Helping you plan ahead
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Helping you plan ahead
TRINITY CHURCH CEMETERY & MAUSOLEUM Helping you plan ahead Planning for Tomorrow Since its charter in 1697, Trinity Wall Street has served the people of New York – at Trinity Church and St. Paul’s Chapel in Lower Manhattan, and at Trinity Church Cemetery & Mausoleum in northern Manhattan. As the only remaining active cemetery in the New York City, Trinity Cemetery offers a peaceful and historic setting for above-ground interment and memorials. Planning for our eventual burial needs involves personal decisions. Making them while we have time to consider our choices can ease the burden on family and friends when death occurs. This planning guide was created to describe the interment and memorial options available at Trinity Church Cemetery & Mausoleum. It also provides guidance on gathering important personal information and deciding memorial preferences in advance. Our professional staff is ready to provide advice and assist you a Rich History in New York City The Trinity Church Cemetery & Mausoleum was formally established in 1842 on land near the John James Audubon estate. During the Revolutionary War, the Battle of Fort Washington occurred here. Listed in the National Register of Historic Places, the Cemetery is an outreach ministry of Trinity Church in Lower Manhattan, and is non-denominational. in making your plans. We look forward to serving you. Sincerely, The Rev. Dr. James H. Cooper Rector, Trinity Wall Street Why Plan Now? Mausoleums – an affordable choice Planning ahead for our needs affords time to think carefully about Mausoleums are free-standing buildings with space for caskets memorial options. Most people say that advance funeral planning or urns. The name comes from Maussollos, whose above-ground is an enormous emotional relief. Families acknowledge that a pre- tomb was so grand it was considered one of the seven wonders of planned funeral is a final gift they are grateful to receive. the ancient world when built in 351 BCE (Before the Common Era). Previously, mausoleums were an expensive choice, and a Trinity Church Cemetery & Mausoleum is experienced in helping number were built by well-to-do families in the 19th century. One people understand all of the options available. of the most dramatic examples of a mausoleum in New York is Grant’s Tomb. The Importance of Memorializing When someone dies, it is important to celebrate and remember a These days, above-ground mausoleums are an affordable option be- person’s unique life. Funerals and memorial services provide the cause a number of entombments are contained in a single building. bereaved with a chance to understand they are not alone in their And it is easy to reserve a space, or crypt, in a mausoleum in advance. grief. These gatherings also offer a chance to share stories – especially happy ones – of their loved one’s life. Trinity Cemetery’s mausoleums have crypt spaces for individuals and companions, or can accommodate three to five entomb- Trinity Church Cemetery & Mausoleum can help you plan for ments for families. The mausoleums are modern buildings that are services and memorials. The onsite Chapel of the Resurrection is landscaped to blend seamlessly with the historic surroundings of a serene and comfortable place for reflection and prayer. It can be Trinity Cemetery. used for services, memorials, and gatherings after an interment. The Chapel also contains space for cenotaphs, which are memorials to people whose remains are interred elsewhere. - Receive us... into the blessed rest of everlasting peace Cremation – Simple and Dignified Making Your Preferences Known Although cremation is an increasingly popular option, it is far A large part of pre-planning is organizing important information from new. In fact, cremation is an ancient tradition, dating from and documenting your personal memorial preferences. This infor- around 3000 BCE in Europe and the Near East. Today many mation is vital in helping people know where information is, who choose cremation for reasons ranging from environmental to to contact, and what choices you have made. financial, and because it is simple and dignified. Following are several forms that will help you in determining the Cremation is a simple process of exposing the body to extreme most important information you need. These include: name, date, heat, reducing it to bone fragments (or “basic elements”). Remains place of birth, family and friends to notify, and location of impor- are often contained in urns. To maintain health and safety standards, tant legal documents. There’s also space to indicate whether you as well as respect and dignity for the deceased, cremation can only have chosen above-ground entombment, burial, or cremation, and be performed by a licensed and registered cemetery, crematory, or what type of service you would prefer. funeral director, depending on state laws. Trinity Church Cemetery and Mausoleum does not perform cremations. At Trinity Cemetery, cremated remains can be placed in mausoleums or niches, which are recessed chambers. Most religious traditions permit cremation, including Anglican, Protestant, Roman Catholic, Buddhist, and Hindu. Typically, Jewish, Eastern Orthodox Christians, Mormons, Muslims, and Bahais do not allow cremation. - Give Rest, O Christ ...to your servants with your saints -Book of Common Prayer Personal Information Preferences for Funeral/Memorial Service Be sure to keep this form in a secure place. Before completing it, you may want to make a copy for your spouse or partner to fill out. p Above-Ground Entombment p Cremation p Burial Date Filled Out ____________________ Pre-arrangements made with: _______________________________________________________________________ Your Name _______________________________________________________________________________________ Contact: __________________________________________________________________________________________ (first) (middle) (last) Street Address ____________________________________________________________________________________ City _____________________________ State _____________________________ Zip Code _________________ Date of Birth _______________ Place of Birth ___________________________________ Citizenship ________ Social Security Number _____________________________________________________________________________ Name on contracts: ________________________________________________________________________________ I have no pre-arrangements but prefer to be interred at: _________________________________________________ Type of casket preferred or selected: ________________________ Type of urn preferred or selected: __________ Where would you like the service to be held? (place of worship, funeral home, graveside only) ______________ Mother’s Maiden Name _____________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Fathers Name _____________________________________________________________________________________ Contact: __________________________________________________________________________________________ If Veteran, Dates of Service __________________ Branch of Service and Rank _____________________________ Funeral Service: ___________________________________________________________________________________ Spouse’s Name _____________________________________________________________________________________ Religious tradition: ________________________________________________________________________________ (first) (middle) (last) Communion: _____________________________________________________________________________________ Rite: _____________________________________________________________________________________________ Contact Information Family and Friends to Notify Readings: _________________________________________________________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________________ Relationship ______________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Telephone ______________________________ Email __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________________ Relationship ______________________ Hymns/Music: ____________________________________________________________________________________ Telephone ______________________________ Email __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________________ Relationship ______________________ Telephone ______________________________ Email __________________________________________________ Preferred clergy: ___________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________________ Relationship ______________________ Telephone ______________________________ Email __________________________________________________ Name _________________________________________________________ Relationship ______________________ Telephone ______________________________ Email __________________________________________________ Pallbearers: _______________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Other Preferences: __________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ GW Bridge __ _ Bank records __ _ Deeds to property __ _ Car ownership certificate __ _ Investment and stock records ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ Riv er rlem Deegan Exp Major ry H udso n Pk y y Ha W 15 5th St ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ To help family and friends, please list the names and contact information (phone, email, address) for the following. By Subway: Attorney(s) _________________________________________________________________________________________ Take the C subway line to the 155th Street station stop. Walk west on 155th Street toward Riverside Drive. Take the #1 subway line to the 157th Street station stop. Walk south to 155th Street and west to Riverside Drive. Accountant(s) ______________________________________________________________________________________ By Bus: Physician(s) ________________________________________________________________________________________ InsuranceAgent(s) ___________________________________________________________________________________ Take the M4 or M5 to Broadway and West 153rd Street. Executor of estate ____________________________________________________________________________________ Children ___________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Other relatives ______________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Funeral Director ____________________________________________________________________________________ Cemetery Counselor _________________________________________________________________________________ Parking: The cemetery entrance gate is on 153rd Street between Broadway and Riverside Drive, in the middle of the block. Make a right turn into the cemetery and follow the road to the parking spaces on the left. If all the spaces are taken, please park on the left side of the road and leave room for other vehicles to pass. Trinity Church Cemetery & Mausoleum 770 Riverside Drive, New York, NY 10032 Contact us at 212.368.1600 or cemetery @ trinitywallstreet.org Open daily from 9am – 4pm Cromwell Ave Harlem River Dr e Tra in Av e Other Documents: C 7th __ _ Insurance policies (Life, Health and Accident, Property) RY Av e __ _ Citizenship paper TE s Av __ _ Mausoleum certificate of ownerships ME hola __ _ Marriage license South from the George Washington Bridge, take exit 1 for the Henry Hudson Parkway (9A), follow signs for Riverside Drive/Downtown. Continue on Riverside Drive. Turn left at 165th Street, right on Broadway, and right at 153rd Street. Y C E St 8t h __ _ Pension and disability insurance claims IT 3rd th St Tra in Av e __ _ Social Security Card or number 15 15 7 1 St Am ste rda m __ _ Veteran’s discharge certificate W IN 5th ay __ _ Birth certificate or legal proof of age TR 15 Bro ad w __ _ Income tax returns, receipts, cancelled checks Hen __ _ Will W W Dr (A) Attorney ers ide (O) Office Riv (D) Safe Deposit North on the Henry Hudson Parkway (9A), take exit 13 toward West 158th Street. Continue on 158th Street. Turn right on Broadway and right at 153rd Street. Hudson River By Car: Use the codes listed below to indicate where to find these important documents. Keep documents in a safe and secure location. (H) Home MANHATTAN Directions St. N ic Important Documents and Contacts TEXT OUTLINE for a world of good for a world of good 74 trinity place new york, ny 10006 212.602.0800 Printed on 100% recycled paper TRINITYWALLSTREET.ORG