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BITS AND PIECES ELLEN GUERRICAGOITIA Frandsen Humanities Press BITS AND PIECES 1 This book was created as part of Lifescapes, a senior life writing program sponsored by the Washoe County Library System, the University of Nevada English Department, and the Nevada Humanities Committee. Copyright © 2003 Ellen Guerricagoitia Frandsen Humanities Press Department of English/098 University of Nevada Reno, Nevada 89557-0031 BITS AND PIECES 2 PREFACE This is a first attempt to get some information about me and my family written down. It is just a look at some events and experiences of our life. TABLE OF CONTENTS SVENSKA FLICKA .................................................................................................... 1 SVENSKA POJKE ..................................................................................................... 4 RESPONSIBILITY...................................................................................................... 10 COLLEGE DANCE................................................................................................. 12 BREAD .................................................................................................................... 14 RING SIDE SEATS ................................................................................................... 18 TRAVEL – HAWAII.................................................................................................. 20 BITS AND PIECES 3 BITS AND PIECES 4 SVENSKA FLICKA I guess that just about everyone in the world believes that their Mother was, or is a very special person. I really wish that I knew more of my mom’s early life. I feel an urgency to get on paper as much as I can recall from things she and others have told me of her 97 years on this earth. My Mother, Freda, was born in Dala Husby, Sweden in the year 1896. Her ranking in the family was third from the eldest of twelve children. One might wonder how a Swedish farm girl at age 29 would venture out into the world, and ultimately end up in Reno, Nevada for the balance of her life. It was in the early 1920’s, probably 1923, when they began building a railroad station in Litchfield, California. My mother’s Aunt Hulda and Uncle Andrew Johnson lived in this tiny town, which is near Honey Lake. It is also not too far from Susanville, a not quite so small town, near the Lassen National Forest. Uncle Andrew was my mother’s uncle. He and his wife Hulda had moved from Sweden to the United States some years before. Andrew was the Postmaster of Litchfield and had the “post My Mother, Freda, in 1965 when she was 70 years old with my son Frank. office” in an area at the front of their house. It appeared to have been a large enclosed porch at one time. It had been set up with a counter, locking mail boxes, drawers containing the many necessary rubber stamps, ink pads, pens, pencils, forms and items needed to service a post office and handle people’s mail and packages. Great Uncle Andrew was a mechanic and owned a large garage where he also ran his business of being the local dealer of John Deere farm machinery. To get back on track, Great Aunt Hulda suddenly found herself the designated resident responsible for feeding the BITS AND PIECES 1 railroad crew. She realized that she needed help to feed this gang of hard working men. She wrote to relatives in Sweden to inquire if there was a young lady who would like to come to America to help her with this chore. My mother and her brother Emil decided to pull up their roots and face the challenge and opportunity of life in America. There was so much to do to prepare for this extensive journey: passports to get, employers to notify, money to amass, sewing to do (Mom was an extremely talented seamstress and, of course, wanted to make herself some new clothes for her journey and “new life”), and passage to book on a steam ship. Everything was finally in place; they said their “good-byes” and embarked on the ship to America. I have little knowledge of this part of the journey. I know it took quite awhile and the sailing was not always smooth. They arrived in New York and disembarked to Ellis Island as did all foreign people immigrating to this country at that time. The year was 1925. The next leg of their journey would be a train trip from New York to Reno, Nevada. This too was probably not a very pleasant period of time spent in their travels. I am sure it took longer and was not as pleasant as my trip much later, in 1953, from Reno to Pennsylvania on the then brand new Streamliner train. The only thing I know about this part of the trip was they had some difficulty with the different money and the American weight system. They were used to the metric system as were all Europeans. The train had stopped for a period of time that allowed them to get off and obtain some food. They encountered a man selling fruit and the bananas looked appealing. They requested 50 cents worth of the yellow delicacies. The vendor handed them a very large sack which contained ten pounds of bananas. They didn’t want to appear as if they had limited knowledge, so they just paid for and accepted this gigantic bag of bananas. Needless to say, it was a long time before either of them could look a banana in the face. At any rate they did arrive safely in Reno. They were met by their Aunt and Uncle, the Johnsons, and traveled the last 80 miles to Litchfield in Great Uncle Andrew’s Ford. My Uncle Emil was able to immediately begin work as an assistant mechanic for his Uncle Andrew. My mom however was rather at loose ends, because the railroad crew had finished their work in that area and departed. The whole process of getting there had just taken too much time. There was no work for her in that little town and Auntie Hulda told her that she would never BITS AND PIECES 2 learn to speak English if she stayed there with them. She got mom a position in Reno with a family named Doyle as nanny for their children and to help with the cleaning and cooking. This suited her just fine as she had worked in an orphanage in Sweden and loved children, loved cooking and sewing. This family did not speak Swedish so it was necessary for her to begin learning and speaking English. She liked America from the beginning of her time here. She saw that people could work hard and have a good life. The Doyle family owned a store in downtown Reno called a silk shop. They had all manner of cloth and materials and the local ladies could make their choices of goods and the shop’s seamstress would make custom clothes for them. After a while mom was doing quite well with her English and told the Doyles that sewing was her first love. She wanted them to hire her in their dress shop as a seamstress. They refused because their children adored her and they valued her greatly as their nanny. Well, it seems that the family went on a vacation, but mom didn’t go with them. She was walking downtown and passed their dress shop. In the window was a sign saying “seamstress wanted”. The manager of the store did not know my mother or that she was the Doyle’s nanny. She applied for the position, proved her prowess with a needle and was hired. The Family returned from their trip to find my Mother working in their dress shop, and accepted that fate. She did excellent work for them there as well. My Mother was acquainted with Frans Gustav Piel in Sweden, before she had left there. She was corresponding with him for some time. She wanted him to know that America was a land of opportunity and a very good place to be located. At this time, things in Europe were rather unsettled. Freda Wikman convinced Frans to take the big step and join her in this land of plenty. He packed up his small sea chest and his violin and made the journey to America in the year 1928. He and Mom were married in Sparks, Nevada soon after he arrived. They both went to school to learn English and became citizens of the United States of America. When they were naturalized they changed my father’s name to Frank Gustav Piehl. By the way, Svenska Flicka means “Swedish girl.” BITS AND PIECES 3 SVENSKA POJKE T oday my focus is landing on my father. I guess in retrospect I got a great many of my dad’s genes. He was 5’5” tall and had blond hair. His hair was very fine, but there was a lot of it. When he passed away, at the age of 75 , he still had a full head of wonderful wavy hair. His hair was one of those traits which I inherited. My mother’s hair was dark black and wavy. She did not have a gray hair until she was almost 60 years old. When she left us she was 97 years old and had a full head of salt and pepper hair. I was a complete “towhead” with actually white hair until I was about ten years old. My father possessed a godgiven talent for music along with some of his other noteworthy traits. He had a great singing voice, played the violin, the clarinet, guitar, and most musical instruments to which he came into contact. I recall singing with him and my sister in the church choir. I guess my ability for singing and music came from another of those dad genes. My father used to say about my mother, “She had a great voice, but it wasn’t fit for song.” Our church, the Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd, was a big part of our lives as I was growing up. We were charter members of this church when it began and first My father, Frank, singing to my son, Frank, in 1965. met in a large room in the Masonic temple at First and Virginia Street which still stands today. Will it soon be the next Reno “parking lot”? One of my fondest memories of this period emerges for a very special reason. We had a strong choir and were very fortunate to have the guidance of a few wonderful directors. One of them was Ernest Ford, Yes, that’s correct – “Tennessee Ernie Ford”. He lived in Reno for about a year, was a disc jockey on KOH radio and our choir director. Everyone enjoyed his radio show. He presided early each morning, was very witty, and would harmonize along with his records in his great resounding voice. He was a BITS AND PIECES 4 talented choir director and we especially enjoyed his methodology of having us sing our hymns a cappella. Some important people from LA were visiting Reno and heard him on the radio. They were so impressed that they made him an offer he couldn’t refuse; to move to LA and work for them. The rest is history. Rollen Knellor was also one of our directors. For years another director was Steve Maytan whose very talented and musical family still own Maytan Music. It was a wonderful experience to perform under his leadership. As my life progressed the singing was still a big part of it. I was in the a cappella choir in high school as well as the chorus. In high school I was also in productions of The Red Mill and Brigadoon. In college I was a soprano in the University Singers. We joined with the Reno Community Choir to sing the Messiah each Christmas season. I did that for 4 years. Of course, the Church Choir participation was ongoing. My father was not a very tall man, but he was what I would call sinewy muscular and strong. He had done gymnastics in Sweden and was quite coordinated, agile, and all-in-all an accomplished athlete. One of his outstanding physical accomplishments in Sweden was his excellent mastering of trapeze work. My sister and I had to take his word about that as we were unable to locate a trapeze for him to demonstrate his prowess in the endeavor. My early years are filled with memories of Dad and I out on the front lawn of our home doing summersaults, hand stands, head stands, cart wheels, etc. He would also do some tricks with me – like, I would stand on his hands as he laid on the ground with his arms stretched overhead. He would slowly raise me up until I was standing on his outstretched arms, balanced above his chest. I loved doing these gymnastics with him. I guess that was the ground work for my love of sports and exercise and my eventual bachelor’s degree in Physical Education. My sister did not seem to have much interest in these activities. I was told that when she was young, say 3 – 5 years old, my family lived in the mountain towns of Gray Eagle, Hobart Mills (near Truckee, California) and Westwood. My father would take her skiing, not on her own skis, but on his shoulders. I was born in Westwood and we later moved back to Reno. I actually learned to ski when I was attending college. By the way, Svenska Pojke means “Swedish boy.” BITS AND PIECES 5 FEVER I t seems that the 2nd grade time period holds many memories for me and not many of them very pleasant. My sister Anna (she is 6 years older than me and in the 8th grade) had taken my best friend Marilyn and me to the movies on Sunday after church. We took the city bus up to the stop nearest our house which was in front of the Manzanita dormitory for women at UNR on Virginia Street. This dorm was where Jot Travis Student Union is now located. We walked up the rise, passed the old gym (which was then the new gym!) and the Agricultural Experiment Station building. This building was in the same architectural style as Morrill Hall, but without the left and right wings. It, of course, was covered with the Virginia Creeper vines. It was October and the leaves were turning their flaming red color, which would adorn the building until the wintry winds would blow them away leaving the twisted cords of branches waiting to once again pop forth with the green foliage in the spring. I felt very unenergetic. There was a chill in the air, but it wasn’t cold. We arrived home and I immediately went to the sofa to lay down. My mother checked me out and said that I had a fever and that she would call the doctor in the morning. In those days, the doctors made house calls. My sister went to school the next day, but I stayed home. The doctor came and diagnosed that I had scarlet fever. He also placed our house under six weeks quarantine. This meant that anyone in the household must remain there during this time period. When my sister came home from school, she was greeted by these huge red signs and she had to decide what to do. She came in because, after all, does an eighth grader really have a choice? Where would she go? My father had been deer hunting and got the same big red sign greeting when he arrived home. It would have been devastating if my dad wouldn’t have been able to go to work for 6 weeks. Fortunately, he was invited to stay with the elderly couple who lived next door to us. He would come to say “hi” at my bedroom window every day, but it just wasn’t the same as his warm hugs. BITS AND PIECES 6 The things that I remember of those six weeks are quite vivid. I guess that being forced into one environment for a period of time causes special attention to any events. Foremost in my mind was the semi-darkness of my room. There was a danger that my eyesight would be affected by too much bright light. Of course, my skin had a blotchy rash, which was a discomfort; but worst of all were the earaches. The doctor prescribed the new “wonder drug” sulphur tablets. Mom would dissolve these in warm water and irrigate my ear with a small syringe. I looked forward to this because it seemed that this was the only time that my ear felt any relief from the pain. When we had to order medicine the drug store would deliver it to our house. In order to pay for the prescription, my mother had to put the money in a pan containing Lysol solution. The delivery person would retrieve the money from its germ-killing bath. The only dollars that existed in general circulation in Nevada at his time were the silver dollars. This helped simplify things since the payment had to be in coins. My eyes were not affected, but at a later date, my eardrum ruptured and I had to have my tonsils and adenoids removed. It was fall and my mom allowed me to get out of bed and go to our front room to watch the Home Coming bonfire. It was directly across the street from our house in a big empty lot of the UNR campus. I wanted to go out on the porch so that I could hear the singing and yelling, but it was too cold outside for me to do that. Then it was Nevada Day. Our family did make the trek to Carson City for the parade many times but this year was not one of them. The same day being Halloween, my neighborhood friends came to my window to show me their costumes. It just made me sad that I couldn’t be with them to go “trick or treating”, but things greatly improved when my mom presented me with a small bag of candy that they had left at the door for me to share. Finally the day came when the big red quarantine sign was removed from our door. I was still quite weak and could not gain any weight. I did, however, return to school as did my sister. My ear infection was still a problem and seemed not to want to clear up. The doctor insisted that my mother bring me to his office once a week until it got better. He would not be able to remove my tonsils and adenoids until the infection was gone. My mother carefully entered into her little black book each of those visits and the amount of $5.00. I did not see her black book until many years later and realized what a sacrifice my family had made on my behalf to get me well. In those years, one BITS AND PIECES 7 could buy more than a weeks worth of groceries for a family of four for around $5.00. I remember vividly two things on these trips to the doctor’s office. First, was the fact that he would weigh me first thing. He would announce, “Good girl Ellen, you gained a pound this week.” Most likely the next week I would have lost two pounds and he was disappointed. My mom tried so hard to get me to gain some weight. She would make milk shakes or egg nogs for me almost every day. She always had good nutritious food on our table, but I guess that my appetite just wasn’t there. I also remember the small box of small, round, transparent, brownish pills that looked like mini puree marbles. They were cod liver oil capsules. Yum! One-a-day! The second thing I recall was the examining room at the doctor’s office. This was actually the front part of his residence. It was a large room with a leather examining table in its center. The doctor was engaged in some experimental medicine and I guess I was one of his “guinea pigs”. I would lay down on this big, cold table and he would place a leather strap that was about 1 inch wide and had little metal knobs imbedded at certain intervals around my head at the forehead. He would then connect some wires that were attached to a machine at the end of the table to the metal knobs of my headdress. He would push the “on” button to start the electrical current. To me, it was as if the “on” button was to start the table spinning. This was my sensation from the current although the table did, in fact, remain stable. This continued for about one or two minutes and when he turned off the machine I still felt a bit dizzy. I hated each and every visit, but at last this too ended and I was able to have my surgery. I also recall that when my tonsils and adenoids were removed, I was promised a bowl of ice cream when I woke up from the, yes, ether. I awoke and the nurse delivered my treat as promised. It was, however, warm and was more like a thick soup. I told her that I guess the ice cream melted because I had slept too long. She explained that, “No, really cold things would be bad for my delicate throat.” After my surgery I did gradually begin to feel better and stronger. My body was still ridding itself of the infections and poisons that built up during this period. Occasionally I would become aware of this cleansing process in the form of a skin boil that would appear. I did get several and the one I remember most distinctly was on my knee. These outbreaks again warranted visits to the doctor. He would test them for the appropriate degree of readiness for lancing. On this particular trip to his office we BITS AND PIECES 8 entered the examining room and in came the doctor. He was in is usual suit pants, shirt and tie which was covered by his to-theknee smock coat. I was seated on the ominous leather table with my legs dangling over the edge. He commenced to poke and probe around this lump of infected and protruding flesh to evaluate its current state. A rather firm push sent a nasty looking globule of greenish-yellow material straight to his shirt collar. I sat expressionless, but inside I was rejoicing, “Yes! Yes! I finally got YOU!” At this point in my life I was not aware of the word revenge” or the expression “poetic justice”, but this event somehow seemed to give me a feeling of payback to the doctor for all the trauma that I had been through that past year as his guinea pig. BITS AND PIECES 9 RESPONSIBILITY I was 7 years old and in the 2nd grade. My house was on Virginia Street and the school that I attended was Orvis Ring Elementary School on Evans Avenue. It was located about ½ to ¾ miles from my home. The best route to reach the school was to cross Virginia Street and walk through the University campus and the two remaining blocks. It was a pleasant walk passing the old classic buildings covered with their Virginia creeper vines. Fantastic pansy beds and many varieties of bushes and trees (including a huge crabapple tree near the bridge over the ditch) were always kept beautiful by the campus grounds crew. The walk was always pleasant, especially when shared with a neighborhood classmate. We would frequently walk to and from school, but our parents would drive us in inclement weather. The classes of the school would get out in fifteen minute intervals. The first graders were dismissed at 2:00 p.m., the second graders at 2:15 p.m., the third graders at 2:30 p.m. and so on. When we left our classroom at the end of the school day and as we passed through the “cloak room”, we would have to look the teacher in the eye and say, “I am going straight home.” This was a daily ritual. One day my very best friend in my class that I usually walked home with was ill. I said my words to the teacher and left the building. I made a decision to sit on the front steps and wait for another neighbor who was in the third grade. A short wait for her to get out for the day seemed OK to me. Well, about 5 minutes before the bell was to ring for their dismissal, yes, who should emerge from the building but MY TEACHER. She didn’t ask me what I was doing there. She merely asked me, “What did you say to me when you left the classroom?” I repeated this and she said, ”Come back to the room with me.” For not doing what I had said that I would do, my punishment was to write, “I will go straight home” 100 times. Of course, by the time I finished this task, the 3rd grade students (including my friend) were long gone. Believe me; I went home as fast as my little legs would carry me. That night and every night that week, I had a dream, or perhaps I should say “nightmare”. After school, waiting for a friend, caught by the teacher, same punishment, but the ending was different! I finished my punishment task, BITS AND PIECES 10 went outside (it was dark), headed for home, saw a large strange person coming up behind me, tried to run, but couldn’t. At this point I woke up in a cold sweat with my legs churning back and forth trying to run. After this experience I, needless to say, did go straight home, companion or not. The dream reoccurred a few more times later that year. Before this event, the ritual at the door was a rote statement with no powerful meaning. After, believe me, those words had deep meaning even if I was not sure why they were so important. I did find out much later, that in those days, the teacher was responsible for each student in her class until they reached their home. That clarified it all for me. Perhaps, if I had had that knowledge at the time, I could have bonded with that teacher instead of harboring a strong dislike for her. BITS AND PIECES 11 COLLEGE DANCE W hen I am thinking about a story related to dance, my mind goes wild! Dance has been a very memorable part of my life. Where to go with this? Early years tap dance lessons, preteen social dance classes at a dance academy (not school), school dances from junior high school through college, in a class to teach dance in college, teaching dance in a college freshman dance class as part of the teaching-to-dance class lab, teaching dance every Friday as part of my High School student teaching, dancing at Reno’s western band night spots, workrelated dinner dances, social organization dinner dances, holiday related dinner dances, dancing on a cruise ship, dancing in Sweden, dancing in Spain, dancing at weddings, private party dances, or just putting on a few good dance records at home. For the most part, they conjure up happy and comical memories. I might just turn this dance topic into my own whole book! I’ve come to a decision! I will unfold the saga of the Delta Delta Delta costume dance which always had a theme of “ship wreck”. The costume was what you might be wearing at the time you had to abandon a sinking ship. The first order of business was to decide who I was going to invite to escort me. Of course, to a Sorority dance the woman did the asking. I had no steady at this point, because I had informed the men that I had dated, “I am a career woman and don’t want any serious relationships at this time.” There was one guy that I had gone to coffee with after class and he sort of intrigued me. So I gave it a go. He accepted the invitation and I gave him all of the particulars. (From this point on I will refer to him as “Bob”- that would be because that was his name). I told him where and what time to pick me up and to wear a costume. I said that I would be wearing a navy blue skirt with a sailor blouse (with the square collar) and an authentic sailor cap that I had gotten from a friend of the family who had been in the Navy. The big day arrives. The time is here. Bob pulls up to my house in his car. He comes to the door. He looks great, but he is in “stand go-to-the-movies clothes”. He has on nice slacks and a buttondown collar shirt. I say, “That’s alright with me, as long as you feel comfortable.” BITS AND PIECES 12 We are off to a private cocktail party at a friend’s house. We arrive, go in, and say, “Hi.” Bob peruses the other people at the party and sees: her in tops and he in bottoms of the same pajama set; a lady in a merry widow bra with can-can skirts and he in boxers and tee shirt; she in a formal gown and he in a tuxedo; she in a towel and he in a towel (with bathing suits underneath, of course); she and he just in bathing suits; he and she in sweat suits, etc., etc., etc. Bob says, “Wait here; I’ll only be gone a few minutes.” I say, “OK.” Meanwhile, my friend’s parents offer me a drink, which I accept. This is rather a new experience for me. I sip and wait for Bob to return. I sip and wait for Bob to return. I sip and wait for Bob to return. At (2nd drink) last Bob appears in a rather long flannel night shirt. Hurrah, he is getting with the spirit of the occasion! Then it was time for Bob to have a cocktail or two. No more for me! Finally we head out the door to proceed to the dance location. He starts walking in one direction and I say, “That is not the way to the car.” (I just knew that he was trying to confuse me because he thought that I had too much to drink.) I said, “You can’t fool me!” He, of course, brought me back to earth by muttering, “Maybe the same place that we parked when we arrived was not still available when I got back from my little side trip.” I agreed! At this moment he noticed the fine hedge that was growing around the property of the “cocktail party” house. It was about 3 ½ feet high. I guess that he wanted to prove that he, too, possessed all of his faculties after the drinks and vowed that he could hurdle said hedge. He also probably wanted to exhibit his athletic prowess to me because he knew that I was a Physical Education Major. He took a flying leap across the yard and landed flat on his “tushie” (we would have used another word in the fifties) because the lead leg, of course, pulled the back leg up with the stress of the nightgowns limited opening. Talk about embarrassed, but thankfully all that was hurt was his pride. We did proceed to the dance and had a wonderful time. We did the Swing, the Waltz, the Polka, the Tango, and those “animal” dances: the Fox Trot, and the Bunny Hop. The only frustrating part of the evening was that Bob had to stop dancing occasionally to roll up the pant legs under his flannel gown when they fell below the gown’s hemline. Bob and I did go out again, but not to a dance! BITS AND PIECES 13 BREAD L et me propose the question, “Is bread an important element to every meal that we eat?” My experience leads me to believe that this question is determined by a person’s early family life and their traditions and customs of eating as presented by the culture that they experienced as they were growing up. We must also be aware that there are many varieties of bread and focus on the fact that the sort preferred is, no doubt, a learned behavior. My parents were immigrants from Sweden, which, of course, was the total influence of my mother’s cooking and presentation. The bread of tradition served with our dinner was called “knackebrod”, which is a hard, flat, unleavened bread made of rye flour. It is made in rounds that are approximately 12 inches in diameter and about ¼ inch thick after being baked. My mother, however, did not bake this at home as it was readily available in the local stores. She preferred to be creative by baking butter horns, pastries, cakes and cookies. Needless to say her preference suited my family just fine. Many of her friends tried to encourage her to open a bakery, which she did not do, because she had too many other interests to be confined to this one activity. The bread rounds were broken into 3 inch or 4 inch pieces and placed in the ever-present basket on our kitchen table. I liked the taste and texture of this bread, but rarely ate any of it with dinner. For me it was more appealing as a bedtime snack with a piece of cheese on it and a cup of hot chocolate. My basic bread eating included sliced soft, toasted bread in the morning or soft bread used to create a sandwich for lunch. My Mom always had a variety of breads at home that she had baked or brought from the store that included pumpernickel, wheat, white, rye, Swedish rye, or other favorites. At this point, I must confess that I have never baked a loaf of regular bread in my entire life. Oh! Yes! I have baked banana, zucchini, pumpkin, corn and even cranberry bread, and very much enjoyed doing it. Before we leave this topic of the Knackebrod I must interject with a bold fact. We in the West are so aware of the cowboys and the trail drives of not too many years ago. I would like to point out that these cowboys had for bread on BITS AND PIECES 14 the trail what they called “hardtack”. That and the Swedish knackebrod were oneand-the-same. It was the obvious choice for the long periods of time on the trail. It was a long lasting, good tasting, substantial bread to accompany their stews and beans while driving the cattle to their destination. Now, let us look at things concerning bread through the eyes of my husband, Jose. He is from the Basque country of Spain and came to this country as a sheepherder contracted by Pete Cenerosa, the Secretary of State of the State of Idaho. He grew up in Spain at the time of the war in the 1930s. His family was comfortable as land owners, but those times were difficult for everyone. His home was relatively near to Gernika, and most of us are aware of its fate. Believe it or not, one of the important luxuries of this period was to be able to feed your family with white loaves of bread with meals. The pure white flour was, of course, the product of much refining and was therefore the most expensive kind that could be bought having gone through the extensive refining processes. The less refined, and by the way, the healthier of the two, resulted in what was referred to as “black bread”. Serving that in your home was a sure sign of being poor. Jose’s mother always had the white bread which she baked once a week at home and shared with many relatives. Now let us be seated at the Spanish Basque dinner table and observe the importance of the soft, delicious, white bread. At each person’s place, a few pieces of bread are arrayed near their plate. Many entrée dishes of the basic meals feature broths and sauces. Because of this your bread becomes an intricate element of your eating utensils. Your fork and your bread work together as your bread soaks up the juices and assists the food onto your fork. You can, no doubt, picture the difficulty of this union of fork and bread using “hardtack”. It is extremely difficult for Jose to eat a meal without bread. Because of my non-interest of bread with dinner, early in our marriage, I, at times, neglected to place that sacred loaf on the table. The dear man would somehow make it through the entire dinner without his beloved bread, and at the end, just say that it all would have been better if he had had a piece of bread. I would feel very bad about it, but also resent, just a little bit, his stubbornness displayed by not telling me or getting it himself. My husband has made many loaves of bread at home in the oven and also baked it underground when we were out camping. It always seems to turn out to perfection. He tells me that the difference between the sweet and the sourdough bread BITS AND PIECES 15 is strictly relative to the amount of salt used in your dough. The more salt, the more sour it becomes. Gee, I always thought that sourdough was made from some very exotic, secret, fermented, concoction developed only during the full moon. Before I give up on this bread topic, I must relate a camping experience when Jose provided our hungry group with a loaf of the sheepherder bread made in the cast iron Dutch oven and baked under the ground. One summer my sister, her husband and five children, Jose, me and our son went to Eastern Oregon for a vacation of camping in our RV trailers. I must interject here that this had been a very dry season and the fire danger was extreme. When we go camping, my husband just can not contain himself, and magically becomes “Jose the shepherd”. He loves to re-live his first four years in America as a sheepherder whenever possible. He delights in providing the food when we are in the out-of-doors. Us slaves to the boundless conveniences of our home kitchen facilities do not have a problem with this. He is always prepared with his white flour, salt, yeast, large aluminum basin pan, and, of course, the Dutch oven. To get the ball rolling, he begins his preparation of ingredient mixing and sends the rest of the group to clear a ten foot area and gather dry twigs and sagebrush. By the way, if you are unfamiliar with this area of Oregon, it is much akin to parts of Nevada with its rolling hills, lots of sagebrush, and few trees. We comply and amass a huge pile of dry fuel. After his dough has risen and been punched down a number of times the time has arrived to prepare the cooking hole. This hole is about 2 to 2 ½ feet in depth and 2 ½ feet in diameter. The area around it has at this point been totally cleared of vegetation and like in Nevada finding a large clean area is not very difficult. The dough, being properly aerated, has been placed in the big black pot and covered. A fire is started in the hole and soon it is blazing away with all of our great fodder offerings. The result from this massive inferno is a wonderful bed of glowing embers just Fire hole where the bread was baked. waiting for the introduction of that black pot and contents with BITS AND PIECES 16 its tightly fitting lid. This is skillfully executed and our pot becomes one with the bright orange glow and is covered carefully with dirt. This accomplished, all we need to do is “whatever” for the next hour or better still until it is time to eat. About 15 minutes after our bread was “in progress” we noticed a Forestry Service vehicle approaching our camping area. They pulled into a clear spot and the Rangers descended from their truck. They had come to tell us that from a distance away, they thought that they had seen an enormous fire burning in or about our camp ground. They asked if we knew anything about this. Our husbands said, “No,” and said that they might want to look around to see if they found any evidence of a fire. They checked and found nothing. Then Jose produced his fire permit, explained the breadmaking process and suggested Jose and Frank with the finished product. that they might wish to move their vehicle as it was parked directly over our “oven”. They wanted to stay and sample the bread, but regretted not having time to stick around. BITS AND PIECES 17 RING SIDE SEATS M y sister and I have a great many memories to share. My personal favorites are the years that we have spent watching the Reno Balloon Races together, but never from the park. I remember the first time, about 15 years ago, we ventured to 720 Arius Court to see the Dawn Patrol at 5:30 a.m. It was my husband’s and my empty lot with a retaining wall being the site of our future home. We each arose at 4:30 from our respective beds and homes to meet for the event armed with sweatshirts, blankets, thermoses of hot chocolate or coffee, bags of donuts, and lawn chairs. We had a ball, along with the rest of the family, but didn’t linger too long because of the lack of “facilities”. A year or two later we saw some upgrading when we had the basement wall to sit on and the “ever-loving” Sani-Hut. (Building one’s own custom home can be very time consuming.) This was certainly a vast improvement, resulting in a longer stay on that hill just north-east of Rancho San Rafael Park, where the balloons set out on their journey across Reno. The breeze was usually just right to send those beautiful multi-colored, multi- shaped objects right over our heads. Often we could also talk to the pilots and crew as they Back row:Denise, Dedra, Gail, and Debbie; front row: Anna and Ellen in custom made balloon shirts ~ 1997. floated past. We were often mystified by what had to be precise engineering of the many diverse shapes to get them airborne and balanced. The Panda head, Noah’s Ark, the Korbel champagne bottle, Jesus on a cloud, the United van, the birthday cake, the Energizer bunny, the cow, the pigs, the hot dog, the ice cream cone, and the Jack Daniels bottle are some of the outstanding examples. The normal balloon shaped ones were a delight to the eye as they displayed their beautiful designs BITS AND PIECES 18 and colors. In 1994, we were just finishing the inside of the house, but hadn’t moved in as yet. It was all enclosed, had electricity, and the plumbing was intact, this being a major concern for our relaxation and enjoyment for spending any extended amount of time in the vicinity. We decided that if we took an air mattress, blankets, our jammies, toothbrushes, and a little extra food, we could sleep there and not have to get up so early. If we wanted to, we could also just stay in our bathrobes. Therefore, the very first time I slept in my new house, it was just my sister and me. Starting in 1995 (the year Joe, my husband and I moved in) we have reserved one of the bedrooms just for Anna May. She stays with us from Friday through Sunday. Although we all live in Reno, this extended visit time is very special to all of us. We look forward to this time of sharing with her and hope that it continues for many a year to come. I am sure that neither one of use has the desire to actually take a ride in one. Watching from the terra firma is thrill enough for these two sisters. BITS AND PIECES 19 TRAVEL – HAWAII anticipated. The weather ost was also people extremely set out on cooperative vacation with and the thought of pleasant seeing new during our places, things, stay. That is people, and to say that having there was experiences lots of that they never sunshine dreamed and very possible. few of those Vacation time “ziri-miri’s” allows a person (the name to embark on the people a brand new in the adventure with Basque great country give anticipation of to misty-like discovering all moisture The Guerricagoitias in Hawaii. new vistas, and that seems environments to appear or revisiting those familiar from nowhere). We, of course, favorites. The varied climates, did the really fun touristy things vegetation, man-made like luaus, visiting cultural centers, structures, etc. makes travel here museums, macadamia nut and on our earth so very exciting. candy factories, botanical My husband, Jose, and I gardens, monuments, planned such a trip a few years government buildings, and we ago to Hawaii. It was over-all a even went to a ranch for a very fulfilling vacation. The barbeque and hoe–down. islands, with their waterfalls, We had an interesting beaches of white or black sand, experience in a restaurant as tropical flowers, bushes, trees, well. The eating area was on the and natural canyons were every third floor which was round in bit as beautiful as we had M BITS AND PIECES 20 shape and larger than the rest of the building. It gave the place the look of a mushroom. We had made reservations and realized that this place with its formally dressed waiters and other staff and its five star menu, was really a special place. What we failed to notice at first was that the whole floor was actually rotating, but so slowly that no movement could be detected. From our great view table by the huge windows, I was the first to notice, as we sipped cocktails, that there was, at that point, a different building in our immediate eyeshot. Joe told me that one cocktail would be quite enough for me, until he started paying attention and agreed that the restaurant was indeed turning very, very slowly. Next, we ordered our dinner and elected to begin with a serving of escargot as an appetizer. Before we had barely had a change of scenery, one of our “mini-tux, bow tie wearing” waiters delivered a small round loaf of bread to our table. We sat and looked at it for quite some time, but continued to wonder when our escargot would arrive. Finally, our hunger was getting the best of us and we decided to indulge in just a wee bite of bread. Jose cut into the loaf and low-and-behold, there encrusted before us was the familiar six section porcelain dish containing YES! our escargot. We have eaten escargot at many fine restaurants, but never with such a surprising and beautiful presentation. We both felt really silly, but those well-trained waiters did not make the slightest “notice” of our ignorance. After dinner, which was as you can guess, absolutely gourmet number one, we strolled a bit window shopping and observing people as the hour was not very late, and we wanted to digest our dinner and burn a few calories before retiring. We heard music from a distance that sounded energetic and inviting (we love to dance) and soon came upon a disco. It had a walkway that sort of went downward, so we followed it and encountered a couple of macho men at the entrance. They smiled and told us that there was a cover charge, but if we wanted to go in they would waive the charge for us. What an opportunity, WOW! In we went! The dim-lit cavern of this rocking place was quite large, extremely crowded, and resounding with great music. We pushed our way around a bit, couldn’t get anywhere near the bar, danced a few steps to the furious beat of the pulsating music, having a great time. Then Jose sort of semi-whisper-shouted in my ear, that perhaps it was time for us to leave. It seemed that a couple of the guys had “accidentally” patted him on the bottom. We left as quickly as we could muscle our way through the crowd to the BITS AND PIECES 21 entrance. The door guys just grinned as we left and said, “Have a good evening”, as we only were in this lively, gay place for about fifteen minutes. Chalk up another world adventure for us. How much entertainment and excitement can two people have in one evening? Then there was the day that we were just driving around enjoying the beauty of the tropical island and happened upon Charo’s Restaurant. We all, our course, know her as the coochie, coochie blond who married the band leader Xavior Cougot. It was lunch time so we decided to check it out. Joe is a big Charo fan and was hoping that he might see her there. Yeh! Right! At any rate it was an experiment to see what the menu was like. Were the prices outrageous? Was the food good? We were not disappointed. The food was well presented and well in line with “island” lunch prices and actually very delicious. We didn’t find Charo, but enjoyed eating in her restaurant all the same. The main door led to the huge parking lot at the front of the restaurant. There was also a back door that led to the beach directly behind the building. It really was not a beach, but a water front with rocky crags and pounding waves that crashed against the rough rocks creating a wild water show. It was a beautiful sunny day and as we exited, I immediately realized that I had forgotten my sunglasses on the table inside. I returned and looked around the table, but did not find them. Just then our waitress entered the front door with glasses in hand, saw me, and said that she could not understand how we had disappeared so fast from the parking lot. I told her that we had exited the rear door to enjoy the scenery. I thanked her for my glasses and again headed for the back door. AS I passed a table where two couples sat, one of Is this Jose or Anthony Quinn? the men asked, “Now what is your husband’s name again?” I am sure that I didn’t mask the surprise on my face as I replied, “Jose.” The man continued “Well, didn’t he used to perform on the Lawrence Welk Show?” I said that either Jose was keeping secrets from me or he must have him confused with BITS AND PIECES 22 someone else. They are now doing reruns of this show on Channel 5 and I watch faithfully when I have a chance to see if I can figure out who the man may have been talking about. To date I haven’t even come close to a faint recognition. I love the adventure of interacting with people you’ve never met before in places you’ve never been to as well. No visit to Hawaii or other tropical islands could be complete without doing the snorkeling experience. I have always been a swimmer (Junior Lifesaving), but had never been in a place to attempt this aquatic endeavor. I was really quite excited about swimming with the beautiful fish and seeing them up close and personal in all of their colorful splendor. Our destination was Hanami Bay on Oahu. It is a very large lagoon with water that gradually deepens, has many beautiful rock and coral formations and is rimmed on the edge to the ocean with large rocks. It is forbidden to swim passed this outer rock barrier because the ocean beyond is extremely dangerous due to three or four ocean currents intersecting in that area. Jose and I parked on the bluff where the parking lot was located and descended to the beach and prepared to give this snorkeling thing a try. We were given our gear and basic instructions and off we paddled. We both seemed to get the hang of this snorkeling gear and breathing technique like a duck (or maybe a fish) takes to water. What a wonderful, exhilarating experience. We surfaced occasionally to compare notes on the varieties of fish of every imaginable hue that we had observed. Before too very long, unfortunately, Jose’s knee had a run-in with a sharp piece of jutting coral. We got out of the water to Hanami Bay on Oahu. Don’t snorkel beyond the rock barrier! inspect the damage. It was bad. A chunk of Joe’s knee a little less than dime size and about ¼ inch deep was missing and bleeding quite a lot. We found a First Aid Station and he was “doctored” and told, “Don’t go near the water!” His snorkeling adventure was over for the time being. He said that he would be content to get a “tall cool one” to sip and sit under the palm trees and people watch for awhile. He did not want to stop me from getting my fill of this newly discovered, pleasurable experience in the ocean. BITS AND PIECES 23 I happily submerged again and paddled off to continued ecstasy in that pristine wonderland. It truly was a fantastic, clear day and the sun was illuminating the water down to the lagoon’s sandy bottom. This was definitely a perfect day for this activity. I cruised around, mesmerized by the different tropical fish that greet me around each corner of every rock or coral formation. A new vision of color exploded at every turn. I came to the realization that I had been under the water for quite some time and should surface and check my location; see if I had developed gills and check on Jose. I popped up my head and was immediately smacked in the face with a huge wave and actually took in a little water. Being in vertical position I was also pushed against a large rock which contacted my upper thigh causing a large bruise a bit later. Another wave smacked against my face and nearly dislodged my snorkel gear. I gasped, checked around and discovered that I had passed that ridge of rocks and was now beyond the safety of the lagoon, and in the forbidden undertow area. My immediate thought was that I did not realize that I was in rough water until I came to the surface. I knew that I must use my snorkel gear and again go under the water. I quickly checked for the direction of the beach, put my mouthpiece in place and went under. Thank goodness, the snorkel tube did its thing and I did mine. I carefully made my way around a number of large craggy rocks and felt serenely positive that I would soon be in the still, calm waters of the lagoon. It turned out as I had hoped. The next t Ellen on Oahu time I raised my head above the water I was very near the beautiful beach. I congratulated myself for not becoming panicky, but thinking rationally when I realized that I was in very serious trouble. Maybe it’s just a built-in instinct that we all possess when it comes to survival. I quietly joined Jose under the palms with “a tall cool one” in hand, and asked how his knee was doing? It was still a bit painful. He asked how my snorkeling went and I told him BITS AND PIECES 24 that it had been an extremely eye-opening adventure and much more exciting than I had expected and let it go at that. We left for Reno the next day, and I was unable to tell him about my brush with death, which it really was, until we had been safe at home for more than a week. Jose remembered that snorkeling day for quite some time as well. It took a long time for his knee to heal and there is still a small scar in evidence. The bruise on my thigh did not take long to disappear. Well, we have taken a glimpse of our adventures and misadventure on this Hawaiian vacation. As always, returning home is beyond compare. This time was especially great because we were again able to enjoy the pleasure of seeing and playing with our first grandchild, Teresa, who was just 3 months old. We love to travel and get away when we can, but, when you get right down to it, home is the most satisfying place to be for relaxation and comfort. Safely home to enjoy my granddaughter Teresa ( 1988). BITS AND PIECES 25 BITS AND PIECES BITS AND PIECES 26