View Full Magazine - Henri Creative Company LLC
Transcription
View Full Magazine - Henri Creative Company LLC
® JULY 2014 MAKE POWER MOVES Tips to Start Your Business THE 2014 ELECTION GUIDE SULTRY SOPHISTICATION Summer Style Trends BECOMING A BETTER YOU JULY 2014 | GRACE 001 Birmingham, Ala. Public Library Archives THINGS HAVE CHANGED. SO HAVE WE. COME SEE THE NEW MUSEUM. The National Civil Rights Museum, a renowned educational and cultural institution that chronicles the American Civil Rights Movement, has been fully renovated with an even more compelling presentation of the iconic exhibits, oral histories of lesser-known civil rights foot soldiers and visceral, in-the-moment experiences. Visitors will learn through new#FreedomForward emotionally charged, multi-user, multi-touch interactivesGIVE. and a visually compelling, VISIT. JOIN. contemporary exhibit design that guides you through five centuries of history. Bring your whole family. C I V I L R I G HTS M U S E U M.O R G GraceMgzn_July2014.indd 1 6/24/14 3:09 PM 64 July 2014 LEST WE FORGET THE 50TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE CIVIL RIGHTS ACT Our goal is to create work that is honest to your brand. Solutions that are innovative, yet visually stunning, and a unified brand message for your product to stand out for all the right reasons. © Bettmann/Corbis / AP Images FEATURES The 2014 Election Guide 10 21 41 DR. MAYA ANGELOU INTERVIEW WITH GARY OWEN 2014 ELECTION GUIDE A personal reflection from D’Army Bailey Grace Magazine caught up with the “Think Like a Man Too” actor at the annual Laughs for Lebonheur Comedy fundraiser Everything you need to know to head to the polls ON THE COVER Model Tiffany Monet Collins; Photo by Rupert Yen JULY 2014 | GRACE 3 CONTENT JULY 2014 | GRACEMAGAZINE.COM HEALTH AND BEAUTY 15 GLOW FOR IT 26 SUMMER TIME FINE 18 Brighten up your complexion with these super foods 4 Venues • 32 Performances New workout trends 3 Days of Play! TRAVEL PLANNING A DESTINATION FAMILY REUNION August 7 – 9, 2014 Plan a reunion your family will never forget Hattiloo Theatre, Playhouse on the Square, The Circuit Playhouse, TheatreWorks RELATIONSHIPS 22 ASK A SINGLE MAN Got questions? Marvin St. John has the answers DIY 25 PERFECTLY PRETTY Do It Yourself Floral Arrangement MONEY MATTERS 30 THE ELEMENTS What you need to know when starting a business INTERVIEWS 33 MOGUL IN THE MAKING ANDREA FENISE 57 JUDGE TARIK B. SUGARMON One woman’s strategy for balancing entrepreneurship and motherhood A Man on the Move FASHION 34 4 JULY 2014 | GRACE SULTRY SOPHISTICATION The season’s hottest styles Model Tiffany Monet Collins; Photo by Rupert Yen Join us as we Celebrate Women’s Achievements in Theatre At the Gyneka Awards Gala August 7, 2014 7:00 p.m. The Circuit Playhouse www.womenstheatrefestivalofmemphis.org 901.213.7566 Publisher’s LETTER GRACE ® “It is through your struggle that you find your strength. Keep Pushing.” and soul; GRACE Magazine seeks to inform, inspire; and celebrate women Sometimes our greatest battle comes right before our greatest breakthrough. The above quote is from one of my favorite bloggers. When I read it, it resonated, and I immediately did the modernday screen shot for future reminder and, well, reference. Today, social media is saturated with inspirational quotes, motivational photographs and life wraps-ups from self-proclaimed life coaches. Unlike most, I don’t turn to social media for the purposes the creators intended, of sharing my every thought and move or even to boast my current or future endeavors. I don’t post on a consistent basis and I don’t give my followers a fallacious spotless view of my world. to preparing Women of Color and their families for challenges ahead I need to be reminded that when things go awry, and I am on the verge of a pity party , “there will be chaos before grace”. When my stress begins to physically manifest, I need to be reminded, “this too shall pass”. When I’m thinking about an unhealthy carb-binge, “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels”. (I usually follow that one up with a long deep sigh.) In the midst of the twists and turns that life may have, I have to remind myself, “chin up, and don’t be afraid to be amazing!” Email [email protected] or send us a letter to P.O. Box 1203 Memphis, TN 38101 Color and their families. With a focus on family, culture, health, mind, body - @iamnecole What I do choose to share on social media are the nuggets and life reminders that keep me going, and to be honest, my personal collections of these motivational screenshots easily outweigh my captures of people, places or things combined. During the beautiful storm called life, I, too, need reminders. Write To Us: GRACE Magazine is the foremost publication for Mid-South Women of We all need these reminders, the affirmations that we were created to be great and the power to succeed and true happiness is right beyond the thought of fear. I used to fear confrontation or hurting people’s feelings, but I quickly realized by being nice I was not being fair to myself. If you don’t take away anything else from this letter, know that everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear. We were all put on this earth to do amazing things; mediocrity should never be an option. Why settle for less when you can strive for greatness? I want to hear from you. What are some of your favorite inspirational quotes? How do you get through life’s rough patches? Write to me at [email protected] and share with me. of color personally and professionally. GRACE Magazine is committed through informative articles relevant to the Mid-South’s communities, education, health, beauty, money management, career planning, parenting, relationships, fashion, and above all- self-appreciation and self-love. Founder Tina L. Birchett (1960 – 2013) Publisher & Editorial Director Christina N. Stevison Creative Director Whitney Henry Read to your baby. He’ll learn to read a lot sooner. Managing Editor Jessamyn Bradley Marketing & Advertising Director Alice Poston Distribution Mark Stevison Contributing Writers Brandi Bufford, Brooke Jefferson, Domonique Mclaughlin, Ranisha Noble, Marquette Shelton, William Terrell, Kenneth Worles, Elle Vaquez urbanchildinstitute.org Photographer Rupert Yen HOW TO REACH US Stevison Group, LLC 90 S. Front Street Suite Memphis, TN 38103 Phone 901.579.9333 www.gracemagazine.com In Sisterhood, Christina Christina Stevison | Publisher and Editorial Director 6 JULY 2014 | GRACE GRACE® Magazine is a monthly publication of Stevison Group, LLC and is distributed in locations throughout the Memphis/Mid-South area. Readership: 60,000 Copyright 2014 by Stevison Group, LLC. All rights reserved. The publisher assumes no responsibility for unsolicited materials and does not return unsolicited materials to sender. Photography and images obtained for editorial usage is owned by GRACE® Magazine and may not be released for commercial use such as in advertisements. Reproduction in whole or in part without the publisher’s consent is strictly prohibited. The opinions expressed herein are exclusively those of the writers and do not necessarily reflect the positions or views of the editor or publisher. The publication of any advertisement in this issue does not constitute an endorsement of the advertiser’s products or services by this publication. JULY 2014 | GRACE 7 Contributors CARLISSA SHAW D’ARMY BAILEY D’ARMY BAILEY IS THE MEMPHIS-BORN, RETIRED JUDGE, AND LIFELONG CIVIL RIGHTS ACTIVIST WHO FOUNDED THE NATIONAL CIVIL RIGHTS MUSEUM AT THE LORRAINE MOTEL IN MEMPHIS. In his extraordinarily rich and varied career, Bailey has traveled from the insular world of segregated black Memphis in the 1950s, to college and civil rights struggles in Baton Rouge, LA, Worcester, MA, and Washington DC; law school at Boston University and Yale; national and local civil rights legal advocacy in San Francisco; electoral politics in Berkeley; electoral politics, civil rights and legal advocacy, journalism and the bench in Memphis; to roles in eight films and author of two previous books, one a memoir of his early life, to age 22, published by LSU Press. He has been a disc jockey, student activist, city councilman, nonprofit executive, litigator, newspaper columnist, radical philanthropist, public defender in capital cases, circuit court judge, regular local television commentator, and founder of the most important civil rights museum in the country. CARLISSA SHAW IS A NATIVE MEMPHIAN. BORN AND RAISED IN MEMPHIS TENNESSEE, SHE GRADUATED FROM CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL IN 2005. After high school, she attended Middle Tennessee State University, where in 2009 she received a B.S. in Political Science with a concentration in Pre-Law and a minor in African American History. That same year she returned to her hometown of Memphis as a student at The University of Memphis, Cecil C. Humphrey School of Law. While in law school, Carlissa was very active in various organizations including the Vice-President of the BLSA chapter, a member of the Moot Court Board, the Mental Health law society, and competed in the Fredrick Douglass Moot Court travel team. While in law school, Carlissa served as the 20112012 law-clerk for the Honorable Judge Jerry Stokes. Carlissa is very active in the Memphis community. In 2011 she founded and is the current Director of Girlfriends for Life, a faith-based empowerment program for teen girls in the Memphis community. She is also the current Community Outreach Coordinator for Mississippi Boulevard Christian Church. Carlissa is a proud 2012 graduate of the Cecil C. Humphrey School of Law and started her legal career as a Staff Housing Attorney at Memphis Area Legal Services where she was able to merge her passions of law and uplifting her community. In the fall of 2013 she started a new adventure of being a small business owner opening The Shaw Law Firm. LESLIE SMITH BURSTING WITH ENERGY AND NEW IDEAS TO BRING ABOUT TRANSFORMATION, NATIVE MISSISSIPPIAN, LESLIE SMITH GRADUATED WITH A DEGREE IN JOURNALISM FROM THE UNIVERSITY OF MISSISSIPPI. Now residing in Memphis, Tenn., Leslie is involved in several movements and organizations to uplift the City of Memphis, by improving her network, leadership and professional skills. As an active member of Memphis Urban League Young Professionals, she hopes to keep politically informed, connected to youth, and reach out to helping others in need. As a fresh graduate of the New Memphis Institute Embark Program, she hopes to apply and improve her newly acquired leadership skills along her journey. At the bud of Leslie’s career, she currently works with the City of Memphis for the Memphis Office of Resources and Enterprise where she is able to pursue her passion for helping others to attain their dreams by providing business resources to small, minority and women-owned businesses. Her hobbies include acrylic painting, film/photography, and martial arts. RUPERT YEN MEMPHIS PHOTOGRAPHER RUPERT YEN, WITH AN EXTENSIVE CAREER SPANNING OVER 30 YEARS. Founder and head photographer of Yen Studios, specializes in fashion, commercial and wedding photography. For Rupert, lighting is the key to bringing together a great subject and composition. Rupert and his wife, Debbie, have been married for almost 30 years and they have two beautiful daughters, Morgan and Madison. Madison just joined Yen Studios as wedding consultant and second photographer. KAMESHA RICHARDS KAMESHA HERVEY RICHARD, CHIEF CREATIVE OFFICER OF AVA LOREN DESIGN, WAS PRACTICALLY BORN WITH DESIGN AND ALL THINGS CREATIVE IN HER DNA. As a child, her passion for transforming the norm into the exquisite showed up in her drawings and paintings along with her keen interest in flowers, sewing and crafting. Eventually opportunities arrived for her work to be showcased while assisting her mother and aunts in dual roles as a décor and production assistant for their wedding planning and coordination events. As destiny would have it, her passion for detail amplified when she earned her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Architecture from The University of Memphis. In 2009 Kamesha completed her first stationery project for a dear friend and soon after launched Ava Loren Design. Specializing in hand-crafted, highly detailed design solutions; in paper, floral, fabric medium and beyond; ALD is devoted to seeing the possibilities in all things and committed to turning basic into beautiful. She has had the pleasure of completing project installations for Ladyfingers Catering, Philip Ashley Chocolates, KQ Communications and Studio 1524+Delectables Catering to name a few. When not looking for the next great shot, he enjoys playing tennis and traveling the world, taking pictures as he goes. 8 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 9 I apologized and explained he was the contracted photographer. There was no hope that she would come back to finish the performance, so we hopped into the limousine at stage door and headed back to the Peabody Hotel lobby. We had stiff drinks of scotch. Then we walked outside and took a horse-drawn carriage ride through downtown, along the riverfront, and through the park. At another time, while Adrienne and I were overnight guests at her home, Maya volunteered to do a benefit event at her own expense for my 2006 judicial election campaign then underway. She arrived in Memphis in her freshly delivered, custom-outfitted bus, with marbled countertops and kente cloth-covered seats. Inside, I rolled her in a wheelchair backstage and to the curtain. Then she stood, braced herself, and walked tall onto the stage. Personal Reflections Dr. Maya Angelou by D’ARMY BAILEY D r. Maya Angelou and I first met in the early 1970s while hanging out at the Rainbow Sign, an eclectic black restaurant and culture center in Berkeley. I was on the City Council, though a newcomer of three years, and Maya was already a highly regarded royalty of letters, intellectualism, and political activism. We were drawn to each other: she admired my political outspokenness, and I admired her magnetic elegance, smile, and worldly confidence. Our paths crossed again after I returned to Memphis in 1974. She came to speak at Southwestern College, now Rhodes College, where my wife Adrienne worked at the time. We hosted a reception at our home after her speech. In appreciation, she sent us a beautiful clay soup tureen with ladle. Our friendship grew stronger and richer over the years. 10 JULY 2014 | GRACE Maya deftly and personally handled all calls from her friends. She answered the call to speak at the 1991 opening of the National Civil Rights Museum. As the Orpheum Theatre lights dimmed and the seats filled, Maya stood— tall, brown skinned, elegant, and confident— center stage with a slender pedestal that held her note pad. Adrienne and I sat up front as Maya was well into her presentation. To capture the opening events, photographer William Eggleston accompanied me behind the scenes. In a bizarre turn, he rose from his seat and walked onto the stage toward Maya, snapping pictures with a small camera. Maya froze and turned toward him, aghast, then walked off stage. She was shaken and angry as I rushed behind the curtain. “Who was that man?” she asked. “I have never been treated so rudely.” She held out her note pad and said, “I started to hit him with this. I feared for my safety.” Whenever Adrienne and I saw Maya on television or read about her, we cheered her on. When she criticized the wording on the Washington D.C. statute of Dr. King as appearing too vain, the project’s organizer initially dismissed her. During that episode, my faith was with Maya. She was that one person who made a difference, and afterwards the wording was changed. Maya was an early supporter of Hillary Clinton during her primary election battle against Barack Obama. After Obama won the primary election in Maya’s home state of North Carolina and had gained momentum, I called Maya to suggest she consider moving to unify behind Obama. She explained that she felt very loyal to the Clintons who had been her friends. She said she would talk with her friends in the campaign, and I could call her back to learn her further thinking. In the end, she remained loyal to Hillary. What a blessing was Maya, and her loyalty ran deep. In her address to my campaign crowd, she said: “All those years ago, while D’Army Bailey was a Councilman in the City of Berkeley--the truth was, for all intents and purposes, he was the Mayor of Berkeley. The real mayor was D’Army Bailey. And when issues arose which questioned the right for black people, and white people, gay people and straight people, fat people and thin people and pretty ones and plain – D’Army Bailey was always on the right side. He was there without fear or favor, with a loud mouth, for those for whom there were very few platforms, for those who didn’t have someone to speak for them. And I fell for him then. I have been in his camp ever since.” Touched by an Angel by Maya Angelou We, unaccustomed to courage exiles from delight live coiled in shells of loneliness until love leaves its high holy temple and comes into our sight to liberate us into life. Love arrives and in its train come ecstasies old memories of pleasure ancient histories of pain. Yet if we are bold, love strikes away the chains of fear from our souls. We are weaned from our timidity In the flush of love’s light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. JULY 2014 | GRACE 11 OUTINGS A Conversation with NIKKI GIOVANNI photos by NATIONAL CIVIL RIGHTS MUSEUM Nikki Giovanni, acclaimed poet and civil rights activist, spoke at the National Civil Rights Museum on Sunday, June 22, 2014. Giovanni discussed her works, her life and her perspective on topics shaping American culture. She read from and performed several of her poems. 12 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 13 Glow for it! OUTINGS The age old adage “you are what you eat” is especially true in reference to bright and radiant skin. Beauty Experts have found that, incorporating these foods into your diet will help nourish your skin from the inside out. Sweet Potatoes Sweet potatoes pack a big yum, and contain two super antioxidants Vitamin A and Vitamin C. Both help to strengthen your immune system, which in turn helps blemishes heal properly. When digested Vitamin A converts to beta carotene, which helps prevent overproduction of cells in the skin’s outer layer. Overproduction of cells can lead to clogged pores and breakouts. Sweet potatoes also help to produce collagen that strengthens the capillaries that supply the skin. Tomatoes Lycopene, the phytochemical that makes tomatoes red, helps eliminate skin-aging free radicals caused by ultraviolet rays. Your body gains the most sunshielding nutrients when the vegetable is heated. Just a half-cup of cooked tomatoes or tomato pasta should help keep you out of the red. Spinach It’s thought that the folate in these veggies may help repair and maintain DNA— basically bolstering cells’ ability to renew themselves. The water in greens penetrates cell membranes— which make for plumper and less wrinkled skin. D. Arthur Catering HOSTING A BRUNCH DAY PARTY D.Arthur’s Catering hosted a Brunch Day Party at the new Beale Street Landing on Sunday, June 1st. This event showcased some of Chef D.Arthur’s signature brunch dishes while offering a relaxing atmosphere on the river. Two of the primary purposes of the event were to introduce a new audience to D.Arthur’s Catering’s #DeliciousThings and to offer an unique event to the Memphis social scene. Chef D.Arthur guarantees that there will be plenty more where that came from. For information about upcoming events or catering inquiries, D.Arthur’s Catering can be contacted at www.darthurscatering.com. Dark Chocolate This has to be too good to be true, right? Wrong! Flavonols, the antioxidants in dark chocolate, reduce roughness in the skin. Enjoying a small piece of dark chocolate will provide high levels of cocoa flavonols, which have been associated with softer, more hydrated skin. photos by SEDRICK ASKEW 14 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 15 It was then that Moore-Alston realized she had a skill set that was no longer rare, but instead the up-and-coming thing to do—cook. “Now a days everyone wants to be in the culinary industry,” and she came to the idea the food industry would not only be a way to cope with the loss of her father, but the best way out of her life if she’d wanted an alternative to the life she had previously mapped for herself. “When computer science got tough, [I thought] I’m going to drop out and go to culinary school and work at it. I didn’t realize that’s what I actually wanted to do.” The recipes Moore-Alston creates represent her passion for being in the kitchen and her inventive, adventurous nature as well as bring a sense of nostalgia for her upbringing. “I really love nothing more than for mom to grab melon and cut it up…reminds me of summer.” Now that it’s summer, there are a few common staples that Moore-Alston recounts when it comes to down-South cooking. She maintains, “I know it’s cliché, but BBQ and a lot of light salads, pasta salads--your watermelons, tomato and cucumber salads. Break out the charcoal and stand over the flame all day.” “I consider myself to be very international kind of combo. I want to teach home cooks how to prepare international cuisine food network star Aryen Moore-Alston Photos courtesy of the Food Network by Jessamyn Bradley G rowing up across the ocean in Italy and then coming here to set up roots in Memphis, it is almost as if the two culinary backgrounds made an alliance to mold Aryen Moore-Alston into the cooking queen she is today. She wasn’t always camera ready as she is now, a recent contestant on “The Next Food Network Star” season 10 and the first Tennessean to be featured as a finalist. After graduating from Overton High school, Moore-Alston attended Spellman College in Atlanta to attain a Bachelor’s of Science, not in culinary arts, but in Mathematics and Japanese Studies where in 2005 she was able to do something extraordinarily rare. “I was team leader of SpelBots or Spellman Robotics, and we were the first all-black and all-women team to ever compete in it. Now it’s going on it’s ten year anniversary!” The Spelbots made history when they competed in the fourlegged robotics soccer competition and again in 2009 tied for first place in the RoboCup Japan 2009 Standard Platform League Nao League humanoid soccer championship. Alston-Moore is proud of how much this part of her life took off and “just rocked.” “I always loved gadgetry and was interested way to get hands dirty in the artificial intelligence world. It kind of happened fast, then all of the sudden we’re on the way to Japan in this mind-blowing competition against grad students…all or nothing.” However emphatic her adoration for science and math, her fondness for food was too powerful to ignore. “My 16 JULY 2014 | GRACE SPRING NECTARINE SALAD Serves 4-5 philosophy is to keep it sweet! The whole trend is going healthy, for example my daughter had all her baby food in the freezer— zucchinis and beets--and I said, ‘I’m going to throw them into a cupcake.’” So now, Moore-Alston makes sure that there are fruits or vegetables in every cupcake, and as she laughed, “You can have your cake and eat it, too!” Although she’s done quite well for herself thus far, life hasn’t always been one of upmost happiness. At 11 years old, MooreAlston discovered her deceased father and what it would mean to be a strong, black woman. She has, though, used her affection for food as an outlet to overcome personal tragedy. “That was the one thing I remember doing with him…cooking. I was 11 when he passed. From 7 to 11, I was with him, and when he passed, my way of mourning and healing was to cook.” Whereas many people use food as an outlet by eating or lack thereof, MooreAlston utilized it in quite an opposing way. “It was never an eat thing. I was cooking to share my joy of it with others because here I’m in Italy at the time, so food was always around. It was easy for me to share my love!” She decided rather than make it a taxing responsibility to cook, she’d embrace and pour herself into it. “It was kind of like my chores. Where my sister had to wash dishes, I had to cook. It was more of a life skill rather…” Ingredients: Dressing: 1 small shallot, finely diced 3 tablespoons champagne vinegar 1 1/2 teaspoon clover leaf honey 1/2 cup extra-virgin olive oil a pinch of salt and freshly ground pepper Salad: 2 nectarines, cut into wedges 1/2 pound fresh salad greens 1/2 cup shaved Pecorino Romano cheese Directions: 1. In a large bowl, combine all dressing ingredients. Whisk until emulsified. 2. Toss greens with sliced peaches and just enough vinaigrette to coat. Garnish with cheese. in their kitchens.” While Memphis is known in both the U.S. as well as the globe for smokers, wood chips, and dry rubs, Moore-Alston feels that the city is selling itself short by only mainstreaming ribs, brisket and pulled pork. “No disrespect to the Q, but we’re a hub! There are so many great things about Memphis besides BBQ, and I want to reach out to someone who may want to make Pad Thai and is just too scared to make it. We are an international city, named after a city in Egypt. As much as I love ingredients…it’s just a food. How easy it is to make a sushi roll with crab meat and avocado. It’s not intimidating.” This is Moore-Alston’s first time being featured in GRACE magazine, and to say she is excited would be quite the understatement. “I love GRACE magazine…love your readers and where your magazine goes and the articles. I’m really honored to be featured…it’s going to be amazing!” Season 10 of “Food Network Star” debuted Sunday, June 1 at 8 p.m. and we can now tune in to see her compete against 12 other culinary olympiads for a chance to star in her very own show. Try out her recipes below and cheer on Memphis’ own starstudded chef. SALMON BURGERS Serves 6 INGREDIENTS 1 1/2 to 2 lb. salmon fillet ground 1 cup fine dried bread crumbs 1 small cucumber, peeled, seeded and chopped 4 large shallots, chopped 1/2 cup chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley 1/2 cup miso paste 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder 6 onion rolls, split canola oil DIRECTIONS In a bowl, combine salmon, bread crumbs, cucumber, shallots, parsley, miso paste, and garlic powder. Mix lightly but thoroughly. Divide mixture into 6 equal portions and shape each portion into a patty 3 inches in diameter and 3/4 to 1 inch thick. Place on a plate, cover and refrigerate about 2 hours. Oil grill or grease skillet with 1 to 2 tablespoons canola oil. Grill or pan-fry salmon burgers over medium-high heat. Turn once, until cooked through when tested with a knife, 5 to 6 minutes per side. About 1 minute before the burgers are ready, place the onion roll halves, cut sides down, on an area of the grill or skillet with lower heat and toast lightly. Place the bottoms of the onion rolls on individual plates. Top with the burgers and the tops of the rolls. Serve with condiments of your choosing. Serve immediately. JULY 2014 | GRACE 17 PLANNING A DESTINATION Family Reunion by ELLE VASQUEZ T his summer hundreds of families will gather at parks or hotels for their family reunion. These gatherings range from a simple to formal: a backyard barbecue, day at the park, an elaborate cruise, weekend destination vacation featuring live entertainment, formal banquets and shopping excursions. Regardless of the type, family reunions all serve the same purpose. They help preserve family history, traditions and knowledge essential to helping us understand ourselves, reminding us that we have a customized place in the world. Family reunions are important regardless of what kind of family you have. Usually defined as people who are connected through genetic or legal 18 JULY 2014 | GRACE bonds, if you have no known family members, you can always have a reunion of friends that make up your extended family—a group of people, who know your name, celebrate your existence and cheer you on to be the best you can be. Despite the type of gathering or the size of the family, a successful reunion requires time, energy, patience and commitment. Someone has to pull the family together and do the planning and organizing. If you’re the catalyst that gets the family reunion ball rolling, here are a few tips to get you started. TIPS Start planning 12 to 18 months out. Don’t wait until the last minute. Give yourself time to think through what you want to accomplish. Most family reunions are held during the summer when children are on break and the weather is great for outdoor activities; therefore, planning for the reunion needs to start months ahead. You’ll want to give people time to get vacation time approved and save money to pay any necessary fees. Form a planning committee. Don’t try to plan a family reunion alone. You could end up frustrated and overwhelmed. On the other hand, be careful not to include too many people on your planning committee. Everyone has an opinion; too many opinions at the planning stage can hinder your ability to get things accomplished. A core planning committee of workers committed to making the reunion as success is all you need to get started. Use this core planning committee as the vehicle that ignites the excitement surrounding your reunion. Get input from family members. The more participation you have during the planning stage, the more buy- in you’ll get later. Use your planning committee to share the idea of a family reunion and garner input from the rest of the family. One way to do this is to send out a survey. The survey could announce the idea of a family reunion and solicit feedback and either be mailed or electronically disseminated. Determine the size and scope of your reunion. The results of your survey should give you a general idea of the number of people interested in attending a reunion and the type of reunion they will support. Based on your research, will you plan for 25 people, 75 people or 500 people to attend? This in turn will help establish the venue. Will your reunion be a one day gathering or a weekend of activities? Now you can plan a preliminary budget for the event. Begin with the end in mind. Ask yourself this question, “When the reunion is over, what do we want the topic of conversation to be on the ride back home?” Let your planning committee brainstorm answers to this question. Write down all responses. No reply is a bad reply. Once you have everyone’s input, try to compile one blanket sentence that will guide your planning efforts. For example, one guiding sentence might be, “When people leave this year’s reunion, we want them to be reconnected with family members, be encouraged by our commonalities and be anxiously looking forward to attending the next reunion.” Your guiding sentence can be used by each committee to evaluate suggested activities. Determine the location. Some reunions are held at parks. A standard reunion might be held at a local hotel. You might even have a destination reunion at an amusement park or cruise. Service, cleanliness, attractiveness and cost are major areas to consider. Set up an effective communication strategy. Keeping the lines of JULY 2014 | GRACE 19 communication open is essential to a good family reunion. You’ll want to keep everyone informed of pertinent information as plans progress. Communicate the number of family members who plan to attend and the exciting activities that will take place. These kinds of interactions create excitement and interest in the reunion. You need to communicate with as many family members as possible, perhaps creating a website for the family reunion where members can find out about new developments. If your family does not have a data base with family contact information, you’ll need to create one. Start by creating a family tree-- a great way to identify relationships. Knowing relationships can help you create an effective communication plan. For help creating a family tree, check out Familytree.com. Note: At some point, you’ll need to have a meeting. To make your conferences more effective, always start with a written agenda. Designate someone to record the action steps and discussion points on a marker board or electronic monitor that is visible to the group. This will help enable everyone to follow the discussion more effectively. Good communication is essential to a successful reunion. As discussed before, try reaching people across the globe by setting up a family reunion website and e-mail address. You can even set up a PayPal account where family members can pay reunion fees online. Effective use of the internet through social media outlets can help you keep the lines of communication open. Be mindful: everyone does not have access to the Internet, so include traditional communications outlets such as telephone and mail to ensure that all family members are informed and have an opportunity to participate. Involve family members. Once your initial planning committee has outlined the magnitude of your reunion based on survey results, you need to involve other family members. One way to accomplish this objective is to establish subsidiary committees and secure a chairperson for each committee. Prepare a group assignment sheet and list the purpose, tasks, pertinent deadlines, and desired results, guiding the team and organizing your efforts. You might want to have a committee chairperson for major activities such as venue selection, youth activities, fundraising, transportation, registration, food, and other necessities. He or she could be responsible for recruiting others to help on his or her committee. This type of organizational structure enables a small planning committee to branch out and involve lots of family members. Whatever you do, make sure the food is on point. I can’t emphasize that enough. If Aunt Bessie can’t fry chicken, please get someone else to do it or just grill hamburgers. There’s nothing worse than going to a family reunion with your mouth watering for some good food and having to excuse yourself early so you can stop at a fast food restaurant to grab a burger. If you’re having the meal catered, ask the caterer for a sample of the items to be served if you are unsure of the quality of food the caterer provides. Know that you are an important part of the family. The family union would be incomplete without you. No matter what you have done or have not done; you are important to your family. Without you, there will always be a missing piece in your family puzzle. Sometimes we fall out with each other. Sometimes we feel that no one understands. But somewhere in family, you can find hope, renewal, restoration and familiarity. That’s why family reunions are so important, so take time to attend your family reunion this year. If your family doesn’t have a family reunion, start planning one today. WHAT DO YOU ENJOY MOST ABOUT HOSTING LAUGHS FOR LE BONHEUR? I think we are doing something for a good cause. There is a bigger purpose. Inside, I feel good; my soul feels good. YOU DID AN AWESOME JOB HOSTING THE SHOW. COMEDY IS SOMETHING YOU OBVIOUSLY DO VERY WELL, BUT YOU ACT TOO. WHICH CAME FIRST: COMEDY OR ACTING? Stand-up was first for me. Most of my acting has come from my stand-up, honestly. People see me on stage, and they are familiar with my act. Then they have a movie or TV show, and ask me to be in it. Comedy is always going to be there for me. SO COMEDY IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE THE FIRST LOVE AND ACTING IS THE MISTRESS? I wouldn’t say that. One hand feeds the other. I think it’s almost like being Mormon; you got two wives. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE THING ABOUT MEMPHIS? DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE BARBEQUE PLACE? TELL US ABOUT “THINK LIKE A MAN TOO.” [In] the sequel, we’re in Vegas, which raises the stakes. The first one left it so open; everyone wanted to know how the characters were doing. It’s just an extension. The first one was a little over two hours; this one is an hour and 45 minutes. You can watch them back-to-back and be like “Oh. That was a good four hours of entertainment.” And you get to meet my wife in this one, which is always good. LaughitUp with The hospitality— everybody is pretty nice. I’ve only been to Corky’s. I’m not sure why, but that’s where they always take me. 20 JULY 2014 | GRACE Gary Owen photos by LARRY KUZNIEWSKI Grace Magazine caught up with comedian and “Think Like a Man Too” actor Gary Owen at the Laughs For Le Bonheur comedy fundraiser. Co-hosted by Owen and NBA player Thaddeus Young, the event also featured comedian Damon Williams of the “Tom Joyner Morning Show.” Owen dished on what fans can expect from the sequel to the 2012 box office hit. The movie features an all-star cast including Kevin Hart, Regina Hall, Meagan Good, Taraji Henson, Gabrielle Union, Michael Ealy, La La Anthony, and Terrence Jenkins. JULY 2014 | GRACE 21 Well, that question becomes very subjective. “ Good to some women may mean, He works hard, attends church and worships the ground the woman walks on SINGLE MAN by Marvin St. John “ where are all the good single men? 22 JULY 2014 | GRACE ““ I am often asked “ ask a and to others could mean something completely different. We at Grace Magazine decided to start a column called “Ask a Single Man”, we hope to stimulate conversation and provide insight to how some men think. Now, our featured writer will not have all the answers, but he can speak from his own experience and what men tell him. So ladies, let’s get started with our first series of Q and A: Why do men think texting a woman after 10:00pm is okay? – “Stop Late-Night Texting Me” Dear Stop Late-Night Texting Me: Well, this is easy! Look in the mirror--you set the stage for his drop- in’s and unwanted texts. His date is over, and she did not give him any “cookie”, so he text “YOU”, knowing you would invite him over and the rest is history. If you want to stop, stop…tell him you are second to no one. Think of yourself as a 1st round draft choice; you will be treated like one. I was all set to go to law school, but the man I am living with relocated to another city. So I put off my dream to follow him and support his career. Now, I am becoming more and more resentful of him because I do not like the city we live in, and he travels all the time. What should I do? - “Up Rooted” Dear Up Rooted: First, let me say, it’s not easy moving to a new city, establishing new friends and not having a job. This is tough, and I do not recommend to any woman, unless she is engaged or a wedding is planned, to relocate with a man. You are basically homeless; if your man decides to call it off, or worse, he falls in love with someone else, you are left in a very awkward position. The biggest problem with some women is the lack of communicating their dreams to their mate. Let him know how you feel. His response will direct you in one of three ways: 1) a ring, 2) the local law school, 3) back to your hometown. I have been dating this man for 5 years; every time I bring up getting married, he does not want to talk about it or changes the subject. Have I wasted 5 years on this relationship? – “Stuck in Neutral” Dear Stuck in Neutral; Investing in a relationship is human nature--we all want to feel that sense of love and companionship that comes along with it, but there comes a time to let go. I am not a fan of reality television; however, I find myself as of late watching the show “Love and Hip Hop”. One of the female characters dated a man for 13 years, had two kids by him and just discovered he married another woman. In her confessional moment, she says, “I cannot believe I wasted 13 years of my life to be treated like this. I am heartbroken and embarrassed!” Think about it, over a decade she has accepted whatever that man dictated. Here is some inside information ladies: It only takes a man a year and half or less to decide what you mean to him. My advice is if this man cannot stand up, tell him to sit down, so you can see the man behind him. THE FEATURED WRITER, MARVIN ST. JOHN IS A 40-SOMETHING YEAR OLD, PROFESSIONAL MAN, WHO HAS A PASSPORT AND RUNS A LARGE CORPORATION; NONETHELESS, HIS LOVE OF WRITING BROUGHT HIM TO THE STEPS OF GRACE MAGAZINE TO ANSWER THOSE QUESTIONS WOMEN WANT TO KNOW. SEND YOUR QUESTIONS FOR MARVIN TO SINGLEMAN@ GRACEMAGAZINE.COM. YOU CAN ASK ABOUT ANY LOVE DILEMMAS YOU’RE FACING. PLEASE PUT “HELP SINGLE MAN” IN THE SUBJECT LINE OF YOUR E-MAIL. JULY 2014 | GRACE 23 S NOTEPADS POSTCARDS POSTERS PRESENTATION FOLDERS RACK CARDS OBITUARIES GRADUATION INVITATIONS ANNIVERS GRAPHIC DESIGN | WEB DESIGN | PHOTOGRAPHY 662.392.0695 | [email protected] www.nine23studios.com INVITATIONS ANNOUNCEMENTS BOOKLETS MAGAZINES BOOKMARKS BROCHURES BUSINESS CARDS CALENDARS ENVELOPE ARY BIRTHDAY CARDS WEDDING INVITATIONS GRADUATION INVITATIONS ANNIVERSARY S FLYERS GREETING CARDS INVITATIONS LETTERHEAD MINI BUSINESS CARDS NOTE CARD 24 JULY 2014 | GRACE 1 PLAN Purchase blooms and gather supplies for creating your arrangement. When purchasing your flowers and foliage, look for fresh, firm blooms with little to no browning or wilting. If you discover a few wilting flowers in the “perfect” bunch, no worries; you can always remove them before composing your arrangement! Consider the color way of your event, the occasion theme or colors of your home décor. If you are not designing for a particular occasion, look to the beauty of the season as inspiration for selecting the perfect blooms from your local supermarket. Warm weather is here and so is the time for hosting family and friends. Win the award for “The Hostess with the Mostest” by using this D.I.Y. guide for a pretty floral compliment to your perfectly planned occasion. 3 PLACE “The power of three…” Insert blooms in counts of three. Crisscross stems as you place flowers into the vase; doing so creates additional stability for your arrangement. Continue inserting blooms, alternating from one side of your vase to the other, to create color clusters for visual balance. Once you’ve inserted your blooms and are pleased with your composition, it is now time to add water! perfectly pretty FLORAL DO IT yourself ARRANGEMENT from 2 PREPARE Select your vessel/vase and clean it thoroughly with hot, soapy water. Rinse and dry thoroughly to ensure that all traces of soap are removed to protect your delicate blooms. Ava Loren Design photos by WHITNEY HENRY Mix food flower, typically provided with your store bought stems, with cool water until it dissolves. Fill the vessel with the water solution above the level of the shortest stem directly in the center of your arrangement. Feel free to temporary remove stems for easy access. Trim your stems. Cut stems angles at a 45 degree to increase stem’s water intake. Remove leaves or spoiled buds that could fall below the water line to reduce bacteria growth in the water. If needed, create a grid using clear tape. Simply apply tape across the vase opening, pressing firmly after each band, and alternate to the opposite direction for creating the final grid pattern. To secure, tape around the perimeter to anchor each band firmly to the vessel; doing this provides additional support and structure for your blooms and your arrangement. Helpful Hints: Use big blooms like hydrangea to create a “collar” around the outer ring of your vase. Unique stems like curly willow or found branches from your front yard make your arrangement rich with texture. To display fresh fruit and vegetables, simply insert wooden kabob skewers and tuck within the composition. JULY 2014 | GRACE 25 Ways to get Summer SUMMERTIME IS HERE! IF SUMMER HAS FOUND YOU UNPREPARED OR IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR WAYS SHAKE UP YOUR EXERCISE ROUTINE, TRY ONE THESE THREE UNIQUE WORKOUTS. Time Fine Fit Camps Spartan Progress fitness camps help people pursue a healthy and active lifestyle. They offer workouts for all levels and also teach the importance of good nutrition. This group-based exercise has garnered big buzz around town because of its teambuilding and open-air format. Hip Hop In Heels™ teaches women to be confident in their skin. The class starts off with the basics— learning how to walk in heels— but the experience is so much deeper than that. You will leave feeling sexy, confident, and exhausted from an intense workout. Women are often intimidated by the result videos they see online; however, 90% of attendees are non-dancers and the results aren’t overnight. Don’t knock it till you try it, ladies! Hip Hop In Heels™ is a great way to find one’s inner sexiness and get in shape. DanceInspired Workouts Pure Barre 26 JULY 2014 | GRACE In just 55 minutes, you will achieve a full-body workout concentrating on the areas women struggle with the most: hips, thighs, abdominals, arms and the backside. The Pure Barre technique is low-impact, and it protects joints by avoiding any bouncing or jumping. A stretching section follows each strength section of the workout in order to create long, lean muscles without bulk. The technique defies gravity by tapering everything in and lifting it up. The concentration involved while taking Pure Barre allows you to block life out for an hour, creating the mental benefits similarly obtained through yoga or meditation. A transformed body and a clear head in just one hour—it doesn’t get much better than this. JOZMEN ROBINSON SPARTAN PROGRESS [email protected] BRANDEE EVANS OWNER [email protected] PURE BARRE [email protected] Half AD JULY 2014 | GRACE 27 Advertorial MAKE YOUR HEALTH A PRIORITY WITH MYCHART S taying on track with a healthy lifestyle is not always easy, especially for women. Family, home and work responsibilities often take priority over personal health concerns. However, in January 2014, as part of the rollout of Baptist OneCare, Baptist’s electronic health record system, patients of any Baptist Medical Group physician gained access to a new application to help them better manage their health care. This free app is called MyChart, and patients can 28 JULY 2014 | GRACE access it from their personal computers or mobile devices. MyChart allows patients to view their own medical charts or records, and in the case of most women, it also allows them to access the charts of their children and elderly parents. In fact, patients can view test and lab results, schedule appointments, request prescription refills, view education and discharge instructions, view upcoming and past appointments and complete any pre-visit paperwork. Rosalind Able, a busy mom who travels two to three weeks of the month with her 16-year-old daughter for tennis tournaments, signed up for MyChart as soon as it was available at her doctor’s office. She really values the immediacy of the application. “The beauty of MyChart is I didn’t have to wait for her to mail the results,” said Able. “As soon as she got the results, which was like in a day, then she just actually put it on MyChart. I could just log in and go straight to my report and it was so wonderful.” similar comments from other patients. While Dr. Mays is pleased by the positive reception, she is quick to point out that this technology does not replace personal communication with patients. In emergent cases or when she needs patients to come back for follow-up care, she contacts them directly. So this app just enhances her communication with patients. Hispanic blacks have the highest rates of obesity (44 percent) and a higher risk of being diagnosed with diabetes (77 percent) than other ethnicities. Additionally, African-American women are more likely to die from breast and cervical cancers because they are diagnosed at later stages. Many of these diseases or conditions could be prevented or treated if caught earlier. “Our patients love it,” said Dr. Mays. “Even when they’re here in the office and we are using electronic medical records as they give their history, they can see the screen. I communicate to them and clarify what they’re telling me, and it makes for a more interactive physician-patient environment.” So an app like MyChart can make it easier for African-American women and their health care providers to track and manage their care, as well as alert them to any abnormal test results or negative health trends. This is the case for Able, who is monitoring a potential chronic health condition. Since January, more than 250 of the patients at Dr. Mays’ office have activated accounts. And they continue to be engaged with their care after they leave the office. “I’m kind of borderline high blood pressure,” said Able. “Not only did [Dr. Mays] give me my numbers, but she sent me information on MyChart about high blood pressure—what causes it, what you can do to prevent it. So she gave me what she needed in the office and sent the rest on MyChart. I thought that was just wonderful.” “They can communicate to me if they have any questions about their lab results after they get them,” said Dr. Mays. “And I can communicate to them about any changes in their treatment plan through MyChart.” Dr. Mays hopes this app will help improve patients’ experiences and their health. That’s especially important for AfricanAmericans as they have more disease, disability and early death than other minority groups. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, non- securely accessed wherever Able is for as long as she needs the information. “I don’t have to worry about misplacing the paper,” said Able. “If I want to go back and review my numbers, or if I want to go back and see any notes that she wanted to send to me, I could just pull it up. It’s so simple.“ The simplicity of MyChart is what makes it effective and a valuable tool to help women make their health a priority. “It’s a win, win situation to me—all the way around,” said Able. Because this information is electronic, it can be To learn more, visit baptistonecare.org Able’s internal medicine physician, Dr. Owita Mays of Baptist Medical GroupCollierville Internal Medicine, has heard JULY 2014 | GRACE 29 ceilings can occur. To make it through in a “man’s world” as Sheryl Sandberg suggests in her recent book titled “Lean In”, she insists that “a truly equal world would be one where women ran half our countries and companies and men ran half our homes.” “Women are caught in a double bind,” said Sandberg, “we need to be liked to be successful, but we’re liked for being nice and nurturing, qualities that you don’t look for in a CEO.” Personality, skills, strategy and confidence helped to make a successful entrepreneur regardless of the gender of the leader. In 2012, Mayor A C Wharton recognized that one of the ways to help grow local businesses is through providing Memphis’s citizens with additional support. Thus he created the Memphis Office of Resources and Enterprise, MORE. Alandas Dobbins, Director of MORE, has made it part of MORE’s mission to provide assistance and access to information and resources, progressing local and small businesses and becoming a portal for commercial organizations to grow their product. The primary area of focus within MORE’s office is to help grow women and minority-owned businesses in our community, which comprises well over 60%-65% of the Memphis demographic. However, that segment of the Memphis population amounts to a small percentage of the total business receipts. THE ELEMENTS: WHAT SUCCESSFUL WOMEN NEED TO KNOW WHEN STARTING A BUSINESS by LESLIE SMITH 30 JULY 2014 | GRACE Memphis is brewing her majestic stew for becoming an entrepreneurial mecca. The potful of talent surrounding the women-owned community is ready to be served with promises of an overflowing amount of hope and hard work. Currently, female business owners can be part of the entrepreneurial transformation of Memphis, a city that is moving toward prosperity. With the aid of seasoned mentors, a plethora of technical assistance and resources plus incentives, Memphis is steadily becoming a city of capitalist choice for those willing to capitalize. When starting an enterprise, it is imperative to have a business plan that is efficient, has access to capital and contains a thorough market analysis and proper paper work such as permits and licenses--standard protocol for starting a business. In a dream world, this guideline would not be a problem. Nonetheless, reality exists where bureaucracy, unspoken rules and glass “Entrepreneurship is a solid option to bring women into the main economic stream of society as they become successful business owners,” said Dobbins. Daily, she works one-on-one with locally-owned businesses in need of direction in fields such as finances and bids. She relates to the common obstacles that start-up female-businesses encounter. “Running a business is not for the faint of heart, and being a woman business owner takes particular kinds of guts, resources and diligence to be successful,” said Dobbins. “Why shouldn’t we have more women owning and sustaining businesses? That is why MORE is in existence and that is why MORE partners with organizations such as NAWBO, the National Association of Women Business Owners, WBEC, Women Business Enterprise Council, and StartCo to forge that business success.” Nicole Fallon, Business News Daily writer, listed some obstacles and myths female business owners often encounter in her article entitled “5 Challenges Women Entrepreneurs Face (and How to Overcome Them).” She opens her first point by identifying the myth that “women entrepreneurs think they need to think like a man,” stating the perceived connotation women have to act a certain way is only rationalization. Next, Fallon recognizes that women business leaders, such as Kim Heathcott, president of NAWBO, often lack the support of other female business leaders. Heathcott states, “With the great heart of giving, organizations such as the Women’s Foundation and NAWBO, Memphis can be the exception to that unfortunate myth we all win when we work together.” Due to a shortage of strong presences among women mentors and role models, Fallon suggests it will be beneficial for women to attend networking events to potentially form entreprenurial relations. The creation of these types of relations and interactions promote normalcy for women in leadership positions and success-driven start-up entrepreneurs. Subsequently, women need to know how to accept failure as a part of growth. Failure is a common issue female entrepreneur’s around the world face. Fallon’s article suggests fear sprouts from passion and should not be viewed negatively but as an indicator of how promising that one “yes” holds value after receiving one hundred “no’s”and suggesting mistakes are not considered failures. “You don’t have to let a mistake transform you into a distraction and pull you away from pursuing your agenda,” said Carla Harris, Chairman of the National Women’s Business Council, in her book titled “Expect to Win”. She reiterates mistakes can be the training ground for tremendous future success. Mary Bright, Contract Compliance Officer for the City of Memphis, guarantees goals are set for all contracts at the City of Memphis purchasing process and excludes none that come into her office. Through the Equal Business Opportunity and Small Business Enterprise programs her office oversees, it is her mission to grow business in the Memphis community. Bright and her office recognize a major element needing to be addressed for start-ups. “We see companies, regardless of race or gender, facing the challenges of lack of capital. In our community, we JULY 2014 | GRACE 31 have resources that many may not be aware of to assist with overcoming fiscal difficulties.” Bright suggested it is imperative for start-ups to begin by evaluating their business’s needs and carrying out the research fully in the marketplace for lending institutions specializing in small business loans. The Renaissance Business Center (RBC) is a city institution designed to help startups get on track. “The RBC is one of our jewels in the community as they offer many services for new and existing small business, which include small business loans, mentoring, classes, counseling and many more opportunities for growing businesses,” said Bright. She highly encourages business owners to maintain good financials by monitoring personal and business credit. “Just having a good bookkeeping system for your business greatly assists lenders when evaluating a person’s business for potential risks.” According to Bright, reputable credit scores can take any entrepreneur far. For any start-up company wanting to do business within the city, they will have to submit bids to do work. Though submitting bids as a young business, conglomerates are competing for the same bids along with other well-seasoned companies. Success depends on the company’s ability to compete. Bright recalls several reoccurring lessons she has encountered as a contract officer. “While having the winning proposal on a bid request is the ultimate goal, one should never undercut or de-value one’s products or services to win the bid,” warned Bright, “unfortunately, businesses will do this and the end results are typically not in their favor. A profit was not gained and money was lost.” Memphis has been a part of several progressive programs, which continue to grow Memphis’ capacity for successful business growth in our community and leaving room for improvement. To further add to the ingredients of the Memphis consommé, The State of Women-Owned Business Report stated, “the number of women-owned businesses in Tennessee has grown faster than the national average over a 16-year period.” Other organizations in Memphis that help to develop women-owned businesses include National Association of Women in Construction (NAWIC) and Woman Business Enterprise Council (WBEC). Women have the capability to create business success and be nurturing at the same time, provided they have adequate support and sincere guidance. “Working with women and helping them fulfill their dreams of entrepreneurship is one of the greatest jobs that a person can do. If you help a woman, you help a nation. Women are mothers, wives and breadwinners also,” said Dobbins, “that is why we put our website in place, www.morememphis.org. That is also why we work so diligently to help grow businesses in our community with our partners.” Once you take a pinch of tenacity, a dash of hard work and a sprinkle of character and resources, the agencies provided by the city can contribute to a strikingly delicious MemphisBusiness entrepreneur stew. 32 JULY 2014 | GRACE 7 STEPS TO CREATING YOUR OWN BUSINESS HAVE A BUSINESS PLAN Understand the product or service that you are selling. Identify the resources that you need as well as any procedural tasks that need to take place. BUILD YOUR BRAND Decide on your company’s values and ethical standards. This is also a great time to envision how you want your company to run, and what you want it to look like. IDENTIFY ANY POTENTIAL ROAD BLOCKS Ensure that you have done your market research within your product and business environment. Also remember that road blocks can come in the form of competitors or your own bad habits. GET FINANCING Starting a business can become expensive quickly. Create a budget and account for your initial and unexpected costs. Build your capital and maintain good credit and a working relationship with your bank. GET REQUIRED PERMITS AND LICENSES. Make sure you are operating your business legally. Know the licensing and permit requirements for your business. Keep your license current. ADVERTISE Build your customer base around your target consumer. Think of innovative ways to create demand. Be bold and creative in your marketing. PREPARE A GRAND OPENING This is an exciting time! Plan a celebration accordingly to create buzz about your new business. KEEP LEARNING. Continue to educate yourself by attending networking events as well as workshops in order to foster new relationships and stay ahead of emerging trends. SECRETS OF A Successful Mom One woman’s strategy for balancing entrepreneurship and motherhood GRACE sat down with lifestyle designer Andrea Fenise to discuss WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO START YOUR BUSINESS? A couple of things inspired me. One: my life totally changed when I became a mom. I wanted to have the freedom to raise my child. I could not take her to school, clock-in, clock-out then pick her up; that routine wasn’t for me. Two: watching so many other entrepreneurs create a lifestyle centered on doing what they love inspired me. how she balances building her brand and raising her 5-year-old daughter, Amira. Fenise is a mogul in the making and well on her way to becoming a major player in the WHAT IS THE BIGGEST LESSON YOU’VE LEARNED SO FAR? fashion industry. She is the owner of Learning to prioritize and say “no”. There are times when I stay in the house for weeks. There are times I have to tell Amira, “Mom has to work. That is how we buy tutus, watch Frozen and buy paint.” I’ve learned to say “no” a lot; I work first and play later. Style Junkie, a pop-up boutique that offers stylish women’s accessories at HOW DO YOU BALANCE EVERYTHING? development and lifestyle coaching, It’s rough. Sometimes things don’t get done. There may be days when the beds don’t get made, or her room is a mess. I wake up early. I get up every morning at 4a.m. and don’t get to bed until around midnight…[to] sort of manipulate time. I have to get up early to try to get as much done in 24 hours…[and] try to stick to a strict schedule. I dedicate a certain number of hours to work and cut from work at 6. At 6, that starts Amira’s time. I spend time with her from 6 to 9. It’s my time to spend with her, eat dinner with her, play and do chores. creative consulting, and hosting HOW DOES YOUR DAUGHTER RESPOND TO MOM HAVING A BUSINESS? January 2014 with its premiere She understands and gets it; I do a lot of sewing at home. When I go in my office, she will bring all her things in the office with me. Sometimes she will say, “You are always sewing”. That’s when I know it’s time to clock out and play. unisex collection. Currently, WHAT HAS BEEN THE MOST REWARDING THING THUS FAR? retailers. The bookmarks are also When I look back on social media and see all of the goals I set for myself, I look back now and have accomplished those goals. I say I want to do something: I hone it, I study it, I work at it and then I do it. online at the company’s website. affordable prices. Her other business ventures include personal image style parties. She recently launched “Bookmarks byAndreaFenise”, a chic collection of bookmarks designed to help make reading stylish. The collection was unveiled in stores Booksellers at Laurelwood and Burkes Bookstores in Midtown are JULY 2014 | GRACE 33 Jacket- BCBGMaxazaria Crop Top- American Apparel Denim Skirt- BCBGeneration Shoes- Steve Madden Necklace- Stylist’s own SULTRY SOPHISTICATION Clean lines + soft textures express this seasons seductive sophistication photographed by RUPERT YEN C R E A T I V E D I R E C T O R WHITNEY HENRY S T Y L I S T ANDREA EVERETT H A I R ADRIENNE JONES M A K E U P ERROL COLEMAN M O D E L TABITHA MILLER Cotton Bustier- American Apparel Pleated Pant- American Apparel Shoes- Steve Madden Necklace- Stylist’s own 34 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 35 Top- BCBGMaxazaria Skirt- BCBGMaxazaria Shoes- BCBGMaxazaria Top- Gianni Bini Suede Leggings- Gianni Bini Shoes- PRADA Necklace, Earrings and Ring- Stylist’s own 36 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 37 Top- American Apparel Skirt- BCBGMaxazaria Cocktail Dress- BCBGMaxazaria Shoes- Christian Louboutin 38 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 39 G race Magazine is pleased to present the 2014 Election Guide*. The purpose of this guide is to provide our readers with information regarding the positions that will appear on the August 7th ballot, a brief description of the job duties, and to present each candidate for each race. In late July and early August, voters across Shelby County will head to the polls to select candidates for the Federal and State Primary and County General Election. Early voting starts on July 21, 2014 and ends on August 2, 2014. With 28 open positions and a very lengthy list of candidates, are you prepared to go to the polls? If not, you are in luck! The staff at Grace Magazine and knowledgeable contributors compiled this election guide to assist you in selecting our next leaders. With so many open positions and candidates, the outcome of this election season is sure to redefine what it looks and feels like to live in Shelby County for years to come. GOVERNOR The governor of Tennessee has four major roles. He or she is the chief administrator, overseeing the work of all departments. Working with the state legislative bodies, the governor is responsible for approving all new legislation. As governor, he or she is the person who represents the state to its citizens and to other elected officials throughout the nation. UNITED STATES SENATOR A U.S. Senator has several exclusive powers, including consenting to treaties as a precondition to their ratification. Senators also consent to or confirm appointments of cabinet secretaries, federal judges, other federal executive officials, military officers, regulatory officials, ambassadors, and other federal uniformed officers as well as trial of federal officials impeached by the House. UNITED STATES HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES The U.S. House of Representatives makes and passes federal laws. Among other duties, representatives introduce bills and resolutions, offer amendments, and serve on committees. United States Representatives are responsible for choosing the President in the event that the Electoral College is unable to provide a decision. Representatives are THE 2014 ELECTION GUIDE AD *SEE PAGE 56 FOR DISCLAIMER JULYJULY 2014 | 2014 GRACE | GRACE 41 41 The 2014 Election Guide also expected to vote on whether or not to begin the impeachment process. There are two congressional districts (8th and 9th) on the August Ballot, each voter will only vote in one congressional district. COUNTY MAYOR The Mayor’s Office is the governing branch of Shelby County’s administration. It is responsible for overseeing the following divisions: Administration and Finance, Community Services, Corrections, Disproportionate Minority Contact, Health Services, Planning and Development, and Public Works. The 8th Congressional District includes parts of Millington, Bartlett, Cordova, Germantown and all of Collierville. The City of Memphis is not in the 8th Congressional District. The 9th Congressional District is located entirely within Shelby County and includes most of the City of Memphis. It is the state’s only district located entirely in one county as well as the state’s only African-American-majority district. TENNESSEE SENATE Senators are responsible for representing the people of the districts from which they were elected. This involves voting and writing bills. The state is divided into 33 senatorial districts, of which one senator is elected. There are three senatorial districts on the August ballot; the 29th, 31st and 33rd districts. Each voter votes in only one senatorial district. TENNESSEE HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES With 99 members throughout the State, the House of Representatives is thought to be a true representation of the people. The House of Representatives has law making authority in the State of Tennessee. STATE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE (MAN OR WOMAN) An Executive Committee is basically the governing board for the party. It sets the direction of the party by establishing policy to guide and direct the county parties and adopting rules and measures to promote the success of the party and broaden its base. The person elected to serve on the Executive Committee will be responsible for facilitating information from the party to the district that he or she represents. CIRCUIT COURT JUDGE In general, a Circuit Court Judge conducts trials on all things excluding criminal charges, makes judgments, and must constantly research and stay abreast of changes in the law. Conducting trials requires a judge to hear disputes and decide who should win a case. To make decisions in a trial, a judge must know the rules for conducting a trial. He or she must also understand the laws that control a particular subject matter. A judge must also have the skills to put decisions in writing. CHANCERY COURT JUDGE Chancery Court Judges handle equity cases involving domestic and family matters such as divorce, child custody and support, property division, adoptions, and all related issues. Additionally, the Chancery Court handles and processes the estates of decedents and all issues involving minors. PROBATE COURT JUDGE Probate Court Judges oversee issues related to the execution of the personal estate of a deceased or incarcerated person. Typically, the probate judge distributes assets in the estate based on laws governing probate issues. CRIMINAL COURT JUDGE Criminal Court Judges have the ability to preside over all criminal cases arising out of Shelby County. Criminal court judges can also hear misdemeanor appeals from lower courts. DISTRICT ATTORNEY The DA is responsible for prosecuting crimes. His or her duties include managing the prosecutor’s office, investigating alleged crimes in cooperation with law enforcement, and filing criminal charges or bringing evidence before the Grand Jury that may lead to an indictment for a crime. 42 JULY 2014 | GRACE DID YOU KNOW…….. Voters are required to show photo ID when you go to the polls to vote. If you are a registered vote and unable to get to the polls on election day, you may be able to cast an absentee ballot if you meet certain conditions. Be sure to check out absentee voting guidelines at www.shelbyvote.com for more information on absentee voting and applicable deadlines. Have you ever wondered how people get to work at the polls? Registered voters, students and adults, can apply with the Shelby County Election Commission to work on Election Day. To download the Election Official Application go to www.shelbyvote.com then click on Employment. You can check your voting status and get precinct and district information on demand. Go to www. shelbyvote.com and click on “Am I Registered?” After entering your birth date and address, you’ll see your voting status and precinct information as well as information on which Congressional, State Representative and Senate district you’re in. COUNTY COMMISSIONER Members of the Shelby County Board of Commissioners work to serve constituents and the county through a myriad of duties that include enacting legislation through resolution or ordinance, approving the county’s fiscal budget, setting the County property tax rate, establishing policy, and serving as a voice for the people. ASSESSOR OF PROPERTY The Assessor of Property is required to locate, classify and set an appraised value on all taxable property within Shelby County. GENERAL SESSIONS COURT JUDGE In Shelby County there are separate general session courts for civil and criminal matters. During Civil Court, General Sessions Judges preside over cases that involve money but are restricted to specific monetary limits and types of actions. On the other hand, Criminal jurisdiction is limited to preliminary hearings in felony cases and misdemeanor trials in which a defendant waives the right to a grand jury investigation and trial by jury in Circuit or Criminal Court. ENVIRONMENTAL COURT JUDGE This position serves as a steward of the environment and the resources provided by the citizens. He or she promotes justice and encourages innovative problem-solving through communication, education, and community outreach while creating a cleaner, safer Memphis and a model for the nation. JUVENILE COURT JUDGE The Juvenile Court Judge typically hears cases involving minors accused of crimes. The Judge is responsible for ensuring that is justice carried out, the interests of the state are served, and the case is handled appropriately in light of the child’s age. The Juvenile Court Judge also handles matters of Dependency and Neglect, Visitation, and Child Support. SHERIFF Duties of the sheriff might include but are not limited to: investigating complaints, emergency response, patrolling, resolving disputes, arresting suspects, criminal investigation, and executing warrants. CIRCUIT COURT CLERK The Circuit Court Clerk is responsible for managing court operations, developing and implementing court policies and procedures, and collecting all fines, fees, forfeitures and taxes. The court hears a variety of civil cases: appeals from lower courts, auto accident, breach of contract, condemnation, divorce, medical malpractice, minor settlement, name change, personal injury, worker’s compensation, and wrongful death. CRIMINAL COURT CLERK The Criminal Court Clerk is responsible for managing criminal court operations, developing and implementing court policies and procedures, and collecting all fines, fees, forfeitures and taxes. JUVENILE COURT CLERK A Juvenile Court Clerk’s purpose is to respond to the needs of the families of our community and to generate revenue through collection of court ordered fines and fees, grant contracts and state reimbursement to offset the cost of court operation in the juvenile court system. JULY 2014 | GRACE 43 The 2014 Election Guide PROBATE COURT CLERK Administrative and clerical business of a court is maintained by the Probate Court Clerk. He or she oversees conservatorships, corrections to birth certificates, guardianships, judicial hospitalization under the Mental Health Law, name changes, passports, wills and estates. COUNTY CLERK The Shelby County Clerk’s Office is one with which nearly everyone in Shelby County has done business. Elected to a four-year term, the clerk’s biggest job is selling more than 650,000 vehicle license plates annually. In addition to vehicle licenses, the clerk collects liquor taxes, issues notary public commissions and marriage and business licenses, and swears in deputy sheriffs. REGISTER OF DEEDS The Register of Deeds files certain legal documents mainly pertaining to or affecting real estate and provides public access to these records. He or she must determine whether each instrument offered for registration is entitled to registration under state laws. SHELBY COUNTY SCHOOL BOARD The Shelby County Board of Education (SCBE) governs the business operations of the Shelby County Unified School System. COLLIERVILLE MUNICIPAL JUDGE The Municipal Court has general sessions jurisdiction over all misdemeanour cases and hears felony cases up to a preliminary hearing. In addition, the Judge hears adult and juvenile traffic cases and city code violations. GERMANTOWN MUNICIPAL JUDGE All traffic related offenses, city code violations and arraignments for criminal offenses within Germantown city limits are handled in Germantown Municipal Court. The judicial staff consists of two elected part-time judges, a part-time chief prosecutor, several part-time assistant prosecuting attorneys, a public defender and court staff. 10-POINT PLATFORM 1. Create a more family friendly environment at Juvenile Court. 2. Accelerate compliance with the Federal Mandate. 3. Require Judicial Magistrate training. 4. Offer a fair and objective determination of custody. 5. Re-establish the Unruly Docket to help parents manage child behavior issues. 6. Monitor the collections of fees and penalties that hinder parents’ payment of child support. 7. Implement the Restorative Justice program as an alternative to incarceration. 8. Establish a community resource office staffed by certified probation counselors. 9. Automate the courts in order to enhance client services. 10. Insure consistency in court rulings. COUNTY TRUSTEE The County Trustee has three major duties: collecting the county’s property taxes, accounting for and disbursing county funds appropriately and proper investing of temporary idle county funds. SUPREME COURT The Tennessee Supreme Court is the state’s court of last resort. The five Supreme Court justices may accept appeals of civil and criminal cases from lower state courts. Assuming jurisdiction over undecided cases in the Court of Appeals or Court of Criminal Appeals when there is special need for an expedited decision, the Supreme Court can also interpret the laws and constitutions of both Tennessee and the United States. They will appear on the August 7th ballot as a retention vote where voters will be asked to either retain or replace the current judges. COURT OF APPEALS The Court of Appeals hears appeals in civil—or non-criminal—cases from trial courts and certain state boards and commissions. The court has 12 members, who sit in panels of three. The panels meet monthly in Jackson, Knoxville and Nashville. When necessary, the court may meet in alternate locations. Like the Supreme Court, voters will be asked to either retain or replace current seating judges. Judge Russell Sugarmon (ret.) CRIMINAL COURT OF APPEALS Much like the Court of Appeals, the Court of Criminal Appeals was created to hear trial court appeals , however in felony and misdemeanor cases as well as post-conviction petitions. As aforementioned, voters will again be asked to either retain or replace current seating judges. 44 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 45 FEDERAL AND STATE REPUBLICAN and DEMOCRATIC PRIMARY ELECTION and SHELBY COUNTY GENERAL ELECTION SHELBY COUNTY, TENNESSEE AUGUST 7, 2014 GOVERNOR REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE MARK COONRIPPY BROWN CHARLES V. “CHARLIE” BROWN BILL HASLAM KENNEDY SPELLMAN JOHNSON BASIL MARCEAUX, SR. WM. H. “JOHN” McKAMEY DONALD RAY McFOLIN RON NOONAN UNITED STATES SENATE REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE CHRISTIAN AGNEW TERRY ADAMS LAMAR ALEXANDER GORDAN BALL JOE CARR LARRY CRIM GEORGE SHEA FLINN GARY GENE DAVIS JOHN D. KING BRENDA S LENARD ERIN KENT MAGEE *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT UNITED STATES HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE 8TH CONGRESSIONAL DISTRICT STEPHEN LEE FINCHER WES BRADLEY DANA MATHENY RICKEY HOBSON JOHN MILLS LAWRENCE A. PIVNICK TOM REASONS 9TH CONGRESSIONAL DISTRICT CHARLOTTE BERGMANN STEVE COHEN ISAAC RICHMOND *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT RICKY E. WILKINS TENNESSEE SENATE REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE 29TH SENATORIAL DISTRICT JAMES R. “JIM” FINNEY RICKY DIXON ANTHONY D. HERRON, JR. OPHELIA E. FORD LEE HARRIS HERMAN SAWYER 31ST SENATORIAL DISTRICT BRIAN KELSEY 33RD SENATORIAL DISTRICT REGINALD TATE *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT 46 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 47 TENNESSEE HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE 83RD REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT MARK WHITE 84TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT JOE TOWNS, JR. KENNETH L. WELLS 85TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT JOHNNIE R. TURNER 86TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT GEORGE T. EDWARDS, III BARBARA COOPER 87TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT KAREN CAMPER 88TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT HARRY BARBER LARRY J. MILLER 90TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT JOHN J. DeBERRY, JR. 91ST REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT SAMUEL A. ARTHUR WATKINS RAUMESH A. AKBARI ORRDEN WILLIAMS, JR. DORIS DEBERRY-BRADSHAW 93RD REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT COLONEL G. BILLINGSLEY G.A. HARDAWAY, SR. 95TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT CURRY TODD 96TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT STEVE McMANUS DWAYNE THOMPSON 97TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT August 7, 2014 JIM COLEY 98TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT ANTONIO PARKINSON 99TH REPRESENTATIVE DISTRICT RON LOLLAR VOTE To Re-Elect Judge Gwen *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT General Sessions Court Division 12 Early Voting: July 18— August 2 48 JULY 2014 | GRACE PAID FOR BY THE COMMITTEE TO RE-ELECT JUDGE GWEN ROOKS/ D EALY , TREASURER STATE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEEMAN REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE DISTRICT 29 TERRY ROLAND MICKELL LOWERY MONDELL WILLIAMS DISTRICT 30 SAM COOPER BRYAN CARSON DAVID WICKER, JR. DISTRICT 31 FRANK COLVETT DWAYNE THOMPSON MITCHELL MORRISON DAVID W. UPTON DISTRICT 32 CHRIS CONNOLLY BOBBY “BEAR” SPROLES LARRY A. McKEE JOHN R. WILKERSON DISTRICT 33 DREW DANIEL OSKAR RECIO COREY O. STRONG DEL GILL *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT STATE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEEWOMAN REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE DISTRICT 29 KELLEY HANKINS JOYCE M. ADAMS CHERRY DAVIS DIANNE LAMAR-WITHERS DISTRICT 30 SHERRYE CRAWFORD GALE JONES CARSON LORA JOBE DISTRICT 31 MARY CHICK HILL ADRIENNE PAKIS-GILLON ANNABEL WOODALL DISTRICT 32 DEBORAH K. REED DISTRICT 33 MARY L. WAGNER ALLISON BROWNLEE LONDON LAMAR *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT CIRCUIT COURT JUDGE DIVISION 1 JULIE DICHTEL BYRD FELICIA CORBIN-JOHNSON LEAH J. ROEN KYLE WIGGINS DIVISION 2 KEVIN E. REED JAMES F. RUSSELL ROBERT A. WAMPLER 50 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 51 CRIMINAL COURT JUDGE DIVISION 3 D’ARMY BAILEY REPUBLICAN NOMINEE LEE ANN PAFFORD DOBSON DIVISION 1 DIVISION 4 MICHAEL G. FLOYD GINA CAROL HIGGINS NIGEL R. LEWIS MATTHEW STEVEN RUSSELL PAULA SKAHAN DIVISION 5 DIVISION 2 JOSEPH E. “JOE” GARRETT GLENN WRIGHT RHYNETTE NORTHCROSS HURD DIVISION 3 DWIGHT T. MOORE LATONYA SUE BURROW DIVISION 6 BOBBY CARTER JERRY STOKES DIVISION 4 DIVISION 7 DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE CAROLYN WADE BLACKETT DONNA M. FIELDS DIVISION 5 DIVISION 8 JIM LAMMEY VENITA MARTIN ANDREWS MOZELLA T. ROSS CHARLES W. McDONALD DIVISION 6 ROBERT “BOB” WEISS JOHN W. CAMPBELL CEDRICK D. WOOTEN ALICIA HOWARD DIVISION 9 DIVISION 7 ROBERT L. (BUTCH) CHILDERS KENYA BROOKS CHANCERY COURT JUDGE LEE V. COFFEE REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE DIVISION 8 CHANCELLOR, PART 1 CHRIS CRAFT WALTER L. EVANS DIVISION 9 MICHAEL RICHARDS CHRISTINE CANE CHANCELLOR, PART 2 MARK WARD KEN BESSER DIVISION 10 JIM KYLE JAMES C. BEASLEY, JR. DISTRICT ATTORNEY GENERAL JIM NEWSOM PAUL A. ROBINSON, JR. AMY WEIRICH Republican Nominee CHANCELLOR, PART 3 JOE BROWN Democratic Nominee KENNY ARMSTRONG COUNTY MAYOR PROBATE COURT JUDGE REPUBLICAN NOMINEE DIVISION 1 DAMITA DANDRIDGE KATHLEEN N. GOMES DEMOCRATIC NOMINEE MARK H. LUTTRELL Republican Candidate DEIDRE MALONE Democratic Candidate LEO AWGOWHAT Independent Candidate CHARLES NELSON Independent Candidate *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT RICHARD PARKS DIVISION 2 DANNY W. KAIL KAREN D. WEBSTER 52 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 53 FEDERAL AND STATE REPUBLICAN and DEMOCRATIC PRIMARY ELECTION and SHELBY COUNTY GENERAL ELECTION COUNTY COMMISSIONER DISTRICT 1 TERRY ROLAND Republican Nominee DISTRICT 2 GEORGE CHISM Republican Nominee DISTRICT 3 DAVID REAVES Republican Nominee DISTRICT 4 MARK BILLINGSLEY Republican Nominee JACKIE D. JACKSON Democratic Nominee DISTRICT 5 HEIDI SHAFER Republican Nominee TAYLOR BERGER Democratic Nominee DISTRICT 6 DAVID SHIFFMAN Republican Nominee WILLIE BROOKS Democratic Nominee DISTRICT 7 MELVIN BURGESS Democratic Nominee DISTRICT 8 JULIE D. RAY Republican Nominee WALTER BAILEY Democratic Nominee GENERAL SESSIONS COURT JUDGE DISTRICT 9 DIVISION 1 DIVISION 8 JUSTIN FORD Democratic Nominee SHEILA BRUCE-RENFROE TIM J. DWYER DISTRICT 10 LYNN COBB J. NATHAN TONEY GEOFF DIAZ Republican Nominee DIVISION 2 DIVISION 9 REGINALD MILTON Democratic Nominee PHYLLIS B. GARDNER MELISSA BOYD CHRIS BOYD Independent Candidate MYRA MAY-HAMILTON JOYCE BROFFITT DISTRICT 11 DIVISION 3 GERALD SKAHAN EDDIE JONES Democratic Nominee JOHN A. DONALD DIVISION 10 DISTRICT 12 DAVID L. POOL CATHY ANDERSON-KENT VAN TURNER Democratic Nominee DIVISION 4 CHRIS TURNER ALVIN THEO CROOK, III Independent Candidate DEBORAH A. MEANS HENDERSON DIVISION 11 DISTRICT 13 DIVISION 5 MISCHELLE ALEXANDER-BEST STEVE BASAR Republican Nominee ELLEN FITE KAREN LYNNE MASSEY M. JAIN BETTY THOMAS MOORE DIVISION 12 ASSESSOR OF PROPERTY DIVISION 6 BRYAN A. DAVIS KEITH ALEXANDER Republican Nominee CHRISTIAN JOHNSON S. RONALD (RON) LUCCHESI CHEYENNE JOHNSON Democratic Nominee LONNIE THOMPSON GWEN ROOKS JOHN C. BOGAN Independent Candidate DIVISION 7 DIVISION 13 COUNTY TRUSTEE BILL ANDERSON, JR. LOUIS MONTESI DAVID LENOIR Republican Nominee JAMES JONES, JR. DERRICK BENNETT Democratic Nominee DAVID K. KEMP Independent Candidate 54 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 55 Advertorial ENVIRONMENTAL COURT JUDGEE DISTRICT 6 DIVISION 14 SHANTE K. AVANT KIM GILMORE-SIMS JIMMY L. WARREN LARRY POTTER DISTRICT 7 GENERAL SESSIONS COURT JUDGE MISKA CLAY BIBBS DIVISION 15 LOYCE LAMBERT RYAN JUVENILE COURT JUDGE DISTRICT 8 WILLIAM E. ORGEL DISTRICT 9 ROSHUN AUSTIN DAN HOLMAN MICHAEL MIKE KERNELL TARIK B. SUGARMON DAMON CURRY MORRIS SHERIFF COLLIERVILLE MUNICIPALAL JUDGE BILL OLDHAM Republican Nominee WM. CRAIG HALL BENNIE COBB Democratic Nominee GERMANTOWN MUNICIPAL JUDGE CIRCUIT COURT CLERK DIVISION 1 JIMMY MOORE Republican Nominee RAYMOND CLIFT RHONDA BANKS Democratic Nominee DIVISION 2 CRIMINAL COURT CLERK BOB BRANNON RICHARD L. DeSAUSSURE, III Republican Nominee A. WILSON WAGES WANDA HALBERT Democratic Nominee *EACH VOTER WILL VOTE TO RETAIN OR REPLACE THE FOLLOWING JUDGES JUVENILE COURT CLERK JOY TOULIATOS Republican Nominee HENRI E. BROOKS Democratic Nominee MORRIE E. NOEL Independent Candidate SUPREME COURT JUDGE CORNELIA A. CLARK SHARON GAIL LEE GARY R. WADE COURT OF APPEALS JUDGE EASTERN DIVISION PROBATE COURT CLERK THOMAS FRIERSON JOHN W. MCCLARTY PAUL BOYD Republican Nominee CHARLES SUSANO MICHAEL SWINEY WILLIAM CHISM, JR. Democratic Nominee COURT OF APPEALS JUDGE MIDDLE DIVISION COUNTY CLERK ANDY D. BENNETT FRANK CLEMENT WAYNE MASHBURN Republican Nominee RICHARD DINKINS NEAL MCBRAYER CHARLOTTE B. DRAPER Democratic Nominee COURT OF APPEALS JUDGE WESTERN DIVISION ISAAC WRIGHT Independent Candidate HOLLY KIRBY REGISTER OF DEEDS COURT OF CRIMINAL APPEALS EASTERN DIVISION TOM LEATHERWOOD Republican Nominee NORMA MCGEE OGLE COLEMAN THOMPSON Democratic Nominee JAMES C. WITT, JR. D. KELLY THOMAS COURT OF CRIMINAL APPEALS MIDDLE DIVISION SHELBY COUNTY SCHOOL BOARD JEFFREY S. BIVINS CHRIS G. CALDWELL FREDA GARNER-WILLIAMS DISTRICT 3 TEDDY KING ANTHONY D. LOCKHART STEPHANIE LOVE DISTRICT 5 SCOTT McCORMICK DAVID WINSTON 56 JULY 2014 | GRACE A Man on the Move STEVE STAFFORD *EACH VOTER VOTES IN ONLY ONE CONGRESSONAL DISTRICT DISTRICT 1 Judge Tarik B. Sugarmon ROBERT W. WEDEMEYER THOMAS T. WOODALL COURT OF CRIMINAL APPEALS WESTERN DIVISION ALAN GLENN CAMILLE R. MCMULLEN ROGER A. PAGE JOHN EVERETT WILLIAMS *DISCLAIMER- THIS DOCUMENT IS FOR GENERAL INFORMATION PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT AN OFFICIAL DOCUMENT OF THE SHELBY COUNTY ELECTION COMMISSION OR ANY OF ITS AFFILIATES. IT IS PROVIDED AS A GUIDE AND IS NOT INTENDED TO BE AN OFFICIAL GOVERNMENT DOCUMENT. THE STEVISON GROUP, GRACE MAGAZINE AND ITS SUBSIDIARIES DO NOT ENDORSE ANY CANDIDATES. ALL ADVERTISING LOCATED WITHIN THIS GUIDE WAS PAID FOR BY AUTHORIZED CAMPAIGN REPRESENTATIVES. FOR FURTHER INFORMATION ABOUT THE UPCOMING ELECTION VISIT SHELBYVOTE.COM, OR PLEASE CONSULT THE SHELBY COUNTY ELECTION COMMISSION OR OTHER APPROPRIATE GOVERNMENT RESOURCES. It was September 4, 1962, a sunlit day in early fall. The little five year old was holding fast to his mother’s hand as they moved slowly past unmarked cars, uniformed policemen with guns in their holsters, and German Shepherd dogs at their backs, watching and waiting for trouble. He did not know it then, but Tarik Brant Sugarmon was not only starting his first day of school. He was also beginning a life of service to his community and of dedication to the struggle for social justice. Because of his parents’ involvement in the Civil Rights Movement, he was one of three children who desegregated Peabody Elementary School a year after the initial desegregation of public schools by the Memphis Thirteen. Fortunately, there was no violence on that September morning when he and best friends, Vasco “Smitty” Smith, III and Harold “Skipper” Whalum, Jr., entered school. With his Peabody teacher, Mrs. Dill, Tarik learned to study hard, play fairly, and accept others on the basis of their character. Now in his fifties, he adheres to those lessons in his treatment of family, friends, strangers, and animals. Tarik is a hands-on father to his two sons, a mentor to his three nephews, and a role model to students. A golfer, fisherman, and exercise buff, he vaulted a fence, with his leg in a cast, to save a niece from drowning. He serves as conservator and primary caregiver of his friend Skipper, who suffered a brain injury after an accident years ago. His pastor, Dr. Rosalyn Nichols, said: “He takes venison to Nana, the elderly woman in the congregation and finds shelter for the homeless woman in his court.” A court official noted, “At work, he is the resident ‘dog expert,’ who graciously agreed to allow all cases involving animals to be assigned to his court.” This marketing supplement was paid for by The Committee to Elect Judge Tarik B. Sugarmon. JULY 2014 | GRACE 57 Tarik grew up in South Memphis, the son of Russell Sugarmon, an attorney, and Miriam Sugarmon, a college professor. After graduating from public school, he entered Morehouse College, from which he received a B. A. degree in banking and finance. He chose a business career, so he worked at Northwestern Mutual Life Insurance Company in Chicago and, later, at National Bank of Commerce in Memphis, but finally concluded that banking was not for him. A child of the Movement, he was motivated by the struggle for human rights and he had several lawyers in the family, so Tarik gravitated toward a legal career. He entered Howard University School of Law, where he ranked third in the first-year class and in the top five percent of the 1983 graduates. After passing the Tennessee Bar Exam on the first attempt, Sugarmon became a part-time Shelby County Public Defender and a trial attorney with the law firm of Wharton and Wharton. He handled general civil and criminal defense cases before the county, state, and federal courts of Tennessee for fifteen years and won more than 80% of his cases. In 1990, one of his most important cases led to a change in city elections to its current district and super-district format. In 1998, Mayor W. W. Herenton appointed Sugarmon to Division Two of the Memphis Municipal Court, and he has been re-elected to two full terms since then. His father, a retired General Sessions Court Judge, noted: “Tarik has a judicial temperament. He is patient, easy to talk to, and he listens to others. He doesn’t get upset, and people trust him.” Now, he wants to become Juvenile Court Judge and has launched a vigorous campaign for office, with the help of his staff, family, and enthusiastic volunteers. With the motto, “A New Vision, A New Future,” he has developed a ten-point platform, which includes establishing a community resource office, ensuring consistency in court rulings, and offering a fair and objective determination of custody. He said, “I plan to make sure that all detention magistrates adhere to standard rules of procedure and evidence to ensure consistency.” His proposals address some of the concerns of parents who believe that their children have been unjustly treated by a judicial system that is unfair to some youngsters, as the Federal Memorandum of Agreement (FMA) points out. Judge Sugarmon explained, “I want to explore programs, such as early mentoring, that will reduce the number of juvenile detentions and contact with the Court.” Above all, he wants to create an environment at Juvenile Court that will be more family friendly. After thirty years of service to Memphis and Shelby County as a criminal attorney, county defender, and judge, Tarik Sugarmon seeks the community’s support in his campaign to protect the rights of at-risk children. GROWING UP WITH GRACE GRACE® Magazine wants our children to be heard. GRACE® Magazine visited GRAHAMWOOD ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. Kindergarten Kindergarten CALEBWOODS KELLYLEE If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? Buy a home for myself and my parents. If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? Give it to those in need. JEFFBLUMBERG If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? I would donate some and spend a little bit of it. I would put some in a bank and keep the rest. JWANAALOQILI 1st If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? I would send it overseas so other kids can have a home. 2nd 2nd DANIELBAI If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? I would buy something with it, a toy. I really want a Star Wars toy, and Legos to share with my best friend. If I had too much, I would send it to people. This marketing supplement was paid for by The Committee to Elect Judge Tarik B. Sugarmon. 58 JULY 2014 | GRACE JULY 2014 | GRACE 59 JASMYNLYONS If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? Give it to charity, and if I had any money left I would put it in my bank account if I never needed it for anything. I may need it to pay for groceries. 3rd MAANASAYEPURU If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? I would give half of it to hospitals that need it, and then I would keep a quarter for my family. The other quarter I would give in donations for homeless people or to people that don’t have money or toys. 5th JOANNANELVIS If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? I would buy a mansion and feed my family. Then I would probably donate to homeless people or animals 4th EXCELLENCE ON AND OFF the court Spotlight on student athlete and scholar Arati Joshi by JESSAMYN BRADLEY | photos courtesy of JOSHI FAMILY TYWANLASHLEY If you won a million dollars how would you spend it? I would give some money to St. Jude, some money to charity, and I would help my family members that needed money to pay bills. 60 JULY 2014 | GRACE 5th The term student-athlete can be a subjective term. Interpretations of the term include, but are not limited to, a student who plays a sport or an athlete that takes classes. However, it is difficult to misinterpret the meaning behind scholar-athlete: someone who excels in the classroom as well as raises the bar for his or her teammates athletically. Arati Joshi, a junior at White Station High School, has had the highest expectations for herself regarding both sports and academics for as long as she can remember. “I’ve always set goals for what I want to do and sort of hit every single one of those points.” When asked how she managed to attain such a level of success at such a young age, Arati responded with a shrug. “Well, I don’t really know. I somehow stay up all night, do my work after volleyball, and then hit the books I guess.” Such a busy schedule seems a little overwhelming for a teen, but Arati’s mother, Sarita Joshi, has no doubt that the benefits of Arati’s schedule and obligations outweigh the disadvantages. Those advantages for Arati came at JULY 2014 | GRACE 61 some disadvantages for Sarita including, tackling the dreaded after-school traffic to get her daughter to and from her various destinations in a timely fashion. “For any parent, seeing their child become a responsible youth is always a pleasure. Volleyball has offered Arati numerous opportunities to become better in social areas, such as: working together as a team, leading by example, keeping the goal in mind, learning from and adjusting to the changing circumstances, balancing emotions, and always remaining positive. I have seen Arati mature each year as she played on various teams and with various players and coaches at various levels.” Arati is impressively at the top of her class. She scored a 32 on the ACT and a 2200 on the SAT respectively, while receiving notches in volleyball such as her All-District 16-AAA and All-Region 8-AAA acknowledgements in 2012. How, one might ask how someone so young balances so well. “[After] staying up way past nine o’clock playing volleyball…[I] stay up all night doing work, but I manage it somehow” said Arati. Additionally, Arati has worked with the College Research Experience for Students in High School program (CRESH) at the University of Memphis during the summer of 2013 and has been chosen to travel to the University of Tennessee in Knoxville this coming summer to attend Governor’s School for the Sciences. “It was fun,” she said, “like, I never had done serious academic summer stuff, so it was a good-first hand experience for college research… [and no]conditioning for volleyball.” This summer she’s really looking forward to broadening her network and only worries about one thing—her roommate—hoping she evades someone “who talks too much or does not have good hygiene.” The 10-year volleyball veteran has considerable hopes and dreams to study cardiology or neurology and attend a firstclass college or university with Rhodes College, Vanderbilt or Washington University being her top choices. One essential element of her life is the persistent motivation from her family, more specifically, her mother. When asked if Sarita represents the Nurturer or the Pusher, she doesn’t even blink. “Definitely the Pusher. She’ll coddle me later, but she consistently tells me; if you haven’t done the best you can, then I don’t want to talk to you right now.” Sarita countered Arati’s philosophy by saying, “Arati has always been responsible with her studies. On rare occasions, I have to remind her that she may have homework or a test to study for.” Regardless of the countless hours she spends on the court, heading to tournaments, and clocking in school-time hours, Arati appreciates the firm diligence her mother has coached into her. “As much as I hated that you [Sarita] kept pushing me to work all the time, it’s benefitted me a lot…made me have a good work ethic and never go for the lowest, but past the highest.” As for Sarita, she humbly accepts the fact that working hard and pushing her daughter both come with the territory and leans on the other members of her family for support. “I am sure my challenges aren’t anything different than [those] compared to what other working parents face. It was always tricky to manage game schedules, school, work, homework and most importantly healthy meals. But as my girls grew older, they become more and more independent; my wonderful husband, who not only just supports, but also takes charge, is very pro-active. With all the support systems I have, I think we sailed through more easily!” 62 JULY 2014 | GRACE 17th Annual SportsBall Games for Grown-ups - Futures for Kids Benefitting July 26 • Minglewood Hall $125 at the door • $100 advance www.msmentor.org 901-323-5440 ext. 22 SPORTS BALL Special Hosts Chris Vernon & Gary Parrish from Win David Yurman Jewelry in the Mednikow Fantasy Raffle! Presenting Sponsors JULY 2014 | GRACE 63 Lest We Forget The 50th Anniversary of the Civil Rights Act by CARLISSA SHAW This year marks the 50th anniversary of the passage of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. It is known by most as the most impactful piece of civil rights legislation in America since the abolishment of slavery. The Act prohibits discrimination on the basis of race, color, religion, gender, and national origin in public places. The Act also served as a catapult for the passage of other anti-discrimination legislation throughout the 1960s. After receiving the approval of the U.S. House of Representatives, the Senate passed the Bill 114 days later on June 19, 1964, after occupying the Senate for 60 work days (including seven Saturdays). This solidified its distinction for being the longest debate in Senate history. Several Senators overcame serious health aliments to champion the bill. President Lyndon Johnson rallied support for the passage of the bill following the assassination of President John F. Kennedy. The opponents of the bill were equally passionate. One opponent, West Virginia Democratic Sen. Robert Byrd, one of the longest-serving U.S. senators and a former leader of the KKK, filibustered for 14 hours straight to keep the bill from coming to a vote. After months of contentious debate, the Civil Rights Act of 1964 was enacted by the 88th Congress. President Johnson signed the Bill, which took effect July 2, 1964. Though many of the advocates belong to a generation past and are no longer with us, we bask in the work they accomplished some 50 years ago. In the past 50 years, America has grown leaps and bounds in the area of diversity and inclusion. Grace Magazine pays homage to those who made it possible for the passage of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. A rising tide floats all boats and the passage of the Civil Right Act raised the “Tide of Democracy” in America. 64 JULY 2014 | GRACE Putting your health record in your hands. Baptist OneCare© MyChart represents a giant step forward in patient care. It’s an electronic health record that brings together patients and providers like never before, and gives patients control over their own health information. It also makes everything from scheduling appointments to refilling prescriptions more convenient. Learn more by visiting baptistonecare.org. baptistonline.org 800-4-BAPTIST 66 JULY 2014 | GRACE Get Better. © 2013 Epic Systems Corporation. Used with permission. © All rights reserved. BMHCC. 2012.