Saint A’s News of Saint Athanasius Roman Catholic Church Bensonhurst Brooklyn
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Saint A’s News of Saint Athanasius Roman Catholic Church Bensonhurst Brooklyn
Saint A’s News of Saint Athanasius Roman Catholic Church Bensonhurst Brooklyn Volume 1 Issue 1 May 2, 2003 Feast of St. Athanasius 1913 Celebrating 90 years of Faith and Family 2003 Saint Athanasius Church 2154 61st Street Brooklyn, New York 11204 Phone: 718.236.0124 Fax: 718.236.4960 E-mail: [email protected] Parish Web Site: http://StAthanasiusNY.tripod.com Saint A’s Mission Statement We, the Parish of St. Athanasius, are a faithfully worshiping Roman Catholic community, where Jesus Christ is recognized as Lord and Savior in our journey and made present through our joyful celebration of the sacraments, our proclamation and living of the gospel, and our loving outreach and service, especially to those in most need. We acknowledge the need for God's grace in our unfinished lives. We acknowledge our incompleteness and pledge our faith lives to work for the creation of a community where the equality of God's people that flows from Baptism is celebrated with hope and passion. We pledge our commitment to the creation of a community where seekers and questioners are welcomed, where the forgotten and marginalized are recognized, where God's people are refreshed, reconciled and renewed. St. Athanasius School 6120 Bay Parkway Brooklyn, New York 11204 718.236.4791 St. Athanasius Religious Education 6120 Bay Parkway Brooklyn, New York 11204 718.331.8811 From Our Pastor My Dear Parishioners; It is certainly a joy to be present with you as Pastor to celebrate our 90th Anniversary. Anniversary years are always very special in any parish. Many times “The Tablet,” our Diocesan Newspaper, contains many articles about Parish jubilees. This year promises to be filled with special hope and joy. Imagine: our Church has been a stable part of the history of this Bensonhurst community for 90 years. Looking back over this time, it is easy to see that the one key factor that has made our parish so successful has been the gift of being inclusive. Reflect on the roots of our Parish; it was originally established as a Parish for immigrants. People began to come to this neighborhood from Ireland, and later on, from Italy. It was during these years that the homily and novenas were first established here in Italian, under the careful direction of then Pastor Msgr. Elwood Purick.. The changes of Vatican II eventually led to the establishment of mass in Italian. New immigrants were further welcomed here under the tenure of Msgr. T. David Dougherty. That is when the Korean Mass was established, to meet the growing needs of a growing Parish community. Then Msgr. Fernando Ferrarese introduced the first Spanish mass; and it is on this groundwork that we are now reaching out to our Polish brothers and sisters in our neighborhood. A parish is people! A parish is all people – thus, a Parish must open to all people. It is by embodying this theme that Saint Athanasius has become a very thriving Parish; it has always been open to all! May the 90th year’s celebration help us to continue to include all of the arriving people here in Bensonhurst. May God bless Saint Athanasius Parish. Lovingly, St. A’s News -2- A Message from Fr. Richard Long St. A’s News Staff There are many Christmas stories, but few of us realize that there are also Easter stories. One of my favorites concerns the tale of Mother Bunch, whose name evokes images of abundance and new Easter life. Mother Bunch was a well-known innkeeper of late 16th century London. And when she laughed, “she was heard from Aldgate, to the monuments of Westminster. She sold good, strong ale...and lived a hundred and seventy and five years, and two days and half a minute.” Editor-in-Chief John S. Fruner Pastoral Associate Associate Editor Paula Lobello-Raiola Contributing Editors & Writers Fr. Richard Long Parrochial Vicar Alice Friedman James Russo Elaine Sarcona Contributing Writers Msgr. David Cassato Pastor Joseph Barbieri Ecclesial Lay Minister Lorraine Garone-Tesoro Principal Sr. Barbara Lynch, CSJ Lillian Brienza Amalia Anzalone Joseph Riccio Anna Cali Claire Chiccarone Brittany Connors Jonathan Fronterre Brian Long Trishia Long Robert Rabka St. A’s News is a publication of St. Athanasius Roman Catholic Church. Any letters or articles submitted become property of ST. A’s NEWS. All letters must be signed by the writer. We reserve the right to edit and/or shorten any letter or article. All inquires or letters should be addressed to: ST. A’s NEWS Attn: Editor 2154 61st Street Brooklyn, N.Y. 11204 E-mail: [email protected] Spring 2003 It’s the “half a minute” that is especially intriguing. What a zest-filled woman was this Mother Bunch to have her life measured and savored down to the last halfminute! Are our lives filled with that same zest and relish? Truly during Easter, we are very aware of the promise of Jesus: “I have come that you might have life and have it to the full” (John 10:10). But it seems that we usually regard such divine promises as forms of burial insurance rather than look at them as life insurance. Life insurance that is intended to yield an abundance of life both now and in the future. Many times, it is not so much a lack of faith as it is feelings of fear that hinder our ability to experience the fullness of life that Jesus spoke of so often. We fear a host of things: “What will people say? What will the neighbors think? What will I look like to others?” In fact, our fears come in as many flavors as Baskin-Robins ice cream. Mother Bunch, whose laughter rocked her city, was a woman fully alive and not just each day, but each minute – each half-minute of life. If we were to look at the most repeated admonition in the Gospels, beginning with the message of the angels who appeared at the birth of Jesus right up to those who were present at the tomb, that admonition would be “Fear not!” And if, in our day-to-day lives, we are to look for the fullness of life promised by Jesus and sealed by his rising to new life, we will, like Mother Bunch, have to forget our fears and be ourselves. A Special Thank You to One of our Sponsors Brienza’s Academic Advantage Help your child climb the ladder to success! + Tutoring grades 1-12 + Test Preps for all City/Sate and private school Standardized Tests + Innovative PSAT and SAT Courses + Preparation for specialized Jr. H.S. and High School entrance exams Lillian V. Brienza President Preparation Boosts Confidence and Fosters Better Performance + + + + Regents Preparation courses Writing/Study Skills Courses Assistance with College Essays and Applications Specializing in COOP Preparation OFFICE: WEB: 2076 East 61st Street www.WeTeachAll.com Brooklyn, N.Y. 11234 (718) 209-4599 BENSONHURST: 6120 Bay Parkway Brooklyn, N.Y. 11204 IN ST. A’s SCHOOL. St. A’s News -3- Spring 2003 From our School Principal, Mrs. Lorraine Garone-Tesoro Dear Parishioners, As we celebrate our 90th anniversary, we look to our patron for inspiration in the quest to develop in our students Christian attitudes and behaviors, and to convey an understanding of our faith. It is our goal at St. Athanasius School to nourish the conviction that Christ encountered all in every aspect of our lives. We believe that through active participation in the Liturgy of the Word and Eucharist, we bear public witness to our faith; through our life of Christian service, we demonstrate gospel values. Here at St. Athanasius School emphasis is placed on the spiritual growth of our students. A sequential religion program inculcates knowledge of the truths of our Catholic faith. Frequent participation in liturgical celebrations is part of our school program. Prayer and meditation is an integral part of our daily school life. Christian values are fostered through the atmosphere provided by adult role models. As Christians we strive to recognize the dignity of each person. Although spiritual and academic growth are paramount here at St. A’s, our children have the ability to interact socially. There are many activities such as school dances, breakfasts with Santa and the Easter Bunny, social trips, retreat days, and school assemblies. Our school is continuously blessed in many ways, our enrollment continues to increase and the benevolence of so many extremely generous people has enabled Catholic Education to thrive here at St. Athanasius. Msgr. David Cassato works with me and our educated, dedicated faculty and staff to provide the children of our parish school with a quality Catholic Education. On this our 90th anniversary, may St. Athanasius continue to pray for us as we continue to serve those who come through our doors. Mrs. Lorraine Garone-Tesoro Lay Ministry and the Role of “Ecclesial Lay Minister” This year we saw two additions to our parish staff. One addition was that of Ecclesial Lay Minister. Mr. Joseph Barbieri, a parishioner of St. A’s, chose to serve here, in his own parish. Mr. Barbieri was asked to reflect on his theological and spiritual preparations as he now can focus more of his time on pastoral service. The pilot program for the formation of Lay Ecclesial Ministers was begun by the Diocesan Pastoral Institute in January of 2001 and concluded on Dec. 14, 2002 at a commissioning ceremony of some 40 participants by Bishop Daily. The 130 hours of course study over four semesters also included days of prayer and reflection. The aim of the courses was to broaden theological preparation and to prepare the participants for leadership roles in particular parish ministries. The curriculum encompassed studies in Theology of Lay Ministry, Ecclesiology, Liturgy and Sacraments, Moral Theology, Old and New Testament, Christology, Ecumenism, Inter-Faith Relations and Pastoral Studies. There were required readings in each course as well as the preparation of reflection papers. The classes were taught by priests, religious and lay people. Each student was encouraged to reflect on which ministry he or she would like to serve and to discuss this with the parish staff or mentor. In addition to the continuing class work, this was a focus of the third and fourth semesters. I attended classes in the Church of Saint Francis of Assisi in Astoria. The majority of students were from the borough of Queens. However, this was an excellent opportunity for the sharing of mutual experiences and to develop new friendships. We learned much from one another and we have already had one reunion and plan another one in May of this year. Joseph Barbieri Lay Ecclesial Minister Mr. Barbieri works with Fr. Long in preparing new altar servers. Additionally, he rehearses with servers for major Liturgical Celebrations, schedules servers with Alessa LaSalla, plans Liturgy with Pastoral Associate John Fruner, is a catechist, lector and eucharistic minister. Mr. Barbieri also serves on the Pastoral Council and Liturgical Committee. St. A’s News A Message from G.I.S.A. -4- Spring 2003 LA G.I.S.A. E I SUO LAVORI Grupo Italiano di Sant’Atanasio Mercoledì, 19 Marzo: mentre tante persone seguivano con il cuore in gola gli eventi che si sarebbero sviluppati alle ore otto pomeridiane, Monsignore Cassato celebrava una Messa in Italiano in onore di San Giuseppe (il Santo patrono d’Italia). Durante questa Messa si pregava per la pace, ma non solo negli Stati Uniti ma per tutto il mondo. Dopo la Messa Monsignore benedi’ il pane e i taralli (donati dai nostri amici pugliesi) e li distribui’ a tutti i parocchiani presenti nella chiesa, con la speranza che San Giuseppe avrebbe aiutato a mettere pace dappertutto. Ma chi pensa che questa Messa sia stata l’unico tributo a San Giuseppe, non conosce la G.I.S.A. (Gruppo Italiano San Atanasio) che e’ il grande lavoro del comitato dedicato a lavorare per la nostra communita’. Solo pochi giorni prima circa 300 persone avevano partecipato ad un dinner-dance sempre in onore di San Giuseppe, dove per tutta la serata ci si e’ divertiti con musica e buon cibo. Anche i nostri cari sacerdoti (che usualmente celebrano la Santa Messa in Italiano ogni Domenica), Padre Steven Aguggia, Padre Bryan Patterson, Monsignore Cassato e le suore di San Giuseppe hanno partecipato e trascorso una bella serata. Un certificato di merito dall’assemblea di NYS fu presentato dal nostro assemblyman Peter Abate alla signora Maria Porcu’ per il suo lavoro come consigliere della G.I.S.A. Un secondo certificato di merito fu presentato al comitato G.I.S.A. dal Assemblyman Colton per il loro lavoro. Dopo la festa di San Giuseppe la G.I.S.A. era nuovamente impegnata per i preparativi religiosi della Santa Pasqua. Durante la Quaresima ogni Venerdi’ alle ore 8:00PM gruppi di fedeli si sono riuniti nella Chiesa di sopra per recitare il rosario e seguire la Via Crucis. Arrivata la settimana santa inizia un Triduum sempre in lingua Italiana. Il Lunedi’, Martedi’ e Mercoledi’ Santo, Padre Giuseppe Fugolo, Padre scalabriniano prega e predica con i fedeli Italiani e infine celebra la Messa. Padre Fugolo e’ stato anche disposto ad ascoltare confessioni prima e dopo la Santa Messa. Arrivato Giovedi’ Santo i fedeli Italiani si sono riuniti davanti al Sepolcro per l’ora santa per pregare. L’evento di questa settimana che e’ aspettato da tutti e’ “la processione del Venerdi’ Santo” di cui partecipano non solo i fedeli della nostra communita’ Italiana ma anche di altre. Questra processione iniziata oltre vent’anni fa con l’accordo di tre parrocchie, ha man mano coinvolto ben otto parrocchie nella zone di Bensonhurt. Come al solito il punto di partenza e da Shallow Middle School a 65th Street e si cammina per le strade della nostra communita’ e ogni anno la destinazione e’ in una chiesa diversa. Quest’anno la meta e’ stata la Chiesa St. Francis Cabrini sulla ottandaseiesima strada e 16th Ave, dove il Vescovo con i Sacerdoti aspettavano i fedeli per pregare. Quello che colpisce l’attenzione di chi guarda questo fiume di persone che scorre per le strade della nostra communita’ (cantando inni di Venerdi’ Santo) e’ la candela accesa che ogni fedele porta in mano. Questa candela rappresenta il simbolo di fede verso il Figlio di Dio e la speranza che la sua Resurrezione possa aiutare tutti coloro che implorano il Suo Santo aiuto. A fine della fiaccolata e le preghiere gli autobus sono pronti davanti alla chiesa per riportare le persone indietro alla nostra parrocchia. Dopo la Santa Pasqua la G.I.S.A. e’ di nuovo a lavoro per preparare il pellegrinaggio per Domenica, 25 Maggio a West Havestraw, NY nella Chiesa di Don Bosco. Questo pellegrinaggio viene organizzato ogni anno e molti dei nostri parocchiani Italiani colgono l’occasione per visitare questa chiesa dedicata ad un santo tanto amato da noi Italiani. Sono dunque tanti i lavori della G.I.S.A. per la communita’ Italiana della parocchia di San Atanasio! Amalia Anzalone WHERE’S MONSIGNOR? Ilustrated by Gina Sarcona, Beata Samosiuk & Tiffany DeRusso. Editors’note: Gina Sarcona, Beata Samosiuk & Tiffany DeRusso, students in St. A’s School, noticed Msgr. Dave quickly going from place to place. Many of us who come to the rectory ask, “Where is Msgr?” The reply usually is: “Well… he was just here a few seconds ago…” Although we don’t have color copying capability, you can view this picture in the Narthex & try and find Msgr. Dave. St. A’s News THE BOY SCOUT CORNER -5- Spring 2003 Brian Long The Scouting Program is composed of 1.3 million volunteers working together for the sole purpose of helping its 5 million youth members succeed in life. The Boy Scouts of America's 93 year history is a testament to the enduring values of Scouting. This quality scouting program now resides at St. Athanasius Parish. Troop #99 was organized in 1916 and sponsored by St. John's Lutheran Church in Park Slope and, for 87 years, has always been associated with quality Scouting. The boys enjoy many activities like camping trips (including Ten Mile River at summer camp this year!), Halloween and Christmas parties, bowling, fishing, trips to the zoo, aquariums, movies, amusement parks and so much more! Scouting builds strong values and character, respect and leadership. In fact last fall, we had the privelage of having our first Eagle Scout since 1972; his name is Anthony Faga and he is the 25th Eagle Scout from Troop#99 and St. A's first Eagle Scout. We have a Cub Scout Pack serving the youngest boys of our parish and, this year, we started a co-ed venturing program for our parish youth, ages 14 - 20 years old which features high adventure and community service. Scouting is time well spent, so please join us every Wednesday at Saint Athanasius School from 7PM until 8:30PM and be part of the fun! If you would like more information, feel free to contact Brian Long at (718) 837-9594. am still of proper age, I make sure I handle all tasks with quality and appropriate haste. As a result of this beneficial influence, I have become more of an orderly concerning the ways in which I go about my current day’s affairs. Also, as a Boy Scout, I am confident in my abilities to do almost anything! I have become more alert; I am now equipped with the knowledge and awareness to be of aid in the event of a life threatening emergency. In such ways, Boy Scouts and my school involvement have interlocked in a complex way. I will always have the edge when it comes to life’s various lessons. Joseph Riccio A REFLECTION FROM A BOY SCOUT I became active in Troop 99 during the month of March. Troop 99 is held at Saint Athanasius School, every Wednesday evening. Each assembly begins 7:00 at night. Immediately, I have noticed many ways in which this has affected my life. I became involved with the Boy Scouts of America through the intervention of a friend of mine. He is an Eagle Scout: he helped me file for application, secure the proper uniform and other various camping necessities. Ironically, it is now one of my duties to file the records. Unfortunately, there exists a relatively short amount of time until I reach the age of 18, at which I am no longer considered a Boy Scout. Consequentially, while I THE GIRL SCOUT CORNER Trishia Long Competent, silly, giggly, energetic, shy, and enthusiastic; these adjectives and many others describe the girls in our Girl Scout Troop at St. Athanasius. For those who think that Girl Scouting is just arts and crafts, there is so much more! Girls gain knowledge, explore careers and enjoy the feelings of pride and accomplishment that come from completing a badge from a wide variety of areas from home repair to the arts, from wildlife to sports, from the sciences to global awareness. Girl Scouting promotes self-acceptance and unique self worth by offering opportunities to learn new skills, experiences and challenges which develop a meaningful set of values to guide their actions and to provide the foundation for sound decision-making. The breadth and depth of these values and goals make Girl Scouting different from other youth-serving organizations. It encourages girls to develop sensitivity to others and respect for their needs, feelings and rights. It fosters the ability to build friendships and working relationships and encourages them to help improve society through the use of their abilities and leadership skills, working in cooperation with others. It teaches girls to understand how the quality of community life affects every member of society. We invite you to join us and discover for yourself the rewards that Girl Scouting has to offer. Please contact Tricia Long at (718) 837-9594. We meet on Friday afternoons at 3Pm at St. Athanasius School. We now have two troops; Brownies, Grades K - 3 and Juniors, Grades 4, 5 and 6. Hope to see you there! St. A’s News -6- Spring 2003 A MESSAGE ABOUT THE ACADEMIC ADVANTAGE PROGRAM HERE AT ST. A’s The Academic Advantage is Brooklyn's premier learning center. We have been successfully serving the Brooklyn area for over twelve years. Our services are offered in several convenient locations. One of our centers is located in Saint Athanasius School. The Academic Advantage has successfully prepared students for COOP, PSAT/SAT and Regents Exams. Last year, we began a program to provide resource services to students with IEP's. (Individual Education Plans) These students receive free tutoring sessions, three times a week at Saint Athanasius. This summer, our program will include all of the above and classes on study skills, a first grade reading course, programs to fulfill summer school requirements and private tutoring for enrichment and remedial purposes. The Academic Advantage is committed to providing quality tutoring services in a pleasant and caring environment. It is our aim to build our students' confidence while arming them with the skills necessary to succeed. Ms. Lillian Brienza 718.209.4599 FOR OUR POLISH SPEAKING PARISHIONERS 90 lat temu parafia „St. Athanasius” rozpoczynała swoje funkcjonowanie. Początkowo większość parafian stanowili Amerykanie irlandzkiego pochodzenia, stopniowo jednak pałeczkę pierwszeństwa przejęli emigranci z Włoch. Obecnie w parafii istnieją cztery mocne grupy językowe: angielska, włoska, hiszpańska oraz koreańska. Od października 2002 r. do tych grup dołączyła jeszcze jedna, która na razie znajduje się w fazie organizacji: wspólnota polska. Nowy proboszcz, Msgr. David Cassato, pragnął stworzyć dla coraz liczniej napływających do parafii emigrantów z Polski możliwość uczestniczenia przynajmniej dwa razy w miesiącu w polskiej Mszy św. Przed polskimi parafianami stoją duże trudności natury organizacyjnej: nie ma na razie w parafii stałego kapłana posługującego się jęz. polskim, a ci, którzy celebrują Mszę św., dojeżdżają z Greenpoint; Polacy mieszkają w rozproszeniu i często nie znają się nawzajem; nie ma jeszcze żadnych polskich organizacji w parafii, itd. Dlatego też uważamy, że obchody 90-lecia parafii mogą być świetną okazją do poznania się, jak również do zorganizowania zaczątków mocnej Polonii w parafii. Przede wszystkim pragniemy zaprosić wszystkich Polaków mieszkających w parafii „St. Athanasius”, jak również tych, którzy są w inny sposób z nią związani, do wziącia udziału w uroczystościach z okazji 90 rocznicy istnienia parafii. Wszelkie wiadomości dotyczące bierzących uroczystości, modlitw oraz imprez, znajdziecie Państwo w parafialnym cotygodniowym biuletynie. Informacje będziemy powtarzać także w jęz. polskim podczas polskiej Mszy św. Planujemy stworzenie polskiej scholi, która mogłaby uczestniczyć w nabożeństwach, także ogólnoparafialnych. Chcielibyśmy także otworzyć coś w rodzaju polskiego klubu katolickiego, gdzie można by porozmawiać na tematy religijne, pooglądać dobre filmy, spotkać się przy herbacie lub kawie... Do rozpoczęcia takiej działalności potrzebujemy jednak pomocy chętnych, potrzebujemy odzewu z Państwa strony. Prosimy kontaktowaę się z p. Robertem Rabką, tel.: 718/ 331 11 50., najlepiej po niedzielnej Mszy św. w jęz. polskim. Robert Rabka THE CHALLENGE OF FEWER PRIESTS When most young people who are about to graduate high school and move onto to college are considering to be an accountant, artist, actor, writer or enter the military, why do most not think about priesthood or religious life? Believe it or not a panel discussion on one of the news shows covering the war in Iraq stated that there were plenty of professional men and women who wanted to join the armed forces even after the recent conflicts. In fact, the armed forces are overwhelmed with new applicants and are turning away anyone who doesn’t measure up. But what about the priesthood ? As our new 2003 high school graduates shop around for which university to attend, how many are considering the priesthood ? This shortage of priests was recently addressed in a meeting given by Msgr. John Brown , Director of Clergy Personnel for the Diocese of Brooklyn. Msgr. John Brown was joined by Msgr. David Cassato and several St. A’s parishioners as well as dozens of their counterparts from other parishes in Brooklyn West at St. Anselm’s. St. A’s News -7- Spring 2003 Of the 4 million people in the Brooklyn and Queens area, 1.8 million are Catholic. These 1.8 million are currently served by a handful of priest totaling 379. The 217 parishes in the Brooklyn Queens area will lose half of their active priests within the next 10 years, primarily due to retirement. Msgr. Brown, Msgr. Cassato, as well the attendees of the meeting discussed several solutions to help alleviate the stress this shortage is causing and is sure to cause in the city’s parishes in the coming decade. These short term solutions included allowing priest to concentrate on sacramental ministry, which is their key role, and have many of the administrative duties of the church turned over to paid lay people. Other solutions were to have sacramental guidelines issued through the Diocese so all parishes do things the same way as well as having parishes work in clusters so that the burden of a shortage of priests can be more evenly distributed. A issue of equal importance to dealing with the coming priest shortage is keeping the priests that the parish already has. Currently, many priests live alone and this not healthy for them neither physically, emotionally, nor spiritually. The committee laid out long term plans to ensure the physical and emotional health of priests by managing expectations and demands and through support and recognition. As Msgr. Brown said, “the Catholic Church constantly renews itself to remain vital and alive.” All of us can help in this struggle by praying for an increase in priesthood vocations, supporting the changes in the parish, and , most importantly, inviting and encouraging young adults to become lay leaders. James Russo St. Athanasius 11:30a.m. Choir The Choir of St. Athanasuis has been under the direction of Steven Laplante for the past three and a half years. Steven began his training on the pipe organ at McGill University in Montreal. He started winning competitions within three years, including Second Place Winner in the 1996 National Competition in Canada and subsequently becoming a finalist at the Bach International competition in Switzerland. You may have heard just how talented our Steven is if you attended his Lenten Organ Recital on March 8th. If you missed it, there will be another opportunity to hear his glorious playing of the pipes next fall. Steven came from a religious family, being exposed to liturgical ministry as Altar Server, Cross Bearer and now being a Choirmaster. Being the Choirmaster, Steven enjoys interacting with various people. Steven also finds involvement in the choir to be a spiritual journey that the choir shares, creating a special bond between its members. Steven also feels that music brings an important dimension to the service, “It’s the most abstract form of art, it’s nothing we can touch or see... music brings life to the service, it’s a wonderful symbol of God’s presence amongst us”. You may know Choir Member Michael Panecali from the 10am or 6pm Sunday Mass. Michael plays keyboards beautifully, and sings angelically for these services. MaryAnn Gonzalez and Michelle Villalta do an excellent job alternating as cantors for the 11:30am mass. Other choir members and their special talents are: Tom Dalton, George Escalante, Marissa Iocullo, Theresa Marinelli, Denise Mulero, Gina Sarcona, Michael Sarcona and Phyllis Micillo. They are always seeking new choir members, so if you enjoy singing, please contact Steven at the rectory at 718 236 – 0124. Elaine Sacrona St. Athanasius Basketball St. Athanasius BCBA (Brooklyn Children's Basketball Association) directed by Jim McCaffrey, is a vision to behold. The excitement and decibel volume emanating from the gym is that of utter happiness, and that's just the parents. The kids seem to be having a good time too! Registration for the "wee ones" starts the Saturday after Labor Day and every Saturday through September. The program itself begins Mid-October. There are many levels of expertise available in a fashion. Instructional is for children ages 4 through 7, Intramurals - ages 8 through 14, Gym Rats - ages 9, Sub-Novice - 10 years old, etc., (basically ages 4 through 13/14 years old). There are also traveling/outside teams, where St. A's children play against children in other parishes and parents become overt cheerleaders!!! St. A's also provides a delectable, delicious and reasonably priced concession stand; a gastronomic delight for all your repasts. The "chefs" also double as our coaches and referees; as so some parents as well. It is truly a warm, wonderful family atmosphere that provides endless rewards for young and old. Come, be a part of it! Claire Chiccarone St. A’s News -8- St. Athanasius’ Golden Jubilee Celebration You may have noticed a slight change in St. Athanasius church in the last few weeks. Colorful banners adorn the inside of the nave and a huge banner with the words, “St. Athansisus Golden Jubilee 1913 – 2003’ hangs on the front of the church to greet parishioners as they walk up the steps. There are other changes as well. Every month a committee of parish and neighborhood volunteers meets in the Rectory to discuss plans to celebrate this momentous occasion. Volunteers are walking the beat in Brooklyn asking local businesses to buy space in a journal that will distributed at the 90th anniversary festivities. Other volunteers are planning the arrangements for the celebration which is set to be held at Brooklyn’s own, El Caribe catering hall. Prizes, games, raffles, and other surprises are all being worked on the Jubilee committee carefully and stealthily. However, as we move headlong into the upcoming Jubilee celebration it is important to look back on the rich and robust past of our parish and accompanying school. The beautiful two-level, air conditioned structure which our parishioners celebrate mass in traces its roots to Sunday December 7, 1913 when mass was first celebrated in a single-level private house on 62nd Street. St. Athanasius’ founder was Father Eugene J. Donnelly who pastored the church for eighteen years and chose St. Athanasius as the patron saint of the parish. The building and grounds, which we know now as St. Athanasius Roman Catholic Church, was purchased in 1914 by Father Donnelly. Over the years and through the decades, this humble plot of ground purchased for $15,000 would grow into a thriving Catholic parish with thousands of parishioners and several support groups. In addition to the Church building on Bay Parkway, St. Athanasius would purchased additional property in the coming years and opened a new rectory and convent. In June of 1937, Father Kelaher who took over after Father Connelly, opened St. Athanasisus school with the help of the Sisters of St. Joseph, who were actually already in the parish running the Religious Education Program. The school which now teaches children from Kindergarten through the eight grade, originally opened to handle the burgeoning number of young people in need of an academic education after the Great Depression. In the years after 1937, the St. Athanasius School would grow to include a baseball program in 1959 complete with a field and clubhouse, an auditorium which provided the setting for countless events such as disco nights, vaudeville, Broadway shows, cake sales, Christmas sales, prom nights, as well as opera nights. In 1961, Monsignor Purick would oversee a tremendous project to build a new church. Through parish funds, memorials and a Diocesan loan, Msgr. Purick was Spring 2003 able to give St. Athanasisus parish a new church with a unique sanctuary, one with an unobstructed view no matter where you are seated. The new church included mosaic art and stained glass windows. As the 1970’s came on, St. Athanasius School and Church would both continue to grow and expand both physically and spiritually. Dozens of spiritual and self help groups would be added over the years including the TeenAge Club (TAC) the Gruppo Italiano St. Atanasio (GISA), as well as the Golden Age Club. The annual bazaar would expand into an exciting and vibrant Spring weekend featuring casino-style games in the gymnasium, Picaddily Circus style games in the Auditorium, amusement rides in the parking lot as well as 50/50’s, raffles and other drawing. Presently, the Jubilee committee is working on a 90th anniversary celebration that will easily thwart the biggest of the annual bazaar’s. Msgr. Cassato and long time friend of St. Athanasius Michael DeLuca are spearheading a committee made of up dedicated individuals who are planning the 90th anniversary celebration down to the finest of details. As you walk up the steps of St. Athanasius church on your way to Mass and see the banner, think back to your own special memories of St. Athanasius School and Church and cherish those memories as we prepare to celebrate Father Donnelly’s vision on its 90th birthday. James Russo Help & Prayer is not far away: Parish Social & Devotional Ministries In addition to the many services St. Athanasius has for parishioners, the most important are the various help and support groups which provide spiritual and religious guidance to those in need. One of the times we are most in need of emotional strengthening is when a loved one passes on. When a loved one dies, this may be followed by feelings of shock, denial, sadness, anger and depression. Often these emotional symptoms may be accompanied by physical symptoms like a lack of energy, knotted stomach, loss of appetite, and feeling disoriented. The parish of St. Athanasius offers several bereavement groups to help individuals in the community deal with these feelings. The Martha & Mary Open, Ongoing Bereavement Support Group is for anyone who has experienced the death of a loved one. The group meets once a month on the first Wednesday of each month 7:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. The Lazarus Structured Bereavement Group provides education and sharing to facilitate the healing of grief in a group format. Journal writing is an integral part of the Structured group, although the participant is not expected to share the contents of his/her personal journal. The group meets from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. on Mondays. St. Athanasius parish is committed to supporting people through times of grief and loss. “Praying through Grief and Loss” provides time and space to recognize the St. A’s News -9- Spring 2003 reality of grief in a safe and nurturing environment. Through prayer, reading from the Psalms and quiet song, we acknowledge our vulnerability before God and allow ourselves to be touched by grace. The group meets three times this year for three sessions on Thursdays from 8-9:30 p.m. Another of St. Athanasius’ help groups is The Homeless Outreach Ministry which is dedicated to serving the homeless and the poor in the Coney Island area. The group goes out every Saturday morning and makes two stops at designated locations. Donated clothing and hot food, sandwiches etc. are distributed. There are currently over thirty people who have volunteered to provide hot food when scheduled. On the average, about forty people a week are served. Mary Cerami is the director of the Charismatic Prayer Group which is celebrating its 28th anniversary this year. The Charismatic Prayer Group which is about a 100 people strong gathers every Friday night at 8:00 p.m. Mary stresses that the group meets rain or shine and that anyone who attends the group is allowed to speak. The Rosary Society is a women’s society that promotes the devotion to the Blessed Mother through prayerful recitation of the Rosary. Spiritual activities included Advent and Lenten evenings of reflection, Communion breakfasts and social opportunities such as a Christmas Fair and a Chinese Auction. The society’s mission is to integrate the call of service into social action, benefiting the parish and community. Interested? Call Palma Parmese at 718.837.1752. Devotion to the Name of God is fostered through the ministry of the Holy Name Society. The Holy Name Society is a men’s society that meets once a month, after celebrating 8:30a.m. Mass. One of its foci is to encourage frequent celebration of the sacraments. Additionally, like the Rosary Society, Holy Name members are committed to service in the parish and community. First Friday prayer, in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament, has become an integral part of the Society’s mission. All men are encouraged to join the society. Watch the bulletin for the James Russo announcement of the next monthly mass and meeting. Sr. Barbara Lynch, C.S.J., Parish Advocate for Persons with Disabilities My friend, due to a car accident, has been disabled for many years. When her Pastor chose her to attend the Catholic Charities workshops which would enable her to be the Parish Advocate for Persons with Disabilities, she convinced me to volunteer for St. A’s. That was almost ten years ago and I have been advocating ever since. At times it has been a lonely, yet often, a successful journey. We have a Eucharistic minister who distributes Communion from her wheel chair; a gentleman in a motorized chair who, since the gate leading to the accessible ramp is now always open for Church services, no longer needs to be lifted into Church; a blind parishioner, elderly and others on walkers and canes who faithfully attend Mass; ministers of the Eucharist and ushers who move toward those who are unable to move quickly to the front for Communion; and a better lighting and sound system, thanks to the awareness of our Pastor. I have not accomplished all of the above, but I rejoice in the AWARENESS, There is so much more to be done and thanks to the Bulletin announcements, people are coming forth to get involved. Being an advocate does not mean solving all the problems, but having information as to resources and where to find answers. Most important is to continue to raise awareness and to increase INCLUSION in the Parish. My dream is that when we complete the database of the Parishioners who are forced to be homebound because of lack of transportation, we may find a core of “chauffeurs” to bring people to Church. With the team that is forming, I believe the elderly, hard of hearing, mobility challenged, visually challenged, and developmentally disabled will find St. A’s to be truly the “Family Parish” we are proclaiming it to be in this 90th Anniversary Year. Sr. Barbara Lynch, C.S.J. Blowing our own SCHOOL horn Mrs. Karen Hayes, our 5th grade teacher, directs an after-school program which is free & funded by the ItalianAmerican Federation. It benefits working parents. Want more information? Call our school & ask for Mrs. Hayes. The Student Council at St. A’s School went to Maimonodes Hospital & decorated the pediatric ward for Passover & Easter & did you notice those yellow ribbons with messages on the school and rectory fence? Students wrote prayers & good wishes to our troops serving in the Middle East and Iraq. Even the younger children had a lot to say & expressed their feelings to teachers & staff. Children as young as nursery school age were able to voice their fears & words of appreciation for the women & men fighting to ensure our freedom here in the States. Anna Cali tied all the ribbons on the fence, making sure that we could read their messages. Stop and read them!! St. A’s News -10- Parishioner Profile ELAINE MARIE SARCONA Elaine Marie Sarcona was born on October 8th in Brooklyn to John and Theresa Tobish. One of five children (two brothers, Drew and Stanley and two sisters, Jeannette and Mary) she attended St. Brendan's Elementary School for eight years and then went on to John Dewey High School. For the next 3 years, she continued her education at Brooklyn College. Her path led her to work for The Associated Press in communications for 15 years and Telecom for several years, including Worldcom and Level 3 in sales support. She married Michael Sarcona on June 22, 1985. You may remember Michael, who wrote the song "I Miss You" which touched everyone's heart at the September 11th Anniversary Tribute Mass. They have been blessed with two beautiful children; Christian Stanley, 15 years old, who attends Xaverian High School and Gina Marie, 11 years old, who attends St. Athanasius School. Elaine feels her children are her greatest accomplishment. Elaine lost her 2 older brothers in 1980 and 1981. Stanley battled Hodgkins disease for 7 years and died at the age of 25. Almost one year later, the family lost Drew in a tragic accident and during this time, she was very impressed with the faith of her parents. They never lost their faith, even after the loss of both their sons. Years later, she took notice of an article printed in the St. Athanasius Bulletin, asking for people to assist others through their grief. Her inspiration came from her own personal experience and she continues to be a source of hope for people who have experienced such a loss in their lives. Elaine believes that "church people are good people" and encourages our parishioners to reach out and get to know one another. If you or someone you know has suffered a loss of a loved one, you don't have to suffer alone. Please contact Pastoral Associate John Fruner at (718) 236-0124 on extension 17. Paula Lobello-Raiola What is the Role of a Deacon? Interview with Deacon Frank Rasati Deacon Frank has been a Deacon for over twenty-five years and he is now 85 years old. He was always active in activities at St. Athanasius. At first, he wanted to be a priest but God had other plans for him. The reason why he did not become a priest was because his sister died when she was fifteen years old and his mother wanted him to stay and be close to her, so he did. Later on, he married Evelyn Galante and had five children; John, Anthony, Spring 2003 Mary, Ann and Robert. His desire to be in ministry persisted. When the call came that men could be deacons, he applied and was ordained on December 3, 1977. The first Deacons were servants of the apostles. Here are some questions we asked Deacon Frank: Q. -What challenges did you face when you were ordained? A. – It is difficult for people to understand why we need deacons and what their purpose would be in the ministry of our church. Q. - Did people accept married Deacons? A. - No, not at first. Today people have accepted deacons after learning the roll that they play in the ministry of the church and the responsibilities they have. Q. - What can Deacons do? Deacons can witness weddings, bless religious articles, distribute the ashes on Ash Wednesday, bless throats at the Mass of Saint Blaise, bless palms and can perform funerals as well as conduct wake services in the funeral parlor. Deacons also visit nursing homes, lead prayer services, preach, bring communion to the sick and shut ins and teach. Q. - Does a Deacon receive Holy Orders? A. - Yes, a Deacon receives Holy Orders. Q. - Do you think that we will ever see a married priesthood? A. - Yes, I believe that we will see a married priesthood, but not right now. If it is God's plan, then it will happen. Q. - How has your wife, Evelyn, been involved in your formation? A. - Evelyn was there for me, all the way, in full cooperation and support. I’m proud to say that she helps me in the nursing home and was with me there for the past 25 years. She attended meetings when I was preparing for ordination and I am very proud that she is a partner in ministry with me. We learned alot about Deacon Frank and about what the ministry of Deacons. We had alot of fun doing this interview. More interviews to follow. Stay tuned! Brittany Connors and Jonathan Fronterre St. A’s News -11- Spring 2003 PARISHIONER PROFILE: GEORGE CESARANO If you have ever attended a 10AM Mass on Sunday at St. A's, then I'm sure you have had the pleasure to see this handsome fellow who has been one of our dedicated ushers for the last 15 years. He was born George John Cesarano on February 22, 1922 and baptized at Our Lady of Peace Church on Carroll Street in South Brooklyn, where he went to school, received communion in 1929 and was confirmed in 1935. George was drafted into the army in 1941. He did his basic training in Camp Adair, Oregon and was a member of the 104th Infantry Division (known as the "Timberwolves). He fought in Normandy, Belgium, Holland and Germany to the end of the war and came "home sweet home" in 1946. He married Louise on June 15, 1947. His first job was working as a fruits and vegetables peddler in this area of Bensonhurst and he liked it so much, that he bought his house on 59th Street in 1950 and has been here ever since. They have 3 children (two daughters, Maria and Pamela and one son, Richard). They have also been blessed with 5 grandchildren; Jennifer, Melissa Laura, Nicole and Salvatore. George and his family are proud to say that they have been part of the St. Athanasius family for 53 years. God Bless You, George! Paula Lobello-Raiola Editor’s note: Can you guess which soldier is George? GETTING TO KNOW THE SISTERS OF ST. JOSEPH WHO LIVE IN OUR PARISH St. Athanasius Convent S. Nora T. Ashe is currently Principal of St. Ephrem School. S. Nora taught at St. Athanasius School from 1975 to 1987. S. Joan Dillon for the past thirteen years has been an Academic Guidance Counselor at Bishop Kearney H.S. S. Rosemarie Figlia has been involved in both elementary and secondary education. From 1968 to 1974 Sister taught at St. Athanasius. She then served as a DRE in the Rockville Center Diocese. Presently, she is the Campus Minister at Bishop Kearney H.S. S. Mary P. Hurley has been an art teacher and Chairperson of the Fine Arts Department in Bishop Kearney H.S. Sister has lived in St. Athanasius Convent since 1985. During these years she has been a Eucharistic Minister in both St. A’s and Bishop Kearney and has been privileged to visit and bring Communion to the homebound in the Parish. S. Yolanda Kinsella is a Social Worker at the Henry Street Settlement. She is also the Coordinator of the Laryngectomy Support Group hosted monthly in St. Athanasius Convent. S. Yolanda Kinsella St. A’s News -12- Spring 2003 S. Barbara Lynch taught in St. Athanasius from 1968-1976, coordinated the Junior High Religious Ed program, Children’s Choir, and the elementary, high and college level Young Christian Students. Since her return in 1988, Sister has taught English and is now Librarian at Bishop Kearney H.S. She is a lector and the Parish Advocate for Persons with Disabilities. S. Mary Godfrey Majka taught first grade in St. Athanasius School from 1979 to 1985. She was also involved in the Parish as First Sacraments Coordinator, Principal of CCD, Eucharistic Minister, member of the Finance Committee and Parish Council. At present, Sister is a Financial Officer/ Bookkeeper at Bishop Kearney H.S. S. Barbara Lynch S. Mary Godrey Majka S. Kathleen McGonigle taught in St. Athanasius School from 1985 –1990. Currently. She works in the Catholic Migration Office as Director of Educational Services. Here at St. A’s, Catholic Migration Office offers English classes for adults to help them learn the basic skills of the English language. S. Anne Mollica grew up in the neighborhood, went to Regina Pacis and Fontbonne Hall. She taught grade school and French, mostly in Queens schools. Sister celebrated her Jubilee this year and is presently working in Fontbonne Hall. S. Anne Mollica S. Kathleen McGonigle S. Barbara Murtha has resided in St. Athanasius Convent since August 1987. From 1987 until 1995, her ministry to the Parish was as Principal of St. Athanasius School. After resigning as school Principal, Sister returned to work with the elderly. At present, she is housing coordinator for two of the Catholic Charities senior housing programs. She is also present to the parishioners who attend our Parish Bereavement Ministry. S. Mary Charlotte Ryan has been a Sister of Saint Joseph for sixty-four years. She has ministered as an Elementary School Teacher and Principal, a Chaplain, Parish secretary and Chauffeur. Sister is retired and S. Mary Charlotte Ryan happy to be a member of the St. A’s Community. S. Barbara Murtha S. Elizabeth Schroeder (“Sister Betty”) ministers in the field of education. She has worked on the elementary and secondary school level as a teacher and administrator. Sister was Principal in St. Athanasius School and is now the Principal of Our Lady of Angels in Bay Ridge. Sister serves St. A’s Parish as a Eucharistic Minister. S. Dorothy Zachorowski is a Religion teacher at Saint Joseph High School, Downtown Brooklyn. S. Dorothy Zachorowski S. Elizabeth Shroeder Editor’s note: A special thanks to the “St. A’s Sisters” for providing these short “bios” & to Sr. Barbara Lynch for coordinating, gathering & typing them for an easy “paste up.” SEE HOW BLEST WE ARE HERE! St. A’s News INSERT AROUND THE PARISH In preparation for Lent, Fr. Bryan celebrated a new ceremony, the Burning of Palm & the Burying of the Alleluia. Students in the Religious Education Program colored “alleluia” banners & placed them in a box made by Nick Cagliuso. The children anxiously waited until Easter Sunday to sing alleluia as part of the Blessing of Children’s Easter Baskets at the 10 & 11:30am Masses. The Narthex displayed the children’s alleluia banners for the Octave of Easter. During Lent Msgr. Dave provided us with a video series exposing us to the spirituality of John of the Cross & St. Maximilian Kolbe. Additionally he showed a video on the Passion of Jesus. Mary Genusso, one of our parishioners, led an evening Bible reflection on the Mercy of God. Mary helps train new Pastoral Associates for the Diocese and is completing her PhD studies in the Philosophy of Religion. Next year she will work with Pastoral Associate John Fruner in offering adult education through the Nazareth Institute. In Lent, The Xavier Company performed “No Greater Love,” a musical on the Passion. Fr. Long & Fr. Patterson continue to teach some theology classes at St. John’s University. Fr. Long continues his studies for a Master of Science degree in Educational Administration while Fr. Patterson is putting finishing touches on his thesis for another degree in Theology. If you remember, Msgr. Dave was awarded a Master of Science degree in Educational Administration from Mercy College last may. John Fruner, our Pastoral Associate, was inducted into Phi Kappa Phi, an international honor society for graduate & doctoral students, at Fordham University on March 5. John will graduate Fordham in May 2004 with a Master of Arts in Theology & a Master of Clinical Social Work. He has been able to maintain a 3.95 grade point average & plans on continuing his theological studies after graduation. Joanne Bruccoleri was installed as one of our new Eucharistic Ministers. She began serving in February. Joanne, along with Pat Deasy, worked on the Jubilee Committee, coordinating the fellowship hour under the Tent for the May 2 Anniversary Mass. Additionally, Joanne is completing her first year of the Bensonhurst Cluster Lay Formation Program. She is joined by James Sweeney, Palma Parmese & Peggy Flanegan. Msgr. Dave hopes to encourage 10 parishioners to begin the new class in September. After this program, parishioners participate in the Pastoral Formation Program, leading to diocesan appointment as Lay Ecclesial Minister, as Joseph Barbieri functions here at St. A’s. Lay Ecclesial Minister is a volunteer Parish Staff position. Congratulations goes to Anthony Faga, our high school seminarian, as he was accepted into Cathedral Residence Seminary. Anthony will be attending St. John’s University and majoring in Psychology and minoring in Philosophy to prepare him for ministry and graduate theological studies. The Respect Life Ministry, led by Rosemary Mangino, arranged a powerful evening of prayer in Lent entitled “Night of Hope & Healing.” The Office of Family Ministry provided reflections on God’s healing. Fr. Long and Fr. Patterson joined the service to hear Confessions. The Polish Community is rapidly growing and the average attendance is almost 100. First Communion classes are provided in Polish by Robert Rabka and a Polish Choir is being Spring 2003 formed. A parishioner plays the organ and Robert is brushing up on his guitar skills. Robert has a Bachelor of Sacred Theology (which is a Master of Divinity here in the U.S.) and a Licentiate in Sacred Theology from Rome. His concentration was spirituality. Steven LaPlante, our Music Director, provided us with an organ concert on March 8, performing Widor’s 6th Symphony. On March 9, Theresa & William Marinelli celebrated their 25th Wedding Anniversary at the 10a.m. Mass. Theresa is one of the cantors & has been involved in Music Ministry here for many years. Theresa Panical has been cantoring at the Sunday 6pm mass while her brother Michael continues to play piano. Sal Iucullo provided the Holy Name Society with a first class Carnavale Celebration, Tuesday March 4, preparing the antepasta himself. That previous Sunday, Sal coordinated a blood drive. Sal’s grand daughter Marisa has joined the 11:30a.m. Choir. Fr. Long continues to work with parishioners in providing “In home Pre- Cana” as well as providing religious education to parents, guardians & godparents baptizing their children. Lay Ecclesial Minister Joseph Barbieri trained new altar servers and preached for the first time on Holy Saturday Morning Prayer. Angie Maffe continues to provide clean altar linens, along with her dedicated team of parishioners who can be seen each Friday polishing the marble, candle sticks, and decorating the church environment. A new look for our Christmas Crib and Holy Thursday Altar of Repose was due to Angie’s creativity. Of course, Tina Giaquinta sewed these two new altar backdrops. Nick Cagliuso built the supports for these backdrops. Dana Franco, a member of the Folk Group who plays flute, will graduate Brooklyn College with a Master’s in Elementary Education. Unfortunately, Dana will be moving after the school year. She has been with us for 3 years & taught 2nd grade in Holy Spirit school. G.I.S.A. provided the parish with a dance in honor of its patron, St. Joseph. Wonderful company & fine food characterized the celebration. Good Friday was prayerful as G.I.S.A. labored to coordinate our Cluster’s Procession. This October’s Italian Apostolate Mass will be held here at St. A’s. On March 11, Msgr. Ferrarese came back to deliver a Lenten message as a “kick off” to an intense preparation for Holy Week. He focused on Jesus’concern for those suffering. Louis Guida, son of Joan Guida who is a first grade catechist, played the lead in St. Edmund’s production of GREESE, during the first week of April. Luis is an accomplished hockey player and what an actor- and he can sing & dance. Now to get Luis to sing in the choir!!! (We know you can hold a note Luis- Steven is going to seek you out!!!) Nick Cagliuso is the “St. Joseph of St. A’s” as he recently completed a new church sign, is working on a new school sign, restored original 1914 consecration & benediction bells, & is putting final touches on to a Presider’s Chair used in our original church. Nick installed our new hymnal racks & made the cantor stand, Paschal Candle stand, pews in the sanctuary & recently restored some candle stick holders. Alice Friedman Got any news for me? E-mail me: [email protected] St. A’s News INSERT Spring 2003 A Message from our Pastoral Associate John Fruner WHY GOD? WHY? Tragedies smack us in the face too quickly and unexpectedly, even when we are trying our best to serve God. It just doesn’t seem fair! At some point we all find ourselves asking life’s most troubling questions, “Why?” and “Why would God permit this to happen to me?” We believe that not only did God create the universe, but God maintains an active relationship to the created. This is called God’s Providence. Scripture is full of places where we are taught that: “No one knows the thoughts of God,” (1 Cor 2:11) and as “we know not the path of the wind, or how the body is formed in a mother’s womb, so we cannot understand the work of God.” (Ecclesiastes 11:5) Additionally, God’s judgments are “unsearchable” and God’s ways “past finding out!” (Romans 11:33) Unless God chooses to explain these events, they will remain beyond our understanding. What this means is that many of our questions, especially those that begin with why, have to remain unanswered. We have been given too few facts to explain the heartaches in our world. Paul, in 1 Corinthians 13:12 reminds us that we will not have the total picture until we meet God, and he implies that we must learn to accept this partial understanding. Basically, there are times in our life when circumstances don’t add up and God doesn’t seem to make sense. One thing we can be sure of is that God’s heart is especially tender towards our sufferings. God knows every tear we shed. God feels our intense pain and suffers along with us. Isaiah tells us: “Do not fear, for God is with you. He will strengthen you and help; he will uphold you with His hand. (Isaiah 41:10) We know that Jesus experienced human emotion. We see this when Jesus wept for Lazarus his friend. So the pain we go through, is not a pain that God doesn’t understand. Additionally, it is not a pain that was sent to us by God. Many times we interpret pain as our victimization by God, and this causes disillusionment. While this is a normal human response, we have to be careful that these feelings don’t lead to despair. If we hide this pain, if we bury the pain, we usually become consumed with anger and resentment. We might avoid others so we don’t have to be reminded of our own losses and we stand the chance of losing them as well. We must rely and demand the support of our family and friends. This is the meaning of God’s Providence. God placed people with us, in order to support and help heal us. Interestingly enough, even after the events of 9-11 and during this war, all of us have a sense of God’s Providence that helps make sense of life. Those of us who are here today may wonder why we have been spared if we work in Manhattan. Most of the time, our regrets come out of unreasonable expectations of ourselves. We need to recognize these feelings but also admit, after a review of the event, that our “survivor’s guilt” creates additional sorrow and the demand for yet another answer. There is no answer. In the book of Lamentations, in the Hebrew Scriptures, Jeremiah says: “I have been deprived so I say, ‘My splendor is gone and all that I had hoped from the Lord.’ I remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness. I remember well and my soul is downcast within me.” (Lamentations 3:17-20) Although Jeremiah opens his heart in a gut-wrenching fashion, he later on looks for the wisdom beyond his struggles. He sees how God’s concern affects his life. After time, and much healing Jeremiah says: “Therefore, I have hope because of the Lord’s great love and His compassions never fail.” (Lamentations 3:21-22) The grief, anguish and pain led to healing, over time which allowed Jeremiah to say: “We are not cast off by the Lord. Though life’s events bring grief, God shows us compassion. So great is God’s unfailing love.” (Lamentations 3:31-32) Facing sadness, then, on a daily basis, no matter how severe it is, will enable us to grasp Jeremiah’s understanding of God’s compassion so that we can have a life worth living.