Issue 10 - December 2006
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Issue 10 - December 2006
Honouring returned servicemen – see page 16 Involve The Official News Forum of InvoCare Issue 10 December 2006 Award winner – page 12 4 8 17 22 Courtesy bus Special services Golf for a cause Creature feature Editor’s note InvoCare recently conducted a national survey of the songs people most request at funerals. Whilst the results are still being compiled, it made for fascinating reading as the surveys were returned. Of course there are some consistent old favourites which will rank high on the list, but equally there are some tracks from newer artists which are having their moment in the limelight. Music is such a personal thing and the pity is that more often than not we don’t take the time to stop and listen to the individual lyrics. It is not often that discussing funerals is considered a light dinner party conversation. Discussing music however will generate some enlightened conversation as well as a few amusing possibilities. So naturally I began thinking about just what would be appropriate. Should the song be about the person who has died or for those left behind or even a message from the grave? To find a song which hits the mark is not always easy. For many the sound or sentiment is more important that the meaning of the lyrics. Three songs stand out to me, none of which necessarily register on any of the surveys returned thus far. Each song is different; the first is about rejoicing in what you have done in life, the second is about missing someone and the third is about trying to go on with life. These are the most poignant lines from all three. Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen – “And even though it all went wrong, I’ll stand before the Lord of Song with nothing on my tongue but Hallelujah.” Wish you were here by Pink Floyd – “We’re just two lost souls swimming Anthony Perl in a fish bowl, year after year. Running over the same old ground, what have you found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.” The show must go on by Queen – “The show must go on. Inside my heart is breaking, my make-up may be flaking but my smile still stays on.” The reason I share these with you, is that these different songs and sentiments reflect the fact that we are all individuals and each feeling is as legitimate as the next. The challenge of being personal in arranging a funeral or memorial should not be underestimated. You only get one chance to make a final statement about someone’s life. For InvoCare staff this is something they clearly excel in; being a part of the local community, contributing to it, understanding people’s wishes and servicing them is something this edition of Involve is a testament to. A note from the CEO Another year is over, and InvoCare and particularly its staff can be The enthusiastic manner in which staff very pleased with their achievements. While the business has participate in community activities is a continued to grow, importantly the level of service being afforded credit to all. It is pleasing to see that to the public is also continuing to rise. the skills and experience gained by The InvoCare Limited Board has again spent time together touring a number of facilities. As well as providing an opportunity for Board members and staff to interact, it also gives them a chance to better understand the issues they confront. InvoCare employees in dealing with grief are being shared with the community. This open approach has Richard Davis helped contribute to our strong client survey index, a measurement generated through the surveys sent to each of our client families. The results continue to show both the funeral homes and the cemeteries and crematoria are setting the highest industry standards. Indeed the results show 97.6% of The Company has continued to grow both through acquisition families would recommend our funeral home services, while the and with the opening of several new sites. As outlined in several figure is at 93% for our cemeteries and crematoria. articles in this edition of Involve, there has also been a significant investment from the company in updating facilities. Recently I attended the opening of the new Chapel and the refurbishment of Allambe Memorial Park on the Gold Coast. I acknowledge the significant contribution of staff in ensuring this development The InvoCare Limited Board has again spent time together touring a number of facilities. As well as providing an opportunity for Board members and staff to interact, it also gives them a chance to better understand the issues they confront. matched the needs of the public. The official opening was a Thank you again to everyone for your support throughout the memorable function and clearly the Gold Coast community in year. I would like to wish everyone a safe and happy holiday general has welcomed the investment. season. I look forward to another great year for InvoCare in 2007. 2) A note from the COO While 2006 has seen some significant developments for the culminates in the presentation of the Company, 2007 is shaping to be another exciting year. The 2006 Garden Awards. This year’s expansion strategy for both Simplicity and White Lady Funerals Awards night was a wonderful will continue. The growth of these two businesses allows the success and I want to again thank all Company to offer each local community alternatives when those involved in organising it as well choosing a funeral home. The constant refinement of our funeral as the sponsors who helped make home branding is ensuring we are adapting with changing the event possible. In this edition of community needs and expectations. Involve we showcase the winner, the It was am ambitious year for our cemeteries and crematoria with a lot of significant developments completed. The official opening Mike Grehan people who work in our Gardens and the sponsors. of the updated facilities at Rookwood Memorial Gardens and I would like to take this opportunity to thank my management Crematorium and the completion of the new Crypts of the team for their support during the year. We recently met in Sydney Guardian Angel complex at Forest Lawn Memorial Park will occur for a conference to prepare for 2007. in the new year. It is with pleasure that I announce the appointment of Andrew Another project which will be completed next year is the roll out of Pulsford to the position of NSW Traditional Regional Manager. state of the art audio visual equipment in all our cemeteries and Andrew has significant senior management experience with multi- crematoria. Already a number of locations have plasma screens location businesses. His appointment brings together all our installed for families to display presentations of their loved one. traditional style brands in NSW under the one Regional Manager. These installations will be supported by the inclusion of cameras Philip Shelley has also been appointed the Shared Services so services can be recorded on DVD. Professionally packaged, Manager in NSW, after several years with the company working this service is being offered to families for free, allowing them to as Regional Manager in the Inner-West of Sydney. Amber Brittain capture forever the words delivered at the funeral which –White has been appointed Regional Manager Operations encapsulate and pay tribute to the life of their loved one. Cemetery Crematoria. These appointments echo the Company Managers from all our cemeteries and crematoria gathered in policy of continuing to foster talent within the Company while also Sydney recently for their annual conference. The conference bringing in external talent to help us grow. I would like to pay respect to those staff and former staff who are no longer with us. In particular my thoughts and prayers go to the families of Kate Saunders, Christine Eichfuss and Ian Flavel in Canberra. Let me take this opportunity to wish everyone a safe and happy Christmas and extend my appreciation to those of you who will continue to work through the holiday period. All staff can be immensely proud of their efforts in 2006 and look forward to a prosperous new year. Expanding into Singapore InvoCare Limited recently announced that it had purchased 100% of the ordinary shares in the Singapore Casket Company (Private) Limited (SCC). Established in 1920 and incorporated in Singapore, SCC is Singapore’s largest funeral provider with approximately 10% market share. Prior to its listing on the Australian Stock Exchange, InvoCare was responsible for SCC’s operations from 1996 to 2003. During this period InvoCare CEO, Richard Davis, was also SCC’s Chairman. Staff from the Singapore Casket Company. Richard Davis says, “Singapore Casket Company is an exciting SCC recently completed a major refurbishment of its owned opportunity for InvoCare to grow its operations outside Australia premises, which incorporates nine funeral chapels. in a business and market that is familiar to InvoCare.” ) Involve 3 Updated facilities InvoCare’s North Perth funeral operations centre has undergone a major renovation and upgrade. It was opened on Friday October 27th with a gathering of some 50 local community members and staff. The mayor of the City of Vincent, Nick Catania, formally opened the facility, which includes a new Mortuary, holding areas, loading docks, storage facilities, staff facilities and offices. In introducing the Mayor, WA General Manager Andrew Hogan spoke of the importance of the new facility in terms of the future growth of InvoCare in WA and the maintenance of the Mayor Nick Catania with Andrew Hogan – WA General Manager, and the North Perth Management team of Ray Weier – Shared Services Manager, Arnold Taylor – Location Manager and Chris Peck – Wheatland, Shared Services Supervisor. highest standards of service to client families. Andrew said, “The dedication of local staff to the care of families both throughout the Mr. Catania spoke of the importance of funerals that are sensitive funeral process and behind the scenes was excellent. This facility and meet the needs of families and the long term association of is important in terms of the delivery of care from the moment we InvoCare brands and operations and the City Of Vincent. Official take a first call to the follow up after the funeral itself.” proceedings were followed by a tour of the facility and refreshments. Courtesy bus Master Funeral Director The highest honour you can receive in the funeral industry in Australia is to be one of the select few to be given the title of Master Funeral Director by the Australian Funeral Directors Association (AFDA). David Lloyd from Blackwell Funerals, incorporating Pengelley and Knabe Funerals at Glenside in Adelaide, was recently given the title. Ray Weier – WA Shared Services Manager, next to our courtesy bus. InvoCare’s Western Australia funeral homes now have access to a new Toyota LWB Hi Ace bus. The bus is for the transportation of mourners to and from gravesites at Karrakatta cemetery, Perth’s largest metropolitan cemetery. In Perth, it is a tradition for mourners to gather at the cemetery gates and walk in cortège behind the hearse to the gravesite, sometimes necessitating a very long walk in the hot sun or wintry rain for elderly or infirmed mourners. The courtesy bus transports mourners in comfort. WA General Manager Andrew Hogan says, the response from the public has been very positive and has certainly improved the level of service that InvoCare’s WA brands provide. When not required for cemetery duties, the bus is also able to be used for various PR activities, which recently included the transportation of elderly members of the Orthodox and Portuguese communities to functions and events sponsored by our funeral homes. 4) David Lloyd (right) receives the award of Master Funeral Director from Clayton Scott – AFDA National President. Achieving this highly coveted award is not an easy feat, as you need to achieve the following criteria; 20 years industry service, managing a funeral business for a minimum of 10 years, be a practising embalmer for a minimum of 10 years, and have held a significant office with the AFDA. David Lloyd is the first of InvoCare’s South Australian employees to be awarded the title. Commitment to Care During 2006 the staff at Le Pine Funeral Services Box Hill held needs of Victorian health care three very successful Commitment to Care one day workshops in professionals who may encounter their chapel. Participants came from several nursing homes in the situations involving loss and grief area as well as the Royal District Nursing Service and a number of as part of their professional graduates from the Funeral Celebrants course run by the local duties,” says Doug. “The staff at Box Hill Institute. Box Hill has been very supportive, These workshops are based on the successful one day workshops conducted by Somerville Funerals on the Gold Coast. Doug Berwick, Location Manager at Box Hill, acknowledges the particularly Suzy Lee (Administrative / Arranger) who makes it all happen.” positive assistance provided by Doris Zagdanski and Susan Piacun Doug presents the Modules when he asked for their help to update the previous Commitment Understanding Grief, A Journey to Care program that had been conducted in Victoria. in Adult Grief and Communicating “When I joined Le Pine the Commitment to Care program in Victoria required a large time commitment from both staff and participants,” commented Doug. “To my mind the format needed to be improved. When I contacted Doris I found that she had developed the one day workshop concept which was ideal for what I was trying to do.” with Grieving People. Suzy conducts the Self Care section Suzy practising some stress management. of the workshop incorporating stress management. Suzy is a qualified massage therapist and kinesiologist who has previously provided training in stress management and self care for carers within private organisations including the corporate sector. Her passion is helping people to “The feedback received from participants has helped us to refine feel well and she is enthusiastic about her involvement with the the Commitment to Care workshop so that it addresses the Commitment to Care program. Stress and trauma in the workplace All WA funeral staff recently came together in small groups to talk about stress and trauma in the workplace and the strategies we can use to deal with this effectively. This initiative was designed to help InvoCare staff be better funeral directors and help support colleagues and friends. A group of staff participants at one of the sessions. The training was lead by Tamara Cohen, a former funeral director All agreed that the sessions were worthwhile and provided an and InvoCare staff member who has now completed her BA increased awareness of the challenges faced everyday as (Psych) and counselling training. Tamara drew on her personal funeral directors. experience and professional knowledge in facilitating the sessions. Andrew Hogan – General Manager WA Safety week Safety Week has become an important part of the Australian calendar with events around the country to help promote safety at home and in the workplace. InvoCare planned activities to coincide with Safety Week in all states including attendance at the Good Health Solutions presentation and healthy breakfast. Managers and all employees had the opportunity to understand some of the daily issues facing us in ensuring a safe workplace. The seminars also presented an Queensland funeral home staff talking about safety issues. opportunity to release the Employee Assistance program to staff. ) Involve 5 Community seminars George Hartnett Funerals in Brisbane often conduct seminars for local community groups. It gives these various groups a unique chance to come together and learn more about ‘grief awareness’ in a relaxed setting. The latest seminar featured a talk by Queensland General Manager of Funerals, Doris Zagdanksi. Doris is also the author of a number of books on grief. This seminar was held at Albany Creek Memorial Park representing the local communities of the George Hartnett Funerals locations at Albany Creek and Sandgate. Offering local support Building a future in classical ballet Simplicity Funerals at George Hartnett Funerals in Logan in Brisbane has Brisbane have become sponsors joined the local of the Queensland Ballet. community in supporting The George Hartnett Funerals Shailer Park’s Tanya Award is given to a Professional Taylor, who has battled Year Dancer. Multiple Sclerosis for seven years. Sandy Paterson and Carol Jones from Ms Taylor’s sister and fullSimplicity Funerals offer a helping hand to time carer Debbie Taylor Tanya Taylor and her sister and Debbie. Tamara Hanton was recently presented with the award which she says “will help build my professional said members career in classical ballet.” of the community had shown great support for Tanya. “People have She adds, “My first year with been wonderful. Tanya and I would like to thank the community for them was a great learning all their assistance,” she said. Tanya, 31, is unable to live experience, through the independently and spends most of her days in a bed or wheelchair. guidance and wonderful teaching they provide.” “The funds we have received are now going towards a shower bed which costs $5000,” said Debbie. Simplicity’s Carol Jones said when she heard Tanya’s story, she immediately wanted to help. “My sister has MS so it’s a subject close to my heart,” she said. Tamara Hanton Tamara says, “I want to thank the Company for this award and I can assure you that I will continue to work extremely hard throughout the coming year.” Parkinson Awareness Association Staff from Allen Matthews Funerals – a Guardian Funeral provider at North Ryde in Sydney – recently attended a special lunch for The Parkinson Awareness Association. The association membership comprises persons who have made a commitment in their wills to leave a bequest to the Parkinson Association. John Rawling from Guardian Plan was the guest speaker at the luncheon. He was well received by the members of the Association, who were quick to ask lots of questions on prepaying your funerals. Those attending were offered information packs, featuring the Guardian’s newly designed folders. 6) John Rawling – Guardian Plan (far left) and Dennis Byron – Allen Matthews (far right), standing with representatives from the Parkinson Awareness Association. Wally Foreman Purslowe Funerals, in North Perth, spent over 100 hours arranging what was the largest memorial service in WA history – the funeral of the much loved Wally Foreman, one of Australia’s most experienced sports broadcasters. The procession should take a funeral held at Challenge Stadium was route via the sea because of attended by more than 3000 people and Wally’s love of the ocean.” was covered live on ABC radio and shown Arnold met with the later on ABC TV. Challenge Stadiums CEO, ABC sport broadcaster Wally Foreman died in Perth on Thursday Graham Moss, ABCs Sports Commentator Glen Mitchell, and a November 2, 2006, after having a heart attack while running on a representative from Perth Audio Visual to enure that the event gymnasium treadmill. One of Australia's most experienced sport would be managed as efficiently as possible. broadcasters, Mr Foreman worked in the media for more than 30 years. He attended four Olympic Games and five Commonwealth Games and also called international cricket, AFL football and Davis Cup and Australian Open tennis. He was also the director of the WA Institute of Sport for 17 years from its inception. Purslowe Funerals’ Location Manager, Arnold Taylor, was contacted immediately following Wally’s death, the family having used Purslowe Funerals services previously. From the next day 13 Purslowe staff were involved in the funeral arrangements on the day. Staff helped man five signing stations around the stadium where people could leave a message in a memorial book for Wally’s family. “We also worked with the website www.obits.com.au to provide a publicly accessible online space for people to leave messages and tributes to Wally,” says Arnold. Arnold and a colleague worked full time coordinating the service. “The service was recorded and the four hour film formed part of Arnold immediately met with Wally’s wife Lyn, his two sons (Glen a memory chest that Purslowe Funerals presented to Wally’s and Mark) and two sisters to begin arranging the funeral. family” he added. “It also included the memorial books, photos There was a private viewing at the North Perth funeral home with of the service and thank you cards for the family to use.” a private cortege to the stadium – a limo seating nine following After the service at the Challenge Stadium, there was a private the hearse. Arnold says, “We recommended that the funeral service in the Karrakatta cemetery followed by a private wake. Funeral notices online Many InvoCare branches are now placing notices on the communicate with friends and relatives. Accordingly, Simplicity www.obits.com.au website, and to date over 1,700 InvoCare Funerals in NSW are listing more than 75% of their notices with notices have been placed. Obits is run by a small friendly team, Obits as families warm to the idea of being able to readily add headed by Theo and Meg Tsiamis. tributes to the online notice. The main reason for this is that the Death, funeral and obituary notices may be placed by fax or Obits.com.au website is so easy to remember and find with one of directly online, and can display a photo and up to 500 words of the strongest web profiles of all the obituary notice listing services. text. Families may opt to place a shorter newspaper notice, and take advantage of the longer obits notice, which remain online indefinitely. Families may also add to a notice at any stage, and can even add a eulogy after the funeral. Obits is attracting over 20,000 visits per month. “Over 89% of Simplicity NSW staff prefer going online to enter a listing because of its speed and convenience for the business and for families. The ability to confirm what has been written within seconds as well to update the notice themselves has many staff excited, and relieved. The days when you’d spend Simplicity Funerals have been making the most of the Obits time on the phone waiting to be answered and then relaying the website. Philip Overduin, Simplicity Funeral’s Regional Manager message are gone. It’s now as easy as tapping on the keyboard. in NSW says, “The Obits product enables Simplicity to enjoy a With Obits, it doesn’t matter if you’re internet savvy or just a high level of exposure via a new and evolving communication novice they are very supportive and ready to assist. channel. Today, with over 14 million Australians having access to the internet, either at work or at home, people are delighted for “A growing number of families say they found Simplicity via obits the opportunity to use the internet to search for information or to so we couldn’t be more happy with the service.” ) Involve 7 Special Services Throughout the year InvoCare’s various funeral home brands, along with the cemeteries and crematoria, hold special services for the community to attend to remember the life of a loved one. Many services are held at a time when the rest of the community are celebrating, seemingly unaware of those who have lost someone close. Such is the case with Father’s Day, Chung Yeung Day and All Souls Day. What follows are examples of recent services. Father’s Day Rookwood Memorial Gardens and Crematorium in Sydney held their inaugural Father’s Day memorial service this year. Attended by approximately sixty people, the civil celebrant service was specifically held for people who had recently lost their father or grandfather. “The service provided people with an opportunity to do something active to remember the life of the person they have lost,” adds Rosanna. Purslowe Funerals in Perth, in conjunction with St. Mark’s Anglican Parish in the northern beachside suburb of Hillaries, organised and supported a Father’s Day memorial service at the Pinaroo Valley Memorial Chapel. Purslowe Funerals Wangara Branch, with Manager Hugh Torpy and Funeral Director Karen Lynch, were the key organisers of the service and were ably supported by a number of other Purslowe and Shared Services staff. The service featured music by Robbie Williams and included an opportunity for those present to step forward to light a small candle in memory of their dad. The beautiful bush land setting at Pinarroo, combined with a lovely sunny spring morning, all helped to make the service very moving and personal. Over 200 people gathered in the chapel to participate in the service, lead by Fr. Johnthon Joyce from St. Mark’s and civil celebrant Marc Allen. The service featured music by Robbie Williams and included an opportunity for those present to step forward to light a small candle in memory of their dad. At the conclusion of the service, all present moved outside for a balloon release. Morning tea followed in the adjoining lounge. All present appreciated the opportunity to join together in memory of their fathers. ••• 8) “We believe many people found the service incredibly moving,” says Rosanna Kleckin, Family Services Manager at Rookwood Memorial Gardens and Crematorium. “We all know the incredible role that fathers play in our lives. We believe it is extremely important to maintain the ritual of Father’s Day, even after their father or grandfather has passed away.” “The service provided people with an opportunity to do something active to remember the life of the person they have lost,” adds Rosanna. The non-denominational service was led by Celebrant Keith Lammond and included some creative touches in order for people to celebrate the lives of their fathers and grandfathers. It included a tribute film accompanied by peaceful music that depicted the emotive images of grandfathers, fathers and children. The fathers and grandfathers of each of the families who attended were individually mentioned during the service. A white card was provided for people to write their personal messages that were then cremated. “It was lovely to see so many people coming to pay their respects. It was testament to the fact that people benefit from coming together to collectively grieve for their loved ones,” says Rosanna. “They can be around others who understand their loss. We hope that the service will become a tradition with the whole family attending,” she adds. Each year on Father’s Day, Rookwood sees an increase in the number of visitors who just like to come and visit their father’s memorial. By holding the new service, the day was made to feel particularly special for the visitors this year. ••• Chung Yeung Day All Souls Day All Souls Day is another significant event where the community comes together to share and remember. Lakeside Memorial Park in Dapto recently held its 24th Mass attended by 1200 people. Two peace doves were released at the end of the mass by a girl and an elderly male who have loved ones placed in the park. Commemorating the loss of a loved one is an important way to help the grieving process, and Chung Yeung Day is a significant event enabling the Chinese community to share and remember. Pinegrove Memorial Park at Minchinbury in Sydney recently held their 6th annual service attended by over 300 people. Julie Harvey, Family Services Manager of Lakeside Memorial Park says, “All Souls Day was originally a Christian tradition involving the blessing of spirits of those who have departed and giving strength to families and loved ones left behind.” The All Souls Day Mass was led by the Bishop of Wollongong, Peter W. Ingham followed by Holy Communion for the congregation. “Chung Yeung Day gives the Chinese Community strength through the communal experience,” says Lucy Millena, Regional Manager of the Multi-Cultural Unit at Pinegrove Memorial Park. “Our service is well established and highly regarded. Although it is a poignant event it is a time for everyone to come together and provide support.” Chung Yeung day is a recognised festival throughout China, it is mainly celebrated in Hong Kong. It takes place on the ninth day of the ninth month of the Chinese lunar calendar and commemorates two occasions “People participate in the festival with traditional offerings of special paper money and material objects and gather for a picnic of the roast pig offerings” she added. Although Chung Yeung day is a recognised festival throughout China, it is mainly celebrated in Hong Kong. It takes place on the ninth day of the ninth month of the Chinese lunar calendar and commemorates two occasions. Meaning forever, it is the day on which Chinese people go to the hillsides to tend to their ancestors’ graves. It also commemorates the day during the Han Dynasty (B.C. 221 – 206) when a Taoist soothsay (fortune teller) advised a scholar, Huan Jing, to escape the hills with his family to avoid an impending disaster. From that date, Chinese people have celebrated by taking food and chrysanthemum wine in a picnic on the hillsides. Chrysanthemums are the symbols of good health and longevity among the Chinese community. Today, feasts, country walks and flying kites on a hill are all features of Chung Yeung Day which the people believe will bring good luck. ••• ) Involve 9 VP Day Commemoration At Drysdale Funerals in Nambour on the Sunshine Coast, there is a plaque commemorating the 50th year of the end of the war in the Pacific. The plaque mentions that where the funeral home is situated, the area was occupied by the 2/4th Field Artillery Lisa Maddison is with Arthur Frohmuller (left) and Bob Ward (right) taken at Drysdale Funerals Chapel at Nambour. Regiment Headquarters during the years of conflict. The funeral home has used it as an opportunity to commemorate VP Day (Victory in the Pacific). Jim Pavier, the President of the Sub Branch of the RSL says, “VP Day is very meaningful to the diggers that fought in the Pacific who felt previously that their efforts were not recognised.” He pointed out that “a lot of these soldiers were still grieving for their mates.” So Drysdale’s offered to hold a special VP Day service and a candle lighting ceremony. Invitations were sent to the Nambour Sub Branch members and other members from Yandina Sub Branch and The National Serviceman’s Organisation. From left, Arthur Frohmuller, Chris Jones, Lisa Maddison, Tim Goessling, Bob Ward (rear) Craig Holyland. When I went to the Library to find out about the war in the Pacific, there was little or no information. Recognising there was an opportunity to do an education programme in the High School, I approached Nambour High about some of the veterans telling returned serviceman, and a padre or minister with Location Manager, Tim Goessling acting as the Master of Ceremonies. their stories. A poster competition was also held for the Year 10 Old images of the war are projected onto the screen with some quiet class. For their efforts, the school was presented with the music playing while the candle lighting occurs. The last post is played Australians at War series for their library from the Commonwealth outside the chapel at the end of the service and a wreath is laid at Government. The Nambour Sub Branch now presents three the flagpole. The ceremony is followed by light refreshments. bursaries to the students for their education. This is our 3rd year of Commemoration. The education part of the The VP Day service is advertised in the local paper and event will be continued next year as a learning tool for the high on television. school and an opportunity to mix the young and the older The service begins at 12 Noon and Navy Cadets, Air Force Cadets, police and army personnel are invited and encouraged to participate. Students who went on the Quiet Lion Tour along the Burma railway give an address. There is also an address from a persons together. Importantly, as echoed by the many comments from those who attend, the service helps the returned servicemen feel acknowledged. Christine Jones – Drysdale Funerals, QLD Long Tan Lakeside Memorial Park at Dapto, south of Sydney, sponsors a series of memorial plaques at the Wollongong City Vietnam Veterans memorial. The Park has provided these roll of honour plaques for Illawarra deceased Vietnam Veterans for many years. The most recent addition was for the late Captain Trevor Beer. The dedication of his plaque at the city memorial featured heavily at the 40th anniversary Commemorative service for the battle of Long Tan held on Sunday 20th August. The famous battle of Long Tan occurred in 1966 in the Long Tan Rubber Plantation. The memorial plaques are mounted on bollards that line the walkway to the epitaph. 10) Official opening Allambe Memorial Park Lakeside Memorial Park In the last edition of Involve, we featured an article on the $2 million renovations made to Allambe Memorial Park on the Gold Coast. The official opening of the new facilities was held recently. The new Parkview Chapel was ‘blessed’ at a special ceremony attended by Dianne Reilly Local Member for Mudgeeraba, as well as representatives from the Chamber of Commerce and the community. The blessing ended with representatives from each major faith pouring a chalice of blessed water over a memorial rock in front of the Chapel while listening to the ‘The Blenders’ quartet. At the official opening. After the blessing, local member for Moncrieff, Steven Ciobo, unveiled a plaque on the rock declaring the Chapel open. Attendees then gathered for afternoon tea in the refurbished condolence lounge. According to Jann Chamberlain, the Family Service Manager, “The Chapels and the administration building have been carefully designed to maximise the beauty and peacefulness of the surrounds and give that warm, airy and light feel which is typical of the Gold Coast.” The Lord Mayor of Wollongong, local clergy, celebrants, community leaders, architects and builders were among 80 people present for the dedication ceremony of the chapel at Lakeside Memorial Park, Dapto, a facility that caters for over 400 services a year. Remarking on the significance of the chapel for the local community, Lord Mayor for Wollongong, Councillor Alex Darling said, “The refurbished chapel now has the modern facilities that are required by the local community. This coincides with Wollongong’s plans to modernise the key areas of the City over the next five years. It is great to see so many people from the local community gather and celebrate the reopening of what shall be a key service for the Wollongong area.” Half a million dollars was spent on refurbishing the Lakeside Chapel and office facilities. The building now includes wheelchair access, state of the art audio-visual equipment, seating for up to 120 people and a modern catafalque. The Administration Office has also been renovated with new consultancy rooms and a new reception area. The surrounds are quiet and private, providing a comfortable environment for families to discuss their requirements. The renovations took four months and were completed by local tradesmen and suppliers. The design has a modern feel while keeping with a traditional layout. “This chapel is a safe and serene space for people to say their goodbyes and grieve with dignity,” said Reverend Gordon Bradbery from Wesley Uniting Church who led the service. Using state of the art technology, Lakeside is now one of a number of InvoCare cemeteries and crematoria offering families a free DVD of the service. It will be professionally presented with a case and label printed directly onto the DVD containing the deceased’s name, the Funeral Director’s name and the date of service. Steven Ciobo – Federal Member for Moncrieff, Armen Mikaelian – General Manager Cemeteries & Crematoria, Richard Davis – CEO InvoCare, Wayne Fuller – Operations Manager Allambe Memorial Park, Jann Chamberlain – Family Service Manager, Daryn McKay – Regional Manager Operations QLD, Dianne Reilly – State Member for Mudgeeraba, David Adams – Regional Manager Family Service. ) Involve 11 2006 Garden Awards The 2006 Cemetery and Crematoria Garden Awards have just been presented with Northern Suburbs Memorial Gardens and Crematorium celebrating its second win of the competition which has now been running for six years. The gardens of each of the locations are judged by independent garden expert Jennifer Stackhouse. Aside from being a qualified horticulturalist she has also worked with the Sydney Morning Herald and House and Garden magazine, Australian Horticulture and was the founding editor of Burke’s Backyard as well as having her own syndicated radio program. Since the awards inception, Jennifer has visited each location without their knowledge and then announces her choice for the winners at a gala function. Oatlands House hosted this year’s event attended by more than Part of the award winning gardens at Northern Suburbs Memorial Gardens and Crematorium. 100 people including Board members, sponsors, InvoCare NSW funeral managers along with the Operations and Family Service managers and partners. Chief Operating Officer Mike Grehan paid special tribute to the sponsors who have formed partnership style arrangements with the company and helped ensure the event was successful with generous contributions. The Gold sponsors Jennifer Stackhouse were; DDC, Arciuli, Alpine Landscapes and Globe Memorial Company. The silver sponsor was Austeng Engineered Solutions. The bronze sponsors were; Arrow Bronze, Village Mowers and Power Tools, JA Wales Printers and Flowers for Everyone. Tom Vukelic – Northern Suburbs Operations Manager and Dr Christine (Tina) Clifton – Non-Executive Board Member. MC for the evening, John Scott, introduced Jennifer Stackhouse who spoke about what she had to take into consideration in choosing the winner. “Once again I am sorry to report it hasn’t been an easy year for parks and gardens generally in NSW and south-east Queensland due to the lack of reliable rain, extreme temperatures and an overall feeling that gardeners shouldn’t be wasting water. As with last year, I took the difficulties of the season into account when visiting the parks and gardens. I also considered the overall atmosphere of the site as well as the maintenance levels, plant health and condition of lawns and water features.” InvoCare Limited Non-Executive Board Member Dr Christine (Tina) Clifton was on hand to present the trophies to the winners. There were four awards presented on the evening: Northern Suburbs Memorial Gardens and Crematorium staff. looked loved and well maintained. Paths and steps were neat, Encouragement Award: Pinegrove Memorial Park safe and clean throughout. The work done a few years ago to Third: Newcastle Memorial Park remove the large fig trees has well and truly paid off in the Second: Castlebrook Memorial Park First: Northern Suburbs Memorial Gardens and Crematorium In awarding first place, Jennifer said, “This Garden was hard to appearance of the grounds and the condition of walls and paths. New plantings are doing well. Water features seemed clean and to be working well. Excellent.!” fault. The conifers and clipped plants that are a feature of the Northern Suburbs Operations Manager Tom Vukelic paid tribute to heritage gardens were all in immaculate condition. The Garden the efforts of his outdoor staff in particular in accepting the award. 12) The 2006 Garden Awards was a well attended success. Pictured below left, some of the sponsors and pictured below right, a group shot of all the winners. Garden Awards’ sponsors ) Involve 13 The People To assist with the presentations for the InvoCare Cemetery and Crematoria Garden Awards, the Company sent photographer Chris Shain to all 12 locations to take some updated images of the immaculate grounds and the people who make it possible. This page is a tribute to the outdoor staff Pinegrove – David Hornby and Tony Lever who maintain the gardens. Rookwood – Alf Devittor and Dennis Arentz Tweed Heads – Norman Bradley Albany Creek – Robert Phillips and Bradley Stewart Lake Macquarie – Dean Mackay and Les Reynolds (foreground) Newcastle – Geoff Bell Allambe – William Hardman and Kelvin Enslow Castlebrook – Justin Jones Lakeside – Stephen Staines and Bruno Kuehne Mt Thompson – Gerard Farrell and Grant Collins 14 ) Forest Lawn – (foreground to rear) Brandon Jesson, Larry Brabin and Alan Johnstone Introducing the latest technology Understanding cremation As part of InvoCare’s continuous improvement, the Company is InvoCare has taken the lead in the embarking on an ambitious plan to upgrade its crematoria sites. funeral industry by publishing a Cremation and furnace rooms are increasingly becoming part of brochure which seeks to help people the public face of the business, with more people interested in understand the cremation process. touring the facilities. So the operation must be presented as There are many myths surrounding comforting, respectful, neat and tidy. the process, many of which have the art ‘Joule’ cremator for Allambe Memorial Park on the Gold Coast. The furnace room and the area around it will be upgraded, making it a more pleasant place to work and provide a suitable and respectful environment for families who choose to witness the insertion of the coffin into the furnace. The latest ‘Joule’ cremators are fully computerised and packed with many unique and innovative features that set the standard for cremators world-wide. These include; high standards, low fuel usage, fully computerised with inbuilt safety features and pollution controls to keep emissions to a minimum and compliant with stringent European anti-pollution requirements. The cremator is being specially designed as larger than standard to cater for an increasingly heavy average sized body and large caskets. It will be built by a company called Austeng who have experience manufacturing cremators both in Australia and throughout the United Kingdom. come to light in recent media coverage. Until now there has not been a brochure in Australia which seeks to clearly explain what actually happens when the funeral service is over and the coffin goes behind the curtain. The brochure was put together with the cooperation of many of InvoCare’s experienced staff, ensuring the detail reflects the consistent and careful approach taken by all InvoCare’s crematoria. Accompanying the detailed explanation are photographs taken at Northern Suburbs Memorial Gardens and Crematoria which help demonstrate the clinical efforts of staff to ensure the cremated remains of a family’s loved one are cared for throughout. Along with the detailed explanation, the brochure also features a series of interesting facts about the cremation process. You can obtain a free copy of the brochure through one of InvoCare’s Memorial Parks and Gardens or by visiting their websites. ) InvoCare has placed an order to manufacture and install a state of Involve 15 Honouring returned servicemen Mr Glen Milne, President of the Gold Coast and District RSL. “The RSL highly appreciates the sensitivity in ensuring the memorial continues to be accessible to the families and relatives of those remembered,” he added. A bagpiper played while people arrived and As part of the refurbishment of Allambe Memorial Park on the Gold Coast, a new RSL section has been developed, and recently Gold Coast RSL Presidents, families and representatives from the local community gathered for a service to mark the rededication. The RSL memorial walls have been relocated to the gardens surrounding the Garden Chapel. departed with a traditional laying of wreathes forming part of the service. Everyone who attended was also given a poppy to mark Remembrance Day. When the service finished, the congregation gathered for a complimentary morning tea in the recently refurbished condolence lounge. Jann Chamberlain, Family Services Manager at Allambe Memorial Park says, “The service gave families and RSL members a chance to come together to remember their loved ones. It also signified the new area is officially dedicated to deceased RSL members who lost their loved ones during a war or armed conflict.” The service was led by Reverend Roger Boerth AM who has previously served as a military chaplain. A group of cadets from the Southport School formed a guard of honour. “Allambe has been extremely cooperative and sensitive to the families needs while relocating the RSL memorial wall” says Supporting the Filipino community The Multi-Cultural Unit (MCU) based at Pinegrove Memorial Park has made a donation for the celebration of the 50th year anniversary of the St Aidan’s Parish Church at Rooty Hill. The donation went into funding the festivities including a souvenir program and additional facilities in the new parish Community Hall. The new hall is located in the grounds of the school and church and is expected to serve all areas of the community. Bishop Kevin Manning of the diocese of Parramatta led the 50th anniversary celebration with Fr Renato Paras, parish priest of St Aidan’s, who was also the first Filipino Chaplain in Australia. A crowd of 3,000 parishioners gathered in celebration. Filipino Unit Manager Mrs. Nina Chavez says, “We are delighted to have been able to donate to assist the parish in the celebrations of their 50th year. The new hall will provide a real focus for the local community. The area has many families and young people and this is a place where real connections and friendships will be formed.” 16) Bishop Kevin Manning of the archdiocese of Parramatta and Fr Renato Paras, Parish Priest, cutting the anniversary cake. Far right is Nina Chavez, Unit Manager of the Multi-Cultural Unit based in Pinegrove Memorial Park. Others shown are parish workers. Stolen moments Stolen Moments recalls the stories of families living with and impacted by Alzheimer’s disease. It might be assumed that a book of true-life stories about people with Alzheimer’s would be filled with sad, heartbreaking stories, but Stolen Moments has proven this assumption wrong. Even before its recent launch, sponsored by Purslowe Funerals in Perth, and the Town of Vincent, the book had received positive feedback. Inspiring, comforting, informative are just a few of the words that have been used to describe the book. From left, Arnold Taylor – Purslowe Funerals North Perth Location Manager, with compilers Elizabeth Bezant ‘We wanted to create a book that not only included real life stories and Pamela but one that also raised awareness and understanding of this J Eaves. disease, “ says Elizabeth Bezant, one of the compilers of Stolen Moments. She adds, ” Alzheimer’s can be the cause of great isolation, both physically and emotionally, so we wanted to offer some comfort and reassurance to those living with it that in every corner of the world people are feeling and dealing with the same thing. The book is not a happy book, because it can’t be, but the stories are inspiring, enlightening and hopefully unforgettable.” Stolen Moments (retailing for $24.95) is compiled by Elizabeth Bezant and Pamela J Eaves and is available from Life’s Inspirational Moments, PO Box 122, Quinns Rocks, WA 6030 or through www.lifesinspirationalmoments.com. Golf for a cause Le Pine Funerals in Melbourne recently sponsored the Doxa brings together many influential members of the community Foundation Golf Day. Established by Fr Joe Giacobbe, the Doxa including a number of leading sporting identities, who enjoy a Foundation sponsors underprivileged children. Le Pine has luncheon followed by a round of golf at the Yarra Yarra golf supported this day for four years, held before the spring racing course. carnival each year. At the conclusion of the day the trophies are presented while the This year there was a record number of entries with a number of participants enjoy a light meal and drinks. major businesses supporting this day including Fosters. The day John Fowler – General Manager, Victoria Left to Right: Rod Nicholson chief racing writer for the Melbourne Herald Sun, Bobby Skilton football legend and triple Brownlow medalist, Mike Woods, Peter Nichols racing idenity, Andrew Noblet horse trainer, Alf Matthews racing identity (Sky Racing), Roy Higgins (racing legend) sport 927 racing commentator, Bill Mitchell race horse trainer-bloodstock agent (Hunter Valley NSW), John Fowler InvoCare General Manager Victoria, Fr Brian O’Sullivan, Lee Freedman race horse trainer and Colin Little race horse trainer. ) Involve 17 Supporting palliative care research Survey Comments A survey is sent to every family who has a funeral arranged by an InvoCare company. A separate survey is sent to those who place a memorial within one of InvoCare’s cemeteries and crematoria. Following is a sample of some of the comments received on those surveys. The people were relaxed and comfortable, they were giving refreshments and coffee, the director made us feel comfortable. Blackwell Funerals – Payneham, SA Facilities suitable, staff helpful when I rang to query details of chapel and collecting ashes was easily arranged (special requests regarding ashes were fulfilled without query). Simplicity Funerals – Osborne Park, WA Pictured at the dinner are (from left): Ashley Crowe – Regional Manager Southern/Eastern Region, Victoria, Gerard Nelson, Lt-Col Georgina Whelan and General Peter Cosgrove. Everything went as planned. The deceased had specific wishes which were followed in every detail. Very good value for money, as this was a prepaid funeral. Le Pine Funerals in Melbourne was represented recently at the Vivian Bullwinkel Memorial Fund Gala Dinner, lending support to the group’s White Lady Funerals – Mornington, VIC efforts to raise funds for palliative care research in Australia. The dinner was hosted by the Monash University Medical Foundation together with Professor Margaret O’Connor AM (Vivian Bullwinkel Chair in Nursing, Palliative Care), at the Melbourne Museum. Ita Buttrose AM was MC for the evening and special guest was Professor David de Kretser AC, Governor of Victoria. Speakers Everything that was arranged was excellent from the first phone call to the service and beyond was excellent. Hansen and Cole Funerals – A Guardian Funeral provider – Kembla Grange, NSW included former Chief of Defence, General Peter Cosgrove AC MC and Lt-Col Georgina Whelan AM CSC, RAN Commander Banda Aceh Relief Effort. The Monash University School of Nursing and Midwifery in partnership Funeral staff, particularly Christine Jones, really helped me through and stayed in contact with me after funeral, her professionalism I can only speak of in the highest order. with Peninsula Health, Peninsula Hospice Service and the Royal District Nursing Service has established the Vivian Bullwinkel Chair in Nursing, Drysdale Funerals – Nambour, QLD Palliative Care to bring together the key areas of research education and service provision in palliative care. I was perfectly satisfied with all arrangements. Having previous The Chair is named after the late Sister Vivian Bullwinkel in recognition experience four times decision making was not a problem. of her lifetime contribution to nursing, as well as her courage, energy and compassion. Mt Thompson Memorial Gardens – Holland Park, QLD Vivian was respected for her wartime leadership as a prisoner of the Japanese Imperial Forces and for her peacetime leadership in fighting for professional issues that would bring her vision of nursing closer to reality. The memorial fund set up in Vivian’s honour focuses on the needs of the dying and exploring ways their lives can be made more comfortable. 18) Very happy, everything was handled very professionally. Lake Macquarie Memorial Park – Ryhope, NSW Shopping Centre Many people find it intimidating to walk into a funeral home and ask for information. There is a certain societal fear about what Volunteers Conference you might see and what the people who work there are like. Simplicity Funerals on the Central Coast of NSW recently took the opportunity to put some of those concerns to rest by opening a stall for a week at Erina Fair Shopping Centre, reaching at least 600 people a day. The Simplicity display incorporated various materials and generally depicted the funeral brand as contemporary, approachable and committed. Over 200 information packs were distributed and the group fielded many inquiries. Rob James is one of Simplicity’s Community Relations Advisors and he says, “Having bags to hand out made it easier to pass on information to ‘shy’ people. The DVD playing continuously was a Simplicity Funerals in Adelaide leant their support to the recent definite attraction. Wearing Simplicity polo shirts also made Hands – On! Palliative Care Volunteers Conference held in Fullarton people feel more relaxed.” Community Centre. Attended by 150 people, the conference was presented by the Palliative Care Council of South Australia to provide Janette Davison is the Location Supervisor at Simplicity Erina and she says, “The positive feedback I received from people in general and friends that stopped and spoke to me when I was at the stall was overwhelming. It goes to show that people out there are becoming more open to talking about funerals. In a nutshell I thought the week was a great success” an opportunity for volunteers to “learn new skills, share ideas, meet your peers.” Among the keynote speakers was Steven Gregory for Simplicity Funerals at Enfield, who spoke about ‘What happens if a person dies in the workplace?’ Kaylene Perry was also on hand to assist. Steven said, “It was an opportunity to support the local community and share our knowledge.” Retirement and lifestyle expo Mareena Purslowe and Associates Funerals (MPA) in Perth participated at the recent Perth retirement and lifestyle expo held at the Convention and Exhibition centre. The expo attracted some 6,000 visitors and MPA was well represented with a booth and staff on hand right throughout the planning ahead. Pam Castensen – Location Manager and Bev Woolhouse – Pre-need Consultant at the MPA stand. ) event to answer questions and discuss funeral arrangements and Involve 19 Older people speak out Mr Bill Benson OAM – OPSO Board member, Val French AM – President of OPSO, Matt Hansen – Regional Manager for Simplicity QLD, Doris Zagdanski – General Manager Queensland Funerals and Richard Fidler – compare and ABC radio personality (ex Doug Anthony Allstars!). Older People Speak Out (OPSO) hold a national media awards Simplicity Funerals have sponsored this award for the last five presentation night each year in Brisbane – acknowledging years. OPSO seeks to promote healthy ageing and the previously journalists from around the country who present media items on unrecognised contribution older people make to the stability ‘older people’ in a positive light. of society. Chinese – Australian friendship night Allan Drew Funerals at Castle Hill in Sydney recently joined with Entertainment during the evening was provided by both Eastern members of the InvoCare Cemeteries and Crematoria Chinese and Western entertainers. The goodwill and greater Multi-Cultural team at the second annual Hills Chinese-Australian understanding of both cultures fostered by this night was heart Friendship Night. The night was hosted by member for the Hills, warming. The success of the night will ensure its annual status Michael Richardson MP at the Castle Terrace Chinese and will be high on our priorities for attendance next year. Restaurant in Castle Hill. A Banquet dinner was enjoyed by all. Everyone also had fun trying to answer trivia questions on both Australian and Chinese cultures. David Murray – Location Manager Allan Drew Funerals in Castle Hill, NSW Helping at the fair Murdoch Hospice in Perth recently held a Fair to raise funds for their operations. A number of the Oakwood Funerals staff, in an effort to make a contribution to the Fair, decided to make some jam and Christmas cakes and donate them to the hospice to sell on the day. Oakwood’s Nola Coleman made the Marmalade and Chantelle Heuer made the strawberry jam along with a contribution of ten Granny Chipper Christmas cakes. The Hospice raised over $13000 with the jam stall taking the most on the day. Don Chipper – Regional Manager Oakwood Funerals, WA 20) Chantelle Heuer (above) and Nola Coleman (right). Boomers trust their ambulance service more than their relatives! improved – television programs, banks and private health funds As we age our attitude toward life changes, it’s inevitable. Earlier to eat at home, new television programs to watch and new ways in life we might view retirement as a blessing and we look to relax. However, new home entertainment systems, places to forward to the peace, but when it is upon us many Australians go shopping and ways to lose weight appear to be much lower change direction completely and life hits a turn in the road. The on a person’s agenda. have worsened. The health of the Boomer clearly plays an important role in their life as they age. Considered as ‘vital’ in the local community in order of priority is: a local doctor, a school and families. On the other end of the scale, a park, post office and bank seem to be of less importance. At the age of forty and over, Boomers begin to look at new foods children have finally flown the nest, grandchildren might be on the way, and many more of us are volunteering and playing a role in the community. Some of us as we age will seek new and invigorating challenges. Others of us will settle into our local communities for a quieter life. With our life changes, so too do our attitudes and behaviours change. Below are the top ten people that boomers trust: 1. Ambulance service 2. Fire service 3. Nurses 4. Drugs/Medic recommendations by doctors In the two and a half years that Senioragency has been focussing on campaigns targeting the “older generation” we have 5. Police researched the attitudes of Baby Boomers as they age and have 6. Recommendations made by pharmacists made some interesting findings. 7. Vets For example, Australians have got high levels of confidence in 8. Advice from friends/relatives both the ambulance and fire services but not in the advice they 9. School teachers receive from their friends or relatives. They also have more trust 10. Scientists in the recommendations they attain from their doctor than they would from their children’s or grandchildren’s school teacher. The typical boomer wants to have confidence in their local services, especially those which are going to become Journalists are considered as the least trustworthy, followed by increasingly important as they age, such as the state services. It real estate agents and politicians in State Government. Boomers is important, therefore, for community focused organisations and are more likely to trust their local shop keeper than their religious local government to understand the demands of the ageing leader or their bank manager. There is also a clear shift in the attitude of Australians towards general services and how they think they have worsened or improved. According to the Boomers, where mobile phone carriers, pharmacies and domestic airlines have Boomer and to ensure that the services they require are both current and accessible. Chris Cormack Managing Director Senioragency Australia Buddha’s birthday George Hartnett Funerals in Brisbane were a major sponsor of the Buddha Birthday Festival held recently at Southbank Piazza and Parklands. This is a major multicultural event on the calendar in Brisbane, raising awareness of the Buddhist faith and theme of harmony. Attended by artistic performers from China and Taiwan, it is also supported by local and state government with many VIP’s in attendance. The George Hartnett’s sponsorship included signage in Southbank Parklands and a full width street banner in Fortitude Valley. The sponsorship was presented at the Chung Tian Temple which is the largest and main Buddhist Temple in Barry McIntosh – Location Manager George Hartnett Funerals in Holland Park, QLD From left, Even Chang – President Buddhist Light International Association Queensland, Rev.Shan – Chung Tian Temple, Barry McIntosh – George Hartnett Funerals, Holland Park, Mark Carey – Regional Manager, George Hartnett Funerals, Brisbane. ) Brisbane. It is visited by over 10,000 school children each year. Involve 21 Creature feature Guardian Funerals at Bankstown in Sydney worked with St Joachims Nursing Home at Lidcombe to do something a little different to bring together local school children and residents. Cheryl Prosser from Guardian and Maureen Ford, the Diversional Therapist for St Joachims, decided they could bring some ‘excitement’ to the event by bringing a reptile show to the Nursing Home. According to Cheryl, “The integration between the young school children who acted as helpers and the residents was wonderful. There were a lot of laughs and a plenty of good stories about their experiences with creepy crawlies. It sure gave everyone’s day a lift.” Put a smile on the face Bruce Maurer Funerals – a Guardian Funeral provider at Crows residents who are quite incapacitated, making balloon figures for Nest in Sydney – recently put on a B.B.Q. and entertainment day every resident to keep. at Venee Burges House for residents and staff at the Spastic Centre in Allambie Heights. Entertainment was arranged for the day including a juggler and a duo that play violin, piano and sing. Management and staff at the Spastic Centre always appreciate the day, but declared that we had excelled ourselves in that the twice yearly event that just keeps on getting better. Myself and Ian McEwan were the chefs de jour with steaks, sausages, gourmet rissoles and kebabs the staple and potato bake, egg pasta, coleslaw, potato and various salads to accompany. Giant and large pavlovas and American cheesecakes followed for sweets. Fortunately we have never struck a bad weather day and the staff are convinced that I have a direct line to heaven (their words) as the week of the B.B.Q. was not good and the day before quite horrendous. I admit that I do look up and say, “how about it!” The food and entertainment were an enormous success and the Peter Brock – Location Manager, Bruce Maurer Funerals a addition of the juggler brought wonderful results from the Guardian funeral provider in Crows Nest, NSW Senior’s week Purslowe Funerals Midland branch supported the recent Senior’s Week with a display at the Seniors Expo held at the local Midland Town Hall in the Eastern Suburbs of Perth. The expo was organised by the City of Swan Staff including Location Manager Raymond Letchford and Jennifer Ottaviano were present throughout the Expo to meet local seniors and discuss the services that Purslowe Funerals offer the community. Raymond and Jennifer were also able to discuss the benefits of planning ahead. The expo was a first for the location and resulted in some excellent exposure for the brand and the location. 22) Raymond Letchford – Location Manager and Jennifer Ottaviano at the Expo. Letters of thanks The following are excerpts from a collection of some of the letters of thanks sent in by the families we have serviced. Purslowe Funerals – Midland, WA Dear Jennifer, There are times that thankyou’s are simply not enough. An effort is White Lady Funerals – Plympton, SA Dear Ms Schubert, made for beyond what is expected from a person, even though it is their chosen profession. Last Friday, we held my Mother’s funeral at Plympton. When we were At a time when confusion and grief played a major role, with the arranging the funeral with Karen Hornhardt we thought there would be passing of our Mother you made what was a difficult task seem about 60 people attend, even my brothers agreed with us that it would effortless. Your organisation of Mothers Funeral was exceptional, be a small funeral as my mother was 86 years old and many of her nothing seemed too difficult or too much effort. Even work in your friends are no longer with us. Unfortunately, we were wrong and there own time. You treated both Mother and ourselves, we felt, with the ended up being a very large crowd…I would like to go on and say that utmost Patience and Respect. your staff were quite amazing. It must have been very difficult for all of them to cope with such numbers, however, they handled the situation in a very caring and professional manner, and we have not had one complaint or criticism from those who attended about the situation You changed our focus to one of being positive, We are now happy in the knowledge that Mother received the sort of Funeral she would have wanted and we, as a last respect, would have liked to have given to her. My father is 84 years of age and loosing his wife of almost 64 years was very difficult for him. When we met with Karen on Wednesday of last week to organize the funeral, Dad was quite distressed and Karen Rarely is there such a perfect marriage between a person and their chosen vocation. was a fantastic help in organizing the funeral, making suggestions to us For the lack of a better word ‘Thank You’, from our Family, from the and giving us time to make our decisions. At no time did we feel under bottom of our hearts. We will at every opportunity recommend you any pressure to rush our decision making or to make any and remember you fondly. Our love and best wishes we also extend arrangements to suit anyone but ourselves. She has the ability of to your Family and Pray that God will keep you in his care. making you feel very comfortable in such a stressful situation. She asked us questions about Mum, and Dad enjoyed recalling some of Rockwood Memorial Gardens and Crematorium – his memories of their time together. As the morning went on I could Rookwood, NSW see Dad becoming more relaxed and confident in making decisions and this was due purely to Karen’s patience and kind consideration. Dear Rosanna, I am writing to thank you and your staff for organising the Father’s When I attended to view Mum on Thursday and during the Funeral on Day Memorial Service. Friday, Karen was extremely attentive to all our needs. I have had friends and relations ask me for Karen’s name and to tell me how they noticed, even in the chaos of it all, how well she conducted the situation and how she cared for me and Dad. Keith Lammond conducted the proceedings in a very relaxed, friendly manner, whilst keeping a dignified tone, which I am sure, made each family present feel as though he was talking to them personally. They were very impressed with her and your organisation. The message cards were a great idea enabling us to express our This has continued in organising the collection of Mum’s ashes and in individual sentiments on that morning. The scattered rose petals the necessary paper work that I require. Karen has meticulously kept were lovely. us informed of the progress of events. The refreshments were most appreciated. I would like to thank your staff for giving my Mother a very personal and caring Funeral. I personally thank Karen for her kindness and support. It is a very difficult time when you loose your Mother and I certainly felt Karen’s Thank you Pinegrove Memorial Park – Minchinbury, NSW compassion and understanding as to how I was feeling. She became Dear Marie, a very good friend in just 2 days and her support was invaluable to me My family, would like to ‘Thank You very much’ for all you have done as I was dealing with the lost of my Mother and my Father’s grief. She for our mother. You have shown interest and kindness at our tragic was very professional in her approach to dealing with a difficult situation time. We will always appreciate everything you have done for us. with so many people and is obviously a great asset to your team. Mum would have too. ) Involve 23 The last word Horse & carriage Heavenly Voice Mail Have you every wondered what it would be like if God decided to install voice mail? Imagine praying and hearing: “Thank you for calling heaven. For English press 1, for Spanish press 2, for all other languages, press 3. Please select one of the following options: Press 1 for request, press 2 for thanksgiving, press 3 for complaints, press 4 for all others. I am sorry, all our Angels and Saints are busy helping other sinners right now. However, your prayer is important to us and we will answer it in the order it was received. Please stay on the line. If you would like to speak: God, press 1, Jesus, press 2, Holy Spirit, press 3. To find a loved one that has been assigned to heaven press 5, then enter this tax file number followed by the hash sign. (If you receive a negative response, please hang up and dial area code 666). For reservations to heaven, please enter JOHN followed by the numbers, 3 16. For answers to nagging questions about dinosaurs, life and other planets, please wait until you arrive in heaven for details. Provinciale Funerals at Coburg in Melbourne recently conducted a funeral for Giuseppe Brullo, who had grown up in Italy where he made a living as a carriage builder. When he passed away, his family wanted to do something personal for him that he Our computers show that you have already been prayed for today, would have appreciated. So the offer was made to use the Le please hang up and call again tomorrow. The office is now closed for Pine Funerals horse drawn hearse. the weekend to observe a religious holiday. If you are calling after hours and need emergency assistance, please contact your local pastor. Thank you and have a heavenly day. ••• Marc Ostrill arranged the funeral and he says, “As we left the church in a procession to the Mausoleum at Fawkner Cemetery, there were two beautiful white horses in control with all their funeral gear, including a black plumage. There were a few strange looks once we got underway. However when we arrived Joke at the Mausoleum with the family ready to carry the casket, you The relatives of the family's rich dowager gathered for the reading of could see the tears in the eyes expressing how pleased and her will after her long awaited death. proud Giuseppe would have been in making his final journey.” “Being of sound mind,” read the lawyer, “I spent every last cent before I died.” ••• A wife was dying and on her deathbed, she gave final instructions to her husband. “You've been so good to me all these years. I know you never even thought about another woman. But now that I’m going, I want you to marry again as soon as is possible and I want you to give your new wife all my expensive clothes.” “I can’t do that, darling,” the husband said. “You’re a size 16 and she’s only a 10. “ Involve welcomes your contributions: Involve Locked Bag 8000, Crows Nest NSW 2065 or fax to: 02 9978 5298 or email: [email protected] © InvoCare Limited ABN 42 096 437 393 24)