March, 2014 - Compassion on Death Row
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March, 2014 - Compassion on Death Row
Written by Death-Row Prisoners 140 W. South Boundary Street | Perrysburg, OH 43551 Publishing compassionate and introspective articles written by death-row prisoners. I March 2014 | Vol. 17 | Issue 75 (Bi-monthly) Stand for Something or Fall for Anything magine we are standing in the middle of the road pointing in opposite directions, both of us claiming, “This way is right!” Who actually is right is determined by our destination, that is, the destination is our point of reference (p.o.r.) by which we orient ourselves and the world around us – making sense of it all. The p.o.r. puts it all into perspective: which way is forward, who’s leading, who’s lost… without it, there’s only chaos and conjecture; we need to know which way is north, so to speak. The world is full of lost souls pointing every which way. Unless we stand for something (have a clear p.o.r.), we have no way to know right from wrong, which way to go in life, nothing solid to stand on. We’ll let our fears or desires run our lives – we’ll be slaves to them. Truth is our p.o.r.; but what is truth (objective truth, not subjective truth)? Where do we get it? Truth is unbreakable: 1 + 1 = 2 regardless of whether I say or think or want it to be 3; it’s independent, and it shapes the world around it; the world doesn’t shape truth, though not from lack of trying. God gives us objective truth – the Scripture – and by believing and using it, everything else becomes clear, brought into proper perspective: who’s right/wrong, what’s good/evil, what’s valuable (wisdom, love, etc.) – and by accepting His values, our decisions become clearly prioritized because the thing you value most will be the thing you choose when deciding between things, what comes first; our morals and principles become solid. Just as I consult a (Continued on page 6) Recognize Your Triumph IN THIS ISSUE: uEditorial: The Abundant Life uLetters to the Editor uVictims Voice uA Moment of Realization uBirth of Tomorrow uMy Name Is... uRevisiting Don’t let the system steal your determination, optimism or drive Every day we awake our mission is to stay alert and remain alive To live as examples of people who shall wave no white flags Never giving in to weak-mindedness by sidestepping life’s daily snags It’s a must that we overcome the hurdles and barriers placed in our way We can’t effectively change tomorrow by neglecting what’s happening today Demand to be defined by the present you and not the mistakes of your past uFor Whom the Ball Tolls Focus on what’s most meaningful to gain success and do all to make it last uYear of the Bible Spread positive energy in all you do uAnd More... so that your conscience remains clear By doing so you’ll be able to recognize your triumph when it’s near. www.compassionondeathrow.net Antony Cain California Death Row San Quentin, CA Letters to the Editor Letters to the Editor are welcomed from all prisoners (this includes non-death row prisoners) and the outside community. In submitting letters, we ask that compassionate and introspective guidelines apply to your communications. Limit size to 400 words or less. Letters may be edited for clarity and space considerations. CONTACT US AT: Letters to the Editor COMPASSION 140 W. South Boundary Street Perrysburg, OH 43551 COMPASSION OUTSIDE COORDINATOR [email protected] TEL:419-874-1333 FAX:419-874-3441 WEBSITE ADDRESS: www.compassionondeathrow.net PUBLISHER Compassion CO-EDITORS Abu Ali Abdur-Rahman Marcus Wellons ASSISTANT EDITORS Al Cunningham, Charles Henry Diller, Konstantinos Fotopoulos, Siddique Abdullah Hasan, and Melvin Speight COMPASSION ADVISORY BOARD Death-Row Prisoners CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Robert Saint Bailey, Anthony Cain, Tavares Calloway , R. Wayne Holsey, Kevin Marinelli, Dorian Frank O’Kelley & George Wilkerson Please Note: Any opinions expressed in this publication are those of the individuals writing them and not of Compassion or other staff members. 2 Editorial: The Abundant Life L ife is one of God’s greatest gifts. A beautiful journey. Often unpredictable. It can be full or empty, lived purposefully or aimlessly. Life with vision; foresight, insight and hindsight, as well as acquiring knowledge, wisdom and understanding, greatly enhances our pilgrimage, and requiring effort and desire. Jesus said “The thief comes to kill, steal and destroy, but I have come that you may have life and life more abundantly.” Abundant living is the richest life. Proverbs says “The blessings of the Lord maketh rich, and He adds no sorrow with it.” It is an overflow of blessings that may include wealth, but the more weightier ones are health-time, love, good people, faith and peace and joy through life’s storms and seasons that surpass all logical understanding. The abundant life will make you the head and not the tail. The lender, not the borrower and will empower you through the dark clouds of despair, days where you don’t feel like getting out of bed. You cover your eyes because you don’t want to see the bars, fences and razor wire or engage with people not to mention the fight to stay alive. Quiet time alone can be a rejuvenator. Many in the outside world feel imprisoned by their jobs, business, and bills and overwhelmed by many responsibilities while satanic spirits whisper “Quit! There’s no way out,” But you can’t. I’ve been there and witness these every day. Jesus said “The thief comes to kill, steal and destroy, but I have come that you may have life and life more abundantly.” This bountifully blessed life begins right now, regardless of where one is, and extends through eternity, and will change your perspective. It causes me to begin each day with thanksgiving. You’ll see your job and unfulfilled life and responsibilities as a blessing. The prison becomes your university. Your cell serves as your office, classroom, library and your sanctuary and altars to worship. It elevates to a higher-spiritual plane where one can see or make some beauty where there is no beauty. In watching a sunset to music, in a poem, scripture, loved ones and each individual sent into your path. This richness can unglue you from the bed to begin your day with intentionality, passion and expectancy, making good use of your allotted time and making you victorious over your every power of the enemy, even the one in one’s own mind. Seek opportunities to help someone else. This life of abundance God gives, but not many attain it because it requires decisions: 1.Total commitment to Christ – Be all in, “come hell or high water,” no turning back. 2.Discipline – Our thoughts then we can control the tongue which affects attitude and behavior. To study, pray and meditate even if you don’t feel like it. 3.Required Sacrifice – May be sleep, missed opportunities, hated or attacked for doing what’s right and just. 4.Hard Work & Diligence –Nothing comes to a sleeper, but a dream. Proverb teaches poverty will attack a lazy person like an armed bandit. Work while others sleep and play. 5.Divine Grace – Empowers a willing person to be an obedient vessel. We cannot claim ownership of the talents, abilities and resources God has so graciously entrusted us with but when we use them to enrich the lives of others then He is glorified. This is the essence of abundant living with a purpose greater than self. To those whom much is given, much is required. Marcus Wellons Co-Editor Georgia Death Row Jackson, GA Letters to the Editor: I Will Never Forget You Seek First the Kingdom of God The Spirit came this morning, and joined in a morning song. Fear took flight, it had to leave. Holiness was here to say: I will be with you today. I am where you are now. Christ has saved and set you free. Walk forth in real liberty. I bring the truth to you. In your recent newsletter Marcus Wellons mentions, “the mystery of death creates anxiety.” Maybe I can relieve some of that mystery and anxiety. I call your attention to two current books, each written by a physician about their incredible trips to heaven in a near death experience. In “To Heaven and Back” Dr. Mary Neal, an orthopedic surgeon, recounts her experience after drowning and being under water an estimated 15 minutes on a kayak trip to remote Chili. With two severely, injured knees her body was rescued and transported to medical help. This with no cell phones to summon help to this distant site. The second book is “Proof of Heaven” by Dr. Eben Alexander, a neurosurgeon. He developed a severe brain infection and was in a coma for a week. Recovery was highly unlikely and if he did recover major brain damage was a surety. During his coma he too made an amazing trip, which he shares with his readers. He writes to convince his skeptical medical colleagues, just as he was skeptical of the near death experiences of his patients. These are life changing stories, of God’s love for all of us, that may give you a wonderful preview of what is coming next. Charles Henry Diller Assistant Editor of Outside Communication Dallas State Correctional Institution Dallas, PA Heaven’s Grocery Store I was walking down life’s highway; one day I saw a sign that read: “Heaven’s Grocery Store”. I approached closer, the door was opened wide, and when I came to myself I was standing well inside. I saw a host of angels, they were everywhere. One handed me a basket and said: “My Child shop with care. Everything a Christian needed was in this Holy space. Take all that you can carry; come back tomorrow and have some more.” I went on a shopping trip. First I took hold of patience, love and understanding. You need that where you are. I pulled a box or two of wisdom off the shelf, and a bag of faith. I couldn’t miss the Holy Ghost for it was in this place. I paused to get some strength and courage to help me run the race. My basket was getting full and I remembered I still needed Grace. I did not forget salvation but took hold of enough to save you and me. I started walking toward the counter to pay my bill. I thought I had enough to do my Master’s will. As I walked up the aisle I saw prayer. I put it in my basket for I knew when I stepped outside, I would run right into sin. Peace and joy were plentiful on the last shelf. Songs of praise were hanging high; I just helped myself. Then I said to the angel, “How much do I owe”? He just smiled and said, “Take them where you go.” I asked again, “How much do I owe?” He replied: ‘My Child, Jesus paid your bill a long time ago.” I greatly admire your work with the Scholarship fund and the newsletter Compassion. I am also a firm supporter of abolishing the death penalty. I receive Compassion through the donation of my church, St. John’s Episcopal. May God be with all of us in our work. Peace be with you. Marilyn Kreger Brighton, MI Mervin Fortune State Correctional Institution LaBelle, PA 3 A Father’s Forgiveness Azim Khamisa Azim Khamisa’s 20 year old son, Tariq, was shot and killed in 1995, while deliveringpizza, by Tony Hicks who, at 14, became the first juvenile in California to be tried as an adult. He pled guilty to firstdegree murder and is now servinga 35 year to life sentence. in his son’s memory and he told Tony, “When youcome out of prison youcan have a jobat the foundation.” he hoped those responsible were found and executed for their crime and rotted in hell but Azim disagreed and indicated; “There are victims at both ends of the gun.” 4.Through meditation work at forgivingyourself. Azim decided “not to become the enemy of my son’s killer but of the forces that put a youngboy on a dark street holdinga gun” He said “I had what youmay call a spiritual epiphany.” He met Tony Hicks later and forgive him for what he did. Together with Tony’s grandfather Azim started the Tariq Khamisa Foundation Azim has written several books and lectures extensively on forgiveness and meditation. Youcan view his suggestions on line at www.Azimkhamisa.com. Tony received his GEDhigh school diploma in prison and went on to receive a degree in psychology. Azim believes his ability to In an interview with Compassion newsletter Azim said, “when first forgive has given Tony hope and allowed him to become focused hearingofmy son’s murder I hungupon the homicide detectives.” and successful in his endeavors while in prison. He then called and spoke with his son’s fiancéwho had already Azim encourages Compassion readers on death row to take the heard the news and was sobbinguncontrollably. Because the followingsteps in their lives. trauma ofhearingthis news was so overwhelming, Azim said, 1. Take full responsibility for your offense. “the strength went out ofmy legs and I collapsed and had an out 2.Be sincerely remorseful. ofbody experience where I went into the arms ofGod.” 3.Ask forgiveness from the victim’s family even though youmay Accordingto Azim “When God sent me back I called my best not receive it. friend and he came over to be with me” The friend indicated that 5.Redeem yourself by doinggood and workingto encourage others especially youngpeople not to follow in your footsteps. For more information visit www.MVFHR.org. Tariq Khamisa “A Moment of Realization” A moment frozen in time, A memory forever etched into my mind Brings only feelings of joy when visited! The thoughts of that warm smile Illuminates my heart and makes my soul shine!! Again the divine has found me And once again exhibited itself Through the soul of another How is it that love could be so understanding, So compassionate, so flexible, but yet so firm?! It is only when I realized That I have asked this question aloud That love smiles and simply replies I Am Unconditional!!! Tavares Calloway Florida Death Row Raiford, FL 4 Birth of Tomorrow H ow beautiful is your hope, the essential of existence: So many needs will welcome your arrival. For tomorrow possibly holds what today hopes for. And while many hearts will hope that your arrival doesn’t make a questionable appearance, you are needed. For life is lived now and understood later in spite of the fear that tomorrow may possibly hold the essence of deep silence… Oh, how it’s wished that your arrival could live and let live. But you will have to make your own decisions and those who aren’t welcome will have to stand before a higher power. Oh, how much better it would be if today could somehow slip into the future, to breast feed your tomorrow, to put you over its shoulder in hope that you burp a better promise. It doesn’t seem right for some to rejoice while others may mourn. Oh, tomorrow what joy you bring. Oh, tomorrow what pain you give. Oh, tomorrow. (Dedicated to John Hightower when facing execution) Robert Wayne Holsey Georgia Death Row Jackson, GA My Name Is... Beyond the healed bones from “sticks and stones” the pain still remains My name is…hurt Beyond the chastity lost there lingers a cost a scarring of the soul My name is…shame Beyond the crime done and the repentance won sorrow has not died My name is…grief By John Robinson / Kansas Death Row / El-Dorado, KS Untitled by Eric Hall Idaho Death Row Boise, ID 8” x 10” Pen and Pencil Price:$40.00 Includes Shipping Beyond the addiction broken and the apologies spoken a shattered life yet exists My name is…regret Beyond disease diagnosed a life’s misery confirmed a striken body felt My name is…pain Beyond a love mourned a heart left unadorned and dryless tears My name is…lonely Beyond all that’s desired belief like a raging fire a glimmer remains My name is…faith Beyond what is seen and everything between you push on and on My name is…hope Please Donate to Our Scholarship Fund... Death Row Prisoners Donate Art F O R S C H O L A R S H I P S We are in Need of Prisoner Drawings and Paintings All proceeds from sales of artwork go to college scholarships for family members of murder victims. Please make check out and mail to: Compassion Art for Scholarships 140 W. South Boundary St. Perrysburg, OH 43551 Beyond the prayers said and scriptures read a heart full of joy My name is…love Kevin Marinelli Pennsylvania Death Row Waynesburg, PA 5 Now Accepting Scholarship Applications A portion of the funds from subscriptions and undesignated donations to Compassion are given as college scholarships to immediate family members (parent, grandparent, child, grandchild, sibling) of murdered victims. If you or someone you know is a U.S. citizen and is either attending or planning on attending a college or university (academic or religious) as a student and had a family member murdered, please submit an application. To Obtain an Application: Write COMPASSION 140 W. South Boundary St. Perrysburg, Ohio 43551 Call 419-874-1333 Ask for Compassion’s office Visit www.compassionondeathrow.net Death Row Prisoners Please Write To Help Youth! Compassion is gathering essays written by death row prisoners on words of advice on how juvenile offenders can best avoid going back into prison. Recidivism rates are very high among youth and your words of encouragement and wisdom may save a young person from having to reenter the prison system. This book, like “Today’s Choices Affect Tomorrows Dreams,” will be sent without charge to at-risk youth in juvenile detention facilities throughout the United States. Send your submission to: New Book Compassion 140 W. South Boundary Perrysburg, OH43551 To Our Readers: Anything death-row prisoners write may jeopardize their future appeals. Knowledge of these facts may limit the scope of a prisoner’s expressions. All stories are subject to editing for grammar, sentence structure and clarity. 6 Revisiting Love bridges the gapbetween two worlds borderingat the barred visitation-booth window, a window scarred by hate and loveganggraffiti and lovers names forever tattooed On its grimy surface, textured by matching Greasy palm prints on each side: Evidence of the effort to maintain contact. Acrid smoke from burnt bridges Burns my eyes; I produce tears To put the fire out The air still tastes like ashes, laced with barbed wire – It’s painful to breathe it in, to accept it. I’ve watched cheappaint grow layer by layer On visitation- booth walls; over the little grills That filter our voices, our feelings, our lives Through its tiny canals cloggingwith waxy build-up Like the growingcallous surroundingthe hearts Of those who once had feelings for me, Makingit hard to be felt To be heard Over the din of the world. Some try to entombme in their past, neck-deep In debris from crumblingcrosswalks And decrepit memories, But I refuse to lie still, To be buried alive, To be forgotten: Love dies hard. I live… Still, Though dead in the eyes of many. My old nickname is etched into the steel table Below that barred visitation-booth window, A window bearingwitness to wide-ranginghumanity. I’d have to digthrough year after year Of painted memories To see the boy I used to be, To remember the way it once was, To see how much I’ve grown— Closer to some, apart from others, And into the man I am… Becoming. I Care In every child the sense of the Mysterious is intuitive and direct. So rarely do we take the time to Listen We fail to appreciate, to reverence Who we are. The greatest gift one can give is Friendship. To let another person know someone Cares, someone is ther for them – That they need never be alone again. There is no one person who can fully Appreciate me; Each person uncover but one of the Many colors of my rainbow. Hope is rendered ineffectual unless we Dare to lay ourselves on the line, Unless we dare as human beings to Utter to simple words – “I Care!” John Robinson Kansas Death Row El Dorado, KS George Wilkerson / North Carolina Death Row / Raleigh, NC Stand for Something or Fall for Anything (Continued from front cover) dictionary to know the spelling or meaning of a word, so I consult scripture to know how to live and the meaning of life, and my purpose within it, within this framework of reality. I have decided to follow Christ as He leads us into Heaven, I don’t always understand, but I choose to give Him the benefit over my doubts; I’m not perfect but God is, therefore if God is for it (or against it) then so am I. To make a stand means by decision to live God’s way must be uncompromising, even when no one’s looking. To do otherwise leaves us open to be deceived and led astray… by ourselves (our vain imaginations, fears, desires) or by others; but knowing where I stand – what I stand for – protects against that. I have a way to refute it, a standard to judge by; standing for the right thing is just as important – more, maybe. Many are sincere, but wrong – houses built on sand and what you stand for determines your path, the direction you’re headed. Follow me as I walk into the gates of Heaven. Amen. George Wilkerson North Carolina Death Row Raleigh, NC Thank you to our donors who are making this publication possible. LEAD DONORS ($5000 OR MORE): PATRONS ($100 OR MORE): Catholic Diocese of Toledo, OH Martha Baldoni An Anonymous Friend Catholic Diocese Jefferson City, MO Margy Paoletti Martha May Walter Foster Rev. Arturo Perez-Rodriguez St. Katharine Drexel, Frederick, MD Rev. Nicolas Weibl Sisters of St. Francis, Tiffin, OH Rev. Neil Kookoothe Carl & Lorena Hyde Rev. Nelson Beizario St. Thomas Aquinas, Toledo, OH Good Shepherd Church, Toledo, OH SILVER DONORS ($1000 OR MORE): St. Rose Parish, Perrysburg, OH In Memory of Deacon Ken Cappelletty BRONZE DONORS ($500 OR MORE): Saint Rita Church, Rockford, IL Rev. Charles Ritter Ken & Elizabeth Green, Kansas City, MO St. Mark Catholic Church, Augres, MI Mark & Jennifer Cappelletty Knights of Peter Claver, New Orleans, LA St. Joseph Church, Sylvania, OH Diocese of St. Petersburg, FL Eugene Schmitt Constance Laessig St. Jerome Church, North Weymouth, MA Church of the Sacred Heart, Sauk Rapids, MN St. Patrick Church, Grand Rapids, OH St. Mary’s Church, Defiance, OH Charles Henry Diller James Steinle St. Pius X Parish, Toledo,OH Kristen Keller Fr. Richard Notter Sisters of Mercy of Americas, Fremont, OH Ron Hitzler Margaret Keller Joseph Griffin Also, Thank You to Our Subscribers and Other Donors. NO DONATION IS TOO SMALL Compassion is sent free to all 3,200 death-row prisoners. Your donation in any amount will help us to continue this outreach. Compassion Donation | Participation Form A portion of your donation will be given in college scholarships to family members of murdered victims. q Benefactor – $10,000 q Lead Donor – $5,000 q Gold Donor – $2,500 q Silver Donor – $1,000 q Bronze Donor – $500 q Patron – $100.00 To $499.00 q Subscriber – $50.00 q Prisoners Not On Death Row – $25.00 q Other Please send tax deductible contribution to: St. Rose Peace & Justice / Compassion 140 W. South Boundary St., Perrysburg, OH 43551 Enclosed is $ for the donation/subscription checked on the left. q Please keep my gift anonymous. Name Organization Address City Day Phone StateZip Evening Phone An Appeal to the Outside Community NON PROFIT ORG US POSTAGE PAID PERRYSBURG OH PERMIT 112 St. Rose Parish 215 E. Front Street Perrysburg, Ohio 43551 Printing and Postage Paid for by: Compassion A portion of all subscriptions and undesignated donations are given in college scholarship form to family members of murdered victims. Please help us. Contribute now so that we can maintain free distribution of Compassion to all 3,200 death-row prisoners. See form on page 7. For Whom the Bell Tolls A voice echoes in the dark, With no one to hear, Trepidation in the voice, A real sense of fear. A man’s entombed as if dead, Placed on Death Row, An outcast of the world, With no empathy shown. A dead man in a casket Even he gets a string, In case he comes alive There’s a bell for him to ring. That man on death row Needs a bell to toll, His voice echoes in my heart, So this poetic string I pull. Robert Saint Bailey Florida Death Row Raiford, FL O Year of the Bible n October 4, 1982, the 97th United States Congress, in the 1st session, authorized and requested that President Ronald Reagan designate 1982 as “The Year of the Bible.” This request recognized the influence the Bible has been for our Nation and our need to study and apply the teachings of the Holy Scriptures. That joint resolution was signed that same day. In a “2007 World Almanac” it says over 273,000,000 in our nation proclaim to be Christian. In spite of this many other nations of the world, including some with an atheist or agnostic growing majority and members of the European Convention, have been leaders in human rights, which include ending the death penalty. One can debate all day about what is wrong with our country and who is to blame. Instead, I will do as the 97th Congress asked and apply the lessons of Matthew 7:4-5 to my life: “how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull a speck out of thy eye; and behold a log is in my own eye?” I am making my own resolution to make 2014 my own year of the Bible. Maybe this will be yours, also? I cannot any longer keep scapegoating our nation’s failures on others. I must start with myself. The 97th congress said, “That renewing our knowledge of and faith in God through Holy Scripture can strengthen us as a nation and a people.” Dorian O’Kelley Georgia Death Row Jackson, GA
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