May 2007
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May 2007
Web Site: www.NDCSW.org Lantern North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare, Inc., -- P.O. Box 2209, Minot, ND 58702-2209 MAY 2007 President's Report The year is progressing quickly. The 2007 legislative session is a memory. Social welfare related directors, lobbyists, advocates and other interested parties now find themselves with extra time in their days! Too quickly, that time will be devoured by the issues and pressures of ‘normal workdays’ as we all scurry about to improve life for the people in North Dakota. September will be a great time to take a breather from the pressures created by balancing home, work and community. The fall conference is September 19 - 21. 2007. Mark these dates on your calendar and allow Minot to educate, entertain and bring some balance into your lives. As the host city, Minot always has a flavor of community involvement and Minot pride is evident in the donations and price reductions offered by city merchants. Each of us is truly a guest when in Minot. The Program Committee has an outstanding agenda planned with a total of 12.75 social work credits available. Two Wednesday afternoon sessions will be available. Children of Incarcerated Parents will be held from 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM. The cost of this session is included in the full registration and available at a separate cost of $30.00 if you are unable to attend the entire conference. A session entitled Taking Care of Ourselves & Come on Down is scheduled from 2:00 to 4:30 PM on Wednesday afternoon. Designed for administrative professionals in all areas, it is included in the full registration and is available separately for $20.00. I look forward to seeing each of you this fall and encourage you to bring a co-worker that is new to the social welfare arena or has not had the opportunity to experience the flavor of this valuable organization. "Everyone of us gets through the tough times because somebody is there, standing in the gap to close it for us". Every Day is a Winding Road The 2007 Program Committee is off to an exciting start. We have a team of 12 committee members who have put enormous effort into designing a program that will have in-depth content and something to offer for everyone. The Program Committee was directly involved in a few of the overall goals for the 2007 Conference including increasing membership, securing at least 10.5 CEUs, applying for CEUs in multiple disciplines and recruiting at least one committee member who has never served on a committee in the past. The program committee is pleased to report that we are offering 12.75 CEUs for the Fall 2007 Conference in Minot. We are applying to 4 additional boards for CEUs and have initiated discussion with the Wraparound Re-certification program to access credits. We have 6 committee members who have never been on a NDCSW committee and some have never attended the conference before. The six new committee members bring with them new energy, new ideas and a desire to rekindle the spirit of NDCSW. The Program Committee is expanding advertising for the conference with the expectation that attendance will increase. The 2007 NDCSW Conference “Every Day is a Winding Road” will be held in Minot at the Grand International Inn. The conference begins with two pre-conference sessions starting on Wednesday afternoon. Track A will consist of a workshop specifically designed for Administrative Professionals in all areas. Donna Marsland, a public speaker and former educator, will begin at 2 pm with a session titled “Don’t Eat the Burnt Toast and Other Life Lessons” which will take a look at how we tend to take care of others and not always ourselves. She uses humor get away from being too hard on ourselves. In the second session, public speaker Sue Hamilton will use her high energy to entertain and create enthusiasm in her own version of “Come On Down”. This fun interactive session set in a game show atmosphere will look at complex issues of daily life. You may even win some prizes!!! Track B will provide a unique opportunity to address the needs of Children of Incarcerated Parents. Ann Adalist-Estrin, Director of the National Resource Center on Children and Families of the Incarcerated, comes to us from Pennsylvania. Ann has authored an extensive list of articles and books regarding mentoring and responding to Children of Incarcerated Parents. Ann will focus on Ages and Stages of children and adolescents when they are present for their parent’s arrest, when their parent is in prison and when their parent is re-entering the community. Ann will further describe the Children’s Bill of Rights. Wednesday evening is going to provide humor with content. Bruce Christopher, a psychologist, humorist and keynote speaker, will be opening the conference and pro- vide the general session on Thursday morning. His theme is “Laugh ‘til you cry. Learn ‘til you change.” Bruce’s first session will discuss leadership issues and is tilted “It’s Hard To Lead The Charge If You Think You Look Funny On A Horse!” The following morning his session is titled “Bambi VS. Godzilla” and involves working with difficult people in any setting. He is an international and Fortune 500 speaker and we are very excited to have the opportunity to bring Bruce Christopher to you. Thursday mid-morning and early afternoon will be filled with some incredible concurrent sessions. Sue Hamilton will be presenting “Who are You ?? Your Telephone Personality” which looks at how consumers perceive the agency you work for by your basic telephone skills. Bruce Reeves, a professor at the University of North Dakota will present on the topic of adolescent sexuality specific to gay, lesbian and bisexual adolescents. Tim Teig and Captain Aaron Krenz are involved with a program called “Beyond the Yellow Ribbon” where they train communities to work with soldiers returning from Iraq and their families. The specific issues with reintegration from war affect not only the soldier and their family but also their community, place of employment, schools, etc. Dave Ellingson, Director of Quentin Burdick Job Corps Center will discuss their specific program that can assist adolescents working towards independent living. Janelle Regimbal, social worker from Grand Forks, addresses a topic called “Sandwich Generation”. Her topic involves the multi-generational situation many adults find themselves in today where they are taking care of a younger and older generations of family members. Our final speaker for the closing session on Friday morning is well known to many in rural and farming areas. We are pleased to present to you Val Farmer, a psychologist formerly from Fargo now living in Missouri. He has been a newspaper columnist since 1984 and a weekly guest on the national radio call-in program “AgriTalk News Network”. Dr. Farmer’s specialty is family relationships and rural mental health where he writes newspaper columns that are distributed through the United States and Canada. Dr. farmer will be doing a concurrent session on Thursday afternoon titled “Maintaining a Healthy Marriage in a High Stress Profession’. The topic for Friday morning’s closing session will be on stress in farm and rural families. As you can see we have a full schedule for all conference participants. We set out to design a program that would be interesting and fun, but also incorporate in-depth content to the sessions. By providing the high quality sessions from both in-state and out-of-state speakers, we anticipate a tremendous program for all who attend the 2007 NDCSW Conference. Wednesday, September 19, 2007 1:00 - 5:00 4 CEU's General Workshop Ann Adalist-Estrin (Pennysylvania) — Children of Incarcerated Parents 2:00 - 4:30 NO CEU's General Workshop for Administrative Professionals Donna Marsland (Minot) — Don't Eat The Burnt Toast And Other Life Lessons Sue Hamilton (Minot) — Come On Down 7:00 - 9:00 Open Session 7:45 - 9:00 1.75 CEU's Keynote Speaker — Bruce Christopher (Minneapolis) — It's Hard To Lead The Charge If you Think You Look Funny On A Horse Thursday, September 20, 2007 8:15 - 10:00 1.75 CEU's General Session Bruce Christopher (Minneapolis) — Bambi vs. Godzilla Breakout Sessions 10:30 - 12:00 1.5 CEU's Sue Hamilton (Minot) — What's Your Telephone Personality? Bruce Reeves (Minnesota) — Adolescent Sexuality Tim Teig (Fargo) and Cpt. Aaron Krenz (Minnesota) Beyond the Yellow Ribbon Dave Ellington (Minot) — Job Corps Path To Independent Living 1:30 - 3:00 1.5 CEU's Val Farmer (Missouri) — Healthy Marriage in High Stress Profession Janelle Regimbal (Grand Forks) — Sandwich Generation Tim Teig (Fargo & Capt. Aaron Krenz) (Minnesota) Beyond the Yellow Ribbon Friday, September 21, 2007 8:30 - 10:30 General Session 2 CEU's Val Farmer (Missouri) — Farm Family Relationships And Stress Total CEU's = 12.75 Local Arrangements The Local Arrangement Committee has been planning an exciting adventure for participants of the 2007 Fall Conference - “Every Day Is A Winding Road”. Wednesday night entertainment will be NDCSW’s own version of “Deal Or No Deal”. Every Conference participant will have a chance to be "the contestant" and every participant will have a chance to win prizes. The banker is getting ready to make a deal and the lovely ladies are getting ready to open their cases. The Grand International Inn will be providing a wine and cheese social. Everyone is invited to stay after the opening session and enjoy good food and creative entertainment. Thursday at noon, Minot’s Quentin Burdick Job Corps Center will be providing, at no cost to the conference participants, transportation, lunch, and a tour of the Job Corp Center. Lunch consists of a full service menu including a salad bar, fry line, two entrées, dessert, and beverage. Choice entertainment will be provided prior to the Thursday evening awards banquet with the Magic City Campus String Ensemble. Also providing entertainment during the banquet will be the Minot’s finest Nodakords Barbershop Quartet Chorus. The dance on Thursday evening will feature the band Feedback. They will entertain us with not only current rock and roll tunes, but also songs of the 50’s and 60’s like “I love Rock and Roll” and “Proud Mary.” The Friday morning Awards Brunch will feature the mellow sounds of Justin Johnson on his soprano saxophone. The block of rooms at the Grand International Inn is full. If you have not yet made accommodations for the Conference, rooms are available at the Super Eight, 701-852-1817, Guest Lodge, 701852-5600, or the Select Inn, 701-852-3411, which are all located on North Hill near the Conference headquarters. Conference members or potential attendees may contact CoChairs Dan Richter or Cleo Berven at Ward County Social Services, 701-857-0700 or 701-857-0701, or by e-mail at [email protected]. Individuals needing accommodations are requested to contact the local arrangements committee as soon as possible. We hope to see all of you at the Fall Conference in Minot, at the Grand International Inn, September 19, 20, and 21, 2007. Dan Richter & Cleo Berven Co-Chairs Local Arrangements Committee News from the Research, Planning and Legislative Committee... The RP&L Committee met weekly, every Friday at noon, during the legislative session. Each week we had 10 – 20 people from various agencies and lobbying groups in attendance. Tom Tupa, the bill tracker for NDCSW, led the meeting reviewing that legislative week and previewing the House and Senate calendars for the upcoming week. The strength of this committee was its diverse membership and the experience and knowledge of the members. Each member had their own areas of interest and was looked to as the “authority” on certain pieces of legislation. Many different bills were of interest to the committee; however, the Department of Human Services budget bill (SB2012) was the one everyone kept a close eye on because so many social welfare needs are covered in the Department’s budget. This bill made its way through the policy committees of both houses and passed the Senate with a $1.8 billion appropriation. Amendments by both the majority and minority parties floated around. Once the bill passed in both houses, it was referred to a Conference Committee for resolution. Senator Tom Fischer chaired this committee, with Representative Chet Pollert leading the Republicans on the House side. Other senators on the conference committee included Senators Tim Mattern and Ralph Kilzer, while other House members included Representatives Larry Bellew and Ralph Metcalf. This committee met until the last week of the session and the bill finally passed through both houses on Tuesday April 24th. Highlights of this bill are still being sorted out; however the following are a few of the items of interest to social welfare: • The ADL (activity of daily living) added to the SPED program was eliminated and funding replaced. • $100 increase in the fee paid to counties for child abuse and neglect assessments. • A 4% increase 7/1/07 and a 5% increase 7/1/08 for all Medicaid providers. • Continuing eligibility of Medicaid for children. • An increase in the percentage of income for 133% of poverty for all children ages 6 – 19 if federal law permits. • Extension of the TANF Pro Work child care assistance from three months to six months. • QSP rate increases Other bills of interest include: • Child Support becomes state administered effective July 1, 2007. Touted as a “property tax relief” bill, this will transfer about $5.3 million in costs from the counties to the state in the upcoming biennium and a projected $9 million in costs from the counties to the state in the 2009-211 biennium. • Early Childhood licensing quality improvement rating system and incentives provided for child care providers to access training. • Opt out of the Merit System bill allows any county that wishes to move toward creating a Merit System. Property tax relief was a hot topic among legislators and constituents. HB 1051 was the property tax relief bill that placed caps on levies by taxing district. The “caps” part of this bill was opposed by city and county officials because it would have “tied the hands” of local government to respond to foreseen and unforeseen needs. The property tax cap started out at 3.5%, was amended to 5% and eventually, this bill was defeated and some of its components were amended into SB 2032. Legislators came into the session committed to make property tax relief a priority and the final result was a compromise between many factions. Those interested in the issues raised by the Shared Parenting initiated measure that failed in the general election last year may be interested in two House resolutions. HR 3004 was to study child custody, visitation and child support to determine if the state should pursue non-adversarial alternatives. This study resolution was adopted by the House but failed in the Senate. HR 3008 calls for a study on the issues of fairness, equity, and best interest of children as they relate to issues of child custody and visitation. This study resolution was adopted by both the House and the Senate. In addition to tracking legislation, the RP&L Committee spent time at a recent meeting looking a couple of issues that afflict many organizations; leadership development and mentorship. The leadership question came up when someone on the committee asked, “Where are the young people?” There was much discussion on this question and the consensus was to bring this issue to the attention of the NDCSW Executive Board and for each member of the RP&L committee to look at mentoring opportunities within their organizations. The status and outcome of bills can be checked on the Legislative web site at: www.legis.nd.gov/ Submitted by: Shari Doe, Chair Research, Planning and Legislative Committee SISTER DONNA JEAN CHAPUT MEMORIAL AWARD The North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare is pleased to announce the establishment of the Sister Donna Jean Chaput Memorial Award. Sister Donna Jean, who was an integral part of the NDCSW for many years, passed away February 2, 2002. The award recipient will receive $250 in the form of a donation to the charity of their choice. The annual Sister Donna Jean Chaput Memorial Award will be presented to an individual whose work ethic is reflected in the criteria listed below: 1) The individual must be someone who has been directly involved in the delivery of “social welfare-related services” for 5 years or more in North Dakota. 2) The individual has integrated spiritual values into the delivery of these services. 3) The individual should be someone who has exhibited high personal and professional standards. 4) The individual should be someone who has exhibited a commitment to work collaboratively with other staff/agencies in the provision of services. 5) Nominees may come from pastoral care workers, parish nurses or ministry staff, Salvation Army staff, hospice staff, cancer program staff, social workers, lay persons, volunteers, medical staff, nursing home employees, etc. Nominations must be submitted to the Awards Committee Chairperson by 9-1-07 at the address listed below: Joann Jochim, Co-Chair NDCSW Awards Committee Morton County Social Services 200 2nd Ave NW Mandan ND 58554-3124 [email protected] (701) 667-3395 NDCSW Nominations for Ruth Meiers Award The NDCSW annually selects a recipient of the Ruth Meiers Award. This award was established in honor of the late Lt. Governor Ruth Meiers. This award is to recognize an individual who has demonstrated an outstanding contribution to the disadvantaged in North Dakota. Criteria for the award is: 1. The individual must be a resident of the State of North Dakota. 2. The individual must have made an outstanding contribution in addressing human needs. 3. The contribution will have had a definable positive impact on the lives of the people. 4. The contribution may have been on a local, regional or state level. Nominations must include a written summary of the individual achievement and the effect of those achievements on behalf of the disadvantaged. Nominations should be mailed by July 31, 2007 to Marlene Cook, PO Box 553, Killdeer, North Dakota 58640. Membership Well, here we are, approaching the fall conference. Have you paid your membership yet? If not, perhaps, this is the month to pay it. So often, we think of NDCSW as only a conference to go to once a year. We need to remember that NDCSW is an organization that works all year round. Remember, it supports all the works of the NDCSW, such as education of members through the Lantern, and representation of the membership through activities such as lobbying. We hope to see you in Minot in September, but even more, we hope to see your name on the membership list showing your support for the mission of the North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare: “Our mission is to unite and support members as they work to enrich and enhance the quality of life for the people of North Dakota.” We are also in the process of updating membership records. If you have had a name, address or e-mail change, please notify Deb W. Membership Chairperson, ND Confer- ence of Social Welfare - Morton County Social Services, 200 2nd Ave NW, Mandan, ND 58554-3124 or [email protected]. Come Join Us! NORTH DAKOTA CONFERENCE OF SOCIAL WELFARE Sister Donna Jean Chaput Memorial Award Nominee Criteria & Application Form NAME OF NOMINEE : _________________________________________________________________________ CURRENT ADDRESS : ________________________________________________________________________ 1) The individual must be someone who has been directly involved in the delivery of “social welfare-related services” for 5 years or more in North Dakota. Position Held by Nominee: ______________________ Length of Service: _____________________________ Place of Residence:_____________________________ Length of time in North Dakota:__________ 2) The individual has integrated spiritual values into the delivery of these services. How have spiritual values been integrated into the delivery of services? Please be specific. 3) The individual should be someone who has exhibited high personal and professional standards. Describe in detail how nominee has exhibited high personal and professional standards. 4) The individual should be someone who has exhibited a commitment to work collaboratively with other staff/ agencies in the provision of services. Describe in detail how nominee has exhibited a commitment to work collaboratively with other staff/ agencies in the provision of services. 5) Nominees may come from pastoral care workers, parish nurses or ministry staff, Salvation Army staff, hospice staff, cancer program staff, social workers, lay persons, volunteers, medical staff, nursing home employees, etc. Please list detailed information regarding nominee’s employment/volunteer history. 6) Other Comments: (Why you feel candidate is worthy of this honor, comments, references, etc.) Person submitting nomination: NAME: ____________________________________ PHONE #: ___________________________________________ ADDRESS: _____________________________________________________________________________________ NOMINATIONS We are looking for good people, willing to put in some hard work and effort (plus have a little fun), that would be interested in running for three board positions and one president elect position!!! If you think you may be one of those people, please contact Linda Jaeger, Nominations Chair, (701)235-4457 Ext 403 or [email protected] If you are interested in serving on a committee, please contact any of the Board Members or Committee chairs listed. Hard working people who are interested in being a Conference member are always in demand! Introducing Linda Brew North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare, Inc. 2006 -2007 Directory Executive Committee and Committee Chairs President: ......................................................... Joan Ehrhardt President Elect: ...................................................... Del Hager Past President: ................................................. Marlene Cook Executive Secretary: ............................................... Pat Hinsz Executive Committee Members: ....................... Linda Brew Deb DeWitz Kate Hanson Barb Holes-Dickson Cathy Meyer John Mogren Bobby Smith Committee Chairs: Awards Co-Chairs: ........................................... Joann Jochim Jan Austfjord Budget & Finance: ........................................... Lois Reierson Constitution & Bylaws: ................................ Brenda Peterson Education Co-Chairs: .................................. Diane Mortenson Donelle Mogard Fund Raising Co-Chairs: ................................... Marella Krein Connie Teets Local Arrangements Co-Chairs: ......................... Cleo Berven Dan Richter Manual Update Co-Chairs: ................................ Cleo Berven Lee Helmers Membership: ........................................................ Deb Weigel Nominations: ..................................................... Linda Jaeger Program Co-Chairs: .......................................... Tammy Ness Robert Sanderson Public Relations/Publicity Co-Chairs: ................. Lee Helmers Melissa Bliss Registration Co-Chairs: ................................. Danelle Klaman Connie Zieske Research Planning & Legislative: .......................... Shari Doe Resolutions: ................................................ Brenda Peterson Time & Place: .................................................... Sheryl Pfliger Web Site: ...................................................... Brenda Heilman SPECIAL COMMITTEES: History: ............................................................ Kathi Nygaard I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for allowing me the opportunity to serve on the Executive Board of the North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare. Last year, I was asked to serve for a short time upon Joyce Praus’ death. It gave me the time to be a part of this group and knew I wanted to continue. I have been a part of the conference for over 25 years and have chaired various committees. I feel this past experience will allow me to bring a little history to the board but, also some new ideas and a lot of enthusiasm. I began working at Grant County in 1980 and have been with Stark County Social Services since 1988 as an Administrative Staff Officer. I live in Manning with my husband, Lynn, and have 4 children and 4 grandchildren that keep me very busy. I look forward to the next 3 years and encourage others to get involved with the Conference. It has enriched my life and I know it will yours. Scholarship News from the Education Committee Our deadline for the NDCSW student scholarships was March 31, 2007. We are in the process of reviewing the applications and arrangements will be made with the winners to attend our fall conference in Minot on September 1921, 2007. The applicants that are selected will receive a $500 scholarship, plaque, motel room for one night, small mileage stipend, NDCSW membership for one year and their meals provided. We are excited for our 2007 conference and are looking forward to meeting all the applicants that will be selected. Donelle Mogard & Diane Mortenson, Co-Chairs NDCSW Education Committee Fund Raising This year’s conference theme is ‘Every Day is a Winding Road’, so let’s wind up for the long road ahead to support the NDCSW by buying and selling the raffle tickets for 2007!! Congratulations to the lucky winners of last years raffle drawing, who were: Bose Radio - Joan Ehrhardt Best Buy $150 gift certificate - Cathy Meyer Quilt - Edith Christenson Quilt rack - Kendra Casavant Framed print - Barb Holes-Dickson $50 in cash - Addie Burgard The prizes for this year’s raffle will be: 15" LCD HDTV Flat Screen 7" Portable DVD Player 2008 Medora Tickets $50.00 Cash Prize For sellers: The tickets will come 11 to a book, so when you sell 10, YOU get the 11th one free!!! To get your raffle tickets email Connie Teets ([email protected]). Whoever sells the most tickets this year will receive a prize (to be announced at the time of drawing) and if we have a tie, then we will give two!!! Go get ‘em and good luck!!! For buyers: Tickets available NOW from NDCSW board members and chairmen!!! These are the items that we have for sale at this time: Briefcases — $8.00 Lunchbox — $5.00 Wind Jackets — $15.00 Blankets — $23.00 Hooded Sweatshirts — $23.00 We have added two new colors for the hooded sweatshirts, gray and black, AND they are also available for men!!! You can use the order form in this newsletter to place your order. Please send your payment, made out to NDCSW, along with this form to: Connie Teets, c/o Ward County Social Services, PO Box 2209, Minot, ND 58702-2209. All proceeds go towards scholarships, so please support NDCSW by buying and selling raffle tickets. Order Form for NDCSW Items NAME________________________________________ AGENCY______________________________________ PHONE NUMBER_______________________________ L16230 Zipper Hood Sweatshirts Cost: $23.00 BANANA PINK LIGHT BLUE GRAY BLACK Small _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ Medium _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ Large _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ X Large _______ _______ _______ _______ _______ 2X Large _______ Sizes _______ Men’s __________ Fleece Blankets - $23.00 (Purple, Gray, Green, Red) Black, Blue) ______________ (Mark the item and color.) _______ _______ _______ NDCSW SERVICE AWARD From now through June 29, 2007, the North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare Awards Committee will be accepting nominations for potential award recipients (employees, board members, co-works, acquaintance, self-nominated, etc). NDCSW Service Awards will be present at the Awards Brunch on September 21, 2007 at the Grand International Inn in Minot, ND. Eligibility criteria for a 10, 20, 30, 40 (or even 50) year award is based on accumulated years of service in the field of social, accumulated years of Conference membership and a paid Conference membership or the current year. (see table below for breakdown) Ladies __________ Wind Jackets - $15.00 (Black, Blue, & Red) _______________ Briefcases - $8.00 Lunchbox - $5.00 (Red & Blue) _______________ Please make payments to NDCSW and send with this order form to: Ward County Social Services Attn: Connie Teets PO Box 2209 Minot, ND 58702-2209 DEADLINE FOR ORDERS: June 30, 2007 to have items in time for conference. Items may also be ordered at Conference. If you have any questions, please call Connie Teets at 701-857-0749. Required Accumulated Years Required Accumulated Years in Social Service Field of Conference Membership Paid Conference Membership For Current Year (2007) 10 Years 2 Years 20 Years 5 Years Must be Paid by 09/01/07 Must be Paid by 09/01/07 30 Years 10 Years Must be Paid by 09/01/07 40 Years 15 Years Must be Paid by 09/01/07 Questions should be addressed to Joann Jochim (701) 667-3395. [email protected] or Jan Austfjord, (701) 265-8441. [email protected] Nomination can be found on the conference website at www.ndcsw.org Taking That Winding Road....There and Back Again A Member’s View of this Year’s Conference Theme “It’s a dangerous business, going out your door. You step onto the road and if you don’t keep your feet, there is no knowing where you might be swept off to.” Lord of the Rings fans, such as myself, will recognize this line from the Fellowship of the Ring. Frodo’s uncle, Bilbo, admonishes him to keep his wits about him as he travels through life, as there is no telling what twists and turns his path may take and he needs to be ready for anything. His story may be part of a much celebrated fantasy tale, but like many fantasies, it speaks great truths about the realities in life. On September 25, 2006, our family discovered how important it was to keep our feet in the wake of unexpected and unwelcome circumstances. My 11 year old daughter, Erin, had been feeling ill for three weeks and we had been seeing the doctor weekly. When we went out our door that day, we had no idea the road would eventually lead us to Mayo Clinic. Erin was very pale and feeling poorly and by late morning, she had to be seen by her pediatrician. He immediately admitted her to our local hospital and after doing some preliminary tests, he told us that her kidneys were failing and she could need dialysis. He arranged for her to be flown immediately to Fargo for further evaluation and treatment. Within hours I found myself on a medi-flight with my critically ill daughter. My husband was on the road to Fargo and our youngest, whose sixth birthday was that very day, was staying at her grandparents. How did this happen? This was not a road I had planned to take that day or any day. After two days of multiple tests, we were informed that Erin had Wegener’s Granulomatosis, an autoimmune disease that normally occurs in adults four to five times her age. Her antibodies are overzealous and had been attacking her kidneys, lungs and sinuses. Her kidneys were functioning at only 20%, there was blood in her lungs and she was very anemic. The hospital staff felt it was best to send us via medi-flight to Mayo Clinic for treatment. Treatment began immediately, which included some very aggressive medication that would mean weight gain, hair loss, among other side effects. Seemed a fair trade for functioning kidneys and remission of this disease. 10 days after our adventure started, Erin was released from the hospital. Six months later, she has regained full use of her kidneys, her lungs are clear, and her doctor says she is in remission. Before all of this, I had often wondered how parents managed to cope when their children are critically ill. I could hardly imagine where the strength came from. I now know that it comes from within...it comes from the love and care of others...and it comes from above. Of course, our lives have been changed. We have stared into the face of fear and now know what it feels like. Erin has lost some of that sense of invincibility and will have to be ever watchful for signs of flare-ups, as this condition never goes away. However, in many ways, our lives have not changed. We still love, laugh, live. Erin still dances, gets good grades, plays with her friends. As devastating as this was to our family, we look forward to the future, not in fear, but with hope and confidence, having found that we have greater strength than we ever imagined. Every day we step out on that winding road, we are mindful to keep our feet and are grateful for those who walk that road alongside us. “The road goes ever on and on down from the door where it began. Now far ahead the road is gone and I must follow, if I can.” ~ LOTR~ Melissa Bliss Kidneys, Clinics and Courage By Erin Bliss, age 11 Adjustable Beds Scary things about me being said Watching daytime TV People keep poking me Days go by And they don’t know why I’m here It’s unclear 10 days later I felt so much greater I liked my docs I’m so glad I still have my locks. "Every Day is A Winding Road" North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare Fall Conference September 19, 20, 21, 2007 Grand International Inn Minot, ND For more information regarding the North Dakota Conference of Social Welfare and the Fall Conference, log on to NDCSW.org Registration Form Registration Form Register early for a special Winding Road Journey