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My Big Fat Geek Wedding
JANUARY 2016
Wedding
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for 2016
GOTri
JANUARY 2016
Wedding
Trends
for 2016
My Big Fat Geek Wedding
Mary Katherine Phipps & Martin Shepherd
Grace Meadows – Jonesborough
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WEDDING
TRENDS FOR 2016
WEDDING
ADVICE
WEDDING
VENUES
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MY BIG FAT GEEK
WEDDING
MAKE A SECOND
WEDDING STAND OUT
THROWBACK
WEDDINGS
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GROOMSMENS
GIFTS
REHEARSAL
DINNER HOW-TO
HONEYMOON
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DESTINATIONS
WEDDING GOOD
LUCK CHARMS
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Buying Your First Home Together
by Connie Salyer
It seems that the wedding plans are taking
up every free minute since you said YES. You
have the venue, the caterer, the dress, the music, the flowers, the guest list... the details can
be overwhelming, but there may be one thing
you should focus on most - even during the
hectic wedding planning.
Where will you live when you begin your life
together? Will you come back from your honeymoon to stay with parents, consolidate everything in the bride or groom’s apartment or
will you be lucky enough to move right into
your dream home?
Time Home Buyers”, because it will be the
most expensive, and scary decision they will
make and I want it to be so very good and
positive for them.
Since I have been in the business for so long, I
have learned with each family that there is so
much more that goes into picking your first
home, than just finding the pretty house.
One of the things that I try very hard to do
is protect you and make you aware of many
things that can enter into this exciting adventure! Unless you are in this business
When considering where you are going to
live after you’re married, there’s nothing quite
like owning your own home together. It’s not
yours or mine; it’s ours, and maybe a place
to build a life and start a family.
If you are thinking about buying a new
home, please make the first step and
call me. I would love to sit down with
you, answer all of your questions and
give you a better understanding of
what steps you need to take in buying
your first dream home “together.”
every day, you might not recognize when you
are being taken advantage of. I want to be the
one that walks with you through the whole
process and tries to do such a good job that
every time you need to make a new move, I
am the one you remember to call. The very
first thing that we are taught when becoming
a Realtor, is to always remember the Golden
Rule and to live by it with every transaction,
“Do unto others as you would want them to
do unto you”. That is the first and most important thing I heard and I knew that if I did it
the way it should be done that I could “Make
A Difference”! So I strive very hard to practice
it every day with all of my Clients and
Customers.
So when you are saying your vows to each
other, just know there are those of us that
want to take those exciting and wonderful
steps with you in helping you succeed
in making all your Promises and Dreams
come true and to make them last
a lifetime! I would be very Honored
to be one of those People!
I have been a real estate professional
since 1989. I have such a passion for
doing what I do and want to make it such
a fun adventure for each family! My first
love is especially the ones that are “First
Connie Salyer CRS, GRI
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Wedding
Trends for 2016
By Kelly Story
- lead wedding coordinator
with Positive Approach Events
based in Johnson City.
Wedding Cakes
Gifts for the Bride and Groom
In the wedding world, it seems as though everything that
was once “out” comes back around again. Couples are going
back to more traditional buttercream wedding cakes and moving away from fondant. Traditional style round cakes decorated
with real or sugar flowers are always popular.
Some couples are choosing to embrace their personalities
and have cakes made to reflect their hobbies, pop culture or
their personal style. For instance, I’ve seen cakes that are traditional down one side and the other side will have comic book
hero colors and designs. Never be afraid to embrace who you
are and what you love.
It is still a sweet tradition for the bride and groom to exchange gifts before the ceremony. With more and more couples choosing to do “first
looks” this gift exchange can take place then, or the bridesmaids and groomsmen can help with the exchange if the couple is going the traditional
route of not seeing each other before the ceremony.
Jewelry for the bride and a watch for the groom are classic gifts, but these tokens don’t have to be pricey, either. I’ve seen a bride give the
groom a fun pair of socks to “prevent cold feet” and a groom give a bride her favorite salted caramel chocolates. The sweetest thing is to have
a handwritten note or letter with the gift that captures your excitement about your marriage.
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Videography and Photography
Videography is coming back in a big way. Many couples are especially interested in having at least a highlight video — a creative and beautiful 5-10
minute overview of the wedding day, usually set to a sweet love song or two. I see more and more brides budgeting for video, which is great. At the end
of the day, after the wedding is over, your photos and video are the only things you have to remember and relive the day.
With photography, I always recommend couples choose classic, skilled photographers. Yes, the filters and creative editing are fun and they are a trend
at the moment, but if you have a great photographer who can shoot timeless photos, you will not regret your decision and your images will never look
dated. You can add fun filters to skillfully captured, well-composed photos, but you can’t remove filters and editing that is covering up less-than-stellar
snapshots.
Photography and videography is the one area
I do not recommend budget-skimping. Hire true
professionals so you have lasting cherished mementos of this special day.
A “first look” — where the bride and groom
see each other before the ceremony — isn’t a
new trend, but it is a popular one. Logistically,
having most of the photography done before the
ceremony is wonderful — you don’t miss getting
photos with anyone and you end up with many
more great photos of the bride and groom together without everything being rushed and crammed
in during cocktail hour.
It’s also a way to save a little money because
you don’t have to open the bar and have cocktail
hour food, you can go straight on to dinner and
dancing after the ceremony.
That said, it’s almost a trend that couples —
grooms especially, lately — are going back to the
tradition of not wanting to see each other before
the ceremony. A first look can be a very special
moment for a couple — I’ve never had a couple
say they regret doing a first look, and most say it
was their favorite moment of the day — but everyone must make that decision for themselves.
Social Media
Many couples are turning to social media to keep guests up to date on
wedding plans and as a means for guests to share snapshots they capture
at the wedding events. Many brides and grooms will create a hashtag for
their wedding events, from bridal showers to the big day, and they post
this hashtag on their programs or a sign at the reception. If guests use
the hashtag when they post on social media platforms like Facebook and
Instagram, it makes it easy for the couple to find all of these posts and
photographs with one click.
While social media is popular, many couples are attempting to have
“unplugged weddings.” Basically an unplugged wedding is one where the
couple asks, either verbally by the officiant, on a sign or in the program, for
the guests to turn off their cellphones and cameras and be in the moment
with the couple instead of trying to take a million pictures of their own.
If you spend the money to hire a great photographer, the last thing you
want is well-meaning Aunt Susie to stand up and block the photographer
as they are trying to capture the bride coming down the aisle or the couple’s first kiss.
Gifts for the Beautiful Bride
Diamond Engagement Rings
Gifts for the Bridesmaids
& Groomsmen
Wedding Bands
Entertainment
A wedding DJ is usually the more affordable reception entertainment
option, but many couples are now budgeting for a fun band to get their
guests dancing the night away. Of course, there are good and bad in both
categories, so vet your choice well before signing on the dotted line.
Photo booths are another trend for reception entertainment and a fun
way for the couple and their guests to have a keepsake of the day. Usually
the vendor providing the photobooth equipment will bring along fun props
to use and most print out photo strips on the spot for guests to take home.
For warm-weather outdoor weddings, lawn games like cornhole and giant Jenga are popular entertainment options.
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Wedding Advice
Planning a wedding can be a stressful and daunting task. However,
newlywed Morgan Taylor Meade says it doesn’t have to be.
Meade, a Gate City, Va. native, and her husband, Tim Meade, were
married in August at the Cokesbury United Methodist Church in Knoxville. Their reception was held at the World’s Fair Park Amphitheater. The
couple was engaged for a little less than six months before saying “I do.”
Meade offers the following tips to make what should be one of the happiest times of a bride and groom’s lives together a little more memorable
and a lot less stressful.
Include your fiancé
A wedding is not all about the bride; there is a groom that has just as
much say so. The best thing that I did was involving my fiancé. He had
certain opinions on the way he wanted things to go as well. So, when we
were able to plan together, we avoided fighting and stressing about minor
details. Including him also helped for the day of the ceremony. He knew
every detail and how things would play out and it definitely helped take
some of the stress off of me.
Participate in marriage counseling
Tim and I really took advantage of our marriage counseling experience
with the church. Make sure to discuss everything, including the scary topics. Financial plans were a major subject matter for us because we weren’t
sure as to how we wanted things to be set up. Our counselor brainstormed
ideas with us and made suggestions, but ultimately left the decision making up to us to carry out. We also learned the best methods for conflict
resolution (which we are still working on). Disagreements and arguments
are inevitable, but once we learned how to slow things down and debate
calmly with one another our relationship grew for the better. Marriage
counseling was a huge success for us.
Plan bridal appointments first
I wanted a short engagement, so we planned our wedding in five
months. I was so excited to book the church, the reception venue and DJ
that I almost forgot to book my appointments. I ended up waiting until the
last second to book my hair and makeup because I assumed it wouldn’t
be a problem. I was still extremely pleased with the way it turned out, but
it could have ended much worse.
Make time for sentiments
Don’t avoid emotional moments, embrace them. This is your wedding
day, take everything in. I made sure to set aside a special moment for my
mom and mother-in-law the night before by giving them presents, and
then my dad had his own special time planned for me that morning. I tried
to avoid tears as to not ruin my makeup, but it’s those special times that
I enjoyed the most. I wish I could relive mine over and over. On my day,
not everything was perfect, but in my head it was a fairy tale dream and I
have my prince.
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Have a backup plan
Try to plan every worst case scenario possible. The week prior to our
wedding day there was absolutely zero percent chance for rain. We were
having an indoor ceremony and our reception was covered under an amphitheater tent. However, I wanted all the pre-wedding pictures taken outside. Just as soon as we were ready to go, the skies opened up and we had
to brainstorm for indoor places.
Also, plan for after the night ends. What will happen when you leave,
who cleans up, where are you staying, etc.? We had planned for all of
this, but accidents still continued to happen. The groomsmen grabbed my
husband’s keys to decorate the car at the church, and they somehow never
made it back to him. Thus, we didn’t have a ride to our own reception and
everyone’s cars were full. We had to ride with the photographers and then
my parents had to bring the car to the hotel at three in the morning, because we were leaving on a plane at four.
Situations arise, and not everything will go smoothly, but make sure to
stay calm. It is the imperfect plans that happen that are made into wedding
day memories that eventually become laughing matters.
Think outside the box for cost savings
For all your special events.
Tents, linens, tables & more.
We researched and reviewed almost everything. But, let’s face it, you
can add the word wedding to anything and the cost will go up $500. What
worked best for us was not going by the traditional wedding book. Instead
of renting the groomsmens’ tuxedos for $200 each, it was cheaper for us
to buy suits. Joseph A. Banks was a having a sale, and we actually bought
12 men’s suits (regular $600) for right around $200. We also saved money
by having my mother make the boutonnieres. They looked great in pictures and no one could even tell. Traditionally, wedding favors are given to
guests, but in essence of time and money we made a donation to St. Judes
Children’s Hospital.
Don’t sweat the small stuff
I would suggest making a list of the expenses that you will have for your
wedding day. Then name the top three most important things to you and
the three least important, and spend accordingly. Not everything has to be
perfect, and you can offset the minor details with elaborate ones otherwise.
I ended up spending the least amount of money on my invitations and programs because I wanted elaborate decorations.
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Most people will say that a big vacation is silly, but that is something I
cherished so much after the wedding. We left the next morning at 4 a.m. to
try to make the most time of our vacation days. I would now say to take one
day in between to settle down from everything. However, we spent a lot on
our honeymoon to St. Lucia, and I don’t regret one single cent. We were
in paradise on our first days as husband and wife. It was such an amazing
feeling to have all the planning over, and enjoy each other without work.
The best part is that everything is paid for and you don’t have to worry
about spending additional money. This was the best way we could truly
enjoy our time together on the island.
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Wedding Venues
– By Rick Wagner
The Lodge at Crooked River
One of the region’s newest “premier” wedding, reception and honeymoon venues is The Lodge at Crooked River, located on the Crooked
Road — Virginia’s Heritage Music Trail.
Between Mendota and Hiltons, Va., in Scott County, The Lodge opened
June 5 and provides what a co-owner called a premier venue for weddings
and other events year round.
The Lodge features circa 1823 hand-hewed, hand-pegged oak beams
and multiple fireplaces on a 200-acre estate of Annette and David Templeton. It has Clinch Mountain on one side and the Holston River on the other.
“We just started cleaning up the property and realized how beautiful
the view down the valley is,” Annette said of the property the couple has
owned for 27 years.
Wedding ceremony sites can be in The Lodge, as well as down by the
Seventh Shoal with the flow of the river, or over in The Grove with tall white
The Barn
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oaks as a backdrop.
The 1890 renovated barn is a place for the wedding party to dress and
also houses a honeymoon suite, while receptions can be in The Lodge,
where Texas limestone frames the entry and flanks the indoor, outdoor
fireplaces, giving a look not unlike the European countryside.
A hand-forged wrought iron arch towers more than 17 feet above the
stone steps into The lodge. A wall of windows facing west show a view of
the valley with hay fields and meadows. The barn’s honeymoon suite has
a copper soaking tub to view a mountain sunset.
Mostly through word of mouth and the website http://crookedriverevents.
com/, the venue has attracted folks from the greater Tri-Cities and as far
away as Middle Tennessee, Templeton said.
Call (423) 863-4009 or email [email protected] for more
information or to schedule a tour.
Sometimes less is more, simpler is better.
Aptly called The Barn, a tobacco barn in the Stony Point community in eastern Surgoinsville
is a venue for weddings, receptions and other events. Those events in the Hawkins County barn
have ranged from Halloween parties to a Halloween-themed wedding, from a charity yard sale to
a live, drive-by nativity scene.
Owned by Sharlene Lee Spaulding, the barn is located behind 2991 Highway 11W, near where
she grew up in a house that fronted the old two-lane U.S. Highway 11W, now state Route 346
or Main Street. Access is available from either road, and folks there can catch a glimpse of the
Holston River winding through Phipps Bend.
Spaulding’s youngest daughter wanted to have a reception there about four years ago following
a ceremony in the nearby New Providence Presbyterian Church, and word of mouth through family and friends spread the word. For instance, a couple originally from Church Hill but transplanted
to Nashville were married there.
“The Barn was totally full of junk. We had to haul if off and burn it,” Spaulding said of the structure, used mostly for storage and as a workshop before its rebirth as a wedding and reception
venue. Stringed white lights are often used to decorate the inside of the barn, which is about twoand-a-half stories tall.
The structure still has dirt floors, although hay can be used to keep down the dust with hay
bales sometimes used for seating. She said the floors are packed hard enough for dancing.
An adjoining area with a concrete floor can be used for food preparation and a staging area.
It has a rustic “outhouse” for looks only, but modern portable facilities are brought in for events.
For more information call Spaulding, or her husband, Jerry, at (423) 345-3701
Corey Ippolito Winery & Vineyard
Welcome to Tuscany, Tenn., and its wedding venue.
In the Indian Springs community of Sullivan County is a winery, wedding
venue and vineyard.
The grape vines are viewable northward from Interstate 81 between
Kingsport and Blountville.
However, Corey Ippolito Vineyard is billed on its website as “a little taste
of Tuscany, Italy tucked away in the beautiful rolling hills of Northeast Tennessee.”
“Whether you’re planning a big event or just want to do a little wine tasting, we have what you’re looking for,” according to the venue’s website.
Nancy and Kevin Corey wanted five acres of land, and in 1999 they got
their wish five times over, she said. They bought 25 acres in Sullivan County, with a Blountville mailing address, and turned it into a vineyard. In April
of 2007, they opened Corey Ippolito Vineyard to the public and around the
same time it became a venue for weddings, receptions and other events.
“I think I had a wedding here before we opened the vineyard,” Nancy
said of the business. The wedding venue has been outside since it started,
meaning winter weddings were pretty much out of the question.
However, Nancy said a house on site is being converted to an indoor
venue to allow weddings to occur in all seasons. It should be available by
the early spring if things go as planned, she said.
Nancy is the granddaughter of Incenzo “James” Ippolito, an immigrant
from Sonnino, Italy, who settled in Syracuse, N.Y, married an Italian girl
and had six children and many grandchildren, according to Nancy and the
venue’s website, http://www.civines.com/.
For more information, go to the website, call (423) 323-1241 or email
[email protected].
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Wedding Venues
– By Tony Casey
VENUE
Downtown Johnson City’s VENUE, owned and operated by Brandi and
Travis Woodall through their company Positive Approach Group, is not
only a one-stop-shop for wedding ceremonies and reception, but it’s Johnson City’s best option for that urban wedding feel.
With one of the area’s largest single level event spaces, Venue, located
at the King Centre, has spectacular natural light in the day time and large
enough windows for an evening wedding, letting through the light of downtown’s glow.
Travis said the cityscapes and seven-foot windows make for that perfect urban loft wedding feel that many brides and grooms are going for.
Between the Woodall’s ability to provide catering, lighting and licensed
bartending packages all in one bill, they find that their clients — often busy
and thrifty young college-aged couples — are excited to have the duo do
just about everything for them.
“We can do everything in-house,” Travis said. “People like that. Instead
of setting up several meetings, people can do it altogether and write one
check.”
November, January and February are often considered down months,
where the Woodall’s might only have a single wedding booked each of those
months, but Travis said it gives them prime time to market their business and
throw on a fresh coat of paint, if it’s needed. Having been in business for
about six years, the wedding-planning duo has helped put on more than
two hundred weddings, with many more expected.
When not providing the space and resources for weddings, VENUE is
also used as a meeting, forum, prom and event space for many other
events in the area.
Maple Lane Farm
Just a few miles outside of Johnson City proper is Maple Lane Farm at 3134 Cherokee Rd.
This wedding venue provides an outdoor storybook option for those who want that natural feeling, but in case the skies let loose moisture on the dressed-up guests and parties, there are
on-site indoor options, too.
A vineyard sits up on the hill behind Maple Lane Farm, which, on its property contains some
other breathtaking elements to make the celebration of two lives coming together as special as
can be. The driveway, on which guests will travel as they arrive, makes for a natural tunnel of
trees that sets up wedding photography well.
The house, owned by the venue’s owner, serves as the place where brides and grooms
prepare for their ceremony, and acts as a place to relax as much as the wedding’s main participants will allow. When the ceremony begins, depending on the weather or preference of
those getting married, the event could happen either down at the pond or near a barn where
the wedding’s participants will traditionally come through to begin. Near the pond, the wedding
will take place at a white altar.
A covered open building near the vineyard is also available for those who want, or need, to
get married under the cover of the weather. Parties of up to 250 guests will easily be comfortable at Maple Lane Farms.
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The Allandale Mansion
If you want to get married in a mansion, look no further than Kingsport’s Allandale Mansion, which sits on a 500-acre piece of property originally owned
by Harvey Brooks.
Along with the experience of being married in a mansion, participants also get to experience the history that goes along with it. The road where the
Allandale Mansion property sits is Old Stage Road, which has served as one of the most trusty historical thoroughfares between Tennessee’s state
capital and Washington D.C.
The building was constructed in 1852 and served as a homestead for the Phipps’ 12-child family until 1880 when it was eventually acquired by the
Brooks.
Since then, it’s served as one of Kingsport’s premier venues for weddings, with massive lawns and the bright white building serving as a backdrop or container of several hundred weddings over the years.
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My Big
Fat Geek
Wedding
– By Jessica Fuller
When the big day rolls around, some couples prefer the nostalgic
sounds of 8-bit video game themes to wedding bells to welcome them to
the altar. From popping the question to the after party, couples are always
looking for ways to make their weddings special, and what better way to
do that than to incorporate the similar interests that brought them together.
Geek weddings have infiltrated traditional weddings whether it be weddings with fully-dressed role play characters or a subtle touch of popular
culture at the reception. Either way, geeky couples don’t shy away from incorporating the video games, books, movies, television shows and comic
books that brought them together in the first place.
When Atlanta couple Angela Webster-Musgrove and Eric Musgrove got
engaged, they knew they wanted to incorporate the video game series,
The Legend of Zelda, into their ceremony and reception.
While many aspects of the wedding were traditional, the dark green
and gold colored theme of the wedding is all too familiar for fans of the
franchise, and Webster-Musgrove said she worked with her planner to
incorporate do-it-yourself projects into the reception to mirror the theme.
“The game has been a huge part of our lives, we played it when we were
young and all,” Webster-Musgrove said. “We wanted the wedding to still
be traditional but have some subtle elements, that way the people that we
invited who knew nothing of the game would still think the wedding was
beautiful.”
Couples accepting the challenge of planning a geek wedding can scour
the internet for ideas and DIY projects on blogs, such as “When Geeks
Wed,” which offers ideas for every aspect in a wedding from just about
every piece of pop culture imaginable.
And of course, you can’t go wrong with Pinterest, which is chock full of
wedding ideas, geeky or not.
Even elopement can be geeked up for those not wanting the stress of
planning a wedding ceremony, like Pensacola couple Lori Williams and
Christopher Dunkel. After being together for 12 years and falling in love by
cosplaying together, the couple got hitched in New Orleans last month, but
not without incorporating some of their favorite characters to cosplay into
their wedding attire, X-Men’s Gambit and Rogue.
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“Cosplay is really a big part of our relationship,” Williams said. “We go to
(conventions) together and make our costumes together, and we usually
cosplay as couples who are like us in some way, so we wanted to incorporate it into our wedding.”
And for those who want just the subtlest touch of something geeky in
their wedding, the music in the ceremony is always a good way to incorporate some favorite movie or video game music on the way to or from
the altar.
And, of course, there’s nothing wrong with an after party including some
of your favorite movies, like Faith Rogers and her bridal party, who plan on
heading straight to the movie theater to see Star Wars: The Force Awakens in complete wedding attire.
“It’s perfect,” Rogers said. “How many other people get to say they went
to see Star Wars in a wedding dress?”
Make a second
wedding stand out
Couples planning to get married do so with the intention of spending the
rest of their lives together. Few couples exchange rings thinking divorce or
the loss of a spouse is in their future, but some marriages do end. Happily,
that reality does not prevent many people from seeking happily ever after
once again.
A recent study from the Pew Research Center found that many people
who were married before are deciding to take the plunge a second time.
Four in 10 new marriages in the United States now include one partner
who was married before. Roughly 42 million American adults have gotten
married a second time — up from 22 million in 1980.
The Pew study also discovered that more men than women are likely to
get remarried. Around 65 percent of previously married men have a desire
to remarry, compared to 43 percent of previously married women.
Men and women about to get married for a second time can consider the
following tips to help make the day one to remember forever.
• Recognize that a second wedding is in no way less important than the
first. Couples should remember that this is still the first wedding for the two
of them as a couple and it should be seen as just as special as any other
wedding celebration. It’s easy for men and women marrying for a second
time to be hard on themselves, especially when thinking ahead to the gifts
that were given and the money spent by guests for their first marriage. But
a new relationship and love is worthy of a good party. Friends and family
who are supportive of you shouldn’t have reservations about helping you
celebrate.
• Don’t feel boxed in by old-school etiquette. Rules have relaxed with regard to weddings. Many couples put their personal imprints on their weddings and do not feel the need to conform to outdated expectations. You
don’t have to skip all of the frills of a first wedding the second time around
or head to the local courthouse and pass on another big wedding. Do what
feels comfortable to you, whether that means throwing a big party or hosting a smaller affair.
• Let past experience serve as your guide. You’ve been married before
and can use that to your advantage. It’s likely you know what worked for
the wedding the first time around and which things you probably could
have changed or done without. Maybe you were stressed about having
everything go perfectly or feeling like you had to put on a show for guests.
As a more mature person this time around, you no doubt realize that sharing this special time with the ones you love is the most important wedding
component of all.
• Be open-minded with your wardrobe. Let the formality of the event and
the time of day when you’re getting married influence what you will be
wearing instead of perceived etiquette or family notions. It’s acceptable to
wear white again if you so desire. Plus, more mature couples have a sense
of what makes them look good, rather than opting for trendy outfits.
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• Above all, have fun. Couples know what to expect the second time
around, so stress usually doesn’t stem from the unknown. You may feel
more relaxed at a second wedding, so let that ensure you have a great
night.
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Throwback Weddings
Jack and I dated for five years beginning with our high school junior prom. After graduation, I went to ETSU while he went to UT.
He was a co-op employee with Eastman after his freshman year,
working at Eastman summer and winter quarters which was really
great for us because he could live at home in Kingsport. After dating for five years, we got engaged at Christmas 1962. By this time,
I was working at the AFG Corporation. In the spring of 1963, we decided to get married before his senior year at UT. We were married
September 14, 1963, at Central Presbyterian Church in Kingsport.
When I remember our wedding, I think of all the family members
who were in the wedding—Jack’s brothers, my brother and sister,
my five little nieces. Our wedding was all about family. Our parents
were perhaps as excited as we were. My grandparents were able
to attend as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins. My biggest
regret is that we did not have pictures made of my grandparents
on that day. It was one of the last opportunities we would have to
make a formal picture of them. We were young and regrettably did
not think of it. Our friends, family and church family all participated
in giving us a special wedding. Many friends served at the reception
which was planned and prepared by mother’s friends and women of
Central Presbyterian Church. My childhood friend, Brenda Graves
Goslee and Beulah Mercer Ferguson provided the music. Dr. Marvin K. Compher, pastor of our church when I was a child and who
was always a wonderful friend, officiated at our wedding.
Ronald and Paula Gore married in Falls Church, Va.
on November 4,1967
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Bales-McAmis Wedding 9-14-1963
Front row: My precious nieces--Pam, Janet, Laura, Teresa and Donna
Back Row: My sister, Nancy McAmis Slagle; Evelyn; Jack; Jack’s
brother, John W. Bales.
We were married June 30, 1985 in Hollywood, Florida. At our reception, John’s Uncle Charlie toasted “Hope you have thirteen young’uns.”
Thankfully we had only two children (a son and a daughter). It rained
throughout the ceremony. There was a torrential downpour as we left the
reception going to our car. We were soaked as we drove away. That was
over 30 years ago and we are still happily married and very much in love.
In the photo: Left to right: Jesse Padgett (father of the bride), Beatrice
Helen Padgett (bride’s mother), Denise (Padgett) Taylor, John Taylor,
Linda Taylor, and Jerry Taylor
Kevin and Nancy Corey
1980
I am fortunate to have a photo of my great-grandparents from
their wedding day on New Year’s Day 1895. They were Daniel Zumbrum and Gertrude Lowe, and they were married in
Kentland, Newton County, Indiana. While Gertrude was born
in Indiana, her father, James Henderson Lowe, was born in
Greene County, TN; he moved to Newton County, Indiana in
1853 with his parents, and ultimately raised his family there.
– Debbie Crain - Kingsport, TN
Incenzo and Mary
Ippolito
Corey Ippolito Winery
We were married only three months
after we met. His family is in the funeral business, so it was fitting that
he took me to a cemetery to propose…asking me if I’d “like to be
buried in the family plot…” (I said,
“NOW?!?!?”) We’ve been married
and in the ministry 41 years.
The wedding took place at Asbury
Theological Seminary in Wilmore,
Kentucky on May 31, 1974. My
father, his brother, and my brother
each participated in the marriage
ceremony.
We are new residents of the area
since my husband was appointed
in June of this year as Senior Minister at First Broad Street United
Methodist Church.
We love living in the Tri-Cities area!
Hoping we can retire here!
– Blessings, Beth Green
This is our wedding photo taken on October 25, 1959
in Mineola Park on Long Island,New York. Nancy Frugoni wed George Miller in St.Aidan’s church in Williston
Park, L.I.,on the most perfect, beautiful autumn day. –
Nancy Miller
The photo is of the wedding of
Shirley A. Starnes and T. Richard
Harris, both of Kingsport, TN.
The wedding was held at Pleasant View Baptist Church on August 19, 1955. Minister was Rev.
Edwin Ketner. We recently celebrated our 60th wedding anniversary with a gathering at Hotel
Roanoke at Roanoke, VA. A portion of our honeymoon was spent
In Roanoke.
– Richard Harris
Lodge and Kathleen Evans - Married Corpus Christi Texas
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Throwback
Weddings
Kenneth “Pete” & Kathleen Cofer Jones at their
wedding in Bal Harbor, Fl on Oct. 8, 1976.
Carol Lee Hunt and Edward Clark Bowman
were married on December 18, 1964 at
Boones Creek Church of Christ. My grandfather, Russell Boone Clark was my best
man and Carol’s uncle, James Hunt, gave
her away because both of our fathers were
deceased. We celebrated our fifty first anniversary in 2015.
– Edward Bowman
Kathryn Elayne (“Kem”) Moore was
united before God in Holy Matrimony to
Jeffrey Alan Berry at Munsey Memorial United Methodist Church in Johnson
City on May 24, 1986, a date which we
learned later was, to the exact day, four
years after we had met during a production at Jonesborough Repertory Theatre.
During our honeymoon in Hilton Head,
SC, we began planning our 25th wedding
anniversary, when we would renew our
vows. It was there I even purchased the
dress I would wear on that far-away day.
Twenty-five years later, on May 24, 2011,
we celebrated with a simple dinner at a local restaurant. And we made notes about
a “renewal of vows” ceremony which
would take place later in the summer.
Two weeks later, we watched the sunset
together on our deck and made more notes. What a perfect evening it was, including time with
our children, and more time together later, reminiscing about our wedding and our lives together. Jeff had, just 3 years earlier, been appointed juvenile court director for Washington County,
where he made hundreds of new friends, both coworkers and client families alike.
Who would know (except God) that I would lose my sweet “Jeffers”, that my children would
lose their dad, that the county would lose a beloved official, only 48 years old, that same night,
June 8, 2011, to a massive heart attack, exactly two short weeks after that special Silver Anniversary that we never got the chance to fully celebrate?
But he left me with the most cherished of gifts – – two smart, successful, beautiful children
-- Elijah, 25, who now makes his living in California, and Marlee, almost 18, a senior in high
school. He also left everyone who was blessed to know him a treasure trove of happy, funny,
loving memories of our time with this special man, a gift we can always keep with us wherever
we go.
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Mr and Mrs Ted Rastall. Hampton Baptist
Church June 9th 1961
Terry & Jane Ann Williams
Married March 21, 1970
Keystone Free Will Baptist Church by couples fathers - Rev. Roy Cooper & Rev. Arvil
Williams. Happily married for 90 years, 45
for him and 45 for her.
There are too many stories to tell about this
special day!
groomsmens
gifts
– By David Floyd
Naturally, the bride and groom receive the most gifts during a wedding.
Some would argue it’s also important to recognize another group of essential wedding personnel: the groomsmen.
There are several websites out there that can help you with your
search for the perfect groomsman gift, but the most specialized website
out there would probably be www.groovygroomsmengifts.com. Here’s
some quick suggestions:
Caricatures
Looking for something personalized? Try getting your groomsmen an
item with their caricature printed on the side. You can purchase individual
caricatures, which on the Groovy Groomsmen Gifts website usually
run for $50; a body template caricature, a $30 gift that dresses up your
friends as their favorite characters; a $60 personalized Mug on a Mug, a
caricature that is pasted on the side of a drinking glass; or you can purchase a Groomsmen Group Caricature, which features all the groomsmen, for $30. Groovy Groomsmen Gifts also offers personalized bobble
heads, which usually cost about $100. A customer service representative
will get in touch with you once the order is placed and ask for photos and
a few other details depending on the nature of the item. Definitely plan on
ordering the gift several weeks ahead of time.
taste better.) If you’re planning on putting together a bag of nice items to
give to your groomsmen, make sure to include a bottle opener; either a
handy portable opener, a wall-mounted one or — if you’re feeling really
crazy — both. The Leonardo DeCAPry-off, a wall-mounted bottle opener,
runs about $20, and the gift can be personalized with one line of up to 20
characters. Standard shipping usually takes 8 to 12 business days for delivery. If you’re looking for something a bit more rustic, the Hand Forged
Cap Opener might be your style. They usually cost about $40 and can be
personalized with up to 15 characters of text.
Gift Cards
Sometimes, considering all the hustle and bustle associated with weddings, it’s easy to forget your groomsmen. Sometimes a simple gift must
do. What’s the best kind of simple gift? One the recipient can choose.
Buy your groomsmen some gift cards! Obviously, it’s best to buy a card
from a convenient location — like Wal-Mart or Target — but a Visa Gift
card might be your best bet. These can be worth anywhere between $10
to $500, depending on how much you love your friends. Visa Gift cards
can be used online and over the phone, making them far more versatile
than a common gift card.
Movie Posters
Weddings are a common plot device in movies — think “My Big Fat
Greek Wedding,” “Four Weddings and a Funeral” and “Bridesmaids.” If
your groomsmen happen to be extreme movie buffs, it might be nice to
give them personalized movie posters. Groovy Groomsmen Gifts offers
multiple themes, including the poster for a raunchy Vince Vaughn-esque
comedy to a “Reservoir Dogs” inspired crime drama. Once the order is
placed, a customer service representative will call and ask for pictures of
the people who will appear in the poster and for details regarding how the
poster should look. Again, plan your order several weeks ahead of time.
Beer Growler
Nothing screams gritty, outdoorsman like a beer growler crafted out of
gunmetal. The Gunmetal Beer Growler from Groovy Groomsmen Gifts
holds 64 oz. of beer and can be personalized with a two-line message
with up to 15 characters on each line. If your groomsmen’s tastes are
a bit less rugged, you could also purchase them a simple glass growler
personalized with a single letter. The glass growler costs $40 and the
gunmetal beer growler runs about $30. Think of it this way: if you buy
your groomsmen beer growlers, you’ll definitely have something fun to do
while you’re waiting for the wedding ceremony to start. Just remember to
buy some beer. And drink responsibly. If your groomsmen are a classy
bunch, you could also buy them a classic, Prohibition-era flask. The glass
container holds up to 8.5 oz. and can be personalized with up to three
initials. Standard shipping time for most beer containers is generally 8 to
12 business days.
Bottle Opener
Weddings harbor a miscellaneous assortment of alcohol, and wouldn’t
it be a shame if you had all of this nice beer but nothing to open it with?
(Granted, you could just buy beer in cans, but bottled beverages just
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Rehearsal
dinner
how-to
Many couples find their wedding rehearsal dinners to be relaxing respites from the whirlwind of wedding planning. Such dinners enable the
happy couple to slow down and enjoy themselves in a relatively casual
gathering with their closest friends and family members.
Rehearsal dinners typically take place in the night or two before the
wedding. The couple, members of their wedding party, the parents of the
bride and groom and others involved in the wedding typically attend this
dinner. The couple generally takes the time at the dinner to thank everyone
for their contributions to the wedding and to offer some small gifts of appreciation. No rules govern rehearsal dinners, so couples have the freedom to
plan the dinners as they see fit.
Rehearsal dinners often come immediately after the ceremony rehearsal, when the wedding party and the officiant go over the timing and details
of the wedding. Make arrangements with the ceremony site and officiant
prior to making dinner reservations.
Parents of the groom traditionally host the rehearsal dinner, so they
will be integral in planning the event. That means couples should keep an
open and gracious mind. Remember, the rehearsal dinner doesn’t have to
be a lavish affair, and it can be customized to any budget or preference.
Some couples feel that hosting rehearsal dinners in casual settings can
make the dinner more comfortable for members of the wedding, who can
use the dinner as an opportunity to mingle and get to know one another
before the wedding. This will help to tame nerves and enable the wedding
party to loosen up and enjoy themselves even more. Some people may
be more inclined to socialize and have fun when they’re not worried about
putting on airs.
Restaurants that have special meaning to the couple often make for
great places to hold rehearsal dinners. The bride and groom can suggest
their ideas, but ultimately it is the person handling the bill who has the final
say. Couples who want greater control over the rehearsal dinner festivities
can suggest hosting it themselves.
Despite its name, the rehearsal dinner doesn’t actually have to be a dinner, as couples can opt for meals at a different time of the day, like brunch
or lunch. An earlier occasion gives guests plenty of time to get home and
rest up for the festivities of the wedding to come.
Toasts are expected at the rehearsal dinner, but they tend to be spontaneous, off-the-cuff remarks. A couple with a good sense of humor might
not mind being roasted at their rehearsal dinners. The bride and groom
should expect to say a few words of thanks to all in attendance, but remarks need not be too formal.
Rehearsal dinners may even feature a little entertainment. Tech-savvy
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parents may put together a presentation with videos or photographs that
chronicles the couple’s lives separately and their life together.
Rehearsal dinners provide an opportunity for couples and their families
to spend time together before the larger festivities of the wedding pull them
in multiple directions. Plus, they set a fun tone for the wedding weekend
to come.
Clever takes on the ‘something old, new, borrowed, blue’ tradition
Wedding day tokens of good luck come in many forms, but “the something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue (a sixpence in your shoe)” adage remains one of the most popular luck-enhancing wedding traditions. According to the bridal resource The Knot,
this tradition stems from an Olde English rhyme. Something old represents
continuity; something new is for optimism for the future; something borrowed stands for borrowed happiness; and something blue is for purity,
love and fidelity. The sixpence in your shoe is a wish for good fortune and
prosperity, but this is not a tradition widely celebrated outside of the United
Kingdom or British territories.
These traditions can add some creative flair and personality to wedding
ceremonies. There’s no end to the inventive combinations of items brides
can carry to increase their good fortunes.
Something old
Something old is one of the easier mementos to obtain. There is a good
chance that someone in the family is willing to pass an item down to the
bride that she can include in her wedding wardrobe. It also can be something the bride may have in her own memory box. Beads taken from a
grandmother’s dress or a swatch of fabric from a beloved toy doll are creative ideas that can be sewn into inconspicuous places on gowns.
Something new
Brides already purchase many new items for their wedding day looks, so
“something new” should not be too hard to find. Couples may want to work
together to find something new they can both carry so they have a matching set upon tying the knot. Interlocking charm bracelets or keychains may
work. What about the groom carrying a small padlock and the bride the
key? Quirky couples can each wear one sock from a pair. Get clever and
have fun.
Something borrowed
Much like something old, something borrowed is yet another way to pay
homage to a friend or family member. It’s also one way to add a sentimental twist to everyday items. Borrow a grandfather’s handkerchief to wrap
around the stems of the wedding bouquet. Exchange vows with the original rings used by a distant relative at their own wedding. Flatter a close
friend by wearing the same veil she did.
Something blue
There are many ways to incorporate “something blue” into your wedding
ceremony. Brides can paint their toenails blue or wear blue shoes under
their gowns. Sew a patch from a pair of denim jeans into the bodice of the
dress. Paint the bottom of your shoes bright blue so they stand out when
kneeling at the altar. Blue sapphire or topaz jewelry can add an exotic look
to the wedding wardrobe.
With a little ingenuity, brides can easily incorporate “something old,
something new, something borrowed, something blue” into their wedding
ceremonies
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Honeymoon
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– By Sue Guinn Legg
If a tight budget or demanding work schedule keeps
you close to home for your honeymoon, opportunities for a romantic overnight or weekend getaway are
here in the Tri-Cities or within an easy drive. And it can
make your wedding trip just as memorable.
The money, time and energy you save on travel can
be better invested in each other.
Luxurious lodgings for a local lovers’ retreat include
Johnson City’s Carnegie Hotel, the Historic Eureka Inn
in downtown Jonesborough and Kingsport’s Marriott
MeadowView resort.
Romantic offerings at the Carnegie include an overnight stay in the King Suite with rose petals, gourmet
chocolates and champagne, farm-to-table dining at the
Wellington Restaurant and pampering massage treatments for two at the hotel’s Austin Springs Spa.
At the Historic Eureka - a destination featured in
Southern Living magazine - each room uniquely couples antique furnishings with discreet modern conveniences. Historic art and photographs are displayed
throughout the inn. Outside are sitting porches and a
surprisingly secluded garden courtyard.
And at your doorstep are all the quaint and welcoming offerings of the thriving downtown historic district of
Tennessee’s oldest town.
The “Honeymoon Bliss” package at Meadowview
comes with deluxe accommodations, chocolate covered strawberries and champagne, breakfast for two
by room service or in the Meadowview restaurant and
a late checkout.
Just an hour away, the Great Smoky Mountains National Park and the foothills that surround it team with
opportunities for a romantic getaway and a near infinite
choice of honeymoon cabins, lodges and resorts, scenic beauty, outdoor adventure and entertainment.
Luxury cabins nestled in the most popular natural
area in the Eastern United States, packages, prices
and reservations can be perused at cabinsofthesmokymountains.com or details may be obtained by calling
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Resort and lodge packages often include special
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Destinations
– By Nick Shepherd
Planning for a wedding can be tedious and stressful. Sometimes that
stress is only relieved after the nuptials are said and the new couple are
leaving for their honeymoon. Because no dream wedding is complete without the dream honeymoon.
Popular destinations for dream honeymoons include Paris, the Virgin Islands and Hawaii. Each destination offers unique things for newlyweds to
experience. If flying isn’t in the picture, all three destinations can be reached
by cruise ship.
Paris has long been a popular destination for couples. The City of Lights
offers honeymooners not only wonderful food and priceless art, but also
plenty of music, festivals and museums. Couples can visit famous landmarks such as the Louvre, Notre Dame and of course the Eiffel Tower or
take a stroll down the Champs-Elysees.
The U.S. Virgin Islands offers newlyweds a great venue for relaxing on
a Caribbean Island. St. Thomas and St. John’s make up the bulk of the
islands, with St. John’s offering a glimpse of what island life used to be like
since much of the land is undeveloped. Many of the island’s hilltops contain
houses for rent while the resorts are located near the bays.
When people think of dream honeymoons, images of Hawaii are immediately conjured up — gorgeous blue waters and beautiful beaches. But the
tiny island cluster has more to offer than just sand and surf, although those
are enticing enough. Kauai, Hawaii is known as a great adventure island,
offering honeymooners the chance to scuba dive, hike through rainforests
to hidden waterfalls or to go pig hunting.
Whatever destination is chosen, there is one important thing every newlywed must bring. Love.
Wedding good luck charms
Couples’ wedding days are special moments, ones they hope pave the
way to a life filled with happiness and good fortune. That’s why the bride
and groom surround themselves with close friends and family who want to
celebrate and support their new life joined together.
Perhaps due to superstition or tradition, many
couples employ some wedding day strategies to
increase their good luck. The following are some
of the symbols that couples may want to keep an
eye out for on the day they walk down the aisle.
• It’s good luck for the bride to see a dove on the
way to the wedding because doves symbolize
peace and prosperity. Because doves mate for
life, this symbol is doubly beneficial on a couple’s wedding day, as it can be a harbinger of a
long, happy marriage and home.
• Some brides believe sugar cubes tucked into
their wedding gloves leads to a sweet union.
• Hindu tradition states that rain on a wedding
day is good luck. Rain is believed to be a symbol of fortune and abundance, especially after
times of drought. What’s more, rain can foretell
a strong marriage. That’s because a wet knot is
more difficult to untie.
• Ancient Romans were so concerned with ensuring good luck that they actually studied pig
entrails to determine the luckiest time to marry.
If they consulted with the English, they might
determine that a wedding shouldn’t take place on a Saturday, which is
unlucky. English tradition states Wednesday is the best day to get married.
• In Holland, well-wishers would plant pine trees outside of newlyweds’
homes as a symbol of fertility and luck.
• Grooms may want to give a coin to the first person they see on the way to their weddings. This
is another symbol of good luck.
• Some couples plan to marry during a full moon,
because that can symbolize good luck and good
fortune.
• On a couple’s wedding day, tears from a bride
or a child during the ceremony is considered
lucky. English folklore suggests that brides who
discover spiders in their gowns are in for some
good luck.
• The Chinese believe that lighting fireworks at
their wedding ceremonies chases away evil spirits. A red umbrella also might be held over a Chinese bride to keep bad spirits at bay.
• Many grooms do not see their brides in their
wedding gowns before their wedding ceremonies, feeling it is bad luck if they do. Many brides
also do not wear their complete wedding outfits
prior to their big day.
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Transportation Tips
Couples must make many decisions when planning their weddings, including choosing transportation for guests to and from
wedding ceremonies. Whereas
couples once left guests’ transportation up to their guests, nowadays
it is customary to provide rides for
guests so they can easily get to and
from their hotel and the ceremony
and reception safe and sound.
Many factors must be considered
when choosing transportation for
wedding guests, and the following
are a handful of tips to make the decision a little easier.
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• Speak with your hotel before
booking transportation. While professional shuttle services are an
option, couples whose guests will
be staying in a specific hotel or
hotels should speak with management of their hotels to determine if
the hotels offer shuttle services for
guests. Many hotels provide airport shuttle service to guests, and
couples might be able to use such
services to get their guests to and
from their weddings and receptions.
Hotels may charge a fee to use
their shuttles, but they may offer
discounts to couples whose guests
book an agreed upon number of
rooms. An added benefit to using
the hotel shuttle services is that bus
drivers won’t get lost looking for the
hotel.
• Find an option that won’t bust your
budget. Wedding budgets tend to
be big, and couples planning their
weddings soon realize that budgets can quickly be busted. When
choosing transportation for your
guests, do not feel pressured to
book especially lavish buses. So
long as the buses are safe and on
time, guests won’t mind if they ride
in a school bus or a fancy bus worthy of a touring rock band. If you are
concerned about the appearance of
a bus, ask if you can decorate the
bus before the wedding to make it
more inviting.
• Comparison shop. Many companies cater to couples looking for
transportation for their wedding
guests, and couples should explore
all of their options before committing to a particular company. Receive formal estimates from several
companies before making your final
decision, and speak to companies
about matching offers. When comparing companies, try to consider
both cost and quality. While the
lowest estimate might be the most
budget-friendly, you should choose
the company that you feel is most
trustworthy and capable of fulfilling
your contract.
• Read the contract. Transportation
contracts should be gone over with
a fine-tooth comb before couples
sign on the dotted line. Check for
hidden fees, such as mileage or
overage charges if the reception
runs a little late, and ask how much
flexibility you might have with regard to those fees. Make sure any
agreements you reach with regard
to fees are written into the contract
before you sign it.
Transportation for guests is one
of many things couples must consider when planning their weddings.
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423-378-1800 • www.fairwayvw.com