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KEVIN B TORONTO, ON The 519 and diversity The board was also asked whether there would be any movement to change the existing bylaws of the 519 Community Centre, but the chair did not give a clear response [“The 519 Board Questioned at AGM About Its Lack of Diversity,” dailyxtra.com, Sept 27]. Under the current bylaws, only members who live in a certain “catchment area” (Bloor to Gerrard, Bay to Parliament) are allowed to vote at annual general meetings. But the majority of the members — including many active volunteers — do not live in the catchment area. Interestingly, all of The 519 members who volunteered to help set up for the AGM happened to live outside the catchment area, including one from Mississauga. The 519 is obviously an important part of the Church-Wellesley Village, but it’s also a centre for a community that is much more geographically diffused. People who use The 519 come from all over the GTA; so do the volun- RE: HOMOPHOBIC COMMENTS The legacy of is the best thing that has happened and now people want to protest her? She is a politician first. FREE 36,000 AUDITED CIRCULATION JOHANNA SOMMER (FACEBOOK) TORONTO, ON Groundbreaking London exhibit lands at the AGO E22 +GAY RIGHTS #754 SEPT 19–OCT 2, 2013 @dailyxtra One of the negative comments cited in the editorial denounces Smitherman and Peloso as “ugly and fat” [“The Power of Comments,” Xtra #754, Sept 19]. Unfortunately, young gay men and muscular gay men often make similar comments about older gay men and fat gay men — especially at events like Pride and its associated mega-parties. They are often accompanied by comments like, “He has no right to take off his shirt.” The so-called sexual liberation and sexual abandon of Pride weekend, circuit parties, Grindr and other sexually charged venues goes hand-in-hand with ageism and body fascism. But it’s not surprising. The young, sexy and beautiful only want to play with each other and desperately want to shut out the undesirable. A gay sex club in Berlin even uses the following message on its website and other social media: “We reserve the right to refuse entry to unsuitable people and do not need to justify our reasons for refusal. No discussion at the entrance.” Every subculture has ways of expressing its disapproval of those who don’t measure up. facebook.com/dailyxtra What may have started as a marketing ploy seems to be an accurate reflection of a remarkably welcoming team, if the three young hockey players I met Sept 12 are any indication. Josh McKissock, Jono Ceci and Tyler Mah range in age from 21 to 23 years old, play for the Simon Fraser University (SFU) men’s hockey team, and are nothing like the teenagers I expected to meet. I expected discomfort, maybe resistance, to their team’s decision to partner with the You Can Play campaign to challenge homophobia in sports. At the very least, I expected a lack of awareness, maybe a dawning understanding that the casual and not-so-casual homophobia typical of hockey locker rooms may be hurtful to closeted teammates. Instead, I met three articulate, thoughtful and kind young men open to welcoming gay teammates to their ranks. They shattered my stereotypes. Granted, I don’t know too many straight young men, but the few I’ve met didn’t seem nearly as comfortable discussing potentially gay teammates as these three guys proved to be. If they truly are a reflection of their team’s character, then You Can Play has found itself a more than suitable counterpart for its first Canadian collegelevel partnership. The SFU hockey team’s interim sales and marketing coordinator says he suggested the partnership to reflect the team’s spirit. “It’s a very different team than what you’ll find at other universities. It’s very unique,” Réal Maurice Joynt says. It’s in his interest to say that. As a nonvarsity team only independently affiliated with the university’s athletics department, the men’s hockey team largely has to support itself. Still, the differentiating factor that Joynt decided to promote is certainly well represented among the players I met, only one of whom was prepped by staff prior to our interview. And isn’t it interesting that in Joynt’s world, boasting about a team’s gay-friendliness is expected to garner the right kind of attention. “Our guys are definitely of the age and of the era where it wouldn’t matter to them. A teammate’s a teammate, and we advocate for that,” says head coach Mark Coletta, striking a deliberately optimistic note. “It doesn’t matter: an openly gay guy or not. If they can play and make the team, then they’re going to be on the team. “I think we’re on the page of the future,” he says. I think campaigns like You Can Play are working to turn the page to the future, but we’re hardly there yet. “Nothing changes overnight,” says You Can Play co-founder Brian Kitts, “but you can start a conversation.” Yet, the players I met seem to have already had the conversation and are now simply ready to move forward. To Mah, it’s a question of maturity. “For high school students and athletes, I think it’s important for them to know, while they’re maturing and learning about discrimination, that it’s very important to just be open to everything,” he says. By the time they get to college, they’re older, more mature and less likely to discriminate, he believes. Ceci agrees. By the time he was 17, he was playing with an openly gay teammate. He learned early on to treat everyone with respect. McKissock sums it up simply as playing with a team. “You’re all wearing the same jersey, you’re all wearing the same logo on the front — that’s who you’re playing for. You play for each other.” Has a new generation of straight allies emerged without my realizing? Three young hockey players can’t unravel decades of sports-culture machismo, but they can certainly help lead a fresh start, even as their well-meaning coaches and marketers scramble to cash in and keep up. Homophobic comments Every subculture has ways of expressing its disapproval of those who don’t measure up.” dailyxtra.com EDITORIAL ROBIN PERELLE FEEDBACK More at A new generation of hockey players email [email protected] comment dailyxtra.com & facebook/dailyxtra.com tweet @dailyxtra IN TURKEY E15 SHOPPING FOR HATS E Wynne has done not one thing to earn any sort of recognition. Wow, you’re a lesbian in a power suit. Congrats. MEG FENWAY (FACEBOOK) LONDON, ON 17 DANIEL MACIVOR E 27 PHOTO BY MASAYOSHI SUKITA TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS teers who help the community centre keep going during the year and who also staff the Pride events that helped with the funding cuts this year. JB TORONTO, ON Protest at Egale gala Before we stab our LGBT leaders in the back for not, as Harvey Milk used to say, “turning the pages of history a little faster,” perhaps we need to ask ourselves: what have you done besides hit “like” on Facebook about things that impact us all [“Protest Planned for Toronto Egale Fundraising Gala, dailyxtra.com, Sept 26]? Too many hope someone else will do something. Wynne’s staff should be sending out messages, but let’s not be naive that Hudak and those against Wynne would like nothing more than to see the LGBT in-fight. There won’t be one open LGBT member of the Hudak thugs in the next election, you can count on that. I’d love for Wynne to be more vocal, but we know she has our back, while others don’t! IAN MACDONALD (FACEBOOK) TORONTO, ON I’m angry, too. I was angry right away when Wynne said she wasn’t an activist during her speech after winning the leadership vote. This is kind of a “have your cake and eat it too”–type moment, isn’t it? JACQIE LUCAS (FACEBOOK) TORONTO, ON Kathleen Wynne shows tremendous courage every day as a gay female and as a premier. Stop picking on her. She Vancouver’s genderneutral washrooms This is a growing trend in Canada [“Vancouver Passes Gender-Neutral Washrooms in Public Buildings,” dailyxtra.com, Sept 25]. I’m happy to see a municipality vote on this issue and help address the needs of the LGBTQ community. Universities have been making gender-neutral washrooms across Canada for a while, including just recently at Grenfell Campus in Newfoundland, so it’s good to see municipalities catching up. Well done, Vancouver! CHARLIE TORONTO, ON It’s still discrimination, as it essentially says that trans women are not quite women and trans men are not quite men. Granted, I can think of myriad other reasons for a genderneutral or family restroom, but to say it’s for transgender individuals, especially those who are born transsexual, is disgusting. 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TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS Upfront You don’t go to Church Street anymore when you’re poor. You can’t afford to do the socializing. Michael Creek E16 Protest as premier receives Egale Leadership Award Kathleen Wynne acknowledges there is ‘more to be done’ on LGBT rights COMMUNITY NEWS ELAH FEDER A small group of protesters gathered outside the Ritz-Carlton in Toronto Sept 27 as Premier Kathleen Wynne accepted the LGBT Leadership Award at Egale’s annual gala. Egale’s executive director, Helen Kennedy, who has recently been criticized for announcing publicly that she had joined the Liberal Party, said Wynne was chosen for her courage in being an out politician. “I think that’s a demonstration to other people, especially younger people, who may want a career in politics or who may be afraid to be out in the corporate world, that you can take that chance and stand by your principles,” she said. But some activists have argued that Wynne’s record on LGBT rights does not warrant an award. “What action has Wynne taken on Russia? What has she done on harm reduction? And what about the fact that LGBT people are homeless and that in the regular shelter system they are discriminated against?” asked organizer Zach NoCameco Ruiter. The protesters, a group that included Idle No More supporters, also condemned Wynne’s record on poverty and social assistance and held signs demanding that welfare and disability rates be raised. “It’s completely disingenuous for Egale to give Wynne an award at the Ritz-Carlton for $300 a plate when Wynne won’t even raise the minimum wage,” Ruiter said. But Kennedy defended the gala as an essential fundraiser for Egale. “We can’t keep operating without people who can afford to pay for these tickets and who do so, but I want to acknowledge those people who aren’t in the room,” she said. Wynne opened her acceptance speech by acknowledging that the event was taking place on traditional territory of the Mississaugas of the MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM Protesters condemned Liberal Premier Kathleen Wynne’s record on poverty and social assistance in the province. ELAH FEDER New Credit First Nation. Later, she responded briefly to the protest. “There are protesters out there tonight because there is more to be done . . . When people bring a point of view and they’re saying that there’s something else that needs to be done, I get that,” she said. Wynne mentioned her work as minister of education, noting that she helped create policies requiring that gay-straight alliances be permitted in schools, but she also admitted that efforts are still needed to make this a reality across the province. Federal NDP Leader Thomas Mulcair, who was among the evening’s guests, met briefly with the demonstrators, saying he’d pass along their concerns to fellow NDP members in attendance. CUPE Ontario president Fred Hahn also stepped outside to meet with the group and agreed that Wynne needs to do much more for LGBT people. “There are lots of queer people on social assistance. She could raise social assistance rates. She could actually look after queer people with AIDS and HIV who are on [the Ontario Disability Support Program]. She could be creating jobs for young queer people because youth unemployment is insane,” Hahn said in footage captured by Ruiter. Hahn also expressed concerns about Kennedy’s Liberal Party membership and what that means for CUPE’s continued funding of Egale. “They do good work for the LGBT community, but they have to remain non-partisan,” he said. Earlier on Sept 27, Egale launched 20 recommendations for the prevention of suicide by LGBT youth, the culmination of a summit co-hosted by Egale last year. The recommendations include appointing provincial and territorial suicide-prevention officers; creating supports for trans youth who are transitioning in schools, including access to gender-neutral washrooms; and providing increased training on sexual orientation and gender identity for medical professionals. For more on this story, go to dailyxtra.com. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 11 COMMUNITY NEWS The 519 board questioned at AGM about its lack of diversity The 519 Church Street Community Centre held its annual general meeting Sept 26, at which its board reported robust finances, bid farewell to board chair Pascal Dessureault and welcomed six new members — but also faced criticism for lack of diversity within its membership. Board treasurer Tyler Fleming reported that despite a cut in core funding from the City of Toronto, The 519 was able to continue operating without reductions in front-end services, largely as a result of increases in alternative funding sources, including a jump in Pride revenues. Looking forward, Planning Partnership consultants Nancy Chater and Doug Kerr outlined the recommendations of the Village Study, which included the creation of a community charter of core values. In addition, they recommended an initiative to beautify and further pedestrianize Church Street by widening sidewalks, planting trees and extending the “parklets” project. Other recommendations included a Outgoing 519 chair Pascal Dessureault responds to questions at the organization’s annual general meeting on Sept 26. ELAH FEDER “Church Street check-up,” a regular community survey, and the temporary transformation of the Church streetscape with bold colours and artwork during WorldPride 2014 and the 2015 Pan Am Games. The proposed project is cur- rently dubbed “Shock Street Treatment.” Six new board management nominees were acclaimed, including CIBC legal counsel Paul Bent and Superdyke creator Michelle Walker. Drawn from an initial pool of nine applicants, these six received recommendations from the nominations committee, and the remaining three withdrew their applications. Issues of diversity and accessibility dominated the question-and-answer period, with one attendee criticizing the lack of diversity on the board, noting that anti-oppression, transphobia, accessibility and feminism were largely absent from the evening’s speeches. “It’s always been . . . a challenge for us to recruit board members that reflect the diversity of our community,” Dessureault responded, noting that 519 staff and programs are committed to inclusivity and explaining that the nomination committee’s process of recommending specific candidates was introduced last year in order to help address the issue. In the coming year, preparations for WorldPride 2014 and the 2015 Pan Am Games are expected to be a major focus. — Elah Feder ACT’s executive director steps down The executive director of the AIDS Committee of Toronto (ACT) is stepping down to accept a job as the CEO of the Sherbourne Health Centre. Hazelle Palmer, who has been the ED since 2009, will serve her last day with ACT — which is marking its 30th anniversary this year — on Oct 31. “I’m so honoured to be joining the team at Sherbourne. It is a dynamic organization that truly makes a difference in the lives of the communities it serves,” Palmer said in a press release. “I’m excited to lead Sherbourne as it implements its new strategic plan and continues to be an innovator in community-based health care.” Palmer replaces Suzanne Boggild, Sherbourne Health Centre’s founding CEO, who stepped down in June. Kyle Greenwood, manager of executive communications and administration for ACT, says the organization has mixed emotions about Palmer’s departure. “Hazelle has made a significant impact at ACT,” Greenwood says. “She has done a lot, including leading significant change at ACT. She is a visionary, a leader and a force. For her to pursue another opportunity is challenging for us, but we recognize this is a new opportunity for her that she wants to pursue.” The ACT board will now begin the recruitment process to find a replacement, he says. An interim ED will be chosen prior to Palmer’s last day. — Andrea Houston For more on these stories, go to dailyxtra.com. BUY TICKETS NOW www.spotlightfife.com 416-205-9888 The evening includes a cocktail reception and silent auction. Proceeds will assist Fife House in providing residential programs and housing services to men, women and families living with HIV/AIDS. 12 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NDP calls for visa ban on anti-gay Russian legislators The federal New Democratic Party is calling on the government to take action on LGBT rights in Russia and is taking to the streets to build support for a visa ban on Russian legislators responsible for the recent homophobic laws passed in the Russian Duma. The NDP launched its campaign with a petition-signing event at the Alexander Wood statue on the corner of Church and Alexander streets Sept 21. The NDP’s foreign affairs critic, Paul Dewar, Toronto Centre candidate Linda McQuaig, Toronto-Danforth MPP Peter Tabuns, and defeated Toronto Centre nominee Jennifer Hollett all braved the rain to tell people about Russia’s recently passed laws banning “gay propaganda” and newly proposed laws threatening to take children away from LGBT parents. While much of the attention on LGBT rights in Russia stems from the country’s upcoming hosting of the Winter Olympics in Sochi next year, Dewar says that the NDP is opposed to a boycott of MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM Paul Dewar, the NDP’s foreign affairs critic, signs up passersby on the corner of Church and Alexander streets, Sept 21. ROB SALERNO the Games. “The grassroots activists on the ground in Russia have been saying please don’t call for a boycott because we want this to be about LGBT rights, not about the Olympics,” he says. “We need to see people speaking out, not just when there’s a flashpoint as in the case of Russia/Sochi; it has to be ongoing. This should be something we remember for every Olympics. This is an opportunity for the world to celebrate excellence but also excellence in human rights.” The NDP says it collected about 200 signatures at the event. — Rob Salerno Vancouver to get gender-neutral washrooms in public buildings City council passed a motion to amend Vancouver’s building codes Sept 25, making it the first municipality in Canada to include clear provisions for gender-neutral washrooms in public buildings, according to city staff. “It’s fantastic news, I think for everybody in Vancouver, for city council to take this leadership step toward building broader inclusion within building-code bylaw,” says Drew Dennis, co-chair of the city’s LGBTQ advisory committee. Trans and gender-variant people whose gender expression may not align with their biological sex are often harassed or accused of being in the wrong washroom, Dennis explains. The amendment will give people more flexibility in “single-stalled washrooms that don’t have to be specified by gender,” says Dennis, who identifies as trans. “It recognizes that there is a broad range of users that might benefit from this flexibility — of course trans and gender-variant folks, but as well, parents of children of the opposite sex, caregivers who have clients that are the opposite sex and so on,” Dennis says. “There’s myself and many others — a whole spectrum of people — who are harassed based on the choice of the washroom that they choose to use. Allowing more flexibility, and allowing for different types of washrooms and different destinations, is a great step forward in eliminating some of that,” Dennis says. Councillor Tim Stevenson enthusiastically supported the amendment and called the bylaw changes “historic” and “a very, very significant step for the city.” Vancouver’s chief building official, Will Johnson, worked with both the LGBTQ and women’s advisory committees to draft the amendment. Along with the provision for genderneutral washrooms in city facilities, other approved amendments to the building codes addressed accessibility and adaptability for people with disabilities. —Shauna Lewis For more on these stories, go to dailyxtra.com. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 13 CRIMINAL DEFENCE LAWYER My professional life is dedicated to fortifying, safeguarding, and championing my clients. For 19 years, I’ve been fighting and winning criminal cases. When I commit to your case, I will personally evaluate the evidence, answer all your questions, and build an organized, aggressive, and gripping defence strategy. 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His remarks come on the heels of the arrest of activists for protesting the so-called gay propaganda law outside the headquarters of the Sochi Olympics organizing committee. Killy’s comments follow a statement from former IOC president Jacques Rogge last month in which he said he had received “strong written reassurances from the Russian government that everyone will be welcome at the games in Sochi regardless of their sexual orientation.” When Germany’s Thomas Bach was elected IOC president this month, he also said he’d received “assurances from the highest authorities in Russia.” But human rights organizations are taking the IOC to task for ignoring concerns raised about the Russian legislation. “It disregards the fact that Russian law effectively prohibits people from public expression of ‘non-traditional’ sexual orientation,” says Sergei Nikitin, director of Amnesty International’s Moscow office. “This is an affront to gay and lesbian athletes and spectators. It is also a disappointment to sports fans across the world who care about the Olympic ideal.” For its part, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) says the IOC has abandoned both LGBT Russians and Olympic athletes. “If this law doesn’t violate the IOC’s charter, then the charter is completely meaningless,” HRC president Chad Griffin says. “The safety of millions of LGBT Russians and international travellers is at risk, and by all accounts the IOC has completely neglected its responsibility to Olympic athletes, sponsors and fans from around the world. The IOC and its new president, Thomas Bach, are putting the good reputation of the Olympic Games and its corporate sponsors in jeopardy.” —Natasha Barsotti Belgrade Pride parade cancelled Approximately 6,500 police officers were set to provide security for the Belgrade Pride parade Sept 28, but the Bureau for the Coordination of Security Services announced that the event was cancelled, news service B92 reports. As Pride organizers waited for the release of a security assessment for the event Sept 27, a number of rightwing groups held a press conference to warn that a repetition of the 2010 street clashes, during which several police officers were injured, could be in the cards if the parade were given the green light. “People are deeply unsatisfied and are telling us that they will go onto the streets in vast numbers to protest. If that happens again, we all know that Belgrade streets will see bloodshed, and that’s in no one’s interest,” Ivan Ivanovic, of the rightwing group “Naši,” told media. Serbian Prime Minister Ivica Dačić said the unanimous decision reached by security services “did not mean a capitulation to hooligans,” but “nobody could guarantee a safe holding of the parade” in the face of “serious threats” to peace and public order. Ivanovic and other members of rightist organizations said they would stage counterprotests to the Pride event, but those gatherings were also prohibited, the report says. —Natasha Barsotti For more international news, go to dailyxtra.com. TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS Genderbending gods HISTORY BOYS MICHAEL LYONS MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM B.SC, LL.B, TEP BARRISTER, SOLICITOR & NOTARY CERTIFIED SPECIALIST (ESTATES & TRUST LAW) VALERIE A. CHANG, B.A., J.D. BARRISTER & SOLICITOR R.G. COATES ESTATE LAW P.C. 120 Carlton Street, Suite 307 Toronto, Ontario M5A 4K2 Tel. (416) 925-6490 Fax (416) 925-4492 web: www.rgcoates.com email: [email protected] email: [email protected] E 1981 C ROBERT G.COATES, SI N To me, androgyny is the highest form of beauty. One of my favourite experiences is when I’m walking behind someone and say to myself, “Ooh, I like his clothes, I like his hair; I bet he’s really hot.” The person turns around and I realize she is a very masculine-presenting or dykey woman. Likewise, the more gloriously, swishily, unapologetically feminine a gay guy is, the more attractive I find him. The gender dichotomy is boring, way too 20th century, and so many cultures have long spoken of the third sex: the blending and deconstruction of gender is part of many mythologies. The Greeks are an unfailingly dirty place to start. Among many stories of lust- and sex-filled genderbending, the origin of Teiresias, a mythological blind oracle, is especially delightful. His story begins with his finding a pair of copulating snakes and striking them with a stick. Angered at the treatment of her minions, the vengeful goddess Hera transforms Teiresias into a woman. As a woman, Teiresias marries and has children, but several years later he once again strikes copulating snakes, and Hera transforms him back to his masculine form. Though different stories have different explanations for how he was blinded, one version has Hera and her husband, Zeus, debating whether men or women derive more pleasure from sex. When they ask Teiresias, an expert on the subject, “he said that if the pleasures of love be reckoned at 10, men enjoy one and women nine,” reinforcing Zeus’s opinion. The ever-vindictive Hera blinds him for siding with her virile husband, and Zeus, feeling bad, offers Teiresias the power of prophecy. The pervy antics of Greek gods seem juvenile compared to the primeval deity Ishtar, an incestuous goddess worshipped by several ancient Semitic kingdoms of Mesopotamia, somewhere around 2000 BCE. She was something of a schizophrenic mother goddess, reigning over life and death as the many-breasted Opener of the Womb and the Destroyer Queen of the Underworld, respectively. Ishtar was also worshipped in the kingdom of Assyria as the divinity of war. She carried a quiver and bow and was depicted with a beard as a manifestation of her warmongering nature. Ishtar straddled the social boundaries of man and woman, demonstrated by her devotees, who were usually men who either presented SPUNK! [spuhngk] -noun Uncovering androgynous deities in the dark realms of myth. ERIC WILLIAMS characteristics of both genders or appeared fully feminine. With roots in Vedic mythology and originating in the Classical Sanskrit period, beginning around 1200 BCE, various Hindu gods, including Lord Shiva, transcended gender in different ways. Shiva is often mistakenly attributed as the evil destroyer god, though his actual role is dissolving and recreating the universe when the balance between good and evil is disturbed. A number of major symbols are commonly associated with Shiva: his unclad body covered in ashes represents transcendental manifestation unaffected by the physical aspect of the universe. Lord Shiva’s kundalas, a pair of earrings, are called alakshya, “which cannot be shown by any sign,” and niranjan, “which cannot be seen by mortal eyes.” The kundala in his left ear is the type used by women, the one in the right by men, and so in some beliefs they also represent the embodiment of Shiva’s feminine energy, shakti. Similar to the mother goddess Ishtar, though a world away, Mesoamerican peoples had Tlazolteotl, the Goddess of Filth. The Aztec and Huastec peoples of pre-Columbian Mexico likely worshipped a similar deity for centuries, though when the former conquered the latter in the mid-15th century, their beliefs merged. Tlazolteotl’s two-part name is derived from the Nahuatl tlazolli, which describes filth, garbage and human waste, and teotl, a generic, genderless word signifying a deity. Although she is almost always thought of as feminine, in some incarnations she is seen as a warrior woman with both masculine and feminine traits. Tlazolteotl was believed to be the goddess who inspired, and also forgave, sexual transgressions. Among numerous roles for different worshippers she oversaw childbirth, death, rot, menstruation and confession — the act of eating the filthy sins of her worshippers. Today, especially in Western society, we demand that our gods be tame, well behaved and simple. Gods of the old world were often shifting, contradictory, unknowable: dark, primal things, glorious and horrible, much like the humans who worshipped them. Cyclical life and death, the duality of creation and destruction, woman and man, are recurring themes in many mythologies. Androgyny was part and parcel of the dualities of the divine. Whether we like to admit it or not, we all have within us a mixture of masculinity and femininity. For me, being queer is a means of embracing that, toying with and destroying gender. In this sense, especially in Toronto, the divine often walk among us. spunk. 1. courage, spirit, boldness, resilience: show some 2. a slang word for semen. You hook up. You get high. <RX·YHJRW6381. A lot of guys use substances, including when ZH·UHKDYLQJVH[6RZK\GRQ·WZHWDONDERXWLW" 6381.LVDFRQÀGHQWLDOJURXSIRUJD\ELTXHHU DQGWUDQVJX\VZKRZDQWWRWDONDERXWGUXJV DOFRKROVH[DQG3Q3 :HGRQ·WMXGJHDQGZHGRQ·WSUHDFK :HZDQWWRKHOSHDFKRWKHUVWD\VDIHZKLOH KDYLQJIXQ Tuesdays, 7 to 8:30 p.m. 6L[ZHHNVLQDURZVWDUWLQJLQ2FWREHU 5HJLVWHUE\2FWREHU )LQGRXWPRUHLQIRUPDWLRQDW VSXQN#DFWRURQWRRUJRU H[W DFWRURQWRRUJ6381. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 15 COVER STORY The revitalization of Regent Park is bringing sweeping change to the city’s black-sheep neighbourhood. And that change includes Toronto’s queer community. Building Blocks BY DANIELA COSTA PHOTOS BY ADAM COISH A sk Torontonians to describe LGBT life in the downtown core and they’ll usually cite the several pubs and clubs that line ChurchWellesley Village. Then there’s nearby Cabbagetown, with its arts festivals and Victorian homes, known to house many a queer. But Regent Park? Not likely to get a mention. And yet it’s not that much of a stretch. Regent Park actually held the name Cabbagetown before the neighbourhood to its north claimed it in the 1970s. Today, the two bordering neighbourhoods are part of the same federal and provincial riding of Toronto Centre, a district that also encompasses the Village. And like the Village and Cabbagetown, queer people do live near and in Regent Park. That’s nothing new. 16 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! What is new is the face of Regent Park. And soon, many hope, its reputation. Often considered an undesirable neighbourhood — and, to some, a neighbourhood of undesirables — Regent Park is gearing up for a very different identity. Lacklustre towers are giving way to stylish condominiums. Businesses have at long last moved in. Amenities such as parks and pools are to make up Regent Park’s new face. The changing streetscape comes courtesy of a redevelopment plan for the downtown-east neighbourhood. “Revitalization, in addition to creating new buildings and amenities, is a catalyst for change beyond the physical infrastructure,” says Heather Grey-Wolf, development director for Toronto Community Housing Corporation (TCHC). The Regent Park revitalization began in 2006 by way of a public-private partnership between TCHC and The Daniels Corporation. Its end goal is a mixed neighbourhood that closely reflects other parts of the city. TCHC estimates the revitalization will be complete within 10 to 15 years, should they get approval for the rezoning of the remaining phases. The organization anticipates a final report from the city will go forward at the East York Community Council on Nov 19. TCHC expects a final decision on the application at city council on Dec 16. Regent Park’s population is set to jump from 7,500 to between 12,500 and 17,000 by the project’s end. Estimates price the project at just less than $1 billion. TCHC will invest about 60 percent of the total expected cost through bond funding and equity. Government grants and rebates will cover about 13 percent, while proceeds from the condominium sales will pay for the remaining balance. It’s a big quote for a big job. THE HISTORY Regent Park is one of Canada’s largest and oldest social housing projects. Its construction began in 1948 and carried on until the end of the 1950s. Bounded by Gerrard, Shuter, River and Parliament streets, Regent Park’s design saw it physically turned inward. This separated the neighbourhood from Toronto’s busy downtown, but a lack of streets and pockets of unused space left Regent Park vulnerable to criminal activity and unable to reap the benefits of city life. Even with the revitalization well underway, worries about crime haven’t vanished. In fact, some academics have expressed concern that the mixedincome model is creating an “us versus them” dynamic they believe has resulted in crime and violence in the neighbourhood. But that could change. Crime prevention methods like the installation of video surveillance cameras and enterphone systems are part of the revitalization project. Streets in Regent Park will be wide and well lit. Furthermore, there are proposals calling for the addition of three new streets to the area. “By connecting Regent Park to the surrounding neighbourhood, the community is becoming a destination in Toronto,” Grey-Wolf says. The construction of new high-rise and mid-rise buildings makes up most of the current third phase of redevelopment. On Sept 20, the first residents moved into 230 Sackville St, a 10-storey building containing 105 rent-geared-toincome units and 50 affordable rental units. It’s the newest rental building in Regent Park and residents should fully occupy it later in the fall. Replacing TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS old towers and building community amenities were the focus of the first two phases. “These new amenities serve as a gathering point for residents of Regent Park and the nearby neighbourhoods,” Grey-Wolf says. These new amenities include a daycare centre, a park currently under construction, the Regent Park Centre of Learning, Regent Park Employment Services and Daniels Spectrum, an artsand-culture hub housing various local organizations. TCHC has also teamed up with Maple Leaf Sports and Entertainment to see the building of a multipurpose outdoor sports field and in June launched the Regent Park Farmers’ Market in partnership with The Daniels Corporation. Unfortunately, this grand-scale project meant the relocation of many Regent Park residents. As a result, TCHC promised those forced to relocate new MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM A 1947 plan for Regent Park based on American-style public housing. This drawing comes close to reflecting what was built in subsequent years. CITY OF TORONTO ARCHIVES Today’s Regent Park includes new parks and amenities, as well as a mixture of high-rise and mid-rise housing, planned to help the area blend in with the rest of Toronto. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 17 Development director Heather Grey-Wolf and her team at Toronto Community Housing Corporation, from left: Julio Rigores, Frozan Shaikhmiri, Abigail Moriah, Christine Burke, Wolf, Ilidio Coito, Jed Kilbourn and Kristy Wung. homes built as part of the redevelopment. That’s 2,083 rent-geared-toincome housing units. Of those units, however, 266 are located outside Regent Park, on Carlton, Richmond and Adelaide streets in the east downtown. Sales of 5,000 planned market condominiums will cover the costs of the replacement units. Profits will also go toward building several hundred affordable rental units. Some have labelled what’s going on in Regent Park displacement, noting that the mixed-housing model has often meant pushing the poor to the margins. This fear predates the commencement of construction. For instance, Rita Daly wrote the following in the Toronto Star on Feb 12, 2005: “As the agency forges ahead with its project, fully endorsed by city council earlier this month, there are those who fear Regent Park’s makeover may be yet another regrettable experiment in the city’s history of social housing. A group of academics and social activists criticize it as an enticing land grab for private investors, at the same time as it slashes the number of low-income apartments and displaces the working and subsidized poor.” Many Regent Park tenants would certainly welcome more low-income housing options. The 2006 census showed that the average income for private households in Regent Park was only $35,656, with about 41 percent making less than $20,000 a year. By comparison, the average income for households in Toronto was $80,343. And it isn’t all roses for those who will ultimately upgrade their housing situation. Life in a construction zone and the resulting temporary loss of facilities has naturally burdened those living in the neighbourhood. To that end, TCHC created a social development plan for Regent Park. The plan guides the process for addressing community needs. The principles of equity, equality, access, participation and cohesion are its building blocks. Equity is specifically defined as “the fair distribution of resources, free from discrimination on the basis of age, disability, gender, socioeconomic background, race, ethnicity, religion or sexual orientation.” The plan does not outline any points to better the lives of queer residents in particular, but that could change in the future. “It is important to note that the social development plan is fluid so that it works with the community as it changes and can respond to the needs of populations that are underrepresented,” Grey-Wolf explains. Regent Park is on the path to transition from a last resort of sorts to a legitimate, viable option. 18 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! THE PEOPLE The story goes that when gay men move in, gentrification shortly follows. That may be the case, but while gentrification is new to Regent Park, gay isn’t. Take Michael Creek. Since 2000, the 55-year-old Creek has lived in Regent Park — first as a TCHC tenant and since 2010 as the owner of a brand new condo unit. Creek is the director of strategic initiatives for Working for Change, an organization that advocates for employment opportunities for those marginalized by poverty and mental health issues. He experienced financial hardship firsthand, from 1993 to 2008. “I have a lived experience of living in poverty as a gay man,” he says. For Creek, that meant going back into the closet and staying there for years after his move to Regent Park. He says he did so for safety reasons, because back then it didn’t feel like an environment that was welcoming to LGBT folk. “I felt marginalized,” he says. “I’d lost my connection to the community ... You don’t go to Church Street anymore when you’re poor. You can’t afford to do the socializing.” Creek says the reality for queer people living in poverty is that they feel isolated because they’ve lost their ties to the larger LGBT community. The redevelopment is, in his opinion, going to make queer people in Regent Park feel less marginalized in their neighbourhood. To Creek, the mixed neighbourhood model is “the only way to do housing that involves social housing.” He believes the new market condos and TCHC buildings look so alike that the average person won’t be able to tell who’s living where. The revitalization has also brought an extra level of comfort for Creek in terms of safety. “Where I used to live, I used to lock my door and barricade it,” he says. “Now I often forget to lock my door.” “There’s a real sense of security,” he says, noting that people are staying outside longer, making it less likely that illegal activity will occur. Despite the improvements, he wants to see more affordable housing options for low-income people. He also insists that TCHC not push out those very people. “It’s important that people get the choice of where they want to live,” says Creek, who believes a plan should be in place for those wanting to return to Regent Park who have been relocated to other east-end neighbourhoods. The Regent Park choice is a nobrainer for Creek. “It’s a community that has a lot of potential,” he says. “I see myself living there until I’m very old.” Creek says this despite admitting that instances of homophobia do still occur in the neighbourhood and that he would like to see programs that champion LGBT causes, like access to education, TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS In 2011, more than 54 percent of Regent Park residents reported a non-official language as their mother tongue. Maintaining this diversity is a key part of the city’s plan for the area. reported a non-official language as their mother tongue, with the top five languages being Bengali, Tamil, Mandarin, Vietnamese and Cantonese. For his part, Abualsameed isn’t worried that the post-redevelopment Regent Park will be less inviting for LGBT immigrants. “It might be a different demographic in terms of class and wealth, but that doesn’t necessarily mean homophobia and discrimination.” Meri Perra, right, with her partner, Catharine. The couple lives near Regent Park with their two young children. Michael Creek moved into Regent Park as a TCHC tenant in 2000. He now owns his own condo and sees the area as a place with lots of potential. included in the redevelopment plans. But he’s instead got an eye on the positives, like the increasing number of queer folk moving into the neighbourhood now that they have the opportunity to purchase condo units. MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM You gain this shiny new place, but this community landmark that is loved by so many is gone. Everything is going, but some things were good MERI PERRA, RESIDENT As they move in, Creek, who is no longer closeted, is enjoying the freedom of being out. “I feel quite queer in Regent Park now.” Suhail Abualsameed is the newcomer community engagement coordinator for Sherbourne Health Centre, a 10-minute walk from Regent Park on Sherbourne Street between Carlton and Gerrard streets. He runs Express, a Supporting Our Youth (SOY) program that since 2002 has, according to its website, supported “youth between 16 and 29 who are immigrants, newcomers to Canada, refugees, refugee claimants and non-status queer and trans youth.” Many of the program’s participants come from countries where LGBT lifestyles aren’t safe or legally permitted. Abualsameed says living in these homophobic and transphobic cultures has had clear effects. “Issues of depression and other mental health problems do come up a lot,” he says. Life in Toronto by comparison? “They all say it’s better than being back home,” he says. “There are challenges, but at the end of the day they would say they’re better off here.” The Express program does not collect information on demographics so as to provide a trusting environment for participants. Even so, Abualsameed believes that Regent Park’s proximity means some of its residents are taking part. It would certainly make sense, considering the neighbourhood’s makeup, which consists of a large immigrant population. According to the 2011 census, 54 percent of Regent Park residents Meri Perra, 36, lives with her partner and two young children in the Oak Street Housing Co-Operative, located near River and Dundas streets. Perra, who is a freelance writer, has lived in the co-op for seven years. Although it’s just outside the Regent Park neighbourhood, she says, “it’s not the same community.” “We don’t have a landlord,” she says. “We’re more in control of our housing.” In a matter of years, many in Regent Park may be able to say the same. Regent Park tenants have first crack at buying the new condo units when they go up for sale. For low-income households, however, that may not be a likely reality. Even so, there are some options. Two down-payment assistance programs funded by the provincial and federal governments as part of the new Affordable Housing Program are in place in Regent Park. Tenants may be able to purchase condo units with the help of the Foundation Program, which provides a second mortgage of up to 35 percent of the purchase price for those who are able to support a first mortgage of at least 65 percent through employment income. There’s also the down payment assistance program (known as Boost), mostly accessed by those not already living in Regent Park. This program provides up to 10 percent of the unit purchase price for those earning moderate incomes. Perra supports this mixed neighbourhood model. She appreciates the diversity that makes Regent Park stand out from much of the rest of the city. “It is nice for us as a queer couple to be in an area that is racially and class diverse,” she says. “It makes a lesbian couple look less interesting.” An air of acceptance or indifference is generally what Perra and her partner get from locals when walking hand-inhand. “We wouldn’t want to live in a place where it wasn’t like that,” she says. Still, she notes that nothing about the redevelopment “looks queer.” Even so, her family plans to stay put. “We’re happy here,” she says. Several local gems — the nearby Riverdale Farm, libraries and drop-in centres — keep her children entertained. But Perra is most excited about one new addition. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 19 “The Regent Park Aquatic Centre is beautiful,” she says. This indoor pool facility cost about $15 million and opened in October 2012. Equipped with such features as a waterslide, a diving board and a Tarzan rope, it’s been a hit with the community. The centre also has unisex changing rooms with many cubicles, providing a much more welcoming environment for trans people while also affording families the privacy to change together. The aquatic centre replaced Regent Park’s aging outdoor pool. For Perra, that’s about the only letdown. “You gain this shiny new place, but this community landmark that is loved by so many is gone. “Everything is going, but some things were good,” she says. THE POLITICS The thing about change is that sometimes you have to sacrifice the good to get rid of the bad. “Regent Park needed to change,” says Bob Rae, a former member of Parliament for Toronto Centre from 2008 until 2013. “The status quo was not sustainable, and there needed to be change. It was just becoming too much of a closed community.” Unfortunately, the physical characteristics of the neighbourhood at times led to crime waves that largely defined it. Rae says the federal government could improve the situation if it responded effectively to the issue of addiction; he claims police have told him that tackling addiction would lead to an overall decrease in crime in the neighbourhood. Despite this, he guarantees “efforts are constantly being made.” Last June, Rae announced he would be stepping down as MP. While he will soon no longer be the political voice of the people of Regent Park, he says he will continue to be active in the neighbourhood. “Representing the people of Regent Park has been an honour.” The creation of new high-rises means the population of Regent Park will jump from 7,500 to as much as 17,000 in the next few years. 20 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! It’s hard for many in the neighbourhood to remember a time when Ward 28 Councillor Pam McConnell didn’t represent Regent Park. She’s been a councillor in the neighbourhood since 1994, making it through amalgamation and redistricting, and says change is what the community wanted. “The Regent Park redevelopment was the vision of Regent Park residents,” she says. Many residents attended consultation meetings so as to have their say in what they wanted out of the revitalization. According to McConnell, big names like Tim Hortons and FreshCo by Sobeys are expressed desires of Regent Park tenants. “It’s a symbiotic relation- ship between residents and businesses,” she says. She believes that’s crucial because the redevelopment is not just about “changing the bricks and the mortar” or “housing different types of people.” It’s also about employment opportunities. Street-level commercial space will be part of many of the new buildings, with well-established businesses getting priority. According to TCHC, the revitalization has created approximately 650 jobs for local people in construction, retail and other areas. It’s an important development for the neighbourhood, as the 2011 census revealed that 58 percent of residents reported they fell in the working age group (25 to 64 years old). For McConnell, it’s a clear sign that the stigmatization of Regent Park tenants as work-shy is misplaced. “When Regent Park people, both young people and adults, are given opportunities for employment, they will take them,” she says. McConnell hopes they’ll take all the opportunities presented to them with the revitalization. Those opportunities, however, could stand to be more plentiful for the queer community. Nonetheless, McConnell says issues facing LGBT people are a consideration as they fall “under the umbrella of human rights.” And besides, McConnell says that the queer residents she knows in Regent Park tell her they feel comfortable living there. “I’m seeing the celebration,” she says, referring to the rainbow flags she saw displayed throughout the neighbourhood on Pride weekend. “I think there is a huge acceptance.” THE BUSINESS “There does seem to be broad acceptance,” says Chris Klugman, owner of the Paintbox Bistro, a for-profit social enterprise restaurant, café, food-based incubator and catering company located at the corner of Dundas and Sackville streets. “We get a pretty significant gay clientele,” he says. Most come from further east in the city, but many are Regent Park residents themselves. The guys, especially, have adopted the spot as brunch-date central. Many Paintbox employees are also queer. “I can’t explain that,” Klugman says. “We don’t hire based on sexual orientation.” Maybe it’s the welcoming environment: the place has a rainbow theme going on inside that screams gay-friendly. The Paintbox is about more than providing a hip dining experience. It’s a certified B-Corp (short for benefit corporation) — a designation for companies that use business to bring about social and environmental change. TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS That change is happening at the local level. “Our mission is the training and career development of marginalized individuals, with a specific focus on our neighbourhood,” Klugman says. Recently, a grant sponsored by Dixon Hall Employment Services, administered by the City of Toronto Employment and Social Services and provided by the Government of Ontario, saw to the training and hiring of 13 new “Paintboxers.” Ontario Works sent out a mass email informing those in the Regent Park area about a job fair at George Brown College, where Klugman is a sessional professor. The chosen candidates were able to attend the school for one semester of culinary training, with tuition covered. Two weeks of training at the Paintbox followed, after which they became regular employees. “It’s not a co-op program,” Klugman clarifies. “Everyone is paid.” The Paintbox opened in September 2012. Klugman says the business has done “fine,” but, with no outside investors or equity partners, he admits it relies heavily on community support. Although it’s been only a year, Klugman believes he’s got plenty to celebrate. “In terms of our social mandate, we’re already a phenomenal success.” But there have definitely been hurdles. “It’s really been challenging to get outside communities to see this as a destination,” says Klugman, who wants 15 new restaurants to open in Regent Park so that people recognize it as a go-to neighbourhood for dining. The Paintbox isn’t the first restaurant he’s opened, and he says it’s been his experience that people prefer eating out in areas where there are blocks of restaurants, like in the Village. “It’d be much easier if we were on Church Street,” he says. Reality being what it is, he issues a challenge: “How do we get Church Street to come here?” How? By getting the redevelopment right. But based on precedent, that won’t be easy. Major neighbourhood overhauls have been attempted elsewhere, and yet success stories do not abound. For example, there was the clearing out of East London to make way for the Olympic Village for the 2012 Summer Olympics. With the games over, developers started converting the area to a residential district. Despite promises that the new homes would be affordable for former residents, the reality is that the redevelopment displaced thousands. The moving in of big-name retailers hurt small businesses, to the point that many closed up shop for good. The Games did result in the creation of new MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM jobs, but most of those ended when the Olympics did. The redevelopment created long-term jobs as well, but those pale in comparison to the jobs that were lost when the factories were torn down to build stadiums. Closer to home, there’s also cause for concern. In recent months, revitalization plans for Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside have drawn the ire of antigentrification protesters. They have picketed restaurants and committed acts of vandalism. Those protesting claim the social-mix model is not a good fit for the neighbourhood, often called “Canada’s poorest postal code.” However, several differences exist between these examples and Regent Park. The most glaring is that the Regent Park revitalization is not centred around one major event — that is, the Olympics — and is therefore more socially responsible in nature. In Toronto, developers kept tenants informed about the redevelopment process, thus avoiding public uproar. Furthermore, few businesses existed in Regent Park before the redevelopment, and those that did were not major job creators. And while it’s true that the prices on those market-rate condos make owning one unlikely for most current residents (many units are selling for more than $325,000), TCHC does have a standing commitment with tenants to provide them with replacement units. But the fact that a few hundred of those units are located outside Regent Park is concerning. That’s displacement, and such happenings could call the integrity of the whole revitalization into question. In Creek’s opinion, TCHC has justifiably avoided that scenario so far. “In the case of the redevelopment, I think they’ve done a pretty good job in engaging and communicating with people.” A crucial part of the revitalization strategy is successfully reaching out to those who didn’t live in Regent Park pre-redevelopment. Already there are signs that this is the case. “Regent Park has seen an increase in visitors from all over the city, as well as tourists from all over the world,” GreyWolf says. They’re welcome to visit, but don’t expect Regent Park to give up its identity. “My hope is that we do maintain a distinctive character as time goes on,” says Klugman, who’s happy to be “a small part of a much larger picture.” That appears to be the case for now. “To me, the spirit is still there,” Perra says, noting that spirit is one that’s increasingly welcoming of LGBT folk. Good, because they’re coming. Abualsameed claims he knows many queer people who moved to Regent Park because of the redevelopment. “The revitalization is completely changing the face of the neighbourhood,” he says. It’s been challenging to get outside communities to see this as a destination. How do we get Church Street to come here? CHRIS KLUGMAN, OWNER OF THE PAINTBOX BISTRO “The whole core of the city is becoming more and more a place of celebration and a gathering place for the queer community,” Rae says. “I think we’re going to continue to see that happening in Regent Park.” As changes come to Regent Park, so too might the evolution of a mutually beneficial relationship for the neighbourhood and the LGBT community. “I think that it will be a community that will be very welcoming to the queer community,” McConnell says. “A community where the queer community will feel very much at home, and, in fact, the queer community will be great, great contributors to the sense of Regent Park as a place for everyone.” Chris Klugman is the owner of the Paintbox Bistro in Regent Park. The restaurant is a forprofit social enterprise that opened in 2012. The Paintbox mission includes training and career development for marginalized individuals, with a focus on those living in Regent Park. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 21 NEIGHBOURHOOD Find everything from Ethiopian coffee to traditional French soap in this emerging hotspot Discovering Corktown 9 22 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! 5 7 8 14 4 2 3 13 QUEEN ST E POWER ST 11 10 PARLIAMENT ST As someone who used to confuse Corktown with Leslieville (those little signs are no friend to the nearsighted), I was pleasantly surprised to find that an area I’ve always thought of as Lower Regent Park has a special history all its own. I lived in Cabbagetown back in the 1990s, when Regent Park was one of those areas a safety-conscious swishter like myself would never consider visiting after dark. It was gangland, and the risks of walking through ranged from screamed insults to serious physical trauma. Of course now the area is well into its rebirth. Condos and affordable housing coexist happily within sleek new buildings, bright street lighting gives off its reassuring glow, and a slew of shops, both old and new, are enjoying a brisk trade as young families and hipsters flock to the area. Nearly gone are the it provides flood protection for the area. There’s also a thriving restaurant scene in Corktown, with places like the Paintbox Bistro 1 (555 Dundas St E, not shown on map) and other eateries opening up shop. Certainly the most posh of these is Que Supper Club 2 (364 Queen St E), an upscale barbecue restaurant that serves an eclectic fusion of tastes and cultures. Now, kimchi tacos and redneck sushi may sound like slightly incongruous food combinations, but Que makes it work with a harmonious blend of flavours and artistic presentation. For the less adventurous, standard fare like pulled pork and wings round out an ambitious but accessible menu. Just up the street is neighbourhood favourite Keeffaa Ethiopian café and restaurant 3 (368 Queen St E). This place is perennially busy, with both coffee connoisseurs and diners looking for authentic, vegetarian-friendly Ethiopian TREFANN ST low-rise brick cubes that became a symbol of poverty and crime for decades. Corktown runs roughly from Parliament Street to the Don River along a rapidly evolving stretch of Queen Street East. Back in the 1800s, this was home to thousands of Irish immigrants, many coming from County Cork, from which the neighbourhood takes its name. There’s still a nice sense of history, with heritage homes and shops making up the bulk of the buildings. But the reinvention of the area is bringing in new business and refreshed services to the area. The showpiece is definitely Corktown Common, a magnificent mixed-use space that rests on the site of a former pig-slaughtering facility. Designed with both community enjoyment and environmental sensitivity in mind, the Common features a super-cool splash pad and playground, beautiful protected wetlands and a rolling tree-studded lawn that is pleasing to the eye even as NEIGHBOURHOOD SERAFIN LARIVIERE 1 12 6 cuisine. All the food is made onsite, while the coffee is, according to my java-crazed travelling companion, the best thing since the advent of home-sized espresso machines. There are lattes made with almond milk, ginger tea with coconut milk and a delicious hot chocolate that is so spicy and sweet I want to bathe in it. The menu offers plenty of vegan options, along with raw foods, eggs and breads all prepared in the Ethiopian style. Definitely worth a repeat visit. There’s also more mainstream fare at places like Magic Oven 4 (360 Queen St E) or Souvlaki Express 5 (348 Queen St E). I love the historic Dominion on Queen 6 (500 Queen St E), a warm, comfortable space with great pub food and an even better live jazz scene. Redline Coffee and Espresso 7 (354 Queen St E) is the destination for perfectly tart, freshly squeezed lemonade. They also serve Kawartha Dairy ice cream, which is perhaps the only good thing ever to come out of Peterborough (birthplace of Skid Row singer Sebastian Bach — I rest my case). TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS Left, Shauntelle Leblanc is the owner of Ethel, where the motto is “Life is too short for beige.” Below left, Keeffaa is known for its authentic, vegetarian-friendly Ethiopian cuisine. Above, Adornments on Queen is part tea shop, part furnitureand-accessories store. ADAM COISH Gentrification is definitely colouring the tone of Corktown. There are several of what I like to call “lifestyle stores” — little shops that carry a modest selection of furniture and lighting along with interesting chachkas and greeting cards. Even & Odd 8 (356 Queen St E) is a cute place, featuring a blend of home décor, kitchenware, silk-screened bags and such. I love their fair-trade totes from the UK, emblazoned with robins, owls and other birds. And while I may not personally be a fan of scented candles, their Savon de Marseille traditional French soaps are absolutely divine. The barn-board-style storage boxes are very cool as well. Just on the other side of Parliament is Ethel 9 (327 Queen St E), a wonderful hodgepodge of home accessories and furnishings that conjure up images of the 1960s while staying firmly in the present. How can you not love a place that uses an old swim flipper as a doorstop and stocks vintage frosted highball glasses? The name may evoke images of Lucy’s famous frumpy sidekick, but MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM the similarity ends there; Ethel carries a modest but delightful selection, ranging from retro lighting and ceramics to a fabulous couch that is part space-age and part Father Knows Best in style. Their slogan sums it up perfectly: “Life is too short for beige.” Gen-Cor Custom Furniture 10 (342 Queen St E) is another great find. Their handmade wood offerings are both gorgeous and reassuringly solid — an important distinction for all of us cursing the inevitable splitting of Ikea plywood, just weeks after the expired warranty. There’s some classic design here, as well as a subdued modernity: a bathroom vanity done in Shaker style, featuring modern hardware and a sandblasted glass countertop, is chic but timeless, while the full-size dining table with hand-etched swirly design can easily seat 12 of your closest friends (or 10 that you’re moderately ambivalent about). There’s also Adornments on Queen 11 (338 Queen St E), which is part tea shop, part furniture-and-accessories store. It has a serious Parisian theme going on, with wrought-metal birdcages, European-style place settings and a selection of loose-leaf teas from Steeped and Infused that is truly astounding. Blends like ginger lime fruit, grapefruit ice tea and tulsi orange ginger tell you this is definitely not Tetley land. Very chi-chi; surprisingly affordable. It’s nice to see an art space in the Corktown mix, and Urban Gallery 12 (400 Queen St E) has a community feel that fits in well with the neighbourhood. The gallery falls under the Urban Source Catering umbrella (located next door) and offers venue rentals as well as wall space for city artists. Painter Allen Shugar’s work was recently featured in its Pride showing, and the team is always open to submissions. Antique Asylum and Ye Olde Tackle Shop 13 (370 Queen St E) is one of the businesses that have been around for years. It’s a classic jumble shop, with a fun blend of old and new lining its shelves. Definitely good for an hour of browsing and the occasional one-of-akind discovery. But the best vintage lighting has to be from Douglas Poole Antiques 14 (358 Queen St E). Any era in which humans were capable of jamming a light bulb into a socket is represented here in glorious, chaotic fashion. This cavernous place is packed to the rafters with chandeliers, Tiffany-style shades, and those old cast-iron-based lamps that were so heavy you needed to do a round of squats before rearranging your room. One heft of these little miracles of design reminds me of the days when things were built to both please the eye and last generations. Owner Douglas Poole is, sadly, retiring early next year, but the good news is that he’s knocked everything in the store down to serious clear-out prices. He’s been here for 12 years and has watched the neighbourhood transform with great interest. “Oh, it’s so different now,” he says. “There are so many changes, with the new developments and all the new stores opening up. But it’s always been a great area. I will miss it.” XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 23 24 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS OutintheCity HOLY HELL HOUSE! Allyson Mitchell has a knack for dreaming up nightmares. Imagine these scenarios: “paranormal consciousness raisers,” a “cyclops-sized bearded clam” or a “riot ghoul and gender studies professor dance party” (to which you are not necessarily invited). These are just a few of the horrors awaiting at the otherworldly Kill Joy’s Kastle, the ultimate lesbian-feminist haunted-house experience, brought to life by Mitchell, one of Toronto’s most infamous queer artists. “There’s a long tradition of artists who have worked with horror tropes, because it’s a way to play with our greatest fears, individually and collectively,” explains Mitchell, whose practice expands to visual, textile, video, performance and installation art. “So I wanted to use that to think about the complicated politics of queerness and feminism.” Loosely based on the American evangelical Christian tradition of Halloween hell houses — meant to scare the visitor out of a life of sin — Mitchell’s haunted house is not intended to proselytize to its guests so much as make them think. During one president’s time they suddenly decided to allow frontal nudity. Then the Church got angry and they limited it to being able to show only one breast rather than two. Kanakan Balintagos E26 ProArte dancing “Clearly, I don’t want to indoctrinate people; I want the opposite of that,” Mitchell says. “Which is to ask people to join into the discourse around the meaning of the experience and actually have an opinion.” To that end, the seemingly endless turns and terrors of the haunted house eventually spit you out into the “chilly climate room,” where guests are asked to engage with self-identified “feminist killjoys” in order to process their experience and, ultimately, agree to hold each other accountable for it. Despite this somewhat sober end- ing to the Kastle, there are plenty of screams and a few good laughs to be had throughout the massive installation. Small groups of visitors are led through the space by a ghoulish women’s studies professor and encounter a riotous selection of campy, creepy and often raunchy creatures and crevices from the depths of freaky feminism. —Jonathan Valelly Kill Joy’s Kastle: A Lesbian Feminist Haunted House runs Wed, Oct 16–Wed, Oct 30 (4–8pm or by appointment via [email protected]), 303 Lansdowne Ave. The annual showcase of ProArteDanza, founded in 2004 by former National Ballet dancer Roberto Campanella, is always a must-see. Whether you’re there to admire the flawless technique or just want to see some seriously hot bodies, the company’s signature blend of ballet and modern styles makes for some of Toronto’s most explosive, technically complex dance works. Xtra’s Chris Dupuis chatted with one of the company hotties to find out what makes him tick. Name: Benjamin Landsberg. Favourite party place: Wrongbar, on the right night. Most attractive quality in a man: Intelligence and substance. Least attractive quality: Sluttiness. Most common response when you tell a prospective partner you’re a dancer: “But what’s your real job?” Most shocking response: “Like, at Flash?” Bump & grind There’s nothing like a good sex party, depending on what floats your boat. Specific sex-positive spaces have been around for a long time in Toronto — parties just for men, for fetish communities, trans folks and admirers, for swingers, for nudists, and on and on. But according to Toronto organizer Akio Maroon, play parties and bathhouses continue to be uncomfortable landscapes for many people whose bodies don’t fit into rigid societal norms of beauty. That’s why she created Grind, a sexy event series especially for queer and trans people who identify as black, mixed-race, indigenous or of colour. “There isn’t really a venue for POC [people of colour] folks to enjoy our sexualities in an open space, where there’s no sense of criticism or the burden of MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM certain stereotypes,” explains Maroon, who began the party in January and is hosting the fourth — the blacklightthemed Blackout edition — in October. Beyond its safe-space mandate, a crucial part of Grind’s mission is to promote safer sex and informed consent. The party space is thus divided into a dancefloor area and a VIP play area, giving people a choice of how to engage. Guests can also take part in a workshop on consent and how to make condom and dam use sexy, which includes live demonstrations. “The idea is to make safer sex fun, interesting, sexy and easy to do,” Maroon says.—Jonathan Valelly Grind: Blackout is Fri, Oct 18, 8pm, at the United Steelworkers Hall, 25 Cecil St. grindtoronto.com Best body part: Ass. Favourite dance move: The perfect hair toss. Favourite place to dance, besides onstage: In my room. Best advice you’ve ever been given: Trust in the universe. Wildest place you’ve had sex: An oceanic cave. Biggest turn-on: Dominance. If you could buy anyone lunch, who would it be and why: Miley Cyrus, so I could give her a stern talking-to and poison the meal. What is the strangest thing you have in your room: At the moment, a cat that’s not mine. Grind is a sex party for queer people of colour. Visit dailyxtra.com for more ProArteDanza dancer profiles. The ProArteDanza showcase is Wed, Oct 2–Sat, Oct 5 at Fleck Dance Theatre, 207 Queens Quay W. harbourfrontcentre.com/ nextsteps XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 25 SUNDAY, OCTOBER 27 MASSEY HALL TICKETS ALSO AT THE MASSEY HALL & ROY THOMSON HALL BOX OFFICES, MASSEYHALL.COM. All dates, acts and ticket prices subject to change without notice. Ticket prices subject to applicable fees. CYNDILAUPER.COM ¥ Make One Small Monthly Payment For All Your ¸ Debts! WE CAN Stop Collection Calls Reduce your Debts Stop Wage Garnishment Stop Interest Right Away Re-Establish your Credit Visit: GtaCredit.Com ¸ credit North York Scarborough Ajax / Oshawa (416) 650-1100 (416) 754-0011 (905) 426-8400 Mississauga Brampton Downtown (905) 275-4200 (905) 796-3100 (416) 489-2000 Contact us for a FREE & CONFIDENTIAL meeting with one of our Govt. Registered Counsellor 26 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! Flip the script Queer filmmaker Kanakan Balintagos’s latest work comes to life at the imagiNative festival written on a long-dead computer and his only copy was on paper somewhere in a pile of boxes in his closet. It took Kanakan Balintagos 13 years to “I told myself if the script actually get Baybayin (The Script, in English) shows up, it’s time to make it,” he made. Written in 1999, it was supposed laughs. “In a way it’s good the universe to be the Manila filmmaker’s first fea- made me wait, because I’m more techture. It had been given the green light nically and artistically mature now. It by a production company, but when it would have been a very different piece came to sorting out the final details, if I’d made it back then.” Balintagos found himself butting heads Beyond his level of experience, there with executives. He insisted it be shot is another major difference in how in his ancestral homeland of Palawan, the film is realized. The erotic scenes the largely rural and mostly inacces- have been scaled back dramatically, sible part of the Philippines where the something that points to his counstory takes place. try’s fluctuating relationship with “The landscape is totally different conservatism. from the rest of the country, and it re“In the Philippines, it depends ally had to be made there,” he says. “But on who the president is,” he says. it’s expensive to reach, and the produc- “The Catholic Church is still a major ers wanted something cheaper and presence, and policy fluctuates demore practical. The deal pending on how much eventually fell apart.” a particular government BAYBAYIN Balintagos put the listens to them. During imagineNative Film & Media Arts Festival script aside and went one president’s time, Thurs, Oct 17, 8pm on with other projects. they suddenly decided TIFF Bell Lightbox Then in early 2012, a to allow frontal nudity. 350 King St W imaginenative.org message landed in his Then the church got aninbox: a new Philippine gry and so they limited it film fund had been created and the to being able to show only one breast deadline for submissions was the fol- rather than two, so you had all of these lowing day. He didn’t have another films made during a particular period project ready but didn’t want to pass with one-breast scenes. Filmmakers up the opportunity. Baybayin had been never know what’s coming next, so we FILM CHRIS DUPUIS have to constantly adapt.” In an odd paradox, the country is one of the region’s more liberal when it comes to gay rights. There are parties and cruising grounds, particularly in the big cities, and marriage equality has been proposed in parliament several times, though it’s never come to fruition. One of prime-time’s bestrated TV shows, My Husband’s Lover, is the story of a couple dealing with the husband’s bisexuality. Queer films, including Balintagos’s own works The Blossoming of Maximo Oliveros (about a young man in love with a police officer) and Tuli (about a lesbian couple hoping to have a baby) have been big box-office hits. “My films on queer issues make a lot more money than my films on indigenous issues,” he says with a laugh. “I think of my queer films as feeding my wallet and my indigenous films as feeding my soul.” Based on a tribal folktale, Baybayin falls into the latter camp and follows two half sisters (played by Assunta de Rossi and Alessandra de Rossi) who are reunited after a prolonged separation. They’ve fallen for the same person (Adrian Sebastian), a deaf-mute man who communicates using only the ancient script the film is named for. Originally called Duay (meaning “two TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS I think of my queer films as feeding my wallet and my indigenous films as feeding my soul. FILMMAKER KANAKAN BALINTAGOS wives”), the name was changed when Balintagos submitted it for the competition, a move he partially credits with its getting made. “In Palawan tradition, if a child gets sick you change their name, and then magically they get well,” he says. “With the film, I changed the title and suddenly it got made. It was like somehow I healed the script and it was able to live in the world.” Shot over two weeks, the lush, sprawling work makes extensive use of the Palawan region’s natural beauty, particularly through a number of unMORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM derwater scenes — a happy accident that came about when Balintagos’s team stumbled on a French underwater cinematographer vacationing in the area with his gear in tow. Some moments have a National Geographic feel, but there’s a stronger political message at play. “There are a lot of politicians and mining companies that want to start developing the region for natural resources,” Balintagos says. “They are dying to destroy this place, and I want to capture the beauty so people can see what we need to protect.” Kanakan Balintagos’s film Baybayin showcases the natural beauty of his ancestral homeland of Palawan, a remote and rural part of the Philippines. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 27 by Louis XIV. In it, the king had his court prance around for hours, depicting night as a plague upon their society, with rescue arriving at dawn in the person of Louis, who cast himself as the beatific Sun King. Subtle it was not. Fernandes has taken this concept and adapted it for a modern age. His dancers toil throughout the night, cutting up gold confetti in anticipation of a new day. As the sun rises, the confetti is thrown in celebration and tribute to their nocturnal labour. Two Night Shift dancers anticipate “I’m thinking about the ideas of how a new day. OMER YUKSEKER we are looking for social solidarity, for civil rights,” Fernandes says. “Louis XIV promised his people a new beginning, with new leadership that would be prosperous for them, but in the end he was a selfish king.” Thankfully, the choreographer is more merciful with his troupe than old Louis was with his long-suffering courtiers. The dancers will perform in shifts, giving opportunities for rest that 17th-century subjects could never have imagined. Still, the level of endurance for each performer is intense. “In ballet, you never want to show the body in a moment of fatigue,” Fernandes says. “You have to be in this idea of fortitude all the time, and even though they’re taking shifts, it’s still a lot of time to be activated.” As the pile of gold confetti grows, the performance escalates toward the moment at sunrise when it’s all tossed spectacles created by local and visiting into the air, a brief, glittering exploartists. Among this year’s offerings is sion gleaned from hours of effort. “The a 12-hour dance perforconfetti is a symbol of mance choreographed economy being counterNIGHT SHIFT by Brendan Fernandes feit,” Fernandes says. “I’m Sat, Oct 5 in collaboration with Mithinking here of how we 6:51pm until sunrise Bay Adelaide Centre chael Trent and Dancepay artists and dancers, scotiabanknuitblanche.ca makers. Night Shift is a how we support them. “durational performance” After 12 hours of taskinspired by Ballet de la Nuit, an all-night based creating, it all culminates to one court ballet originally commissioned small moment. Then it’s all over.” Nocturnal labour All-night art fest Nuit Blanche to feature a glitterfilled dance party DANCE SERAFIN LARIVIERE Toronto is known for many wonderful things, but being a great party city is not generally one of them. Sure, we have a vibrant theatre scene and some excellent restaurants, but there are few nights of the year when our town really lets down its hair and boogies. Nuit Blanche is one of the best and brightest of these rare occasions. The concept originated in France back in the mid-1980s when an artistic director named Jean Blaise dreamed up the idea of an all-night festival of culture and art. Other European cities seized upon the theme, opening museums and galleries for a nocturnal celebration that saw millions of citizens exploring their urban centres throughout the wee, small hours. Montreal threw its hat into the ring in 2003, with Toronto following suit in 2006. It was an instant success. I was there for Nuit Blanche’s inaugural year in Toronto, and it was a magical experience. Parks were lit with light sculptures and dotted with live performance art, dance and music. Roving troubadours entertained young and old with songs, juggling and happy antics. Despite some occasional light rain, thousands of us flooded the streets to revel in the crisp autumn air, indulging in a night of play with our beautiful city. There’s a lighthearted innocence about the revelry of Nuit Blanche, an insouciance that avoids the boozy, druggy decadence of Pride. It’s a night for fun and wonder, where we are more awed spectator than ecstatic participant; we wander through our magical urban garden, oohing and aahing at the sights and sounds. One of the most exciting aspects of Nuit Blanche is the mega-endurance Fit For A Queen 28 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS The boys in the band TORONTO’S LOCAL Michael Sweeney is one of this season’s queer highlights at the TSO ONSTAGE MATTHEW HAYS As Michael Sweeney, principal bassoon for the Toronto Symphony Orchestra, tells it, his choice to play the bassoon was a direct result of his unconventional outlook as a teenager. “When I was in grade school, there weren’t a lot of resources,” Sweeney says. “I was actually just looking at the photos of instruments on paper. That’s how we had to decide. The oboe, quite frankly, didn’t look that different than the clarinet. But the bassoon looked so different, exotic even.” Thus Sweeney made his decision about his pursuit of instrument largely on looks. “That was it for me! I had no idea what it sounded like.” He was also struck by the German word for bassoon: fagott. Given that strange bit of linguistic trivia, Sweeney doesn’t necessarily see a lot of truth to the age-old stereotype of gay men’s attachment to classical music. “You know, I tend to avoid generalizations,” Sweeney, who’s been with the TSO since 1989, says. “There are two regular concert attendees who come to the symphony. They are two men who attend in drag, though I believe one may be trans. They’re here a lot. But when I look at our audiences, they are extremely diverse. We have everyone at the symphony. A lot of gay people are very enthused about classical music, but so are a lot of straight people.” American style Philadelphia cheese steak sandwiches All sandwiches made with AA Ribeye Michael Sweeney, principal bassoon for the Toronto Symphony Orchestra. GINNY SCOTT As for the idea that being a professional musician has some kind of cachet within the gay community, Sweeney says with a laugh, “I meet gay people who are completely unimpressed that I’m with the symphony.” When pressed, Sweeney argues that, if not specifically queer, there is something alternative about symphonies and the appreciation of music. “Orchestras provide an alternate way of knowing, understanding, appreciating and enjoying the world of ideas, emo- Must-see TSO concerts this fall RUFUS WAINWRIGHT WITH ORCHESTRA Fri, Oct 11 CIRQUE DE LA SYMPHONIE Tues, Oct 15 & Wed, Oct 16 La Wainwright will perform an eclectic mix of ditties, everything from his first opera, Prima Donna, to his orchestral setting of five Shakespeare sonnets. He’ll also be belting out some of his delicious faves, including “Over the Rainbow,” “Vibrate,” “Oh What a World” and “If I Loved You.” Conductor Steven Reineke is famous for his fusion of contemporary pop with classical virtuosity. He is known for wearing all-white suits while conducting evenings filled with ABBA music, and he has been as outspoken about his experiences coming out as he has about the music MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM tions and sensations ... it’s another language. Neurologists say that the area of the brain that processes music doesn’t do anything else. Think about it: you don’t meet people who don’t like music of any kind. That area of the brain wants to be delighted. The melody of classical music from the 18th century stimulates our intellect and our emotions at the same time. So much art is about rousing either our intellect or our emotions. Music is about stimulating both.” he’s committed to. This year he leads the orchestra in selections from popular classics, ranging from Bizet to Wagner, to which acrobats, contortionists, dancers, jugglers, balancers and strongmen will perform. BENJAMIN BRITTEN, SUNG BY NICHOLAS PHAN Thurs, Oct 31–Sat, Nov 2 This year is the 100th anniversary of the birth of Benjamin Britten, one of I WENT TO PHILLY WE HAVE 462 YONGE STREET, NORTH OF COLLEGE Open ‘til 3am Fri & Sat 416.927.9090 the 20th century’s most celebrated composers and a reputed chaser of young, attractive men. The TSO will fete Britten with a number of concert performances of his work, in this case by the terribly handsome tenor Nicholas Phan, notorious for his love of Britten. The program also includes Carl Orff’s Carmina Burana. Roy Thompson Hall 60 Simcoe St tso.ca XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 29 Light& heavy This versatile ffall all favourite adapts to any forecast STYLE LIFE DIEGO ARMAND AND Here’s a style buzzword: grungerjack. ngerjack. The flannel shirt is the go-to to buttondown for the season. Wear them hem thick, thin, in solids or plaids. As the weather ather gets crispy, they become ideal layering ering pieces: buttoned up tight under der your fall jacket, around your neck as a scarf or tied around yourr waist 1990s grunge-style, for the warmer moments of your day. PHOTOS: MAY TRUONG MODEL: JURGEN Red/indigo brushed tartan shirt, $198, United Stock Dry Goods. Available at Sydney’s, 682 Queen St W or shopsydneys.com. 30 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS Lumberjack button-down, $235, Gitman Bros Vintage. Available at Nomad, 819 Queen St W or nomadshop.net. Check flannel (worn as scarf) and solid (worn under jacket), both $79.50, Club Monaco, clubmonaco.com. Blackwatch button-down, $235, Gitman Bros Vintage. Available at Nomad. Utility flannel, $169, Klaxon Howl, 706 Queen St W. Flannel, $138, Polo Ralph Lauren. Available at Hudson’s Bay Company, 176 Yonge St. MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 31 DEEP DISH 1 ROLYN CHAMBERS David Bowie Is opening party Blood, Sweat & Queers FRI, SEPT 27 @ THE AGO SAT, SEPT 28 @ THE STEADY CAFÉ If David Bowie can pass himself off as a gay/bi/crossdressing musician for the early part of his career, I should be able to pretend to be straight for the David Bowie Is opening-night party at the AGO. At least for the early part. With more than 300 pieces, the exhibit is massive. The crowd upstairs, eager and hyper to bear witness to Bowie’s creative genius, is too much for my artistic sensibilities. I decide to come back the next day to see it when it’s calmer and quieter. Tonight is about dancing to some classic Bowie, courtesy of DJ and artist Luis Jacob, mingling with an artistic crowd, including DJ Kris Steeves, and pretending to be a real rock star. From the “If I stand here long enough and pose like I don’t care, everyone can see how fabulous I am” stairs, I spot artist Andrew Zealey chatting with Steve Shon, of The Rivoli. Zealey donated some of his own Bowie memorabilia to the exhibit’s Toronto stop. “When Ziggy Stardust came out, I was a pale 16-year-old redhead living in Scarborough,” Zealey tells me over cocktails. “It changed my life. I wanted to go there, where Bowie was taking us. I started collecting in the early 1980s, when I worked at the Record Peddler and Art Metropole.” Zealey’s collection contains things like the official David Bowie zine, Bowie stamps and even bubble gum records. Put a little Bowie in my mouth? Yum. 1E Phil 2E David, Luis & Rolyn 3E Arjun & Drew 4E Amit & Alex If I travel all over the city every weekend to attend various parties, I should be able to attend a new night at a new bar in my own neck of the woods. At least for my first stop. While some gay nights outside the Village struggle to survive, The Steady (which looks deceivingly small from outside) is thriving. Tonight’s monthly edition of Blood, Sweat & Queers is balls-to-the-walls rammed with a too-kewl-for-cool crowd, including promoter/performer Matty Cameron, filmmaker Mark Pariselli, makeup artist Robert Weir and the cruelly outrageous Margot Keith. It’s so busy and so hot that my camera lens is fogging over and my pits are beginning to drip like a Melitta coffeemaker. All the more reason to shed unwanted articles of clothing. On decks, DJ (and Xtra arts editor) Phil V is spinning some classic Gaga as cute boys in nose rings and Value Village T-shirts jam the backroom dancefloor. Sticky good. All manner of booty-bouncing hell breaks loose as Devine Darlin takes over the floor, with dancers Brian and Curtis busting out of itty-bitty shorts that threaten to expose more meat and potatoes than my plate can handle. “I’ve never been out here before,” Devine says after, breathlessly. “Where am I again?” The Steady. Ossington and Bloor. It’s getting good and gay. 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We turned down 95 percent of what came through the door because of exactly that, but the Vitaminwater party with Fader magazine, hidden away in the CBC building, was kinda dope. Here are Alejandro and Jesse posing with Popchips (the chips you get for free at parties but no one has ever bought — ever). 2E Ooh, have I got a thing for Ingrid on the far right. Look at those cheekbones and the eyes on that one. Needs to be in a magazine, stat. With Ingrid are friends Julia (middle) and Elyse (left), also at the Vitaminwater/Fader party. Boi-1da DJed alongside Potty Mouth, and Dragonette performed. Chromeo was held up in NYC by flight delays (quelle surprise) but made it to the afterjam at Wrongbar later. Constantine, got his groove on at the Vitaminwater jam. In the words of Becca Lemire (my cohort behind the camera), “Every sexy person and their sexy mother was at this party. So hip it hurted.” You heard it here first, people. 4E Restless PR did a three-part party at the end of TIFF, like a sort of sanctuary, and the morning yoga sessions were filled with some sexy early risers. Craig (the partier formerly known as CPB) was in full effect for kombucha and yoga at Loft 404. 5E Max was taking photos for Restless; Kate was attending the event. Max is cute and all, that’s obvious, but come on: Kate’s outfit is killing it! Sweatshirt with high-waisted jean skirt and full cast to the elbow — and red lipstick. 6E On the right is my little brother, Evan. He’s wearing his new fave outfit, entitled “Just out the Don.” It’s a grey-ongrey tee and 1980s sweatpant ensemble that he wears in public without shame. On the left is Jamilah, one of the best yoga teachers in the city, who was teaching at the Restless sanctuary for Full Power Yoga that morning. 7E For part of the second act of the day, Restless and Discosalt had a showcase that included a lot of acts, like Bella Akira, starring these two fine gentlemen: Zion and Joseph. It’s all about the shoulders on Joseph’s jacket and the kneepads on Zion. Like, whoa — babe city here. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 33 SEASON PRESENTING SPONSOR RUFUS WAINWRIGHT RUFUS WAINWRIGHT With Orchestra FRI, OCTOBER 11 AT 8:00pm Rufus Wainwright, composer and singer-songwriter Jayce Ogren, conductor Melody Moore, soprano Hear a diverse range of Rufus Wainwright’s music including Five Shakespeare Sonnets, selections from his opera Prima Donna, signature Judy Garland songs, tunes from the Great American Songbook, plus other pop classics performed with the Orchestra. VIP TICKETS AVAILABLE TO MEET RUFUS AFTER THE CONCERT! TICKETS START AT $29.75 ROY THOMSON HALL PRESENTING PERFORMANCE SPONSOR 416.593.4828 TSO.CA OFFICIAL AIRLINE MEDIA PARTNER 34 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS WHAT'S ON FOR MORE EVENT LISTINGS, GO TO DAILYXTRA.COM COMEDY & CABARET Slanty Eyed Mama Kate Rigg and Lyris Hung, two badass Asian girls, present an evening of stereotype-challenging rock ’n’ roll and spoken-word rants. Sat, Oct 5, 9pm. The Flying Beaver, 488 Parliament St. $15 advance, $20 door. pubaret.com Colour Coded: Queer Abstraction Meets Fruity Frosting Singular Sensation: A Musical-Theatre Open Mic Art enthusiasts of all skill levels drop in to create and schmooze in an informal environment. Sat, Oct 5, 2–4pm. The 519 Community Centre, 519 Church St. Free. gmaptoronto.org Jamie Q and Ian Phillips’s series of paintings addresses the question “What makes an object queer?” Runs until Sun, Nov 3. Canadian Lesbian and Gay Archives, 34 Isabella St. Free. clga.ca Jennifer Walls invites amateur crooners to perform their favourite songs accompanied by a live band. Every Monday, 9:30pm–12:30am. Statlers, 487 Church St. No cover. statlers.ca Nuit Blanche David Bowie Is For the eighth year, the city transforms into an open-air art gallery featuring more than 100 installations. Of particular interest is Ai Weiwei’s Forever Bicycles. Runs Sat, Oct 5, 6:51pm–Sun, Oct 6, sunrise. Various locations. Free. scotiabanknuitblanche.ca QueerCab This exhibit features hundreds of objects and costumes from Bowie’s personal archive and a multimedia presentation on his contributions to arts and culture. Runs until Wed, Nov 27. Art Gallery of Ontario, 317 Dundas St W. $21.50 and up. ago.net An open-mic night where youth flaunt their special talents — anything from spoken word to drag — in front of a supportive audience. Wed, Oct 9; sign-up 7:30pm, show 8pm. Buddies in Bad Times, 12 Alexander St. PWYC. buddiesinbadtimes.com ART & LITERATURE Gay Men’s Art Project Queer as Fuck: New Talent Night Two Weird Ladies — Measure, Tues, Oct 15 KEVIN THOM The creator of Laughs at Slack’s presents a twice-monthly comedy night in the west end. Features comedians Annie Bradley, Mary Bee and Sarah Simpson. Wed, Oct 9, 9:30pm. The Steady Café, 1051 Bloor St W. PWYC. thesteadycafe.com The Everything Show with Two Weird Ladies An evening for people who hate making choices: tapas is on the menu and the entertainment ranges from the short play The Object of Her Attraction to the improv of Plan B. Tues, Oct 15, 8:30pm. Measure, 296 Brunswick Ave. $8. twoweirdladies.com HEALTH & SUPPORT The 519 Legal Clinic A free, accessible service for lowincome people. Volunteer lawyers provide legal advice, referrals and help with forms and letters. The confidential and private visits are first-come, first-served. Bring any necessary documents. Every Thursday; registration 6–6:30pm. The 519 Community Centre, 519 Church St. Free. the519.org Bisexual Women of Toronto A peer-support and discussion group focused on community and solidarity. Thurs, Oct 3, 8–10pm. The 519 Community Centre, 519 Church St. Free. torontobinet.org FTM Support Group Trans men share their experiences in a supportive environment. Takes place the first and third Friday of each month. For more info, contact [email protected]. Fri, Oct 4, 7:30pm. The 519 Community Centre, 519 Church St. Free. the519.org MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM LEGIT Legal counsel for same-sex couples immigrating to Canada. Tap into the community and access useful resources. Takes place the second Thursday of each month. Thurs, Oct 10, 7–10pm. The 519 Community Centre, 519 Church St. Free, donations appreciated. legit.ca Positive Routes to Recovery A peer-led support group for gay men working through substanceabuse issues. Takes place the first and third Tuesday of each month. Tues, Oct 15, 6–8pm. The 519 Community Centre, 519 Church St. Free. pr2r.org Peer Support Drop-In Group Queer people with mood disorders drop in for support and discussion. If the building door is locked, press the button under the intercom near the wheelchair entrance. Wed, Oct 16, 7–9pm. Mood Disorders Association of Ontario, 36 Eglinton Ave W, Ste 602. Free. mooddisorders.ca LEISURE & PLEASURE TO Gaymers Monthly Social A symposium of nerdy delights, where flagons of fine booze are drunk and revellers replenish themselves with card games and videogames like Naruto and Smash Bros. Sat, Oct 5, 1–10pm. O’Grady’s, 518 Church St. Free. torontogaymers.ca Queer Slowdance: ’80s Edition Booty shakers set up dances with one another using dance cards, while designated dancers coax out the wallflowers. Sat, Oct 5, 9:30pm–2:30am. Dovercourt House, 805 Dovercourt Rd. $10 admission includes dance-card booklet. Midori — Come as You Are, Sun, Oct 6–Wed, Oct 9 greet for those with VIP tickets. Fri, Oct 11, 8–10pm. Roy Thompson Hall, 60 Simcoe St. $29.75–130.50. tso.ca with a dozen hot young guys. Runs until Sat, Oct 12, 8pm. Videofag, 187 Augusta Ave. $10. videofag.com Kill Joy’s Kastle: A Lesbian Feminist Haunted House Dinner at Seven-Thirty Allyson Mitchell presents her response to the haunted hell houses that showcase retribution against so-called sins, such as homosexuality. To book visits or arrange class tours, contact [email protected]. Runs Wed, Oct 16–Wed, Oct 30. 303 Lansdowne Ave. Free. Midori at Come as You Are Author, artist and BDSM expert Midori hosts a series of workshops, ranging from How to Eat a Peach to The Art of Feminine Dominance. For more info and to register, call 416-504-7934. Sun, Oct 6–Wed, Oct 9. Come as You Are, 493 Queen St W. $35, sliding scale available. comeasyouare.com Kama Sutra Pleasure Camp Randy fellas enjoy an extended weekend full of erotic discovery, new understanding and the shedding of inhibitions. For more info and to register, contact phillip@ phillipcoupal.ca. Runs Thurs, Oct 10–Mon, Oct 14. Awaken Studio, 270 Carlaw Ave, Unit 102. $395. phillipcoupal.ca Rufus Wainwright with the TSO A varied performance — with everything from “Over the Rainbow” to Wainwright’s orchestral setting of five Shakespeare sonnets — is followed by a backstage meet-and- THEATRE Pig Two gay couples hunt for deeper intimacy — via emotional domination, submission and violence — and end up blurring the boundaries between hatred, love and shame. Runs until Sun, Oct 6, various showtimes. Buddies in Bad Times, 12 Alexander St. PWYC–$37. buddiesinbadtimes.com Avenue Q The musical coming-of-age story starring Rod the closeted puppet features such memorable hits as “If You Were Gay” and “The Internet Is for Porn.” Runs until Sun, Oct 6, various showtimes. Lower Ossington Theatre, 100A Ossington Ave. $49–60. avenueq.ca Fixed Zack Russell’s new play is about Gayle, the inventor of a futuristic hook-up app for men, who encounters a glitch during a demo In Allyson McMackon’s piece, inspired by Virginia Woolf’s The Waves, seven childhood friends confront the past around a dinner table. Runs Sat, Oct 12–Sun, Oct 20, various showtimes. Buddies in Bad Times, 12 Alexander St. PWYC–$31. buddiesinbadtimes.com Killing Game With the disappearance of the Black Monk and the arrival of plague, a village fragments into angry mobs, and only one thing seems certain: death. Runs Mon, Oct 14–Fri, Oct 18, various showtimes. Annex Theatre, 730 Bathurst St. $18–22. annextheatre.org The Best Brothers Daniel MacIvor’s comedy tells the story of two brothers — one straitlaced, the other gay and dating a sex-worker — whose relationship is tested by their mother’s Pride parade–related death. Runs until Sun, Oct 27, various showtimes. Tarragon Theatre, 30 Bridgman Ave. PWYC–$53. tarragontheatre.com Les Misérables Cameron Mackintosh’s new production of the musical about ex-convict Jean Valjean’s experience of redemption. Features the stirring songs “I Dreamed a Dream” and “Do You Hear the People Sing?” Runs until Sun, Dec 22, various showtimes. Princess of Wales Theatre, 300 King St W. $35–130. mirvish.com XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 35 CLUBSCENE to The Beaver as a new regular feature. 11pm–2:30am. The Beaver, 1192 Queen St W. No cover. beavertoronto.ca Sun, Oct 6 Woody’s Sunday Featuring Spearhead’s annual Thanksgiving food drive. Hollywoody Broadway Show, with Miss Conception, at 6pm; Old School, hosted by Georgie Girl, with Michelle Ross and Stephanie Stevens, at 9pm; Five Smokin Hot Divas, hosted by Georgie Girl, with Lexi Tellings, at 11pm. Woody’s, 467 Church St. No cover. woodystoronto.com Mon, Oct 7 Singular Sensation: A MusicalTheatre Open Mic Amateur crooners bring their favourite showtunes and perform with a live band every Monday night. Hosted by Jennifer Walls. 10pm–1am. Statlers, 487 Church St. No cover. Tues, Oct 8 Gitch: Pornstar edition — Club120, Fri, Oct 11 Thurs, Oct 3 Woody’s Thursday The official launch of the 24th edition of The Pink Pages Directory, with entertainment by Nikki Chin, Shawnee, Robyn DeCradle and Ty Austin, at 9pm; the Smirnoff Best Chest Contest, with DJ Mark Falco on decks and $300 in cash prizes, at midnight. Woody’s, 467 Church St. No cover. woodystoronto.com The Dirty Hustle DJ Blackcat spins old and new-school hip hop and R&B every Thursday. 10pm. The Steady Café and Bar, 1051 Bloor St W. No cover. facebook.com/ thesteadycafebar Fri, Oct 4 Fetish Funhouse Canadian Leatherman Paul C hosts the friendly hands-on introduction to BDSM and kink play. No dress code. 9:30pm. Black Eagle, 457 Church St. No cover. blackeagletoronto.com Tits and Toques DJs Ailsa and Krystle on decks for the west-end queer alternative dance party. 10pm. Henhouse, 1532 Dundas St W. No cover. henhousetoronto.com Go Deep Mighty Real DJs, The Robotic Kid and John Caffery spin deep house, featuring live video projection by Timur “Wildturkey” Musabay. 10pm. WAYLA Bar, 996 Queen St E. $5. waylabar.com Dirty Sexy Party Andrew Christian model Quinn Jaxon takes it all off (and them some) alongside go-go boys and other dirty things. 10pm. Fly, 8 Gloucester St. Free until midnight, more after. flynightclub.com Keep It Cute One girl, one guy, one fun night of alt pop and ’90s gems remixed for the dancefloor. 11pm– 2:30am. The Beaver, 1192 Queen St W. No cover. beavertoronto.ca El Convento Rico Friday Hosted by Fabulous Russella and Brooke Lynn Hytes, with games and prizes at 11:30pm and the world-famous drag show at 1am. 9pm–3am. El Convento Rico, 750 College St. elconventorico.com Sat, Oct 5 Tapette: Nuit Nue Blanche Special French-porn edition of the monthly dance jam for Nuit Blanche, with DJ Phil V and host Skinnin M’Kinnon. 10pm. Henhouse, 1532 Dundas St W. No cover. henhousetoronto.com Tramp DJ Jacquie Jaguar is on decks for women-identified folks and their admirers the first Saturday of every month. 10pm. The Steady Café and Bar, 1051 Bloor St W. No cover. facebook.com/thesteadycafebar NO COVER! $14 DAY $17 NIGHT BIG JUGS 465-467 CHURCH ST. 416-972-0887 36 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! Fly Presents Two-time Grammynominated DJ/producer Tony Moran on decks. 10pm. Fly, 8 Gloucester St. flynightclub.com Jungle Funk Recordings Residency 2.0 DJs Deko-ze, Matteo DiMarr, Jerome Robins, Joee Cons and Tommy Gunners spin hot house beats at the bimonthly party. 10pm. Lily Lounge, 656 College St. $10–15. lilylounge.com Stiff Colin Druhan brings his successful queer film fest party T-Girl Strippers DJ Todd Klinck spins at the evening of spontaneous T-girl pole shows and private VIP dances. 8pm–2am. Club120, 120 Church St. No cover; $10 for all-night access to VIP booths. club120.ca Varsity Tuesday Sofonda Cox hosts the amateur So You Think You Can Strip? competition, with a $100 cash prize. 11pm. Remington’s, 379 Yonge St. $5, no cover with student ID before 11pm, $2 after. remingtons.com Wed, Oct 9 Toronto Drag Kings Tyler Uptight, Cameron, Kenny and Chase Manning perform in the weekly drag-king show. Every Wednesday. 11pm–2am. Zipperz/Cellblock, 72 Carlton St. No cover. facebook.com/ zipperz Gitch: Pornstar Edition Mandy Goodhandy hosts the underwear party, with Tyler Sweet and Colby Jansen onstage for the nude show, a nude pole-dancing show by the Flash Dancers, and a midnight underwear contest. DJs Jay & J on decks. 10pm. Club120, 120 Church St. $6 before 11pm, $8 after; students no cover before 11pm, $5 after. club120.ca Same Love DJ Quinces on decks, with performances by singers Just J, Dixon Munro and rapper April. Free giveaways from the Love Shop and Fickle restaurant. 10pm. Church St Garage, 477 Church St. No cover. SWAG The west-end bash returns, but this time in its new home at Buddies. Secretly We’re All Gay features performances from Scarlett Bobo, Brandi Champagne and Ottawa’s Jade London. 10pm. Buddies, 12 Alexander St. $7. buddiesinbadtimes.com Her: Hermiliation DJs Kris Steeves, Iris Fraser and DKTO spin spooky house and creepy disco all night. 10:30pm. La Perla, 783 Queen St W. $5. herherher.com Cub Camp DJ Scooter spins for beefy guys, inked boys, bearded dudes, bears in waiting and bear baiters. 11pm–2:30am. The Beaver, 1192 Queen St W. $7. beavertoronto.ca Rockstars DJ Geoff Kelleway on decks, hosted by Karl, Rommel and Dyna Thirst. 11pm–3am. Byzantium, 499 Church St. No cover. byz.ca Sat, Oct 12 Fly Presents DJ Big Kid The Asian sensation from Singapore makes his Canadian premiere. 10pm. Fly, 8 Gloucester St. flynightclub.com Retro Night Dancers and bar staff gear up in retro threads, plus patrons in ’70s, ’80s and ’90s style have a chance to win a prize. 5pm–2am. Remington’s, 379 Yonge St. remingtons.com Fri, Oct 11 That Time of the Month DJs Devon and Alex spin music in the feminine gender for the third anniversary blowout. 10pm. Henhouse, 1532 Dundas St W. No cover. henhousetoronto.com Back to Church: First Anniversary Lesbian Bash DJ Delicious and guest spin house, hip hop and top 40 for the celebrating ladies and lesbros. Hosted by Brittany Leigh. 10pm. Church, 504 Church St. $5. facebook.com/churchonchurch Malebox A cruising night for trans guys and those who love them. All genders welcome. 10pm. Henhouse, 1532 Dundas St W. No cover. henhousetoronto.com queer dance party turned 1950s sock-hop. Dressing up strongly encouraged. All genders welcome. 9pm. Henhouse, 1532 Dundas St W. No cover. henhousetoronto.com Business Woman’s Special DJs Nino Brown and Sammy on decks, with special performance by Daytona Bitch. 10pm. Round, 152 Augusta Ave. $5. The Almighty Ball 5: The End? DJ Blackcat is on decks for the final(?) voguing and ballroom party, with 10 categories, seven judges and two commentators, plus trophies and cash prizes. 9pm–4am. Club120, 120 Church St. $10 advance, $20 door, $5 off with flyer. club120.ca Bump N’ Hustle DJs Paul E Lopes and Mike Tull spin old school, soul, funk, hip hop and house. Hosted by Carlos Mondesir. 10pm. The Rivoli, 334 Queen St W. $10. rivoli.ca Libra Noir DJs Blackcat (birthday boy), Sikh Knowledge and Pleasure, with performance by Mr Andre Marc. First 100 people get a mixed tape by Blackcat. 10pm–4am. Club120, 120 Church St. $5 off with flyer. club120.ca Thurs, Oct 10 Pup Night The Black Eagle Kennel Klub and Northbound Leather host a play night for pups, handlers and spectators. Bring your own hoods, collars, squeaky toys and pup mitts; limited gear available to borrow. No dress code. 9:30pm. Black Eagle, 457 Church St. No cover. blackeagletoronto.com Tapette — Henhouse, Sat, Oct 5 Bad Tuck: Blood Farts Igby Lizzard and Judy Virago host the late-night blood fest, with a midnight show featuring Scarlett Bobo and Connie Lingua and DJ John Caffery on decks. 10:30pm. The Beaver, 1192 Queen St W. $5, no cover in drag. beavertoronto.ca Sun, Oct 13 Business Woman’s Special — Round, Sat, Oct 12 DAVID HAWE Fabulous Russella’s ’80s party Russella brings back the ’80s, with special guests paying homage and a drag show at 12:30am. 9pm–3am. El Convento Rico, 750 College St. elconventorico.com Kiss of Life: Rumble in the Drive-In DJs Michael K, Evan and Kyla are on decks for the long-weekend mega- Hoxton Sunday: Legends 1st Edition DJs Manny Lehman and Mark Falco spin circuit beats for the long weekend. 10pm. Hoxton, 69 Bathurst St. $15 advance at Priape, 501 Church St. Mon, Oct 14 Video Night VJ Blue Peter plays favourite, kitsch and sexy music vids all night. 8pm. Woody’s, 467 Church St. No cover. woodystoronto.com Tues, Oct 15 Play Again . . .? Geeks and gamers plug in for the weekly games night, with Nintendo on the big screen, an arcade game table and classic board games all night. 7pm. Henhouse, 1532 Dundas St W. No cover. henhousetoronto.com Crews & Tangos Tuesday TICOT Toonie Tuesday at 9pm; DJ Quinces spins in Tangos at 10pm; Industry Night, with Brooke Lynn Hytes and Vitality Black, at 11:30pm. 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OCT 3–16, 2013 37 A world of gay adventure Travel ‘Gay-friendly’ often means there’s a good men’s scene, but what about the sisters? great destinations for women AEFA MULHOLLAND 2 New York Where are the best vacation spots for gay women? Does gay-friendly also mean lesbian-friendly — or will women find themselves the sole sisters in a sea of men? Here are 10 destinations where women will not only find a warm welcome, but will also discover a wealth of places to meet and mingle with other women, from bars to bookstores to cafés to clubs. You’ll find vibrant scenes in both Manhattan and in Brooklyn’s Park Slope neighbourhood, plus lots more in between. Grab coffee and maybe some admiring glances at the East Village’s Mudspot Café, or linger over literature in Bluestockings feminist bookstore/café on the Lower East Side. In Manhattan, meet locals at the legendary Henrietta Hudson bar, or make new friends at a backyard barbecue at Ginger’s in Park Slope. In Williamsburg in Brooklyn, Metropolitan is the main drinking and dancing address. Spend the night at 70 Park Avenue, a chic Murray Hill hotel with a daily free-wine hour. 1 San Francisco San Francisco is still the number-one getaway for girls. Explore the lesbianpopular Mission, Castro and Bernal Heights neighbourhoods to get a feel for San Francisco’s feminine charms. By day, visit lesbian-loved coffeehouse Dolores Park Cafe. Scene stalwart the Lexington is the city’s only exclusively lesbian bar. With a jukebox, pool table and friendly regulars, it’s a good first stop. End your night at the hip Phoenix Hotel in the gritty Tenderloin district. Crammed with creative types and visiting rock gods and goddesses, the poolside scene is one to watch. 38 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! 3 Portland The alternative, lesbian-adored Hawthorne neighbourhood is home to women-owned businesses, bars and abodes, but you’ll find family all over the city, particularly around the Mississippi, Alberta and Burnside areas. Have coffee at Haven, where the music sounds like Lilith Fair on repeat. The E Room — or Egyptian Club — is Portland’s lesbian pub and club, but AEFA MULHOLLAND Clockwise from above: the cozy rooftop oasis at Praktik Metropol hotel in Madrid; Berlin’s romantic café scene; the Castro is the lesbian epicentre of San Francisco; the lesbian-owned Lobster Pot in Provincetown is always bustling; folk art at Pioneer Courthouse Square in Portland. edgier options, such as Babe Cave, happen at the hip Holocene. Savour cocktails at lesbian-owned Mint. Be sure to check out stunningly designed The Nines hotel, right on Pioneer Square and the MAX light rail. 4 Provincetown It’s hard not to love laidback P-town, the LGBT-adored town at the tip of Cape Cod. Streets fill with vacationing folks, and you’ll find particularly high concentrations of community at Spiritus Pizza on Commercial and the lesbian-owned Lobster Pot. The section to the left of the parking lot at Herring Cove beach is where you’ll find the women. Let big names from the women’s comedy scene entertain you at the Crown & Anchor. There are gargantuan women’s events at the Pied, May through mid-October. Choose accommodation from the array on offer from the Women Innkeepers of Provincetown. 5 Tokyo Things seem pretty strait-laced in Tokyo. Well, until you encounter the Shinjuku Ni-chōme district, that is. Sometimes called Ni-chō, it’s the LGBT epicentre of Japan, with its flashing neon, streets awash with people, and hundreds of bars crammed into unlikely spaces, many in what look like office towers. Bars are often no bigger than a spare bedroom. For a flirty, friendly, femme crowd, try corner café/bar Advocates, popular with a mixed local and international set. Miniscule but welcoming Kinswomyn is the dowager dyke den here, having lasted longer than all others. The current hottest women’s option is the sleek Motel #203, owned by a legendary lesbian club promoter. Be sure to seek out Gossip, an LGBT café/ bookstore in Omotesandō; it’s a good place to get online or get information about events. In the heart of the Shinjuku action, straightforward Lonestar has small rooms that are clean and convenient. TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS AEFA MULHOLLAND Spend an afternoon at bookstore/ gallery Violette & Co. Hotel Beaubourg markets to the LGBT community and provides a perfect launch pad for saunters along the Seine and for exploring the city. 9 Berlin AEFA MULHOLLAND 6 Sydney Although the shinier village scene is in Darlinghurst and adjacent Surry Hills, and the settled ladies love Leichhardt, Newtown is the neighbourhood to head for if you just want to see girls go by. Grab coffee at lesbian-run Corelli’s, eat at the women-adored Bank Hotel and drink at Sapphiccentral Sly Fox. Just around the corner, revisit scenes from Priscilla: Queen of the Desert at Tuesday’s LGBT MORE AT DAILYXTRATRAVEL.COM bingo or try lesbian speed-dating at the iconic Imperial in Erskineville. After a leisurely dip in the outdoor Coogee Women’s Pool and a quick pick-me-up at LOTL Espresso Bar, run by Sydney’s lesbian magazine publisher, lay down your head at Darlinghurst’s stylish Altamount. include Blush, the site of Sunday roasts and rambunctious parties in a secret garden, and mixed LGBT local The Oak. If the weather’s good, go north to the Hampstead Heath women’s pond. Outlet offers shortterm (or long, if you like) apartment lets and shares with LGBT folks. 7 London 8 Paris A thrilling array of bars and clubs cater to London’s boisterous women. A bold, bright scene centres on Soho, home to the Candy Bar, but head north to the Stoke Newington neighbourhood to see where many London ladies live. Places to play A sultry scene spills over the streets around the River Seine. Women flock to hip Le Sofa for lunch and dinner. Former boulangerie Le Nix is an ideal place to start your soirée before continuing to Gertrude Stein’s old haunt, dance bar Le Rive Gauche. Sometimes it seems that everyone with even the slightest artistic bent is moving to Berlin. It makes for a hectic city, where something new is always starting and there’s always someone who speaks English. The lesbian scene stays fresh with a seemingly constant supply of new nights and new faces. At the other end of things, old-school women’s bar Begine has been around since the old days. More up-to-date antics can be encountered at the weekly Mondo Klit Rock Club, at Roadrunner’s Paradise, or at women’s parties at the eclectic Sudblock, near the grimy Kottbusser Tor U-Bahn station. To relax after all the excitement, sink into the steam at the women-only Turkish baths at Schokofabrik, part of a women’s centre in a converted chocolate factory. Book into one of the bright, airy rooms at womenonly hotel Artemisia Frauenhotel. 10 Madrid A seriously sexy city to start with, Madrid is an amazing mecca for mujeres. The bars and clubs of LGBT neighbourhood Chueca overflow into the streets from early evening, but things don’t really get going until midnight or later. Head for Plaza de Chueca and find yourself surrounded by women carousing over cocktails and tapas. Truco is one of the busiest bars, with an under-30 crowd and great people-watching tables on the plaza. Escape is the most popular dancing destination. Daytime distractions include the well-stocked bookstore Libreria Berkana and the slew of incredible tapas options at Mercado San Miguel; vermouth on tap and gargantuan portions of olives are particular standouts. Stay at chic boutique bargain Praktik Metropol, just a few minutes’ walk from the action. The hotel’s two-level roof terrace is perfect for sunning, reading or sipping an apéritif. The online version of this story, on dailyxtratravel.com, has links to most of the businesses mentioned. XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 39 A world of gay adventure Travel DANNY GLENWRIGHT ANTHONY SINAGOGA, VISIT BUCKS COUNTY Stepping back in time in New Hope Gay-friendly Pennsylvania town filled with historical gems DANNY GLENWRIGHT There is a scene in the film Mary Poppins in which the magical nanny clasps the hands of the young children in her charge and jumps with them out of the dirty streets of London and into a sidewalk chalk painting. The group find themselves in a bucolic wonderland of wooden bridges, horse-drawn carriages and bubbling brooks. It is not unlike New Hope, a tiny anachronistic tourist hamlet an hour’s drive from the unsightly industrial suburbs of Philadelphia. A journey to the Pennsylvania town of 2,500, which the local Bucks County tourism bureau refers to as an “eclectic community,” is as intriguing (and gay) as any jolly holiday Mary has to offer. My travelling companions and I called New Hope “unbearably cute” — not because it’s actually intolerable, but more due to the endearing charm that oozes from each of its historic attractions. At the top of this list is the Bucks County Playhouse, a celebrated theatre that dates back to the 1930s. That’s when a group of local artists teamed up to convert what was then a crumbling grist mill on the banks of the Delaware River into a functional playhouse. The theatre was soon a New 40 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! England institution that over the years attracted dozens of Broadway stars, including Grace Kelly, Bea Arthur, Walter Matthau and Angela Lansbury. It’s recently undergone a major renovation with the help of Tony Award– winning producer Jed Bernstein, who’s once again helping the theatre bring in big names. Its 2013 summer season saw Tyne Daly tread the boards in the world premiere of Terrence McNally’s Mothers and Sons. New Hope has long been a destination for artsy types from surrounding cities, and tourism remains its bread and butter. We were there for the 10th installation of its annual Pride, New Hope Celebrates, an event that attracts gays from across the region, including from Lambertville, New Jersey, which is directly across the river from New Hope. Each May, the denizens of what is surely the Keystone State’s most queerfriendly square mile line New Hope’s main drag for the parade and to catch a glimpse of Miss Pumpkin, arguably its star attraction. The stout drag queen is the putative leader of a motley group of queens who call New Hope home. After the parade, our group stumbled to the local homo hangout, The Raven, where a delightfully soused Miss Pumpkin and her posse executed the best drag en- semble performance of “Total Eclipse of the Heart” I’ve yet come across. The Raven is everything a smalltown gay bar and entertainment complex should be, and a trip there is a vacation within a vacation. It boasts an outdoor swimming pool, 10 furnished hotel rooms, a piano bar, an awardwinning restaurant, cute barkeeps and, of course, a gaggle of lovable drag queens. All that’s missing is a gay sauna. But if you’re looking to be horizontal after a long day exploring, don’t fret — New Hope has many options. Start with the Wedgwood Collection of Historic Inns, three quaint guesthouses run lovingly by Carl Glassman and Nadine Silnutzer. I lodged at the Victorian Aaron Burr House, a Dutch clapboard the couple revived in 1990. Ask Nadine (who’s a great resource for information about New Hope) to sample her homemade liqueur and peanut butter cookies while she regales you with stories about the ghost of the United States’ third vice-president, Aaron Burr, who is said to hang out on the home’s second floor. (I chose a room on the main floor just to be safe.) Burr took refuge at the house after killing Alexander Hamilton, the country’s first treasury secretary, in a famous 1804 duel in nearby New Jersey. His is ANTHONY SINAGOGA, VISIT BUCKS COUNTY Clockwise from top left: enjoy stunning fall colours in Bucks County; the entire town comes out for New Hope’s annual Pride parade in May; dining at Marsha Brown, a tasty Creole restaurant in a converted stone church. one of many ghosts you can track down on one of New Hope’s hair-raising evening ghost tours, on which you’ll also surely meet some of the town’s more colourful living characters. Look out for Marsha Brown, the Southern-belle owner of the eponymous Creole kitchen and lounge, which was built into a 125-year-old converted stone church on New Hope’s Main Street. Marsha Brown’s pricey seafood dishes are worth every penny — especially the stuffed lobster — and its knowledgeable servers are eager to go “off menu” for those who want to experiment with their own Creole combinations. Don’t forget to also savour the church’s original stained-glass windows and other artwork, especially the striking Redemption, a 12-by-6-metre mural of St George hunting lions by Russian artist Valeriy Belenikin that would be equally at home in the Philadelphia Museum of Art. That’s the thing about when you’re in New Hope, just like when you’re with Mary Poppins: suddenly you’re in places you never dreamed of. A weekend in this quirky little town is a very jolly holiday indeed. Bucks County Playhouse bcptheater.org 1870 Wedgwood Inn — Aaron Burr House wedgwoodinn.com New Hope Celebrates newhopecelebrates.com The Raven theravennewhope.com Marsha Brown restaurant marshabrownrestaurant.com New Hope ghost tours ghosttoursofnewhope.com TORONTO’S GAY & LESBIAN NEWS IS GREEN. It’s morning dew climbing every twig and tendril on a Boston Public Garden stroll. It’s quiet afternoons in forest green canoes along the Plum Island Sound. It’s an arena åĬåÏƋųĜĀåÚÆƼ±Ÿå±ŅüåĬƋĜÏŸü±ĹŸţFƋűŸ±ĘĜĹƋŅüåĵåų±ĬÚĜĹ the Myles Standish State Forest just before sunset. It’s the Ĭ±ŸƋåÆÆŅüŸƚĵĵåųāŅƵĜĹčĜĹƋŅü±ĬĬţ FOR HELP PLANNING THE PERFECT COLOURFUL HOLIDAY IN ONE OF THE MOST WELCOMING STATES IN AMERICA, VISIT MASSVACATION.CA OR TWEET YOUR QUESTIONS TO @VISITMA WITH #ASKVISITMA MORE AT DAILYXTRA.COM XTRA! OCT 3–16, 2013 41 A world of gay adventure Travel City of Tel Aviv launches free municipal WiFi Tel Aviv Mayor Ron Huldai checks out the city’s WiFi connectivity. (GOISRAEL.COM) Maya Angelou to speak at summit on Olivia cruise Maya Angelou — celebrated author, educator, actor, historian, filmmaker and civil rights activist (the list goes on) — will be the keynote speaker on Olivia Travel’s floating Equality and Leadership Summit in February. The summit will take place during a seven-day eastern Caribbean cruise, Feb 1 to 8, 2014, aboard the Holland America MS Westerdam. “This year we have already seen groundbreaking progress for LGBT rights and equality, and we felt the time was right to hold a gathering with influential women whose words and actions carry a powerful message of leadership and success,” says Judy Dlugacz, Olivia Travel’s founder and president. “By having Dr Angelou lead the summit as our keynote speaker, followed by messages of strength from our other invited guests, we are expecting that the 1,900 women who will be taking part in the cruise will leave invigorated and inspired to take on the world in new ways,” Dlugacz says. Angelou will join a roster of more than a dozen notable guests, including civil rights pioneer Edie Windsor, whose court challenge led to the defeat of the Defense of Marriage Act; Debbie Wasserman Schultz, 42 OCT 3–16, 2013 XTRA! Visitors to Tel Aviv can now access free WiFi connections in 80 locations throughout the city. The initiative is part of a new project by Tel Aviv Municipality. Locales include the city’s Mediterranean promenade, Yarkon Park and Old Jaffa, as well as Dizengoff Square, Hilton Beach and major city streets. The service is accessible via computers, tablets or smartphones with bandwidths of at least 20 MB. The Wall Street Journal has previously hailed Tel Aviv as one of the “three most innovative cities in the world.” For more information about tourism to Israel, visit goisrael.com. For the most up-to-date travel information on gay Tel Aviv, visit dailyxtratravel.com. MY Montreal Eva B is part vintage store, part theatre, part café. EVA-B.CA The place to B Maya Angelou will be part of Olivia Travel's Equality and Leadership summit. DWIGHT CARTER Florida Congresswoman and chair of the Democratic National Committee; and Kate Kendell, executive director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights. Featured entertainers on the cruise include the Grammy Award– winning Indigo Girls and comedians Judy Gold and Karen Williams. For more information on the 2014 Equality and Leadership Summit cruise or other Olivia offerings, visit olivia.com. From must-attend events to hidden gems off the beaten path, My Montreal gets the inside scoop from local residents about what not to miss when visiting the city. In this installment, we asked photographer Nick Bostick to name a favourite city haunt. “Eva B is a magical place. Part vintage store, part theatre, part café — well, it’s a lot of things. The owners are constantly reworking the space and changing stuff around. 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