May 2014 US NL online
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May 2014 US NL online
Type to enter text Type to enter text Synagogue University 1 2014.5 University Synagogue ! A Reconstructionist Congregation Letter From Our Rabbi What is Reconstructionism? Dear Haverim, How often have we all been asked: “What Is Reconstructionism?” Although University Synagogue has a wonderful reputation for services, music, Religious School, Pre-School, Adult Education, Tikkun Olam, Women’s Connection and so much more and we continue to attract new members of all ages year after year, sometimes, it’s difficult, in a few minutes, to answer that question. The very best way to explain what we do and believe is to invite those who are curious to experience our congregation. A website, newsletter or even a philosophical explanation doesn’t do us justice. Still, people want to know: “What Is Reconstructionism?” So, here’s an answer: 1. God/Godliness/Humanism/Spirituality: We’re a community of diverse philosophies and theologies and we affirm the right and responsibility of everyone to discover what they truly believe. Agnostics and atheists, as well as those who believe in a personal, supernatural God, are all welcome here. Inheriting a theology from parents or Hebrew School long ago is quite different from bringing mind and heart together on your own. We encourage people to be skeptical and to question and to be more inclusive and less dogmatic. We stress awe and wonder more than reward and punishment, affirmations over prohibitions, good questions over bad answers. To know oneself and to love others is Godly. Most of us are religious humanists or naturalists, seeing in selfactualization and ethical behavior the workings of the Divine. We’re not listening for God to speak or do. Godliness works through human consciousness and altruism. 2. Torah/Ethics/Learning/Worship: Study is a form of worship in Judaism and, if we can become lifelong learners in Judaism, ethical improvement and ourselves, we are fulfilling the highest form of worship. Most of us express the Divine within us more through self-awareness, self-reflection and raised conscience and consciousness than through traditional worship, although the words and music of our traditional prayers and the experience of a Iyar 5774 Vol. 25, No. 9, May 2014 Rabbi Arnold Rachlis davening community can prepare us and elevate us. Tradition is entitled to a vote, but not a veto. We have to decide what enhances our Judaism and life, as individuals and as a community. We also know that we have more to learn, so that we need to instruct before we reconstruct. Prayer, for us, is “quotation” and “affirmation.” Traditional prayers (“quotation”) link us to the past and to present day Jews throughout the world, so we always strive to find meaning in them. We also add prayers of “affirmation” – poetry, expressions of contemporary truth and the insights of our inner voices to our services that express how we feel here and now. We bond through music and words, warmth and touch, surprise and creativity, so that we might express gratitude for all of the blessings of our lives and find comfort in times of pain. We ask not for supernatural deliverance, but for strength, insight, passion and compassion. 3. Community/Peoplehood/Israel: We are bound to each other and to the world as an international and historic people. We know that belonging precedes behaving, believing and becoming. Religious differences within Judaism should be seen as a source of strength and dynamism, not polarization. But we also believe that truth and facing reality are more important than conformity, for conformity is not a virtue, just for the sake of unity. Judaism evolves and grows stronger and truer through diversity and innovation. If we are bold, inclusive, sensitive to human needs, open to science and always searching for the truth, we will attract the most interesting people who are also in search. Inside this Issue Rabbi’s Letter President’s Letter 1-2 3 Upcoming Dates 4-7 Monthly Calendar 11 Religious School 12 Pre-School 13 Contributions Supporters 18-19 21 University Synagogue 2 The alienation of so many people, of all religions and backgrounds, isn’t a tragedy; it’s an opportunity. It demands that we respond lovingly to intermarried couples, Jews and non-Jews in search, intellectuals, skeptics, gays and lesbians and so many more. Creating a bigger tent and enjoying the diversity of Judaism is the best way to create an open Judaism for the future. We need to continually ask: Is Judaism relevant to contemporary political, social and ethical needs? Our Judaism must be universalistic, so that, through it, we make life better for ourselves and the world. Reconstructionism has always been daring and dynamic, always in the vanguard of change in Judaism. Now, it is up to us to live Jewish lives of meaning and purpose, to be fearless and to welcome others in. If not now, when! B’shalom, ! Rabbi Arnold Rachlis 2014.5 MAZEL TOV ! • • • • • • • Rabbi Rachlis on the engagement of his sonMichael to Michael Feldman Brett and Laura Berg on their daughter Zoey’s Bat Mitzvah Joseph Dynes and Brigitt Minieri on their son Elliott’s Bar Mitzvah Richard Merage on his son Matteo’s Bar Mitzvah Paul and Lilly Merage on their grandson Matteo’s Bar Mitzvah Katherine Merage on her great-grandson Matteo’s Bar Mitzvah Gideon Bernstein, Gordon Fishman, Leslie Furman, Richard Gollis, Michael Gordon, David Lang, Hank Schrimmer, Linda Schulein and Linda Stoll on being honored by the Jewish Community Foundation for their dedicated work. In addition, the following were honored posthumously – Allen Jaffy, Victor Klein and Sol Zechter. Thank you to all those who have contributed to the Righteous Rescuers Fund (as of April 10). A full list will appear in the June HaMakor Hal and Hinda Beral Sandy Bursten Dr. Gary and Florence Feldman The Honorable Richard and Susan Fybel Phyllis Gilmore Lotte Hoffman Lee and Zena Jacobi Barbara Klein Dr. Marc and Karen Lerner Rosalee Lubell Alan and Wilma Nishball Rabbi Arnold Rachlis and Cantor Ruti Braier Carol Richmond Dr. Marc Richmond Alfred and Elaine Sacker David and Geri Sandor Jeanne Sandor Alvin and Ora Wolf Max and Marilyn Wolfsberg WHO’S Welcome New Members! Dr. Rachael and Alan Krause University Synagogue 3 Letter From Our President Dear Haverim, I have exciting news for you! This month we celebrate the success of our Mitzvah Campaign. We accomplished all of our goals - and more! We made needed structural repairs to our building. We reduced our mortgage and refinanced at a lower interest rate. We released our guarantors and repaid our bridge lenders. Save for our mortgage, we are debt free – a key goal for our future sustainability. Unexpectedly, and even more joyfully, we raised enough funds to contribute significantly to a redesign of areas of our physical home. Please join us for Shabbat Alive services on May 9th to share an exhilarating observance of Yom Ha’Atzmaut/Israel Independence Day, and our amazing success with The Mitzvah Campaign. To shed more light on how inspiring these accomplishments are, please allow me to share with you a story. Years ago, the Black, Jaffy and Klein families donated funds to build a kitchen. Since that time, for various reasons and a series of challenges, the synagogue has been unable to make their dream come true. Today, in partnership with these families and with our generous Mitzvah Campaign donors, we will be able to redesign our kitchen to better meet our community’s needs. The vision of the Kleins, Jaffys and Blacks will finally be realized. But that’s not all! Funds from the Mitzvah Campaign also will provide us with several exciting improvements to our building - improvements that will enrich all of our lives here at University Synagogue. These improvements include: THREE NEW CLASSROOMS! The addition of these classrooms will allow us once again to hold family services before Religious School on Sundays. Parents will have the opportunity to stay and schmooze, building on our synagogue of relationships and strengthening our Kehillah Kedosha. Under the direction of Sue Penn, our Religious School continues to grow, bringing new families into our wonderful community and directly contributing to a strong, vibrant future for US and Reconstructionist Judaism. AN ELEVATOR! A gateway to Phase II of our original dream for our home, an elevator is the first step to the eventual build out of our second floor. This second floor will not yet be fully developed, but an elevator accomplishes another important step in our sustainability. AN UPSTAIRS MEETING ROOM! This first venture into making the upstairs space usable is significant. It carries great meaning for those whose original vision and determination helped us create our home. In addition, it plays an important, practical role in the wise fiscal management of our synagogue. You may not have known that because the second floor is not built out we have been required to pay property tax every year on what is officially considered “undeveloped” space. 2014.5 Without a Conditional Use Permit (“CUP”), we cannot dedicate the second floor space to our use as a non-profit which would exempt us from those property taxes. The upstairs additions will make it possible to obtain a CUP which in turn will allow us to resubmit information to the county. This should release us from at least a portion, if not all, of our current property tax obligation. The annual tax savings we are likely to realize from this is far greater than any savings we would gain from further paying down our mortgage with those funds. We owe much gratitude to our former treasurer, and current Board member, Mike Krahelski and treasurer Dave Wyle for recognizing this opportunity for significant savings. It is with great pride that I share this thrilling news. Together with YOU, our incredibly supportive community, the synagogue’s officers, Board and clergy are ushering in a new era for University Synagogue, ensuring that US continues to have a significant presence in the Jewish community and an important and ongoing role to play in the future of the Reconstructionist Movement. So be sure to join us for Shabbat Alive on May 9th. We have much to celebrate! B’Shalom, Sari Schreiber President JOIN US ON MAY 17TH! OUT OF AFRICA, HONORING OUR EDUCATORS: HEIDI KAHN & SUE PENN Ads are still being accepted! Let Heidi and Sue know how much they are appreciated by placing a tribute in our beautiful Gala Tribute Souvenir Book! (See p. 17 for pricing information). Be a part of something great by honoring the women who are building the future of our Jewish Community and supporting University Synagogue. For more information, contact Lisa Grajewski at [email protected] University Synagogue 4 May 2014 Thursday, May 1 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club. RSVP to [email protected]. Friday, May 2 9:00 a.m. Pre-School Bake Sale 8:00 p.m. Yom HaShoah/Holocaust Memorial services and Yizkor led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier during which Professor Wendy Lower will speak about her new book “Hitler’s Furies: German Women In The Nazi Killing Fields.” Dr. Lower is the John K. Roth Professor of History at Claremont McKenna College. Her most recent book, “Hitler’s Furies,” tells the account of the role of German women on the WWII Nazi eastern front. It powerfully revises history proving that the reality of women’s participation as brutal killers in the Holocaust has been ignored. Professor Lower, drawing on twenty years of archival and fieldwork on the Holocaust, presents overwhelming evidence that these women went on “shopping sprees” for Jewish-owned goods and brutalized Jews in the ghettos of Poland, Ukraine and Belarus. Dr. Lower received her BA from Hamilton College in NY and her Ph.D. from the American University in Washington, DC. She has received research grants from the German Historical Institute and the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum. Our Choir will sing and we will also dedicate a leaf on our Simcha Tree celebrating Havurah Nagila’s 13th anniversary. Sponsored by Tom and Andra Ellingson. Saturday, May 3 10:00 a.m. Shabbat Services will be led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier during which Zoey Berg, daughter of Bret and Laura Berg, will be called to the Torah as Bat Mitzvah. Everyone is invited to the service and the kiddush that follows. Sunday, May 4 9:00 a.m. Religious School 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. Last session of Cooking Through the Jewish Holidays. Learn how to make the foods associated with Israeli Independence Day and Shavuot, such as hummus and pita from scratch, a cheesecake and fruit tart. To be held at a private home in Irvine. All congregants are welcome (children must be 10 or above) and reservations are a must. Cost: $10/person. Details supplied upon registration. Students are required to supply their own ingredients and utensils. RSVP to [email protected]. 12:00 – 2:30 p.m. “Picnic In The Park” at Mason Regional Park in Irvine. Join us for fun and games for the whole family with Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier, featuring live music, sack races, volleyball, football toss, prizes and much more! Bring your 2014.5 blankets and chairs and either pack a dairy lunch or order a box lunch for $9/Adult, $5/Child. Box lunch includes your choice of either tuna, egg salad or veggie sandwiches and includes chips and fruit. Lemonade, root beer and water will be available. RSVP to [email protected] to order your lunch. Please be prepared to pay $5 for parking. Monday, May 5 7:15 p.m. Choir rehearsal Tuesday, May 6 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Adult Education: Jewish, Alive and American taught by Carol Richmond. RSVP to [email protected]. Thursday, May 8 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club Friday, May 9 12:00 p.m. Pre-School Mothers’ Day Celebration Synaplex Shabbat Alive For All Ages 6:00 p.m. Israeli catered dinner for all ages. RSVP by Wed., May 7 to [email protected]. 7:00 p.m. Yom Ha’Atzmaut/Israel Independence Day Shabbat Alive services for all ages led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier. Our Religious School and AJE children will perform and our Choir and our “Kallah Instant Choir” will sing. We'll also be celebrating the close of our Mitzvah Campaignwe will announce an important surprise about our kitchen. We will dedicate a leaf on our Simcha Tree of Life in honor of Nadine Heideman's birthday from the Brenner, Loewenstein and Rich families and all those celebrating birthdays this month will be honored. 7:15 p.m. Youth services and Oneg in Rm. 117 for 5th to 10th Grade students led by post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah students in a supervised environment. 8:15 p.m. Family friendly Oneg for all ages celebrating Israel’s birthday, including Israeli folk dancing, sand art, Israeli I-pad apps and Israeli desserts. Monday, May 12 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Women’s Connection Evening Book Club. RSVP to Vivian at [email protected] Tuesday, May 13 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Adult Education: Jewish, Alive and American taught by Rabbi Rachlis. RSVP to [email protected]. 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Adult Education: Study of Torah and Selected Books of the Bible with Michele Walot. RSVP to [email protected]. Thursday, May 15 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Daytime Book Club. RSVP to Sandy at [email protected] Friday, May 16 6:30 – 7:45 p.m. Shabbat Dinner for Women’s Connection members. RSVP to [email protected] by Wed., May 14 at noon. 8:00 p.m. “Hasidic Tales For Ethical Living” will be Rabbi Rachlis’ topic at services, focusing on interpersonal and societal values that we can learn from Hasidic stories. These pithy parables are Zen- University Synagogue 5 like and memorable in their power to get right to the point. When he chose other tales a few months ago, everyone wanted more, so here it is. Members of our Women’s Connection leadership will be honored. Saturday, May 17 5:30 p.m. University Synagogue’s Annual Spring Gala Dinner, “Out of Africa,” will be held at the Island Hotel in Newport Beach, honoring our Educational Directors Heidi Kahn and Sue Penn. RSVP. Sunday, May 18 9:00 a.m. Religious School 9:00 a.m. “Adventures In Jewish Education” held at a local camp. For more information on this exciting program, please contact our Education Director Sue Penn at [email protected]. 9:00 a.m. Madrich Program for Grades 9-12 1:00 – 6:00 p.m. Israel Expo 2014 at the Samueli Jewish Community Campus, Irvine. Celebrate Israel and partake in the variety of happenings for all ages. University Synagogue is a cosponsor of the event and will have a booth. Tuesday, May 20 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Adult Education: Jewish, Alive and American taught by Carol Richmond. RSVP to [email protected]. Wednesday, May 21 9:00 – 10:00 a.m. Pre-School Breakfast for all our parents in appreciation for their tremendous support with fundraising for our Pre-School programs. Thursday, May 22 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club Friday, May 23 8:00 p.m. “The Book of Ruth: Sensuality, Love, Responsibility And The First Jew-By-Choice” will be Rabbi Rachlis’ topic at services, focusing on the Biblical book that we traditionally study a week and a half later on the holiday of Shavuot. It’s a poignant and dramatic tale of love for one’s family and spouse and the ease with which one can become a member of the Jewish people. Judaism coupled the reading of the Ten Commandments with Ruth on Shavuot to curb Jewish narcissism and ethnocentrism. University Synagogue member, Julie Metz, will play violin during services accompanied by Ralph Alberstrom. All those celebrating anniversaries this month will be honored. Saturday, May 24 10:00 a.m. Shabbat Services will be led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier during which Elliott Dynes, son of Joseph Dynes and Brigitt Minieri, will be called to the Torah as Bar Mitzvah. Everyone is invited to the service and the kiddush that follows. Monday, May 26 Office and Pre-School closed in observance of Memorial Day 2014.5 Tuesday, May 27 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Adult Education: Study of Torah and Selected Books of the Bible with Michele Walot. RSVP to [email protected]. Thursday, May 29 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club Friday, May 30 4:45 – 5:45 p.m. Confirmation Rehearsal with Rabbi Rachlis 5:45 p.m. Tot Shabbat with singing, dancing and Torah marching led by Rabbi Rachlis, Cantor Braier and storytelling by Pre-School Director Heidi Kahn. 6:15 p.m. Family Shabbat potluck dinner honoring our teachers. RSVP by Wed., May 28 to [email protected]. 7:00 p.m. Family services led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier on the topic “Why Is Education So Important?” plus Religious School graduation, gift presentations and Step-Up Assembly. All those with May birthdays will be honored. Saturday, May 31 10:00 a.m. Shabbat Services will be led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier during which Matteo Merage, son of Richard Merage, grandson of Paul and Lilly Merage and great-grandson of Katherine Merage, will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah. Everyone is invited to the service and the kiddush that follows. Coming in June 2014 Tuesday, June 3 6:15 p.m. Shavuot Dinner. RSVP to [email protected] by Thursday, May 29 at noon. 7:00 p.m. Shavuot Services, Confirmation and Yizkor (Memorial) services will be led by Rabbi Rachlis, Cantor Braier and our Confirmands. We will honor our Confirmands and their families. There will also be a special pulpit honor for those who were University Synagogue Adult Education teachers and students during the past year, including one for Jewish, Alive and American graduates. Wednesday, June 4 Office and Pre-School closed in observance of Shavuot Thursday, June 5 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club. RSVP to [email protected]. Friday, June 6 Synaplex Shabbat Alive 5:00 p.m. Pre-School Small World Program during which our Preschoolers will sing, our graduates will receive their caps and our teachers will be honored led by Rabbi Rachlis, Cantor Braier and Pre-School Director Heidi Kahn. 5:45 p.m. Shabbat International Potluck Vegetarian Dinner. RSVP to [email protected] by Wednesday, June 4. The Merage Israeli Fellows will be with us for dinner and services. University Synagogue 6 7:00 p.m. Synaplex “Shabbat Alive” For All Ages. Shabbat Alive is our jazz and pop service with a combo of musicians led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier. All those celebrating birthdays this month as well as fathers will be honored. 8:15 p.m. Israeli choreographer Idan Cohen and dancer Noa Shiloh will present a special performance of Mr. Cohen’s work and share their artistic philosophies and points of view. Mr. Cohen is one of Israel’s leading young independent choreographers and a well-known teacher and performer with extensive experience in Israel, Europe and the US. He previously danced with the world-renowned Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and is now a Visiting Assistant Professor in the Department of Dance within the Claire Trevor School of the Arts at UCI. Noa Shiloh is a professional dancer who has performed with Israel’s major dance companies and worked with several of its leading choreographers. Ms. Shiloh has performed and created work with choreographers at the Repertory Dance Company of Haifa, taught extensively in Israel and led workshops in Europe, India and the US. She is currently in residence at UCI staging excerpts of Idan Cohen’s choreography for a selected group of students in the Department of Dance. Sponsored by Tom and Andra Ellingson. 8:15 – 8:45 p.m. Children’s Fun Oneg Shabbat 8:45 – 9:15 p.m. Childcare in Rm. 103 9:15 p.m. Oneg Shabbat for everyone Saturday, June 7 10:00 a.m. Shabbat services will be led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier during which Jake Simon, son of Jeffrey and Lucia Simon, will be called to the Torah as Bar Mitzvah. Everyone is invited to the service and the kiddush that follows. Monday, June 9 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Women’s Connection Evening Book Club. RSVP to Vivian at [email protected] Tuesday, June 10 7:30 p.m. Congregational Meeting. Elect board members, discuss reports and find out what’s coming up in the future. RSVP. Wednesday, June 11 9:00 a.m. Pre-School Fathers’ Day Celebration Thursday, June 12 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club Friday, June 13 8:00 p.m. “Not Too Many Jews Were Harmed In The Making Of This Torah Portion” will be Rabbi Rachlis’ Torah study topic at services focusing on this week’s portion, “Shelach Lecha.” The story focuses on spies, fear, courage and Moses’ chutzpah in talking God down from the ledge. All those celebrating anniversaries in June or in any month of 2014 where the year is a multiple of 5 will be honored. 2014.5 Saturday, June 14 10:00 a.m. Shabbat services will be led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier during which Dagny Goren, daughter of Michael and Harriet Goren, will be called to the Torah as Bat Mitzvah. Everyone is invited to the service and the kiddush that follows. Tuesday, June 17 12:15 – 1:15 p.m. The 3rd Annual Supreme Court Major Cases Event with UCI Law School Dean Erwin Chemerinsky will speak. Free; however, RSVPs are required prior through http://tinyurl.com/ oz9oxje. This program is qualified for 1 hour of general CLE credits. Co-sponsored by the Community Scholar Program and University Synagogue. Wednesday, June 18 Last day of Pre-School Thursday, June 19 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Daytime Book Club. RSVP to Sandy at [email protected] Friday, June 20 8:00 p.m. “My Favorite Jewish Poems” will be Rabbi Rachlis’ topic at services when he shares and analyzes the best of modern Jewish poetry from the United States, Europe and Israel. Not for poetry lovers only! University Synagogue member, Julie Metz, will play violin during services accompanied by Ralph Alberstrom. Monday, June 23 Pre-School Summer Camp begins Thursday, June 26 10:00 a.m. Women’s Connection Bridge Club Friday, June 27 Family Night At University Synagogue 5:45 p.m. Tot Shabbat with singing, dancing and Torah marching led by Rabbi Rachlis, Cantor Braier and storytelling by Pre-School Director Heidi Kahn. 6:15 p.m. Family Outdoor BBQ Shabbat Dinner. Menu: Hamburgers and hot dogs with all the trimmings. Cost: $5/person; Children under 10 are free. RSVP by Wed., Jun. 25 at noon to [email protected]. 7:00 p.m. “A Pre-Independence Day Americana Family Shabbat” will be the theme of services for all ages led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier. In place of a sermon, there will be a sing-along of folk songs (Peter, Paul and Mary, the Beatles, etc.) and patriotic music (“You’re A Grand Old Flag,” etc.). Music sheets will be handed out. We will also honor Fathers, our Membership Committee and all those celebrating birthdays this month. Saturday, June 28 10:00 a.m. Shabbat services will be led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier during which Amanda Levine, daughter of Jeremy and Denise Levine, will be called to the Torah as Bat Mitzvah. Everyone is invited to the service and the kiddush that follows. Sunday, June 29 6:00 p.m. Generations Appreciation Dinner. If you are a member of Generations and would like to attend, please University Synagogue 7 RSVP to our synagogue office or call if you are interested in joining Generations. All Generation events are free to Generation members. . Life Lesson #1 From University Synagogue’s Pre-School: Things are a lot more fun when we play nicely in the sandbox! 2014.5 ! ! ! ! DISTINGUISHED!SPEAKERS!SERIES!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Professor!Wendy!Lower!will!speak!about!her!new!book! “Hitler’s!Furies:!German!Women!In!The!Nazi!Killing!Fields”! Friday,!May!2,!8:00!p.m.!!during!Yom!HaShoah/Holocaust!Memorial!services! ! Dr.! Wendy! Lower! is# the# John# K.# Roth# Professor# of# History# at# Claremont# McKenna# College.# # Her# most# recent# book,# “Hitler’s# Furies,”# tells# the# account# of# the# role# of# German# women# on# the# WWII# Nazi# eastern# front.# # It# powerfully# revises# history# proving# that# the# reality# of# women’s# participation# as# brutal# killers#in#the#Holocaust#has#been#ignored.#Professor#Lower,#drawing#on#twenty#years#of#archival#and#fieldwork# on# the# Holocaust,# presents# overwhelming# evidence# that# these# women# went# on# “shopping# sprees”# for# JewishK owned#goods#and#brutalized#Jews#in#the#ghettos#of#Poland,#Ukraine#and#Belarus.#Dr.#Lower#received#her#BA#from# Hamilton# College# in# NY# and# her# Ph.D.# from# the# American# University# in# Washington,# DC.# She# has# received# research#grants#from#the#German#Historical#Institute#and#the#U.S.#Holocaust#Memorial#Museum.##Sponsored)by) Tom)and)Andra)Ellingson. ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Israeli!Choreographer!Idan!Cohen!and!Dancer!Noa!Shiloh! Friday,!June!6,!8:15!p.m.!(Shabbat!Alive!services!at!7:00!p.m.)! ! Israeli# choreographer# Idan! Cohen# and# dancer# Noa! Shiloh# will# present# a# special# performance# of# Mr.# Cohen’s# work# and# share# their# artistic# philosophies# and# points# of# view.! ! Mr.# Cohen# is# one# of# Israel’s# leading# young# independent# choreographers# and# a# wellKknown# teacher# and# performer# with# extensive# experience# in# Israel,# Europe# and# the# US.# # He# previously# danced# with# the# worldKrenowned# Kibbutz# Contemporary# Dance# Company# and# is# now# a# Visiting# Assistant# Professor# in# the# Department# of# Dance# within# the# Claire# Trevor# School# of# the# Arts# at# UCI.# # Noa# Shiloh# is# a# professional# dancer# who# has# performed# with# Israel’s# major# dance# companies# and# worked# with# several# of# its# leading# choreographers.# Ms.# Shiloh# has# performed# and# created# work# with# choreographers# at# the# Repertory# Dance# Company# of# Haifa,# taught# extensively# in# Israel# and# led# workshops# in# Europe,# India# and# the# US.# # She# is# currently#in#residence#at#UCI#staging#excerpts#of#Idan#Cohen’s#choreography#for#a#selected#group#of#students#in# the#Department#of#Dance.##Sponsored)by)Tom)and)Andra)Ellingson. ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !UCI!Law!School!Dean!Erwin!Chemerinsky!will!speak!at! The!3rd!Annual!Supreme!Court!Major!Cases!Event!on!the!topic! “An!Amazing!Year!In!The!Supreme!Court”!!!! Tuesday,!June!17,!12:15!–!1:15!p.m.!!RSVPs!are!required!to!http://tinyurl.com/oz9oxje.! ! Dean! Erwin! Chemerinsky# is# the# founding# Dean# and# Distinguished# Professor# of# Law# and# Raymond#Pryke#Professor#of#First#Amendment#Law,#at#the#University#of#California,#Irvine,#School#of#Law,#with#a# joint#appointment#in#Political#Science.#Previously,#he#taught#at#Duke#Law#School#for#four#years,#during#which#he# won#the#Duke#University#ScholarKTeacher#of#the#Year#Award#in#2006.#Before#that,#he#taught#for#21#years#at#the# USC#School#of#Law#and#served#for#four#years#as#director#of#the#Center#for#Communications#Law#and#Policy.#Dean# Chemerinsky#has#also#taught#at#UCLA#School#of#Law#and#DePaul#University#College#of#Law.#His#areas#of#expertise# are#constitutional#law,#federal#practice,#civil#rights#and#civil#liberties,#and#appellate#litigation.#He#is#the#author#of# seven#books,#most#recently,#The#Conservative#Assault#on#the#Constitution#(2010),#and#more#than#100#articles#in# top# law# reviews.# He# frequently# argues# cases# before# the# nation’s# highest# courts,# and# also# serves# as# a# commentator#on#legal#issues#for#national#and#local#media.#Dean#Chemerinsky#holds#a#law#degree#from#Harvard# Law#School#and#a#bachelor’s#degree#from#Northwestern#University.#Cobsponsored!by!the!Community!Scholar! Program!and!University!Synagogue.!!! ! ! ! Chapman!University!President!James!L.!Doti!will!speak!on! “Life!Lessons!for!Leadership”! Friday,!August!22,!8:15!p.m.!(Shabbat!Alive!services!at!7:00!p.m.)! ! President!James!Doti,!one#of#Orange#County’s#most#distinguished#leaders#and#a#charismatic#and# dynamic#speaker,!earned#his#B.S.#degree#in#economics#from#the#University#of#Illinois,#Chicago,#and# his# A.M.# and# Ph.D.# degrees# from# the# University# of# Chicago.! ! He# has# been# president# of# Chapman# University#since#1991#and#he#holds#the#Donald#Bren#Distinguished#Chair#in#Business#and#Economics.##Dr.#Doti# joined# the# Chapman# faculty# in# 1974# and,# in# 1978,# he# founded# the# A.# Gary# Anderson# Center# for# Economic# Research#to#encourage#faculty#and#students#to#engage#in#economic#and#business#research#of#high#quality#and#to# disseminate#the#results#of#this#research#to#the#business#community.##Under#his#leadership,#the#Anderson#Center# became#nationally#recognized,#with#its#economic#forecast#and#other#research#results#cited#in#Business'Week,#The' Christian'Science'Monitor,#The'Wall'Street'Journal,#Time'Magazine#and#USA'Today.### # Dr.#Doti’s#articles#have#appeared#in#academic#journals,#as#well#as#in#periodicals#such#as#The'Wall'Street'Journal# and# The' Chronicle' of' Higher' Education.# # # He# is# the# coKauthor# of# two# econometrics# texts# and# coKeditor# of# a# collection#of#readings#in#free#enterprise#that#received#the#Templeton#Honor#Award#for#Scholarly#Excellence.##Dr.# Doti# is# a# recipient# of# the# Horatio# Alger# Award# and# the# Ellis# Island# Medal# of# Honor.# # Sponsored) by) Tom) and) Andra)Ellingson.# ! ! ! Klezmer!Violinist!Yale!Strom!will!perform!and!speak!on!! “Klezmer!Music!–!Its!History!And!Culture”! Friday,!September!12,!8:15!p.m.!(Shabbat!Alive!services!at!7:00!p.m.)! Yale!Strom#is#one#of#the#world's#leading#artists#of#klezmer#music#and#history.##His#new#klezmer# and#classical#compositions#have#been#performed#by#orchestras#and#music#groups#in#the#United# States#and#abroad,#as#well#as#by#his#own#ensemble,#Yale'Strom'&'Hot'Pstromi.##He#has#composed#for#radio,#film# and# television# and# has# released# 13# awardKwinning# CDs.# # Mr.# Strom# is# also# the# first# klezmer# violinist# to# be# invited# to# instruct# master# classes# at# the# Mark# O'Connor# Fiddle# Camps.# # He# has# been# profiled# in# numerous# publications,#including#Time'Magazine,'and#also#directed#8#awardKwinning#documentary#films#and#published#9# books.##A#dedicated#educator,#he#has#lectured#extensively#all#over#the#world.##Since#2006,#he#has#been#artistKinK residence#in#the#Jewish#Studies#Program#at#San#Diego#State#University,#a#position#created#for#him.!!Sponsored) by)Tom)and)Andra)Ellingson.) ! Professor!Kristen!Monroe!will!speak!on) “Nurturing! Altruism:! Lessons! For! Ourselves! and! Our! Children! From! Studying! Righteous! Holocaust!Rescuers”!! Saturday,!October!4,!2:00!p.m.!(After!Yom!Kippur!morning!services)! ) Professor Kristen Monroe is Chancellor's Professor and Director of the Ethics Center at UCI and is best known for three award-winning books on moral choice, “The Heart of Altruism,” “The Hand of Compassion” and “Ethics In An Age of Terror and Genocide.” The author of 15 books and 100 articles, Prof. Monroe has a Ph.D. from the University of Chicago and has taught at Harvard University. Dr.##Monroe# is#a#scholar#whose#work#has#changed#the#field#of#political#psychology,#political#economy,#and#normative#political# theory.# # Her# awardKwinning# work# on# altruism# and# moral# choice# deals# with# a# central# problem# in# politics# and# ethics:#our#treatment#of#others.##Sponsored)by)Tom)and)Andra)Ellingson.) ) ) ) E.!Randol!Schoenberg!will!speak!on! “The!Recovery!of!NazibLooted!Paintings!from!Austria”! Friday,!October!24,!8:15!p.m.!(Shabbat!Alive!services!at!7:00!p.m.)! ! E.!Randol!Schoenberg!is#ofKcounsel#and#was#the#coKfounding#partner#of#Burris,#Schoenberg#and# Walden,# LLP,# where# he# handled# a# number# of# complex# business# litigation# matters,# specializing# in# cases#involving#looted#art#and#the#recovery#of#property#stolen#by#the#Nazi#authorities#during#the# Holocaust.##Mr.#Schoenberg#has#tried#and#argued#cases#before#the#US#Supreme#Court,#Second#and#Ninth#Circuit# Court#of#Appeals,#US#District#Court,#California#Court#of#Appeal#and#the#Los#Angeles#Superior#Court.##During#the# past#decade,#he#has#litigated#several#prominent#cases,#including#Republic#of#Austria#v.#Altmann#case#in#which#he# sought# return# of# six# famous# Klimt# paintings# to# his# client.# After# persuading# the# US# Supreme# Court# that# Maria# Altmann#could#sue#Austria#for#return#of#the#paintings,#he#agreed#to#arbitrate#the#dispute#in#Austria.#In#2006,#the# arbitration#panel#decided#that#the#paintings,#valued#at#over#$325#million,#should#be#returned#to#Mrs.#Altmann.### # Mr.#Schoenberg#received#the#California#Lawyer#Attorney#of#the#Year#award#for#outstanding#achievement#in#the# field#of#litigation,#the#Jurisprudence#Award#from#the#AntiKDefamation#League#and#the#Justice#Louis#D.#Brandeis# Award# from# the# American# Jewish# Congress.# # Mr.# Schoenberg# graduated# from# Princeton# University# with# a# Bachelor#of#Arts#in#Mathematics#and#a#certificate#in#European#Cultural#Studies#and#he#received#his#Juris#Doctor# degree# from# the# University# of# Southern# California.# # His# grandfathers# were# composers# Arnold# Schoenberg# and# Eric#Zeisl.##Sponsored)by)Tom)and)Andra)Ellingson.# ! The! Merage! Israeli! Fellows! will! briefly! introduce! themselves! and! their! professions,! as! well.!!! These# Israeli# executives# and# CEOs,# participating# in# the# Merage# Institute# USKIsrael# Innovation# Bridge# Executive#Leadership#Program,#are#the#latest#elite#group#of#visiting#Merage#Israeli#Fellows.##Sponsored)by)the) Merage)Foundations.) ! ! ! Dr.!Hartley!Lachter!will!speak!on!the!topic! “Was!Maimonides!A!Radical?”!! Friday,!December!19,!8:15!p.m.!(Hanukkah!Shabbat!Alive!services!at!7:00!p.m.)! ! Dr.!Hartley!Lachter!is#Associate#Professor#of#Religion#Studies#and#Director#of#Jewish#Studies#at# Muhlenberg# College.## After# completing# a# yearKlong# program# in# Israel,# he# attended# McGill# University#in#Montreal,#where#he#completed#a#B.A.#in#philosophy#and#Jewish#studies#and#an#M.A.#in# biblical#interpretation.#He#received#his#doctorate#in#medieval#Jewish#mysticism#at#New#York#University.# # Dr.#Lachter#will#speak#about#Moses#Maimonides,#who#is#one#of#the#most#recognizable#names#in#Jewish#history,# and# perhaps# a# protoKReconstructionist# and# religious# humanist.## A# famous# philosopher,# wellKrespected# doctor# and#author#of#one#of#the#most#widely#embraced#legal#codes#to#emerge#from#the#Middle#Ages,#his#legacy#is#that#of# the# consummate# Jewish# authority.## But,# during# his# time# and# the# centuries# that# immediately# followed,# Maimonides# was# far# from# universally# popular.## Dr.# Lachter’s# talk# will# consider# some# of# Maimonides’# medieval# critics#and#explore#why,#for#some,#Maimonides#was#considered#a#dangerous#radical.##Co;sponsored)by)Tom)and) Andra)Ellingson)and)the)Community)Scholar)Program.! ) 4 18 12 5 Office and Pre-School closed in observance of Memorial Day 26 19 7:00 PM Women’s Connection Evening Book Club. RSVP to Vivian at [email protected] 7:15 PM Choir Rehearsal Monday Printed: Thursday, April 10, 2014 (updated) 25 1:00 PM Israel Expo 2014 at the JCC 9:00 AM Madrich Program grades 9 – 12 9:00 AM Adventures In Jewish Education 9:00 AM Religious School Mothers’ Day 11 12:00 PM Family Picnic with Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier at Mason Regional Park. RSVP 9:30 AM Adult Ed.: Cooking Through the Jewish Year. RSVP 9:00 AM Religious School Sunday 7:00 PM Torah Study 27 7:00 PM Jewish, Alive & American 20 7:00 PM Jewish, Alive & American taught by Rabbi Rachlis. 7:00 PM Torah Study 6 13 7:00 PM Jewish, Alive & American 7:00 PM Board Meeting Tuesday Wednesday 28 21 14 7 10:00 AM Women’s Connection Bridge Club. RSVP to Arlene at [email protected] 29 10:00 AM Women’s Connection Bridge Club. RSVP to Arlene at [email protected] 22 10:00 AM Women’s Connection Bridge Club. RSVP to Arlene at [email protected] 10:00 AM Women’s Connection Daytime Book Club. RSVP to Sandy at [email protected] 8 1 15 10:00 AM Women’s Connection Bridge Club. RSVP to Arlene at [email protected] 10:00 AM Women’s Connection Bridge Club. RSVP to Arlene at [email protected] Thursday May 2014 2 9 16 FAMILY NIGHT AT UNIVERSITY SYNAGOGUE 4:45 PM Confirmation Rehearsal with Rabbi Rachlis 5:45 p.m. Tot Shabbat 6:15 p.m. Family Shabbat potluck dinner honoring our teachers. RSVP. 7:00 p.m. Family Shabbat services led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier on the topic “Why Is Education So Important?” plus Religious School graduation, gift presentations and Step-Up Assembly. 30 8:00 PM. “The Book of Ruth: Sensuality, Love, Responsibility And The First Jew-ByChoice” will be Rabbi Rachlis’ topic at Shabbat Services, All those celebrating anniversaries this month will be honored. 23 8:00 PM “Hasidic Tales For Ethical Living” will be Rabbi Rachlis’ topic at Shabbat Services. Women’s Connection will be honored. 6:30 PM Shabbat Dinner for Women’s Connection members. RSVP SYNAPLEX SHABBAT FOR ALL AGES 6:00 PM Israeli catered Shabbat Dinner – RSVP 7:00 PM Yom Ha’Atzmaut/Israel Independence Day Shabbat Alive Services For All Ages with our Religious School children singing. All those celebrating birthdays this month and all mothers will be honored. The choir will sing. 7:15 PM Youth led services 8:15 PM Oneg for all ages celebrating Israel’s birthday with Israeli folk dancing. 12:00 PM Pre-School Mothers’ Day Celebration 9:00 AM Pre-School Bake Sale 8:00 PM Yom HaShoah/Holocaust Memorial Services and Yizkor led by Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier. Professor Wendy Lower will speak on “Hitler’s Furies: German Women In The Nazi Killing Fields.” The choir will sing Friday 3 10:00 AM Shabbat Services –Matteo Merage’s Bar Mitzvah 31 10:00 AM Shabbat Services – Elliott Dynes’ Bar Mitzvah 24 5:30 PM University Synagogue Gala Dinner – Island Hotel 17 10 10:00 AM Shabbat Services – Zoey Berg’s Bat Mitzvah Saturday University Synagogue 12 Religious School Managing Expectations Watching the Olympic athletes cry, after they haven’t succeeded in their quest to win gold, made me stop and take stock of my expectations. Was there too much pressure on each athlete to succeed? Was it the end of the road for them if they didn’t win gold? How much family disappointment (and, in some cases, national disappointment) did they have to deal with? Is this fair? We all want the best for our children. We want them to achieve and to succeed and to win gold all the time. But is it possible for everyone to be the best? Are our expectations fair and realistic? Are we setting our children up for failure by expecting unrealistic results from them? Are our expectations personal or guided by what society deems to be “great”. Of course, we should encourage them to reach for the stars, to do their best and to challenge themselves. Sometimes, against all odds, they succeed – just like David and Goliath, Daniel in the lion’s den or the Macabees. When they do succeed, their selfesteem soars and all is good. 2014.5 However, if we expect them only to achieve at a very high standard every time, we are setting them up for failure. They feel they have disappointed those around them, their self-esteem wanes and all is not good. Is it fair for us to have unrealistic expectations of our children? It’s easy to brag about their achievements when they excel but what about the child who normally struggles with math and brings home a “B”. In a world with reasonable expectations, that is an accomplishment, something to be celebrated. That child should know that we are proud of her hard work, effort and accomplishments and those parents should not feel embarrassed to share this accomplishment. It is true that all our children are accomplished in one way or another, so let’s be realistic about our expectations and cherish their accomplishments, building self-esteem and confidence along the way. No matter what the rest of society deems to be success. Sue Penn HONOR YOUR SPECIAL OCCASION WITH AN ONEG SHABBAT Celebrate an occasion such as a birthday, anniversary, graduation, wedding, new home, honoring a friend or new grandchild or commemorating a yahrzeit with our entire community. I would like to reserve a Friday night Oneg Shabbat in honor of a special event (Oneg Sponsorship is $400). Please reserve Friday: __________________ Name: ______________________________ (Date) My Sponsorship is in honor of: _________________________________________________ Please return this form to the synagogue office University Synagogue 13 2014.5 Pre-School W h e n yo u r c h i l d i s b e i n g disrespectful, you, as a parent, nee d to correct them in a respectful manner. Yelling and getting upset will not achieve that goal. Manners Matter And Respect Rules! Our Pre-School has embarked on a unit called Manners Matter and Respect Rules. It encompasses role modeling from the teachers, setting expectations and re-doing inappropriate behavior from children, a parent education component, and lots and lots of reinforcement. We have noticed that with everyone being so rushed that greetings are not always a priority. Greetings with good eye contact and a smile are becoming less frequent. What about books and toys? We live in a disposable society and everything seems replaceable. As a society, we do not generally take the same care of possessions as our parents did. We have books and toys handed down through generations that we in turn have treasured. Ripping books? Unthinkable! We must repair them and take good care of them. This program will be divided into various more tangible categories that are Pre-School appropriate. •! Kind words •! Good manners - Please, thank you, greetings •! Kind and gentle hands •! Safety Rules •! Listening when others speak •! Clean up after yourself •! Care and respect for Nature and living things •! Respect and celebration of our differences Thoughts for Parents: 1. Remember your child is not your friend. You are expected to parent, say no and set limits. Children need and want you to set limits. It makes them feel safe and secure. 2. Catch disrespect early and plan ahead if you can. It’s good to catch disrespectful behavior early if possible. If your child is rude or disrespectful, don't turn a blind eye. Intervene and say, “We don't talk to each other that way in this family.” Giving consequences when your children are young is going to pay off in the long run. 3. Parents need to be on the same page – in agreement on what they expect. 4. Be respectful when you correct your child. 5. Try to set realistic expectations for your kids around their behavior. If your child has trouble in groups and, for example, you plan a large birthday party, you are likely to set yourself and your child up to fail. With all the above in place, you can look forward to a warm, friendly greeting and to be treated with respect. B’Shalom, Heidi Kahn University Synagogue 14 Tikkun Olam - Together We Can Repair the World 2014.5 URGENT! US (University Synagogue) CARES FUND: A LETTER TO OUR CONGREGATION Mitzvah Morning On Sunday afternoon, April 6, University Synagogue’s team of twenty, participated in the Orange County Jewish World Watch 6 th Annual Walk to End Genocide at Fountain Valley Park, Great Lawn. We walked as a community, to show our commitment to action that will contribute to ending genocide worldwide. We walked to build a school, empower a woman, protect a child and support a community. We walked to raise funds to support JWW’s efforts and programs on the ground in Sudan, Congo, and throughout the world. Through advocacy, education, and relief and development efforts, Jewish World Watch is committed to combating and preventing genocide and mass atrocities worldwide. This year’s walk raised over $11,000. On Sunday, April 13, Tikkun Olam provided volunteers to prepare and serve breakfast at Someone Cares Soup Kitchen in Costa Mesa. If you would like to volunteer to do this most rewarding mitzvah, please contact either Gene Alterman, [email protected] or Alan Nishball, [email protected]. T h r o u g h y o u r g e n e r o s i t y, University Synagogue was able to donate many ‘barrels’ of food to the Laguna Food Pantry in Laguna Beach. The Laguna Food Pantry offers free, fresh, nutritious groceries to low income families and individuals in Laguna Beach and surrounding communities. By providing groceries at no cost, they hope to relieve financial pressures on people experiencing economic difficulties. We would like to thank all of you who took time to fill grocery bags and participate in April’s Passover Food Drive. Dear Congregational Family, We have families in our congregation that have fallen on hard times and need our help. In a split second, any one of us could find ourselves in a crisis situaltion! We need your help to replenish this Fund. Please consider your US CARES FUND when making a Tribute in someone’s honor or purchase gift cards to supermarkets, Target, gas stations, etc….any amount will be appreciated! Of course, cash donations are always accepted. Checks should be made out to University Synagogue with a note on the Memo line, US Cares Fund. Please put your gift card(s) in an envelope with your name on the envelope. Bring it to the Synagogue, and place it in our US Cares gift jar in the office. We would like to start this in May and have it continue throughout the year. As a community of caring people, we feel confident you will want to help your own congregational family. With gratitude and appreciation. Your Tikkun Olam Committee Please contact Wilma Nishball, [email protected], with any questions. For further information, contact Jerri Kaplan, [email protected] or Kathe Katz, [email protected]. Please join us at our next meeting on Sunday morning, May 18 at 9:30 A.M.. Location to be announced. B’shalom, Jerri Kaplan and Kathe Katz Tikkun Olam Committee Co-Chairs Do a Mitzvah! Introduce a Friend to University Synagogue! We’ll send out a wonderful introductory packet of information to any of your friends who you think may be interested in membership, just exploring Judaism or connecting with their Jewish roots. Send your referrals to the office. Please send information to: Name: ________________________________________________________________________ Address, City, and Zip Code: _______________________________________________________ Phone:_______________________ Email: ____________________________________ Referred By: ______________________________________________________________ University Synagogue 15 RSVP by May 3, 2014 2014.5 University Synagogue 16 A Special Message from Jerry Stern I was asked by Rabbi Rachlis to speak for a few minutes on Friday night, March 21st regarding my accident and what people meant to my recovery process. Several folks have since asked that I share that five minutes with the other members of our congregation. I began skiing when I was 13 so I was not an inexperienced skier in 2008. On December 26th, Debbie and I were in Park City, Utah skiing at Deer Valley. This would be our first day of skiing for the year. It was a gorgeous day, the powder was fresh, the sun was shining and the slopes were groomed beautifully. We had been skiing for about 45 minutes and returned to a particular run at the top of the mountain. Of course it was steep and narrow. Unfortunately, I wasn’t warmed up, I was cocky and lost control and fell (no trees involved). Debbie was skiing behind me. The ski patrol arrived within a few minutes. Let’s go forward a few hours down the mountain to the University of Utah hospital where I was to undergo back surgery. I broke three vertebrae, crushed two discs, and snapped off a handful of spinous processes (the little bumps on the back of your spine). I ended up having five of my cervical vertebrae fused as well as an assortment of titanium rods, screws, and pins in my neck. We were informed that I was now defined as a quadriplegic. However, I am what is called an “incomplete quad”, which meant that I would have an 80% chance to have some use of my limbs. Needless to say, this was pretty depressing news but it wasn't as bad as it could have been. Fortunately, my family and a few close friends were able to come and visit and stay with me in the hospital. Three weeks later I was airlifted back to Orange County where I was to spend the next three months in rehabilitation at St. Jude’s Hospital in Fullerton. It was depressing lying in that hospital bed not being able to move anything, except to wiggle my toes just a little bit. I wasn’t able to do anything with my arms and legs. All I could do is lie there and think about what the rest of my life was going to be like. Many friends and family were able to come and visit. Folks from the Synagogue – the Rabbi and Cantor, members of the choir, my havurah and countless others. During my stay, I received several hundred cards which Debbie strung from the ceiling. She was able to be there every morning and evening before and after work. Many wonderful people were able to stay with me during the entire day while she was gone. I guess it was not as bad as it could have been. My mother moved to California about eight years earlier from Florida where she had lived for twenty-two years. All of her friends had passed on. Her sister, my aunt Caroline, had lived near her and had also passed away. So since she had no one left there, she decided to 2014.5 move to California to be near us. We were able to get her an apartment a few blocks from our home. We were able to spend time with her in her apartment and in our home. Unfortunately, while we were in Israel in 2005 she fell and broke her hip on the 3rd day we were there. We got the call from the paramedics. When they arrived in her apartment some of our very good friends were already there. (She called them before she called 911). They took wonderful care of her until we came back. Thank goodness for friends. When we returned we were able to move her into a nursing home that was right across the street from the hospital where I was to eventually be located. Whereas I had been visiting my mother on a regular basis she was now going to be able to visit me. This week my mother passed away – so life goes on. I remember graduating from lying flat on my back, to being able to be transferred from the bed to a wheelchair or a commode chair. Life was not a whole lot of fun. But friends came regularly – I mean regularly- some came every day, some came 2 or 3 times a week, there were those who came every Friday night – the same people. Thank goodness for friends, thank goodness for people. I recall when I graduated to the power chair - that is the chair is able to control to some degree with my hand. Every time I sit here in the congregation and I look back at the wall behind the choir chairs, I see those white marks- scratches from my power chair. As most of you know I am in the choir. When I came back to shul for the first time, it was the most emotional moment of my entire recovery. The choir has meant so much to me. The congregation has meant so much to me. Thank goodness for people who have helped me along the way. I have a caregiver. She takes care of me every day. When Debbie travels on business, Chris stays in with me. And by the way, she is a Muslim. She is just wonderful – she is a terrific cook, she helps me with every need I have. Thank goodness for people who've been supporting me for the last 5 1/2 years but especially to the person who has been with me every step of the way, the woman I love, my wife Debbie. University Synagogue 17 New Books Column One Egg is a Fortune: Memories and Recipes to Share Featuring 50 Prominent People from Around the Globe Sharing their Nostalgic Recipes and Anecdotes By Pnina Jacobson and Judy Kempler One Egg is a Fortune, 2011; ISBN: 9780987157706 50 well known Jewish figures contributed favorite recipes showcasing the diversity of Jewish life and celebration. Each part of the world has its own traditions that each family tweaks to its own preferences with the common thread being the important role food plays within the Jewish conscience. This book is full of great recipes and great photos, and is a delightful read of pleasant memories and anecdotes. Stranger in My Own Country: A Jewish Family in Modern Germany By Yascha Mounk Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2014; ISBN: 9780374157531 This is a story of post-war Germany where the author explores the story of his family and his own childhood. He shows that anti-Semitism and far-right extremism have long coexisted with self-conscious philo-Semitism in postwar Germany.” Tracing Your Jewish Ancestors: A Guide for Family Historians, fully revised 2d ed. By Rosemary Wenzerul Pen and Sword, 2014; ISBN: 9781473821279 Soon to be released, this fully revised new edition describes Jewish genealogy in a very practical way, inspiring readers to create a family tree, learn about many of the bibliographic resources, contextualize within the framework of Jewish history and develop confidence to trace one’s family ancestry. May be a bit-British centric but the principles still apply. The Museum of Extraordinary Things: A Novel By Alice Hoffman Scribner, 2014; ISBN: 978145169350 A new book by the author of The Dovekeepers, this novel takes the reader back to the early 20th century where history, intrigue and passion support colorful characters who work at Coney Island. Can’t give away any more details of this spellbinding novel. The Negotiator: Freeing Gilad Schalit from Hamas By Gershon Baskin Toby Press, 2014; ISBN: 9781592643493 This book was “written by the unofficial secret back channel between Hamas and the Israeli government to secure Gilad Schalit’s release from captivity.” 2014.5 Julia Gelfand ([email protected]) Recovering from Genocidal Trauma: An information and practice guide for working with Holocaust survivors By Myra Gierovitch U n i v e r s i t y o f To r o n t o P r e s s , 2 0 1 4 ; I S B N : 9781442646322 This is a book for readers interested in the “study, interactions, and lives of survivors of mass atrocities. It guides readers in how to understand, respond and develop programs to empower survivors.” The Mapmaker’s Daughter By Laurel Corona Sourcebooks, 2014; ISBN: 9781402286490 A most intense novel that spans a full life taking the reader over a course of 60 plus years detailing the character and her family life in pre-Inquisition Spain and their experiences as conversos. Captivating book that takes one back to 15th century Spain and explores identity and exile, and peaks greater curiosity about the history that is shared in this period. Shira By S.Y. Agnon Toby Press, 2014, revised edition (originally released in 1974). ISBN: 9781592643530 This new edition of Nobel Laureate Agnon’s final, epic novel brings cadence and memories to life in Jerusalem from the 1930s when it was part of the British mandate. Style and craft are exhibited through this incredible translation by Zeva Shapiro for the Toby Press that now releases new content from the Agnon Library for the first time in English. Judaism and Health By Jeff Levin, and Michele F. Prince Jewish Lights Publishing, 2013; ISBN: 9781580237147 Considered encyclopedic in its coverage intersecting the fields of Judaism and health reflecting historical, biblical, scientific, clinical, bioethical, pastoral, educational, communal and liturgical viewpoints by leading writers, clergy and health practitioners, this is a fascinating study and read. “This comprehensive volume is part professional handbook, part scholarly resource and part source of practical information for those with an interest in the most recent and most exciting developments in this new field.” University Synagogue 18 Contributions RABBI RACHLIS’ DISCRETIONARY FUND (For donations to this fund, please make your checks payable to Rabbi Rachlis’ Discretionary Fund.) Lewis and Vivian Atlas • Refua shelema to Judy Leland Anita Head • In memory of Carl Lutz Florence Shore • With appreciation to Rabbi Rachlis for going the extra mile GENERAL FUND Rabbi Arnold Rachlis and Cantor Ruti Braier • Mazel tov to Cari and Jay Rofsky on Noah’s Bar Mitzvah • Refua shelema (get well wishes) to Vivian Atlas • Refua shelema to Ruth Brill • Refua shelema to Barbara Colitz • Refua shelema to Rochelle Dreeben • Refua shelema to Gilbert Gluck • Refua shelema to Mike Gordon • Refua shelema to David Nadel • Refua shelema to Ralph Proud • Refua shelema to Vivian Shuirman • Refua shelema to Roz Vogelfanger • Condolences to Lauren Horwitz on the death of her stepfather, Albert Klugman Dr. Ken and Roberta Bell • Deepest sympathy to Jerry Stern; in memory of his mother, Esther Stern Clarita Karlin • Refua shelema to Mary Guerguerian • Refua shelema to Heather Joy Owen Dr. Al and Rosalee Glasky • Condolences to Jerry Stern on the death of his mother, Esther Stern Ron and Sharon Glickman • In memory of Jerry Stern’s mother, Esther Stern University Synagogue gratefully 2014.5 acknowledges the following contributions donated through April 15. Dr. Howard Rothfeder • In memory of his sister, Cherie Zindler David and Geri Sandor • Condolences to Jerry Stern on the death of his mother. We know she will be greatly missed Jerry and Debbie Stern • Refua shelema to Judy Leland • Refua shelema to Roz Vogelfanger CHOIR FUND Howard and Cheryl Altman • Condolences to Jerry and Debbie Stern on the loss of Jerry’s mother, Esther Stern Joel and Helen Bergenfeld • Deepest sorrow to Jerry Stern and his family on the loss of his mother, Esther Stern Jeff and Lisa Metzger • Condolences to Debbie and Jerry Stern on this sad occasion; we are sorry for your loss Dr. Gordon and Rita Fishman • In memory of Jerry Stern’s mother, Esther Stern Barbara Klen • In loving memory of Jerry Stern’s mother, Esther Stern Nancy Lander • Condolences to Jerry and Debbie Stern on the death of Jerry’s mother, Esther Stern. May her life be a happy memory Florence Shore • Wishing Judy Leland all the best on her daughter’s marriage LUTZKY FUND Gerry and Rella Lutzky • In memory of Rella’s father, Theodore Chertoff MAZON Barry and Ruby Greenberg • To help feed the hungry Norm and Sandie Hempling • In memory of Sandie’s mother, Henrietta Medress • In memory of Norm’s mother, Anna Hempling Gene and Mimi Kaplan • Best wishes to Ralph Proud on a complete recovery from his recent surgery • Best wishes to Roz Vogelfanger on a speedy recovery. Sorry to hear about your accident Norma Kershaw • Thank you to University Synagogue for the seating outdoors between the parking lot and entrance to the synagogue. It will make a big difference in my life! Patrick and Toby Schlup • Wishing Roz Vogelfanger the speediest of recoveries University Synagogue 19 Les and Myrna Simon • Best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery to Howard Gilman • Best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery to Tami Ishaeik • Best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery to Gordon Lentzner • In loving memory of Jerry Stern’s mother, Esther Stern RELIGIOUS SCHOOL University Synagogue Religious School • Todah rabah to Lotte Hoffman on her special visit to our 7th and 8th graders • Todah rabah to Bruce Lipian for his school wide visit during our Passover Seder • Condolences to Lauren Hurwitz and family on the passing of Lauren’s stepfather, Albert Klugman • Condolences to Jerry Stern and family on the passing of Jerry’s mother, Esther Stern TIKKUN OLAM Clarita Karlin • In honor of Rabbi Rachlis’ son Michael’s engagement; delighted and thrilled for your family • In memory of Clarita’s mother, Esther Gershowitz US CARES Sam Kaplan and Jerri Klein-Kaplan • It was wonderful seeing Stan Mishook at the Kallah • Wishing Vivian Atlas a speedy recovery • Condolences to Jerry Stern on the death of his mother, Esther Stern Harold and Kathe Katz • Mazel tov to Jerri Klein-Kaplan and Sam Kaplan on the arrival of their newest grandson, Brayden Chase UNIVERSITY SYNAGOGUE PRE-SCHOOL Heidi Kahn • Happy 60th birthday to Brian Sepel • Mazel tov to Rabbi Rachlis and Cantor Braier on Michael’s engagement • Thank you to Lisa Grajewski and her committee for chairing the Gala University Synagogue Pre-School • Mazel tov to the Koenig family on the birth of Maya Taylor; proud brother Derek is in the Pre-School • Thanks to Bruce Lipian for being a wonderful Moses • Refua shelema to Iris Malca • Thank you to all the Pre-School parents for creating a magnificent Passover Seder • Wishing Vivian Atlas a speedy recovery 2014.5 Your Generous Donations to Synagogue Funds Every month, dozens of synagogue members give donations to our synagogue funds in honor of a person or event, in memory of a loved one, or out of gratitude. These contributions are deeply appreciated. When you choose the Noah Fund, US Cares Fund, Religious School, Women’s Connection, Righteous Rescuers Fund, Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund, Cantor Braier’s Discretionary Fund, University Synagogue PreSchool Fund, and Choir Fund, the money is either segregated and under the control of the committee or person in charge of the fund or tracked and “credited” to the budget for that vital synagogue function. The Brian Black Fund no longer needs funding, although it continues to underwrite synagogue programs. If you have any questions, please contact David Wyle, Treasurer, at [email protected]. UNIVERSITY SYNAGOGUE TZEDAKAH OPPORTUNITIES Please send or fax this form to University Synagogue, 3400 Michelson, Irvine, CA 92612; Fax (949) 553-4034, or you can make a donation online at http://www.universitysynagogue.org/shop/donations.html Please be generous – at the time of a simcha or a sad occasion, when honoring someone in life or memory. These taxdeductible funds help us do the crucial work of sustaining and improving Jewish and general life. If you wish to endow a fund in someone’s honor or memory or for a special purpose, please call the President of University Synagogue. Donor Name: __________________________________________________ Telephone #: _________________________ Donor Address: ___________________________________________________________________________________________ City/Zip ____________________________________________________________________________________________ Donation Amount: $_________ Send card to: _________________________________________________________________ Address (if non-member): ___________________________________________________________________________________ City/Zip: __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Please print name and relationship: 1 In honor of: ___________________________________________________________________________________________ 1 In memory of: _________________________________________________________________________________________ 1 Mazel Tov to: ____________________________________________________________________________________________ 1 Condolences on the death of: _____________________________________________________________________________ 1 Refua Shlema/Get well wishes to: _________________________________________________________________________ 1 To commemorate: _____________________________________________________________________________________ 1 Other: _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Please indicate your choice of Tzedakah Fund: General Fund – for all the multifaceted activities of our active congregation. Rabbi Rachlis’ Discretionary Fund – a way to assist charities that the Rabbi supports, often dealing with issues of justice, peace, Jewish education and hunger. Many members give to this Fund at the time of a wedding, funeral, unveiling, naming, Bar/Bat Mitzvah. (Please make checks payable to RRDF). Cantor Braier’s Discretionary Fund – for concerts and other musical enrichment programs at University Synagogue for adults and children. Building Fund – for all of the important needs of our building. Choir Fund – to support musical activities at services and for special programs Lutzky Fund for the Education of Jewish Children * Marianne Yesk Memorial Fund * Mazon – our participation in a national effort to feed the hungry. (Please make checks payable to Mazon.) Noah’s Fund – “a rainy day” fund for critical synagogue repairs Ozan Family Library Fund - established by the Beral, Dienstag and Witkin families.* Religious School Fund Pre-School Fund Tikkun Olam Fund – founded by the Grossman/Swaiman Family to promote diversity and social action in our society.* Women’s Connection Fund US CARES Fund – to offer financial support to congregants in need 1 I would like to purchase _______ packets of tribute cards at $50 per packet of 5 cards 1 I will pick up cards at services 1 Please mail cards to_____________________________________________________________________________________ Enclosed is my check for $______________ or Please charge by: 1 VISA Account Number: __________ - _________ - _________ - ___________ 1 Master Card Expires: _________ * Funds so designated are in honor of the designee (e.g. Marianne Yesk). Contributions will go in the General Fund. University Synagogue 21 Supporting Members Thank you to the following members who are participating in our Supporting Members program. Your generosity and support are deeply appreciated. If you are interested in becoming a Supporting Member, please contact the office for details. CHAI TZEDAKAH Hal and Hinda Beral Ellie Jaffy David and Geri Sandor CHAI BENEFACTORS Dr. Gordon and Hannareta Fishman Daniel and Karen Frankel Janet Golden Barbara Klein David Lilien and Carolyn Stone Carol Richmond Dr. Marc Richmond David and Evelyn Simon Dr. Mark and Leslie Van Houten CHAI SUSTAINER Mark Bregman and Susan Keller Marsha Gandin Dr. Norma Kershaw David Lang and Julia Gelfand Judy Leland Henry and Meryl Schrimmer SUSTAINING DONORS Lewis and Vivian Atlas Jerry and Doreen Bame Jim and Lily Bierig Howard Black Eric and Michelle Blum Peter and Carol Bregman Dr. Matthew and Jane Brenner Mark and Marcy Bruskin Naomi Cohen Dr. Robert and Tami Dienstag Leonard and Gloria Goldenberg David and Helene Gorevitz Robert and Gerri Kraft Rudy and Carol Loewenstein Lou Miller Stan and Anita Mishook Jeanne Sandor Bunny and Jerry Spanier Drs. Daniela and Jeanne Stokols Bren and Amy Unger Dr. Elliot and Roz Vogelfanger David and Carmen Wyle PATRON DONORS Joel and Pam Chernoff Dr. Todd and Cat Goldenberg Richard Merage Dr. Bernard and Roslyn Portnoy Dr. Howard and Susie Rothfeder LEGACY SOCIETY OF UNIVERSITY SYNAGOGUE He whose deeds exceed his wisdom, his wisdom shall endure; but he whose wisdom exceeds his deeds, his wisdom will not endure. ! ! ! ! ~Pirkei Avot Please remember US in your estate plans 2014.5 Generations Group Thank you to the following members who joined our Generations Group, making a 10-year commitment of at least $1,000 per year to University Synagogue. Your generosity and support are appreciated. Dr. Eric Alcouloumre and Annee DellaDonna Alex Alpert and Carol Saltzman Lawrence and Susan Becker Dr. Kenneth and Roberta Bell Drs. Al Bennett and Rudi Berkelhamer Hal and Hinda Beral Joel and Helen Bergenfeld Howard Black Mark Bregman and Susan Keller Sandy Bursten Michael and Joan Carmack Robert and Tamara Dienstag Dennis and Carol Eastman Sheldon and Anita Eisenman Thomas and Andra Ellingson Dr. Gary and Florence Feldman David and Julie Fishman Dr. Gordon and Hannareta Fishman Daniel and Karen Frankel Richard and Susan Fybel Marsha Gandin Phyllis Gilmore Dr. Alvin and Rosalie Glasky Cynthia Glazer Lawrence and Miriam Goldberg Janet Golden Dr. Raymond and Linda Gomberg Barry and Ruby Greenberg Harry Greenberg David and Lori Hershorin Lotte Hoffman Lee and Zena Jacobi Bill and Valerie Jacobs Ellie Jaffy Sam Kaplan and Jerri Klein-Kaplan Dr. Norma Kershaw Dennis and Adelyn Klarin Barbara Klein Dr. Michael and Elaine Kleinman Leonard and Miriam Kranser Dr. Baruch and Jantana (Jan) Kuppermann David Lang & Julia Gelfand Judith Leland David Lilien and Carolyn Stone Allan and Robin Lubitz Jeff and Lisa Metzger Stan and Anita Mishook David and Ricki Pearl Al and Sally Phillips Leo and Sheila Pinsky Dr. Bernard and Roslyn Portnoy Rabbi Arnold Rachlis and Cantor Ruti Braier Carol Richmond Dr. Marc Richmond David and Geri Sandor Dr. Chip and Sari Schreiber Hank and Meryl Schrimmer Jeff and Linda Schulein Arkady and Ella Serebryannik Florence Shore Gary Silverman David and Evey Simon Leonard and Myrna Simon Jerry and Debbie Stern Dr. Steve and Rena Stone Dr. Mark and Leslie Van Houten Ira and Debbie Victer Dr. Elliot & Roz Vogelfanger Myra Wiener Bunny Zechter All members are invited to join the Generations Group. We are a group of members who enjoy having fun and are treated to great activities including, but not limited to, the Rabbi’s Dinner & Lecture, an entertaining cultural program with a dessert reception, unusual entertainment events, a cocktail dinner party at the Fishman’s home and reserved parking for the High Holidays at the Synagogue. We hope you will call the Synagogue (949.553.3535) and join. University Synagogue 22 2014.5 UNIVERSITY SYNAGOGUE TREE OF LIFE Judaism is a tradition of celebration. We have an incredible number of holidays when the Torah tells us to “rejoice.” We celebrate lifecycle events - births, namings, birthdays, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, graduations, weddings and anniversaries - with “mazel tov” and singing “siman tov u’mazel tov.” Now we have a Tree of Life, a Simcha Tree, situated in our Social Hall, to remind us of all the joys of our lives. We invite you to add your loved ones’ simchas to our Tree and share your nachas with our congregation or just add your loved one’s names out of love. A leaf on our Tree of Life honors your friends and family and reminds everyone that life’s joys are not to be taken for granted. Life is short, so we need to celebrate, rejoice, and feel deep gratitude for all the blessings of our lives. L’chaim / To Life! TREE OF REMEMBRANCE In our tradition, we are taught that love and memory are stronger than death. Judaism gives us the Kaddish prayer, Yizkor memorial services and an annual Yahrzeit to keep us connected to our loved ones. Our Tree of Remembrance reminds us as well, and we have the comfort of seeing our loved ones’ names, as we honor their memories publicly in our congregation. Through us, our loved ones still live. Through supporting our Tree of Remembrance, their values and vision, as well as our own, will live on into the future. DONATING LEAVES 1. 2. 2. 3. 4. STYLE AND WORDING $180 for a single leaf on the Tree of Life $300 for one name on a leaf on the Tree of Remembrance $360 for a double leaf (larger) on the Tree of Life $450 for two names on a leaf on the Tree of Remembrance A leaf (Tree of Remembrance) with one name, can later be exchanged for a leaf with two names for an additional $150 1. 2. 3. 4. Recommended maximum of 70 letters per leaf Times New Roman print style (same as this line) For one person: In honor of: (father, mother, sister, child, friend, etc.) Jon Cohen, (on his/her/ their________________) from (a) the Stein Family or (b) Jacob and Rachel Stein. For two people: In honor of our parents, children, grandchildren, Jon and Mimi Cohen (on their____________) (a) the Stein Family or (b) Jacob and Rachel Stein Please complete the form below and return it to the Synagogue office, Fax # 949-553-4034. Make checks payable to: University Synagogue Name: _______________________________________________________ Date: __________________________ Address:_________________________________________________________________________________________ Telephone: (_____) _____________________________ Email: _______________________________________ I will purchase ______ leaves with one name / two names at $350 / $450 per leaf: $_____________________________ I will purchase a single leaf @$180 per leaf / double leaf @ $360 per leaf: $_____________________________ Wording for leaf(s) (please print clearly):________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________ Enclosed is my check for $________________ Please charge my ☐ Visa ☐ Mastercard Account #__________________________________ Exp. Date:________________________ Signature:____________________________________ If you have any questions, please call the Synagogue office at 949.553-3535 University Synagogue 23 2014.5 The mission of University Synagogue is to be a center of Reconstructionist Judaism for adults and children. Embodying a sense of community, we kindle spirituality and foster intellectual challenge while broadening the boundaries of modern Jewish life. We provide for the religious, cultural and Jewish educational needs of our members as we actively participate in building the Jewish future. UNIVERSITY SYNAGOGUE Rabbi Cantor Arnold Rachlis Ruti Braier 2013-2014 / 5774 Board President Executive VP Treasurer Secretary Past President VP Membership VP Social Action/Tikkun Olam VP Activities VP Communications VP Education Educational Director Pre-School Director Sue Penn Heidi Kahn Members At Large Sari Schreiber Anita Mishook David Wyle Eric Blum Richard Fybel Susie Rothfeder Jerri Klein-Kaplan Sherry Clark Sheila Marsh Barbara Ganser Kenneth Bell Joan Carmack Joel Chernoff Marcy Garrett Michael Klarin Mike Krahelski Lisa Metzger Ryna Rothberg Len Simon Debbie Stern Charlotte Stone Bren Unger Jeff Wolff University Synagogue, a Reconstructionist congregation, believes in the equality of men and women, sees God as the power within, which inspires us to strive for human fulfillment as loving and caring people, and acknowledges both the rational foundation of the Universe and the spirituality inherent in all human life. We believe that Judaism is an evolving religious civilization, which reflects peoplehood, community, history, the arts and ethics. We are a community open to all, including interfaith couples. Affiliated with the Jewish Reconstructionist Federation THE NEWSLETTER DEADLINE IS THE 1ST OF EVERY MONTH