Nasir on the loss of her loved one
Soror Kiahnna Patton for the health recovery of
her father
Soror Michelle Dawson for the health recovery
of her knee
Soror Jala McClelland for the loss of her
grandmother
Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis for the loss of
her loved one
Soror Yvonne Horton for speedy recovery post
surgery
Soror Nina McFadden for speedy recovery post
surgery
Feature Special Edition
The Centennial Boule was one moment in time full of “sisterhood at its best”
moments. It gave us an opportunity to look back at our great history and look
forward to the wonderful legacy that we are creating. The picture that I have
chosen is of me and the late Mary Shy Scott, 23rd International President at the
Significant South Atlantic Regional Conference. She epitomized “sisterhood at its
best.” ~ Soror Kimberly Hankerson, CCP
I love this picture. It was from one of my first Boules, Indianapolis 1994. I will
always treasure this moment with our 23rd International President, Soror Mary
Shy Scott. She was a consummate epitome of sisterly love, grace and
leadership.” ~ Soror Tonja Eaton, CCP
A dream becoming reality:
The Directors of the nonprofit CALE Now! have a passion for service and experiencing
the world. This common interest led us to join forces to start an organization with the
mission to afford young people who would not otherwise have the means, the
opportunity to learn about the world cultures and arts, build leadership skills and a
sense of social responsibility, and to travel internationally so that they can create
positive change on a global scale. Community work has strengthened our sisterhood
bond .
~ Soror Kiahnna Patton, CCP
On this day, my 20th AKAversary with my line sisters in 2010, I was reminded of
what true sisterhood is about. Through our 20 years of being Alpha Kappa Alpha
women, we may not have seen each other a lot due to Sorors moving, getting
married, having children, building careers, and/or furthering educational goals. We
even we lost one, sadly, to God's Heavenly gates. But on this day I was reminded
that we will forever share a bond that no one else can ever share and that we took
the Alpha Kappa Alpha journey TOGETHER. Through good and bad we did it
TOGETHER. That will be with me forever because it was with them that I started
my life in Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated.
~ Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis, CCP
The picture I submitted is of Soror Lundi Carter and I sometime around 1999-2000. Lundi,
pictured in the green sweater taught me the meaning of being connected to this sisterhood
beyond "destinations" around the plot. We taught together, rode to work together when I did not
have a car, and struggled through our Master's degree program together. We shared our
struggles with growing into professionals as well as women. We shared hopes, fears, and
struggles. More importantly for me, I trusted her with what means the most to me-my daughters!
~ Soror Robin Banks, CCP
After completing my undergraduate studies, I moved to DC for a job opportunity at Claims
Administration Corporation in Rockville, MD. I also quickly became a member of the Xi Omega
Chapter in Washington, DC. My former graduate chapter, Lambda Omega, always impressed
upon my entire undergraduate chapter the importance of service and continued financial obligation
to move the sisterhood's targets, themes, and thrusts forward. I will never forget the first time I
saw her in person. There she set on the front row of the Xi Omega Center.
I could not believe my eyes. I was looking at "LIVING HISTORY". I was in the same room with
the author of our History Books. I was in the same room with our 15th Supreme Basileus, Soror
Marjorie Holloman Parker!! I remember that I went to my seat and cried like a baby. I could not
believe my eyes. My heart was filled with joy, surprise and fear. WOW! I read about this woman
of power. I studied her words and took them to heart. After I pulled myself together, I introduced
myself. Her kinds eyes met mine and she gently said, “Hello Soror Sam.” I don't remember what
happened next. I think I passed out. LOL Throughout the years, she took me under her wing. I
truly understood why I wanted to become a member of this great sisterhood. She was a blessing
to me. She was a blessing to the world. This picture was taken December 8, 1993 - The First
Boyd/Ferebee Tribute Award sponsored by the Xi Omega Chapter. I was blessed to be one of the
speakers that Beautiful day.
~ Soror Samantha RDL Richards, CCP
A great defining moment! Being able to celebrate being a Soror with my mother and
grandmother on a special day like my mother’s graduation. After she had struggled
through my father’s illness and death, we were able to celebrate her finishing her doctorate
degree. And, oh are we proud of that Soror ~ Soror Renata Sanders, CCP
I remember the day I became an AKA. I was so excited as I finally accomplished what had been in my heart for a long time.
After the luncheon, I saw some of my co-initiates huddled together outside of the venue. I ventured over to them as it
appeared they were discussing something serious. When I arrived at their circle they immediately disbursed, as if I had
brought some bad energy. Of course, this hurt my feelings tremendously because in my mind “we are sisters now.” I later
found out that those Sorors were a part of a circle that I was not invited into. I was confused as to why I received that
reaction. I cannot begin to tell you how hurt I was for years over that experience. I knew there had to be better, and it was
not good for me to harbor such hurt. It wasn't until the Centennial Celebration (10 years later) when I decided to be active. I
wanted to share the centennial experience with my mother who is also an AKA. The Centennial Boule was my first Boule,
and I learned so much about our sisterhood and service. I recommitted myself to the organization at that conference. It was
then that I finally realized that my commitment and our purpose was much bigger than a single experience, and it was
expressed and shown to me that the sorority needs all of us. My experience in CCP has continued to build upon that
momentum. I have learned so much with this group, and embraced more than I could ever imagine. I almost feel like I just
became a Soror for the first time. I thank God for healing my heart. I am sure each of us will experience a moment or two of
disappointment with a Soror, but it does not stop the show. I have matured greatly from that experience, and I love God for
placing me in it. Today, I am a stronger and wiser Soror. Over the years I have learned it is the greater of our sisterhood,
service and purpose that truly matters.
~ Soror Sweet Revelation, CCP
I remember the day I left home to start my journey at Norfolk State University. It was a very hard and fearful
day being that I was the first in my family to leave home and the first to go to college. Growing up my family
did not have much so my mother could only afford to rent a van for a day to carry my things. We journeyed
to Norfolk, Virginia and arrived at 4:45PM. If you attended an HBCU, you know there is no chance the
administrative office will take time to service you at 4:45PM when the offices close at 5:00PM. My mother
and sisters were very upset and were at a lost for what to do. The van was only rented for a day, and my
mother couldn't afford a night’s stay at any hotel. My mother suggested that we take a ride around the city
and get something to eat. We came across a hair salon close to the campus, and my mother suggested that
we stop to view the establishment. For the life of me I didn't understand why my mother wanted to see this
hair salon but Pastor Wilmer is a spirit-led woman so I went with the flow. Inside, we met the owner who
shared she had a sister who worked at Norfolk State University. She called her sister who then agreed to
come down to the salon. A half hour later this beautiful woman walks in with a pink suit and a big pink hat,
and her husband who wore a “Bill Cosby sweater” and a Kangol hat. This is the day I met Dr. Bertha T.
Escoffery and Dr. Aubrey Escoffery. They offered to take me in for the night, assist me in registering for
classes, and to check me into the dorms. I was so surprised that my mother had peace about me going with
this couple, but I guess the spirit was continuing to lead her. I couldn't believe this well-to-do couple wanted
to spend time with little ‘ol Joan. They even took me to Wal-Mart that evening to purchase things that I did
not have to ensure my preparedness for school. Dr. Bertha Escoffery secured a work study assignment for
me in her office so I could have money for school (she was the Dean of International Studies). It was during
my time working for her that I was exposed to Alpha Kappa Alpha, an organization I knew nothing about. Dr.
Escoffery would even have me type her chapter reports. Iota Omega, the chapter she was/is a member of,
provided me with multiple scholarships so I could stay in school, assisted me on buying my first suit, and
gave me the confidence to be the AKA I am today. Dr. Escoffery, or should I say Soror Escoffery, was my
Graduate Advisor. I tell many others my mother taught me a lot of things but I am also grateful for the
leadership and confidence Dr. Escoffery and Iota Omega Sorors gifted me at the age of 17 and beyond.
Through the years God continued to bless me with other Soror Angels/Mothers/Mentors; and, those Sorors
who I have admired and watched from afar who helped to define my lifetime sisterhood moments. There is
my co-initiates from the Delta Epsilon Chapter—Norfolk State University, my first course in Sisterhood 101.
Soror Doris R. Asbury, Former Mid-Atlantic Regional Director who gave me my first regional leadership
appointment and who taught me how to be fierce but classy. The late Soror Linda M. White, 26th Supreme
Basileus who gave me my first international appointment and was another mother to me. Soror Erma Barron,
Former North Atlantic Regional Director , my trusted moment of truth when I needed it the most. Soror C.
Edith Booker, Former North Atlantic Regional Director, a leadership trainer especially on the topic of resilient
leadership. Soror Mary Conner, my Soror-mentor and praying mother who makes sure I am always taken
care of from day to day. Soror Mattelia B. Grays, 18th Supreme Basileus, the one who puts the “P” in
passion and protocol. Soror Eva L. Evans, 24th Supreme Basileus, excellent teacher of sisterly grace.
Soror Ayisha Dabre and Soror Michelle Dawson, my best Soror friends forever (enough said). And Soror
Norma S. White, 25th Supreme Basileus (whom I believe Soror Linda sent from heaven to me) my voice of
reason, Rock Star, and cheerleader who encourages me to blaze new trails. It is because of them that I
work so hard for our service and sisterhood. At my highs and my lows they continue to pour into me and they
are the queens of the phrase “never give up!” I will always appreciate how they have and
continue to bless my life and will forever be grateful for their nurturing love and honest
support. They are the epitome of Alpha Kappa Alpha’s beauty and leadership power.
~ Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart, CCP
You Never Know Your Soror’s Story: by Soror Annette Griffin
As Black Women, we manage to exhibit strength at all times. Our marriage could be crumbling but we smile in the midst of the
pain. We could have lost a loved one but we still know how to share a laugh. We may have lost our jobs but we still try our best
to provide for our families. We have learned how to do it all no matter what is going on in our world.
We have also learned how NOT to talk about the stuff that affects us. My mother’s generation was taught to go to the grave with
family secrets. Talking about them made you face them and what was the point in that? When my mom, sister and I filmed, “Fix
My Broken Mom” in February 2013, we did not know what we were getting into. We knew that my mom had been holding back
and did not want to share about her childhood, which was the reason why we wrote to the show. Talking to her was like talking
to a brick wall… we got nowhere, fast! But my sister and I longed to have a better relationship with our mother, even if we had to
go through pain to experience joy.
Through the process, we learned that while our mother allowed us to be physically, mentally, verbally and emotionally abused,
she was sexually abused by a close family friend. She learned how not to be a mother because my grandmother was not a
mother to her. Pathology! I had no idea that my mom went through something like that. My mom’s confession birthed compassion in my heart. I saw her in a different light. I looked at her through a different lens. My resentment turned into sadness and
sympathy. I never would have known her story if we hadn’t gone through this process.
Sorors, you never know your Soror’s story. You do not know what their childhood was like. You do not know what it took for
them to make it to a meeting. You do not what they have waiting for them once they leave. Our meetings and sisterly relations
may be the only time that they laugh and smile. A hug from a Soror may be the only time they feel loved. A thank you from a
Soror may be the only time they feel appreciated. A text message checking on them may be the only time they feel like someone
thought of them.
Before you start to judge a Soror or be upset by her actions, say a prayer and ask God to check you and soften your heart. Ask
Him to give you more patience. If you know of a Soror in need, ask God to increase the compassion on your heart so that you
can do your part to help her. We help each other for we know there is no other like our Sisterhood! Sorors, let’s do better! Let’s
be better! Let’s act better! Let’s exhibit excellence, spirituality and compassion at all time! We are all blessed. Let’s take time to
be a better Soror to our Sorors. We are sisters in Christ first. Let our actions always show the love that our Lord and Savior
shows to us even when we do not deserve it.
My big sister, Kimberly is more than my sister and Soror. She is the only person on this earth
who understands me. She was the only person who was there during the roughest part of life.
She is my angel and the other half of my heart.
~ Soror Annette Griffin, CCP
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This is a picture of my co-initiates (not all pictured) celebrating 1 year of being in
the sisterhood - toooo excited! I just want to use this quote. I love these girls and
honestly some I couldn't imagine not living without :-)
The quote sums us up because we have to work on our bond EVERY DAY.. and
"some" of us do.
5-TPO-08
"I don't believe an accident of birth makes people sisters or brothers. It
makes them siblings, gives them mutuality of parentage. Sisterhood and
brotherhood is a condition people have to work at." ~ Maya Angelou.
~ Soror Jala McClelland, CCP
In the summer of 2009, God allowed me to go through a storm that I thought
would honestly turn my world upside down. I had decided to close a private
practice that I had dreamed of starting. It was a difficult time for many reasons. It produced fear, doubt, and many, many, feelings of defeat.
Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart, a Soror with a huge heart, would oftentimes call
to offer words of support, encouragement, motivation, and simply
put......sisterly love.
One day, I was feeling quite low and Soror Joan called requesting I meet her
for an afternoon outing. Not feeling my best, I expectedly declined. She insisted I change my mind because of the emotional place I was in at that very moment. I continued to respectfully decline. She became so adamant that her next message was "Either you come willingly or I will be there to pick you up
shortly". I gave in and said yes!! I was summoned to a salon for a manicure and pedicure. When I got there, in addition to Soror Joan there was another Soror there. I didn't think anything of it. Well, about 10 minutes later, another Soror appeared and then another and then in comes a member of Delta Sigma Theta. Then, Soror Joan's phone started
ringing but the calls were for me. On the other end were mutual friends offering uplifting words and laughter who informed me they couldn't "make it", but wanted to let me know they were in my corner. All of this was arranged by Soror Joan for the mere purpose of supporting her fellow Soror who was at a low point. I went home that evening in total
amazement and with extreme validation that I joined the right Sorority; Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated!! We
sing........."we help each other", but Soror Joan demonstrated that for me to the nth degree. I often share this story
when I speak about the sisterliness of AKA because it has been forever etched in my heart and spirit.
As a result of her loving outreach, I was able to remain hopeful and gain confidence daily. It sure helps when you
know someone has your back!!
Thank you Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart for demonstrating the love of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated.
~ Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis, CCP
The Vine of Sisterhood: by Soror Jala McClelland
I started thinking about what those three points on the ivy meant to all of us as Sorors and why founder Soror Ethel Hedgeman
Lyle chose it. Of course what do we know of the ivy leaf is that it’s an “ornamental” plant and it makes things look “pretty”. The
most common thing that we know of the ivy is that it clings together and attaches itself to surfaces. It’s also a very strong plant,
can withstand the harshest of winters, doesn’t need much sunlight to grow and can live to a considerable age.
Our Sisterhood, demands us to cling to each other, we have withstood the harshest of storms and yet even in absence of light,
the sisterhood amongst each has continued to grow. We are doing this all while still continuing to be “pretty”.
Yes the ivy leaf will fool you if you aren’t on your toes. It’s definitely not just a pretty plant to look at because there is a dark side
to the ivy. It’s considered an “invasive” plant. If left unchecked, it can be an aggressive invader and will threaten vegetation levels, it will block sunlight from reaching other plants. The vines will climb up tree trunks, and cover trunks and branches and can
literally strangle a tree to death within years. The weight of the vines can make infested trees weak and susceptible to blow over
during storms.
Sorors, let’s not allow our own personal agendas, attitudes, and other negative behavior, allow the “dark side” of the ivy to penetrate our sisterhood. Let’s all be the “ivies” we were called, challenged and were meant to be. Let’s not forget the three points of
the ivy we vowed to uphold. Remembering the badge we wear closest to our hearts......
Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed here represent my own and not those of anyone else.. it was just something on
my heart.
In search of that moment: by Soror Candace Y.A. Montague (guest writer)
I wish I could say that I have had a single defining lifetime sisterhood moment but it hasn’t occurred just yet. That’s not a dig
against my chapter, co-initiates, or the women who brought me into the sisterhood. I just cannot narrow it down to one experience. Alpha Kappa Alpha has introduced me to some amazing Black women. These sorors are so wonderful that I can honestly
say that if we weren’t sorors we would still be very close friends. I have spent numerous hours serving the community in ways that
have left me relishing in joy for days. Still singling out a moment or experience in time that pinpointed my commitment to this illustrious sisterhood escapes me. Perhaps I am not the only one who feels this way. Many of our lost pearls have become disconnected from the ivy vine and need a little help with this question.
So how does one identify the lifetime sisterhood moment? There are few possible scenarios for this. The moment during a chapter meeting or conference when you look up and know that that you are exactly where you are supposed to be. The time you realize you simply can’t serve another organization with such enthusiasm and energy the way you do Alpha Kappa Alpha. It could be
that moment when you realized that there is someone who had your back when the world showed you theirs. Maybe it’s the time
when someone in the sorority hurt you and yet you found the strength to not only forgive that soror but to continue stand by and
defend this sisterhood regardless. Ahhh…..this sorority of ours is unique, isn’t it? You never know what moment will make the
difference for you.
The defining moment has not yet revealed itself to me but I am a patient woman. Alpha Kappa Alpha, the greatest sisterhood in
the universe, is worth the wait. Maybe I’m the lucky one. I have many years of defining moments ahead of me. I have a feeling
that the best is yet to come.
Soror Candace Y.A. Montague (guest writer)
Iota Lambda Omega Chapter
Howard County, Maryland
Lifetime Defining Sisterhood Moments—Photos
Noteworthy
Congratulations Soror Ebony Lewis on the launch of your non-profit,
Miss Believe, a mentoring program for at risk girls. You rock Executive
Director!
Happy Birthday Madame Regional
Director, Soror Constance R. Pizarro
Sisterly hugs and congratulations to our Sorors
in the Xi Omega, Rho Mu Omega, and Rho Xi
Omega chapters on their recent milestone
celebrations. We are proud of you Sorors, and
we hope to follow your success. May God
continue to bless your service!
Congratulations Soror Tonya Anderson on
running your marathon in Puerto Rico! You
are a Soror that Rocks!
Which CCP Soror
is pictured below?
The year is 1974
Noteworthy
IVY BEYOND THE WALL
We mourn the loss of our 16th Supreme Basileus,
Soror Julia Brogdon Purnell
We love you Soror Julia!
Sorors, please keep the family in your prayers.
Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated
Charm City Pearls Interest Group
P.O. Box 22385
Baltimore, MD 21203
www.akaeastbaltimore.com
Facebook: AKA East Baltimore
Twitter: AKA_EastBmore
Soror Annette Griffin
“The Pearl” Editor-in-Chief
Charm City Pearls Members
Missing: Soror LaKisha Greenwade, Soror Allison Lavender, Soror Robin Banks, Soror Michelle Hill, Soror
Desiree Greene, Soror Kimberly Hankerson, Soror Valerie Daniel, Soror Audrey Bennett, Soror Nina McFadden,
and Soror Tyesha Young
Charm City Pearls—Officers
President
Soror Joan Wilmer-Stewart
Chaplain & Parliamentarian
Soror Samantha Richards
First Vice President
Program Chairman
Soror Roshonda Contee-Davis
Sergeant-At-Arms & Historian
Soror Lyn Nasir
Second Vice President
Membership Chairman
Soror Tonja Eaton
Recording Secretary
Soror Michelle Dawson
Assistant Recording Secretary
& Financial Secretary
Soror Ebony Lewis
Correspondence Secretary
Soror Annette Griffin
Business Manager
Soror Valerie Daniel
Treasurer
Soror Ledonnis Hernandez
Hostess
Soror Jala McClelland
Member-At-Large
Soror Deirdra Chester
Reporter
Soror Erin Logan
The Inaugural Edition of “The Pearl” Newsletter — Issue 1 | PAGE 22
North Atlantic Regional Director
Soror Constance R. Pizarro

Lifetime Defining Sisterhood Moments

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