We are Mike, Ally, and “Li le” Ally. We
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We are Mike, Ally, and “Li le” Ally. We
& tle t i L ly l A We a re M ike, A lly, a nd “ Li le” A lly. We e xtend o ur l ove t o you a nd your c hild. We a dmire what a l oving d ecision you a re m aking, a nd o ne d ay w hen the t ime i s r ight your c hild will c ome t o u nderstand w hat the s trength o f your l ove m eans t o h im/her. I nfertility h as l ed u s d own t he path t o a doption. W hile it h asn’t b een e asy i t h as s olidified o ur l ove a nd s hown u s how m uch s upport w e h ave a round u s. We a lready k now that w e, o ur e xtended f amily a nd iends h ave s o m uch t o offer a c hild. We l ook forward t o t he n ext c hapter i n o ur journey. W e’re ready to give a lifetime of love & happiness to the newest member of our family. begins on a summer’s eve in 2009. L i le d id we k now t hat a iendly game with m utual iends o n t he s oſtball d iamond would l ead t o a d iamond engagement r ing a l i le o ver a year l ater. W hen we were married on 9.11.2011 we not only promised a lifetime commitment to each other, but Ally made a promise to Mike’s d aughter, L i le A lly. S he p romised a l oving h ome and to share the huge responsibility of being a parent in her role a s s tep-‐mom. W hile o ur l i le family was a s h appy as ever we always knew that there was a special place in our hearts waiting t o b e fi lled. A ſter years o f p ursuing o ur dream at infertility clinics we came to the mutual realization that i t d idn’t m a er h ow we b ecame parents a gain, j ust t hat we wanted to o ffer o ur u nconditional l ove to a c hild. Any child we are lucky enough to give our hearts to. Mike Mike with daug hter, Ally I grew up in a small Ohio town and believe my humble beginnings have shaped the man I am today. My daughter is the best thing I got out of my previous relationship and I k now t he forever family we h ave n ow i s t he g reatest g iſt I could ever give her. I work hard in both my career as a school maintenance-man and in my role as father and husband to make sure my daughter and my wife know how much they are loved. Ally says: Mike is so responsible and passionate about his family. H e t reats m e l ike a q ueen a nd L i le A lly l ike a princess. I know what a loving daddy he is and I can’t wait to s ee h im s tart t he j ourney a gain om t he b eginning. Ally I was born and raised in Long Island, NY. I love my family! When I’m with my siblings (1 sister & 3 brothers) we’re like a bunch of big kids. My Mom & Dad are a shining example of the kind of love & strength that grows over time in a big family. When I was 19 I moved to Ohio to help my brother with my young nephew. I work at a nursing home. From working in child-care early in life to my nursing career as an adult, caring for others has always been my strength and passion. Mike s ays: A lly was b orn to b e a m om. S he bakes with L i le Ally, takes her to concerts to see her favorite bands, and plans giggle-‐filled s leepovers with h er c ousins. We’re o n t his j ourney together b ecause I k now s he h as s o m uch to o ffer a nother child. I t’s t he o ne g iſt I would d o a nything to g ive h er. Big Sister, Little Ally What a c oincidence t hat M ike’s d aughter i s n amed A lly. And s o t he nickname “ Li le” A lly h as s tuck! : ) S he i s b eyond e xcited to b e a b ig sister. S he’s a lways t he o ne o n t he fl oor with h er c ousins; reading to them, b ouncing t hem, o r s tacking t he b locks. A lly i s s weet, s ensitive, and p olite l ike h er Daddy. We s hare parenting with L i le A lly’s m om a nd step-‐dad, a nd we’re p roud o f t he respectful a nd h ealthy relationship we have with t hem. ( The o ther “ Big S ister” your c hild will h ave i s o ur s weet dog, Z oey. O ur family wouldn’t b e c omplete without a d og to s hare o ur home & h earts with.) Extended Family Children a re t reasured i n o ur family. We b oth h ave parents a nd s iblings nearby. Among a ll o ur s iblings your c hild will b e welcomed i nto a l ife o f c ousinly l ove. We’re up to 1 9 a nd s till c ounting! O ur family get-‐togethers a re fi lled with k ids r iding b ikes, s idewalk chalk, t ickles, h ugs, a nd d elicious h omemade m eals. I t’s a good d ay when we walk i n t he d oor to t he a roma o f G randpa Tony’s famous p ot o f s auce a nd m eatballs s immering o n t he s tove, and t he k ids o n b oth s ides o f o ur famiy q uickly l earn t hat “ What h appens a t G randma’s House s tays a t G randma’s H ouse.” : ) We l ike to s pend weekends watching O SU football with family o r ge ing s ome esh a ir a t t he park, a s treet fair, o r festival. Happy Travels Because A lly g rew u p i n L ong Island, N Y s he s till h as iends, s iblings, a nd a G randpa to visit t here. Traveling to N Y i s a b ig part o f what we l ove to d o. There’s n othing b e er t han c rossing t he G eorge Washington B ridge t o t he land o f t he b est p izza i n t he c ountry, t he m ost m outh-‐watering bagels, a nd the o pen a rms o f l oved o nes. We l ove to visit t he b eaches, s hop a nd get i ce cream “down p ort”, o r t ake a fi shing c harter o ut o n t he L ong Island S ound. We t ypically m ake t he j ourney 4 to 6 t imes a year. The o ther favorite vacation s pot we h ave i s M yrtle B each, S C. We h oneymooned there a nd t ry to m ake i t back e very S eptember when t he c rowds h ave s ubsided and t he b eaches a re t here for t he t aking. We d ream o f s andy l i le t oes a nd s alty kisses a t o ur favorite b each h otel. Ally’s... Favorite Foods: Long Island pizza & bagels Our hearts. Our home. Hobbies: shopping & decorating Favorite Children’s Book: If You Give a Mouse a Cookie Favorite Scent: winter air Guilty Pleasure: Starbucks caramel macchiato Favorite Place to Be: Long Island Favorite Family Tradition: pumpkin picking and carving Place She’d Like to Go: Italy Pet Peeve: socks with sandals Annoying Habit (According to Mike): Home and Community We have a beautiful 4 bedroom home on a quiet suburban cul-de-sac. We are close to shopping, restaurants & very good schools. We live within 45 minutes of a zoo, waterpark, sports arenas, theaters museums & a major Ohio downtown. thinking she’s always right :) Mike’s... Favorite Foods: Italian Hobbies: football & movies Favorite Children’s Book: The Cat in the Hat Favorite Scent: the beach Guilty Pleasure: watching Rocky (the movie) marathons Favorite Place to Be: my brother-in-law’s basement on game day Favorite Family Tradition: buying my wife a meaningful ornament every year for Xmas Place He’d Like to Go: Disney World Pet Peeve: slow drivers Annoying Habit (According to Ally): watches too much football :) We want you to know... We h ave s o m uch l ove to g ive a nd we a re ready. We, o ur family a nd iends c annot wait to open t he fl oodgates. We c an’t wait to p our o ur h earts a nd s ouls i nto a t iny b undle o f j oy. There a re b edtime s tories waiting to b e read, a c rib waiting to b e fi lled, m any a rms o f o ne big family waiting to rock your l i le o ne. We will p rotect a nd c herish your c hild, s upport his/her individual interests and provide an environment of learning and play. He/she will know t hat t hey a re l oved e very d ay a s t hey d riſt o ff t o s leep. We want h im/her to a lways know who t hey a re a nd where t hey c ame om. We h ave iends who h ave a dopted a nd t he heart-‐wrenching b eauty o f a doption i s n ot l ost o n u s. T hank you for ge ing t o k now u s. We are praying for you now, and we hope you can feel the love we already have for you and your l i le o ne. Peace b e with you. and L i le A lly too : ) Ally & Mike