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June/July 2010 ST. LOUIS Positive news Personal growth Community awareness positive and uplifting … always in good taste! Live, Love, Laugh… Laughter Yoga • Heroes Among Us • Overcoming Fear A Father’s Day Reflection • Summer Fun Photo Contest javajournalSTL.com EDITOR & CHIEF BARISTA Marian Rein Sherman Lee Mary K. Morgan Marian Rein Peggy Sullivan Rosenthal, MEd Phylis Clay Sparks Hi ShaLonda, Many thanks for writing to Java Journal. We appreciate your comment. Living in the present moment —well, it's about as good as it gets! -Marian COPY EDITORS Carl Hasse Doug Rensch Java Journal® 11116 South Towne Square, Ste. 102 St. Louis, MO 63123 Java Journal® LLC is a monthly publication providing news and information throughout the St. Louis metropolitan area. Articles and information submitted for publication may be edited for length or content. Java Journal is not responsible for any claims made by advertisers. 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Your Java Journal File Photo • “I read Java Journal from • Hi Patty, Lines From Our Readers Phone (____) ____________________________________Email ______________________________________ Heroes Among Us Gitana Productions Photography/ Essay Competition 21 Pro Page 22 Java Journal Movie Morsels by Mary K. Morgan ® Mail check with this subscription form to: Java Journal 11116 South Towne Square, Ste. 102, St. Louis, MO 63123 12 Café Olé! A Delicious Breakfast for Dad by Judy Schuman fun back in fundamental. Join us as we highlight all that makes St. Louis feel like home.) 23 In Your Community Page 4 | June/July 2010 javajournalSTL.com javajournalSTL.com Tracking Lilly LI remember ife is so good! driving past an enormous new mansion and thinking, “Boy, how many people could have been fed with the money it took to buy it? Doesn’t the owner realize that there are people out there who have nowhere to live and very little to eat?” I’ve come to a new understanding about buying big. It occurs to me that the mansion isn't preventing anyone from eating or having money of their own. In fact, the purchase and the building of that mansion did provide for others. It employed people to build it, those people used the money they earned to buy groceries and clothing for their children and the recipients of those dollars paid their mortgages and daycare, which gave paychecks to childcare workers, and on and on. Spending money is giving to others. It stimulates the economy. Have you noticed that people who are demonizing money are the ones who are wanting it most? And who’s to say those very rich people aren’t quietly doing even more to help others? So the next time you see a hot Lamborghini or a fabulous mansion, extend a silent thank you to the person who made so much possible for so many others. And when it gets right down to it, whether you drive a Mercedes Benz McLaren Roadster ($495,000) or my car (not a Mercedes Benz McLaren Roadster), there is nothing more delicious than joy. And there is no one who has a corner on the joy market. Joy is available to everyone. Has it been a while since you’ve felt joyful? The lack of joy, I believe, is really based on something fairly simple: when we are not joyful, it’s usually because we have become very aware of what we want and that we do not currently have it. Perhaps it’s lack of money or lack of good health or lack of any resource. Yet all of these situations can benefit from joy. But how can we be joyful when we are wanting something, when we’re sad or when we feel awful? If you have ever felt good and then turned on the TV and saw something terrible and then felt sad because of it, then you know this —your thoughts created your feelings. After all, you felt fine until you turned on the television. Joy takes a little practice. So many of us were trained to be lazy thinkers. We just go about our day, focusing on what IS. We focus on the slow-moving economy, we focus on the lack of money in our bank accounts, we focus on needing new tires for our car or a new roof for our house. Not only do we focus on it, we talk about it —over and over and over. And while all of those things may be true, incessantly focusing on them is just plain lazy and it makes you feel bad and does nothing to help the slow-moving economy. You might say, “Well it’s true! The economy is bad, my house needs a roof, my car needs tires and I don’t have enough money.” Yes, and if you keep focusing on it, your future will be full it — unwanted things and events. You just can’t find answers and solutions to problems when you are relentlessly focused on the problem and feeling despair. Answers come when we stop focusing on the problem and find things to think about that make us feel good—things to appreciate. And who can’t find something to appreciate? Joy and appreciation open our minds and our hearts to possibilities. So if there are things in your life that you are wanting, rather than feeling sad or discouraged, find a way to feel hopeful. Use your mind to imagine how good it feels to have the thing you are wanting. Every day I say this to myself: “I’m happy where I am and I’m eager for what’s coming.” It’s a good feeling to be content where I am, no matter what IS. Speaking of joy, now that my son is 15, holidays, such as Mother’s Day, aren’t quite what they used to be. He still seems to enjoy them, but when he was younger, any old excuse for a fun day would do. In all honesty, I love Mother’s Day, even if it means nothing more than hearing those six little words — “Happy Mother’s Day, what’s for breakfast?” This Father’s Day, June 20, consider giving your father the joy of hearing six little words — Happy Father’s Day. I love you. As a parent, there’s really nothing better than those words (and a turbo-charged bread machine would be nice!). I’m looking forward to enjoying a beautiful summer as I find more and more to appreciate every day. There are just so many good things happening all around us. If you’re a photographer — professional or amateur — I hope that you will participate in our “Summer Fun” photography contest. We’d love to share your photos with other Java Journal readers. Java Journal Tracking Lilly 11116 South Towne Square, Ste. 102 St. Louis, MO 63123 Tracking Chance Drawing Congratulations to Anthony Noerper, winner of the “Tracking Chance” drawing in the May issue of Java Journal. Anthony won two tickets to Storytime Live at the Fox Theatre. He picked up Java Journal at Plaza Frontenac. 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Correct entries will be put into a drawing for two tickets to the July 16 performance of Storytime Live at the Fox Theatre. The winner’s name will be printed in the August issue. Send your entry to: Relaxing with a Cup of Java nline.com by Dirk A. Benham, DC Patron of the Arts The East Central College Foundation Invites you to become a 2010-2011 Patron of the Arts Please join us for H opefully, as you are reading this, you are enjoying your favorite cup of java or tea. You may possibly be admitting to yourself that you are taking time out from the stresses of life. Often, we think and believe that we are relaxing — but are we really? Every day, we encounter and deal with numerous stressors in our lives. The stresses of finances, relationships, jobs, politics, etc., can and do take a toll on the human body, both physically and emotionally. We indirectly learned at an early age that, as long as we keep our nervous system stimulated, we are able to keep pace with the increasing stresses of life. This is adaptation to stress. Somehow and incorrectly, we have identified this adaptation of the nervous system with “being relaxed.” This is not relaxation in any sense of the word! However, by employing a few simple meditation techniques even while drinking your java or tea, you can learn to calm the nervous system and thus, truly relax your mind and body. While holding your cup of java in your hand, clear your mind of all thoughts. Do not allow yourself to think about the past, the present or the future. In fact, do not allow your mind to think at all. Allow your mind to go blank and allow only your senses of sight, taste, smell and touch to experience the cup of java in your hand. For example, allow yourself to just feel the cup. Feel it for what it is. Touch it and gently rub it. Feel its warmth. Feel its texture. Feel its weight. Feel its shape. Do not think about what you are feeling, just feel it and allow yourself to sense the experience. While feeling the cup, smell the aroma emanating from your cup. Close your eyes and immerse yourself in all the wondrous, sensual fragrances of it. Inhale and exhale deeply and slowly and savor the aromas. Do not attempt to identify them, just sense and experience. Then experience the combination of your senses of touch and smell simultaneously. While feeling and smelling, look at the steamy surface of your java. See it as more than a cup of hot liquid. Observe the surface, observe the hue of colors and the dance of the froth or bubbles. Notice the steam as it swirls upward from the surface. Observe and see without thinking. See only with your sense of sight. Do not allow yourself to see with your thoughts. Experience the combination of your senses of sight, touch and smell. Finally, sip it. Taste it on your lips. Let the liquid pool on your tongue and inside your mouth. Embrace its warmth. Enjoy its texture. Taste the flavors. Sense the taste buds on your tongue responding to the chemistry of the java. Then, allow yourself to swallow. Feel it gently rolling towards the back of your throat and finally gliding down the throat. Again, do not think about what you are sensing. Then, allow yourself to experience the combination of taste, sight, touch and smell. Experience the sensing (touch, taste, smell and sight) without thinking about what you are sensing. Remember, you are relaxing by sensing without thinking and without attempting to categorize, label, identify or even rationalize the experience. Simply allow all of your senses to experience the present moment with your cup of java. By keeping your mind completely blank and without thinking, you are allowing your right brain to be dominant over your left brain. Right-brain activities, such as experiencing with only your senses, are truly relaxing and calming for the mind and body. True relaxation helps the mind and body to harmonize, to energize and reprioritize its daily duties, such as healing and normal functioning. When you have performed the aforementioned techniques, have successfully managed to keep your mind devoid of all the past, present and future scenarios that contribute to your stress levels — and have allowed yourself to imbibe your java or tea while experiencing with only your senses — then you have remained present and relaxed. Congratulations! If, on the other hand, your cell phone, background noise or some other stressor has distracted you during this process, do not become discouraged. Allow yourself to attempt this again in the near future. The process of learning to relax does take practice and patience. Eventually, you will become successful in truly relaxing with your cup of refreshment. With additional practice and patience, you can eventually learn to relax in any situation. And as a result, the stressors in your life will decrease their adverse effect on your physical health and emotional well-being. And now it’s time for me to relax with my cup of java … I ‘An Evening of Country Elegance’ at Cedar Creek Conference Center, New Haven featuring the Erin Bode Group Friday, June 18, 2010 at 6:00 pm Erin Bodi The Erin Bode Group creates music forged from its members’ midwestern roots, infused with jazz grooves and made magic by Bode’s bell-like voice. Patron of the Arts Kickoff: Friday, June 18, 2010 Cedar Creek Conference Center 6 pm Welcome & Cocktails 6:30-8:30 pm Tapas-style dinner and performance by the Erin Bode Group Patron memberships are available at various levels. For additional information, please call the ECC Foundation at (636) 584-6506. Reservations accepted until June 10. Overnight accommodations are available. Call Cedar Creek Conference Center at (573) 237-3672. www.eastcentral.edu/ecc/foundation/patronart The Patron of the Arts is a project partially funded by the ECC Foundation for the enhancement of the Fine and Performing Arts at East Central College. Page 6 | June/July 2010 javajournalSTL.com Lightworks Energy Therapy Massage and Healing Touch javajournalSTL.com Laughter Yoga The Art of Deep Relaxation C.H.A.M.P. helps children and adults with disabilities through the placement of highly skilled service dogs. 20 years experience Placements are made free of charge. File photo I Please help us! The Lotus symbolizes purification of body & mind. Send tax-deductible donations to: C.H.A.M.P., Inc. 4910 Parker Road Florissant, MO 63033 Lucy Moorman (314) 308-6440 www.lucymoorman.com www.champdogs.org (314) 653-9466 Eat Cookies. Lose Weight. It’s That Simple . 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Dr. Kataria became interested in research that was being conducted on the physical benefits of hearty and sustained laughter (laughing for 10 minutes or more). The positive results of the research led him to begin a laughter club to encourage people to laugh more for their health. They began telling jokes to each other every day, but after a few weeks the jokes began to deteriorate. Dr. Kataria could see that the laughter was good for people, but jokes were not going to work on a long-term basis. So he experimented with the idea of laughing without jokes or humor. He and his wife developed a set of playful laughter exercises and added deep breathing exercises from yoga (pranayama), and the result was laughter yoga. He experimented with a group of people, and they loved it. It gradually spread to 65 countries. And there are now more than 3,000 laughter clubs in India. Marlene Chertok is a registered nurse who, in 2003, watched a documentary about the laughter clubs of India. She was recovering from breast cancer treatments and was exploring ways of impacting her own healing. She changed her diet, began meditating, doing qigong and yoga. Chertok was already aware of the research showing the benefits of positive emotions on healing, and that sustained hearty laughter could reduce stress cortisol levels, release endorphins and benefit the immune system. She was also asthmatic and was interested in ways to improve her breathing. Laughter yoga is as much about breathing as it is about the laughter. Chertok has been free of cancer for seven and a half years and her asthma is under control — she has been off of medication and not needed an inhaler in two years (she does like to emphasize that she keeps an emergency inhaler on hand). She is breathing better than she has in years. According to Chertok, “Laughter clubs are about more than the laughter. They provide a place for people to interact and build social connections. I think people are really hungry for this. For me, besides the laughter, the laughter club was about building a community of positive-minded people. We have become a community, and that has been as healing as the laughter! “People go to the doctor and think that just taking a pill or getting a treatment will make them better. All of that has a place and I certainly use medicine myself, but healing requires that people get involved in the process themselves. Laughing every day, whether at a laughter club or not, can be one of the best things you can do for your health. It is cheap, easy to do and no doctor will object to a patient laughing more,” she said. “People sometimes ask how can I laugh with so much negative stuff happening in the world? As Dr. Kataria has said, ‘how is not laughing going to help?’ “When I first started doing laughter yoga, I could not laugh freely. I had lost my own ability to laugh heartily. The laughter club was an experiment for me to find my own laughter again. It was like slowly pulling the cork out of a bottle. Now, people tell me how my laughter gets everyone else going. They don’t realize how hard I worked to find that place again,” Chertok laughed. “My health has improved, my breathing is better, and my attitude about life is much more positive. I laugh freely now— it is very liberating. It has been one of the best things I have ever done for myself. I continue to do it for my own health as well as that of others. Laughter is the best medicine,” she chuckled. In 2004, Chertok (continued on page 19) A Healthier Life for Everyone and a Better Life for Anyone™ ‘Knock, Knock.’ ‘Who’s There?’ This Is No Joke Lead, collar & harness - $25 Month of food & treats - $50 Month of care & training - $500 June/July 2010 | Page 7 by Phylis Clay Sparks light and stand in it to magine yourself sing the next verse. standing in front of Step by step, he folthree closed doors. lowed the trail of light, What comes to mind as each beam shining only you look at these doors? as long as he needed it, Let me guess. and then it was up to One thought might him to step into the be, “Well, opportunity next beam. knocks, so the doors He could have just could be doors of opstood in the dark to portunity. Maybe I sing the rest of the should knock and find out.” Another thought could be, “I wonder song, but that wouldn’t have made much which one has something behind it that I sense. Likewise, it makes no sense for any of might want?” The idea might occur to you us to stay in the same place and keep doing to simply open all three and find out. Or, what we’ve been doing when we have someyou might wonder, “Could there be a tiger thing else to express. We must keep stepping into the next circle of light and sing the lurking behind one of them?” Whatever you may have thought when next verse in our life. Eventually, that light you first imagined these doors, they repre- will go out. Then, it will be up to us to find sent many possibilities, all with an aura of the next one and step into it. Just like opening a door, not knowing mystery. But you’re using your imagination here, so why not think of them as doors of what’s behind it, when you step into the next circle of light, you may not know which opportunity? song you will sing. Still, venturing into the un“Knock, knock.” known, especially in present times when “Who’s there?” things are changing so fast, needs to become “Irene.” a thing we are all willing to do. “Irene Who?” “Knock knock.” “Irene and Irene, but nobody answers!” “Who’s there?” Okay. Stop ringing the doorbell and “Ooze.” knock. In fact, just open the darned door! “Ooze who?” To open a door of opportunity is to “Ooze in charge around here?” take a calculated risk. What’s behind the You are. You are in charge of your life. door could either lead you toward your dream or disappoint you. But you will not With hope and courage, open every door know what’s behind it unless you take a risk of opportunity that presents itself. See problems as opportunities. You must become and open the door. The experience of life is one of risk-tak- comfortable with stepping into uncertainty ing. And the biggest fear about taking risks — into the unknown. It is in uncharted terriis fear of the unknown, venturing into un- tory where the field of all possibility exists. Go on — open the door! I charted territory where there are no guarantees. When you walk into the unknown, it can feel as though you’re in darkness and uncertainty. But you may have already noticed that at just the right moment your next step is usually illuminated. Here’s an illustration about illumination. I remember when comedian Jimmy Durante was on the planet and had his own television show. He became famous for his closing musical number. Jimmy would sing as he walked off stage, beginning the song in the beam of a lone spotlight. As he finished the first Phylis Clay Sparks is the Spiritual Diverse, the spotlight would go out and anrector of The Soul-Esteem Center, a other circle of light would appear just a few professional speaker and author of feet ahead of him. SOUL-ESTEEM: The Power of Spiritual Jimmy would then step into that beam Confidence. 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This reaction adds more stress to your body, which can cause exhaustion and lead to other problems. Mark Twain once said, “Courage is resistance to and mastery of fear — not the absence of fear.” How true those words are. Fear will never go away. Fear can be a lifesaver, but it can also be destructive if allowed to remain a constant in your daily life. Imagined fear can feel like a massive wall that drops down in front of you when you are trying to get to something that you want. This massive wall may seem insurmountable at times. However, there are To overcome them, you will need to confront them. Try this exercise: write down your imagined fears — possibly in a journal. Put them in order of the worst fear first. Now, decide if you want to confront them. If so, ask yourself (and then answer) the following questions. • How have these fears affected my past or current actions in my life? • How much power do these fears have in my life? • How do these fears inhibit me? • How long have I had these fears? • How convinced am I of the need to confront these fears? Now that you have taken some time to confront your imagined fears, you may be javajournalSTL.com ready to overcome them. Overcoming your fears means reframing your fearful thoughts. One of the first things to do when you decide to overcome your fears is to make friends with each fear. Yes, you read that right. Make friends with each fear. Get to know the fear. When it comes up, embrace the physical feeling. In other words, if you feel a knot in your stomach, go ahead and feel the knot. Pause for a moment and really feel it. You can even say to yourself, “The feeling is here, I’m becoming afraid.” You’ll be surprised that just the acknowledgement of this physical sensation can help it dissipate. You may still have the fear, but as you continue to recognize its existence and really feel it, it should become less and less powerful. Here are six practical ways to overcome fear. • If a fear is keeping you awake at night —get up. Move around or pick up that good book you’ve been reading. • Turn on the TV or radio. Just notice that life is going on around you. • Exercise! Get your blood flowing. Exercise will replace the “fear” hormones with the “good” hormones that promote strength and power. • Sing or whistle. If nothing else, you will start breathing normally and this will help calm you down. • Think positive thoughts. Recall a past success. Remember that you can do great things. • Create your own mantra. It could be as simple as “I can handle this.” Then silently repeat it over and over again. • Stay in the here-and-now—focus on what’s happening. This will keep your mind from wandering to future events that may never happen. To many of us, feeling real or imagined fear can stop us in our tracks. Hopefully, you’re ready to take a stand and become more powerful than your fears. It will take time, but you can master your fears. When fear rears its ugly head, you might consider the following: • Do what makes you happy. Keep obligations and responsibilities and add to them what makes you happy. • Remind yourself that no one is paying that much attention to you. Spend less time worrying about what others think of you. They are much too busy wondering what others think of them. • Everyone has fears, but handling fear successfully involves choosing to move through the fear and doing what makes you feel happy. • Make your own plan and move toward the goal. Move through the fears that may present themselves to you. Imagined fear can be recognized, confronted and overcome. The next time you feel fear, secretly smile, pause and let the physical sensation become a motivator— a friend. Be present in the moment and then use this acronym to describe your fear: Feeling Energy Abundantly Raised! I June/July 2010 | Page 9 THE FUTURE IS NOW IT’S UP TO YOU It’s your turn. You’ve decided to go back to school and finish your degree. You’ve done your homework, and you know the time is now. 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It is all the little things behind the scenes that riders, their families and volunteers are not aware of, that I’ve been blessed to see and makes me realize what an even greater sacrifice they make to give every day to these children, horses and volunteers. The rooster crows — they are ready to begin the day. Tilly, their Doberman pinscher, accompanies Bonnie to the far end of the pasture to rid the fence of vines so the horses do not get caught in them. While walking, they check the pasture for anything that could harm the First Place, by Nancy Finke of north St. Louis County T hree local photographers and an essayist captured the “sparrows among us” for their prize-winning photo/essays in the Gitana Productions Eye On The Sparrow – The World Within St. Louis photography competition. The winners were announced this week and will be exhibited at Eye On the Sparrow: The World Within St. Louis, an original play by Gitana Productions which opened May 21 at St. Louis University. “Some of our heroes are like sparrows — people of simple means and humble backgrounds, whose work or deeds make our community better and inspire us to be better,” Cecilia Nadal said. Nadal is executive director of Gitana Productions, a not-for-profit arts and education group that nurtures global healing in the St. Louis community through music, dance and drama. Jamestown New Horizons Therapeutic Horsemanship The first place photo/essay by Nancy Finke of north St. Louis County features Bonnie and Oliver Grueninger, a Florissant couple in their seventies, who rise with the roosters each day to prepare their horses for the youth who take therapeutic horsemanship lessons. “I’ve been blessed to see all the little behind-the-scenes details that riders, their families and volunteers don’t get to see,” Nancy Finke said of the Grueningers. The couple has Second Place, by Jessica Hentoff of Florissant devoted the past 25 years of their life and savings to run Jamestown New Horizons, a therapeutic horsemanship program for children with disabilities. ”Their wealth of patience, knowledge and compassion is unsurpassed and they make everyone feel they are part of their family,” Finke said. She volunteers at Jamestown New Horizons and has made photography her hobby since college. Circus Harmony Three teenagers who have been circus performers since they were babies were the subjects of a second-place winning photo/ essay by their mother Jessica Hentoff of Florissant, who described them as “three sparrows who inspire me.” Jessica Hentoff’s three children have grown up in the public eye as circus performers. They teach circus skills to other children and perform at the City Museum with the St. Louis Arches. They have served as peace ambassadors through Circus Harmony’s “Peace Through Pyramids” collaboration with the Jewish/Arab Galilee Circus in Israel. “These formidable young people personify Circus Harmony’s mission to defy gravity, soar with confidence and leap over social barriers,” according to Hentoff, a retired circus performer who runs Circus Harmony, a St. Louis-based circus school and social circus program. Inspiring Friend – Geri Heidepriem The third place photo/essay by Dennis O’Malley of Webster Groves and Cindy Matejcic of southwest St. Louis County features their friend, 55-year-old Geri Heidepriem, who lives just a mile from Cindy. They describe her as “a sparrow who soars” despite a series of debilitating illnesses. Geri Heidepriem, the subject of Dennis O’Malley’s photo and Cindy Matejcic’s essay, inspires others with her love, generosity of spirit and her good humor, despite terminal cancer, diabetes, fibromyalgia and a stroke. “She has met every setback with determination, fortitude and grace,” Matejcic said. She has known Heidepriem since they played softball together as teenagers in Affton. “Despite her physical struggles and pain, she is always giving to others, letting people know she’s thinking of them.” Matejcic is an avid gardener, wife and mother who is passionate about people who try to make a difference in the world. O’Malley, who photographed Heidepriem, built his first darkroom at the age of 14 and has been a full-time professional photographer for more than 20 years. The black-and-white, juried photography competition, titled Eye On The Sparrow: The World Within St. Louis, brings attention to the many extraordinary, yet ordinary people who enrich our lives in the St. Louis region, according to Nadal. horses. Oliver heads to the stable, greeting the horses as he gives them their feed and hay, making sure they all respond and look as they should. After opening the gate to the pasture, Oliver opens each stall and these beautiful creatures kick up their heels, galloping to the pasture where they play and rest before working with the children that evening. Bonnie heads back to the house and into the office to perform the innumerable duties that keep her occupied and away from giving her beloved horses the attention she knows they deserve. Around noon, Oliver comes from the stable to see what to fix for their lunch. Yes, he is the man of the house, but chores are shared equally by this couple that has been married 48 years. The afternoon flies by and soon the driveway bell rings, signifying that volunteers are coming, followed by parents and children for their lessons. Even though the children receive physical and occupational therapy and so- cial skills to name a few, they do not realize it, since this environment is different from the cold, sterile setting of a clinic. Here, they feel warm sun, see geese at the pond, a raccoon and her babies among the trees— all as they sit tall on their horses, riding around the arena. Even after the last session ends at 8:30 p.m., Bonnie and Oliver’s day isn’t done. They chat with volunteers regarding the sessions, then finally turn off the lights in the indoor riding arena and stable and walk to the house. They sit, review and make notes about the riders and tack for the following week. Their wealth of patience, knowledge and compassion is unsurpassed. And they have a way of making each rider, their families and the volunteers feel that they now are part of their family — whether they have been coming 25 years or two years, like me. And, did I mention they are in their seventies and have more energy than the Energizer Bunny? Third place, by Dennis O'Malley of Webster Groves and Cindy Matejcic of southwest St. Louis County The winning photographs and stories will be exhibited in the lobby during performances of Eye On the Sparrow: The World Within St. Louis, an original play by Gitana Productions which runs through June 6 at St. Louis University Theatre. Written by award-winning playwright Lee Patton Chiles, the play is set on a Metro bus and is based on the actual stories of several St. Louisans from diverse backgrounds. Eye On the Sparrow: The World Within St. Louis St. Louis University Theatre Through June 6, 2010 8 p.m. on Fridays and Saturdays 2:30 p.m. on Sundays General Admission $15; seniors (65 and over) and students $12 A limited number of free tickets are available for people who are regular Metro riders. For details, call (314) 721-6556 or email [email protected]. Tickets also available at: Cafe Natasha, 3200 S. Grand; Screenz, 6680 Delmar; Macro Sun, 1310 Washington or 6273 Delmar; The Living Insights Center, 6361 Clayton Road. June 7 to August 21 June 2 7- August Ages to 21Adult Ages 2- Adult www.cocastl.org • • • • • • Ballet and Modern Jazz, Tap and Hip-Hop Cultural and Social Dance Theatre and Voice Fitness Early Childhood Arts and Movement Register Now! www.cocastl.org 524 Trinity Ave. St. Louis, MO | (314) 725-6555 Page 12 | June/July 2010 javajournalSTL.com javajournalSTL.com June/July 2010 | Page 13 A Happy Father’s Day Reflection … Café Olé! 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After having mastered accelerating and stopping with training wheels, I clearly recall Dad’s magical wrench finally removing the training wheels. Nervously, I mounted the bicycle while Dad held the rear handle of black banana seat of my bright orange three-speeder. It took a couple of tries to find my balance, with Dad serving as the training wheels. We went up the block and back — my dad’s gyroscopic hand kept me safe. As we went up the block again, the speed impressed me, especially because Dad was keeping up—until I turned around and realized that he wasn’t there. Shock and awe, excitement and fear—my first baby steps into pre-adolescence. Although he remembered the event, my dad didn’t recall much of the detail. I considered that odd for the longest time—something so vibrant to me was not so much to him. However, today I realized I also can’t recall many details when Amy and Noah first biked solo. Memory can be cruelly selective. Today, I took Amy for more DWUP—driving while under permit. After a few evening lessons in the nearby industrial park, we took the next step—driving on major roads. We were to end the day’s challenges by parking at Target. It’s a task that taxes even the most experienced drivers. As we rounded the road toward the left turn into Target, she went too fast and missed the lane. Her reaction was prudent. She kept going straight to hang a left and circle back to the parking lot. Ordinarily, that would be a good plan. However, the lanes were all garbled because of the Dept. of Transportation and the twoyear highway shutdown/renovation. We were blocked out of the one straight lane. Amy was slowing down when we both realized we were locked into the right-turn entrance onto the interstate. “What do I do, Dad?” is what I heard, as my eyes darted in all directions. “You have to take the turn and speed up...we’ll be okay, just listen to me...” “Oh my God! Are we on the highway?” “Just listen to me and we’ll be okay.” And onto the interstate we went. “Dad, we could go to church!” We could, I thought, since we were more than halfway there. “No,” I replied. “We’re getting off at the next exit.” “Are we on the highway?” “You’re doing well — just slow down and make a right turn.” We turned right onto a major road, the one that runs closest to our house. “Yes, we were on a highway.” “I did really well, didn’t I?” “You did adequately.” We pulled into our driveway (which seemed old hat by now) and turned off the ignition. The adrenaline kept pumping, but through our words instead of our actions. “I did do really well, right?” “Well, you handled the unexpected well, listened closely and didn't panic. You did adequately.” “How did I not do well?” “You did those things well, but should we have been there in the first place?” “Ohhh…” I wrote in my journal, “Today, we ran errands again and this time you made the turns, all in good time. Last weekend we even drove on the interstate several times, intentionally— all without incident. You are doing well and will be a good driver by your sixteenth birth- day. I wonder how much of this you will remember without this memoir. I don’t recall anything about my driving lessons from my dad, but I’m sure he remembers more than I.” Memory can be cruelly selective. “And just tonight, dear Amy, when you agreed to go with Mom and me to the pool, you ended up driving us there. You were reading a book while we swam, and then drove us home. It was a classic role reversal of what we’ve done for you until now, and a foreshadowing of what you’ll need to do for us when we enter our dotage. But wait —it’s too early for that! We’ll need to help my parents long before you do so for us.” I NEED HELP RESEARCHING YOUR HERITAGE? St. Louis Genealogical Society has resources for the avid genealogist. Special Interest Groups are here to help. 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Would like to write articles that get noticed? For more information visit javajournalSTL.com Page 16 | June/July 2010 javajournalSTL.com Jamestown New Horizons June/July 2010 | Page 17 Dream the Impossible Dream Friday, July 9 6:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. Historic Downtown Maplewood Circus Flora’s 24th Season Production, Ingenioso p.m.; Sunday at 1 and 5:30 p.m.; and “Little Top Wednesday” at 10 a.m., a special onehour show for smaller kids or the “kids at heart.” Tickets for Ingenioso are $8 to $39 and available through all MetroTix outlets including www.MetroTix.com and by phone at (314) 534-1111. Tickets are also available at the Emerson Box Office in the Centene Center for the Arts & Education and by calling Circus Flora, (314) 289-4040. Group discounts are available for groups of 20 or more. Call Circus Flora at (314) 289-4040 for group reservations and pricing. Visit www.circusflora.org for more information. I Courtesy of the APA provided by JNH Sponsor a Rider at Jamestown New Horizons Let Them Eat Art! javajournalSTL.com Photo by Doug Houser Jamestown New Horizons’ mission is to promote the health and quality of life for people with disabilities through therapeutic riding. Sponsor a Rider I Adorable Adoptables “I’m adorable, please take me home!” Jamestown New Horizons (JNH), a non-profit organization founded in 1985, provides therapeutic horseback riding experiences for people with disabilities. Located in North County, JNH is partially funded by the Productive Living Board of St. Louis County and the Missouri Foundation for Health. Lilly www.jnh-goneriding.org Diamond is a two-yearold brown tabby. She was a stray whose owners never came for her. Diamond is very sweet and likes other cats. Purr-fect! Lilly is an eight-year-old Lab Mix. She is housetrained, crate-trained and loves to play. Lilly has lots of love to give, so don’t let her age scare you away. Diamond Adorable Adoptables are available at the Animal Protective Association 1705 S. Hanley Road. www.apamo.org. n its twenty-fourth season, Circus Flora, St. Louis' beloved one-ring, Europeanstyle circus, presents an all-new show, Ingenioso, inspired by the impossible dream of Don Quixote and presented by Edward Jones. The show runs June 3 through June 27 under the air-conditioned, red-and-white, big top tent in Grand Center, adjacent to Powell Symphony Hall. Galloping conquistadors, hilarious farmyard animals, classic equestrian ballet, aerial acts and an awe-inspiring low-wire walker are featured. The world-renowned Circus Flora ensemble brings this memorable tale of misadventure to life. The world of Don Quixote and its heroes emerge as gentle, triumphant clowns persuading others to see the glory of the world as they do. The circus ring becomes the fields of LaMancha. Ingenioso follows the noble, often haphazard quest of Don Quixote, the Knight of the Mournful Countenance and his squire Sancho Panza, to right the wrongs of the world—or at least the wrongs of the world within riding distance. Here, windmills trans- form before our eyes into giants; peasant girls to princesses; a barnyard scene becomes a twelve-pony liberty act; and the swineherd, an elegant lady. “I know each year I think it’s going to be the best show ever. However, the Don Quixote theme couldn’t be more perfect for showcasing all the best of Circus Flora,” Ivor David Balding, artistic director of Circus Flora, said. “In typical joyful fashion, what appears to be may not be, and the world in the circus ring tends to change right in front of your eyes. The magic under the big top becomes the magic of La Mancha.” The name, Ingenioso, refers to the ingenious, quick thinking of Don Quixote as he mistakes ordinary objects and people for the fantastic, falling into misadventures, always managing to emerge unscathed. Unfortunately, his sidekick, Sancho Panza, does suffer the physical assaults and vicissitudes of the escapades. The beloved clown Nino (Giovanne Zoppe) plays the role of Sancho Panza. His master, Don Quixote, is played by Carlos Svenson, animal and horse trainer. Returning favorites and surprising new acts comprise the 2010 production. The list includes world-renowned Circus Flora stars Cecil MacKinnon as Yo-Yo the Narrator, the Flying Pages, the St. Louis Arches and the Circus Flora band. Circus acts include the trapeze artistry of the Flying Pages, Sasha Alexandre Nevidonski’s equestrian ballet aerial silk act, Jenny Vidbel’s Mixed Animal Act and Liberty Pony Act (Vidbel also plays the love interest of Don Quixote), the Cossack Riders as the trick riding galloping conquistadors, Vince Bruce of Vince Bruce Roman Riding and Trick Roping as the Knight of the Mirrors, low-wire walker Julien Posada in his Circus Flora debut, aerial straps duo Erika and Andrew Adams— and Hovey Burgess. “This year we have a fabulous addition,” Balding said. “Low-wire walker Julien Posada has perfected an act that includes a feat that no one else in the world is doing. Even after 24 years there’s always something new to look forward to.” Show times are Tuesday through Thursday at 7 p.m.; Friday and Saturday at 2 and 7 Photo by Dan Donovan For more information, call (314) 741-5816, or email [email protected] Courtesy of the APA Please send you tax-deductible donation to: Jamestown New Horizons 15350 Old Jamestown Rd Florissant, MO 63034 Go all out and sign up for the “Don’t Dream It…Be It” Costume Contest, with celebrity judges Darin Slyman, publisher of the Vital Voice, the RFT's Chad Garrison, Where Magazine's Ethan Wood and the lovely Ms. Lola Van Ella. Save the date and plan to join the fun on Friday, July 9 from 6:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. For more information, please call (314) 645-3600 or visit cityofmaplewood.com. Courtesy of Circus Flora O ui, oui, the fifth annual Let Them Eat Art returns — Maplewood’s tribute to Bastille Day with an “anything goes” atmosphere. It’s self-guided tour de fun through Historic Down-town Maplewood's shops and restaurants with something for everyone. The city will be abuzz with live music, featuring Gumbohead, live art, dream interpretation, face painting, belly dancing and ooh, la-la burlesque! Photo by Harold Boerstler Jeff Noble of Bouffant Daddy dazzled the audience in 2009 with his flamingo people. 12-Week Session: $336 36 Lessons: $1,000 Support A Horse: $120 Page 18 | June/July 2010 javajournalSTL.com javajournalSTL.com June/July 2010 | Page 19 Laughter Yoga FREE UNLIMITED Calls Around the World 14 $ .99 Support Dogs, Inc. $75,000 Raised at Event Per Month For the first 6 months, then only $25.99/mo with 1 year agreement. Plus taxes and fees.† Call the U.S. and more than 60 countries* NOW FOR ONLY $14.99/mo for the first 6 months, then only $25.99/mo † WHEN YOU ADD IT ALL UP, NOTHING ELSE STACKS UP! • • • • Unlimited local and long distance. 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Towne Square, Ste. 102 St. Louis, MO 63123 Bob Kramer’s Marionnettes continued from page 6 trained with Dr. Madan Kataria and became a certified laughter yoga leader. And in April 2010, she was certified as a laughter yoga teacher. In 2008 Dr Kataria honored Chertok with the Laughter Yoga ambassador award, recognizing her work with laughter yoga. Her story has been featured on Dr. Kataria’s website — laughteryoga.org — and she has a blog on Dr Kataria’s website. Chertok recently started her own website: www.laughteryogastlouis.net. The St. Louis Laughter Club started with a small group of other breast cancer survivors who have gathered together every week for the last five and a half years. The group is open to anyone wanting to laugh to reduce stress, recover from illness or for health prevention— or just to get more laughter in their life. “Attendance ranges from 15 to 25 people. We laugh with whoever shows up on Sunday. It has spread largely by word of mouth. Finding my own laughter again has been one of the best things I have done in my life,” Chertok concluded. The St Louis Laughter Club meets every Sunday afternoon at 4:00 p.m. at Eliot Unitarian Chapel in Kirkwood. For information, contact Chertok at (314) 9650656 or [email protected]. Marlene Chertok loves sharing the laughter with groups and organizations in the community. She adapts it to different settings, ages and ability levels and is becoming a popular presenter. Contact her directly at [email protected]. Entertaining & Educational and Wholesome Fun! “Laughter is an instant vacation.” -Milton Berle “Laughing without a reason is the purest form of laughter, as it comes from your heart, not your judging brain.” -Dr Madan Kataria “Scientists say that a smile, even forced or fake, sends a certain happy message to the brain. Sometimes, when I am fighting the mean reds, I sit in my office or my kitchen or my bedroom and I smile. 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For reservations, call (314) 531-3313 www.kramersmarionnettes.com Celebrate Summer with ‘Blues in Benton Park’ Friends and neighbors from across Saturday, June 12, 5:00–9:00 p.m. the city are invited to pack their dancing shoes, dust off their lawn chairs, stock their picnic baskets and celebrate the summer with an evening of familyfriendly fun in historic Benton Park. On Saturday, June 12, 5:00 to 9:00 p.m., the Benton Park Neighborhood Association kicks off its annual free concert series, “Blues in Benton Park,” the first in the series of four free monthly, foot-tapping concerts for the whole family. In addition to great music, there will be free massages and Art Dimensions’ returns with live-art performances and a children’s art area. Such artists as Jen Hayes, Chris Sabatino, Sophia DalpiazBrown, Chrystal Stone and Billy Williams will be on hand. New at this year’s event: free yoga classes and a beer tent, sponsored by New Belgium Brewing Co. 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Morgan, a member of the St. Louis Film Critics Association Letters to Juliet (PG) (2010) What could be better than finding your true love in one of the most romantic settings in the world? Fast forward to Juliet Capulet’s balcony in Verona, Italy, where young and beautiful Sophie (Amanda Seyfried) is on a prenuptial holiday with her fiancé Victor (Gael Garcia Bernal). The balcony and the spirit of the illfated Shakespearian romance between Romeo and Juliet is preserved by a group of volunteers known as The Juliet Club. These ladies spend their time answering letters to the lovelorn who leave their inquiries on the wall near the balcony. Sophie, a “fact searcher” for a publisher and an aspiring writer, finds a 50year-old letter from a young woman named Claire who regrets that she failed to meet her lover, Lorenzo, and run away with him. She chose instead to return home to England and the security of her family. Rather than let it go, Sophie writes to Claire and the hunt is on for an aged Lorenzo. Along with Claire comes her handsome grandson who is not too enthusiastic about a reunion between his grandmother and her former lover. Can Claire find her soulmate after half of a century has passed? No spoilers here. Grab a lady and go find out for yourself. Or, if a chick flick isn’t in the stars for you this month, wait for the home entertainment version to be released and rent it. Either way, you’ll get a large dose of PG romance. Rating: 2 cups Shrek Forever After (PG) (2010) Just in time for Father’s Day comes this fairytale of fatherhood with a lesson or two to deliver. The first two are, “be careful what you wish for” and “be very careful with whom you deal.” Papa Shrek (Mike Meyers) breaks both rules when, in a moment of weakness, he pines for his old life as a feared ogre and signs a shady contract with the evil Rumplestiltskin (Walt Dorn) whereby he gets to live one day back in his old persona, sans wife and kids. In trade he must relinquish a day of his childhood that he doesn’t even remember. The dual-humor is back in the Shrek series and the adventure that follows the dirty deal with Rumplestiltskin is fresh and thoroughly entertaining for all ages. Fortunately, the writers have created a feature that is both heartwarming and humorous. In the alternate life scenario that is created for Shrek, some obvious changes occur. Far Far Away is now ruled by the very nasty Rumplestilkskin and his band of ugly witches; Shrek’s buddies, Puss-inBoots (Antonio Banderas) and Donkey (Eddie Murphy) have no idea who he is; and his beloved Fiona was never rescued from the tower. Sadly, when a kiss of true love is sorely needed, there is none to be found. Shrek’s wish certainly went awry, but the fine film that ensues is a wonderful treat for family movie goers in 3-D. Rating: 4 cups NATIONAL PARK SERVICE BIKE TOURS Saturdays, Thru Sept. 6, 9-11am Beginning Memorial Day weekend, visitors interested in taking in the sights around the Gateway Arch can sign up for free bike tours led by National Parks Service rangers. The six-mile bike tours explore the scenery, history and events along the Riverfront Trail. RSVP 877-982-1410. WHITAKER MUSIC FESTIVAL Wednesdays, June 2-Aug. 4, 7:30pm Cohen Amphitheater Missouri Botanical Garden 4344 Shaw Blvd. Free after 5pm. 314-577-5100. www.mobot.org. CONSTITUTION PARTY HOSTS SHERIFF RICHARD MACK June 4, 7pm Eureka Community Center 333 Bald Hill Rd., Eureka, Mo. Free. Sherriff Richard Mack, former sherriff and author of County Sheriff, American's Last Hope. www.sheriffmack.com. BEATLEMANIA NOW Iron Man 2 (PG-13) (2010) Proving once again that “the man makes the suit,” Robert Downey, Jr. returns as Iron Man/ billionaire and bon vivant, Tony Stark. His secret identity is way out in the open and he is basking in the limelight of his unprecedented popularity. World peace has been achieved thanks to Tony’s negotiations. The famous Stark Expo is opening, highlighting all of the latest technology that will make the world a better place to live. What could go wrong? A lot, it seems. There’s at least enough unrest to yield plenty of material for a rousing, two-hour cinematic adventure. Although Tony Stark’s popularity is at its peak, he still has some detractors. Among them, is U. S. Senator Stern (Gary Shandling), who has him subpoenaed to appear before a government investigating committee. Stern wants the Iron Man suit technology turned over to the military, but Stark is vehement in his refusal. In the process of debunking Stern’s arguments, Tony makes a fool out of his corporate rival and personal enemy. Justin Hammer (Sam Rockwell). Stark’s beat buddy and sidekick, Lt. Col. James “Rhodey” Rhodes (Don Cheadle), gets in on the hearing and attempts to help out his old pal, but to no avail. Spoilers though they may be, the above hints are but a glimpse of the action that is to follow. Rating: 4 cups June 1-5 Tuesday-Friday, 8pm, Saturday, 2 & 8pm Touhill Performing Arts Center University of Missouri-St. Louis One University Blvd., Normandy This multimedia musical stage show is a celebration of the ’60s and the group that helped shape them…The Beatles! Tickets are $100, $65, $45, available at Touhill. 314-516-4949. www.touhill.org. NATIONAL TRAILS DAY Saturday, June 5, 9am-1pm World Bird Sanctuary 125 Bald Eagle Ridge Rd., Valley Park Enjoy this family-friendly event. Naturalists with live animals will be at interpretation stations along the trails. Free children’s activities with prizes. Snack foods for sale. Free, no reservations required. 636225-4390. worldbirdsanctuary.org. BABES IN TOYLAND LAUREL & HARDY MOVIE CLUB Saturday, June 5 Mei Hua Chinese Restaurant 9626 Olive Blvd. The public is invited to attend. Buffet is $10 at 6:30pm. The film, The Flying Deuces, begins at 7:30pm. For information call 314-962-3352 for visit www.stlouislaurelandhardy.org. JEWEL: STAR LIGHT CAFE TOUR, SPECIAL GUEST KIP MOORE Sunday, June 6, 7:30pm The Sheldon 3648 Washington Blvd. Call Metrotix at 314-534-1111 or thesheldon.org. GITANA PRODUCTIONS PRESENTS NEW ORIGINAL PLAY, EYE ON THE SPARROW: THE WORLD WITHIN ST. LOUIS Thru June 6 Fri. and Sat., 8pm, Sundays, 2:30pm St. Louis University Theatre 3733 West Pine Mall $15, $12 for seniors and students. 314-721-6556 or email [email protected]. CIRCUS FLORA, INGENIOSO June 3-27 Grand Blvd. & Samuel Shepard Dr. (adjacent to Powell Symphony Hall) Circus Flora, St. Louis’ beloved one-ring, Europeanstyle circus, announces an all-new show, Ingenioso, inspired by the impossible dream of Don Quixote. Tickets are $8 to $39, available through MetroTix, 314-534-1111 and the Emerson box, 3547 Olive Str., and by calling 314-289-4040. Group discounts are available. www.circusflora.org. ANNE OF GREEN GABLES June 4-13 Friday & Saturday, 8pm, Sunday, 2pm Washington University S. Campus Theater Tickets are $7 for children under 14 and $10 for adults. For tickets, email [email protected] or call 314-721-9228 or visit brownpapertickets.com. ART TRENDS GALLERY AND THE SAINT LOUIS WATERCOLOR SOCIETY WATERCOLOR EXHIBIT Friday, June 4, 6-8pm, opening reception June 4-June 30 Art Trends Gallery 703 Long Road Crossing Dr, #1, Chesterfield Free. 636-536-3266. www.arttrendsgallery.net. PETER MARTIN TRIO Friday, June 4, 8pm The Sheldon 3648 Washington Blvd. Tickets $25 general admission. Call Metrotix at 314-534-1111 or 314-533-9900. thesheldon.org. CIRCUS FLORA ART EXHIBIT BY SCOTT RAFFE June 4–September 18 The Sheldon Art Galleries 3648 Washington Blvd. 314-533-9900. thesheldon.org. CAJUN DANCE WITH CAJUN GATOR BAITORS Wednesday, June 9, 7:30-10:00pm The Focal Point 2720 Sutton Blvd, Maplewood Cajun two-step & waltz lesson at 7:30pm, followed by dancing to live music at 8:15pm. No partner or experience necessary. $8 at the door. 314-8220310 or www.dancindonna.com/Cajun. THURSDAYS @ THE INTERSECTION: GRAND CENTER LIVE MUSIC, VISUAL & PERFORMING ARTS Thursdays, June 10–July 15, 6-8pm Grand and Washington Blvds. at Strauss Park Live music highlights a creative theme, from dance to set design, the written word to visual arts, theater to costume design. grandcenter.org. BETTERINVESTING NATIONAL CONVENTION: GATEWAY TO YOUR INVESTMENT FUTURE Thursday, June 10, 1-5pm Friday & Saturday, June 11-12, 8am Sunday, June 13, 8am-1pm Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch 315 Chestnut Street S&P’s Sam Stovall, keynote speaker; Josh Peters, Morningstar, Instructor. More than 100 classes: beginner, intermediate and advanced. Visit betterinvesting.org/biconvention for registration and more information. 636-394-7186. “BLUES IN BENTON PARK” SERIES Saturday, June 12, 5-9pm Rum Drum Ramblers and Miss Jubilee and the Humdingers Saturday, July 3 Roosevelt High Marching Band and The Tommy Halloran Sextet Benton Park (S. Jefferson Ave. & Arsenal St.) Free Yoga classes; beer tent; live-art performances; children’s art area. For schedule, visit bentonparkconcerts.eventbrite.com. 314-802-1551. BETTERINVESTING’S MODEL INVESTMENT CLUB Monday, June 14, 7-9pm Center of Clayton, Meeting Room 50 Gay Ave., Clayton Open to the Public. See what an investment club does. $5. Bring a friend for free. 314-298-0495. CARDINALS VS. SEATTLE MARINERS BASEBALL TICKETS TO BENEFIT THE ST. LOUIS UNIVERSITY LIVER CENTER Tuesday, June 15, 7:15pm Busch Stadium Tickets are first come, first served. For more information or to purchase tickets, call 314-5763078 or via email at [email protected]. A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DANCE Friday, June 18, 6-10pm Spink Pavilion Missouri Botanical Garden 4344 Shaw Blvd. $70; $60 Garden members. Reservations required: 314-577-9570. www.mobot.org/events. SLEEPING BEAUTY, PRESENTED BY SAINT LOUIS BALLET NORTH STAR SUMMER ZOO WEEKENDS Thru Sept. 6 Saint Louis Zoo On Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays, the Zoo extends its hours, 8am-7pm. Weekday hours are 8am-5pm. 314-781-0900. www.stlzoo.org. PARTIES IN THE PARK Wednesdays, thru Sept. 15, 5-8pm Shaw Park, Clayton PRESERVING THE HARVEST Thursday, July 8, 7-9pm Kemper Center for Home Gardening Missouri Botanical Garden 4344 Shaw Blvd. $25. Advance registration required. 314-577-5140. mobot.org/classes. BETTERINVESTING’S MODEL INVESTMENT CLUB Monday, July 12, 7-9pm Center of Clayton, Meeting Room 50 Gay Ave., Clayton Open to the Public. See what an investment club does. $5. Bring a friend for free. 314-298-0495. Saturday, June 26, 3pm & 7:30pm Sunday, June 27, 3pm Touhill Performing Arts Center University of Missouri-St. Louis One University Blvd. The classical ballet, The Sleeping Beauty, is considered a masterpiece today because of its score and its choreography—flawlessly constructed and magical. Tickets are $47, $42, $20, available at Touhill ticket office. 314-516-4949. www.touhill.org. MICHAEL MACDONALD Friday, July 23, 8pm Touhill Performing Arts Center University of Missouri-St. Louis One University Blvd., Normandy Grammy Award-winner Michael McDonald comes home to St. Louis to perform hits as a solo artist and former member of Steely Dan and the Doobie Brothers. Tickets are $100, $65, $45, available at Touhill. 314-516-4949. www.touhill.org. TRASH OR TREASURE? KODNER GALLERY SPONSORS BENEFIT Saturday, June 26, 1:30-5:30pm Congregation Shaare Emeth 11645 Ladue Road, Creve Coeur Is your family heirloom or flea market find rare or rubbish? Appraisal hosted by Kodner Gallery to benefit St. Louis American Parkinson Disease Assn. Bring an item for a professional opinion of value, for $35, and $10 for each additional item (up to three). 314-362-3299. www.kodnergallery.com. FLEA MARKET FUNDRAISER Friday, July 30, 6-8pm, Preview $5 Saturday, July 31, 7am-4pm, Sale Sunday, Aug. 1, 10am-2pm, Clearance St. Mark’s Episcopal Church 4714 Clifton Ave., St. Louis Hills Housewares, books, furniture, jewelry, tools, electronics, antiques and more. Proceeds will go toward new organ and elevator. 314-832-3588. www.saintmarks-stl.org. RENEW, GREEN VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL, 5 NIGHTS OF CHRISTIAN FAITH Sunday, June 27–Thursday, July 1 Manchester United Methodist Church 129 Woods Mill Rd., Manchester Families are invited to enjoy a free meal together each evening before Vacation Bible School for kids and a speaker series for adults. Register online www.manchesterumc.com/vbs. BETTERINVESTING’S STOCK STUDY Monday, June 28, 7-9pm St. Louis County Library Headquarters 1640 S. Lindbergh, Frontenac Open to all levels of experience. Informal stock presentation. Participate in stock selection guide (SSG) preparation; apply the BI principals to determine if group should make a fictitious “buy.” $5. Bring a friend for free. 636-227-4260. SHELDON ART GALLERIES: HISTORY OF BLUES MUSIC IN ST. LOUIS Thru Aug. 28 History of Jazz Gallery The Sheldon Arts Galleries 3648 Washington Blvd. 314-533-9900. thesheldon.org. BUTTERFLY RAMBLE July 31, 10:30am-noon Shaw Nature Reserve Hwy. 100 & I-44, Gray Summit Entomologist James Trager will guide a tour through some of the best butterfly habitats at the Shaw Nature Reserve. Ages eight and over with an adult. $12 per person. Advance registration, 314-577-5140 or mobot.org/classes. Get a job quickly with our 45-credithour program³the only AHIMA accredited certificate in the state! 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