5 MB 2011 March - The Charlotte Jewish News
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5 MB 2011 March - The Charlotte Jewish News
The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011 - Page 16 NEW NE W PR PRIVATE RIV VAT TE EO OFFICES A confidential connfidennttial a and pr profitable rofit o a way to ssell elll you your ur jjewelry ewe wl PPerry’ erry’s aatt SSouthPark, outhPParrk, C Charlotte, harrllottte NC You’re Y ou’re o always w welcome to come by our store sttore at SouthPark any time during our ou buying hours and await a confidential appraisal. a ca an’’t just drop by y, our new private p offi For those who can’t by, offices now allow us to take appointments. Our gemologists will workk with you to get you top dollar do ollar for your yo estate or unwanted jewelry. C ll 704.364.1391 Call 704.364.13 704 364 13 391 to t schedule h d l an appointment appointm i tmentt att our new private i t offices. offi ffi fi . fices differeence between betw getting a good When you’re selling your gold jewelryy or old coins, the difference getting deal and gett ing taken is the quality of o your appraiser. appraiser. All seven seven of our jewelry appraisers experienced Our two coin are experienc ced graduate gemologists gemologistts utilizing the latest testing testting equipment. equip of the Americann Numismatic Association. experts are members m Associatioon. If those thos aren’t credentials enough, add to t them the fact that Perry’s Perrry’s at SouthPark has been beeen one respected of the most re espected organizations in in Charlotte for over 30 years. years. When it comes comees to appraising jewelry, jewelry, we’re the gold standard. standardd. At Perry’s, Perry’’s, s you can caan sell your old jewelry for top dollar d or purchase one of a kind, Finee and Estate Jewelry at prices way w below retail. GOLD D STILL TRADING T RAD DIN G AT AT RECORD R EC CORD HIGHS HI GHS Gold G old Diamonds Di am monds We buy any type of gold We gold.. New New,, broken used or brok en in any condition. We W e buy all sizes siz zes and shapes. 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If you have high value jewelry and/or coins, only sell s to companies that sell that type of valuables. Don’tt sell yo Don’ Don your our gold or silver coins unless the bbuyer uyer has at least five experience years experie ence and is a member of the American Ameriican Numismatic Association. Make sure the thhe buyers are using the and the latest appropriate tools t testing equipment. equippment. JJewelry ewelry enlar enlarged geed ttoo show de detail. tail. SSubject ubject ttoo pr prior ior sale.. Wee buy any item W items ms stamped sterling, 925, or hallmarked h items from Europe. Sterling Flatware Sets S average from ..... ....................$200 ............... $200 – $1,000 Hollowware Itemss average .... $52 – $500 Teea Sets average ................ Tea . $500 – $5,000 Please, no silverplate silverrplate items unless very unique uniq que or unusual. Let us turn turrn your hidden treasurees into cash! treasures PERRY’ PER RRY’S FFine, inee, A Antique ntique u & Estate Essttaate JJewelry ewelry SouthPark, 4400 Sharon Road Charlo Charlotte, otte, NC 28211 Buying Hours Hours: s: Mon-Sat 10:00-6:00 www.perrysjewelry.com www.perrysjewelry.com 704.364.1391 704.364.13 391 800.339.0734 The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011 - Page 17 What to Think About When You Are Thinking About Choosing a Preschool By Jen Lahn, director, Jewish Preschool on Sardis It’s the time of year when you as parents will choose the best setting for your children to begin their educational journey. A child’s preschool experience lays the foundation for future learning so when choosing a preschool, it’s important to select one that is the best fit for your individual child. What philosophy and style of teaching will work best for your child? What are your child’s needs? In essence, you want to choose a preschool where your child can thrive and he or she will be nurtured each day—a place where their uniqueness is celebrated. Below I will share some important areas to consider when choosing a preschool. Make an appointment to visit the schools you are considering – ask questions, talk to teachers and administrators, consider the physical environment and the overall “feel” of the preschool. 1. Consider the educational philosophy of the school. Ask the Director about the school’s philosophy on early childhood education. Does the school follow a specific curriculum? How do teachers individualize the day to meet each child’s needs? Some preschools focus heavily on academic skills and consider social and emotional development as secondary. How feel confident that your child will be cared for and that your needs will also be met. If you have questions or concerns, will you be comfortable asking them? Trust your instincts in this process. I invite you to visit The Jewish Preschool on Sardis and enjoy a private tour of our program. At JPS, we are committed to meeting the needs of each individual preschooler while working closely with the parents to successfully meet the developmental milestones for their child. I am available to answer your questions and would love to meet with you to show you our classrooms and program. Y condition? Are the classdoes the school meet the rooms spacious, clean and needs of the whole child? bright? Are there ample mateAre letter and number skills rials for all of the children in taught methodically or do the class? Does the room look the teachers tailor the proorganized and inviting for gram to each child’s develyour little one? You should opmental ability and intersee specific areas of play est? referred to as “centers” and 2. Is the school accredited they should be full of materior licensed? Does it follow a als that are fun for the chilclear set of guidelines and dren. There is no reason for rules so you as parents will the children to know that they know what to expect? How are working on some serious often is the program skills when they are building assessed and what is the with blocks in the block cenpurpose of the assessment? Part of any formal or infor- Making friends at the Jewish Preschool on Sardis. ter, or exploring the free art materials in mal assessment should the art center. include the teacher quality course the fewer children a teacher Most importantly, rely and style of teaching. Are the is responsible for, the better able teachers experts in early childhood the teacher is to respond to indi- on your “parent gut” (as I development? Do they have vidual needs. Teacher turnover is like to refer to it). All of the degrees in this field? When you also an important indicator. Ask points that I outlined are visit a school, observe the teachers the director about this to get a important, but above all, as they interact with children. Do baseline. This will give you infor- the school must “feel” they approach the children with a mation about the working environ- right to you. You need to warm and caring tone? Do the ment and let you know whether teachers interact with and facili- the teachers feel appreciated and tate play or are they directing the happy. Happy teachers typically children from afar? Do the teach- have happy classrooms. family and cosmetic dentistry ers respond to each child as an 4. The physical environment of Drs. Steiner, Pappert & Linger individual or do you hear rote and the school needs to be considered. rehearsed answers? Ask to see the outdoor play area. Your dental health. Our number one priority. 3. Staff:child ratio is an impor- Do the different age groups play Treating Snoring and Sleep Apnea tant factor. How many teachers are outside together or do the younger Alternative Treatment to C-PAP Therapy for Patients with Sleep Apnea responsible for the children in children have their own space? Is Sedation Dentistry each room? What is the maximum there sufficient space for the chilnumber of children in the class- dren to run, jump, play with balls, room and how many teachers will and work on large muscle develsleepapneadentistcharlotte.com 4525 Park Rd. be assigned to each age group? Of opment? Is the equipment in good charlottecosmeticdental.com Park Rd. & Montford Dr. DR. JOSEPH STEINER 704-523-4515 t sh foundation that Jewish A strong Jewis etime! lifetime! ildren for a life children will will serve our chi rlotte Jewish Viitneerr (Board President of the Cha a Amy Vitn ed are Mark and ured ctur Pict S). att CJDS) h b (bot ia Sylv t r children Eli (CJP), Saul and Preschool) with thei As we navigatedd the pubblic lic school mag magn gnet et l ttery, the lott hhe Ch Charlot r te Jewish Dayy Sch Scho hoo ool oll started out ut as our our bac ackk upp pla p n. Wh W ilee we enddedd up getttin ting t g into nto our topp maggnet net cho hoic ice, e,, CJDS had h d alre reaaady ddy won us over with its sma sm ll class size, exposu suur ure re to a second langua g ge g thr th ough Heb H brew rew imm im ersion and emppha hassis is on positive valu lues ees.. W hav We h e bbeen so impres re sed with CJD CJ JD DS S’s S’s individualiz ized ed apppro prroaach chh to learning. Wh W at is more, our childre d n aree receivingg a strongg J ish Jew i h fou f nda d tio tion on that will serve the thhem m for a lifetime! – Amy Vit V nerr Now accepting g applications. For Fo or more inform information, mation, call 704 704-366-4558 4-366-4558 The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011 - Page 18 Community News Humanities and Social Sciences Students to Benefit from Gift to Jewish Studies Txjnnfs!Jotvsbodf!Bhfodz XfÖwf!cffo!qspufdujoh!uif! Dibsmpuuf!Kfxjti!dpnnvojuz gps!pwfs!68!zfbst/ Xf!pggfs!bmm!mjoft!pg!jotvsbodf!jodmvejoh!Dpnnfsdjbm-!! Ipnfpxofst-!Bvup!boe!Mjgf/!Dbmm!vt!upebz!up!mfbso!bcpvu!! pvs!qfstpobmj{fe!jotvsbodf!qsphsbnt!up!nffu!zpvs!offet/ Ibssz!Txjnnfs! ¦! Ebwje!Txjnnfs! Dsbjh!Lbu{nbo! ¦! Csjbo!Nfmutofs % #>`]dWRS\QS@]OR1VO`Z]bbS<1 & % j %"!!!$$'" j aeW[[S`W\ac`O\QSQ][ GIVING CHARLOTTE SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT FOR OVER 25 YEARS. Howard Levine community; enable the center to bring in visitors to meet with students and deliver unique programs; and allow the center to expand its course offerings to meet rising student demand. “We are so thankful to Howard and his family for this generous and inspiring gift to the center and to Carolina’s students,” said Jonathan Hess, Ph.D., center director and Moses M. and Hannah L. Malkin Term Professor of Jewish History and Culture. “The level of study and the quality of the research conducted by UNC students is truly impressive. Now, thanks to the Levine family, our students can participate in more projects and programs than ever before.” Levine, a Charlotte native and resident, said he is delighted to give back to UNC’s students. “I’ve been following the Carolina Center for Jewish Studies for a few years now, and I’ve heard nothing but positive things about the program and its growth,” Levine said. “Furthermore, I like that the Carolina Center for Jewish Studies attracts students with different backgrounds and a range of interests. As a Carolina alumnus with an interest in supporting Jewish organizations and causes, I thought this was the perfect opportunity for me to support my alma mater in a way that was personal to me.” Established in 2003, the center unites the public, students and faculty from various academic disciplines who share a passion for a deeper understanding of Jewish history, culture and thought. The center offers undergraduate minors in Jewish studies and modern Hebrew. More than 1,000 students take Jewish studies courses each year, and the center also offers an outreach program and lecture series. Y Davidson Community Players Feature New Play by Meir Ribalow NEW PATIENTS ARE ALWAYS WELCOME Call today and join your friends who already experience dental care at its finest. University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill alumnus Howard R. Levine, chairman and CEO of Family Dollar Stores Inc., has created an endowment to support undergraduate and graduate students in Jewish studies at his alma mater. The Howard R. Levine Student Excellence Fund in Jewish Studies, created through a $500,000 pledge, will support academic studies and scholarly research. When fully funded, the endowment will provide the Carolina Center for Jewish Studies in the College of Arts and Sciences with a permanent source of funding to further the center’s teaching mission. “Through this gift, I hope students will have a more enriching college experience and perhaps have the means to take advantage of learning opportunities that otherwise might not be within their financial reach,” said Levine, who graduated from UNC with a business degree in 1981. The endowment will: support student research inside and outside the classroom, including student travel and study abroad; fund academic field trips to extend the classroom experience into the Drs. Tricia Rodney & Scott Menaker iiÀ>Ê`iÌ>ÊV>ÀiÊvÀÊ>Ê>}iÃÊUÊ*iÀÃ>âi`ÊÌÀi>ÌiÌÊUÊÛÃ>}Ê"ÀÌ `ÌVÃÊ iÀÌwi` >À}]ÊV«>ÃÃ>Ìi]Ê>`ÊvÀi`ÞÊ`VÌÀÃÊ>`ÊÃÌ>vvÊUÊ , ÊÃ}iÛÃÌÊVÀÜÃÊ iÀÌwi` /Ì ÊVÀi`Êw}ÃÊUÊÇ\ääÊÊ>««ÌiÌÃÊiÛiÀÞÊ`>ÞÊUÊ ÕÃÌÊw>V}Ê«Ìà SmileCharlotte.com : Drs. 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Dutch painter, Han van Meegeren, decides to avenge himself upon a hostile and powerful art critic by forging a Johnannes Vermeer “masterpiece.” When the painting is sold for a fortune, van Meegeren continues the deception rather than revealing the hoax. Eventually, one of his forgeries finds its way into the hands of high-ranking member of the Nazi party, and when a mysterious investigator appears the unraveling begins. To be sure, the Van Meegeren story raises many, many questions. Among them: what makes a work of art great? Whether it is the work of an acclaimed master like Vermeer or a duplicitous forger like Van Meegeren — we want to know more. The playwright, Meir Ribalow, is currently Artist In Residence at Fordham University in NY and has had 23 plays receive 175 pro- JELF Application for Interest-Free Educational Loan Available March 1 Applications for interest-free loans for post-secondary education (college, graduate school, vocational and professional courses) will be available to Jewish students for the 2011-2012 school year from the Jewish Educational Loan Fund. The loan application will be available March 1 – April 15 on JELF’s website at www.jelf.org. JELF loans are need-based and offer “last-dollar” financing, meaning that JELF provides the final dollars that bridge the gap between a student’s total financial resources and the cost of attending school. Applicants must be enrolled full time in a program leading to a degree or certificate at an accredited institution that is located in the United States, be a U.S. citizen or legal resident, and be able to demonstrate financial need (FAFSA application required). For more information, contact [email protected], call 770396-3080, or visit www.jelf.org.Y ductions worldwide. He is also Artistic Director of New River Dramatists in Asheville, NC, which in the past decade has developed 345 new plays and screenplays almost half of which have already been produced or optioned. Masterpiece was part of a staged reading by New River Dramatists in conjunction with the residency with Davidson Community Players in 2008. Tickets prices: Students $10, Seniors $15, Adults $18. All performances take place in the Armour Street Theatre in Davidson. The drama is suitable for ages 13 and up. Y Save The Date for the upcoming Yiddish Institute … August 18-21 Wildacres Retreat, Little Switzerland, NC The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011 - Page 19 Israel, Part 8: Ascending Masada; Three B’not Mitzvah Judy conducts the weekday By Amy Krakovitz morning service and the girls 3 AM. An alarm is not a each read parts of the week’s happy sound at this hour. And I Torah portion. They sound am still a little jet-lagged, not magnificent, and they appear accustomed to the time change, to be glowing in the bright so my sleep has not been good. sunlight. Their joy is obviBut rise we must, the bus is ous. The emotional words leaving for Masada soon and from their parents express our goal is to watch the sun rise pride, gratitude, and elation, from the summit. particularly David Label, We have breakfast on the bus. My yogurt and fruit are David Label, Lindsay Label, Sydney whose tears bring tears to the fine, but I miss having coffee. Frankenberg, Lauren Label, and Brett rest of the group. At the conclusion of the The ride is very quiet; most of Frankenberg celebrating the girls’ B’not service, Doron brings us us are still quite sleepy. The Mitzvah on top of Masada. around the mountaintop, world around is dark, but the Steps have been built into the showing us the points of interest highway is lit up. The largest portion of the drive southward is on steepest part of the trail and hav- on the old fortress. We see the the freeway. There are a few cars ing a railing to hold on to helps us ramp that the Romans built to bring up the Tenth Legion. From and many more trucks on the road. push up against gravity. At the top, we find a restroom. the top, we can also see the The sky begins to lighten before we stop. What a great dis- Lindsay, her sister Lauren, and encampment areas of the 6000 appointment. When we arrive at Sydney Frankenberg need to men in the Tenth Roman Legion. Even after the attack and the foot of Masada, the sun has freshen up for their upcoming cerpeeked up over the Jordanian hill- emony. We wait for the cable car destruction by the Romans, tops across the Dead Sea. No sun- gondola to arrive with the rest of enough of the fortress walls rise from the top; the climb will be our group and the Torah for the remained intact for archaeologists to identify storerooms, barracks, with both the sun and air tempera- service. The Torah arrives along with a cooking areas, common areas and ture rising. Our choice is hiking up the videographer and a musician, Ilan the synagogue, as well as other Snake Path on foot or taking the Diamond, a guitarist sent to us by rooms. In one of the common cable car. Of the 25 of us, most our tour operator, IsraelExperts. areas, Doron tells us, archaeolochoose to climb, including all the We move to the area of the moun- gists have found coin-like objects children. Surprisingly, the three taintop that was used as a syna- with numbers on them. He says girls who are to become b’not gogue during the times of both that these are the lots that were mitzvah that day decide to climb Herod and the Zealots. There is no drawn on the rebels’ last night, the as well. They are unaware that roof and the hot sun beats down. lots that would determine who would die first, next,and eventualthey will be very tired and very ly, last. sweaty even before the service It is a wonder that the rebels begins. were able to live up there for three The Snake Path is not only long years. But when we see the rooms and winding, but very steep. It that are left of Herod’s palace that rises 900 feet in elevation, but had been built there about 100 with all the serpentine twists and years before the tragedy, Doron turns, it takes me 41 minutes to get explains that King Herod had lain to the top. The Gilbert family is in supplies of nonperishable food the first to arrive at the summit, for himself and his family, enough using the steep climb as a training run for the day. One of the many mosaic tile floors to last him years and years. The Those of us who are walking installed by King Herod for his palace cistern he built, as well, was so large that the 960 rebels had stop at intervals to take water. The on top of Masada. enough water for a year after just rising heat is dry, but our efforts cause us perspiration none the Doron, on his harmonica, and Ilan, one good annual rainfall. Now it is time to trudge down less. Lindsay Label, on her deter- on his guitar, play some “Bat mined way to her Bat Mitzvah at Mitzvah Blues” while we wait for the snake path and continue with our adventures of the day. Y the peak, is red-faced and strug- everything to be set up. The three girls arrive, looking Next: The Dead Sea, Ma’ale gling. This is more work that she bargained for, but her ultimate refreshed now, and beautiful in Adumim their dresses and talitot. Rabbi goal keeps her going. 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Y To learn more please contact Phil Warshauer, Executive Director of the Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community at 704-973-4544 or [email protected] A copy of the latest Financial Report and Registration filed by United Jewish Communities, Inc. may be obtained by contacting Joseph Stalbow at United Jewish Communities, Inc., 25 Broadway, Suite 1700, New York, NY 10004, 212-284-6500. You may also obtain financial information directly from the following state agency: North Carolina: Financial information about United Jewish Communities, Inc. and a copy of its license are available from the State Solicitation Licensing Section at 1-888830-4989. The license is not an endorsement by the state. The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011 - Page 20 SHOW DOWN AT THE SHUSHAN CORRAL iw de y t i n u m m PURIM CARNIVAL co Sunday, March 20, 2011 12:00 - 3:00 PM at the Levine JCC Ranch spin art d o o f es inflat ables s e z pri and more... gam Pre-order your Hamantashen: $10/dozen. Call Eddie at 704.944.6868 by March 4. Passover food drive for Jewish Family Services The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011 - Page 21 Hebrew Cemetery Association By Lorrie Klemons, publicity Last month I wrote about the fact that Jewish tradition calls for Jews to bury our own and it is the obligation of every Jewish community to do so. Little did I know when I wrote the article, that only a few short days later, my very dear friends would be burying their beloved forty-one-year-old son at the Charlotte Hebrew Cemetery. While the very tide of nature calls for children to bury their parents, it is always a tragedy when parents have to bury a child, no matter what the age of that child. The loss of anyone you love is heart-breaking. But when the loss is a child, the pain is unbearable and those parents are never quite same. The heart is forever broken. The emptiness of the heart can never be refilled. As the community rallies to support the family with condolences, with food, and with prayer, the family grieves their overwhelming loss. It will take a long time to overcome that loss and its accompanying sadness and oftentimes, shattering of faith. I have been an active member of the Hebrew Cemetery Association for the past five-plus years. During those years, I have been involved with budgetary discussions related to both cemetery burial services and cemetery upkeep and maintenance. I never really thought about the actual cost involved when someone dies and needs to be buried. The list of loved ones and friends that I have mourned grows larger and larger each year - father, grandparents, aunts, uncles, young friends, young cousins, and a 33-year-old brother-in-law. While I attended many of their funerals and mourned all of their losses, I never stopped to think about the expense involved in burying them. It is hard to imagine that I have been writing monthly articles about the cemetery for more than five years. Each month when I write my article, my goal is to educate the Charlotte Jewish community about the cemetery and to glean community support for the cemetery. I write about how for a mere $72 per year ($6 per month) you can guarantee a sanctified and holy burial ground for those who precede you in eternal life. And in doing so, you also guarantee the same holy burial ground for yourself (or loved one) upon your own passing. My articles always include a solicitation for you the reader to find out more information about membership benefits, graves, and prepaid funeral costs, but to be quite honest with you, I never really gave that much thought. That was until January 3 when my dear friends had to make funeral arrangements for their son. The sticker shock of the cost involved in laying their beloved son to eternal rest and the great anxiety about how to pay for it only added to their pain, suffering and misery. I want you all to know that the cost to give someone a basic Jewish burial in Charlotte, NC today can cost in excess of $10,000. It is true that Jews are commanded to bury our own. However, make no mistake that while the Charlotte Hebrew Cemetery is administrated by a volunteer board, it is a business. There are salaries to pay, grounds to maintain, graves to be dug, graves to take care of, insurance to pay, equipment to buy, an office to maintain, etc. Life is full of surprises and God willing, most of them will be good ones. We all know however, that there will also be catastrophic surprise losses that will tear your heart out. By being a member of the Hebrew Cemetery Association for 24 consecutive months, you become eligible for discounted cemetery costs in excess of $2,000. Why wait? Join the Cemetery Association today. Contact Cemetery Director, Sandra Goldman, at 704-576-1859 or 704-944-6854 or director@ hebrewcemetery.org. Visit the cemetery website at www.hebrewcemetery.org. Y Answer Scholarship Endowment Wins Grant from Leon Levine Foundation to Help Send Mothers to College The Leon Levine Foundation has awarded a $10,000 grant to the Answer Scholarship Endowment to help send Mecklenburg County mothers to college. The Answer Scholarship Endowment, established in 2006, provides scholarships to Mecklenburg County mothers to earn a four-year college degree or an associates degree in nursing. Recipients must be raising schoolage children, show demonstrated need for the scholarships, and be earning their first college degree. Founder Susan Andersen, a res- ident of Ballantyne, created the fund as a way to strengthen local families. Higher education leads to better jobs, higher income, and greater self-esteem in women, which in turn helps set the same standards and expectations for their children. Students whose parents did not attend college are less likely to complete a college degree themselves. Many Answer recipients are pursuing degrees in much-needed areas such as health care and social work, and some past recipients are now earning master’s Arts and crafts Music Water Play Sports Jewish Themes and Activities degrees. “By supporting mothers who attend college, we increase the family’s earning potential over the long-term and significantly increase opportunities for the children as well,” Andersen says. “We are so grateful to the Levine Foundation for seeing the potential of this project to help many more women in the county.” Andersen is actively seeking contributions to the Answer Scholarship Endowment after recognizing the extent of the need among local mothers. Answer is housed at Foundation for the Carolinas, which provides financial oversight and administrative support. If you would like to make an end-of-year, tax-deductible gift to the Answer Scholarship Endowment and help put these families on the path to greater academic success, visit www.answerscholarship.org . For more information, contact the fund at [email protected] or call 704-544-1988. Y got camp? Celebrating Jewish Super Heroes! and ! n u F able k d r o Aff up a weoer Sign a time ee. at ll thr for a MAY 31 – JUNE 17 9:00–1:00 • FOR 2, 3, & 4 YR-OLDS at 6619 Sardis Road For cost and more info contact Lisa 704 364 8395 or [email protected] or visit our website www.JPSonsardis.org/camp The Charlotte Jewish News -March 2011 - Page 24 Matzoh Balls and Baseballs Conversations with 17 Former Jewish Major League Baseball Players By Dave Cohen, with preface by Rabbi Steven Lebow; foreword by Steve Greenberg As “America’s favorite pastime,” perhaps no sport has chronicled the rise of an immigrant nation like baseball. From German-American parents came Babe Ruth, ItalianAmericans proudly point to Joe DiMaggio, and Jackie Robinson shattered the color barrier for African Americans that had kept them out of the game since the 1880s. Certainly, almost every Jewish baseball fan knows the names of Hall of Famers Hank Greenberg and Sandy Koufax, but Jews have played professional baseball in the United States since the earliest days of the sport. Indeed, over 160 Jews are known to have played professional baseball during the modern era, contributing significantly to the game on every level. But who, other than Koufax, is the only other Jewish pitcher to win the Cy Young Award? Which Jewish ballplayer’s place in baseball history is assured, as he has the distinction of being the first major leaguer to play a game as a DH? (hint: This is our connection to this year’s Charlotte Jewish Film Festival) In his landmark book, popular sportscaster Dave Cohen uncovers this hidden history and goes right to the source for answers, interviewing 17 former Jewish MLB players to hear, in their own words, what it was like to play in the Majors the triumphs, frustrations, and everything in between. Dave Cohen has been the radio voice of Georgia State University Athletics for the last 28 seasons, handling the play-by-play for Panther basketball and baseball on WRASFM. Throughout his tenure covering the Atlanta sports scene, Cohen has worked for WRASFM, WGST-AM, WCNN-AM, WSB-AM, and WGUN-AM. He also spent twelve seasons working with the Furman University football radio network in Greenville, SC until adding Georgia State football to his schedule. He is employed at Georgia State University in the departments of Alumni Relations and Athletics. Y JNF Thanks Charlotte for Its Carmel Forest Fund Raiser By Beth Gluck, regional director, JNF and Gabrielle Nazri, campaign executive, JNF Thank you to Charlotte community for its extraordinary commitment to the protection and regeneration of Israel’s Carmel Forest. Through a special initiative organized by Hadas Kasher, President of Charlotte Hadassah, a committee of dedicated Hadassah volunteers led the Charlotte community in raising $5,550 in support of JNF’s Operation Carmel Renewal: From Black to Green. This initiative is a long-range plan to repair, restore and renew the Carmel region after the worst fire in Israel’s history and Hadassah’s leadership is an outgrowth of its dedication to planting trees in Israel. To date, JNF has raised over $4 million out of its $10 million goal and continues to support Israel’s most urgent needs after the Carmel catastrophe. JNF-KKL Israeli Fire Ranger, Aviram Zuck visited Charlotte for the weekend and was honored to meet the children of Temple Beth El and the more than 70 adults when he spoke at the Levine JCC. Thank you to Rabbi Judy Schindler at Temple Beth El for organizing Ranger Zuck’s visit at Beth El. The children listened with wide eyes and open ears as the Ranger Zuck showed pictures from the Carmel fire and shared facts about Israel. JNF’s century old mission resonated in the new beautiful sanctuary: we (every Jew) are the caretakers of the land and people of Israel on behalf of its owners, Jewish people around the world. Israel will surely benefit from Charlotte leaders’ vision of uniting the Charlotte community for the future of the land of Israel for years to come. We look forward to an on-going partnership between Hadassah and members of the Charlotte community and we thank all those who contributed to Operation Carmel Renewal. Y (See the local story from Hadassah on page 5.) The Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte is offering a Women’s Mission to Israel June 20-30, 2011 This fantastic mission is like no other! In addition, to cooking demonstrations in the homes of two of Israel’s top chefs, exclusive visits to Michal Negrin’s studio and Project Better Place, plus rafting in the Jordan River, we will also be spending time with our sisters in Hadera, our partnership city, and building bridges between our two communities. Want to extend your stay? Join us for two days following the mission for an incredible journey to Eilat and Petra in Jordan! To learn more about this fantastic opportunity, please contact [email protected] IIntroduce ntrodu uce y your our ch child ild tto op preschool. reschool. “Join “ Join Us Us for for Shabbat” Shabbat” March M arch 4, 4, April April 1 o orr M May ay 6 1 10-10:30am 0 -10:30am & “Taste “ Taste off Preschool” Preschool” ((Age Age 2 bbyy 8/31/11) 8/31/11) RSVP P & Parent Pa Parreent n Attendance Att A tttt e 5HTXLUHG 5HTXLLLUUHG HG HG HG Thursday, T hursday, April April 7 9:30-11:30am 9:30 -11:30am 5 07 5007 07 Pro Pr P Providence ovidence Rd, Rd, Bldg. Bldg lld d dg g. F 704-944-6777 9 944-6777 www.cjpkids.org w ww.c . jpk kids.o . rg CJP is a collaboration of Temple Beth El, Temple Israel & the Levine Jewish Community Center. The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011- Page 25 Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center Charlotte Welcomes Florence Melton Adult Mini-School ing classes we will be offering in Mini-School, a project of the The Florence Adult Minithe Fall, check out their website Hebrew University of Jerusalem, School is the fastest growing, pluwww.fmamas.org.il. was established in 1987 and is the ralistic Jewish learning program The Florence Melton Adult largest global network of pluralisfor adults, with thousands of students enrolling each year in over 60 locations worldwide. Charlotte recently joined the Melton network, chosen to receive a prestigious Covenant Grant to enable three small-sized Jewish communities to offer this program. Melton goes beyond short-term seminars, challenging adult Talli Dippold and Rabbi Andy Koren, Jewish learners to engage in Director of Melton Program in Jewish learning in a serious and Greensboro, NC. comprehensive way. Each lesson is designed to inspire and enlighten students irrespective of their passion and ‘out-of-the-box thinkprior experience or background. ing’ and bringing us all together in Graduates receive a Certificate of Israel was itself an inspiring expeJewish Studies from the Hebrew rience.” University of Jerusalem in recogKupchan praised the Levinenition of the significance of their Sklut Judaic Library & Resource learning. Center for sending Talli to the conTalli Dippold, Director of the ference and making this investLevine-Sklut Judaic Library and ment in the growth and success of of the Florence Melton Adult the Charlotte Melton Mini-School. Mini-School in Charlotte NC, Talli led an excellent session recently traveled to Israel for the which was very well received by 16th annual International her fellow directors. Director’s Conference which Other conference presentations brought together 40 directors and included those from Prof. staff from The United States, Avigdor Shinan and Prof. Haim Canada, Australia, South Africa Rabinowitz, of the Hebrew and Israel. University, Alan Hoffmann, The central theme of “Start-Up Director General of the Jewish Nation: Preserving Core Values in Agency, David Horowitz, Editor a Climate of Change” was central of the Jerusalem Post and Dr. to all the conference activities and Zohar Raviv, Chief Education deliberations, from working on Officer of Birthright. Participants expanding Melton best practices also spent a week from morning to to driving Israel’s electric car at night learning from each other, Better Place. North American studying in the field and providing 500 Providence Road Telephone 704-332-7133 Director Judy Kupchan the leadership of the Mini-School described the synergy of the con- with potential future directions. ference: “Israel’s entrepreneurs According to Dr. Jonathan inspired us with their creativity Mirvis, International Director, the and invention, and at the same highlight of the conference was resent time, they recognized the extraor- the outstanding cadre of directors. dinary contribution of the To learn more about Melton in Florence Melton Adult Mini- Charlotte, please contact Talli School to the Jewish world. Our Dippold, 704-944-6780. To learn directors demonstrated their own more about Melton and the excit- tic adult Jewish education, with Mini-Schools in the US, Canada, UK, Australia, and South Africa.Y CELEBRATING OUR 128th ANNIVERSARY emple Kol Am Evening At The “Shuk” Please show your support for the greater Charlotte Jewish Community by joining us for a great night of Hors d'oeuvres, Cocktails, Music and Dazzling Silent Auction. March 12th 2011 7 to 10 pm Levine Museum of the New South 200 E. Seventh Street, Charlotte Tickets $35.00 Per Person Ticket price includes admission, museum exhibits and free parking in the 7th street parking deck The Berendt Family loves to visit the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center. They visit weekly to enjoy the selection of new books, DVDs and educational material. Contact James Fox at [email protected] to purchase tickets or call 803 389 0450 Temple Kol Ami is a newly formed Jewish congregation inYork County, SC www.kolamitemple.com or visit us on Facebook at York County Synagouge Photo by Shelley Pawlyk The Charlotte Jewish News -March 2011 - Page 26 We acknowledge with gratitude the following donations to the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center. These donations allow us to expand the collection of books, DVDs, CDs, videos, maps, posters, games and various teaching aids. The entire community benefits from these thoughtful gifts. Friends of the Levine-Sklut JLRC Fund Amy and Neil Andrews * Eleanor and Stuart Bantit * Susan and Richard Brophy * Bishop Cheen * Elizabeth and Bruce Cohen * Cynthia and David Crane * Sarah and Scott Fligel * Dana and Scott Gorelick * Evelyn Hochstat * Leigh and Robert Jacobson * Hannah and Franklin Kaunitz * Jeff and Carol Klein * June and Jonathan Levine * Amy and Jeff Montoni * Amy and Donald Mullen * Marcelle Peck * Larry and Dale Polsky * Ginny Rosenberg * Susan and Bernie Sandler * Sara and Michael Schreibman * Stephanie and Jonathan Simon * Norman Steinberger * Faye and Daniel Whipkey David and Debby Block in memory of Julius Silverman David and Debby Block in memory of Dan Dubin Y Mazel Tov & Congratulations American Hebrew Academy Student Matt Richman of Charlotte Named to AllConference Soccer Team BUSINESS CARD DIRECTORY To advertise in the Business Card Directory, contact one of our sales representatives: Rita Mond, 704-366-6632 Jodi Valenstein, 704-841-4040 The American Hebrew Academy is proud to announce that sophomore Matt Richman of Charlotte was recently named to the Triad Athletic Conference’s All-Conference Soccer Team. This honor ranks Matt among the area’s elite soccer players for the 20102011 school year. Matt was recognized along with the rest of the All-Conference Team in front of a crowd of 800+ following the Triad Athletic Conference Championship Game played between Caldwell and Westchester High Schools. The game was hosted by the Academy, America’s only Jewish pluralistic college-prep boarding school. Academy Soccer Coach Mike Johnston raved about Matt’s contributions to the squad this year. “Matt is a tenacious on-the-ball defender, is capable of lifting all those around him and has a very keen tactical knowledge,” Johnston remarked. “He kept us in many games and provided the offensive spark we needed when we moved him to the central midfield position. He is deadly accurate on free kicks and is an emotional leader for us.” Matt represented the Academy well, amassing six goals and three assists in the eight regular season games for which he was healthy, manning the Center Back position. While Matt enjoyed offensive success this season, he also knows that there is more to the game. “For me, the game of soccer is more of a defensive game. It’s about how difficult you can make it for the opposing team to score,” Matt explained. “Stopping numerous goal-scoring opportunities was my life this year in soccer.” But like many young players, Matt mostly enjoys the camaraderie that he shares with his teammates. “My favorite thing about this year’s soccer season was probably practicing and playing with all the soccer guys. They’re the best and I hope they feel that I supported them as much as they supported me during this season.” Matt will be sorely missed by his coach and teammates next season, as Academy juniors spend their fall trimester on a high school study abroad program in Israel. Y JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES Jewish Family Services Introduces Social Skills Groups for Children All parents have questions and concerns about raising children. The JFS Parenting Place Initiative was established in 2006 to address a community-wide need to provide information and support and inspire every family to be the best they can be. Over the last several years, JFS Parenting Place has focused primarily on providing resources and programming for preschool parents. In the fall of 2010, JFS initiated Love and Logic Workshops, taught by Wendy Petricoff, a community member and board member of JFS trained as a facilitator in Love and Logic. Love and Logic Workshops are geared towards both parents of young children and parents of Tweens and Teens. The response from participants of the Love and Logic classes has been overwhelmingly positive and JFS is committed to continuing with providing this incredible resource for families in the greater Charlotte Community. In order to determine programming needs in the Charlotte Jewish Community, JFS Parenting Place held several Focus Groups in the summer and fall of last year. The focus groups included a cross section of Jewish community lay leaders, parents, educators, and Rabbis. The results of these Focus Groups were clear. JFS needed to expand therapy and support services to children and families who have special needs. Specific identified needs included social skills groups, parent support groups, easy access to resources, and assistance and help in navigating the sometimes cumbersome and complicated systems required to obtain help for children and families. In February, JFS was excited about embarking on the first of these endeavors - Social Skills Programming for children of various age groups. Social Skills groups are ideal for children who struggle with social and emotional regulation abilities, making and keeping friends and cooperating with peers and adults. Children who have underlying developmental delays or lagging skills might also be appropriate for these classes. The following groups were scheduled and additional groups will be held in May 2011. The first Social Skills Group started on February 23, with weekly one-hour sessions for elementary-age children focusing on social and emotional skill development. On Wednesdays from 3:30-4:30, two licensed clinical therapists have utilized interactive play therapy techniques and video excerpts from the “Model Me Kids Video Series” developed by Kennedy Krieger to help enhance skills for children ranging in age from 8 to 12. Skills targeted include use of appropriate greetings, social conversation skills, handling losses and or disappointments, dealing with mistakes and problem solving. Children have also learned to practice relaxation strategies and each child received a relaxation CD for use at home. The children are developing more consistent understanding of their feelings and ways to express them effectively. Helping kids understand other people’s feelings has been another area of focus during this six week series. Beginning March 8, preschoolers age 3 ½ through 5 years of age, will be assisted with developing skills that help with overall social and emotional regulation abilities. The “Model Me Kids” curriculum will be incorporated into the weekly one hour long sessions that will run for six weeks from 10-11 AM. Every Tuesday morning. Since younger children learn best through play and movement the JFS therapists will integrate games, art activities, music and (Continued on page 29) The Charlotte Jewish News - March 2011 - Page 27 Jewish Family Services Friends Campaign 5771 Thank You To All Who So Generously Donated Jane Vatz Abel Robert and Ann Abel Mitchell Aberman and Linda Macdonald Benjamin Abrams Bernard and Teri Ackerman Howard and Hanna Adler Debbie and Keith Agisim Benjamin and Susan Aizenman Adam Altman Howard Andell and Norma Pepper Susan Appelbaum Allison and Paul Arena Alan and Madeline Aron Kenneth and Audrey Ashkin Gerson and Wilma Asrael Stanley and Judy August Craig and Jill Balick Stuart and Eleanor Bantit Marvin Barman John and Gail Baron Ira and Linda Bass Kathy and Randy Bates Allen Baum and Stacy Schreier Baum Arthur and Gloria Becker Jeffrey and Amy Beiser Sanford P. and Lois Benjamin Evelyn Berger Jonathan D. and Tess Berger Seth Bernanke and Ellen Goldberg Andrew Bernard Robert and Barbara Bernhardt Adam Bernstein and Tammy Seigel Cynthia Bernstein Daniel J. and Janice Bernstein Samuel and Nancy Bernstein Harry and Felicity Berzack Ralph and Sonni Besnoy Irving and Lillian Bienstock Marty Birnbaum and Roslyn Greenspon Michelle J. 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To participate in the JFS Social Skills groups children must be screened and assessed by JFS clinicians to determine if they are appropriate for the current groups available. There is a fee for each session, depending on insurance benefits. Please contact JFS at 704-3646594 for further information. Y In January 2011, despite our meal preparation day falling right in the middle of the snowstorm, Hadassah managed successfully to deliver over four dozen meals to JFS thanks to efforts of Barbara Abrams, Lynne Cojac, Wendy Hennes, Florence Jaffa, Judy Kaufmann, and Gabby Starr. IN HONOR OF Barbara and Richard Herd from Judie and Michael Van Glish Connie and Paul Ostrow from Judie and Michael Van Glish Nancy Bernstein from Audrey Madans MAZEL TOV ON Maggie’s Bat Mitzvah to Barbara and Richard Herd from Judie and Michael Van Glish Mark Bernstein receiving the Spirit award from Ruth and Marc Ben-Joseph The birth of your granddaughter to Sonni and Ralph Besnoy from Ruth and Alan Goldberg From Michele Lifshen Reing’s Purim Kitchen: Hamantaschen Filling ingredients: 1 c. pitted prunes ¼ c. dried cherries 1/3 c. dried cranberry-orange mix 1 t. orange zest 3 T. apricot fruit-only jam ½ c. finely chopped walnuts 1/3 c. mini semi-sweet chocolate chips 1-2 T. orange juice (or more if needed) Dough ingredients: ½ c. sugar ¼ c. canola oil 2 T. butter or margarine, at room temperature 1 lg. egg HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Rachel Goodman from Sandra and Leon Levine Charlene Silverberg from Sylvia and Irving Swartz, Toby and Lewis Spitzer Ron Gordon from Harriet and Mark Perlin, Ruth and Alan Goldberg, Melissa Van Glish Brett Goodman from Fay Sinkoe and family Libby Behar from Toby and Lewis Spitzer Louis Sinkoe from Fay Sinkoe and family Sandra Levine from Judie and Michael Van Glish HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO Sheila and Robert Peltzer from Jacqueline and Emery Szabo 1 t. vanilla 2 c. flour 1 t. baking powder Pinch of salt In a sm. saucepan, combine prunes, dried cherries and cranberry-orange mix and ½ c. water. Simmer over low heat till the prunes are tender but still firm and liquid has been absorbed, about 10 min. Drain and cool. In a food processor, combine the prune mixture, orange zest and apricot jam till smooth. Transfer mixture to a med. bowl. Stir in walnuts, chocolate chips and 1-2 T. orange juice, adding more if needed to adjust thickness (mixture should be consistency of thick jam). Transfer to a sm. bowl and set aside. (The filling can be made up to 2 days ahead and kept, covered, in the refrigerator.) In a med. bowl, using an electric mixer on med. speed, cream sugar, oil and butter till smooth. Add egg and beat till smooth. Add vanilla and beat till blended. In another med. bowl, sift together flour, baking powder and salt. Using a wooden spoon, stir the dry ingredients into the sugar mixture till just combined. Gather the dough into a ball, wrap with plastic wrap, and flatten slightly. Refrigerate for 2-3 hrs. or overnight. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line 2 baking sheets with baking parchment or coat with non-stick spray. Set aside. Divide the dough in half. (Keep one half chilled while working with other half.) Roll out dough on a lightly floured surface to a thickness of ½”. Using a 2-1/2” round cookie cutter, cut IN MEMORY OF Faye Holzman to Eleanor Gumnit from Eleanor and Morton Turk Wilma Woolf Saly to Jill John from Eleanor and Morton Turk Albert Globerman to Esther Givner from Margie and Ben Liebstein Dan Dubin to Ellen Dubin and family from Bernice and Nat Roberts, Laura and Barry Reich, Amalia and Avi Warshenbrot and family, Alla and Mike Mogilevsky, Kimberly Grabiner, Marni Mandell, Ruth and Alan Goldberg, Rabbi Robert and Mrs. Sharon Kasman Ed Atkins to Muriel Atkins from Lenora and Mike Borchardt Esther Feygin to Nina and Yakov Feygin from Elizabeth and Walter Klein Julius Silverman to Emery Szabo and Ruth Silverman from members of Points of View, Bette and Abraham Bober, Rosaline and Douglas Mann Lina Newman’s mother from Paula and Richard Klein Philip Sperling to Shelly and Randy Sperling from Lynda and James White Werner Moritz to Paul Moritz from “The Breakfast Club” Y out dough. Place ½ t. of filling in the center of each circle. Turn edges toward center, forming a 3cornered cookie. Pinch the corners together and seal well, leaving a small triangle of filling showing in the center. Place about ½” apart on the prepared baking sheets. Bake for 10-15 min., or till tops are golden. Transfer to tacks to cool. Repeat with remaining dough. (Store cookies in an airtight container for up to 3 days. Freeze for longer storage.) Yield: 4 dozen cookies. Y Michele Lifshen Reing is Art and Cooking Enrichment Teacher/Specialist at Morristown Jewish Center Preschool, President and Founder at Giving Arts™, and a graduate of the professional pastry program at Peter Kump’s New York Cooking School. Le Levine evine JJCC Spo orts Camps Ca amps Sports Build B uild skills skills and and be be ACTIVE ACTI VE this this summer! summer! Ethan Horton Flag Football Ages 7–12 yrs June 13 – 17 Dell Curry Basketball Ages 8–18 yrs August 8 – 12 Levine JCC Weekly Tennis Camps Ages 6–16 years June 13 – August 12 Turn & Burn Lacrosse Ages 7–14 yrs July 25 – 29 Levine JCC Soccer Skills Ages 7–10 yrs August 15 – 19 High School Preseason Tennis Camp JV/Varsity August 15 – 18 FFor or more more information information orr online online registration, registration, vvisit isit w www.charlottejcc.org ww.charlottejcc.org 7704-944-6743 04-944-6743 oorr [email protected] stephanie.garner@ charlottejcc.org The Charlotte Jewish News -March 2011 - Page 30 Philanthropist and Art Collector Michael Steinhardt to Deliver the March 27 Kanof Lecture at the N.C. Museum of Art Jewish philanthropist and art collector Michael H. Steinhardt will deliver the eleventh annual Abram and Frances Pascher Kanof Lecture at the North Carolina Museum of Art on Sunday, March 27, at 2 PM in the Museum’s auditorium. The lecture is free and open to the public. A reception will follow the lecture. A near-legendary name in Jewish philanthropy, Michael Steinhardt has devoted his energy, enthusiasm and considerable resources to encourage the global revitalization of Jewish culture and identity, most notably through the Birthright Israel project. Steinhardt is also a distinguished art collector of antiquities, contemporary art and South American textiles. His collection of Jewish ceremonial art is one of the finest of its kind in private hands. For Steinhardt, art collecting and philanthropy are all part of his personal commitment to Jewish renewal and optimism. For this year’s Kanof Lecture Steinhardt has chosen a deliberately provocative topic: “Reflections of a Judaica Collector Who is Both an Atheist and Deeply Jewish.” He notes that his lecture “will include the history of my collecting and how my theology, or lack thereof, has impacted my choice of objects.” As a passionate, mission-driven collector of art, Steinhardt will offer sharp, surprising perspectives on the role of art in the transmission of cultural ideas and ideals from one genera- tion to the next. The Abram and Frances Pascher Kanof Lecture is presented in honor and memory of two of the museum’s most devoted patrons. Until his death in March 1999 at age 95, Dr. Abram Kanof served the Museum as a longtime trustee and founding curator of the Judaic Art Gallery. The program As I entered their kitchen, I could smell the answer. In the well-known 1988 essay “The Tent-Peg Business: Some Truths About Congregations,” Rabbi Lawrence Kushner wrote that “Since no one can be sure of what someone else must do to serve the Holy One, anyone who thinks he has a new idea or an old idea must be given a chance.” In 1965, when Ruth Notkin began baking hamantashen with a group of congregants as a means to financially support the temple Sisterhood (now called Women’s League), she and her co-bakers had little idea how the act would bring together generations — mother and daughters, granddaughters and grandmothers. “This is what we do,” Notkin said while feeding balls of dough into a machine roller and then turning the crank. Not a religious act, yet each year the result of the cranking is thousands of dollars of tzedakah. The sale of the hamantashen helps keep the synagogue healthy, and the donation of the finished hamantashen to local retirement homes keeps people happy. I watched as the women went about their work mixing, rolling, cutting out circles of dough using a Yuban coffee can, folding, filling and finally baking. “We each have a specialty,” Notkin noted. As the dough rolled, they talked about friends, relatives and how they had first came to the task. “I got a phone call. They said we want to honor you,” related Ruth Wilkoff over the whirr of a commercial-sized mixer. “Religious institutions directly support a wide range of social activities well beyond conventional worship,” political scientist Robert Putnam wrote in “Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of the American Community,” his groundbreaking 2000 book about civic disconnection. As I watched this team filling tray after tray with hamantashen (they sell 2,000 to 3,000 pastries its new gallery building, home to the permanent collection. The North Carolina Museum of Art, Lawrence J. Wheeler, director, is located at 2110 Blue Ridge Road in Raleigh. It is the art museum of the State of North Carolina, Beverly Eaves Perdue, governor, and an agency of the Department of Cultural Resources, Linda A. Carlisle, secretary. Admission to the Museum’s permanent collection and Museum Park is free. Museum hours are Tuesday– Thursday and Saturday–Sunday, 10 AM–5 PM; Friday, 10 AM–9 PM; closed Monday. For information call 919-839-NCMA, or visit www.ncartmuseum.org. Y Who Says “Not Every Day is Purim”? At Purim, Communal Connections Heat Up By Edmon J. Rodman Los Angeles (JTA) — Who would have thought in this cookie cutter world, a heimishe hamantashen controversy? Let me tell you the whole megillah. Out in Anaheim, CA, where Mickey and Minnie live, in the community where I grew up, there is a changing group of women and men who are a bunch of Purim pixies. Baking in the Temple Beth Emet kitchen for the past 45 years, they have turned out tens of thousands of hamantashen. Working in two shifts, with a division of labor and specialized tools, and using a not-so-secret recipe, each year they baked hundreds of dozens of prune, mohn (poppy seed) or apricot. That is until two years ago, when the chocolate chip controversy began. But while the controversy bakes a bit (350 degrees for 20 minutes, or until brown), you need to hear the rest of this Purim story. It goes beyond fillings and shapes to asking how has the baking filled and shaped the bakers’ relationships? And are they somehow providing their synagogue with more than sweets? For a fully baked answer, I took the 30-mile drive from Los Angeles to Anaheim to see if I could discover what has kept things cooking over two generations - through Vietnam, Watergate, several Middle East wars and eight rabbis. First, I must tell you in complete journalistic disclosure, since I grew up in the Temple Beth Emet community, I know most of the bakers. The temple has largely aged in place. Among the afternoon baking crew are my junior high school social studies teacher, several friends of my family, a woman who is the sister of a former college roommate and, for good measure, my mother-in-law, Shirley. Was baking one of the activities that held them to this spot half a mile from the Magic Kingdom? and the reception that follows is the gift of the Kanof family. The North Carolina Museum of Art’s permanent collection spans more than 5,000 years, from ancient Egypt to the present, making the institution one of the premier art museums in the Southeast. The Museum’s collection provides educational, aesthetic, intellectual, and cultural experiences for the citizens of North Carolina and beyond. The 164-acre Museum Park showcases the connection between art and nature through site-specific works of environmental art. The Museum offers changing national touring exhibitions, classes, lectures, family activities, films, and concerts. The Museum recently opened per year), I began to wonder if their volunteer baking helped connect the crew to the synagogue and to each other. I found out firsthand. “Would you like to try it?” one of them asked. After washing up, I folded, cut and cranked. Only then could I see how each task was interdependent and how you really didn’t want to mess up someone else’s work. Each piece was inspected - this was handmade love going out to their fellow congregants. Later I spoke with Polly Schechter, a former neighbor, who leads the morning shift. Asked about her crew, she told me that “it ties us to the temple, even for those who don’t necessarily come to services. At the end of the day we have something to show for it. It’s a high.” The controversy? As you might expect at a synagogue, it’s about tradition. Two years before, the morning group broke the baking “minhag,” or custom, of more than 40 years by introducing three new flavors raspberry and apricot with chocolate chips and plain chocolate. “They caught on like wildfire,” Schechter said, adding that “Kids like the chocolate chips better.” The afternoon group won’t make them. “We’re too traditional for that,” Notkin said. “The morning group, they’re more modern.” “Do you sense a little competition?” another baker asked. No, but perhaps a small crumb of pride. At the end of my shift, I sampled a traditional apricot. In so many ways it tasted just right. Y (Edmon J. Rodman is a JTA columnist who writes on Jewish life from Los Angeles.) By Daniella Ashkenazy Jerusalem (JTA) — According to a Jewish maxim, “Not every day is Purim.” But when it comes to life in Israel, there’s a steady stream of reasons to laugh year-round. Just open the Hebrew papers on any given day for at least one incredible snippet of what passes for normalcy here. Antics aren’t limited to those with harebrained schemes or dumb-witted crooks. They include officials from court judges to pencil pushers courting trouble. That includes a man from Beit Shea who likes to strut about dressed as a high-ranking army officer. Michael Levi, 38, was hauled into court last November by local cops and charged with impersonating an officer and “disgracing” the uniform. The public defender and the state’s attorney took one look at Levi and agreed: Since everyone in Beit Shean knows the flaky defendant is a fake, Levi could continue to masquerade to his heart’s content, provided he promised to keep his shenanigans within city limits. These and other wacky stories are detailed on the Chelm-on-theMed Web site (http://www.chelmon-the-med.com), which collects and publishes weird man-bitesdog stories from the Israeli press. Some clerks at the Jerusalem Rabbinate wrote a short, humorous marriage manual to be handed out to new grooms, but they decided to dress up the manual by comparing married life to a fish. The result was a genuine kettle of fish that roiled everyone. One passage said a husband should compliment his wife five times a day, “even if you have to lie,” because a woman who doesn’t receive a steady stream of daily compliments from her hubby will be “like a fish out of water.” Another gem warned newlyweds that living with the in-laws would undermine building their couplehood. Even “the tastiest fish begins to stink after a while,” the manual warned. The red-faced Rabbinate announced that the manual was “an unauthorized private initiative” by some low-level pencil pushers. During Purim, alcohol flows like water. But what constitutes alcohol in Israel? Five years after Israeli police inaugurated breathalizer testing to establish intoxication, an independent lab test ordered by a traffic court established what many drivers had suspected for years: The device wasn’t accurate. In late 2009, 14 days of intensive testing by an analytical chemist determined that the breath-analyzing apparatus was over-sensitive to humidity and identified orange juice as alcohol. In Ramat Gan, near Tel Aviv, a 29-year-old male student from Bar Ilan University dressed up and was dressed down all in a matter of hours. Attired in a dress, tights and boots, the glamorous imposter was questioned after being caught red-faced and red-handed on campus trying to score with his girlfriend by sitting for her university entrance exams. He swore his disguise was foolproof. Testers, however, considered the large dark sunglasses he wore a dead giveaway. Police released the pair without pressing charges, saying, “They’re a normal couple who just went too far.” But the most fantastic news story ever tied to Purim in Israel belongs to a 2002 classic. Thirty professionals - engineers, silversmiths and sofrei stam (scribes of holy texts) - banded to create what undoubtedly is the most pricey Purim noisemaker since the Big Bang - or at least the fifth century BCE, when the Purim story took place. Hardly for paupers, the 65 designer groggers made of silver, silver with gold embellishments, or silver-plated brass were priced between $11,860 to $23,260 each and marketed as collector’s items. No wonder: Not only did they contain a handwritten scroll with the entire Book of Esther, but also a tzedakah (charity) box, offering buyers an ingenious way of recapping their investment. Y The Charlotte Jewish News -March 2011- Page 31 Cookies and Challah Pudding It’s Not Just Hamantaschen Anymore By Linda Morel New York (JTA) – “People go for themes these days,” says a mother from Manhattan’s Upper West Side, explaining how the custom of giving gifts at Purim has escalate since her childhood in the 1950s. Back then, people followed tradition: Family members in every household gave two foods to two people. Called portions, these foods were often homemade, and hamantaschen were king. Today people hire companies to deliver Purim portions with pizzazz. Last year, this Manhattan mom received a breakfast basket from friends that contained bagels, cream cheese, cocoa, muffins and mini-cereal boxes. Another couple selected a chocolate theme, sending a tin full of everything: chocolate syrup, cake, cookies, pudding and candy bars. Although these upscale offerings are creative, they are a quantum leap from Mordechai’s intention after the Jews of Persia defeated Haman. Overjoyed that they had prevailed over Haman’s wicked plot to annihilate them, Mordechai declared Purim to be at time to give charity to the poor and shalach manot, or portions of edible presents, to loved ones. Traditionally, people have exchanged a fruit and a baked good, presented on trays. In an attempt to preserve the spirit of the holiday, the Manhattan mom wants her chil- dren to participate in a meaningful shalach manot. Together they bake hamantaschen, various cookies and small cakes. They place pastries in Purim boxes, which can be purchased at Judaica stores or synagogue gift shops. Bringing boxes to two of their friends, each child also gives them to grandparents and family friends. While the personal gesture is waning in America, in other countries people bake sweets by the dozen at Purim, turning it into a virtual cookie exchange. Although the holiday’s signature dish, hamantaschen, remains popular, people throughout the world also stuff baskets with slices of cakes and favorite cookies. Typical of Jewish culinary history, Purim baking has been influenced by local cuisine, and every country has its own customs. Russian Jews make streudels, teiglach and sugar cookies. In Morocco, people exchange small breads filled with hard boiled eggs. In Prague, they bake huge challahs topped with oversized braids, symbolizing the rope used to hang Haman. Usually celebrated on the 14th day of the Hebrew month of Adar, Purim is observed the next day by people living in cities that were surrounded by walls in ancient times. Thus Israelis in Tel Aviv should observe Purim on a different day than people in Jerusalem. But the holiday is such an event in Israel that many people celebrate on both days. Shalach manot Generously coat baking sheets with non-stick spray. Cut each stick of is taken seriously, and margarine into 8 baking begins several pieces. Save. Mix weeks in advance. remaining ingreIsraelis prepare everydients in a lg. thing from peanut butter bowl. Add marcookies to favorite garine, mixing Challah pudding. Chanukah and Rosh well till batter HaShanah sweets. holds together. By In America, Jews often rounded teaspoons, roll batter in exchange hamantaschen, honey palms into balls. Place on baking cake and our country’s favorite sheet. Bake 15-20 min. till cookies treat, chocolate chip cookies. are light brown. Cool 2 min. Although many Americans pur- before removing from baking chase pastries in bakeries, the sheets. Yield: 5 dozen. Recipe recipes below take little time and freezes well. no expertise. With help, children can participate, too. CHUNKY CHOCOLATE Inspired by English bread pud- CHIP COOKIES ding, challah pudding squares are Non-stick cooking spray layered with creamy custard and 1 c. margarine, room temp. golden raisins. This recipe serves a 1 c. dark brown sugar practical purpose, consuming ½ c. granulated sugar every bit of leftover challah float- 1-1/2 t. vanilla ing in the freezer. 2 eggs As the last holiday before 1-1/2 c. flour Passover, Purim should be a bak- 1 t. salt ing bonanza that dwindles a fami- 1 t. baking soda ly’s supply of flour, a time to give ¾ c. pecans, coarsely ground portions of love and cookies. ½ c. blanched almonds, coarsely ground PEANUT BUTTER COOKIES ¾ c. raisins Non-stick cooking spray 6 oz. semi-sweet chocolate chips 2 sticks of margarine at room 6 oz. white chocolate chips temp Preheat oven to 350 degrees. 2-1/2 c. flour Generously coat baking sheets 1 t. baking powder with cooking spray. Place mar1 c. sugar garine, sugars, and vanilla in a lg. ¼ c. honey bowl, beating on high speed till 1 c. creamy peanut butter creamy, about 2 min. Add eggs, 1 t. vanilla beating till well blended. 2 eggs Gradually add flour, salt and bak¼ t. salt ing soda. Add remaining ingrediPreheat oven to 350 degrees. ents, mixing well. Drop batter by rounded teaspoons onto baking sheets. Bake 8-10 min., till golden and browning at edges. Cool 3 min. before removing from baking sheets. Yield: 7 dozen. Recipe freezes well. were being punished by God. A return to strict observance was the only solution. Levity and luxury were to be avoided. As one of the new conditions, wedding festivities became much more somber, and holidays such as Purim and Simchat Torah less raucous. The traditional Jewish comics were outlawed. During one discussion on July 3, 1661, Gordon relates, a rabbi asked his colleagues, what about the badkhn? He’s not really funny, the rabbi said. In fact, he’s abusive. The elders agreed, and the badkhn was exempted from the ban - he wasn’t a merrymaker and wasn’t encouraging levity. And that’s how the badkhn became the only Jewish comic permitted in the shtetls, Gordon says, and how his particular brand of sarcastic, bleak humor set the tone for what we know today as Jewish comedy. Before the 1660s, the badkhn was the least popular Jewish entertainer – now he was the sole survivor. “Jewish humor used to be the same as that of the host country,” Gordon said. “Now it began to deviate from mainstream European humor. It became more aggressive, meaner. All of Jewish humor changed.” The badkhn’s role was secure from the 1660s to the 1890s and the beginning of the great Jewish migration to America and to the larger cities of Russia and Ukraine. Gordon’s father, who came to America in 1929 from the Polish shtetl Bielsk-Podlasky, remembers the badkhn of his youth. “He was always drunk in the cemetery, telling jokes to kids,” Gordon recalls. “He came out of hiding for Purim and weddings.” Little remains of the badkhn today outside Chasidic communities, where they are the stars of the yearly Purim spiels. When Gordon lived in New York in the 1980s, he would take journalists to Chasidic synagogues in Brooklyn every spring to witness these raucous celebrations. But the badkhn’s influence is still felt in mainstream culture, Gordon says, from the Borsch Belt humor of the 1920s and ‘30s, to contemporary Italian and AfricanAmerican comedians who trade in barbed insults and self-deprecation. “Even today, almost all Jewish entertainers have badkhn humor,” Gordon said. “Sarah Silverman is completely badkhn. “What did my father find funny? Dirty jokes. Because that’s the badkhn humor he grew up with.” Y Badkhn Belt? Jewish Humor was Born in 1661, Prof Says By Sue Fishkoff Berkeley, CA (JTA) — The Chmielnicki massacres weren’t particularly funny. From 1648 to 1651, nearly 100,000 Jews were slaughtered throughout Ukraine by Bohdan Chmielnicki and his roving bands of Cossacks. It was arguably the worst pogrom in history, leaving hundreds of Jewish communities in ruins. Yet according to Mel Gordon, a professor of theater arts at the University of California, Berkeley, those years of terror led to the canonization of what we now know as Jewish humor. A lot of what we laugh at during Purim festivities stems from that horrific period. And it happened on one day in July 1661 when the badkhn - a kind of cruel court jester in East European Jewish life - was spared a ban on merrymakers. “We’re funny because of the badkhn,” Gordon told JTA. Gordon, who has authored numerous books on theater, cinema and popular culture, lectures widely on his badkhn theory at Jewish and non-Jewish venues. “Everyone says that Jews are funny because they suffered so much,” he said. “That’s ridiculous. You think the rest of the world hasn’t suffered? What about the Armenians, the Biafrans, the American Indians? None of them are known for their humor.” Nor are Jews funny because they’ve “always been funny,” another common falsehood, Gordon says. It’s only in the past 100 years, with the rise of Hollywood and nightclub society, that Jewish humor has become a staple of American popular culture. Before the 1660s, there were at least ten different stock comic types in shtetl life, Gordon says. One would rhyme, one would juggle, one might sing. “At the turn of the 20th century, the Jews were commonly perceived to be a humorless, itinerant nation,” he wrote in Funnyman, a 2010 book co-authored with Thomas Andrae about the shortlived Jewish comic book superhero. So it’s not genetic, and it’s not because of suffering or social marginalization, that led to this thing we call Jewish humor - it’s the badkhn. The badkhn was a staple in East European Jewish life for three centuries, mocking brides and grooms at their weddings. He also was in charge of Purim spiels in shtetl society. His humor was biting, even vicious. He would tell a bride she was ugly, make jokes about the groom’s dead mother and round things off by belittling the guests for giving such worthless gifts. Much of the badkhn’s humor was grotesque, even scatological. “They would talk about drooping breasts, big butts, small penises,” Gordon said. “We know a lot about them because they were always suing each other about who could tell which fart joke on which side of Grodno.” It’s that same self-deprecating tone that characterizes the Yiddish-inflected Jewish jokes of the 20th century, Gordon points out. Who is the surly Jewish deli waiter of Henny Youngman fame if not a badkhn, making wisecracks at the customer’s expense? Before the 1660s, there were at least ten different stock comic types in shtetl life, Gordon says. One would rhyme, one would juggle, one might sing. Wealthy folks would hire a variety for their simchas, or festive celebrations. But in the summer of 1661, a decade after the Chmielnicki massacres and its resultant famines, leading rabbis from Poland and Ukraine - the “Elders of the Four Councils” - met in Vilna to discuss why such evils had befallen the Jewish people. The elders decided the Jews CHALLAH PUDDING SQUARES 8 eggs 1 qt. 2% milk ½ t. ground cinnamon 1 t. vanilla 1/3 c. sugar Non-stick cooking spray 24 slices of challah, plus broken pieces 8 pats of butter, at room temp 1 Rome apple, skinned, cored, and cut into 1/4” slices ½ c. golden raisins In a lg. bowl, beat eggs till foamy. Add milk, cinnamon, vanilla, and sugar beating well. Put aside. Coat a 13”x9”x2” baking dish with cooking spray. Buttering one side of eight slices of challah, place in baking dish buttered side down. Pieces may overlap. Fill spaces in between slices with broken pieces of challah. Scatter half the apple slices and half the raisins on top. Pour 25% of milk mixture over this layer. Over with another 8 slices of buttered challah, repeating steps for first layer. Pour another 25% of milk over top. Cover with last 8 slices, repeating steps again. Pour remaining milk evenly over top. Dust with cinnamon and dot with remaining butter. 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