February - Congregation Har Shalom
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February - Congregation Har Shalom
TABLET The February 2012 Volume 48, Issue 7 The 2012/5772 Alan B. Levenson Endowment Lecture and Brunch Sunday, March 18—9:30 AM P lease join us for this year’s Alan B. Levenson Endowment Lecture and Brunch on Sunday, March 18, at 9:30 am, when our guest speaker will be Eugene (Gene) Rothberg. The program is sponsored by the Congregation Har Shalom Alan B. Levenson Fund and presented by the Adult Education Committee. The Fund was established Eugene (Gene) by Alan’s wife Joan. The fund’s purpose is Rotberg to sponsor annual lectures by individuals who have the same lifelong commitment to the ideals that Alan showed in his work as a lawyer, teacher, and scholar, and his dedication to the Torah’s mandate to pursue justice and ethics in all aspects of public and private life. You may donate to the Alan B. Levenson Fund by using the Har Shalom donation form available online at http://www.harshalom.org/donations/donate.asp. Gene Rotberg has served as an advisor to governments, international institutions, and the private sector on matters dealing with interest and exchange rate volatility, the regulation (continued on page 3) Men’s Club Health and Wellness Fair — Sunday, March 4 — See page 16 for details. “Bye Bye Birdie” Tickets Still Available T he 50+ member cast, 10+ member orchestra, and production team for the Har Shalom Players’ performance of “Bye Bye Birdie” have been hard at work rehearsing, learning songs and dance numbers, selecting some “period” costumes, and getting the lighting and sound just right for its shows at 8:00 pm on Saturday night, February 25, and 3:00 pm on Sunday, February 26. (continued on page 9) Please note: “Bye Bye Birdie” ticket order form is inside on page 10. Shevat/Adar 5772 Jewish Disability Awareness Shabbat to Be Held on February 18 W ith great pleasure, the Kulanu Committee will be welcoming Aaron Kaufman as our Jewish Disability Awareness Shabbat speaker on February 18. His topic, “Recovering Stolen Lives: A Journey of Self-Advocacy,” will explore how people with disabilities themselves have become leaders in ensuring that they are full participants in our society. With the help of advocates like our speaker, people have moved out of institutions into the community, where, with support, they live in their own homes, have jobs, and become involved in activities—most importantly, in synagogue life. Over the years, they have gained more and more control over their lives. Mr. Kaufman, who has cerebral palsy and learning disabilities, is a recent graduate of the University of Maryland, where he excelled academically. Though still in his twenties, he is an accomplished speaker who has much experience in working on disability policy on the county, state, and national levels. Locally, he has served on the County Commission for People with Disabilities and the Board of the Jewish Foundation for Group Homes. On the state level he has interned for Delegate Heather Mizeur and served on the Board of the Maryland Developmental Disabilities Council, a federally-funded advocacy organization. He has also interned nationally for Senator Evan Bayh and Representative Chris Van Hollen. In addition, he worked as an intern with the senior lobbyist for the National Easter Seal Society. (continued on page 5) Be Happy! Adar is Coming! Purim at Har Shalom— A Festive Celebration for Everybody! Wednesday, March 7 6:00 pm—Gan Purim—Start Purim Off With a Performance Especially for Young Children and Their Families 6:30 pm—The Grand Purim Masquerade Ball— Dancing, Moon Bounce, Hamantashen & Hot Dogs, Costume Parade, and Face Painting 8:00 pm—Traditional Megillah Reading Free—Come in Costume! Thursday, March 8 6:45 am— Shaharit, Including Megillah Reading www.harshalom.org • 301-299-7087 an inclusive, accessible congregation affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism CLERGY THOUGHTS Rabbi Adam J. Raskin, 301-299-7087 ext. 1; Email: [email protected] The Bar and Bat Mitzvah Outcomes of My Dreams D ear Friends, I often ask parents of soon-to-be b’nai mitzvah, “What do you hope this celebration will mean for the future Jewish life of your son or daughter?” Typically parents tell me that they want the bar or bat mitzvah experience to prove to their child that he or she can accomplish great things if the child dedicates himself or herself Rabbi Adam J. Raskin sufficiently. (Indeed, how many young teens have led hundreds of people in worship in a foreign language; read an ancient text to a distinctive chant; and reflected publicly, in a sophisticated way, on a Scriptural episode?) Some parents hope that the bar or bat mitzvah experience will shore up and affirm their child’s Jewish identity and commitments for a lifetime. Others just want them to enjoy being surrounded by family and friends in a joyful, Jewish atmosphere. These are all wonderful answers, and I share in all of these dreams for our kids. After several years of asking these questions to parents, I have begun to think about what outcomes of the bar or bat mitzvah I believe to be critical for our kids, and what I hope they will gain from the experience. I share with you here some of those reflections… The TABLET The Newsletter for Congregation Har Shalom Rabbi Hazzan Executive Director Director of Congregational Learning Early Childhood Director Youth Director Rabbi Emeritus Cantor Emeritus Founding Rabbi Adam J. Raskin President Henrique Ozur Bass Vice Presidents Michael L. Simmons, FSA, ATz Rabbi Deborah Bodin Cohen Treasurer LiranLaor Financial Secretary Julie Ashin S. Cahan Secretary Leonard Communications Calvin K. Chizever Gordon, z”l Editor Morris Ombudsman Copyright ©2012 by Congregation Har Shalom 11510 Falls Road Potomac, Maryland 20854-2297 301-299-7087 fax 301-299-2247 Jeff Ashin Larry Center Wes Kaplow Debbie Schapiro David Silver Mark Strassman Ken Paretzky David Frome Cindy Fishman Barbara Kaplowitz Sandy Schonfeld Sorell Schwartz 2. I hope our kids will walk away from the bar or bat mitzvah experience with a reservoir of Jewish life skills. My aspiration is that Har Shalom b’nai mitzvah will possess the capability to lead services in any Jewish setting where they may find themselves (Hillel on campus, a shiva minyan, or a shul on the other side of the world, for example), and that they can participate in the most sacred event in synagogue life: the chanting of the Torah and Haftarah. I want our kids to learn the tropes, the musical symbols that accompany the text, so that they can be active participants in the life of our shul, and any other shul they may become affiliated with in their adult lives. I also want Jewish prayer to be a medium of spirituality that they find comfortable and uplifting. 3. The speech that a bar or bat mitzvah delivers to his or her fellow congregants, family members, and friends is a unique and special honor. The d’var Torah, literally “a word of Torah,” consists of a thoughtful reflection on what the Torah has to say to us today. If we didn’t believe that the Torah had a modern, relevant message, then it would be meshugganeh to read it over and over, year after year. But the Jewish people have claimed that through devoted study one can discover that every portion of the Torah has something significant to teach us each year that we return to it, (continued on page 11) Internet: www.harshalom.org Submissions to the TABLET are welcome. Please email to [email protected]. Deadline for each issue is SIX WEEKS prior to publication date. The TABLET USPS 002-534 is published monthly, except bi-monthly July/ August for $20.00 per year by Congregation Har Shalom, 11510 Falls Road, Potomac, Maryland 20854. Periodicals postage paid at Rockville, Maryland. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to the TABLET, Congregation Har Shalom, 11510 Falls Road, Potomac, Maryland 20854. 2 1. The first and foremost outcome that I envision is a sense of belonging in and to a community of fellow Jews. I often comment after one of our post-b’nai mitzvah leads a part of the service or reads Torah that “Nothing makes this rabbi happier than to see a kid on the bimah after the bar or bat mitzvah!” The paradox of service attendance requirements or expectations before the bar or bat mitzvah is that it is really attendance after the bar or bat mitzvah that is most important. Certainly we want our kids to be familiar with the services, melodies, choreography, etc., prior to the bar or bat mitzvah. What I consider a success, however, is when kids learn from this experience that Shabbat is the central gathering time for their Jewish community; that the time and place to connect with their faith community, with their fellow Jews, with their tradition, and with their culture is on Shabbat. What I consider a tragedy is when a child walks away from the bar or bat mitzvah thinking the gathering was an exclusive, special event in his or her own life, rather than understanding it as one part—albeit a very special part—of his or her community’s weekly celebration of Shabbat. Emergency Contact Notice In case of illness, death, or any other family emergency, please contact Rabbi Raskin at 240-687-7218. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 2012/5772 Lecture and Brunch (continued from page 1) of financial markets, risk taking, and the role of international development institutions. He held the position of Vice President and Treasurer of the World Bank where he was responsible for its overall funding and investment operations from 1968 to 1987. Prior to his serving at the World Bank, Gene served for 11 years at the United States Securities and Exchange Commission where he held the positions of Associate Director for Market Regulation and Chief Counsel, Office of Policy Research. During his tenure at the SEC, Gene also served on the Special Study of Securities Markets and conducted public hearings on the structure of the securities markets, commission rates, competition in the financial industry, and related anti-trust matters. Gene also held the position, Executive Vice President of Merrill Lynch & Co., where he was responsible for overall risk management from 1987 to 1991. Gene has served as a Director on various international and public domestic corporate and advisory boards and nonprofit institutions. He currently is a Senior Advisor to The George Washington University Investment Committee and has served as a Trustee of the Washington National Opera, the NPR Foundation, The Theatre Lab, and INMED, a nonprofit institution devoted to improving health conditions for children at risk. He recently was designated by Institutional Investor magazine as one of the 40 most influential persons world-wide in finance over the last 40 years. Most recently, he has written an opera libretto concerning the events in Tahir Square, Egypt. Gene is an opera fanatic. table of contents Adult Education.......................................... page 4 Art Gallery.................................................. page 5 B’nai Mitzvah.............................................. page 9 “Bye Bye Birdie”.............................pages 1 and 10 Calendar.............................................pages 14-15 Clergy Thoughts......................................... page 2 Daytimers................................................... page 6 Disability Awareness Shabbat...................... page 1 Donations...........................................pages 22-23 Early Childhood Education......................... page 5 Family News............................................... page 9 Gemilut Hasadim........................................ page 5 House Tour...................... page 8 and pages 12-13 Levenson Lecture and Brunch..................... page 1 Martin Luther King “Day of Service”.page 24 (final page) Men’s Club.........................................pages 16-17 Programs of Interest.................................... page 8 Purim Schedule........................................... page 1 Religious School......................................... page 3 Sisterhood...........................................pages 18-21 World Jewry............................................pages 6-7 He has addressed a wide range of conferences and symposia throughout the world on matters dealing with the relationship of public policy to finance and development, financial engineering, exchange rate and trade policy, and the international development agencies. He has testified before U.S. Senate and House Committees concerning derivatives, risk taking, and international development, and has published extensively on these subjects. Gene is a lawyer who received a Bachelor of Science degree from Temple University and his Law degree from the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Religious School Rabbi Deborah Bodin Cohen: 301-299-7087, ext. 229 • Email:[email protected] Youth Mitzvah Clubs A new initiative for Har Shalom youth is underway—Mitzvah Clubs. The idea behind a Mitzvah Club is simple. Each grade level will have its own Mitzvah Club. Each Mitzvah Club will get together once every month or two for a project to help the greater community—food drives, cooking for the hungry, visits to old-age homes, and walk-a-thons, for example. Parents will take turns planning these projects, with the help of the Education Office. The projects do not need to be complicated or fancy, but should offer a chance for the students to work together, do a good deed, and get to know one another better. Both Religious School and Day School students are invited to participate. The first Mitzvah Club event took place over the Martin Luther King holiday weekend. The 4th Grade Mitzvah Club ran a food drive for Manna Food Bank at the Giant grocery store on Tuckerman Lane (see photo on this page). The students had a great time collecting food and passing out information about Manna Food Bank. They collected three or four carts of food for the needy. Yashar koach on a job well done! If you would like to get involved planning a Mitzvah Club event for your student’s grade, please let Rabbi Cohen know. Likewise, if you know of a great mitzvah opportunity for young people, please be in touch. Rabbi Cohen will be happy to send a Mitzvah Club of volunteers to help out! 4th Grade Mitzvah Club Rabbi Deborah Cohen and the 4th Grade Mitzvah Club are hard at work during their MLK food drive. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 3 H AR S HALOM A DULT E DUCATION JOURNEY NEW IN FEBRUARY & MARCH THROUGH THE SIDDUR R ABBI R ASKIN WITH Rabbi Raskin will explore the rich content, meaning, and history of the siddur (prayer book). Participants will understand the intentional ordering of significant prayers, the postures and movements associated with them, and how the siddur is structured to enrich our prayer lives with significance and transcendence. Tuesdays at 8:00 pm, February 7, 21, 28, and March 6. ADVANCED TORAH READING CLASS: HIGH HOLY DAY TROPE WITH DAVE KENTON During the next High Holy Days, welcome the new year by chanting Torah. This advanced course is for candidates with Torah reading skills, and will focus on High Holy Day trope. This class is intended for those who read Torah and know names and sounds of the Torah trope marks, and wish to broaden their skills. Minimum class enrollment needed. Wednesdays at 8:00 pm, starting February 8. SCROLLING THROUGH THE YEAR: THE BOOK OF ESTHER WITH RABBI COHEN Join Rabbi Cohen throughout the year for text study of the Five Megillot, the five scrolls, that are read during the holiday cycle. In March, discuss the Book of Esther in honor of Purim. Tuesday, March 13, at 8:00 pm. JEWISH STUDIO ART: SILK-PAINTED MATZAH COVERS WITH FYLIS PECKHAM Make a beautiful matzah cover for your seder table and learn new skills of silk-painting. Fylis Peckham is a well-known Jewish fiber artist. Tuesdays, March 20 and 27, from 6:30-9:00 pm, with a break for minyan. Registration: $36. PARENTS’ DISCUSSION: INSPIRING AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE WITH RABBI COHEN In our culture of plenty, how do we instill an attitude of gratitude in our children? How can Judaism serve as a vehicle for teaching thankfulness and a giving nature? Come ready to talk, laugh, and share. Wednesday, March 21, at 7:30 pm. Location TBA. GLUTEN-FREE PASSOVER COOKING WITH SARI RASKIN AND ALYSE STEINBORN Learn to make gluten-free recipes for Passover and everyday. We will be taste-testing gluten-free recipes that are common during Passover and comparing them to their non-gluten-free counterparts. We encourage participants to bring their favorite recipes, questions, and experiences so we can learn from each other. Please note: the kitchen is not gluten-free. Sunday, March 25, from 4:00-6:00 pm, at the home of Sari Raskin. Fee: $18. C ONTINUING C LASSES —N EWCOMERS W ELCOME ! W EBINAR —W IRED INTO T ORAH WITH R ABBI R ASKIN , H AZZAN O ZUR B ASS , AND R ABBI C OHEN Join the Har Shalom community online, once a week, for an interactive Torah study session. Tuesdays at 12:30 pm. Contact [email protected] for information on how to sign in. M ISHNA S TUDY WITH R ABBI R ASKIN AND H AZZAN O ZUR B ASS In this year’s Mishnah study group we will focus on tractate Avodah Zarah. Thursdays at 10 :00 am. S HABBAT T ORAH S TUDY WITH F RED S TEINBERG Join this popular, long-standing Torah discussion group, each Shabbat at approximately 12:30 pm. No Hebrew knowledge or previous Torah study necessary—just an interest in looking at Torah text and discussing it. TALMUD WITH RABBI LEONARD CAHAN Explore the Talmud and its lessons with Rabbi Cahan. This perennial favorite has been around for over a decade. Hebrew or prior study helpful, but not required. Novice students always welcome! Mondays from 8:00-9:00 pm. I NTERFAITH B IBLE S TUDY WITH R ABBI C AHAN AND R EV . J AN L OOKINGBILL Rabbi Cahan and Rev. Jan Lookingbill, pastor of Emmanuel Lutheran Church in Bethesda, are teaming up again to offer their long-running interfaith Bible study class. Newcomers are always welcome. This year the class will continue studying the Book of Deuteronomy. The class meets once a month on a Sunday at 7:00 pm, and rotates locations between Har Shalom and Emmanuel Lutheran. The next class will be held on February 12 at Har Shalom. REGISTER WITH SHARI BENOWITZ, 301-299-7087, EXT. 228—[email protected] 4 www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 Early childhood education Early Childhood Center: 301-299-7087, ext. 235 • Email: [email protected] • Liran Laor, Director Reenactment of the Hanukah Story 11 Week Summer Program @ Har Shalom ECEC T his year the ECEC community, with the help of the clergy, reenacted the story of Hanukah. The reenactment of the story was a wrap-up of the entire classroom Hanukah learning experience. The children prepared for the reenactment by creating costumes and props for the play. June 12 to August 24, 2012 Half-Day and Full-Day Programs Ages 2-5 Join us for a great summer experience The idea behind the reenactment was to engage the children in active learning. By taking part in the reenactment, the children gained a tangible experience of the story. Each year, your child’s experience changes according to his/her developmental stage, with a different layer of understanding emerging. art Gallery Don’t miss the early sign-up discounts! Contact Liran Laor, Director, ECEC 301-299-7087, ext. 244, or [email protected] www.HarShalomECEC.org gemilut hasadim Gemilut Hasadim: 301-299-7087, ext. 314 • Email: [email protected] • Hilary Weiss, Chairman Art Gallery: 301-299-7087, ext. 310 • Email: ArtGallery@ harshalom.org • Fran Abrams, Chairman “Scenes and Ceramics” Continues S cenes and Ceramics” will be on display through Monday, February 27. Featured on the walls are art quilts by Eileen Doughty, Vienna, Va.; pastel paintings by Jean Hirons, Rockville, Md.; and oil paintings by Judy Gilbert Levey, Bethesda, Md. Each artist brings a different medium to landscapes, each with unique results, but all with the effect of taking you away to special places. “ A Professional teachers A Sports & water play A Art & music A Special performances & more… The showcases display the ceramics of Yonina Blech-Hermoni, Rockville, Md., who creates both trompe l’oeil handbags that look entirely real but are made from clay and other materials such as chain handles, and functional pottery including bowls and mugs. In order to examine these works in detail and learn more about the artists, go to the Har Shalom home page, click on the “What’s Happening” tab, and then click on “Har Shalom Art Gallery.” Gallery Har Shalom is located on the walls and in the glass showcases between the Burke Sanctuary and the Stempler Social Hall. As you travel the hallway, be sure to stop and look at the beautiful work on display, and remember that all work is for sale. Sales forms are available in the rack on the Gallery wall, and purchases can be made at the office. Remember that a percentage of all sales benefits Har Shalom. February Collection: Focus on Foods T hank you to everyone who donated hats, scarves, and warm socks during January’s “Collection of the Month.” The donated items were given to the Montgomery County Men’s Shelter and JSSA. The February collection is convenience foods and kid-friendly foods to be donated to Food and Friends and Manna Food Center Smart Snacks. Disability Shabbat (continued from page 1) Mr. Kaufman has a long list of awards and other honors, including The ARC of Maryland’s award for “Outstanding Volunteer Service in Governmental Affairs,” the National Young Leaders Conference’s “Youth Leadership Award,” the Yes I Can! Foundation for Exceptional Children’s “Self Advocacy Award,” and the “President’s Award for Educational Excellence.” The Shabbat Kiddush, sponsored by the Kulanu Committee, will feature baked goods from Sunflower Bakery, where people with disabilities learn transferable job skills. Other activities for Jewish Disability Awareness Month include our yearly lobby display and special Shabbat prayer each week. The ECEC, Religious School, and Youth Department are also planning events. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 5 world jewry World Jewry: 301-299-7087, ext. 311 • Email: [email protected] • Hal Freed, Chairman Congregants Encouraged to Learn More About AJIRI T he mission of the American Jewish International Relations Institute (AJIRI) is to educate the public about the United Nation’s program to delegitimize Israel, and how that program can be brought to an end. Our own Leon Weintraub is on the AJIRI Board of Directors and can respond to your questions about the Institute. Information about AJIRI can also be found on their website at www.AJIRI.us. The Har Shalom World Jewry Committee, as part of its focus on advocacy, is supportive of AJIRI’s efforts and asks that you save the date of Sunday, March 25, at 7:15 pm, to join the Committee in a community-wide fundraising event for the Institute. The event will be held at Ohr Kodesh Congregation in Silver Spring, Maryland. The program will offer a discussion of the current situation in the U.N., as well as AJIRI’s efforts and successes. Featured speakers will include Senator Ben Cardin, U.S. Senator from Maryland, and Ambassador Ron Prosor, Israel’s Representative to the U.N. Ambassador Marlene Moses, from the Pacific Island State of Nauru, will be honored for her support of Israel in the U.N. A dessert reception will follow and dietary laws will be observed. Contact Leon Weintraub or the World Jewry Committee at the phone number or email address at the top of this column for more information about AJIRI and the March 25 fundraising event. Please see AIPAC Policy Conference information on page 7. Welcome to Witold Dzielski On January 8, the Har Shalom World Jewry Committee and the Men’s Club presented speaker Witold Dzielski, first Secretary of the Polish Embassy in Washington. Among his duties is a focus on Polish-Jewish affairs. The program was the first 2012 Men’s Club Sunday Speakers Series and Brunch sessions. Witold Dzielski Daytimers Daytimers: 301-299-7087, ext. 275 • Email: [email protected] • Jerry and Selma Miller, Co-Chairs Activist in Interfaith Dialogue to Address Daytimers I nterfaith activist Dylan Kaplan, researcher and assistant to Ambassador Akbar Ahmed, Ibn Kaldun Chair of Islamic Studies at American University, will be the guest speaker at the Daytimers Forum on Wednesday, February 8, at 12:30 pm. In a talk entitled “Jewish-Muslim Relations,” Kaplan will describe efforts to bring both communities together. As an American University student and undergraduate senator, Kaplan represents 6,000 students in the student government. In a recent statement, he observed: “Interfaith dialogue is a challenging enterprise at this time of widespread Islamophobia, prejudice, and a media that often increases misunderstanding among people.” Our speaker’s presentation will underscore this challenge. The brown-bag dairy forums are held monthly, September to June, from 12-2 pm, and are free and open to all. Desserts are always served. An Israeli Thriller—Fourth Film in Festival Series Screenings A n edge-of-the-seat thriller—“Time of Favor” (Israel— 1 hour, 30 minutes)—will be screened at the 6 Daytimers Film Festival on Wednesday, February 15, beginning promptly at 12:30 pm. The central character in this tension-filled film is a highly respected Israel Defense Forces (IDF) soldier who is also a devout student of a controversial West Bank settlement rabbi. Despite official concerns, the soldier is leading an army unit made up of other students of the rabbi. Further complications include the rabbi’s beautiful daughter and a plot to blow up the Temple Mount. The film will be introduced by Marie Kramer who, together with Sam Kramer, conducts the popular Daytimers Film Festival, which runs monthly through April. Bring a dairy or pareve lunch at noon, and stay for the film that begins at 12:30 pm. Dessert is always served. The TABLET is in color online each month. Go to www.harshalom.org, click on “What’s Happening,” and go to “TABLET Online.” The current issue and earlier issues are available to download. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 Join us for three of the most important days affecting Israel’s future. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 7 house tour programs of interest House Tour: 301-299-7087, ext. 336 • Email: [email protected] • Joan Levenson and Jack Markowitz, Chairmen Sisterhood to Host House Tour Luncheon on Sunday, May 20 Men’s Club to Greet, Post Road Signs N ew for this year’s 4th Annual Potomac Spring House Tour are expanded roles for Sisterhood and Men’s Club. Sisterhood will be offering lunch at Har Shalom on House Tour Sunday, May 20. Men’s Club will supply a houseful of Greeters for one of the Tour Homes and will be posting House Tour signs along area roads in May. Still needed are a few more special homes to be one of our Tour’s “Homes of Distinctive Quality.” If you have a suggestion or connection to a special home, please contact House Tour Co-Chair Joan Levenson. Har Shalom members can also help by identifying businesses to be asked to place ads. Not only do advertisers get their ad in the House Tour Guide Book, but their ad also appears in the TABLET, and there is a link from the House Tour website to the website of the advertiser’s company. (See www.PotomacHouseTour.org to see which companies supported Har Shalom last year by advertising with us.) We need your suggestions of contractors and other vendors you’ve used, as the success rate from members’ suggestions is much better. We also need a few volunteers to send out faxes or make those calls to potential advertisers. There are no cold calls, as these advertisers have all been contacted beforehand. You’ll get a complete script, copies of all forms, and a list of frequently asked questions. For more information, please contact Advertising Chair David Epstein. Community Sing And Erev Shira Rousing Launch for Har Shalom Community Singers! A t 7:00 pm on Sunday, January 8, a hearty group of about 20 Har Shalomers participated in our first monthly “Community Sing.” With Hazzan Ozur Bass on guitar, Judd Kessler on piano, and Michal Marcus contributing her resonant voice (plus some lesser known songs), the group sounded great. Music and lyrics were provided for songs in Hebrew, English, Yiddish, and Ladino. Little by little, the group, seated in the Gordon Sanctuary, gathered momentum until, for the last half hour, we were all standing around the piano and guitar in a real hamish hootenanny. The date of our next Community Sing will be announced soon. For more information, contact Judd Kessler or Michal Marcus, or call the office at 301-299-7087. To celebrate the holiday of Tu B’Shevat, the first community Erev Shira, “Planting the Seeds of Song,” will take place Saturday evening, February 11, at 8:00 pm, at Shaare Tefila Congregation. More information to be provided soon! Adult Education Paper-Cut Mizrah Class—December 13, 2011 O n December 13, 2011, the Adult Education Committee sponsored a Jewish studio art class, “Paper-Cut Mizrah.” Attendees created their own mizrah, a marker on the eastern wall of a house, showing the direction of Israel and Jerusalem. Using a template created by professional artist Stefie Jo Heideman, participants created their own backgrounds out of pastels. A form to offer suggestions for advertisers, or distinctive homes, or to volunteer to help, even if just for one afternoon, is on page 12. An ad form is on page 13 if you would like to place an ad for your business or give a form to a local business you know. We also need a few more volunteers to be Greeters at a House Tour home on either Sunday, May 20, or Monday, May 21. For more information, please contact Greeter Chair Valerie Gordon. If you cannot reach any of the listed Chairs directly, please use the contact information shown at the top of this article. Left to right: Participants in the paper-cut session included Joanna Rubin, Alyse Steinborn, Stefie Jo Heideman, and Marie Kramer. 8 www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 “Bye Bye Birdie” (continued from page 1) family news Mazal tov to: Bena & Stan Siegel on their grandson, Avishai Wilcox, becoming a Bar Mitzvah on November 27, 2011, at Beth Shalom Congregation in Columbia, Maryland. The proud parents are Debbie & Rob Wilcox. Noah Smith, son of Amy & Mitch Smith and grandson of Marlene & Marty Kossoff, whose Rockville Football Team, the Steelers, won the Maryland State Youth Championship. (See the photo of Noah on this page.) Marty Kossoff on celebrating his 80th birthday Marlene Kossoff on celebrating her 70th birthday. Judy & Michael Abramowitz on the birth of their grandson, Benjamin Aaron Abramowitz, in California. The proud parents are Jen & Adam Abramowitz. Leslie & Irwin Altschuler on the birth of their granddaughter, Zoe Ebenstein, on December 27, 2011. The proud parents are Lauren & Eric Ebenstein. Noah Smith Condolences to: Alan Schick on the passing of his sister, Rosalyn Schick. Linda Miller on the passing of her mother, Cecelia Waletzky. Lisa Raker on the passing of her mother, Evelyn Lurie. Donald Hurwitz on the passing of his mother, Ruth Hurwitz. Susan Weiss on the passing of her mother, Sylvia Diamondstein. David Doar on the passing of his mother, Ruth Doar. Barbara Kurland on the passing of her father, Donald Olender. celebrating becoming bat mitzvah in february 2/11/12 Danielle Katz daughter of Joe and Rachel Katz We hope you will be able to attend one of our performances. Tickets for this musical are available online at www.harshalom.org or by sending in your ticket reservation form (see page 10 for the form). Tickets are selling fast, so buy them now. If seats are still available, tickets will also be sold at the door one hour before each performance. Ticket prices for the show are $20/adults and $15/ children under 13. To show your support for the Har Shalom Players and the synagogue, please purchase Patron tickets for $75/adult and $36/child under 13. A Patron ticket entitles you to reserved/preferential seating in the Burke Sanctuary for the show, reserved parking, and recognition in the “Bye Bye Birdie” program. “Bye Bye Birdie” is one of those timeless musical comedies which continue to captivate audiences around the world. The storyline is fairly simple, set in the early 1960s, and loosely based on the true story of singer Elvis Presley’s induction into the Army. In this instance, a rock ’n roll singer by the name of Conrad Birdie has been called up to serve his country. Conrad’s agent, Albert Peterson, is a “Mama’s boy,” unable to manage anyone successfully without his ever-faithful secretary, Rosie Alvarez, by his side. Rosie devises the inspired plan to grab some final publicity for Conrad by arranging for one last public appearance before he goes into the Army. Rosie’s idea is to give one lucky young lady “One Last Kiss” on the renowned Ed Sullivan television show. Kim MacAfee, from Sweet Apple, Ohio, is the lucky teen who wins the honor. The MacAfee household is thrown into a spin by the presence of Conrad Birdie, with Harry MacAfee (Kim’s father) becoming particularly upset. Harry cannot understand the disruption to his ordered lifestyle and tries his hardest to stop proceedings; that is, until he gets drawn up into the Conrad Birdie Sweet Apple hysteria and ends up behaving like a true ham in front of the television camera. The “One Last Kiss” on television does not happen, however, due to the intervention of Hugo, Kim’s “steady” (boyfriend). The parents of Sweet Apple cannot understand the antics of this new generation and give vent to their feelings in the well-known song “Kids.” Rosie, in the meantime, has been waiting for eight years for Albert to shrug off his overbearing mother so Rosie can marry him, but when that seems never likely to happen, she decides to make a big change in her life. Albert’s mother has always painted Rosie as a Latin American spitfire, so that is what she decides to become, managing to transform herself into “Spanish Rose.” Of course, the show has a happy ending with Kim reunited with Hugo, as well as Rosie with Albert in the song “Rosie.” Other well-known songs in the show include “Put on a Happy Face” and “A Lot of Livin’ to Do.” We look forward to seeing you on either February 25 or February 26. We know you will enjoy the show. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 9 “Bye Bye Birdie” At Congregation Har Shalom Book by Michael Stewart; Music by Charles Strouse; Lyrics by Lee Adams; Originally Produced by Edward Padula Produced by arrangement with, and the music and dialogue material furnished by, TAMS-WITMARK MUSIC LIBRARY, INC., 560 Lexington Ave.; New York, NY; 10022 Order tickets online at www.harshalom.org or mail or return this ticket order form to: Congregation Har Shalom; 11510 Falls Road; Potomac, MD 20854 / Fax Number: 301-299-2247 Name ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________ City, State, Zip _______________________________ Phone ____________________________ Email _________________________________________________________ Patron of the Arts Tickets/Reservations ____Patron tickets @ $75 (adult) Circle: (February 25 at 8 pm or February 26 at 3 pm) $ __________ ____Patron tickets @ $36 (under age 13) Circle: (February 25 at 8 pm or February 26 at 3 pm) $ __________ Patron tickets include reserved parking, preferred seating, and listing in program. Please list name(s) for program as follows: _________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________ General Admission Tickets/Reservations _______ tickets @ $20 (adult) for Saturday, February 25, at 8 pm $ __________ _______ tickets @ $15 (under age 13) for Saturday, February 25, at 8 pm $ __________ _______ tickets @ $20 (adult) for Sunday, February 26, at 3 pm $ __________ _______ tickets @ $15 (under age 13) for Sunday, February 26, at 3 pm $ __________ Group Sales Circle either: (February 25, at 8 pm or February 26, at 3 pm) _______A block of 25+ tickets may be purchased at reduced rates: $15 (adult) $10 (under age 13) per ticket _____ adult tickets; _____ child tickets $ __________ Total: $ __________ All ticket reservations will be held at Har Shalom. Check-in begins one hour prior to show. _____ A check in the amount of $_________ payable to Congregation Har Shalom is enclosed. _____ Charge my credit card as follows: (Please note that a 2.5% convenience fee will be charged for credit card transactions. Minimum fee is $1.00 per transaction.) Name as written on the credit card (please print) _____________________________________________ Type of Card: ____Visa ____MasterCard Card Number __________________________________________Exp. Date (month/year) ____________ Authorized Credit Card Signature ________________________________________________________ If you have any questions about obtaining tickets, please contact Jeff Cohen at 301-299-7087, ext. 302, or email: [email protected]. 10 www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 Clergy (continued from page 2) throughout our lives. By preparing an insightful d’var Torah, I hope that our kids come to see our tradition as vibrant, wise, and stimulating. As a result, I pray that they will continue to look to Jewish values and teachings as they try to navigate themselves through the complexities and obscurities of life. 4. I pray that the process of becoming a bar or bat mitzvah creates a bond and a meaningful rapport between the students, and their rabbi and hazzan. I want our kids to know that their rabbi and hazzan are always available to them—for questions, for support, for ongoing Jewish learning, and as two more people in their lives who care about them unconditionally. Our tradition teaches: “Asei leha rav, u’knei leha haveir, Acquire for yourself a rabbi (or, for that matter, a hazzan) and a friend.” Long gone are the days of the inaccessible, far-removed clergy who people (and especially kids) never got close to over time. My vision of the rabbinate (and I know this is shared by Hazzan Ozur Bass in his cantorate) is one of openness and accessibility, and subsequent to studying, preparing, and celebrating their bar or bat mitzvah, I want our kids to know that we are not only their rabbi and hazzan, but also their friends. In truth, I could go on and on, and perhaps I will in future columns. While I hear many people refer to the bar or bat mitzvah as an event or a ceremony, the terms “bar mitzvah” or “bat mitzvah” actually apply to the person, the 12- or 13-year-old young man or woman who is becoming a “son” or “daughter of the commandments.” The greatest outcome of this process is for our kids to see themselves as just that: Jews who have taken their places in the covenantal relationship between God and the Jewish people; Jews who are striving to live holier, better lives through the performance of mitzvot; Jews who are passionately and irrevocably a part of the great drama of Jewish civilization. This is my hope. This is my answer to the question: “What do you hope this celebration will mean for the future Jewish life of your son or daughter?” Biy’didut (in friendship), Rabbi Raskin www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 11 POTOMAC SPRING HOUSE TOUR MAY 20-21, 2012 CAN YOU GIVE A FEW MINUTES TO HELP HAR SHALOM? See below for some of the ways you can have fun, make new friends, be part of a great event, and help our congregation. 1) Give us the names of contractors you’ve used—we’ll contact them. It’s a great way to help these companies grow and spread their message to the Potomac community. Suggest anyone you’ve used for renovation or an addition, landscape or tree work, painting, carpeting or flooring, tile, plumbing, electrical, paving and masonry, catering, transportation, travel services, kitchens and baths, interior design, windows, professional services (accountants, lawyers, architects, etc.). Use the tear-off form below. 2) Suggest a special house to be on the House Tour. Houses must be in Potomac, Bethesda, or surrounding areas. You can contact the owners if you want to, or we’ll do it for you. 3) Join a House Tour committee. Be a Greeter § Send faxes or emails to potential advertisers § Man a ticket booth for an hour § Sell raffles or tour tickets § Distribute fliers § Post road signs § Obtain donations for our raffle § Make follow-up phone calls § Assemble tote bags § Write house descriptions § Provide administrative help If each of us does a little, together we create something big for our Har Shalom community. For more information or to offer ideas or help, please contact House Tour chairs Joan Levenson or Jack Markowitz at [email protected]; or 301-299-7087, ext. 336; or use the tear-off form below. Yes, I’ll help! NAME ___________________________________________________________________________________ TEL. #______________________________________________EMAIL______________________________________________ CONTRACTOR NAME / CONTACT INFORMATION: If you can give us the name of a person to speak with, that would be very helpful. If not, just the name(s) of the company and any contact information will help Har Shalom. Thanks. _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ I HAVE A HOUSE TO SUGGEST: (Address and contact information please) ________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ I’LL JOIN A COMMITTEE AND HELP WITH: _______________________________________________________________ Please return the tear-off portion to the House Tour box in the Har Shalom office. Thank you for your help. 12 www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 2012 Potomac Spring House Tour sponsored by Congregation Har Shalom Sunday & Monday, May 20-21, 9:30 am-4:00 pm ADVERTISING CONTRACT Congregation Har Shalom invites you to participate in the 2012 Potomac Spring House Tour. There are two options: Tote Bag and the House Tour Guide Book. Tour participants will receive both items. Additionally, your company’s name/website link will appear on the House Tour website—www.PotomacHouseTour.org—and your ad will also appear in Har Shalom’s newsletter. All ads will be printed in black and white. (Ads priced at $550 or more include one free House Tour ticket, a $25 value). Thank you for your support. Business Name:_________________________________________________________________________________ Contact Person:__________________________________________________________________________________ Signature: ______________________________________________________________________________________ Mailing Address: ________________________________________________________________________________ City:_______________________________________ State:_______________________ Zip:______________ Telephone # (day): ____________________________ Email:__________________________________________ Location/Size (choose one)—Dimensions (inches)—Cost q Tote Bag................................ 4.5 wide x 3.50 high............$1,000 (incl. 1 free ticket plus a full page ad in the Guide Book) q Back Cover....................... 4.5 wide x 3.50 high......... $600 (incl. 1 free ticket) q Inside Front Cover............ 4.5 wide x 7.50 high......... $550 (incl. 1 free ticket) q Inside Back Cover............ 4.5 wide x 7.50 high......... $550 (incl. 1 free ticket) q Full Page........................... 4.5 wide x 7.50 high......... $375 10% d i q ¾ Page.............................. 4.5 wide x 5.25 high......... $325 if pai scount d q ½ Page.............................. 4.5 wide x 3.25 high......... $250 by We in full dnesd q ¼ Page Horizontal ........... 4.5 wide x 1.75 high......... $150 a A pril 4 y, q ¼ Page Vertical................. 2.0 wide x 3.50 high......... $150 Ad Deadline: Friday, April 20 q Enclosed is my camera-ready copy in grey scale (no color please). q Enclosed is my disk containing my ad in one of the following formats: PDF, Word, Adobe Illustrator. q I will email the graphic artist directly with my file—send to [email protected]. Payment Information: q Check enclosed made payable to Congregation Har Shalom (“House Tour” on the memo line). q Please charge my credit card: Visa MasterCard (please circle one) Name as written on the credit card ___________________________________________________________________________ Card number________________________________________________ Exp. date (month/year) __________________________ Authorized credit card signature _____________________________________________________________________________ Please send payment information to: Har Shalom House Tour; 11510 Falls Road; Potomac, MD 20854. Ad order forms and credit card information may also be faxed to: 301-299-2247. For more information… Please contact us at 301-299-7087, ext. 336, or email [email protected]. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 13 February 2012 calendar sunday monday tuesday wednesday thursd 12:15 PM Sisterhood 6:45 AM Daytime Book Club— 10:00 AM Those Who Save Us 7:45 PM Ma’ariv 7:45 PM 8:00 pm Conversational Hebrew 1 9:00 AM 9:00 AM 9:00 AM 10:30 AM 7:45 PM No Kesher Class 6:45 AM Learner’s Minyan 7:45 PM Shaharit 8:00 PM Men’s Club World Wide Wrap BBM First Meeting 2014 Ma’ariv 9:00 AM 9:00 AM 9:15 AM Learner’s Minyan Shaharit 6:45 AM Men’s Club Sunday Speakers Series and 7:45 PM Brunch 8:00 PM 10:00 AM 3rd Grade Hahnasat HaSiddur Workshop 10:00 AM 7th Grade SPARK Visit 12:00 PM Kadima Event 12:00 PM Klub Kef/Gesher Event 7:00 PM Interfaith Bible Study 7:45 PM Ma’ariv 13 12 9:00 AM 9:00 AM 9:00 AM 1:30 PM 6:30 PM 7:45 PM 19 8:00 AM 9:00 AM 9:00 AM 10:00 AM 12:00 PM 2:00 pm 3:00 PM 26 7:45 PM No Religious School Learner’s Minyan Shaharit Seaboard USY Great Wolf Lodge Sleepover Darfur Vigil at Embassy of Sudan Sisterhood Reading, Screening, and Eating Ma’ariv Sisterhood Purim Brigade Learner’s Minyan Shaharit 7th Grade SPARK Visit R/S Parent-Teacher Conferences Pre-Play Youth Department Event Har Shalom Play 2012— “Bye Bye Birdie” Ma’ariv 2 Tu B’Shevat Lunchtime 12:00 PM Daytimers Forum: Shaharit 12:30 PM Webinar—Wired Into Torah Ma’ariv Jewish-Muslim Relations Ma’ariv 7:45 PM Talmud with 7:45 PM Ma’ariv Rabbi Cahan 8:00 PM Journey through the 8:00 pm Advanced Siddur with Rabbi Raskin Trope Class 8:00 pm Conversational Hebrew 7 6 5 8 6:45 AM 10:00 AM 7:45 PM 5:30 pm 12:30 PM Lunchtime Webinar—Wired Into Torah 7:15 PM ECEC Parent University 7:45 PM Ma’ariv 8:00 PM Journey through the Siddur with Rabbi Raskin Presidents’ Day 9:00 AM Shaharit 9:00 AM Seaboard USY Great Wolf Lodge Sleepover 7:45 PM Ma’ariv 8:00 PM Talmud with Rabbi Cahan 21 20 6:45 AM 7:45 PM 8:00 PM Shaharit Ma’ariv Talmud with Rabbi Cahan 8:00 PM Congregation Board Meeting 12:30 PM Lunchtime Webinar—Wired Into Torah 6:30 PM R/S Parent-Teacher Conferences 7:45 PM Ma’ariv 8:00 PM Journey through the Siddur with Rabbi Raskin 28 27 page 14 15 7:45 PM 8:00 PM 8:00 pm 8:00 pm 22 7:45 PM 8:00 PM 8:00 pm 8:00 pm 29 Mish Avo USY Lou 9 12:00 PM Daytimers Film Shaharit No Religious School Festival: “Time of Favor” 6:45 AM Ma’ariv 12:30 PM Lunchtime 7:45 PM Ma’ariv 10:00 AM Talmud with Webinar—Wired Into Torah 8:00 PM Men’s Club Board Rabbi Cahan 7:45 PM Ma’ariv Meeting 7:45 PM 8:00 pm Advanced Trope Class 8:00 pm Conversational Hebrew 14 Mishn Avo Mish Av 16 Ma’ariv Adult Kids Club Card Night Advanced Trope Class Conversational Hebrew Rosh Hodesh A 6:45 AM 10:00 AM Mish Avo 7:45 PM 7:45 PM Minyan an 8:00 PM Ro 23 Ma’ariv 6:45 AM Men’s Club Scotch 10:00 AM Tasting Advanced 7:45 PM Trope Class Conversational Hebrew March 1 Mishn Avo day friday Shaharit 5:14 PM na Study— 6:30 PM odah Zarah Ma’ariv Shaharit hna Study— odah Zarah Ma’ariv Y/8th Grade unge Night Youth Shabbat with JDS Graduates Candle Lighting Shaharit Kabbalat Shabbat 9:30 AM Parasha: B’shallah/Shabbat Shirah 5:00 PM Minha, Torah Study, and Ma’ariv 6:00 PM ECEC Havdalah Program 4 3 5:22 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:15 PM 6:00 pm 10 Shaharit 5:30 PM hna Study— 6:30 PM vodah Zarah Ma’ariv Candle Lighting Musical Kabbalat Shabbat Kabbalat Shabbat Congregation Dinner R/S K-2 Service & Dinner 9:30 AM Shaharit Bat Mitzvah: Danielle Katz Parasha: Yitro 10:30 AM Junior Congregation 5:05 PM Minha, Torah Study, and Ma’ariv 8:00 pm Community Sing 11 Candle Lighting 9:30 AM Shaharit Kabbalat Shabbat Parasha: Misphatim, Shabbat Shekalim Kulanu Shabbat 10:30 AM Gan Shabbat 5:15 PM Minha, Torah Study, and Ma’ariv 17 Adar Rosh Hodesh Adar Shaharit 5:37 PM Candle Lighting hna Study— 6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat odah Zarah Ma’ariv nd Martinis Sisterhood osh Hodesh 24 saturday 18 9:30 AM Shaharit Parasha: T’rumah 10:30 AM Junior Congregation 5:20 PM Minha, Torah Study, and Ma’ariv 7:00 pm Kadima Sock Hop & Dinner 8:00 PM Har Shalom Play 2012— “Bye Bye Birdie” 25 Shaharit 9:00 AM Art Gallery March/ 9:00 AM Kadima Kallah na Study— April Show Begins 9:30 AM Shaharit odah Zarah 9:00 AM Kadima Kallah Parasha: T’tzavveh Ma’ariv 5:45 PM Candle Lighting 5:30 PM Minha, Ma’ariv, Havdalah 6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat Bat Mitzvah: Samantha Klein 5:30 PM Minha, Torah Study, and Ma’ariv 2 3 page 15 The TABLET is in color online each month. Go to www.harshalom.org, click on “What’s Happening,” and go to “TABLET Online.” The current issue and earlier issues are available to download. men’s club Men’s Club: 301-299-7087, ext. 411 • Email: [email protected] • Joe Kromash, President Important Events This Month World Wide Wrap—Sunday, February 5, at 9:00 am Join the World Wide Wrap at 9:00 am on Sunday, February 5, as we assemble to put on tefillin as a group. Members will be available to provide refresher training to those of us who are rusty in the skills needed to carry out this religious obligation. Bring along your post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah sons and daughters for this worldwide acknowledgement of our Judaic heritage. Sunday Speakers Series and Brunch, Featuring Rabbi Adam J. Raskin—Sunday, February 12, at 9:15 am — NOTE THE CHANGED DATE If you haven’t had the opportunity to hear and learn from Rabbi Raskin, this is your chance. His topic will be “Why Purim Is the Most Important Holiday on the Jewish Calendar.” Join us for our regular Q&A following the talk, and an informal discussion with the speaker for a few minutes at the end of the brunch. Come enjoy the food, friends, and learning experience. Second Annual Scotch Tasting—Wednesday, February 29, at 8:00 pm This year’s Scotch Tasting on Wednesday, February 29, at 8:00 pm, will feature a speaker from the Macallen Distillery. His short talk will be followed by a tasting of Macallen Scotch. This event provides an opportunity to taste one of the finest single malt whiskeys, often called the Rolls Royce amongst malts. Also, discounted liquors will be available at auction. There will be a suggested donation of $15 to attend the event if paid in advance, and $20 if paid at the door. To pay in advance, please send in a check made payable to the Men’s Club, and mail the check to: Congregation Har Shalom; 11510 Falls Road; Potomac, MD; 20854; Attention: Men’s Club. You may also register online, as noted below. You must be over 21 to enter the Social Hall or to register online at: www.harshalom.org by going to the direct link. Third Annual Men’s Club Health Fair: Sunday, March 4—10:00 AM-2:00 PM T he third annual “Congregation Har Shalom Health and Wellness Event” is scheduled for Sunday, March 4, from 10:00 am-2:00 pm. The event begins at 9:15 am with the March Sunday Speakers Series and Brunch, featuring a 16 noted health and wellness expert speaking about a subject of interest to our congregational membership (men, women, and our families). The brunch is followed by a Health Fair which will feature numerous health screenings performed by the health educators and nurses from Adventist HealthCare. Our Health Fair will also include many local vendors sharing their educational information, programs, and products that encourage a healthy lifestyle. Refreshments will be available throughout the event. This event has been very well attended in the past two years, and we look forward to your continued participation this year. If you know vendors who are in a health-related business, please ask them to participate. Details can be provided by the Health Fair Event Coordinator, Rob Trachman. You may contact him directly, or you may get in touch with the Men’s Club at the telephone number or email address at the top of this page. Vendors (maximum of 15) receive a six-foot-long rectangular table with tablecloth to display and distribute their information, programs, and products. Set up begins at 9:00 am. In past years, approximately 125-175 Har Shalom congregants and friends participated in the program. Vendors are asked for a $36 cash donation to the Men’s Club at Har Shalom, and for gift certificates worth approximately $50 (total), awarded by raffle to Health Fair participants. To win the raffle, participants must visit each of the vendors. Second Annual Hanukah Latke Party M en’s Club organized a Hanukah latke party for the Religious School students on Sunday, December 18, 2011. Men’s Club made latkes and served the students the delicious potato pancakes, which were accompanied by apple sauce and sour cream. The students had a great time eating, singing Hanukah songs, and playing dreidel. Eitan Goodman, the Religious School music teacher, did a wonderful job playing his guitar and leading the holiday songs, inspiring the students to sing enthusiastically. Rabbi Deborah Cohen, the Director of Congregational Learning, organized another great Hanukah celebration. Sisterhood provided the students with gifts to take home after the party, including Hanukah candles, dreidels, and gelt. Men’s Club is looking forward to sponsoring another latke party next year for the Religious School students. In addition, Men’s Club is looking for volunteers in general, and is especially looking for volunteers who would like to get involved in future programs with the Religious School. This would be a wonderful opportunity to have fun, meet congregants, and enrich your children’s and grandchildren’s Religious School experience. For more information, contact Men’s Club at the phone number or email address at the top of this page. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 men’s club Men’s Club: 301-299-7087, ext. 411 • Email: [email protected] • Joe Kromash, President Adult Kids Club Hosts Several Winter Programs Rob Trachman for supplying the major effort to get vendors for the March 4 “Health and Wellness Fair,” and for organizing that event. (See page 16 for details.) he Adult Kids Club sponsored two recent events. In December, 2011, we held an End-of-Fall Adult Kids Club Dinner. This was a couples’ event attended by 18 people. After having an excellent meal at a local Italian restaurant, we went to the home of Vic and Marla Cohen for dessert. Everyone had a great time. Mickey Burstein for organizing the “World Wide Wrap” at Har Shalom on February 5 (see page 16 for details), and for the d’var Torah talks he gives at the beginning of each Men’s Club Board meeting. T The January event featured dinner at the Pita Hut followed by seeing a movie. We plan an evening of poker (or bridge, if participants prefer) on Wednesday, February 22. If you are interested in participating in this event, please contact Ken Shere or RSVP to [email protected]. Poker, Dinner, Movies, and Good Times with the Boyz Club Eric Horvitz for organizing the Men’s Club Tikkun Olam project on December 25. This year we joined over a thousand others in the Washington, D.C., area as participants in the DCJCC’s “Volunteer Day.” Our group served brunch and assisted with bingo at the Hebrew Home in Rockville. Ken Shere for being honored as the Har Shalom “Blue Yarmulke Man-of-the-Year” at the Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs (FJMC) Seaboard Region annual dinner on January 29. Ken has been volunteering in the Men’s Club for 30 years. Most recently he has organized the Adult Kids Club activities. If you have any ideas for activities or would simply like to volunteer some time, contact the Men’s Club at the phone number or email address at the top of this page. E Five Minute Health Tip: Medical Emergencies—The 9-1-1 Emergency Room Process In December, 2011, there was a “Dinner and Movie Night” when we saw “Tower Heist” with Ben Stiller and Eddie Murphy. There was also a “Poker Night” in January, with old and new friends enjoying some fun and fellowship. As the Boyz Club gains momentum, the fun times keep rolling. If you are a man in your thirties, forties, or even your fifties, and want to get more involved in the Har Shalom community, come join the Boyz Club. You won’t regret it! Presented by Jerry Breslow at the December 2011 Sunday Speakers Series and Brunch very month the Boyz Club sponsors an event—usually on the third Wednesday evening of the month. Usually the activity is playing poker, or having dinner followed by seeing a movie. Whatever the event, everyone has a good time. Ya s h ar Koach t o M e n’ s C l u b Volunteers T he Men’s Club is able to sponsor many events because of volunteers who donate a significant amount of their time. Below are just a few of these volunteers to whom we give thanks and say “yashar koah!” David Silver and Rabbi Deborah Cohen for organizing and coordinating with the Hebrew School to have a latke party (see page 16 for details). Ken Popkin and the kitchen crew for preparing the food for all of the Men’s Club monthly Sunday brunches. W hen you call 9-1-1, be prepared to provide the following information: the nature of the medical emergency, the exact location of the emergency, the calling party’s name and phone number, the name of the person with the medical problem, the age of the person with the medical problem, the specific problem, any medical history relating to the current problem, and any other pertinent information. Keep a list of your medicines and allergies on you. A small card in your wallet is a convenient place to keep this list. Remain calm, speak clearly, be prepared to answer questions, and let the call taker ask the questions. If it is safe to do so, stay on the phone until the call taker advises you to hang up. THE PERSON WITH THE MEDICAL EMERGENCY SHOULD NOT DRIVE HIMSELF OR HERSELF TO THE HOSPITAL—wait for the rescue team. (A brief summary of Jerry Breslow’s December 2011 remarks is presented here. The full article is printed in the Men’s Club January newsletter which is posted on the Men’s Club page of the Har Shalom website.) www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 17 sisterhood Sisterhood: 301-299-7087, ext. 410 • Email: [email protected] • Yvonne Paretzky, President Open Our Doors, Secure Our Gates A t the beginning of my term as president of Sisterhood, I said that one of the issues we have to deal with now stems from the fact that the religiously blended family is the norm, not the exception, which makes finding ways to open our doors while securing our gates so very important. Rabbi Raskin opened the December 2011 Sisterhood Board meeting with a d’var Torah that addressed both of those issues and the importance of making the value of our traditions accessible to as many as possible. All of those at that meeting shared personal stories, experiences, and challenges with intermarriage, conversion, welcoming, exclusion, and community. One woman commented that, given the number of marriages between Jews and non-Jews that result in children who don’t have Jewish mothers, Conservative Judaism either will have to change its definition of who is a Jew, increase the number of female converts, or accept the inevitability of a radically declining population. In the end, the Board passed two motions: one that opens our doors by permitting nonJewish women to be members of Sisterhood, and one that secures our gates by requiring Sisterhood presidents, directors, and Board members to be Jewish. The Sisterhood Executive Committee and Board have passed these motions. Now these motions will come up for a vote by the members of Sisterhood at an upcoming meeting of the general membership. Please watch for the meeting notice. So that everyone is fully informed of the committee’s process and the proposed changes to the by-laws, the full report and proposed motions are on the Sisterhood webpage for your review. If you don’t have internet access, please call the Sisterhood phone number at the top of this page and request that a copy be mailed to you. If you have questions or comments about the report or the motions, please contact the committee chair, Rachel Katz, or any member of the committee at [email protected]. B’shalom, Yvonne Join the Bowlers Each Wednesday E very Wednesday morning, join Sisterhood members at Bowl America in Gaithersburg. Practice begins at 10:15 am; games begin rolling at 10:30 am. Email Ruthie at [email protected] for details. 18 Providing Comfort and Support to Congregants in Need S isterhood’s Bikkur Holim Committee provides comfort and support to members of our congregation who may need assistance. That assistance may include supplying a Shabbat meal, calling to check on an individual, visiting, or providing any other support service we can offer. If you know of anyone who might benefit from these services, please contact the rabbi’s office at 301-299-7087, ext. 1. We are currently working on a guidebook of resources for caregivers. Later in the year we are planning to offer a program to discuss, in depth, what Bikkur Holim means to us and how we can broaden the scope and services of the committee. If you are interested in serving on this committee or have ideas you would like to share, please contact committee chair Ronni Cristol at [email protected] or at the phone number at the top of this page. March Madness à la Seaboard Region T his year’s Women’s League Institute is honoring four Seaboard Region rabbis: two who are retiring, the newest (guess who?!?), and one who has finally found home. We will be learning with some of the best and the brightest rabbis not only in the Seaboard Region, but in the country. Join your Seaboard Sisters at all four sessions: March 1—Rabbi Reuben Landman Congregation Har Tzeon-Agudath Achim 1840 University Blvd. West Silver Spring, Md. 20902 March 15—Rabbi Jonah Layman Shaare Tefila Congregation 16620 Georgia Avenue Olney, Md. 20832 March 22—Rabbi Adam J. Raskin Congregation Har Shalom 11510 Falls Road Potomac, Md. 20854 March 29—Rabbi Mark Raphael Kehilat Shalom Congregation 9915 Apple Ridge Road Gaithersburg, Md. 20886 Class descriptions, registration information, and directions for each class, coming soon! Can’t wait? Contact Shelly Goldin at [email protected]. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 sisterhood Sisterhood: 301-299-7087, ext. 410 • Email: [email protected] • Yvonne Paretzky, President What’s In a Name? T he funny thing about the annual Women’s League Torah Fund Campaign is that it has virtually nothing to do with Torahs. Torah Fund got its name from the first campaign’s first giving category at $6.11, or 611, which in Hebrew is “Torah.” Hence, the “Torah Fund” campaign. Few names have caused such confusion! Even long-time Torah Fund contributors still think their contributions go to purchase and repair Torahs. The money collected that first year of the campaign (1942) did not go to purchase Torahs and the money collected now isn’t used for that purpose either. Money raised by the first campaign went to fund scholarships for students at the Jewish Theological Seminary. Today, campaign funds go toward scholarships not only for JTS students, but also for scholarship funding for students at the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies, Schechter Institute of Jewish Studies in Israel, and Seminario Rabínico Latinoamericano in Argentina. Torah Fund money also has been used to construct dormitories, stock libraries, purchase furniture, and build study areas. Without Torah Fund, the number and caliber of our hazzanim, educators, lay leaders, scholars, and rabbis would decline, and we would be the lesser for it. When he spoke at the December 2011 Torah Fund dinner, Rabbi Raskin moved the room to silence with his passion and eloquence as he shared his story of finding the beauty and vitality of Conservative Judaism in Neil Gillman’s seminal work of the same name, and knew JTS was where he had to be. (The full text of Rabbi Raskin’s remarks is available on the Sisterhood web page.) When a Jewish student loses the opportunity to learn from the likes of Neil Gillman, we lose the opportunity to benefit from that learning. It’s a lose-lose thing. Did You Know? more than the amount it receives in tuition to educate its students. Your Torah Fund gift helps offset the difference. No contribution is too small. It’s never too late, but what are you waiting for? Participation in the Torah Fund Campaign is our way of keeping a higher Jewish education within reach of the next Rabbi Adam Raskin. Please see the 2011 Torah Fund donor list on page 20. Send your check, made payable to JTS/Torah Fund, to Ellen Bresnick; VP/Torah Fund; Congregation Har Shalom Sisterhood; 11510 Falls Road; Potomac, MD; 20854. Beautiful Items Available at the Judaica Shop E mbellish your Shabbat, simha, holiday tables, and rituals with beautiful Judaica from Israel and around the world. Whether you’re looking for something for your home or a gift, you’re sure to find just the right item by browsing the shop or online. If your child or grandchild is going to be a Har Shalom bar or bat mitzvah and you want to give him or her a tallit, we have a wonderful selection. And if your child’s bar or bat mitzvah service will be held at Har Shalom, you’ll receive a members-only 13% discount off the marked price of any of the shop’s tallit which you choose to purchase for your young one’s big day. This offer applies only to tallitot purchased from the shop, and not for online purchases. Hours: Sundays, 9:00 am-noon; Tuesdays, 4:006:00 pm; and Fridays, 9:00-11:00 am. If you’d like to help out by working in the Judaica Shop once or twice a month, or to schedule an appointment, email Margo Fonoroff at [email protected] or leave her a message at the phone number at the top of this page. Tuition costs for the academic year 2011-2012 at The Jewish Theological Seminary range from $15,640 to $29,900, depending on the program in which the student is enrolled. To shop online, go to the Sisterhood webpage (HarShalom.org/organizations/sisterhood.asp) and click on “Judaica Shop.” Tuition costs at the Ziegler School for Rabbinic Studies are $22,584. It’s Vegas, Baby! Living costs range from $21,775 to $23,275, depending on whether the student lives on or off campus, is married, and/or has children. Joint/Double Degree Programs add between $21,948 and $30,112 to tuition for students enrolled in those programs with Columbia and Barnard, respectively. While it may cost an individual student $60,766 or more per year for his/her education, it costs JTS and Ziegler much I t’s later than you think! The 2012 Women’s League Convention, set for December 2-5, 2012, at the JW Marriott in Las Vegas, Nevada, is coming up fast. If you have never been to a Women’s League Convention or if it’s been a long time since you’ve gone, this is one not to miss. The planning is in full gear and the result will be Ab Fab! Watch for details. www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 19 sisterhood Sisterhood: 301-299-7087, ext. 410 • Email: [email protected] • Yvonne Paretzky, President Sisterhood Scholarships Available For USY-on-Wheels & Camp Ramah To apply, complete the form below and return it by April 16 to: USY-on-Wheels & Camp Ramah Scholarship Congregation Har Shalom Sisterhood 11510 Falls Road Potomac, MD 20854 Questions? Send an email to the Youth Committee chair, Eileen Sherr, at: [email protected], or call 301-299-7087, ext. 410. Shalom HarHar Shalom Sisterhood Sisterhood 2011-2012 / 5772 Torah Fund Donors 2011-2012 / 5772 Torah Fund Donors Women’s League for Conservative Judaism USY-on-Wheels & Camp Ramah Scholarship Congregation Har Shalom Sisterhood 11510 Falls Road; Potomac, MD 20854 Questions? Or More Information? 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A re the winter doldrums getting you down? Are you searching for a reason to get out of the house and engage your mind, creativity, or sense of fun? Are you afraid that it’s too late to register or participate? Not to worry…it’s only February, and with March around the corner, there is plenty of time to celebrate, learn, and let down your hair! HS Sisterhood’s calendar is brimming with activities that will make you forget the weather outside and commune with your “sisters in the ’hood.” Sunday, March 11…Vashti’s Banquet A culmination of last year’s exploration of the nuances of Purim and who was the true champion for the Jews. Expect activities, food, and fun. Location TBD, 5:00-7:30 pm (approximately). Steffie Fein, Chair Saturday, March 24…Sisterhood Shabbat—Hiddur Mitzvah Join the women of Har Shalom Sisterhood as we lead Shabbat services and explore ways to embellish mitzvot, making them more meaningful than originally anticipated. Cathy Horowitz, Chair Watch for Z’havah in March F ebruary is a quiet month for Z’havah, but that’s not to say we don’t have events in the planning stages! Gear up for a movie night out on Sunday, March 18, and don’t forget to begin reading The Dressmaker of Khair Khana, by Gayle Tzemach Lemmon, for our book discussion on Sunday, April 15. Minyan and Marilyn Monroes— Thursday, February 23, 7:45 pm W e started off in December, 2011, with Minyan and Martinis. In January, at the suggestion of our president, Jeff Ashin, we coupled Minyan with Manhattans. For February we decided to keep the alliteration going and, in this shortest month with the longest feel, we decided to go with something cheery and sassy: the Marilyn Monroe. On Thursday evening, February 23, at 7:45 pm, come for evening minyan, and stay to chat with others participating in the service over a Marilyn Monroe (with or without champagne). Come on your own. Come with friends. Everyone is encouraged to come. Scheduled for the fourth Thursday of each month, a different cocktail will be featured during these special evenings. Coming up: March 22, Minyan and Mizrachis; April 26, Minyan and Mint Juleps; and May 24 , Minyan and Mojitos. Each evening is sponsored by Sisterhood. Sunday, March 25… Passover: Gluten-Free and Beyond Explore what it means to be gluten-free, and taste-test recipes that can be brought to your Passover table. Offsite. Alyse Steinborn and Pat Rubin, Co-Chairs. To sign up for any of these programs, email [email protected]. All of these events require your participation and enthusiasm and, if done correctly, are guaranteed to warm us up even on the coldest day! Please join us INTERFAITH VIGIL AT THE EMBASSY OF SUDAN 2210 Massachusetts Avenue, N.W. (3 blocks from Dupont Circle Metro) February 1 Brings the Next Book Club Session E njoy your brown-bag dairy lunch, catch up with friends, and introduce yourself to newbies from 12:15-1:00 pm, then engage in the book discussion. You don’t have to have read the book. If you have other questions, email Phyllis Weltz at SisterhoodBookClub@ harshalom.org. February 1—Those Who Save Us, by Jenna Blum; discussion facilitator, Carol Leibowitz March 7—Little Bee, by Chris Cleave; discussion facilitator, Nan Fried April 4—Shanghai Girls, by Lisa See; discussion facilitator, Lynnette Spira Sunday; February 19, 2012 1:30 to 2:30 PM Sisterhood Tikkun Olam Committee; Marjorie Klein, Chair and World Jewry Committee; Hal Freed, Chair May 2—To the End of the Land, by David Grossman; translated by Jessica Cohen; discussion facilitator, Ellen Bresnick www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 21 donations We Gratefully Acknowledge the Following Contributions . . . Adult Education Fund B’nai Mitzvah Scholarship Fund In Memory of: In Honor of: Ruth Hurwitz, mother of Donald Hurwitz Meryl & Jeff Cohen Shelley & Stewart Remer Cecelia Waletzky, mother of Linda Miller Meryl & Jeff Cohen Shelley & Stewart Remer B’nai Mitzvah of Sarah & Samuel Solomon Marcia Witt Alan B. Levenson Endowment Fund In Honor of: Birth of Yair Simcha Cahan, grandson of Rabbi Leonard & Elizabeth Cahan Ellen & Bill Bresnick Joan Levenson Bar Mitzvah of Avishai Wilcox, grandson of Bena & Stan Siegel Ellen & Bill Bresnick Speedy Recovery of: Barbara Kaplowitz Joan Levenson In Memory of: Benjamin Falk, father of Joan and grandfather of Scott & Julie Joan Levenson Arlene Sidman Fund In Memory of: Sabina Lyon, my mother Toni Immerman Iris Goldfinger, wife of Michael and mother of Amy and Larry Michael, Larry, and Amy Goldfinger Bernie Witt Fund In Honor of: Anne & Martin Meth Barbara & Kurt Meyers In Memory of: Sylvia Ginsberg, grandmother of Alan Alan & Gay Feinberg Building Improvement Fund In Memory of: Joseph Levit, father of J.L. Levit Marc & Lin Nemiroff Helen Maler, mother of Judy Judy & Michael Mael Cantor Cal Chizever ECEC Scholarship Fund In Honor of: Bar Mitzvah of Brett Halpern, son of Barbara & Andrew Halpern ECEC Staff Sunshine Committee Speedy Recovery of: Bobbi Chizever Margie & Owen Ritter Madelene & Arnie Bochner In Memory of: Nathan Harry Rosen, father of Morris Morris & Honey Rosen Charlotte & Herbert Wool Music Fund In Honor of: Iris Perry Paula & Ronald Wurtzburger In Memory of: Dr. Harry Pitt Marlene & Marty Kossoff Lorraine, sister of Renee Zitter Ruth & Martin Baum Jerry Mederick, husband of Sandra Mederick Ruth & Martin Baum Community of Caring Fund In Memory of: 22 Tilly Moses, mother of Eliot Eliot & Christiane Sorel Joseph Nemiroff, my father Marc Nemiroff Lewis Schneider, husband of Alice Grove Lee & Joyce Stern Florence Feldman, sister of Nathan Watzman Cynthia & Sidney Fischler Muriel Schneider, aunt of Taury Taury & Michael Falk Ada Finifter, sister of Leon Weintraub Margie & Owen Ritter Esther Bochner, my mother Arnold Bochner Etz Hayim Humash In Memory of: David B. Feder, my husband Faye Feder Gemilut Hasadim Fund In Memory of: Esther Bochner, my mother Arnold Bochner Ilene Abrams Gemilut Hasadim Fund In Memory of: Annette Sims, my mother Sandra Levine Abrams General Operating Fund Stanley Goldstein David & Celia Barash Roberto & Marie Friedman In Honor of: Birth of Sammy Logan Miller, son of Jennifer & David Miller Har Shalom Board of Directors Mishkin Family Birth of Yair Simcha Cahan, grandson of Rabbi Leonard & Elizabeth Cahan Har Shalom Board of Directors Florence & Izzy Wolfe Bar Mitzvah of Avishai Wilcox, grandson of Bena & Stanley Siegel Har Shalom Board of Directors 80th birthday of Marty Kossoff and 70th birthday of Marlene Kossoff Har Shalom Board of Directors Birth of Benjamin Aaron Abramowitz, grandson of Judy & Michael Abramowitz Har Shalom Board of Directors Eileen Penner Bernhard & Beverly Penner Engagement of Adam Eskow, son of Roy & Julie Eskow Anne & Jeffrey Abend Joy & Ron Paul The morning minyan Deborah Fox Speedy Recovery of: Bobbi Chizever Florence & Izzy Wolfe In Memory of: Herbert Rubenstein, brother of Marlyn Schepartz Har Shalom Board of Directors Ruthjoy Leventhal Selma & Joe Greenberg Florence Feldman, sister of Nathan Watzman Har Shalom Board of Directors Rosalyn Schick, sister of Alan Schick Har Shalom Board of Directors Cecelia Waletzky, mother of Linda Miller Har Shalom Board of Directors Evelyn Lurie, mother of Lisa Raker Har Shalom Board of Directors Rosalie Podoll, mother of Janice Frankle Har Shalom Board of Directors Ruth Hurwitz, mother of Donald Hurwitz Har Shalom Board of Directors Maureen Tomasulo Saul Golubcow & Hedy Teglasi Jose Vazquez, father of Graciela, and Rabbi Herman Schwartz, father of Jeremy Jeremy & Graciela Schwartz www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 Mildred Sanders, mother of Irving J. & Henrietta Diana Kadish Memorial Diana & Jack Binder Endowment Dr. Abraham Kahane The Cassell Family Oestreicher Family In Memory of: Bernard Braun, father of Lisa Kenigsberg Gerald B. Kadish, brother of Michael Marcus Richard Ada Finifter, sister of Leon Kadish Family Weintraub Judith Thomas Lapping Abram Blum Library Benjamin Abrams, father Fund of Dave In Memory of: Dave & Sandy Abrams William P. Goldman, father Bernard Kulik, husband of of Ronnie Dorothy Kulik Ronnie & David Roz & Joe Fenton Hirschberg Nathaniel Fenton, our Mortimer Rohen, father of Gary grandson Gary & Esther Rohen Roz & Joe Fenton Albert Rubin, my father David Neuman, father of Doris Cohen Richard Richard & Lois Neuman Sylvia & M. Martin Sarill, parents of Susan Sylvia Harris, sister of Marlyn Susan & Leonard Miller Marlyn & Saul Schepartz Sabina Lyon, my mother Toni Immerman Hazzan’s Anna Kunicki Discretionary Fund Julian Josephson In Honor of: Ruth Mandel Grossman Julian Josephson Hazzan Henrique Ozur Bass Herbert Rubenstein, brother Sharon & Eric Mayl & of Marlyn Schepartz Family Roz & Joe Fenton Hazzan Henrique Ozur Bass’s role in Rabbi Raskin’s Debbie Karch Installation Children’s Library Richard & Linda Isen Fund In Memory of: In Honor of: Morris & Kay G. Zuckerberg, Birth of Yair Simcha Cahan, my parents grandson of Rabbi Leonard & Harriet Yoselle Elizabeth Cahan Sidney Ackerman, my father Michelle & Leonard Tow Michael Ackerman In Memory of: Nathan Harry Rosen, father of Morris Richard Cooper, brother of Morris & Honey Rosen Linda Slan Ellen & Steve Cades Hevra Kadisha Fund Annie Sherman, my motherin-law In Honor of: Esther Sherman Hevra Kadisha, for their help during the shiva period for Lucas B. Mag my sister Endowment for Leon Weintraub USY/Kadima In Memory of: In Honor of: Ralph Wolinsky, father of Joe Birthday of Alice Haber Joe & Carole Wolinsky Judy & Marvin Mag Nathan and Sheila Cristol, Birthday of Vic Cohen my parents Judy & Marvin Mag Richard Cristol donations Donations (continued from page 22) Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Lucas B. Mag Endowment for USY/Kadima Bat Mitzvah of Julie Kromash Marcia Witt In Memory of: Lewis Schneider, husband of Alice Grove Judy & Marvin Mag In Honor of: Birth of Yair Simcha Cahan, grandson of Rabbi Leonard & Elizabeth Cahan Margie & Ron Glancz Margie & Owen Ritter In Memory of: Ceil and Shel Miller, parents of Leonard Susan & Leonard Miller Rae Heiney, grandmother of Steve Leslie & Steve Binder In Honor of: In Honor of: Rabbi Raskin Maureen & Arnie Binderman David & Sandy Cameron Cheryl Kagan & David Spitzer Sharon & Eric Mayl & Family Birth of Yair Simcha Cahan, grandson of Rabbi Leonard & Elizabeth Cahan Bernard Lubran & Family Julia Medin Judy Abrams Ira & Susan Jaffe In Memory of: Morris & Lillian Cahan Adult Education Fund Rabbi Emeritus Discretionary Fund Samuel Kramer and Fred Rosenberg, our fathers Brenda & Michael Kramer Frances Leibowitz, mother of Michael Leibowitz John & Barbara Jackson Mildred Zetlin, mother of Linda Richard & Linda Isen Theodore Sitkoff, my husband Susan Sitkoff Gloria & Gerald Rotter, parents of Cindy Cindy & Howard Menditch Lila Feinberg, mother of Alan Feinberg Bernard Lubran & Family In Memory of: Samuel Kramer and Fred Rosenberg, our fathers Brenda & Michael Kramer Religious School Fund Robert & Lisa Koppel Siddur Sim Shalom Fund In Honor of: Birth of Yair Simcha Cahan, grandson of Rabbi Leonard & Elizabeth Cahan Eric & Francie Mendelsohn In Memory of: Daniel Moskovitz, father of Shirley Shirley & Philip Wisotsky Bessie & Morris Kreitman, my parents Faye Feder Ida & Aaron Feder, my parents-in-law Faye Feder Torah Dedication Fund In Memory of: Julius Fogel, my father David Fogel World Jewry Fund In Honor of: The Har Shalom community, for their help and support during my recent mourning period Leon Weintraub In Memory of: Ada Finifter, sister of Leon Weintraub Paul Lewis & Family Sharon Wilkes Isaac Bernardo, my father Rose Schanwald Herbert Rubenstein, brother of Marlyn Schepartz Alice Grove Youth Activities Fund In Memory of: Joseph Levit, father of J.L. Levit Saul Golubcow & Hedy Teglasi In an effort to reduce our credit and debit card processing expenses, all members and nonmembers will be charged a 2.5% convenience fee for the use of credit and debit cards. All payments (dues, tuition, donations, etc.) processed by credit and debit cards will incur this fee. The minimum fee will be $1.00 per transaction. To see the full selection of donation categories, please go to the Har Shalom website, www.harshalom.org, or call the office at 301-299-7087. A BEAUTIFUL TRADITION Serving the Community with a Beautiful, Meaningful Memorial Park, and Chapel; Caring, Professional Staff, and Convenient, Mid-County Location: www.harshalom.org 301-299-7087 23 TABLET The Congregation Har Shalom 11510 Falls Road Potomac, Maryland 20854 Periodicals Postage Paid at rockville, md 20850 Har Shalom Members Come Out in Force for MLK Day of Service T he first “Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day of Service” event at the Universities at Shady Grove on Monday, January 16, drew about 700 volunteers to participate in projects to help those in need, from packing personal hygiene kits for people in homeless shelters to writing notes to recovering service members. “It’s such a wonderful day,” said Har Shalom congregant Yvonne Paretzky, site coordinator. “It’s the only national holiday where people are asked to do something. It’s amazing how many people come out to serve.” Rabbi Adam Raskin brought about 50 people from our synagogue. “I don’t know how often people of different backgrounds have the opportunity to get together and do something meaningful; it’s just a wonderful way to spend the day.” Jeff Ashin, president of Har Shalom, praised the day’s participants. “Congratulations to Yvonne and all who helped motivate Har Shalom with this wonderful exercise of community service. A special recognition to Rabbi Raskin who spent a good part of his day off participating. Thanks and yashar koah to all who participated.” Appreciation goes to Alison Bryant, of the Gazette newspaper, for covering this story. Some of her text was used in this article. Thanks, too, to Har Shalom congregant Sorell Schwartz, who took the Day of Service photos on this page.