Magnetic Attraction – Capture a Man’s Heart and Keep Him Forever

Magnetic Attraction – Capture a Man’s Heart
and Keep Him Forever
By: Kim Love
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Attracting men does not have to be difficult.
Do you think it’s hard to attract men?
Is it even harder to keep the men interested in you?
A lot of women think that attracting men and keeping them forever is such hard work and
often only leads to disappointment and a broken heart. They also make the mistake of
running to their girlfriends whenever they have problems with their men or their
relationships.
The question is: Do your girlfriends know more about men than you?
Probably not!
The good news is I am here to share with you my experiences as well as techniques I have
read from this awesome book by Christian Carter titled “Catch Him And Keep Him”.
The Pre-requisites
Before I begin telling you what to do in order to capture a man’s heart, let me first make
sure that you have determined the kind of guy you want to attract. This is an important
step because it will help you avoid a lot of wasted time and save yourself from suffering
from a broken heart.
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Say No To Men With Girlfriends Or Wives
First, you would obviously want to avoid men with girlfriends and wives. You don’t
want to have the reputation of being a home wrecker or be known as the “third party”.
In the same way that you don’t want your man being chased by other women, don’t be
the woman who chases men who are no longer single or available.
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Office Romance Is Not A Good Idea
Also, avoid dating co-workers unless you’re confident that you can still keep a
professional relationship with them even after they’ve seen you naked. If you can’t then
it’s best to stay away from getting involved in an office romance.
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A Friend’s Ex-Boyfriend or Someone Who Just Came From A Recent Breakup
It is also not a good idea to date a friend’s ex-boyfriend. Remember the time that your
friend cried all night because of the same guy? Well, there was a reason for that. You
might also end up losing your friend instead if you go ahead and date her ex-boyfriend.
Lastly, do not date a guy who seems to want to get it on with every single woman he meets.
If you’re looking for a long term relationship then you don’t want to be involved with a guy
like that. Chances are he’ll only leave you broken hearted.
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“Eligible” is the keyword
So, in your hunt for Mr. Right, remember that you still have to make informed choices
when it comes to picking the men you want to approach. You can’t just randomly select
a guy from a crowd and approach him. You must first make sure that he is eligible and
carries no extra baggage with him.
If you have absolutely no idea where to find guys like that, then ask a girlfriend whether
she has any single guy friends that she thinks would be suitable for you.
Being a Man Magnet – The Dos and Don’ts
So you’ve done your homework and now you have set your eyes on a guy that you really
like. The next issue that you need to tackle is how to actually get his attention.
In “Catch Him And Keep Him”, Christian Carter points out just how much women tend to
make the same mistakes over and over again. These include saying things that make them
look really needy and desperate. The bigger problem is they don’t even know about it. But
you don’t have to go through the same cycle. Below are qualities that you need in order to
attract men.
 Confidence Is Vital for Success
First things first, if you’re thinking about how you’re not tall enough, beautiful enough or
skinny enough, stop it. Stop thinking about those things because real attraction has very
little to do with outward physical appearance. Besides, there’s really very little you can
change when it comes to how you look physically. I mean, you can’t possibly grow a few
inches within a day.
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So, the key to being successful at capturing a man’s attention is confidence. You need to be
able to carry yourself on your own.
Just how exactly does one gain confidence, you ask? Well, first of all, you have to learn to be
proud of yourself. Learn to love yourself and as already mentioned, stop focusing on the
negative aspects of yourself or your life.
You may not be able to gain a few inches more of your height within a day but you can
however, still make yourself look presentable. By that, I mean, when you go for a night out,
wear the dress that you feel comfortable in. If your friends suggest that you wear a certain
type of dress but you’re sure that it’s just not your thing, then don’t go and wear that.
Be sure to have time to prepare yourself. A great way to be prepared is to know where
you’re going so you can dress up accordingly. Do not underestimate the power of your
dress. Confidence increases when you are comfortable with how you look. Once you’ve
checked yourself out in the mirror and everything’s in place i.e. your make up’s just right,
there’s no lip gloss on your teeth, etc., then you’re all set for the night.
 Enjoy and Be Approachable
When you are all set to go and hit the town, keep in mind that the most important thing is
that you have fun. Go out with girlfriends who are fun to be with. Men are attracted to
women who clearly show that they’re enjoying themselves.
Another quality that will increase your attractiveness in the eyes of men is how
approachable you are. When men approach you, do not push them away instantly. At least
hear out what they have to say. If, in the end, you find him boring and just not your type
then you can politely excuse yourself from the conversation. The importance of this is that
you give out the impression that you are not bitchy and cold. Men like women whom they
can walk over to and have a conversation without getting turned down instantly.
 Sending Signals
Sending signals is a very important factor to showing a man you are interested in him. The
goal is to be subtle enough so as not to look desperate, but not so subtle that he doesn’t
understand your interest.
The best kind of signal to send is with your eyes; your eyes are the window to your soul
and can be more telling than words. Start with giving him extended eye contact. Do this
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when you catch his stare and hold it for a few seconds. He will know you have some
interest in him.
You can flutter your eyelashes a few times, but don’t go crazy you don’t want him to think
you have something in your contact lenses or a nervous twitch. Give a little smile. If he
looks away and back again you know you have his attention.
Keep your arms unfolded; folded arms indicate you are not open or interested. A little play
with your hair can also be a flirty way of getting male attention.
Once you have entered into conversation there are several signals you can send without
saying a word. A light touch on his side when he says something funny tells him you want
to be closer; a touch on his hand tells him you really want to get to know him better.
When in a busy place you can brush past him when leaving which will give him a lasting
impression. Don’t be afraid to smile when he talks to you, this will show him you are
interested and enjoy his company.
 You Can Get Him At “Hello”
However, if you have your eye on a man but he hasn’t approached you yet, a simple “Hello”
is a great way to start a conversation with him. If he doesn’t reply to you then it may
indicate that he’s not interested so you can move on and entertain other guys instead.
However, if the guy does respond to you keep the conversation going. You can start with
small talk. A little flirting doesn’t hurt either. It will send a signal that you are interested in
him. But remember that it’s light, fun flirting. Don’t overdo it. That takes me to my next
point.
When you first meet a man, don’t come off too strong on him. You might come off as clingy
and men don’t like women who are clingy. It will send him the wrong signals. Men don’t
like to be pressured to be in a relationship. Making him feel so will definitely cause him to
run as far from you as possible.
Instead, just relax and enjoy whatever conversation you’re having. Make sure you’re
making eye contact on the conversation as well. This indicates that you are interested in
what he has to say.
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 Don’t Drink Too Much
As a woman you must always be able to keep your composure in public places especially in
bars where a lot of drinking is happening and there is a big male presence. Do not drink too
much. Men aren’t particularly attracted to women who are too drunk to even stand up on
their own. Remember that you must look presentable and be able to handle yourself if you
are ever to be successful in attracting men.
 Offer Your Number
When you are saying goodbye to the guy you met, if he doesn’t ask for your number it is ok
to offer it. Men get a little nervous too and when jotting down your number add your email
address. If he is a shy guy he may feel more comfortable shooting you a couple of emails
before he plucks up the courage to ask you out on date.
 Don’t Pressure Yourself
If at the end of the night, you still haven’t gotten yourself a date or a man, don’t worry too
much about it. Remember, there are still many nights ahead and more men in the world.
Again, stop pressuring yourself because in the end, that will only cause you to make bad
decisions which you will most likely regret in the future.
Basically, in order to come off as someone who’s confident and attractive to men, you must
first learn to embrace and be proud of who you are. To not come off as needy, desperate
and clingy, learn to not jump on every opportunity that offers itself to you. Learn to use
your judgment when it comes to men. If you don’t like being in the company of one, move
on.
Why Doesn’t He Call?
It can be the most crushing time in a girl’s life; you give your all to something and seem to
get nothing out of it.
Every girl has had that time where she picks up the phone to check the dial tone and calls
herself with another phone just to check her number is working.
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Why hasn’t he called? Did I do something wrong? No girls you didn’t. Guys don’t call for
many reasons and I will go over some of those reasons and how to overcome them.
So you met a guy and put yourself out there by giving him your number: why didn’t he call
you? Well let’s start with the fact that men do not work on the same time schedule as girls.
We girls will wait a good two to three days before we call a guy.
With guys they don’t think things through as much as we do. They are not as emotional as
we are and do not understand that we are waiting by the phone for their call. So when a
week goes by and no call it doesn’t necessarily mean they are not interested. It could mean
the guy is shy (see my comments above about giving your email address as well as
number). It could mean he didn’t think you were that interested. He could have lost your
number or he could call you tomorrow!
The most important thing to keep from crying or feeling down is to keep occupied. It’s not
the end of the world. Sure you may have hit it off, but wouldn’t you rather be having fun
with your friends rather than waiting by the phone? How great would it be if he called
while you were out and had to leave you a message?
Don’t be sour or too upset if he doesn’t call: there are plenty more men out there that will.
Let’s say you are in a relationship, dating for a few months and he doesn’t call. First things
first, it’s OK to call once to check in but if he doesn’t respond please don’t keep calling until
his voicemail box is full!! When he gets all those messages on his cell the only thing he will
be thinking is “Wow she’s clingy and desperate.” No guy wants that and we all know you’re
not clingy, you just missed him.
So be the powerful confident woman with restraint. Don’t call him, text him or send him an
email. Sometimes men just need space and nothing more. So give him his space and go do
your own thing for a few days. He will be way more excited to chase you. Men love the
chase and if you ignore his behavior (not calling) he will more than likely be back in your
life in no time at all!
To summarize: It is never OK to blow up his cell and leave progressively more upsetting
voicemails. You cannot force a guy to care as much as you do so don’t waste your time and
effort.
It’s OK if he doesn’t call and if you don’t like it then walk away. Just remember girls, we are
confident vibrant women who have better things to do than wait for a phone to ring.
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Is He Mr. Right?
So you’ve met a guy and you like him. He fits in the criteria above: single, available and
carries no extra baggage. He’s asked you out and things have been going great so far. But
then you begin to wonder whether if he is Mr. Right..
So is he Mr. Right? Well, for us women, I think deep down inside we just really know. True
love is a natural thing. Some people have tried so hard to explain it. Science has even taken
a shot at explaining it with chemicals in the brain and whatnot. But for me, love is just
something that happens. Sometimes it doesn’t need explanation and neither can it be
explained.
But there are a few indications as to whether your man is really the one meant for you. But
first let’s start with the signs that show that he doesn’t really love you the way you love him
or that he doesn’t feel the same way you do.
1. For instance, the strongest indication that you should sever your relationship with
your guy is when he makes it a point to prey on your weaknesses. By that, I mean,
that he likes to make you feel as though you are useless. Usually this is done
verbally. If he treats in you in such a way, then it’s best that you break it off and
move on.
2. If he has no time for you or is constantly making excuses just so he doesn’t have to
spend time with you is also a sign that he is just not Mr. Right. A man who truly loves
you will make sure that you know just how big a part you play in his life. He will
constantly remind you that you mean a lot to him and will not hesitate to spend time
with you.
3. If your man cheats on you well, that’s just obvious. Cheating is not excusable. If you
were really the love of his life, he wouldn’t even think of cheating. If he insults you
or just does not care about your goals in life then that is also an indication that it’s
high time you go find another man who will appreciate you even more.
Now, let’s focus on the signs that your man just might be Mr. Right.
 Just the Way You Are
First of all, if he loves you just the way you are, then treasure him because you’ve found
someone precious. A man who loves you reminds you just how beautiful you are even in
moments when you think you look like a disaster.
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 Cares a Lot About Your Well-Being
If he makes a conscious effort to be there when you’re sick and you need someone to help
then this shows that he does really care for your well-being and doesn’t want to see you in
any pain. Keep this guy.
If he makes every effort to cheer you up no matter how busy he may be then he definitely is
worth keeping.
Basically, the right man for you is someone who respects you, cares for your well-being and
understands you (or at least make an effort to understand you). He will also be someone
who is selfless and willing to do things for you that he does not normally do.
Relationship = Teamwork
In order for your relationship to work however, you must also do something on your part
to make it last. You can’t just rely on your man to do all the changing, caring and
understanding. For your part, you must also learn to understand his world and how he
perceives the things and issues around him.
Keep in mind that before he met you, he also had other things that occupied his mind and
that he cared for. He had hobbies and interests. The best thing that you can do to keep him
satisfied and not feeling like he’s not getting anything in your relationship is to get involved
with what he likes.
I’m not saying that if he loves football, you must also become a football fanatic. What I mean
is take the time to understand the game so that you can talk about with him. This will show
him that you’re not all self-centered and only care for what you want. It will show your love
for him in that you took the time to know something that he is interested in.
Getting involved in his interests will strengthen the bond that you both share. The best part
is he will also begin to learn to take interest in what you like. In a relationship, you have to
give and take. Selfishness has no place in a great relationship that works.
However, a word of caution, when you take a keen interest in his hobbies and what he likes,
be careful not to overstep. There might be some things that he likes doing on his own.
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Catch Him and Keep Him…FOREVER!
As Promised Earlier, Here Are Some Of The Secrets Inside Christian Carter’s book

The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind, including the
things he doesn't want you to know (He'll think you're a psychic when you do exactly
the right thing in every situation)
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The big mistake women make when having "the talk" and asking a man about the
relationship that is guaranteed to make things WORSE than they already are... and
what to do about it.
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A simple way to get your man to understand your feelings that makes him want to
do whatever it takes to take things to the next level (You'll wish you knew about this
with every man you were involved with in the past and you'll want to use it with
every man you meet from now on)
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A simple 3-step method to understanding how your man is feeling that makes him
feel closer and closer to you with each step of the process, AND gives you the
information you need to keep things moving forward
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The BIG SECRET all happy couples share that unhappy couples never realize until
it's already too late (You can use this at any stage in a relationship or even when
you're just dating to keep things going on the right track)
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How women who are "naturally" good with men handle important situations and
conflicts (The answer may surprise you, but it's something you MUST know in order
for YOUR relationship to ever have a chance of moving from casual to committed)
And a whole lot more …
If you truly want to Catch Him and Keep Him
Go and grab yourself a copy of Christian Carter’s Catch Him And Keep Him here:
http://lovehuts.com/women/recommends/catch-him-and-keep-him-forever
All the best,
Kim Love
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