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bridal issue! - Women Magazine
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Green Bay | Appleton | Neenah/Menasha| Oshkosh | Fond du Lac mywomenmagazine.com MAY 17, 2016 Strength OF Sisterhood Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Northeast Wisconsin 18 contents SPECIAL SECTION | 5 Chic bridal styles by Kat Boogaard 6 10 BODY Summer dresses 12 HEALTH Skin saviors: prevent Melanoma 14 Unique wedding displays 6 by Lauren Waters | by Alison Ver Halen | by Emily Bowles COVER | Strength of sisterhood 18 by Jennifer Hogeland 28 Art of thank-you notes 30 ASPIRE Fit for summer 32 SPIRIT | Q&A with John Edward 34 MIND | Timeless traditions by Lu Ann Vander Zanden by Kelly Dvorak | 32 32 by Katie Ellingson 30 by Jennifer Hogeland Quilts on display in Green Bay 36 Checking In 4 Question of the Month 5 Around Town 37 Recipe 38 WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 34 3 checkingin Women Volume 14 Number 10 | May 17, 2016 Publisher Leslie Asare [email protected] Editor Jennifer Hogeland [email protected] Nancy Meilahn Marketing consultant [email protected] Kristine Schuetze Marketing consultant [email protected] Caryn Juidici Marketing consultant [email protected] Contributing writers Kat Boogaard, Kelly Dvorak, Katie Ellingson, Jennifer Hogeland, Lu Ann Vander Zanden, Alison Ver Halen, Lauren Waters Cover photography by Melody Wollangk, Limelite Studios, Oshkosh. Photo taken at University of Wisconsin – Oshkosh Alumni Welcome and Conference Center, Oshkosh. Women is published every four weeks by Asare Enterprises, LLC. Contents of this publication may not be reproduced in any form without the consent of the publisher. For a subscription to Women, send name, address & phone number to: Women, 1835 E. Edgewood Drive, Suite 105 #26, Appleton, WI 54913 or call 920-205-6407. Send $16 for 1 year/13 issues or $30 for a 2 year/26 issue subscription. Or e-mail us at [email protected]. i Attendees at the Delta Sigma Theta charter ceremony on April 2, 2016. f I learned one thing this month, it’s that we all have different strengths and talents. I’ve been training for months to run the Cellcom Marathon relay with my family — a challenge that has been on my bucket list. While I’ve always admired those that could run long distances with ease, I quickly discovered I’m not a natural. I’ll pass along the relay “baton” eventually but only because I’ve sweat through each training mile. My talents lie elsewhere. One of the things I admire about the 11 amazing women on our cover this month is they not only understand where their strengths are, but they are also using these to better the community. They have the connections and the passion to make an impact. Just over a month ago, this group of women got together to charter an alumnae chapter of Delta Sigma Theta, a sorority dedicated to doing good. As we start a new season, I challenge you to take a moment to assess the gifts you were given and make the most of these. And, push yourself out of your comfort zone once in a while — it feels amazing to accomplish something once thought out of reach! Happy reading! Jennifer Hogeland, editor [email protected] 4 Women I MAY 17, 2016 Questionof the Month SUMMER Must-do list? What's at the top of your Being in education, I typically center my summer around reflecting on the previous school year and what I can do to better meet the needs of learners in the fall. While I will continue those practices, I also plan to find ways to serve others this summer. I feel that I may be able to better rejuvenate my mind and spirit through giving, as well as soaking up the sun with a good read in hand! Jocelyn Hischke, Little Suamico Summer in Wisconsin is my favorite time of year. I look forward to many backyard parties with our friends and neighbors, playing yard games, grilling out and enjoying patio fires while roasting marshmallows to perfection. Maria Young, Wrightstown The top of my summer to-do list is: • Enjoy more active outdoor activities with my husband and kids — and attend the Heart Walk! • Do a lot of boating with my family and friends. • Have our annual “River Tube Day and Shopping Getaway Weekend” with the girls. • Clean and organize my garage. • Have a BLAST with my 40 family members from Chicago that stay and celebrate Fourth of July with us at our home every year! Marla Sparks, Shawano This summer the top of my to-do list is to master standup paddleboarding. It’s such a terrific ab workout combined with spending quality time on the lake. Sarah Fairchild, Green Bay The top of my summer must-do list is pretty simple — spending as much time as possible enjoying family, friends and the great outdoors! Diane Meyer, Oshkosh Top of my summer must-do list is to dance! Dance at area outdoor concerts, dance at Summerfest, dance on stage with the Riverside Players and anywhere else the summer breeze takes me! Pamela M. Barnes, Neenah Take my 85-year-old mother and her two sisters to Door County for a girl’s weekend. Mary Beth Leopold, Appleton 5 CHIC 5 SPECIAL SECTION wedding BRIDAL 6 STYLES Women I MAY 17, 2016 ˛˛ STRAPLESS DRESSES ARE STILL POPULAR, BUT STRAPS AND SLEEVES ARE DEFINITELY MAKING A COMEBACK. t’s one of the biggest days of your life. Those doors open and all eyes are on you as you take your walk down the aisle toward the person you’ll spend the rest of your life with. Naturally, you want to look and feel your very best. ˛˛ I by KAT BOOGAARD There are so many elements involved with a wedding. But, arguably one of the most important details for the bride is her gown. While not every bride-to-be is into a trendy look, some love to be on the cutting edge of what’s happening in bridal fashion. Two local wedding experts revealed five of the latest styles for that big day. 1. Lace Photograph courtesy of Dana Grant Photography USA Lace is always a classic and timeless look for your wedding day, and the delicate fabric continues to see a lot of popularity when it comes to bridal gowns. “We see a lot of lace,” explains Carlene DelBianco, bridal consultant at Elaine’s Wedding Center in Green Bay. “Many brides are going back to a more vintage look.” The material is feminine and intricate, making it a perfect choice for a stunning dress. 2. Straps and sleeves “Strapless dresses are still popular, but straps and sleeves are definitely making a comeback,” shares Brenda Kilheffer, owner of Tie the Knot Bridal in Green Bay. Often, the addition of straps is a gorgeous detail, and also means the bride can WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 7 wedding Making every event memorable. dance the night away without worrying about her dress continuing to slip down. Three-quarter-length sleeves are also a popular pick, particularly for fall and winter weddings with colder weather. 3. Illusion necklines It’s all about the details, and illusion necklines created using tulle are a great way to add even more visual interest to your dress. Whether beaded or bare, they add a touch of glamour to a simple wedding gown. 4. Floral headpieces Veils will always remain a classic choice for brides, but floral headpieces are another beautiful option to accessorize the dress. “Floral garlands, using either real or silk flowers, are the new trend for 2016,” explains Kilheffer. They’re especially big among brides who are aiming for a more relaxed, bohemian look on their wedding day. Grand Meridian 5. Cathedral veils 2621 N. Oneida Street Appleton | 920.968.2621 www.thegrandmeridian.com While floral headpieces might be suitable for some brides, there are still plenty who want to stick with something more traditional — a veil. “There’s been a lot of interest in the cathedral-length veils, which are veils that extend the length of the gown or even past,” says DelBianco. “It’s the perfect dramatic finishing touch,” adds Kilheffer. Illusion neckline 3177 French Road• De Pere, WI 54115 920.532.4811 Pick a location… one of ours or yours! Your wedding day is a special moment in time. From exchanging vows in our beautiful garden gazebo or the arbor under the willows, to celebrating at your festive reception,The Marq makes every part of your day memorable. Introducing a new Suamico location! 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Finding your dress is much like finding your partner — you’ll know when you’ve found “the one,” regardless of whether it’s considered trendy or not. And, if you feel beautiful in it, then it’s a good choice. Kilheffer concludes, “It’s always a good look if you look good in it.” ” w WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM Off Site Catering for up to 2000 Approved CorporateCaterer Events for: ~ Fox Cities PAC Weddings The Outer Edgefor up to 2000 Off~ Site Catering ~ HistoryCaterer Museumfor: at the Castle Approved ~ Homestead Meadows Fox Cities PAC ~ The Trout Museum Outer Edge of Art ~ History Museum at the Castle ~ Homestead Meadows ~ Trout Museum of Art AWARD WIN NIN G 30 DOWNTOWN APPLETON 920-731-7271 michielsfoxbanquets.com 9 SPECIAL SECTION wedding by LAUREN WATERS UNIQUE WEDDING DISPLAYS COUPLES SHOWCASE THEIR PERSONALITY E very couple has a one-of-a-kind love story to tell, and their wedding day is the perfect place to share it with their loved ones. Do the bride and groom share a passion for the outdoors? Or maybe they’re both great cooks and love exquisite cuisine. Whatever their interests and personality, there are wonderfully unique ways of displaying this on their special day. Let your personality shine Jennifer Michiels, sales and marketing director at Fox Banquets Rivertyme Catering in Appleton, says brides and grooms want to personalize their wedding so it reflects the couple and their favorite things. “I think a couple tends to pick out a theme and tries to stick with it throughout the entire wedding process,” Michiels shares. “They start with it for the save-the-dates and continue it all the way through the wedding day.” Johanna Wittmann, owner of Witt & Co. Events in Oshkosh, agrees. She says a wedding should be a reflection of the bride and groom and how they are as a couple. “A wedding should be cohesive throughout to really share their personality,” she shares. “Each couple is different and oftentimes they like to showcase their shared hobbies through their decor.” 10 Wittmann has seen couples incorporate their hobbies into wedding displays in many fun ways — one hobby being hunting. “This doesn’t mean the wedding must have camouflage,” she explains. “I’ve seen beautiful weddings that are hunting-themed with faux antlers spray-painted gold as part of the centerpieces, monograms with an elegant antler accent and place card holders made from shotgun shells.” Women I MAY 17, 2016 Wittmann explains if a couple shares a love of baseball, they might incorporate their favorite team’s colors or have a snack station with popcorn, peanuts and other baseballthemed goodies at their wedding. Jeff Larson, director of marketing with the Landmark Resort in Egg Harbor, says he’s seen a couple display their love of the outdoors by using rocks they had collected on their hikes as part of each table’s centerpiece. Morgan Mann, who does marketing for Jason Mann Photography, recalls one particular wedding held at the Landmark Resort where the bride and groom’s central theme was displayed beautifully. “The couple went over-the-top romantic and rustic with their decor,” she explains. “Big barrels topped with leaded glass held a display of past family wedding portraits.” Table displays Wittmann says the entrance table is a spot couples can really personalize. Since it usually holds the place cards or seating assignments, she reveals couples can use these to create a statement. “The most unique place cards I’ve seen are sports tickets for football fans, airline baggage tags for world-travelers assigning guests to a destination-named table and wooden coasters made from the family’s trees and stamped with the guests’ names,” she adds. CONTINUED ON PAGE 37 V oted Best of Door County Your Beautiful Day on a Beautiful Bay The Landmark Resort provides the scenic beauty of the bluff overlooking the bay of Green Bay - a picture-perfect backdrop for your special day. With forty acres of beautiful wooded grounds, distinctive rooms, full bar, acclaimed food and beverage service ... the Landmark Resort is one of Door County's premier wedding locations. Outstanding Catering Enjoy elegant luxury and generous hospitality while celebrating your special union. Our wedding coordinator will work out all the details. Great Value in Lodging All suites | Free wireless internet | Great water view Centrally located | Indoor pool open 24/7 Voted “Best Customer Service” - Door County Magazine Voted “Best Wedding Venue” - Door County Magazine Voted “Best Lodging” - Door County Magazine 4929 Landmark Drive Egg Harbor, WI 54209 800-273-7877 thelandmarkresort.com WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 11 BODY fashion by ALISON VER HALEN summer Dresses FLOWERS AND PASTELS ARE RIGHT ON TREND W hen most of us think of spring and summer, we think of flowers. So it only makes sense that women would think the same when shopping for warm weather dresses. Kim Verheyden, the owner of Apricot Lane in Green Bay, confirms this is a big trend she’s been seeing in spring and summer dresses this year. “Definitely lots of floral,” says Verheyden. “Whether it’s pink rose colors, greens or blues, it’s really huge.” For colors, Verheyden says the lighter shades are very popular. “We’re seeing lots of pastels,” she adds. Tina Palmer, the owner of Vintique in Neenah, agrees that pastels and 12 lighter shades are big this year. “The popular colors this year are white on white, ivory, pink and navy,” she says. When it comes to styles, Palmer says they’re seeing a lot of vintage. “We’re seeing casual dresses that entail a great deal of 1970s influence with ivory and crochet,” says Palmer. But there are also options for the more modern consumer. “Justabove-the-knee lengths and the cutWomen I MAY 17, 2016 WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM Gree nB a PDQ Manufac ers & turi ack ng yP Ju t: sen Pre out shoulder with drop sleeves are very popular as well,” adds Palmer. Verheyden explains they’re seeing two main styles at Apricot Lane. “There’s the more fitted style at the waist, with some lace detailing, and a more open back,” she says. “And there’s the looser style with a bralette or bandeau underneath — more of a handkerchiefstyle dress.” According to Verheyden, what customers choose often depends on where they intend to wear their new dress. “Our customers really love more of a fitted style for weddings or bachelorette parties or date night,” adds Verheyden. If they want the looser styles, Apricot Lane can help their customers out there as well, and not just in supplying the dress itself. “We have a wide variety of bandeaus and lace bralettes that go under more of a loose-fitting dress,” said Verheyden. Apricot Lane gets their dresses from the L.A. fashion district, but that doesn’t mean they only have dresses that look good on hangers. They have a wide variety of dresses and are happy to help their customers find something that looks best on their particular body type. For some general guidelines, Verheyden suggests fitted dresses for the smaller ladies. “I would say a petite girl is going to go for more of an A-line dress that’s fitted at the waist,” adds Verheyden. “For somebody who is a little bit curvier, I would suggest going with more of a shift-dress style where it’s a little bit looser. If you’re a curvy girl, wearing something tight doesn’t always work out.” Girls with fuller figures can also take advantage of ruches, which are strips of pleated fabric that are used to trim or finish a dress. “If you have ruching at the sides, or throughout the dress, it creates a seamless look and distracts from areas you might not want people to focus on,” says Verheyden. “It accents the curves nicely and accentuates the waistline.” w ne 16 9, 2 0 Thursday, June 9, 2016 5:00 - 8:00 p.m. KI Convention Center, Green Bay, WI Join us for a spectacular evening filled with delicious food, desserts, martinis, wines and specialty beers. Nearly 40 of the area’s finest establishments participate and serve their best, including: Republic Chophouse; Black & Tan Grille; 1919 Kitchen & Tap; Brett Favre’s Steakhouse; Plae Bistro; Bonsai Sushi & Asian Cuisine and Cheese Cake Heaven – to name a few. Plus enjoy an impressive auction, inspiring program featuring wish children and more! Reserve Your Spot Today! 920-993-9994 or email [email protected] Only $50 per ticket or $1,000 per Corporate Table Corporate Table Benefits: • Enjoy a reserved table with premium seating for 8 with wine • Special recognition during the event To benefit: Help make wishes come true for local children battling life-threatening medical conditions. Sponsored by: northcoast PRODUCTIONS MARKETING & EVENTS MARKETING DESIGN PROMOTION EVENTS www.wisconsin.wish.org 13 HEALTH skin cancer by EMILY BOWLES SKIN SAVIORS: MINIMIZE RISK TO HELP PREVENT MELANOMA A fter months of frigid temperatures and early sunsets, we’re all craving sunshine — and not just for its therapeutic doses of vitamin D. Before you spend too much time absorbing those UV rays, though, take some time to look at your skin and schedule an appointment with your dermatologist. Then fill your favorite tote bag with some must-have items to take in some rays without the risks. Check yourself “Melanoma is the deadliest form of skin cancer and is best treated early,” explains Dr. Michelle Lewis of Forefront Dermatology in Appleton. “Fortunately, when it is detected early, the five-year survival rate is 98 percent.” 14 That means it is critical for people to know their bodies and keep an eye on moles. “One of my personal physician friends had a changing mole on his abdomen,” explains Dr. Edward Szabo, dermatologist at Primary Care Associates in Appleton. “It was removed and 20 years later doing well.” “Melanoma is best detected through a combination of self-skin exams that individuals perform at home on themselves, in combination with professional skin examinations with a dermatologist or other health care provider skilled in Women I MAY 17, 2016 skin cancer and melanoma detection,” says Lewis. Technology can also be a surprising friend to your skin. “If you have lots of moles, have yourself or family members put small ruler next to a lesion and take a picture with your cellphone,” Szabo says. “Keep tabs on what it looks like, any changes, and if changes are noted see your doctor and bring pictures.” Plastic Surgery & Skin Specialists by BayCare Clinic® One in five Americans will develop skin cancer in the course of a lifetime. (Skin Cancer Foundation) Know your risks — and reduce them “Melanoma is best prevented through avoidance of UV exposure,” says Lewis. “Not surprisingly, melanoma risk increases as we age.” He explains people with fair skin, light eyes and red/ blond hair face higher risks. “A history of significant sunburns, having a first-degree relative with melanoma and a personal history of other cancers also increases one’s risk,” adds Lewis. “Make sure to use sunblock rather than suntan lotion and wear clothing that minimizes exposure such as light dry-fit shirts and large-brimmed hats,” says Szabo. And, remember tanning booths are never safe. “Tanning is the skin’s response to DNA damage from harmful UV rays,” explains Lewis. “You cannot get a tan without increasing your risk of developing cancer. And tanning is also a common cause of early aging of the skin.” JUne is National The best treatment is early detection. Contact us if you notice any unusual skin changes. We can evaluate whether your skin condition is cancerous. Nick Grimm, PA-C Nick Grimm offers a full array of dermatology services. For appointments call 288-8240. Expect the Best.® baycareplasticsurgery.com Green Bay Oshkosh Sturgeon Bay Cancer survivor Month. BCPS_Women's Magazine_Nick.indd 1 5/9/2016 11:35:19 AM As the incidence of cancer across the globe surges at the same time that survival rates improve due to improved screening and more effective therapies, more and more people are living with a history of cancer. In America, 14 million people are survivors of cancer, but the burden of the disease carries on after the final treatment is administered. Issues facing cancer survivors include the physical effects of treatment, the emotional scars that remain and the fear of recurrence, and the financial burdens that result from facing a life-threatening illness. There is so much pressure that causes cancer patients to focus on the uncertainty of the future that it’s easy to forget to live in the present, and to focus on being a survivor. A person with cancer does not have to be in remission to be considered a cancer survivor – every day of life means that they are a cancer survivor. Kevan G Lewis, MD American Board of Dermatology Certified If you can spot it, you can stop it. Skin cancer is the most common of all cancers, afflicting more than two million Americans each year. Skin cancers found and removed early are almost always curable. If you spot anything suspicious, see a board-certified dermatologist. For an appointment, call 920.965.0345 2500 E. Capitol Dr, Appleton | 2021 S. Webster Ave, Green Bay Located at Encircle Health 141 Siegler St, Green Bay Across from St. Mary’s Hospital BETTER DERMATOLOGY CARE IN EVERY WAY WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM | 3263 Eaton Rd, Green Bay In Bellin Family Medical Center www.newdermgroup.com 15 Pack your bags Now that you know what to look for and how to avoid some major risk factors, get ready to spend time in the sunshine with less fear and more freedom. “Fill your melanoma tool kit with a broad spectrum sunscreen with SPF of at least 30, a broad-brimmed hat, sunglasses and possibly a vitamin D supplement,” says Lewis. Skip the tanning bed and save the money so you can splurge on a facial. Your skin will thank you by looking younger. You’ll also boost your longevity and put on a beautiful face as you encounter all of the outdoor adventures the sunnier days are sure to bring. w A Closer ROOTS ON 9 Look TH Roots on 9th opened in late April. Located at 1369 9th Street in Green Bay, the floral design company and greenhouse finds its inspiration through nature and the use of texture. Owner Jamie Hemenway-Peotter brings years of experience and an eye for floral arranging to Roots on 9th. She opened the shop so she had an opportunity to design with cut flowers for weddings and special events as well as grow annuals, succulents, vegetables, herbs and assemble unusual container plants. 16 ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS Premier Health, S.C. SPECIALIZING IN PRIMARY CARE • Kidney Diseases • Diabetes • High Blood Pressure • COPD • Thyroid & Heart Disease 1540 Lyon Drive, Neenah • 920.727.4946 premierhealthsc.com IFUEKO OKUNDAYE, M.D. RED DOOR MERCANTILE In early April, Red Door Mercantile welcomed shoppers into its shop at 130 W. Wisconsin Avenue, Neenah. This modern day general store features home décor, household items and eclectic gifts. Within the shop, you’ll find farmhouse kitchen goods, Pendleton blankets, paper goods, chalk paint, old-fashioned candy and more. Tina Palmer, operator of Vintique, a vintage clothing boutique across the street from Red Door Mercantile, is thrilled to share her love of vintage by selling rustic objects that fit beautifully in most décor styles. Women I MAY 17, 2016 Find it. Treat it. Beat it. sign that it is growing or changing. Larger moles that have been stable for an extended period of time isn’t typically cause for concern, though continued observation is recommended. Evolution – Part of the reason regular self-screenings are effective is because you’ll more easily notice when moles grow in size, shape or color – indicating melanoma. A GUIDE TO MELANOMA SELF-SCREENING The earlier you can find cancer, the better your odds are to beat it – and it’s no different with melanoma. While yearly skin screenings are recommended for those over the age of 25, it’s never too early to start performing monthly self-screenings. In honor of Melanoma Awareness Month, here’s a guide to skin cancer self-screening. What to Do If You Find Something “The most important step in melanoma treatment is scheduling a skin check and getting a biopsy,” says Dr. Lisa Campbell, board certified dermatologist and Mohs surgeon at the Forefront Dermatology clinics in Appleton, De Pere, Marinette and Hudson. “The earlier melanoma is discovered, the better the outcome.” Melanoma is basically a mole gone awry. When identifying potential trouble spots, remember your ABCDEs. Asymmetry – If you draw a line through the middle of the benign mole, the two halves should roughly match. If not, it may be a sign of melanoma. Borders – The edges of a benign mole are smooth and even. Scalloped, rough, or notched edges are indicative of early stage melanoma. Color – Most benign moles are fairly even-colored. Melanoma may be multiple shades of brown, black, red, white or even blue. Diameter – Benign moles are typically smaller than malignant ones. If its diameter is greater than a pencil eraser, it may be a Experts. Partners. Neighbors. courtesy of Skin Cancer Foundation What You’re Looking For Regular self-examinations coupled with a yearly physical with your dermatologist can catch melanoma at its earliest, most treatable stages – and may very well save your life. Should you find a troubling spot, visit a skin care expert that has the advanced training to make sure you have an accurate diagnosis, innovative treatment options and, most importantly, the best possible outcome. Courtesy of Forefront Dermatology Lisa Campbell, MD Victoria Negrete, MD Michelle Lewis, MD Welcoming new patients! 8 convenient locations in the Fox Valley To make an appointment call 920-785-6579 or visit ForefrontDermatology.com WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 17 COVER Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Strength of sisterhood AREA WOMEN CHARTER A GRADUATE CHAPTER OF DELTA SIGMA THETA 18 Women I MAY 17, 2016 COVER PHOTOGRAPHY BY MELODY WOLLANGK, LIMELITE STUDIOS, OSHKOSH. PHOTO TAKEN AT UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN – OSHKOSH ALUMNI WELCOME AND CONFERENCE CENTER, OSHKOSH. by JENNIFER HOGELAND Sitting (l to r): Robyn Davis, Valerie Hines, Daphne Lewis and Kimberly Watts Standing (l to r): Jenene Calloway, Brittany Grimes Zaehringer, Veronica Warren, Dr. Omobolade DelanoOriaran, Ameerah McBride, Joi Kennedy Brown and Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni) WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 19 Delta Sigma Theta Sorority B ring a group of community-minded women together and great things are sure to happen. On April 2, 2016, just over a dozen women chartered a chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, a sorority new to Northeast Wisconsin. Members represent communities from Fond du Lac to Green Bay. “Sisterhood, our history in African-American experiences and service to our communities tie us together,” says member Dr. Omobolade Delano-Oriaran. Delta Sigma Theta is an international organization of college-educated women committed to the development of its members and to public service. The sorority’s primary focus is on the black community. Since its founding in 1913, more than 200,000 women have joined Delta Sigma Theta. There are more than 1,000 collegiate and alumnae chapters. The Northeast Wisconsin chapter includes women from nonprofit and for-profit organizations, educational institutions and more. The sorority sisters believe they’ll be able to increase their impact through collective power by tapping into their resources to influence social change. “While we could accomplish things on our own or individually, it will certainly be a lot more impactful to be part of a movement of women all focused on similar goals and initiatives,” says Brittany Grimes Zaehringer. Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni) explains the women are tied together under the core values of the organization, known as the Five Point Program Thrust — economic development, educational development, international awareness and involvement, physical and mental health and political awareness and involvement. “Because we have dedicated our lives to making the communities we live in and those around us better, the energy, passion and commitment among us allows us to come up with innovative ways to best serve,” adds Jenene Calloway. Lardinois explains, “Establishing the graduate chapter of the sorority will allow us to bring together our collective skills and resources to continue the work toward building positive communities for current and future generations to live, grow and prosper.” Thirteen members of the Northeast Wisconsin chapter of Delta Sigma Theta agreed to reveal why they joined the sorority and share their impact on the community. Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni) Principal, Green Bay Public School District Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? In college I knew and believed in the core values of the organization around public service and wanted to be a part of making a contribution to the organization. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? 20 Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni) I hope that my work in the public sector for the past 26 years will connect us to resources and opportunities we can use to help others. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? Hands down, I am most passionate about educating and supporting our youth. They are our future and they deserve to have access to quality education and career opportunities. How are you personally making an impact on the community? Personally I give my time to the youth at my school promoting education with my students. I have been very involved in political efforts, and on the lighter side enjoyed dancing with the Nia African Dance group. Your professional impact? I am actively involved in school at the building and district level as we continuously explore best strategies to improve learning opportunities for our students and staff. What is something few people know about you? I am a daredevil at heart. Women I MAY 17, 2016 Veronica Warren Associate Director of the Counseling Center, University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? Although I witnessed the public service activities that the sorority conducted on the University of Michigan campus, it was a personal conversation with Dr. Alexa Canady that solidified my decision to be a part this great sorority. I was so humbled by the fact that the first female African-American neurosurgeon took the time out of her busy schedule to talk to me and share her passion and love for Delta. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? A lifetime of leadership skills and genuine love for people. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? Providing the community with an image of educated African-American women who want to be an influential part of their communities by empowering and educating others. How are you personally making an impact on the community? • Continually motivating students to push beyond their perceived boundaries. • Founder of D.I.A.M.O.N.D Girlz. Your professional impact? • Promoting wellness through mental health services at the Counseling Center. • Implemented a Multicultural Process Group. What is something few people know about you? I was a cheerleader in high school and I am still cheering people on to reach their goals. Ameerah N. McBride Ameerah N. McBride Special assistant to the Chancellor, Director of Equity and Affirmative Action, Title IX Coordinator, University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh Veronica Warren WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? I joined Delta Sigma Theta because I wanted to align myself with a group of college-educated women dedicated to service. After learning the history of the sorority, knowing that the founders’ first public act was participation in the 1913 Women’s Suffrage March, made Delta Sigma Theta an obvious choice for me. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? 21 Delta Sigma Theta Sorority My greatest contribution will be my continued active membership, service to my community as well as leadership on the local, regional and national levels. How are you personally making an impact on the community? I am currently a member of several community organizations that work within the African-American community to provide empowerment to students and parents through advocacy work. I also serve as a board member on several community-based organizations such as the Head Start Board of Advisors. Your professional impact? Professionally, I work within the university community to ensure fair and equitable hiring practices, as well as equitable treatment for all members of the university community. I also provide counseling, guidance and insight to community organizations regarding university policies. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? Leveraging my experience in business to help the chapter establish clear and focused objectives, goals, strategies and measures for our first few formative years. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? Disadvantaged children. How are you personally making an impact on the community? Volunteering with the local Girls Scout Troop 2101. Your professional impact? I am an active mentor to up-and-coming marketing managers at Kimberly-Clark. What is something few people know about you? I am a devoted wife to Leonard and mother to Lena, 11, and Levi, 9. When I’m not traveling the globe, I enjoy celebrating any and every accomplishment from a game win, to a good grade on an assignment to turning another year old. Daphne C. Lewis Vice President-Branch Manager, JPMorgan Chase Bank Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? I was motivated by collegiate sorors who supported a college prep summer program that I attended throughout high school. Kimberly Watts Kimberly Watts Global Marketing Director-Feminine Care, Kimberly-Clark Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? The members of my alma mater, Theta Zeta, exemplified the type of women I aspired to be. They were not only beautiful and sophisticated, but they were passionate about their public service and had tons of fun doing it. They demonstrated how helping others is a great way to bond and feel great. 22 Daphne C. Lewis Women I MAY 17, 2016 What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? Cultivating a safe and inclusive learning environment for our children in the state of Wisconsin. How are you personally making an impact on the community? I’m serving as Associate Pastor at Bethel Worship Center in Oshkosh, under Senior Pastors Joe Sr. and Chaun Butler. Robyn Y. Davis President, Freedom House Ministries, Inc. Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? As a junior attending a predominantly white university, I was looking to connect with other young women of color for sisterhood, support and service to the community. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? My connections in the Green Bay area with local organizations and individuals will be helpful as we establish Robyn Y. Davis The Northeast Wisconsin Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta pose for a photo at their charter event. WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 23 Delta Sigma Theta Sorority our service to the community along with my passion to encourage others to reach their full potential whether it is in their homes, professions, community or in the church. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? I am most passionate about encouraging and walking alongside families in their journeys to become self-sufficient. How are you personally making an impact on the community? I believe I am making an impact personally through my ongoing involvement at my home church, Living Hope in Green Bay, as well as the relationships I have developed while serving in other community organizations. Your professional impact? By working collaboratively with other organizations to shatter the stereotypes about homeless individuals and families and seeking solutions to end of homelessness in our community. My compassion for humanity and my empathy to pass a blessing forward. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? Abuse; socio-economic disparity. How are you personally making an impact on the community? By taking on the following roles: secretary for my church, Bethel Worship Center; Girl ScoutTroop 2101 volunteer leader for the Brownies and Juniors; member of the prison ministry at Bethel Worship Center; substitute teacher to show a more positive role for African Americans. Your professional impact? I believe I accomplish this by participating in the Oshkosh Farmers Market spreading the word of the Gospel by selling prayer pillows with scriptural verses, KJV, screen-printed on the face of the pillow. What is something few people know about you? I was a member of a Disaster Medical Assistance Team. Brittany Grimes Zaehringer, Esq., MSSA Human Resources Director, Brown County, Wisconsin Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? My mother, a retired school teacher, is one of my biggest role models. She is a Golden Life Member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. I also believe in the sorority’s mission and it aligns well with my personal values. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution Valerie A. Hines Valerie A. Hines Owner/CEO, Inspired Creations by Valerie Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? Delta Sigma Theta Sorority represents the mission, vision and impact on society I desire to be a member of. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? 24 Brittany Grimes Zaehringer Women I MAY 17, 2016 to the sorority? During this startup phase, I believe that my greatest contributions will be my knowledge of the sorority and its operations — as an active member for 20 years I’ve held various local and national leadership positions — along with my background in compliance and internal controls. As the chapter matures, I believe that my expertise in grant writing, program development and evaluation will help us expand our programming and measure its impact. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? I am excited to learn about where our sorority’s programmatic thrusts align with the community’s needs. As a small chapter, we have to be strategic about where we focus our resources. How are you personally making an impact on the community? I just moved to this community less than eight weeks ago. I believe that the sorority will be my entrance into serving this community. In the past, I’ve served on over 30 nonprofit boards and committees to improve my community. leaders in the community and just classy. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? Now at 84 years old, I want to share the wisdom that comes with age and life experiences. I am also the cheerleader, encouraging for my young sorors to be leaders in their communities, to go that extra mile, to a make a difference. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? Serving as mentors to the youth in this community especially in these turbulent times. Our young people need to understand the sacrifices made in the past and to take control of their own destiny — to become the best they can be. How are you personally and professionally making an impact on the community? I still utilize my skills as an educator to consult on service programs dealing with youth. Imogene B. Edwards Retired Educator, Retired Gary Community Schools, Adjunct Professor at IVY Tech Community College, Educational Consultant State of Indiana Impact Program Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? As a teenager, the women I admired most in my community were all members of Delta. They were educated, Imogene B. Edwards Joi Kennedy Brown Joi Kennedy Brown Supplier Manager, Pierce Manufacturing (An OSHKOSH Corp. Company) Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? I grew up surrounded by Delta women. They were my role models, my heroes, including my mother Imogene B. Edwards. They instilled in me the importance of serving and giving back to the community. They preached WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 25 Delta Sigma Theta Sorority that it’s important to take action where there is a need and not to wait for others — to be one of the driving forces for change and improvement. What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? Persistence and determination are my greatest strengths. I keep pushing for those things I believe in. The establishment of this chapter is one of those things. It took more than 18 years but now we a have Northeast Wisconsin Alumnae chapter. What are you most passionate about in terms of the community? Providing programs for our youth. Providing resources for them to grow, academically, personally and spiritually. How are you personally and professionally making an impact on the community? Currently, I am on the board for Building for Kids Children’s Museum in Appleton. I have also served on the several other local boards. Jenene N. Calloway, M.S. Partner Development Team Leader, Schreiber Foods Incorporated Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? Fourteen years ago, when I joined, I wanted to join like-minded women in understanding the needs of our commuJenene N. Calloway nity and strategically work together to close the gap. What are you most passionate about in Skills developed through my coaching/teaching are terms of the community? what I believe to be nuggets to help people understand I am passionate about helping single moms and dads each other better and help them reach their highest get back on their feet so they can support their family potential. and helping women build the confidence they need to accomplish their personal and professional goals. Dr. Sylvia Carey-Butler, Assistant How are you personally making an impact on the Vice Chancellor Academic Support of Inclusive Excellence, community? University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh I frequently have the opportunity of participating in events that educate the community on topics around diWhy did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? versity and inclusion. By providing and participating in I knew I would become a “Delta” when I was a young these opportunities, I am hoping that my sons will grow girl. There were several professional African American up and continue to be comfortable in a predominantly women in my community in upstate New York that I Caucasian community as African American men. wanted to emulate. Your professional impact? What are you most passionate about in terms of the In my roles at work and in the community, I provide community? coaching, mentoring and training on a variety of topics. I have spent my life moving young people from un- 26 Women I MAY 17, 2016 What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority? My contribution to the community is a reflection of my academic background and expertise: ensuring that African American/Black children have access to quality public education, which I am already doing through African Heritage, Inc. How are you personally making an impact on the community? I am blessed that my professional life intersects with my personal life, giving me the opportunities to transfer my academic interests and expertise to responding to the needs of my community. Your professional impact? My work at St. Norbert is to provide new teachers the tools and abilities to work with diverse communities and break down stereotypes of race. The future generations in my community will have competent, knowledgeable and compassionate teachers able to navigate difficult questions on race, gender and other difficult topics surrounding privilege. w Dr. Sylvia Carey-Butler certainty to success through education. I want AfricanAmerican youth, especially girls, to understand the power and transformational nature of an education. How are you personally and professionally making an impact on the community? I give back as often as I can by responding to as many requests to speak or facilitate inclusive excellence conversations as my schedule will allow. I can always do more. I am a firm believer that you must give back to the communities in which you reside. Currently, I am the chair of the Oshkosh Housing Authority Board and the Vice Chair of the Oshkosh Area Food Pantry Board. What is something few people know about you? I am married to Master Sergeant (Retired) Paul E. Butler and have three children: Evian, Delano and Xavier. Dr. Omobolade Delano-Oriaran Associate Professor of Education, St. Norbert College, De Pere, WI Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta? I became a member in fall 1985 while attending Savannah State University. I joined because of its commitment to academic excellence, focus on professional black women and dedication to public service. Furthermore, as a woman of Nigerian descent, I wanted to be part of a global organization of movers and shakers committed to social action in our world. WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM Dr. Omobolade Delano-Oriaran 27 MIND wedding traditions by LU ANN VANDER ZANDEN TIMELESS TRADITIONS W eddings reflect a variety of ethnic, religious, social and regional traditions. In some small communities, the “open church” tradition is popular. It simply means that everyone is invited. In the South, reception guests sign a book for the couple. That tradition has changed in our area to include a variety of signature options — the family tree and signing a picture frame has become very popular. In some places, family and friends make a wedding quilt for the couple and this can be given either as a wedding gift or a shower gift. Fortunately, some traditions have not survived. In the 18th century, a marriage race was common. As soon as the ceremony was over, everyone raced out of the church door to the wedding feast at the bride’s home. What did the winner get? The first piece of bridal cake or a cup of soup or porridge — and the 28 luck that supposedly came from being first. In 1775, a law stated that a young woman could not be married wearing makeup. Makeup was considered an ensnarement and the wedding would not be legitimate because the groom would have been trapped by the illusion of beauty. And one favorite tradition has evolved from necessity. Today’s bride throws her bouquet so that her unmarried friends can “catch” some luck in romance. But the custom actually started as a form of defense. Centuries ago, the belief in the mystical value of a bride’s adornments prompted friends and strangers alike to try to grab a piece of her outfit. Eventually, a clever bride found that by flinging her flowers away from herself, the crowd would have something to fight over and she could escape. Now the bride throws her bouquet as a signal to the guests that the reception is almost over. When possible, she should choose a picturesque setting where guests can catch one last glimpse of her wedding finery before she tosses the bouquet. Until the 1500s, the lavish weddings of royalty were often paid for by taxes levied on landowners. By the 1600s the custom changed. According to historical sources, the wedding of Princess Elizabeth to Frederick of Bohemia cost her father the equivalent of about $5 million in today’s currency. Today’s brides are part of the ever-evolving “look” of weddings. Experienced consultants can help create a wedding that will make history! w Lu Ann Vander Zanden is owner of Bridal Elegance and Formalwear in Kaukauna. Women I MAY 17, 2016 perfect finding the Choosing the right wedding professional can make a difference between an average event and a memorable one. When selecting a vendor, be sure to research all of the services they provide and the cost associated with each. Utilizing a source that provides and facilitates multiple services can be beneficial in the following ways: • Streamlined and efficient delivery, set-up and retrieval of wedding and décor items. • A better understanding of how to achieve a desired budget. • Overall cohesiveness of décor, style, color and theme. • Fewer points of contact and less chance of a mistake when discussing details of the day. match When selecting a florist, it’s helpful to share images through social media outlets, such as Pinterest boards or e-mailing images directly. Because each event and venue is unique, it’s not often the designer will do something exactly as pictured. However, they can gain great inspiration for the overall look and feel that you would like the event to portray. Before meeting with your florist: • Schedule a consultation and share basic design inspiration. • Be aware of the level of service you’d like to receive. • Research what blooms are in season or available locally around the date of your event. • Have a budget in mind, but know that it may fluctuate depending on guest count, number of attendants and blooms selected. Your florist should be willing to work within your desired budget, within reason. Courtesy of Couture Events in Oshkosh. MyCoutureEvent.com floral + rentals + linens + planning services 1920 Algoma Blvd | Oshkosh WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 29 MIND bridal etiquette handwritten thank-you notes The dying art of 30 Women I MAY 17, 2016 by KELLY DVORAK A s the summer season of weddings, showers and parties draws near, it’s time to review the old tried and true rules of etiquette when it comes time to say “thank you” for that beautiful wedding gift or that baby shower your best friend hosted in your honor. You may have memories of your mother or grandmother forcing you to sit down and laboriously handwrite personalized thank-you notes to friends and relatives at some major milestone event in your life. Today, however, that tradition has waned a bit, having been replaced by generic photo cards, emails and (gasp!) text messages. In these days of instant gratification, digital alternatives can seem like a godsend. They’re fast, budget-friendly and almost effortless. But is that really a good thing? According to Alliey KlineWeichelt, lead planner and CEO of Sash & Bow in Green Bay, handwritten, personalized thank-you notes remain essential, especially for major events like weddings and showers. “Writing a proper thankyou note is the least you can give your guests after they took an entire day to celebrate your marriage, shower or occasion.” Preprinted thank-you notes, she advises, are not personal and go against the general rules of etiquette. Even in a situation where a photo from the event is included in the thank-you card, which is a common trend, a formal handwritten thank-you note should always be included, says Kline-Weichelt. Though it can seem overwhelming, especially if you have many WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM thank-you notes to write, following a few simple guidelines can turn a chore into a breeze. Nicole Bergeson, paper arts designer and creative genius for Creations Galore in Green Bay, suggests making or buying your cards before the event, because that early preparation will provide motivation for followthrough. When it’s time to sit down and write your thank-you notes, she advises keeping it short and simple – two or three sentences at most. First, she says, thank the giver for the specific gift. Then, include a sentence about what you did or how you will use the gift, especially if the gift is money. Bergeson cautions that even if you don’t like the gift, you don’t have to lie. “Thank them for the gesture,” she says. “It’s the thought and the effort that counts.” Getting your thank-you notes in the mail is the final step. For weddings, try to send out your thank-you notes within three months of the event, advises Kline-Weichelt. For showers, the general rule of thumb is one month. Bergeson adds that it’s also important to specifically thank the host or hostess within a week of the event. For thank yous that are not event-oriented, like thanking a friend or neighbor for their support, Bergeson recommends sending a note within two or three days, if possible. Sometimes people struggle with the desire to let a gift giver know that they’ve received a gift (like a wedding gift sent in advance of the wedding), and the timing of a formal handwritten thankyou note. Bergeson has a solution. It’s acceptable to send a quick text message or use Snapchat to let the gift giver know the gift has been received, she says. Then follow up with a formal handwritten note after the event. Handwritten thank-you notes are not just for adults. “It’s important to teach kids to say thank you,” adds Bergeson. Even if they can’t write the note themselves, have kids participate in saying thank you by signing their own name, stuffing envelopes or decorating with stickers. It’s never too early to learn the fine art of showing gratitude. w 31 ASPIRE to your health by KATIE ELLINGSON Exercises to do now to get in shape G E T T I N G F I T F O R S U M M E R 32 Women I MAY 17, 2016 S wimsuit season is just around the corner. Now is a great time to get in shape so you can improve your health and look your best this summer! Mel Tuomi, personal trainer and group exercise instructor at Western Racquet in Green Bay, recommends doing this full-body exercise routine three times per week to achieve a toned body for summer: Walking pushups: Start in a standing position and bring hands to floor, keeping legs as straight as you can. Walk hands out to a pushup position and do a pushup; then bring the left knee to the left elbow. Repeat on other side. Walk hands back to feet and repeat from starting position. This works the chest, shoulders and abs. Forward/backward lunge: Start in a standing position, step forward with right leg; lower until both legs are 90 degrees. Reverse motion and step back with the right leg — that’s one rep. Repeat 10 times on the right leg and 10 times on the left leg. This works the legs and glutes. Back extension: Lie face down on the floor, fingertips behind your ears. Retract shoulder blades together and lift upper body as high as you can, squeezing glutes while dropping shoulders away from the ears. Hold for five counts and repeat 10 times. This works your back muscles. Dynamic Squats: Start in a standing position; jump feet out as if to do a jumping jack. Squat down and touch the floor with your left hand, quickly reverse the move back to a standing position and repeat with the right hand. Do 20 squats, alternating hands. This works the legs and glutes. Pike up: Start in a pushup position; bring hands back about six inches while pushing hips back so you are making a V with your body. This is your starting position. Drop your head between your arms so you are looking through legs, then bend your elbows and drop the top of your head to the floor and push back up. Repeat to fatigue. This works the shoulders and triceps. Ryan Dart, owner and coach at CrossFit Appleton, recommends combining exercises, such as situps, lunges and jumping rope, in as many different patterns as you can think of. “CrossFit is constantly varied so our body never knows what’s coming next and in turn we never hit a plateau in our training,” says Dart. Here are two CrossFit workouts that can be done at home: Set a clock for 10 minutes and complete as many rounds and reps as possible of five burpees, 10 pushups, 15 squats, and 20 situps. This workout will work the entire body with the pushups and burpees hitting the upper body, the squats targeting the legs, and the situps hitting the core. (Note: to do a burpee, start in a standing position, jump your feet back to a plank, do a pushup, jump your feet to your hands and stand up.) Complete four rounds of running to the end of your block and back, 20 walking lunges and 40 jumps with a jump rope. ”This one will work more with your cardio than muscle fatigue,” explains Dart. “The key to success with CrossFit, and any workout, is dependent on consistency and intensity,” adds Dart. “Also, we never do the same workout twice so we never get bored!” w Capture the romance, fun fun & & excitement excitement of of dancing dancing together, as Capture together, moving moving as one. one. Gift Available Gift Certificates Certificates Available the romance, 1331 W Wisconsin Ave., 1331 funW& Wisconsin excitement ofAve., dancing Appleton, Wisconsin together, moving as one. Appleton, Wisconsin www.valleysocial.com Gift Certificates Available www.valleysocial.com 1331 W Wisconsin Ave., Appleton, Wisconsin www.valleysocial.com Call Call Today! Today! 920-731-4441 920-731-4441 WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM Call Today! 920-731-4441 33 SPIRIT personality j ohn Edward is a psychic medium, author and lecturer. Over the last 25 years, Edward has captivated audiences worldwide with his uncanny ability to predict future events and communicate with those who have crossed over to the “other side.” Edward is coming to the Radisson Hotel & Conference Center in Green Bay on May 25 to wow the crowd. He took a few minutes to share his story with Women magazine. Q: Tell me a little about you. Where are you currently living? A: I am currently living in between New York City and L.A. My work and office is on the east coast, but my daughter Olivia is working on a TV series that will be on FX called “Better Things” where she plays the youngest daughter to the very funny and talented Pamela Adlon, so I’m living in the air as they say. q&a WITH JOHN EDWARD by JENNIFER HOGELAND 34 Women I MAY 17, 2016 Q: What inspired you to become a psychic? A: I was 15 when a reading put me on my path. Psychic Lydia Clar was doing readings in my grandma’s home — it was called a house party (think Tupperware, take out the Tupperware and insert the readings). She blew my mind with her accuracy and she told me I had this ability. My development was very quick. Q: What have been a few significant stepping stones or milestones in your career? I have had some great opportunities to teach and raise awareness, from private readings to TV, radio and now the Internet with johnedward.net, It is all very exciting for me. Q: What is the most common question you are asked from individuals or audiences? A: “Am I okay?” Q: What accomplishments are you proudest of? I’m most proud of being a dad. I didn’t really have a great role model, so I feel that I’ve had to use the g n i n e p o t n e c e r CLASS AND CARRY After a couple serious injuries and residual physical limitations, Loui Ebeling was unable to return to her job as a freight delivery driver for one of the big package delivery service companies. Too old to learn anything completely new, and too young to retire, she took inventory of her skills and passions then sought out training in Nevada, Arizona and Ritchfield, WI and became certified to train others in handgun proficiency and concealed carry. “I recognized a need for what I can bring to the industry, there is frustration in not being able to find ‘real world’ training and concealed carry accessories (especially for women). Plus, I had this little voice that kept telling me I had to do this.” Loui laughed as she recalled her motivation to open Class and Carry. “The first week we were open, I got a call from a woman who said, ‘I kept thinking, why isn’t there someone out there doing this? and then, here you are! Thank you!’ - ahhhh, that one phone call, along with so much positive feedback since, has really confirmed my mission to help women and men to explore their options for defending themselves if they ever have that need arise.” The Boutique styled store and classroom offers training for people who are very new to handguns, along with the state required Concealed Carry Permit Training. Then, for those that already have their CCW Permit, we carry a full line of options not found anywhere else locally, from Leggings to Compression Wear, Belly Bands and even CanCan Concealment - Kydex holsters for most popular carry choices along with concealed carry purses and so much more! The response from men has been so incredibly positive that we’ve added a men’s department and we hope to be a resource for everyone in our area that is active in Taking Their Safety Personally. patterns of parenting I received from my mom and her side of the family. The accomplishments of seeing their achievements and these respectful, intelligent, funny and spiritual little beings grow up under your care is a gift. Q: What can the audience on May 25 expect from the event? A: I will basically be explaining a bit about energy and trying to read for as many families as I can, while also answering some audience questions. Q: What do you think the future has in store for you? A: Good question. I think I am being led back to TV, but I’m uncertain if it will happen … if it’s right, if it feels right and I can help more people with the medium of TV, then I’m in! Q: What advice, if any, would you give a younger John Edward? A: Be exactly who you are and don’t deviate — you turn out just fine. w TAKE YOUR SAFETY personally! TRAINING CLASSES IN: • Concealed carry • Refuse to be a victim • Ways to carry • Introduction to handguns to those who don’t know a darn thing (but are curious!) CLASS ANDCARRY 320 N. WESTHILL BLVD | APPLETON, WI | (920) 333-4475 www.classandcarry.com WWW.MYWOMENMAGAZINE.COM 35 SPIRIT hobbies by JENNIFER HOGELAND QUILTS ON DISPLAY IN GREEN BAY M ore than 30 years ago, a group of women established Evergreen Quilters Guild to promote the art of quilting and share their passion with the community. Today, more than 150 members exchange quilting ideas and information. “Interest is very strong in the quilting community,” says Tracy Reeb, Guild member. “Each year our membership grows.” The Evergreen Quilters Guild is holding their biannual quilt show on June 11 and 12 at Ashwaubenon High School. More than 250 quilts will be on display, from traditional and modern styles to the popular art quilts. Award ribbons are given out in each category. The weekend draws a crowd of more than 1,000 quilters and those curious about the craft. The event features a silent auction, which includes baby quilts, table toppers, wall hangings, aprons and more. The Guild will also be raffling off a quilt and sewing machine. Local groups will be on site to exhibit products; workshops will showcase a variety of projects. “Women and men, from age 5 or 6 up to 100 years old enjoy the feel of the fabric and the creative process,” adds Reeb. “Quilting has been around for many years and I’m sure it’s here to stay.” w For more information, visit EvergreenQuiltersGuild.com. Special & Unique Gift Ideas COMPLIMENTARY SIGNATURE GIFT WRAPPING 1879 N. 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June 14 6:30–9 pm RE featuring Transit Authority a Chicago Tribute Band m pf Fa mily Fund PE es en ted b Pr Larson recalls one wedding where a bride and groom wanted to add a personal touch to each dinner table by displaying photos of themselves as a couple. “Each picture was from activities, events or other special memories they had shared together,” he says. “It certainly brought in their personality!” Michiels explains many couples like to incorporate photos into wedding displays. She shares one bride used an old, rustic ladder to hang pictures. The cake or dessert tables are a wonderful way for brides and grooms to express their personal style as well. Some choose the more classic and traditional white cake, while others opt for playful and colorful cupcakes. Larson says they have even done a build-your-own ice cream sundae bar for a fun-loving couple. Another fun, new trend for the dessert table is having a “Petite Sweets” station, explains Michiels. “Our clients still want many of the classic desserts, but they are asking for them to be presented in a miniature version,” she says. “Instead of having one slice of cheesecake, we will have three different mini cheesecakes for each guest.” The sky’s the limit when it comes to the ways a bride and groom can showcase their style and personality on their wedding day, and the guests love seeing the creative and personal touches that show what truly makes the couple’s love story so special. w Stu y Les & Dar Learn More & Purchase Tickets: www.GBBG.org/ChicagoConcert 37 recipe cucumber watermelon salad Directions Combine the lime juice, sugar and salt in a 2-quart bowl; whisk together. Stir in parsley. Add the cucumbers; toss with a rubber spatula, coating all cucumber pieces. Add the watermelon; fold in gently. 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