St. Peter’s Lutheran Church October Parish Paper Come worship with us!
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St. Peter’s Lutheran Church October Parish Paper Come worship with us!
St. Peter’s Lutheran Church October Parish Paper 120 Market St. Emden, IL 62635 217-376-3137 From the Desk of Pastor John Schurter Fall season check-offs: people, machinery, markets, yields & weather Is the help all lined up? What if someone comes down sick, or has an emergency? Everything tuned up, oil, fluids, filters, batteries, hoses and rubber all good? Cutter bars and belts on the bean-heads all ready? Header drive U-joints, bearings and hydraulics OK to go? Bin blowers, propane, augers and safety gear all ready? What am I forgetting? Markets, yields and weather – can't do anything about them anyway...God's business. Getting ready for the fall harvest is a BIG DEAL, always has been; just a lot more technology today. On a smaller scale, St. Peter's goes through a kind of “Fall season check-off” too. Is the help all lined up? What if someone comes down sick, or has an emergency? All the needed materials ordered, or in-house? What are we forgetting? Markets – what we produce is of great value, even priceless... and has a huge market need! Yields and weather - can't do anything about them anyway... that's God's business. This is a good time of year to pray for what's going on in the fields... and what's going on here at St. Peter's. One harvest lasts for a season... the other, for eternity! LCMC Fall Gathering October 11th at St. Peter’s! LCMC Women of the Word Fall Retreat Saturday, October 11, 2014 Registration, Coffee and Fellowship from 8:30-9:30 AM in the Parish Hall. Volume 55/Issue 10/October 2014 Come worship with us! Sunday Worship Service 9:00 AM Coffee & Fellowship 10:00 AM Sunday School 10:15-11:15 AM First Sunday Holy Communion ******* October 5 Worship w/ Holy Communion October 12 Worship Serivce/Pastor Appreciation/Alleluia Choir Sings October 19 Worship Service/ Mission Sunday/ Blessing of LWR Quilts & Kits October 26 Worship Service/ Reformation Sunday/ Baptism of Ethan Jones Pastor Office Hours Mon.-Thurs. 8:00 AM-4:00 PM Pastor’s Home Phone Our guest speakers will be Rev. Dennis & Lorna Meeker from Kenya. Lunch will be served. Our day will close with a communion service. Join us for an uplifting day of music, great speakers, devotionals, good food, meeting other LCMC women from our district, and of course, fun! 309-454-1815 Emergency Only Cell: 309-824-7495 Secretary Office Hours Mon.—Fri. 9:00 AM-Noon 217-376-3137 Email us at: stpeterlutheran@ mediacombb.net Website www.stpeteremden.org Council Meeting Highlights General Fund Balance on hand $ 79,859.32 Improvement Fund Balance on hand $ 7,545.56 $ 14,302.55 • Local Benevolence for September will go to Camp Griesheim for an ongoing project • Pastor Schurter will attend the LCMC Annual Conference on October 5, 6, & 7th. • New nativity set was ordered and is in. Will put up after Thanksgiving. Memorial Fund Balance on hand • Thanks to John Cross, Tom Cross and Alan Klokkenga for painting the kitchen. Missionary Sponsorship Fund Balance on hand $ 2,912.08 • The Board of Parish Education recommended that the Sunday School Christmas Program be on Sunday, December 14 at 6:00 PM. Council approved. Theological Student Fund Balance on hand $ 21,919.00 Preschool Balance on hand $ 1,575.48 • • Still looking in on buying a new outside door for the boiler room or fixing the old one. Tom Cross will contact Emden Lumber again to see what is available. Investments: The trustees will work on a few issues around the church. One Year Certificate of Deposit Lutheran World Relief Kits Make a Difference All Around the World! When you make and send a Quilt or blanket, you are not only comforting someone you have never met, but providing an object that is useful in ways you probably never imagined. In addition to being a cozy, clean new bed cover, it can be: a baby carrier, tied around a mother’s back; a market display, spread on the ground and piled with vegetables; a sack for transporting those goods to market; a sunshade; a shawl; and most importantly a constant reminder that someone, far away, cares a lot. When LWR distributes Personal Care Kits, it’s often to people who have lost everything. In the wake of an earthquake, or having fled from violence as their homes were overtaken, they clasp a towel from a faraway place, with a bar of soap, a toothbrush… and washing up, they know that they have not been forsaken by the world. The very simple gesture of giving a Personal Care Kit can give someone the encouragement to start anew, starting with a bath. You can share God’s grace and love by providing that simple comfort. Teach a person to sew and you’ve given them tools they can use to earn an income, support their family, and break out of poverty. Many of the thousands of Fabric Kits Lutheran World Relief distributes are used in vocational training programs to teach young men and women useful and marketable sewing skills. $ 10,649.75 John Deere Stock $ 4,219.82 Benevolence Ghana Christian Missions 250.00 Congregational Member to Ghana 100.00 LCMC 416.25 Local Benevolence 223.50 Backpacks & school supplies to 6 local children. WoW for additional backpacks 192.75 “For Kenya Kids” Rev. Dennis & Lorna Meeker 416.25 Luth. Child & Family Services 416.25 LCMC Disaster Assistance 277.50 Lutheran World Relief 277.50 World Mission Prayer League 277.50 Vic Hamer Water Project 277.50 Total $3125.00 A Baby Care Kit from LWR is like a promise. It says to that baby, Your needs will not be neglected by this world. You matter to us. When you send Baby Care Kits, you provide encouragement by welcoming these little ones into an international community that cares. Baby Care Kits are distributed as part of emergency and relief efforts, to be sure, but they are also given out as part of LWR health initiatives to encourage women to seek prenatal care. Why school supplies? To the children who receive School Kits, these supplies mean the difference between getting an education or not. Public school is usually free, but in the places where LWR works, even a few required supplies, like pens and paper, may be more than many families can afford. And when parents can only afford to send one of their children to school, girls rarely get priority…yet the education level of mothers has the biggest impact on development. No one likes to look dirty. A brand new bar of soap lets someone present him- or herself with dignity, keep hands clean and stay healthy. Those simple things are some of the very building blocks to success. Send us soap and we will see it gets to people in need. LWR accepts new bars of any brand, in its original wrapping. Bath-size bars (4 to 5 oz.) are highly preferred. St. Paul said: “I urge that prayers, petitions, and thanksgivings be made for all” Thank 1 Timothy 2:1 You! Thank you for your kind, (and goofy) cards and gifts. Pr. John Thank you all for the birthday cards and wishes; I appreciate your kindness! Holly Schurter Thank you to St. Peter's for your prayers and condolences at the passing of our mother, Mildred. Gary Walters family & Linda Gabbrants family. Just wanted to say thank you, Pastor Schurter, for taking time out to come to the hospital and saying prayers with us & the family of our brother-in-law, Bill. Also, thank you to everyone who prayed for him and sent us cards . Thanks, Chuck & Marilyn Jones I would like to thank St. Peter’s Women of the Word for paying for my trip to East Bay Camp. I would also like to thank those of you who sent me a letter. I put them all in my Bible. I had another amazing year. I made some new friends and met up with old ones. In Bible study we learned about the armor of God and how He protects us from temptation. Payge McCree Noisy in Church “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them!” – Psalm 127:3-5a by Holly Schurter It’s been a little noisy in church lately, but I don’t mind at all. That’s because the noise comes from babies, toddlers, and other small children. I remember very well what it is like to come to worship with little ones and worry about them disturbing the people around us. If it wasn’t one child poking another, it was another one whispering “I think I’m going to throw up.” The diaper bag – we carried a diaper bag for years – would fall over and board books and Hot Wheels would spill out. And there were what we called “the lap wars” – the disagreements among siblings about who got to sit on mom’s lap. Some Sundays it felt like we were a traveling circus, and the monkeys had all gotten loose. I wondered why we even came. We persevered because it seemed important to us to be faithful in worship. We persevered because being with other believers nurtured our faith and gave us encouragement and strength to keep on. We persevered because we had committed ourselves to Christ, and because, above all, we wanted to pass on our faith in Him to our children. I could not overstate how much it meant to me when an older couple turned to me one Sunday, in the midst of a twoyear-old’s meltdown during worship, and whispered, “Don’t worry, honey; we don’t mind one bit. It’s just good to have you here.” I thought about those kind words all week, and long after that, they encouraged me. When other adults spoke to our children and made them feel welcome and loved, it meant the world to our kids, and to us. Our kids still remember those kind people, and think of them as a model for how to be in church. And that isn’t all. When children feel welcomed and loved, they are more open to hearing the good news of the gospel. When they feel they have a place in the congregation, they are more willing to participate in the life of the congregation. They are more likely to “stick and stay” if they feel they belong. As a young mom, when our children were welcomed and loved by the fellowship of believers, the encouragement and love extended to them splashed onto me, as well. When babies, toddlers, and small children are seen as a blessing, and not as an expensive, distracting burden or nuisance, it is one more thread connecting their parents to the congregation, too. What sounds like noise at first hearing is really the sound of God’s provision. Those babies, toddlers, and small children represent God’s way of carrying faith into the future. St. Peter’s Sunday School Operation Christmas Child by Jayne Cross, Coordinator Alleluia Choir sings on October 12th! The children continue to sing during the first fifteen minutes of Sunday School each week. Encourage them to sing! They love to “Praise the Lord with a Song”! The Bible Bucks Store will be open on Sunday, October 12 during Sunday School! If you would like to make a monetary donation or donate items, please contact Lisa Miller or Nicole Briggs. The children earn Bible Bucks by attending Sunday School and church, bringing friends, etc. St. Peter’s Preschool News by Lisa Rohlfs, Teacher What a great start we have had to school. It makes me so excited to see all of the children coming to school with smiles on their faces and love in their hearts. We have 3 in the 3 year old class and 10 in the 4 year old class. At the beginning of the school year, we learned about the school rules, who our new fun friends are and learning their names. What a fun time we have had. Sharing and getting used to the mannerisms of others is always very important. I believe this is a job that is on it's way to a big accomplishment. This year we have incorporated a weather person into our morning routine. I believe this has to be the best job in class. Everyone is anxious to see who the weather person will be. A new weather song is being taught as well as the Apple tree song. It’s that time of year again to start thinking about Operation Christmas Child. I will have a table set up in the Parish Hall with forms, labels, etc. sometime in October. How to Pack a Shoebox Use an empty cardboard or plastic shoebox (average size). Decide whether your gift will be for a boy or a girl, and the age category: 2-4, 5-9, or 10-14. Fill the box with a variety of gifts that will bring delight to a child. Help cover shipping and other costs related to delivering your shoeboxes to children overseas by donating $7 for each gift you prepare. Place a rubber band around each closed shoebox and bring back to no later than November 14th. Items to Enclose in your Shoebox Toys: Include items that children will immediately embrace such as dolls, toy cars, stuffed animals, kazoos, harmonicas, yo-yos, jump ropes, balls, toys that light up and make noise (with extra batteries), etc. School Supplies: pens, pencils and sharpeners, crayons, markers, notebooks, paper, solar calculators, coloring and picture books, etc. Non-Liquid Hygiene Items: toothbrushes, bar soap, combs, washcloths, etc. Accessories: t-shirts, socks, hats, sunglasses, hair clips, jewelry, watches, flashlights (with extra batteries), etc. A Personal Note: You may enclose a note to the child and a photo of yourself or your family. If you include your name and address, the child may be able to write back. Do Not Include: Used or damaged items; war-related items such as toy guns, knives or military figures; chocolate or food; out-of-date candy; liquids or lotions; medications or vitamins; breakable items such as snow globes or glass containers; aerosol cans. St. Peter’s Youth by Jenna Weddle, Director Letters A, D,R and S were explored as well as the color red. Prayers for encouragement and success are always welcome. Stop in and see our wonderful group of "littles". They sure do like new faces. Along with the color red we of course discussed apples, how they grow, the different colors and the forbidden fruit. (Genesis 3:15-17.) Until next month… Love and Kindness, Mrs. Rohlfs "It was one of those fine October days when the trees sport yellow and red instead of everyday summer green." As autumn begins, join SPY for our upcoming meetings: Sunday,October 12 Sunday, October 26. We will meet at 6:00 PM for fun and fellowship! Bible Study Opportunities PLEASE JOIN US FOR OUR BIBLE STUDY “Judges” Good Samaritan Date: Wednesday, October 8 Time: 1:30 PM Study Leader–Mary Lou Klokkenga Hostess-Nelda Vannaken Cross & Crown Date : Thursday, October 16 Time: 7:00 PM Study Leader-Doris Klokkenga Hostess-Norma Briggs Lutheran World Relief by Diane Lindgren, World Mission Action The Lutheran World Relief program provides families around the world a helping hand. Each year, WOW collects blankets or accepts $5 donations for LWR blankets. If purchasing, blankets should be 60” x 80”. Wal-Mart usually carries a nice $5 blanket of this size. If you prefer giving a donation, there will be pre-printed envelopes available in the Narthex. Containers will be available in the Parish Hall to accept blankets and blanket donations. We have one more Sewing Day for Quilts: Monday, October 6th at 8:30 am. Even if you don’t sew, we can use helping hands to tie, cut, and pin. WOW will be finalizing its collection and packing of Lutheran World Relief quilts and kits through October. Please visit the LWR table in the Parish Hall to pick up information on Baby Care, Personal Care, School and Sewing Kits. There is a priority on School Kits and Personal Care Kits this year. Items will be packed on October 23rd for delivery to Bloomington, the local Ingathering collection point. We will have the quilt and kit blessing at the Worship Service on Sunday, October 19th. H.O.P.E Tutoring Report by Deb Batterton, WoW Co-President St. Peter’s Women of the Word afterschool tutoring program will begin October 7, 2014. H.O.P.E. will meet on Tuesdays from 3:15-5:00 PM. Twelve Emden Elementary students have enrolled. The program has 30 volunteers to listen to students read one on one and practice math facts. Please pray for God’s blessing and guidance as St. Peter’s begins this new program. Women of the Word by WoW Co-President, Carol Reiners All women of St. Peter's are invited to be a part of hosting the LCMC Women of the Word Fall Retreat being held here on Saturday, October 11, beginning with registration, coffee and fellowship from 8:309:30 in the Parish Hall. Joey and Terry are in charge this part and would welcome some help with food and serving. Sylvia and Diane will be arranging displays in the parish hall of ministry projects of the churches who bring items with them, and of course, a display of our own different projects. Doris and Pastor will play favorite praise songs as we gather in the sanctuary to sing praises to our Lord, and hear a devotion by Julia, Gail and Krista. Deb and Carol will handle greetings and introductions. We are excited to have Pastor Dennis Meeker and his wife, Lorna, share information on their ministry with "Kenya's Kids" for our program of the day. A noon luncheon will be served with Julia and Fran planning the menu and table décor. They, also, would appreciate help from other women of the congregation. Please let them know if you are willing and able. The day will close with a communion service. Betty Gail and Janice will receive in kind gifts for inmates at Lincoln Correctional Center, and a special offering for "Kenya's Kids". Please come join us for the day and help if and where you can. Pastor Meeker suggested the theme: "Serve willingly, in view of His Mercy." (Please consider donating any of the following items needed by the chaplain for inmates at Lincoln Correctional Center: study & large print Bibles, 2015 calendars, composition books, cards/birthday, thank you, Christmas, etc. religious DVDs or CDs/sermons or music. Living Alternatives Banquet The WOW Council will be a table sponsor at the annual Living Alternatives Banquet to be held Tuesday, Oct. 7 at the Lincoln Rec Center, at 7:00 PM. "He Rescued Me" is the theme, and Tari Penley, director of the Pregnancy Resource Center since 2007, will be the speaker. If you are interested in going, please contact Carol, as we may have some extra seats. Blanket Sundays in October for Lutheran World Relief Bring in a new blanket that is 60”X80” or donate $5.00 and Women of the Word Council will purchase it for you! Everyone loves a warm blanket! Personal Care Kits When LWR distributes Personal Care Kits, it’s often to people who have lost everything. In the wake of an earthquake, or having fled from violence as their homes were overtaken, they clasp a towel from a faraway place, with a bar of soap, a toothbrush…and washing up, they know that they have not been forsaken by the world. Quilts When you make and send a Quilt, you are not only comforting someone you have never met, but providing an object that is useful in ways you probably never imagined. In addition to being a cozy, clean new bed cover, it can be: a baby carrier, tied around a mother’s back; a market display, spread on the ground and piled with vegetables; The very simple gesture of giving a Personal Care Kit can give someone the encouragement to start anew, starting with a bath. You can share God’s grace and love by providing that simple comfort. One lightweight bath size towel (maximum 52”x27”), dark colors preferred a sack for transporting those goods to market; a sunshade a shawl; and most importantly a constant reminder that someone, far away, cares a lot. Two bath-size bars of soap (4-5 oz), any brand in original packaging should be approximately 60” X 80” One adult size toothbrush in original packaging Sewing Days: Monday, Sept. 8th 8:30 AM Monday, Oct. 6th 8:30 AM One sturdy comb Cost of shipping per quilt is $2.25 Wrap all the items in the towel and tie securely with yarn or ribbon. One metal nail Clippers (attached file optional) Cost of shipping per kit is $2.65 Baby Care Kits A Baby Care Kit from LWR is like a promise. It says to that your needs will not be neglected by this world. You matter to us. When you send Baby Car Kits, you provide encouragement by welcoming these little ones into an international community that cares. Baby Care Kits are distributed as part of emergency and relief efforts, to be sure, but they are also given out as part of LWR health initiatives to encourage women to seek prenatal care. One such initiative in Mali provided training for local prenatal health care workers, who were given Baby Care Kits to distribute when they assisted with births. These kinds of programs help more babies in rural, poor areas receive a healthy start in life. We hope you will join us in this effort! Two lightweight cotton t-shirts Two long- or short-sleeved gowns or sleepers (without feet) Two receiving blankets, medium-weight cotton or flannel, or crocheted or knitted with lightweight yarn, up to 52” square Four cloth diapers, flat fold preferred One jacket, sweater or sweatshirt with a hood, or include a baby cap One hand towel, dark color recommended Two pairs of socks Two bath-size bars (4 to 5 oz.) of gentle soap, in original wrapping Two diaper pins or large safety pins Cost of shipping per kit is $1.30 School Kits Why school supplies? To the children who receive School Kits, these supplies mean the difference between getting an education or not. Public school is usually free, but in the places where LWR works, even a few required supplies, like pens and paper, may be more than many families can afford. And when parents can only afford to send one of their children to school, girls rarely get priority…yet the education level of mothers has the biggest impact on development. Four 70-sheet notebooks of wide- or college-ruled paper approximately 8” X 10½”; no loose-leaf paper One 30-centimeter ruler, or a ruler with centimeters on one side and inches on the other One pencil sharpener One blunt scissors (safety scissors with embedded steel blades work well) Five unsharpened #2 pencils with erasers; secure together with a rubber band Five black or blue ballpoint pens (no gel ink); secure together with a rubber band One box of 16 or 24 crayons One 2½” eraser One sturdy drawstring backpack-style cloth bag approximately 14” X 17” with shoulder straps (no standard backpacks) Cost of shipping per kit is $1.40 Sewing Kits Teach a person to sew and you’ve given them tools they can use to earn an income, support their family, and break out of poverty. Many of the thousands of Fabric Kits Lutheran World Relief distributes are used in vocational training programs to teach young men and women useful and marketable sewing skills. Two pieces of cotton or cotton-blend fabric (no knits or 100% polyester). Each piece should match one of the sizes below: 2¼ yards of 60” wide fabric, or 3 yards of 44” wide fabric, or 4 yards of 36” wide fabric Two spools of neutral-colored, general purpose thread, 250-300 yards each Cost of shipping per kit is $1.00 Helping Hands Romans 12:5...so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. And since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let each exercise them accordingly. ACOLYTES 10/05/14-Nic Poelker & Addam Hoerbert 10/12/14-Cavit Schempp & Greyson Rademaker 10/19/14-Brady Vannaken & Molly Schempp 10/26/14-Xavier Detmers & Brody Baker ALTAR COMMITTEE-September & October Vanessa Barry & Angela Briggs COFFEE & FELLOWSHIP SERVERS 10/05/14-Good Samaritan Circle 10/12/1410/19/14-Campbell & Mutchler 10/26/14DEACONS 10/05/14-Jim Klokkenga & John Cross 10/12/14-Tom Cross 10/19/14-Jim Klokkenga 10/26/14-John Cross FLOWERS FOR THE ALTAR 10/05/14-Alan & Carol Reiner Anniversary & in honor of Pastor Frank Pieper’s Birthday 10/12/1410/19/1410/26/14GREETERS 10/05/14-Chuck & Marilyn Jones 10/12/14-Ken & Doris Klokkenga 10/19/14-Leonard Krusemark 10/26/14-Mary Lou Klokkenga Mission Sunday will be October 19 A special offering will be taken on this day to help out our missions. Last year these funds were given to: Dennis Meeker in Kenya LECTORS 10/05/14-Walt Neikirk 10/12/14-Carol Reiners 10/19/14-Gail Ubbenga 10/26/14-Deb Wagner NURSERY 10/05/14-Lori Cross 10/12/14-Connie Rayburn 10/19/14-Megan Neikirk 10/26/14-Betty Gail Wagner ORGANISTS & PIANISTS 10/05/14-Gail Ubbenga 10/12/14- Gail Ubbenga 10/19/14-Jane Mikelson 10/26/14-Joe Garcia TAPES 10/05/14-Walt Neikirk 10/12/14-Dorothy Komnick 10/19/14-Bob & Julia Cross 10/26/14-Alan & Carol Reiners USHERS 10/05/14-Gordon, Alan K., Kevin, Andy, Alan M. Mark 10/12/14-Chris, Eli, Kaleb, Walt, Jim 10/19/14-Gordon, Alan K., Kevin, Andy, Alan M. Mark 10/26/14-Chris, Eli, Kaleb, Walt, Jim It takes ALL of us to keep our church running smoothly! Please take a moment and think about how you can help! Vic Hamer’s Water Projects Ghana Christian Missions Roblealto Child Care Association in Costa Rica Charles Hall Youth Services in Bismark, ND Sign up sheets in the Narthex for 2015 Greeters and Lectors. Sign up today! October Birthdays 10/03 October Anniversaries Gene Cross Elyse Fitzjarrald 10/05 Cindy Schempp Madison Rohlfs 10/07 Frank Pieper 10/08 Jaelynn Hinch Avia Leesman 10/09 10/10 Vanessa Barry Robert Hayes Gretchen Rankin Natalie Wallis 10/11 10/02/10 Christopher and Andrea Sheley 10/05/13 Paul & Bridget Callahan 10/07/56 Alan and Carol Reiners 10/14/89 10/16/66 10/17/70 10/19/02 10/19/13 10/20/89 10/25/86 10/26/58 Brad and Jill Struebing Robert and Linda Hayes Gordon and Kathy Klokkenga Loren and Mindy LaMar Jeremy & Sara Young Kerry and Deborah Eeten Lynn and Tammy Buse Richard and Mary Ellen Johnson Jillyn Cross Amber Post Cavit Schempp Joyce Westen 10/13 Kathleen Fitzpatrick 10/14 Lila Wagner 10/15 Charlotte Reinhart 10/16 Megan Rademaker 10/19 Andy Hayes People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. Eldon Hoerbert 10/20 Ivan Rademaker Lois Vaughn Mark Gleason 10/21 Debra Moehring Travis Smith 10/22 Trey Mowder 10/23 Kent Cross 10/24 Emma Wiseman 10/25 Janice Campbell Henry Hoerbert 10/26 Loren LaMar Amanda Vannaken Derek Armstrong 10/28 Wayne Moldenhaurer 10/30 Brantley Conrady Kerry Eeten 10/31 Eric Wiseman When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support; to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Some‐ times they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer has been answered and it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the les‐ son. Love the person and put what you have learned to use in other relation‐ ships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.