Annie the Musical - Northside Christian College
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Annie the Musical - Northside Christian College
semester 1, 2015 northside christian college biannual magazine NorthsIder Annie the Musical Contents Cover Image: Students performing "Annie", Northside's 2015 musical performance. Northsider is published biannually by Northside Christian College. Northside Christian College is a ministry of Nexus Church. Reproduction of this magazine in whole or part is prohibited without the permission of Northside Christian College. Editor: Tilly Eggert PO Box 599 Everton Park QLD 4053 Phone: 3353 1266 [email protected] www.northside.qld.edu.au 2 Northsider 3 From the Principal A reflection from the College Principal 4 NORTHSIDE NEWS The latest news from across the College and its community 6 Annie the Musical Behind the scenes of our 2015 musical, Annie 8 Annie the Musical Thanking our Musical Volunteers 10 Alumni Profile Emma Thomas shares about her life so far 12 Back to basics with PMP Looking at the Perceptual Motor Programme for Prep & Year 1 13 Training for a bright future How Vocational Education Training prepared our students for work 14 Parenting Tip: Senior Focus Innoculation Against the FOMO Plague 15 Parenting Tip: JUnior Focus Eddie Excellence, "I do my best" 16 community focus Honouring our volunteers and grandparents 17 Congratulations! News on births, engagements and marriages 18 Alumni profile 19 We catch up with past student James Woolett inspiration Dr Ryan Messmore discusses the purpose of education From the Principal Northside Christian College as a transformational community I believe that our school is transformational in nature. Why else would we be so committed to Christian Education if not to see students’ lives have the opportunity to be impacted and transformed by God– both through their schooling and the rest of their lives? A transformational leader who I have recently been reading about is Abraham Lincoln - think Civil War leadership, the Emancipation Proclamation and the reunification of the United States of America. Millions of people visit the Lincoln Memorial each year to pay tribute to Lincoln and to reflect on his leadership. Enshrined in the National Mall in Washington D.C., ‘Honest Abe’, as he was known, is the epitome of statesmanship as he stares down towards the Capitol Building. Lincoln is portrayed seated, larger than life - an American icon, still ever-present to inspire the nation. His image, cast in marble, is framed on both sides by two of his most well-known speeches: His Second Inaugural Address from 1865, and The Gettysburg Address, delivered in 1863. Indeed, Lincoln is recognised as one of the great orators of recent centuries, along with other political leaders such as Churchill, Ghandi and Theodore Roosevelt, yet these men were more than just great speakers; they were transformational leaders. Indeed Lincoln has been compared with Bernard Bass’s Theoretical Model of Transformational Leadership which identifies four key elements of leadership: showing concern for the individual; supplying intellectual stimulation; being an inspirational motivator; and, being an idealistic influence. How does Northside and our weekly activities align with these thoughts? Transformational Leadership Northside this month Showing concern for the individual The grandparents who wrote to say thanks to the boys who ‘helped them with great kindness and cheerfulness’ with their wheelchair at Grandparents’ Day and stayed with them all morning. Images of students at the recent InterCollegiate swimming and cross country carnivals supporting and encouraging each other, from Year 3 to Year 12. Supplying intellectual stimulation Watch out for reports of the students who are engaging this month with the CHC Higher Education tertiary course - Foundations of Faith, Learning and Vocation, or The Witherspoon Fellowship, or the Faith and Professional Life seminar at Griffith University. PS: Senior School male and female teams were invited to compete at The University of Queensland's 30th Anniversary Great Court Race! Being an inspirational motivator The seniors who feed the homeless in the valley on Friday evenings, or the mission teams that reach out with God’s love to those in need at home and overseas. Being an idealistic influence The spectacular production of Annie the musical, where God was glorified through the Arts, or the biology camp caterer who said, “congratulations for the excellent standard of behaviour amongst your student group and particularly their impeccable manners.” It seems we are in alignment with transformational theory, or perhaps God’s heart has been discovered and expressed in theory? Whatever the case, I am encouraged by the Northside community and the personal and organisational support that is so evident. Let’s commit again to be a school community who, though the work may be hard and stretching, are committed to our values, mission and faith (that is what so many of the stories in this Northsider reflect!). Consider Lincoln’s personal reflection in this regard, on his Second Inaugural Address to journalist Thurlow Weed. My Dear Sir. Every one likes a compliment. Thank you for yours on my little notification speech, and on the recent Inaugural Address. I expect the latter to wear as well as – perhaps better than – anything I have produced, but I believe it is not immediately popular. Men are not flattered by being shown that there has been a difference of purpose between the Almighty and them. To deny it, however, in this case, is to deny that there is a God governing the world. It is a truth which I thought needed to be told, and as whatever of humiliation there is in it falls most directly on myself, I thought others might afford for me to tell it. Yours truly A.Lincoln (Trueblood, 2012, p 163) Love and prayers to you and your family. Leighton Kuss Principal sEMESTER 1, 2015 3 Northside news High Achiever in National Art Prize Year 11 student, Kathleen O'Hagan is passionate about art and has recently been recognised and rewarded by the Mosman Art Gallery in Sydney for her efforts and talent. How does it feel to have been awarded the encouragement prize? Totally unreal. I didn't even think that I was going to win a prize and then for my mother to tell me that I had won a prize and that I was flying down to Sydney was a dream come true. I think it finally hit home when I saw the level of the entries in the gallery and some of the works I had beaten. I think it just really drove home the fact that this could be a real career choice for me. Can you tell us about your time in Sydney with your father? What is it about creating art that you love? I love the concept that I can create something that could impact others. Whether that is simply creating a work that is visually pleasing or communicating a much deeper message, art allows me to express myself to others in a much more unique and tangible way and to be able to communicate that message long after I am gone. Beside this, I think art just gives me a pure joy and feeling of accomplishment like nothing else does. It's my strange sort of addiction you could say. When did you realise this was something you enjoyed doing? As far back as I can remember I have been doing art. I believe there is a photo of me as a four year old, drawing intently on a small red table. However, I think I became seriously endeavoured to art last year when I finally started to realise this could be my future profession. Simply put, art is a part of me and I can't see myself without it. Is there any kind of art you particularly love or find yourself doing more? Portraiture: l love the expression of the eyes and the stories they hold. I think I will be forever exploring the wonders of the human face! Can you tell us a little about the Mosman Youth Art Prize? Sure, the Mosman Youth Art Prize is a national youth art prize for those aged 12-21 exhibited in the Mosman Art Gallery, Sydney. This year there were 320 entries, 186 of those where displayed in the gallery and 20 of those own various prizes in the three age categories as well as two participants winning a full and half scholarship to the Julian Ashton art school. 4 Northsider Yes! I went with my father to Sydney and we spent most of our time doing really arty stuff. I think some of the highlights of the trip were seeing the Chuck Close exhibit at the Contemporary Art Museum (one of my inspirations), going to the Traditional Art Gallery, seeing the Opera House, meeting the Principal of the Julian Ashton Art School (the most prestigious art school in Australia) and him telling me that I could go to the top and he loved my work! I got to see his art school and talk to the teachers there! Lastly, I loved seeing the exhibit itself and seeing my work in the first gallery opening I have ever had, it was all a dream come true! What do you think you will take away from this experience? I think after seeing so many paintings in the exhibit I want to focus more on painting and learning the skill. I think it also gave me a new determination to try harder and focus on improving my skill and creativity. But really it gave me most importantly the courage to go against the nay-sayers and strive for being the artist I always dreamed to be and create this to be a real, viable future. Any plans for art in the future? So many! I volunteer as much as I can in theatre companies and set design. I am trying to find new competitions and opportunities to spread my artistic wings and I want to find a professional artist to do work experience with so I can experience all the aspects of the job such as finance, marketing and the actual art creating. Finally, I am trying to find any time I have to create work! Just ask the art teachers, they have threatened me more than once that they will kick me out of the art house, they may have just had enough of me! Northside Sport news InterCollegiate Sport Northside has joined with Citipointe Christian College and Westside Christian College to establish an annual sporting competition for our students and school communities. This development follows the piloting of netball, soccer and rugby intercollegiate competitions in 2014 (Secondary). In addition, the introduction of intercollegiate competitions takes on board a top feedback item from the parent survey in 2014 - extension of co-curricular opportunities. The aim of InterCollegiate Christian Colleges Sport is to encourage a tradition of healthy sporting competitions between the three Colleges. We consider it important that each school shares a similar Christian ethos and recognises the value of sporting activities as part of a well-rounded educational program. It may be that other schools join the competition in the future. InterCollegiate Sports will enable each school to further enhance and develop their own sport culture and tradition. It will also provide another opportunity for students to compete for their College, while also working towards District, State and National representation for high performing athletes. Northside takes the win at InterCollegiate Swim Carnival and Cross Country Upcoming InterCollegiate Events Throughout the year, students will be competing at InterCollegiate (ICS) events. A year in the making, the inaugural InterCollegiate Swimming Carnival started with a bang on Monday 16 February at Chandler Aquatic Centre. Excitement levels were high as Junior and Secondary School students combined to represent the College in both 50m and relay events. The Northside community and alumni are welcome to come and support as spectators. - ICS Track and Field Thursday 13 August 2015 - ICS Soccer Tournament Term 3, draw TBC A sport traditionally known for individual pursuits, the InterCollegiate Swimming format aimed to create a more team focussed carnival. The inclusion of 3 different relay events created great atmosphere and team spirit. The last event of the night was an all age (9 years to opens) relay – 9 x 50m relays. With spectators at fever pitch, Northside rose to the occasion and took out both the Girls and Boys all age relay. A huge congratulations to all students who participated and also a big thank you to parents, siblings and staff who supported the team throughout the night. Northside swept the pool, winning the following Age Division categories and also took home the inaugural trophy, as the overall winner. For more information visit northside.qld.edu.au Northside's cross country team, from 9 years old to opens, recently competed in the ICS cross country, as part of the new competition against Westside and Citipointe. The friendly environment saw supporters cheering for all schools, running along to encourage them around the course. In a very close and highly competitive afternoon, Northside snatched victory, sneaking in front of Citipointe. The top six finishers in each age group formed a team and were given points based on their place. The 9, 10, 12 and open girls took first place, as did the 13, 15 and Open boys. Congratulations Northside! Tim Roberts Secondary Sports Coordinator 2015 Sport & House Captains Congratulations to the following students who have been named house and sport captains for 2015: Sport Captains: Josh Morrison, Tiana Morrison Booth: Josie Dower, Marcel Jonker Graham: Taylah Rose, William Dendle Wesley: Lauren Tate, Jordan McClenaghan Elliot: Hayley Ross, Luke Woodrow SEMESTER 1, 2015 5 ANNIE THE MUSICAL Annie the Musical From the Director, Mr Andrew Jones It is hard to believe the final curtain has come down on Annie! Figuratively speaking of course, as we don't have curtains. If you managed to see Annie, I think you would agree that it was an enormous success. If you didn't, then you missed out on seeing one of the best musicals presented at Northside. It is a privilege, no a blessing, to be a part of a musical at Northside. To see the various talents and giftings of staff, students and volunteers who have separately, sung, danced, acted, played, stitched, sewed, glued, painted or hammered, finally meld together for a few special nights in production week is nothing short of seeing the creativity of our God in full flight. I very often remind the team that this really is an act of worship to our God when we use all He has given us in collaboration of a common goal. Perhaps one of the greatest things to come from the musical was the consistent reports of how wonderful our cast was. They have truly been the best cast to work with in terms of behavior, following instructions, but more importantly how they treated each other. As a production team we can honestly say it was a privilege to work with them. I would like to make a special mention to our leads. Chelsea Docherty was the most perfect Annie we could have hoped for. Her cheery and positive attitude never faltered. As the youngest in the cast, I was amazed at her ability to carry the the huge weight of this performance. To take all we threw at her and perform it so beautifully and truthfully. Luke Woodrow as Daddy Warbucks and Abigail Smith as Grace were amazing. However, what I found most impressive was their professionalism with which they approached their roles. To see them get alongside Chelsea and support and encourage her was a beautiful act of mentoring to witness. That chemistry was evident on stage in some wonderfully heartfelt moments. Many thanks to all those who were involved somewhere and somehow, the effort is astounding. Finally on a more personal note, I would like to thank Miss Katie Evans, Mr Ming Ting, Mr Maitlohn Drew, Ms Jo Kingsman and Mrs Lyn Smith-Cottrell for their support through this process. I am truly humbled and blessed by their unwavering ability to go beyond what was required. 6 Northsider Watch the behind the scenes production videos here: www.youtube.com/user/NorthsideQldEduAu ANNIE THE MUSICAL SEMESTER 1, 2015 7 Volunteers Notes of Appreciation Thank you from the Arts, Design Technology and Property Departments. The old adage, it takes a village to raise a child, is always applicable in regards to the birth and growth of one of our musicals. From its tottering beginnings to standing fully fledged and ready to go, the musicals are always flanked by a large and worthy crowd of volunteers who tirelessly hammer, glue, sew, brain-storm and problem-solve all the bits and pieces that need to be completed before our latest “child” is ready. Thank you to all the wonderful, dedicated, fun-loving people who worked on creating Annie. It has not only been a pleasure to work with you, it has been a delight to get to know each of you and call you friend. Thank you from Shân Wilson, Costume Design I would just like to take this opportunity to express my heartfelt appreciation to all the amazing volunteers, who committed their time, energy and talents in producing the hundreds of costumes required for Annie. You were an amazing team and it was such a privilege to work with you and to have an opportunity to have fellowship with you. So thankyou to all the committed Mums, grandmothers, past and current Home Economics students and even past parents. You were instrumental in making Annie the quality production it was. Your support is priceless and it made such a difference. Blessings to all. Thank you from Rob Burgess, Promotions Cast + Production Team + Volunteers + 15,000 = “Annie” Though of course the cast put in a lot of hours to learn and polish their performance, that time is sometimes dwarfed by the time it takes to make costumes and the set. Our shows are known for their professionalism and this is undergirded by sets and costumes that could grace any stage in Australia. The painting, the sewing, the making and the helping backstage requires a HUGE supporting cast of volunteers. To all those who contributed in any way - the mums and dads and friends and family who contributed their time and skills to making Annie such a success, thank you. 8 Northsider Volunteers Thanking our Musical Volunteers An honour board for those who have helped in any shape or form! SEMESTER 1, 2015 9 ALUMNI PROFILE Coming back full-circle After two years of exploring Europe with her husband, Emma Thomas, (née Woodrow, Class of 2006), has returned as Next Steps Kindy's new Teaching Director. You've got over twenty-years of history here? I started at Northside Christian College in Preschool in 1994 with Mrs Crimmins as my teacher and I graduated in 2006. What have you been up to since graduating? After finishing school I studied my Bachelor of Education (Primary/ Early Years) at Christian Heritage College. I did prac in a number of different Christian schools which was a great experience. While I was at uni I started working at Bardon Kindy in their before and after Kindy care. When I was in my final year they offered me a job as a Kindy teacher! I was so excited. It was a wonderful opportunity for a new graduate. I worked there for 2 years and learnt so much about teaching and community. Can you tell us about getting married and travel? Above: Visiting Hadrian's Wall in the UK. What is it about your job that inspires you? I love how much children enjoy coming to Kindy. I think this is a really special age where we can inspire a love of learning in children that will see them through their lives. I really enjoy being able to share God’s love with children at such an important time in their lives. Do you have any stand-out memories from school? I loved school! I had good friends and great teachers. I loved learning and although the work was tough at times I had lots of people around who supported me. This was one of the things that inspired me to become a teacher. Nathan (Class of 2006) and I started dating while we were in Year 12. He asked me to the Year 12 formal and that was the beginning of our relationship. We got married while I was in 3rd year uni. We had always talked about going overseas and traveling so we left our jobs at the end of 2012, packed up our lives and boarded a plane for the UK. We had an amazing two years living and travelling overseas. We were based in Bristol where Nathan worked for the council and I was a supply teacher. We found a great church and made many friends. We travelled as much as we could and saw many amazing places (and ate lots of good food!). Living overseas was a really eye opening experience. It taught us to rely on each other and trust God in a much deeper way. We came home at the end of 2014 and picked up our lives. I was offered the role of Teaching Director at Next Steps Kindy. What does life look like now? Having started in this new role at Next Steps Kindy I am kept pretty busy. Nathan and I are renting in Everton Hills with my sister Chloe and her husband Ash. One of the things I am really enjoying at the moment, after being overseas, is being able to call my friends and family and pop around to see them. Living in the UK also taught me to enjoy every moment of beautiful weather that we have! I attend Hills Church on Queens Road. Nathan and I both grew up in this church, it is a really caring and supportive environment. Both Northside Christian College and Hills Church have had a big impact on my Christian journey. It’s through relationship with people in these places that my relationship with God has grown. What does your job entail? As Teaching Director at Next Steps Kindy my role encompasses both administrative and teaching responsibilities. Monday to Wednesday I am primarily in the office working on office and director tasks. Thursday and Friday I am in the classroom teaching. This is a new role for me and is a great experience as I get to see both sides of the Kindy. 10 Northsider Above: Emma's first day at Preschool, 21 years ago in 1994. ALUMNI PROFILE "Living overseas was a really eye opening experience. It taught us to rely on each other and trust God in a much deeper way." Are you still in touch with many school friends? Time and distance always make it difficult to keep in touch, but I go to church with several of them, so that makes it easier. And of course I married one! Next year will be our 10 year school reunion so it will be great to catch up and see what everyone is up to in their lives. Do you have any advice for students who are possibly finishing school and discovering their passions in life? Do something that you love – then you will look forward to going to work. Take the opportunity to travel, even if it’s only short term. It really opens your eyes to how amazing and diverse our world is. Living in another country is also an amazing experience and something I would highly recommend. Listen to your mum – she knows what she is talking about. She always told me I would love being a teacher and she was right! Do you have some goals for your future? Finish my Diploma of Management this year. Also after spending two years overseas, we don’t have much savings, so Nathan and I are focusing on building them back up so that we can look at buying a house and starting a family in the future. A Northside education begins in Kindy Northside's Next Steps Kindy cares for and educates children in a safe, secure, engaging and stimulating environment. The service is a ministry of Nexus Church and aims to provide a high quality Christian care and Early Years education that forms a foundation for the development of skills, attitudes and dispositions needed for life. Each child is recognised as an individual, uniquely gifted and known intimately by God. Education The Early Years Learning Framework and the Queensland Kindergarten Guidelines for Learning provide the structure for curriculum planning in kindy. Learning Environment A purposeful learning environment supports, enhances, stimulates and challenges each child's interests, learning and development. Children learn through play involving exploration, discovery, problem solving and social interactions with peers and adults. Children's understanding of the world is broadened through contact and experiences with the wider community and involves teaching children about the community and traditions of others, through guests, excursions, parent contributions and use of digital technology. Communication with Parents Part of our commitment to you as parents is to ensure we provide an educational program and practice that is stimulating and engaging for all children. Educators at Next Steps value your input and interest in your child's learning. Regular communication, discussions about your child's learning experiences and learning progress during their day provide an important link between home and the kindy. To find out more, or to apply, visit nextstepskindy.com.au or contact [email protected] SEMESTER 1, 2015 11 Northside News Back to Basics with PMP The Perceptual Motor Programme (PMP) develops the students' perception and understanding of how they can use their motor skills in the world around them. PMP at Northside is run for students in Prep and Year One. The aim of the program is to give students experiences in seeing, hearing, touching, processing and making perceptual judgments. Students participate in activities involving jumping, skipping, balancing, crawling, climbing, throwing, catching or bowling. These skills are essential for students to function effectively in the world around them. The program focuses on four main motor outcomes; Balance, Locomotion, Eye/Hand/Foot Coordination and Fitness. Through participation in the program students are given opportunities to problem solve, develop fundamental sports skills, improve memory and develop awareness of the world they live in. These outcomes transfer through to the classroom and have a positive effect on students’ ability to focus and concentrate. Thank you to all of the parent volunteers who make it possible to deliver such a program to our students. What the kids say: What the parents and teachers say: “I liked the jumping side to side next to the rope.” - Lucy “It is a fun way to interact with your kids during school hours.” - Parent Volunteer “I loved going through the wooden shapes. It was fun – I had to name all the shapes. “ - Trelise “Catching and bouncing the ball was tricky…but I got better each time.” - Annie 12 Northsider “My wife made me do it.” - Parent Volunteer (joking, of course) “It's extremely important for young children as it promotes development of fine and gross motor coordination, which impacts on classroom performance.” - Mrs Beth Anderson, Year 1 Teacher Northside News Training for a bright future The career possibilities for a Northside graduate are endless. Throughout their years of compulsory schooling, students are prepared for engagement with an ever-changing world filled with opportunities, challenges and options. One of the ways students are prepared for such a diverse future is through the pursuit of nationally recognised, Vocational Education and Training (VET) certificate courses. Here is a snapshot of how some of last year’s Year 12 cohort benefitted from incorporating a VET certificate into their senior studies. Northside offers the highly-regarded Certificate III in Early Childhood Education and Care to students in Years 11 and 12. This qualification provides students with the knowledge, skills and experience to be job-ready. Belinda Bartels completed the Certificate III in Early Childhood Education and Care in 2014 and now is working at Next Steps Kindy at Northside. Belinda believes her VET studies were a vital part of her senior years. “The Early Childhood certificate I did prepared me well to work at a Kindergarten. The practical activities we did and the interaction with the kids were the best parts. I’m using everything I learned.” The Brisbane North West TTC is an initiative aimed at providing innovative, industry-standard training to Year 11 and 12 students. Northside acts in partnership with four other Brisbane North schools (The Gap SHS, Mitchelton SHS, Everton Park SHS, and Mt Maria College) to fund the purpose-built facility which commenced course offerings in 2012. Last year, 5 Northside students graduated from the TTC with a Certificate II in Electrotechnology. This certificate is the preferred vehicle into an electrical trade apprenticeship and this year, 4 out of the 5 graduates began their apprenticeship with local employers. Jack Murchie secured an electrical apprenticeship with ‘Tradesmen on Time’ (TTC) and he gives this reflection on his time at the TTC. “Training at the TTC was a great experience. We covered all aspects of the electrical trade and we used all the latest equipment and gear. I wouldn’t have got my job if I hadn’t done the Cert II.” Many Senior School students incorporate a TAFE qualification into their Senior Education Plan. Around 12 students from the 2014 cohort pursued some form of VET certificate through a TAFE Queensland Schools programme. One such student was Joseph Marshman who, as well as completing a Certificate IV in Business, completed a Certificate II in Hospitality (Kitchen Operations). Joseph is now an apprentice chef with Kedron Wavell Services Club and says that he... “…gained experience in a wide range of hospitality contexts and got to work with professional, experienced Chefs and Trainers.” VET certificates offer students the opportunity to gain an industry-respected, nationally-recognised qualification in a vocation of their choice. If you have a son or daughter who will be in Year 11 or 12 in 2016, and would like to know more about how completing a VET certificate can assist in the transition to the world beyond school, feel free to contact Mr Scott Murchie (VET Coordinator). SEMESTER 1, 2015 13 PARENTING TIp: sENIOR FOCUS Inoculation Against the FOMO Plague The Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is fueling some challenging behaviours in people of all ages. Alison Stegert unpacks a few things parents can do to stimulate resistance to the FOMO plague. Image Credit: Whale Photo, by Eric Smtih, E Smith Images Lots of parents worry about their teens’ unhealthy relationship with their smartphones, but few understand the psychological mechanism behind it. What is often put down to a lack of selfcontrol, poor etiquette, or “typical teen behaviour” can actually be the result of FOMO, the fear of missing out. It’s real and it doesn’t affect only adolescents. Described as a type of “anticipatory regret” and a form of social anxiety, FOMO leads to some problematic behaviours and uncomfortable emotional states: • Anxiety, restlessness, or other distress when cut off from technology (This may include phantom vibrations and similar phenomena.) • Feelings of worthlessness, depression, envy, etc. when reading other people’s Facebook statuses • Inability or unwillingness to say no to invitations (to the point that one’s health, job or schoolwork is negatively affected) • Changing one’s schedule to accommodate the possibility of something fun coming up • Worrying about what others will do and anticipating being left out of conversations, shared jokes, etc. • Feeling vexed and/or irritable when unable to attend functions or be a part of gatherings; subsequent unacceptable behaviour (door slamming, rudeness, etc.) • Answering phone calls and texts when in the middle of a conversation • Using social media at inappropriate times (during class, meetings, church, etc.) No-No to FOMO How do we avoid or overcome this plague of technology-mediated social anxiety? As always, balance is the key. We parents will do well by our kids and ourselves if we model moderation and practise healthy behaviours as we engage with technology. Understanding and empathising with kids’ genuine FOMO distress helps. If we just say, “Get over it!” or take away devices willy-nilly, we can contribute to the young person’s anxiety. A real solution involves conversation, negotiation, and clear boundaries. Kids crave instant connection and belonging is a natural human instinct. We have to show them and help them desire a healthier way. Remembering that FOMO afflicts grown-ups too is an important thing to keep in mind. Some interesting studies have looked at links between personality and smartphone addiction. Researchers discovered phone over-dependency correlates to moodiness, materialism, impulsive personality types, and poor ability to focus. 1. Deal with comparison. It may be useful to put up a reminder somewhere, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” If you catch yourself comparing yourself to others unfavourably, stop. Be kind to yourself, and take a moment to reflect on your strengths and blessings. 14 Northsider 2. Redirect negativity FOMO can warn us of lacks, imbalances, and so forth. Feeling envious of a friend’s new job? Take some time to think about what you like and dislike about yours? Can you add a meaningful activity to your life to fill the void? 3. Set limits. Have a set time of day (or better yet, week) for checking social media. This can be complicated by using Facebook Messenger for school group work or extracurricular activities, so look for safe alternatives. 4. Practise Self-Awareness Why do you want to do something? Is it because you don’t want to be left out or is it because you really want to do it? Again, journalling can help young people discover and articulate deep motives. 5. Be Value-Guided One of the problems with FOMO is that it makes people feel pressured to do things, even activities they may not be able to afford or have energy and time for. Articulate your goals and values, and let them not social media guide your decisions. Bye-Bye FOMO, Hello JOMO Here’s a mantra to start teaching your teens: “Missing out isn’t the end of the world.” In fact, missing out can be healthy, economical, creative, and more! By experiencing a few missed events and gatherings, our teens can discover the JOY of Missing Out–JOMO. Alison Stegert, School Counsellor For more ideas on how to help your children turn FOMO into JOMO, visit www.e-quipped.com.au. PARENTING TIp: JUNIOR FOCUS Who is Eddie Excellence? Insider tip This article is the fourth and final in a series featuring the four characters from the Junior School CARE Focus. The first article in 2013 featured Carrie Courtesy and Abel Attitude was the star in March. The November article highlighted Ruby Resilience and this article showcases Eddie Excellence. Excellence has long been associated with the ethos of the college. The original motto was “Committed to Excellence” and excellence remains as one of the five college values. In Junior School, our CARE focus is designed to help strengthen the students’ social and emotional health and to develop the important characteristics of Courtesy, Attitude, Resilience and Excellence. CARE is a Christian framework reflecting the values of our Junior School community and is a unifying focus providing a common language for staff, students and parents. Defined in the dictionary as “very great merit or quality”, excellence is a great virtue. The Scripture associated with Eddie is a command to do our very best because we want to give our best to God. “Colossians 3:23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.” This is Eddie’s Scripture and his slogan is I do my best. The attributes of excellence are to be: • honest • punctual • focussed • responsible • tidy • diligent It is important to note that excellence is not about being better than other people; it is being the best that we can be. The habit of punctuality is important as it teaches the children respect. They learn that time that is lost cannot be regained. In a recent article about absenteeism and lateness, Michael Grose wrote, “Being late is not okay either. Missing a few minutes each day may not seem like a big deal but your child may be missing more than you realise if he or she is continually late. Current research shows that mornings for most children are the most productive time of the day, with 10.00am the peak period for productivity. When children arrive late and take time to settle as they inevitably do, valuable learning time is lost.” It is eye-opening to realise how much time is lost each year by regularly being five to ten minutes late. Punctuality is also important because it respects the person providing the activity or event and shows that their time and effort should not be disregarded. Responsibility can be fostered by giving children chores as part of their being a family member and by not doing for them what they can do themselves. Picking up after them, carrying their school bag, packing their bag and other similar actions are not, ultimately, a kindness and should be done only in special circumstances. Just as important for the development of responsibility is not immediately rescuing them from the consequences of their actions but allowing them to grow through the experience. Tidiness is usually learnt best in small steps. Young children need to be directed with simple instructions. “Tidy your room” can lead to an overwhelming confusion, whereas “Put all your soft toys in the basket” is a simple direction that can be understood and followed. As they grow older, they will know the steps and be able to make a plan by themselves. These and the other attributes will not all happen spontaneously. It is important to remember that character traits and habits take time to develop and not to be discouraged. Parenting can be tiring and challenging and we need to encourage ourselves and others that instant success is not possible. Modelling is a powerful tool. If they see you demonstrating the attributes, they are more likely to follow your example. For those parents who are reading the Northsider for the first time, here is a summary of the other three CARE characters. Carrie Courtesy: Matthew 7:12. Well-mannered, cooperative, kind, considerate. "I respect others! Abel Attitude: Philippians 4:13. Open to God, persevering, responsive, enthusiastic, teachable. "I can do it!" Ruby Resilience: Deuteronomy 31:6. Confident, overcoming, selfaccepting, positive, assertive, faithful. "I can overcome!" Bev Starrenburg, Junior School Coordinator/Student Welfare Helpful Parenting Links Raising Children - raisingchildren.net.au/ Parenting Ideas parentingideas.com.au/Parents/How-to-Parent SEMESTER 1, 2015 15 COMMUNITY FOCUS Honouring our Grandparents Grandparents' Matinee On Wednesday 29 April, Northside had the honour of hosting our students' grandparents for a special matinee of Annie the Musical. Grandparents started the morning with a welcome from Mrs June Van der Ham, Head of Senior School, followed by a delicious morning tea made by the staff and volunteers from the College Café. Students were able to show their grandparents around the school with Junior School students having the opportunity to take their guests to visit their classrooms. An added treat this year, was the matinee performance of Annie the Musical, which was well recieved by all who watched. Yet again, Grandparents' Day was a wonderful opportunity for our students to connect with their grandparents and to show them what school life looks like at Northside. We would like to express our thank you to Northside families who showed their support by joining us on the day. 16 Northsider community focus Share your news with us We love to know what our graduates are doing now. Please send an update and some photos to [email protected]. We can’t wait to hear from you! Congratulations! Newly Weds Congratulations Joshua and Grace McVey Joshua McVey (class of 2008) married Grace McVey (née Campbell) on Saturday 7 March 2015 in an ambient warehouse fitted out with antique furniture. The couple were attended by a number of Northside graduates in their bridal party including; Joel McVey (2007), Jacob McVey (2010), Thomas Eggert (2008), Elliot Heitman (2008) and Ruth Butler (née Cochrane, 2007). Congratulations Matthew and Larissa Oates Past student Matthew Oates and Larissa Oates (née De Ruysscher) were married on Saturday 16 May. Newly Engaged Congratulations Samuel Aroney and Katie O'Brien Matthew finished at Northside in 1999 and went on to do Carpentry. He is now working as a Carpenter for Impact Homes, alongside his brother and brother-in-law. Highschool sweethearts, Samuel Aroney and Katie O'Brien (class of 2011) became engaged on 23 December 2014. He and Larrisa celebrated their marriage in a beautiful garden setting in Burbank on the south of Brisbane. Katie is currently working in Outside of School Hours care at Northside and is planning for their wedding in November. Newborns Welcome Lucas Thornton Brown Welcome Jayce William Rogers Sarah (née Goleby, Class of 2008) and Elliot Brown welcomed a son, Lucas Thornton Brown, on 9 December 2014. Chelsea (née Duncombe, Class of 2006) and Craig Rogers (Class of 2006) welcomed a son, Jayce William Rogers, on 10 November 2014. Welcome Shepherd Augustine Lionheart Bruce Smith-Cottrell Jimmy (Class of 2002) and Kirsty Smith-Cottrell welcomed a son, Shepherd Augustine Lionheart Bruce Smith-Cottrell on 16 February 2015. SEMESTER 1, 2015 17 ALUMNI PROFILE Reaching out, close to home Campus Missionary, QUT Kelvin Grove James Woolett (Class of 2008) James' life since graduation from Northside has been about reaching those who don't know Jesus - many of whom are students at universtiy. What has been happening since school? Graduated 2008, mission trip to Shillong India, started degree 2010, (involvement in Student Life (SL) from 2011, made president of SL at QUT and worked part-time at SL for remainder of degree), completed Bachelor of Aerospace and Avionics Engineering and joined SL as a full-time missionary. What is your day to day life like now? I work as a campus missionary to QUT and other smaller uni campuses. This involves a lot of interaction with university students, either discipling, evangelising or training. It also involves a fair bit of networking and support raising. I enjoy playing Ultimate Frisbee twice a week (yes it is a sport). Spending time with my brothers nerding it up and playing PC games. I enjoy my historical fiction and love studying apologetics and history. Spending time with my girlfriend. What is it about your job that inspires you? Two things: Most of the great revolutions and reformations of the past have come out of university. So if I want to change the world for Christ, where better to do it than at a university? I've found that those between 17-22 are asking the best questions of their lives; what is their purpose, why are they here, etc... What better time to help build someone in their relationship with God! Most people in that age bracket are going to attend university. It inspires me to see those young people take their relationship with God so seriously that they proceed to change their campus and their world beyond campus. James with students at the university. What are some of the things you look forward to at the moment? I am looking forward to finishing support raising so I can return to working on campus and getting back to meeting with univeristy students. I'm looking forward to restarting old discipleship relationships and beginning new ones. I'm looking forward to being responsible for a new campus (QUT Kelvin Grove) and leading a new team of missionaries. I'm looking forward to when I can get back to New Zealand to see family and the country! Do you have some advice for students who are deciding how they want to live their life? Don’t pressure yourself into having to know exactly what you want to do and who you want to be the moment you get out of school. Enjoy those late teen/early twenty years getting to know who you are! Enjoy learning the things you really, really care about and pursue those. Do you have some goals for your future? I'd love to complete a Bible College degree. I have a strong desire to see what ministry is like in a Muslim country and learn more about reaching out to Muslims effectively. Hopefully getting married - beyond that, it's a matter of trusting God to lead me where He will. If you would like to find out more about James' work at Student Life or to get in touch with him, send an email to [email protected]. 18 Northsider PICTORIAL Education: What’s the Purpose? Dr Ryan Messmore, Executive Director of the Millis Institute Currently residing in Brisbane with his wife and three children, Dr Ryan Messmore is the founding Executive Director of the bold new Liberal Arts initiative at Christian Heritage College called the Millis Institute. Before moving to Brisbane, Dr Messmore served as President at Campion College in Sydney and as a research fellow at The Heritage Foundation in Washington D.C., America. At the beginning of the school year, Dr Messmore delivered an inspiring and challenging speech on the topic of "What is the purpose of education?". He outlines a few key points from his address for the wider Northside community. Why go to school? This is an extremely important question to ask. Schooling, however, is perhaps so common that many of us take it for granted and fail to address its purpose critically. What is the point or goal of education? A common answer would likely be accumulating the knowledge necessary for getting a job. This is certainly a noble pursuit, and as a parent I want my children to find gainful employment when they graduate from university. I want, though, so much more for my children than just a job. Why? Because my children are so much more than empty bank accounts. As humans created in the image of God, I want my kids to become well-rounded, confident, curious young adults who enjoy life and flourish in every dimension. I want them to love learning, other people, and most of all God. And that’s the problem with approaching education for purely utilitarian reasons. Such an approach can lead to an incomplete education— one that tends to ignore entire dimensions of the human being. A Higher Purpose I want to suggest that the primary purpose of education is to cultivate a certain kind of person. C. S. Lewis wrote, “The purpose of education is to produce the good man and the good citizen...The 'good man' here means the man of good taste and good feeling, the interesting and interested man...”. In other words, the goal of education is not just to make a living, but to make a certain kind of life—a certain kind of person. The word “education” comes from a Latin word meaning “to draw out”. A good education draws out of students their inner potential and capacities—intellectual, moral, spiritual and even physical and social. When it comes to schooling, the capacity that most people think about first is the intellect—i.e. book learning in the classroom. As human beings, the Lord gave us the ability to think, ask questions, read, explore, evaluate, and discern what is true and false. As with any gift from God, we are responsible to exercise the gifts of intellect and reason well, not to misuse them by allowing the brain to go dull or to dwell in unnecessary ignorance. Therefore, those charged with the task of education—including schools and also parents—must seek to cultivate within students “the life of the mind.” Intellectual virtue alone, however, is not enough, for the simple reason that God created human persons as more than just craniums. He formed us with not only a brain that can think but also a conscience that can choose and a soul that can love. And thus education must attend to students’ moral and spiritual capacities as well. The Apostle Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians that even if we can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge—even if we achieve dux, an OP1 or a Ph.D.—if we do not have love, we are nothing. Furthermore, in addition to developing critical thinking and good character, a complete education includes knowing the One who created students and infused them with their various capacities. This is one reason why liberal arts curricula in earlier centuries of Western civilisation viewed theology as the “Queen of the Sciences.” Shaping Loves A robust education challenges students to not only know the truth but also desire it. Toward this end, St. Augustine understood the goal of education in terms of the ordo amoris—the right ordering of the loves. Therefore, a truly educated person not only understands how DNA replicates, but also comprehends meaning in life and in the universe. He not only studies paleontology or anatomy, but is also cognisant of the purpose of human history and the value inherent in all people. He can not only compute math formulas, but also appreciates beautiful art and music. His IQ not only rises, but his character also flourishes. He not only gets high marks on his exams, but he also excels in life. (This summarises the aim of a new Christ-centred, liberal arts initiative at Christian Heritage College called the Millis Institute. See the back page of this magazine to learn how to sample this educational approach.) SEMESTER 1, 2015 19 PEACE DESIGNER GIRLS CONFERENCE 31ST JULY 2015 & DESIGNING WOMEN CONFERENCE 1ST AUGUST 2015 with Guest Speakers Dr. Caroline Leaf & Lisa Mcinnes-Smith Register at www.dwconference.com.au The Witherspoon Fellowship Reimagining Leadership The Millis Institute | June 26-27 2015 A two-day gathering for Year 10-12 students seeking a fresh perspective on leadership; led by Millis Institute Director, Dr Ryan Messmore and CHC President, Professor Darren Iselin. Activities include: • great works – from Socrates to C S Lewis • public speaking and debate training • interaction with established leaders • ballroom dancing lessons! Christian Heritage College 322 Wecker Rd, Carindale Cost: $60 Bookings: (07) 3347 7900 [email protected] chc.edu.au