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GEorge Michael a True Icon Ladyboys of Bangkok SuperGay Issue 12 -October / November 2008 // FREE www.outnortheast.com Gay, Lesbian and Out in the North East FREE - Please take one exchange place, middlesbrough (below the train station) Join your hosts: Anna Mosity, Duchess Davinya, Flic Ma Bean, Gina Tonic and Honey Lingus Music from: DJ Michelle, JIGs and Erin Campbell Amazing Drinks Offers: VK Bottles, Vodka + Mix £1.50 | kronenburg £1.50 | Double Vodka + Mix £2.49 | Apple and Cherry Sours £0.99 | Mini Moet £7.50 + More…. More info: www.myspace.com/saturgayuk Find us on Facebook - Thank God It’s SATUR-GAY More info: www.myspace.com/saturgayuk Find us on Facebook - Thank God It’s SATUR-GAY Issue 12 -October / November 2008 // FREE Gay, Lesbian and Out in the North East Issue 12 – October / November 2008 The only gay press dedicated to the North East of England. Editor simon Hatfield scene News and listings Editor anita Collins 12 14 Editorial assistant Jamie Robinson Michelle Mattisson sales and Marketing Philip Douglas LADYBOYS Design Radim Malinic 20 Office Manager Juliet Clark Contributors Ophelia Balls, Nick Baker, James Barr, Mark Casey, Paul Corduex, tom Gorman, David lamb, Martin leyland, steve Pask, Emma Roebuck, Rob Robinson, Jasmine starr, keith Ward. Out Northeast is published by: think Pink limited 72-80 Corporation Road Middlesbrough ts1 2RF t: 01642 220040 F: 01642 337500 GEORGE MICHAEL HEALTH FEATURE 12 W: outnortheast.com E: [email protected] Cover Image: George Michael Next Issue: 13th November 2008 SCENE NEWS 32 8 SCENE OUT SUPERGAY ©think Pink limited 2008 all material is strictly copyright and all rights are reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part without the written permission of think Pink limited is strictly forbidden. the greatest care has been taken to ensure the accuracy of information in this magazine at time of going to press, but we accept no responsibility for omissions or errors. the views expressed in this magazine are not necessarily those of think Pink limited. the inclusion of images of people does not represent their individual sexuality. www.outnortheast.com 4. Out NorthEast news ininbrief news ... news inbrief brief 6 Love Love NE W NO CL LO W INIC CA L OP EN News from the North East – www.outnortheast.com Tesco Transphobe to Trans friendly. Equality Framework is National Leader Middlesbrough Council has signed up to a joint commitment to improve equality and support diversity in Middlesbrough. The Middlesbrough Joint Single Equality Scheme or SES Framework involves the Council’s partners including Cleveland Police, the University of Teesside and Middlesbrough Voluntary Development Agency. The scheme aims to create a local community of organisations working coherently together on inproving equality and supporting diversity across a wide range of essential services. Middlesbrough is one of only a handful of areas in the UK still working on joint equality projects of any kind. The Middlesbrough joint SES Framework is both the widest ranging and the most ambitious of its kind in the country. The groundbreaking approach is a new way of thinking about developing equality, and it has received attention from national policymakers. 6. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com Do You Want To Make A Difference To The Experiences Of Lesbian And Women In Newcastle? The young peoples charity Streetwise, based in central Newcastle is currently conducting research looking in the needs of Lesbian, Bisexual and unsure young women aged 13 – 25 years old. Streetwise are looking to find out, from you, what you think about current service provision, and what you would like to see in the future. You can email your thoughts to Sarah@ streetwisenorth.co.uk or you can head down to Streetwise, in the Big Market 11.30 – 1.30pm on Friday 31st October. Supermarket chain Tesco has turned a major corner and has had to change its policy on Transsexual use of toilets thanks to interventions from Gay Advice Darlington/ Durham (GADD) and the Gender Trust. In light of the debacle at London Pride by those ignorant of the law and with poor judgement where a Trans woman was asked to leave the female toilet queue for the ‘Ladies’ in Trafalgar Square this summer. This is a major victory for Trans equality. The Supermarket in question was in the North East and was denying access to the conveniences to several Trans Women unless they provided proof of gender with a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC). This was in direct contravention of guidance and since the change in the Sex discrimination Act 2008 (Goods Services& Facilities for Transsexual People). Gay Advice Darlington Criminal Justice Worker and Gender Trust Representatives, engaged with the Senior Management to point out the direct contravention and how they should look at this carefully. Sir Terry Leahy, Tescos Chief Executive wrote ‘I accept that the request to see Miss X s GRC was inappropriate in this situation and I would like to offer my sincere apologies for any upset this caused’ ‘Tesco is currently introducing training to cover Gender & Sexual Orientation as part of our diversity training and this will be rolled out throughout the business by 2009.’ GADD’s Emma Roebuck told us that although this has occurred it is a sign of improving times that action has been taken and the mistakes corrected. Hopefully other organisations will see the error of their ways and seek to prevent the need for organisations like Gay Advice Darlington/ Durham & Gender Trust to have to intervene. Gateshead Primary Care Trust lust lust OR A check-up’s a must Call 0800 42 20 200 Free, confidential diagnosis and treatment of sexually transmitted infections is now available in Gateshead. Think Sexual Health SuperGay 2008, a look back at the festival with Martin Leyland Photography by Paul Highmoor news ininbrief ... news brief Civil Partnerships 8 At Centre Square, the Mayor, Ray Mallon, gave a short address and noted the Event’s growth from the previous year. “You have made an impact on the town,” he told the crowd, “for all the right reasons. “The gay community will always be welcome here.” The crowd was entertained in the afternoon sunshine by fair rides, stalls and local bands; then a surprise guest arrived - Rowetta from the X factor. The main artiste of the afternoon was Lolly and a huge crowd gathered in front of the stage to wave their arms and sing along to Hey Mickey. Organisers estimate that over 1000 people attended the event - 10 times that of the previous year. Clearly the event was a real focus for the local gay community and can only go from strength to strength. One festival-goer said later “the Pride walk was amazing and whole event was well done. I can’t wait for next year.” Yes, indeed. See you there! SUPERGAY September saw the second annual Supergay in Middlesbrough, which surprised many this year, with its increase in numbers across the festival. At the first event on the Wednesday, over 30 people attended the successful Authors event in the Central Library. On Thursday, a short film and play, both made locally, were shown to a packed house that greatly enjoyed the immensely funny and thoughtful production. Friday night saw Drag Idol at the Oak bar, with a capacity audience, many dressed in drag, whether performing or not. The prize went to Lesley Duggan in a striking costume and all agreed that it was her enormous *stage presence* that won the night! 8. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com The club nights were popular; Think Pink told us that about 600 people were at the Cornerhouse - the largest number ever to attend the Satur-gay event. The highlight of the festival was undoubtedly the Saturday Fun day. The sun came out to play and so did the gay community. Organisers counted over 200 people in the parade - 3 times that of the previous year. Gay footballers, Christians and a wide representation of the town’s gay community were made more colourful by the addition of drag queens in high heels at the front of the march, which was led by the Lesbian drumming group the Bangshees. Passers-by looked on in amazement and many came out from the shops to watch the fantastic spectacle walk by. Domestic Violence Telephone Children 0191 565 3112 Adoption Finances Civil Partnerships FREE INITIAL Whatever the reason, family breakdown can be a nightmare. Email [email protected] Website www.benhoarebell.co.uk You don’t have to go it alone. We’re on your side , so come and talk. For advice on civil partnerships APPOINTMENTS O FFICES IN N EW CA ST LE & SU N D ERLA N D Scene News with Anita Collins ... scene news 10 Do you feel Limp? Newcastle’s original Alternative Gay night is returning to Sea Nightclub, weekly from Wednesday 8th October. Previously Limp Rizted was being run as a successful monthly calendar event. Now Sea Nightclub has taken a massive step, making this a weekly night every Wednesday. Limp Rizted is a night run by gay promoters who want an alternative to the scene, offering music previously unavailable at a gay night this side of Manchester. With two rooms and two music policies, the night caters for most. Room one giving the best in Rock, Indie, Alt and Electro, whilst Room two will be supplying you with Cheese Chart and Dance. tLimp Rizted’s simple aim is to provide music for everyone’s taste with no ridiculous price tags. This is shown with drinks prices starting at £1.50 for selected bottles and £2.50 for a double house spirit and mixer. And to launch their comeback onto Newcastle’s scene, they are bringing you an Electro DJ set from Lostprophets front man Ian Watkins. This is Ian’s first visit to Newcastle as a DJ, we were told he is looking towards being a part of one of the most memorable nights of 2008! Limp Rizted promises live PA’s on a monthly basis with local bands too in-between, so check out their Myspace or Facebook for upcoming events. Limp Rizted @ Sea Nightclub (Quayside, Newcastle upon Tyne). Every Wednesday 10.30pm-3am. Entry £5 £4NUS/Guestlist www.myspace.com/limprizted 10.Out 10. Out NorthEast NorthEast www.outnortheast.com www.outnortheast.com Pop, would you like a Cherry with that? Sundays have changed in Middlesbrough with the launch of The Oak’s new night ‘Cherry Pop’. The legend Kevin T still making an appearance for the ever popular monthly theme nights (look out for the Drag Ball, Sunday 30th November) whilst making way for new DJ Talent on remaining weeks led by JIGs (SATUR-GAY, Superstar Boudoir). Lumalicious… Just like Christina’s new song, this weekly Gay Fest in the heart of Sunderland ‘Just keeps getting better’, with innovative theme nights, international renowned Cabaret and some hot shooter boys! JIGs promises everything from Abba to Alphabeat, making Sunday’s sweet and exciting with today’s best pop music and a selection of all time classics. The first two months have provided some great nights, and the next two month promise nothing less host Ophelia Balls has been telling us, ‘The first Tuesday of the month, our Cabaret evening is proving very popular, 7th October is our ‘All the Fun of the Fair night, free Popcorn and Candyfloss for all revellers’…who knows you might even get a ride ;-) Cherry Pop @ The Oak (Newport Road, Middlesbrough) Every Sunday. 7pm – V.Late. Entry £FREE Lumalicious @ Bar Luma (Derwent Street, Sunderland) Every Tuesday, 8pm – V.Late. Entry £FREE www.outnortheast.com 10. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com 11. Out NorthEast ICONS – Out Northeast Icons. Words; Paul Corduex | GEORGE michael 13 In 2008 he celebrated his 45th birthday, the 12th anniversary of his long-term gay relationship, the end of his 2-year-old farewell tour and the release of the tie-in album 25Live. He is one of the highest earning and highest selling British Male artists of the last 20 years and he has had a string of high profile public misdemeanours. He’s an institution around the globe; he smokes cannabis and talks about open relationships frankly and honestly, without shame. His name is George Michael and he is a very British gay icon. Born Georgios Kyriacos Panayiotou, June 25th 1963 in North London, George Michael as he is more commonly known showed early signs of the talent and potential which have now become his hallmark, when in 1981 in his late teens he formed ‘The Executive’ – an early collaboration with Andrew Ridgeley. George and Andrew had met at comprehensive school and after this initial foray into music, decided in late 1981 to form the duet Wham! Wham’s first single was Wham Rap and certainly got the publics attention, their follow-up single and first real hit Young Guns (Go For It!) propelled the duo to stardom and signalled the first of a string of UK hits. In these early days, George Michael was linked publicly with several famous females including Whoopi Goldburg and Brooke Shields and the headline grabbing stars of Wham! were never far from the front pages. 12 12. Out NorthEast 12.Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com www.outnortheast.com Wham! disbanded in 1987 with a sell-out concert to a 72,000 strong Wembley crowd, Michael released his second solo hit of the decade A Different Corner to critical and commercial acclaim and followed it up closely with a groundbreaking duet I Knew you Were Waiting with Aretha Franklin. Michael was the first white mail artist to record with the soul star Franklin and the single went on to top the charts around the world. Michael’s first solo album Faith hits the number 1 spot in the UK and USA in November 1987 and went on to sell 16 million copies worldwide. The album earned Michael a Grammy, 2 prestigious Ivor Novello’s and 3 American Music Awards. Embarking on the Faith Tour of 1988, George Michael cemented his appeal as an international superstar. 1990’s album Listen Without Prejudice Vol.1 marked a change in musical direction for Michael and although it wasn’t quite the success Faith had been, it still topped the global album charts and garnered hit singles. Listen without Prejudice Vol.2 was never released and this strained relations between Michael and Sony Music to whom he was signed. In 1995 Michael eventually negotiated a contractual release from Sony Music and signed to Virgin Records and SKG Music going on to produce the enormous hit album Older in 1996 which is now 5 times platinum in the UK and is gold or platinum in 34 other countries around the world. The early 1990s were a difficult time for Michael as he came to terms with the death of his lover Anselmo Feleppa in 1993 of an AIDS related condition. Michael’s mother died of cancer during these years. Older was the culmination of this dark period and with it’s release and critical acclaim, came the chance meeting in 1996 with Texan Kenny Goss, who was to become Michael’s long-term partner. The late 1990s came the to represent a renaissance for Michael’s music and he was showered with more Novello and MTV Europe Awards for his work. His fourth solo album Ladies and Gentlemen: The Best of George Michael reached Number 1 and he had more hit singles with Outside and As. The former being the result of an ‘encounter’ in a public toilet in America with a Beverley Hills Police Officer in a public toilet which was to see Michael arrested, fined and ordered to complete 80 hours of public service. This event became a watershed in Michael’s career, he went on to openly acknowledge his homosexuality and discussed what it is to be in an modern open gay relationship and to cruise for casual sex as part and parcel of the relationship. This is in stark contrast to the Wham! years when Michael was at pains to disguise his sexuality for fear of offending his Mother. Michael released several singles during the early naughty’s and in 2004 topped the global charts yet again with the album Patience. 2006 saw the beginning of his 2 year long farewell tour and 25Live is his latest album release. Michael has once again bucked the commercial trend by announcing that he will effectively retire from live performance and only release low-key music over the internet for fans who are committed to his long-term goal of producing timeless quality material. Ladies and gentlemen I give you George Michael, a modern gay icon. www.outnortheast.com 13. Out NorthEast Ophelia Balls meets a Ladyboy from Bangkok Theatre – Coming Up… theatre theatre 15 ladyboys of Bangkok Hope you enjoyed our 2 days of summer... Well on a sunny Sunday afternoon I had the pleasure of meeting Leyla, one of the Ladyboys, she had a little spare time just before her early Sunday show and agreed to meet with me whilst her lashes were drying..! this year being their 10th anniversary tour, “Devils & angels, which has a cast of 17, 5 being guy’s. I was ushered round to the dressing room where all of the cast were getting sorted for the show, so me being me, nearly went a over t on a huge big pair of angel wings and landed next to leyla, she has been touring with the show for 5 years and joined from Mambo Cabaret in thailand, one of the biggest ladyboys static shows. Her family come from sukhothai, which is North of Bangkok, the show I found out tours for 8 months of the year then the cast get a well earned 4 month break, When touring leyla’s favourite places are Edinburgh and Newcastle, I asked her what her favourite routine in this show was and she loves performing “Get the Party started” along with the spice Girls routine. looking at leyla, her make up was flawless and I couldn’t help thinking that I wish I had those cheekbones...! It takes the girls; sorry guys about 30 minutes each evening get all the powder and paint in the right places to create that simple, but so effective look. I was interested in how the show was thought out and put together and that comes from the choreographer anthony and is over looked by Carol and Phillip Gandey from World Class Productions; the guys behind the brand!My time with leyla flew by and I had to get to my seat and leyla had to get into her first costume, so I said my thanks to everyone and headed back passing these fantastic red feathers, they wont miss one! ;-)…(Only joking guys). I was joined by friends so we all settled down to watch the show, for a sunday afternoon there was an audience of over 225 and it had a fantastic atmosphere. One of the highlights for me was the opening number - “Get the Party started”. Rihanna was a new addition to the show, but the classics were still there including “One Man Woman”, and ‘My Way’ which never fails to receive a standing ovation. I absolutely loved the sound of Music number, and in the second half, the show managed to go from sheena Easton into Meatloaf’s ‘Bat Out Of Hell’ – how many shows could get away with that! 14. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com Flashdance The Musical 4 Poofs and a Piano Described as ‘more hairdresser than barbershop,’ and known to millions as the resident house band on BBC 1’s ‘Friday Night with Jonathan Ross’, the famous four had originally been billed to appear at The Arc in Stockton in September, lucky for you though they had to re-schedule, so there is still time to get tickets! all of the costumes had an individual look and style about them and you could see a lot of thought had gone in to the planning of the entire show. the ladyboys are loved and respected wherever they perform and still have another 22 towns and cities to cram in after they leave Newcastle and that’s all before Christmas...! If you don’t or never get the chance to visit thailand, to see a show there, you really have no choice but to go and see them next time there in Newcastle. thanks to everyone for their kind hospitality and I for one am looking forward to next years show already. sa-Wat DEE kaa Love . Ophelia B.Com . Balls Mansions. www.opheliaballs.com tickets for the new show on Weds 19 November, £14.50, are available from the arc on 01642 525199 WIN tICkEts tO sEE 4 POOFs aND a PIaNO We have teamed up with the arc to give you the chance to win 2 tickets to see 4 Poofs and a Piano on Wednesday 19th November, simply answer this question, ‘What tV show are 4 Poofs and a Piano the house band for’ … email your answer, with your name, address and a contact number to [email protected] before 10th November for your chance to win!* *Over 18s only. The Sunderland Empire has just confirmed an all star line up for a 5 day run of the new stage musical adaptation of the film Flashdance this October. Taking the lead of Alex Owens will be Victoria Hamilton-Barritt. Victoria’s West End theatre credits include “Mamma Mia!”, “Fame” and “Desperately Seeking Susan”. Other theatre credits include Stephanie in “Saturday Night Fever” and Anita in “West Side Story” on tour. Choreographer arlene Phillips, from BBC tV’s strictly Come Dancing said “after searching the country high and low and seeing hundreds of girls for the part of alex, I suddenly remembered the stunning Victoria Hamilton-Barritt who had played a leading role in saturday Night Fever in the West End and invited her to audition. she is the only girl who we believe can sing, act and dance this role to the standard we need’ Bruno langley will play Jimmy. Bruno is best known for playing Gay Heartthrob todd Grimshaw in “Coronation street”. Flashdance – the Musical runs from Monday 20th October to saturday 25th October. tickets priced from £10.00 to £30.00 are available from the sunderland Empire on 0844 847 2499. www.outnortheast.com 15. Out NorthEast Steve Pask – Good ol America health feature GroUND 0 ZEro By the time you read this, I shall have just come back from my second visit to ‘Ground Zero’ for HIV/AIDS, that is San Francisco, which is the city where a doctor first noticed that his gay male patients were turning up with rare infections and other problems that just weren’t seen in otherwise healthy young men. Back then, in the early 1980s, they came up with the name GRID, Gay Related Immune Deficiency. the last time I was in san Francisco was in 1993, before really effective HIV treatments were available. Gay men were dying in huge numbers. I thought things were bad enough amongst my friends, but I visited an aIDs Crisis Centre in san Francisco, where I met a guy only a little older than me. It was in the Castro, the mainly gay district. He showed me the area, then said “I used to know just about everyone living here, now they’re all gone”, in fact by then more gay men had died in that one city than the total number of people infected with HIV in the whole of Britain! the thing about going to the Usa is that I basically have to become an illegal immigrant for the duration of my stay. In spite of what I’ve already said, which shows that the Usa is not exactly free from HIV, the country still effectively refuses admission to anyone who is infected. Now even if I was planning to spend the whole of my holiday there having unsafe sex with the maximum possible number of partners (which I’m not, my partner wouldn’t like it much!) I really wouldn’t make 16. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com 17 Paul Corduex reviews a significant difference to the level of infection in the country. two years ago George Bush promised to remove this particular hurdle, and the senate have very recently voted to do the same, but at the present time it still remains in place. It means I have three options; take the risk of travelling with my anti-HIV drugs, getting caught and sent home, never to be allowed back in, not take any drugs for a fortnight, which some people do choose to do, but which research has shown is really stupid as it gives the HIV a chance to become immune to all your treatments, or to send them in advance by post, which is ok if like me you are going to visit friends so you have a safe address to post them to, but for many people going to stay in hotels etc, that option is not open. travelling is stressful for anyone at the best of times, travelling across time zones and trying to work out when you need to take your treatments is another problem, surely we really don’t need to be faces with another totally pointless hurdle across which we are required to jump? On the other hand, I’m very lucky, I’m still alive and well enough to be able to enjoy a holiday! 16 read Moab is My Washpot looking Good Dead Stephen Fry. Peter James, arrow, 1197. MacMiillan 2006. Boys and girls, I have a confession to make. It’s a secret I’ve been keeping from you. You thought you knew me well – the glamorous writers lifestyle I lead and the crowds of adoring fans everywhere I go, well it turns out that all along I had hidden feelings you knew nothing about. I’m only a weak homosexual after all. I’m sorry. Can you ever forgive me? I don’t want this revelation to change what we have. We’re all human; we all have weaknesses and emotions we cannot control. I hope that you can see past what I am about to tell you and remember the happy times we have shared. the truth is, while you have all been lapping-up my every word, I’ve been lapping up every word of someone famous. Ok! Ok! I’ll get on with it – I fancy stephen Fry. there it is, in black and white. I quite like Matthew kelly too, but only when he’s not talking. Why!? I hear you screech. Well obviously Fry is a fairly attractive, tall, dark and very well off man. But aside from the important things, he is a genius. Quite literally. He’s one of the most intelligent people you could wish to meet and he’s gay too! Hoorah for us! In his autobiography Moab is my Washpot, Fry describes the years from his birth through to his mischievous days at University and into his early 20s. this unflinchingly frank and honest account covers everything from how he came to terms with being gay, to the impact of the prison sentence he served for theft on his relationship with his parents. like me, you will be hooked and will be unable to put the book down, even if at times your brain will beg for a rest from the bombardment of perfectly written, almost poetic prose. Moab has inspired me. It leaves me – as a writer and as a gay man – feeling that I want to do better, that if I put my mind to something I can achieve it and that no matter what happens no matter how big an obstacle I put in my own way – if I want something enough I can make it happen. I love stephen Fry and I love his book Read it. Our Rating 5/5 Snuff movies. I’d never heard of them. Apparently you make a film of a real life murder and distribute it for the sexual arousal of others people! Hmm don’t see the appeal myself, but it certainly inspired Peter James to write Looking Good Dead, the second instalment of the DI Roy Grace mysteries. tom Bryce, the main character in the book after Grace and his sidekick Branson, comes across a CD left by a stranger on a train, he watches the CD when he gets back home and is then drawn into a seedy underworld of snuff movies, sexual exploitation and danger. the story opens in traditional Peter James style as chapter by chapter we follow a handful of characters through snapshots of their daily lives, then before you know it, you’re introduced-to and understand the depressed, insecure, alcoholic wife and the stressed-out modern father figure, desperately trying to hold onto the tatters of his outwardly affluent lifestyle. James taps into modern issues and themes of masculinity and the fragility of the human condition, while describing the mundane and the ordinary – and the whole thing is so readable! anyone of any age group or social background could pick up this book and read it cover to cover. the writer uses his intelligence as a communicative tool to reach out to the reader rather than confuse us with immense detail or narrative, which results in a book you cannot put down. For Peter James fans, there is clever use of plot reference from the first Roy Grace book (reviewed in Issue 10 of Out North East) Dead simple, which he uses to give motivation to the main protagonists in this latest story. these references back to the original story give the eerie impression that you were actually there at the event or that you remember hearing a character talking about it happening. this is an uncommon technique in modern literature and is used well here. this is a brilliant and well planned addition to the Grace novels and I would wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone. Our Rating 5/5 Italian Travel with Mark Casey ROME Toasting my friends 30-something birthday we were jetting off for a few days to Rome a city that has never really registered as one of my ‘must see’ destinations, but one I was looking forward to getting to know a little. Flying low cost you are likely to be arriving into the Rome Ciampino Airport - not the most glamorous of arrivals and somewhere you certainly would not want to be delayed. Jumping on a coach for the 40 minute journey into central Rome it did not seem all that promising, nearly every building we passed in the sprawling suburbs was covered with graffiti (unfortunately not with the talent of Banksy), with the surrounding streets seeming pretty unpleasant. However, don’t be fooled, once you arrive in central Rome you are soon greeted with endless elegant streets, breathtaking historical buildings and the endless sound of thousands of scooters wizzing around with well dressed Italian men and women in control – a city for tracksuits this is not. We were staying close to the Trevi Fountain at a small boutique hotel located in a side alley filled with glorious restaurants and seedy little bars, perfect for cheap and good 18. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com Italian food and meeting the locals to engage in some broken Italian. After a good nights sleep we headed early to the Vatican. We had heard that you could often queue for hours to get into this place - however we queued for around 2 minutes! That’s the benefit of going out of season. This was January and we soon found there was no queues for anything, although the downside was the sleety rain and bitterly cold wind, but who can have it all? exploring the city on foot, a perfect way to really see all a city has to offer. By chance we stumbled upon the Piazza del Popolo, a huge Plazza filled with Egyptian and Roman style sculptures and buildings, with this being a great place to sit and watch the people of Rome pass by in their immaculate clothes. That evening we dined in a glorious restaurant close to the Spanish Steps, but far enough away so as not to be paying tourist prices. The Vatican exceeded all expectations through its sheer size, immense beauty and endless sights, art and architecture that had my digital camera working overtime! We really could have spent the entire trip wondering through its immense halls, churches and rooms. And I cannot begin to communicate how beautiful The Vatican is to the religious and non-religious alike. After The Vatican we headed for some much needed food before we set about On the morning of the last day of our short trip, we had two last things to do, visit The Coliseum and find my friend a designer imposter Fendi handbag. The excitement I felt on first spotting The Coliseum was similar to that of a child receiving that ‘must have’ Christmas present, it was overpowering. I could not get my head around the history of the place and its sheer size and amazing condition all these centuries after its demise. You can have a guided tour or The Coliseum or go it alone - we did it alone and spent hours searching every nook and cranny, hoping to find some evidence of its bloody past! The only animals that now stalk its corridors are masses of stray cats which have made it their home. After The Coliseum we had but a few hours to find that designer imposter bag. Feeling like a cheapened ‘Challenge Annika’ we set about scouting for those undesirables who sell imposter goods to tacky tourists like us. I have to say though, it was another great way of seeing the city, and my friend got her prize (which I believe dropped to pieces in days of returning to the UK). Rome is a beautiful city that exudes history and charm, although maybe give the fake designer goods a miss! www.outnortheast.com 19. Out NorthEast Food Supplements with Keith Ward health feature 20 Nutritional Supplements. Are they a good idea? Take a quick look at any magazine aimed at the fitness market, especially those aimed at men and you would be forgiven for thinking that the perfect cover model body is only a tablet away. Advertiser promise that their supplements will help you to burn more fat, build more muscle or even speed up your metabolism. Should you be taking them and do they work? If you are a professional athlete or hardcore body builder then supplements play a part in your overall training regime. They can help to provide that extra edge that allows them to run that little bit quicker, throw that little bit further or gain that little bit extra muscle that makes the difference between coming first or second. The average person however would be unlikely to see any notable benefits. Since these products have to be used in conjunction with a healthy diet and exercise plan, the changes between the before and after pictures are largely down to that. The following are some of the most well know supplements. 20.Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com Creatine This is used to enhance performance in activities which require explosive movements, such as weight lifting. Creatine itself does not increase muscle mass, but when working out it can give you that extra boost of energy to help you complete a few extra repetitions. The risks and benefits have yet to be fully proven. Protein Supplements The body needs protein to build muscle and people who are training heavily should increase their protein intake. The best way to do this is to eat foods high in natural protein such as lean cuts of meat, chicken, fish and eggs, failing this then a protein supplement in the form of a shake can be taken. Be aware that too much protein in the diet can put stress on the kidneys. Energy Bars These are convenient snacks that contain a combination of carbohydrates, proteins and fats. They are a great source of energy when exercising for long periods of time or when you want a snack before going to the gym. They are generally high in calories and are intended as a meal replacement, not as an addition. Multivitamins These can provide you with the vitamins and minerals you may be missing from your regular diet. You do not need to take multivitamins if you are eating healthy, well balanced meals. If you do decide to take nutritional supplements, make sure you carefully read the labels and research the products. Some supplements, even those labelled “all natural” may actually cause more harm than good, especially when taken in excessive amounts. Also, beware of companies who make outrageous claims about their products. Supplements have their place, but for the vast majority of us a healthy balanced diet does the same job, is a lot cheaper and certainly tastes better. Keith is a personal trainer and fitness instructor, running exercise classes at ‘The Studio’ at Bodymechanixs in Morpeth. He has also run weight management classes for Rosemary Conley Diet & Fitness Clubs. www.outnortheast.com 21. Out NorthEast Look at Estate Planning with brighterpink.com 22 financial advice PENSioN rESTrUcTUriNG The following case study is an example of how Brighter Pink helped a couple to plan towards their retirement, using pension reconstruction. alan and Philip were long term partners, alan being a member of his employer’s pension scheme and Philip having a small personal pension. alan was approaching 60 when he was due to retire from his company, and was offered the following pension benefits: Annual Pension: £12,622 Tax Free Cash: £46,000 receive a widow’s pension of £8,380 pa. alan originally contacted Brighter Pink for advice regarding investing his tax free cash, however after discussing alternative strategies; our pension advisers reconstructed his pension as follows: In addition, in the event of alan’s death, his legal spouse (at the date of retirement) would Benefit Existing Pension £ Reconstructed Pension £ % increase annual Pension 12,622 (1) 17,350 (2) 37 Widows Pension 8,380 0 0 lump sum Death Benefits 0 143,500 (3) tax Free Cash 46,000 73,506 (4) Notes: lPI pension. level pension. £11,335 payable with immediate effect and a further £6,015 paid from 6 april 2005. discretionary trust to nominate as the beneficiary of the death benefits, with Philip being a beneficiary of the trust to maximise inheritance tax efficiency. Fund value on Day 1 £48,442 paid immediately and £25,064 paid on 6 april 2006 alan created a the process has been extremely beneficial to alan and Philip. alan has increased income and tax free cash to increase the quality of 59 his retirement. In addition to this, Philip’s standard of living in retirement is secured in the event of alan’s death, as he can now be a recipient of the pension fund’s death benefits. For advice on Pensions please call Brighter Pink on 01661 825206 22. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com Dr Mark Casey talks about annoying celebrities Cris McCurley, Partner, Ben Haore Bell Solicitors opinion outlaw The Cult 24 of Celebrity I have two confessions to make: I love ‘Celeb Airline’, ITV2’s answer to my tacky TV dreams and that I check the Heat Magazine website at least 5 times a day for the latest in ‘celebrity news’. I know it’s a disgraceful thing to own up to, but I have stopped buying the magazine and other such similar ones in my attempts to remove myself from the cult of celebrity that is so hideously rife. But when I say the cult of celebrity, your mind is unlikely to turn to Brad Pritt, George Clooney, Kylie, and other such A-list stars, but more likely to the Z-listers: Jade Goody, Chantel, Peaches Geldof, Danielle Lloyd and the new evictees from Big Brother 9. And then ask yourself, ‘why are we interested in the lives of these people?’ Really what good do these people bring to the world? Ok, they may bring humour, but not in a ‘aren’t you funny and talented way’, but in a ‘They are so funny to laugh at’ kind of way. Watching the post Big Brother ‘What they did next’ TV show last week, it was so apparent that for many of the contestants their current few days of fame had made 24.Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com them think they were on the same fameradar as Tom Cruise. HELLO!? You lived in a house and spent your entire time bitching about people, is that talent? Do they not see what happens to the previous years contestants (i.e. that we tire of them quickly and that the media which builds them up sells newer editions of their publications by knocking them down?). I don’t think these people are doing anything wrong and if they can make a quick buck from quick and short lived fame, good on them, but why are we so fame obsessed in the early 21st century and have little value for real talent and skills? Such a preoccupation with fame goes beyond those who may possess it or those trying to gain a taste of it by wanting to be on Big Brother 10, it permeates our everyday lives. From the way goods are sold to us in advertising, to the way we ‘market ourselves’ through ‘striking a celeb pose’ in photographs and plastering our pictures all over Facebook so our 2 million online ‘friends’ can see all the exciting, celeb like things we get up to. Through technology, consumption and online communities we can create our own fake sense of celebrity worth. If we can’t access real fame we can create a fame in which we are known for our ‘funny’, ‘silly’ and down right ‘crazy’ celeb style antics to online friends. But surely its time for a reality check on this? Rather than comforting ourselves in fake celebrity to make our dull lives sitting on a checkout or working in a store (jobs I have done!) seem worthwhile, surely it would make more sense to invest time and effort in improving our lives as we really live them on a daily basis, rather than seeking comfort in the fakeness of celebrity? And if we did this, maybe society would give a little less attention to the z-listers clogging up our press and TV and more to everyday hard working, talented and nice people who actually do make a difference to our world. It may seem like a naïve idea, but surely there has to be more to life than reading about Danielle Lloyds on/off engagement and the latest (horrendous) handbag she owns? 25 Round up All this week I have had a song going round in my head. It took me a while to recognise it as “Shotgun wedding,” but as soon as I did, I realised why. Obviously I had the old pit-bull in lipstick herself, Sarah Palin, on my mind, or perhaps more pertinently, her beleaguered daughter, Bristols. Poor Bristol; 17, pregnant, her Redneck boyfriend, Levi, has gone public on Facebook saying he doesn’t ever want to have children, and then her Ma announces to the world “She is keeping it, and she is marrying the father.” Shame. We probably won’t ever know what Bristol’s feelings on the matter are (not unless she writes her own version of “Mummy Dearest”) but if I worked for Social Services in Alaska , I might be asking some questions. Forced marriage anyone? This might have been an unremarkable family drama if it wasn’t being played out on the biggest world stage, with the backdrop of the American election. I might be tempted to think “why should I care?” but the truth is, I do care. It looks like America has finally got their very own Margaret Thatcher and, if elected, she has some pretty unpalatable views: whereas she is vehemently against abortion, pro-choice and Civil Partnerships, she is pro-hunting, the gun law and, er, teaching Creationism in schools. This would be a bad joke if it wasn’t so scary. History has shown us much about the so-called “special relationship” between America and the UK, so much so that we often find that what is over-simplified and overbearing and over there, is eventually over here. Look at all that rubbish about weapons of mass destruction. In all of this, I do have some sympathy for Bristol and Levi. Just when she wants to be crawling into a hole, she will soon be marching up the aisle, probably before the election in November. As for him, like the song goes, “there ain’t no place to run ‘cos your father’s got a gun.” He certainly has: More importantly, so does her Mother. On the home front, it will not have escaped your notice that Britain is in the grip of a housing crisis. For those of us who are looking for a home, this means the growing realisation that the mortgage and housing market is approaching a standstill. The Guardian reported this week that house sales have fallen by 50% and construction has fallen to the lowest since 1945. Further, bank mortgage lending fell by 20% in May 2008. Just to pile on the misery, we are told this week that house prices could fall as much as 12.5% this year. For those of us who are homeowners with a mortgage, home repossession cases have almost doubled in the first three months of this year according to debt and housing advice charities. What’s worse is that Law Centres and other advice agencies have identified that many people are turning up at court without attempting to obtain legal advice. This is a worrying trend as failing to seek advice prior to a hearing can have disastrous consequences. A person without legal back up is far more likely to see a possession order granted against them. This brings them one step closer to losing their home. Seeking advice before the hearing allows time for paperwork to be considered and evidence to be gathered. It is then possible in certain circumstances to achieve a much better outcome such as a suspended possession order or even no possession order. We know from anecdotal evidence that lenders tend to be aggressive in their pursuit of possession. They will commonly approach homeowners without solicitors outside court and persuade them to agree to unrealistic repayment deals. The court then grants a suspended possession order to the lender on the basis of this agreement. Inevitably, the homeowner is unable to keep up with the repayments and the lender is then able to apply for an eviction warrant. Often, though not exclusively couples can get into mortgage difficulties when they are splitting up, or having their Civil Partnership dissolved. At a time when you will feel really low and vulnerable, don’t risk losing your home as well as your partner! Most Solicitors who offer Legal Aid will do an eligibility check for free. If you can get Legal aid, great. If not, then try and negotiate: they might do it on a fixed fee basis to help you limit your costs. In any event, it’s worth asking. It is therefore essential that legal advice is sought once possession proceedings have been issued. It is far better to arrive at court prepared and with someone who can argue your case for you, especially if the other side is aggressively chasing their case. Remember , if you’ve got a dog, you won’t need to do the barking yourself. www.outnortheast.com 25. Out NorthEast Music - Galaxy’s James Barr listens to .... You can hear James Barr across the North East on Galaxy, on FM, DaB and online, weekdays 4pm –7pm and saturdays from 6-10pm. For more info log on to www.galaxynortheast.com/james listen listen What a dirty 'bummer' summer turned out to be! Although I can never do my wrists and I look like I've been fisting, thank the lord for fake tan! It's autumn and as we grab our duvet and get something warm inside us there's loads to be excited about... 26. Out NorthEast XFactor is building up and I am loving Cheryl more than life itself, there's a new show on E4 called 'Rick & Steve the Happiest Gay Couple in the World' featuring politically incorrect jokes and songs from the writers of Avenue Q, plus there's new music from Christina, Girls Aloud and Sugababes... Sugababes - Girls (Steve Smart And Funkerman Mix) I already love this song but this remix is the shit. It really brings the track into a new arena and has been getting plays all over the place... You can robot dance to this like you wouldn’t believe; the synth is really all over the place I love it! It’s all about independence and sexuality, if you’re a girl you’ll really love it and if you’re not you can scream the word ‘Gays’ over ‘Girls’ if you feel the need. Lady GaGa Just Dance Pink So What! this song has been No.1 in sweden and to be frank, any song that’s a friend of sweden is a friend of mine. she’s signed to akON’s record label but don’t think that makes it urban, Just Dance is proper pop. It basically sums up a night with me... “I’ve had a little bit too much to drink, where are my keys? I lost my phone”. Good times, it’s released in November and if it doesn’t get played everywhere it’ll be a crime! Forget the wet and drippy ‘sinead O’Conner, Nothing Compares to U’ or ‘Whitney Houston’s I Will always love You’, this is tHE song about your ex. It’s fucking amazing to be frank, she’s obviously going through a divorce and she proper let’s it all out in this song... Her opening line is, “I guess I just lost my husband, I don’t know where he went”. then she’s like, “so what! I’m still a rock star, I got my rock moves, and I don’t need you”. It’s amazing! It’s been the drug I’ve needed whilst going through my recent breakup and you’ll love it! www.outnortheast.com listen Girls Aloud The Promise some might describe this as a grower not a shower. Personally I love it, it’s got a bit of a 60s edge to it and this is amazing... the chorus sounds like the theme to ‘Blankety Blank’, ish. It’s a very fun, feel good record. Perfect for the cold and lonely nights ahead. Guru Josh Infinity 2008 (Klaas Vocal Edit) I am totally bumming this record at the moment, It samples ‘Colours - Holding Me kissing Me’ which I totally love (although technically they sampled him because Infinity was originally out in 1990 but you won’t remember that). Guru Josh takes a trumpet, a heavy bass line and a vocal not dissimilar to scooter and although that sounds like a disaster you’re guaranteed to be dancing to this soon! Buzz Junkies Ft Alison Limerick Where Love Lives (Cahill Remix) this is another record that’s been botoxed for 2008, and it so hits the mark! I’ve loved this song since I can remember and the Cahill remix is truly awesome. It sounds enough like the original not to ruin it, yet completely different and fresh at the same time. the 2008 version feels a lot fuller and uplifting, you’re bound to hear it on the Galaxy Weekend, in satUR-GaY, switch or the Powerhouse! 26 For your advert in the North Easts ONLY Gay Press call 01642 220040. Discounted rates for Small Businesses, Charities and Community Groups. Music – James Barr advertise with us Music - Galaxy’s James Barr listens to .... See you on the dance floor! James x P.S. In late November look out for new music from Same Difference... OMFG! www.outnortheast.com 27. 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So if you’re wearing trackies you’re probably going to be wearing boxers as you want quick and easy access into them. I guess we all like to think that str8 lad is keeping himself semi, so he has a decent bulge for when the wind blows against them! I think I just got sidetracked, but the reason I started that discussion is we tend to find most the str8 models we photograph fall into two categories; the first being those who don’t really think too much about their undies and 28.Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com wear some baggy old things and the second group who love underwear and more and more straight men are thinking about their pants! With all the underwear ads you see nowadays, plastered in magazines, billboards and on the sides of buses you’d find it hard not to be influenced by all those men wearing tight fitting boxers or briefs. So when I lad comes to a shoot wearing white or black boxers then we usually try him in a few pairs of other pants to see which fit him best. All brands have a subtly different fit so it’s not until you have had a str8 lad in and out of a few pairs of pants that you know what will suit him! It’s amazing how many of these lads like the smaller briefs once we have found the right style for them. We quite often play with matching their eye colour or putting paler colours on them when their skin is quite pale. A tanned ripped body seems to be able to carry off pretty much any colour and style! The old classic white and black underwear, well we still like white briefs as they come in handy when you get them wet, though I have to say I find white and black boxers a little boring after years of shooting them, though we still seem to shoot them loads! Of course white briefs show shape and form the best as they show shadows and highlight most clear, where as the black boxer tends to make you look “bulge-less” Of course one of the other considerations with pants is can the lad get in them? 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To use this service your mobile must be compatible, if not contact your network provider. To unsubscribe to text alerts, text STOP DATING to 83426. For full T&Cs see online. WC 240808 www.outnortheast.com 29. Out NorthEast Miss Trixie community listings 30 A-Z of Information, Support & Groups Berwick Community Support Group Monthly social group 07980260345 Body Positive NE Drugs Outreach, counselling, welfare benefits, HIV/aIDs support 0191 232 2855 Hi Boys and Girls. Hi guys and girls. YES, I’m back. Sorry that I was not around last issue to sort out your problems and answer your questions, but even an international star like me (ha ha) needs to take a break from time to time. Well there has been a lot going on while I was away so let’s get down to your problems and questions out there. Hi Trixie, I just don’t know what to do please help as my life seems to be falling apart. I am a gay man of 26 and have been with my partner who is 28 for the last 4 years. For the first two years our life together was just perfect in every way. I thought it could never get better and it did not. My partner started going out with friends a lot more and coming home drunk 4 or 5 nights a week. I did not mind at first as he had a very stressful job and put it down to him relaxing after work. Then the real problems started, he started coming home straight from work with a bottle of vodka EVERY night and drinking the full bottle. If I said anything about what I thought may be a problem he would shout and scream and go to the shop and get more. He has been doing this for nearly two years now and it’s got to the point where he is out of control. He is just hanging onto his job and I am at the point where I just can’t take anymore of his drinking. What can I do? I love him and want to help him; but I don’t know how to. Well having worked in and around the gay pubs and clubs for over 20 years I can tell you I have seen a lot of people destroy their life and others around them with drink. For some strange reason the word gay and vodka seem to be friends. Well they are far from it. Sadly the only person that can help your partner is himself. He has to first admit he has a problem and then seek help. If he is not prepared to admit he has a problem then I don’t mean to be unkind but he is on a road to nowhere. You need to get some help as well as this is affecting your life to. A good place for you to start would be AL-ANON (www.al-anonuk.org. uk) 020 7403 0888 they offer help to anyone whose life is affected by someone else’s drinking. They will give you info on how best to support and guide your partner. You need to help yourself first as this problem is not going to go away on its own. Good luck love Trixie. I need some advice. Am I ever going to get over the pain of breaking up with my partner after 5 years? We split just 5 weeks ago and my heart is breaking. I still love him very much but he wants nothing more to do with me. He has met someone else who I think he was seeing while still with me, and has just told me to move on and get on with my life. I just don’t know what to do. He is my world, without him I am nothing. Well first let me tell you one thing. YOU are something, you’re brave to write in and tell everyone you need help. Sometimes the hardest thing for anyone to do is ask for help. So your strong and brave, you are bound to feel low and sad after 5 years with your man and now nothing, but there was a life before him and believe me there will be a life after him. The best thing that man has said to you is to move on and get on with your life. Don’t be 62 Scotswood Road, Newcastle, NE4 7JE Tel 0191 221 2571 sad over some guy who has cheated, hurt you and broke your heart. Get out there and meet new people, live your life and I promise as time moves on the pain will get less and less. Trust me I really have been there. Talk to your friends and family and never be shy to ask for help to get you past this sad time in your life. Be happy love Trixie. I have met a girl at work and she is just so nice I have fallen in love with her. She is straight but knows I am a lesbian and is cool with that, but I want more. I want her and dream about her 24/7. How can I tell her how I feel and what I do if she says no? You’re in love! Well call me old fashioned but I would say you’re in lust! Your not going to do yourself any good by telling a straight girl you love her and having to face her ever day at work after you drop the bomb shell. Just think about it before your heart and sex drive take over your mind altogether. If you’re sure she is straight then what is the point of you getting knocked back! If you think she might dabble then all your going to get is a quick fumble and a broken heart, above all that, you will still have to see her everyday at work! Why not slow things down take the heat and the lust out of it all and be friends and see were things go. Don’t jump in with your eyes closed or you may find yourself with no love and looking for a new job because the pain is too much to bear seeing her every day. That’s about all I have got space for this time I have been deeply touched by the problems in this issue. They are real life problems that people face every day in their lives. It’s a big bad world out there but if we stick together and help each other out it can be a great world! I’m always here at Out North East to help you whenever I can. Be happy and kind always. Until next time love always Love always ... 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You’ll feel in the mood to settle any old scores. the gift of the gab will help you get what you want! socially you’ll be the life and soul of the party. Enjoy! Gemini May 21st - June 20th Your partner or a loved one is in a particularly cheerful frame of mind, and this will rub off on you too! Friends will also be making an extra effort to lighten your spirits. In a fancy-free frame of mind you’ll be in the mood for a shopping spree or a last minute break. Enjoy the mood while it lasts, but keep one eye on your spending - otherwise it will soon change! Cancer June 21st - July 22nd If you get your head down into the mundane tasks which need your attention then you will be able to reflect upon things that have happened over the past few weeks. It may be that you feel the need to re-acquaint yourself with an old friend or colleague. act whilst the desire is there and get in touch. Hard graft at work or home will start to see rewards - your partner is likely to want to acknowledge your efforts with a series of treats! leo July 23rd - august 22nd If you sowed a few seeds earlier this month, then they might now start to bear fruit. Expect a financial windfall and positive changes to your life in the coming weeks. If you are waiting with bated breath for the results of your actions then you should get your answers very soon. and prepare to celebrate when you do! Gather friends and family together as they will want to congratulate you on your shrewd decision making and resultant good fortune! Virgo august 23rd - september 22nd Friendships and close relationships take precedence at the moment. If you’ve been ignoring someone or haven’t devoted as much time as you should have to someone special, then it’s about time that you did! Use a bit of your charm to win them over! If you’ve been missing out on social time recently then find some time to put aside for meeting up with friends. If you are planning a trip or a major change in your life then plan carefully, as the implications may be wider reaching than you think! 42. Out NorthEast www.outnortheast.com You have some urgent personal matters that warrant your immediate attention. But you will need help from colleagues and friends. knuckle down to the jobs in hand, and then make sure you have some time out. take yourself on an awayday or arrange a social gathering. Your mind will be much clearer and uncluttered, and you will be able to rest easy in the knowledge that, for the time being at least, your problems are solved! scorpio October 23rd - November 21st If you need to ask a favour of a friend, or just get something off your chest, then now is the time. If you have been holding back, then hold back no more! You’ll surprise youself with how assertive you will come across. But don’t make too many plans - a friend may have cause to call in a favour or run some ideas past you. You will be in a receptive mood and will be pleased to help out. sagittarius November 22nd - December 21st Right now if you get in with the right people you’ll find doors will start to open for you. But beware of someone being over-friendly - they have suspicious motives! One of your bosses may let slip something they shouldn’t, which gives you a competitive edge over colleagues. Use the information to your advantage, but keep it to youself! Career-wise, things might well start to take off as a result of this! Capricorn December 22nd - January 19th You are much in need of a change of scene, but there are very few opportunities to get away from the daily grind. You may feel that you have to leave things to a trusted colleague for a while, but that person is notably absent from proceedings. You might then have to get everything in order yourself before you take your time off. But it will be worth it. Enjoy the break and return refreshed! aquarius January 20th - February 18th a close friend’s behaviour is starting to get on your wick! aquarians are sociable sorts and don’t usually fall out with people, but in this case you might be resisting the urge to put this person straight. they may have badmouthed you or misrepresented you in some way, but the key for you is to rise above it, however much the temptation is to speak your mind! Romantically you are in for an exciting time with your partner, so this may help take your mind off your wayward friend. Pisces February 19th - March 20th You have been very creative lately, and you want to share some of your ideas and inspirations with friends. Feedback is likely to be positive, but if there are any negative comments you may start doubting yourself. Don’t be put off though; have faith in your abilities and put your energy into more creativity. 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